

A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time
OnePhalanxRoad,ColtsNeck,NJ07722
Phone:732-780-2666 Fax:732-780-0394
Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M.
Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee
Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch
Parish Trustees: Annette Raynor & Roger Zurro
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Please note our Fall/Winter office hours began on September 3rd. On Tuesday’s, the Parish Office will open at 2:00 pm and close at 7:30 pm. There will be no morning hours on Tuesday’s. Any questions, please call the office at (732)-780-2666. The Parish Office will also be open Sunday October 6, 9am - 1pm
Saturday September 21 2024 - Sunday September 29 2024
Saturday, September 21– 4PM
Robert Ward *Carol Ward
Albert Herman * Donna and Frank Sikorskas
Kathleen Zoppi * Francine and Joseph Corcoran
Sunday, September 22–8AM
Daniel John Velba * Adele Velba
William Endlicher * Bob Endlicher John and Elizabeth
DeStefano * Franceschetti/DeStefano Family
10AM
Pro Populo
Philip Andrews * Carmel & Peter Vickers
Carol Bongiovi * Joe & Jennifer Bongiovi
12PM
Frank Pompilii * Sessa Family
Francesca Distefano * Paola DiNapoli
Maria Ruiz * Diffley Family
Monday, September 23 - 9AM
Rose Lunz * Maureen Beyer
Tuesday, September 24 - 9AM
Elizabeth Joyce * Joyce Family
Maria Pellicone * Mom and Dad
Wednesday, September 25- 9AM
Darrell Peckinpaugh * Jane Slattery
Nerio Dapul * Drs. Gener and Elvira Dapul
Thursday, September 26- 9AM
Mary Coppola * Jack and Rorie Coppola
Libero (Sam) Barbara * Parker Family
Friday, September 27- 9AM
Carlo Amato * Peter and Grace Randazzo
Saturday, September 28- 4PM
Susan Duffy Schatzle * Jim Schatzle & Family
Robert Paul Ward * Family
Msgr. Robert Paul Egan * Family
Sunday September 29 - 8AM
DeStefano/Albruno Families * Mr. and Mrs. Franceschetti
Barwick and Ganley Families * Alice Ganley and Family
Thomas Helmacy * Jane Slattery
10AM
Bill O'Doherty * Freda O'Doherty
Angela Duenas * Michael Duenas - son
Michael Capardi * Capardi Family
12PM
Pro Populo
Stella Culosi * Nick and JoAnn Pellicone
Darryl Turkaly * Ann Marie & Vincent Vita
Mass Intention Requests Requests can be made in person by stopping at the parish office, or online HERE. Suggested stipend is $10.
The 2025 Mass Intention Book will open on Sunday October 6, 2024
For date specific Mass Intentions within the 2025 year.
Parish Office dates for receiving requests: Sunday, October 6, 9 am to 1 pm (Online requests will also open at 9am) Monday, October 7, 9 am to 2 pm Tuesday, October 8, 2 pm to 7 pm
Requests will be time & date stamped when received to provide order of entry into the book. Submit your requests online click here or by printing and filling out our PDF click here
Availability of dates is on a first come, first served basis. Please be sure to have several options for your desired dates so that we can accommodate you properly. Make sure to choose a combination of Sunday and weekday masses for your intentions. Christmas, Easter and the Sacred Triduum are not available for intentions. The suggested stipend for a Mass Intention is $10.00 and has been set by the N.J. Bishops in the Province of Newark. Stipends are to be paid at the time of submitting your request by cash, check. or credit card. If you need assistance, please contact the Parish Office at (732) 780-2666.
of September 22– September 28
READINGS FOR THE WEEK:
25th Sunday in Ordinary Time
Wis 2:12, 17-20/Jas 3:16 4:3/Mk 9:30-37
MONDAY September 23
Prv 3:27-34/Lk 8:16-18
TUESDAY September 24
Prv 21:1-6, 10-13/Lk 8:19-21
WEDNESDAY September 25
Prv 30:5-9/Lk 9:1-6
THURSDAY September 26
Eccl 1:2-11/Lk 9:7-9
FRIDAY September 27
Eccl 3:1-11/Lk 9:18-22
SATURDAY September 28
Eccl 11:9 12:8/Lk 9:43b-45
Almighty and eternal God, those who take refuge in you will be glad and forever will shout for joy. Protect these soldiers as they discharge their duties. Protect them with the shield of your strength and keep them safe from all evil and harm. May the power of your love enable them to return home in safety, that with all who love them, they may ever praise you for your loving care. We ask this through Christ our Lord.
AMT Colton Boag, USCG
Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army
TSgt Stephen Witherow, USAF
LCpl Edward Zarzecki, USMC
Question for Children: What are some specific ways in which you can serve your friends or family members?
Question for Youth: Sometimes, when we strive to be first or be the one that wins, we hurt others. When has striving to be first hurt others? What can you do differently in the future to help others to succeed?
Question for Adults: Is the role of being a servant for others easy or difficult for you to embrace?
Lt. Col. Douglas Coppola, US Army
Lt. Mary Herman, USN
SN Christian Houlihan, USN
LT. Jason Joseph Howe, USN
SPC Michael John Mento, US Army
LTJG Matthew Motola, USN
LCpl Bradley O’Ree, USMC
SPC Nicholas Poskonka, US Army
Captain Richard Savo, US Army
1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army
Captain Ryan Tanguay, US Army
Pleaseprayforthefollowingmembersofourparishcommunitywhoareill:
Lori Lettieri
Lauren vinci
Jack Coppola
Kaitlin Donahue Nagle
TOM JACOBSON
Dawn Reinhardt
Gerard Thompson
Rose walch
Joyce daniel
Robert a . monaco, md
Jeff McBride
Owen Shoemaker
Peter Vickers
Toaddorremoveafamilymemberfromthesicklistpleasee-mailONLY parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org. Please,also,keepusupdatedonyourlovedone’shealth. Nameswillberemovedfromthelistafter3months.ThankyouforkeepingourParishinformed.
Andrew J. Macirowski - Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal Organist
Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org Worship & Music
St. Padre Pio was born Francesco Forgione, on May 25, 1887, in Pietrelcina, Italy. His parents were peasant farmers. He served as an altar boy at his local parish. From a young age, Francisco had a peculiar ability: he believed he could see and speak with angels.
At the age of 15, Francisco entered the novitiate of the Capuchin friars at Morcone. He took the name of "Pio" in honor of Pope Pius I, whose relic he often saw at his local chapel. At the age of 17, Brother Pio became extremely ill and could only digest milk and cheese. He was sent to the mountain for better air, and when this did not work, he was sent home to his family. Amid all this, he continued to study for the priesthood, and was ordained in 1910.
On September 20 1915, Padre Pio was hearing confessions when he felt pain in his hands and feet. He noticed the stigmata, the wounds of Christ, appearing on his hands and feet. The experience was painful. Bleeding occurred. The wounds smelled of roses, and although they continued to weep, they never became infected. Doctors who later examined the stigmata were amazed at their perfectly round shape. By 1919, word began to spread about Padre Pio's stigmata and people came from far away to examine him. Padre Pio became popular with the people he encountered and soon began to attribute supernatural occurrences to him. For example, he was said to levitate, and able to perform miracles.
Padre Pio became internationally famous. He was known for his piety, charity and the quality of his preaching. He famously advised, "Pray, hope and don't worry."
Padre Pio died on September 23, 1968. His funeral was attended by over 100,000 people. He was beatified by Pope Saint John Paul II in 2002. His feast day is September 23. He is the patron of civil defense volunteers, adolescents, and the village of Pietrelcina.
Sunday, 29 September 2024 - after 10:00 AM mass
This is a great opportunity to meet fellow parishioners and catch up with those whom you already know. Let’s take advantage of this time and share a special moment with your Saint Mary family! Please contact the parish office to join the hospitality team
Saturday, 28 4 PM
Ministry Schedule: 26thSunday in Ordinary Time September 28 & 29
Alex Gruenling Anthony Gruenling Carly York
Jennifer Stubbs
Sunday, 29 8 AM
Sunday, 29 10 AM
Alexander Lennon (SUB REQ) Sophia Lennon (SUB REQ)
Bridgett Farrow
Mary Ellen Griffin (SUB REQ)
Charles Young Annette Raynor
OH - Louise Habrack
TH - Susan Murphy
TH - Dawn Reinhardt
ALT - Monica Barr
OH - Mary Aiello
TH - Joyce Flynn
TH - Justine Buzzetta
ALT - Marsha Grigoli
OH - Winifred O’Doherty
Chloe Cullin NOT FILLED Carly York
Steve Rumbsy Barbara Schaflin
Sunday, 29 12 PM
Jack Schatzle NOT FILLED Carly York
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Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen. (LectionaryPage.net)
St Mary Parish is offering our next Baptismal Preparation Session on: SUNDAY, October 6, 2024 at 1:00 PM Pre-registration isrequired aweekinadvance. Contact Us
Paul Tonacci Richard Gerbino
TH - Gregory Calderaro
TH - Amy Orrico
ALT - Maureen Geiger
OH - Lee Gesner
TH - Tom Nathanson (Sub Req)
TH - Emily Santangelo (Sub Req)
ALT - Patricia Gesner
Welcome the newest member of our Saint Mary Parish family Who was recently Baptized: Violet Grace Vidolin
The Grotto Candles are available for your prayer intentions. Offering is $3.00 per candle.
Faith Formation
Julia Cullen - Pastoral Coordinator of Faith Formation / Religion Ed
ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org 732-780-2666 X 309
Religious Education Calendar
12 October 2024
22, 24 September 2024
Confirmation Prep Class
22 September 2024 Fall Movie Day Intergenerational beginning at 12 PM mass SIGN UP HERE
29 September 2024
First Holy Communion rehearsal / retreat beginning at 12 PM mass
6 October 2024
First Holy Communion 10 AM mass
6 October 2024
First Holy Communion Rehearsal / retreat beginning at 12 PM mass
Confirmation (9th graders) Rehearsal at the 4 PM mass
13 October 2024 First Holy Communion 10 AM mass
13 October 2024
First Holy Communion Rehearsal / retreat beginning at 12 PM mass
18 October 2024
Confirmation will be celebrated at 4 PM sharp
20 October 2024
First Holy Communion 12 PM mass
26 October 2024 Halloween Halls
Beginning at 4PM mass & then Madonna Hall
This year’s Confirmand and their parents or sponsor spent some time in retreat this past Sunday. Collen Kelly- Rayner, of CKR retreats led them in faith and prayer to help deepen their understanding and strengthen their relationship with God and the Catholic faith. Please keep this year’s Confirmand in your prayers.
Religious Education has officially begun for Fall grades 1-8 and we are off to a great start! We are blessed again this year to have such engaged and committed catechists as well as assistants to help form these young hearts and souls.
IMPORTANT RELIGIOUS ED LINKS 2024 - 2025 • 2024 - 2025 RE Calendar grades 1-8
24/25 Fall RE Calendar grades 1-6
Parent - Student 24/25 Handbook
List
Recording
Attendance Link
Come learn something new about the amazing riches of our Catholic faith or dig deeper into your own faith. Meet other parishioners over a cup of coffee and Faith study. PARENTS, consider joining to recharge or reignite your faith journey and bring it home to you family!
Walking with Purpose is a series designed specifically for women. Whether you’re a mom, wife, or simply seeking a deeper connection, "Walking with Purpose" link everyday challenges to the solutions given to us in the teaching of Christ and the Catholic Church. Morning study. For more information see page 9
Raising the dead, calming the storm, healing the sick – miracles performed by Jesus Christ were marveled at by the multitudes. Unfortunately, most in the masses followed Jesus for what He could do rather than who he was. But aside from seeing the power of God in action, what was the purpose of Christ’s miracles?
In this compelling book, Evangelist Jimmy Swaggart presents the evidence left behind by each miraculous event –faith in the Lord Jesus Christ
MORNING SESSION:
Beginning October 2
Wednesdays 10 am – 11:30 am, Room 17
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You say you “believe” every Sunday as you recite the Creed. But do you know what you’re saying you “believe” in? Do the truths of the faith listed in the Creed really permeate your life? Learn how these ancient truths contain the promise of peace, joy and happiness for our lives.
Pillar I: The Creed is a 12-Part program that will launch you on an amazing journey through the Catechism of the Catholic Church. Don’t miss this opportunity to take part in a compelling and inspiring learning experience that is sure to draw you closer to Christ through a deeper understanding of the teachings of His Church.
EVENING SESSION:
Beginning 0ctober 1
Tuesdays at 7:00pm in Room 17
Register HERE
Looking forward to your generous contributions of time, effort and items next year around Labor Day
Tickets are being sold through November 11th at the parish office. The proceeds of which will benefit New Jersey Right to Life, the state’s oldest and largest pro-life organization, dedicated to protecting all human life from conception to natural death.
Tickets are available UNTIL November 11th for $10 each in the Parish Office.
The prizes this year are:
1st Prize 2025 Volvo XC40 AWD SUV
2nd Prize $1,000 ShopRite Gift Card
3rd Prize $750 ShopRite Gift Card
4th Prize - $500 ShopRite Gift Card
Please show your support for LIFE by buying a raffle ticket. The cost is $10.00 per ticket.
It has become almost normative these days for political candidates of every stripe to end their speeches at campaign appearances, town halls or rallies with some form of the expression “God bless you and/or God bless the United States of America.” Perhaps you, too, have noticed its appearance more frequently than in the past. I actually wait for it now while watching television broadcasts of these events, especially in this election year.
Certainly, it is an admirable sentiment with which to conclude their comments, since phrases like “In God we trust,” one nation under God,” “endowed by their Creator,” “so help me God” have long been an important part of the American vernacular throughout history.
Is it a prayer, a religious wish or “just something to say” to audiences in a country founded upon Judeo-Christian principles? I regularly wonder about it, especially when the speech that precedes it contains elements that advocate policies or positions that hardly seem reflective or consistent with our divine origins, the goodness of God or the religious faith of any and all believers, not even to mention the tone and tenor of some remarks that lack basic civility.
I guess it is better to acknowledge God and conclude remarks asking for his blessing on our nation than not.
We are once again in an election year anticipating the exercise of one of the most basic rights and responsibilities of an American citizen: the right and responsibility to vote. Regardless of which candidate or political party we support or endorse, the right to vote lies at the heart of our democracy. The free exercise of something so important should by its very nature be preceded by very careful thought and scrutiny. That goes for every citizen, whether they are believers in God or not.
Let me share a few thoughts on the exercise of voting by believers, Catholics in particular, in the enterprise of what the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops refers to as “faithful citizenship.”
Our Holy Father Pope Francis has written, “Everything, including political life, belongs to Jesus Christ, and so participation in political life belongs to the mission of the Church (apostolic exhortation Evangelii Gaudium, 181, November 24, 2013).”
The Pope is not directing the Church and its pastors to tell Catholics “how” to vote but, rather, he is identifying and
placing the responsibility to participate in political life into the arena of the Church’s mission.
The Church is called to proclaim the Gospel and to educate baptized Catholics about the truth of its social and moral teachings, especially as they impact the common good. In this way, the Church’s mission includes through all means at its disposal helping Catholics form their consciences in
“The Church does not wish to exercise political power or eliminate the freedom of opinion of Catholics regarding contingent questions. Instead, it intends as its proper function to instruct and illuminate the consciences of the faithful, particularly those involved in political life, so that their actions may always serve the integral promotion of the human person and the common good (Dicastery formerly “Congregation” for the Doctrine of the Faith, “Doctrinal Note on Some Questions Regarding the Participation of Catholics in Political Life”, 6, May 24, 2002).”
In 2007, the USCCB issued its first teaching document on Catholics engaging in political life entitled “Forming Consciences for Faithful Citizenship” (FCFC), updated every four years, usually before a presidential election. The most recent Introductory “Note” for the document was approved by the
The USCCB document is intended as a guide for American Catholics on political responsibility, and how to participate in public life in a way that is consistent with the mission of Jesus Christ and the Church. It applies Catholic social and moral principles and teachings to a range of issues and warns against using the idea of "conscience" to justify choices that advance personal, ideological, or partisan political interests contrary to those principles and the Catholic social and moral teachings they advance.
The following commentary identifies some of those social and moral issues referenced in FCFC to guide our conscience formation.
Every human life is sacred, from conception to natural death. That has been and remains firm Catholic moral teaching based upon sound human reasoning and is, therefore, our most basic principle as Catholics. FCFC asserts that “The threat of abortion remains our preeminent priority because it directly attacks life itself, because it takes place within the sanctuary of the family, and because of the number of lives destroyed.”
At the same time, we cannot dismiss or ignore other serious threats that impact human life and dignity such as racism, the environmental crisis, poverty, the death penalty and so forth. Our efforts to protect the unborn remain as important as ever, for just as the Supreme Court has given greater latitude for state laws regarding abortion, state legislators have passed statutes not only keeping abortion legal through all nine months of pregnancy but opening the door to infanticide.
Additionally, abortion contaminates many other important life issues by being inserted into legislation regarding euthanasia and assisted suicide, embryonic stem cell research, health care for the poor and health care reform in general (“Introductory Letter,” FCFC). The Catholic Church teaches
2. Religious liberty
The United States Constitution protects religious liberty in its First Amendment. It includes not only our freedom to worship but also our freedom to believe in and practice our faith as Americans … or not to believe! The Church teaches that every effort should be made to preserve and support religious liberty. Individuals and communities of faith should not be subject to religious persecution, here or anywhere in the world, because of their faith.
3. Traditional marriage and family life
There has been and continues to be a growing movement in our country to “redefine marriage.” The Church teaches that the faithful union of one man and one woman is the foundation of the family and, as an essential core element of a flourishing society and Church, traditional marriage and family life must be protected and preserved.
4. The disparity between rich and poor
Most of the world’s resources are in the hands of a small percentage of its population. In the United States, federal budgets have moral implications and should prioritize the poorest and most vulnerable among us. Unemployment, homelessness and inadequate housing are evident throughout our nation, especially in major population centers, and need to be confronted and addressed to ensure economic justice for all.
5. Immigration reform
Despite their legal status, undocumented persons in the United States deserve respect and human compassion. There has been and remains an ongoing immigration problem in our country that requires a humane solution by our elected government leaders.
6. Racism and inequality
The Declaration of Independence affirms that “all men are created equal” and “are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.” The Church opposes all oppression
and all injustice. The elimination of racism, bigotry, discrimination and inequality is a goal that needs to be achieved in our lifetimes.
7. Violence, hatred and crime
Society has a duty to protect and defend its members against violence, hatred and crime. “Violence cannot be overcome by violence. Violence is overcome by peace! By peace, by working with dignity to help your homeland move forward (Pope Francis, “Remarks” at Phoenix Center, Bethlehem, May 26, 2014).”
8. Protection of the Environment
Pope Francis has declared stewardship of the earth, our “common home,” a contemporary moral imperative. “Never have we so hurt and mistreated our common home as we have in the last 200 years ... We are not God. The earth was here before us and was given to us ... The idea of unlimited growth, which proves so attractive to economists, financiers and experts in technology … is based on the lie that there is an infinite supply of the earth’s goods, and leads to the planets being squeezed dry at every limit ... Yet all is not lost. Human beings, while capable of the worst, are also capable of rising above themselves, choosing again what is good and making a new start (Pope Francis, encyclical “Laudato Si’: Care for Our Common Home,” 53; 67; 106; 205, May 24, 2015). Progress in protecting the environment lies in our hands but especially in the hands of those who govern us.
The preceding topics do not represent an exhaustive list of the social and moral issues of major concern to the Catholic Church in our country, clergy and lay faithful alike. War and peace, international relations, human trafficking, drug abuse, educational choice, health care reform, use of print, broadcast and electronic media,
As American Catholics, we look to the Church and its official teachers for clear, careful and consistent presentation and application of principles that undergird, support and protect our Catholic social and moral teachings so that the common good, truth, justice and peace are enhanced, preserved and advanced in American society. We should not expect bishops, ordained clergy or other Church leaders to tell us for whom or against whom to vote. In fact, they should not. As American Catholics, we should look to the Church’s teachings to help form our consciences for the exercise of faithful citizenship. I recommend the Catechism of the Catholic Church and the USCCB’s documents referenced herein as excellent resources for that purpose.
May God bless the United States of America!
Sharing Our Treasure Sept, 15 2024 –Twenty Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time
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# Registered Parishioner Households 934
"Those who are well do not need a physician, but the sick do. Go and learn the meaning of the words, I desire
mercy, not sacrifice. I did not come to call the righteous but sinners."
Mt 9:13
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As of September 16 2024
Goal: $75,000 Pledged: $ 92,476.00 % of goal: 123% # donors: 227 Average gifts: $ 346.35 Total gifts: 267 Paid to date: $ 88,909.00
THANK YOU ! For all your efforts in supporting the Annual Catholic Appeal! Please continue to make your pledge payments so that our parish can receive the maximum rebate. If you haven't made a pledge yet please go to www.dioceseoftrenton.org/catholicappeal to send your gift electronically. Make sure to select St. Mary Catholic Church, Colts Neck in the Parish Affiliation box so we can receive credit for your gift.
Thank you for your prayers and support.
The Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius are a core offering at Francis House which deepen your capacity for prayer and intimacy with God, free you from attachments, clarify your purpose and teach discernment of spirits, the art of finding God in all things. Below are our 3 ways:
10 Wednesdays 3:00 – 4:30 PM
September 11 February 5
October 9 March 5
November 6 April 2
December 4 April 16
January 8 May 7
Please give yourself the gift of this retreat that invites you to pray with Scriptures each day using the format of the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius. We will use The Jesus Way: Practicing the Ignatian Spiritual Exercises, by Karen Keen and The Gift of Spiritual Intimacy by Monty Williams, SJ. Donation: $200
34 Tuesdays 3:00 – 4:30 PM
September 17 – May 27
On Zoom to alleviate travel each week. In this full version, we will experience the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius which corresponds to a 30-day retreat at a retreat house. You are committing to one hour of prayer every day and a weekly meeting. We will use The Jesus Way: Practicing the Ignatian Spiritual Exercises, by Karen Keen and The Gift of Spiritual Intimacy by Monty Williams, SJ. Donation: $450
10 Wednesdays 7:00 – 8:30 PM
September 11 February 5
October 9 March 5
November 6 April 2
December 4 April 16
January 8 May 7
We will use To Walk with Christ by Laurence Gooley, SJ as our guide through the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius and read Jesuit James Martin’s The Jesuit Guide to Almost Everything, between sessions. Donation: $200