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Brain food: We try to get in at least one serving of fish per week and preferably two. This issue's recipe of the week (back page) for salmon on lentils looks most excellent, and about as easy as it gets. (Costco, of all places, has excellent deals on quality fish, which, of course, freezes very well.) Hey, speaking of the sea, do you know where we might find fresh pompano fish? Drop me a note: publisher@ thevoiceofpelham.ca...The calm before the swarm: Just a few more days until the school buses are back. Enjoy it while you can. See you next week. 4
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Carter Franklin is encouraged by the enthusiastic response to his idea. “I expect this will be an annual event,” he said.
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Nineteenth century selfies: The Pelham Historical Society has put together a new display at the Fonthill Library featuring a collection of 19th century photographs. The images are from the PHS collection, and although the identities of the individuals are not known, it is believed they were Pelham settlers or relatives of Pelham settlers from the mid-to-late 1800s. The collection includes daguerreotypes, albumen prints, carte de visites, ambrotypes, tintypes, and cabinet cards. The Society’s Carolyn Botari says stop on by and maybe you’ll see a familiar face or two...You mean as in egg whites? Yes, that albumen. Egg whites and salt were emulsified and applied to sheets of paper, then dried. This was the first and most commercially feasible method of photo printing in the 1800s, lasting into the early 1900s. A carte de visite was, as even my rudimentary French tells me, a visiting card, namely a photo of oneself the size of a large business card, and these were traded among the gentlefolk. (This probably explains why there are so many pint-sized pics of my own ancestors in those boxes…) Finally, an ambrotype was the 1800s equivalent of a Polaroid—a one-off image, produced directly on a glass sheet fitted into the camera. After black backing velvet was applied, the image could be seen in reflected light. Humans and their ingenuity, eh...Speaking of photographers: You may have noticed some particularly striking images in the paper over the last couple of weeks. These have been courtesy of Robert Van Deemter, who especially enjoys coming out to the summer bandshell music series. Thanks, Robert!...A noted coincidence: It’s a trifecta, of sorts, this week, as all three Pelham-related sexual assault cases are in the news at once: Duncan the doctor, Lowes the butcher, and Ottaway the former CAO. Men in positions of authority and privilege. Duncan is convicted yet walks free as his case is appealed. The presumption of innocent-until-proven-guilty applies to the other two. No father reading this week’s story about Duncan, starting on page 10, will come away from it minus dark thoughts indeed. But that’s what the legal system is for—despite the decades-long delay in justice being served...
Pelham Fire Department responded to 16 calls for assistance from Friday, August 12 to Friday, August 19. Saturday, August 13 Detector activation, Pelham St., Station 1 Medical assistance, Station 2 Medical assistance, Station 1 Motor vehicle collision, Canboro Rd., Station 2 Detector activation, Canboro Rd., Station 2 Structure fire, Edwards Ave., Station 1 Motor vehicle collision,
Realtor Ian Carter Franklin and his family moved to Fonthill from Stoney Creek in January of this year, and were eager to engage with their new community. They connected with locals on a Facebook residents group, and came up with the idea of an outdoor movie night for the neighbourhood. Carter Franklin set the date as Friday, August 26, at 8 PM, in the large green space behind A.K. Wigg Public School, on Haist PreferredStreet.movies were solicited online, and the crowd favorite was Sing 2, a 2021 computer-animated jukebox comedy film that has grossed some $400 million dollars worldwide, and received positive reviews from critics. The film stars an ensemble voice cast including Matthew McConaughy, Reese Witherspoon, Scarlett Johansson, and Nick Offerman, reprising their roles from the first movie. Although many of the local families in the Haist and Canboro area have children enrolled at A.K. Wigg, the school is not involved in the event. Carter Franklin paid for a permit through the District School Board of Niagara, and has also arranged local sponsors to offset the evening’s costs. A 30-foot screen has been sourced on which to project the film. “At this point, we're expecting at least 400 people,” said Carter Franklin. “We've got free parking, free popcorn, free water, and the school washrooms are available for use. People can bring their own chairs and snacks if they want. I'm going to be there at seven o'clock setting up, and we’ll have a little bit of music playing, and a few draw prizes before the movie starts.”
The Rice Rd., Station 1 Sunday, August 14 Medical assistance, Station 1 Tuesday, August 16 Ruptured gas line, Hwy 20 W, Station 1 Motor vehicle collision, Pelham St., Station 1 Motor vehicle collision, Effingham St., Station 3 Motor vehicle collision, Weber Rd., Station 2 Wednesday, August 17 Grass fire, Center St. Station 3 Burning complaint, Woodstream Blvd. Station 1 Thursday, August 18 Emergency assistance call, Emmett St., Station 1 Friday, August 19 Detector activation, Bacon Lane, Station 1
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Builders and brothers Ed and Rob Lucchetta presented a cheque for $10,000 to arches fundraisers and Rotarians Frank Adamson and Paul Snack last Friday afternoon, in the shadow of the structure. “My brother Rob and I took over the family business from our parents, and have been running it for the last 25 years,” said Ed Lucchetta. “We grew up in Welland and Pelham, and Rob still lives here. We’re born and bred in the area, and make our living here. It’s great to be able to give back to the community.” Some new funding from a yet-to-be announced government source will provide money for a fourth arch, to be added soon, according to Adamson. The Irwin Taylor Charitable Foundation has also pledged a significant new sum, he said DON RICKERS
Nine decades young: Our own periodic poet Shirley Lazareth turned 90 yesterday—Happy Birthday, Shirley! She’s now the same age as Angie Dickinson, but just a pup compared to Gena Rowlands (92), Gina Lollobrigida (95), Angela Lansbury (96), and Eva Marie Saint (98!)...
BY VOICE STAFF Mark Evans, lawyer for accused Rick Lowes, briefly appeared in Welland virtual court last Friday, August 19, before Justice Nancy Rogers-Bain. He told the court that he was having ongoing difficulties arranging a Crown pre-trial meeting (CPT), and asked for a new court date of September 23 at 9 AM, by which time he expected the CPT will have taken place. Justice Rogers-Bain allowed the request. August 19 was the 20th proceeding in this matter, which has now been 17 months before the courts.
Lowes, 66, was charged with three counts of sexual assault and one count of sexual interference with a person under 16 in March of 2021. He owns and operates the Country Corner Market, at Quaker Road and Line Avenue in Fonthill, and has supported numerous charitable causes in Pelham and Niagara with food donations in the past. Lowes was named the 2008 Fonthill and District Kinsmen Club’s Citizen of the Year. A publication ban prohibits the disclosure of any information about the alleged victims that may lead to their identification.
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Municipal nominations close Only one of three Pelham wards is competitive
Lowes case: 20th hearing another delay in alleged sexual assault matter
Candidate nominations closed at 2 PM last Friday, and established the political battle lines for the upcoming autumn municipal election in Pelham. Advance polls will be held on October 1, 15, and 18, with election day on October 24. Each of three wards elects two councillors, while the entire town votes for Mayor and Regional Councillor.Incumbent Marvin Junkin will face local Rotarian and well known community activist Frank Adamson for the Mayor’s chair, while incumbent Councillor John Wink must contend with three challengers in Ward 2: Colin McCann, Brian Eckhardt, and Carla Baxter (who ran unsuccessfully for Mayor in 2018.)
Since only two candidates put their names forward in both Ward 1 and Ward 3, those four councillors-to-be will be acclaimed. Incumbent Wayne Olson will return to council in Ward 1, joined by newcomer Kevin Ker. In Ward 3, incumbent Bob Hildebrandt will be at the table alongside Shellee Niznit.Notably absent in the races are controversial incumbent Town Councillors Ron Kore, Lisa Haun, and Marianne Stewart, representing three-quarters of the faction dubbed the “Gang of Four,” along with Bob Hildbrandt, for their tendency to vote as a bloc. Diana Huson hopes to return as Pelham’s representative on Niagara Regional Council, but faces opposition from Fred Sarvis and Wally IncumbentBraun.English Public School Board Trustee Nancy Beamer also faces challengers: Linda Borland, Lisa Fucile, and Rene Nand. The Voice will seek to present profiles and interviews with all candidates in the coming weeks.
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Most of us have heard enough about this issue to last us a lifetime. In spite of that, climate experts suggest that the timeline to an irreversible disaster may be shorter than many of us realize. But have we listened to those precautionary predictions? More importantly, are we making changes to our damaging ways? Apparently not enough. Our recent extreme weather events are proof positive that we ignored Mother Nature’s earlier warnings. And now she may be beginning to lose patience and taking more drastic measures to get us to pay attention. Even in our little burg of Fonthill, Mother Nature recently sent a stormy message in the form of a warning that resulted in a lengthy power outage. She admonishes us to listen more intently if we want to avoid the intensification of theTheredamages.isan ever-growing list of natural warnings to choose from. How about the melting of the ice pack in our northern regions? Nope. That doesn’t effect or have a direct impact on most of us so let’s light up another smoke stack or unadvisedly burn even more carbon fuel. How about ocean warming and the pollution of those vast bodies of water? Nope. Very few of us live, work, or play near these waters so why should we notice or care. Mother Nature warns about the depleting fish stocks that many rely on to stave off hunger. Why worry about the tons of one-use plastic products we dump into the oceans annually. Outta sight, outta mind seems to be our mantra. Oh, and what about the forest fires raging across our continent? Across Europe? Experts claim these are fed by the abnormal heat waves that dry the forest and provide fuel for these uncontrollable tinder boxes. Nope. Again, the smoke and ashes do not disrupt most of us going about our business so we don’t need to heed the alarm bell that Mother Nature is ringing to awaken us. Each day, many of us take in our first deep breath by reaching for an aerosol puffer on the bedside table. After years of breathing air polluted with toxicants of all sorts many of us have damaged our lungs to the point where we need to medicate to breathe. Did we take the time to determine the causes of such deplorable conditions? Nope. That to seems to be too much of a bother for too many of us. There are many perilous conditions that should awaken us to change our ways but to our own peril we continue to ignore these signals that warn and threaten our futures. To change our habits and take better care of our environment seems too out of reach yet for too many of us.
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Let us hope that Mother Nature doesn’t give up on us and will be gentle in helping us to see the error of our ways. 4
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I would like to thank all the volunteers that stepped up to help the North Pelham community picnic be the success that it was! From the kitchen staff, who did an outstanding job in their preparation, the burger flippers, the wagon /stage on which Copper and Iron did an outstanding performance, the morning set-up and take-down crew, The Third Scouts of Fonthill for the parking duties and expediting the clean up. And mostly our community for their attendance and support, also our local merchants for their generous donations making this event a first time success—thank you one and all!
There's a song for that During the early ‘60s, when we were in the midst of the Cuban Missile Crisis, my friend Jim was looking at plans for building a fallout shelter in the basement of his house, so he could save his family from the nuclear war that was looming ahead for the world. He bought canned food and stored it in the fruit cellar so he could be prepared for the inevitable crisis. Fortunately, JFK prevailed and the world was spared. Since I am a ‘60s girl and grew up with folk music and rock and roll, I remember a song that fit that situation. It is “The Merry Minuet,” also known by its first line: They’re rioting in Africa. (Google the lyrics and watch the Kingston Trio sing it). The last stanza goes like this: But we can be tranquil and thankful and proud, for man’s been endowed with a mushroom shaped cloud, and we know for certain that some lovely day, someone will set the spark off, and we will all be blown away! They’re rioting in Africa, there’s strife in Iran, what nature doesn’t do to us, will be done by our fellow man. So here we are, in 2022, in a climate change crisis and with a war in Ukraine. The Russians have control of the nuclear power plant in Zaporizhzhia and who knows who has their finger on the red button. Of course, this reminds me of different lyrics: Where have all the flowers gone— gone to graveyards every one. When will they ever learn, when will they ever learn?
Granted, people sporting windchime earrings or headto-toe tattoos are probably fishing for comments; but most of us who are finally experiencing a good day aren’t in the market for some clown to sympathize, “Hey, you look tired, buddy. And your parade looks soggy, too.”Ifyou want to think positively, convince yourself that your friends, family and acquaintances are just gilding the lily and stroking your ego when they deliver an unsolicited pointer. More realistically, they probably think, “He’s a dumpster fire, but at least I can toast a few marshmallows.”Myanxieties constitute a double whammy. On the one hand, I worry that my slightly askew shirt collar will sully the family name for eternity. (Didn’t Dante Alighieri scribble something about “Abandon all hope, ye who miss buttoning a button”?) On the other hand, I ponder whether “if you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em” is the guiding force of the universe. Is there some social compact that requires each of us to play “color-code the armpit hairs” with everyone we encounter? No. I refuse to believe that. Someday we’ll outgrow the darting eyes and the snap judgments. Someday “mind your own beeswax” will be our guiding principle. “I couldn’t help but notice, your beeswax is dusted with the sort of pollen that went out of style last year…” Sigh. 4 Tyree
www.thevoiceofpelham.ca The Voice A August 24 2022 Page 5 OPINION Anyone with eyes can plainly S E Advertising in the Voice works! advertising@thevoiceofpelham.ca TellNEWSFLASHusyourstory! Column Six presents tales of personal triumph, adventure, strange-but-true stories, life-changing events, and looks-back at our past. Did you conquer Everest or kick a bad habit? Everyone has a story. Tell us yours! NOW ALSO ACCEPTING FICTION— SHORT STORIES UP TO 4000 WORDS! Write it down, send it publisher@thevoiceofpelham.cain: (You won’t get rich, but you will get paid.) Reflecting on Women’s Advisory Committee SERVING NIAGARA AND SURROUNDING REGIONS SIDING I SOFFIT I FASCIA I WINDOWS I DOORS I TRIM INTERIOR AND MATTHEWRENOVATIONSEXTERIORVANDERVELDE GENERAL CANADIANCARPENTRY19@GMAIL.COM226-820-1261CONTRACTORWWW.CANADIANCARPENTRY.CA Should “eyes up here” be enforced? "He's a dumpster fire, but at least I can toast a marshmallows"few Dr. Bohdan Hrynyk Dental Surgeon Pelham Hills Family905-892-5002DentistryDentistry NEW PATIENTS WELCOME 1428 Pelham Street, Fonthill1405 South Pelham, Fonthill • 905-892-5191 Dr. Ann Volk Dr. Randy Pauls Dr. Jeanette Ngo Optometrists Mon, Wed • 8am - 5:30pm Tue • 8 am - 7pm Thu • 8:45am - 7pm Fri • 8am - 4:30pm Professional SERVICES DirectoryNick’s Cleaners FONTHILL Mon, Tues, Thurs, Fri: 8 AM - 6 PM Sat: 9 AM - 1 PM | Closed Wed WELLAND Tues, Wed, Thurs, Fri: 8:30 AM - 5 PM Sat: 8:30 AM - 12:30 PM | Closed Mon Paul V. D’Amico PAUL@NICKSCLEANERS.COM Visit www.nickscleaners.com for DAILY SPECIALS Did you know that your right rear tire is a little underinflated?” I harbor a grudging appreciation for a potentially life-saving hint like that. I mean, it makes me feel like an idiot that I can stare at the tire, repeatedly kick it and still need a gauge to verify what someone standing 150 yards away in a hailstorm recognized immediately. But I do swallow my pride and express gratitude. Not so much with “Hey, you got your ears lowered” and other impertinent observations. I suffered more than my share of insecurities and embarrassments during school, so I currently lead a life of quiet desperation. I just want to stay under the radar and survive another day without umpteen people “helpfully” pointing out my every physical blemish or fashion faux pas. “I couldn’t help but notice” is the icebreaker for many a would-be benefactor. Yes, if you’re utilizing a ladder, spotlight, binoculars and bloodhound to scrutinize someone, you probably can’t help but notice. Sure, if a 12-pack of Charmin is following me from the public restroom, stage an intervention. But I consider it a microaggression to be notified about every almost-untied shoestring, elbow smudge or crammedin-a-boot pants leg that disrupts someone’s OCD worldview.
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The Committee also recommended Regional participation in the 16 Days of Activism campaign against gender-based violence, in response to a delegation from the Canadian Federation of University Women. The campaign is an internationally recognized initiative that brings attention to gender-based violence, strengthens support for local work in this field and brought attention to an issue that became more pronounced during pandemic lockdowns. Lockdown requirements meant that victims of home-based violence were isolated with their abusers. Additionally, distancing requirements either made shelter space restricted or unavailable at this crucial time. It was an incredibly timely campaign and it was also the first time the Niagara Region had participated. The campaign included
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REGIONALCOUNCILUPDATE by Diana Huson, Niagara Regional Councillor (Pelham) Early in this term of council, I was successful in creating a new Women's Advisory Committee that was tasked with considering ways to address the underrepresentation of women in public office, but also to consider the unique economic, social and cultural experiences of women that are directly impacted by public policy decisions. The Committee came together in 2020 after a very competitive application process (nearly 60 individuals applied to participate) and met entirely virtually over the past two years. It had representation from all areas of Niagara, a variety of organizations and backgrounds. The Committee was successful in making a number of recommendations that were adopted by council. One such initiative included adopting gender-based-plus analysis (GBA+) training across the organization. GBA+ is an internationally recognized policy and research tool used by a number of organizations to examine how different populations are affected by government decisions. The tool helps government to determine if any group benefits more than others. It was an important exercise to create a more inclusive organization but also to reflect on how we deliver services and ways to improve to ensure that diverse voices are more adequately captured in the delivery of the Region's services or interaction with our staff.
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It’s particularly galling when do-gooders possess a blind spot for precancerous growths and tell-tale heart attack indicators but catalog (and gossip about) every dangling booger they’ve ever witnessed.Asimple “good morning” is sufficient. I don’t require “The current temperature is 72 degrees and with the Slob Index, that will feel like…” Listen to my joke, news flash or cry for help. Appreciate my smile. Interpret my hand gestures. But focus. Don’t try multitasking by simultaneously scanning everything about my hair, clothing, body and aura, in the equivalent of an 18-point-inspection oil change. I’m especially creeped out by observations about the real or imagined status of my pants zipper. Seriously, if you “couldn’t help but notice” my fly-adjacent body zone, keep the ladder, spotlight, binoculars, bloodhound and candy – I’m still not getting in your van.
I’m an orphan. Not literally, as my late parents embraced the daunting task of raising their natural offspring rather well. I’m a political and emotional orphan, a saddened figure wandering in no-man’s land and lamenting the lack of belonging. Because I’m the sort of person we read about in modern history. Liberal, social democratic, progressive Christian, looking to a left formed more by Methodism than Marx, seeking to be motivated more by love for the oppressed than hatred for the oppressor. I think that capitalism needs to be controlled by ethical governments, and parliamentary democracy refined through a moral filter. I support charitable causes, I find Dickensian optimism to be moving rather than maudlin, and I’m optimistic about human nature. Which to the new and hard left makes me part of the problem and not the solution. As an Anglican priest I’m privileged to still see the best of humanity, often produced by the worst of human suffering. Soup kitchens, shelters, hospices, home visits, funerals. As a journalist, however, I see something else: a fierce and increasingly intolerant polarization that lacks the gorgeously softening qualities of empathy and humour. Dehumanize your opponent, turn your critic into a cartoon of evil, generalize, marginalize, and dismiss. When I left conservatism nine years ago I was canceled by more people than I can even recall. The cancel culture of the left is undeniable, and the social media mobbing of even moderately conservative figures has become invincibly predictable. But the right too often reacts by refusing to embrace their own history of power and censorship, and by failing to listen to the pain of, for example, Black or trans people who have been eliminated from the public square for most of their lives. There is none so angry as a true believer scorned. I was fired, dismissed, subjected to campaigns to have editors and program managers never use me again. Those who believe in exclusive truth, right and left, have far more in common than they would like to believe — it’s just that the stacked deck of history has been given a reshuffle and the left now has the strongest cards.To judge an entire movement or community by the extreme actions of some of its most strident adherents is misleading and unjust. I’ve met many trans people in the last five years and their lives have routinely been ones of physical violence, abuse, family rejection, and often appalling degrees of self-harm. They’re too busy trying to cope with their own pain to spend time silencing those who oppose them. So there is a temptation to retreat into tribal safety and that’s entirely understandable. There is security is consensus, warmth and peace in the reassurance of congratulation. But I’m not sure if comfort is what it’s all about at this point. It would be much easier for me to choose a team and damn the gang at the other end of the field. But that would be to deny their uniqueness, to see them as the “other,” and to inevitably and exponentially divide the world into good and bad, right and wrong. A twisted Manichaeism that can only lead to disaster. I won’t dismiss British Brexiteers as brutes or Remainers as elitists, and even though I struggle I refuse to condemn Trump supporters as demons. I believe that the former US President caused profound harm to his country, and hope and pray that he remains out of office. But then there’s my dear friend, a south Asian Muslim gay woman, who was introduced to her wife by her loving and kind next-door neighbour—who is a Trump man through and through. Nuance is hard, being shouted at as a compromiser by both sides is unpleasant, and it may well be that the men and women who worked so that a working-class Essex boy like me could have free school milk, a National Health Service, fully funded university education, a safety net and a good job with opportunities, would today find themselves in the political wilderness. Perhaps it’s not such a terrible place to be. Flee the person who has all of the answers, embrace those who ask the questions, and listen rather than react. Being a progressive or an old-style radical will not win me an election or even many friends but I’m staying put. Pathetic, sad, and lacking in realism? Possibly, even probably. But that’s the way it is and I’m not moving. Even more to the point, I really do rather like it. 4
A castaway on Moderation Island
"So there is a temptation to retreat into tribal safety"
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On behalf of the Board of Directors of Pelham Advocates for Trees and Habitat (PATH) along with many concerned citizens of Pelham, we would like to make clear our position on the proposed Comprehensive Zoning Bylaw that will come before you to vote on at the Regular Council Meeting on August 22, 2022. We recognize the work that has gone into strengthening environmental protections from what exists in the current Zoning Bylaw for the Town of Pelham; however, this new proposed bylaw does not go far enough in its climate change mitigation, or in making environmental best practices mandatory in zoning and development decisions. It does not reflect as serious a consideration of the impacts of the climate crisis and of extreme weather events as is warranted. For this reason, from our position of environmental advocacy, we do not fully endorse the new Comprehensive Zoning Bylaw. We recognize the added protections the new Zoning Bylaw offers for EP1, EP2, and EP3 designations. We hold Ms. Wiens and Town Planning staff to their word that these designations will safeguard against the development of environmentally sensitive lands within Pelham in a way that the current bylaw does not. We also note the assurance that has been repeatedly given that the new Comprehensive Zoning Bylaw is a living document, and can be amended on an ongoing basis. It must be appropriately stringent and forward-thinking in its climate mitigation and adaptation, policy and planning as the climate crisis intensifies. If the Zoning Bylaw passes on August 22, we will approach our councillors to discuss motions for amendments to be put forward at a future council meeting. We respectfully ask you to represent the best interests of the residents of Pelham by remaining responsive to our efforts to improve this bylaw, viewing future development in our town through a climate change action lens.
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Cycling
Pelham volunteers ensure Canada Summer Games road race success event last Thursday started and finished in downtownFonthill
BY DON RICKERS
Mike President/ChairJonesPATH Council
Contributing News Editor
Above, and the women are off, running six loops of the course. Right, race fans arrive DON RICKERS DEEMTER
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Niagara’s hosting of the 2022 Canada Summer Games may have been delayed a year by Covid, but well worth the wait, according to spectators and athletes. Featuring 18 sports and some 250 events at 19 venues throughout the region, the Games involved 5000 athletes, coaches, support staff, and volunteers. It was the first time in two decades years that the Games were held in Ontario, showcasing Canada’s future generation of Olympians and Paralympians.Roadcycling has been part of every Canada Summer Games since 1969, and is one of the few sports to have been featured in the Olympics since its inception. Four men and four women cyclists from each province participated in the Canada Summer Games road race hosted by Pelham last Thursday, starting and finishing by the new arches above Pelham Town Square. The women’s race of 69 kilometres was held in the morning, and involved six loops of the course through Pelham in perfect weather. Laury Milette, of Quebec, finished first in 1:58.32, followed by Anabelle Thomas, of Alberta, and Isla Walker, of British Columbia. In the men’s 110 kilometre road race held in the afternoon, which included nine loops of the route amid a rainy downpour, David Olejnczak, of Ontario, took the gold in
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2:45.20, with Charles Duquette, of Quebec, finishing second, and Braden Kersey, of British Columbia finishing third. Kevin Anzik, the Sport Lead for the Summer Games cycling races, told the Voice that the men’s race in particular was a nail-biter. “In the men’s race, the riders had gone maybe three laps when it started to rain,” said Anzik. “By that point, four riders had broken away from the peloton [the main body of racers] and were leading the pack by more than a kilometre. With the downpour making the corners so treacherous, there was no way those in the pack were going to catch the front four without risking a crash. With five laps gone, one of the leaders got a cramp and had the withdraw, so it was just the group of three in the front for the last five laps. The Ontario racer [Olejnczak] put on a burst right at the end of the race, and beat the second place rider by the length of a bike wheel. It was incredible.”
Pelham transportation activist and volunteer Bea Clark was the protocol lead for all six of the cycling competitions at the Games, responsible for the medal ceremonies. She told the Voice that the road race was staffed by about 80 volunteers, all with very specific roles. “It was a long day,” she said. “I was there from seven in the morning until eight at night. It was all very exciting, with the three medalists in both races finishing within seconds of each other. And the ‘13 for 13’ cultural celebrations in Peace Park were jam-packed, with people really enjoying themselves.”
Clark said that there were a couple of bike accidents during the racing, but no serious injuries.
Top and bottom left, racers en route. Bottom right, Pelham Mayor Marvin Junkin drapes a Gold medal around first place women's finisher, Laury Millette, of Quebec
Anzik was effusive in his praise for the local volunteers.“TheAmici Per La Vida Cycling Club, from Fonthill, was amazing. Because they know the course and they know the town, I was able to really utilize their skills and their knowledge in running the event. They were such good people, and hard workers! Even the police said to me after the race, what a terrific job the course marshals did.”
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As a teenager, Kirstyn's parents were family friends of the Duncan family, and Kirstyn babysat
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Kirstyn said that after she read the first article about the Duncan case, she stopped pulling her hair for over a year. Aside from a brief relapse into Trichotillomania as she attended the sentencing, for the most part “something hap pened, a lightness… the sentenc ing helped. I’m in a really good placeAfternow.”the incident in the spring of 1990, Kirstyn would connect with other victims in the commu nity and hear about yet others who had also allegedly been assaulted by Duncan. There was a com monly known nickname given to him by many within the Pelham community, say Kirstyn and her mother: “Dr. Touchy,” and that women and girls were warned not to go see him if they had just mi nor colds or a sore throat, lest he “take their tops off.” Over the years, Kirstyn would continue to be haunted by what happened to her, and after de tailed reflection, she came to be lieve that Duncan had attempted to groom her from a young age. Grooming is defined as any at tempt to become friends with a child or minor with the specific intention of persuading or influ encing the child to have a sexual relationship in the future. Kirstyn described her healing journey as “a long road,” and up until this point she had only told her mother and a few others about the incident—out of a desire to protect her privacy, that of other family members, and of her chil dren. Another factor that influenced Kirstyn to come forward so many years later, aside from the intent to support the other victims, was the fact that Duncan was released on bail pending his appeal, serv ing very briefly as an inmate at the Central North Correctional Centre, in Penetanguishene, be fore his release. His current part ner, Barbara Vyrostko, and his son Callum Duncan, posted bonds of $10,000 each and are listed as sureties. Conditions of the bail order include counseling, resid ing with his partner and surety, Vryostko, and advising anyone entering the home of his convic tions and the conditions of his re lease. Duncan cannot communi cate or be within 50 metres of any of the women named in the legal action, or their immediate fami lies. He is also barred from being in the physical presence of any person under the age of 16, un less one of his sureties is present. He cannot attend any public area or place where persons under the age of 16 are present or expected to be present, again unless he is with one of his sureties. Nonetheless, the Voice under stands that Duncan has travelled alone from Vryostko’s home in Port Robinson to downtown Font hill, stopping into the Canada Post location on Pelham Town Square, opposite Peace Park, where youth oftenThecongregate.Voicerequested comment for this story from Duncan’s law yers, their assistants, and from Duncan himself through Barba ra Vryostko. These requests went
With the support of her mother as well as her partner, she mus tered the courage to attend Dun can’s sentencing in June. There, she “talked to one of the youngest victims,” and was approached by the other complainants, who ex pressed curiosity about who she was. Kirstyn made the decision to tellSincethem.her alleged assault by Duncan occurred over a decade prior to the earliest incident for which he was charged, it meant that Duncan was allegedly prey ing on women well before the 20 years that the criminal charges spanned.“Theyoungest victim looked at me,” said Kirstyn, “and she said, ‘You are the missing puzzle piece.’” According to Kirstyn, this vic tim had heard of her —she was known as “The Babysitter”—and had been trying to locate her for manyBothyears.Kirstyn and the youngest victim found their experiences, in Kirstyn’s words, “eerily similar.” Since the assaults, both women have suffered from an impulse control disorder called Trichotil lomania, which involves compul sive hair pulling (this can include hair from the head, or the eye brows, or other parts of the body) to the point of visual hair loss. The disorder is a form of selfharm and is the sufferer’s way of coping with anxiety, stress, de pression, or PTSD. “She’s a young girl still,” said Kirstyn, “and by her own state ment she’s had a hard time, and lots of psychological issues.”
This article contains references to grooming, abuse, and sexual assault. If you have been the target of unwanted sexual or physical contact, help is a phone call away. See the list of community resources on page 4.
"The youngest victim looked at me and said, 'You are the missing puzzle piece'"
Trying to make peace with the past
BY HELEN TRAN Special to the Voice
On a chilly spring evening in 1990, a car was travel ling through the meandering back roads of Pelham towards Fonthill. In that car were two people. The driver was Charles Duncan, a doc tor who had practiced and would continue to practice family medi cine in the area for decades, before his eventual arrest and conviction for sexually assaulting women between the ages of 16 and 64, many of whom were his patients. The passenger was Kirstyn A., the Duncan family babysitter, a high schooler who had recently turned 18. They were headed to her home after Kirstyn had finished babysit ting Charles and Mary Martin Duncan’s baby daughter. (The Voice has agreed to with hold Kirstyn’s last name to protect the privacy of her own children and other family members.) Kirstyn’s mother and stepfather had been friends with the Duncans for some time, and she had been attending parties and gatherings at the Duncan house since she was 15 years old. That night, it seemed natural for Duncan to give her a rideThehome.alleged events that un folded during that car ride, and immediately afterward, would change Kirstyn’s life, splintering her memories of the Duncan fam ily into a maelstrom of what-ifs, whys and how-could-he’s. = K irstyn would cut off con tact with the Duncan fam ily soon after that night. In the decades that followed, she would hear about others who had allegedly been assaulted by Duncan over the course of his decades-long career as a family doctor. Eventually, Duncan re signed from the College of Physi cians and Surgeons of Ontario in October 2019, and also gave up his medical license, after the College investigated him over allegations of professional misconduct and incompetence.Afteroneof the sexual assault victims told her story to the Voice in the autumn of 2019, more wom en came forward with similar al legations. Duncan was arrested by the Niagara Regional Police in November of that year, and even tually charged with a total of six counts of sexual assault. A publi cation ban prohibits the release of any information that would iden tify the named complainants. In January 2022, Duncan was found guilty in a St. Catharines courtroom on all six counts under Section 271 of the Criminal Code. Charges were in relation to five different complainants and acts committed by Duncan inside and outside his medical practice be tween January 1999 and Septem ber 2018. Although there were five legal complainants, a dozen-plus women subsequently came for ward to the Voice and have posted statements online about other al legedDuncanassaults.was sentenced in June 2022 to 15 months incarceration, and three years probation. Pro bation terms include no contact with the five victims, and coun seling assigned by Duncan’s pa role officer. Duncan was also re quired to submit a DNA sample and comply with sex offender registration. However, two weeks into his sentence and after filing an appeal, Duncan was released from jail pending a future court date to be determined, and is now free. Appeals are currently taking between 18 months and two years to come before a court. Meeting fellow victims S ome three decades after that night, and months after the Duncan verdict, Kirstyn would contact the Voice, saying she wished to go public. The story that follows is comprised of de tailed recollections by Kirstyn and her mother spanning many years, and has been pieced to gether following extensive inter views with both women, as well as from Kirstyn’s written state ments, which have been lightly edited for clarity. On the final day of interviews, mother and daughter sat across from each other in Kirstyn’s bright living room, looking much younger than their respective 50 and 80 years. Now a high school teacher with daughters of her own, Kirstyn described feeling an immediate chill when she saw the first article about Duncan in the Voice.When more victims came for ward, she said that she “wanted to join” them in speaking up, but also struggled with the lingering trauma of her experience, which she still needed to process. “You feel so empowered in the mo ment,” said Kirstyn, “and then reality pulls you back.”
Speaking publicly for the first time, another alleged victim of disgraced doctor Charles Duncan recounts her experiences with him as a teenager, and stresses the importance of justice in helping her and other victims heal and move on
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unacknowledged.Kirstynexplained that she felt a need for the community— espe cially those who have been vocal in supporting Duncan—to under stand the amount of trauma the victims went through, and the importance of not allowing people in positions of authority to abuse their“Withpower.predators like him, this was a lifelong pattern. This is who he was, and this is who he is. I honestly believe that if he wasn’t as feeble as he is now, he would have continued.”
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In her own words My contact with Charles was from the time I was 15, until I was 18.While these encounters hap pened over 35 years ago, in hind sight I now realize that many seemingly innocent conversations were actually him testing the wa ters to see what he could poten tially get away with. When I was 15 years old, my mother and stepfather introduced my older sister and me to Dr. Dun can and his girlfriend, Mary Mar tin. Initially it was an exciting re lationship. We would visit often as a family, attend large Christmas parties at the Duncan home, and go for winter hikes through the trails of their elaborate property. In the summer we would often en joy visits by the pool. As a 15-yearold, I thought visiting the Duncan house was awesome. They had so many things that I did not, and we always had a good time. The year I turned 15, I attended a Christmas party at the Duncan house. I was wearing my Lau ra Ashley dress — I have a vivid recollection of this dress, because I thought it was such a fancy dress for a young girl, and I felt I fit the décor and tone of their home. I re call all of the people mingling and having fun. I spent a lot of time prior to the party with Mary as she prepped food. She made a dessert I had never heard of, called Char lotte Drambuie. I was in awe of her life— she seemed to have it all. I guess you could say I looked up to her.The night was a lot of fun. I min gled for a while, but it was most ly adults so I went to watch TV at one point. A few times during the party, Charles would enter the room where I was by myself. The family had a small TV room on the main floor outside of the kitchen. I would come here to watch TV during visits when I got bored of sitting with the adults. This was the first time he would randomly pop in and stand in the doorway, watching me. In later years, he would do this a lot. When I look back and put all of the small, seemingly isolated awk ward interactions with Charles into perspective, I now see that he was feeling me out as a poten tial victim. I was known to be a “people-pleaser” in my youth, so I never reacted assertively to his in appropriate comments or touches, as I did not want to ruin the friend ship dynamic I had built with him and his family since I was 15. My earliest recollection of the first vividly uncomfortable mo ment with Charles was at the pool one day when I was 16. My family had popped by his house for an im promptu visit. While the weather was nice and we were sitting out side, we had not intended to swim. I recall Charles approaching me as I was standing by the pool and asking me if I was going to go for a swim.When I replied that I did not have a bathing suit, he said that I could go in my bra and underwear. I laughed it off uncomfortably and said no, but then he persisted and tried to convince me that there was no difference between a bra and underwear and a bathing suit. But to me there was a clear difference. Charles was my family doctor and he had referred me to a clin ical psychologist at my mother's request (the psychologist shared the same office building as Duncan in Fonthill) for my eating disorder issues. I suffered from very low self esteem at this time and was struggling with moderate anorex ic and bulimic issues. I recall two occasions as a pa tient that I went into Duncan’s practice for minor illnesses, such as a sore throat. Charles would examine my throat, my ears, etc., but then there would be a need to check my heart and my breasts. It felt awkward and unnecessary, but I was only 16. He always explained his behaviour away as being nec essary as my doctor. Charles offered me the opportu nity to do some filing in his office. He was was very friendly during this time, and would often engage in small talk. He even bought me lunch from Keith’s Restaurant, which I thought nothing of since I was a family friend. However, as he walked me through the filing process, he would sit at the desk with me and place his hand on my shoulder. He would rub my shoul ders and lean in close to tell me what my duties were for the day. It was uncomfortable for me, but I ignored the alarm bells. As a teen ager, I wrote it off as me simply being uncomfortable for no reason —I didn’t think he would do any thingWhenquestionable.Iturned17, Charles dis covered that I was dating my first boyfriend. One time, when we were alone in the car (he had picked me up for a babysitting shift) he sud denly asked me if I was sexually active with my boyfriend. I felt awkward, and he laughed it off and said that he was asking be cause he was my doctor. I quickly left the car to end the conversa tion and went inside to say hello to Mary. babysat for Duncan's infant daughter until a series of small incidents culminated in an alleged sexual assault, leaving the families permanently estranged
Charles started to suddenly come home during times when I was babysitting. He would enter whichever room I was in, which I found odd, since if he had come home because he had forgotten something, he could have just grabbed whatever it was and left. He did not need to see me. One day, Charles came home several times. He said that I looked stressed, and gave me a long massage while I sat on the couch watching a movie. Eventually I learned to say, “Oh, I hear the baby,” as an excuse to escape. When I mentioned to Mary that Charles had come home twice in one day, she reacted intensely and seemed triggered and suspicious.Thelast incident was the one that broke my relationship with Charles and Mary. Charles drove me home from babysitting in the spring of 1990. But he took a different route, down the back roads, past Bissell’s Hideaway. I remember thinking at the time that it was strange, as it was not a very well-lit road and quite dark. He explained it away as a shortcut to my Duringhouse.the drive, Charles said that his hands were cold and maybe I could help warm them up. He proceeded to put his hand between my thighs. I froze as he said, “That is much better.” After a few seconds, he took his hand away and we continued the drive to my house. He tried again a second time. Again, I froze. Charles said, “You’re just so warm. I don’t know why I feel so cold.” My mind was flashing. This was before the time of cell phones, so I couldn’t call or text anyone. I kept thinking about how weird it all was, and I waited for the drive to be over. When we pulled into my driveway, I immediately tried to get out of the car but Charles asked for a hug. I did not want to upset him or cause any conflict, so I reluctantly leaned over and gave him a quick hug. I ran into my house and felt awkward and dirty. Then after two or three minutes, the doorbell rang. It was around 11 PM and I hoped that it was my friend, as we had made plans to go out late that night. When I opened the door, Charles was standing there with money in his hand and he said, “I forgot to pay you forAsbabysitting.”hesaidthis, he pushed the door open, pushed into the house, and grabbed my face. He kissed me and stuck his tongue down my throat. At this point, I pushed him back outside, shut the front door and locked it. I remember shaking a lot. To a small extent, I felt dirty, as though he had been trying to pay me for his sexual advances. My friend picked me up shortly thereafter and we went out. It wasn’t until around two in the morning that I went to my mother, shaking and crying, and relayed the story of what had happened. She took the reins from there. When I was a teen, no one in my family sensed anything was out of the ordinary at first where Charles’ behaviour was concerned. He was a master of his craft. He always made his comments, or his advances, when no one else was around. His inappropriate touching was done subtly and he always had a prepared answer if you questioned him—he would justify and explain away so well that you started to question yourself and even feel guilty that you would think Charles capable of the things he was clearly capable of. The community response to the revelations of his assaults does not surprise me. If you were not one of Charles’ targeted victims, he would have been cordial and professional. Many women who felt uncomfortable in his office may have questioned their own internal voice, or sensed something wrong but did not want to cause trouble or upset anyone. In many criminal cases, when people hear that someone in a small community was charged with unthinkable crimes, you often hear people say that they are surprised, or that they never would have thought this person capable of the things that they were charged with. People in the community may have had their children or grandchildren in his care. In my opinion, those who support him may feel a need to believe that he was good, to appease their own guilt for not speaking up. I was sexually assaulted by Dr. Charles Duncan, and even I could not believe it for the longest time, because he was a family friend, a person in a position of trust. He was the master of abuse. He knew exactly who to target and who to avoid; he knew not to cross a line too quickly (instead, he groomed), he was patient, and made small moves at first. When the victim did not resist much, he then pushed further, until there was no denying that what he was doing was sick and wrong. As for Charles, at trial he had the choice to say something like, “I am sorry, I did not realize my behaviour has impacted all of you so deeply and that I hurt you to the core of your being. I apologize for all the tears you shed over what I did to you. I am sorry that you felt shame and guilt for a decision that was mine and mine alone.”
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A simple acknowledgment of the pain he caused and a heartfelt apology would have been a start to healing. Yet he did none of this. I will never forget how he stood up for sentencing and even as the sentence was being read by the judge, he shook his head in denial— almost like he was the victim. He took zero responsibility for the lives he ruined, and for that I will never forgiveThehim.experience did give me one gift that I have passed on to my daughters.
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"If you were not one of Charles' targeted victims, he would have been cordial and professional"
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= There was another lull, and then conver sation erupted again, as Kirstyn engaged with her mother in some banter and specu lation as to whether Duncan’s children sup ported their father’s side (neither Mary nor Alexandra attended the trial, and Duncan’s two sons only attended the final hearings), and where Mary might have gone (nobody knew) after her relationship with Duncan ended.The Voice was unable to locate either Mary or Alexandra to request comment.
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According to Kirstyn and her moth er, Mary was a young nurse when she met Duncan at a local hospital, while he was still married to his first wife. When they visit ed, Mary was always “energetic and full of life....all about doing big parties at the big house.”Mary stayed with Duncan in 1990, but the relationship would ultimately end years later. Kirstyn emphasized that her heart still hurt for Mary, and that she held “no ill will” towards her, as she had a young baby. “I have not walked in her shoes, so I make noAfterjudgments.”thedisintegration of the friendship, Kirstyn said, her mother found a new doc tor for the family. She never saw Mary or Charles Duncan again, partly because she moved away from the area for university. Her mother, however, encountered Mary many years later. They briefly exchanged greetings in a Starbucks line in St. Catha rines, but that was where the conversation ended.
According to Kirstyn’s mother, Mary was upset during the conversation, and fre quently repeated that she didn’t know what to “Ido.told her, ‘You have a baby daughter
It’s empowered me to tell my daughters to listen to the inner voice: if something feels wrong, then it probably is. If something doesn’t feel right, or makes you uncomfort able, get out of the situation immediately and tell someone. Don’t worry about the predator’s feelings—he doesn’t care about yours. People always taught their daughters to be nice, to not rock the boat—but no one has the right to touch you. Thankfully, we are more vocal now than we were 30 years ago.The events leading up to and the trau matic event itself have definitely impacted me throughout my adult life. I have gone through most of my life since engaging in emotionally unhealthy relationships, car rying this shame and guilt with me— be lieving that I was less than deserving of a healthy relationship. I felt myself unlove able. It has been a long road of healing and if I was to be completely honest, my path to healing and healthy relationships really started after I read the first article outing Charles. Somehow, after that, a weight was lifted that I didn’t even know I was carrying. A mother’s protection There was a moment of silence in Kirs tyn’s living room after she finished recounting her side of the events of that spring“Thanknight.god I had the support of my mom.”Kirstyn described her mother as “blunt and no-nonsense,” as well as instrumental that evening in providing support and vali dation. After she told her mother about what happened a few hours after the incident, her mother sprang into action. “I was angry, very angry,” said Kirstyn’s mother. “I called Charles at his office the next day and told him he had to show up [at myShehouse].”described Duncan as he arrived at her front door in his customary long coat. When he asked if he should take the coat off, she replied: “No. You won’t be here long.” “He tried to downplay what happened,” she continued. “He said it was only a father ly kiss. I had to say ‘You put your tongue in my daughter’s mouth,’ to spell it out. I told him that I would not call Mary, but if Mary calls me, I will not lie to her. He must have gone home and told her something, because Mary called me and said, again, that it was only a fatherly kiss. I had to spell out the details again— after that we had a lengthy conversation.”
now, and you’re going to have girls and teenage girls in your home. I suggest you keep an eye on it.’” When asked if Mary ultimately believed her and Kirstyn, Kirstyn’s mother said that Mary stopped short of admitting it. She speculated that Mary was afraid of damag ing the family reputation, but declared that Mary had always been fond of Kirstyn. “Mary did say, at least, ‘I know Kirstyn wouldn’t say anything to hurt me.’ To which I responded, ‘I know.’” “It would have been overwhelming for her,” Kirstyn interjected. “She was very young when she married Charles, and he was much older than her too.”
Kirstyn’s only later interaction with members of the Duncan family was when Mary’s daughter Alexandra appeared in a high school class Kirstyn was teaching. Kirstyn never acknowledged the former re lationship at that time, but described seeing the girl whom she used to babysit as, “very hard, emotionally.”
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On the day that impact statements were made before the judge, Kirstyn remembers almost getting onto the elevator at the courthouse when suddenly her partner pulled her back and announced that they would wait for the next one. Kirstyn realized that the old man standing in the elevator was Charles Duncan. “I guess I didn’t recognize Charles, as he had aged so much and appeared so frail. I always remembered Charles as the man he was in his 40s.” Her feelings of nausea and anxiety increased as they waited outside the courtroom. Once the proceedings were underway, she realized that she had started pulling her hair again as the youngest victim made her impact statement and recounted her experiences, which Kirstyn described as very similar to hers. She began to shake uncontrollably. After the first sentencing hearing concluded, Kirstyn stayed and spoke with the families of the victims for over an hour, an experience she described as “very emotional but also very validating. I felt vindicated. I thanked the young girl for having the bravery that I did not at her age to come forward. I was so impressed with her courage and strength and I told her how much I respected her and how it was her voice that lent strength to my own.”
Kirstyn described feeling curious about how Duncan was described as a “family man” by his defense team. “His sons were only at the final sentencing and his daughter was noticeably absent.”Kirstyn expressed sympathy for Alexandra, and speculates that she would likely have heard rumours in the community decades ago about her father’s inappropriate behaviour as a doctor.Kirstyn even felt a brief stab of sympathy for Duncan as the sentence was read. The sentence was what she expected him to get, but the sense of sympathy surprised her, even though “it lasted only a moment.”
She said that she hoped the time spent in jail would lead Duncan to “reflect upon how his behaviour destroyed the lives of so many of us, as he went about his life never giving us a second thought.”
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Kirstyn described the mood of the lunch as somber but still celebratory, with the women alternating between discussing how to move past the trauma, and what they would do with their lives now. Many were worried about what would happen if Duncan was released early, or if he won his appeal.“Hehas been exposed, and for me, that is good,” said Kirstyn. “Over the years and even a few months ago, I felt that I was weak. I drove past his office many times and wanted to confront him, but couldn’t. The other victims helped so many other women with their testimonies. I told the other women who came forward, ‘You did what I couldn’t. Was I weak, or was I this or that? Over time you realize, no. It was him. He was a predator.’” Kirstyn stood and went to the window, then opened her front door and sat outside. She paused, and took a deep breath, clearly emotional.“He put us in this prison, an emotional and mental prison. The closure and empowerment of him being led away, and us able to leave free, and walk out into the fresh air…It is a bittersweet cycle.” 4
In contrast to the admiration she felt for the youngest victim, she felt full of rage when she saw Duncan derisively shaking his head during each victim’s testimony. To see him “take no responsibility” and “look bothered, like a smug child,” as the women spoke about the lasting impacts his actions had on their lives, was painful.“Iwanted to scream,” said Kirstyn. “I wanted to scream that he had been preying on girls for even longer than 20 years—actually more than 30 years.”
Former Town of Pelham CAO Darren Ottaway had a court date in Cochrane on August 16 before Justice Michel Labelle, to answer to four charges related to incidents alleged to have occurred prior to 2019, when Ottaway was still working in Pelham. As in past court proceedings, Ottaway did not appear in person, but was represented by his defense counsel Paul Bragagnolo. In July, Bragagnolo told Justice Labelle and the Cochrane court that his client had suffered a medical emergency, and was in the intensive care unit at an unspecified southern Ontario hospital. Bragagnolo said that Ottaway had suffered seizures, and may have a brain tumour. Ottaway’s medical prognosis is still unknown, but Bragagnolo told the court on August 16 that he had been released from hospital “with life-threatening medical concerns.” Bragagnolo said that he had not had an opportunity to speak with Ottaway to receive instructions on how he wanted to proceed.Ajudicial pretrial, or JPT, occurred on August 12. Ottaway had been facing two assault charges, a sexual interference charge, and a sexual assault charge. However, Crown Prosecutor Justin Reneaud withdrew one of the charges against Ottaway last week, telling the court that the single count of common assault against Ottaway’s wife, Paula, “has no reasonable prospect of conviction.”
Kirstyn described the other victims as feeling “vindicated to some extent” during the sentencing, but they “worried that he may not serve time in jail or that he would appeal. We all react differently. I have had 33 years to live with this guilt and shame, so the verdict and sentencing felt like closure for me. It did not seem that way for the others who had been through the trial, as their wounds were much fresher than my own.” After the sentence was read, Kirstyn described the courtroom as starting to empty, with the victims moving into the corridor. However Kirstyn was frozen to the spot. “I needed to see him in handcuffs,” she said. “I needed it to be real.” A few of the victims saw that Kirstyn had remained and they came back into the courtroom to stand with her and watch together as Duncan was led away in those handcuffs. “I believe this was a small way of taking back our power. Charles was no longer a threat. Maybe even in some small way, he would get a small taste in his physical prison of how we all felt over these years in the mental prison he sentenced usOnceto.” Duncan was taken away, Kirstyn said that all the victims hugged and spent some time talking about their experiences and giving each other advice on how to move past the trauma. Kirstyn said that the victims felt re-traumatized after the trial—they described the testimony and cross-examination process to her as “gruelling” and how “demeaned” they felt by the lawyers. The women ultimately decided to go out for lunch together that afternoon. According to Kirstyn, the victims felt stronger as a group and were able to “stay the course and prevail. It is easy when we have truth on our side.”
The second assault charge against Ottaway, involving his step-son, Jay Jackson-Ottaway, is marked for trial in Cochrane on October 4, Justice Ralph Carr presiding.Bragagnolo told the court that his wish was to return to Niagara for the sexual assault and sexual interference charges against Ottaway to be addressed, subject to his client's instructions. Bragagnolo had informed the court last month of his intent to have the charges brought back to the jurisdiction where they allegedly occurred, namely Pelham. Justice Labelle ruled that the matter be adjourned until September 13, to set a date for trial or resolution.Sincehis dismissal from Pelham, Ottaway has been employed as the Chief Administrative Officer for the Town of Cochrane, a community of 5000 located south of Moosonee in northeastern Ontario. He was granted bail at his initial court appearance on January 24, and has been on a leave of absence from his Cochrane CAO role during the court case, with the Town initially appointing an acting CAO in his place. The Cochrane Times-Post reports that Cochrane’s Town Council held a special meeting on August 11, at which interim-CAO Monika Malherbe was promoted to CochraneCAO. Mayor Denis Clement told the paper that Ottaway was “absent due to ill health. We have no anticipated date for his return to duties, however, we wish Mr. Ottaway a speedy return to full health. In a measure to ensure that the Town’s affairs are properly looked after and in compliance with our legal obligation, we have appointed Mrs. Monika Malherbe as CAO to oversee operations.”
Officially, Cochrane now has two CAOs, but Clement was quick to point out that one of them was on leave, without pay. “We are not paying two CAOs. We are only paying one Chief Administrative Officer.” Clement noted that Cochrane’s council had been discussing the CAO issue for some time. He did not respond to a request for comment from the Voice.
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Richard, one of the COPA pilots providing pre-fl ight orientation for the kids, told them that they should not be fearful of flying. At any time, he said, there are thousands of commercial aircraft aloft around the globe, each carrying hundreds of passengers, plus thousands of small planes in the air.
Accomplishing a goal may involve significant discipline and routine, but routine without purpose leaves us short-changed. Purpose creates direction in our lives, and fulfilling that purpose provides meaning and satisfaction. Purpose helps us differentiate between the important and what isn’t. Routine may create a busyness that fills our days, but busyness doesn’t demand clear goals or specific plans. Purpose adds that extra dimension—focused goals, plans and actions that can add to our fulfillment. Altruism may be involved in purpose, but doesn’t have to be. As we age and search for purpose, giving back to our community, contributing our skills to a cause we agree with, or promoting joy amongst our friends and family are laudable. Goals such as improving our personal health, relationships, or pursuing a new passion for our own interest work too. The positive attitude that purpose helps bring to each day, not the specific goal, is what’s important. The benefits of purpose include increased optimism, resiliency and hope; experiencing joy, satisfaction and accomplishment more frequently; an increased desire to learn new things; and the ability to sustain setbacks as they arise. Just as Mylo taught me, injecting our routines with new purpose can be rewarding and invigorating, and to
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Some 80 youngsters enjoy Aviation Day at local field
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BALANCED LIFE continued from Page 18 It was clear skies and smooth flying last Saturday at the Niagara Central-Dorothy Rungeling Airport (NCDRA), on River Road in south Pelham, as dozens of youngsters experienced the magic of fl ight. Event organizer Doug Reilly, who fl ies an Aero Commander 112 monoplane out of NCDRA, said that the kids were placed in groups of about a dozen, to arrive on the half hour before they were due to fly. Parents smiled as their children climbed into the single-engine aircraft for a 20-minute cruise around Niagara. Reilly said that Aviation Day is intended as “an open invitation for kids to come out and learn about airplanes, take a 20-minute fl ight, and hopefully kindle a love of aviation. That's it, in a nutshell. All of the participating pilots are members of COPA, the Canadian Owners and Pilots Association, funding this day out of their own pockets. We had 80 kids signed up to fly today, and a waiting list of about 40 more.” He noted that about a quarter of the youngsters taking part in the morning and afternoon fl ights were from Pelham, who saw the story about the upcoming event recently in the Voice. COPA pilots come from all walks of life. Many are retirees, providing a collective voice for airport-related issues. Veteran aviator Adrian Verburg said that although most of the participating pilots in Aviation Day are from Niagara, “one of our COPA pilots, who just recently moved to Owen Sound, flew in this morning to take kids up. We have some pretty dedicated people.”
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The worst fear, perhaps, is that we’ve chosen, consciously or unconsciously, to give up control and gradually slide into routine, to follow the easy route rather than putting in the hard work to discover intrinsic purpose. Choosing a purpose can mean searching our heart rather than brain, exploring situations that excite and stimulate us rather than keep us comfortable and stress-free. Waking each morning motivated by a purpose to do or achieve something adds intensity to every day.
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Top, pilot Kathy and her 1945 Air Coupe with Ethan, an air cadet with 87 Eagle squadron. Left, pilot Kevin in his Piper Arrow, with student Blake. Above, pilot Cornell Feenstra, flying a 2005 Diamond DA40, along with Hugo and Horace, whose parents found out about Aviation Day and drove all the way from Markham.
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Cindy Fishburn is a fan of cemeteries. And she’s disappointed with the Town of Pelham’s cleanup effort in Hillside Cemetery in Ridgeville, in the aftermath of the July 20 storm which wreaked havoc in parts of the municipality, downing trees and power lines. With deep roots in Niagara, Fishburn lives on the outskirts of Pelham, and has many relatives buried in local graveyards, including the Fonthill Cemetery at the end of Brock Street (formerly known as Brown’s Burial Grounds), the Pelham Hicksite Quaker Cemetery, at the corner of Welland Road and Effingham Street, and the Hillside Cemetery, on Canboro Road in Ridgeville (formerly known as the Dawdy Burying Ground). The severe thunderstorm of July 20 produced wind gusts of up to 100 kilometres per hour, which brought down countless trees and branches throughout Pelham. Director of Public Works Jason Marr told the Voice that road crews responded immediately to the emergency, and prioritized keeping roadways clear. Thereafter, the Town reassessed the situation, and devised a plan for a full cleanup process.
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So, there you have it from your friendly, evangelical micro-evolutionist who is quite happy to use both e-words. 4
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People who don’t believe this tend not to like this e-word. And sometimes they interchange it with the f-word (don’t worry, not that one). I’m referring to the word “fundamentalism.”
Since 2003, Éric Beaudry, André Brunet and Pierre-Luc Dupuis have been exploring and performing time-honoured melodies from the stomp ing grounds of Quebec’s musical past. Using fiddle, accordion, harmonica, guitar, bouzouki and a number of other instruments, our three virtuosos blend boundless energy with the unmistakable joie de vivre found only in traditional Quebec music. Show runs from 7-9 p.m.
Trees, branches still strewn across Hillside Cemetery
The Fonthill Cemetery has been completely restored to pristine condition as of last week, but Marr concedes that the Hillside Cemetery is still in a somewhat chaotic state, strewn with downed trees and“Webranches.dohave a contractor scheduled to get into Hillside, but it's a major undertaking,” said Marr. “I would say it’ll take the better part of two weeks. [The Town doesn’t] have the resources to be able to address the scope of that job. The smaller stuff, we tackle with our own crews, but we need to subcontract out the larger stuff.” “It's actually dangerous in there right now,” said Fishburn. “It’s still a mess. And I have a lot of ancestors and stones in there. Jeez,
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A large tree limb remains toppled on gravestones at Hillside Cemetery, in Ridgeville. The Town is gradually cleaning up from an intense July thunderstorm
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it's been a month almost. What's happening?” Fishburn belongs to several local historical societies, as well as the Ontario Genealogical Society (OGS). She took on a project for the Niagara branch of the OGS, photographing cemeteries in the region, including those in Pelham. “I’ve photographed thousands of headstones, cleaned up around them before I took the pictures and posted them online. The stones provide a lot of information. I know it sounds a bit morbid, but it’s our history. It's about all the people who settled in Niagara,” she said.
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MASONRY REPAIR also Call all made wrong choices which separate us from this love. But the sacrifice of Jesus on the cross defeated sin and the resurrection of Jesus defeated death so that it is again possible to have a close relationship with our Creator. This is possible when we sincerely choose to turn from our sins (repentance) and turn to Jesus as our Savior (faith).
The Big Move Cancer Ride is a non-competitive ride taking place on Sept. 7. Proceeds for the Big Move stay in Niagara and support the Walker Fam
This word once simply meant someone who believed in the fundamentals (basic teachings) of the faith. But in recent decades it has taken on a pejorative meaning associated with legalism, ultra-narrowism (I just coined that), judgmentalism, extremism, and even terrorism. When someone interchanges the positive word “evangelical” with the negative word “fundamentalist,” I’m the one who cringes.
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Hurley found out she had been selected even closer to the opening game on Monday, August 8. “I just got called up a couple of days before the games,” Hurley said. “They lost a couple of girls and they needed another player. They’re all U18 and U17 players and I’m a U16, so this is a step up for me to play with older players. It’s a good learning experience to play with them.”
BY MIKE BALSOM Special to the Voice Above, Team Ontario with Sarah, 6 and Corrynn, 11. Right, Sarah with her father. LARRY MATTHEWSON & PAUL SAMPARA
To prepare for the competition, Parker and Hurley joined Team Ontario for preGames training sessions at Greater Fort Erie Secondary School, where Coach D’Alosio had her first real chance to get all the players“Theytogether.reallyfocused on team bonding,” Hurley said. “We had lots of practices, and we stayed together at the dorms [during the games], getting to know each other really well.”
Pelham girls shine in Games B-ball
Two Pelham basketball players took home bronze medals in women’s basketball at the Niagara 2022 Canada Summer Games. Fenwick’s Corrynn Parker, 17, and 15-year-old Sarah Hurley, of Fonthill, suited up for Team Ontario, who beat Quebec 5736 to earn the trip to the podium Saturday, August 13. Both girls, who have been playing with the Kia Nurse Elite Youth Basketball League summer program, were over the moon at the opportunity to compete against the other 12 provinces and territories right in their backyards. “It’s great to represent Team Ontario,” Parker said. “A lot of my family members came out to watch the games. This is a big event, so it’s nice that they can experience it with me.”
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Hurley said playing three of the team’s six games at Niagara College’s Welland campus gym was a bonus for her, it being so familiar from her time playing with the Pelham Panthers and the Niagara Juel program. And though the 6’0” forward and Parker haven’t played together, it was great having a familiar Niagara face on Team Ontario with her.Ontario stormed right out of the gate in game one, doubling up on PEI 95-47 at Niagara College. They followed that Monday win with an 83-55 victory over Manitoba on August 9 at the Meridian Centre. The two wins made them the top seed in Pool B moving into the qualification round. It was back to Niagara College Wednesday for a mismatch against Team Yukon. Team Ontario punched its ticket into the quarter-finals with a 120-17 victory. They knocked off British Columbia in that round 86-70 at the Meridian Centre, and had to face a tough Team Alberta that included Hurley’s cousin, 17-year-old Maya
Flindell of St. Albert. Flindell, whose family traveled to Niagara to watch the cousins play, ended up with bragging rights after Alberta’s 80-71 win at Niagara College. The bronze medal game was played at the Meridian Centre in St. Catharines. Hurley and Parker both contributed to the team’s lowest-scoring victory of the Games, a 5736 win over Team Quebec. Parker had three points, three rebounds and an assist, while Hurley nailed her only shot of the game, a three-pointer, and had two steals. Flindell’s Alberta team went on to beat Saskatchewan 71-60 to take home the gold.
The 5’10” Parker, who has played with the Welland Warriors and the Niagara Girls Basketball Academy, and now traverses the court for the Niagara Prep program, says she got invited to try out for Team Ontario in June. Parker found out she had been selected just two weeks before the Canada Summer Games. “We were at a tournament,” she said, “when [Coach] Jobina [D’Alosio] called me to give me the news. I was pretty happy.”
PISCES – Feb 19/Mar 20 Be extra patient and affectionate towards all of your loved ones this week, Pisces. Someone close to you will need your help.
TAURUS – Apr 21/May 21 Taurus, others appreciate your authenticity. Stay true to yourself and you will have no regrets. Encourage others to do the same when they seek your input.
CANCER – Jun 22/Jul 22 An important decision is looming, Cancer. Take some time to look inward as your try to decide the best path to take. Don’t hesitate to seek input from people you trust.
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SAGITTARIUS – Nov 23/Dec 21 Sagittarius, you have long been practical and sensible with your finances. But this week you may be lured by a flashy purchase. If it is in the budget, then let loose.
LEO – Jul 23/Aug 23 It is alright to have some doubts when you are trying something new, Leo. Just don’t let those doubts get the better of you and derail your plans.
ARIES – Mar 21/Apr 20 Aries, take a step back and allow people some room to figure things out. Your offers to help are appreciated and will be accepted in due time.
GEMINI – May 22/Jun 21 Gemini, this week is a good opportunity for some serious introspection. Put yourself in other people’s shoes before you render an opinion.
AQUARIUS – Jan 21/Feb 18 Aquarius, after many months of asking yourself where you want your life to go, this week you finally have a plan of action to put in motion. Enjoy the ride.
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CAPRICORN – Dec 22/Jan 20 Clear your mind of cobwebs and any other errant thoughts, Capricorn. Right now you need to relax and unwind for a bit, and you’ll feel better after a few days of recharging.
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SCORPIO – Oct 24/Nov 22 Scorpio, at this point in your life, it is important to go with the flow and learn from others with an easygoing approach. Take time to exhale and unwind.
VIRGO – Aug 24/Sept 22 Virgo, a public gathering in the near future may att ract several people, including some you are interested in meeting. Take the first step and introduce yourself.
LIBRA – Sept 23/Oct 23 Libra, this week you are likely to feel refreshed and energized. This may pave the way to some new ideas, including a change of scenery or even a new job.
Page 18 The Voice A August 24 2022 www.thevoiceofpelham.ca SOLUTIONS ACROSS Severe1. Met7. Emeritus10. Made12. Marinate13. Memel14. Icaco15. Adar16. BTU17. Ales18. Atli19. Boa21. Headgear22. Ed27. belovedDearly28. Ad33. Iterates34. GDE36. Cabs37. Meer38. Gab39. Maar40. Curet41. Hears44. Exposure45. Oars48. Listened49. DDS50. Liters51. SOLUTIONS DOWN Sera1. Eric2. Vino3. ETA4. Rut5. ESE6. Mamas7. Eder8. Tel9. Emitted10. Maculae11. Medea12. Malodor14. Bah17. Abele18. Ida20. Graders23. Elder24. Ay25. RBI26. ET29. Vac30. Etagere31. Debated32. SSB35. Gears36. Maars38. Mead40. Cote41. User42. Runs43. Hod44. Ell45. XII46. PST47.ANSWERSCROSSWORD THE BALANCED LIFE by John Swart Routine vs. purpose—we need both
Iknow that you’re all keenly curious to know what words I’m referring to. The people who avoid them like the plague (pandemic?) represent two very different worldviews. Let’s take a peak. Evolution This is my first e-word. I have a Christian friend who doesn’t even like to use the word. He almost treats it like a profanity. But, actually, it’s a very good English word. I’m sure it existed before Charles Darwin but it certainly wasn’t as well used or popular. It simply means to change, adapt or morph. What many people don’t realize is that the scientific use of the word has two applications. By adding the prefi x “micro” or “macro” before the word gives us two very different things. The first one—micro-evolution — is what Darwin effectively proved with his study of finches and other animals. It refers to the gradual changes within a species to its environment to enable survival. Science has convincingly shown that it has happened not only with finches but with dogs, horses and probably every other species to some extent. Micro-evolution is a fact and not a theory. So, I’m a proud micro-evolutionist! (My friend is cringing right now.)However, when you change the prefi x to “macro,” you have a whole different kettle of finches (sorry, Charles). This idea is not proven and is not provable. It’s the concept that the micro changes within a species have led to macro changes between species. This is not a fact but a theory. Many don’t realize that it makes huge assumptions and requires huge doses of faith. It also directly contradicts clear biblical teaching which is why so many believers get rather riled. The theory posits that single-cell organisms became more complex forms, which eventually changed into fish which morphed into amphibians and reptiles, which then evolved into birds and mammals, which finally produced the first primitive humans. Did you detect a few “faith leaps” in that list? Sorry, Charles, I am not a macro-evolutionist. I just don’t have that much faith. Evangel This is the root word for more common words like “evangelical” or “evangelism.” It comes from Greek and simply means “Good News.” So, an evangelical believer is someone who believes good news. And a believer engaged in evangelism is someone who desires to share good news. This begs the question, “What is this good news?” A fairly concise answer might go like this: the Good News of the Bible is that God exists and created the universe which includes you. He made you in his image and he loves you. We have
www.thevoiceofpelham.ca The Voice A August 24 2022 Page 19 FAITH LIFT by Pastor Rob Weatherby Avoiding the E-words ANSWERS ON PAGE 18 Word Search: Water Quality Find the words hidden vertically, horizontally, diagonally, and backwards. CONTAMINANTCOMMUNITYCHEMICALAQUIFERDATADRINKING MANAGEMENTECOLOGICALECOSYSTEMEFFLUENTEXPOSUREHABITAT PARAMETERSMONITORINGMEASUREORGANISMSQUALITYRECLAIMED WASTEWATERSTANDARDSSEDIMENTSPECIESTURBIDITYWILDLIFE Here’s How It Works: Sudoku puzzles are formatted as a 9x9 grid, broken down into nine 3x3 boxes. To solve a sudoku, the numbers 1 through 9 must fill each row, column and box. Each number can appear only once in each row, column and box. You can figure out the order in which the numbers will appear by using the numeric clues already provided in the boxes. The more numbers you name, the easier it gets to solve the puzzle! See FAITH LIFT Page 16 111 HWY 20 E, FONTHILL Curbside HomemadePickupPizza905-892-0782PETERPIPERSVoice CROSSWORD
Salmon with Spiced Red Lentils and Bacon
1 teaspoon coarse sea salt
2 tablespoons chopped fresh cilantro
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For the Spice Rub: 2 teaspoons ground coriander
1⁄2 cup canned diced tomatoes, with juice
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1⁄2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
1 teaspoon ground cumin 1 teaspoon ground turmeric
1⁄8 teaspoon cayenne pepper
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In a large cast-iron skillet, cook the bacon over medium heat until crisp and the bottom of the pan is coated with the rendered fat, 5 to 8 minutes. Transfer the bacon to paper towels to drain, then cut into small pieces. Put the skillet over high heat. When the fat is hot, gently put the salmon in the pan, pinker-side down. (One side of a salmon fillet will be bright pink and the other side will have a strip of dark flesh running down the center. The bright pink side is the one you want to brown.) Sear until nicely browned on the bottom, about 3 minutes. Using two large spatulas, carefully transfer the salmon to a sheet of heavy-duty aluminum foil, browned-side up. Add the onion to the fat in the pan and sauté over medium-high heat until translucent, about 2 minutes. Add the garlic and the remaining spice blend and stir until aromatic, about 20 seconds. Stir in the lentils, tomatoes with their juice, and broth and simmer for 10 minutes. Using the foil as a kind of large spatula, carefully slide the salmon onto the lentils. Cover the skillet with a lid or a clean sheet of heavy foil and bake until the thickest part of the fish flakes to gentle pressure and the lentils are tender, about 1 hour.Garnish with the chopped cilantro and slip onto a large platter or serve directly from the pan. FOR SALE
2 cups good-quality low-sodium chicken or vegetable broth
1-1⁄2 pounds farm-raised salmon fillet, in 1 large piece about 11⁄2 inches thick, skin removed 2 bacon strips
1 medium yellow onion, finely chopped 2 garlic cloves, minced 1 cup red lentils
To make the spice rub: In bowl, mix together all the ingredients. Rub 2 teaspoons of the mixture into the flesh of the salmon fillet; set aside for 30 minutes. Preheat the oven to 200 F.
Makes 4 servings
In reflecting on the short two years the Women's Advisory Committee was able to meet, the committee engaged with some nine different Regional presentations from six different departments and had significant impact and influence over the organization. It engaged in policy discussions that included community services, child care and the Niagara Poverty Initiative. Discussion also helped shape the new ten- year economic development plan, the new official plan, public health and transportation policies. There were also significant discussions that informed the Region's new diversity, equity and inclusion action plan. As a group we were proud and pleased to see the extent the committee was able to achieve in such a short time. Imagine if we had a full four years! Reflecting on the work and the impact of this committee is important, because a municipal election is right around the corner. Once the dust settles on the election results this October, both the Niagara Region and the Town of Pelham will seek to recruit members of the public to sit on a variety of committees, such as the Women's Advisory Committee. These committees range in focus on a variety of municipal issues including financial planning/development,management,agriculture, event planning, active transportation, social policy, and a number of other important issues. These appointments provide a unique opportunity to help inform and shape municipal policy without the need to become an elected official. This is a great opportunity to give back to your community and lend your particular area of expertise to the betterment of your community. So when the call goes out, I encourage you to seek out these opportunities and put your name forward! It can be a very rewarding experience and your community will be better for your contributions.
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