The Joy Issue
Cultivate Joy with Boutique Owner, Amy
DiSabella
FIND YOURSELF (14) • ADORN YOUR HOME (46) • LIVE CAREFREE (86)
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W
hen was the last time you told yourself how beautiful/ accomplished/worthy/strong
you are? It isn't that these qualities are
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rare in women; all women are these things, when they allow themselves to be. What's truly remarkable is a woman who KNOWS she is these things. A woman who walks
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with the poise and grace that a heart full of self-love brings. Rarity, then, as I see it—and as we've defined it in this issue—is being yourself to the fullest extent, knowing yourself to the fullest extent, and loving yourself to the fullest extent. This is the relationship with self that will bring you long-lasting, immeasurable,
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and—at times—ecstatic joy. Basically, we can all take a lesson from the cat in our life. Cats think very highly of themselves. They don't need you to tell them they are special; they know they are special. They intrinsically think of themselves first and they expect their needs to be met. They also don't mind asking for a little more...after all, they might just get it!
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In my experience, cats also return affection to those who appreciate their uniqueness.
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When we feel worthy, we show ourselves to be worthy. We expect others to feel we are
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worthy too. We lean toward and build relationships with those who agree that, yes, we
Herein lies the remarkable effect the quality of Rarity can have on our relationships.
are worthy. I say: Let's do it! Let's strut our stuff and see what happens. Let's primp and preen and take an extra-long bath or nap—or both. Let's meet our own needs more often, even as we demand more from those who love us. You're worth it, my darling...We all are.
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The soul should always stand ajar, ready to welcome the ecstatic experience. – EMILY DICKINSON
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IN THIS ISSUE
Create Joy by Celebrating Rarity M O N T H LY M US I C
Get in the midsummer groove with this month's playlist, curated by Cate Clother of @cordellamag. Listen at bit.ly/TPYmusic. T h e PE R PE T UAL YOU
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Celebrate Celebrate the bespoke details—of your home, your business, and your life— boutique owner, Amy DiSabella. P H O T O G R A P H E D by C O N S TA N C E S C H I A N O
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Realize Create a life of Joy by noticing the details,
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naming what brings you pleasure, and indulging in sensory experiences both at home and on the road, from wearing a beautiful statement necklace to releasing your inner Aphrodite to finally visiting that long-yearned for destination.
Lifestyle Get to Know YOU........................................... 14 Make a Statement........................................... 22 Customize Your Beauty Routine..................... 30
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Books ............................................................. 17 Food .............................................................. 18 Cocktail.......................................................... 20
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Movement ...................................................... 25 Style................................................................ 33 Self-Care......................................................... 36
Plus Get exotic with our reader-submitted travel stories!
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Dwell Cultivate a home of treasures and sacred spaces by reserving space for items special to you; displaying your most beloved collections; and maintaining an environment intent on showcasing your unique aesthetic.
Design Build an Altar.................................................... 40 Collect Art......................................................... 42 Create a Home You Love.................................. 46
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Live Connect to the truest parts of yourself by re-writing your story; reminding yourself of your unique qualities; and giving yourself permission to spend the time you need.
Mindset Discover Your Beauty.................................... 76 Take Notice.................................................... 80 Go Timeless................................................... 86
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Our makers consistently share their time & talents. We'd love to introduce you to the lovely ladies who contributed to this month's issue.
Constance Cover Story & Dwell Photographer @constance_schiano constanceschiano.com
Constance is a Netflix-binging, popcorn loving, destination wedding and lifestyle photographer. Based in Connecticut, Constance has photographed weddings all over the Northeast, in the Midwest and California. When she's not behind the camera, Constance is most likely walking her dog, reading an awesome book or planning her next adventure. This is Connie's first collaboration with The Perpetual You.
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Jessie
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Casee
Art Director
Proofreader
Content Editor
@littlelegendsdesign littlelegends.com
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@hopeandharbor caseemarie.com
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Payal
Krystal
Content Editor
Cover Story
Mantra Siren
@catballou24 amlofarms.com
@paypar38
@krystalbrandt krystalbrandt.com
Paula
Cate
Brittany
Collaborating Photographer
Art Liaison
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@crash3328
@cateclother Cordella.org
@glitterandbold glitterandbold.com
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Ann Marie
Michele
Kaitlin
Collaborating Artist
Collaborating Artist
Contributing Artist
@annmariedrury_artist annmariedruryart.com
@msddesign michelestarzec.com
@kaitlin_strange kaitlinstrange.com
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