November 27 - December 3, 2014
VOL. 63, No. 47
Men who care
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Memphis honors ‘strong brother’ Marion Barry on Nov. 28th
Caregivers’ dedication merits attention, awards by Brittney Gathen
Special to The New Tri-State Defender
November is National Family Caregivers Month, which focuses on the challenges family caregivers face. The theme – “Care Comes Home” – zeroes in on home caregiving, shining a light on the toll on caregivers. Although studies show that approximately 66 percent of caregivers are women, men are increasingly taking on the role. That fact factored into the decision that prompted Caregivers Respite, a local organization that helps caregivers take better care of themselves and their loved ones, to honor Reed Hayslett and Bryan Morton. During the ninth annual Caregiver’s Rest Conference held Nov. 11 at The Church Health Center, Hayslett and Morton each won the Caregivers Respite Caregiver of the Year Award. “It felt good to receive the award and (for) them to recognize me, but I don’t feel like a reward was necessary because maybe I was raised in that type of environment where if certain things were needed in your family, you just did it,” said Haysett, who cares for his brother, T.W. Hayslett, who has diabetes, is in a wheelchair and has a defibrillator in his heart. Hayslett’s exposure to caregiving includes having attended a caregiver support group to support his wife as she cared for her mother. He now finds it rewarding to contribute to his brother’s well being, even though he has to do some things without the aid of equipment. Hayslett’s brother appreciates his dedication. “A lot of brothers wouldn’t do that,” he said. “You have families now that are kind of split.” Morton, who works at HealthSouth Rehabilitation Hospital, cares for his wife and stepdaughter, who both have chronic conditions. He has worked things out with his work schedule and is quick to acknowledge the strong support system and spiritual life that he relies upon. “As long as my wife and daughter are healthy, that’s my reward – to see that I’ll be there for them,” said Morton, who also was a caregiver for his now deceased first wife, who had Multiple Sclerosis and underwent two surgeries. He looks at caregiving as a normal job, adding that he tries to be strong and motivational for his family. Morton’s wife, Davida Morton, whose health challenges include lupus, admires his dedication and nominated him for the award. She spoke of his dedicated care of her and her daughter, who has fibromyalgia. “He’ll catch a ride, he’ll walk to wherever we are, he’ll catch the trolley to make sure he gets to us, to make sure we’re OK, and that we have medical treatment,” Davida Morton said. “When I’m in pain, unlike in the last marriage, he understands me and my daughter’s conditions.” Bryan Morton also cooks and makes sure that his wife and her daughter get their medications filled, get to the doctor and get their rest. “He’s very motivational. On many days when I don’t feel so well, he always has something positive to say to me and my daughter,” Morton said. “He’s pushing us to live beyond whatever conditions that we’re dealing with.” Janice Williams founded Caregivers Respite in 2010. She started the conference out of her experience of caring for her father. “It made me realize all the things that they (caregivers) go through, SEE CARE ON PAGE 3
Reed Hayslett (left) and Bryan Morton, selected to receive the Caregivers Respite Caregiver of the Year Award, with Janice Williams, who founded Caregivers Respite in 2010.
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Memorial service set for Monumental Baptist Church by Tony Jones
Special to The New Tri-State Defender
With their 50th Anniversary benefit gala looming, the Bar-Kay’s Larry Dodson and James Alexander were deep into rehearsal on Wednesday at Club Hughes in North Memphis. (Photo: Warren Roseborough)
The Bar-Kays at 50 Event of the year celebration Dec. 4th
by Tony Jones
Special to The New Tri-State Defender
Of all the musical icons and careers built in Memphis, no one – and no group – has embodied the history of this city and its African-American population like the Bar-Kays, who will be celebrating their 50th Anniversary with a huge benefit gala at the Cannon Center on Dec. 4th. Just as the Grizzlies’ “Grit and Grind” now captures our modern groove, the Bar-Kays were our home team when it seemed like we would never have anything to cheer for collectively. As it was with their first sellout of the old Mid-South Coliseum decades ago, expect an emotional moment that no Memphis music fan should miss, if at all possible, when founding member James Alexander and lead singer Larry Dodson take the stage to close out the performance at the anniversary show. More than 15 industry peers are scheduled for the salute, including George Clinton and a reunion of
the United We Funk All Stars, which includes the S.O.S. Band, ConFunkShun and The Dazz Band. The event has been structured under the Bar-Kays Foundation to benefit their “Fab Five” community service organizations: Down Syndrome Association of Memphis, United Way of the Mid-South, St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Stax Music Academy, and the Allen Jones/Marjorie Barringer/Bar-Kays Scholarship Fund. The fatigue of seemingly a million details connected with the upcoming gala was masked well by Dodson during a recent conversation with The New Tri State Defender. “This is not your normal day on the ranch, but it’s going well. Ticket sales are good, and being involved with the five charities has kept us very busy, but it’s very rewarding. The media has supported us very well,” said Dodson. “We’ve never seen Memphis respond like this. From the mayor’s office to the governor’s office to the congressman’s office, it’s unbelievable how everyone
has come on board to help make this happen. We’ve been through so much. We’ve seen so much. And to still be healthy and performing and to still be relevant after all these years. James and I have just been very humbled by all of this. I’m just…grateful.” ‘We chose to go forward’ The Bar-Kays’ first big hit record, “Soul Finger,” reflected the masterstroke of producer David Porter pulling in kids off the street to shout on the record. Later, our hearts sank when we heard the news that several of the original members of the group had died in a plane crash with Stax superstar Otis Redding. The flame was relit when the documentary film “WattStax” not only showed our boys were rebuilt and strong, but from the way they tore up the stage, about to burn it up again. It was here that the Bar-Kays whose music we came to know and love were introduced. The performance SEE BAR-KAYS ON PAGE 2
‘If I don’t he will kill me’ Ferguson, Mo. officer gives his account of Michael Brown’s death by Stephen A. Crockett Jr. The Root
For the first time since the Aug. 9 shooting pushed the name Darren Wilson into the national conscious, America got to hear the Ferguson police officer who fatally shot unarmed teen Michael Brown speak. From a secret location and only a day after a St. Louis grand jury decided not to charge the 28-yearold officer, Wilson told ABC News’ George Stephanopoulos that he was in fear for his life when he encountered the teen. He noted that he was sorry for the family’s loss but added that he would not do anything different. “He threw the first punch,” Wilson said. Wilson described Brown as being the instigator from the time he approached the teen. He claimed that after asking Brown and his friend to walk on the sidewalk the teen cussed him causing Wilson to confront Brown. He claims that he tried to get out of the car and Brown slammed the door on him and then punched him in the face. A tussle ensued inside the car. “I pulled my gun and said ‘Get back or I’m going to shoot you.’ He grabbed the gun and said, ‘your too much of a pussy to shoot me.’” He noted that he squeezed the trigger three times before a shot went off inside the car. He claims that Brown became angry; that his intensity grew and after hearing the loud shot he didn’t leave the officer but came back in to attack him again. “I wasn’t looking at him. I just like racked it (loaded the gun) excepting another hit and I put my gun up and
ABC’s George Stephanopoulos spoke with officer Darren Wilson about the events that left unarmed teen Michael Brown fatally shot on a Ferguson, Mo. street on Aug. 9th. (Photo: Twitter) fired.” Wilson says he then exited the vehicle. Stephanopoulos asked why “My job isn’t to just sit and wait. I have to see where this guy goes. Wilson told Stephanopoulos that he had never used his gun prior to his encounter with Brown. He claimed that he chased Brown and that Brown stopped running, turned and faced him. Stephanopoulos asked why. Wilson claimed that Brown’s right hand moved toward his waistband and that his left hand was balled tight into a fist. “He starts charging me,” Wilson said. Stephanopoulos noted that eyewitnesses have claimed that Brown turned with his hands in the air. See additional Ferguson stories on Page 6
“That would be incorrect,” Wilson said. “No way.” Wilson told Stephanopoulos that Brown started charging toward him. He claims that before he pulled the trigger he gave himself a mental check. “Legally, can I shoot this guy? And the answer I gave myself was ‘I have too. If I don’t he will kill me.” Wilson said he has no regrets from that Aug. 9 shooting and that he would not have done anything differently, even if Michael Brown had been white. He said that he and his new wife – Wilson got married a week ago – just want to have a normal life. Asked if this was going to be something that haunted him, Wilson was quick to correct the verbiage. “I don’t think it is a haunting…It is always going to be something that happened.”
Marion S. Barry Jr.’s legacy of contributions and his deep Memphis-area roots will be saluted during a special memorial service at Monumental Baptist Church on Friday. Former Memphis Mayor Dr. Willie W. Herenton will give the eulogy at the memorial gathering for Barry, who died at United Medical Center in Southeast Washington on Saturday. He had been released from Howard University a few hours before he passed. He was 78. The service, which is set for 5 p.m. to 7 p.m., is being hosted by the Memphis Rainbow PUSH Coalition. Referred to as DC’s “Mayor For Life,” Barry, who was elected mayor four times, helped form the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee (SNCC) and still was serving as a City Council member when he died. Taped smoking Marion Barry crack cocaine in (Getty Images) a hotel room in the early ’90’s, Barry was castigated and publicly ridiculed. He served six months in prison following the incident, overcoming to be reelected to the council for several terms. For many familiar with the accomplishments he achieved during his lifetime, his legacy of contributions cannot be wiped out by his high-profile downfall. The Rev. L. LaSimba Gray, head of the local Rainbow Push Coalition, said the memorial rightly is being held to salute Barry’s lifetime of activism on behalf of the AfricanAmerican community. Gray’s thoughts are repeated time and time again by those who knew him personally, and in news outlets totaling his many accomplishments as a leader for African-American progress. The Washington Post noted that he “plowed hundreds of millions of tax dollars into job training and employment programs, senior centers and social-welfare endeavors. Rankand-file workers were hired by the thousands to serve under Mr. Barry’s newly-appointed supervisory corps of African American middle and top level managers.” It was in his capacity as DC’s mayor that Barry is credited as a success in creating real black power. On her station’s hourlong tribute to Barry, TV One’s Cathy Hughes said, “There was no middle class until he came here and worked to create it.” On the same show, Omar Tyree, the writer who helped Barry pen his recently released biography. “Mayor For Life,” said, “It was revolutionary just to be around him.” According to several compatriots from his youth and professional life, the author’s statement is no exaggeration. Dr. Herenton felt the news personally. SEE BARRY ON PAGE 3
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