THEWILL DOWNTOWN July 30, 2023

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Unravelling the Scourge of Domestic Violence in Nigeria

Thisweek our cover story centres on domestic violence. According to statistics, one in every three women in Nigeria has experienced some form of domestic violence. And from the National Demographic Health Survey analysis, domestic violence is more rampant in rural areas. They also found that education has little impact on the rate of domestic violence. What I found to be alarming based on the survey is that women between the ages of 15 and 24 years are more likely to experience physical violence regardless of their educational background.

But what is more worrisome is the stigma behind the act. Most people in abusive relationships do not report the case for fear of being judged. The woman is often met with the question,” What did you do?” As if certain behaviour should warrant her being beaten by her partner. It also doesn’t help that our culture is patriarchal, making women submissive and more likely to be abused.

The big question is, how do we bring more awareness to the issue of domestic violence? How do we let victims know that it’s ok to speak up? Read our take on this issue on pages 8 to 10.

Infidelity often damages a relationship. Most people find it hard to move past the sting of being cheated on, but there are ways to save a relationship that has suffered unfaithfulness. Downtown Confidential suggests ways to build back intimacy after infidelity. See page 7.

We often hear the term ‘beauty sleep’ without realizing that the body repairs and rejuvenates itself when we sleep. It’s been said that the body needs eight hours of sleep, so do yourself a favour and get enough sleep. It will leave you refreshed and even recharge your mind.

Until next week, enjoy your read.

AUSTYN OGANNAH PUBLISHER/EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

Editor: Onah Nwachukwu @onahluciaa

Editor-at-Large: Chalya Shagaya

Senior Writer: Kehindé Fagbule

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Dorcas Akintoye

Dorcas Akintoye is a dedicated writer with more than 2 years prolific experience in writing articles ranging from food, entertainment, fashion and beauty.  She has a National Diploma in Mass Communication from Kwara State Polytechnic, Ilorin. She loves writing, listening to music and playing scrabble. She is a highly-skilled, enthusiastic, selfmotivated professional writer.

Onwumere Churchill Ikenna

- Contributing Writer

Onwumere Churchill Ikenna is a writer, poet, digital and social media content strategist. An Afro gen z clan member of kenga media. He is a movie critic who was amongst those who birthed the first movie brand; Feeem house brand. A full fledged member of the writers space Africa, Nigeria district and was part of the editing team of the second anthology issue by the writers space Nigeria.

He has written so many articles, stories and e books. An avid reader and a freelancer. You can check out his literary editing page @coidencreatives on Instagram and twitter.

His personal socials for both Instagram and twitter are : @ikennachurchill

JOSEPH BENJAMIN

Have you ever wondered why people refer to beauty sleep as such?

When you fall asleep and start dreaming, your body switches into repair mode, repairing and regenerating your skin cells. When you sleep, your blood flow rises, and vital nutrients can reach your skin, leaving it feeling rejuvenated and shining in the morning.

It’s like getting a tiny spa treatment for your face.

Beauty Sleep The Importance of Restorative Sleep For Skin Health

BY DORCAS AKINTOYE

Are you sick of waking up with dull, lifeless skin far from your desired glowing complexion? Well, you don’t need to worry any longer because, in this article, we will reveal a secret that will completely change how you take care of your skin. Imagine a magic potion that instantly refreshes your skin, removing indications of worry and exhaustion. This magical remedy is none other than the highly coveted beauty sleep. Yes, you read correctly — priceless, restorative sleep does wonders for your skin in addition to recharging your mind. So grab a pillow as we learn about the tremendous value of healthy sleep for the health of your skin.

(3) STRESS REDUCER

We all know that stress may cause our skin to break out, and lack of sleep can worsen stress levels. The stress hormone cortisol is decreased by getting enough sleep, which keeps your skin tranquil and spotless.

(4) BRIGHTER EYES

The foundation of youthful skin, collagen, is created as you sleep. The protein that keeps skin supple is called collagen; your body produces more of it as you sleep. Due to this effort to reduce wrinkles, fine lines, and sagging, you’ll have a firmer, younger-looking complexion.

(5) IMPROVED HEALING

Do you recall your tired, puffy eyes that won’t go away? Well, a restful night’s sleep is the cure. Your eyes will look more rested and bright due to fewer under-eye bags and dark circles.

Have you ever noticed how cuts and imperfections seem to vanish overnight on their own accord? Sleep speeds up the healing process by enhancing cell regeneration and encouraging effective recovery, enabling your skin to recover from any damage more quickly.

(6) INCREASED RADIANCE

When well-rested, your skin radiates in a way no cosmetic product can match. Sleep makes your skin glow, giving it a wholesome, bright radiance that no highlighter can match.

Therefore, for the sake of your skin, dear sleep enthusiasts, remember to prioritize those priceless zzzs. Make sleep a priority in your beauty routine and observe how your skin changes into a picture of glowing health and ageless beauty.

(1) REJUVENATION

(2) COLLAGEN BOOST

Bestie Goals

5 of The Cutest Industry Friendships

BY KEHINDÉ FAGBULE

Ifthere is anything we can all see eye to eye on as humans, it is that we all need someone in our corner. We all crave someone we can share our lives with, wins, losses and everything in between. And although for most people, the answer is a romantic relationship with the opposite sex, for some, it is a good friendship. Not many things compare to a good friendship, especially one that sees both parties glowing in their individual lives and careers. Within the Nigerian entertainment scene, a few friendships have stood the test of time. Here are five of the cutest celebrity friendships to celebrate International Friendship Day.

Enioluwa and Hilda

Since announcing herself on the world stage courtesy of her globally televised Guinness World Record endeavour, Hilda Bassey has been frequently seen with beauty and fashion influencer, Enioluwa Adeoluwa. Their friendship has caught the attention of fans online, most of whom are envious of Hilda for having a friend in Eni, especially through her rise to stardom.

Chinedu Ikedieze and Osita Iheme

Perhaps the most obviously befitting friendship on this list, Aki and Pawpaw, as they are widely addressed, have been consistently involved in each other’s lives since they both got their Nollywood breakthrough, perpetually acting as brothers-in-mischief. Although they drifted apart from starring in the same projects, they have maintained a friendship away from the camera.

Basketmouth and Buchi

Ace comedians, Basketmouth and Buchi, have nurtured one of the long-lasting friendships in the comedy industry to date (alongside Basketmouth and Bovi). The duo can be seen on each other’s social media fooling around or on comedy tours together, performing at each other’s specials.

Waje and Omawumi

The most sonically gifted friendship on the list, Waje and Omawumi’s relationship in the industry go as far back as the 2000s, the era they both got their breakthrough. Almost two decades later, the close-knit sorority is still soaring as the RnB duo have consistently shown up for each other through the years.

Akah and Bolanle

Besties Akah Nnani and Bolanle Olukanni both own and co-host a podcast called The BFF Show, where they talk about friendships. A friendship that is easy on the eyes, Akah and Bolanle’s energies balance each other out whenever any of their interactions surface online. In her birthday wishes for Akah, Bolanle captioned on her Instagram, “Happy birthday to the brother I never had. I appreciate our friendship, Akah—the laughter and honesty is cherished.”

Strategies to Reignite The Spark After Infidelity Rebuilding Intimacy

2. REBUILDING TRUST

Rebuilding trust takes time, but mending a broken connection is necessary. Maintain consistency between your words and deeds, keep your end of the bargain, and be open about your location. Rebuilding trust might be facilitated by small acts of dependability.

5.CULTIVATING EMOTIONAL CONNECTION

3.SEEKINGPROFESSIONAL HELP

Consider getting advice from a counsellor or couples therapist who focuses on infidelity. They can offer insightful commentary, facilitate conversations, and offer exercises and skills to promote intimacy and healing.

BY DORCAS AKINTOYE

Weoften find ourselves amid heartbreaking situations in life. Infidelity is one such issue that can undermine trust and make relationships seem as though they are on thin ice. There is, nevertheless, optimism amidst the suffering and uncertainty. The intimacy ember may be rekindled, the wounds can be repaired, and trust can be restored. Finding the way to a solid and loving relationship again after betrayal can be overwhelming. But it’s possible to create a stronger link than ever before with empathy, open communication, and a sincere desire to heal.

We can revive love and build a future that is better than the anguish of the past if we have open hearts and a desire to grow. We reveal the keys to reestablishing connection and reigniting the flame that once burnt hot.

1. HONEST CONVERSATIONS

Begin by creating a secure environment for direct and truthful communication. Encourage your partner to share their feelings, fears, and worries by doing the same. Understanding one another’s viewpoints and emotions is the first step toward true healing.

4.REDISCOVERING INTIMACY

Make an effort to regain both emotional and physical intimacy. One way to do this is to participate in things you both find enjoyable, such as dates, walks, or cuddling. Reconnecting on several levels can help reignite the flame.

Put emotional connection first by being attentive to your partner’s needs, demonstrating empathy, and expressing gratitude. Establish communication rituals like regular check-ins or interests in the same things to strengthen your emotional connection.

6. PATIENCE AND FORGIVENESS

It takes time and patience to mend a broken relationship after adultery. Practice kindness throughout your partner’s and your healing. To create room for development and healing, practice forgiving others—not by forgetting them, but by letting go of the weight of grudges.

Rebuilding intimacy after infidelity is a journey that demands dedication from both parties, so keep that in mind. You may rekindle the flame and create a stronger, more resilient bond by embracing these techniques, encouraging open communication, and demonstrating genuine concern. You two can build a future that transcends the hurt of the past and enables love to grow once more.

BEHIND CLOSED DOORS

Unravelling the Scourge of Domestic Violence in Nigeria

BY KEHINDÉ FAGBULE

Beneath the surface of Nigeria’s cultural heritage, vibrant spirit, colourful tapestry and wedding celebrations, a grim reality persists—domestic violence. Behind closed doors, countless individuals endure unimaginable pain and suffering, trapped in a cycle of abuse that knows no boundaries. We shed light on the disturbing statistics and the stories of resilience as Nigeria grapples with the issue of domestic violence.

A Troubling Reality: The Statistics

According to the National Demographic Health Survey (NDHS) conducted in 2018, domestic violence remains alarmingly prevalent in Nigeria. The survey revealed that:

1. One in Three Women - Yes, you read that correctly. One in every three women in Nigeria has experienced some form of domestic violence, be it physical, emotional, or sexual.

2. Urban vs. Rural Disparities - While domestic violence is pervasive in both urban and rural areas, the NDHS highlights that women in rural areas tend to experience higher rates of domestic violence.

3. Age and Education Factors - Shockingly, young women between the ages of 15 and 24 years are more likely to experience physical violence, and the level of education seems to have little impact on the occurrence of domestic violence.

4. Underreported Cases - Despite these alarming figures, domestic violence cases remain vastly underreported due to the stigma, fear, and lack of awareness surrounding the issue.

Understanding the Cultural Context

To combat domestic violence effectively, it is essential to delve into the cultural context perpetuating this harmful behaviour. Nigeria’s cultural norms often emphasize male dominance and a patriarchal family structure, creating an environment where women may be seen as subservient and subjected to abuse. Challenging these deeply ingrained beliefs and norms becomes crucial to bring about lasting change.

The Impact on Victims and Society

Domestic violence inflicts profound wounds on its victims, leaving scars that extend far beyond physical injuries. The psychological trauma endured by survivors can result in long-term emotional damage, affecting their self-esteem, mental health, and overall wellbeing. Moreover, domestic violence also affects children who witness such abuse, perpetuating a cycle of violence through generations.

The societal impact is equally devastating,

hindering economic progress and straining healthcare and social support systems. Addressing domestic violence becomes not just a moral imperative but a necessary step towards a stronger and more equitable society.

Breaking the Chains: Combating Domestic Violence

1. Awareness and Education - To combat domestic violence, widespread awareness campaigns are essential to challenge prevailing cultural norms and empower individuals to recognise and report abuse.

2. Legal Reforms - Strengthening existing legal frameworks and enforcing laws that protect victims are critical steps in combating domestic violence. It is vital to ensure that perpetrators face the consequences of their actions.

3. Support Services - Establishing comprehensive support services, including shelters, counselling, and hotlines, can provide much-needed assistance to survivors seeking a way out of abusive situations.

4. Community Involvement - Engaging community leaders, religious institutions, and local organisations can foster a collective commitment to ending domestic violence.

Domestic Violence: A Family That Cannot Thrive

Domestic violence can be physical or psychological and can affect anyone of any age, gender, ethnicity, or sexual orientation. It may include behaviours meant to scare, physically harm, or control a partner. And while every relationship is different, domestic violence typically involves an unequal power dynamic in which one partner tries to assert control over the other in various ways.

Nigeria has a deep cultural belief that it is socially acceptable to hit a woman to discipline a spouse. Cases of Domestic violence are on a high and show no signs of reduction in this part of the world, regardless of age, tribe, religion or even social status. According to the CLEEN Foundation reports, one in every three respondents admitted to being a victim of domestic violence. Often backed as a culturally accepted correctional method, Nigerians are not new to the concept of physical violence. The sense of ownership that sees a parent physically abuse their child without repercussions transcends to men hitting their wives only to be met with the question, “What did she do?”

When the news of the passing of famous gospel musician, Osinachi Nwachukwu broke on the 8th of April 2022—the one that made it to mainstream media—Nigerians reopened the conversation on domestic violence. For friends and family, recounting her sad experiences in marriage has been a nightmare. Accounts of how her husband, who doubled as her manager, allegedly hit her consistently, spit on her head and face to show his feelings of disgust towards her, hindered her from recording specific songs and working with certain artists, and

even locked her up in the house, was brought to light. Osinachi’s ordeal sparked a nationwide debate with one question reverberating at the end of each digital town hall session that was held online: Why didn’t she leave?

The Divorce Stigma: A Deadly Price Divorce in Nigeria is not a common practice. If you ask most people about it, they will tell you that divorce is not our culture. So what happens when a marriage is no longer working?

To address the stigma around domestic violence and the eventual solution–divorce, we must discuss society’s fixation on marriage. An abusive marriage often constitutes a perpetrator—who is usually a repeat offender using insults, threats, emotional abuse, and sexual coercion as their tool—and a victim bereft of self-esteem. Some perpetrators may use children or other family members as emotional leverage to get their victims to do what they want. Victims of domestic violence experience diminished self-worth, anxiety, depression, and a general sense of helplessness that can take time and often professional help to overcome.

The easier way out would be to point fingers at a divorce law system that is almost not helpful or enough help facilities for a teeming population of victims of domestic violence. However, one cannot help those who don’t want to be helped. The stigma around legal divorce or just regular separation is at the core of why women would rather remain in an unloving marriage. The sense of helplessness—and uncertainty of where to go after leaving—that most women are presented with is the singular reason why not many women take the plunge. Since marriage has been marketed to women as a sign of fulfilment, and women who don’t end up getting married are often considered a failure, it is not rocket science to see why they would opt to remain in one regardless. After all, nobody wants to be seen as a failure. The same society that tells a woman to run for her dear life is the same one that asks her why she is unmarried at a certain age. The odds are stacked against victims of domestic violence, but we are not too far gone as a people; we can still retrace our steps back to the very beginning to ask questions about the essence of marriage so it becomes clear that although the institution of marriage is a very beautiful one, it is not a do or die affair.

The Ripple Effect: Parenting

There’s collateral damage that comes with an unhappy home, it’s not the

just

couple that suffers. The Nigerian family unit has for so long been one held in high regard by, well, Nigerians. The phrase “this generation” has probably seen its highest usage in the internet’s history. When used in parenting contexts, it is often to address the inappropriate behaviours of children—which is not peculiar to this generation—that end up in the public domain for life.

It seems like it’s now an annual occurrence—an unfortunate trending topic with children at the centre of it. “How have we gotten here?” Is the question on the majority’s lips as they engage, very much fiercely, in the best way to raise children.

Children are vessels waiting to be filled, and that is any parent’s only job—to fill that vessel. No, bad behaviours and immoral acts are not new to this generation. However, they—the kids—are the ones bearing the brunt of having a permanent digital footprint with every ignorance they are caught in. A bad child is a product of bad parenting, and if you don’t know anything about raising a child in today’s digital age, you must know how incredibly difficult it is.

Marriage Culture In Nigeria, a Breeder

In Nigeria, very few things (if anything at all) trump society’s perceived importance of marriage. Especially for women who are believed to be racing against a biological clock, the gospel of marriage has been preached far and wide in over 525 native languages spoken in the country. And because of that, it doesn’t matter what your personal definition of fulfilment is; if you are not married, you are doing life the wrong way. This ideology is very harmful.

Historically, women are raised to aspire to marriage. In a traditional setting, practically everything that a girl is taught from infancy till early adulthood—or in the case of

and culture, many men run their household as a dictatorship instead of a partnership.

victims

of child marriages up north, their preteen years—is how to make and keep a home through tolerance, service and compromise, with the predicted fulfilment that marriage comes within view. As this takes the place of actual women empowerment, most women are not armed with the necessary skill sets to navigate life independently. So marriage is not only socially beneficial, it also has a ridiculously impressive economic value. For most women, this is a nobrainer.

For men, the conversation around marriage is a tad different. Throughout history, men have been raised to see themselves as providers and shot callers. Unlike girls, boys grow up in an environment that doesn’t prepare them for what dealing with a woman is like. When a girl does something questionable, the question is often along the lines of “Is that what you will do in your husband’s house?” Whereas when a boy acts inappropriately, questions of how he intends to treat his future wife are rarely raised. In a society heavy on financial well-being, no economic value is attached to marriages for men. And due to their inflated sense of ego as the perceived providers and the leaders of the pack according to religion

Make no mistake; marriage is beautiful. The older we live, the clearer the need for companionship becomes. “Do you want to die alone?” Is often asked to invoke fear in people who have chosen to remain single. There is no denying that having your own personal person with whom you share similar goals and aspirations can be a useful life hack—navigating life alone could prove to be challenging. An example of some of the perks that come with a loving and lasting relationship is in Joke Silva’s commitment to her 34-year-old marriage to Olu Jacob through his ill-fated dementia ailment. When two people wed, they typically exchange vows that say something to the effect of promising to be together for better and for worse, for richer or for poorer, in good times and bad, and so on, culminating in the phrase “till death do us part.” These words sound so blissful and reassuring that people yearn for that level of love and commitment. But it can also easily go south.

The complexities of each human life make cohabitation somewhat difficult. And because of the power dynamic in a typical heterosexual relationship, faulty communication, and lack of mutual understanding, some marital unions fail the test of time. In Nigeria especially, cases of actual violence in marriages are prevalent, with many undocumented because of the stigma around it.

“For better or worse.” When used in a context other than marriage, these words often imply deep commitment, intentional service and the promise of a lifetime warranty that can only be annulled by the demise of one or both parties involved. “Till death do us part” affirms that inevitable annulment because every living being must die at some point. Of course, we don’t hear of cases outside marriage when these phrases are used, neither in business partnerships, family relationships or friendships. But how did marriage get this immense level of PR that, although different from culture to culture, dictates that each variation of it comes with the swearing of oath—legally or not—to permanence?

Conclusion

As Nigeria marches towards progress and development, it must confront the dark reality of domestic violence head-on. By acknowledging the statistics and stories behind closed doors, we can collectively create a society that cherishes respect, empathy, and compassion. It is time for Nigeria to unite against domestic violence and break the silence, offering hope and healing to those trapped in the shadows.

Together, let us empower survivors and build a future free from the

(1) EMBRACE THE POWER OF GREEN

Plants are the lifeblood of any outdoor oasis. Their impact cannot be underestimated; they purify the air, add beauty and infuse tranquillity into the surroundings. To create a vibrant and harmonious landscape, experiment with a mix of native plants, colourful flowers, and lush foliage. For more creative arrangements, consider incorporating hanging planters and vertical gardens; they also help maximise your space and add a touch of whimsical element.

2) ENCHANTING WATER FEATURES

The soothing sound of flowing water can transport you to a state of serenity. Consider installing a small pond with cascading waterfalls or tranquil fountains. Apart from the fact that these features can help add visual interest to your space, they also create a soothing soundscape that drowns out the outside world’s noise, inviting you to unwind and uncharge.

Outdoor Oasis Transforming Your Outdoor Space into a Relaxing Retreat

BY DORCAS AKINTOYE

Creating an outdoor oasis goes a long way in helping you create a space where you can escape the daily pressure of life. Nothing is more refreshing than immersing yourself in the beauty and serenity of the natural world.

Picture yourself stepping into a lush garden filled with the scents of fragrant herbs and vibrant flowers that dance in the gentle breeze.

In crafting your outdoor oasis, you need to harmonise the elements of design, nature, and personal style. Each aspect plays a role in creating an atmosphere of calm and serenity. You can create a captivating landscape that soothes the mind and invigorates the senses by carefully selecting and arranging plants. Integrate a variety of plants, including tall trees for shade, colourful blooms for visual appeal, and aromatic herbs to stimulate your senses. It is also important to consider adding different textures, colours, and scents; doing that helps in weaving together a tapestry of natural beauty. An outdoor oasis is more than just an aesthetically pleasing space; it allows you to unwind and rejuvenate.

It doesn’t matter whether you already have a sprawling garden or a cosy balcony; the possibilities for creating your outdoor oasis are limitless. You can transform your outdoor space into a haven of tranquillity, a sanctuary that beckons you to unwind, recharge and embrace the peacefulness that nature offers with just a touch of your imagination, a blend of natural elements, and a dash of your style.

(5) AMBIENT LIGHTING

(3) UNCONVENTIONAL SEATING

Forget about the conventional outdoor furniture and explore unique seating options that add a dash of creativity to your oasis. They are so many ways you can go about creating this unique seating. You can hang a swinging daybed from a sturdy tree branch and create a cosy seating nook with colourful floor cushions and rugs. Better still, you can repurpose your old wooden pallets into comfortable benches. Unleash your imagination and make seating an experience in itself.

(4) ARTISTIC ACCENTS

You can inject your style into your outdoor oasis by incorporating artistic accents. Hang unique and vibrant tapestries, install mosaic stepping stones, or adorn your walls with outdoor-friendly sculptures and artworks. These elements help create a conversation-worthy space that reflects your individuality.

You can always extend the magic of your oasis into the evening hours with creative lighting choices. You can do that by stringing fairy lights overhead, placing lanterns along pathways, or installing a solar-powered garden lamp to cast a warm glow. The soft illumination will transform your space into a romantic and enchanting retreat, perfect for a cosy evening spent stargazing or even enjoying conversations with loved ones.

(6) MULTI-FUNCTIONAL SPACES

By creating multi-functional spaces, you can maximise the potential of your outdoor oasis. Create an area for outdoor yoga or meditation, set up a mini herb garden for culinary adventures, or create a cosy reading nook under the shade of a tree. This dedicated space goes a long way in catering to your varied interests and, at the same time, allows you to make the most of your outdoor retreat.

FASHION MUSEUMS AROUND THE WORLD

Exploring The History of Style

BY DORCAS AKINTOYE

In a world where fabrics tell stories of elegance, rebellion, and innovation, fashion museums are a time capsule, helping preserve the rich tapestry of style throughout the ages. Apart from the fact that fashion museums serve as repositories of garments, they are also enchanted spaces where the history of fashion comes alive, captivating the sense and, at the same time, igniting our imagination.

The moment you step into the grand halls of these fashion sanctuaries, you will find yourself surrounded by the footprints of fashion icons and the echoes of trendsetters who worked hard to push boundaries and redefine the essence of style. Each exhibit is a symphony of textures, colours, and silhouettes, telling stories of artistic and societal shifts, revolutions, and the never-ending pursuit of self-expression.

Walking through the galleries, you will encounter the transformative power of fashion, where a single garment can transcend time and transport you to another era. With its shimmering fringe, a flapper dress from the roaring 1920s ignites the spirit of jazz and libration. A tailored suit, reminiscent of the suffragette movement, stands for empowerment and the fight for equality; the list goes on and on. Each piece whispers secrets of the past, weaving a complex narrative that tells us about the ever-evolving human experience.

Fashion musicians are storytellers. They unveil the threads that connect the past with the present, revealing the cultural nuances, political climates, and societal shifts that have shaped the fashion world throughout history. They help celebrate the creativity of legendary designers and the groundbreaking movements that challenged conventions.

1. PALAIS GALLIERA — PARIS, FRANCE

The Palais Galliera, also formally known as the Musée de la Mode de la Ville de Paris (City of Paris Fashion Museum), is a renowned fashion museum that exhibits a diverse collection of French fashion, showcasing the evolution of style and the hard work of iconic designers like Coco Chanel and Christian Dior.

3.MUSEO DEL TRAJE — MADRID, SPAIN

This museum focuses on several Spanish fashion and textiles. They display several traditional garments and accessories that highlight the rich sartorial heritage of Spain. Visitors can explore and admire exhibits that delve into the influence of regional costumes on contemporary fashion.

2.VICTORIA AND ALBERT MUSEUM — LONDON, UNITED KINGDOM

The V&A museum’s fashion galleries showcase an extensive range of fashion and textiles spanning centuries of history. Visitors can admire garments from different eras, including Elizabethan gowns, Victorian Corsets, and contemporary designs.

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.KYOTO COSTUME INSTITUTE — KYOTO, JAPAN

The Kyoto costume institute focuses on preserving and exhibiting traditional Japanese clothing, which includes Kimonos, Obis, and other exquisite garments. The museum’s collection showcases the intricate craftsmanship and timeless beauty of Japanese Fashion.

5.MUSEO SALVATORE FERRAGAMO — FLORENCE, ITALY

Dedicated to the iconic Italian fashion designer, this museum showcases Salvatore Ferragamo’s iconic footwear and accessories collections. The exhibits display the craftsmanship, innovations, and timeless elegance that define the Ferragamo brand.

Literary Legends Meet 7 of Nigeria’s Best Authors

BY KEHINDÉ FAGBULE

Nigeria is a country with a rich literary tradition, and over the years, several authors have emerged to put Nigeria on the global literary map. From Chinua Achebe to Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Nigerian authors have captivated readers with their stories, which explore various themes such as identity, culture, politics, and social issues.

Here, we take a closer look at some of the top Nigerian authors and the biggest books out of Nigeria.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie is a Nigerian author and feminist icon. Her books, including Purple Hibiscus, Half of a Yellow Sun, and Americanah, have won numerous awards and have been translated into dozens of languages. Adichie’s writing often explores issues of race, gender, and identity in contemporary Nigeria and the African diaspora. Her work has been instrumental in shaping contemporary African literature.

Chinua Achebe

Chinua Achebe is perhaps the most wellknown Nigerian author. His most famous book, Things Fall Apart, published in 1958, is a classic work of African literature. The book tells the story of Okonkwo, a respected leader in his community whose life is thrown into turmoil by the arrival of colonialism. Things Fall Apart is a poignant commentary on the impact of colonialism on traditional African societies and remains one of the most widely read African novels today.

Wole Soyinka

Wole Soyinka is a Nigerian playwright, poet, and novelist. He was the first African to be awarded the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1986. Soyinka’s works often explore the intersection of politics, culture, and power in Nigeria. His most famous play, Death and the King’s Horseman, published in 1975, is a powerful critique of colonialism and the clash between traditional African beliefs and European ideals.

Chinelo Okparanta

Chinelo Okparanta is a Nigerian-American author. Her debut novel, Under the Udala Trees, published in 2015, tells the story of a young Nigerian woman, Ijeoma, who falls in love with another woman during the Nigerian Civil War. The book explores themes of love, identity, and religion in Nigeria and has been widely praised for its powerful storytelling and nuanced portrayal of LGBTQ+ characters.

Helon Habila

Helon Habila is a Nigerian author and poet. His most famous novel, Oil on Water, published in 2010, is a gripping tale of two journalists sent to investigate the kidnapping of a British oil engineer in the Niger Delta. The book explores the oil industry’s impact on the local communities in Nigeria and has been praised for its vivid portrayal of the region’s political and social complexities.

Buchi Emecheta

Buchi Emecheta was a Nigerian author who passed away in 2017. Her works often explored the experiences of women in post-colonial Nigeria. Her most famous book, The Joys of Motherhood, published in 1979, tells the story of Nnu Ego, a Nigerian woman who struggles to balance the demands of motherhood.

Ben Okri

Ben Okri is a Nigerian poet and novelist. His most famous work, The Famished Road, published in 1991, won the Booker Prize and cemented Okri’s place as one of Nigeria’s top authors. The book tells the story of Azaro, a spirit child who is torn between the world of the living and the dead. The Famished Road is a lyrical and magical tale that explores themes of identity, poverty, and spirituality in Nigeria.

Movie Premiere Barbie

BY KEHINDÉ FAGBULE

With this summer’s blockbuster, Barbie released a fortnight ago, Lagos joined the rest of the world in going pink for the premiere. The glamourous event at the Filmhouse IMAX Cinema was nothing short of a vibe as celebrities did justice to the title-inspired “Barbie Glam Galore” dress code as instructed. In a typical fashion, Nigerians showed up and showed out. Here are some of the best looks on the pink carpet.

Saskay

Pretty Mike

Derin

KieKie

Ohimai Atafo

Idia Aisien

BY BOLUWATIFE ADESINA

MOVIE REVIEW:

Barbie

Greta Gerwig’s Barbie movie has been dominating the globe with a sprawling and spectacular marketing campaign that is impossible to ignore. Now that the film is finally in theatres, can it possibly live up to the hype of anticipation? It’s complicated.

In some regards, Barbie is exactly what fans online frothing over the Barbie Selfie Generator and those true-to-doll red carpet looks desire. Gerwig – with the assistance of an army of incredible craftspeople – has made Barbieland a marvellous reality of towering dreamhouses, flawless fashion, and violently pink everything. Margot Robbie and Ryan Gosling are masterfully paired as “Stereotypical Barbie and Ken,” not only achieving the improbable physical perfection of this iconic duo but also capturing the juvenile whimsy one might assume they possess.

Plus, there’s plenty of daffy humour tied to how kids play with Barbie and some of Mattel’s less glamorous moments. But the plot carefully hidden in the trailers, clips, junket videos, and music videos may throw many for a loop. And that’s pretty incredible in its own right.

A brief intro proposes that Barbie has been an icon, inspiring girls and solving all the problems of sexism — well, as far as the residents of Barbieland, a female-led utopia, know, anyway.

In Barbieland, Barbies are doctors, lawyers, construction workers, Pulitzer prize winners, and the president. Every day is perfect, beginning with a great night’s sleep and a charming morning routine of costume change and heart-shaped waffle, and every night ends with a massive dance party, followed by a “girls’ night”— no Kens allowed. (While Barbies do anything and everything, Kens “beach.”) But all of this seeming perfection begins to unravel when Stereotypical Barbie (Robbie) asks

abruptly, mid-choreographed groupdance number, “Do you guys ever think about dying?”

Soon, her sleep isn’t so restful. Her breakfast is burnt. Her perfectly arched feet go flat. She seeks counsel from “Weird Barbie” (a perfectly cast Kate McKinnon), who tells her that the girl playing with her in the Real World is in crisis, and it’s up to Barbie to go there and help her. Ken (Gosling) will come along for the ride, whether Barbie likes it or not.

Barbie has long been a promise and a pitfall for women. On the one hand, she tells girls they can be anything they dream of. On the other hand, she is a standard to which we can never live up to with her unrealistic curves, her unflappable smile, her entirely bespoke wardrobe, and her ability to be absolutely anything — with no impediments of institutionalised prejudice to hold her back.  Incredibly, Barbie tackles a lot of this terrain. Barbieland is an inclusive place, made up of Barbies who are people of colour, and disabled Barbies with aids like wheelchairs and prosthetic limbs. It’s a dizzying delight to see all of these women working blissfully together, living their best fantasy lives, where their basic rights aren’t under attack (and everything looks cute).

When Barbie visits the Real World, however, she confronts a rude awakening of catcalls, sexual harassment, and a Mattel boardroom full of businessmen talking down to her. From here, the film becomes direct in its discussion of sexism and the problems of patriarchy.

The dialogue on these points ranges from comically broad to personal but generally has a “Feminism 101” vibe to it. It seems Gerwig’s chief focus with Barbie is to give voice to the girls and young women encountering the sexist double standards put upon them by using a doll that’s been a blessing and a curse on that point. It’s a candy-coated intro to feminism.

To one character, Barbie is a symbol of outdated and unfair standards women are shackled by; to another, she’s a radiant symbol of the potential women possess if only given the chance to shine. This conflict not only propels the plot — and Barbie’s own identity crisis — but also allows for another political paradox in this big-budget studio movie with glossy IP.

It’s easy to be cynical about movies based on toys, as one might rightly assume they’re chiefly produced for merchandising. It’s hard to argue Barbie doesn’t play into that, as Barbie-mania sweeps the globe with a massive array of tie-in products. Even within the movie, specific clothes and dolls get loving, kitschy close-ups. But incredibly, within what is a two-hour commercial for Barbie dolls and all hyper-feminine fashion accessories, Gerwig builds a thread about the evils of consumerism and the problems with Barbie. A politically minded tween (Ariana Greenblatt) goes on a diatribe about the problems with the doll, giving a swift voice to many of Barbie’s detractors.

But more powerfully, the third act challenges the concept that our identities are made of what we own. Even in Barbieland, consumerism and the obsession with stuff is called into question, which feels pretty radical for a toy movie.

On the press tour, Gerwig has repeatedly noted she found inspiration in classic Hollywood musicals. And that is clear in Barbieland with its gorgeous handpainted backdrops, the 2001: A Space Odyssey  parody, the pink brick road (a nod to The Wizard of Oz), and all the  flashy dance numbers that evoke classic musical performances.

8/10

Billie Eilish - Billie Bossa Nova

Billie Eilish - What Was I Made For_ [From The Motion Picture _Barbie_]

Etta James - At Last

Lizzo - Pink

Snoh Aalegra - I Want You Around

Janelle Monáe - A Dry Red

Tony Bennett_ Lady GagaCheek To Cheek

Dua Lipa - Dance The Night (From Barbie The Album)

Ryan Gosling - I’m Just Ken

JMSN - ‘Bout It