Bulletin for April 5, 2020

THE PARISH OF SAINT MARY A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time One Phalanx Road, Colts Neck, NJ 07722 Phone: 732-780-2666 Fax: 732-780-0394 parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M. Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch Trustees: Bill LaMorte Irene Weller Worship schedule inside.

Refer to website for more detailed information visit www.stmaryscoltsneck.org Deacon: John Wedemeyer

April 5, 2020 Palm Sunday

His Excellency, The Most Reverend Bishop of Trenton, acting upon the recommendation of the NJ Health Commissioner, has directed that all Church Buildings, Chapels, etc. be closed.

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Mass Intentions for the Week of April 4 - April 12 For * Requested by Saturday, April 4 – 4 PM Church Intentions of Leonidas Mavrookas * Suzanne Schlesinger George C. Rimmele (Rim-A-Lee) * Barbara Saake James Delaney * Jack and Rorie Coppola Sunday, April 5 – Church 8 AM Pro Populo DeStefano/Albruno Families * Mr. and Mrs. Franceschetti Joann Mascaro * Mascaro Family 10 AM Irene Baron * Carol and Frank Donahue Sergio Dos Santos and Maria Ferreira * Dos Santos Family John Binninger * Terry and Tricia Melendrez 12 PM Robert A. McNamara * McNamara Family Gaetano Tagliavia * Tagliavia Family Monday, April 6 – 9 AM Lenten Chapel Gregory Stepien * Shemey Castronovo Rev. Gerard S. Sloyan * Rev. Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee, Staff and Parishioners Tuesday, April 7 – 9 AM Lenten Chapel Cory Aufiero * Amy and John Orrico

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Please pray for the following members of our parish family who are ill: Marcela Abril Kathleen Amatel Fr Bill Bausch Eileen Beckley Susan Condon Blake Conley Logan Dayton John DeSimone John DeStefano Kaitlin Donahue Nagle Tom Fadale James Fiedler Emily Gioacchini John Grabowski Edward Habrack Tom Hudak Anton Kopp

Theresia Kopp Bridget Korn Lori Lettieri Donna Lodi Leonidas Mavrookas Mary Joan McNamara Walter Moeller Kevin O’Shea Stanley Rembisz Paola Richmond Abel Rodriguez Owen Shoemaker Gerard P. Thompson Seneida Tomasetti Cecilia Vilca Lauren Vinci

To add a family member to the sick list for 8 weeks, please call or e-mail the Parish Office.

Thank you! 732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Wednesday, April 8 – 9 AM Lenten Chapel Special Intention * Suzanne Schlesinger Anthony Carnevale * Diane Carnevale Thursday, April 9 - Holy Thursday Holy Thursday; The Sacred Paschal Triduum Offered for the People of the Parish Friday, April 10- Good Friday Friday of the Passion of the Lord (Good Friday); Offered for the People of the Parish Saturday, April 11 – Holy Saturday 8 PM The Easter Vigil in the Holy Night; Holy Saturday Offered for the People of the Parish

THE CROSS We should glory in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, in whom is our salvation, life and resurrection; through whom we are saved and delivered.

--Entrance Antiphon, Evening Mass of the Lord's

Supper, Roman Missal

Sunday, April 12 – Easter Easter Sunday: Resurrection of the Lord Offered for the People of the Parish

Parish Office hours No office hours until further notice.

GROTTO CANDLES The Grotto Candles are available for your prayer intentions.

Offering is $3.00 per candle.

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Guidelines of the Universal Church The Catholic Church in the United States asks of us as baptized Catholics to observe the following:

Good Friday (April 10) is a day of fast (only one full meal) and abstinence (no meat).

Fast—consume only one full meal.

Abstinence– consume no meat; this obligation prohibits the eating of meat but not eggs, milk products or condiments of any kind, even though made from animal fat.

Baptized Catholics between the ages of 18 and 59 are obliged to fast and those from the age of 14 are also obliged to abstain.

All are encouraged to embrace these practices as part of our spiritual journey.

Sanctuary Lamp Intentions Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or in the Chapel in honor of a living or deceased loved one.

The suggested donation is $25.

Intentions are available Church: 4/26 - 5/2 CHURCH Maria A. Pellicone JoAnn and Nick Pellicone

PRAY for Military & First Responders SN Colton Boag, USCG LCpl Devon Francis Chrzan, USMC Lt. Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army Major Douglas Coppola, US Army Lt. Mary Herman, USN SN Christian Houlihan, USN Ensign Jason Joseph Howe, USN SPC Michael John Mento, US Army PV2 Nicholas Poskonka US Army Captain Richard Savo, US Army 1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army 1st Lt. Ryan Tanguay, US Army SSgt Stephen Witherow, USAF LCpl Edward Zarzecki, USMC If there is a family member you wish to be placed on the list, please contact the Parish Bulletin at 732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org.

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Lifelong Catechesis April 6 - April 12 Monday: Tuesday: Wednesday:

Readings for the Week Is 42:1-7; Jn 12:1-11 Is 49:1-6; Jn 13:21-33, 36-38 Is 50:4-9a; Mt 26:14-25

The Easter Triduum of the Lord’s Passion & Resurrection begins with the Evening Mass of the Lord’s Supper Thursday: Lord's Supper: Ex 12:1-8, 11-14; Cor 11:23-26; Jn 13:1-15 The Passion of the Lord (Good Friday) Friday: Is 52:13 -- 53:12; Heb 4:14-16; 5:7-9; Jn 18:1 -- 19:42 The Resurrection of the Lord, Easter Vigil Saturday: a) Gn 1:1 -- 2:2 [1:1, 26-31a]; b) Gn 22:1-18 [1-2, 9a, 10-13, 15-18]; c) Ex 14:15 -- 15:1; Ex 15:1-6, 17-18; d) Is 54:5-14; 4-6, 11-13; e) Is 55:1-11; Is 12:2-6; f) Bar 3:9-15, 32 -- 4:4; g) Ez 36:16-17a, 18-28; Is 12:2-3, 4bcd, 5-6 h) Rom 6:3-11; i) Mt 28:1-10 Mass of Easter Day Sunday: Acts 10:34a, 37-43; Col 3:1-4 or 1 Cor 5:6b-8; Jn 20:1-9 or Mt 28:1-10 Questions for Deeper Reflections:

What role do we play in our family life? Can we do more to care for others? What about our Parish family? During this Holy Week, let us be more available to others and trust more in our own heavenly Father!

- Mrs. Jen Schlameuss-Perry

Question for Children: When have you seen someone do a good deed for someone else?

Question for Youth: Jesus’ closest friends had trouble believing that the tomb was empty. Resurrection is surprising. What does Jesus’ resurrection mean in your life?

Question for Adults: Name one way or time when you experience the presence of the Risen Christ? Is it at meals? With those whom you love? At other times?

- Lifelong Catechesis

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Andrew J. Macirowski Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal Organist Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org The way of worship during these times… …can be trying, to say the least. While we are unable to come together for public worship, there are things we can do to unite ourselves with the trinity in times of isolation.

Read and reflect upon the daily readings - not only on Sunday, but on weekdays as well. Some of us have missals at home, others may utilize usccb.org to find them.

Pray the liturgy of the hours - maybe not ever y pr escr ibed time of day, but find something that wor ks for you and your household. Maybe morning, midday, or evening. A good place to start if you do not have a book of your own is ibreviary.com Watch the Mass online - Ther e ar e sever al chur ches in our diocese, mor e ar ound the state, and many more in our country and world that make the Mass available to live-stream or watch recorded Masses. Some of these even provide digital worship aids so that you may follow along with the readings, songs, etc., and some are better than others. Set aside an hour to view the Mass, turn off the cell phone, and immerse yourself in the experience.

Pray before meals - if you don’t already.

Pray the rosary - and ask the Blessed Vir gin to inter cede for us. Pray the prayer for protection found in the bulletin.

Find time each day to shut out the noise of our (less) busy world and through the quiet allow God to enter your heart and give you peace.

Stay well.

Diocese of Trenton Live Streaming Link for Masses celebrated by the Bishop of Trenton without a congregation : https://www.youtube.com/user/trentondiocese

Mass schedule - Evening Mass of the Lord’s Supper (Holy Thursday) 7 pm on Thursday, April 9, 2020.

-Commemoration/Celebration of the Lord’s Passion 3 pm on Friday, April 10, 2020.

-Easter Vigil 7 pm on Saturday, April 11, 2020 -Easter Mass 10 am on Sunday, April 12, 2020.

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All public Masses throughout the Diocese of Trenton will be temporarily suspended until further notice.

All Mass intentions will be satisfied privately on a daily basis.

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Dr. Jim Bridges Pastoral Coordinator of Faith Formation and Religious Education FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org

2020-2021 Religious Education Please anticipate your needs and complete the process in a timely manner so that we might provide for the needs of all our children & families. The registration process, including all payments, must be completed before student placement is secured.

Fall and Online - Grades 1 - 8 : Tuition $250/child^ Registration begins April 1, 2020 at 9 am and ends May 31, 2020 at 12 noon.  April 1 at 9 am - April 30 at 12 noon there is a $50 early registration discount.

(Full payment must be completed by 12 noon April 30 to qualify for the discount)  Registrants after close date will be subject to availability and a late fee of $50/child Grades 1 & 2: Two year First Penance & Reconciliation and First Eucharist Preparation. Grades 3 - 6: Faith and Life On-Line Program Grades 7 & 8 : Confirmation Preparation

^Cancellations are subject to a $10 processing fee. ^NO REFUNDS for Fall Tuition after 5 classes have been completed.

Registration for students entering 7th and 8th grades in the Fall will begin April 1. For the past several years, these grades have met on Sunday evenings on alternate weekends. We are looking at modifying the Sunday schedule (currently A one week B the next) for this coming 2020 – 2021 school year to (A&B) classes meeting on the same Sunday approximately every 2 weeks. When you go to register your child for the Fall, you will have a choice. We will have a session beginning with the 12 noon Mass and running until 2:30, and a second session on that same Sunday running from 5:00-6:30 p.m. Students will still meet roughly every other weekend. There may be times during the year when a special service activity or speaker might be scheduled between the afternoon and evening sessions or on the off weekends. We would like to keep the sizes of the two groups roughly the same. Therefore when you register, you will be asked to choose which session you would prefer, or indicate if you have no preference. Be sure to register early in April if you have a definite preference. Registration will be on a first come first served basis according to your full completion of the registration process. Call or email if you have any questions.

The My Own Church Button may be found on the parish website

www.stmaryscoltsneck.org Located under the Parish Resources Block. Select The Parish of Saint Mary, Colts Neck from the dropdown menu (fourth from the bottom), and fill in the required information. Questions?

See the help page link or call the parish office.

Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults have not been baptized into the Catholic Church, have been baptized but have not yet received the

sacraments of Confirmation and Eucharist have been baptized in another Christian Church & would like to become a member of the Catholic Church The RCIA is a conversion journey - a time for learning, sharing, bonding with others and living your faith more deeply. To learn more, please contact Faith Formation. faithformation@stmaryscoltsneck.org

The Diocesan Department of Catholic Education has communicated to us that all Catholic schools and parish religious education programs are to be closed to mitigate further spread of the Coronavirus (COVID-19). At this time, here at the Parish of St. Mary, we will be suspending our religious education classes until further notice.. Please watch for further communications from us.

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Sharing Our Treasure

Due to early transmittal of the bulletin, the offertory report for 28/29 March will be in next week’s bulletin.

Included in this week’s offertory will be the collection for Holy Land appeal.

Thank you to all our faithful parishioners who are mailing in their offerings or sending them thru Online Giving. Our parish community is completely dependent on your inancial support. Without it, our parish cannot pay bills, cover payroll or continue helping out the poor and needy. We encourage you to continue your contributions during these dif icult and unprecedented times. For more information on our Online Giving System please see the blurb.

May God bless you for your generosity.

You can make a difference!

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HOLY THURSDAY COLLECTION The Holy Thursday collection is a one-time major collection allocated in support of the Poor & Needy.

Holy Thursday Collection envelopes can be found in the quarterly mailing packets.

Online givers - please make your donation in support of this cause by selecting the “Poor & Needy” fund in your online giving accounts.

Easter Donation Easter Donation Envelopes were mailed to all Registered Families where there is a valid address on file.

Online givers - please make your donation by selecting the “Easter Fund” within your online giving account. Or you can access form directly with this link https://goo.gl/VUqnpd

https://giving.parishsoft.com/smcn Sign-in for our Online Giving system to make your parish offerings from your bank account or Credit Card!

Should you require our assistance setting up your new account, please call the parish office at 732-780-2666.

You can also download the ConnectNow Giving App for Android or iOS

Thank you for your continuous support!

Parish Registration We welcome you to the Parish Family of Saint Mary and invite you to register with us by completing a Parish Census Form either by contacting our Parish Office or found on the website. Parish Registration is required for Baptism, Weddings, and Religious Education Programs. We urge all parishioners to make regular use of the envelopes or Online Giving. If you are moving from the Parish, please notify the Parish Office.

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PANTRY FOOD ITEMS Do This in Memory of Me As we enter Holy Week, we celebrate the gift of the Eucharist as our heavenly food. We continue to reflect on the challenge of global hunger. How does our faith inspire us to share the gifts that God has bestowed on us?

Please return your rice bowl donations

by April 19, 2020.

Divine Mercy Sunday - 2nd Sunday of Easter During the 40 days of Lent, we will reflect on the challenge of global hunger and how it affects our human family. Go on the CRS website, www.crsricebowl.org to learn all about Rice Bowl.

Put your Lenten offerings in your Rice Bowl, count them at the end of Lent, make a check to St. Mary Parish for the total amount (rice bowl in memo line) and return to the Parish office. Alternatively you can make your donation using our online giving platform. < https://goo.gl/VFak28 >

Macaroni & Cheese Canned Vegetables Instant Mashed Potatoes Cooking Oil Ketchup, mustard, Mayo Bottled Water (all sizes) Cookies, Pretzels, Crackers Peanut Butter Salad Dressings Cake mixes, frosting Soups: Chicken, Beef Baby food & Formula Baby Diapers (size 4 & up) Feminine Care Products Soap, shampoo, toothpaste Adult incontinence (all kinds)

Cereal Instant Oatmeal Rice Juice Canned Puddings Jell-O Canned Fruit Canned Tuna Canned Salmon Raisins Healthy Snacks Tea Coffee Deodorant Sunscreen Body Lotion Razors, shaving cream

Food is accepted weekly. Please place donations in the grey cart in the gathering space of the Church. Please, no expired items.

Thank you to all for your continued support in helping to feed others in the community.

MOST NEEDED LIST

The New Day Bereavement Support Group Ministry of Consolation

Invites Youâ&#x20AC;Śto participate in a nine week program for those who are grieving the death of loved ones and want to work through the tasks of grief in a structured way using the New Day Journal, A Journey from Grief to Healing. The sessions include readings, reflection, sharing and journaling.

Group meets 7:30 pm in room 17.

* Starting Date: Monday, April 20, 2020 * Ending Date: Monday, June 15, 2020 For information and pre-registration: Marilyn Simone at 732-547-4668.

RESURRECTION TO COME But from this earth, this grave, this dust, My God shall raise me up, I trust.

--Walter Raleigh

GIFT CARD SCAM ALERT Please be aware of fraudulent emails or text messages claiming to be from a pastor or a representative of the archdiocese asking you to purchase gift cards to help the poor or sick. Such fraudulent activity should be reported to the State of New Jersey Cyber Crimes Unit at (609) 584-5051, ext. 5664, or online at www.njsp.org/division/investigations/ cyber-crimes.shtml Please note: Official electronic communications from the parish will always come from the @stmaryscoltsneck.org domain.

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Photos below were taken by Catherine Love at The National Gallery in Washington DC.