THISDAY STYLE MAGAZINE 20TH JULY 2025

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national colours, his casket arrived from London—where he passed on July 13, 2025— on a Nigerian Air Force aircraft, accompanied by

t’s been one long, strange week. The kind that forces you to pause—not because everything stops, but because something undeniable shifts in the national atmosphere. When news broke that former President Muhammadu Buhari had passed away at the age of 82, Nigerians reacted in that uniquely Nigerian way: loud, layered, and unapologetically honest. Some people mourned. Others sighed—a few cracked jokes. Many simply shrugged and carried on with their day. But one thing is certain—everyone felt something. Whether it was grief, relief, indifference, or quiet contemplation, the collective emotional response wasn’t uniform, but it was certainly there.

For me, like many of you, it was a cocktail of feelings. Complicated. Heavy. Not because we all agreed on who he was or what he represented, but because he mattered. Because you don’t live through someone’s presence in power and walk away untouched.

And perhaps that’s the thing about Buhari. More than his actions in office, it was his distance from the people that lingered. A certain detachment. A silence that, for many, echoed louder than speeches ever could. His governance style—calm, restrained, sometimes unbothered—made it hard to know what he truly felt about the hardship that filtered into people’s daily lives. And in a country as emotionally volatile as ours, where leadership is expected to be as present as it is powerful, that silence became its own kind of statement.

The bitterness many Nigerians feel is not misplaced. We have been governed poorly for too long, and so when a former leader dies, especially one who carried so much weight in our history, it often feels less like mourning and more like reckoning. However, that brings me to the word that has been sitting heavily on my mind all week: legacy. Legacy is not what you say about yourself; it’s what people remember when you’re no longer here to control the narrative. It’s the emotional residue you leave behind.

The way your name tastes in people’s mouths after you’re gone. And for leaders and anyone in a position of power, that should be a sobering thought. Whether they like it or not, history will outlive them. And Nigerians are increasingly refusing to forget.

Regardless, we must acknowledge that Buhari lived a long, impactful life. 82 years. Military leader. Twice a president. From Daura to Dodan Barracks to Aso Rock and back again. His story is one of grit, discipline, and undeniable influence. And while opinions may differ on what he gave or withheld from Nigeria, there’s no denying he shaped it. May his soul rest in peace. And may God comfort his family and loved ones at this time. For the rest of us still here, may we be reminded, especially those who lead, that the name you leave behind is ultimately all that’s yours. Make it count.

Love,

ALL BLACK EVERYTHING –STILL A POWER MOVE?

There’s something about an all-black outfit that never needs to announce itself. It glides into the room, sharp and unfazed, commanding attention without so much as a whisper. For decades, head-to-toe black has been fashion’s version of a mic drop—effortlessly chic, endlessly cool, and deeply intentional. But in today’s fashion landscape—where trends scream for attention and colour is currency—is black still the power move it once was?

One thing is obvious: fashion is currently in its most expressive era yet. Dopamine dressing is in full swing, metallics are worn before noon, and nobody bats an eye at a fuchsia coat paired with neon green boots. From street style stars at Fashion Week to influencers turning grocery runs into runway moments, the rule now is: the louder, the better. In the midst of this colour parade, all-black dressing feels almost… subversive.

But that’s exactly where its power lies. Wearing all black today isn’t about blending in—it’s about stepping back and letting the silhouette, texture, tailoring, and attitude do the talking. It’s restraint, not retreat. A quiet flex. Think black-on-black-on-black—but layered with intention. A structured black blazer with sharp lapels over a sheer blouse. A silk maxi skirt paired with a matte corset top. Oversized sunglasses, slicked bun, minimal makeup. The message? I don’t need embellishments to be seen.

Designers haven’t turned their backs on black either, and for fashion insiders, it’s still the shade of choice.

Editorial stylists love it for its depth. Buyers rely on it because it sells.

And if you peek behind the scenes at any fashion event—from fittings to afterparties—chances are, the most powerful people in the room are the ones in black. It’s not because they’re hiding; it’s because they know exactly what they’re doing.

And also let’s not forget black’s biggest strength: it’s seasonless. Unlike trending colours that come and go (we see you, Bottega green), black transcends seasons and cycles. It’s as relevant in harmattan as it is in fashion week.

Still, pulling off an all-black look in 2025 requires finesse. Gone are the days of throwing on a black T-shirt and jeans and calling it minimalist. Today’s black needs drama. It needs layers, movement, contrast. Think pleated fabrics and sheer tulle.

Like all things fashion, black has evolved. It’s no longer about playing it safe—it’s about playing it smart. All black is no longer just the go-to for those who don’t want to think too hard.

It’s for those who’ve already thought it through.

Black is still the moment. Always has been. The only difference now is: you’ve got to mean it.

EXECUTIVE EDITOR
Agbada, But Make It Fashion
DEBBIE BEEKO
NONYE UDEOGU
OLIVIA ARUKWE YVONNE NWOSU

AT THE 2025 EDITION OF THE THOUGHT LEADERSHIP SUMMIT

The 2025 edition of the annual Thought Leadership Summit, hosted by The Special Foundation, unfolded as a powerful celebration of education, storytelling, and the transformative power of community. Held at Centre Point, Ikoyi in Lagos State, the event brought together policymakers, educators, development leaders, creatives, and youth voices for an unforgettable experience. With the theme “Educating the Future of Africa”, this year’s summit deepened the foundation’s commitment to reimagining education systems for underserved communities, one child at a time. The event featured powerful keynote speeches, dynamic panel sessions, an inspiring spoken word performance by beneficiaries, musical acts, and the muchanticipated unveiling of the “Wall of Stories”—a visual and storytelling installation that captured the journey of the foundation’s impact. Curated moments included spotlight conversations with notable speakers, such as Abubakar Suleiman, CEO of Sterling Bank, as well as interactive discussions with partner schools. A vibrant display of the foundation’s work was showcased in schools like Hope Primary School, which was recently featured on Channels TV. From candid hallway chats to red-carpet smiles, the summit was not just a dialogue on education; it was a celebration of possibility, purpose, and progress. It drew an eclectic mix of attendees, from high-level stakeholders to young changemakers, each adding to the energy of the day.

AGBADA, BUT MAKE IT FASHION

Once reserved for Yoruba kings, revered chiefs, and those uncles who never show up to a wedding without making a fashion statement, Agbada has returned—and not quietly. It’s louder, prouder, and more stylishly subversive than ever.

What was once a traditional three-piece ensemble worn strictly by men to denote status has now been reclaimed, reimagined, and remixed by a new generation of Nigerians who are less interested in rules and more focused on expression.

These days, Agbada isn’t just showing up at owambes—it’s popping up on global red carpets, runways, photoshoots, and the streets of Lagos, Abuja, and everywhere in between. It’s being worn by men who pair it with sneakers and sunglasses and women who strut into rooms draped in bold embroidery and confidence. It’s no longer just about looking regal—it’s about making a statement.

Because, let’s face it, culture doesn’t expire. Its sweeping silhouette, intricate detailing, and sheer presence demand attention. But this isn’t your grandfather’s Agbada. Thanks to modern tailoring and fresh styling, it now feels young, genderless, and undeniably cool.

What’s even more exciting is the way Nigerian women are claiming it. A woman in Agbada takes up space— unapologetically. It’s the ultimate power move. Whether it’s paired with sleek cornrows or a red lip, the look says: “I honour my roots, but I define my own elegance.” It’s a rebellion against the idea that femininity must be soft, dainty, or tucked neatly into a wrapper.

In Agbada, women are not just participating in tradition— they’re reshaping it.

And that’s the beauty of Nigerian fashion—it’s never just about aesthetics. It’s about identity, intention, and unapologetic pride. The return of Agbada proves that style in this country is equal parts memory and movement. It’s not enough to look good. You’ve got to mean it.

NANCY ISIME
TOMIKE ADEOYE

7 FASHION ITEMS THAT ALWAYS GET YOU NOTICED

Fashion isn’t always about trends or seasonality. Sometimes, it’s about commanding attention, starting conversations, and leaving a little sartorial imprint on everyone who saw you, even if just in passing. We all have that one friend who always looks effortlessly striking. Ever wonder why? It’s usually not an accident. There are certain pieces that, no matter how they’re styled, always get noticed. They’re not necessarily the loudest or most expensive, but they have presence. Here are seven of those guaranteed attention-grabbers that stylish people swear by

1. A Structured Blazer

There’s something about a good blazer that makes people look twice—and not just at the office. Whether it’s oversized and borrowedfrom-the-boys or cinched and sculpted to perfection, a structured blazer gives any outfit a sense of polish. Throw it over a slip dress, denim shorts, or even a bralette and tailored trousers, and you instantly go from “dressed” to “power player.” Extra points if it’s in an unexpected colour.

3. Loud Bags

Whoever said your bag had to match your outfit clearly wasn’t trying to get noticed. Whether it’s a quirky shape, a rich pop of colour, or a beaded mini that jingles when you walk, an interesting bag is a conversation starter. Nigerian brands are doing the most in the best way, creating pieces that make you want to carry your bag like it’s your plusone.

6. An Unapologetically Bold Print

or Colour

WHY NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE OBSESSED WITH LUXURY BAGS

You don’t just buy a luxury bag in Nigeria — you earn it, you pray about it, and sometimes you plan your entire outfit around it before it even arrives. It’s not just a bag; it’s a full-blown moment. And in the lives of many Nigerian women, that moment matters. Because whether it’s a Hermès Birkin that cost more than your rent or a vintage Dior Saddle sourced from a trusted Instagram plug, the bag says something. It tells a story of hustle, of taste, of intention. And often, yes — of arrival.

2. Statement Sunglasses

Sunglasses are like punctuation for your face. The right pair doesn’t just complete a look; it defines it. Cat-eye, oversized, futuristic shield, or retro oval—choose your drama. Worn even when there’s no sun in sight, a killer pair of frames instantly telegraphs cool confidence. It’s not just eye protection—it’s a whole attitude.

4. Shoes That

Do

the Talking Before You Do

Yes, people notice shoes. Yes, even the ones under the table at dinner. From architectural heels to loafers in patent red, shoes can make or break a moment. If you’re the type to play it safe up top—white shirt, blue jeans—a bold shoe is how you let your fashion flag fly. Think metallic boots, feathered sandals, or sculptural heels that double as art. Trust us: when your shoes are memorable, you are too.

5. Jewellery

That’s More ‘Main Character’

Than Accessory

Delicate gold chains have their place, but we’re talking about the jewellery that wants to be seen. Oversized earrings, layered bangles, a chunky chain that sits on your collarbone with authority—these are the pieces that add personality in a way that’s impossible to ignore. They shimmer, jingle, and refuse to stay in the background. And why should they?

If you’ve ever worn a bright orange co-ord and had someone stop you on the street to say, “I love your outfit,” then you already know. Loud prints—whether Ankara, abstract, or animal- command attention. And there’s an art to it: balance. Let the print be the star and keep the rest simple. Unless, of course, your personal brand is chaos—in which case, print clash away. Either way, you will be seen.

7. The Wild Card –That One Piece Only You Could Pull Off

Every style icon has one. That unexpected piece that doesn’t follow any rules but somehow works perfectly. Maybe it’s a pair of denim, a dramatic cape, or a vintage corset worn over a white tee. It’s the fashion risk that pays off. The item that says, “This is me, and no, you couldn’t have styled it like this even if you tried.” It’s brave. It’s personal. And it’s unforgettable. Image - 351

It’s Not Just Leather — It’s Language

In most stylish circles, luxury bags are more than status symbols — they’re fluent in power. That Bottega Cassette didn’t just land on her shoulder by accident. It’s telling you she’s doing well, she knows what’s trending, and she’s not shy about enjoying soft life.

The Nigerian woman’s bag often speaks louder than her résumé. It can whisper old money, shout new money, or wink, did this on my own. From fashion insiders to fintech execs, influencers to interior designers, women are using bags to say

what society still tries to silence: I’ve earned this.

Instagram Made Me Want It

Social media hasn’t just fueled the obsession — it’s set it ablaze. On Instagram and TikTok, Nigerian fashion girls don’t just post outfits, they stage them. From glossy unboxing videos to “What’s in my bag?” content, luxury pieces are now an integral part of the digital language of aspiration.

Even if you can’t afford one yet, you know which one you’d get if you could. The name is saved in your notes app, the colourway bookmarked in your mind, and maybe a secret wish list lives quietly in your Instagram saved folder.

Hustle, Then Reward

For many women, that luxury purchase is deeply personal. A new role. A divorce. A birthday. A bounce-back. In a society that expects women to always be humble and selfless, the luxury bag is a radical little act of selfcelebration.

The new Nigerian woman is not interested in guilt. She’s interested in glory. She’s earning her wins, buying her own gifts, and reminding everyone that “soft life” isn’t a scam if you actually put in the work.

Peer Pressure vs Personal Passion

Fashion can be competitive. Show up to a high-society brunch with a high-street purse and you might get more side-eyes than selfies. The pressure to “keep up” is very real.

But for many women, the obsession with bags isn’t about stunting — it’s about collecting. They follow fashion houses religiously. They know the difference between calfskin and lambskin. They understand the craftsmanship behind a Lady Dior and the quiet cool of a Loewe Puzzle. It’s not performative. It’s pure love.

The Rise of Resellers and Trusted Plugs

Not everyone wants to walk into a flagship and drop millions at once. But that doesn’t mean they’re cutting corners. The rise of curated resellers and Instagram-based “plugs” has made it easier to own designer bags without the boutique markup. From gently pre-loved Gucci to exclusive new-season drops, women are shopping smarter — but never fake.

OSAS IGHODARO
VERONICA EBIE
YUTEE RONE
MODEL FOR TIFFANY AMBER
Funke Babs-Kufeji
KIKA OSUNDE
HERMES-BIRKIN & KELLY
BOTTEGA VENETA SARDINE INTRECIATO LOUIS VUITTON SPEEDY
OYIN OLUFEKO

YOUR GUIDE TO BODY OILS AND WHERE TO USE THEM

If you’ve ever stood in the skincare aisle clutching a bottle of argan oil in one hand and rosehip in the other, wondering whether either one should go on your legs, face, or scalp, you’re not alone. Body oils have quietly crept their way back into our beauty cabinets, reclaiming their space from the lotions and creams that once dominated. But let’s be honest—most of us still aren’t quite sure what to do with them. Are they for a massage? Are they for hydration? Should we pat them, slather them, or just admire them in their pretty glass bottles? Here’s the thing: body oils are that girl. Luxurious, effective, and versatile. But like anything worth using, they need a little know-how. Not all oils are created equal, and using the wrong one in the wrong place can leave you shiny in all the wrong ways (hello, greasy T-zone). So let’s break it down, body part by body part, with a healthy dose of common sense and indulgence.

1. Face

Yes, you can use oils on your face—just not coconut oil, unless you’re actively trying to clog your pores. Facial oils like rosehip, marula, jojoba, and squalane mimic the skin’s natural sebum, helping to balance oil production rather than overload it. Jojoba, in particular, is a winner for oily and acne-prone skin. Apply a few drops of serum after your serum but before your moisturiser to lock in hydration and leave you glowing (not greasy). For drier skin types, rosehip and argan oils deliver serious nourishment and help

fade scars or hyperpigmentation. But remember, oils are not moisturisers. They seal in moisture, so layer them accordingly.

2.

Neck and Chest

Often forgotten but always on display, your décolletage deserves some love. Lightweight oils like grapeseed or marula absorb quickly, smoothing out fine lines and giving your skin a luminous finish, especially if you’re wearing something off-theshoulder. Bonus tip: use upward strokes while applying—your future self will thank you.

3.

Arms and Legs

This is where body oils really shine (pun intended). Think of it as your canvas—smooth, moisturised limbs glistening in the sunlight or peeking through a slit dress at dinner. Heavier oils like avocado, sweet almond, or even a shea butter-based oil blend are perfect for this. Apply on damp skin straight out of the shower to trap in moisture and skip the ashy knees drama altogether. For that glossy, red carpet-ready finish, a drop of body oil mixed with shimmer or bronzer? Game changer.

4. Belly and Hips

Pregnant or not, your belly and hips go through a lot. Stretch marks are a natural part of the body, but if you’re looking to soften their appearance, consider using oils rich in vitamin E, such as wheat germ oil or tamanu oil. Massaging in circular motions

daily (yes, actually doing the massage) boosts circulation and helps your skin stay supple. Plus, it just feels good.

5. Hands and Cuticles

Between constant handwashing, typing, and whatever else you do with your hands, they age fast. Fast-absorbing oils, such as apricot kernel or kukui nut oil, are brilliant for moisturising dry hands without leaving them greasy. For extra luxe, massage a drop into your cuticles every night. Your future manicures will thank you.

6. Feet

Feet are tricky—too oily and you’re slipping around like a cartoon character, too dry and it’s giving desert. The solution? Thicker oils, such as castor or olive oil, applied generously and followed by socks overnight. Wake up with baby-soft heels. It’s not revolutionary, just wildly underrated.

BEAUTY SLEEP ISN’T A MYTH: 5 HABITS THAT’LL HELP YOU WAKE UP RADIANT

We’ve all heard the phrase “beauty sleep” tossed around, often with a wink or a yawn. But here’s the truth: beauty sleep is very real. While you sleep, your body enters a state of repair, healing skin damage, balancing hormones, and replenishing your cells. A good night’s sleep isn’t just good for your mood; it’s one of the most powerful and affordable beauty treatments out there. So, how do you make the most of those nighttime hours and wake up with skin that glows, eyes that sparkle, and a face that looks truly rested? Here are five simple habits to turn your sleep into a full-on overnight beauty treatment:

1. Cleanse Always

No matter how tired you are, don’t go to bed with makeup, sunscreen, or the day’s dirt still sitting on your face. A quick double cleanse with an oil-based cleanser followed by a gentle water-based one ensures your pores are clear, your skin can breathe, and your products can do their job. Sleeping in makeup can clog pores, cause breakouts, and accelerate skin ageing. Clean skin is the foundation of beauty sleep.

2. Invest in Nighttime Skincare

Your skin absorbs and regenerates more effectively while you sleep. This is the perfect time to use active ingredients like retinol, niacinamide, peptides, or

7. Scalp and Hair

Not exactly body, but let’s not gatekeep. Scalp oils, such as tea tree or rosemary, can soothe dryness and encourage hair growth. Massage into your scalp once a week, leave overnight, then wash out. For hair ends, argan and baobab are lightweight enough to tame frizz and add shine without turning your hair into a frying pan.

Oil Rules to Live By!

Always apply body oil after your shower on damp skin—never dry.

Less is more. Two to three pumps per body part is usually enough.

Not all oils are for everyone. Patch test, especially if you have sensitive skin.

Store oils away from direct sunlight unless you’re actively trying to ruin them.

hyaluronic acid, depending on your skin needs. Use a nourishing moisturiser or sleeping mask to seal everything in, especially if you sleep with a fan or AC. Hydrated skin is happy skin.

3. Upgrade Your Pillowcase

That cotton pillowcase you’ve had since forever. It might be sabotaging your skin and hair. Switch to silk or satin— both reduce friction, which means fewer wrinkles, less hair breakage, and smoother skin by morning. Silk also helps your skincare stay on your face (not soaked into the pillow).

4. Sleep on Your Back (If You Can)

We know—it’s not always

easy. But pressing your face into a pillow night after night can lead to creases and fine lines. Back sleeping helps reduce puffiness, keeps your skin smoother, and even helps with lymphatic drainage. Use an extra pillow to elevate your head slightly; it helps reduce undereye bags.

5. Create a Sleep Ritual That Works You can’t have beauty sleep if you’re not actually sleeping. Set a consistent bedtime, avoid screens at least 30 minutes before sleep, and keep your room cool, dark, and quiet. A calming cup of chamomile or a few drops of lavender oil can do wonders. Quality sleep is better than just clocking in 8 hours. Your body needs deep, uninterrupted rest to repair and rejuvenate.

DIMMA UMEH

THE UNOFFICIAL GUIDE TO

LAGOS COOL GIRL

DECOR

There’s a certain kind of girl in Lagos whose home is her sanctuary, her flex, and her Pinterest board all rolled into one. She’s not trying too hard, but somehow, every corner of her space looks like it could be screenshotted into an interior mood board. She’s mastered the art of aesthetic living without losing the Nigerian touch. Her space says I’m cultured, I’m intentional, and I drink tea out of a handmade ceramic mug I bought from a brand on Instagram at 10 pm. You don’t have to be in her inner circle to recognise the vibe— you just have to walk through the door. Here’s your unofficial guide to what makes her home the gold standard of Nigerian millennial cool.

1. Framed Art (With Actual Meaning)

She’s not hanging up Paris skyline prints. No, no. Her walls are a visual diary. Think line drawings by Nigerian illustrators, framed Ankara remnants, or blown-up photos from her last solo trip to Ghana. Bonus points if one is slightly tilted—”It’s supposed to lean like that,” she’ll say.

2. House Plants Named After Real People

She’s a plant mom and proud of it. You’ll spot a Monstera named Ijeoma, a stubborn snake plant called Tolu, and a tiny aloe vera on the kitchen window she swears has healing powers. The vibe is tropical meets urban jungle, and even though PHCN is unreliable and the heat sometimes tries to kill them all, she keeps them thriving regardless.

3. Floor Lamps That Do All the Talking

She understands that overhead lights are too harsh, so she invests in lighting that creates a mood. Her lamp might be tall and gold with a dimmer switch, or curved like a sculpture. She got it from someone’s Instagram story, a Lekki furniture plug, or that one girl on WhatsApp who knows a guy. Either way, it’s not just a lamp—it’s a personality.

4. A Statement Mirror That Knows Its Angle

It leans casually against the wall, large enough for mirror selfies, and possibly thrifted. She doesn’t need it for checking makeup; it’s more of an altar for content creation and light reflection. If you look closely, you’ll find fingerprints and lip gloss smudges—proof that it’s not just decor, it’s daily life.

5. Throw Pillows in Neutrals and Mud Cloth Prints

She’s not into loud colours. Her throw pillows are in sandy browns, burnt oranges, faded terracotta,

and the occasional indigo. They live on a couch she didn’t fully pay for in one go, and they never stay in one place because she’s always “rearranging the energy.”

6. An Open Shelf Full of Personality

There’s a copy of “Freshwater” by Akwaeke Emezi, an unread book on interior philosophy, a candle from a Nigerian home fragrance brand, and maybe a vintage wine bottle she’s using as a vase. This is her curated corner, her Instagram shelfie, her “get to know me” starter pack.

7. Woven Baskets and Rattan Everything

Whether it’s a chair, tray, or planter basket, rattan is the neutral that ties the whole room together. It whispers, ‘I respect craft,’ and ‘I love softness,’ and maybe also, ‘I have a Pinterest board called ‘Boho Nigerian Girl’.’’

8. A Kitchen Cart Turned Bar

You’ll find hibiscus syrup, Casamigos, wine glasses she didn’t break during detty December, and that single cocktail shaker she used once during lockdown. Even if she barely drinks, the cart exists. Because style is in the details.

9. A Rug That’s Seen Things

That rug? It ties the room together. It’s probably vintage-inspired, soft, possibly layered, and—if you spill anything on it—she might never forgive you.

10. Something Random That Starts Conversations

Every cool girl has a wildcard. A talking drum. A random lamp made out of jollof rice bowls. A coffee table she hand-painted during her “DIY phase.” These pieces don’t always make sense, but they always make the space hers.

BUHARI MUHAMMADU

(1942–2025):

THE SOLDIER WHO CAME FULL CIRCLE

To some, he will be remembered as the man who clamped down on freedom in the 1980s. To others, he will forever be the northern patriot who brought simplicity to high office. For many, he was the president who meant well, even if his methods didn’t always land. But no one—friend or foe—could say he didn’t serve.

On Sunday, July 13, 2025, the curtain fell on one of the most consequential lives in Nigeria’s modern history. Muhammadu Buhari, the soldier-turned-statesman who once ruled by decree and later by democratic vote, passed away in a London hospital at the age of 82. His death marks the end of a long and complex chapter in the nation’s story—one that spanned the battlefield, the ballot box, and everything in between.

He was not an ordinary man, and his life was never ordinary. Born on December 17, 1942, in the ancient town of Daura in northern Nigeria, Muhammadu Buhari came from humble beginnings. His father, Adamu, passed away when he was just four, leaving his mother, Zulaiha, to raise him and his siblings alone. If not for the intervention of Waziri Alhassan, the son of a former Emir of Daura who took the family under his wing, Buhari’s future might have ended in anonymity. But life had other plans.

He began his education in Daura and Maidua, then attended Katsina Middle School and later the Provincial Secondary School in Katsina, where he earned his West African School Certificate in 1961. In those early years, Buhari had aspirations of becoming a medical doctor. But the tide of history swept him in another direction—toward the military.

At just under 20 years old, he was admitted into the Nigerian Military Training College in Kaduna. He would go on to train in the UK, India, and the US, quickly rising through the ranks. By 1963, he was a Second Lieutenant, posted to the 2nd Infantry Battalion in Abeokuta. He was disciplined, loyal, and unshakably focused. Over the next two decades, Buhari’s military journey saw him serve as a battalion commander during the civil war, head key commands, and eventually become a prominent figure in government as Federal Commissioner for Petroleum Resources and Chairman of the newly formed Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC). The Kaduna refinery, pipeline networks, and energy infrastructure he helped oversee still stand as part of his early legacy.

But it was in December 1983 that Buhari entered national consciousness like never before. As the civilian administration of Shehu Shagari stumbled under the weight of economic mismanagement and rampant corruption, Buhari—along with General Tunde Idiagbon and others—led a military coup. At age 41, he became Nigeria’s Head of State.

His leadership style was firm, uncompromising, and unapologetically austere. His “War Against Indiscipline” became a national campaign. Nigerians were asked—sometimes forced—to line up properly, keep the streets clean, arrive at work on time, and embody public morality. There were no half-measures with Buhari. His government detained many former public officials, enforced strict media laws, and issued controversial decrees that granted the state sweeping powers. It was a time of order, but also fear.

Yet, even amid the crackdown, one thing stood out: Buhari never enriched himself. His lifestyle remained spartan. He held himself to the same rigid code of conduct he demanded of others. Amid the usual self-interest that characterises public office, that alone made him stand out. In the North, especially, this quality became legend. He was Mai Gaskiya—the man of truth. To many, he symbolised integrity in its purest, unpolished form.

When he was ousted from power in a 1985 coup led by General Ibrahim Babangida, Buhari disappeared from public life. For over three years, he lived in detention. After his release in 1988, he chose silence over spectacle. He declined to participate in the Babangida-led transition to democracy, preferring, it seemed, to remain an observer rather than a player.

But history kept calling him back.

In 1994, under the Abacha regime, he was appointed Chairman of the Petroleum Trust Fund (PTF), where he oversaw infrastructural interventions using savings from fuel subsidy reforms. Many still point to the transparency and impact of the PTF under Buhari’s watch as one of the most efficient public programs of that era.

Then, in 2003, he stepped fully into the democratic arena. As presidential candidate of the All Nigeria People’s Party (ANPP), he contested and lost. Undeterred, he ran again in 2007—and again in 2011, this time under his own party, the Congress for Progressive Change (CPC). He lost all three elections, but each time, his influence only grew. While he couldn’t yet claim the nation, he had already conquered the North. His followers were fiercely loyal, drawn not just to his message but to the man himself. They saw in him something rare—honour in public life. Still, outside his base, doubts lingered. Buhari was often seen as too rigid, too conservative, and too provincial. His past comments, including a controversial speech in Bauchi during the 2011 campaign, made headlines for all the wrong reasons. His perceived ethnic and religious biases, his open support for Sharia in the past, and his alignment with certain Northern positions made him a polarising figure.

That would change in 2015.

Through a historic coalition of opposition parties—the CPC, ACN, ANPP, a breakaway faction of PDP, and other political heavyweights—Buhari emerged as the candidate of the newly formed All Progressives Congress (APC). Rebranded, reshaped, and with southern political backing, Buhari became a broader national symbol. Gone were the days of stiff khaki and accusatory rhetoric; in its place was a man in suits and agbadas, smiling on campaign posters, pledging unity, and promising to fight corruption with renewed purpose.

On March 28, 2015, he achieved what no one had before: he defeated an incumbent president in a Nigerian general election. His acceptance speech, laced with restraint and gratitude, included a line that would go on to define his presidency: “I belong to everybody, and I belong to no one.”

In his first term, he focused on stabilising an economy in freefall, securing regions plagued by insurgency, and building physical infrastructure. Rail lines were revived. Roads were constructed. Agriculture received increased attention. And even though he stopped short of removing the petroleum subsidy outright, he took steps toward reform, balancing political pressure with a desire to protect the poor.

But governance was never easy. His administration faced rising inflation, a weakened naira, growing debt, and deepened poverty. His anti-corruption campaign—once the bedrock of his political brand—was seen by critics as selective. Still, many never questioned his personal integrity.

In 2019, he was re-elected for a second term. By then, Nigeria was different. So was Buhari. He seemed more withdrawn, slower to speak, more cautious in decisions. His critics called it aloofness; his supporters said it was wisdom. Either way, the myth of Buhari—man of discipline, reluctant democrat, incorruptible leader—remained intact in the hearts of many. When he left office in 2023, he returned to Daura quietly, as always. He didn’t start a political foundation. He didn’t insert himself into national politics. He retired with dignity, watching from afar as the nation continued its ever-evolving journey. And then, on a quiet Sunday in London, his journey ended. For all his flaws—and there were many—Muhammadu Buhari remained one of Nigeria’s most significant leaders. He was not a great orator. He didn’t dazzle with charisma. But he held a kind of moral authority that few in public life ever attain. He stood for something. He believed in discipline, in sacrifice, in hard work. He demanded order in a nation often defined by chaos. To some, he will be remembered as the man who clamped down on freedom in the 1980s. To others, he will forever be the northern patriot who brought simplicity to high office. For many, he was the president who meant well, even if his methods didn’t always land. But no one—friend or foe—could say he didn’t serve.

He served as a soldier, risking his life on the battlefield. He served as a Head of State, trying to rescue a country in crisis. He served as a democratic president, twice elected by the people. And through it all, he remained true to himself—stoic, honest, and often painfully human.

In the end, Buhari’s life is a Nigerian story—full of trials, victories, contradictions, and resilience. He was there when the republic was young, and he remained relevant when the country matured. And now, as Nigeria turns the page, his name will stay inked in the margins of every chapter.

Rest in peace, Mai Gaskiya. You belonged to everybody, and now, you belong to history.

YAKUBU GOWON AND BUHARI
SHEHU SHAGARI AND BUHARI
BUHARI AND IBRAHIM BABANGIDA
BUHARI AND ERNEST SHONEKAN
ABDULSALAMI ABUBAKAR AND BUHARI
BUHARI AND OLUSEGUN OBASANJO
GOODLUCK JONATHAN AND BUHARI
BUHARI AND PRESIDENT BOLA AHMED TINUBU
BUHARI AND CHILDREN, ZARA (L) AND YUSUF (R)
BUHARI AND WIFE, AISHA
BUHARI AND WIFE, AISHA

BUHARI GOES HOME ...

The remains of former President Muhammadu Buhari were laid to rest in Daura, Katsina State, on Tuesday, July 15 2025, in a dignified ceremony steeped in respect and tradition.

Draped in Nigeria’s national colours, his casket arrived from London—where he passed on July 13, 2025—on a Nigerian Air Force aircraft, accompanied by Vice President Kashim Shettima and senior officials. Thousands lined the streets as it was carried in a motorcade to his hometown.

At 5:50 pm, the funeral prayer, led by Sheikh Salisu Rabiu of Daura’s Central Mosque, marked the end of a period of deep national mourning for a leader who served both as military Head of State and democratically elected president.

Army generals and service chiefs carried Buhari’s remains to the graveside, where a 21-gun salute paid final military honours.

The interment at his private residence was attended by close family, associates, Islamic clerics, President Bola Tinubu, governors, cabinet members, and former heads of state.

A public holiday declared for July 15, 2025, allowed Nigerians—especially in the North-West—to join or witness the burial.

Despite a respectful hush and heavy security, life in Daura continued, villagers clad in soft, traditional attire reflecting both sorrow and unity.

As final prayers were offered and the earth gently covered his resting place, tributes poured in from around the world. In that moment, Nigeria came together to honour the passing of Muhammadu Buhari

MELANIN SKIN AND HYPERPIGMENTATION

If you’ve got melanin-rich skin, chances are you’ve had a face-off with hyperpigmentation at some point. One minute you’re minding your business, the next you’re dealing with a pimple that leaves a reminder behind like an unwanted party guest. From random dark spots to sunburn, uneven tone, and mysterious patches that show up uninvited, hyperpigmentation feels like a fulltime job. And unfortunately, it’s one that most of us didn’t apply for.

So why us? Why always us?

Melanin-rich skin is stunning—we know this. It glows, it ages gracefully, it turns heads. But that same melanin that makes our skin so glorious can also be a bit dramatic. The moment our skin gets irritated (think: pimples, bug bites, burns, even over-zealous scrubbing), it rushes to the scene with extra melanin, leaving behind dark marks that love to linger.

Add Nigeria’s blazing sun to the mix, and things escalate quickly. Without proper sun protection (and be honest, how often do you actually wear sunscreen?), UV rays turn minor skin concerns into full-blown pigmentation problems. The irony? The darker your skin, the more prone it is to overproducing pigment when triggered. And don’t get us started on those infamous “miracle” creams. You know the ones—harsh bleaching products that promise glass skin by Friday but end up frying your barrier and making things worse. Many women unknowingly fall into this trap, chasing quick fixes that backfire spectacularly.

But here’s the good news: there’s a way out. Hyperpigmentation isn’t forever, even if it sometimes feels like it. You just need the right tools, a little patience, and a lot of sunscreen.

START HERE:

SPF is nonnegotiable.

Yes, even if you’re indoors. Yes, even if you’re not “light-skinned.” Yes, even when it rains. Sun exposure worsens hyperpigmentation and slows healing. Protecting your skin is the bare minimum. Make it a habit.

Reach for the right ingredients.

Brightening doesn’t mean bleaching. Look for products with niacinamide (hello, glow), alpha arbutin, kojic acid, vitamin C, and

liquorice root extract. These ingredients gently fade dark spots without messing with your natural complexion. They’re like skin therapists in a bottle—calm, consistent, and trustworthy.

Keep your routine simple – and stick to it.

Skincare isn’t speed dating. That viral 10-step routine may work for someone else, but your skin needs time and consistency. Don’t switch products every other week because of TikTok. Sometimes boring is best. And results? They usually take 4 to 12 weeks. Breathe.

Hands off!

We get it—it’s tempting to pick at that pimple or exfoliate your problems away. But irritation only invites more melanin to the party. Be gentle. Your skin isn’t a battleground.

1. Timing is Everything

No one likes a desperado. You can’t just follow and DM in the same breath. That’s poor social etiquette. Nigerians are already naturally suspicious—give it a minute. Let your profile breathe. Maybe even throw in a story reaction or two before attempting a full message. Build tension. It’s digital flirting, not a job interview.

2. Your Profile Is Your CV

Before you say a single word, they’ve already judged you. Your bio, your pinned posts, your highlights—it all matters. Are you mysterious or trying too hard? Is your entire feed filtered selfies and motivational quotes? Do you have sense? In 2025, the real first impression isn’t at a bar, it’s on your page. A well-curated feed might just be the new cologne.

3. Leave Voice Notes at Your Own Risk

While Gen Z finds them endearing, the rest of us are still trying to recover from that one person who sent a five-minute voice note on the second day of texting. If your voice note doesn’t sound like Johnny Drille reading poetry, you might want to stick with typing—at least until there’s mutual vulnerability.

4. Everyone is Talking to Someone

LOVE IN THE DMS: THE NEW RULES OF DATING IN 2025

At this point, Cupid definitely has a smartphone. If you’re still waiting to lock eyes with the love of your life at a wedding or during Sunday service altar call, bless your optimism. But for the rest of us navigating the blurry space between “hey beautiful” and “are you free this weekend?” on Instagram, the real battlefield of modern romance is in the DMs. Dating in 2025 is no longer a neat little box of candlelit dinners and handwritten notes (do people still do that?). It’s memes, soft-launches, shared playlists, and the thrilling anxiety of “last seen today at 2:34 pm.” And Nigerians—oh, we’ve taken it to another level entirely. We’ve always been dramatic lovers, but now we’re digital romantics with data plans and trust issues. You meet someone. You double-tap three of their photos from 2023, hoping they’ll notice. They respond by following you back. Your heart skips a beat. Then you wait. Should you slide into their DMs? Should they? What’s the right opening line—”Hi” or something witty like “So I heard you like jollof and “??? The new rules are unwritten, but you’d better know them if you don’t want to be ghosted before things even begin.

Let’s be real—unless you’ve just come out of a seven-month heartbreak sabbatical, you’re probably not the only person in their DMs. The game is layered. People are dating, soft-dating, vibe-checking, and in “situationships” all at once. If they reply with “I just came out of something” or “I’m not really looking for anything serious,” just know that’s code for: like you, but I’m keeping my options open.

5. Soft Launch Culture

No one’s posting their partners anymore. What we’re doing

is angles of arms, pictures from dates with the other person cropped out, and captions like “This view >>>.” It’s not that we’re hiding them, but... well, yes, we’re hiding them. The heartbreak-to-publicshame pipeline is just too quick these days.

6. Love Languages Have Gone Digital Words of affirmation?

That’s them reposting your business or hyping your selfie in the comments. Quality time? Voice calls and late-night convos about your goals. Gifts?

Data. M&S cheesecake from Instagram vendors. A surprise bank transfer on the day your boss shouted at you. In 2025, it’s not always roses—it’s flowers and memes that say “this reminded me of you.”

7. The Art of Leaving Gracefully

Ghosting is still a thing, but the more evolved version in Nigeria now is the “slow fade.” You know it. Texts start coming slower. The voice notes get shorter. Your story views disappear. Then suddenly, you see them reposting another person’s selfie with a suspiciously familiar caption: my peace. And just like that, you’ve been digitally dumped.

But here’s the thing— despite all the modern complexities, people are still falling in love. Still meeting in the most unexpected comment sections. Still building lasting connections that start with something as simple as “you sabi dress sha.” And maybe that’s the beauty of it. Dating in 2025 is chaotic, confusing, and often comical. But it’s also refreshingly fluid. Love no longer has to look one way. It can start on Twitter Spaces and bloom over late-night FaceTime calls. So if your love life currently lives in your Instagram inbox, don’t worry—you’re not alone. Just remember: vibe first, ask deep questions later, and for the love of God, don’t send a “wyd?” at 11:45 pm unless you mean business.

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