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The “Shopaholics” november 2017 s glo 5 E Follow us on Facebook GLAM + ST YLE Beauty, Fashion + Spa 10 Stylin’ Fun ....................................................................................................... 12 FUNK She glows 14 glow Girl ...................................................................................................... 16 FEATURES Special Sec tion Gift Guide ................................................................................................18 Advice + Etiquette 22 Lifestyle + Balance .......................................................................................24 Women’s Health 26 Ex tra TLC ......................................................................................................... 28 Women’s Finances 30 SHOPPING glo Gal’s Shopping Guide ....................................................................... 31 GLO GOES Are You Aware? 38 Can’t M iss! Women’s Champagne Brunch 40 Smar t Girls, Brilliant Women ............................................................41 Y WCA Circle of Women Luncheon ................................................42 ALL ABOUT YOU To-Do List ........................................................................................................ 44 glo-roscopes ................................................................................................. 46 s h u t e r s o c k c o m glo is a news magazine with emphasis on inspiring women of all ages glo does not knowingly accept false or misleading advertising or editorial content, nor does glo or its staff assume responsibility should such advertising or editorial content appear in any publication glo assumes no liability for any claims regarding services or products or claims made by advertisers No reproduction of glo is allowed without express written permission Mailed subscriptions are available, prepaid with order at $43 for 12 issues; $72 for 24 issues Mail your request, along with your check to glo, P O Box 188, Milford, IN 46542 Your cancelled check will serve as your receipt Copyright © 2017 I S S U E n o v e m b e r 2 0 1 7 | V o l 8 N o 8

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Title of piece: “New Life”

About Shanon

EAr t is…

…ever-present and all around, when we allow the time to see it. Ar t is an expression of an idea or dream of something never before created, but, when given a Divine breath of life comes to fruition through the mind, eyes, hear t and hand of a creator Ar t is combining the simplicit y of the ordinar y and familiar, to create something extraordinar y and new.

What inspires you?

My biggest inspiration is God, followed by family, music, nature, mountains, the front porch, thought-provoking conversation and creative spaces.

Your biggest suppor ter(s):

My husband and t wo daughters are definitely my biggest suppor ters They are amazing

Why you read glo:

I enjoy reading the successes and triumphs of other women, the intentional sense of encouragement woven into each page, and the ar t and biographies of other female ar tists in and around the area

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Happy Holidays, glo Gals

Jingle bells and happy holidays are just around the corner. So, join glo in the season’s celebration with our annual Holiday Gift Guide It’s a glo-rious variet y of holiday gifts and all to make your shopping just that much easier

And how about a guide for freezing fun? Yep, obliterate the winter blues with fun ideas and offerings from glo

All this and so much more coming at you in the December holiday issue of glo. a

From the executive editor

Slap a hand to paper. Trace around each finger. And voila. We have a turkey.

Classrooms of lil’ tykes across this great nation will soon be hand-slappin’ their own feathered friends a celebrator y ac tivity since the beginning of time, it seems And isn’t it grand?

Remember the days? You made one, too.

And now your special tyke’s turkey will be plastered to the k itchen fridge Right where it belongs.

Yes, festive handmade décor is as ritualistic during the season of thanks as eating stuffing and watching Uncle Jimmy drink too much

O ther wise, the holidays just wouldn’t be the same And for that and each little, minute detail, we are thankful How appropriate for November

November is warmly energized with Thanksgiving feasts, families reunited and traditions firing into overdrive Black Friday will soon arrive, so star t your gift lists now (and check out this issue’s Holiday Gift Guide and glo’s Shopping Guide to spark your holiday spirit)

Seek new, fun ways to enrich your gal pal friendships Learn to love yourself a little better And get the sk inny on dating during the holidays I t ’s all within this issue of glo

And when you and the girls head out on a holiday shopping excursion (or just to grab a cuppa’ joe)? Snap a selfie and send it in I’d love to put you in print. I t ’s our way of celebrating you, friendship and all the little details for which we are so thankful

So grab some crayons and steal the printer ’s paper Slap a grownup hand and trace a turkey, reigniting the creativity of youth Embrace the little things Be thankful to ‘just be ’

Melinda Nick las

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Stop and smell the baked turkey And be nice to Uncle Jimmy

Enjoy this issue made just for you. And please k now how deeply grateful I am for your loyal readership. Thank you. Have a safe and beautiful season of thanks ”

Sue Rawlinson srawlinson@the-papers com

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8 glo s november 2017 GAL PALS Have a pic with your gal pals? Simply send it in! Readers, send photos to Sue at srawlinson@the-papers.com. We’d love to put YOU and your gal pals in print!
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Eye Beauty Tips for the Coming Season Eyes For You:

Does the per fec t smoky eye elude you? Are you baffled by the floating liner trend? Or do you just want to take your office look from day to night?

Don’t worr y we’ve got the lowdown on this season’s eye makeup and beauty trends

Eye Care 101

First thing’s first Winter colors run the gamut and trends may change each year, but moisturizer is always in style “ The eye area is a finer, more sen-

sitive sk in type, ” said Tori Schneider, a stylist at Southwest Hair & Day Spa. She recommended a twofold approach to daily eye care. Hydrate the sk in around your eyes regularly with a non-

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greasy daytime eye cream like Bioelements Multi-task Eye Creme. This will brighten sk in, target puffiness and erase fine lines.

For nighttime care, Schneider recommended a produc t like Bioelements Sleepwear for Eyes to continue moisturizing and repairing damage around the eyes while you sleep.

In addition, tr y out a delicate peel, like Bioelements Quick Refiner for eyes, with exfoliating linked papain, AHAs and lac tic acid.

Rules of Thumb

“Applying eye makeup can be as simple or as complicated as you want it to be, ” assured Schneider. To keep things simple for home, the office or even a par ty look, stick with colors in the same family and use var ying shades to dress up or down. Play with a palette of colors that come together, such as shades of plum or neutral browns “ This will make it easier to blend the colors together and takes out the complicated placement that can happen when you get into a variety of colors, ” said Schneider Choose a liner and mascara that complement these colors for a complete look

Stay in Neutral

This season’s hottest colors, neutrals, are per fec t whether you’re dressing up or down “ Whether you make it smok y with a chocolate brown or keep it pure with a lighter cream, neutrals are always a great choice, ” said Schneider

For the office, star t with a shadow two to three times lighter than your sk in tone and apply to the inner par t of your lid Apply a medium shade over the entire lid except for the corners Then apply a medium brown (your darkest shade) in an arc from the outer corner and up through your crease. Use a small, puffy brush to blend out. Top with brown liner and mascara to complete your daytime look.

Glam it Up

Take your daytime look up a notch by mak ing use of deeper colors. “If you normally wear lighter creams and browns for work, the easiest way to pump it up for a formal event is to go with deeper colors similar to the ones you normally wear, ” said Schneider “Applying those darker colors can be trick y, but as long as you use less produc t on the brush it will be easy to blend into a lighter color ”

If you’re fairly new to dramatic eye colors, Schneider recommended steering clear of trendy black eye shadow I t can easily be over-applied and can be difficult to blend Instead, add a little drama with a dab of spark ly shadow, powder or cream according to your preference, on the inner corners of your eyes

And don’t fret about the floating liner, which is eyeliner applied near the crease of the eye Stick with makeup that highlights your eyes and you’ll have a look that ’s totally you! a

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Opal & Ruby Gift Emporium Will Jewelers
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Charita Niedermeyer

The dew on the spiky autumn-chilled grass, the stillness of the forest, and the crisp morning air create a lovely ambience for camouflaged Charita Niedermeyer who waits in great anticipation for her deer.

But her pulse quickens even more in the greening springtime woods when she hears the gobbling of turkeys permeating the land Niedermeyer ’s12-gauge Ber tta is at the ready for the harvesting of one of America’s favorite meats.

The coordinator of the Three Rivers Chapter of Women in the Outdoors, Niedermeyer has been a member of the group since 2005 and leads an annual WITO ( Three Rivers Chapter on Facebook) event at the Izaak Walton League in Hunter town each June, which offers 24 varied outdoor classes to area woman.

“I became interested in the outdoors since I star ted dating my boyfriend Andrew in 1998, ” said Niedermeyer who learned to hunt and fish from her now-husband. “…after I became proficient, because my name was on a char t of successful turkey hunters one year at Pigeon River, the regional direc tor from the National Wild Turkey Federation called and asked if I would be interested in joining as a committee member for the Allen County chapter The outreach programs were what really locked me in with this organization and the rest is histor y I’ve been a member for 13 years now

“At the time they had an annual Becoming an Outdoors Woman event in the area, which locally had ceased to exist The WITO coordinator at the time found out that I was an avid outdoorswoman, on the local NW TF committee already, and had previously attended BOW events, so she thought I was a great fit for coordinating this program locally ”

Niedermeyer has won many awards for her leadership in WITO: Top Gun WITO (2011, 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016) and WITO Coordinator of the Year in 2011, 2013, 2014, 2015 and 2016

The first WITO had only 15 par ticipants, but last June’s event garnered 70 attendees On Dec 2 at Pigeon River Fish & Wildlife Area, Niedermeyer will host a ladies pheasant hunt for ladies new to hunting or who want to learn what it ’s all about

Because fishing and hunting are Niedermeyer ’s passions, introducing and mentoring new women in all things outdoors is her gift to them a

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Fighting Diabetes + Winning

Age: 20

Twent y-year-old Carly Baumgar tner of Bluffton used to be afraid to go to sleep. The problem was her recent diagnosis with Type 1 diabetes.“I was afraid I would not wake up because my sugar was too low," she said

Baumgar tner, who has always maintained a healthy weight, was diagnosed in fall 2016 while a freshman at Indiana Wesleyan University

Such news about her health was a struggle for Baumgar tner “I became afraid to eat food," she said “I wanted to be careful, but not eating enough was unhealthy too ”

Then in Februar y 2017, she developed a rapid hear t rate, began fainting and felt tired She was diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder that affec ted her pancreas, possibly due to the diabetes

Baumgar tner felt over whelmed with the additional news about her health “I researched ever y night about my illnesses," she said When she eliminated gluten from her diet, which is found in breads and crackers, Baumgar tner immediately felt better “I had more energy and no more brain fog," she said

Baumgar tner, a strategic communications major, returned to college determined not to let her health conditions get her down She maintains a gluten-free diet and administers a shot each time she eats something She wears a patch on her arm to monitor her body ’s produc tion of glucose and carries a small monitor, which enables her to see her count. “I t helps me k now if the numbers get too high or too low," she said.

Baumgar tner reached out to others with critical health conditions through a blog she started called CarlyElyseSweetTruth blogspot com Dozens of people of all ages have responded with comments about health problems. “ We share our struggles and tips and encourage each other," she said.

And she hasn’t stopped there In addition to her suppor t blog, with the help of friends and family, Baumgar tner also hosted a free luau in Bluffton this summer to bring together people associated with diabetes. Approximately 125 people par ticipated and donations were accepted for the American Diabetes Association.

Now, Baumgar tner sleeps better at night. “I’m still over whelmed with the changes in my body and I would never want to relive those early days, but they changed me," she said. “I love bread, cook ies and chocolate, but I feel better if I don’t eat them. I’m facing my fears and helping others ” a

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Ready to star t holiday shopping? Great! The annual glo Holiday Shopping Guide is back!

S et your t winkling eyes upon these great gift ideas for the loved ones on your gift list (or even for yourself!).

S anta’s glo-rific selec tions may all be conveniently found right here, in glo Land.

Happy shopping to all during this season of thankfulness.

These B oots Are Made For Gawking

And that is, indeed, what will happen when wearing these colorful, sassy, fashionista-lovin’ boots of the season. See the expansive variety of fashionable and comfor table fine leather boots at Rober t ’s Shoes A huge variety of styles and patterns are available for all those on your holiday gift list!

Rober ts Shoes

3915 E. State, For t Wayne | 260.483.3812

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Distinc tive Pampering

What better gift than a day at the salon and spa? Gift her the oppor tunity to focus on herself, to be pampered and to then head back home feeling even more beautiful and refreshed Learn what Mark of Distinc tion is all about, and gift some beautiful pampering for your special someone(s) this holiday season

Mark of Distinc tion 10431 Illinois Road, For t Wayne |

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Get Uncorked

Do you have a wine lover on your holiday list? Har tland Winer y offers an excellent selec tion of award-winning wines from dr y reds and semi-sweet whites to sweet fruit wines There’s sure to be a wine for your favorite wine lover and perhaps grab a few bottles for yourself (we think you deser ve it) Also, check out Har tland’s large selec tion of wine-related gifts and decor Not sure what to get? No problem; gift cer tificates are also available

Har tland Winer y 425 Count y Road 23, Ashley | 260 587 3301 har tlandwiner y.com

That ’s A Wrap

Enjoy two gifts in one with Lizz y James Jewelr y. Worn as a wrap bracelet or neck lace, the genuine leather statement pieces will wrap her with fashionable charm Made in California and handcrafted into truly unique, versatile pieces Found locally only at Opal & Ruby Gift Emporium

Opal & Ruby Gift Emporium 5215 Illinois Road., Suite 104, For t Wayne | 260.444.2019 www opalandruby com

Contemporar y Accents

Modern, bold and beautiful handcrafted statement jewelr y is what you’ll find with all pieces crafted by renowned designer Jeff Lieb The neck lace features magnetic closure, Swarovsk i cr ystals and hand-painted wood, all beautifully displayed on a soft rubber strand Matching earrings of Swarovsk i cr ystals on painted wood are a stunning complement to this k nockout neck lace See this and a huge assor tment of Jeff Lieb designs at Susan’s!

S usan’s Fashions

6340 W Jefferson Blvd , For t Wayne | 260 459 2828 susansfashions.com

Urban G ift Essentials

Urban She-K Boutique has all the urban-esque, fashion-for ward essentials for your holiday gif t list. This luxur ious, genuine, full-grain leather cross-body bag is the per fec t gift for the gal on your list! Fashionable and func tional, this chic bag has inside rear zipper pockets for securing your essentials

Urban She-k Boutique

6248 W. Jefferson Blvd., For t Wayne | 260.444.5993 urbanshe-kboutique com

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Spa-In-A-B ox

I t ’s a personal, luxurious touch your special someone will enjoy Custom-pack aged gift sets from Hear tstrings Lather Up® Soaps are made to order and available both at their shop or online These exclusive soaps are specialty produc ts, available in a variety of unique scents and they ’re beautifully pack aged for the per fec t holiday gift.

Hear tstrings Lather Up® S oaps

2040 W 900 N , Markle | 260 638 4978 latherupsoaps.com

Umbrella In A Wine B ottle

This unique, umbrella in a wine bottle is both clever novelty and a bold expression of ar t and design. The Vinrella wine bottle umbrella offers fashionable, stylish and fun designs to brighten rainy days and provide shade on sunny days. Each year Vinrella raises money for a new cause, and this year their suppor t goes to the National Breast Ca n ce r Fo u n d a t i o n A p o r t i o n o f e a c h p i n k r i b b o n u m b re l l a purchase goes to the foundation’s life-saving programs

All About You Boutique 202 S. Jackson Street, Auburn | 260.573.1168

Jolly Juice

I t ’s that time of year again! Countr y Heritage is mak ing spirits bright with this per fec t holiday blend of cranberries, Concord grapes and Catawba grapes This wine is delicately sweet which makes it a per fec t sipping wine while wrapping presents or watching those holiday classic movies! Stay Jolly Y ’all! Releases Fri., Nov. 24 at 10 a.m. | $12.95

Countr y Heritage Winer y & Vineyard 185 Co Rd 68, Laotto | 260 637 2980 countr yheritagewiner y.com

Her Must-Read

Give the gift of k nowledge this season Pique her interest and help her on a journey toward great health With breast cancer showing up in more than 200,000 new cases each year there is good news on the subjec t! Fifty to 70 percent of breast cancer cases can be prevented by proper lifestyle which would also prevent most of the chronic diseases and complications of type-2 diabetes. This book describes the pathway of prevention and it ’s not complex. Available for purchase on Amazon.

K achmann Health info@kachmannhealth.com www.kachmannhealth.com

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Dazzle Her

We k now bracelets are all the rage this holiday season, so why not gift the gals on your list (or yourself ) with this dazzling 14-k arat yellow and white gold cuff fashion bracelet? M icro-set with round brilliant cut diamonds totaling 1.13 carats, the only thing shining more brilliantly than her smile will be the beauty on her wrist.

Will Jewelers

7814 Carnegie Blvd , For t Wayne | 260 432 5126 willjewelers.com

Pamper Your Sugar Plum

Gift the experience of a glamorous transformation with the Red Carpet Ready Gift Set Four produc ts target the visible signs of aging (in minutes!) to leave sk in feeling refreshed and revitalized for a night on the town. This luxurious limited edition gift set also includes a stylish metallic clutch the per fec t accessor y for any holiday outfit. | Only $79.00

5 Elements S alon Boutique

1824 W Dupont Road, For t Wayne | 260 969 6955 5elements-spa-salon.com

Fine Food, Fine Purpose

It ’s a great idea for holiday gift giving Best Boy & Co products are made of the finest ingredients with special attention to natural ingredients, fair trade and organic, blended in recipes that create a unique and superior taste And better yet? All profits from Best Boy & Co product sales are distributed to charitable organizations, providing for the betterment of families and children worldwide Gift Best Boy this season; you’ll taste the difference and you’ll be making a difference around the world, Santa-style.

Best Boy & Co.

P.O. B ox 310, Roanoke | 260.446.4513 bestboyandco com

Festive Fragrance

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If you haven’t yet experienced Hyde + Alchemy fragrances, you’ll want to check this out! Outer Grace Boutique carries these handcrafted fragrance bar and per fumes and all handcrafted in small batches right in For t Wayne

Outer Grace Boutique

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Dating

during the holidays

Are you in a new relationship? Congratulations. This is an exciting time in your life and, while you may be looking for ward to the holiday season with your significant other, there are a number of predicaments and pitfalls that can crop up on couples at this time of year Not to worr y! We’ve reached out to exper ts in the dating field who can help you navigate this minefield of romance killers and come out in the New Year with your head (and hear t) intac t.

• DNA (Do Not Assume): If yours is a relatively new relationship (six months or less), it is important to not expec t too much too soon, especially during the holiday season. Even though you’ve been seeing each other pretty regularly, your special someone may have no plans to bring you to a family func tion or parade you through an office gathering If he wants to include you, he will If not, don’t sweat it, the exper ts say Sherrie Schneider and Ellen Fein (authors of “ The Rules”) suggest mak ing your own plans and remember that your holiday happiness is not dependent on another person

• Family matters: If invited to spend par t of the holiday season with the new flame’s family, feel free to do so. Remember to bring your hostess a small gift of appreciation and intentionally pitch in with help wherever you can Remember, you will be reviewed later make sure you get a rave review On the other hand, if you have relatives who will put your special someone through a third-degree interrogation, it may be best to hold off until a less formal occasion for introduc tions According to Stacey Wald, licensed associate professional counselor, of Grow Counseling, such an ac t “can cause the relationship to fail in the long run and feel like you are rushing things.”

• KISS (Keep It Simple, Silly): Holiday gift giving can be such a hassle, especially where new relationships are concerned How much is too much? Will the other person get the wrong idea? What if you spend more/less than he does? First, holidays are not the time for the “grand gesture ” The smar t money is on simplicity and sincerity Keep your budget under $50 and restric t yourself to “safe” presents that cannot be misconstrued: a book on a subjec t he likes, a gift cer tificate, or a sweatshir t of his favorite spor ts team. Do not max out your credit card on a plasma screen T V just because he mentioned wanting one. (I t doesn’t mean you have to buy it.)

• Don’t show your hand: When scouring the Hallmark store for the per fec t expression of your feelings, don’t go overboard with the sentiment and mush. You may feel like the holidays are a good time to ‘up’ the ante, but you are still gambling and it ’s best to err on the side of caution

So, bring on the mistletoe. Enjoy one another. Dive into dating, but simply keep it real and enjoy the merr y moments. a

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Girlfriend Gigs

to be thankful for

The weather might be cooler, but spending indoor time together with girlfriends doesn't have to be limited to spin classes, massages, manis and pedis (although can you really go wrong?).

A number of places offer ac tivities that lend themselves to giggles and relaxing with mates, most at low cost During this season of thankfulness, let ’s celebrate ‘girlfriend time ’ Find something that works with ever yone’s interests, grab your chicas and have some belly-laughing-thankful-for-one-another-fun

Where? Here’s some ideas:

Olive Twist

6410 W. Jefferson Blvd, Ste. 7a For t Wayne

260.436.3866

Auburn location:

115 N Main St (corner of 6th and Main) 260 333 0866

Closed Sundays at both locations

The gorgeous bottles filling the shelves of the front par t of this attrac tive store inspire one to pop a cork O wner Lori Berndt teaches small groups of cook ing classes how to use flavored vinegars and oils in various ethnic and seasonal dishes Note: classes fill up early so plan ahead theolivetwist com

Wine & Canvas Studio

The per fec t way to ‘wine down’ from a busy week is to spend a few hours at a class offered most weekends Who k nows? Painting in a relaxing atmosphere with a pal or two might induce ar tistic displays never suspec ted (or discovered)

6410 W. Jefferson Blvd. Ste 7B For t Wayne, IN 46804

574 807 1562 wineandcanvas com

High Tea

If Downton Abbey ’s scenes of posh dresses, tables set with fine china and the idea of dressing for tea and nibbles still fill one’s fantasy, head to the Washington Street Inn in Bluffton O wner K athy Gardner offers homemade scones, lemon curd todie-for, several k inds of tea and other fresh-baked goodies in her luscious V ic torian B&B The home is beautifully decorated with occupied China figures, doilies and family heirlooms.

Note: the cost is ver y reasonable so plan a relaxing group outing for after the holidays.

220 E Washington Street Bluffton, IN 46714

260 824 9070

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This type of quick-move dancing looks deceptively easy, but don't let fanc y footwork keep you from going with friends to Salsa Loca in downtown For t Wayne Introduc tor y classes and social events are offered regularly

No par tners needed

6041 N Clinton Street

For t Wayne, Indiana, IN 46825

260.413.5413

Play G ames

Put those tex ting shor tcuts aside and opt for real words while playing Scrabble Remember to keep that competitive streak in-check the goal is to spend time together and have fun! a

Women Helping Women

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Creative Women of the World

125 W Wayne St For t Wayne IN 46802

260.267.9048

This color ful boutique in downtown For t Wayne sells handmade produc ts designed and made by ar tisans around the world from purses, jewelr y and home décor to cards, chocolates and coffee The shop offers group fashion shows on its upper level Amazingly, 100 percent of the profit is put into carr ying out its mission of equipping people toward self-sustainment

Et Cetera Ecke

152 W Main St Berne, IN 46711

260 589 2831

This shop in downtown Berne spor ts a small fair-trade area Items range from home décor to baskets to toys. The back of the store is a thrift shop with a wide assor tment of items from clothing to furniture.

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Caffeine. Caffeine.

O ver the years, exper ts have weighed in on the effec ts of caffeine good for you, bad for you and with continued research, we now know more than ever about the positive and negative impac t it can have on our bodies

First, it may be helpful to clarify the amounts of caffeine found in different drinks According to the Dietar y Guidelines for Americans, adults should limit their caffeine consumption to 400 mg per day (www mayoclinic org)

Caffeinated beverages contain a wide range of caffeine amounts, with variant fac tors to keep in mind (i e different strengths of brewed coffee or brands of energy drinks):

BEVERAGE SERVING SIZE

Brewed coffee 8 oz 95-165 mg

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Black tea 8 oz 25-48 mg

Green tea 8 oz 25-29 mg

Cola 8 oz 24-46 mg

Energy drink 8 oz 27-164 mg

Energy shot 1 oz 40-100 mg

Another fac tor to keep in mind is the size and ac tivity level of the individual person. For example, a professional athlete who is large in stature and regularly ac tive will metabolize 100 mg of caffeine much differently than a less-ac tive person with a small frame

Something else to consider is how much food has the person consumed? A double-espresso

drink on an empty stomach is likely to cause a jitter y effec t, while a small meal will help the caffeine to be absorbed more slowly by the body

S o how bad is c affeine for us?

Let ’s star t with the bad news and possible negative effec ts, bearing in mind the aforementioned variant fac tors. The downside of caffeine consumption can include: insomnia, ner vousness, restlessness, irritability, upset stomach, rapid hear tbeat and even muscle tremors And as a natural stimulant, caffeine can be addic tive and people may find themselves dependent

But, as with most things, moderation is key and consumed in the appropriate amounts, caffeine can potentially offer several positive health benefits as well:

• improve energy levels and increase brain func tion

• help the body burn more fat

• improve physical per formance

• provide essential nutrients like riboflavin, V itamin B5, Manganese, Potassium, and Magnesium

• lower the risk of Type II Diabetes

• may protec t from Alzheimer ’s, Park inson’s and dementia

• may help protec t the liver from cirrhosis

• may help lower the risk of stroke, depression and possibly cer tain types of cancer

[Source: www mayoclinic org]

S o, what ’s the verdic t?

Depending on the person, exper ts agree that moderate consumption of caffeine each day can deliver positive benefits that can outweigh the negative ones remembering to take into account individual fac tors in each case Go ahead and enjoy a cup or two of coffee each morning, listen to your body and if it makes you concerned, adjust your consumption accordingly a

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Optimal health to be thankful for means tending the needs of our mind, body and soul. As women and natural nur turers, this can be easier said than done. It ’s in our best interest to car ve out time for ourselves, though Here’s what a few health and wellness local exper ts have to say about this balancing ac t.

Recharge

First, it ’s a matter of reframing the conversation “I t almost feels selfish to put ourselves first, but I have coined the phrase ‘self-ish with a purpose, ’” said Amber Quinn, owner of the BeBalanced Hormone Weight Loss Center location in For t Wayne “ While it may feel selfish to let your husband play outside with the k ids while you relax in a nice warm bath, the purpose is you have to recharge and refresh ”

can impac t mood, weight, sleep and our general quality of life So, once we change our food, we literally change our life ”

Teresa Fogwell, owner of Anytime Fitness in southwest For t Wayne, agrees that food is fuel, offering a simple, yet power ful analogy : “ We don’t expec t our cars to func tion without fuel and regular maintenance Why do we expec t our health to per form differently?”

Unlike a vehicle, our bodies are not expendable, so it is even more vital to care for them. I t is critical to set examples for those around us, she said And there’s much more to hitting the gym than meets the eye

Fitness

A full batter y can do wonders for all aspec ts of your life “Life is enhanced by experiencing your life as a whole person, instead of the leftovers after an exhausting week, ” said Stephanie Florin, cer tified massage therapist at V ital Living Wellspa

Diet

Speak ing of leftovers, diet is another impor tant variable There’s a lot of truth in the saying, ‘you are what you eat.’ In Quinn’s words, “Food

“Self-care and fitness can also help boost your confidence, help you sleep better, help you lower your stress levels and help you live your best life, ” Fogwell said

Who wouldn’t want all this? While it may sound appealing, sometimes the hardest par t is getting star ted Fogwell suggests setting goals and think ing about how your life would benefit from setting and hitting them You also don’t have to go it alone

“Lifestyle changes can be hard and k nowing your ‘why ’ can really help you get through the tough times, ” she said “I also highly recommend

talk ing to a professional to help you set goals and formulate a plan to achieve those goals safely and effec tively ”

As far as planning goes, Stephani Har tzell, coowner of Arrow Fitness recommends car ving out time first thing in the morning.

“If you star t your day off with just 30 minutes of exercise, you will feel rejuvenated and ready to tack le that never-ending to-do list that seems to accumulate as the day goes on, ” she said.

And the good news is that exercise doesn’t necessarily require a gym membership or a huge time commitment. I t just calls for the right attitude and frame of mind.

“If you are struggling with mak ing the time for exercise, think about other things that consume your time that you can cut out ”

So, consider this permission to relax a little You’re wor th it! a

Resources:

Anytime Fitness, For t Wayne, 260.436.8680, anytimefitness.com

Arrow Fitness, For t Wayne, 260 710 4171, arrowfitnessfw com

BeBalanced Hormone Weight Loss Center, 260.710.8109, bebalancedcenters.com

Vital Living WellSpa, For t Wayne, 260 436 8807, vlmassage com

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Fun Holiday Shopping (Without Exhausting Yourself or Going Over Budget)

Shopping A favorite pastime most of the year, right? But holiday-time, it can feel like just one more chore on the mile-long to-do list.

Let ’s reinvigorate this holiday ac tivity and turn it into something low-stress, budget-friendly, and dare we say it fun?

Sure, online shopping is easy, but:

• I t saves money? That one-click ordering sure makes it easy to overspend.

• I t ’s less stressful? All those boxes arriving and then missing items to track down “I t ’s on backorder?” Back to the computer More spending More boxes! Ugh

• I t ’s fun and festive? (Ok ay, nobody ’s ever said that). Tr ying to get it done at work when the boss isn’t look ing or in a latenight state of exhaustion with only a glass of wine for company? Not fun Not festive

How about a shopping excursion, instead? Take a few gal pals Grab a peppermint coffee or a festive cocktail when you’re done Or, just take yourself and get some much-needed “you-time ” See the glo ads for all our favorite places Or, take a road trip to all the great stops in this issue’s Shopping Guide and Holiday Gift Guide Playing festive music in the car and enjoying great conversation with friends during the drive can readily lower stress, raise spirits and make the holidays feel special again.

Ready to get merrily star ted? Here’s how

Budgeting

Star t by listing ever yone you’re buying for and the amount you’ll spend. Don’t forget those who get holiday tips, like the babysitter or mail carrier Also include giftwrap, shipping and holiday cards Add it all up Is that total doable? If not, rework each gift until you achieve a reasonable total

Keep this list with you, on paper or use an app. Fill in amounts as you shop to track your budget If you go over-budget on one gift, cut costs on another

Don’t feel obligated to spend money. Assess your list closely and remove people who aren’t ‘gift-wor thy ’ (don’t worr y, they ’ll never k now!) Get creative Make a coupon to babysit your best-friend’s k ids so she can have a free afternoon Give a niece or nephew a “spend the day with your favorite aunt ” cer tificate If you bake or craft, make gifts for some of those on your list

Reducing Stress

Make another list, arranging gifts by where you’ll be shopping This helps budget time and reduce errand-running Prioritize the list with time-sensitive tasks first

Shop during off-hours for smaller crowds, easier park ing and quicker checkouts If you can’t take time off work, go before or take an ex tra-early lunch hour; or let the k ids order pizza one night so you can hit the stores later (and without them in tow)

Shopping at a mall? Print out a map from its website first, and plan your route to help stay focused, avoid back-track ing and limit excessive window-shopping.

Take care of yourself Sure, there will be some indulging, so eat especially healthy the rest of the time. Drink lots of water; keep a bottle in your car. Continue regular exercise; shor ten the time if you must, but don’t give up completely. Find a new way to deal with stress (we suggest exercise or meditation) instead of overeating, drink ing or smok ing You’ll be giving yourself the best gift of all: healthy, happy and fun holidays and a great star t to the New Year a

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Holly-jolly, the holidays are coming And downtown For t Wayne is alive with cheer ful spirits, great shopping and family traditions galore

So grab the gals, the guys and the k iddos and check it all out

With plentiful shops lining the streets of downtown, great buys during the holidays, unique boutiques boasting locally-made produc ts (be sure to check out Outer Grace Boutique!), var ying fashion styles for anyone, as well as antiques galore, fine dining, great coffee shops and even excellent wine, downtown For t Wayne is, without question, a true destination

Let downtown For t Wayne’s West End shops help you warmly embrace the Thanksgiving season this year

S H O P P I N G fact:

About how many shoppers bustled about over Black Friday weekend last year? Why, just 137 million!

As a most trusted resource for shopping guidance,

glo is excited to share this sec tion created just for shoppers. That ’s you!

Want to grab your gal pals for a day of shopping?

Ready to explore this great region a little more in-depth? Want to learn about great boutiques, coffee shops and unique destinations right in our own awesome region?

We thought you’d like that ( We do, too )

Check out this issue’s ads to show where to shop and read the stories to learn a little more

Enjoy and happy shopping! a

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Shop Bluffton

I t ’s the holiday season in ‘small town USA ’ Bluffton happily welcomes visitors with its brick-lined streets, a quaint teahouse, grand old buildings, local antique shops, bakeries and it ’s a great stop for a hot latte. And for some great holiday décor, check out Bluffton’s ever-growing and popular florist, appropriately named A Per fec t Blend And that it is a perfec t blend of florals and gifts for just about any occasion including the holidays

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Ready for a holiday shopping weekend with the gals? Mark your calendars and then head to Auburn for a day, or a full weekend

Browse about the downtown boutiques for fantastic shopping and unique finds you won’t see elsewhere From shops specializing in vintage and antiques to home furnishings to today ’s styles and trends at Hidden Key and Lyn-Maree’s Boutique, Auburn offers a coz y, hometown destination for quality time with your besties

After shopping, visit the area’s winer y or stop in at one of the town’s various restaurants. V isit Auburn for your holiday shopping excursion; we think you’ll be thankful you did

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Shop Berne

Reputed for its proud Swiss heritage, Berne might just be the new destination place you’ve been seek ing for your holiday shopping experiences Or, as family visits during your Thanksgiving gatherings, check out this histor y-filled village and learn a bit of histor y from its passionate residents, and share in the sounds and joy of Christmas with community family and friends in Berne

V isit the Berne Muensterberg Plaza and Clock Tower (and watch the live glockenspiel presentation), built as a tribute to its residents’ Swiss heritage Shop at the Swiss Heritage V illage and Museum and enjoy the town’s antique mall and quilt shop. Embrace the pic turesque and festive, scenic views and historical foundation of Berne

Christmas Open House

Friday, Nov. 3, 9-6 Saturday, Nov. 4, 9-5

Located in downtown Berne, IN.

Open M-F 9-5:30pm and Saturdays 9-3pm

Hours: Mon.-Fri. 9am-6pm, Sat. 9am-1pm

Shop Decatur

Star t a new family tradition this season by visiting The Grainer y. Truly a sight to see, its Christmas displays provide an awe-inspiring experience, attrac ting visitors from around the region The Grainer y fills the store with decorated trees, specialty-made wreaths and swags, Christmas figurines and nativities. Each display is themed, providing an array of budget-friendly items to fit in any home.

The Grainer y

The Grainer y ’s Christmas Open House, held Nov. 3-4, is an annual must-see V isitors will enjoy live music and refreshments as they view special Christmas-lit displays on Friday evening

Don’t forget to pick up fresh evergreen arrangements for your holiday par ties The Grainer y designs arrangements for the inside of the home as well as outdoors Urns and pots can be transformed into beautiful mixed evergreen arrangements that last outside all season long

K ay Renee is also ready for Christmas with the newest fashion styles, jewelr y and accessories Great gift ideas are to be had with multiple sizes and styles of capes, wraps, scar ves and more Be sure to visit the website and Facebook pages for the latest produc ts and specials.

S H O P P I N G fact:

In a recent study, 74 percent of women said they are more likely to buy something if it is on sale.

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Shop Waynedale

When holiday shopping in and around For t Wayne this Thanksgiving season, head just 3 miles southwest of For t Wayne (on SRs 1 and 3) to Waynedale

Comprised of quiet neighborhoods with friendly residents, many Waynedale businesses are still family-owned and -operated For quaint holiday shopping where business is truly appreciated, give Waynedale a tr y. And be cer tain to say hello to glo’s friends at Something Old, Something New for great fashions in clothing, shoes, purses, jewelr y and more and all at amazing prices a

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National Diabetes Month

Diabetes mellitus is a disease in which blood sugar levels are too high Insulin, a hormone that is needed to conver t sugar, starches and other foods into energy, regulates blood sugar Problems with either the amount of insulin made or the response to insulin can lead to abnormal blood sugars.

• About 20 8 million children and adults have diabetes, approxmately 7 percent of the population But less than 1 percent have Type I, which occurs when the body loses its ability to produce insulin.

• A new suppor t group for Type 1 patients and families star ts this month on 6:30 p m Nov 15 at Mad Anthony Children’s Hope House, at Lutheran Children’s Hospital, 7922 W Jefferson Blvd Call 260 453 7427 or email echristy@lhn.net.

• Erin Christy, a social worker at the Diabetes/Endocrinology Clinic at LCH said, “I feel like getting suppor t is crucial just because the families don’t get a day off from this disease We’ve had requests for it I’m hoping we get a good response ” lutheranchildrenshosp.com/diabetes-endocrinology a

Veterans Day

Nov 11, 1919 was the first anniversar y of the end of World War I and “Armistice Day ” began Today, Veterans Day is a national holiday, when veterans are thanked for their ser vices to the United States.

Par ty + Meet the Heroes

Author K ayleen Reusser has inter viewed 200 Indiana World War II veterans Her second book,“ They Did it For Honor, ”released in September, and features local veterans. A par ty and book signing 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. Nov. 4, at the Allen County Public Librar y in downtown For t Wayne. Featured veterans will be in attendance.

Alzheimer ’s Awareness Month

Alzheimer's is a type of dementia that causes problems with memor y, think ing and behavior Symptoms usually develop slowly and get worse over time, becoming severe enough to inter fere with daily tasks

Holly Gentr y is executive direc tor of the Life Care Center in For t Wayne She said having a set routine for meals and ac tivities is one way those with Alzheimer ’s are helped in the facility, which has a 24-resident memor y care unit “A smaller unit can be beneficial because the lower the ratio of staff to residents, the more attention a resident can get One on one time is valuable to the resident, ” she said

Gentr y said that being proac tive with detec tion is impor tant Denial is a mistake In some cases, a neurologist can see what is going on, and steps can be taken

“ The moment you notice your loved one is getting forgetful, don’t take it as a ‘senior moment ’ Go to the doc tor Early testing not only allows you to stay on top of the situation, but there are some promising medications and programs to help someone retain their memor y as long as possible ”

Monitoring a person’s medicines and diet could help Plus, some medication is designed to maintain memor y for as long as possible “I’ve seen a lot of families that have sought help and had good outcomes, ” Gentr y said

For more information, the Alzheimer ’s Association website is www alz org a

“ The book gives a personal feel to an impor tant time in world histor y, ” Reusser said “ The par ty will be a rare oppor tunity to meet these historical figures who helped change histor y ” Her previous book, “ World War II Legacies: Stories of Nor theast Indiana Veterans, ” was published in 2014 Reusser is married to a retired U S Air Force airman and is the mother of an airman “I wrote the books to show my suppor t for those who have ser ved and currently defend our countr y," she said.

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Veterans Day Parade and Dedication Ceremony 11 a m Nov 11

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On the Mayflower, just 18 adult women were passengers. Only 5 survived the first winter in Americ a. By the time of the famous Thanksgiving, only 4 had sur vived. Fun tidbit: One of the 4 sur vivors, Mar y Brewster, is a direc t descendent of glo’s executive editor, S ue.

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Big Brothers Big Sisters Champagne Brunch of Nor theast Indiana

“Little Sparkles...Big Magic”

Big Brothers Big Sisters Nor theast Indiana will hold its 10th annual Women’s Champagne Brunch, “Little Sparkles, Big Magic, ” from 10 a.m. to noon S aturday, Nov. 18, at the War Memorial Coliseum conference center, 4000 Parnell Ave , For t Wayne Doors open at 9 a m

The brunch will include chilled mimosas, a fashion show featuring Big Sisters and Little Sisters, testimonials, presentation of the 2017 Diane Humphrey Award and more

“ There is no fee to attend, but we hope the event inspires you to help make a difference, ” according to the fundraiser ’s promotional flyer The organization encourages a donation of $75 or more

The Diane Humphrey Award, named for its inaugural recipient, was established in 2012 and is given to “an individual or individuals in recognition of commitment and contribution to youth in our community ”

The award “recognizes women who demonstrate passionate volunteerism, strong community leadership and a lifelong commitment to ser ving others ”

• More than 600 women are expec ted to join this year ’s event

• Big Brothers Big Sisters has operated for more than a centur y with the belief that “inherent in ever y child is the ability to succeed and thrive in life ”

• The organization is the nation’s largest donor- and volunteer-suppor ted mentoring network and makes meaningful, monitored matches between adult volunteers and children ages 6 through 18 years

• The Big Brothers Big Sisters mission is “to help children reach their potential through one-to-one relationships with mentors that have a measurable impac t on youth ”

• The need for the organization is revealed statistically in its success Researchers have found that after 18 months spending time with their Bigs, Little Brothers and Little Sisters were:

● 46 percent less likely to begin using illegal drugs

● 27 percent less likely to begin using alcohol

● 52 percent less likely to sk ip school

● 37 percent less likely to sk ip a class

● 33 percent less likely to hit someone

• Researchers also discovered Littles were more confident of their schoolwork performance and got along better with their families.

• Adding a caring adult in a child’s life, engaging in ac tivities such as eating out, playing or watching spor ts together, going to movies, sightseeing or simply hanging out together, enabled the children to make better choices in their lives and avoid violence and substance abuse.

RSVP to Heather Hendrickson, special events coordinator, at 260 203 3330 or heather hendrickson@bbbsnei org a

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Brilliant Women Smart Girls

The 2017 Smar t Girls/Brilliant Women luncheon will be held from 11:30 a m to 1 p m Thursday, Nov 2, at the Grand Wayne Center, 120 W. Jefferson Blvd., For t Wayne.

The fundraiser, which has been held annually for at least a decade, is sponsored by the Boys and Girls Club of For t Wayne, and suppor ts the organization’s year-long program involving hundreds of young women to learn about health, fitness and self-esteem enhancement

• The program focuses on healthy lifestyles, including exercise, healthy choices and building self-esteem

• The luncheon will mark the accomplishment of young women, aged 10 to 18 years, and will designate a “Smar t Girl of the Year ”

• The award “goes to a girl in the club who exhibits what it means to be well-rounded with good charac ter, vir tues and leadership sk ills who ser ves as a role model for the other girls, ” said Debby Stellwagen, direc tor of

community relations for the Boys and Girls Club of For t Wayne.

• Stellwagen anticipates this year ’s luncheon attendance to reach 750

• “ We are always ver y grateful for all our community par tners who help us with bringing educational and other oppor tunities to our k ids, ” she said “ Without them we cannot do what we do We are not the exper ts so we rely on them and are ver y grateful to the people who volunteer their time and talents so we can provide our k ids with wonder ful oppor tunities to find out who they are and where they are going in life, ” said Stellwagen

• The Boys and Girls Club of For t Wayne star ted in 1989 to provide a safe, accepting and positive place for children and teens after school and during the summer

• The club has grown tenfold from its 180 members the first year to more than 1,800 children and teens today.

• The club’s mission is “to inspire all young people, especially those who need us the most, to reach their full potential as productive, caring and responsible citizens ”

• The cost for the luncheon is $75 per person or $750 per table of 10, one of whom is a “smar t girl.”

For more information, visit www bgcfw org or call 260 744 0998, ex t 112 a

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YWCA Circle of Women Luncheon YWCA Circle of Women Luncheon

Enlarging the Circle

Engaging us all to eradicate domestic violence

Y WCA Nor theast Indiana will sponsor its 21st annual luncheon from 11:30 a.m. to 1 p.m. Thursday, Nov. 30, at the Grand Wayne Center, 120 W. Jefferson Blvd., For t Wayne. D oors open at 11:15 a.m.

The Circle of Women luncheon this year has been renamed the Circle Luncheon to incorporate more men into helping end domestic violence

Keynote speaker Dr Jackson K atz, author of “ The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hur t Women and How All Men Can Help, ” will address the critical role men play in helping eradicate domestic violence

The luncheon is a fundraising event to suppor t Y WCA Nor theast Indiana’s domestic violence ser vices and programs

“Our entire community is affec ted by domestic violence and the community benefit derived from our ser vice to vic tims and through education is both immediate and long-term, ” said Erin Johnson, development manager at Y WCA Nor theast Indiana

“ We are committed to reducing the number of domestic violence incidents in our community and to improving the future of the women, men and children exposed to it, ” she said

The Y WCA’s domestic violence ser vices include:

• A 24/7 crisis line at 260.447.7233 or 800.441.4073.

• A crisis shelter for those in immediate danger or in need of a safe place from violence

• Community programs for vic tims not ready or able to enter a shelter, but who still seek suppor t

• Steps to Success, a program for those at least six months removed from a domestic violence situation

• Direc t ser vices to provide safety, education and suppor t to vic tims and their families that meet emergenc y needs and allow victims to recapture control over their present and future well-being

• Community education programs to teach employers to recognize the signs and impac t of domestic violence in the workplace

• V ital training to ser vice providers to recognize warning signs

• Education to young people about relationship violence and safety

• Collaboration with law enforcement to provide education and ser vices to incarcerated women.

• Par ticipation as subjec t exper ts on task forces and committees

Organizers expec t more than 700 attendees at this year ’s luncheon The cost is $25 per person. Par ticipants may register online at www.ywca.org/CircleofWomen or www.ywcacircleluncheon.eventbrite.com.

For more information, contac t Johnson at 260 424 4908, ex t 227, or ejohnson@ywcaerew.org. a

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21st Annual Circle Luncheon

YWCA Northeast Indiana

“Enlarging the Circle”

Engaging us all to eradicate domestic violence

Save the Date

Thursday November 30 11:30 AM-1:00 PM

Jackson Katz, Ph.D., author of “The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hurt Women and How All Men Can Help,” will keynote the 21st Annual Circle Luncheon. www.jacksonkatz.com Register now: https://ywcacircleluncheon.eventbrite.com

Questions? Erin Johnson 260-424-4908 ext.227 or ejohnson@ywcaerew.org

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2 | Thursday | Flight #G3

Fashion gala and fundraiser for Glam Boutique’s third anniversary Runway, buffet, vintage cocktails, champagne bar, holiday pop-up shoppe Proceeds to Smithstrong Foundation 7 p m -10 p m , Warsaw Municipal Airport, 2814 Foreman Drive, Warsaw Tickets $45-$100 574 267 1901, kcfoundation org and search for smithstrong

2 | Thursday | Smart Girls/ Brilliant Women Luncheon

Enjoy this wonderful fundraising event is sponsored by the Boys and Girls club of Fort Wayne It’s a regional can’t-miss! $75 per person or $750 per table of 10, one of whom is a “smart girl ” 11 a m -1 p m , Grand Wayne Center, 120 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne 260 744 0998, ext 112, bgcfw org

3 | Friday | Auburn First Friday

Late night shopping, live entertainment, local culinary delights, locally crafted beverages, more Free admission 5 p m -8 p m , downtown Auburn 260 333 0883

3 | Friday | Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker

The troupe’s 25th anniversary tour features world class Russian artists as larger than life puppets and nesting dolls $80/$60/$48/$30 7:30 p m , Honeywell Center, 275 W Market St , Wabash 260 563 1102, honeywellcenter org

4 | Saturday | 39th Annual Swiss Heritage Holiday Bazaar

More than 100 crafters Professional photographer on site for holiday portraits Food and apple dumplings available for lunch $2 9 a m -3 p m , South Adams School Complex, 1012 Starfire Way, Berne 260 589 8007, swissheritage org

4 | Saturday | Artisan Holiday Boutique

Artisan-made Christmas gifts, door prizes, handmade art Food by Odd Fellows Cafe Sponsored by Lakeland Art Association Free admission 10 a m -6 p m , Family Arts Building, Kosciusko County 4-H Fairgrounds, 1400 E Smith St , Warsaw 574 267 5568, lakelandartassociation org

4 | Saturday |

Christmas Open House

10 a m -8 p m , Opal & Ruby Gift Emporium, 5215 Illinois R Fort Wayne 260 444 201 opalandruby com

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5 | Sunday |

Mather Sunday Lecture Series

“Walking Backwards: Fort Wayne’s Colonial French Past and the Writing of History," presented by Dr Timothy L Wilkerson Free admission 2 p m , The History Center, 302 E Berry St , Fort Wayne 260 426 2882, fwhistorycenter com

5 | Sunday |

Fourth Annual Trail Challenge Fall activities for kids, local food trucks, 10-mile trail race, 4-mile train run, 2mile fun walk Proceeds benefit Trees Indiana, connecting kids with nature 2 p m , Franke Park, 3411 Sherman Blvd , Fort Wayne 260 704 4794, treesrace org

6 | Monday | Concert Band and Soldiers’ Chorus

12, 13 | Sunday, Monday |

Cirque Dreams Holidaze

Circus-like stage spectacular features more than 300 costumes, 20 acts, 30 artists, ornaments, acrobatics celebrating holiday themes, music and traditions

$45/$35/$20 7:30 p m , Honeywell Center, 275 W Market St , Wabash 260 563 1102, honeywellcenter org

15 | Wednesday | Elf the Musical

Musical version of the hilarious and endearing movie about Buddy the elf $65/$50/$35 7:30 p m , Fort Wayne Embassy Theatre, 125 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne 800 745 3000, fwembassytheatre org

Two ensembles join to present orchestral masterworks, operatic arias, Sousa marches, jazz classics and Broadway musicals Free admission, general admission seating 7:30 p m , Honeywell Center, 275 W Market St , Wabash 260 563 1102, honeywellcenter org

7, 14, 21, 28 | Tuesday | “Little River Ramblers”

Hike and explore the interesting plants and wildlife of Eagle Marsh Sponsored by Little River Wetlands Project Free admission 9 a m -11 p m , Arrowhead Prairie parking lot, 8624 Aboite Road, Fort Wayne 260 478 2515, info@lrwp org, lrwp org

9, 10 | Thursday, Friday | Gabriel Iglesias

Comedian’s high-octane show includes storytelling, parodies, characters and sound effects No children under 7 allowed $73/$53/$38 Thursday, $80/$55/$45 Friday 8 p m , Fort Wayne Embassy Theatre, 125 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne 800 745 3000, fwembassytheatre org

9-11 | Thursday-Saturday | Heartstrings Holiday Market

Heartstrings Lather Up Soaps open house to celebrate 20 years in business Online specials Thursday, 10 percent discounts each day 10 a m -5 p m

Thursday and Friday, 10 a m -4 p m Saturday, 2040W 900N, Markle 260 638 4978, latherupsoaps com

11 | Saturday |

Decatur Artisan Craft Market

Craft vendors and direct sellers of handmade crafts, jewelry, candles, soaps, baked goods, home decor, clothing and accessories, wood and metal items Breakfast and lunch available Free admission 9 a m -1 p m , Riverside Center, 231 E Monroe St , Decatur 260 223 7828, facebook com/adamscountywintermarket

16 | Thursday |

Serving Our Seniors

Lunch and Learn

Lew Roberts and John Thompson from Midwest Funeral Home will discuss end-of-life planning and how the state can help Light lunch will be provided Free admission 1 p m, Life Care Center, 1649 Spy Run Ave , Fort Wayne RSVP to 260 422 8520, lifecarecenteroffortwaynein com

18 | Saturday | “Fall Birding 101”

Discover the many birds that either migrate south or call the local area home all winter Meet at Eagle Marsh trailhead, 6801 Engle Road, Fort Wayne 260 478 2515, info@lrwp org, lrwp org

18 | Saturday | Big Brothers Big Sisters

Northeast Indiana: Women’s Champagne Brunch

This year’s “Little Sparkles, Big Magic” 10th annual Women’s Champagne Brunch includes chilled mimosas, a fashion show, testimonials and presentation of the Diane Humphrey Award

Donations of $75 or more encouraged 10 a m -noon, War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave , Fort Wayne 260 203 3330, heather hendrickson@bbsnei org

24 | Friday | Black Friday Shopping

8 a m -6 p m , Opal & Ruby Gift Emporium, 5215 Illinois Ro d Fort Wayne 260 444 2019 opalandruby com

24 | Friday | Mannheim Steamrolle Christmas

Grammy Award winner Chip Davis’ Christmas music show with dazzling multimedia effects $65/$52/$38

24-Dec. 10 | Monday-Sunday | Festival of Gingerbread

More than 100 handmade gingerbread houses and designs $6 adults; $4 seniors (65+) and youth (3-17); children 2 and under and History Center members free 9 a m-5 -p m

Monday through Thursday, 9 a m -8 p m Friday and Saturday, noon-5 p m Sunday, History Center, 302 E Berry St , Fort Wayne 260 426 2882, fwhistorycenter com

3 p m and 7:30 p m , Honeywell Center, 275 W Market St , Wabash 260 563 1102, honeywellcenter org

29 | Wednesday |

Trans-Siberian Orchestra:

“The Ghosts of Christmas Eve”

Exciting stage spectacle includes new awe-inspiring effects and staging Music based on multi-platinum DVD

25 | Saturday | Family Garden Close-Up: Snowflakes

Enjoy a “Snow Days” exhibit, learn about snowflakes, enjoy a holiday treat, make your own unique snowflake Adults $5, children (3-17)

$3, children (2 and under) free 10 a m -1 p m , Botanical Conservatory, 1100 S Calhoun St , Fort Wayne 260 427 6440, botanicalconservatory org

25 | Saturday | Small Business Saturday

10 a m -8 p m , Opal & Ruby Gift

Emporium, 5215 Illinois Road, Fort Wayne 260 444 2019, opalandruby com

25-26 | Saturday-Sunday | Christmas in the Park “Streets of Bethlehem” exhibit and other displays, children’s activity tent, petting zoo, stage presentations, concert Free admission, parking and refreshments 10 a m -5 p m , Franke Park, 3411 Sherma Fort Wayne 260 447 943 christchildfest org

$69/$57/$45 50/$35 50 Parking $5 main lot, $8 preferred lot 7:30 p m , Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave , Fort Wayne 260 482 9502, memorialcoliseum com

30 | Thursday |

YWCA Circle Luncheon

YWCA Northeast Indiana will sponsor its 21st annual Circle Luncheon in support of women, men and children who are victims of domestic violence

$25 per person 11:30 a m -1 p m , Grand Wayne Center, 120 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayn 260 424 4908, ext 227, ejohnson@ywcaerew org

30 | Thursday |

Straight No Chaser

Nine-member male a cappella group mixes extraordinary music with a sense of humor

$56 50/$46 50/$36 50 7:30 p m , Fort Wayne Embassy Theatre, 125 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne 800 745 3000, fwembassytheatre org a

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Scorpio (Oc tober 23 - November 21)

Be grateful for the chance to repair whatever relationship you’ve been struggling with lately Although there has been a lot of strife, ever yone is finally ready to bur y the hatchet once and for all Consider this the fresh star t you need to enjoy the holidays with family and friends

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

You do not have to be an exper t in grief or loss to help a loved one through this difficult time The holidays can be ver y tough on the bereaved and they may need some time away from the spirit of the season Take the time to listen and respond to their need They will be thankful for your effor t.

Capricorn (December 22 - Januar y 19)

There is the family you were born into and the ones you claim as your own. Thanksgiving is about being grateful for both. Use this occasion to bring the two together and allow them to enjoy each other. I t may be the best holiday par ty of the year!

Aquarius ( Januar y 20 - Februar y 18)

Sage wisdom doesn’t come along ever yday, but its value is beyond all measure Take the time this month to seek out some advice from someone you respec t and admire Be grateful for what they have to share and take it under advisement Remember, they ’ve walked a mile or two in similar shoes

Pisces (Februar y 19 - March 20)

When people fish around your life with small talk during Turkey Day festivities, tr y not to feel too uncomfor table Their true intention is to k now you better, not to meddle Cut them some slack and offer some details Be thankful for their interest

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

If you are hosting the Thanksgiving feast, do yourself a favor : automate and delegate as much as possible so you aren’t running yourself ragged in the weeks leading up to the big event People love to help out, so why not let them make a contribution? They ’ll feel better and so will you

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

When you make an effor t to see the big pic ture, you will realize those around you struggle with problems much bigger than your own Stop being bull-headed and wallowing within your own issues and, instead, expend positive energy to help others

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

This is the month to raise the bar in terms of your effor t level Tr y a new recipe, take a class or learn something new Be grateful for the chance to do something outside your comfor t zone I t will lead to a lot of personal growth and will impress those who thought you were a creature of habit

Cancer ( June 21 - July 22)

Ever yone needs suppor t and compassion at this time of year, but unfor tunately, there are not as many givers of these things as there could be Someone as for tunate as you has much to give, so why not put that to good use? Volunteer to ser ve the homeless Thanksgiving dinner You’ll get back more than you give

Leo ( July 23 - August 22)

You are constantly in search of happiness, but have no idea in which direction it might be. Stop look ing ever ywhere it is not and concentrate on what ’s before you. Happiness is in the here-and-now. You’ll never realize how good you’ve got it if you can’t count your own blessings

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

Something unexpec ted will occur this month that will put a monkey wrench into your plans All of this can be dealt with, provided that you seek out a professional to help rather than attempt it all yourself Some things are beyond your k in Be thankful there are exper ts who can handle it

Libra (September 23 - Oc tober 22)

If you are going to give, give with both hands Although you may have reser vations about the item or the recipient, get off the fence and just do it Test your spirit of generosity this month with a donation or an invite I t may backfire I t may not, but you will never k now unless you open your hear t and tr y a

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