parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M.
Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee

Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch
Parish Trustees: Annette Raynor & Roger Zurro

Mass Intentions for:
Saturday, September 30 - Sunday, October 8 - 2023
Saturday, September 30 – 4 PM Church
Gertrude Rimmele * Barbara Saake
Susan Dufffy Schatzle * Jim Schatzle and Family
Donald Luchino * Conaghan Family
Sunday, October 01 – Church
8 AM
John Grabowski * Eileen and Michael Stivala
Leonard Calderaro * Mr. and Mrs. Mario Geneve
Hilde Peckyno * YMCA Friends
10 AM
Frank Donahue * Fredda Family
Emily Catt * Carmel and Peter Vickers
Philip Andrews * Carmel and Peter Vickers
12 PM
Pro Populo
Mark T. Zaratonello * Family
Special Intention * Bob Amling
Monday, October 02 – 9 AM Chapel
Melicia Macalintal * Drs. Gener and Elvira Dapul
Tuesday, October 03 -9 AM Chapel
Paolo Ilardi * Di Napoli Family
Wednesday, October 04 -9 AM Chapel
Ernest Gasparine * Ginny and Bill La Morte
Dr. Edward Gaines * Richard Carrano
Sanctuary Lamp
Consider offering a Sanctuary Lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in our Church or Chapel in memory of a deceased loved one or in honor of a living person (for birthdays, anniversaries, sickness, etc.). One intention is accepted per week (Sunday to Saturday) for the Lamp. Requests can be made online HERE for the remainder of 2023 and for 2024. Available lamps are displayed in GREEN at the beginning of each week on Sundays Requests for Sanctuary Lamp can also be made at the Parish Office during regular business hours. The suggested donation is $25.
Thursday, October 05 – 9 AM Chapel


Albert Herman * Nancy and Harry Bauer
Ben Retacco * Tom and Angela Kinlin
Friday, October 06 -9 AM Chapel
Dee Dorrian * Dorrian Family
Saturday, October 07 – 4 PM Church
Pro Populo
James Resko * Jon and Mary Kopko
Rose and Ralph DeBiase * Diane Carnevale
Sunday, October 08 – Church
8 AM
Helen and John Sionas * Eileen and Michael Stivala
DeStefano/Albruno Families *
Mr. and Mrs. M. Franceschetti
Juan Gutierrez * Molly and John Aiello
10 AM
Intention of Oliver and Anna Felibrico * Felibrico Family
Sergio Dos Santos * Dos Santos Family
Susan Duenas * Rita and Michael Duenas
12 PM
Robert A. and Mary Joan McNamara *
McNamara Family
Intention of Susanna Shamy * Susanna Shamy
Dale Rodberg * Walter Friedauer
Mass Intention Requests
Our 2024 Mass Book is now open for intention requests throughout the year for daily and Sunday Masses. Requests can be made online HERE.
You can navigate through the calendar and find dates that are available for intentions in GREEN. If you prefer, you can fill out a request form in paper by printing THIS DOCUMENT
Please return the form along with payment for intentions offered to the parish office. The Mass Intention stipend is $10.00 and has been set by the NJ Bishops in the Province of Newark.
Lifelong
Catechesis - Week of October 1 to October 7
READINGS FOR THE WEEK:
1 Sunday: TWENTY-SIXTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME
Ez 18:25-28/Phil 2:1-11 or 2:1-5/Mt 21:28-32
2 Monday: Zec 8:1-8 (455)/Mt 18:1-5, 10 [The Holy Guardian Angels]
3 Tuesday: Zec 8:20-23/Lk 9:51-56
4 Wednesday: Neh 2:1-8/Lk 9:57-62 [St. Francis of Assisi]
5 Thursday: Neh 8:1-4a, 5-6, 7b-12/Lk 10:1-12 [St. Faustina Kowalska]
6 Friday: Bar 1:15-22/Lk 10:13-16
7 Saturday: Bar 4:5-12, 27-29/Lk 10:17-24 [Our Lady of the Rosary]

FOR DEEPER REFLECTION:
Question for Children: How do you show your love for Jesus by doing what he asks, even when it is difficult for you?
Question for Youth: Today’s parable reminds us that it isn’t what we say that counts as much as what we do. How would someone know you are a Christian through your actions?
Question for Adults: How and when were you like each of the sons in the Gospel?
Pleaseprayforthefollowingmembersofourparishcommunitywhoareill:
John BARONE ~
Fr Bill Bausch ~
Francis Patrick Albano
Jack Coppola
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Bill Donahue
~ Kekoa Xael
Toaddorremoveafamilymemberfromthesicklistpleasee-mailONLYparishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Please,also,keepusupdatedonyourlovedone’shealth. Nameswillberemovedfromthelistafter3months. ThankyouforkeepingourParishinformed.
Almighty and eternal God, those who take refuge in you will be glad and forever will shout for joy. Protect these soldiers as they discharge their duties. Protect them with the shield of your strength and keep them safe from all evil and harm. May the power of your love enable them to return home in safety, that with all who love them, they may ever praise you for your loving care. We ask this through Christ our Lord.
Pray for Military & First Responders

AMT Colton Boag, USCG ~
LCpl Devon Francis Chrzan, USMC ~
Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army ~
TSgt Stephen Witherow, USAF
LCpl Edward Zarzecki, USMC
Lt. Col. Douglas Coppola, US Army ~
Lt. Mary Herman, USN ~
SN Christian Houlihan, USN ~
LT. Jason Joseph Howe, USN ~
SPC Michael John Mento, US Army ~
LTJG Matthew Motola, USN ~
LCpl Bradley O’Ree, USMC ~
SPC Nicholas Poskonka, US Army
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Captain Richard Savo, US Army ~
1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army
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Captain Ryan Tanguay, US Army
Worship & Music
Saint Francis of Assisi

Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Saint Francis is perhaps one of the most well-known Catholic saints, being the patron of ecology and animals, with the blessing of animals often taking place on his feast day, the 4th of October.

What is less known in popular culture about the Saint is his early life. He was born into a wealthy family, grew up with money, and worked closely with his father as a cloth merchant. He spent money freely, often partied, and what hardly what we might consider a man of God.
When Francis was about 25 years old, he had a conversion of faith after having God speak to him in a dream and hearing the voice of Christ while praying in a derelict chapel in San Damiano (outside of Assisi), renounced his father and his business, and took to living a life a poverty. Francis would preach about penitence, love of neighbor, detachment from worldly possessions, and peace, despite not be ordained. He began to gather followers, and they petitioned the local bishop to be recognized as a Christian Order, which was later informally granted by Pope Innocent III; this was the beginnings of the Franciscan Order.
Less than one month before his death, Francis was praying during a 40-day retreat, when he had a vision of an angel and received the stigmata, the wounds of Christ.
Francis is known for his love and care for the environment and all of creation, peace among all, and was also the first to erect a Nativity Scene for Christmas, using live animals and a straw-filled feeding trough for the infant Jesus, so that worshippers would get a better sense of the humble circumstances through which Christ entered our world.
He was canonized by Pope Gregory IX just two years after his death. Pope Saint John Paul II later named Saint Francis the patron saint of Ecology.
Cosmas and Damian, Physicians and Martyrs, early Fourth Century

According to legend, Cosmas and Damian were twin brothers born in Arabia. They studied medicine in Syria and later became widely known for their medical skills which they offered, without charge, to all. Because of their charities, they were known in their time as the “moneyless ones.” They gained the love and respect of the people to whom they ministered, both for their medical assistance and the zeal of their Christian faith. During the persecution under the Emperor Diocletian, Cosmas and Damian, together with three brothers, Anthimus, Leontius, and Euprepius, were arrested, tried, and beheaded for their faith. Over the years following their deaths, many people reported miracles that occurred in the names of Cosmas and Damian. Among them was- Read More HERE.
Speak with a Priest
Struggling with a life event and in need of spiritual assistance?
Want to celebrate the Sacrament of Penance outside the normal Confession times?
Trying to find your way back to engagement with the Church?
Discerning vocation?
Looking to complete your Sacraments of Initiation and wish to chat about the journey?
St Mary is offering the opportunity for parishioners to chat with a priest who are only indirectly engaged with the parish.
If interested please contact Fr Mike Walsh by phone 732-780-2666 x205 or email frmike.walsh@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Ministry Schedule: 27th Sunday in Ordinary Time
October 7 & 8
Saturday 4PM 2 SERVERS NEEDED Marybeth Jacobson
Sunday 8AM 1 SERVER NEEDED Carly York
Sunday 10AM Tesya Yaninas & Grace Collins CHOIR
Sunday 12PM 1 SERVER NEEDED Carly York
In memory of Saint Francis of Assisi, The Parish of St. Mary will be hosting their annual Blessing of the Animals.

WHEN: October 4 at 6:15 PM.
WHERE: Front Plaza of the Church
NEW TO COLTS NECK? Join Saint Mary Parish!
We welcome you and invite you to register as parishioners of St Mary!
Please find our registration guidelines in our Website under About Us/New Parishioners.
Mass of Remembrance - October 29, 2022

Preceding the 12pm Mass our Parish will remember in a special way those who had a funeral Mass at Saint Mary during the past year as well as any relative you may wish to remember. This Mass is an opportunity for us to assist those who grieve the death of a loved one. If you wish the name of a loved one who has died during this past year read out at this Mass, please complete the form below and submit it to the office or complete online HERE
OH - Susan Murphy
TH - Monica Barr
TH - Louise Habrack
ALT - Irene Weller
OH - Justine Buzzetta
TH - Joseph Flanagan
TH - Joyce Flynn
ALT - Jane Slattery
OH - Steve Stanley
TH - Amy Orrico
TH - Sue Fitzpatrick
ALT - Linda Dickinson-Pancilla
LWD– NEEDED
OH - NEEDED
TH - Lee Gesner
TH - Emily Santangelo
ALT - Patricia Gesner
All Souls Remembrance

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It is the Church’s custom to reserve the month of November for the remembrance of all the faithful departed. Please use your All Souls envelope to write the names of those loved ones you would like to remember and kindly drop it in the collection boxes anytime beginning in October. The envelopes will be wrapped and placed near the tabernacle, and an intention will be added to the prayer of the faithful in the Masses celebrated on All Souls Day and during the month of November. Online givers can also send in their All Souls remembrance thru our online giving system at GIVE ONLINE HERE
Thank you for preserving our Catholic traditions and honoring those who have gone before us.
You are then asked to come to the table in the Gathering Space before Mass to receive a candle to be brought to the altar when the name is called.
Name of Deceased: ___________________________
Requester Name: _____________________________
Relationship to Deceased: ____________________
Email: _________________________________________
Phone Number: ________________________________
Faith Formation
ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org
732-780-2666 X 309
This Sunday, 1 October, beginning at the 12PM Mass, we are proud to invite communicants that will make their First Holy Communion on the 8th, to their retreat/rehearsal.
Let us prepare before we celebrate.
P.S. Check the Faith Formation calendar for all Sacramental dates coming up. We have also posted the sign-ups to be a part of the Nativity Play this year.

See details at the bottom of the page!
IMPORTANT RELIGIOUS ED LINKS

[2023 - 2024]
• Fall RE Schedule
• 2023 - 2024 RE Calendar
• Parent - Student Handbook
• Intergenerational List
• Intergenerational Digital Recording Sheet
Get your Spooky on at our Annual Intergenerational Event:



Faith Formation Calendar
1 October 2023
First Holy Communion Rehearsal for 1/8 communion
12 PM Mass
8 October 2023
First Holy Communion Rehearsal for 1/15
communion.12 PM Mass
8 October 2023
10 AM Mass
First Holy Communion
14 October 2023
4 PM Confirmation Practice
15 October 2023
First Holy Communion Rehearsal for 10/22
communion. 12 PM Mass
15 October 2023
10 AM Mass
First Holy Communion
20 October 2023
Sacrament of Confirmation
22 October 2023
12 PM mass
First Holy Communion
18 November 2023
9 AM - 1 PM Fall Clean-Up
TALKS WITH FATHER MIKE!
Date: October 28, 2023

RSVP by clicking HERE.
Our first Fall Religious Education talk with Father Mike will be Tuesday, 10 October 2023 at 4:50PM in the spiritual center. And, virtually on Wednesday, 11 October 2023 at 5PM. This is open to all Religious Education families. The topic is ‘Catholic Culture,’ and any and all questions are welcome! Sign-up HERE so we know how many to expect.
Calling all actors and singers!!!
We will be performing the Nativity Play this December during the RE Christmas Party! There will be two rehearsals, and one dress rehearsal. You must attend all three. Please sign up using the QR code to be apart of the production. Please also be advised that all students in grades 1-8 will be invited to the Christmas party and the RSVP will be posted in December.




Hello All!
It is our calling to spread the word of Jesus Christ. To place the first seed in someone’s mind about our God who is alive and in Heaven!
Young people everywhere do not know He exists and those searching are not being directed.
See the box below for information on our upcoming RCIA meeting with our cohort Parish St. Catharine’s.
If your child is looking to get closer to the Lord, we also have available our Youth Ministry program.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and he will make straight your paths." Proverbs 3:5-6
Calling ALL High School Students!! (Grades 9-12)
Are you interested in Catholic Youth Ministry? Come to our cohort Parish: St. Catharine's Church in Holmdel and join with their teen Youth Group for a Community Service Meeting, and see what it is all about. Community Service hours will be awarded. Registration AND filling out the registration form is required! Click HERE to register and open form. All teens must have all registration forms filled out. Note - No registration Fee. Must bring registration forms to meeting.
Are you curious or thinking of becoming Catholic?
We are here and ready to share the richness of our faith with you. If you’ve been looking everywhere for answers, and still haven’t found them, we invite you to find out what the Catholic Church offers.
RCIA is a comprehensive process, in which the Church supports and encourages the spiritual journeys of:
• those who are unbaptized and seeking to become Catholic.

• those who are baptized, Catholic or in another Christian denomination, who wish to complete their Sacraments of Initiation (First Eucharist and Confirmation).
We are here to meet you wherever you are on your faith journey! Come join us with our Cohort Parish of St. Catharine's for an interest meeting on: October 22, 2023 at The Church of St. Catharine; 108 Middletown Road . Holmdel, NJ 07733; Meet in the Narthex Following the 10:00AM Mass.

Youth Ministry Boot Camp is an intensive 3-session training on the foundation and practical components of youth ministry. Once all training requirements are met then a ‘Letter of Completion’ will be granted.

Dates:
Session 1- 10/11/2023 (VIRTUAL)
Session 2- 10/14/2023 (LOCATION TBD)
Session 3- 10/17, 10/19, or 10/25 (St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, Whiting NJ OR St. Leo the Great, Lincroft NJ)
Teacher: Teaching is Director of Youth and Young Adult Ministries for the Diocese, Dan Waddington
Cost: $10 per person
*Pastor endorsement required*
To register click HERE