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MOVING TO THE FRONT LINES

Archdiocese trains priests for Covid duty

By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Kate Zon had blunt words for the 24 priests who attended a COVID-19 chaplain’s training on April 17.

“This is not a time to die nobly; it’s a time to live humbly,” said Zon, with the Johnson County Pastoral Region chaplain services.

“This is now a time to be as careful as you can that you don’t infect [your household] and you don’t infect yourself,” she continued. “There’s no such thing nowadays as charging in and saying, ‘I’ll be safe.’

“No, you won’t be safe. Put on your gear. Be smart. Be careful.”

In just the last two months, priests have come to face tremendous challenges in their ministry to the sick and dying.

To prevent the spread of coronavirus, hospitals and other facilities have severely restricted access, and have instituted changes to both personal protective equipment and accepted practices.

Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann called for the training after more than 20 of the archdiocese’s younger priests volunteered to be available to administer the sacrament of the anointing of the sick specifically to those infected with COVID-19. Their willingness makes it possible to cut down on the exposure of older priests and those with underlying health conditions to the virus.

Archbishop Naumann explained his plan in a recent column in The Leaven.

“I hope to designate one priest to serve as a COVID-19 chaplain for each medical center,” he wrote in his April 24 column. “I also want to designate priests to be COVID-19 chaplains for particular regions in the archdiocese.”

The training was an important step in that process.

Zon demonstrated, among other things, how to put on and take off “personal protective equipment” — gown, gloves and mask.

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Father Dan Weger, associate pastor of St. Michael the Archangel Parish in Leawood, recently completed COVID-19 chaplain training. He was one of more than 20 younger archdiocesan priests who volunteered to serve in this capacity, and was trained in an online meeting in April.

s restrictions are lifted across the state, churches throughout the archdiocese are examining the possibility of following suit. Archbishop Naumann spells out what will and will not be possible in the days ahead in his column on page 2, and urges patience.

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Archbishop calls for patience, cooperation in the days ahead

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have been edified by how the people of the archdiocese have responded to the challenges of the COVID19 crisis. Many of our parishioners work in the medical field as doctors, nurses, administrators, therapists, technicians, aides, social workers and chaplains.

They have been on the front lines, caring for the sick and their families with great tenderness and expertise.

In particular, I am grateful to Michael Luchi, MD, Associate Professor Infectious Disease at KU Medical School; Stephen Waller, MD, Associate Professor Infectious Disease at KU Medical School; Dana Hawkinson, MD, Associate Professor Infectious Disease at KU Medical School; Paul Camarata, MD, Professor and Chairman of Neurosurgery at KU Medical School; and Jeff Colyer, MD, plastic surgeon and former Kansas governor.

They have served as members of an archdiocesan COVID-19 medical advisory committee providing counsel on safely reopening churches, celebrating Mass and administering holy Communion.

These doctors have been incredibly generous in sharing their time and expertise. I refer to them as the Fabulous Five!

I have a similar admiration for the staff and volunteers of Catholic Charities, who are also on the front lines assisting the families of COVID-19 patients as well as the economic casualties — those who have lost jobs and income because of the public health measures implemented to combat this menacing virus.

Our Catholic school presidents, principals and faculty have adapted in

LIFE WILL BE VICTORIOUS ARCHBISHOP JOSEPH F. NAUMANN lightning speed to distance learning methods.

Even though our school buildings have been physically closed, they have continued to provide quality educational opportunities for their students.

Our youth ministry team has also developed creative ways to inspire and engage young people in their ongoing faith formation.

Our directors of religious education and parish catechists have persevered in assisting parents with the religious education of their children, especially those preparing for the reception of sacraments.

Our priests have been amazing in serving their parishioners and the wider community.

More than 20 of our priests volunteered and received special training to be COVID-19 chaplains, helping the church to do everything possible to provide the sacraments and pastoral care to those most severely impacted by the virus.

Our pastors have been heroic in their efforts to provide spiritual nourishment to their parishioners, finding ways to keep their parish families in touch via phone calls,

as well as the use of technology.

Our convocation planning team has energized and equipped convocation delegates to help pastors with personal outreach to parishioners.

Lay leaders have labored to keep parish communities connected during this time of physical isolation. They have been particularly attentive to the needs of the elderly, especially those who live alone.

I am personally in debt to our archdiocesan technology team for making it possible to livestream Sunday and daily Masses, as well as other prayer events, such as a Divine Mercy Holy Hour, the reconsecration of our archdiocese to Jesus through Mary, livestream eucharistic adoration with high school students, etc.

They have opened up new pastoral horizons for me through the effective use of 21st-century technological tools.

In light of Gov. Laura Kelly’s most recent executive order, I have decided to approve the resumption of public celebrations of Mass, but only with the observance of several prudent safety measures.

First of all, I ask parishes to observe the public health regulations of your local county. The opportunity for participating in the Eucharist

I REQUEST THAT YOU SEEK TO PARTICIPATE IN MASS ONLY IN THE PARISH WHERE YOU ARE REGISTERED. . . . CHECK WITH YOUR PARISH TO INQUIRE HOW YOU CAN SCHEDULE A TIME TO PARTICIPATE IN MASS.” will vary according to county policies.

Pastors will need the cooperation, patience and understanding of all parishioners as they reopen churches and resume public celebrations of the Eucharist while faithfully adhering to the liturgical safety protocols I have promulgated this week.

At the same time, I am encouraging pastors to strive to provide the opportunity for the greatest number of parishioners to participate in Mass and to receive holy Communion.

With significant variations in the number of parishioners, the size of the church buildings and county regulations, each pastor in consultation with lay leaders will develop a system that works best for their community.

Every Catholic in the archdiocese continues to be dispensed from the obligation to attend Sunday Mass. I request that you seek to participate in Mass only in the parish where you are registered. Please do not parish hop. Instead, check with your parish to inquire how you can schedule a time to participate in Mass.

Out of respect for the well-being of fellow parishioners, please do not attend Mass if you are exhibiting any COVID-19

symptoms. I encourage elderly parishioners and those with compromising health conditions not to attend Mass.

While we are instituting practices to prevent the spread of the COVID19 virus, it is impossible to eliminate all risks. For those who choose not to attend Mass at this time, I have encouraged pastors to continue to livestream Mass.

I will continue to livestream 8:30 a.m. daily Mass from my chapel, and the 10 a.m.

Sunday Mass will be livestreamed from the Cathedral of St. Peter.

I am grateful to government and public health officials for all that they have done to protect the health and life of vulnerable Americans from COVID-19.

They have been called to lead our country, state and communities at an incredibly difficult moment. They deserve our prayers and encouragement.

It is understandable that those who are not Catholic do not understand the importance we place upon the Eucharist.

I have communicated to government leaders the Catholic community’s commitment to work for the common good and to help protect the health of all citizens.

I have shared with them the protocols

we have developed, in consultation with medical experts, to minimize the health risks for those attending Mass and receiving holy Communion.

I have challenged them to recognize there is no more risk for an individual to attend Mass and receive holy Communion than to go through the fast food restaurant drive-thru lane or the checkout process at a grocery store.

It was disappointing that many in government and public health positions considered the practice of religion as less essential than the ability to go to a pet or liquor store. Some have exaggerated concerns regarding the health risks from participation in religious activities.

This makes it even more imperative for every Catholic to observe religiously the precautions and safety measures requested by me and your pastor. Neglect to observe prudent precautions by any parish or individual could result in greater restrictions on faith communities in general, and the Catholic Church in particular.

One provision in our protocols for Mass that likely will win widespread approval is the request to limit the time for the celebration of Sunday Mass to 45 minutes. This will curtail the length of homilies. Some may see this as a way in which God is drawing forth good from the evil of the pandemic!

Thank you in advance for your cooperation. Let us remain vigilant in our efforts to protect those most vulnerable.

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Jim Wolfe, a member of First United Methodist Church of Leavenworth, unloads food prepared by fellow members just outside the Leavenworth Interfaith Community of Hope homeless shelter April 29.

Director Sister Vickie Perkins, SCL, meanwhile, prepares to take the meals inside, where 13 individuals have had to shelter 24/7 after the statewide “stay at home” order was issued by Gov. Laura Kelly.

Opening shelter 24/7 has ‘made all the difference’

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EAVENWORTH — “I’ve never bought cigarettes in my life,” admits Sister Vickie Perkins, SCL, director of the Leavenworth Interfaith Community

of Hope.

“And now I’m a pro at it,” she said.

Sister Vickie’s newfound expertise proves just how far she will go to care for those in her charge — 13 individuals who have “stayed at home” at the Interfaith Community of Hope these last six weeks.

The building, which is usually open from 7 a.m. to 3 p.m. as a day shelter and from 9 p.m. to 7 a.m. as a night shelter for those with no place to sleep, has been operating 24/7 since the “stay at home” order was issued by Gov. Laura Kelly.

“They stay the entire time,” said Sister Vickie. “If they leave, they can’t come back.”

It has presented the operation with some new challenges, for sure. But she doesn’t regret a moment of it.

“All 13 of them are safe,” she said, “so it’s worth it!”

To help make the whole thing work, Sister Vickie said, the shelter is providing its residents all three meals a day, instead of the regular two when under normal operations.

Everyone is allowed limited time out-

“IN THE ONSET OF THIS INCIDENT, IT BECAME APPARENT THAT WE HAD TO DEAL WITH ALL OUR VERY VULNERABLE POPULATIONS, AND THE HOMELESS WERE IDENTIFIED AT THE GET-GO.” side, including smoking time, a chance for fresh air for 15 minutes every hour and 30 minutes for a daily walk.

The decision to keep the shelter open 24/7 was made with the help and guidance of the Leavenworth County Health Department and Leavenworth County Emergency Management.

“In the onset of this incident, it became apparent that we had to deal with all our very vulnerable populations,” said Kim Buchanan, Emergency Management deputy director, “and the homeless were identified at the get-go.

“We decided the best plan was to go ahead and see if Sister Vickie and her crew could accommodate a 24/7 operation, and we would make sure that they had all the things they needed.”

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“For a month and a half now, she has been doing a wonderful job at doing just that,” added Buchanan. “It has made all the difference in the world.”

Sister Vickie said it wouldn’t have been possible without the support of the community. Several area churches and Leavenworth residents have continued to volunteer for their regular night shifts throughout the week, and many have provided food for dinner by cooking in their homes or ordering food from local restaurants.

“That helps that restaurant and then, obviously, feeds the hungry,” said Sister Vickie.

The First United Methodist Church of Leavenworth has provided meals twice a week on Wednesdays and Saturdays in lieu of the normal community meals.

“We have four to five people cooking meals from home or church and taking them up to the shelter,” said Jim Walley, FUMC’s shelter coordinator. “I think the guests are one of the safest populations in the community because they are not intermingling with the local population except for volunteers that come in and the staff. The only way they’re going to get [COVID-19] is if one of us brings it in to them.”

Ruth Kenton, First Christian Church shelter coordinator, said helping Sister Vickie and those in the shelter is even more important now.

“It is an important thing for the

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How you can help To volunteer for a shift, donate food for dinner meals, donate money or donate other supplies, such as cleaning products, call Sister Vickie at (913) 530-4535.

churches to get together and do,” Kenton said. “It is so amazing the cooperation between the different denominations and stuff in town.”

“I just hope [the people who are homeless] can continue to stay there and stay well until people can get out once again,” she added.

Sister Vickie said the outpouring of support has only confirmed what she already knew.

“Leavenworth is one of the most generous towns I’ve ever been part of.

We’ve had people even give us part of their stimulus check or just send us money,” said Sister Vickie. “People have really responded because they know there is a need for people who don’t have options.

“Leavenworth does that,” she concluded. “I have found that here since the day I moved in, and they really do work hard to try to respond to the people that are in need.”

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Small-town grocery store rolls with the changes during pandemic

By Todd Habiger todd.habiger@theleaven.org

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ENECA — At first glance, it may seem like a typical spring day at Ray’s Apple Market here. Customers move about the store, shopping for groceries and other necessities.

But it’s on closer inspection that one notices the little differences: people in protective masks, new sneeze guards at the checkout and hand sanitizer — lots of hand sanitizer — throughout the store. This is the year of coronavirus and things have changed.

Ray’s Apple Market is, in many ways, a vital hub in Seneca. The next nearest grocery store is 30 minutes away. For this small-town store, keeping products stocked throughout the pandemic helps keep its community safe.

People don’t have to leave town to seek items elsewhere.

But it’s not been easy.

Donna Miller, grocery manager at Ray’s and parishioner at Sts. Peter and Paul Parish in Seneca, said the pandemic has limited what items are available and how many items the store can get.

As a result, Ray’s has had to prioritize what products are the most vital and what they can do with less of.

The pandemic has caused the store to get creative, Miller said.

“What we did is look at other sources to obtain the stuff we needed here in the store,” she said. “We have done that quite a bit and not just relied on our warehouse in Kansas City.”

Miller said that Ray’s corporate headquarters has helped them identify other vendors to help keep the store stocked. Initially, the store was low on the usual items: toilet paper, hand sanitizer and bread.

As a result, the store had to put limits on how many of those items customers could buy.

Terry Nordhus, pricing coordinator at Ray’s and also a member of Sts. Peter and Paul, said that keeping customers

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Above, Ray’s Apple Market in Seneca serves as a vital hub for the people of the town and surrounding areas. As such, the store has had to navigate the coronavirus pandemic carefully to ensure that its shelves are stocked and customers are safe. feeling safe has been a top priority for the store.

“We sanitize almost hourly,” she said. “We have hand sanitizer at the check stand. We have masks for the people if they want to wear them. We have sneeze guards at the check stand now.”

Nordhus said that she’s noticed people have changed their buying habits just a little.

“I would say people are buying more at this time because they don’t know what will happen next,” she said. “They are stocking up a little more than they usually do.”

As an “essential business,” Ray’s has stayed open even as “stay at home” orders closed other businesses statewide.

So far, there has been only one confirmed case of coronavirus in Nemaha County, where Seneca lies. So, Miller and Nordhus don’t need to worry much about their own safety.

“In this community, most people are taking all the precautions that they

possibly can,” Miller said. “For the most part, I think we have all adapted pretty well.”

“I don’t worry about my health,” said Nordhus. “There are about six of us here where the biggest thing we have going against us is our age.

“But we still come to work every day.”

While the two women’s professional lives have required adjustments, so, too, have their faith lives.

With no Sunday Mass, they have relied on livestreams from the church to sustain them.

“Our church here in Seneca has done a fantastic job in doing that and making sure that we have services that are broadcast to our local TV,” said Miller. “We have lectors, servers, musicians — you couldn’t ask for a better group.”

The parish, led by pastor Father Arul Carasala, offers livestreamed Masses daily. In an effort to keep the children of the parish engaged, he held a coloring contest of the Divine Mercy

and posted the children’s photos on the parish Facebook page.

Nordhus, who is an organist for the parish, praised Father Carasala for his efforts even as she finds the Masses a surreal experience when she’s there playing the organ.

“It’s very weird, because you look downstairs and there is no one there,” Nordhus said. “Father [Carasala] says the prayers and there are just a few of us there to answer the prayers.”

For Miller, the coronavirus pandemic has only served to strengthen her faith and her relationship with God. “When we go through a crisis like this, this is the time that we need to lean on the church and on God,” she said. “I have people ask me on a daily basis, ‘How are you doing, how are you handling all of this?’

“I just tell them that I thank God every day that I have my health, I have my job and I have my family.”

KU Med School student volunteers for COVID-19 call line

By Moira Cullings moira.cullings@theleaven.org

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Joy Fesen never expected to face a pandemic in the midst of her third year of medical school.

But the University of Kansas School of Medicine student is making the most of the situation, volunteering four to eight hours each week at a COVID-19 call center.

“It’s a new pandemic, so there aren’t a lot of resources in place,” said Fesen, who hails from Hutchinson, and now attends Guardian Angels Parish in Kansas City, Missouri. “People aren’t necessarily sure of where to turn.”

Fesen will graduate from medical school next May. Because the last two years of the program are centered around clinical rotations, she was in the middle of an internal medicine clerkship when the pandemic hit.

Since then, she’s had to transition her duties to an online platform but continues to work with patients virtually.

“The residents and the attending [physicians] are still seeing patients, so they take us around with an iPad,” said Fesen. “We do the same kind of process, just from our homes.

“It is very different,” she added, “but

University of Kansas School of Medicine student Joy Fesen is making the most of the pandemic, volunteering each week at a COVID-19 call center. [the hospitals are] trying to streamline everything as best they can.”

Fesen isn’t dwelling on her own struggles. She decided to dedicate her spare time to working on the COVID19 call line at the clinic where she has

volunteered in the past.

While there, Fesen takes calls from people who have concerns over, questions about or symptoms of COVID-19.

“If there’s a worry that the caller or whoever the person is calling for has COVID, then we can assess their symptoms and exposures and other background health data to schedule them for a test if necessary,” said Fesen.

She also takes calls from health care providers who call to schedule a patient for a COVID-19 test.

The work has been both disheartening and gratifying.

“Your heart goes out to the people who are calling in with only information that they’ve heard from the media,” said Fesen. “They have some symptom and, whether or not they do have coronavirus, they’re immediately concerned about the repercussions of their symptoms.

“On the other hand, there’s hope [knowing] people are willing to sacrifice their time [to help].”

In Fesen’s eyes, the pandemic has caused uncertainty, but it’s also showcased the best of humanity.

“This whole process is overwhelming and kind of feels like it’s out of our control,” she said. “But what I’ve seen so much of during this pandemic is individuals making a sacrifice for a neigh-

bor or colleague or often complete strangers so that other person can have a bit of respite.

“Maybe it’s a tiny act of love, like working a few hours at a call line, or something bigger, like working on the front lines,” she continued. “It’s those things I’ve seen instill hope.”

Fesen grew up Catholic and has leaned on her faith during this difficult time.

“I think that what I’ve learned from Catholicism in general is that when we’re confronted with challenges, the best tactic to take is to face it with love,” she said.

“It sounds so simple,” she added, “but now, and throughout the history of the church, that method has been so successful, and I think it stands as an example for me and for those of other faiths and backgrounds.

“Personally, I’m very inspired by Pope Francis, who chooses to unite in situations like this and other global events and bring people together with acts of love. I think that’s the best way to go about it.”

The pandemic has made Fesen even more certain of her choice to pursue a medical career.

“I’m definitely more motivated to continue the process after seeing what a pandemic can do,” she said.

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VIRTUALLY THERE

Priests meet parishioners the only place they can — online

By Moira Cullings moira.cullings@theleaven.org

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — During the Great Depression and throughout World War II, President Franklin D. Roosevelt (FDR) addressed the United States over the radio.

What became known as his “fireside chats” were designed to connect with the American people in a direct way and to give them hope during a bleak and uncertain time.

It’s fitting, then, that Father Kent O’Connor and Father Nicholas Ashmore of Good Shepherd Parish in Shawnee are using the same title for their daily livestream program during the coronavirus pandemic.

“The name came about because this [room] seems like the best place to film, and it happens to be in front of the fire,” said Father O’Connor.

“And I think it’s the same idea that FDR had of being there with the people in a time of crisis,” he added.

During their daily “fireside chat,” the priests talk casually then address a church topic in “an attempt on our part to keep the communication open between us and the parish,” said Father Ashmore.

It’s one of many ways that priests in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas are reaching out to their flock virtually.

Sweet spirituality Msgr. Michael Mullen, senior associate pastor at St. Joseph Parish in Shawnee, had never been on Facebook before the pandemic.

But Father Scott Wallisch, the parish’s pastor, encouraged him not only to create a personal Facebook account, but also to utilize the parish’s Facebook page to connect with parishioners.

Starting in March, Msgr. Mullen began addressing viewers on Facebook Live each weekday at 12:30 p.m. for a segment called “Holy Dessert.”

For weeks, he discussed how people can apply Catholic virtues to daily life in a series inspired by Cardinal Timothy Dolan. Now, Msgr. Mullen uses “Holy Dessert” to talk about the mysteries of the rosary, and throughout the program he takes questions from viewers on a variety of church topics.

He is also using his personal Facebook page to post his daily and weekend homilies.

Msgr. Mullen’s Facebook experience “has been very positive,” he said. “I’ve received some really interesting questions [from viewers].”

It’s also helped the priest reach 40-50 people on average who watch his programs live, and hundreds more after the videos are published.

“This is nourishing them,” said Msgr. Mullen. “We’ll see how it goes, but I certainly would be open to continuing it when we get back to church and people can come to Sunday Mass.

“I think we’ve found a niche here in this and in some other things we’re doing, too, that are worth continuing.”

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Father Kent O’Connor and Father Nicholas Ashmore of Good Shepherd Parish in Shawnee sit down for one of their “fireside chats,” a daily livestream program the two have been hosting during the pandemic.

Msgr. Michael Mullen, senior associate pastor at St. Joseph Parish in Shawnee, has taken his talents to Facebook during the coronavirus pandemic. The popular priest hosts a Facebook segment called “Holy Dessert.”

Creating light in the darkness Father Justin Hamilton, associate pastor at St. Joseph Parish in Shawnee and chaplain of Bishop Miege High School in Roeland Park, created a livestream called “Light Up the Night” to care for his flock.

One night after Father Hamilton and Father Wallisch finished a livestream Holy Hour, Father Wallisch mentioned how sad it was that the votive candles in the church were not lit.

“We both stopped and noticed how much we missed the gleam of light emanating from the votive candles, which symbolize the prayers of God’s people and the sacrifices they make before God for their intentions,” said Father Hamilton.

The young priest suggested lighting the candles over livestream, and Father Wallisch thought it was a great idea.

Since then, they’ve encouraged people to send in prayer intentions, and they typically receive 30 to 120 each week.

The priests hold a weekly prayer service on the parish’s Facebook page, where they light a candle and pray for each intention.

“Sharing your prayer intentions with someone is an act of trust and vulnerability,” said Father Hamilton, “and it is humbling to have my parishioners

entrust their hearts to me in this way.

“The first time we did this event, I found myself surprised by how meaningful it was to me just to know what was going on in their hearts and lives and being able to better understand their struggles and joys.”

Father Hamilton is also mulling over what his parishioners’ openness to this experience might mean.

“I think people feel more invited, more welcomed and less intimidated by these opportunities to connect with a church than by perhaps going in person to a Bible study at their church,” he said.

A welcoming atmosphere Father Ashmore and Father O’Connor created their daily “fireside chats” as “a straight response to the pandemic,” said Father O’Connor.

The Good Shepherd pastor watched a webinar before public Masses were suspended and walked away knowing that if parishioners didn’t feel connected to their parish during the time away

from church, they might never return.

“That’s when we really began to brainstorm what can we do to make sure that people know that we’re still here for them,” he said.

The segment has allowed the priests’ personalities to shine through in a way many parishioners might not have experienced otherwise.

“We hear from parishioners all the time that one of the things they love about fireside chat is they’re getting to know us more on a personal level,” said Father Ashmore.

The priests are thankful for the instant connectivity the internet provides.

“We know that one of the most important parts of this whole process is making sure that people still feel connected to our community,” said Father Ashmore. “This is our attempt to keep that daily connection.”

You can find all of the offerings mentioned above on the parishes’ Facebook pages. And be sure to check out other opportunities by searching online for parishes across the archdiocese.

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‘On hold’ to becoming Catholic

By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Ashley Wilson was looking forward to reaching two major milestones in her life this spring — graduating from Topeka West High School and becoming Catholic at the Easter Vigil on April 11.

She joyfully indicated her intention to enter the church during a Rite of Election held on March 1 at Christ the King Parish in Topeka.

“It was pretty exciting,” said Wilson, a member of Mother Teresa of Calcutta Parish in Topeka. “They brought all of [the catechumens and candidates] in town to church. Our parish [group] ended [up] sitting front and center right next to the archbishop, and I was the first one who got to write my name in the book.”

But just 16 days later, Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann announced that all public celebrations of the Mass were canceled. About 450 people who planned on becoming Catholic at the Easter Vigil found their lives placed on hold.

“I found out from my mom,” said Wilson. “And it was the same day they also announced that school was not going on. So, it was a very emotional day.

“I wouldn’t have a graduation, and I wouldn’t be able to enter the church. I would have to wait longer for something so special to me.”

On March 25, this directive was sent to pastors from the archbishop: “For those who would have been initiated at the Easter Vigil, Archbishop Naumann gives pastors permission to celebrate these rites, as soon as possible and convenient, once government restrictions have expired and the archbishop has directed that public liturgical celebrations should resume. These rites should take place at a Sunday Mass.”

As the state of Kansas gradually lifts restrictions, so, too, can the archdiocese.

Even so, churches will be restricted in terms of the number of people they can safely accommodate because of re-

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The 2019 Easter Vigil welcomed hundreds of new Catholics into the church. Because of the COVID-19 pandemic, those who were set to enter the church this year have had to put those plans on hold. quired social distancing.

So far, no pastors have announced dates when catechumens and candidates can enter the church.

“The catechumens and candidates remain in the hearts and minds of their formators and parish communities and have been encouraged to persevere in prayer and closeness to the Lord along with the rest of the church,” said Michael Podrebarac, archdiocesan consultant for liturgy and sacramental life.

Although there are provisions for pastors to bring people into the church who are in danger of death, Podrebarac is not aware of something like this happening this year in the archdiocese.

Directors of the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults at archdiocesan parishes are doing various things to help catechumens and candidates during

this uncertain period, said Mary Lambrechts, RCIA director of Sacred Heart of Jesus Parish in Shawnee and Church of the Nativity in Leawood.

Lambrechts and about seven other Johnson County RCIA directors and coordinators have held videoconferences since Easter to share information and ideas about how they can help the people waiting to become Catholics.

“Some directors are offering specific content, such as videos to watch outside of class, recorded presentations or [videoconference] meetings,” she said.

The directors are sending weekly emails with prayers, tips and suggestions on practical spirituality and exercises in praying with Scripture.

“I’m doing virtual meetings with both parishes and breakouts for small group interactions,” said Lambrechts. “We

have some interaction with sponsors each week in smaller groups.

“It’s better than nothing,” she continued, “but it’s definitely not the same.

There is so much interaction that takes place before Mass, during breaks and after class.”

Richard Marsh, who was also going to enter the church at Easter Vigil, is aware that, even when public Masses resume, there will be social distancing and limits on attendees.

“I’m very excited about [becoming Catholic],” said Marsh, a member of Mother Teresa of Calcutta Parish in Topeka. “It’s disappointing a little bit that you can’t get together with the people you care about, but everybody’s going through that.

“It’s just something you have to live with at this point.”

Training was simple, but effective, say priests

and working in an infectious environment.

One of the priests who participated in the online training was Father Carter Zielinski, associate pastor of Christ the King Parish and Hayden High School chaplain in Topeka.

“For me, [volunteering] was never a question,” he said. “If I’m needed for this pastoral service, it’s something I’ll do. It’s how a lot of our priests saw it, especially those of good health who are able to do so.

“We volunteer to serve, especially when dealing with those [who are] near death or are especially in need of the sacraments.”

Father Dan Weger, associate pastor of St. Michael the Archangel Parish in Leawood, recognizes the risks but is still willing to take them.

“As a younger person with a strong immune system and typically someone who gets over things pretty well, it’s something I’d be willing to take a risk for,” he said.

The training gave him confidence that if he followed correct procedures,

there would be no transmission of the virus.

“The real benefit was talking to the doctors who are currently in the hospitals . . . [about what] they’re doing and what they do when they go home,” said Father Weger, “how they are making sure they are not bringing things from the hospital back home.

“It was probably my greatest concern. I said I’d be willing to live at the hospital if that was what was needed.”

Father Adam Wilczak, pastor of Divine Mercy Parish in Gardner, did not participate in the videoconference training. He and Father Andrew Strobl, pastor of St. John Paul II Parish in Olathe, underwent training at Olathe Medical Center.

“Of the priests who cover Olathe Medical Center normally, we’re the only two who live by ourselves,” he said. “So, in the event we contract the disease, we wouldn’t pass it on to any other priest.”

He found the training to be very effective.

“It went very well,” said Father Wilczak. “It was simple and to the point.

We were fitted with masks. They had a

test with a mister . . . to make sure we had the right mask.”

“They showed us the procedure to purify our masks with ultraviolet light so we could continue to use the mask and save our resources,” he continued. “They showed us where the PPE equipment was and how to put it on and take it off.”

Father Wilczak has a beard, so he trimmed it so the mask would fit securely.

“They mentioned [my beard] as a possible concern, but when I went through the test . . . [and] I couldn’t taste or smell what they were spraying . . . they said that I was fine,” he said.

Father Anthony Ouellette, pastor of Holy Name of Jesus Parish in Kansas City, Kansas, also wears a beard. He’d prefer to keep it, but will shave if he has to.

He understands, he said, how Catholics might have concerns about access to the sacraments during a health crisis.

What are sometimes referred to as “the last rites” are the sacraments of confession, the anointing of the sick and holy Communion.

“If you’re living your faith and you’re

doing that well, you should regularly receive the sacrament of confession,” said Father Ouellette. “You can speak to your priest about . . . receiving the sacrament of the anointing of the sick [due to age or illness], and you should be receiving Communion.”

If one is sick, his advice is that the parishioner or a family member call the priest to come to the home to administer the sacraments before the parishioner goes to the hospital.

This is much easier for both the priest and the parishioner, he said.

Many people believe, incorrectly, that they are not meant to call for an anointing until the patient is near death.

“People push it off,” said Father Ouellette, “believing if they allow the priest to do these rites, then they’ve given up on the person they love.

“Because of that, they wait until the last moment to invite the priest to administer these sacraments, which hinders the person’s ability to make a confession or receive Communion.”

“We need to change that mentality,” he concluded. “It’s very important that we don’t wait until the last moment.”

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LOCAL NEWS

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Unbound on the ground to provide COVID-19 relief

By Jill Ragar Esfeld jill.esfeld@theleaven.org

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Almost 40 years ago, when the Catholic founders of Unbound here embarked on a plan to unite the world through a sponsorship program, they had no idea they were laying the groundwork to cope with a global pandemic.

But they were.

Now that the devastation of COVID19 is gripping the world, Unbound is making a difference to the most vulnerable in its path.

“Of course, our mission is to walk with the poor and marginalized,” said Melissa Velazquez, international program director. “The elderly are one of our most significantly marginalized populations in the world.”

Unbound, unlike other sponsorship programs, includes the elderly in its mission.

“And we’re seeing the virus has a greater impact on them,” said Velazquez.

In each area where Unbound operates, participants are organized into community groups consisting of parents and guardians of sponsored children or sponsored elderly.

These groups meet often and are extremely supportive of one another.

Shelter-in-place orders have ended the meetings, but not the support.

“They’ve already established that network,” said Velazquez. “They’re able to check in on one another and make sure everyone is doing OK.” Unique to Unbound, staff members supervising these communities and running local programs are from the area. Some were even sponsored themselves by Unbound as children.

“In a situation like this,” said Andrew Kling, director of community outreach and media relations, “a lot of nonprofits and government agencies had to bring [staff] back to the United States.

“Our folks are on the ground in the midst of it. When they have to shelter in place, they’re in the communities.

“It’s a massive advantage.”

Staff members may not be able to physically do home visits, but they stay connected through community group leaders.

“Sometimes our elders don’t have a cellphone,” said Velazquez. “But that mother leader from the community group who lives two doors down does,

PHOTO COURTESY OF UNBOUND

Teodoro Umbac Sr. is an elderly streetsweeper from the Philippines. Unbound helps the elderly all over the world to make sure they don’t fall through the cracks of society. and she’s able to check in.”

Leaders are connecting with program coordinators, who in turn report to Unbound that people are well and benefits are being received.

In Ecuador, one of the hardest hit regions for the pandemic, the overwhelmed system is unable to keep up with people needing help, especially the elderly who are often isolated.

But those sponsored through Unbound are not falling through the cracks.

“We just got a report from our coordinator there,” said Velazquez. “And she was able to talk about who had been checked on and how everyone was doing.

“Each of these elders is known by name. They’re counted, they’re cared for. It’s huge.”

In many areas, parent groups are doing grocery runs on behalf of the elders in their communities.

“In Peru and Columbia,” said Kling, “if the families are running into difficulties or low on supplies, they will hang a flag outside their home to let neighbors

know they need help.”

As Unbound communities around the world are caring for each other, the sponsors and their sponsored friends are reaching across the miles to offer support.

Every week, thousands of letters are exchanged between sponsors and the elders and children they help.

“It’s really been beautiful,” said Kling. “Sponsors are stepping up and asking after their sponsored friends.

And sponsored families have been calling us and asking, ‘How is my sponsor doing?’”

Even though they feel the stress of living through a pandemic, the Unbound connection is helping people cope.

“Having someone across the world thinking of you, praying for you, caring for you is a very powerful motivator,” said Velazquez. “It can lift us out of anxiety and fear.”

Velazquez is proud to be part of an organization that’s making such a difference in these difficult times.

Become a sponsor now It is very easy to feel isolated during the pandemic, but there is something you can do. Change the world from your kitchen table by sponsoring a child or an elderly person and becoming their friend through correspondence.

Unbound is one of the highestranked nonprofits by Consumer Reports, with 93% of expenses going toward program support.

Now is a perfect time to write to a sponsored friend. If you don’t have one, get one. Visit the website at: Unbound.org and find out who is waiting to hear from you.

“It’s an opportunity for me to care about what God cares about,” she said.

“And I believe he passionately cares about the poor and the marginalized and working toward justice in our world.”

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Support local food drives

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ocal neighborhoods, parishes and communities are coming together to safely collect food for those in need during the COVID-19 crisis.

These food drives are conducted with mandatory social distancing.

The following parishes will be holding food drives: • St. Michael the Archangel, 14201 Nall Ave., Leawood, May 9, from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m.

• Curé of Ars Parish, Leawood, May 10, from 1 to 4 p.m. in the parking lot of Country Club Bank, 9400 Mission Rd., Leawood.

• Holy Spirit Parish, 11300 W. 103rd St., Overland Park, May 12 and 13, from 9 a.m. to 7 p.m.

• Church of the Nativity, 800 W. 119th St., Leawood, May 16, from 9 a.m. to noon, and May 17, from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m.

• St. Ann Parish, 7230 Mission Rd., Prairie Village, May 17, from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m.

For an updated list of food drives go online to: catholiccharitiesks.org/upcoming-communityfood-drives.

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As was communicated in the June 22, 2018, edition of The Leaven, Father Larry Bowers requested and was granted a leave of absence from active ministry for the purpose of discernment. Since that time, Father Bowers formally petitioned the Holy See to return him to the lay state (laicization) and dispense him from his rights and obligations arising from being ordained. The Holy Father granted Larry Bowers his request, which became effective April 9, 2020.

As was communicated in the Aug. 31, 2018, edition of The Leaven, Father Daniel Schmitz requested and was granted a leave of absence from active ministry for the purpose of discernment. Since that time, Father Schmitz formally petitioned the Holy See to return him to the lay state (laicization) and dispense him from his rights and obligations arising from being ordained. The Holy Father granted Daniel Schmitz his request, which became effective April 11, 2020.

HEAD OVER HEALS

Young Lutheran boy falls in love with the Catholic Church Personally speaking

By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — When a boy tells his parents he wants to be a Catholic priest when he grows up, the usual reaction is not something like, “When hell freezes over.”

But that’s what happened to Deacon Travis Wade Mecum when he was 11 years old. He was so impressed with Father Ultan Murphy, pastor of St. Ann Parish in Olmitz, that he wanted to be just like him.

His parents’ harsh reaction makes sense when one takes into account that, at the time, the Mecums were Lutheran.

The old saying “God writes straight with crooked lines” was never so true as in the story of how Deacon Mecum, a Lutheran boy, followed a path that led to a Catholic altar.

He grew up in Olmitz, a town of slightly more than 100 people in Barton County.

His parents are Gary and Clara Mecum, and they went to Trinity Lutheran Church (Evangelical Lutheran Church in America).

“When I was growing up, my dad was mayor and a deputy sheriff,” said Deacon Mecum. “[Ours was] the only family in town that was not Catholic. When I was 10 . . . they brought in Father Murphy, from Ireland.

“Because my dad was mayor, we were expected to attend the installation Mass.

And that was my first exposure to the Catholic liturgy — the smells and bells, and the reverence — and I fell head over heels in love.”

It so happened that the school bus stop was at St. Ann Church and, every morning and afternoon, he would cut through the rectory garden going to and from the bus. There, he would often meet Father Murphy, and they developed a strong friendship.

“Through his example and through our conversations, you could say he began my formation as a Catholic when I was age 10,” said Deacon Mecum. “By the time I was age 11, seeing how he responded to things going on in our small community and life in general, I knew I wanted to be just like Father Murphy.”

After his parents put the kibosh on that idea, Deacon Mecum reluctantly settled on being Lutheran, and maybe a minister, although he would occasionally sneak

PHOTO COURTESY OF DEACON TRAVIS MECUM

Deacon Travis Mecum signs the Oath of Fidelity and Profession of Faith as Father Brian Kiely, rector of Pope St. John XXIII National Seminary in Weston, Massachusetts, looks on. over to the Catholic church to catch a Saturday evening Mass.

Still, that idea of serving God and people in ministry wouldn’t go away. His family began attending a Lutheran church in Great Bend.

“At the age of 15, I went to my [Lutheran] bishop,” said Deacon Mecum, “and I told him I wanted to go to [the] seminary and become a pastor.

“He looked me in the eye and he said, ‘Travis, you haven’t even experienced life yet. You’re 15. My advice to you is to go out and do everything you can possibly think of first, and if you still feel called, maybe it’s meant to be.’

“I was really disappointed.”

Deacon Mecum graduated from Otis High School in 1987. He and his family moved to Overland Park. He continued his education at various institutions while he also worked for an engineering firm, a real estate company and various firms and hospitals doing “sleep medicine” for people with sleep disorders.

“When I turned 25, I approached my pastor and told him I wanted to go to

[the] seminary,” said Deacon Mecum. “He looked at me and asked, ‘Do you have a degree in Hebrew and Greek?’ I said no.

“He said, ‘They won’t even look at you, so why don’t you focus on being Jesus with skin on him. You can reach a lot more people without a collar.’

“So, I was rejected twice.

It was really disheartening.”

Deacon Mecum spend a few years “church hopping,” but wasn’t satisfied.

Then one day during dinner, he told his mother of his deepest longing to become a Catholic priest, and she gave him her blessing.

Next, he went to see then-archdiocesan vocations director Father Mitchel Zimmerman.

At that first meeting, Father Zimmerman leaned back in his chair, threw his pen on his desk and said, “Let me see if I’ve got this straight. You’re a Protestant, and you want to become a Catholic priest?”

Yes, said Deacon Mecum.

“I just don’t get you Protestants!” said Father Zimmerman.

He gave Deacon Mecum a list of requirements — beginning with actually

becoming Catholic. The Catholic wannabe entered the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults program and became a Catholic in 2013. Then, he fervently threw himself into the life of St. Ann Parish in Prairie Village.

He began to influence others around him to revert or convert to the Catholic faith, including his mother in 2014, and his father in 2015.

The archdiocese sent Deacon Mecum to St. John XXIII National Seminary in Massachusetts, which specializes in “later in life” vocations. He began his formation in 2015.

“The moment I walked in, I felt a warm embrace by the Holy Spirit,” said Deacon Mecum. “I felt like ‘I’m home, this is where I need to be.’”

He was ordained a deacon by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann on May 18, 2019, at Holy Spirit Parish in Overland Park.

Now, Deacon Mecum will be ordained a priest

by Archbishop Naumann at 10:30 a.m. on May 23 at the Cathedral of St. Peter in Kansas City, Kansas.

Because of restrictions due

Name: Deacon Travis Wade Mecum Age: 51 Hometown: Olmitz Parents: Gary and Clara Mecum Siblings: Julie, Tammy, Ellie, Vic Home parish: St. Ann, Prairie Village Higher education: • Bethany College, Lindsborg; studied vocal performance 1987-1988 • Johnson County Community College, Overland Park; music education 1990-1993 • Kansas City Kansas Community College, Kansas City, Kansas; certification as a Certified Nursing Assistant 2003 • MidAmerica Nazarene University, Olathe; Associate of Arts in applied organizational leadership, May 2015 • Pope John XXIII National Seminary, Weston, Massachusetts; Master of Divinity, 2020 Best binge-worthy movie or TV series discovered during lockdown: “Midsomer Murders” New skill learned during lockdown: Zoom conferencing My most notable encounter with the famous/infamous: Within my first 30 days of seminary life, I got to go to Washington, D.C., for the canonization of St. Junipero Serra, and was in the upper church of the National Basilica when Pope Francis entered and gave us his blessing before the Mass.

Favorite devotion: Chaplet of Divine Mercy Favorite saint and why: St. Augustine, because he came to his vocation later in life, and the way he expresses himself inspires me. I feel as though he is a kindred spirit.

Food you missed most during lockdown: Guinness Irish Beef Stew Food you learned to make for yourself during lockdown: Braised short ribs Favorite childhood toy: Trains Worst job you’ve ever had: Working for National Video Best job you’ve ever had: Working in health care Hobbies/leisure pursuits: Reading, writing, casual astronomy, photography Guilty pleasure: I like to take long road trips.

My hidden talent/party trick: I know a pretty cool card trick!

In the movie about my life, I would hope to be played by: Anthony Hopkins Best advice I’ve received seeking my vocation: It sounds counterintuitive, but when I was 15 and told my Lutheran bishop I wanted to enter the ministry, he told me that I should gain some life experience first. “Try everything else that you can possibly think of. . . . Then, if you still feel called, it is meant to be.” The experiences I have gained in my life have prepared me well for the ministry, as I can relate to the situation of life much easier.

to the COVID-19 pandemic, people are invited to view the liturgy livestream via the archdiocesan website at: archkck.org.

HE WANTED MORE

‘I went to every discernment retreat . . . I could find’

By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

Personally speaking

ANSAS CITY, Kan. — There are perhaps only two things in common about the vocational journeys of men who become priests.

The first is that they are each mysterious.

The second is that they are each individual.

For example, in a family where all the children undergo the same experiences of formation and faith life, vocational “lightning” may only strike one. Why only that one? It’s a mystery.

Such is the case of Deacon Anthony Mersmann.

He is one of nine children of Walt and Martha Mersmann. The family faithfully attended Holy Family Parish in Eudora. When the children were little, they prayed family rosaries every morning before school and went to morning Mass Tuesdays and Thursdays until the older children gradually grew up and left home.

Deacon Mersmann and his two brothers would serve Mass — the older brothers with reluctance, but young Anthony with eagerness. He loved the Mass and praying the rosary.

“That foundation of prayer [provided by my parents] was definitely the most important factor in my vocation,” said Deacon Mersmann.

The personal arc of his life was bending toward the priesthood, but he didn’t know that until he went to the archdiocesan summer camp, Camp Tekakwitha, and met a young seminarian named Jared Cheek.

“I knew very fundamentally that God had the best plan for me, so I wanted to find out what that plan was,” he said. “My conscious pursuit of finding out what that plan was, the priesthood, started the summer before fifth grade at Camp Tekakwitha when I had Jared Cheek for my very first counselor.

“He told me I would make a good priest, and it was the coolest thing I ever heard,” he said. “To this day, it remains the coolest thing I ever heard.”

There weren’t a lot of opportunities for religious activities at his small-town parish. There was parish religious education and a youth group begun by his older sister Molly when her family moved back to Eudora.

But he wanted more.

Name: Deacon Anthony Mersmann Age: 26 Hometown: Eudora Parents: Walt and Martha Mersmann Siblings: Molly Pratt, Ruth Finnegan, Therese Vink, Maureen Mersmann, Michael Mersmann, Charles Mersmann, Marian Mersmann-Joshi, Claire Mersmann Home parish: Holy Family, Eudora Higher education: • Cardinal Glennon College, St. Louis; Bachelor of Arts in philosophy, 2015 • Kenrick School of Theology, St. Louis; Master of Divinity and Sacred Theology Bachelor degree, 2020 Best binge-worthy movie or TV series discovered during lockdown: I ended up watching less TV and movies during lockdown than I normally do, surprisingly enough.

New skill learned during lockdown: I got a taste of what it’s like leading and providing for a group of 12 seminarians, and that has meant a new and profound appreciation for my own parents and all parents of large families.

My most notable encounter with the famous/infamous: I met a couple of cardinals, I have been a few yards from Pope Benedict and Pope Francis, and I saw Ben Rector perform live.

Favorite devotion: Our Lady of Sorrows and Stations of the Cross Favorite saint and why: St. Norbert. I discovered I was actually baptized on June 6, which happens to be the Feast of St. Norbert.

Food you missed most during lockdown: Zen Zero (Thai restaurant in Lawrence) Food you learned to make for yourself during lockdown: I made a roux for the first time without looking at any directions. My first attempt included way too much flour, but take two was a success.

Favorite childhood toy: Lincoln Logs, Legos and Hot Wheels Worst job you’ve ever had: Intramural referee at Kansas State University Best job you’ve ever had: Using my dad’s little pickup and push mower to mow some of my relatives’ yards Hobbies/leisure pursuits: Casual activities and work outdoors. Everything from Frisbee or bean bag toss, to mowing the grass or power washing a patio.

I also really enjoy reading biographies and autobiographies of saints.

My hidden talent/party trick: Most people are surprised I can do amateur-level sewing. Does that count?

In the movie about my life, I would hope to be played by: Kevin James, but I would want him to be a little more serious, in addition to all the levity he has in his normal roles.

Best advice I’ve received seeking my vocation: Jared Cheek told me I would make a great priest the summer before I entered fifth grade. It’s not advice, strictly speaking, but it’s the one phrase that started all of my discernment.

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PHOTO COURTESY OF DEACON ANTHONY MERSMANN

Deacon Anthony Mersmann stands with Cheryl and Coulter Schwartze, parishioners of Incarnate Word Parish in Chesterfield, Missouri, where the deacon had a weekend assignment this past academic year.

“I went to every discernment retreat, any retreat at all I could find,” he said.

“I went looking online on the archdiocesan website for Kairos, Encounter with God’s Call, Project Andrew.

“Literally anything I could find from middle school on, I was going to. In my small town and small parish, besides CCD and the youth group, there wasn’t anything else.”

Once he was old enough to drive, he’d go to eucharistic adoration chapels at Johnson County parishes.

His discernment for the priesthood began after he came home from camp that first summer. He began exploring seminary and religious order websites, and watching videos about the seminary and the priesthood. He also discovered the archdiocesan vocations office.

“I remember calling Father Brian Schieber, vocations director, and wanting to know what I should do,” he said. “I was so young that it was hilarious. He sent me a CD to watch on the computer called ‘Make A Difference.’ I would watch that thing once a week, because that was all I had in addition to praying.”

Father Schieber was succeeded by Father Mitchel Zimmerman, and Deacon Mersmann began to pester him, too.

“Even though I was too young for some of the retreats . . . I bothered Father Mitchel so much that he let me go on [retreats] before most people do,” he said.

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“HE TOLD ME I WOULD MAKE A GOOD PRIEST, AND IT WAS THE COOLEST THING I EVER HEARD. TO THIS DAY IT REMAINS THE COOLEST THING I EVER HEARD.” Deacon Mersmann was interested in other things, too — mostly related to STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics). While in high school, he attended STEM camps at the University of Kansas. These were all great and fun, but God was definitely drawing him toward one thing: the priesthood.

“I always knew God was drawing me in that direction,” he said.

He wanted to go into the seminary after he graduated from high school in 2011. But Father Zimmerman asked him to study at a secular college or university for a year first. Deacon Mersmann said he’d go to Kansas State University — for one year only.

“You’ll hear back from me very soon about finishing my [seminary] application,” he told Father Zimmerman.

When he told his parents about his desire to enter the seminary, they weren’t surprised. But he was surprised by some things his mother told him. While he was growing up, four pastors told her “that youngest son had a vocation to the priesthood.”

And when she picked him up from Camp Tekakwitha, Cheek pulled her aside and said he thought little An-

thony had a vocation to the priesthood.

Why didn’t you tell me, he asked his mother.

I didn’t want to pressure you, she said.

And every year in the seminary has confirmed his choice.

“Every year was better than the one before, and year one was phenomenal,” said Deacon Mersmann.

His advice to a man seeking the priesthood is simple: Pray. Prayer is an actual conversation with the One who is calling you, he said.

Time dedicated to prayer is time dedicated to growing that relationship with God, getting to know God more intimately and hearing his voice more clearly.

He was ordained a deacon

by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann on May 18, 2019, at Holy Spirit Parish in Overland Park.

Now, Deacon Mersmann will be ordained a priest

by Archbishop Naumann at 10:30 a.m. on May 23 at the Cathedral of St. Peter in Kansas City, Kansas. Because of restrictions due to the COVID-19 pandemic, people are invited to view the liturgy livestream via the archdiocesan website at: archkck.org.

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FAMILY LIFE

How to flatten the pandemic stress curve in your home

By Deacon Tony Zimmerman Special to The Leaven

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o daily news briefing regarding the battle against the coronavirus would be complete without the graphic curve that portrays the rise or fall of newly reported cases. The goal is to flatten the curve and begin to see a decline in new cases.

A similar curve could be displayed to represent the ever-increasing levels of stress that each family experiencTOOLS FOR es, as more parts of FAMILIES daily life are disruptGrowing as ed by this illness.

Disciples of The stoppage of Jesus public celebrations of Mass, canceled proms and graduations, canceled sport seasons, job layoffs, postponed weddings, face masks and social distancing all leave many fearful and uneasy. There is a reported rise in calls for help to domestic violence hotlines.

You know the old adage: An idle mind is the devil’s workshop. An idle mind can easily be filled with fear that can overwhelm us. Here are suggestions to flatten the stress curve in your home. When the world seems in a free fall, structure helps put on the brake: • Start your day at 8:30 with daily Mass celebrated by Archbishop Naumann by going to the archdiocesan website at: archkck.org.

• Then have family prayer and

breakfast. Let each person (within reason!) choose the menu and help prepare it. Chocolate chip pancakes are a favorite.

• Have a list of chores to be completed. Sharing the work can be fun.

• Really limit time spent with television news and social media, which seems to focus entirely on the latest news regarding the pandemic. This increases our sense of gloom and stress.

• Remember, our children are very good at reading our moods. If we are constantly stressed out, the odds are they will be stressed out as well.

• Walks and games of catch (maintaining the safe distance and wearing a

mask) help relieve some stress.

• Daily family dinner is essential. It gives everyone a chance to check in on one another. Pray for family and friends.

• Buy a good book of family-friendly jokes and puns and share a laugh.

• Break the sense of isolation by reaching out to family and friends via Zoom or Skype.

• End each day by reading a section of the Gospel for the day and inviting all to share what they hear God saying.

• Hug and bless each person and assure them of God’s love and your love.

• Remember the words of St. John Paul II: Be not afraid. Jesus is there for each one of us, and we are here for each other.

A new mom gets a glimpse of a Father’s heart

By Connie Poulos Catholic News Service

Betty and Mark Hermesch, members of Sts. Peter and Paul Parish, Seneca, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary on May 2. The couple was married on May 2, 1979, at Sts. Peter and Paul. Due to the coronavirus, they plan to celebrate on May 1, 2021. Their children are: Kevin Hermesch and Bren Hermesch. They also have two granddaughters.

Carol and Melvin Romme, members of Church of the Ascension, Overland Park, will celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary on May 15 with a family dinner.

The couple was married on May 14, 1960, at St. Joseph Church, Hays. Their children are: Dale Romme, Sandra Rost and Tamara Ford. They also have seven grandchildren.

Galen and Betty Bergman, members of St. Mary Parish, St. Benedict, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on May 16.

The couple was married on May 16, 1970, at Sts. Peter and Paul Church, Seneca.

Their children are: Jenny Heiman and Greg Bergman. They also have four grandchildren.

Catholic Cemeteries cancels Memorial Day Masses

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he biggest adventure of our marriage began just a few weeks after our sixth anniversary. Fueled by faith, dreams and a photograph, we boarded a plane to Beijing to bring home a little boy we had never met. He needed a mama and baba, and, though we didn’t quite realize it yet, we needed him, too.

From the moment we decided to adopt, we understood that we did nothing to deserve this child. God was granting us an incredible gift — an invitation to love, sacrifice and give everything for this child of his. We are constantly in awe of this undeserved honor.

This perspective is what I am most grateful for as a new mom. It’s what pulls me through the most difficult days of parenting. It’s what gives meaning to the moments when I’m the one helping my little person deal with his big feelings.

It is a tremendous upheaval to leave the only home you’ve ever known to go to a foreign country with people who look strange and sound like they’re speaking gibberish. Our son has a happy disposition, but he was certainly grieving during his adjustment.

Along with my son’s grief and anxiety during his adjustment, I was also dealing with my own grief. My career, my spiritual life and my relationships had all changed so much that I couldn’t recognize myself.

I loved my son, yet ached for my former identity.

Luckily, I had a lot of support for my post-adoption depression, and I urge anyone feeling the same way to please reach out to someone. It’s much more common than you realize.

A few months after we arrived home, something wonderful happened. Our son climbed into my lap for the first time.

This little one that I love so much actually

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Adoption is a great gift granted by God — an invitation to love, sacrifice and give everything for this child. St. Paul writes in his letters that we are God’s children by adoption. wanted to sit with me!

A few months later, he took his first steps. Seven months home, he gave his mama a kiss for the first time, and I just about died of happiness. Our son is happy and thriving in his new home, and I am so grateful.

Every step, every milestone, no matter how small, is such a joy because I know what it took for my son to get there. Every smile and every hug are a gift, and I’m keenly aware of this since it did not come naturally at first.

Sometimes I think about what this must be like for God. As much as I rejoice inside each time my son wants to interact with me (something that did not come naturally for him), I think of how much more excited God must be when our hearts rise to him.

Each time parenting tests my patience, I’m reminded of how patient God is with us. And beyond that — the love I experience for my son, even when he

isn’t perfect, lets me marvel at how overwhelming God’s love must be for each of us.

St. Paul writes in his letters that we are the Father’s children by adoption. What does this mean for us? As a new parent by adoption, my mind has been fixed on this.

Adoption is intentional.

Out of love, God intentionally became one of us, suffered and died for us, even if we never choose to love him in return. To be a son or daughter by adoption means that we are so deeply, deeply loved, beyond what we could imagine.

My child is now in preschool, yet I’ve been a mother for less than a year. I constantly feel like I’m in way over my head, which is probably true. In fact, I’d guess this is the case for most parents.

But I also know that God brought us together, and he has only our best interests in mind. After all, he’s a parent by adoption, too.

KANSAS CITY, Kan. — Due to uncertainties related to the COVID-19 pandemic and to safeguard the health of individuals and families, Catholic Cemeteries of Northeast Kansas is canceling the Masses that would normally be celebrated at multiple locations on Memorial Day, May 25.

Memorial Day Masses are canceled at the following sites: • Mt. Calvary Cemetery, 15825 S. 169 Hwy., Olathe • St. John Cemetery, Lenexa, at Holy Trinity Church, 89th and Pflumm Rd., Lenexa • Gate of Heaven Cemetery, 126th and Parallel, Kansas City, Kansas • Mt. Calvary Cemetery, 38th and State Ave., Kansas City, Kansas • Resurrection Cemetery, 83rd and Quivira Rd., Lenexa • Mt. Calvary Cemetery, 1011 N. Desoto Road, Lansing • St. Joseph Cemetery, 61st Terr. and Quivira Rd., Shawnee • Mt. Calvary Cemetery, 801 S.W. Westchester Rd., Topeka Families and individuals can decorate graves and mausoleum areas in compliance with cemetery regulations and within hours posted at each location. All decorations (except those in cemeteryapproved vases) will be removed two weeks following Memorial Day in Johnson, Leavenworth and Wyandotte counties; one week in Topeka.

For more information, call (913) 371-4040 (Kansas City area); (785) 272-0820 (Topeka area); or (913) 727-1698 (Lansing/Leavenworth area); send an email to: information@cath cemks.org; or visit the website at: www.cath cemks.org.

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Leawood parish supports its own through pandemic closures

By Jan Dixon Special to The Leaven

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EAWOOD — Church of the Nativity here, like most parishes, relies on its business partners for financial and inkind donations throughout

the year.

In addition to monetary support, parishioner-owned businesses also provide items for auctions, prizes and food for special events.

Nativity’s very successful “Knights Under the Star” dinner and auction held in February is the parish’s largest fundraiser. The proceeds are used for scholarships, capital repairs and improvements across the parish campus.

The dinner portion of the evening, a “Taste of Nativity,” features food from seven parishioner-owned restaurants. “‘Taste of Nativity’ is unique to Nativity,” said Father Mike Hawken, pastor. “We are blessed to have parishioners who own some very popular restaurants that serve amazing food.”

Although a lot about living in coronavirus time is still unknown, one thing is for sure: Small businesses, especially restaurants, are being hit hard.

For YaYa’s Euro Bistro, one of Nativity’s many partners, takeout has become its lifeline.

“For the past 26 years, we have been primarily ‘dine-in,’” said Pat Khoury, a Nativity parishioner and president of PB&J Restaurants. “Due to the “stay at

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These restaurants have been past supporters of Church of the Nativity’s fundraiser, “Taste of Nativity.” All the restaurants are owned by Nativity parishioners: The Brass Onion; Garozzo’s; Cosentino’s Market; Hereford House; Pierpont’s; Fiorella’s Jack Stack Barbecue; Parisi Artisan Coffee; La Bodega; Red Door Woodfired Grill; YaYa’s Euro Bistro; and Burnt End BBQ.

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The food at “Taste of Nativity,” one of the Leawood parish’s biggest fundraisers, is donated by parishioner-owned restaurants. These restaurants were supported, in turn, by parishioners during closures due to the pandemic. home” order, we have done a complete 180 to be totally curbside carryout.”

Fiorella’s Jack Stack, another parish partner, has created a drive-thru and delivery setup at each location to help its business.

“The important thing to remember,” said Case Dorman, owner of Jack Stack, “is everybody in this industry is having to adjust and adapt to a lot of ongoing changes.”

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their biggest challenge is taking care of their teams and their patrons.

“All of our business partners truly care about people.” said Joyce Didde, Nativity parishioner and auction catering chairperson. “Even now, they continue to show their kindness by making food donations and keeping their focus on what matters most: helping others.”

And many Nativity parishioners now consider it their turn to repay the kindness of those who have given so

much in the past.

“Our parish family is happy to support these parishioner-owned businesses and their staff during this time,” said Kelly Samuelson, parish stewardship and school marketing coordinator for Church of the Nativity.

A complete list of these restaurants can be found in the parish bulletin and on the website. Word is also getting out through emails, social media and through parish ministry groups.

“I’ve had many people tell me that they are choosing one restaurant per week to pass around the support,” said Samuelson.

In these challenging times, the restaurant owners have found that every little bit helps.

And Church of the Nativity is doing its part.

“As these restaurants have been a blessing to us, we want to be a blessing for them,” said Father Hawken.

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Ethics panel’s work guides Catholics through complex decisions

By Marc and Julie Anderson mjanderson@theleaven.org

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ANSAS CITY — A document years in the making was recently released by the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas. It is called the “Catholic Guide for End of Life and Establishing Advance Directives.”

It’s aimed at helping Catholics navigate the maze of legal, medical and spiritual questions that might arise as part of the complex decisions that individuals face in times of serious illness or as death approaches.

Six years ago, in response to questions from the Catholic medical community, Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann formed the archdiocesan Ethics Advisory Council — a panel of medical doctors, psychologists, bioethicists, attorneys, priests and archdiocesan staff — with the purpose of advising him on ethical issues Catholics face in today’s world, particularly in health care.

At that time, a new document known as TPOPP was being circulated in the Kansas City metro area. Several Catholic doctors, nurses and priests, as well as pro-life groups, were concerned about the form’s structure and language, as well as the potential for Catholic sensibilities to be ignored in times of grave illness.

TPOPP, short for Transportable Physician Orders for Patient Preferences, is usually printed on a pink form and contains several sections in which people simply check off their wishes. For example, in a section about feeding and hydration, the expectation is people will check one of three boxes indicating whether they desire medically assisted feeding and hydration.

After completion, the form becomes “transportable” and “follows” a person — to a hospital, rehabilitation facility or nursing home. In fact, it functions like an advance directive or living will.

As chair of the council, Dr. Patrick Herrick, a board-certified family medicine specialist in Olathe, said the challenge with many secular forms such as TPOPP is that decisions surrounding illness and life’s end can be extremely complicated.

“There’s a lot that goes into end-oflife decisions. A lot of things can’t be anticipated,” he said. “How many of us would make a grocery list . . . years in advance? And this is a bigger issue.”

Vicar general Father Gary Pennings agreed.

“There’s a lot of confusion about forms. A lot of the secular forms that are used don’t necessarily respect Catholic sensitivities about end-of-life decisions,” he said.

In response, the council decided to produce a comprehensive guide for archdiocesan priests and laity as a resource for conversations about the complex issues surrounding serious illness and end of life.

“The ethics council members

To download and/or print a copy of the complete “Catholic Guide for End of Life and Establishing Advance Directives,” or to access individual forms to download or print, go to: archkck.org/prolife-end-of-life-care.

Hard copies are also available for purchase through the pro-life office.

Contact Debra Niesen, archdiocesan consultant for the pro-life office, at (913) 721-1570 or by email at: dniesen @archkck.org.

Watch for a video presentation on end-of-life issues to accompany the guide in the near future on the website above.

thought it would be good if there was a guide for parishioners, for Catholics, that was kind of adapted for our diocese,” said Father Pennings.

Drawing upon previously published guides, Father Pennings and Herrick said the council spent countless hours researching the work of other dioceses, statements made by the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, and documents published by the Vatican and organizations such as National Right to Life, the Catholic Medical Association and the National Catholic Bioethics Center.

The resulting document covers topics ranging from the elements of moral decision making and the value and dignity of human life to the question of suffering and the church’s teaching on nutrition and hydration. It also addresses euthanasia and assisted suicide.

Additionally, the guide discusses the different forms addressed in Kansas law, including the Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care (DPOA-HC), the Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) directive and the Declaration to Withhold or Withdraw Life-Sustaining Procedures. (The TPOPP form currently does not fall under any of the three

categories of directives enumerated in Kansas law.)

It also provides sample documents that align with church teaching that Catholics can copy or download for their own personal use.

Both Father Pennings and Herrick said it’s important to realize that thinking can change over time, and Herrick said he has both read of and seen in his practice people change their minds in the midst of serious illness.

Father Pennings agreed.

“The situation can change,” he said.

“Your thinking can change in the midst of illness.”

Because of this, Father Pennings said, the archdiocese tries to steer people away from living wills or checkthe-box-type forms. Instead, it identifies the DPOA-HC form as the preferred kind of advance directive.

“The archdiocese actually promotes having a Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care, someone that knows you, knows your religious faith and knows what your wants are, and then, they can make those decisions for you should you become incapacitated,” he said.

Although the guide provides sample forms, Father Pennings said the

archdiocese still advises Catholics to consult with their parish priest and an attorney who respects the Catholic faith prior to signing forms that will become legally binding.

In the vast majority of cases, said Herrick, nutrition and hydration should be provided, even if medically assisted. Undue interruption of them can result in euthanasia by omission.

Another topic the council discussed, Herrick said, was the subject of consciousness.

“The church has said that people should not be deprived of their consciousness [without a compelling reason],” Herrick noted.

According to church teaching, the dying should be able to satisfy moral duties such as receiving the sacraments and saying goodbye to their loved ones, he said. Medications used for the sole purpose of alleviating pain sometimes result in unintended side effects that leave patients semiconscious.

“If you’re really just trying to ease pain and there’s no alternative, it’s understandable,” he said.

But the dying have a right to the love of their family, he added.

Finally, a significant portion of the guide is dedicated to a discussion of Catholic funerals and burial information.

“One of the things that the pastoral members of the council were concerned about was they’ve seen instances where the faith mattered very much to someone who had died, and for one reason or another, it was not held in the same esteem by their family,” said Herrick.

“They had seen people get deprived sometimes even of the sacraments at the end of life and even a Catholic burial,” he added. “That’s definitely received some due attention in this new document.”

That’s why, Father Pennings emphasized, even in the midst of life, it is important to give some thought to preparing for death.

“That’s what our faith calls us to do,” he said, “because that’s how we enter eternal life.”

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COMMENTARY FIFTH WEEK OF EASTER May 10 FIFTH SUNDAY OF EASTER Acts 6: 1-7 Ps 33: 1-2, 4-5, 18-19 1 Pt 2: 4-9 Jn 14: 1-12 May 11 Monday Acts 14: 5-18 Ps 115: 1-4, 15-16 Jn 14: 21-26 May 12 Nereus and Achilleus, martyrs; Pancras, martyr Acts 14: 19-28 Ps 145: 10-13b, 21 Jn 14: 27-31a May 13 Our Lady of Fatima Acts 15: 1-6 Ps 122: 1-5 Jn 15: 1-8 May 14 MATTHIAS, APOSTLE Acts 1: 15-17, 20-26 Ps 113: 1-8 Jn 15: 9-17 May 15 Isidore Acts 15: 22-31 Ps 57: 8-12 Jn 15: 12-17 May 16 Saturday Acts 16: 1-10 Ps 100: 1b-2, 3, 5 Jn 15: 18-21

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thought I’d made it through the first round.

But I’d forgotten there’s one more, and it’s the hardest.

I’m talking about celebrating the holidays for the first time without a loved one physically present. In this case, it’s my mom. She died on June 4 of last year, age 101. I marked my birthday, Thanksgiving, Christmas and, finally, Mom’s birthday — which fell, providentially — on Easter Sunday this year.

Each of those days was good — thanks to family and friends — but just not the same, somehow emptier.

The holiday I’d forgotten is this Sunday, Mother’s Day, my first without her. Since stories can express deep truths, ponder this one: “Can I see my baby?” the happy new mother asked.

As she moved the fold of the cloth to look upon his tiny face, she gasped. The baby had been born without ears.

Time proved that the baby’s hearing was perfect. It was only his appearance that was marred. When he rushed

SIXTH WEEK OF EASTER May 17 SIXTH SUNDAY OF EASTER Acts 8: 5-8, 14-17 Ps 66: 1-7, 16, 20 1 Pt 3: 15-18 Jn 14: 15-21 May 18 John I, pope, martyr Acts 16: 11-15 Ps 149: 1b-6a, 9b Jn 15:26 – 16:4a May 19 Tuesday Acts 16: 22-34 Ps 138: 1-3, 7c-8 Jn 16: 5-11 May 20 Bernardine of Siena, priest Acts 17:15, 22 – 18:1 Ps 148: 1-2, 11-14 Jn 16: 12-15 May 21 Christopher Magallanes, priest, and companions, martyrs Acts 18: 1-8 Ps 98: 1-4 Jn 16: 16-20 May 22 Rita of Cascia, religious Acts 18: 9-18 Ps 47: 2-7 Jn 16: 20-23 May 23 Saturday Acts 18: 23-28 Ps 47: 2-3, 8-10 Jn 16: 23b-28

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FATHER MARK GOLDASICH Father Mark is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989.

home from school one day and flung himself into his mother’s arms, she sighed, knowing that his life was to be a succession of heartbreaks. He blurted out the tragedy, “A boy called me a freak.”

Eventually, the boy’s father met with the family physician to see if anything could be done. The doctor said, “I believe I could graft on a pair of outer ears, if they could be procured.”

After two long years, the father said, “You’re going to the hospital,

son! Your mother and I found someone to donate the ears you need. But it’s a secret!”

The operation was a huge success. The boy’s talents blossomed, and his school years became a series of triumphs.

Later, the boy married and entered into the diplomatic service.

Yet, he remained curious about the donor. “Who gave so much for me?” he asked. “I could never do enough for him.”

No matter how many times he asked, however, his parents insisted on keeping the secret.

One day, the mother died, and the son and his father looked into her casket at the funeral home. Slowly and tenderly, the father stretched out his hand and lifted the thick,

reddish-brown hair to reveal that the mother had no outer ears.

(Adapted from Meir Liraz’s “Top 100 Motivational Stories.”)

Liraz notes: “Real love lies not in what is done and known, but in what is done but not known.”

Well, my mom gave her ears to me — not physically and not once, but many times over the years. She listened to my cries as an infant, I’m sure, and soothed me; heard me wail over skinned knees and comforted me; patiently endured my endless questions and meandering stories; was always present to pay attention to my successes and heartaches.

And even later in life, when her hearing was not as acute, she could somehow always hear and understand me.

She loved getting a blessing on Mother’s Day. This year, when many may be physically separated from their moms, say this prayer — source unknown — for them.

“God our Creator, we pray: For new mothers, coming to terms with

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new responsibilities; For expectant mothers, wondering and waiting; For those who are tired, stressed or depressed; For those struggling to balance the tasks of work and family; For those unable to feed their children, due to poverty; For those whose children have physical, mental or emotional issues; For those with children they do not want; For those raising children on their own; For those who have lost a child; For those caring for children of others; For those whose children have left home; And for those whose desire to be a mother has not been fulfilled.

Bless these moms, that their love may be deep and tender, so they may lead their children to know and do what is good — living not for themselves alone, but for God and others.

Amen.”

Hey, Mom, I know you’re still listening: I love you and miss you.

Deacons remind us that Jesus came to serve

efore the Second Vatican Council, seminarians were often ordained deacons shortly before ordination to the priesthood, sometimes only a few days beforehand.

In some cases, if it were longer, their time as a deacon might be viewed as an internship getting them ready for priesthood.

We still have transitional deacons who are preparing for priesthood.

Besides them, though, we also now have permanent deacons. They can be married, as long as they were already married before ordination to the diaconate.

So, what do these deacons do?

Sunday’s first reading, Acts 6:1-7, can shed some light on this question.

IN THE BEGINNING

FATHER MIKE STUBBS Father Stubbs is the pastor of Holy Cross Parish in Overland Park and has a degree in Scripture from Harvard University.

Some of the Christians in the city of Jerusalem complain to the apostles. Since the city of Jerusalem was destroyed in the year 70, this happened early

on in the history of the church. At the time, some of the Christians were Jewish and spoke Aramaic, while others spoke Greek and perhaps were Gentile in origin.

The Greek-speakers complain that their widows were being neglected in the distribution of food. In response, the apostles designate seven men to address this issue. They are the

POPE FRANCIS Pope Francis began his early morning Mass praying that people would be prudent and obedient as governments begin lifting restrictions imposed to stop the coronavirus pandemic.

And, in his homily at the Mass April 28, he prayed that people would be prudent in their judgment of others, refraining from gossip and not believing lies and “fake news” about entire categories of people.

“At this time, when we are beginning to receive

first deacons.

Once chosen, these men are brought to the apostles, “who prayed and laid hands on them.”

This is the rite of ordination. We consider it part of the sacrament of holy orders.

The two other orders belonging to that sacrament are the priesthood and the episcopate (the office of bishop). All three rites of ordination involve the laying on of hands. This gesture derived from the Jewish tradition at the time, to represent the passing on of authority.

The English word “deacon” derives from the Greek word for “servant.” In other words, deacons are meant to be devoted to serving others.

In our times, that service may involve something other than

the distribution of food.

For example, some deacons may provide ministry to those in jails and prisons. Others may go into the hospitals and nursing homes. Deacons also play a role in the liturgy.

They may proclaim the Gospel reading and preach at Mass. They may administer the sacrament of baptism and preside at weddings outside of Mass and graveside services.

In any case, our deacons can set an example for the whole church as to how we should serve others.

They can remind us of how Jesus identified himself as one “who came, not to be served, but to serve.”

They can point to that essential dimension of every Christian: to be a servant.

instructions for coming out of quarantine, we pray that the Lord would give his people — all of us — the grace of prudence and obedience to the instructions so that the pandemic does not return,” he said at the beginning of the Mass in the chapel of the Domus Sanctae Marthae.

The pope’s comments came two days after the Italian bishops expressed concern that the Italian government’s plan for easing the pandemic lockdown in stages through June 1 had not made provision for the resumption of public Masses. The prime minister promised to study the issue to see if there were ways to do so safely.

— CNS

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Coronavirus: It’s not nice to mess with Mother Nature

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he Catholic Church teaches that nature is good, she acts for a purpose; and when we disrespect this natural order, we do so at our peril.

We are living in an age that makes us painfully aware that our technical power is far outpacing our ethical power. If we are not careful, we can destroy much of the Earth and so kill ourselves.

In principle, we see this playing out in global climate change, which threatens to devastate the planet’s ecosystem.

However, you don’t have to agree with manmade climate change to see the damage our unfettered domination

DO UNTO OTHERS

BILL SCHOLL Bill Scholl is the archdiocesan consultant for social justice. You can email him at: socialjustice@ archkck.org.

attitude toward nature is doing.

We learned recently that zoonoses, a virus

jumping from wild animals into humans, caused the coronavirus pandemic. This contagion happened because humans disrupted wild habitats previously untouched and introduced the zoonotic pathogen into our population.

As Pope Francis prophetically said in his

“urbi et orbi” address on April 3: “We ignored a world that had gotten sick, thinking we would never get sick ourselves.”

Exploiting nature for selfish, short-sighted gain often has some terrible, unintended consequences. It’s not nice to mess with Mother Nature, and it is only a matter of time before she starts messing back.

Tragically, this plague is not the product of happenstance but, rather, reckless consumption.

“We invade tropical forests and other wild landscapes, which harbor so many species of animals and plants — and within those creatures, so many unknown viruses,” as David Quammen, author

of “Spillover: Animal Infections and the Next Pandemic,” writes.

Quammen recently wrote in the New York Times: “We cut the trees; we kill the animals or cage them and send them to markets. We disrupt ecosystems, and we shake viruses loose from their natural hosts.

When that happens, they need a new host.

Often, we are it.”

At his Wednesday address that coincided with Earth Day, Pope Francis enjoined us to stop ruining the work of God and sinning against the Earth.

He recalled a Spanish proverb — “God always forgives, man sometimes forgives, but nature never forgives” — and said, “If

we have deteriorated the Earth, the response will be very ugly.”

We are seeing that ugliness now. As sons and daughters of the Resurrection, we know by faith that God can bring good out of evil.

Just as God took the ugliest thing, Christ murdered on the cross, and turned it to the best thing — Christ resurrected — he can bring good out of this tragedy, but only if we repent.

Will we listen to what God and Mother Nature are telling us? Will we get better at caring for the global common good by refraining from irresponsible consumption?

Behold him and her, whom we have pierced, and repent.

Share our dream to enflame our homes with the joy of the Gospel If I were to pick an image that best sums up what our world and lives resemble since the COVID-19 virus came crashing into our lives, it would be a neighborhood that has been devastated by a tornado.

The questions that image brings to mind are where do we start to rebuild and who can help us get back to “normal.”

While we experience a loss of “normal,” this time gives us the chance to step back and choose a way of life that is less cluttered and busy and allows us to experience the true gift God has

FAMILY MATTERS

DEACON TONY ZIMMERMAN Deacon Tony Zimmerman is the lead archdiocesan consultant for the office of marriage and family life.

given us in one another.

Perhaps and hopefully you have heard of the Joyful Marriage Project.

The concept came about as a way to visualize what we can do to build joyful homes and

families where marriage and family prosper and become a way of life that all would desire.

It is a little like the phrase that people used to describe the early church: “See how these Christians love one another!” People wanted that joy for themselves.

The Joyful Marriage Project offered a blueprint, sort of a do-ityourself plan to build your dream home.

It starts with the foundation necessary to build a home that can withstand the stresses of daily life.

It allows a family to design the interior of

the home where daily life is lived out — a place that fosters the important parts of daily life, like family prayer, family meals and family celebrations such as birthdays and anniversaries; a place that welcomes Christ into our daily lives.

In the coming months, our goal in the office of marriage and family life is to further enhance the Joyful Marriage Project by offering a daily plan of life that offers simple tools to enhance family prayer and discover and celebrate the ways that we can find Jesus

present in our home. It will offer simple ways to help form our children in the ways of the faith.

The various tools and suggestions will be such that every family can choose what is most attractive and needed in their lives.

These opportunities to grow in love of one another and Christ will provide the tools to “Enflame Our Homes” with the joy of the Gospel.

Like the early church, others will look at us and say, “See how they love one another! What an attractive way of life. We want this in our lives.”

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Ordinations to the priesthood for the archdiocese will look different this year from any year in living memory. The COVID-19 pandemic has caused the archdiocese to take many special precautions for the ordinations of Deacons Travis Mecum and Anthony Mersmann, limiting attendance to just the parents of the ordained and those integral to the ceremony or its livestreaming.

COVID-19 necessitates changes to ordination ceremony

By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Msgr. Michael Mullen hasn’t missed an archdiocesan ordination since 1962, when he himself was ordained a priest.

But odds are, he’ll miss those on May 23.

And he won’t be alone. A lot of people won’t be there — even most of the relatives of the two men being ordained — because of state and archdiocesan directives limiting the size of gatherings and a halt to public Masses due to the COVID-19 pandemic.

Deacon Travis Mecum and Deacon Anthony Mersmann will be ordained to the priesthood by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann later this month in a largely empty Cathedral of St. Peter in Kansas City, Kansas.

It’s a historic, unusual ordination.

Nothing like this has happened within living memory in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas.

As archdiocesan co-director of seminarians, Msgr. Mullen is the one who plays a key role in the election of the ordination candidates.

“There’s a point in the liturgy when I announce the name, call the candidates forward and recommend them to the archbishop for ordination,” he said.

“And then, the archbishop responds, ‘Then we will ordain them priests of the archdiocese.’ When he says this, the whole congregation erupts in ‘Thanks be to God,’ and there is tremendous applause. It’s a beautiful moment,” he added.

There will be no congregation this

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The only way most people will be able to watch the ordinations of Deacons Travis Mecum and Anthony Mersmann will be through livestream. year. No thunderous “Thanks be to God,” and no tremendous applause.

The essential elements of the ordination liturgy will be there, but it will be somewhat “stripped down.”

“The challenge is to limit who absolutely needs to be there,” said Father Scott Wallisch, archdiocesan co-director of seminarians. “We will need to determine who will attend and what they will do, and how they’re going to fulfill their role and maintain social distance. That is the biggest logistical challenge for us.”

The only family members present will be the parents of those being ordained. Also present will be the archbishop, a deacon, a master of ceremonies, three servers, the organist, a cantor, one priest from the archdiocesan vocations team and three videographers

producing the livestream video.

No decision has been made yet about the inclusion of vesting priests for the men being ordained.

There will be no crowd of archdiocesan priests to concelebrate the Mass, though, or greet them with applause as the newly ordained step through the doors of the cathedral and join their number. There will be no first blessings and reception with family, friends and well-wishers. First Masses will be scaled back, too.

The ordinands can’t help but feel a little disappointed. But there is also joy, gratitude and a surprising ability to find a silver lining in it all.

“I would be lying if I didn’t say it was somewhat disappointing in some respects,” said Deacon Mecum. “If you look at my story of my life, it doesn’t

surprise me.

“To be honest, I am thankful to archbishop and Father Wallisch that they decided to go ahead with the ordination as scheduled. I am so close to my lifelong dream. And I can’t wait to become a priest and celebrate Mass for the people of God and minister to them in their time of need.

“So, yes,” he continued, “it would have been nice to have everyone there to celebrate with me. But once things open up, we’ll have a celebration. Until then, I can have some form of ministry.”

Meanwhile, Deacon Mersmann observed that the simplified ordination has made it possible for him to focus more fully on the sacrament of holy orders and the priesthood.

“I can see God the Father is inviting me to live a life at the cross and on the cross, like his Son,” said Deacon Mersmann. “Having everything external that would normally distract me . . . stripped away is actually helpful in having focus on what an offering this is, and what the reality of priesthood is.

“The priesthood is a life profoundly at the cross and on the cross.”

People are invited to join the deacons’ families, friends and supporters from across the archdiocese by livestream for this historic ordination on May 23. To access the livestream at 10:30 a.m. from the Cathedral of St. Peter, go online to: livestream.com/ archkck/priests.

Those who wish to send a card or note of congratulations to the newly ordained can mail them to: Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, 12615 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, KS 66109.

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