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Volume XIX • Number 19 • May 24 - 30, 2012 •
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A father’s grief and the true meaning of community By KYUNG SIK YANG Kyung Sik Yang is the father of Hwang Bum Yang, the young chef from our community by way of Korea who was brutally murdered for his iPhone last month. People say that time heals all wounds. I believed that as each day passed, I would begin to understand and face the reality of my loss…. But I still lie awake every night with my phone in hand, waiting and hoping that perhaps my beloved son, Hwang Bum, might call me from the subway station, asking me to pick him up after having finished his shift at the restaurant. Every day, my wife tells me that she’s leaving the house to visit our son… and every day, you can find my wife kneeling on the hill by Cambridge Avenue, staring at the red fire hydrant where our son’s blood stains the pavement, where our son took his last breath on earth. It was early morning on April 19th when police officers knocked on my door and asked me to identify a body at Columbia Presbyterian Hospital. I couldn’t believe it. I wouldn’t believe it. But what I did have to believe and hope was that the police had contacted the wrong family. As I was escorted through the hospital, my heart pounded and I prayed that the body they had found was not my son’s. But the moment the white sheet was lifted, my heart stopped. All I saw was Hwang Bum’s face, bruised and bloodied. I had to wake him up, but regardless of how hard I shook him and how loudly I screamed his name, he didn’t respond. He didn’t wake up.
Hyun Sub Yang (4th from left) thanks Capt. Kevin Burke of the 50th Precinct for his team’s efforts in solving her son’s murder case. Burke and five other NYPD officers were honored st an award ceremony last week. See story on Page 3 As the sun began to rise later that day and I prepared to meet with my family’s parish priest, my heart shattered into pieces the moment I saw my wife. She was clutching our son’s T-shirt, rubbing it against her face, and sobbing that the T-shirt still smelled of him, that she could still smell him, our son, our dear Hwang Bum. My son always aspired to become a chef and dreamed of returning to our homeland, Korea, to become an executive
chef at a famous hotel. But before he could bloom and fulfill his dreams, his life was cut short and his dreams were destroyed. Parents are supposed to be guardians of their children and shield them from pain. As a parent, I feel immensely guilty for having failed to protect my child from harm and for having failed to help my son live out his dream of become a worldclass chef. I was experiencing this flood of emotions and trying to comprehend
why this precious life was taken from our family when the support of my community enveloped me, too. The community’s sincerity and understanding during this difficult time allows me to believe that perhaps there is a light at the end of the tunnel and at times, I do see a glimmer of hope for the distant future. As the tragedy that plagued our family spread throughout the Riverdale commuContinued on Page 11
Online discussion reveals deep concerns of P.S. 24 parents
Riverdale became the focus of citywide discussion after a blog post on insideschools.org focused on the problem of finding the “right” middle school. The blog is sponsored by the Center for New York City Affairs at the New School. Much of this exchange took place after the P.S. 24 parents association sponsored a “Middle School Fair” on Monday May 14, a fair that included presentations by suburban school districts seeking to lure students from New York City to their schools — at a hefty five-figure tuition charge. This type of poaching has gone on for many years, but this is the first time that a parents association has sponsored an event that facilitated the questionable practice. Luring our kids away to enrich wealthy Westchester towns damages the prospects of local city schools, such as RKA, that are struggling to maintain a neighborhood identity as the Bloomberg Department of Education has systematically undermines neighborhood zoned schools. It was not lost on some of the participants that this overt act to undermine the Riverdale/Kingsbridge Academy was sponsored by the P.S. 24 parents association, the same group that has attacked this newspaper for printing factual stories that they charge “hurt” local
schools by criticizing poor test scores and other objective data and for giving voice to charges made by teachers critical of the school and its administration over a wide variety of issues. Criticizing the parents association, one parent confided to us: “hypocrisy, chutzpah, and some other choice words come to mind.” That same parent, bemoaning the climate of fear the PA has created at the school also stated “I can’t talk on the record; I have to think of my kids. Yes, that’s just how welcome dissent is at P.S. 24, whether it’s about the boycott or the direction of the school. The PA and aligned parents simply won’t truck anything that might be viewed as dissatisfaction with the administration. There are plenty of parents who don’t agree with the PA or the unrelenting (and mostly ineffective) emphasis on social-emotional learning rather than academics.” The real motivation of the parent leadership at the school is now clear. Former PA co-president Clifford Stanton has already announced his candidacy for City Council, and another former PA president, Tracy Shelton, has been accused of leading a politically motivated coup attempt of the Woodlawn Civic and Taxpayers Association, one that a columnist for another newspaper noted was designed to help the Stanton candidacy.
So we present, in largely unedited form, this conversation on insideschools.org, a revealing window on what concerns the real grassroots parents at P.S. 24, not the self-serving political types that dominate the parent association leadership. LORI We live in Riverdale (Fieldston) We bought a house for 1.8 Million and yet our school (one single MS) is terrible. Yes we have great/world class private schools but it will cost you about 40k a year, we pay a fortune in taxes, since we have our own company. I have 2 stepsons that are in College one in MIT so money is tight. We shouldn’t have to stress like this. My son is in the G&T program and will be in the 5th grade next year. He scored in the 97% when he tested for the program and we had him take the ERB’s and he scored in the 99%. I am so tired of Manhattan getting the great schools. I have MS and it’s pretty bad so my husband has to do a lot. I am tired of the focus being on Manhattan and we only left after 9/11, we lived next to the WTC and were evacuated for over 4 months. Well I’m not sure what we are going to do, My son is so smart and deserves to go to a good school. RKA is not Continued on Page 10