September 25, 2022 - The 26th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Mass Intentions for:

Saturday, September 24th - Sunday, October 2nd

For * Requested by

Saturday, September 24 – 5 PM Church Paul Sharkey * Verga Family Maria V. Scalera * Jeanne and Matt Cerbone Dan and Rose Raimondi * John and Amy Raimondi

Sunday, September 25 – Church

8 AM Pro MichaelPopuloSeaman * Denise Cogliano Seaman Neil Slattery * Beth Emma

10 AM Nerio Dapul * Drs. Gener and Elvira Dapul Special Intention * Robert Amling William Endlicher * Fredda Family

12 PM Anthony Aslanian * Richard and Maria Gerbino Maria A. Pellicone * Mom and Dad Joseph Gentile * Ilario and Filomena Nicoletta

Monday, September 26 – 9 AM Chapel Mary Coppola * Rorie and Jack Coppola Joao Barreiros * Marie Nogueira

Tuesday, September 27 9 AM Chapel Michael Rieger * Jane Naddeo Catherine Mannino * Linda Fredda

Wednesday, September 28 – 9 AM Chapel Bill O’Doherty * Freda O’Doherty Susan Duffy Schatzle * Jim Schatzle and Family

Thursday, September 29 9 AM Chapel Eleanore Salvo * Diane Carnevale Stella Culosi * Pellicone Family

Friday, September 30 9 AM Chapel Souls in Purgatory * Mary Soyka Rev. John J. Scully * Rev. Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee, Staff & Parishioners

Saturday. October 1 – 4 PM Church Terence Deckert * John and Susan Murphy Rose and Ralph DeBiase * Diane Carnevale Gertrude Rimmele * Barbara Saake

Sunday, October 2 Church

8 AM Ingrid Hoffman * Neil and Jane Slattery Joanne Tortorello * Jane Slattery Anna Bovino * Patricia Helmacy

10 AM Pro LeonoraPopuloRoss

* Hofsdal Family Carlos Martins * Marie M. Nogueira

12 PM Robert A. and Mary Joan McNamara * McNamara Family Special Intention * Robert Amling Lillian Fabozzi * Mary Ann Becker

Please pray for the following members of our parish family

Kathleen Amatel

Michael Barker

Janice Basilice

Emily Gioacchini

Tom

BlakeChristenBrendaEileenBauschBeckleyCaronnaChellisConley

Fr Bill

Bridget Korn

Bob Lind Lori

Jack Coppola

Kaitlin Donahue Nagle

Sharon Evangellista

Joann

Kevin O’Shea

Owen

pleaseToaddafamilymembertothesicklistfor8weeks,calloremailtheParishOffice. Thank you!

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Almighty and eternal God, those who take refuge in you will be glad and forever will shout for joy. Protect these soldiers as they discharge their duties. Protect them with the shield of your strength and keep them safe from all evil and harm. May the power of your love enable them to return home in safety, that with all who love them, they may ever praise you for your loving care. We ask this through Christ our Lord.

PRAY for Military & First Responders

SN Colton Boag, USCG

LCpl Devon Francis Chrzan, USMC

Lt. Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army

Lt. Col. Douglas Coppola, US Army

Lt. Mary Herman, USN SN ChristianUSNHoulihan,

LT. Jason Joseph Howe, USN

SPC Michael John Mento, US Army

Ensign Matthew Motola, USN

LCpl Bradley O’Ree, USMC

SPC Nicholas Poskonka, US Army

Captain Richard Savo, US Army

1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army

Captain Ryan Tanguay, US Army

TSgt

LCplWitherow,StephenUSAFEdwardZarzecki, USMC

Lifelong Catechesis Week of September 25th October 1st

READINGS FOR THE WEEK

25 Sunday: TWENTY-FIFTH SUNDAY ORDINARY TIME

Am 6:1a, 4 7 / 1 Tm 6:11 16 / Lk 16:19 31

26 Monday: JB 1:6-22 / LK 9:46-50

27 Tuesday: Jb 3:1 3, 11 17, 20 23 / Lk 9:51 56

28 Wednesday: Jb 9:1-12, 14-16 / Lk 9:57-62

29 Thursday: Dn 7:9 10, 13 14 / Jn 1:47 51

30 Friday: Jb 38:1, 12-21; 40:3-5 / Lk 10:13-16

1 Saturday: JB 42:1-3, 5-6, 12-17 / LK 10:17-24

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The Grotto Candles are available for your prayer intentions. is $3.00 per candle. remember in your prayers those who have of St. the Parish Office if you wish to attend 732 2666

FOR DEEPER REFLECTION:

Question for Children: Jesus teaches us to share what we have with others. What do you have that you are able to share?

Question for Youth: The Gospel story tells us that we are judged by what we do or don’t do for the poor and needy. How are you currently reaching out to those in need? What more could you do?

Question for Adults: What choices can you or have you made to balance your own life with those who are homeless, poor and in need of assistance for daily living? How does this Gospel reading inform you about that?

Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or Chapel in honor of a living or deceased loved one.

One intention is accepted per week (Sunday - Saturday) for the Lamp. The suggested donation is $25. Request online HERE. Available weeks listed below: Chapel - 10/30, 12/11, 12/25

Worship

Andrew J. Macirowski - Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music Principal Organist

Saint Francis of Assisi is perhaps one of the most well known Catholic saints, being the patron of ecology and animals, with the blessing of animals often taking place on his feast day, the 4th of October. What is less known in popular culture about the Saint is his early life. He was born into a wealthy family, grew up with money, and worked closely with his father as a cloth merchant. He spent money freely, often partied, and what hardly what we might consider a man of God.

When Francis was about 25 years old, he had a conversion of faith after having God speak to him in a dream and hearing the voice of Christ while praying in a derelict chapel in San Damiano (outside of Assisi), renounced his father and his business, and took to living a life a poverty. Francis would preach about penitence, love of neighbor, detachment from worldly possessions, and peace, despite not be ordained. He began to gather followers,

MISSIONARY CO-OP WEEKEND

and they petitioned the local bishop to be recognized as a Christian Order, which was later informally granted by Pope Innocent III; this was the beginnings of the Franciscan Order.Less than one month before his death, Francis was praying during a 40 day retreat, when he had a vision of an angel and received the stigmata, the wounds of FrancisChrist. is known for his love and care for the environment and all of creation, peace among all, and was also the first to erect a Nativity Scene for Christmas, using live animals and a straw filled feeding trough for the infant Jesus, so that worshippers would get a better sense of the humble circumstances through which Christ entered our world. He was canonized by Pope Gregory IX just two years after his death. Pope Saint John Paul II later named Saint Francis the patron saint of Ecology.

Saint of the Week:

Wenceslaus, King and Martyr, c. 907 935

Last weekend Fr. Peter James Alindogan, Trenton Diocesan Director of the Pontifical Mission Societies in the United States, visited our parish on behalf of our mission partners. During the past years, our diocese has shared our resources to needy and developing countries where the life giving presence of Christ in our world is proclaimed and professed. You can still make a donation to support the needs of our Catholic churches in third world countries. Please make checks out to St Mary writing Mission Co-Op in the memo line and drop them in the collection box this weekend. Thank you for your generosity, for being part of our Mission Family and helping spread the message of the Gospel of Jesus Christ in these developing nations of the world. You can also make your donations electronically HERE Credit cards and bank accounts accepted.

Wenceslaus was born into the royal family of Bohemia (Czech Republic in modern times), and was raised a Christian by his grandmother, St. Ludmilla. At this time, Christianity was not widespread throughout the land; indeed, most of the nobility were very much against it.

In 925, he assumed the throne shortly after the death of his father. Wenceslaus announced that he would support God's law and endeavor to rule with justice and mercy. The severity with which he punished oppression by the nobility as well as the friendly relations which he established with Germany raised bitter opposition. Read more HERE.

Blessing of the Animals: October 4th, 6:15PM, Front Plaza of Church

Organ Host Louise Habrack Tabernacle Host Irene Weller Tabernacle Host Minister Needed Alternate Susan Murphy DuenasRita BongiornoAnthony

Organ Host Marsha Grigoli Tabernacle Host Joyce FLynn Tabernacle Host Justine Buzzetta

Alternate Gina Shute YaninasMatt RumsbySteve

Organ Host Linda Dickinson Pancila Tabernacle Host Maureen Geiger Tabernacle Host Heide Lohn Alternate Sue Fitzpatrick

Baptismal Preparation Session

St Mary Parish is offering our next Baptismal Preparation Session on: TUESDAY, OCTOBER 11, 2022 at 6:00 PM

Pre-registration is required a week in advance. Contact Us Sacrament of Baptism Couples wishing to baptize their children must be registered parishioners of St Mary Parish. Please contact the Parish Office at 732 780 2666 x329 at least 3 months in advance of the desired date for baptism. More information can be read HERE

Organ Host Emily Santangelo Tabernacle Host Minister Needed Tabernacle Host Minister Needed Alternate Monica Barr episode.

Liturgy of the Word Dismissal This is the practice of having the children, ages 4-12, leave the Sunday assembly during the Liturgy of the Word (readings) and gather in a separate environment to engage in the Liturgy of the Word at a level more appropriate to the children’s understanding. Join us every Sunday at the 10am mass

Walking With Purpose Fall 2022-2023 Program

Opening Your Heart: The Starting Point

Opening Your Heart: The Starting Point is our foundation Bible study, and we recommend all participants new to Walking with Purpose begin here, regardless of previous experience with Bible study. We encourage everyone to experience Opening Your Heart because we believe this Bible study is an incredibly effective guide to deep, lasting transformation of the heart. Join us as we take a deeper dive into the core questions that we need to wrestle with if we want to experience all that God has for us.

Touching the Divine draws us into a deeper relationship with Jesus as we reflect on Christ’s personality. Knowing Him more intimately will increase our love for Him. St. John referred to himself as “the disciple whom Jesus loved.” As we study, John will teach us how much Christ loves us and how His love is the true satisfaction of our souls. Dates: 6, Anne

The 2023 Mass Intention Book will open on Sunday, September 25, 2022 for date specific Mass Intentions within the 2023 year.

This year requests can be made via paper or online. Online requests will open on the 25th. Requests will be time stamped when received to provide order of entry into the new year book.

Parish Office Dates and Times for receiving of requests: Sunday, September 25, 2021 from 9-12 noon Monday, September 26, 2021 from 9-2 pm Tuesday, September 27, 2021 from 2-7 pm

You can print this form and return to the Parish Office, or pick up a form at the office. Please be sure to have several options for your desired dates so that we can accommodate you properly. Ash Wednesday, Christmas, Easter and the Sacred Triduum are not available for intentions. It is appropriate for you or the family of the deceased to attend the mass when celebrated. The suggested stipend for a mass Intention is $10.00 and has been set by the N.J. Bishops in the Province of Newark. Stipend can be paid by cash, check, or credit

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effort will be made to satisfy all requests, however in some cases the intention availability for a date you are requesting may be filled and you will be asked to choose another date.

After the initial Mass Book opening, requests may be submitted using this multi-intention form, on-line, or a Mass Request Envelope. Availability of dates is on a first-come first served basis. The members of the Mass Book team do not have the authority to make exceptions, so please do not ask them to do so.

If you have any questions please contact the Parish Office at 732-780-2666.

My Dear Parishioners: Today we celebrate the Twenty-Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time. There is no need to be frightened about eternal life if we daily allow God’s word to guide us in our responses to others. This message parallels what was presented in last Sunday’s gospelthere is an urgency about discipleship. Last Sunday the urgency was depicted in terms of acting prudently; this Sunday the urgency is about listening. In both ways do we prepare for eternal life. God’s word comes to us in more ways than the proclamations at Sunday Mass or taking time to read the Bible as important as both of those are. God’s word also comes to us through others. It can be presented as someone in need. God’s word might come in some challenge to our self centeredness or values. It might come through another’s encouragement. In all these ways and countless others we are invited to listen. Listening is a part of the decisiveness of discipleship.

Last weekend it was uplifting to see so many families at each of the four weekend masses. I greeted many as they were coming or going. I observed a bit of the Confirmation Candidate Retreat Day and have since received favorable feedback from participants. RE Orientation was well attended and we are off to a new Catechetical Year. Many thanks to our RE/FF Staff and all who collaborate with them. We also Welcomed Fr. PJ Alindogan for the Mission Coop program. We will have the receptacles in the Narthex this weekend as well as the drop down for our online givers in order to receive your gift for this important outreach. Our Roman Catholic Church continues to be a global deliverer of charitable goods and services…this can only happen when each of us makes a commitment to get involved. Thank you for your generous support of the foreign missions and our local charitable outreach.

Fall has begun. One of the benefits of living in the Mid-Atlantic States is the opportunity to experience fall weather. Hopefully we will be treated to that glorious transition from Summer into Winter. Take some time to be outside, enjoying a walk or sharing some wine with good friends. As with all things the seasons come and go. Don’t miss out on the beauty of creation God gives us.

Preparations are being made for the Blessing of Animals in observance of the Memorial of Saint Francis of Assisi. Please consult the e bulletin for details. We will once again be hosting the Halloween Halls. Emails have been sent to all those who have set up rooms and provided goodies for our trick or treaters. There is always room for new participants. We ask that you let our staff know in advance so the we might fill all of the available spaces. There are many service projects available for those students who need to log service hours. THANK YOU for your support and cooperation.

Each week I am noticing new faces. Some have come up and introduced themselves others have not. It is so important for us to be a welcoming community. If you notice a new face, introduce yourself. Welcome that person or family to our parish. Our parish can only be as strong as our commitment to see the Face of Christ in the other person. Participating in the Mass each weekend, getting involved in some aspect of parish life and supporting our parish community through our Stewardship of Time, Talent & Treasure are the core ways in which we are bona fide parishioners.

Do I dare say it…? Ok, why not…Christmas is 3 months from this coming Sunday! Just thought you might like to be reminded. Have a great week. Let us remember one another in prayer. Happy Sunday. Peace. Father Jeff vadis

Next weekend October 1-2 is our monthly Building & Mortgage Reduction second collection. Our payment is $7,966.26. Please be generous.

"Say not to your neighbor, 'Go, and come again, tomorrow I will give,' when you can give at once." PRV 3:28

THANK YOU for the Sacrificial Stewardship. Offerings as we support the ministries, programs and facilities of our parish. May God Bless you for the sacrifices that you make.

As of September 18, 2022

Goal: $75,000

Pledged: $87,573

% of goal:

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Average gift: $392

Paid to date: $72,062.16

If you have not yet made a gift, there are pledge forms available in the back of church, or you can visit www.dioceseoftrenton.org/catholicappeal to send your gift electronically. Make sure to select St. Mary Catholic Church, Colts Neck in the Parish Affiliation box so we can receive credit for your gift. Your gift will truly make a difference. Thank you for your prayers and support.

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Should you require our assistance setting up your new account, please call the parish office at 732 780 2666.

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Thank you for your continuous support!

Please remember the Parish of Saint Mary in your will.

By naming St. Mary in your will or trust, you will provide a lasting gift that will greatly help St. Mary and our parishioners.

Corporate Matching Many firms and corporations offer matching gift programs to benefit religious organizations, charities and other nonprofits to promote philanthropy amongst their employees. St Mary Parish is a registered charitable organization with the IRS and is also listed in GuideStar which is required by some of the corporate matching gift programs. Please consult with your employer to sign up for their matching gift program. If you have any question or need help signing St Mary Parish for corporate matched contributions, please contact Edwin at the Parish Office, 732-780-2666 x312.

Thank you for your support!

Are you looking for a safe, loving, educational and nurturing environment where your child will get the attention and care that they deserve?

Join our family today!

Flexible schedule for children 2 and up. Small class sizes.

Research based curriculum. Call 732 780 0135 today for more information

TELEFRIENDS and IN-HOMEPROGRAMSRECREATION

The AmeriCorps Seniors RSVP (Retired & Senior Volunteer Program) at Family & Children’s Service in Long Branch has meaningful volunteer opportunities for adults who are currently looking to make a difference in another person’s life. The programs provide a friendly connection for isolated and homebound adults. Committed volunteers will connect with clients once weekly through a scheduled friendly phone call or home visit. Volunteers are matched with a client based on mutual interests to provide companionship, along with health and well being check. Do you have the heart to serve and want to make a difference? Are you feeling isolated, alone and would like to engage in friendly communication? Do you know someone who would benefit from these programs? Call 732 728 1331 for more information or contact us online https://www.fcsmonmouth.org/_home/aboutat fcs/

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The AmeriCorps Seniors RSVP (Retired & Senior Volunteer Program) at Family & Children’s Service in Long Branch has a meaningful volunteer opportunity for adults 55 years and older who love children and books. Committed volunteers will read to pre K, kindergarten and first grade students during school hours for one hour, once a week. We serve 15 public schools in Monmouth County and need volunteers in your area. No previous teaching experience is required; training will be offered, and books are supplied. Please show your concern for our children by sharing your time and becoming the rainbow between a child and reading.

Call 732 728 1331 for more information or submit an application online at https:// www.fcsmonmouth.org/_home/about fcs/

Sunday, 30 October 2022 is Why That 7:30pm

Monday, 31 October 2022

Presentation 9:00am, 7:00pm,

Tuesday, 1 November 9:00am, 7:30pm

the parish office.

fit New Jersey Right to Life, the state’s oldest and largest pro-life organization, dedicated to protecting all human life from conception to natural death. Tickets are $10 each.

The prizes this year are:

1st Prize 2023 Volvo XC40 AWD SUV

2nd Prize $1,000 ShopRite Gift Card

3rd Prize $750 ShopRite Gift Card

4th Prize - $500 ShopRite Gift Card

Please show your support for LIFE by buying a raffle ticket. The cost is $10.00 per ticket.

Come, join the Diocese of Trenton Pilgrimage to the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception, Washington DC on Saturday November 12, 2022.

Bishop David M. O'Connell, CM invites you and your family to journey with him to this holy site. Plan now to be a part of this diocesan act of love and devotion in honor of Mary, Mother of the Church.

The bus will depart from the Parish of Saint Mary at 7:30 am on Sunday, November 12, 2022 and will return from DC after the 3:30 pm RegisterMass.Here

COLLIER YOUTH SERVICES

GOLF CLASSIC - OCTOBER, 3RD

more details, visit here Eagle Oaks Golf & Country Club Farmingdale, NJ

Attention GOLFERS:

Support at risk youth by purchasing a New Jersey Ryder Cup Raffle Ticket. Three winning tickets will be selected to each win 2 of the following: Baltusrol Golf Club 4some; Manasquan River 4some; Trump National Bedminster -4some Navesink Country Club 3some; Hollywood Golf Club 3some; Metedeconk National 4some

Winner selected October 3, 2022. Tickets are $200 per ticket. All proceeds go to support Collier Youth Services’ Residential Program, Kateri Day Camp, and Collier School. To purchase tickets, visit online or contact Mary at 732 946 4771 x132

CatholicNewsCharities

The Spirit Newsletter is available at the entrance to the church. Please take a copy and learn how Catholic Charities’ Partners in Recovery is helping people manage their behavioral health concerns.

Catholic Charities provides assistance with food, housing, substance use issues, domestic violence and immigration.

If you know someone in need of Catholic Charities services, please call 800 360 7711 or visit our www.catholiccharitiestrenton.orgwebsite:

Offerings at Francis House of Prayer

Trenton Diocesan Spiritual Center and Retreat House 84 Walnford Road • Allentown, NJ 08501 609 877 0509 or FHOP@verizon.net

Please check www.FHOP.org for registration, directions and for our other offerings! All programs will be offered online and in person unless otherwise indicated.

WE ARE TRANSFORMED 4 Mondays 9:30 11:30 AM

In her book, Braving the Thin Places: Celtic Wisdom to Create a Space for Grace, Julianne Stanz takes us on a wild ride to becoming aware and open to the “thin places” in our lives. Here is where we meet God who transforms our brokenness into healing and wholeness. Donation: $75

THÉRÈSE OF LISIEUX

A MENTOR FOR TODAY’S RESTLESS HEARTS Friday, September 30 9:30 AM 2:00 PM

Thérèse of Lisieux is widely known for her life of simple and practical holiness. Despite her popularity, however, many contemporary people are unfamiliar with her strikingly modern psychological and spiritual insights, and some may be inclined to dismiss her loving life as naïve or immature. They would be missing a treasure! In this retreat, we will look at how Thérèse mentors us on the way to emotional health and spiritual maturity from her own experience of loss, love, addiction and healing. With disarming humor, unsparing honesty and bold confidence, Thérèse teaches us that the merciful God of the Gospel is always on our side. Her Little Way is the path of love, inner freedom, and release from the trap of perfectionism and from the self bullying that lurks beneath the surface of our earnest best efforts. Donation: $35, includes lunch; Zoom $30.

IN PERSON ONLY - CELEBRATE ST. FRANCIS LORD, MAKE ME AN INSTRUMENT OF YOUR PEACE Tuesday, October 4 9:30 AM 1:30 PM

We will have a wonderful celebration of St. Francis! We begin our day by viewing an inspiring film by Bishop Robert Barron on St. Francis. You will feel like you are in Assisi! We will spend some time outdoors, weather permitting, to enjoy the beauty of creation as Francis insists and follow with the celebration of Liturgy in our Portiuncula (outdoor Chapel). Donation: $30, includes lunch.

THE BARN FOR THE POOREST OF THE POOR Deliver food to Mother Teresa’s soup kitchens and the Franciscan Friars of Renewal.

 Passenger needed once a month for drive to NYC on Tuesday night. Leave at 5 PM, return by 10:30 PM

 Drive to Delicious Orchards one Sunday a month. Leave at 5PM, return at 7 PM Reply to barnforthepoor@gmail.com