Glo - April 2017

“GetYour Glam On”

Epublisher

Ron Baumgartner | rbaumgartner@the-papers.com

executive editor + publications manager Sue Rawlinson | srawlinson@the-papers.com

editor-in-chief

Jeri Seely | jseely@the-papers.com

director of marketing Kip Schumm | kschumm@the-papers.com

account executives

Melinda Nicklas | mnicklas@the-papers.com

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director of circulation Jerry Straka | jstraka@the-papers.com

graphic designer Maymie Ankrom

marketing assistants

Darlene Eichelberger Tamera Sims

contributing writers

Ray Balogh, Beth Behrendt, Lauren Caggiano, Alisha Gomez, Shannon Rooney, Nicole Leigh Shaw, Cathy Shouse, Barb Sieminski, Julie Young

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Congratulations to...cover artist Melanie Manny

E the Cover

Title of piece: “My Angel”

Describe the inspiration behind your cover artwork?

My adopted daughter, Angel, passed away in November of 2014 from ALS. She was only 40 years old. When the first year of her passing was coming up I was so very depressed and sad. I saw a video on Pinterest that said, ‘learn how to paint this comma.’ It was an angel swinging on a swing from a tree. I tried it and it was terrible. LOL. But I truly enjoyed painting it, so I continued until I got it pretty good. Now I'm hooked and spend sometimes 24 to 48 hours awake, painting. I'm pretty sure God was seeing how sad I was missing my angel and drew my attention to that painting.

About Melanie

Art is…

To me art is whatever is in your heart and soul and the way that you choose to express it. It could be the way you make the best coffee in town, it could be a painting, it could be the way you write your name. Just anything that you do that makes you feel special from your heart and your soul is art to me.

What inspires you?

I guess what inspires me the most is my beautiful daughter and my three grandsons and my husband. And seeing so much beauty in this world that I never realized before, just because I paint now and everything I look at makes me think ‘I want to paint that.’ I find myself taking pictures of a tree or somebody's house or a car on the street just because I feel some sort of inspiration from it at the time.

Your biggest supporter(s):

There are so many people on Facebook that I only know through my paintings and then also some that I know personally who support me very much and give me good and bad opinions. However, in my opinion, there are no bad opinions. I take most of their advice to heart and try to better myself through them and the many videos I watch learning how to use acrylics and oil paints. Hopefully one day I'll start trying out watercolors.

Why you read glo:

glo is a wonderful way to see how many amazing women are conquering the world. The many stories are inspiring to me to keep going when I think it can't get any better, or times are tough. I think of those who've progressed so much and think I, too, can progress.

What do you like best about glo?

My favorite part of Glo Magazine is finding out about boutiques and shops and restaurants that women run and own that I didn't know about and having the opportunity to go and check them out. But, the whole magazine is great. I love it!!!

Melanie’s Contact: Luvtocreate4you@gmail.com a

To submit your entry, send art as an e-mail attachment to srawlinson@the-papers.com or send a production-ready image on a CD via mail to: glo Magazine, Attention: Sue Rawlinson, PO Box 188, Milford, IN 46542.

The Nitty Gritty: glo front covers are open to female artists. Submissions from all original 2D media (digital art photographs are OK) are welcome. Artwork must be photographed at a high-resolution (300+ dpi) for reproduction. Content should reflect a

woman or women. Cover art selections are made at the discretion of glo staff. For cover placement, the artist will receive credit and added exposure via introductory copy and published photograph in a question and answer section.

Cover art is cropped to 10” wide x 13” high. Submitted cover art should be sized as 10.5” wide x 13.25” tall and, when possible, please allow 4.5” at top of artwork for glo masthead placement. The art chosen will confer rights to the cover image only as it relates to the publication and glo The artist shall retain all other rights.

Don’t miss the MAY issue of glo dedicated to brides and moms throughout glo Country.

From beachin’ bliss to destination details to travel-friendly dresses and accessories, we’ll have it all covered. Beautifully.

This (and much more!) is coming your way—in the May issue of glo! a

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From the executive editor

O“h, Easter Bunny. Why do you look so creepy?

You’ve seen him. You know, the guy who drew the short straw at the employee Easter Party planning meeting? There he sat, donning a white fuzzy jumpsuit, while children were seated on his lap for forced pics (that surely went viral).

Why? Because every kid (rightly) screams in horror at sight of a still, silent, oversized rabbit with angry eyes.

At least creepy Santa speaks. Creepy Easter Bunny just sits. Quietly. And. Stares. Angrily.

Just. Ew

So skip pics with Creepy Easter Bunny—and the rest of April is nothing short of amazing!

By now, temperatures have steadied to consistent warmth, spring flowers have bloomed—and it’s time to glam up your look as warm weather clothes may be resurfaced. Yep, it’s time to glam up our lives.

Let’s kick-up nutrition and fitness routines a healthy notch. Let’s push our limits, thus starting a fantastic momentum to do great things for ourselves—and others—this year.

It’s time to focus even more on HAPPY. While happiness is, indeed, an emotion, it’s so much more. It’s a choice. It’s a lifestyle. It’s a way of life.

And it encourages and attracts more happiness, just by being happy. Sounds simple, right?

Let’s focus on improved communication. This is how relationships strengthen and bonds adhere.

These are the subjects covered in this April issue of glo. We show how to glam up your life with beautiful basics, sassy styles and the sparkly glitz we all appreciate now and then. We discuss natural beauty remedies and rules to flatter your figure. We introduce the art of microblading, we celebrate April showers—and we are happy to share information about Tapestry: A Day For You, held on April 28. We also offer a real treat of inspiration via the beautiful and ever-inspiring Ann Curry—this year’s keynote speaker at Tapestry.

This month, let’s push ourselves for our best excellence. Let’s be a little healthier, a little happier, a little more inspired—and inspiring! Let’s support one another, ladies, and let’s make life a little better one day at a time.

And if Easter brunch is at your homestead this year? I’ve got you covered. Check out our recipes for some excellent mimosas and a great egg-stra recipe for your holiday buffet. Just omit Creepy Easter Bunny from your kids’ day… they’ll thank you later.

Happy April, readers. Thanks for being with your friends at glo …

Sue

Rawlinson srawlinson@the-papers.com

Hello Sue,

I'm a kindergarten teacher by day, but a mixed media artist in my free time. Most of my work is women-oriented and includes an encouraging or empowering mantra for added interest and meaning. I have attached some sample pieces of my work in hopes that you would consider my art for a Glo cover at some point.

Loved the addition of a coloring page in your March issue! 19 days and counting (until spring). —Linda

Beautiful! Thanks for sharing your artwork. READERS… should we continue with coloring graphics in future issues? Don’t be shy; talk to me. —S

Hi Sue,

I love reading your introduction to the magazines. Your short article—and the cover artist intro as well—are typically inspirational to me. ☺

—Selena Switzer

I’m blushing. Most sincerely, thank you for your comments. That’s my goal—and I’m very honored to reach glo readers— and hopefully touch their hearts. —S.

I get excited every time I see a new issue of glo on a newsstand, in a local business, or at my doctor's office and can't wait to pick one up and sit down with it. Not only is it aesthetically inviting, but having a magazine full of women's interests is a real draw. I love the fact that you feature local women's art on your cover as well.

—Janet Lynch

Thank you, Janet. I appreciate your words… and your artwork? It’s fabulous. —S.

GAL PALS

Have a pic with your gal pals? Simply send it in!

Friends Forever

“Although this picture is from a few years ago we are still great friends and have been, and always will be, there for each other. Been friends since 2001 to forever.”

— Karen Howard, Evon Gardner, Deanna Lanese

Girls’ Night!

“Just a girls’ night dinner at the Mexican restaurant… margaritas and laughs!”

—Meagan Egnor, Christin Perez, Anjelica Nichols

Readers, send photos to me at srawlinson@the-papers.com. We’d love to put you and your gal (or guy) pals in print!

Talk to Sue

We want to hear from you—and since we can’t all meet for coffee (although we’d LOVE to), let’s chat in print.

Do YOU have thoughts, ideas, suggestions for Sue? Tell her what you think about glo. What do you love and what can we improve upon? You matter!

Facebook or email Sue at srawlinson@the-papers.com www.glo-mag.com a

Natural Beauty

All-natural path to beauty + nature’s remedies

By Shannon Rooney

There are tons of products on the market that promise to beautify your skin, hair and nails. But many of them contain harsh chemicals that cause more problems while they’re fixing others. The antidote to toxin-laden products is choosing natural beauty remedies that are known to be just as effective (and better for) your body in the long-term.

Lora Beachy, a buyer at the Health Food Shoppe in Fort Wayne, says her store focuses on products given the greenlight by Environmental Working Group's Skin Deep database (ewg.org/skindeep). The database gives ratings to beauty products according to their level of toxicity. “Overall, we like products that are as close to pure as they can be for consumption,” said Beachy, which means avoiding most allergens and added fragrances.

Many natural product lines sold at health food stores and pharmacies will fit the bill. But you can also create beauty remedies at home, using common herbs and oils. Look for these ingredients to nourish healthy and beautiful lips, skin, hair and nails.

Feeling Balmy

If you’re suffering from dry lips this time of year, you’re not alone. While the weather flip-flops, protect your lips with an extra layer of moisture. Beachy says her customers tend to like and use balms with bees wax or shea butter. Bees wax creates a seal over the lips to prevent drying, while shea butter soothes chapped lips and provides moisture. You can use coconut oil for the same purposes. Keep it in the fridge so it forms a waxy texture and apply a thin layer.

Thyme to Heal

Apply some herbs to heal pesky acne. “We have several products with thyme oil that some studies say are just as effective as prescriptions,” said Beachy. In a recent study, scientists found that a thyme mixture killed bacteria-causing acne. You can also apply a small amount of chopped mint leaves to blemishes to reduce redness.

Oil Change

It might seem counterintuitive to apply oil to oily skin, but jojoba oil actually moderates the production of sebum.

Sebum is a waxy substance produced by sebaceous glands in order to moisturize and waterproof the skin. We have to add oil to reduce the oil naturally produced by our bodies. Jojoba oil can be applied to the skin and scalp to decrease oil production. It also seals and protects skin to promote moisture.

Hair Help

The usefulness of coconut oil can’t be underestimated. It’s a great, natural way to moisturize dry hair and a dry scalp. You can apply a very small amount daily to reduce static and hold in moisture, or use as a weekly mask. Wet hair; massage coconut oil into scalp, roots and ends; leave in for up to four hours beneath a towel or shower cap; then rinse, wash and condition your hair as you normally would.

Non-toxic Nails

Care for your nails with tea tree oil. Beachy recommends products with this oil, known for its antiseptic properties, to customers with nail fungus. It’s also a popular ingredient in natural deodorants. To encourage nail strength and growth, take your vitamins. Make sure your diet contains enough Vitamin A and C, or take small supplements. Avoid gel manicures because they tend to weaken nails. Beachy says her customers enjoy toluene-free brands with a top coat for extra staying power. a

Resources: Health Food Shoppe, Fort Wayne, 260.483.5211, healthfoodshoppe.com

Opening Saturday April 22nd from 2-5 p.m.

“Norman Bradley and Friends”

Monthly breast self-exams can help you know how your breasts normally look and feel, and detect any changes quickly. You are looking for a lump or any change that stands out as different. Most breast changes or lumps are not cancerous, but only a health care provider can tell you for sure. We recommend performing self-exams at the same time every month, a few days after your period ends.

A Perfect Blend

April Showers

Susan’s Fashions

Lyn-Maree’s

she glows

Ann Curry

television personality, news journalist, photo journalist

By Sue Rawlinson

The 2017 keynote speaker at Tapestry: A Day For You, on April 28 is none other than the beautiful, savvy, strong and admirable Ann Curry. I had the opportunity to ask questions, in effort to dig deep for inspiration to share—enjoy her wisdom, readers.

glo Magazine exists to empower and inspire women. In your experience, what is the most impactful advice you've ever been given?

I once asked Maya Angelou what was the most important lesson she ever learned and she said:

“Probably the most important lesson is to know that you have been loved. You may think that I could live and die and the world would never know I was even here. The truth is, to exist at all, you have been loved.”

When knocked down, strong women get right back up. Truth, embellishment or unrealistic dream?

We reveal strength in different ways. We are all made of titanium. Some of us just don't know it yet.

When reporting on human suffering, how do you stand strong amidst tragedy?

How can we all apply this to life?

When faced with human suffering I don't try to stand strong. Instead, I try to fully open myself to the truth of what is happening, no matter how painful it is so I can best respond and respect the dignity of those suffering around me. We all want to do something to make things better for someone else. Once Oprah told me in an interview, "You can only do what you can do, and that is what you should do." So we do what we can and women I think are particularly gifted at ‘doing good’ with compassion.

How does a woman survive in a 'boys club' atmosphere?

Women still endure being diminished and worse in the workplace. But we have also made tremendous headway towards equality, thanks to both women and men. We will get there eventually by doing good work and by supporting each other.

What women have been your greatest role models?

I greatly admire poet Maya Angelou, journalist Ruth Gruber, stateswoman Golda Meir and peace activist Eleanor Roosevelt. But since there were so few women in my profession when I started, my role model was actually Walter Cronkite. Like him, I wanted to report with intelligence, fairness and heart.

If you could do anything you wished for 24 hours, what would you do?

Anything? How about a huge slumber party with all the people I have ever treasured at, say... a villa in Italy, with great pasta and wine and Julie Andrews, the Dalai Lama and Jim Carey as guests of honor! You did say anything.

When knocked down, what steps should we take to pick ourselves back up?

I guess everyone has to take the steps that work for them. But, one step that might work for everybody is to be open to the opportunity that arises next. As my father always said, "Who knows, maybe the best thing you will ever do, you haven't even thought of yet!"

Who is your greatest supporter?

I better not name one as I come from a big family. I do think that who you marry is your most important career decision. Also, I get tremendous encouragement from people I have never met before, online and in person, everywhere I go. What a sweet joy that has been.

Any beauty tips to share?

Well, of course, we should take care of ourselves: drink water, go for walks, use sunscreen, eat green vegetables and moisturize. But I think the best beauty tip is to fear less and love MORE, because when we let our goodness show, we are irresistible. a

glow GIRL

Elayna Hasty

By Lauren Caggiano | Photo by Sue Rawlinson

Don’t let her age fool you. At 15, Elayna Hasty has already accomplished feats many people don’t achieve in an entire lifetime.

In 2010, at the age of 9, the now-freshman at Angola High School founded, G.A.B., a non-profit created to stand up to bullying. G.A.B. is an acronym for Girls Against Bullying. Talk about young empowerment.

But behind every empowered girl is often a strong woman, which is, indeed, the case for Elayna. “My mom has always encouraged me to think about who I am and who I want to be in the future,” Hasty said. “She has told me that the choices I make now will affect me later in life. She inspires me to work on becoming the best me I can possibly be, without being a cookie cutter of someone else.”

For example, her mother encouraged her to research bullying and abusive behavior, which really opened the teen’s eyes. A friend’s own experience was equally as enlightening. Hasty felt compelled to take action, backed by her mother’s support.

The two came up the concept behind G.A.B. It was only a matter of time before they set up a Facebook page and website. At age 12 she expanded the organization’s reach with workshops.

She now offers three main workshops targeting various ages and boys and girls. She often dresses up as various characters to engage with the audience in a unique way.

It’s really all about opening up the channels for communication and helping them better cope with inflammatory comments or behavior. “Kids especially need to know that it is not their fault for being bullied,” she said. “It is not about them. It has to do with the bully. Often the bully has their own deep internal issues.”

Hasty also believe it takes a village to keep bullying in check. In her words, “I think it’s important for all adults, parents, teachers, coaches to teach kids how to move beyond what the bully intends to do to them. I know this can be hard, but it’s important to take away the bully’s power. They also should not ignore it.”

Armed with the support of her local community and beyond, Hasty has high hopes for the future of the organization as well as her own future. And her efforts have not gone unnoticed. Last year, she was crowned Miss Fort Wayne’s Outstanding Teen. The little sister to Miss America, the Miss America's Outstanding Teen Organization is one of the nation's leading achievement programs.

We’re confident this bright young lady can do anything she puts her mind to!

BEAUTIFUL BASICS

Lay the foundation for the most beautiful you this spring. Ladies, it’s time to carve attention for just you. Get ready to pamper your skin, hair and body. We’ll show you how…

Facial Glows

Amanda Tokos, owner of three area Massage Envy spas, explained how skin care helps true beauty shine. “Facials offer a number of healthful benefits,” she said. “They protect skin while brightening the complexion, evening skin tone and revealing a healthy glow. They combat damage and premature signs of aging from exposure to the elements and environmental pollutants. Lastly, facials hydrate the skin, which increases skin’s firmness and health—and minimizes wrinkles for a youthful appearance.”

Massage Me

The body deserves loving care, too. Massage alleviates stress and benefits the body’s overall health, allowing it to be its most beautiful. “Research shows that massage can lower heart rate and blood pressure, relax muscles and increase the production of endorphins, the body's natural ‘feel good’ chemical,” Tokos said. “Serotonin and dopamine are released through massage and result in a feeling of calm that makes stress easier to handle.”

“Taking care of your body should be at the top of your priorities,” she said. “Add massage to your beauty routine now and you'll feel, look and simply BE healthier far into the future.”

to DSW and Fresh Thyme (260) 423-2300

FINAL GLITZ:

Hair Help

And don’t forget your “crowning glory.” Healthy skin and body are enhanced even more by healthy and beautiful hair.

Dylan Crandall, independent owner of Inner Beauty Out at Sola Salons, provided tips for super healthy hair: “Using a protectant before any heat source (blow drying, flat ironing, curling) is huge. Putting something between hair and intense heat is crucial for keeping hair shiny, happy and healthy.”

Crandall also cautioned against using drug store products. “Many of these contain harmful ingredients that promote build-up on the hair and scalp,” he said. “Build-up of chemicals on the scalp can lead to stunted hair growth or hair loss. A happy scalp means healthy hair. Please listen to your stylists' recommendations. Our main goal is to help keep your hair healthy and beautiful. You are our walking billboards!”

Now that your skin is glowing, your body is relaxed, your hair is luxurious, and you are rocking the season’s best looks, it’s time for the finishing touches.

Jewelry trends for spring are fun and expressive. Lace + Arrow’s Swager said, “Bright gemstones are trendy. Choker necklaces are still in full-force, but we’re seeing more dainty necklaces taking the stage, too. Arm cuffs are big and ear climbers are going to be a huge hit!”

Ashley Hopper, independent owner of The H Society at Sola Salons, suggested, “Get regular trims to clean up split-ends and damage caused by heat, color and pollutants. If you say ‘My hair doesn't grow!’ that’s because it’s breaking off faster than it grows. Cut off split-ends regularly to maintain hair’s length and strength.”

Other tips for healthy hair include: “Sleep with dry, loose hair. Tossing and turning during sleep can cause breakage to hair in a ponytail. A silk pillowcase reduces friction and keeps hair shiny and smooth, too,” Hopper said. “Ask your hairdresser about serums and oils. If your hair seems to be lacking shine, consider argan oils or light leave-in serums to boost shine.”

Hopper also advised, “If you notice signs of weakening or thinning hair, ask your doctor about it. Your body speaks through your hair and skin. You may have a hormone imbalance or other health issues that needs to be checked out.”

Nails are taking their cues from all of the hot runway looks, too. Mix and match to complement (or contrast with) whichever fashion trend you are rocking:

• be “innocent” and “shy” with delicate pinks and blues

• go bold with neons/brights: raspberry, yellow, sky blue, tangerine orange or kelly green

• stay minimal with stark white on fingers and toes

• express your fun side with stripes

• ‘up’ the glam factor with shimmer, glitter and even crystals!

SASSY STYLES

Now let’s dress up all that natural beauty! With what? Why, the most glamorous of spring fashion trends, of course.

Heather Swager, owner/buyer with Lace + Arrow, described the hottest trends for spring. “This spring be on the lookout for shades of bold and loud neon, as well as subtle and soft pink and blue. These colors dominated the runways this year. For those who prefer a timeless look, utilitarian beige khaki pieces are coming back in full force. Ruffles are everywhere, from sleeves to skirts. Textures worn with fresh floral prints and over-sized sleeves are hot. Lace and silk are detailing both glam rock and romantic looks. A huge trend is the bralette, to be worn under suit jackets, over basic t-shirts; or midriff-baring on its own, but paired with beautiful ball gown skirts.”

What else? “Stripes are huge!” said Swager. “…especially asymmetrical or layered with stripes-on-stripes. Graphic t-shirts are not going away. You can pair these with jeans, or glam them up with over-sized trousers and a side-tie. Those wanting to up the glam factor will want to pick up romantic pieces and pair them with nude heels and navel length jewelry. For those looking for a more dresseddown glam, we recommend black denim, bold floral tops and platform heels.”

As Swager assured, “You can be certain this spring’s looks are bold—but there is definitely a little something for everyone.” a

Resource:

Lace + Arrow, Fort Wayne, 260.449.9090, laceandarrow.com

Massage Envy, (3 Fort Wayne locations), 260.490.3689, 260.423.2300, 260.489.3689, Massageenvy.com

Sola Salon Studios, Fort Wayne, The H Society 260.255.5469; Inner Beauty Out 260.409.8882, solasalonstudios.com/locations/fort-wayne.com

healthy habits for

happiness

By Cathy Shouse

Happiness can sneak up on you. Maybe you’re alone in the car, singing with the radio at the top of your lungs, grinning from ear to ear and not sure why. But wouldn’t it be great if there were a secret to being happier—all the time?

Alena Chapman, a bestselling author, mentor and speaker from Fort Wayne, offers 10 habits that nurture happiness.“When I hear or read the word happiness I feel joy,” Chapman said.“It means how to be happy or create happiness in our lives. To me happiness is inner contentment and sureness.”

10happiness Happiness 101

by Alena Chapman

10. Decide to Be Happy—and Mean It

Happiness is not something we find. It is not something that is given to us. Happiness is a decision. We have to decide to be happy. It was in my loneliest, most unhappy time in my life that I found myself on a country road declaring I wanted to live a happy life. As my decision became stronger I yelled it out. This was my turning point – my decision!

9. It Takes a Manual

Grab one of the numerous books on happiness and take notes. This alone can be life changing. That next morning I walked into a bookstore and on the table right in front of me was a book called “How to Live a Happy Life.” Thus began my happy life.

8. On the Daily

Figure out what makes you smile, then get some of it into your life every single day. Whether that means taking a walk in the park, allowing yourself to laugh—or driving in the car out-singing your fave music star. Just do it.

7. Unplug

Turn off the TV, Facebook and Twitter and turn on some good, happy, rhythm-filled music. Music can change our mood, bring up our vibration and help us enjoy living.

6. Go All In

Get into the spirit of life. Start enjoying and fully living what is happening in the NOW. You will be amazed with what you have been missing.

5. Make a Mental Shift

Thinking happy, optimistic thoughts is not burying your head in the sand. It is seeing the best of any situation and moving forward in a way that you feel is best to create the best in the near future.

4. Tweak Your Life Philosophy

The belief that life must be hard, or that we must struggle, are concepts many of us carry in our hearts. Instead, choose to celebrate learning, enjoying and really living.

3. Become Your Own BFF

Stay out of your own way. My book on this subject, ‘The Prison Effect: Discover How You Are Blocking Your Own Happiness and Break Free to Abundance and Joy In Life,’ came out on March 21 and can be ordered through my website.

2. Bring Others Along With You

Those around you can benefit from your joy. Share your happiness with them and you’ll find it reflected right back at you.

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Pass It On

Think of your happiness as a gift to the next generation. As a mother of three amazing boys, the biggest benefit to finding my own happiness is my children now feel and continue to focus on living a life full of happiness. We cannot give what we do not have within ourselves. a

Resource: Alena Chapman, alenachapmanlife.com

Rules to flatter your figure

By Alisha Gomez

Warmer weather is just around the corner—which means ‘off’ goes the jacket and ‘on’ comes the insecurity for some. Push ‘flaws’ aside and consider this your go-to article for looking good with the body you have. These figure-flattering rules will have you looking (and feeling) more confident in no time.

Bra fitting: Marchelle French-Fountain, a bra fitter at Barbara's New Beginnings of Fort Wayne shared that a proper measurement and fitting is key. “It’s very important to have the right foundation,” she said. “A proper bra helps with posture and aids with back pain.” Bra fitters measure underneath the breasts to see where the bra should lie and bras are then tried on to see which is the best fit. She said the bra should be tight, not loose, and it should be up higher in front and down in the back.

Patterns: Leslee Hill, president of Hill Image Consulting, said it doesn’t really matter what kind of pattern you’re wearing but rather the size of the pattern. “I disagree with fear of horizontal stripes. They look good, especially under a jacket or sweater,” Hill said. “When it comes to wearing pattern, you’ll want to wear the pattern in a scale that is proportionate to your body size. If you are a size 6/8/10, a medium sized pattern is ideal for you. If you are a 2x, a small print will create a hologram effect…anything diagonal makes most anyone look thin, but color and size are what really matter.”

Tailored fitting: Size is a very important aspect in flattering your figure. “(This is true) for men and women, but especially (for) extended size/plus size, fit is the most dramatic tool to elevate your style,” Hill said. “Jacket sleeves and pants should be hemmed properly—women need to get their pants hemmed according to the shoe they will wear with it.” Pants that pool at the shoe and too-large jackets often creates a less-than-polished image. “Trying to hide behind our clothing amplifies our size more quickly than even tightly fitted clothing,” she said. “If you purchase something off the rack, 90 percent of the time you should have it altered to fit you perfectly. People often scoff at the extra price that comes from alternation fees ($11 for pant hem), but foregoing this step costs you credibility.”

Color: Research shows that the colors you wear have a huge impact on how you look. Certain colors flatter certain skin tones and bring out your features. First, determine if your skin is warm, cool or neutral. How? Hold a plain piece of white paper to your face and see how your skin looks compared to the paper. Warm skin tones will look yellowish, light brown or greenish. Cool skin will appear rosy, pink or blue. Neutral skin tones will look gray or ashen. Once your skin tone is determined, start wearing colors that flatter you the most. Warm skin tones look best in earthy colors such as golden yellow, reds, oranges, brown, olive green, deep turquoise, magenta (and similar red-purple shades) and creamy whites. Cool skin tones look best in shades of blue, purples, berry reds, bright pinks, gray and white. Neutral skin tones work best with neutral, softened colors such as blush-toned pinks, light peach, soft greens and blues. a

Resources: Barbara's New Beginnings, Fort Wayne, 260.432.9939, barbarasnewbeginnings.com Hill Image Consulting, Fort Wayne, 260.205.2505, hillimage.com

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Relationship Rescues

By Barb Sieminski

You don’t need a therapist, or so you tell yourself.

But life is always changing and so are relationships, and right now, yours may be going down the drain. You and your partner just don’t seem to connect anymore, especially over the last few months.

We contacted a licensed therapist, Ronald J. Furniss, N.A.S.W., A.C.S.W., L.C.S.W., L.C.A.C., who has been with Headwaters Counseling (headwaterscounseling.org) for 36 years and who specializes in sexually abused clients and is also sex offender and home based programs director. Additionally, Furniss is certified as a provider for domestic violence services and certified to provide services for sexual offenders.

“Wholesome relationships are based on dialogue or communication between two people and their willingness to listen effectively to one another,” said Furniss, whose position requires a master’s degree in social work, marriage and family counseling and mental health counseling.

“Having quality time together is an important part of making relationships work. Where people are enjoying time together, even if it’s only in small doses such as during walks, conversations or movies, some of the most important conversations happen when people sit down across

from each other for dinner where they can update each other of the happenings of the day, on the ups and downs of their day. They really connect with each other on a daily basis as much as possible.”

Furniss’ observations may help to improve your relationship, not only with your partner but also with others:

• Healthy relationships are based on respect— respect of one another’s beliefs, space and rights. We have a right to believe and respect our own opinions, while also respecting the rights and opinions of our partners and others.

• Time together to talk, to play, to cook, or to eat is a way to share space and conversation with one another. In our busy lives, we sometimes operate as if our own world constitutes the only thing of importance.

• Our partner’s life is no more—and no less— important than our own. It’s remarkable when we show others that their lives matter to us, how much more they may be interested in our own lives.

• Celebrate one another’s successes, and be willing to receive each other in our defeats. Holding that space to encourage each other when we are struggling, in pain or grieving is important to any relationship. Critical events occur and our sensitivity during those times is important.

• Enjoy the moments together. This existence is not a dress rehearsal, but our one opportunity to live, learn and to give of ourselves to this thing called “LIFE.” Those with whom we have relationships will appreciate that we are not holding back for something or someone “better.”

Also, texting, a “shorthand” way of communicating, only conveys about a quarter of what is intended.

“But by actually interacting with each other in person, the intonation of our voices is even more important than the specific words we use,” concluded Furniss.

And remember, you cannot change someone else but you can change the way you react to that person. A true partnership involves looking out for each other, not attacking or controlling or being passively comfortable in the relationship. Be open to concessions and make yourself the agent of change. Be forgiving.

Finally, you can (yes, you can!) even inspire your partner (and yourself!) to start living a new way.

Resource: Headwaters Counseling, Fort Wayne, 260.744.4326, headwaterscounseling.org

Fem Stat #76

The average mother gets just 17 minutes of ‘me time’ each day. (That much?!)

Fem Stat #77 The tallest chocolate Easter egg ever made was in Italy in 2011. It was

Fem Stat #78 5 is the number of positive exchanges per negative one in happy couples. Yep, 5:1 ratio is the goal!

Microblading offers a semi-permanent solution for great eyebrows Raising Blade the

By Julie Young

Are you the type to turn a blind eye at the thought of “inking” your body? If so, then microblading may change your mind. Microblading is a semi-permanent makeup solution designed to give your eyebrows what nature did not, or in many cases, what nature took away.

“Microblading falls under the same kind of laws that tattooing adheres to in that we are inspected by the board of health every six months, but the process is a little different,” said Lillian Wollman, owner of Permanent Make-Up by Lillian.

Unlike an eyebrow tattoo, in which solid ink is implanted into the skin, microblading is an exacting process that creates fine ink marks on the skin resembling a natural hair pattern. It is less painful than a tattoo, does not go as deep into the skin as traditional ink, and because it is semi-permanent, it can be adjusted as life warrants.

“When done correctly, you can hardly tell the difference between the microblading and your actual eyebrows,” Wollman said.

With over 20 years of experience in the beauty business, Wollman is a cosmetologist, esthetician, laser technician, makeup artist and salon owner. When permanent makeup became its own industry, Wollman was eager to be part of it. Likewise her clients were eager to have their makeup professionally applied, without having to wash it off at the end of the night.

“There is an artistry to makeup,” she said. “It has to flow the right way and flatter the individual’s face.”

This has led to her latest foray into microblading. With age, eyebrows can fade, thin out or lose some of their symmetry, causing a lessthan-flattering look. Microblading offers a chance to reclaim a full set of eyebrows that will re-enhance existing facial features. It is a meticulous process that should not be rushed and those considering it should shy away from practitioners who profess that it can be accomplished in an hour or so.

“It takes a lot longer than that,” Wollman said. When her clients call to inquire about the process, Wollman said she spends 40-45 minutes with them in an initial consultation, examining their existing brow and penciling in the new ones to show the client what they can look like. She also administers a patch test to determine if there is any skin sensitivity to the ink. Prior to the actual procedure, Wollman applies a prescription-strength topical anesthetic to mitigate any possible pain a client might feel.

“The anesthetic is pretty strong and our clients say microblading tends to be more uncomfortable than painful. You don’t feel it for days afterward like you might expect and it is better than most of the permanent makeup that you can get,” Wollman said.

The procedure itself takes about two hours and then two weeks later, Wollman schedules a follow-up appointment to see what the color looks like after it peels and make sure that they are happy with the result.

“Microblading isn’t something you can take back and for the amount you are spending on the procedure, you’ll want to find someone who has the experience and knowledge to do it right,” she said. “If you are unhappy with your eyebrows, call us to find out what we can do for you!” a

Resource:

Permanent Make-up By Lillian, Fort Wayne,

By Julie Young

Busy women tend to grab and go, which means their snacks must be quick and easy, taste great and be good for them as well. With so many options to choose from, how can chicks choose the ones that will fill them up without weighing them down?

We put together a list of the ‘Top 10’ snacks that are perfect for the person who needs a little “somethin’ somethin’” to tide them over from one activity to the next.

Healthy Snacks:

1. Search out the ‘Super Foods’

We all know there are certain nutrient-rich foods that combat disease, offer extra energy and help you lose weight, so be sure to include a few of them in your snacks. Some of our favorites include: walnuts, apples, strawberries, dark chocolate and sunflower seeds.

2. Fruity yogurt parfaits

Parfaits are delicious and they can be good for you too. Mix 1 tablespoon of your favorite jam with ½ cup of plain, nonfat yogurt. For an added bite, add a handful of Cheerios.

3. Hardboiled eggs

Although awesome on their own and low in calories, for a switch, why not remove yolks and fill with 2 teaspoons of hummus? For a spicy finish, add some hot paprika.

4. Trail mix

You will be sure to get your protein through this classic combination of 2 cups of airpopped popcorn, 2 tablespoons of roasted peanuts and 2 tablespoons of edamame.

5. Crispy pumpkin seeds

Like sunflower seeds, pumpkin seeds are great for those who need a little crunch in their day. Toast ¼ cup of seeds in their shells and sprinkle with paprika for a light and healthy chip.

6. Bananas

Full of potassium, this fruit is simply the best for giving you that extra boost when you need it most. For a variation on the timeless treat, cut a banana lengthwise and spread natural peanut butter on each side. Sandwich the two parts together, wrap in plastic wrap and freeze for four hours.

7. Popcorn

Light, airy and fluffy, this is a snack that can’t be beat and its healthy variations are practically endless. Jazz up 4 cups of this movie theater classic with 2 teaspoons of ground cinnamon and 1 teaspoon of powdered sugar, a few shakes of parmesan cheese or red wine vinegar and sea salt.

8. Celery

Cliché as it may sound, celery is a healthy snack option but that doesn’t mean it has to be boring! Give it some flair with one tablespoon of cream cheese, or natural peanut butter. For added sweetness, top with raisins.

9. Whole-wheat English muffin

In a couple minutes of toasting, you can achieve 4 ½ grams of fiber while only taking in 134 calories.

10. Java Jolt Smoothie

Everything about this is a good idea. Blend ¾ cup of cold coffee, ½ frozen sliced banana, 1 tablespoon of chocolate syrup, ¼ cup of nonfat vanilla yogurt and a handful of ice cubes. This will keep your motor running from lunch until dinner. a

Take time for you, ladies a day for you

By Lauren Caggiano

Each year, Tapestry: A Day for You promises to inspire, renew and educate—and this year is no different. Join women from around the area for breakfast and lunch on April 28 at the Allen County War Memorial Coliseum in Fort Wayne.

Last year, more than 1,580 women from wideranging backgrounds attended Tapestry, and the crowd grows every year. The annual event started in 2002 with a two-fold mission: to enrich the lives of women in northeast Indiana and to raise funds for students studying in the College of Health and Human Services at Indiana University–Purdue University Fort Wayne. Over the last 15 years, Tapestry has raised more than $800,000 in scholarship funds and awarded scholarships to 66 students. Selection of recipients is based on the recommendation of a com-

While this scholarship award aims to improve a young woman’s future, another accolade exists to recognize the past work of an exceptional woman. Keeping with the spirit of inspiring fellow women, the presentation of the Linda L. Ruffolo Dedication Award is among the day’s highlights. Past recipients of this prestigious award are Weezie Doermer, Patricia Miller, Barbara Bradley Baekgaard, Patricia Kunkel, Ione Auer, Harriett and Julie Inskeep, Colleen Benninghoff, Suzon Motz, Patty Martone, Betty Stein, Bette Harris, Dorian Maples, Donna Emley, Pat Parker, Patsy Dumas, Dorothy Kittaka, Hana Lee Stith and Linda L. Ruffolo. Candidates exemplify “a balanced life, the empowering of others, leadership, compassion, a positive attitude, service to

wine and healthcare. The fun doesn’t have to stop here. The Artisan Boutique showcases the work of local artists and artisans available for sale to the public. A variety of silent auction items will be available to bid on as well.

Perhaps the most talked about draw is the keynote speaker. This year, award-winning journalist Ann Curry will share how she fought her way to the top and doesn’t take any lesson for granted. The former NBC news anchor and international correspondent is a consummate journalist and has covered wars and reported on

the community, strength of character, vision and implementation.”

Speaking of implementation, attendees might be inspired to improve themselves inside and out through the educational aspect of the event. Several breakout sessions will be offered in the morning, which touch on such topics as home décor, fashion, skin, food and

keynote speaker ANN CURRY

humanitarian disasters such as the 2010 earthquake in Haiti. Curry has been honored with seven Emmys, numerous Edward R. Murrow awards, an Excellence in Reporting award from the NAACP, and a host of others. Although her reporting has taken her all over the world, Curry’s message will inspire you to make a difference in your own backyard. Past keynote speakers include icons such as Vicki Lawrence, Jane Pauley and Marilu Henner.

Registration for Tapestry 2017 is available online at web.ipfw.edu/tapestry/register. A schedule of events can also be found there. (Please note: Registration closes Friday, April 7.) Remember, you deserve a day for YOU! a

mittee of faculty members appointed by the dean of the College of Health and Human Services with the approval of the Tapestry Scholarship Committee.

Easter Eggs Nests for Breakfast

By Sue Rawlinson

These bite-sized Easter eggs nests are the perfect egg-stra addition to your holiday brunch. Resembling tiny birds’ nests, they’re bright, colorful and delicious.

They’re simple to make, festive and perfect for the breakfast buffet—or to grab and go. Pair with fresh fruit and mimosas and you’re sure to have a hopping good time!

Ingredients:

April’s Recipe

1 30-ounce package frozen shredded hash browns, thawed

3 teaspoons salt

1 teaspoon black pepper

2 ½ tablespoons olive oil

1 ¼ cup shredded cheddar cheese

12 eggs

2 tablespoons water

10 slices bacon, cooked, crumbled

Variations: add sliced scallions, diced ham or finely crumbled sausage

Directions

1. Preheat oven to 425 degrees.

2. Spray (heavily) non-stick spray in 24 muffin cups.

3. Mix hash browns, salt, pepper, olive oil and 1 cup of the cheese in a bowl.

4. Divide mixture into muffin cups, using your fingers to shape into nests with hollows in the center.

5. Bake 18 minutes, until hash browns are browned on the edges.

6. Reduce oven temperature to 350 degrees.

7. Whisk eggs and water in bowl; season with pepper and salt.

8. Divide egg mixture into each nest; sprinkle with bacon, ham or sausage crumbles and top with 1 teaspoon cheddar cheese.

9. Bake in oven 15 minutes, or until eggs are set.

10. Allow to cool slightly in pan—then enjoy! a

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By Sue Rawlinson

The Hoppy Gnome

By Sue Rawlinson

Yes, downtown Fort Wayne’s restaurant scene is, indeed, hopping! With so many new places to eat, Melinda and I were eager to visit one of the new gems.

We had lunch at The Hoppy Gnome, and hopping it was—with a busy lunch crowd and a cool atmosphere appropriate for a work lunch, a date night, or a brew with friends. It’s just a cool place to hang out.

Both a brewery and restaurant, this destination will only be more a’buzz as the temperatures rise and patrons can enjoy some great tacos and expert craft beer on the outdoor patio. If you haven’t yet been… check it out.

The Ambiance:

The interior of The Hoppy Gnome is a funky, modern chic look with a huge bar. With both booth seating and tables galore, this place is larger than you may expect; it’s spacious enough to not feel cramped, despite the crowds they draw. The décor is a great mixture of metal, rustic-like wood and glass; it made for a great balance of comfort, casual and yet chic. Located in the heart of downtown—directly across from the courthouse—the scenery is nothing short of fantastic.

The Food:

Like tacos? If so, you’ll love The Hoppy Gnome. Offering 10 varieties of tacos (pick any two for $9, or pick any three for $13), it’s affordable and offers a taco for everyone.

Melinda and I both selected the two-taco lunch option. I ordered the mahi-mahi on a corn tortilla (this has mahi-mahi, pineapple salsa and guacamole) and the smoked brisket on a flour tortilla. This is an applewood smoked brisket mixed with chipotle and cherry salsa and fried scallions—and was my fave. Melinda also

ordered the mahi-mahi taco as well as the Bob Marley (smoked jerk chicken, pineapple salsa, fire roasted red peppers and sour cream). The plate presentation was beautiful and all ingredients were fresh and tasty!

But they’re not all about tacos. Also on the menu includes an array of small plates from ribs to scallops to steamed clams and NY strip, plus a variety of salads and soup. Their s’mores dessert is a must-have. In fact, it’s an experience. A small cast-iron grill is delivered to the table, as well as homemade marshmallows, chocolate and graham crackers. If you visit, give it a try.

The Service:

April was our waitress. Attentive and energetic (and pretty darn adorable), she was a fabulous representative for the restaurant. The manager, Pete, was extremely friendly and attentive—and

Downtown Fort Wayne’s funky and chic Hoppy Gnome serves up great food, fun personality and a unique dining experience.

happy to appease my questions (and photos) even during his busy lunch crowd. The crew at Hoppy Gnome displayed dedication to their jobs with sincere efforts to please their guests. How refreshing! a

The Hoppy Gnome

203 E. Berry Street, Fort Wayne, IN 46802 260.710.8368 hoppygnome.com

Mon.- Thurs., 11 a.m.–10 p.m. Fri., 11 a.m.-11 p.m.; Sat., 10 a.m.-11 p.m. Sun., 10 a.m.-9 p.m.

Let the glo Girls’ Guide to Good Food take you to some of the top foodie retreats in the area! There are so many locally-owned restaurants the staff at glo magazine can’t wait to eat its way through them all… have an idea of where we should go next? If so, e-mail the editor at srawlinson@the-papers.com. Please ad “glo Guide” to the subject line.

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april 2017 glo-roscopes

By Julie Young

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

Sometimes when it rains, it pours and someone close to you is really hurting right now. They need your love and support this month more than you know. Reach out, give them a call or drop by. You will make a difference in their overwhelming life.

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

Rainy days and Mondays may get your down, but you have a tendency to bring the sunshine and happiness to every situation you’re in. Turn your frown upside down and watch the sky clear. It really is in your power to turn lemons into lemonade.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

When it comes to giving, you are a deluge of generosity. You are always thinking of others, but this month, be sure to take some time out for yourself. Go to the spa or treat yourself to a leisurely lunch. Only when you are refreshed can you be a source of nourishment for those around you.

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

You are the one everyone turns to when the going gets rough, but there are worse things than being a shelter from the storm. Don’t spread yourself too thin and ask for help when you need it. You can’t be all things to everyone. Do what you can and rest easy.

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

You are always looking for ways to “make it rain” but your love of money could be your downfall. Too much is never enough for you. Concentrate on those things that money can’t buy and you will experience a shower of good vibes that are worth a fortune.

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

April’s shower may bring May flowers, but you have been dealing with so much and there is no let-up in sight. Better days are ahead, but you have to wait for them. Concentrate on personal improvement so you will be ready when they come!

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

Tornados tend to tear through life destroying everything in its path and there is someone in your world who reminds you of a twister. Sometimes it’s best to get out of harm’s way rather than try to batten down the hatches. You’ve got to let the storm blow over.

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

You can never be too prepared for a flood and one is coming your way this month. Save your money, stock up on supplies and be ready so when that flood hits, you won’t be looking around for a lifeboat. Remember, it wasn’t raining the day Noah built the ark!

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

You have a tremendous thirst for knowledge and you constantly soak up information. Register for a class. Take up a new hobby and learn something new. You won’t regret it. The information you glean will pour out to others. Everyone benefits.

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

Just like a rainbow, some things in life are not as real as they seem. Be wary of optical illusions and do not look at your relationships through rose-colored glasses. Someone or something is trying to color your world. Don’t fall for it.

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

As the premiere water sign, this month is made for you, dear Aquarius, so soak it all in. As you go through life singing in the rain, you will have a spring in your step. You won’t even mind getting a little wet. After all, you won’t melt.

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

You may find yourself swimming upstream a little this month, but everything worth happening is worth working for. Setbacks are certain to happen, but you can work around them. Don’t give up. You will reap rewards in the end. a

April

to-do list . . .

By Ray Balogh

1 | Saturday |

Move Forward: Writers 1.0

Comprehensive hands‐on workshop for beginning writers. Includes writ‐ing skills and publishing information. $50. 11 a.m.‐3 p.m., Allen County Public Library, 900 Plaza Drive, Fort Wayne. Register at gomoveforward.com. 813.728.6097.

1 | Saturday | Native Plant Workshop

Learn why native plants are critical to a healthy, diverse Indiana ecology and how to create simple, habitat‐friendly corridors in landscaping. Free native seed packet to atten‐dees. $10, pre‐registration required. 10 a.m.‐noon, Foellinger‐Freimann Botanical Conservatory, 1100 S. Calhoun St., Fort Wayne. 260.427.6440, lrwp.org.

2 | Sunday | Monthly Flea Market

Hot food available, sponsored by the Adams County Coin Club. 8 a.m.‐3 p.m., Riverside Center, 231 E. Monroe St. (Highway 224 East), Decatur. Contact Carla at 260.517.8182, facebook.com/decaturindianaflea‐market.

2 | Sunday |

Rocktopia Live: a Classical (R)evolution

Unique live concert celebrating a fusion of classical music, classic rock and opera. $102/$63/$42. 7 p.m., 125 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 800.745.3000, fwembassytheatre.org.

6 | Thursday | Seinfeld

Enjoy the hilarity of famed stand‐up comedian and sitcom star Jerry Seinfeld. $150/$85/$65/$50. 7 p.m., 125 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 800.745.3000, fwembassytheatre.org.

6 through June 1

| Monday‐Sunday | Art Exhibit

Featuring the art of lifelong Fort Wayne resident Thomas Leffers, who captures the human brain’s con‐stant absorption of external energy and refocuses it into positive and beautiful paintings. Free admission. Open 24/7, Fort Wayne International Airport, 3801 W. Ferguson Road, Fort Wayne. 260.705.8270, thomasleffersart.com.

7 | Friday |

First Friday: “Bloomin’ Downtown”

Travel to each participating business where they will tell you the date their business opened. Write down all the dates on your First Friday guide to be entered to win a $300 gift basket. Food trucks, live music, specials, more. Free admission. 5 p.m.‐8 p.m., downtown Wabash. 260.563.7171, visitwabashcounty.com.

8 | Saturday |

“What is Spiritual Freedom?”

Spiritual discussion presented by Eckankar, including recognizing spiri‐tual experience, past lives, dreams, soul travel, spiritual guides. Free admission. 11 a.m.‐12:15 p.m., Globe Room, Allen County Library, 900 Library Plaza, Fort Wayne. 260.466.3823, eck‐indiana.org.

9 | Sunday | Spring Haute Gathering

Shop for barns finds, antiques, primi‐tives, artisan goods, boutiques, farmer market goods, repurposed items, more. Wine slushies and gour‐met food available for purchase. $5 (18 and under free). 11 a.m.‐6 p.m., the Charles (formerly the Shiloh), 3127 Carroll Road, Fort Wayne. facebook.com/hautegatheringmar‐kets.

9 | Sunday | Riverdance

20th Anniversary performance by famed international Irish dance troupe, featuring an innovative and exciting blend of dance, music and song. $57/$47/$37/ 7:30 p.m., Honeywell Center, 275 W. Market St., Wabash. 260.563.1102, honeywellcenter.org.

Francine’s Friends Mobile Mammography

12 | Wednesday | Lunch and Learn Series: Hydrangeas

Review the different types of hydrangeas and which varieties are best for your landscape. Free admis‐sion, bring your own lunch. 12:15 p.m.‐12:45 p.m., Charley Creek Gardens, 551 N. Miami St., Wabash. 260.563.1020, charleycreekgardens.org.

4.01Max Fitness, 7245 Maplecrest Road

4.03Parkview Physician Group Family Practice, 1331 Minnich Road, New Haven

4.05The Beehive Salon, Triangle Park, 3705 Rupp Dr.

4.06Anytime Fitness, 462 W. Plaza Dr., Columbia City

4.08Max Fitness, 9914 Illinois Road

4.10Parkview Center for Healthy Living, Parkview Warsaw YMCA, 1305 Mariner's Dr.

4.14Subway, 1812 S. Wabash St., Wabash

4.15Max Fitness, 1415 W. DuPont Road

4.17Woodlan Jr. Sr. High, 17215 Woodburn Road, Woodburn

4.20DeKalb Co Senior Expo, WWII Victory Museum, 5634 CR 11A, Auburn

4.21University of St. Francis, 2701 Spring St.

4.22Presence Sacred Heart, 519 Main St., Avilla

4.24Prairie Heights Community Schools, 0305 S. 1150 E., LaGrange

4.28Butler Elementary, 1025 S. Broadway, Butler

4.29Come As You Are Community Church, 7910 S. Anthony

12 | Wednesday |

Fort Wayne Artists Guild Monthly

Meeting features Manchester University Art Professor Ejenobo “Jenna” Oke who will present “Judging Criteria for Art Exhibitions.” Free admission. 6:30 p.m., Concordia Lutheran High School, 1601 St. Joe River Drive, Fort Wayne. fortwayneartistsguild.org.

13 | Thursday |

“Sad Irons and Linens”

Learn about doing laundry in the “good old days.” Part of bicentenni‐al special series featuring history and hand arts of Indiana’s heritage. $20 for non‐members. 9:30 a.m.‐11:30 a.m., Historic Sweeney Homestead, 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 260.747.1501 or 260.747.1229, settlersinc.org.

13 | Thursday |

“Rise Up!” Virtual Party

Virtual celebration of the official launch of the devotional book, “Rise Up!: Words of Encouragement for Everyday Women of God” by Shanon Roberts, co‐creator of liveeatsweat.com. Get a free seven‐day excerpt at riseupdevotions.com. Free admission. 8 p.m.‐9 p.m.

13 | Thursday |

Duke Tumatoe

Concert by blues guitarist, vocalist, songwriter and founding member of REO Speedwagon. $12. 7:30 p.m., Eagles Theatre, 106 W. Market St., Wabash. 260.563.3272, eaglestheatre.com.

18 | Tuesday |

Gourmet Dinner and Chamber Music

Dine on roasted duck breast with strawberry port reduction and enjoy the music of Paula and Roberto Monsalve. $55. Concert at 6 p.m. with dinner immediately following, Honeywell House, 720 N. Wabash St., Wabash. 260.563.2326, honeywellhouse.org.

19 | Wednesday |

“Short Hikes for Short Legs: Frogs Are Calling, It Must Be Spring!”

Learn to identify the calls of local frogs. Boots recommended. Free admission, open to children 3‐5 accompanied by responsible adult. 9 a.m.‐10 a.m., Eagle Marsh barn, 6801 Engle Road, Fort Wayne. 260.478.2515, info@lrwp.org, lrwp.org.

19-23 | Wednesday ‐ Sunday |

Vera Bradley Annual Outlet Sale

Purchase Vera Bradley handbags, travel items, accessories, sta‐tionery, eyewear. 7:30 a.m.‐8:30 p.m. Wednesday through Friday ($5 admission), 8 a.m.‐8 p.m. Saturday and 10 a.m.‐5 p.m. Sunday (free admission). Parking $5 main lot, $8 preferred lot. 9 a.m.‐4 p.m., Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave., Fort Wayne.

20 | Thursday |

Peel Off Winter

Get rid of dark circles, red cheeks, acne scars and tired hands; remove pre‐cancerous cells and enjoy firmer, brighter skin. $50 deposit reserves appointment, RSVP required. 8:30 a.m.‐5 p.m., Aspire Plastic Surgery and Medical Spa, 7735 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 260.427.7473, aspireplasticsurgery.com.

20 | Thursday |

Dinosaur Zoo Live

Breathtaking interactive tour of pre‐historic Australia with life‐like dinosaur puppets presented in an entertaining and educational live theatrical performance. $19/$14/$9. 7 p.m., Honeywell Center, 275 W. Market St., Wabash. 260.563.1102, honeywellcenter.org.

20 | Thursday |

Fine Toys and Fun Art

Artist Kristy Church, owner of Black Squirrel Toy Store, will offer beauti‐ful play items and will display and discuss her paintings. 7 p.m., Honeywell House, 720 N. Wabash St., Wabash. 260.563.2326, honey‐wellhouse.org.

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| Friday | Girls' Night Out

Indiana Tech’s Women’s Leadership & Philanthropy Girls’ Night Out Event is an evening of fun, fashion, food, friends, entertainment, raffles and fundraising just for women! Proceeds benefit Indiana Tech students and programs. Free admission. 6:30 p.m.‐9 p.m., Academic Center Multi‐flex Theater, Indiana Tech Fort Wayne campus, 1600 E. Washington Blvd., Fort Wayne. 260.399.2847 or email LAZuber@IndianaTech.edu.

22 | Saturday | Artist Reception

“Norman Bradley and Friends” artist reception; art on exhibit through May 20. Free admission. 2 p.m.‐5 p.m., Crestwoods Frame Shop and Gallery, 314 N. Main St., Roanoke. 260.672.2080, crestwoodsgallery.com.

23 | Sunday | Vince Gill

An evening with singer, songwriter and multi‐instrumentalist Vince Gill. $79.50/$59.50/$49.50/$39.50. 7 p.m., 125 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 800.745.3000, fwembassytheatre.org.

28 | Friday | 16th Annual Tapestry: A Day For You

Featuring award‐winning journalist and photojournalist Ann Curry as keynote speaker. Proceeds go to the Tapestry Parkview Endowment and Scholarship Fund. $75 for open seat‐ing, $800 for a reserved table of 10. Parking $5 main lot, $8 preferred lot. 7:30 a.m.‐4 p.m., Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave., Fort Wayne. 260.482.9502, memorialcoliseum.com.

28 | Friday |

Aspire Booth at Tapestry

Skin care experts perform live demonstrations of OxyLight by Sapphire 3, a new oxygen facial machine providing the benefits of laser with no downtime. $75 for open seating. Parking $5 main lot, $8 pre‐ferred lot. 9 a.m.‐4 p.m., Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave., Fort Wayne. 260.427.7473, aspireplasticsurgery.com.

30 | Sunday |

Earth Day Fort Wayne

Family‐friendly community event celebrating Earth Day 2017, including conservation‐oriented learning activ‐ities, education stations, farmers market, more. Free admission, open to children 3‐5 accompanied by responsible adult. 9 a.m.‐10 a.m., Eagle Marsh barn, 6801 Engle Road, Fort Wayne. 260.478.2515, info@lrwp.org, lrwp.org. a

Would you like to submit an event to be considered for glo’s To-Do List? Our deadline is the 6th of the month prior to publication. E-mail us your event 40 words or less to: rbalogh@thepapers.com.Please type ‘To-Do List’ in the subject line. Or you may mail info to glo, P.O. Box 188, Milford, IN 46542.

Events:

Schedule an appointment with DeKalb Health Imaging for Women in the month of May for a special PINK gift: 260.333.7710, DeKalbHealth.com Weekend and evening appointments are available.

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Easter Because You Really Don’t like Buying Gifts Easter

But Easter! Oh, as a child, sure, I liked a little egg hunt here, a chocolate bunny there, but it hasn’t been until adulthood that Easter has replaced Christmas as my favorite holiday. Why? If you’re the kind of gal who loves the smell of pine needles but doesn’t mind finding them impaled in your carpet well into March, you may not understand how I could choose pastels over red, green, gold and silver. Let me break it down for you.

When you prepare for Easter, you don’t need to drag one of nature’s least indoor-compatible offerings into your living room and bedeck it with lights and tinsel. You don’t have to exchange all of your regular plates for ones with reindeer on them. You don’t need to break out specialty hand towels, brass bells to hang from doorknobs, or highly flammable, oversized socks to dangle over your 100 percent flame-making fireplace. Fine, if you have a cute wreath with little yellow chicks on it or a gauzy pastel ribbon, feel free to put it on your front door. But not only do you not have to also drape your bushes in electric lights or get up on your roof to line the eaves with evergreen garland—those things are downright unacceptable at Easter!

No, Easter has your best interests at heart. The only thing you have to do is dye a few eggs and, worst-case scenario here, have one too many egg salad sandwiches later. You might have to hide plastic eggs around your house if you have kids, and, hey, if you don’t manage to find them all, well, who cares? It’s not like realizing on Christmas Eve that you forgot to buy a gift for your second cousin who’s coming to dinner or that someone misplaced the new iPad you were going to give your teenager.

By Nicole Leigh Shaw

As a kid I was all about Christmas. I’m a Christian, even, so I was into the Jesus storyline; who doesn’t love a little baby?

But, if we are being honest, my general excitement was over the fat man with the sack of gifts. Fast-forward a decade (okay, or three decades) and I’m less enamored of that pudgy, overgrown elf. Because, now that I foot the Santa bill, secular Christmas has lost a bit of its charm.

To be honest, I don’t really like buying gifts. I bet you don’t either. It’s okay, it will be our little secret. The ideal gift is a special, personal item for each loved one on your list; the reality, however, is Starbucks gift cards because you’re not even sure if your nephew’s name is Ryder or Rider.

But Easter has no such demands on our gift-giving capacity. Easter people only need to be awed by a few staggering miracles, for instance, the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, then sit back and enjoy a nice ham. The only other expectation is that a long-eared rodent will deliver jelly beans and hide some eggs in the yard. And, unlike Christmas, it’s totally okay to buy yourself your own chocolate bunny.

Easter affirms what we all know to be true: chocolate makes life tolerable. a

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