SUPERMUMS
EDITOR’S NOTE
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otherhood is challenging but becomes a fantastic achievement when paired with the responsibility of leading a sector. In Nigeria and the world, some women have been able to juggle handling their jobs and running their families. Their ability to balance their career with parent-teacher meetings is inspiring. This week, we spotlight women doing an incredible job running different sectors and being nurturers to their children, proving that motherhood and a demanding career can work hand in hand. These women navigate their demanding careers, yet with their hectic schedules, they remain present with their families. They are rewriting the narrative, proving that being a mother is not a limitation but proof that they are good multitaskers.
See the incredible women listed on pages 8 through 12.
Finding time for self-care can seem daunting when you are a mother. Skincare often takes a back seat while caring for the kids, balancing work, and managing the home. However, caring for your skin doesn’t have to be complicated. We show mums a quick and easy routine to help their skin thrive despite a busy schedule. See page 13.
It may be challenging for busy mums to focus on their style when juggling a job, kids, and errands, but you have nothing to worry about. Our fashion pages offer mums some tips for a stylish appearance. Scroll to pages 4 and 5.
What happens when you go into a relationship as friends with benefits, but one party soon wants more? That’s our Downtown Confidential story this week. Find out what happens on page 15.
Until next week, enjoy your read.
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6 ESSENTIAL FASHION TIPS FOR MOMS FASHION
BY DORCAS AKINTOYE
Motherhood is a beautiful journey, but it can also be very hectic. It may seem challenging to focus on your style when balancing a job, kids, errands, and everything else. However, getting dressed up doesn’t need to be difficult or time-consuming. You can look effortlessly stylish with a few easy tips without compromising comfort or functionality. This article explores six essential fashion tips every mom can easily embrace.
PRIORITISE COMFORT
Comfort is a top concern when performing everyday duties. However, you don’t have to sacrifice elegance for convenience. Choose breathable materials like linen or cotton to stay cool and comfortable. Stretchy jumpsuits, flowy maxi dresses, and wellfitting jeans create the ideal balance. Replace your wornout slippers with stylish sneakers or sandals; they’re just as comfortable and instantly elevate your
BUILD
A CAPSULE WARDROBE 2.
Even with abundant clothing in your wardrobe, you may still feel you have nothing to wear. The solution? A capsule wardrobe. Purchase versatile items such as neutral jackets, basic trousers, button-down shirts, midi dresses, and simple t-shirts. With the help of these basic pieces, you can easily put together a sophisticated ensemble without having to do any guesswork.
LAYER WITH
INTENTION
Layering is a fashion hack in addition to being functional. With the correct layers, a basic ensemble may become a statement piece. Even a lightweight scarf can add colour and personality to an otherwise basic ensemble.
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THE POWER OF ACCESSORIES
Accessories can totally change an ensemble; they are like magic. Don’t undervalue the impact of a structured purse, a bold necklace, or statement earrings. Even if you put your outfit together in five minutes, a colourful headpiece or a pair of sunglasses can add flair and make you feel more put together.
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SIMPLE BEAUTY HACKS FOR A BUSY MORNING
You don’t need to follow a glam routine to feel radiant. Brightening your face with mascara, lip gloss, and powder takes less than five minutes. To seem put together without spending much time in front of the mirror, find a hairstyle that suits you, whether it’s a tight bun, braided style, or a quick headwrap.
DRESS FOR YOUR BODY
Your body should be celebrated, whether you’re tall, short, curvaceous, or anywhere in between, and you should dress to enhance your figure. Everyone looks good in flowy tops, wrap dresses, and high-waisted pants. Remember that the best accessory is confidence; you glow when you feel good about yourself.
CONCLUSION
Being a mother doesn’t have to make you a lesser person. You can be hands-on and practical while still maintaining the way you look. Fashion should represent who you are, be enjoyable, and serve a practical purpose. Thus, embrace your personal style, try on various outfits, and go out every day with the idea that you are more than just a mother; you are a fashion queen in your
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F IS FOR FORGIVENESS
F is For Forgiveness (and Fear, Fire, Fracture, Facades, and Freedom)
Lastweek dragged a sea of emotion behind it like a storm cloud. Grief has a way of opening floodgates — ones you did not even know were still under pressure. The untimely death of a childhood friend did that for me. In the stillness that followed the news, my mind turned inward. What poured out surprised me: not just sorrow, but shame. Regret. A sudden awareness of all the bridges I had set ablaze in fits of anger, self-protection, and sometimes even silence.
I will also give credit to deep conversations with my girls – ‘Gee, Fueksy Grace and Bels.
In moments like these, we’re reminded of something deeply human: no one is just one version of themselves. We are daughters and disappointments. Lovers and liars. Heroes in one story, villains in another. Different to different people. And so, doesn’t everyone deserve at least a moment of grace? A flicker of forgiveness?
I recently read a story that stayed with me. It said: ‘Not forgiving is like being bitten by a snake and then spending your energy chasing it through the forest — ignoring the venom while trying to prove you didn’t deserve the bite.’
That stopped me cold.
Forgiveness. A big F word.
It comes in shades—reluctant forgiveness, radical forgiveness, silent forgiveness, and selfforgiveness. It wears many faces and walks many paths, some paved with peace and others with barbed wire and bleeding feet.
Here’s the truth I found in my introspection: sometimes, forgiveness isn’t about the other person at all. Sometimes, it’s about freeing yourself from the weight of a memory that tightens around your ribcage like a vice. It’s about growing emotionally tall enough to build a boundary, not a barricade. A wall, yes, but one with doors and windows. So that maybe, just maybe, reconciliation has a shot at tiptoeing through. Or not. But at least the possibility exists. And you… you can breathe easier knowing you didn’t cement it shut.
I realised then: I don’t want to spend my energy hunting snakes. If the bridge burned, let it not be because I held the match with both fists and dared the wind to blow. Let it be because, even with the fire, I left the door cracked open, and the windows unlatched. That’s what emotional maturity feels like. Not weakness, but freedom.
It’s scary, of course. Forgiveness is not forgetfulness. It doesn’t mean returning to what broke you. It doesn’t mean removing
all boundaries or playing the fool. No — sometimes the kindest, most #unshakable form of forgiveness is a whispered prayer from afar. Sometimes, it’s a one-line text that says, ‘I wish you peace.’ And sometimes, it’s just the quiet decision to stop letting that person take up space in your nightmares.
In the end, I don’t know if I will rebuild every broken bridge. Some deserve to remain ash. But I want to be someone who tries to put out the fire. Someone who recognises the fracture but chooses not to hide behind the facade of being ‘fine.’ Because when we forgive, we don’t just release others; we release ourselves.
And so, if F is for forgiveness, then let G be for growth — because that’s what follows. That’s the reward. Forgiveness may not erase the hurt, but it paves the way for healing. For freedom. For finding peace where there once was only fire.
I’ll leave you with this: If someone knocked on a door you closed long ago — Would you let them peek through the window?
Forgiveness doesn’t always mean reunion.
Sometimes, it just means no longer bleeding from the same wound.
Next week, we talk about G for Growth—the messy, beautiful aftermath of letting go. Because when you put down the firewood and stop chasing the snake, something remarkable happensyou begin to grow again.
‘See’ you next week.
SUPERMUMS
By Johnson Chukwueke and Dorcas Akintoye
Motherhood is a full-time job, but for some women, it is only one of the many hats they wear. Across industries, from architecture to media, these powerhouse mothers are proving that success is not a choice between career and family—it is about excelling in both. They are shaping skylines, leading financial empires, designing global fashion trends, advancing technology, capturing history through photography, healing lives in medicine, and breaking barriers in politics.
In real estate, women are building legacies, creating spaces that redefine luxury and comfort. In finance, they are running billion-dollar enterprises and reshaping economic policies. The world of fashion and beauty thrives on their creativity, setting global standards in style and wellness.
Meanwhile, in film and music, they are not just behind the scenes but also on the stage, telling powerful stories and inspiring generations. The tech space, often considered male-dominated, is witnessing a wave of innovation led by mothers who code, design, and build the future.
From the pulpit to the mission field, they guide and uplift. In food, they are crafting culinary delights, while in media, they are shaping narratives.
These women prove that motherhood does not slow ambition; it fuels it. As we celebrate Mother’s Day, we honour these exceptional women who nurture, lead, and inspire—mothers who show that greatness has no limits.
Oluremi Tinubu (Politics)
Senator Oluremi Tinubu is a woman of many firsts— political leader, advocate for women and children, and wife to Nigeria’s President Bola Ahmed Tinubu.
As a seasoned politician, she has spent years shaping policies and championing causes that uplift Nigerian families, proving that leadership and motherhood can go hand in hand.
A former First Lady of Lagos State, Remi Tinubu
transitioned into politics, becoming a three-term senator representing Lagos Central. In the Senate, she has strongly advocated education, women’s rights, and youth empowerment, sponsoring bills and initiatives promoting better opportunities for Nigerian families. Her passion for governance is evident in her legislative efforts, particularly in empowering women, improving social welfare, and ensuring policies that support vulnerable communities.
Beyond her public service, she is a dedicated mother and grandmother, embodying the strength and grace of a true matriarch. Despite the pressures of political life, she has maintained a strong family foundation, balancing her duties as a leader with the responsibilities of motherhood. Her ability to nurture both a household and a nation is a testament to the resilience that defines Nigerian women.
As we celebrate Mother’s Day, Remi Tinubu stands as a symbol of grace, influence, and unwavering dedication—a woman who leads with strength and compassion, proving that motherhood is not a limitation but a powerful force in shaping the future.
Aishatu Binani (Politics)
Aishatu Dahiru Ahmed, popularly known as Aishatu Binani, is a Nigerian politician and entrepreneur who was the senator for Adamawa Central from 2019 to 2023. She was appointed Gimbiyar Adamawa by the Adamawa Emirate Council on 30 March 2020.
Throughout her career, Binani has been dedicated to initiatives aimed at improving education, healthcare, and women’s empowerment in her constituency. Her philanthropic efforts include distributing school bags to pupils, supporting widows and orphans with food and financial assistance, and implementing capacity-building workshops for women and youth.
Aishatu Binani is a strong and influential figure in Nigerian politics. As a senator and a leader in public service, she has championed policies that promote education, women’s rights, and economic empowerment. Her dedication to governance and development has earned her widespread respect. Despite the challenges women face in politics, Aishatu has remained a formidable force, breaking barriers and setting examples for younger generations. She proves mothers can be influential leaders who shape policies and drive national progress.
Dr. Omolola Salako (Health)
Dr. Omolola Salako is not just a doctor; she is a force of nature in the fight against cancer. As a clinical oncologist, researcher, and the founder of Oncopadi and Sebeccly Cancer Care, she has dedicated her life to improving cancer care and awareness in Nigeria. Her work bridges the gap between patients and life-saving treatment, using technology and advocacy to make healthcare more accessible.
Beyond her professional accolades, Dr. Salako is a mother—a role that further fuels her passion for creating a healthier future.
Balancing the demands of medicine, research, and leadership with motherhood is no small feat, yet she does it with grace and resilience. She is a beacon of hope to many, proving that women can excel in healthcare while nurturing a family.
This Mother’s Day, we celebrate Dr. Salako as she continues changing lives in medicine and beyond. They remind us that motherhood is not a limitation but a superpower that drives purpose and impact.
Dr. Awele Viviene Elumelu (Health)
Dr. Awele Vivien Elumelu is a force to be reckoned with in the medical and business worlds.
As the Chairperson of Avon Healthcare Limited and the Founder/CEO of Avon Medical Practice, she has dedicated her career to making quality healthcare accessible in Nigeria. With extensive experience in medicine and surgery, she has worked tirelessly to bridge the healthcare gap, ensuring that Nigerians receive world-class medical services. Her impact extends beyond national borders, as she was appointed as a Private Sector Champion for Immunization in Africa by Gavi, the Vaccine Alliance.
Beyond her impressive professional achievements, Dr. Elumelu embodies grace and strength in motherhood. As the wife of business mogul Tony Elumelu and a mother of seven, she balances career and family with remarkable poise. Her nurturing spirit is evident in her contributions to The Tony Elumelu Foundation, where she supports African entrepreneurs. This Mother’s Day, we celebrate Dr. Awele Elumelu—a woman shaping the future of healthcare while raising a generation of future leaders.
Funke Felix-Adejumo (Clergy)
Funke Felix-Adejumo is a renowned Nigerian Bishop, author, and philanthropist known for her dedication to women’s empowerment and Christian ministry. As the founder of the Funke Felix-Adejumo Foundation, she has impacted countless lives through mentorship, outreach programs, and initiatives aimed at uplifting women, families, and communities.
A passionate preacher, she serves alongside her
husband, Bishop Felix Adejumo, at Agape Christian Ministries, a thriving church with a strong presence in Nigeria and beyond. Through her conferences, such as Mother’s Summit and Winning Edge, she has become a beacon of hope and inspiration, encouraging women to embrace their purpose, build strong families, and succeed in various spheres of life.
Beyond the pulpit, Funke Felix-Adejumo is a devoted mother, balancing ministry with family life. Her work in missions, education, and social impact continues to shape lives, making her a true Supermum—one whose influence extends beyond her home to an entire generation of women seeking spiritual and personal growth.
Chef Uche Annie Uzoka (Food)
Chef Uche Annie Uzoka is a visionary chef, entrepreneur, and devoted mother whose passion for food has transformed into an inspiring culinary empire. As the founder of Gourmet Twist, she has redefined the way Nigerian flavours are experienced, blending traditional tastes with modern techniques. From humble beginnings baking in her home kitchen, she has grown her brand into a household name, earning recognition for her creative approach to gastronomy.
Beyond her culinary prowess, Chef Uche is a nurturing mother who seamlessly balances family life with her thriving business. She is an inspiration to women who aspire to chase their dreams while raising a family, proving that motherhood and entrepreneurship can go hand in hand. Her role as a mentor, especially through initiatives like the GTCO Food & Drink Festival, highlights her dedication to empowering the next generation of food lovers.
This Mother’s Day, we celebrate Chef Uche Annie Uzoka—an extraordinary mother who serves excellence, not just on plates, but in every aspect of life.
Oyinade Adegite (Finance)
In the world of finance, where precision and strategy define success, Oyinade Adegite stands as a beacon of excellence. As the Chief Communication Officer at GTCO Plc, she has played a pivotal role in shaping one of Africa’s most recognised financial institutions. Her leadership extends beyond corporate strategy— she is the driving force behind GTCO’s renowned Fashion Weekend and Food and Drink Festival, platforms that empower entrepreneurs and showcase Nigeria’s rich creativity. But beyond the boardrooms and high-profile events, Oyinade is also a dedicated mother, embodying the balance of career and family life with grace. Her ability to excel in a fast-paced industry while nurturing a home is a testament to the strength and resilience of modern mothers. She inspires her colleagues and young women who aspire to thrive in both professional and personal spheres.
This Mother’s Day, we celebrate Oyinade Adegite—a woman proving that financial brilliance and motherhood are not mutually exclusive but beautifully intertwined.
Alero Ladipo (Finance)
Alero Ladipo, the Group Head of Marketing and Corporate Communications at UBA, embodies the perfect blend of corporate excellence and motherhood. With nearly two decades of experience in marketing, brand strategy, and customer engagement, she has left an indelible mark across the financial sector. From Stanbic IBTC to Old Mutual and now UBA, her expertise in crafting compelling narratives has strengthened brands and built customer trust. Yet, beyond the boardroom, Alero is a devoted mother who understands the power of balance. She seamlessly juggles highlevel strategy meetings with the nurturing demands of motherhood, proving that women can excel in both spheres. Her ability to manage corporate communication at a global banking giant while raising a family is a testament to her resilience and leadership.
This Mother’s Day, we celebrate Alero Ladipo—not just for her corporate achievements but for her role in inspiring the next generation of women to embrace their careers and motherhood with equal passion and dedication.
Emem Usoro (Finance)
Emem Nnana Usoro is a Nigerian banker who currently serves as the Deputy Governor for Corporate Services at the Central Bank of Nigeria. In 2023, she was appointed by President Ahmed Bola Tinubu and confirmed by the Nigerian Senate on 26 September 2023. For over 20 years, Usoro has worked in the commercial banking and financial services sector with experience spanning across different areas like branch management, operations, credit, and marketing. In 2011, she joined the United Bank for Africa and rose to the post of Executive Director, Northern Operations before her appointment to serve in the Central Bank of Nigeria.
Emem Usoro’s journey is an inspiring one, showcasing how determination and intelligence can lead to remarkable success. As a mother, she embodies resilience, proving that women can handle complex financial landscapes while still being present for their families.
Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala (Finance)
Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala is a distinguished economist and global leader. Okonjo-Iweala had a 25-year career at the World Bank, rising to the position of Managing Director. She also served two terms as Nigeria’s Finance Minister, implementing significant economic reforms and negotiating substantial debt relief for the country. In March 2021, Okonjo-Iweala made history as the first woman and first African to become Director-General of the World Trade
Organization (WTO). In November 2024, she was reappointed for a second term, receiving broad support from WTO members. Her tenure continues to be marked by efforts to reform the WTO’s dispute resolution system and to navigate rising global protectionism. With decades of experience as Nigeria’s Finance Minister and a leader at the World Bank, Okonjo-Iweala has been instrumental in driving economic policies that impact millions. Her ability to navigate global finance while maintaining a strong family presence is commendable. She serves as an inspiration for working mothers worldwide, proving that leadership has no gender.
Olajumoke Adenowo (Architecture)
Olajumoke Olufunmilola Adenowo is a Nigerian architect. In 1994, she started her own architecture and interior design firm, AD Consulting. After graduating from the university, she started her career as an assistant Architect at Towry Coker Associates. Afterwards, she practiced as an architect in Lagos at Femi Majekodunmi Associates. At the age of 23, she worked on the Federal Ministry of Finance project in Abuja. Since she established AD Consulting, her architecture and interior design firm has been involved in designing and constructing over 114 projects. These include Institutional buildings, Office Building Complexes, Healthcare facilities, and Auditoria, among others.
As the founder of AD Consulting, her work is not just about creating buildings but crafting spaces that reflect culture, innovation, and sustainability. She has received multiple awards for her excellence in architecture and is also a passionate advocate for women’s empowerment. Despite working in a field dominated by men, Olajumoke continues to break barriers, proving that women, especially mothers, can excel in any industry.
Udo Okonjo (Real Estate)
Mrs Udo Okonjo is the Chief Executive Officer of Fine and Country West Africa. She has over twenty years of experience as a lawyer, having been admitted to the Nigerian Bar Association in 1991 and the New York Bar in 1994. She has also served as the Senior Special Adviser on Legal and Constitutional Matters to the Senate President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and is a partner at a leading local Commercial law firm.
When it comes to real estate, Udo Okonjo is a name that stands out. As the CEO of Fine & Country West Africa, she has transformed the luxury real estate market in Nigeria. Udo believes in the power of women to create wealth through smart investments, and she actively mentors young women in business. Beyond her corporate achievements, she is a devoted mother who understands the delicate balance of career and family life.
Adenike Ogunlesi (Fashion)
extends beyond Nigeria, as she has worked with international brands and celebrities. She is also a mother, balancing her family responsibilities with building an empire that empowers women through beauty and confidence.
Ola Williams (Tech)
Adenike Ogunlesi is the founder and Creative Director of Africa’s leading Premium children’s clothing brand- Ruff ‘n’ Tumble. With over 35 years of experience in the Fashion and Retail Business, she is one of Africa’s foremost fashion entrepreneurs who is redefining and blazing the trail in the children’s fashion industry. In 1998, she started the Ruff ’n’ Tumble brand from the boot of her car, with a man-power of less than 20 people. As the founder of Ruff ’n’ Tumble, she revolutionised the market by providing high-quality, stylish, and locally made clothes for Nigerian children. Starting her business from the boot of her car, she has built a brand that competes internationally. Nike’s entrepreneurial journey is proof that women, especially mothers, can turn simple ideas into thriving businesses. She continues to inspire countless women by showing that family and business success can go hand in hand.
Banke Meshida (Beauty)
Olabanke Banke Meshida Lawal is a Nigerian makeup artist and the founder and CEO of BMPro Makeup Group, a makeup and cosmetology firm in Nigeria. In 2006, she launched the BMPro makeup line with 14 products tailored to the Nigerian market, emphasising high pigmentation and suitability for the local climate. Today, BMPro boasts over 65 products available in Nigeria, the UK, USA, Ghana, and Canada. Banke’s expertise has earned her numerous accolades, including the 2009 Eloy Award for Brand of the Year, the 2010 FAB Award for Makeup Artist of the Year, and the 2012 Nigerian Event Award for Best Makeup Artist. She has also collaborated with prominent fashion designers and worked on various runway shows and magazine covers.
In the beauty industry, Banke Meshida is a household name.
As the founder of BM Pro, she has transformed makeup artistry in Nigeria. Her brand is known for its high-quality beauty products and professional makeup services that cater to women of all shades and styles. Banke’s influence
Olatomiwa Williams is a distinguished leader in the information technology sector, currently serving as the Country Manager for Microsoft Nigeria and Ghana. With over 21 years of experience in IT, her expertise spans solution implementation, solution sales, and channel management.
In 2010, Ola joined Microsoft as the Enterprise Voice Technology Specialist. She has also held various positions, including Partner Technology Manager, Dynamics Partner Sales Executive as well and Account Technology Strategist. Ola has over 21 years of Information technology experience which spans through Solution implementation, Solution Sales, and Channels Management.
Ola Williams is a trailblazer in the tech industry, a sector where women are often underrepresented. As the Country Manager for Microsoft Nigeria, she is at the forefront of driving digital transformation and innovation in Africa. Ola’s leadership is shaping the future of tech in Nigeria, and her journey is proof that women can excel in STEM fields while raising families. Her story encourages young girls to pursue careers in technology, breaking long-standing stereotypes.
Mo Abudu (Film)
Mosunmola Abudu, popularly known as Mo Abudu, is a Nigerian media mogul, filmmaker, and entrepreneur. She is the founder and CEO of EbonyLife Media, a multimedia powerhouse that has played a significant role in reshaping African storytelling on the global stage.
Mo Abudu started her professional career in human resources, working for companies like ExxonMobil. However, she transitioned into the media industry, where she made a name for herself as a television producer, talk show host, and filmmaker.
Mo Abudu has redefined storytelling in Africa. As the CEO of EbonyLife Media, she has produced blockbuster films and TV shows that tell authentic African stories. Mo is credited with changing the global perception of African cinema, bringing Nigerian stories to platforms like Netflix and Amazon. She is a firm believer in women’s empowerment and mentorship, helping aspiring filmmakers find their voice in the industry. As a mother, she has successfully managed both her career and family, proving that women can have it all.
Bose Ogulu (Music)
Bose Ogulu, fondly known as Mama Burna, is more than just the mother of Grammy-winning artist Burna Boy; she is a businesswoman, talent manager, and cultural advocate. With a background in language and education, Bose transitioned into the music industry, becoming the force behind Burna Boy’s global success. As his manager, she played a pivotal role in shaping his career, securing international recognition, and positioning him as a leading voice in Afrobeats.
Beyond her professional achievements, Bose Ogulu embodies the essence of motherhood. Her dedication proves that motherhood extends beyond biological ties, it is about mentorship, leadership, and empowerment.
Tiwa Savage (Music)
Tiwa Savage is a household name in the Nigerian and global music industry. A singer, songwriter, and performer, she has consistently broken barriers, making her mark as one of Africa’s biggest female artists. Tiwa has put Afrobeats on the world stage with chart-topping hits and international collaborations.
However, amidst her stardom, she is also a devoted mother to her son, Jamil. Balancing a demanding career with motherhood, Tiwa has openly shared her journey, showing that women can have successful careers and fulfilling family lives. She inspires mothers everywhere, proving that passion and parenting can coexist beautifully.
TY Bello (Photography)
Toyin SokefunBello, popularly known as TY Bello, is a celebrated photographer, singer, and humanitarian. She began her career as a member of the music group Kush before transitioning into photography, where she became a visual storyteller
for many high-profile figures and campaigns. Her ability to capture raw emotions through her lens has made her one of Nigeria’s most respected photographers. Beyond her professional life, TY Bello is a mother who balances her creative pursuits with nurturing her children. Her journey reflects the profound connection between artistry and motherhood, showing how creativity can be a tool for both expression and nurturing the next generation.
Uche Pedro (Media)
Uche Pedro is the founder of BellaNaija, one of Nigeria’s leading lifestyle and entertainment platforms. She has redefined digital storytelling through her work, creating a space for African voices to be heard globally. BellaNaija has grown into a powerhouse, influencing trends and amplifying stories that matter.
As a mother, Uche Pedro has demonstrated that leadership in media and motherhood can go hand in hand. Her ability to inspire young entrepreneurs while raising a family is a testament to the power of balance, determination, and vision. She embodies the modern woman who thrives in her career without compromising her role as a mother.
Ojy Okpe (Media)
Ojy Okpe is a journalist, media personality, and former international model who has successfully transitioned into the world of broadcasting. As a host on Arise News, she has become a respected voice in Nigerian media, covering important social and political issues. Her career journey, from the fashion runways of the world to investigative journalism, proves that reinvention is possible at any stage of life. Alongside her career, Ojy is also a mother, balancing the demands of journalism with raising her children. Her resilience and adaptability make her a role model for mothers striving to break barriers in male-dominated spaces.
These women are more than just leaders in their industries; they are mothers who have defied the odds to create lasting legacies. They show us that motherhood does not limit ambition but rather fuels it. This Mother’s Day, we celebrate them and every mother striving to make a difference in her field. They remind us that women are powerful, unstoppable, and capable of shaping the world, one industry at a time.
THE GO-TO SKINCARE ROUTINE For Busy Moms
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Proper cleanser is the cornerstone of every skincare regimen. After a long day, your skin accumulates oil, debris, and makeup. These contaminants are eliminated using a mild cleanser that doesn’t deplete your skin’s natural oils. A mild foamy cleanser or moisturising micellar water can save time for moms often on the go. It’s quick and simple and keeps your skin looking fresh. Just wipe your face with a cotton pad or wash and
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BY DORCAS AKINTOYE
Finding time for self-care when you’re a mom can seem impossible. Skincare often takes a back seat while managing the household, caring for the children, and balancing work. However, caring for your skin doesn’t have to be complicated or timeconsuming. A quick and easy routine will help you keep healthy and bright skin despite your busy schedule.
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DON’T SKIP THE SUNSCREEN
Sun protection is still important, even if you’re mostly indoors or just running to and from school. UV rays can harm your skin over time and cause premature ageing. A broad-spectrum SPF 30 sunscreen sometimes doubles as a moisturiser, reducing the required steps. If you want a little coverage, wear a tinted sunscreen; it’s like skincare and light makeup combined.
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QUICK GLOW WITH A SERUM
Concentrated ingredients in serums address skin issues like dark spots, fine wrinkles, and dullness. The good news? Just a few drops will do. After cleansing, use a vitamin C or niacinamide serum for a quick glow and longterm skin benefits. It absorbs rapidly so that you can move on with your day.
5. CLEANSE GENTLY BUT THOROUGHLY MOISTURISE TO LOCK IN HYDRATION
Sleep deprivation and never-ending tasks may make your skin appear dry and exhausted. A quality moisturiser offers your skin a healthy sheen and aids in hydration restoration. Select an all-in-one moisturiser that is lightweight and appropriate for your skin type. Choose one with vitamin C or hyaluronic acid for an extra boost. Use it immediately after washing to seal in moisture. It only takes a few seconds, but your skin will thank you.
NIGHT-TIME NOURISHMENT WITH A SIMPLE ROUTINE
Even if you’re exhausted by bedtime, a quick night routine helps your skin repair overnight. Double cleanse if you wore makeup, then apply a nourishing night cream or a hydrating sleep mask. You can even use a facial oil for extra hydration. This step takes less than two minutes but works wonders while you rest.
CONCLUSION
Self-care doesn’t have to be complicated or time-consuming. You can maintain healthy, radiant skin even on the busiest days by following the five easy steps listed. Remember that maintaining your skin is an act of self-love and that consistency goes a long way.
WELLNESS
NURTURING THE NURTURER
Self-Care Routines For Busy Moms
BY JOHNSON CHUKWUEKE
Mother’s Day is a beautiful reminder to celebrate the women who do it all—nurturing, guiding, and loving unconditionally. But while moms are busy caring for everyone else, who’s caring for them? This Mother’s Day, it’s time to flip the script and focus on the one who keeps it all together. Busy moms, this one’s for you. From school runs to late-night cuddles and balancing careers with motherhood, moms rarely take a break. However, self-care isn’t a luxury; it’s a necessity. It’s not about indulgence but refilling your cup so you can keep pouring into your family and yourself. Here are five selfcare routines to help every mom feel refreshed, empowered, and ready to take on the world—because you deserve it.
Morning Rituals: Start Your Day With Intent
Starting your day the right way is a step closer to having a good day in general. You have to carve out at least 10 minutes each morning for yourself. Whether it’s meditation, journaling, or sipping your favourite tea while soaking in the sunrise, this small ritual sets a positive tone for the day. Beginning your day by rushing into chores without any form of clarity in your mind can lead to serious confusion, but a calm start helps you stay grounded amid the chaos.
Power Walks: Move Your Body, Clear Your Mind
Walking is underrated. Slip on some comfy shoes and take a brisk walk around the neighbourhood. It’s a simple way to disconnect from stress, boost your mood, and sneak in some light exercise. Plus, listening to your favourite playlist or podcast makes it feel like a mini-vacation.
Guilt-Free Downtime: Make Time For Your Passions
As a mom, it’s easy to feel guilty about downtime, but don’t. Set aside time to indulge in hobbies or activities you love—reading, painting, gardening, or bingewatching your favourite series. Remember, nurturing your interests is just as important as caring for your loved ones.
Connect With Your Support System
Motherhood can sometimes feel isolating, but leaning on your support system makes a world of difference. Whether it’s chatting with fellow moms or sharing laughs with close friends, connecting with others who understand your journey is crucial for mental well-being.
Evening Wind-Down: Create a Calming Bedtime Routine
After a long day, winding down is essential. All that stress needs to go away, and those tired muscles need to relax. So dim the lights, put on soothing music, and practice light stretching or yoga. A warm bath or skincare routine can also signal your body to relax. This routine helps you sleep better and gives you a moment to reconnect with yourself.
This Mother’s Day, remind yourself that self-care isn’t selfish—it’s vital. Embrace these routines and permit yourself to prioritise your well-being because when you take care of yourself, you’re better equipped to care for those you love.
DOWNTOWN CONFIDENTIAL
Between Us
BY DORCAS AKINTOYE
Debby
arched her back as Dave’s lips traced a burning path down her neck. Their bodies moved together in perfect sync, a rhythm they had perfected over time. His hands gripped her waist, pulling her closer as if afraid to let go. Their breaths mixed, heavy with desire, their skin damp with sweat. The room was thick with heat and the scent of passion.
Dave held her gaze, his dark eyes filled with something deeper than lust. Something that made Debby’s stomach tighten in a way she wasn’t ready to explore. His movements were slow yet intense, his hands firm yet gentle. He knew exactly where to touch, exactly how to make her unravel beneath him. And when the wave of pleasure crashed over them, they clung to each other, lost in the overwhelming sensation, their moans melting into the silence of the room. Dave rolled over, still catching his breath, his fingers lazily twirling a strand of Debby’s hair. He turned his head to her, his voice low and husky.
“I want more, Debby.”
She let out a soft sigh, moving away from him slightly. “No, not again, Dave.”
His brows furrowed as he propped himself up on one elbow. “Why not? We both know we want this.”
She pulled the sheet up to her chest, looking away. “That’s the problem. We were just supposed to be friends. But look at us now.”
Dave exhaled, running a hand through his messy hair. “Yeah, look at us. We’re good together, Debs. Why fight it?”
She shook her head. “Because it wasn’t supposed to be like this. It started as fun, something without complications. But now...” She hesitated, then met his gaze. “Now, you want more.”
“I do.” His voice was firm, but his eyes held something softer. “I don’t just want the sex, Debby. I want you. I want us.”
Her breath caught. “Dave...”
“I know you’re scared,” he continued. “But I can’t keep pretending this is just physical for me. It stopped being just sex a long time ago.”
Debby swallowed hard. She had seen this coming but ignored it, hoping it would go away. “I don’t know if I can give you what you want.”
He studied her for a long moment before nodding slowly. He reached for his clothes, pulling on his jeans.
“I need to leave,” he said, avoiding her eyes. “Forgot I had an engagement to catch up with.”
She watched him dress, feeling something heavy settle in her chest. She wanted to stop and tell him she didn’t want this to end. But the words wouldn’t come.
When the door shut behind him, Debby lay back against the pillow, staring at the ceiling. Doubt crept in, whispering in her ear. Was she making the wrong decision? Could she let go of what they had? She loved everything about him, how he made her laugh and how he made her feel, but was she ready for more?
And what if he changed his mind later?
What if he got tired of waiting?
She turned onto her side, hugging a pillow to her chest. The uncertainty gnawed at her, leaving her restless.
She wasn’t sure what to do, but one thing was clear: Their relationship would never be the same again.
BY
BOLUWATIFE ADESINA
MOVIE REVIEW:
Novocaine
InNovocaine, a hapless guy, played by the affable Jack Quaid, has a genetic condition that absolves him from feeling physical pain – a knife through his hand may only elicit a confused smile. This brutal action-comedy puts that condition – and the audience’s stomach – to the test with grisly bone fractures, self-administered surgeries and a torture scene where a pair of pliers meet fingernails.
That may not sound all that gruesome for anyone raised on the Saw franchise or even the Deadpool movies. But there’s something about the way this movie so vividly and diabolically sells the familiar violence that had the audience I saw the movie with squirming out loud, with screams mixed in with their giddy laughter.
Perhaps these sensationally sadistic bits hit harder because Quaid’s hero character Nathan Caine, who is on a mission to save his new girlfriend from hostagetaking bank robbers, is so carefree about them. When his hand sizzles in a deep fryer or when he casually breaks his own thumb to slip out of handcuffs, Nathan’s nonchalant expressions put the burden of feeling entirely on us. And we (I, at least) definitely feel it.
If only the movie, so clumsily strung together around these moments that attack our nervous system, could be as effective. When it’s not inflicting maximum violence, Novocaine tends to leave us numb.
That’s no fault of Quaid, though. He’s so good at playing soft and nervous in ultraviolent fare, including The Boys, the recent anti-Valentine thriller Companion and now Novocaine, where those boyish qualities can be comically destabilising. And the chemistry he shares in Novocaine’s early sections with Prey’s Amber Midthunder is so cosy and charming that it’s rather
disappointing when the action relegates the budding romance between Nathan and Sherry to the background.
It’s through Sherry’s affectionate inquiries that we get to know the specifics about Nathan’s life with Congenital Insensitivity to Pain with Anhidrosis (CIPA). He can’t eat solids because he’s prone to biting off his own tongue.
There are tennis balls mounted on every desk corner so he doesn’t injure himself walking through his job as assistant manager at a bank. He has a timer set to remind him to relieve himself so that his bladder doesn’t burst.
His days are constant vigilance – so he doesn’t let himself die without noticing.
His safe space is playing video games online with a best friend (Jacob Batalon) he never met in real life, a virtual existence that’s harmful in a different way. It’s a bubble-like existence that keeps Nathan shackled with the kind of social anxiety that’s feeling all too familiar in a post-pandemic world.
There’s so much promise in that premise, especially when Midthunder’s Sherry, a colleague at his bank branch who charms her way into Nathan’s after hours, bares her own emotional and physical scars. But Novocaine isn’t really equipped to explore the ideas it introduces about social anxiety, self-
inflicted harm and living with a debilitating condition beyond easy platitudes.
The action kicks in when three bank robbers dressed like Santa Claus violently burst into Nathan’s branch, steal millions in cash, leave a few casualties and take Sherry hostage. Nathan, abandoning all safeguards, proceeds in hot (and romantic) pursuit.
Novocaine moves fast and furious, just so you don’t think too much about the nonsensical ways Nathan keeps catching up to his assailants or discovering their whereabouts. The laziness in Lars Jacobson’s screenplay is all too obvious, where it becomes all about repeatedly restaging the movie’s one good sadistic joke, ushering Nathan along to the next setting where he can endure escalating carnage. At one point, he even enters a booby-trapped house of pain, where crossbows and spiked balls are let loose on anyone who enters.
Novocaine gets away with such inanity because it’s willing to laugh at its own silliness, with jokes calling out the inexplicable setups. And it helps that Quaid is so good at landing every punchline, if not punch. Nathan may not have any sense of pain, but Quaid gives him a great sense of humour.
ADOLESCENCE WATCH OF THE WEEK
It’s every parent’s ultimate nightmare. The cops storm into your house early in the morning, demand to see your 13-year-old son and then take him away and accuse him of murder. In Adolescence, the soul-piercing four-part Netflix series
by actor Stephen Graham (Peaky Blinders, A Thousand Blows), co-written with Jack Thorne, the shocked Miller family reels from the news that Jamie (Owen Cooper in a performance that will shatter and haunt you) might have killed a 13-year-old girl.
Each episode is shot in one take, and while that might sound like a gimmick, it works and doesn’t call attention to itself, making it feel like we’re experiencing this live and with the same rawness and realness of its characters. The first episode centres on Jamie and his father, Eddie (Graham), going through questioning; the second revolves around two detectives (Ashley Walters and Faye Marsay) venturing into Jamie’s school; the third — and most
All told, this is a heartbreaking look at a devastating tragedy that leaves a community and a family grappling with the heartbreak and wondering if they played a part in what happened. It’s powerful, and finds Graham being a force both in front of and behind the
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Rating: 7.5/10
More Jack Quaid please.
explosive — focuses on a session between a psychologist (Briony Ariston) and Jamey; and the fourth — the most wrenching — follows the Miller family at home eight months after the crime.
camera.