Glo May 2019

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In April’s She Glo(w)s feature, the information about Brightpoint’s funding program was incorrect.

The article stated that Brightpoint has a grant program that directs funds to local entrepreneurs hoping to succeed and grow their business.

The correct information is: The Brightpoint Develop Fund, a subsidiary of Brightpoint, provides microloans to small businesses and entrepreneurs to help start, sustain and grow their business.

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Happy May… and Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms!

In March, I wrote about what a special month it is for me because my first daughter was born in March 2016 and we were expecting our second daughter this March. I am happy to report that Adella Rae was born on March 19 and is a happy, healthy baby. Her birth story is one for the books!

The day before she was born, I had an ultrasound and we passed with flying colors. That evening, we went to bed early. My husband fell asleep quickly as usual, but I couldn’t even though I felt exhausted. Around 2:30 a.m., I opted for a change of scenery and went to the basement to watch TV.

At 3 a.m., I had what I suspected was my first contraction. I started timing them and they were coming 5 minutes apart. By 3:45, they had increased in intensity and were coming about 3 minutes apart. Labor with my first daughter progressed slowly, so I figured we had plenty of time. I woke my husband up at 4 a.m. and told him I suspected I was in labor and he should get up. He rolled over and contemplated going back to sleep until he heard me breathing through contractions. Contractions were getting super intense now— pretty unbearable and lasting over a minute. My husband called his dad and told him to come over to stay with our daughter, and then scrambled around to take care of the dogs, take a shower, get our bags, etc. At one point he said, “ I don’t know what to wear,” and I screamed, “I don’t care just get dressed now!”

At 4:30, my water broke and my body wanted to push. I told my husband to call 9-1-1 because I thought I was having the baby right then. We decided we could make it but I wanted to change my clothes. My father-in-law arrived while my husband scrambled to find me some. We abandoned that idea and just wrapped a towel around my waist and hightailed it to the door. I almost stopped in the entryway to lie down and have the baby, but my husband encouraged me to keep moving. Barefoot and screaming, I waddled to the car.

At 5:06 a.m., we peeled out of the driveway. My husband drove 80 MPH with the hazard lights on, passing cars and running all the red lights. Thankfully it was early and traffic was light. I had 3 very strong contractions on the way and was pretty sure the baby was going to be born in the car. I was terrified beyond belief.

We arrived at the hospital at 5:12 a.m. My husband ran to the door and grabbed a wheelchair. Sprinting with security through the halls, we made it to labor and delivery a few minutes later— the whole time I thought she was going to be born in the wheelchair.

The nurses whisked me into a room, which filled with rapidly moving people immediately. They tried to coax me into bed as another contraction hit. One nurse told me to lie down or I would have the baby in my pants. Somehow I got in bed. The doctor on call walked in and before he could even get his gloves on, my body compelled me to push and little Adella was born at 5:24— just 18 minutes after we left our house!

Shortly after she was born, my husband remembered that he left the car running right outside the hospital door!

When my midwife arrived a few minutes later, she said “Amber! Why didn’t you call us?” And I told her it had not occurred to me. Everything happened so quickly.

I was allowed to hold Adella for almost an hour as they got me checked in— the nurse laughed and said, “We don’t even know who you are, so let’s start with your name!”

I still can’t believe this is Adella’s birth story. Even as I laid there and pushed her out, I wondered if it was too late to get an epidural because surely I couldn’t do it without meds. Guess what? I am stronger than I imagined. It was hands down, the most empowering thing I’ve ever done.

I feel incredibly lucky. If even one thing had gone differently to delay us, the situation could have gone badly. We are blessed.

Do you have a funny, incredible or dramatic birth story? I want to hear it. Email me at ambouthot@the-papers.com.

Amber Bouthot ambouthot@the-papers.com

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From left: Linda Austin, former editor of The News-Sentinel; Betty Stein, longtime N-S columnist; and Faith Van Gilder, senior account supervisor at Asher Agency and former N-S copy editor.

Pamela Downs, Leigh Bowman, Maryse Casagrande, and Lillian Wollman at Lillian’s annual holiday party.

Nicklas celebrating girlfriend Jessica Burgess birthday with Des, Chrissy and Mandy.

Members of the Fort Wayne Artists Guild finished a workshop held at Crestwoods Gallery in Roanoke. The Drawing Bootcamp Workshop was given by Alan Larkin

Jayma Mosher, Amber Bouthot and Emily Burnworth ring in the New Year.

Summer Fashion

By Lauren Caggiano

Memorial Day, the unofficial start to summer, is fast approaching. Will you welcome the new season in style? As you look to update your wardrobe for warmer days, see what local experts have to say about what’s on-trend for summer 2019.

Felisha Strack, who oversees operations for Self Love & Style Boutique, proclaimed that summer 2019 is all about the details. Think dramatic ruffles, especially on stripe printed dresses in bright colors. (By the way, neon basics and accessories are still hot, too.)

“Getting dressed up in a fun and flirty tiered ruffle dress will be the perfect look this summer,” she said.

The love affair with texture doesn’t end here. Strack said fringe details will dominate the summer scene—especially on earrings and accessories. In her words, “These beauties add that little extra to your wardrobe and can be worn with everything from a simple top to a sundress.”

Animal prints are another on-trend way to take any outfit from drab to fab instantly.

“While the typical leopard and cheetah prints will still be popular, snake print will be the popular ‘animal’ print for the summer,” said Strack. “This print has a sophisticated look that can be worn for the office or a fun night out.”

Speaking of versatile, utility/boiler jumpsuits are another summer essential in her opinion.

“These button front, tie-waist style jumpsuits are perfect as we transition from spring to summer and can be dressed up with heels or worn casual with flats,” she said.

Emma Marie Metcalf with Lynn-Maree’s Boutique in Auburn offers similar comments. She said women should embrace color, especially brights and pastels. Pink and yellow will take center stage.

Don’t be afraid to embrace the utility look.

Embracing feminine elements, the new utilitarian aesthetic provides an equally rugged and refined look. It had a comeback in the 1990s and it seems to be back again. According to Metcalf, that means pockets, buttons, belts and more.

Metcalf said baggy jackets and stonewashed denim will have a cameo on the catwalk, as well.

Or maybe you prefer the softer side of fashion.

Metcalf has a trend for you. Say hello to 1970s meets the Modern Hippy (think festival-wear)—“with all the feathers, fringe, maxis with touches of metallic and sparkle.”

Jewelry wise, it’s go big or go home. “The more ‘extra’ the better,” said Metcalf. “Think bling, pearls and shells—because why not?”

In short, summer 2019 will be about owning your style.

“I love that clothing and accessories are getting funkier and more colorful around here,” she said. “We tend to be so cautious about what we wear, what others may think about what we are wearing, asking ourselves ‘is it age appropriate, does it make me look this way or that way’ etc., when in reality you look better in clothing you love. That’s why you should wear what you want and what you feel good in. If you can wear it on a vacation, you can wear it here, too. I think people are finally starting to see that.” a

Resources:

Lyn-Maree’s Boutique, Auburn, 260.333.0238, lyn-marees.com

Self Love & Style, Fort Wayne, selfloveandstyle.com

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Ideas for a Mother’s DayMakeover

By Cathy Shouse

The month of May is the perfect time for mothers, as well as those who “mother” their pets, nieces, nephews and others, to consider a Mother’s Day makeover. We don’t need permission to take time for ourselves, but we often do. So consider the following expert tips as your personal invite to pamper yourself and update your look for spring.

Shirley Williams, Owner | Southwest Hair & Day Spa

b Mother’s Day is a great time to spoil mom with a facial, pedicure, shellac manicure or a full day at the spa.

b It’s also a good time to have one of our stylists give mom a personal consultation and create a new look. All ages—and stages— of moms deserve pampering.

b Our salon is featuring a mother/daughter pedicure.

Lauren Eickhoff, Marketing Director | Aspire Plastic Surgery & Medical Spa

b Aspire offers both surgical and non-invasive procedures to choose from to help moms look and feel their best.

b With swimsuit season approaching, enhance your look with a “mommy makeover” performed by board-certified plastic surgeon Dr. Brian Lee. A tummy tuck, cosmetic breast procedure and liposuction will give you a confidence boost this summer and all year long.

b Pamper yourself with a facial. We recommend a relaxing and revitalizing Hydrafacial to ensure a rejuvenated, radiant and youthful look.

b Get your glow in time for summer. Erase sunspots, say goodbye to fine lines and wrinkles, and enjoy healthy, glowing skin with a Halo Laser Resurfacing treatment.

Susie Beer, Co-Founder | 5 Elements Spa & Salon

b What about a simple eyebrow shaping, which should be followed with the best Eminence facial in town?

b A massage, absolutely, maybe at the end of the day, when kids are tucked in bed before you return home so that you can truly continue to relax.

b The simple bob haircut is still so popular--short or elongated, smooth or curly--and most importantly easy to care for with your busy lifestyle.

b Try a new styling product. Check out a Jane Iredale or Susan Posnick lipstick.

b Headbands, hairpins, clips and/or a big simple accessory are ideal for summer to keep that updated look.

Michelle Childs-Fernandez, Owner | The Hair Department

b It’s all about hydration. Since we’re heading into spring, I always think of glosses. We’re really big on glosses to get that shine back in the hair.

b Surface Bassu Hydrating Oil is the solution for your skin, all over your body, as well as your face. You can use it on your hair before you style it, too. It’s an organic oil, absorbs right away, and doesn’t leave you feeling oily, just brings out a glow. a

Resources:

5 Elements Salon Spa & Barber Lounge, Fort Wayne, 260.969.6955, 5elements-spa-salon.com

ASPIRE Plastic Surgery, Fort Wayne, 260.427.7473, aspireplasticsurgery.com

The Hair Department, Fort Wayne, 260.432.3505, thehairdept.com

Southwest Hair & Day Spa, Fort Wayne, 260.459.2739, southwesthairspa.com

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Myra Weber

By Deborah C. Gerbers |

Dr. Myra Weber, an optometrist with Longe Optical, is passionate about her work and truly loves her job.

Dr. Weber was always interested in the sciences and planned to have a career in the medical field. She was fitted for glasses at the age of five and said she was highly influenced by her own optometrist and developed a special connection with him.

“He was just so understanding, patient and kind,” she said. “I had to wear glasses so early, and I was a little self-conscience, so he offered to fit me for contacts pretty early, around 10-years old.”

With a degree from the Indiana School of Optometry, Dr. Weber has lived and practiced in Fort Wayne since 2009. She loves taking care of patients of all ages and finds it satisfying to help people see.

“I enjoy helping people overcome their eye issues and preserve their vision,” she said.

In addition to primary care optometry, Dr. Weber also co-manages LASIK and cataract surgery, and treats/manages various ocular disease conditions, such as glaucoma, macular degeneration, diabetic eye disease, dry eye disease and acute eye infections/conditions. She is also an InfantSee provider, giving free eye exams to patients under the age of one.

Dr. Weber said she was influenced by her parents’ work ethic. “They were both fortunate to have careers they loved and that impacted me in pursuing a career in something I was really interested in,” she said.

She also credited her supportive husband, who is very determined and owns his own business. “He balances work and life so well,” she said.

She and her husband have two daughters, ages 4 and 7, and “they are the reason I do what I do,” she said.

Dr. Weber works three days a week, which allows her to spend the other two days at home with her younger daughter.

“I am very thankful for my career and family,” she said.

In her spare time, Dr. Weber likes to exercise and keep active. She likes to read and belongs to a book club. a

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Age: 18

By Stacie Ball | Photo by Zack Kittaka

Lakeland High School student Michayle Rasbaugh has a bright future ahead of her, fueled by a passion to make the community a better place. So far this year, she has amassed an astonishing 62 hours of community involvement, doing everything from raking leaves to feeding starving children. That is quite an accomplishment, considering the average adult volunteer will collect half as many in a full year.

Eva Merkle, superintendent of Lakeland School Corporation, boasted, “Michayle is all about being involved, helping and making a difference. She’s a go-getter who tackles challenges with the biggest smile on her face. She learns quickly from set-backs and always marches on.”

With 158 community involvement hours over the course of her school career, Michayle is proving that hard work pays off and is eager to give back to her community.

Tell me a little about the scholarships you have received.

I have received scholarships from Manchester University that will allow me to go there for a fraction of the cost of full tuition. I earned this scholarship by being in the top 10% of my class since eighth grade, having a 3.9 GPA, and being very dedicated to my high school career. I interviewed for another scholarship specific to teaching that will pay right into the rest of my college bill.

What other activities are you involved in?

I am involved in a philanthropic group called LIFE, Student Board – a student voice on our school board, cheerleading, tennis, scholar athlete all four years of high school, National Honor Society, Latchkey care provider, intern at Parkside Elementary, peer tutor, advanced student, DECA state competitor and student ambassador.

What are your goals for the future?

My primary goal is to study teaching at Manchester University and return to LaGrange to teach. My next goal is to travel the world and help people any way that I can. I love people and I want to see what else is out there and how I can make a difference.

What has helped you prepare for your goals?

Lakeland has prepared me for where I am going in life and without the intern program, I would not have found my passion for teaching so early. I am grateful for the teachers, students and faculty because without them I would not be going where I am going.

Merkle added, “Lakeland’s mission is to educate and prepare all students for career and life success. It’s awesome when young adults like Michayle take advantage of the opportunities we offer for career exploration and exposure to working collaboratively and creatively with others.” a

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Joe Jordan

By Hillary Knipstein |

by Mollie Shutt

For the past 24 years, Joe Jordan has dedicated his life to building up Fort Wayne’s future. Jordan is currently the president and CEO of the Boys and Girls Clubs of Fort Wayne and the co-chair of the Fort Wayne United Initiative.

Were you always drawn to the nonprofit sector?

Jordan didn’t originally intend to be in nonprofit leadership. While working in a corporate role, he gave a speech as part of a community initiative. Afterward, the chair of the East Wayne Street Center approached him and asked if he had ever considered leading a non-profit. Although Jordan hadn’t considered that path, he toured the facility and realized that it felt natural and right. He was hired as the executive director of the East Wayne Street Center and found that the nonprofit management space “matched who I am.” Ten years later, he moved into his current role at the Boys and Girls Club.

How are you impacting the community?

Jordan describes the the Boys and Girls Club as having a direct impact—both now and in the future—on the Fort Wayne Community. In the short term, it serves many youth from singleparent families, providing them a safe place to learn and grow while their parents are working. Long-term, it provides resources and mentoring to build these youth into great adults.

It is clear that the Boys and Girls Club is more than a career for Jordan. He is inspired by and invested in the youth that the organization serves. He has celebrated straight-A report cards, listened to concerns about difficult household situations, and watched kids grow from quiet and reserved to leading their peers. He’s been brought to tears after learning how a child at the Boys and Girls Club had flourished in spite of seemingly insurmountable odds.

“I get a kick out of watching kids growing, progressing and blossoming into incredible human beings,” he said.

This month, the Boys and Girls Club will complete construction of a new 42,000-square-foot facility on Fairfield Avenue and Pontiac Street, which will double its capacity to serve children in the community.

“The community has really wrapped its arms around us and supported this campaign.” Jordan said.

He points to this campaign as just one example of Fort Wayne’s generosity.

Jordan also co-chairs the Fort Wayne United Initiative, which aims to provide better quality of life to those in underserved and underprivileged areas, improve opportunity and reduce homicide rates for African American boys and men.

He believes that the most powerful way to invest in today’s youth is to show them that the community cares for them and to be mindful of the next generation. a

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On Her Nightstand

By Betty Stein

Mary Voors, a Fort Wayner all her life, is the children’s services manager at the downtown branch of the Allen County Public Library.

Here’s what she has been reading:

Betty Stein is a Fort Wayne native who has been an educator and newspaper columnist for over 30 years. She received her undergraduate degree at Ohio State University in social administration and her master’s from the University of St. Francis in education and English. She received an honorary doctorate, also from the University of St. Francis.

Stein has been a very active volunteer in our community and is currently serving as chairman of the Allen County Public Library Building Corporation, among other activities. And she is very much looking forward to being associated with glo. Oh, and did we mention she’s 102 years old!

On Her Nightstand highlights local women and discusses what they are currently reading.

I am recommending a book everyone would enjoy. It’s “Children of Blood and Bone” by Tomi Adeyemi. A black African is inspired to live where magic is all over, but the king orders that magic people should be destroyed. However, he could not wipe out magic in its entirety. The book shows us how important it is to always fight for justice, and to fight racism and oppression. The book, a fantasy, is aimed at teens and adults and will eventually be a trilogy. It is lengthy - it’s over 500 pages long. But it is worth it. It has already been tapped for a movie.

I love picture books! I recommend “Most People” by Michael Leannah. It reminds us that everyone can be a good person. There is so much negativity these days, and this book serves as a reminder that most people are basically good. The book points out that some people may do bad things but good things are waiting to blossom. I think this book should be shared with preschoolers. It contains a great message.

I’m going to suggest a classic: “Pollyanna.” Eleanor Porter wrote it in 1913. I first read it when I was in third or fourth grade, and it changed my view of the universe. This is a simple read, not complex at all – comforting, kind of like eating mashed potatoes. When I am stressed I go to Pollyanna.

When I was a little kid, I read a book by Alexander Key called “The Forgotten Door” and it has become a longtime favorite. A little boy falls through a magic door and gains some mysterious powers - like being able to talk to animals. Eventually he finds his way back home. I still have this book. a

Betty Stein

By Jaclyn Youhana Garver

It should come as no surprise that June is one of the most popular months to get married: crystal blue skies, cotton candy clouds and beaming sunshine that seems to say “I bless this union” as the newly minted married couple skips back down the aisle.

Despite the fact that northeast Indiana’s average June high breaks the 80-degree mark, summer brides don’t necessarily have a different taste in dresses than those getting married the rest of the year.

“You’d think they would, but they don’t actually,” said Chantel Longfield, manager at Fort Wayne’s Wendy’s Bridal. “It’s just whatever the bride feels like doing.”

These are the most common wedding dress trends Longfield has noticed in recent months:

This Season’s Wedding Dress Trends

• Lace. All-over lace is huge, and she doesn’t mean traditional bridal lace. This pattern is floral, intricate and/or chunky lace that starts at the top of the dress and tapers off toward the skirt.

• Boho style. Brides are veering away from satin, sequins and beading, opting instead for free-flowing dresses with a laid-back feel. “There’s no ball gowns these days,” Longfield said, “and not a lot of mermaid style.” Cuts instead are trending to A-line and straight.

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• Non-white. Brides’ choices are “definitely ivory and even champagne, nudes, and blushes,” she said. “We actually have a designer who makes a lavender-colored dress.”

• Sleeves. Even during the summer? “It does not matter what the season is,” Longfield said. She guesses the sleeve appeal is due to beautiful options on Pinterest and/or a bride’s desire to cover her arms.

• Open backs. If the back isn’t open, brides are choosing detailed backs with straps or lace.

Terri Francis-Ahlfeld owns Wabash’s The Francis Shoppe, which specializes in dresses for mothers and grandmothers of the bride and groom. Following bridal trends, grandmothers and mothers are often looking for dresses with lace.

“It’s very lightweight, and it comes in a full-length dress, or we have three-quarter sleeve and tea-length dresses,” she said.

Popular colors for mothers and grandmothers tend to follow general wedding color trends, Francis-Ahlfeld said: navy, burgundy and blush.

“I look for it to go more pastels for next summer,” she said, “but this year, it’s totally dark.”

Dark dresses are not only more flattering, but they’re easier to wear again, as well.

“If I sell a pink dress, she’ll never wear that dress again because it looks so weddingish,” Francis-Ahlfeld said. “But if she bought navy, aborigine or black, she’ll put that dress on and wear it again.” a photos: shutterstock.com

Resources:

The Francis Shoppe, Wabash, 260.563.8805, francisshoppe.com

Wendy’s Bridal, Fort Wayne, 260.482.8907, wendysbridalstore.com

Non-diamond engagement rings

By Jaclyn Youhana Garver

From the start, Sandra Fouty and her husband had an untraditional engagement. For one, she proposed to him. Then, it was time to get her an engagement ring. Fouty, of Fort Wayne, is environmentally conscious enough that she liked the idea of an antique ring, something that was already created.

“I was looking at blue stones because I love the color,” she said. “It reminds me of the ocean, the sky, but all the antiques I found were typically made with silver.”

Her husband, however, wanted something with more pizazz for Fouty’s ring.

She ended up with a new, vintage-inspired ring in white gold with a tanzanite stone, which is a deep blue, nearly violet.

Non-diamond engagement rings aren’t a new trend. Eileen Eichhorn, president of Decatur’s Eichhorn Jewelry Inc. pointed to Princess

Diana’s legacy blue sapphire as introducing the non-diamond engagement ring. But colored stones are increasing in popularity. In December, Pinterest’s What’s Hap-Pin-in’ stats, which indicate popular searches on the social media site, reported an increase in searches for alternative stone rings. Searches for “ruby with rose gold” increased by 104 percent, “black diamond” by 200 percent and “emerald with yellow gold” by 317 percent.

Like Fouty, brides may opt for a non-diamond for environmental reasons, or they may want something a little alternative.

“People like to stand out from the crowd,” Eichhorn said. “They want something that’s different.

The most common non-diamond engagement ring stones are blue,” Eichhorn said, though morganite, a pale peachy pink gemstone, is also popular. Brides looking for a more unusual stone might turn to a raw diamond or black diamond.

“I just sold one the other day that had black diamonds with morganite in rose gold,” she said. “That was kind of off the beaten path. I did a natural pink diamond in a custom ring that was awesome. It took months to get the design done. The young man drew his own ring. I think if you can dream it, it can be made. That’s pretty much the mantra these days.”

Fouty has been married nearly a year, and she hasn’t once regretted her decision to forgo a center diamond, she said—though she sometimes has to explain that the ring is her wedding ring.

“One of my coworkers very casually said, ‘What’s that?’” she said, laughing. “One of my other coworkers jumped in and said, ‘That’s her wedding ring.’ I told him, if a blue stone was good enough for Princess Di, it’s good enough for me.” a

Resource:

Eichhorn Jewelry Inc., Decatur, 260.724.2621, eichhornjewelry.com

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Summer Weddings —

Summertime Blooms

By Jaclyn Youhana Garver

Brides have historically carried bouquets of flowers down the aisle for reasons that may seem unusual today. According to Bustle. com, bouquets once warded off bad spirits (especially if the bouquet was full of spices: dill, chives and—oh yes—garlic) and encouraged a randy time (enter marigolds and, again, dill, said to be aphrodisiacs). Flowers helped the bride smell better (people didn’t bathe quite as often in the 15th century) and, perhaps most closely related to modern bouquet traditions, sent a message (white camellias say “I adore you,” peonies wish for a happy marriage, ranunculus says “You dazzle me”).

Today, we simply love the pop of color and the way flowers brighten up a space, aisle or photo (and maybe we want our wedding bouquets to inspire loyalty, so we carry some daisies).

Brides who are planning a summer wedding have a variety of beautiful, fresh and in-season options to choose from: Peonies bloom in May; ranunculus, also called buttercups; lisianthus and hydrangeas are all summer bloomers, said

Cheryl Wene, owner of Fort Wayne’s Lopshire Flowers. Roses are popular all year, and summer is a perfect time to choose garden roses, which are cup-shaped, can be heavily layered and are more fragrant than traditional roses.

A wildflower look is often popular in the summer, especially in mixed hues. Wene pointed out that yellow sunflowers and blue delphiniums pair well with a variety of today’s popular wedding colors—coral, navy, burgundy, gray and silver.

In general, bridal bouquets are trending larger. Brides are opting for bigger, bolder bouquets, Wene said, like cascade bouquets. Instead of a traditional, round bouquet, a cascade bouquet—also known as a waterfall bouquet—drips and overflows. The shape was last popular in the 1980s, she said, though today’s modern versions are sleeker and more elegant.

“I think everything old is new again,” Wene said. “Just like all trends, [wedding bouquet trends] work in cycles.”

She also points out that many bouquets are shying away from flowers in general and moving toward botanicals, berries and greenery. According to MarthaStewartWeddings.com, berries can add volume, color and texture to a bouquet. Think blueberries, blackberries and raspberries as a timely option for a warmweather wedding.

When choosing wedding flowers, however, Wene said brides should pick what they love.

“Every bride is different,” she said. “What one likes, the other one wouldn’t hear of doing. (Bouquets are) all custom made for that bride’s vision.” a photos: shutterstock.com

Resource:

Lopshire Flowers, Fort Wayne, 260.493.1581, lopshireflowers.com

Mental Health Awareness Month

Your mind is what matters

By Julie Young

According to the World Health Organization, mental health is defined as “a state of well-being in which every individual realizes his or her own potential, can cope with the normal stresses of everyday life, can work productively and fruitfully and is able to make a contribution to his or her own community.”

While it sounds simple, the truth is it’s easier said than done. Unfortunately, one in three Americans struggle with mental health issues, and experts say that women are 40 percent more likely to develop depression than men. They are also twice as likely to experience post-traumatic stress disorder than their male counterparts, with 10 percent of them developing the condition after a traumatic event.

So why are women more susceptible to these issues? Researchers aren’t sure, but studies suggest a number of possibilities including: discrimination, trauma, hormones and stressful life experiences, such as pregnancy, childbirth and parenting.

The good news is that there are things you can do to help stave off a mental meltdown and resources available when you can’t rise above the myriad of minutiae weighing you down. The Mental Health Foundation suggests the following 10 Tips:

1. Talk out your feelings: Just having someone available to listen to you will help you feel less alone.

2. Keep active: Regular exercise can boost your self-esteem and help you concentrate, look and feel better about life.

3. Eat well: There is a link between how we feel and the foods we eat so be sure to avoid those items that can have an adverse effect on your mood, such as caffeine and sugar.

4. Drink sensibly: The fun, buzzy feeling you may get after a glass or two of wine is only temporary and will not remove your problems permanently. In fact, it can create more.

5. Assemble a support group: Family and friends can do a lot to help keep you active and relieve the stresses of everyday life.

6. Ask for help: Seek a counselor or support group when the going gets rough.

7. Take a break: Sometimes a change of scenery can help clear your head. So can a good night’s sleep.

8. Do something you’re good at: Hobbies can help you forget your worries for a while.

9. Accept who you are: A healthy self-esteem can help you cope when life takes a difficult turn.

10. Care for others: Share your skills with others by volunteering at a local charity. a

Parkview Behavioral Health Hospital

260.373.7500 parkview.com

Mental Health America Northeast Indiana 260.422.6441 mhanortheastindiana.org

Local Resources:

St. Joseph Behavioral Health 260.425.3606 stjoehospital.com

National Alliance of Mental Illness (NAMI) Fort Wayne namifortwayne.org

National Suicide Prevention Hotline/Lifeline suicidepreventionlifeline.org

1.800.723.8255

Indiana Department of Family and Social Services: Allen County in.gov/fssa/dmha/2485.htm

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Increasing Your Body Confidence

By Carly Thompson-Memmer, PhD Student

It’s that season again… you know the one, where you take about 20 swimsuits into the dressing room only to walk out of the store with nothing except disappointment (and maybe those clearance shoes you didn’t really need).

Although the warmer weather is welcome, there may be some trepidation about showing more skin this time of the year. The way we see, think and feel about our bodies can be described as body image. Our body image is influenced by our family, friends, culture and media. Body image is more of a mental state than about our physical bodies. For example, a friend may lose weight but still see herself as overweight because that’s what she has believed about herself for so long. Similarly, we tend to focus on all the parts of our bodies that we dislike (that roll, wrinkle, birthmark, etc.) instead of appreciating the positive aspects and all that the body does for us.

Constantly feeling negative towards one’s body can lead to anxiety and depression, so it’s

important to try to stop those thoughts that tell us we look “wrong” or that we aren’t good enough. In our culture, we are constantly being told and shown what is considered attractive or beautiful and then we’re stuck trying to achieve that ideal. However, for most of us, society’s pinnacle of beauty is often unrealistic or unattainable; but we nonetheless may still try to achieve those standards.

Unfortunately, marketers and advertisements may purposefully try to make women feel inadequate in order to sell more products or services. Remember that the majority of images you see in the media have been photoshopped or at least retouched. In fact, most cell phones will automatically modify pictures to correct imperfections.

A common trap many fall into is comparing ourselves to others instead of focusing on our own journey. Instead, we should strive for the acceptance of more than one definition of beauty. After all, flowers come in all sorts of shapes, sizes and colors, but that’s what makes flowers so wonderful—the diversity of them. It would be incredibly boring if we only had one kind of flower to choose from.

Embrace your body and work with it instead of fighting against it. Try different styles of swimsuits; make the suit work for your body, instead of fighting against your body. Additionally, many stores (such as SwimsuitsForAll.com) allow you to pick different sizes for the top and bottom of twopieces and also have bra-sized suits for better fit and support. Also, keep in mind that color can be incredibly flattering and can help highlight your best assets. And remember, as cliché as it may sound, confidence is the sexiest accessory you can wear. a

Wedding Planning

ON A BUDGET

By Barb Sieminski

When you were a child, you may have delighted in wearing your mom’s (giant) high-heels and a white towel fastened to your hair as you imagined yourself as a bride slowly going down the aisle. Your little sister carrying a handful of daisies was the bridesmaid and the neighbor boy was the unwilling groom.

Fast-forward to today when your childhood dream is about to come true. You’d love an over-the-top gala but reality (and finances) dictates that your celebration be much simpler. To achieve this and still offer a memorable wedding, look at our tips for saving some cash.

We enlisted the help of Christine Leto, wedding officiant and owner of Marry Me in Fort Wayne, who has officiated hundreds of ceremonies over the last 18 years.

• Find a venue that offers the ceremony and reception in the same location, eliminating limo or trolley costs; guests can stay seated at their dining table during the ceremony (eliminating the need for rental chairs, paying for outdoor ceremony space, etc.) and cocktail hour can be part of the venue rental, allowing time for photos.

• Choose any day but Saturday. Often a Friday or Sunday wedding date offers a discount from vendors as these days are not in demand.

• Open Bar – OUT. Providing a signature drink or a keg of beer is most common. It is rare for guests to expect unlimited alcohol options. Or stock the bar yourself.

• Vintage/Retro is IN! Shop thrift stores for apparel, accessories and décor. It is “in” anyway, and usually pocket-friendly.

Here are some additional money-saving tips:

• Make your own invitations.

• Eliminate gifts for the groomsman and bridesmaids.

• Be frugal with your guest list. Be upfront that you are trying to save on costs and that there will be an informal get-together a few months down the road for everyone after the wedding.

• Tap into your friends, if possible. Perhaps you have a friend who is a noted photographer who would take wedding pictures in lieu of a gift, or maybe you have friends whose band could provide the music. How about a talented baker who could fur nish a wedding cake?

• Getting married in your own church? Enlist the ladies’ auxiliary for assistance.

• Select reasonably-priced wedding rings.

• Use faux flowers or if you or a friend has a rose bush, perhaps you could fashion your own bouquet the day before the nuptials by cutting the roses and trimming the thorns yourself.

Finally, congratulations on living your dream – affordably! a

Resources

Marry Me in Fort Wayne, Fort Wayne, 260.637.3643, marrymeinfortwayne.com

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Watermelon Mojito

By Amber Bouthot

Summer is just around the corner, which means so are pool parties, lake weekends and dinner on the deck. Wow your guests with these refreshing Watermelon Mojitos.

Servings: 6 drinks

Ingredients:

• 30 large fresh mint leaves

• 4 thick slices fresh watermelon, seeds and rind removed

• 10 ounces light rum

• 1/2 cup simple syrup

• 1/3 cup freshly squeezed lime juice (3 limes)

• Sprigs of mint and spears of watermelon, for serving

Instructions:

1. Use a mortar and pestle to mash the mint leaves. You can add a little sugar to help break up the leaves and extract the oils.

2. Remove and discard the rind and seeds of the watermelon. Place the watermelon, rum, simple syrup and lime juice in a blender and blend until smooth.

3. Put the mashed mint into a large pitcher and add in the watermelon mixture. Stir to combine the mint with the juice.

4. Place ice cubes in 6 glasses and pour the mojito mixture into the glasses. Garnish with sprigs of fresh mint and spears of watermelon. a

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Grilled Steak & Citrusy Cucumber Avocado Salad

By Amber Bouthot

I don’t know about you, but the warm weather makes me want to grill and eat all the salads!

Recently, I whipped up this spring inspired salad to accompany our grilled steak. It’s been a long winter, so this light salad was just the thing we needed. The hints of citrus and honey, paired with the spicy jalapeno and smooth avocado made for a unique and satisfying treat.

Citrusy Cucumber Avocado Salad

• 1 cucumber, julienned

• 1/2 cup red onion, thinly sliced

• 1 fennel bulb, thinly sliced

• 1 large pink grapefruit, sectioned (juice reserved)

• 1 tablespoon olive oil

• 1 tablespoon orange blossom honey

• 1 jalapeño, seeded and minced

• 1/4 tsp. salt

• 1 avocado, peeled, pitted and sliced

• 2 heads of romaine, chopped

Combine cucumber, onion, fennel, 3 tablespoons grapefruit juice, oil, honey, jalapeños and salt in a medium bowl and mix well. Add grapefruit and avocado and gently toss. Divide chopped romaine onto plates and top with salad mixture.

Grilled Steak

• 1 1.5 lb sirloin steak

• salt, pepper and garlic powder to taste

Generously apply salt, pepper and garlic powder to steak. Wrap in aluminum foil and let sit for at least 30 minutes. Preheat grill to 625 degrees. Place steak on center of grill and heat for 2-1/2 minutes. Flip steak and cook for an additional 2 and a half minutes. Remove from grill and allow to rest for 10 minutes. Slice and enjoy! a

Shipshewana, Indiana

By Haiden Steingass

Planning a girls’ getaway? If you’re looking for a unique, affordable experience, Shipshewana, Indiana, is one of the best day or weekend trip ideas. Here’s the 4-1-1 on where to eat and what to do.

WHERE TO EAT

41 Degrees North

This quaint, cozy restaurant is in a neighboring town, Middlebury (just 10 minutes from downtown Shipshewana). Serving everything from comfort food items like fried pickles to filet mignon, there’s something for everyone.

5 & 20 Country Kitchen

For an old-fashioned dining experience, visit 5 & 20 Country Kitchen. With homestyle recipes for breakfast, lunch and dinner, this is a must-stop eatery if you’re traveling to Shipshewana.

Davis Mercantile

If the flea market is not happening during your day trip, another quaint, adorable place to shop is Davis Mercantile. It’s a one-stop-shop for anything from clothing and accessories to fabric, home décor and paper products. And if you need a bite to eat while shopping, there’s JoJo’s Pretzels and Millie’s Market Café.

Country Victorian Bed and Breakfast

This bed and breakfast is another place in Middlebury that’s full of history. The guest rooms are cozy, affordable and clean. Plus, the food is homemade and organic.

THINGS TO SEE AND DO

Blue Gate Amish Tours

Get to know the history and everyday life of the Amish in this backroads tour. You can choose from a 1.5 hour “Up Close and Personal” tour, a 1.5 hour “Evening In An Amish Home” experience, or a 2.5 hour “Taste of Amish Country” tour.

Buggy Lane Tours

Get a touch of authentic Amish culture with a horse and buggy ride. From a seven-minute joy ride to a 30-minute tour, this is a unique chance to relax and see the countryside.

Blue Gate Theatre

The Blue Gate Theatre is one of the most exciting places to visit in Shipshewana. From concerts to plays and musical, there’s always a performance going on. And once you visit this hot spot, you’ll want to check out the nearby Blue Gate Restaurant and Bakery.

Dutch Creek Farm Animal Park

PLACES TO SHOP

Shipshewana Auction & Flea Market

Shipshewana’s main attraction is the auction and flea market, which happens to be one of the largest of its kind in the Midwest. From farm-fresh fruits and veggies to handmade décor, cleaning supplies, clothes and makeup, this is a perfect day trip activity for the girls.

PLACES TO STAY

Amish Log Cabin

If you and your girls plan to stay overnight in Shipshewana, we recommend finding comfort in an Amish Log Cabin. They are authentic, wellkept and unique to the area.

Blue Gate Garden Inn

If you’re staying overnight and want something a bit more traditional, the Blue Gate Garden Inn is a fabulous hotel across the drive from to the Blue Gate Theatre.

Hop aboard a “safari style wagon ride” and see wildlife from buffalos to zebras, monkeys and antelopes. It’s a fun afternoon activity that you can’t experience anywhere else. a

Resource: Shipshewana.com

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to-do list

By Ray Balogh

Botanical Observatory

• “Migrations” live butterfly exhibit, (through July 7), regular admission

• May 10-12, Mother’s Day Plant Sale, 4 p.m.-7 p.m. Friday, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday, noon-4 p.m. Sunday, McMillen Community Center, 3901 Abbott St., Fort Wayne

• May 12, Mother’s Day in the Garden, noon-4 p.m., regular admission

Adults $5, children (3-17) $3, children (2 and under) free. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Tuesday through Saturday, 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday, noon-4 p.m. Sunday, Botanical Conservatory, 1100 S. Calhoun St., Fort Wayne. 260.427.6440, botanicalconservatory. org.

Embassy Theatre

• May 7, “Scott Bradley’s Postmodern Jukebox,” 7:30 p.m. Tuesday, $85/$49/$39/$29

• May 11, “Rhapsody & Rhythm: The Gershwin Concert Experience,” Fort Wayne Philharmonic, 7:30 p.m. Saturday, $21.75-$75

• May 12, “Mimosas with Mom: A Day of Pampering at the Embassy,” braid and hair styling bar, hand treatments, lip color stations, 11:30 a.m.-2:30 p.m., $20 general admission

• May 18, “Dvorak and Janacek,” Fort Wayne Philharmonic, 7:30 p.m. Saturday, $75/$55/$35/$22

• May 19, “Sherlock Jr.,” 1924 Buster Keaton movie, 3 p.m. Sunday, $10 general admission

• May 21, Neil deGrasse Tyson, 7:30 p.m. Tuesday, $249/$99/$75

Fort Wayne Embassy Theatre, 125 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 800.745.3000, fwembassytheatre.org.

Memorial Coliseum

• May 2, Old Dominion with Jordan Davis & Mitchell Tenpenny Concert, 7:30 p.m. Thursday, $61.50/$41.50/$31.50

• May 4, Fort Wayne Area Home Schools Resource Expo, 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday, $5 adults and teens, $2 children 3-12, free 2 and under

• May 13, Fellowship of Christian Athletes Night of Hope with Mike Singletary, 7 p.m. Monday, free, registration required at www.indianafca.org

• May 16, Roseanne Barr “Alive & Kickin’ Tour” 2019, 7:30 p.m. Thursday, $52/$42/$32

• Indiana Mission of Mercy free dental clinic, 7:30 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Friday and Saturday

Parking $6 main lot, $10 preferred lot. Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave., Fort Wayne. 260.482.9502, memorialcoliseum.com.

Honeywell Center

• May 3, “Dennis DeYoung: The Grand Illusion 40th Anniversary Album Tour,” 7:30 p.m. Friday, $75/$50/$35

• May 18, “John Tesh: Grand Piano Live,” 7:30 p.m. Saturday, $58/$45/$35

Ford Theater, Honeywell Center, 275 W. Market St., Wabash. 260.563.1102, honeywellcenter.org.

Niswonger

Performing Arts Center

• May 4, “The Sound of Music,” 2 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. Saturday, $75/$65/$45/$35

• May 10, “Leadercast Live” one-day leadership event, 9 a.m. Friday, $95 general admission

Niswonger Performing Arts Center, 10700 SR 118, Van Wert. 419.238.6722, npacvw.org.

1-18 | Tuesday-Saturday | Group Show

Features Elizabeth Wamsley Ceramics, Gwen Gutwein Oils, Justin Johnson Mixed Media, Barbara Nohinek Monoprints, Austin Cartwright Abstracts and more. Raku pottery workshop Saturday, May 4. 10 a.m.5 p.m. Tuesday through Saturday, Crestwoods Frame Shop and Gallery, 314 N. Main St., Roanoke. 260.672.2080, crestwoodsgallery.com.

1-31 | Tuesday-Sunday | Traveling Exhibitions

• Lingering Spirit: Photographs of a Changing Indiana by John Bower (through May 26)

• Jim Tate: The Persistence of Visions (through June 9)

• A Year of Making Meaning: New Additions to the Collection 2018 (through June 9)

• The Ideal Sketching Ground: Prints by the Artists of Brown County (through Aug. 4)

• Dox Trash: The Hopeful Gaze (through Aug. 4)

• American Brilliant Cut Glass: New World Innovation from 1876-1917 (ongoing)

Adults $8, students (pre-K through college) $6, seniors (65 and older) $6, families $20, free admission for veterans and veterans’ families, free general admission 5 p.m.-8 p.m. every Thursday. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday; 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday; noon-5 p.m. Sunday (closed Mondays), Fort Wayne Museum of Art, 311 E. Main St., Fort Wayne. 260.422.6467, fwmoa.org.

2 | Thursday | Fashion Show Fundraiser

A celebration of international culture and sustainable design with the theme, “Reimagine & Recreate.” Food, art, music, cash bar, live auction, international marketplace. $75/person. 6 p.m.-8:30 p.m., Women’s Club, University of St. Francis, 402 W. Wayne, Fort Wayne. 260.267.9048, www.gocwow.org.

3 | Friday | Open House

Early Americana music, spinning demonstration, hand-arts display, refreshments, bake sale. Parking by tennis courts. 10 a.m.-4 p.m., Historic Sweeney Homestead, 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. Call 260.637.8622, settlersinc.org.

3 | Friday | First Friday

Late night shopping, live entertainment, local culinary delights, locally crafted beverages, more. Free admission. 5 p.m.-8 p.m., downtown Auburn. 260.333.0883.

3 | Friday |

First Friday

Live entertainment, food, kid’s activities, shopping, evening specials and more. Free admission. 5 p.m.-8 p.m., downtown Wabash. 260.563.0975, wabashmarketplace.org.

Francine’s Friends Mobile Mammography Coach Schedule

For an appointment, call 260.483.1847 or 1.800.727.8439, ext. 68120. Walk-in openings are available depending on schedule.

5/3 Heritage Junior/Senior High School, 13608 Monroeville Rd, Monroeville

5/4 Women’s Health Day, Grabill Missionary Church, 13637 State Street, Grabill

5/6 LaGrange County Health Deptarment, 304 North Townline Rd, LaGrange

5/10 Curves, 102 Lincoln Highway W, New Haven

5/13 Center for Healthy Living - Parkview Warsaw YMCA, 1305 Mariners Dr, Warsaw

5/14 Physicians Health Plan, 1700 Magnavox Way, Fort Wayne

5/15 Butler Elementary, 1025 S Broadway St, Butler

5/16 DeKalb County Pink Out, 6th Street, Auburn

5/17 Health Visions, 2135 S Hanna, Fort Wayne

5/18 McMillen Health Fair @ McMillen Park Community Center, 3901 Abbott St, Fort Wayne

5/20 DeBrand Fine Chocolates, 10105 Auburn Park Dr, Fort Wayne

5/29 Citizens Square - City of Fort Wayne and Allen County, 200 E Berry St, Fort Wayne

5/30 Kroger, 7008 Bluffton Rd., Fort Wayne

3-4 | Friday-Saturday |

Herb and Perennial Plant Sale

Herbs in basement, perennial diggings on back lawn. Proceeds support Fort Wayne’s Historic Swinney Homestead. Parking by tennis courts. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Friday, 9 a.m.-noon Saturday, Historic Sweeney Homestead, 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. Call 260.637.8622, settlersinc.org.

3-4 | Friday-Saturday | MayFest in Shipshewana

Good, old-fashioned fun to celebrate spring. Bluegrass, gospel music, food, family activities, grand parade. Free admission. Townwide, Shipshewana. 866.631.9675, shipshewana.com.

4 | Saturday | Tea Class

Learn to put together a simple tea party and sample lettuce bites, sandwiches, shortbread, sugar cookies. $25/person. 1 p.m.-3 p.m., The Olive Twist Inc., 203 N. Main St., Auburn. Reservations required at 260.333.0866 or theolivetwist.com.

4, 9, 11, 18

| Thursday, Saturdays | Special Events

Saturday, May 4 and 11, free personalization with purchase

Thursday, May 9, wreath-making class Saturday, May 18, sidewalk sale

Business hours 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Thursday, 11 a.m.-6 p.m. Friday, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday, Just Like Home 1957, 215 E. 2nd St., Roanoke. 260.673.0555, facebook.com/justlikehome1957.

5 | Sunday |

Flea Market

Nearly 100 indoor vendors, hot food available. Sponsored by the Adams County Coin Club. 8 a.m.-3 p.m., Riverside Center, 231 E. Monroe St. (Highway 224 East), Decatur. Contact Carla at 260.517.8182, facebook.com/ decaturindianafleamarket.

5 | Sunday | Mather Sunday Lecture Series

“Lesser-Known First Ladies 1897 to 1923: A New Century Arrives — The Progressives, Ragtime and All That Jazz,” presented by Cynthia Thies. Free admission. 2 p.m., The History Center, 302 E. Berry St., Fort Wayne. 260.426.2882, fwhistorycenter.com.

7 | Tuesday |

Appleseed Quilt Guild Monthly Meeting

6:30 p.m. social time, 7 p.m. meeting, Classic Cafe Event Center, 4832 Hillegas Road, Fort Wayne. $30 annual dues, special rates for age 17 and younger. Members receive newsletter, use of lending library. Contact Jean Kaste at 260.615.3942.

7 | Tuesday | Band Concert

Fort Wayne Area Community Band, conducted by Dr. Scott Humphries and David Blackwell, will play a variety of music, including Bohemian Rhapsody, Jurassic Park, Atlantic Fanfare, Irish Tune. $8/adults, $7/ seniors, free under 18 years. 7:30 p.m., John & Ruth Rhinehart Music Center, Purdue Campus, 2101 E. Coliseum Blvd., Fort Wayne. Contact Rod King at 260.493.3318 or coknoll75@yahoo.com.

7, 14, 21, 28 | Tuesday | “Little River Ramblers”

Hike and explore the interesting plants and wildlife of Eagle Marsh. Sponsored by Little River Wetlands Project. Free admission. 9 a.m.-11 p.m., Arrowhead Prairie, Aboite Road, Fort Wayne. 260.478.2515, info@lrwp.org, lrwp.org.

9 | Thursday |

“Breakfast on the Marsh”

For 50 years and older. A light breakfast will be served. Call to preregister. Free admission. 8:30 a.m.-9:45 a.m., Indiana Wesleyan Education & Conference Center, Room 102/104, 8211 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 260.478.2515, info@lrwp.org, lrwp.org.

9 | Thursday | Tapas and ‘Tinis Fundraiser

Elegant martinis, gourmet tapas, appetizers, silent auction. Proceeds benefit Homebound Meals. $50/person. 6:30 p.m.-8:30 p.m., Club Soda, 235 E. Superior St., Fort Wayne. 260.422.3296, homeboundmealsfw.org.

10 | Friday | Spring Fling

Celebrate the Town of Rome City and support beautification and future events. Dinner, dessert, live auction, band. $50/person, $80/couple, $425/ reserved table of 10.

5 p.m., Sylvan Cellars Event Center, 2725 E. Northport Road, Rome City. 260.854.2412, facebook.com/advanceromecity.

11 | Saturday | Plant Sale

Hanging baskets, vegetable and flower bedding plants, dahlias, annuals, perennials, native plants, house plants, herbs. Sponsored by Noble County Master Gardeners. 9 a.m.-2 p.m., Noble County Fairgrounds, 580 Fair St., Kendallville. 260.636.2111, sweeks@purdue.edu.

15-18 | Wednesday-Saturday |

Fur Restyling Event

Design experts from New York can transform your fur into something special. Call to schedule an appointment. Pappas Furs, Leathers and Fine Outerwear, 2811 E. State Blvd., Fort Wayne. 250.484.2072

17 | Friday |

Spanish Tapas Bar vs Tacos

Classic simple Spanish recipe class. Make your own take-home seasoning blend. Sample a variety of salsas, tacos, rice, refried beans. $38.99/person. 6 p.m.-7:30 p.m., The Olive Twist Inc., 6410 W. Jefferson Blvd., Suite 7A, Fort Wayne. Reservations required at 260.436.3866 or theolivetwist.com.

19 | Sunday |

Cherry Blossom Festival

Japanese folk dance, traditional music, contests, tea ceremony, karaoke, food, merchandise, games, origami, bonsai exhibits. Free admission. Noon-5 p.m., Allen County Public Library, 900 Library Plaza, Fort Wayne. 260.432.7780, cherryblossomfw.com.

24 | Friday |

Serving Our Seniors

Munch and Movie

Theme: National Nursing Home/ Mother’s Day. Free admission. 1:30 p.m., Life Care Center, 1 649 Spy Run Ave., Fort Wayne. RSVP to Diana Mohr at 260.449.6806, lifecarecenteroffortwaynein.com.

24-26 | Friday-Sunday |

Northern Indiana Lakes Festival Parade, fireworks, 5K run, lake education, kids’ activities, live music, food, memorial ceremony. Free admission. Center Lake, Warsaw. 574.372.5100, lakesfestival.org. a

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may 2019

glo-roscopes

By Julie Young

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

In the garden of life, you are a lily of the valley. Sweet and petite, you bring hope and inspiration to everyone you meet. Your optimistic attitude is what gets you through the spring storms that threaten to leave devastation in their wake. Your maternal instinct will be called upon this month.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

No flower signifies your spirit better than a rose. A rose is the symbol of love and devotion, and there is no friend who is more loyal than you. Someone will need to confide in you and you may wonder if it is a secret you can (or should) keep. Trust your gut instinct.

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

Larkspur comes in a wide range of vibrant colors, which is perfect for such a colorful spirit. Let that spirit shine this month as you make plans for Mother’s Day and give mom a day she won’t forget! Of course, when you are the party planner, it’s bound to be the biggest bash of the year.

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

You are unforgettable and so is the poppy. Both bold and beautiful, this bright red bloom is worn to remember those who made the ultimate sacrifice for freedom. However, it is also the symbol of imagination, and there is no one more imaginative than you. Use that creativity to do big things this month!

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

You are a person who likes to greet the sunrise and does their best work early in the day. It’s no wonder that your flower is the morning glory. A symbol of love, power and wisdom, the morning glory is a hidden gem that is often overlooked in favor of flashier blooms. Assert yourself and make your presence known.

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

A symbol of fierce love and fall foliage, the marigold is a flower to fall in love with. You too are easy to love and pollinators are often attracted to your garden. Romance will be in full bloom this month, but will it be an annual fling or a perennial partnership? Only time will tell.

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

Next to the daisy, the chrysanthemum is one of the friendliest flowers and no wonder you seem to have a wide social circle. However, how many of your pals are there for the long haul and how many are only fair weather friends? When you need a big favor, you’ll find out which is which.

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

It’s no surprise that your flower is the holly. It is known to protect and defend against all bad mojo and you can’t help acting as a shield for the ones you love. Someone who has a fragile ego will need your support this month. Don’t let them down.

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

Carnations provide a bright spot to an otherwise gloomy day, so it’s no surprise that your optimism is reflected in this special bloom. A symbol of admiration, love and distinction the carnation does well in a supporting role or standing in the spotlight. Whatever you do this month, you will be a standout.

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

While roses are typically associated with romance and Valentine’s Day, the violet encompasses a love that extends to friendship and family. Once given as a symbol of loyalty, this little purple flower makes a big impact. So do you. You are more influential than you think.

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

You are the sunshine in everyone’s life. Like the daffodil, you have a way of looking on the bright side of every issue and not letting small setbacks get you down. This optimism will be challenged in the coming weeks, but good luck and prosperity will come, provided you don’t lose heart.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

Symbolizing purity, innocence and true love, the daisy closes its petals at night and reopens them during the day. While it is important to remain bright-eyed and bushy tailed in the workplace, keep your eyes open when the day is done. Don’t assume everyone in your life is as pure of heart as you are. a