The parish of saint Mary
parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org

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Mass Intentions for:
Saturday, February 4th - Sunday, February 12, 2023
For * Requested by
Saturday, February 04 – 4 PM Church
Mary Resko * Jon and Mary Kopko
Ed Eastman * Verga Family
Paul Saake * Barbara Saake
Sunday, February 05 – Church
8 AM Neil Slattery * Widmeier Family
Jean Brock * Joe and Tami Minichini
Robert Arcoleo * Joe and Tami Minichini
10 AM Pro Populo
CarmelaAdinolfi*EugeneandDominicaNapolitano&Family
12 PM Michael Gebert * Richard and Maria Gerbino
John M. Grabowski, Sr. * Grabowski Family
Special Intention * Bob Amling
Monday, February 06 – 9 AM Chapel
Ruby Poscablo-Lim * Drs. Gener and Elvira Dapul
Tuesday, February 07 – 9 AM Chapel
Grace Migliaccio * Dr. Maria Lucarelli
Luis Cubina * Brown Family
Wednesday, February 08 -9 AM Chapel
Gerard Carney Sr. * Brown Family
Richard Walsh * Tom and Angela Kinlin
Thursday, February 09 -9 AM Chapel
Carlos Martins * Lorraine Martins
Friday, February 10 – 9 AM Chapel
Sally Hennessey * Danielle Hennessey
Bernadette Shine * Tom and Angela Kinlin
Saturday, February 11 - 4 PM Church
Julia Camarata * Charles Camarata
Mark T. Zarantonello * Family
Jean Petrovcin * Cira and Louis Vaccarino
Sunday, February 12 - Church
8 AM Marge Dedalis * Alice Ganley
Please pray for the following members of our parish family who are ill:
KathleenAmatel
MichaelBarker
JaniceBasilice
FrBillBausch
EileenBeckley
BrendaCaronna
ChristenChellis
LynetteColaco-Desouza
BlakeConley
JackCoppola
KaitlinDonahueNagle
SharonEvangellista
JoannFeliciti
CynthiaFiedler
JamesFiedler
EmilyGioacchini
TomHudak
ElizabethLindHuseby
BridgetKorn
BobLind
LoriLettieri
DonnaLodi
LudwigMendola
KevinO’Shea
OwenShoemaker
VictoriaSlater
GerardP.Thompson
LaurenVinci
LeonJankowski
ElizabethDeStefano
LouSchmitt
EdwardHabrack
FrankDonahue
Toaddafamilymembertothesicklistfor8weeks, pleasecallor e-mailtheParishOffice.Thank you! 732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Helen and John Sionas * Eileen and Michael Stivala
10 AM Scott MacConnell * Greenstein Family
Michael Pezzuto * Family
Peter Costanzo ****
12PM Pro Populo
Norbert Hanley * Hugh and Phyllis Murphy
Robert A. and Mary Joan McNamara * McNamara Family
PRAY for Military & First Responders

AMT Colton Boag, USCG
LCpl Devon Francis
Chrzan, USMC
Lt. Col. John Anthony
Coppola, US Army
Lt. Col. Douglas
Coppola, US Army
Lt. Mary Herman, USN
SN Christian Houlihan, USN
LT. Jason Joseph Howe, USN
SPC Michael John
Mento, US Army
Ensign Matthew Motola, USN
LCpl Bradley O’Ree, USMC
SPC Nicholas Poskonka, US Army
Captain Richard Savo, US Army
1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army
Almighty and eternal God, those who take refuge in you will be glad and forever will shout for joy. Protect these soldiers as they discharge their duties. Protect them with the shield of your strength and keep them safe from all evil and harm. May the power of your love enable them to return home in safety, that with all who love them, they may ever praise you for your loving care. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Please
Captain Ryan Tanguay, US Army
TSgt Stephen
Witherow, USAF
LCpl Edward Zarzecki, USMC
Lifelong Catechesis - Week of February 5th - February 11th
READINGS FOR THE WEEK
5 Sunday: Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Is 58:7-10 / 1 Cor 2:1-5 / Mt 5:13-16
6 Monday: Gn 1:1-19 / Mk 6:53-56
7 Tuesday: Gn 1:20—2:4a / Mk 7:1-13
8 Wednesday: Gn 2:4b-9, 15-17 / Mk 7:14-23
9 Thursday: Gn 2:18-25 / Mk 7:24-30
10 Friday: Gn 3:1-8 / Mk 7:31-37
11 Saturday: Gn 3:9-24 / Mk 8:1-10
FOR DEEPER REFLECTION:
Question for Children: What can you do to bring the light of Jesus into the lives of your family, friends, and people you meet?
Question for Youth: How do you feel when Jesus says that YOU are the salt of the earth and that YOU are called to be the light for others?
Question for Adults: What specific efforts do you take to maintain your light? Do you let your light dim? Why?
The Sanctuary Lamps this week are burning for:
Chapel: Jacqueline and Robert Scisco * Schaflin Family
Church: Albert Auer * Schaflin Family
SANCTUARY LAMPS 2023
Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or Chapel in honor of a living or deceased loved one. One intention is accepted per week (Sunday - Saturday) for the Lamp. The suggested donation is $25. Request online HERE.

Mass Intention Requests

Requests can be made in person by stopping at the parish office, or online HERE.
The suggested stipend is $10.
Grotto Candles
The Grotto Candles are available for your prayer intentions.

Offering is $3.00 per candle.
Our Promise to Protect

The Diocese of Trenton is committed to the initiatives outlined in the U.S. Bishops’ Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People and to its own policies and guidelines in regard to the reporting and investigation of sexual abuse allegations involving minors. If you have been sexually abused as a minor by a member of the clergy or anyone representing the Catholic Church, or if you know of someone who was, you can report that abuse through the diocesan ABUSE HOTLINE: 1-888-296-2965 or via e-mail at abuseline@dioceseoftrenton.org. The Diocese of Trenton reports any allegations of sexual abuse to the appropriate law enforcement agencies. Anyone with an allegation is also encouraged to provide that information to local law enforcement authorities.
Child Protection Efforts
Worship & Music
Andrew J. Macirowski - Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal OrganistWorship@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Ministry MembersAre Needed
Why do most people who are involved with ministry get started? One reason is that they see a need and feel that they can contribute to fill that need in their parish. Another is that they have a desire to give back to the worship community and decide to serve in that way. Yet another is the feeling that sitting in the pew is not enough and want to further serve the Lord.
Whatever the reason may be, your community has a need for volunteer ministry members. Remember the parish stewardship motto of time, talent, and treasure. Your weekly offering is the third piece. Serving in a ministry is an opportunity to offer the first two aspects.
Here is a snapshot of the ministries in our parish:
Altar Servers - Children who have made their First Holy Communion may serve at the altar of our Lord duringweekend Mass and HolyDays.
Art/Environment - Assist in the decorating of the campus for Christmas, Easter, and other special occasions, and maintain fixtures, flowers, etc throughout the year.
Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Extraordinary Ministers of Holy CommunionAssist in the distribution of Holy Communion at Mass and/or bring the Eucharist to the sick and homebound.

Hospitality - Assist with Baptisms, Weddings, and other events outside of regularly scheduled Masses. Music Ministry - The Choir, Chorale, and Handbell Choir are always in need of new members to sing (or ring) praise to the Lord and aid the congregation in divine worship.
Children’s Liturgy of the Word - Lead our children in understanding the weekly scriptural message.
Ushers - Guide visitors, oversee the stewardship offerings.
Readers - Proclaim the word of God at Mass; there is a need for both weekends and weekdays.
There is no such thing as too many members in a given ministry. The ones outlined above serve frequently and as such require strength in numbers in order to effectively serve our parish community. As we return prepare to enter the season of Lent, please prayerfully consider joining a ministry. If you are interested, please contact Andrew: worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Saint of the Week:
Scholastica, Religious, 480-543

Scholastica was the twin sister of Saint Benedict and was a member of a wealthy family from the central area of present-day Italy. Like her brother, Scholastica was drawn early on to a religious life. After Benedict founded a monastery at Monte Cassino, south of Rome, she joined a convent in Plombariola, which was a town located a few miles away from Monte Cassino. Read more HERE.
Speak with a Priest
Struggling with a life event and in need of spiritual assistance?
Want to celebrate the Sacrament of Penance outside the normal Confession times?
Trying to find your way back to engagement with the Church?
Discerning vocation?
Looking to complete your Sacraments of Initiation and wish to chat about the journey? St Mary is offering the opportunity for parishioners to chat with a priest who is only indirectly engaged with the parish.
If interested please contact Fr Mike Walsh by phone 732-780-2666 x205 or email frmike.walsh@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Saturday 4PM
Sunday 8AM
February 5, 2023
Worship Schedule: Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time
Saturday, February 11th - Sunday, February 12th
Altar Server Cantor Reader 1 Reader 2 EMHC
Grace Collins Server Needed
Diane Dragone Paul Tonacci Kathy Maher
Server Needed Server Needed Carly York Anthony Bongiorno Rita Duenas
Sunday 10AM
Gabriella Penczak Server Needed
Sunday 12PM
Carly York Julia Cullen Carl Simone
Organ Host - Irene Weller
Tabernacle Host - Emily Santangelo
Tabernacle Host - Louise Habrack
Alternate - Susan Murphy
Organ Host - Lisa Aldridge
Tabernacle Host - Joyce Flynn
Tabernacle Host - Justine Buzzetta
Alternate - Joseph Flanagan
Organ Host - Carol Donahue
Tabernacle Host - Heide Lohn
Tabernacle Host - Amy Orrico
Alternate - Gregory Calderaro
Jonathan Stubbs Gonzalo Sevillano
Carly York Richard Gerbino Alicia Mendez
Ash Wednesday

Organ Host - Lee Gesner
Tabernacle Host - Monica Barr
Tabernacle Host - Minister Needed
Alternate - Patricia Gesner
Wednesday, February 22, 2023
Imposition of Ashes will take place in the church at the following times:
Parish of Saint Mary, Colts Neck
9am Mass
12:15pm Prayer Service 4pm Prayer Service
5:30pm Prayer Service
Saint Catharine, Holmdel
9am Mass
12pm Prayer Service 5pm Prayer Service
7:30pm Mass
Ministers will be in church distributing ashes at the times above and will continue while there is a line of people.
Stations of the Cross and Holy Hours will begin the following week.

Faith Formation
Julia CullenPastoral Coordinator of Faith Formation / Religion EducationReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org
732-780-2666 X 309
Rose FarrowCoordinator of Faith Formation / Youth & Adult CatechesisYouthRE@stmaryscoltsneck.org
732-780-2666 X 310
Summer Intensive early registration/re-registration opened on February 1st. Classes are filling fast, so register today if you wish to enroll. Link is on page 7. We are also asking for summer volunteers, both students (7th & 8th graders) and parents. Please sign up today! A reminder to save the date for our Fishers of Men INTERGENERATIONAL on Ash Wednesday. Please RSVP below And a prayer for all of our Confirmation Prep students as they retreat together this weekend, may their faith be strengthened.
Faith Formation Calendar
22 February 2023

RELIGIOUS EDUCATION LINKS :

Intergenerational List for the 2022-2023
Intergenerational Participation Record
Yearly Faith Formation Calendar - LINK HERE
RE Fall classes 2022-2023 Grades 1-6- LINK HERE
Ash Wednesday
Fishers of Men
INTERGENERATIONAL
See Page 8 for more details
26 March 2023
Lenten Penance and Reconciliation 3pm
MANDATORY FOR ALL 7th & 8th grade

Religious Education Parent Volunteer Sign-ups:

Lenten Penance & Reconciliation (day of volunteers) LINK
Easter Egg Hunt (set up crew, volunteer at event, clean up crew) LINK
7th and 8th Grade Service Hour Sign-ups: Easter Egg Hunt LINK
Summer Intensive (July Virtual or August on Campus) LINK
Summer Intensive Religious Education Early Registration/ Re-Registration OPENS for

incoming Grades 1-6
February 1, 2023
July 17-28 Virtual program 9am to 12pm
August 7-18 On Campus program
8:30am to 12:30pm
This is the early discounted price and will end on February 28, 2023 Classes are first come, first serve. Classes will be closed when capacity is met.
Register Here for the summer intensive program. Link can be found on the website homepage or here on the weekly bulletin.
Ash Wednesday FishersofMen
INTERGENERATIONAL
This year we will be collecting in the narthex for people in need for the “Birthrite Drive”.
More info on pg. 8
Grades 1-6 are encouraged to come to Madonna Hall for a presentation and craft after receiving their ashes.
Liturgy of the Word Dismissal Facilitator Meeting
SAVE THE DATE
Sunday, February 26, 2023

beginning at the 10am mass
11 am Madonna Hall
Coffee and Donuts will be served
We invite all parents to attend this informal information meeting to consider being trained as a facilitator for Liturgy of the Word Dismissal.
Sign up here for the event
Walking with Moms in Need is an initiative through which Catholic parishes and communities "walk in the shoes" of local pregnant and parenting women in need. Everyone should know how to help moms in difficult circumstances.
While not trying to turn Catholic parishes into pregnancy centers, we can support local pregnancy centers where they exist, and we can also find and share other resources with pregnant and parenting women.

INTERGENERATIONALS ITEMS NEEDED
COLLECTIONENDSFEBRUARY22,2023
Waling with Moms in Need Collection –Donation will go to Birthright in Red Bank and Freehold

diapers sizes 5 and 6
women's toiletries
baby shampoo
baby wash
baby lotion
onesies - preemie through 12-mo. sizes
bath towels
receiving blankets
Grades7-8andHighSchoolStudents whobringadonationof4ormoreitemsfrom thelistwhenreceivingAshesonFebruary22 at4:00and5:30willreceive1hourofservice.
In an effort to support pregnant women and young families in need, the parishes of the Diocese of Trenton are strongly encouraged to participate in the USCCB’s initiative, Walking With Moms in Need (WWMN).
My Dear Parishioners:
Today we celebrate the Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time. We speak of the paschal mystery in terms of dying and rising. Perhaps the gospel this Sunday offers another way of putting it: taste or be thrown out; be a light that shines, hidden is no good for anyone. Practically speaking, this might mean that we get involved in some of the visible parish ministries, not only liturgical ones but perhaps social outreach or tutoring one of the school children. Maybe being salty or shining simply means that we take stock of our already too-busy days and reflect on what has value or meaning for the good of others and what has become habit to no real avail. Discipleship always involves ongoing discernment.
Our RCIA candidates continue their journey toward the Easter Sacraments. Let us continue to pray for them and their families. The month of February is a time for us to reflect on the great gift of God’s love present in the Sacrament of Marriage. The love of a man and a woman is a revelation of God’s love. Through their love and openness to God’s grace, family life is another way in which God’s presence is made known. The Sacrament of Marriage is not something that ought to be taken for granted. It deserves the very best we can offer as we prepare couples for this sacrament and as we support married couples throughout their life journey. Let us con-
tinue to pray for women and men who commit themselves to the noble vocation of married life. I hope that some from our parish community will participate in the Catholic Men’s Rally. It is a time for men as well as their sons to discover how God is calling them to share their faith in the family and the workplace.
Religious Education registration for the Summer Program has begun. I am grateful to our parish staff for their care in preparing the registration process and making it as accessible as possible for our parish families. Each year we evaluate the process to make it as “user friendly” as possible. We have assembled a group of committed teachers of religion to staff this program each year. The instructors are persons of faith who have obtained a teaching certificate, catechetical certificate and are fully compliant with the expectations of our church to serve the needs of our parish children.
This weekend I will be celebrating mass at Saint Catherine Parish Holmdel and Father Pat McPartland will be here at Saint Mary for the 12noon. Have a great week. Let us remember one another in our prayer.
Happy Sunday. Peace. Father Jeff