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BY WAYNE CAMPBELL
for the VOICE Rory Butler talks about suicide from experience. He is a survivor. “If it wasn’t for my wife, I wouldn’t be here,” said
the director of Your Life Counts, an international suicide prevention service based in Welland. “It is like being a horse with blinders on,” he said about a concentration of thought. “You only see a dot ahead of you.”
To prevent harm, the blinders have to come off so the person sees the whole scene, said Butler. The Pelham resident will speak about young people and suicide at 7 p.m. on Monday, Oct. 7, at Fenwick United Church.
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For 13 years, he has been working on suicide prevention through Your Life Counts (website – www.yourlifecounts.org) and lobbying for national strategies. “Next to traffic deaths, suicide is the greatest killer of young people in Canada,” he said. For young people, causes related to self-doubt, peer pressure and over-reaction to situations are the same today as they always have been, said Butler. However, social media including Facebook, Twitter and the Internet have intensified the pace. “Images and reactions spread quickly. You saw that with Amanda Todd in British Columbia,” he said. It is important to have someone to turn to for help, he said. It can be a friend, relative, church, school, crisis line or online service such as Your Life Counts. His agency helps both individuals and families. “Each year, 4,000 people in Canada die from suicide. That means about 40,000 family members
are directly affected,” he said. Each person has about 10 close family members. “The effect on families is devastating,” he said. “The pain is transferred to them and never goes away.” On its website, Your Life Counts offers advice on what to notice, tips on how to listen and strategies on how to deal with thoughts of suicide. The guidelines range from recognizing risks, to what to say and a “Promise to Live” pledge as a reminder of potential effects on family and friends. Last week, Pelham was shaken by two deaths in a suicide pact between a university professor and his wife. It is tied to potential tax fraud charges, police said. Butler said there were legal aspects involved but it may have been avoidable. “It was a shocker. This is very unusual.” Butler has been working jointly with the federal government to create a national suicide prevenSee Suicide (Page 3)
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