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Dear glo Readers,
There’s something captivating about this time of year—a blend of warmth, adventure, and a sense of infinite possibility that dances in the air.
The warm weather draws us outdoors to soak up the golden rays and savor the simple pleasures that make summer so special. The season invites us to slow down and live in every moment, whether we’re lounging by the lake, hiking through forests, or enjoying a backyard barbecue with friends and family. At our house, summer means running through sprinklers, tending to our garden, long bike rides, blowing bubbles, days spent at the lake or the pool, and countless nights at the baseball diamond.
This month, we celebrate summer through a collection of inspiring stories that captures the spirit of the season. From a guide to the best picnic spots to swim safety tips and summer handbag trends, we have curated content that encourages you to make the most of these fleeting and magical days.
For those seeking personal growth and wellness, we explore self-care in honor of International Self Care Day. Discover how connecting with the outdoors can rejuvenate your spirit and offer a fresh perspective on life. Whether it’s through yoga on the beach, meditation in the park, or simply taking a mindful walk, summer provides the perfect backdrop for inner reflection and renewal.
Here’s to a season filled with adventure, joy, and endless possibilities.
Warmly,
Amber Bouthot
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My brother (from Germany) suggested I add to my “EMUtions” series by commemorating the 4th of July.
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Currently, my animals on the farm, but in general it depends on the mood I’m in.
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Canvas/Acrylic
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January 2020 (finding something to do during the pandemic).
What advice do you have for other artists just starting out? There is no wrong or right; keep doing what you love.
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By Holli Hattery
Even though it feels like it just began, summer is well underway and almost halfway over. As you prepare for vacation, a night out on the town, or even cookouts and parties with friends, if you’re anything like me, you’re going to want to make sure that you have a fabulous bag for every occasion.
Luckily, for all the moms out there, or anyone who feels like they pack their entire house in their purse before leaving the house, big bags are in. Large, spacious totes are popular and are perfect for your trip to the pool or beach. You’ll look very stylish and practical as you carry your sunscreen, towels, and snacks. If you’re looking for a large bag with a more upscale or professional look, bucket bags are making a comeback and come in beautiful leather options that can seamlessly take you from lake weekend vibes to the office on Monday morning, even if reluctantly. If you are more of a minimalist, have no fear, clutches and smaller bags are still a common staple in fashion and a great alternative to a large tote if you just need a place to put your phone, credit card, and keys. A crossbody bag is also a great choice, and still popular as we head into the second half of 2024. And small doesn’t have to mean boring. Add some sparkle by grabbing a bag that has embellishments on it that make it stand out. Show off your personality with an embroidered clutch or a fringed bag. Avoid faux fur, as it is out for the season.
Stripes are the pattern of the summer, so soak up
crocheted striped bag, a beaded bag, or a knotted rope tote. Other patterns have had a decline in popularity this year, but bold, bright colors are always a good summer choice. Not sure what color to grab? Bright blues are the way to go, so treat yourself to that cerulean or robin egg blue bag that you’ve been eyeing and show it off with confidence.
Speaking of blue, the nineties resurgence is still going strong and this summer, a true nineties classic is in style - the denim bag. From smaller denim bags to a giant denim tote, the blue jean fabric is perfect for a casual day to a casual night transition.
Bags are a fun way to express your style and can be rotated often, so you don’t get bored. It’s important to make sure you have a few that are not only functional, but fun. The options for great bags are limitless this summer and fall, and there’s something out there for everyone.
By Gabby Hunnicutt
When you hear self-care, it may evoke images of bubble baths, candles, face masks, and massages. What the hype around self-care doesn’t always reflect is that it looks different for each person. I work full time and have a toddler, so sometimes my self-care is a long, quiet bath and a good book. But other times it’s decluttering my kitchen or cleaning the cheerios out of my car.
Self-care isn’t one size fits all; it’s important to pay attention to your own needs, which will change based on the occasion and your mood, and prioritize time for you to meet those needs. International Self Care Day is July 24, and we have a list of ideas for you that are easy to implement.
Move your body — Getting active is good for both your body and your mind, but it can be difficult to find the time and energy to do so. Set aside a few minutes in the morning to dance to your favorite songs before you get ready, or go on a short walk after a meal.
Engage your mind — If your mind is racing and making it difficult to relax, try redirecting the energy. Write down a few things that you’re grateful for, listen to a guided meditation, or create a vision board of what you want your future to look like.
Unplug — Spending too much time on social media can be harmful to our mental health. If you find yourself doom scrolling, take a break from social media. Weather permitting, spend some time outdoors. It can be as simple as bird watching or taking pictures of things you find beautiful.
Reconnect — For some people, connecting with those they love is a great way to refill their tank. By planning a family game night or calling up a friend, you can rely on those connections to help decrease your stress.
Nourish — While we have to give some level of care to our bodies, being more intentional about how we nourish our bodies can be a really simple way to care for yourself. Challenging yourself to get enough water during the day, cooking a healthy meal, and getting a good night’s sleep are all simple ways to show up for yourself.
It’s important to schedule or set aside time for self-care as much as you can. Without consistent self-care, we risk burnout. Self-care doesn’t have to be expensive or time-consuming to be impactful. Maybe you have an appointment that you need to schedule but have been putting off, or your junk drawer is overflowing, or maybe you want to start going to therapy. If it is improving your physical and/ or mental health, it’s self-care. Find a few things from the list and do them FOR YOU. a
By Jennie Renner | Photo provided
After a Democratic Party caucus elected her as the new mayor of Fort Wayne on April 20, Sharon Tucker said: “Precinct chairs, today you had the opportunity to make history by electing the first 5-foot-3 mayor.”
Besides having a sense of humor, who is Mayor Sharon Tucker?
“I am all the things. I am a child of God. I’m a child of my mom. I love to have fun. I love to dance. I don’t mind praying. I don’t mind correcting. I am bold. I’m courageous,” said Tucker. “At the same time, I get my feelings hurt, and I wonder why people would do some of the things that they do.”
While describing her characteristics, Tucker added that none of them has kept her from pursuing the things she wants to accomplish.
“I think as long as we as women recognize that it’s OK to be all of those things – maybe not all at the same time. (I don’t want to be crying in the boardroom, right?) But I do want to show that I’m human in a boardroom,” she said. “I’m a strong leader. And to me being a strong leader is not about being a disrespectful, mean, or overpowering leader – it’s about recognizing that we all see life differently. And (asking) ‘how can I help us get projects and work and initiatives done while we all see things differently?’”
Now, a couple months into her term, Mayor Tucker said on the day she was elected, she was nervous but also told herself to trust God and what He had in store for her. She had spent many hours preparing herself and her team for the caucus process.
“We needed to do something different – not only for our party, but for our community. To engage a whole new demographic of individuals to be able to have a chance in 2027. Or even just have a chance for people to believe that they can be seen in the work that we do as elected officials,” Tucker said she told the crowd in April. “We can’t continue to do the same thing and expect a different result.”
In 2019, when she and Michelle Chambers were the first Black women to be elected to Fort Wayne City Council, Tucker recalls how much the focus was on them making history. While she understood the significance, she was not ready to claim victory until she got the work done that she had been elected to do. Today she feels the same way.
“I get that I’ve made history by being the first African American, female mayor in the city,” she said. “But what, to me, will really carry value, is the impact that I would like to see whenever I’m done, whether that’s by demand or by choice. For me, it’s not enough to be able to say (I was) elected.”
Instead, Mayor Tucker is focused on improving conditions for Fort Wayne residents. She wants to see more children housed, have mental health services available to everyone who needs them, and increase wages so people don’t have to work more than one job to survive. In addition, she wants to create a work culture where City of Fort Wayne employees feel protected and safe.
“Those things are things that matter to me,” said Tucker. “And those are the things that I’ll look at and say, ‘That’s how we made history.’” a
By Julie Young | Photo by Eva Toscos
Like most educators, Jason Beer looks forward to summer vacation after a long academic year, but when it’s time to go back to school, the Homestead High School Language Arts teacher said he’s always ready to return to the classroom.
“I just finished my 17th year, and although there are days that are hard and frustrating, I still love the work and I love the kids, so I am always excited for a new school year,” he said.
Beer’s classroom career path began in 2008 when he joined the Teach for America Corps, spending a summer teaching in Watts for the Los Angeles Unified Schools. He spent the next three years on the South Side of Chicago working for the Chicago Public School district before returning to his hometown of Fort Wayne with his wife Cassie and newborn son. He taught project-based learning in Columbia City for another three years before securing a position with Southwest Allen County Schools. Although he has worked with students at every grade level, he feels most at home with the high school set.
“I think my most formative experiences happened at the high school level so those are the grades I feel the closest to,” he said. “I really like that I can have meaningful and interesting conversations with students at a time when they are figuring out who they are and are so hopeful and optimistic about their futures,” he said.
In the Spring of 2022, Beer was named Homestead High School’s Teacher of the Year, an honor he was shocked and surprised to receive. The win enabled him to enter the Southwest Allen County Teacher of the Year contest and after receiving that title as well, he put his name forward for the statewide competition. That fall, Beer learned he was among 10 semi-finalists and traveled to Indianapolis to be interviewed by a panel of judges. A week later, officials from the Indiana Department of Education stopped by his classroom and announced that he was one of three finalists to be Indiana’s Teacher of the Year.
“I lost to Tara Cocanower, a phenomenal Social Studies teacher from Bluffton, but the whole experience was fantastic,” Beer said. “I got to hear some really encouraging and wonderful things from staff members and kids validating that what I am doing in the classroom is making a positive impact.”
During the summer, Beer said he spends a lot of time reading, writing, spending time with his wife and three children, and preparing for the year ahead. He currently teaches two classes that he designed on Travel writing, as well as Novel/Screen writing, which gives his students the chance to explore their creativity in both fiction and non-fiction formats.
“I love helping the kids produce writing that they can be proud of and it’s been great to see how the classes have grown over the last several years,” he said. “While each may be more of a niche class, they have connected with a lot of students and that makes them a lot of fun for me.” a
Age: 17
By Stacie Ball | Photo by Eva Toscos
Recent Carroll High School graduate Christina Barranda is assuredly no fish out of water. Swimming competitively since age 6, Barranda wields her passion for the sport to fuel her desire to help others. The college-bound student has always loved helping people become the best versions of themselves and believes in advocating for those in need. Armed with these tools, she begins her journey to become an Occupational Therapist (OT).
“My favorite part of coaching and swimming is helping my little swimmers succeed and fall in love with the sport just as I did many years ago,” Barranda said. The competitive swimmer has taken on more roles as her experience has grown. At age 12, she became a volunteer coach to strengthen less competent swimmers and an assistant head coach for new swimmers the following year. This summer, she takes the plunge as swim team head coach.
Barranda has been swimming with the Autumn Ridge Swim Team since she was 6, joined the Fort Wayne Swim Team at age 9, and submerged herself in the CHS Swim Team all four years of high school (becoming captain her senior year). During the summer, she lifeguards and gives private swimming lessons.
“My proudest moment was last summer when Autumn Ridge won the City Championship for the first time in over 60 years of competition,” Barranda remembered. She was extraordinarily proud to have been part of the coaching staff that rebuilt the program from the ground up.
“When we sang our team cheer in the pool to celebrate after the meet, I carried a swimmer in each arm as tears of joy streamed down my face,” she said. “I live for the success of others, and seeing my second family come together and commemorate our victory was truly so priceless.”
This past school year, Barranda enjoyed working with Kindergarten and 1st-grade students on phonics and reading skills under the supervision of reading interventionist SuAnn Nichols at Oak View Elementary. She also experienced an inside peek at her future career by assisting occupational therapist Tracey Crews as she performed preschool evaluations at different schools.
Navigating a busy life is not easy. Barranda explained that she always prioritizes her time in school and uses her time to complete assignments. She is also inspired and encouraged by her faith. “I can stay on top of everything and keep my sanity by having faith in the Lord. I truly believe that if I make time for Him, He will give me time for anything important in my life, so I don’t get too overwhelmed.”
Barranda lives with her parents, Michael and Lisa, and her younger brother Jonah. Her best felines are two sweet kitties named Mo and Bella, and her dog Phoebe is now her dynamic running partner. The outdoor enthusiast loves to travel and stay active by kayaking, hiking, playing beach volleyball, or swimming. This fall, she plans to attend the University of South Carolina, majoring in neuroscience with a concentration in neurodevelopment and neurodevelopmental disorders. Within ten years, she hopes to have her Doctorate and begin her career as an occupational therapist working in pediatric outpatient. a
Provided by The Women’s Fund of Greater Fort Wayne Caitlin Clark’s meteoric rise in women’s basketball, highlighted by her selection as the top pick in the WNBA draft, has brought unprecedented attention to the sport. Her influence has driven ticket sales and ratings and sparked discussions about women’s economic impact across various industries. This coincides with other women who rock like Taylor Swift and Beyoncé who have demonstrated the significant economic power wielded by women in entertainment.
Swift’s “Eras Tour” is a testament to female artists’ economic prowess. It is the highest-grossing tour in history, with over $1 billion in revenue, and has stimulated local economies worldwide, with attendees spending an average of $1,327 per person. Similarly, Beyoncé’s “Renaissance Tour” has injected an astonishing $4.5 billion into the American economy, showcasing the immense financial influence of female performers.
Women’s impact extends beyond entertainment. With women controlling an estimated 80% of consumer spending, their economic influence reverberates through various sectors. The increasing number of women in the workforce, as evidenced by statistics from Allen County, underscores their pivotal role in driving economic growth.
Despite women’s significant contributions to the economy, disparities in pay persist, inhibiting not just individual women’s potential but also the economic strength of communities. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, women earned approximately 82 cents for every dollar earned by men in 2023. This gap is even wider for women of color, with African American and Hispanic women earning 63 cents and 55 cents, respectively, for every dollar earned by white men. In Allen County, the median pay gap between men and women is just under $16,000 annually.
A study by the Institute for Women’s Policy Research found that closing the gender pay gap could add $512 billion to the U.S. economy annually, representing a significant boost to GDP. Narrowing the gap could lift millions of women and their families out of poverty, reduce reliance on social welfare programs, and stimulate consumer spending and investment.
Addressing the gender pay gap requires multifaceted solutions, including legislative action, corporate accountability, and cultural shifts. Policies such as pay transparency, equal pay audits, and antidiscrimination measures can help mitigate wage disparities and promote fairness in the workplace. Efforts to challenge gender stereotypes, eliminate unconscious bias, and promote women’s leadership and representation in decision-making positions are essential for fostering a more equitable and inclusive workforce. Individuals, employers, and policymakers all must be a part of the conversation to amplify women.
As we look towards the future, we must support initiatives that teach girls to become tomorrow’s leaders and promote women’s equity today. We know that Caitlin, Beyonce, and Taylor did not take center stage alone. Caring teammates and devoted fans can also be credited for their rise to success. In that spirit, on August 29th, we invite all fans of women to come together for an evening of celebration at Women Rock at the Chateau on Broadway. This event will raise essential funds to advance our goals of fostering economic self-sufficiency, promoting education, and advocating for social change in the coming year. The evening will feature femalefronted bands, celebrate the progress the Women’s Fund is making for women and girls, and give a sneak peek at the goals for next year! Please visit womensfundfw.org to learn more about our work and how you can help create lasting change. a
By Amber Bouthot
As the summer sun beckons us to the water, whether it’s the local pool, a lake, or the ocean, the allure of swimming becomes irresistible. However, with the joys of swimming come the responsibilities of ensuring safety.
The US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention released data last month showing that accidental drowning rates are on the rise in the United States. The new numbers show that more than 4,500 people drowned each year between 2020 and 2022, which is about 500 more drowning deaths each year compared with the previous year in 2019. Children especially are at high risk, as drowning is the number-one cause of death for children 1-4 years old in the United States.
While most of us are familiar with basic swim safety tips, there are deeper layers to explore, especially for women and families. Understanding these nuances can make a significant difference in preventing accidents and enhancing the overall swimming experience.
Water competency extends beyond the ability to swim. It encompasses a range of skills that include the ability to:
• Enter the water safely: Knowing how to assess the water depth, temperature, and clarity before entering is crucial. Always enter feet first if the depth is unknown.
• Control breathing: Practice rhythmic breathing and understand how to handle situations where breathing might be compromised.
• Swim a distance and tread water: It’s important to be able to swim at least 25 yards without stopping and to tread water for at least one minute.
• Exit the water safely: This includes being able to climb out of the water without a ladder, which is vital in emergency situations.
For families, swim safety involves comprehensive strategies to protect children and ensure everyone enjoys the water responsibly.
• Active Supervision: Designate a responsible adult to always watch children when they are in or near water. This person should avoid distractions, such as reading, using a smartphone, or engaging in deep conversation.
• Swim Lessons: Enroll children in swim lessons as early as possible. Studies have shown that formal swim lessons can reduce the risk of drowning by 88% in children aged 1-4.
• Learn CPR: Parents and caregivers should be certified in CPR. Immediate CPR can double or triple a drowning victim’s chance of survival.
• Life Jackets: Ensure that children wear U.S. Coast Guard-approved life jackets when boating or in areas where the water is deep or the currents are strong.
• Pool Fencing: Install four-sided fencing with self-closing and self-latching gates around pools. This can prevent children from accessing the pool area without supervision.
Just like brightly colored outfits can help you find your child in a crowd, test results proved bright, neon colors, including bright orange, yellow and green, were crucial in spotting a child in a body of water. A company called Alive Solutions, which specializes in water safety, has found in two separate experiments that certain swimsuit colors are easier to spot in a swimming pool or open water, such as a lake. (See graph on page 17).
Popular swimsuit colors, such as blues and greens, almost completely disappeared. The biggest losers were white and light blue. Test results also showed:
• In lakes, white appeared to be a light reflection or clouds on the surface and didn’t stand out.
• In pools with a dark bottom, white looked light blue and was easy to see close up, but the farther away you moved the quicker it disappeared.
• Dark colors or matching colors to the water disappeared quickly in pools with a dark bottom.
• Dark colors showed up better on pools with light bottoms, but they can often be dismissed for a pile of leaves, dirt or a shadow.
• Neon pink performed well in pools, but not in lakes.
Cultural attitudes and psychological barriers can also impact swim safety. For instance, many women and children of color face disparities in access to swim education and facilities. Overcoming these barriers involves community engagement and targeted programs.
• Inclusive Programs: Support and promote programs that offer swim lessons and water safety education to underserved communities.
• Positive Reinforcement: Encourage a positive attitude towards swimming and water safety. Address fears and anxieties through gradual exposure and supportive instruction.
Swim safety goes beyond simple precautions. It involves a comprehensive understanding of water competency, proactive family safety strategies, and addressing broader social and psychological factors. By diving deeper into these aspects, we can ensure that our time in the water remains joyous and safe for everyone.
Enjoy the water, stay safe, and make waves of positive memories this summer! a
By Amber Bouthot
July is National Picnic Month, the perfect time to embrace the great outdoors and savor the joys of al fresco dining. Imagine spreading out a blanket under a shady tree, feeling the warm summer breeze, and indulging in delicious homemade treats while surrounded by nature’s beauty. Whether you’re planning a romantic date, a fun family outing, or a relaxing solo escape, picnicking offers a delightful way to reconnect with loved ones and unwind from the hustle and bustle of daily life. Join us as we celebrate National Picnic Month with a list of some of our favorite picnic spots in Northeast Indiana.
With the river as your backdrop, there are plenty of places to picnic in downtown Fort Wayne’s Promenade Park. Find a secluded spot amongst the foliage on the south side of the park, opt for people watching along the Doermer Kids Canal, or enjoy the cityscape views from the Canopy Trail.
Metea County Park is a 250-acre park along the Cedar Creek, a state designated scenic river. The park offers undisturbed tranquility where you can hear birds sing, listen to crickets chirp, or watch the minnows in the water. There are grills available for picnickers, a 1.5 acre swimming lake, five miles of trails, and two picnic shelters.
Just east of downtown Fort Wayne lie the beautiful rose gardens at Lakeside Park, offering a beautiful respite and the perfect backdrop for your picnic. The sunken garden not only feature luscious flowers, but soothing fountains and artful sculptures, as well. There’s also a walking path that provides a nice loop for enjoying the park. The path is a little over a half mile.
One of ACRES Land Trust preserves, this nature preserve is surrounded by farmland and is one of the largest forested areas in the region. It stretches nearly a mile along the Wabash River. Picnickers will enjoy a wide variety of indigenous trees, birds, and wildflowers.
This park boasts nine connecting lakes where you can paddle through to serene kettle lakes, hike the 23 miles of forested trails, stay overnight in a hillside family cabin, or explore the nature center. There is also a campground, a beach, and picnic shelters. Canoe, paddleboat, and kayak rentals are also available. a
By Mary Jane Bogle
If you have a high school or college graduate this year, you know that summer can be a busy time. Throwing an open house, shopping for dorm supplies or—for those college grads—looking for new apartment furnishings, and helping your grad navigate next steps can become a full-time job!
Hosting grad parties and shopping for all those dorm room and apartment must-haves is easy, however, compared to navigating the changing relationship with your child. In some ways, this is what we’ve been planning for all along. We knew it was coming, right? It’s the time when our children begin what we hope is a successful launch into adulthood.
Unfortunately, their success means they don’t need us in the same way they once did, leaving parents to enter uncharted waters in the relationship. For those of us facing those changes, it might be time to learn some new tricks ourselves. Here are five tips to navigating the new relationship.
Tip 1: Learn to listen, not instruct. When our children were younger, we had to teach them everything, from tying their shoes to brushing their teeth and making their beds. Now that they’re older, they may not appreciate that same kind of detailed input. Instead, we need to learn how to demonstrate our willingness to offer a listening ear and become a trusted source for weighing important life decisions.
Tip 2:
Learn to walk alongside, not lead. Stepping back from our leadership role in the relationship can be a tough transition. Our kids are busy putting newfound freedoms to the test and building their own, independent lives. That doesn’t mean they won’t need us, but we must wait for them to invite us into the process before giving any kind of direction. And when they do, that advice should always be couched in terms that helps them know we understand the choice is theirs to make.
Tip 3: Learn to give them the freedom to fail. Remember that mistakes usually offer life’s greatest teaching moments. We need to offer our kids the freedom to make their own decisions and learn from their failures. That doesn’t mean we can’t step in if we see major warning signs, such as abuse or addiction. But we do need to learn how to offer them the chance to gain the kind of resiliency that comes when they discover they can get back up after a fall.
Tip 4: Learn to lend support when asked. Advice is best received when it is requested, not imposed. Asking open-ended questions, such as “How’s the new job going?” or “What’s your new class like?” can get those conversations started without sounding like unsolicited advice. Listening to the ways they’re handling conflict and hearing their solutions to problems might help you realize you raised a very capable adult.
Tip 5: Learn to love unconditionally. Through the transition process, the love for our children never changes. And while their needs might be different, the family bonds we’ve built through the years are made to last. Try not to take any pushback personally and wait for the opportunity to invest in them in new ways. In the process, you might just discover a deeper and more impactful relationship with your adult children than you ever imagined! a
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By Julie Young
Let’s face it, when it comes to banking, one size does not fit all. People want their banking experience to be as unique as they are, and that’s why more and more financial institutions are making customer analytics an important part of their marketing strategy.
According to Lyndee Warner, digital marketing manager with STAR Financial Bank, customer analytics is the process in which data (relating to a customer’s financial interactions and transactions) is gathered and evaluated so that a bank can discover the features that matter most to their clients and develop hyper-focused solutions that enhance their overall engagement with their financial institution.
“By leveraging customer analytics relative to their behavior, STAR can personalize each customer’s banking experience, allowing us to make an impact on their lives,” Warner said. “Customer security is another added benefit. By identifying a customer’s patterns and trends, STAR can mitigate potential security risks like fraud and ensure that all of our offerings align with expectations.”
By understanding their customers’ needs, STAR can emphasize the convenience and benefits of switching from traditional in-branch banking to digital platforms. With the rise of tech-savvy users, seamless mobile apps and other digital options, offering easy transactions and customer support are an essential offering for any bank. STAR works diligently to provide its customers with a robust variety of digital banking solutions, including Orbi, which functions as an enhanced ATM and allows clients to take care of most of their banking needs with their debit card during regular business hours.
Customer analytics also show that customers are seeking customized money management solutions, including investment strategies and retirement planning. Warner says STAR has an experienced wealth management team that can provide customers with a personalized plan designed to help them set and achieve their goals and they also have a strong team of investment advisors who can help folks explore traditional and less-traditional opportunities, such as equity, fixed income, commodities, real estate, and more.
In order to track the effectiveness of their marketing campaigns using customer analytics, STAR tracks key performance indicators, such as conversion rates, retention rates, and response rates. By continuously monitoring these metrics, they can gauge what is important to their customers and how best to communicate with them. They have also partnered with Liftify to grow and promote their online presence through the feedback they obtain through organic reviews. This partnership has not only helped STAR share and promote the personal relationship that exists between the banking professionals and their customers, but in May, STAR became the first bank in the Midwest to hit 1,000 five-star reviews on Google.
Warner said that it is through these reviews that STAR gains even more insight into how their customers view their products and services, which in turn helps them pinpoint ways to make the customer’s financial journey smoother.
“It’s all about making banking easier and more convenient,” she said.
To learn more about how STAR uses customer analytics to create customized banking solutions for everyone, contact Lyndee Warner at Star Financial Bank 260-467-5524 or Lyndee.warner@starfinancial.com. a
By BethAnne Brink Cox
“This trip was planned when we were discussing what I might want to do for my 40th birthday this year,” Sprunger said. “Emily is an avid international traveler, amazing at planning trips, and Greece was on my bucket list since high school! It was affordable (MaySeptember is tourist season, and we went in April). Emily broke her foot in March, so we did amend the itinerary a bit, but it ended up being wonderful! It was very much what I expected. I was pleasantly surprised at how much you could just ‘be’ in Greece and enjoy the serenity of it all.”
Barlean agreed, “I personally LOVE planning trips – and I’m pretty good at it, if I do say so myself – so that was my 40th birthday gift to Christie: I planned our trip so all she had to do was come along. I didn’t really start heavy planning until January of 2024. Christie came to visit in Omaha and we officially purchased plane tickets to Athens.”
Barlean mostly used the internet for planning, but she had a few tricks up her sleeve. She posted in a Professional Women’s Facebook Group, asking if anyone had recommendations for Greece, and got some great feed-
back. Then, she created a page on her favorite travel site/app: Wanderlog.
“If you haven’t heard of this site/app you have to check it out,” she said. “And here is the link to the public view of our trip on Wanderlog: https://wanderlog.com/view/wsqotbkbpt/ trip-to-greece/shared.”
These friends are perfect travel partners. “Christie and I travel SO well together,” Barlean said. “It’s such a tremendous joy to travel with your best friend; zero squabbles or disagreements! I was so glad we went to Santorini first.”
The pair stayed in Fira (west side of the island, in the center), in an incredible AirBNB. The AirBNB was literally carved into the side of the mountain, and it had TWO hot tubs – one on the roof and one inside, overlooking the caldera and the docks where all of the cruise ships come in.
“The AirBNB hostess, Artemis, was an absolute delight – she arranged for transportation, made sure someone was there to help us carry our bags (it’s very hilly in Santorini –LOTS of stairs), and brought us a bottle of
wine,” Barlean said. “We did a toast with her when we arrived at the Airbnb and she told us all about the type of things we may want to do in Santorini.”
And these two experienced Santorini! They visited small cafes and fancy restaurants, because of course, the food is a main draw in Greece. And they saw all the sites: The Blue Domed Church, Castle or Oria, Windmill of Oria, and Ammoudi Bay and that was just day one. On day two, they hit some wineries: Venetsanos Winery, Santos Wines, and Hatzidakis Winery. On day three the visited several beaches and scenic stops, including Akrotiri, an enclosed archeological site. After breakfast on day four, they took a short flight to Athens and did some shopping. On day five they hit the big ones: Acropolis, Parthenon, and Theater of Dionysus.
Barlean says she will tell everyone she knows from here on out: GO TO GREECE IN APRIL. April is considered the ‘shoulder season’ in Greece, which means it isn’t crazy busy yet because the tourism spots are just starting to open.
“We didn’t find that things were closed, and all of the service people (waiters, shop owners) were SO friendly – obviously they hadn’t gotten sick of tourists yet!” Barlean said. “On top of that, the weather was absolutely perfect. In June it is probably 90 degrees and sweltering. In April, it is 75 and sunny. I hope we can go on another trip together soon – Christie and Nate’s family is expanding at the beginning of next year, so we may have to delay a bit until they’re through the newborn phase!”
One detail neither friend planned for? Barlean broke her foot four weeks before the trip.
“This really threw me for a loop because Greece is pretty much all stairs, walking, cobblestone, etc. I am thankful that the break happened a full month before the trip, or we may have had to cancel. I did have to ‘do Greece’ in a boot and on a knee scooter. The knee scooter was super helpful in the airports, but in Santorini and Athens I pretty much just had to walk on my broken foot,” said Barlean. “All in all, the trip was MAGICAL and I would go back in a heartbeat. Christie is the absolute best, and I feel so very grateful that I got to go on that trip!” a
By Bethany Beebe
Top of the line closets, which can cost more than $20,000, mix personality with storage. As Elle Decor magazine offered, personalization is luxury. From the functional perspective, closets have always offered storage. Designer closets, on the other hand, can give their owners the option to relax in comfortable furniture or show off favorite items to visitors, while still offering function.
One company offering the products and services that bring these dream spaces into reality is California Closets. Their “...array of accessories work together to meet the most unique storage needs,” according to the company web page, with “custom features that create a space for everything.” Far from run-of-the-mill, the insides of drawers can be reconfigured to best accommodate jewelry, purses, toys, make up, media devices, or whatever the owner wishes to store. Jewelry drawers are featured, giving one the opportunity to showcase your most cherished and valuable accessories, elevating your morning routine to that of shopping in your own personal boutique. Shoes of all types can be displayed as though they were in a fancy shoe store, but in one’s own home. Hooks, poles, and even the laundry hamper are customizable and made to enhance the ease with which the resident lives.
The function of a designer closet is important, but the feel and appearance also establish them in a class of their own. Veranda offered what a women’s ultimate closet might look and feel like. A soft, feminine design style might exist. They write that a glass case showcasing a special gown and plush, comfortable seating could help evoke the feeling of the Belle Epoque.
One way to save money and still end up with one’s dream closet is to point your browser to a company like easyclosets.com. This company allows customers to either design closet spaces themselves or enjoy the skills of one of their expert designers and then install it themselves.
What do you do, though, if such a closet is not a viable option? Elle Decor magazine offers some ideas to help contain the average 300,000 items owned by the average American. Underbed storage helps use what could otherwise be wasted space. Bedding can go into a blanket chest at the foot of the bed, and mobile garment racks can hold items like coats in the summer and be rolled to a noncentral location. If you have 30-40 inches of wall space available, a wardrobe can make an attractive addition to a room and still hold function.
No matter which option you select, you can spend as much or as little as you wish, and still end up with the organization design of your dreams. a
(1) https://www.inspiredclosets.com/closet/boutique-closet/ (2) https://www.elledecor.com/design-decorate/trends/a41095045/designer-closets/ (3) https://www.californiaclosets.com/closet-accessories/ (4) https://www.veranda.com/decorating-ideas/a41805943/get-inspired-by-theseluxe-his-and-hers-closets/ (5)https://www.easyclosets.com/
By Amber Bouthot
Are you looking for a sustainable way to reduce waste and enrich your garden? Welcome to Composting 101, your beginner’s guide to turning kitchen scraps and yard waste into nutrient-rich compost. Whether you’re a seasoned gardener or just starting your eco-friendly journey, this guide will provide you with everything you need to know to get started with composting. Let’s turn trash into treasure and help our planet thrive!
Composting is a natural process of recycling organic material, such as leaves and food scraps, into a valuable soil amendment known as compost. Here’s why you should consider composting:
• Reduce Waste: Composting significantly reduces the amount of waste that ends up in landfills, which in turn reduces greenhouse gas emissions.
• Enrich Soil: Compost adds essential nutrients to your soil, improving its structure, moisture retention, and overall health.
• Save Money: By composting at home, you can save money on fertilizers and soil conditioners.
Not all waste is compostable. Here’s a quick guide to what you can and cannot compost:
Green Materials (high in nitrogen):
• Fruit and vegetable scraps
• Coffee grounds and filters
• Tea bags
• Fresh grass clippings
• Eggshells (crushed)
Brown Materials (high in carbon):
• Dry leaves
• Straw and hay
• Shredded newspaper and cardboard
• Wood chips
• Sawdust
Avoid composting meat, dairy, fats, oils, and diseased plants as they can attract pests and cause odors.
Choose a Composting Method: There are several methods to composting, including:
• Backyard Composting: Ideal for those with outdoor space. You can use a compost bin or simply make a compost pile.
• Vermicomposting: Uses worms to break down organic material, perfect for small spaces or indoors.
• Bokashi Composting: A fermentation process that can handle meat and dairy, suitable for indoor composting.
Set Up Your Compost Area: Select a dry, shady spot for your compost pile or bin. Ensure it’s accessible and has good drainage.
Layer Your Materials: Start with a layer of coarse materials like twigs or straw to help with aeration. Alternate layers of green and brown materials, aiming for a balance to promote decomposition.
Maintain Your Compost: Keep your compost moist, like a wrungout sponge. Turn the pile regularly to aerate it and speed up the decomposition process.
Wait and Harvest: Depending on the method and conditions, compost can be ready in a few months to a year. Finished compost is dark, crumbly, and earthy-smelling.
• Chop or shred larger materials to speed up decomposition.
• Maintain a balance of green and brown materials.
• Be patient; composting is a natural process that takes time.
Want help? Dirt Wain, a local composting company, simplifies the process even more. Once you sign up, they provide you with a bucket, starter bags, and a composting guide. You collect the food scraps in a bucket. You put the bucket out on your pickup day each week. They grab the compost, clean the bucket, and return it to you so you can compost more.
By composting at home, you’re not only reducing waste and improving your garden but also contributing to a healthier planet. Happy composting! a
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By Amber Bouthot
3, 10, 17, 24 & 31
Wednesdays
Farmer’s Market at Salomon Farm Park
817 W. Dupont Rd.
Salomon Farmers’ Market is a mid-week market focused on connecting the local community to farmers, producers, bakers and artisans that are within a 75-mile radius of Salomon Farm Park. We are committed to a “grower’s market,” where the majority of products that our vendors offer are grown, raised, and/or developed by the person selling them.
Time: 4 PM – 7 PM https://www.fortwayneparks.org/facilities/ saloman-farm-park/salomon-farmers-market.html
6, 13, 20, 27 | Saturdays
YLNI Farmers Market
1501 E. Berry St., Fort Wayne
The YLNI Farmers Market provides a fun outdoor shopping experience and connects the community with local vendors. Customers can find select produce, baked goods, crafts, jewelry, honey, and so much more!
Time: 9am – 1pm www.ylni.org/ylni-farmers-market
6, 13, 20, 27 | Saturdays
Ft. Wayne’s Farmer’s Market
Dynamo Alley, Electric Works, Fort Wayne
The Ft. Wayne’s Farmers Market hosts a constantly changing variety of products, including meat, produce, farm products, baked goods, jewelry, artisan crafts, food trucks, and much more!
Time: 9am – 1pm ftwaynesfarmersmarket.com/
6, 13, 20, 27 | Saturdays Rock the Plaza
900 Library Plaza
The Allen County Public Library presents the 17th annual Rock the Plaza concert series We’re rocking downtown Fort Wayne with our free, all ages event. Bring lawn chairs or blankets, but not pets. Pint & Slice will serve food & beverages including alcohol. Outside food and non-alcoholic beverages are permitted.
Time: 6 PM https://www.acpl.lib.in.us/music
4, 11, 18 & 25 | Thursdays
Leo-Cedarville Farmers Market
15011 State Road 1, Leo
Get ready for a feast for the senses: the freshest local produce, flowers and unique handcrafted items with a focus on local farmers and artisans.
Time: 4 PM – 7 PM
https://www.visitfortwayne.com/event/ leo-cedarville-farmers-market/42665/
4, 11, 18 & 25 | Thursdays
Lunch on the Square
Friemann Square, 200 E. Main St. Lunch on the Square, presented by Downtown Fort Wayne and Edward Jones, will return throughout the summer for the 16th season in Downtown Fort Wayne. Take a break from the office or bring the family down to enjoy lunch at Freimann Square every Thursday from 11:30 a.m. – 1:30 p.m. in June, July, and August, beginning June 6. Enjoy a variety of unique foods and experience live music during one of Fort Wayne’s favorite lunch and entertainment series.
Time: 11:30 AM – 1:30 PM
https://downtownfortwayne.com/lunchon-the-square/
Thirsty Thursday on The Landing
Columbia Street
Summer is here, and so is the hottest event in town! Every Thursday from June 6th to August 29th for Thirsty Thursday on The Landing. The Landing transforms into a hub of excitement, with local DJs setting the vibe and turning up the beats.
Time: 4 PM – 8 PM
https://www.thelandingfw.com/
7 | Sunday
Decatur Coin Show & Marketplace
Decatur Riverside Center, 231 East Monroe St.
Nearly 100 indoor vendors, hot food available. Contact Carla at 260.517.8182
Time: 8am – 2pm (year-round)
https://www.decaturfleamarket.com
12, 19 & 26 | Fridays
Downtown Live
TriCore Porch off Calhoun, 800 Block of Calhoun St.
Experience live music all summer with the return of the third annual summer concert series, Downtown Live, presented by Downtown Fort Wayne. Downtown Live! will host free entertainment from local performers every Friday evening.
Time: 6 PM – 8 PM
https://downtownfortwayne.com/events/ dtfw-live/
13 | Saturday
Frida for All, Frida para Todas
Creative Women of the Word F&M Parking Lot at 128 W. Wayne St., Fort Wayne
The event is a celebration of Latino culture, arts, and local community; women in the arts; artists with physical disabilities; and celebrates Frida Kahlo’s birthday in July. The event will include storytelling about Frida Kahlo, her physical disability and art practice, traditional Mexican paper flower making for all ages, collaborative painting for people of all ages and abilities, Latina artist and business vendors, local community organization booths, live entertainment, and demonstrations by local Latina artists. The event is free and open to the public. Spanish translation and Deaf interpretation will be available.
https://www.facebook.com/share/R9afcd1qhEXo7H2B/
13 | Saturday
Allen County Marketplace
Pathway Church, 1010 Carroll Rd., Fort Wayne
Visit Allen Co Marketplace, an open-air market in NW Fort Wayne, open the second Saturday of each month. Shop an array of vendors selling produce, baked goods, coffee, plants, pottery, art, boutique clothing, jewelry and so much more! You will also find food trucks with tasty treats and great musicians playing all day long. Don’t miss this family friendly community event!
Time: 9am – 1pm
https://www.facebook.com/AllenCoMarketplace
17 | Wednesday
The Garden Night Market
3308 N. Anthony Blvd.
Every Night Market at The Garden features an art exhibition opening, live music outdoors, local artisan vendors, food trucks and more.
Time: 6 PM – 8 PM
https://www.thegardenfortwayne.com/ events
