The Lakelander - Issue 69 / Entertains

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Entertains I D E AS F O R A S E AS O N O F H O S T I N G AN D CE L E B R AT IO N

Great Job! WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT The Estates at Carpenters is a Life Plan Community offering independent living to active older adults, with the safety net of assisted living and skilled nursing care – all at our Lakeland community.

Our work environment is warm and welcoming, and we love what we do. Regardless of role, every employee’s job is to make each day better for those who live at The Estates. In return, we’re loved and appreciated by coworkers and those we serve: the residents.

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“Good food and fellowship are what we’re all about.”

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“My team creates a fun atmosphere!”

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Good, reliable people. We value employees of all ages and life situations. We hire students, retirees, Veterans, seasoned professionals and first-time job applicants.

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WHO WE’RE LOOKING FOR

Places to Work by FORTUNE Magazine!

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See why we were voted one of the Best

The Estates at Carpenters is hiring for positions throughout our community, with new openings in all departments!

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ALSO, WE ENJOY CONTINUING TO THRIVE AND GROW, OFFERING GREAT BENEFITS: • Competitive pay • Great hours • Flexible schedules • Still enjoy your weekends • Safe environment • Relaxed culture

• Holiday bonuses • College scholarship program • Mission-driven organization • On-site fitness program

TO APPLY FOR A TERRIFIC FUTURE, CALL OR VISIT. 863-588-7284 EstatesHeroes.com

A WORD ABOUT COVID The Estates at Carpenters has been recognized for successfully navigating the current pandemic.

We’ve taken proactive steps to protect residents and staff and to ensure a safe environment.

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Place to Live and Best Place for Your Future!

Bonnie Geohagan Radiation Therapy Dosimetrist

“I moved in six months before the pandemic changed our world. I was so glad I was here during the lockdown because I wasn’t alone. I felt safe from unnecessary exposure from outside sources, and my meals and packages were delivered. I had everything I needed – including love and support from a truly wonderful staff. Also, during the pandemic, I had a knee replacement. I didn’t even have to leave the community for rehab because rehabilitation was right downstairs.”

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“From our spacious kitchen and places to entertain to our beautiful walk-in closets and office, our Grand Magnolia apartment home keeps us close to the lifestyle that awaits outside our doors while giving us the privacy and space we desire if we choose! It’s simply the perfect floor plan for us – and The Estates is the perfect place for us to enjoy this time in our life. And the best part? We are guaranteed care for LIFE! (PS – Our cats are happy too!)” 

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C O N T E N T S ISSUE 69

ON THE COVER Emily Waters, one of Lakeland’s expert tabletop designers and owner of Treasury Rentals helps us set the table for this season’s celebrations.

Photo by Dan Austin

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CONTENTS

58 FEATURES

52 • BUSINESS

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64 • SHELTER

Timeless Traditions

How to House Guest

Gaines Jewelers, a family-owned full-service jewelry and gift store in downtown Lakeland since 1936.

A step-by-step guide to creating the perfect guestroom experience for overnight guests.

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74 • CULTURE

Three or More, It’s a Party!

Setting the table with Emily Waters, owner of Treasury Rentals, a dishware and tabletop rental studio.

84 • CATERING

Eat, Drink & Be Merry A curated list of Lakeland’s best catering services to meet all of your needs this season of hosting and celebration.

88 • FILM

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Pass The Popcorn The digital theatre, a new-era for movie nights and home theatres.

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24 • MASTHEAD

28 • CONTRIBUTORS

32 • METRO

26 • EDITOR’S NOTE

30 • LETTERS

42 • GREATER LAKELAND

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96 • HISTORY

When her choice matters most

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Jason Jacobs

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Michelle Simanca

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ART DIRECTOR

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Editorial CONTRIBUTORS

COPY EDITOR CONTENT PRODUCER

Sally Ibarra Barceló, Jordan Randall, Victoria Bardega Victoria Bardega Jordan Randall

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C O N T R I B U T O R S THE WRITERS AND PHOTOGRAPHERS THAT MAKE THE LAKELANDER

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VICTORIA BARDEGA Victoria Bardega is a local content creator and owner of Arlo Jean. She completed her B.S. in Journalism/ Public Relations at Southeastern University. Her editorial work has been featured in The Magnolia Journal and Darling Magazine. When she’s not writing or strategizing social media campaigns, she’s filling up the pages of her passport with her husband.

Check her out at vbardega.com and on Instagram @vbardega.

JASON STEPHENS Jason Stephens is a native Florida boy who lives in Lakeland with his beautiful wife, Jess, and children, Isla and Miles. Whether it’s from 500 feet up in a helicopter, on a boat cutting through the water, or locked down on a tripod, Jason loves to be behind the camera capturing the moments that pass in front of his lens. jasonstephensphotography.com

Your high-action, outdoor photography has become a staple in The Lakelander over the years.

What draws you to this type of work?

I love everything about this type of photography. I enjoy researching my subject or location, thinking through the technicalities, and then the unpredictable elements that nature can throw at you always add to the excitement. The fast pace and need for quick decision-making are a lot of fun as well.

Your work has taken you far beyond Lakeland’s city limits. Tell us about a shoot you enjoyed traveling for.

My church, Access Church, supports a missionary who works exclusively with the Maasai in Kenya, planting and building churches and training pastors. I have traveled

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to Kenya with a few others from Access twice and documented both trips. Both times were completely unique experiences. The Maasai are the most genuinely kind people you would ever want to meet, and their way of life is so beautiful. The remoteness and vastness of the landscape are also incredible.

What are your favorite outdoor activities?

Surfing is at the top of my list, even though I don’t get over to the coast as often as I would like.

I also love fishing and hiking with my wife and kids.

From where do you draw inspiration for your photography?

I’m a big fan of Jeff Johnson and Ben Moon.

I love the authenticity of the moments and expressions they both capture.

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DAN AUSTIN Dan Austin is a Florida native photographer. He specializes in a unique style that combines the spirit of his subject with a detailed attention to lighting. Through this, Dan achieves a unique and wellthought-out aesthetic that can be seen in his images.

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My dad was one of ten brothers and sisters, and my mom was one of four. For me, Christmas dinners, weddings, baptisms, birthdays, and celebrations with my family were big. Dinner parties of all kinds–– the type that took place around my grandparents’ formal dining rooms. Sometimes we had formal celebrations, and other times, we had a cocktail party or potlucks with disposable plates. Nonetheless, these memories of gathering around the table to celebrate life shaped my childhood.

As time passed and I was of age to start hosting my own dinner parties, I realized that a festive dinner party is a combination of what is said and what is eaten. Yes, there was amazing food, the kind that was made with love and hours of preparation with those recipes passed down from one generation to the next. Presmart phones days––guests had real, raw, laughter-filled, engaged conversations. It was the kind where you didn’t pull out a phone to show a visual; instead, you found a way to tell the story and transport someone to relive that moment with you.

This kind of dinner party is what I hope is passed down to future generations. The true art of gathering, choosing a theme or not, making it formal or casual, sitting back in a chair for hours with glimpses of each other’s lives floating over a table

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“...these memories of gathering around the table to celebrate life shaped my childhood.” through meaningful conversations.

Traditions add a sense of direction to any art form, but good art is redefined over time, embracing nuances that keep these art forms alive for the upcoming generation to enjoy.

In this issue, we explore the joy that a season of hosting and celebration brings. From local entrepreneurs embracing tradition and redefining the industry to useful tips for hosting overnight stays and cultural shifts in the film industry–– we hope you enjoy this issue and feel prepared to host your next gathering and overnight guest!

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More often than not the word party is not synonymous with introversion.

In fact, many people would assume that introverts would much rather hide from the world at home alone when in reality that isn’t always the case.

Introverts simply prefer to limit the amount of time they spend socializing.

Being an introvert, however, shouldn’t exclude you from participating in or even hosting a holiday party -- especially if you’d really like to.

Here are some ways to help you navigate hosting and celebrating this holiday season as an introvert.

Setting boundaries is good for everyone, but for introverts, it helps them mentally and emotionally prepare for what is ahead. If you are hosting, ensure invitations have the proper start and end time according to your ability to handle socializing. Then think about the party’s structure and create a schedule to ensure you know what is happening next and

reduce any possible anxiety.

As a host of a dinner party, having a comprehensive understanding of the group of people you are putting around a table is important, there’s room for everyone, and the more diversity in personalities the better. The reason being is everyone can feel comfortable to be themselves without having to pretend to be something they are not. This doesn’t mean you can’t invite a new neighbor you barely know, it just means that having a good balance between knowing what personalities to expect with unexpected ones is a good idea.

Comparison is the thief of joy, even in this situation. Don’t try to be someone you are not.

Just because your friends thrive in social gatherings and feel energized by them doesn’t mean you have to be.

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or planning to attend one, clear your calendar for some alone time to energize.

It’s about managing your energy and recognizing in yourself when you’re starting to get overextended and drained Talk to your best friend about cohosting with you. If you need to take a break and step out to grab some air, have someone ready to take your place as the host. This can help clear your head and re-energize you a bit. In addition, if this is a formal dinner party, sit near an exit for minimal distraction and attention.

When attending a gathering or dinner party as an introvert these same concepts can be applied to help you navigate having a good time, choose wisely where you want to spend your energy and only commit to the gatherings that are truly meaningful to you. If the host is a friend, chances are they care about you and will accept your decision to not attend with empathy. If the host is not a close friend a polite rejection to the invite should be more plenty.

To wrap it all up just remember that you do not have to be the life of the party, and you have no obligation to entertain anyone. Sit by people who can party at your pace, have enough conversation with you and not draw unwanted attention.

Remember, everyone is different, and every introvert and extrovert are different so make sure you are listening to your body and emotions.

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A TASTE OF FALL Spice up your life this fall with Black and Brew’s seasonal menu. Kick off your day with some lemon ricotta & blueberry toast, accompanied by a relaxing fan-favorite: their warm turmeric chai. If you’re looking to treat yourself, consider a spiced almond frappé, or pumpkin butter toast. No matter what you choose, your seasonal destination is Black and Brew this season.

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Swish and the Lakeland Magic Return The Lakeland Magic, the NBA G-League developmental affiliate of NBA’s Orlando Magic, return for a brand new season of basketball with their home opener on Friday, November 5th.

The Lakeland Magic are returning this season as G-League champions of the 2020-2021 season, after defeating the Delaware Blue Coats at the end of last season. In May of last year, Mayor Bill Mutz officially recognized March 11, the day the Magic won the league title as Lakeland Magic 2021 NBA G-League Champions Day.

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In addition, the Lakeland Magic will begin the season with new head coach Joe Barrer, officially announced in August of this year. Barrer is only the second head coach in franchise history after spending the last four seasons with the Lakeland Magic as an assistant coach with the team.

Last year, the Lakeland Magic offered multiple

themed nights for fans to come out and enjoy during the season. Some of the themes included were “Home for the Holidays”, “Hoops for a Cure”, “Faith and Family Night,” and “Black History Celebration”. This year, as returning champions, fans can expect multiple giveaways and themed nights during the 2021-2022 season. You can purchase tickets to games on the Lakeland Magic website at lakeandmagic.com, or call 863-825-3263 for more information.

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KEEP YOUR FORK, THERE’S PIE What better way to celebrate the holidays than with some locally baked pies? Honeycomb Bread Bakers, alongside Born and Bread Bakehouse, are both offering pre-orders for your Thanksgiving pies this year. Head over their websites to secure your pre-order and share a pie this holiday season.

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You’re Welcome to Stay With Us The golden rules of being a good house guest Written by Jordan Randall

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When it comes down to it, nobody aspires to be a bad house guest. Nobody wakes up in a friend or family member’s home with the desire to be the topic of conversation after leaving.

Unfortunately, these experiences do happen, but they don’t have to, at least not this holiday season.

The first and most important thing you can do for your host is to let them know when you’ll be coming to stay with them, as soon as possible. Showing up unannounced only works for special kinds of friends. Make every effort to speak with your host about your stay as soon as you begin to think about it, and make both of your lives a lot easier. The longer you wait, the more your host will have to plan around things that they’ve got scheduled during your stay.

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By letting them know ahead of time, you’re showing them that you respect their time and don’t have any desire to inconvenience them.

Now skip to the part where you’ve arrived. Once at your host’s residence, just like it was important to let your host know when you’ll be arriving, it’s equally important that you leave on the day you say you’re going to leave. Sure, acts of nature happen! Weather and other events can leave you stranded an extra night or two, which your host could understand.

But elongating your stay beyond the pre-established expectations can possibly complicate things for your host. Above all, if for whatever reason you need to stay an extra night or two, have an honest conversation with your host as soon as possible, and you should be able

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to work something out.

When it comes to the etiquette of your day-to-day life during your stay, there are a few things you can do to be a good guest. The small stuff like making your bed, picking up after yourself, and leaving the bathroom clean will all contribute to a good guest experience for you and your host. But there are a few other things you might want to consider while being a house guest this holiday season.

This one might seem obvious, but try to limit your phone usage while being a house guest. An excessive amount of screentime in front of your host can give the impression that you’re not enjoying yourself. Put down the phone for a bit, and engage in intentional faceto-face time. Your phone will be there when you head to your room at the end of the night.

Next, offer to pitch in. Some

hosts don’t like to make their guests do the dishes or help in the kitchen at all, but offering to help can show that you are genuinely grateful for their hospitality. It can also show that you’re not there to have someone wait on you. After all, this is a home––not a hotel. Even if they don’t accept your offer, simply asking goes a long way in showing your appreciation. Offer to pitch in, even if it’s something as quick as taking out the trash.

Remember, communication is always key! Being a good houseguest boils down to figuring out the details and setting the expectations for your trip with your host ahead of time. Like any relationship, the one between guest and host thrives on communication.

Speak with your host ahead of time and save the both of you any of the trouble this holiday season.

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GIFTS FOR THE HOST OR HOSTESS Five local gifts to let your host know you are thankful.

When someone invites you to dinner or offers accommodations at their home, the natural next step is to show your gratitude for the invitation.

A good way to approach this is by arriving with a little something extra. Here are several thoughtful gifts to thank your host or hostess for their kindness and hospitality.

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CAPRI BLUE CANDLE The cult-classic Capri Blue candle can be found at Gaine’s Jewelers, along with the full collection of capri blue fragrances.

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LEGO’ IT’S CHRISTMAS! This Christmas, Legoland Park will transform into a Winter Wonderland complete with live entertainment, unique Lego activities, and special treats for the whole family.

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the most wonderful time of the year, so what’s stopping you and your family from celebrating with one of the most popular toys of all time? Full of joy and good cheer, Legoland’s Christmas line-up of events does not disappoint.

This year, families will be able to witness the brand new original stage show, The Very Merry Mix-Up, live on select dates. Families will also

be able to visit the all new Holiday Village Postal Service, where children will be given the chance to write letters to the one and only Lego Santa.

Families will also be able to meet face-to-face and grab photos with Lego Santa, Lego Gingerbread Man, and Lego Toy Soldier.

The traditional Lego Sleigh and Reindeer photo spot will be available as well, along with a 30-foot-tall

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Lego Christmas tree that is truly something to see this holiday season.

The Winter Haven Legoland is the second biggest Legoland in the world, as it is divided into 13 different areas, including a water park. In total the park contains over 50 rides, shows, and attractions.

The specific dates for the Holiday events are as follows: November 26-28, December 4-5, 11-12, 18-19 & 24-31.

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Carols in the Park Main Street Winter Haven is thrilled to announce their 32nd Annual Carols in the Park presented

by Citizens Bank and Trust! For over thirty years, artisans, specialty food vendors, and

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It’s Time for Pie Honeycomb Bread Bakers are now taking Thanksgiving pre-orders, from the classic Apple Pie to the Honeycomb Pumpkin-Tamarind Pie, Challah, and Country Sourdough. Pre-orders are accepted until

12 p.m. on November 21. Pick up your orders in our Winter Haven storefront on November 24th, 7 a.m. - 3 p.m. or in Lakeland at Ethos Coffee Roasters from 3 p.m. - 6 p.m.

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Celebrating the Holidays at Bok Tower Gardens This year, Bok Tower Gardens is holding its annual celebration which features over a month of seasonal activities to help you celebrate the holidays this year. This year’s theme is “Let Your Spirit Soul.”

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ONE MORE CUP Written by Jordan Randall Photograph sourced by Black Oak Creative

There are a handful of basic truths in life that we should always remember.

And somewhere, deep in the middle of that pile of truths is this one: never underestimate what some good craft coffee can do for a city.

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2017, Meghan and Stewart Mackie opened The Bike Shop in Winter Haven, a shop for cyclists that also featured a café inside that they called N+1. “We really wanted to have a craft coffee bar inside,” said owner Meghan Mackie. “And at the time, the only other coffee shops in town were Richards and Starbucks. So we really wanted to bring craft coffee to the shop while featuring local roasters.”

After finding some mild success with N+1 while it was located inside The Bike Shop, the Mackie’s realized they wanted more for their craft coffee dreams, and for N+1. “The coffee shop didn’t kick off as much with the public

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while being in The Bike Shop. But my husband and I always knew we wanted more from it.

I think it may have been an intimidating experience to walk through all of the bikes looking for coffee when you’re not a cyclist - and you’re thinking, ‘where am I?’” Naturally, when the Mackie’s heard the company next door to The Bike Shop was planning on moving out, they jumped on the opportunity to take this growing café concept of theirs, and give it its own space to grow.

Today, four years later, N+1 takes up the corner building directly next to The Bike Shop. Now carrying itself with a space of its own, N+1 is full of regulars, serving them with coffee from local roasters such as Ethos and Patriot. N+1 is supporting the local community, and the community is giving that support right back, which is all that the Mackie’s have dreamt of.

“Our goal is really to make sure people feel comfortable,” said café manager, Danni Demalignon. “We want people to come back and see the same people behind the counter. It’s nice to see the same faces and learn who they are. And the same goes for our baristas behind the counter. We love seeing our regulars.”

SIT BACK AND SIP THE C OFFE E In addition to the overall inviting atmosphere, N+1 features a record player and vinyls to spin your favorite tunes and perhaps order one more cup.

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DAN N I DE M ALIGNO N N+1 Cafe Manager

Enjoy fresh baked goods daily, such as this Tomato + Feta Galette, by Bandidas.

“WE WAN T PEOPLE TO COME BACK AN D S EE THE SAME PEO PLE BEHIND TH E CO UNTER. IT’S NICE TO SE E THE SAME FACES AND LEARN WHO THEY ARE. AN D TH E SAME GOES FOR O UR BAR IS TAS BEHIND THE CO UN TE R. WE LOVE S EEING O UR R EGULARS .”

That kind of consistency is something N+1 offers that you might not get from other cafés. And while you’ll obtain that comfortable feeling from both the baristas and the atmosphere, you’ll also get it from the menu. “One of my favorite things I’ve heard from a customer is that drinking our vanilla spice latte is like taking a walk through Home Goods,” said Demalignon. “I smiled. That was a new one.”

Inside the café, N+1 is full of life. It’s full of all their regulars coming in and ordering their morning drinks. It’s full of all the many plants and greenery that find themselves in every corner of the shop, always in sight.

It’s full of a special kind of morning sun that seems to paint itself over the entire interior.

It feels relaxed, which was always the plan.

“I just wanted it to be kind of cozy and homey,” said Mackie. “I love greenery, so I knew I wanted to add a lot of live plants.

I wanted it to be a cozy corner, and for people

to feel comfortable here. I wanted it to be a place where you actually want to sit for a while and hang out.”

Admittedly, the biggest question I had while sitting down with Meghan and her shop manager, Danni Demalignon, was about the name. Where does a name like N+1 come from?

An interesting formula to put on the storefront, Meghan had a simple explanation.

“My husband Stewart and his buddy have this silly book they own of unwritten rules for cyclists.” explained Mackie. “And so, one of the rules states that the correct number of bikes to own is N+1. Pretty much saying that you always want to have one more. We thought that was pretty cool and connected the coffee bar back to the bike shop, so we named it N+1. I think N+1 makes so much sense with coffee as well because you always want just one more. So that’s where the name comes from.”

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And it’s true, you do always want one more.

Maybe that’s because the coffee is so good, or because coffee shops just have a way of bringing you in and keeping you there.

Whether you’re sitting down for a conversation with a friend or sitting down with a book and some headphones seeking some alone time, coffee shops are not just staples, but pillars of our communities. They are where we start and sometimes even end our days, connecting communities and the people within them. They are atmospheric moments

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in our lives that bring us closer to one another, and even to ourselves. Helping us feel wired in, and connected to the community we find ourselves planted in or happen to be visiting.

Should you find yourself in Winter Haven or the greater Lakeland area––whether it be alone or amongst the company of an old friend––you should take a moment and stop by N+1. You’ll find great drinks made possible by local roasters and a couple of sharp baristas. But you’ll also find a place to gather.

The “water cooler” of the community, you’ll find a place to recharge, refuel, and experience a relaxed moment where you are free to lower your guard and just be. What more could you ask for?

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TIMELESS TRADITIONS Written by Victoria Bardega Photography by Dan Austin

Local small business, Gaines Jewelers, is redefining the art of gift-giving and hosting for shoppers. Learn more about how this historic shop continues to create whimsical experiences for customers who are looking to give a “goes-the-extramile” kind of gift or host a memorable celebration.

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“Their products not only give you the chance to find one-of-a-kind gifts and momentos.

They also awaken the hostess in you.”

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Fine china has evolved from traditional matching sets to whimsical combinations, which reflect personal taste and style. At Gaines Jewelers you can mix-and-match to create your perfect dinnerware set.

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ne gift can create a special moment, a meaningful connection, and a favorite memory all at once. It turns the ordinary into treasure. While for some, it can feel challenging to figure out exactly what to buy, it truly is an art for those who revel in the details of gift-giving.

In a time of year where the holidays bring you close together with the ones you love most, it’s also a time of year to express your love, appreciation, and support by finding that special present. Local business owner, Gina Saunders, knows the importance of this all too well.

One of Lakeland’s favorite charming storefronts, Gaines Jewelers, in Downtown Lakeland, shows you

first-handedly the magic of adding your personal touch.

So what is it that makes a gift reach the heart of someone’s perfection? “Something that can stand the test of time...something you can enjoy now and for years to come,” reflects Saunders.

Saunders became a regular customer of the iconic Gaines Jewelers years before she would eventually take on its ownership from the Gaines family.

A brave cancer survivor, she stepped into the brick-and-mortar with a vision to not only continue its legacy but also to help customers intentionally celebrate each day.

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and her team “love helping people celebrate the special occasions in their lives––the big moments and the small moments.”

Since 1935, Gaines Jewelers has provided handcrafted fine jewelry, fashion jewelry––everything from engagement rings to bracelets in 14K gold-filled materials. But today, their storefront continues its tradition of offering so much more than elegant pieces of bijouterie.

“We sell everything from cocktail napkins to baccarat luxury crystals,” shares Saunders. As you walk through the charm of Gaines Jewelers, you’re instantly inspired by the whimsical colors and extensive variety they offer.

Their products not only give you the chance to find one-of-a-kind gifts

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FRAGANCES

Everyone loves a luxe fragrance; it sets the tone for your space. Whether you are hosting or looking for the perfect hostess gift, Gaines has a variety of brands and styles to choose from.

and momentos. They also awaken the hostess in you.

Every holiday hostess revels in the details when it comes to lifestyle wares. From detailed fine china to pewter vessels and exquisite home decor, you easily take away pieces that can be passed on from generation to generation.

Now as a four-year business owner, Saunders notes the importance of building a connection generationally within her own family by featuring items that truly resonate and peak the interest of her daughters.

She recalls, “When I first bought this store, it was already so wonderful.

But I wanted to be able to have items my daughters would be able to buy, too, as special gifts for their friends.”

Who can forget the infamous Volcano Collection of candles from Anthropologie? Gaines Jewelers carries this same brand and other favorite brands––even from local makers––such as Nacre Watches.

“There’s something for everyone in our store. We’ve brought in things of every price point and every variety,” remarks Saunders. And it shows, in both the storefront and online shopping experience. While every day is a day worth celebrating at this family-owned business, not every day

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has been easy as a small business.

During the uncertain times in 2020, Saunders worked hard to make sure she maintained reliable employment for her close-knit staff, despite the challenges that the pandemic ensued. In an effort to pivot, they placed focus on their online platform. Though times became very testing for many, Saunders admits “gift-giving never stopped.”

The support of local and returning customers continues to be unwavering.

And undoubtedly, the quality of curated gifts shows thoughtfulness in their selection. But something that will always set this historic shop apart from the rest is their people-focused customer experience.

“That drives who we are at the core of our business… Our customer service goes above and beyond to truly know our customers,” explains Saunders.

One of the noteworthy ways Gaines Jewelers goes the extra mile is through creating a one-stop-shop experience for their customers by offering gift wrapping.

With an artful eye for beauty and handcrafted bows, a devoted employee, Rosa Lee McCloud, has worked at the store since she was twenty-three years of age––starting over sixty years ago.

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She wraps every gift with the store’s signature style creating an experience that goes the extra mile for every customer.

“We always go the extra mile to help our customers get the perfect gift. Our philosophy is helping our customers make gift-giving beautiful and easy,” Saunders mentions with joy.

This genuine love and passion for helping others to find that perfect gift comes from a far deeper place than just a desire to serve others well. It’s a piece of Saunders’s story that truly elevates the store’s attention to detail.

Small businesses are what make our city feel like home, wouldn’t you agree? It’s these places where you look forward to returning to support

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because they offer you far more than any retail-chain brand ever could.

“My dad owned a pharmacy when I was growing up––one that had gifts and everyday essentials. Since we had a family-owned business, we had this philosophy in our family that we always had to buy it in town first,” remembers Saunders of her inspiring upbringing.

In a time when you can shop online at the click of a button, small businesses––like Gaines Jewelers–– offer a unique shopping experience that allows you to dream big and find

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“From detailed fine china to pewter vessels and exquisite home decor, you easily take away pieces that can be passed on from generation to generation.”

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items that will actually last in your home for years to come.

It’s a recurring theme when you talk with the ladies at Gaines Jewelers: timeless traditions.

When you are heading to your next holiday soirée or family gathering, find something that stands the test of time. For some, it’s gold. For others, it’s porcelain.

For you, it may be familiarity or nostalgia. Whatever things evoke thoughtfulness, let that guide your process as you find a new treasure to gift someone with.

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Tomorrow isn’t promised, and as the world has proven, especially over the last couple years, nothing is for certain.

“One of the things [I felt] after [recovering from] cancer was that I just felt like I wanted to celebrate every day. I’m grateful for the days that the Lord has given me, and I want to help remind someone every day that life is worth celebrating,” says Saunders, in retrospect.

And indeed, it is. Every day, every moment, every occasion is worth remembering and toasting to.

As you create a list of people to shop for, think outside the box.

Recall moments throughout this past year where perhaps ideas and hints were dropped.

Or, if you’re shopping for someone new, think about the legacy of the item. As someone who has worked in the industry providing quality gifts for customers, Saunders’s advice is to go for “something practical!” It’s always a good place to start, and usually, you’ll find these are the gifts that make it for the long haul in someone’s home sweet home.

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Hosting guests for more than dinner and a cocktail can be stressful but it doesn’t have to be.

Like most things in life, preparation and intentionality are key.

One of the perks to owning a home is the chance to host out-of-town guests comfortably. The holidays are right around the corner, and there’s a good chance you’ll be hosting people in your home for cocktails, dinner, and overnight stays.

As we prepare for a season of hosting and celebration we must not forget that this past year our guest rooms were transformed into home offices or classrooms instead of sleeping quarters. This winter, travelers are ready to reconnect with family and friends making it the perfect excuse to focus on reimagining your guest bedroom and providing a beautiful and comfortable

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experience for your loved ones.

When it comes to designing a beautiful bedroom for guests, comfort is key, creating a cozy and relaxing stay where visitors never want to leave - is the ultimate goal. A guest room should be a welcoming space that combines the amenities of a hotel with the intimacy and charm of a home.

Whether you’re working with a spare bedroom or a corner of your living area, we’ve got some guest room ideas that will make your guests feel like they’re staying in a boutique hotel — without you having to go into full-on housekeeper mode or feeling like you’re their vacation rental host.

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TO CREATE AN INVITING DESIGN, CONSIDER THESE ESSENTIALS:

PREPARE A LUXURIOUS BED The bed is the most important thing in the room because we all want a good night’s rest. A firm mattress is generally best for most people’s back. In addition, offer a variety of pillow options from feathered to cotton, as everyone has a preference and giving your guests the option to choose will elevate the experience in a thoughtful way. Choose the linens carefully; again, options are key so supply extra blankets for optimal comfort.

ADD A RUG Rugs in bedrooms are almost necessary unless the room is carpeted. Aside from completing the design of the room, the rug adds optimal comfort for your guests when they first wake up and their feet hit the floor.

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SET THE BEDSIDE TABLE Part of the charm of a great guest room is thinking ahead and being intentional about your guests needs. Provide a wireless phone charger, because we’ve all forgotten to pack one a time or two. Provide a wifi password, before they even ask. They might have multiple devices they need to connect so writing it down for them is best. If you’re feeling extra fancy, leave a carafe filled with filtered water and a drinking glass or two.

And, for a decorative touch, have a vase with fresh or dried flowers. My local favorites are from Uli & Co. or Bloom Shakalaka.

Wash linens in a scent-free and sensitive skin detergent as a courtesy to guests who may need it.

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Providing a bath and body brush is a nice touch. Leave the tag on so that the guest knows it’s brand new and for them to use.

LIGHTING To create a cozy and relaxed vibe, proper lighting is key. Again, it’s about options and a personalized experience.

Lamps on nightstands are a must. No one wants to wake up and walk around in the dark to find a light switch. If you have the option, ceiling lights on a dimmer switch, and a night light can be a nice touch.

THE WINDOWS From decorative curtains to roller blinds, an option to black out the room is important. Some people need a completely dark room to get a good night’s sleep. For a more simple solution, provide your guests with an eye mask.

SEATING AREA If the bedroom has the space, a reading chair is a good choice. Whether it’s taking a call, putting on shoes, or reading the recent issue of The Lakelander, a seating option is a nice touch.

Don’t forget about face/ makeup towels.

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You can still provide an elevated experience in a shared space, remember it’s all in the details.

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Think of your guest’s specific taste in lifestyle, scents, and music. Add a soy based candle to the room or a diffuser.

Including local brands such as Rafa Natural’s selection of fragrances will make it much more intentional and fun!

Leave a note that will let your guests know all that they can use in the room without hesitation.

Include the must-haves your visitors may have forgotten, such as bath products, toothbrush and toothpaste, a first aid kit, pain relievers, Tums, chap-stick, and feminine hygiene products.

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guest room C H E AT S H E E T

FOR COMFORT

Fresh sheets, towels, robe, and slippers A cozy throw and extra linens A luggage rack and a place to unpack (closet space or dresser)

THE DETAILS

Easy access to the WiFi network Wireless phone chargers Bedside storage, a nightstand or side table

CREATE AN OASIS

A signature scent to enjoy during their stay Toiletries and amenities Fresh flowers or dried flowers

Last but not least, show your guests around.

Give them a tour of the house but especially the kitchen. Keep a bowl of fresh fruit stocked, enough snacks, and show them how to use your coffee station and cocktail bar. People feel most at-home when they have access to taking care of things for themselves.

Hosting guests is just as attainable when you don’t have a spare bedroom and you need your living room to transition into guest quarters.

Get creative, the same rules apply in a shared space, remember it’s all in the details.

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The ever-evolving art of hosting a dinner party.

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mily Waters, one of Lakeland’s expert tabletop designers and owner of Treasury Rentals - a dishware and tabletop rental studio believes that there’s room at the table for everyone’s dinner party style.

The dinner party isn’t a modern invention; it has ancient roots, going as far back as the ancient Greeks and Romans, who held massive feasts with dozens of guests. In fact, people have gathered together over food for centuries, and the dinner party has evolved time and time again throughout history.

Consider the Victorians and their elaborate tableware, from silverware (made out of silver),

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specialty glassware, variety in dishes, spoons, and forks for every course and food - the Victorians established the tone for elaborate and opulent dinner parties.

Then, by the mid-century period, as the post-war economy boomed and the middle class grew, it became common for people to entertain guests in their homes. The period’s prosperity and housewives theme brought forth the idea of glamorous dinner parties at home, such as the ones you’d see in a scene from the Netflix series, “Mad Men.” Over the past decade or so, we’ve been on an upward trend of becoming a more casual society with each generation that comes of age. Some people prefer

oversized bathrooms and closets over formal living and dining rooms, wearing jeans to the office is normal, and engaged couples no longer typically include china on their wedding registries.

This new way of living doesn’t mean that the tradition of dinner parties is long-gone, it just means that we’ve entered a new era.

While some of us would opt for a classic traditional place setting with all of the glasses and coupes, others may decide on a more informal approach.

Treasury Rentals is a Lakeland-based tabletop rental company that features an eclectic collection mixing vintage pieces with a modern design. Since 2013, Emily has shared her love

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for gatherings, special meals and celebrations through Treasury Rentals. Her passion for beautiful china and perfectly set tables was passed down from Emily’s grandmother, Bettie Lou. For Emily, dressing a table is both an art form and a tradition to be passed down from one generation to the next. “Growing up, the table was always properly set. It didn’t matter if the dishes were china or disposable, if it

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was a home-cooked meal or McDonald’s, we set the table every night,” says Emily.

Like most businesses, Treasury Rentals has added new collections and altered their service offerings over the years to fit the needs of their customers and industry trends. With this in mind, the Water’s are excited to announce the upcoming launch of “Treasury at-Home”, a unique service that will only add to their continued

mission in “making gatherings beautiful and accessible for all”.

The first of its kind in Lakeland, “Treasury at Home” is a rental kit that will allow customers to rent as little as 4, 8, and 12+ place settings for gatherings of all types. In addition to renting a kit, the Treasury Rental platform will also offer tips and tricks to set the table according to your style needs and make your table come to life.

Emily plans to offer “Treasury

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At every dinner party, the food is sure to shine, but the table itself sets the bar for what could be a fun and special evening. Although owning really nice china, silverware, and tabletop decor for every themed dinner party we ever dreamed of is the goal - think sustainability and practicality when it comes to preparing for your dinner party, a combination of the “Treasury at Home” kit may be the solution to making our dinner party goals a reality.

THE LINENS Most traditional linens include a version of an ironed white linen tablecloth that covers the full table, but you could also

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use a table runner or individual placemats at each setting to vary the look of your table and transition from formal to casual, or show off a particularly beautiful table if you prefer. “For a table runner, it depends on the shape of your table. I would never really suggest a table runner on a round table, but for a long table, a table runner would be a really nice compliment. For an oval table, it’s going to be according to an

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individual’s preference and then whether or not there is a practical purpose behind having the table runner in place to protect the table”, explains Emily.

THE CENTERPIECES For centerpieces, flowers are the classic staple and can vary in height and size depending on your approach to the evening and the table size available. “Are you planning on the centerpiece

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remaining in the center of the table or are you moving it to the buffet after guests sit down?”, asks Emily. Answering this question will help you plan accordingly and decide whether you can have full creative freedom or design in a way that meets the needs of guests and their ability to interact with one another during dinner. “One of the most important details is being mindful of the use of space and scale.

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Depending on the number of courses you’re serving, you’ll need different plates and bowls, but a traditionally set the table (before dinner service begins) will have a charger, dinner plate, bread plate, and either a salad plate or soup bowl. Plates will be stacked in that order, except for the bread plate, which should be placed at the top-left corner of each place setting.

“Chargers tend to take up a lot of

space and aren’t really meant for regular-sized tables so most of our “Treasury at Home” kit options will only include dinner plates, salad plates, bread plates, and then you can opt for a duplicate dessert plate if you would like. The option to include a charger is available if you were to need it.”, says Emily.

Overall, the place setting is swayed by the style of the meal (number of courses) and desired formality of the table.

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dinner forks, and sorbet spoons, you will have the option to add on as much as you need.

THE GLASSWARE Your glassware decisions will (stem) from your drink offerings, and how formal or informal you would like your place setting to look. Stemware options and placement is a place where you can break all of the rules to do what works for your setting and budget.

THE DETAILS AND DECORATIONS Once you have the essential pieces for each place setting, it’s time to add the details that will make your table extra special. When picking a color palette, you can let your china pattern guide you.

Place cards are not necessary but extremely helpful, they not only add a personal touch that makes guests feel special, but they also help eliminate the awkward let’s figure out where everyone is sitting part of the night.

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Eat, Drink & Be Merry 2020-2021 CATERING GUIDE

Whether you’re hosting an intimate dinner or a large holiday party, good food and drinks bring people together and there’s nothing better than having peace of mind that these two important pieces of your gathering are in good hands. We’ve compiled a list of local catering experts ready to serve you and your guests.

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La Imperial You deserve baked goods made with care. At La Imperial, a Lakeland-based scratch bakery, we specialize in “comfort food, with a Puerto Rican twist” and are capable of providing you with a fully customizable catering experience designed by the executive chef to meet your specific needs.

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Shell’s Seafood Since Shell’s Seafood began in 1985, we believe seafood shouldn’t be about high prices and fancy environments, but rather quality of service, value, and product. Now, over 30 years later, our mission remains the same. We serve only the finest products and are the best restaurant for seafood in the neighborhood.

With our party platters, you are able to serve any size party, large or small with some of the best seafood in central Florida.

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Fred’s Market Serving up some special farm-to-plate freshness, we offer southern catering services and the best hospitality in the biz.

Let Fred’s Market or Johnson’s Barbeque take care of all of the details when it comes to preparing, dining, and serving you and your guests on your special day.

Harry’s Seafood Harry’s has been serving up good food and good times for over 30 years. When it comes to all of the favors of New Orleans, no one serves them up in Central Florida better than Harry’s. Your gathering deserves only the best dishes from Harry’s in a large-scale format.

At Harry’s you will receive experienced service with excellent food.

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Casita Verde Here at Casita Verde, our Nicaraguan street food is thoughtfully made with mucho, mucho amor. We aim to create a movement steeped in gratitude, equality, and love. We can’t wait to cater your next event and create memorable food experiences for you and your guests. micasitaverde.com

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Good Food Catering Established to provide superior culinary experiences for events, weddings, and celebrations, with Good Food Catering you’ll receive impeccable service and deliciously cooked food. You believe that you and your guests deserve a gathering to remember, right? Good Food Catering believes the same.

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Frescos Southern Kitchen & Bar Food that comforts and heals the soul, that’s Frescos Southern Kitchen. With Frescos serving up a combination of modern and traditional southern eats, your gathering experience is sure to be one to remember. From weddings, to banquets, corporate events, and house parties, Frescos has over 10 years of experience to make sure your customized catering experience is stress-free and nothing but exceptional.

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Black & Brew A Lakeland staple for 15 years, Black & Brew serves as a hub to the entire city of Lakeland. All are welcome at Black and Brew, and now their delicious sandwiches, soups, and other menu staples are available for catering. It doesn’t get more Lakeland than a Black and Brew catered event.

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As major motion pictures continue to be released both in theatres and on streaming services, there has never been a better time to step up your movie watch party game.

“Going to the movies is as American as baseball, and like anything else, it’s a process that has evolved over time.”

Movies like The Matrix: Resurrections, Don’t Look Up, and King Richard are amongst some of the films being released on streaming services this holiday season

1905, John P. Harris and Harry Davis opened a five-centsadmission movie theatre in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. By 1914, an estimated 27 percent of Americans were going to the movies every week. Since then, going to the movies has been a part of our culture for as long as movies have existed. We go as kids, as families, as teenagers, and as adults. We go nervous on a first date and on opening night with our closest friends. Going to the movies is as American as baseball, and like anything else, it’s a process that has evolved over time. Given the circumstances of the last few years surrounding the pandemic, that evolutionary process has been sped up and forced the movie-going process to change.

Maybe forever.

In late 2020, Warner Brothers announced that every 2021 movie would be launched simultaneously in theatres, as well as, HBO Max. Before this, there had never been a way to watch theatrical releases at home. Watching exclusive theatrical releases at home was a very exclusive and very rare accommodation, known only to the most connected and most affluent.

Now that’s entirely changed. Similar to Warner Bros.––Disney announced something called “Premier Access” for Disney Plus, allowing you to pay a onetime $30 fee on top of your subscription that allows you to watch a movie from the comfort of your own home while it’s still playing in theatres.

Paramount, Amazon, Netflix, and other companies have all focused heavily

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on streaming releases for major motion pictures during this time. And it wasn’t all met with peace and understanding.

Director Christopher Nolan, famed director of The Dark Knight and Interstellar, announced that he was extremely disappointed by the move from Warner Bros. to co-release all of their theatrical releases on HBO Max and has since left the studio for Universal Pictures after nearly 20 years of work together.

“Some of our industry’s biggest filmmakers and most important movie stars went to bed the night before thinking they were working for the greatest movie studio and woke up to find out they were working for the worst streaming service,” said Nolan (Hollywood Reporter, Dec. 7,2020), a fierce defender of the importance of the theatrical experience.

While I agree with Nolan— the theatrical experience is irreplaceable and vastly integral to the process of consuming the art form of film; I do think there is a middle ground here. There has to be because the movies have already changed, maybe forever. Now it’s just a matter of if we are willing to change and evolve with it.

While this is all new territory for creatives and financial heads within the film industry, the accessibility to newly released films has seriously upped the potential for your greatest movie nights at home. With new releases coming to our living rooms for the first time in the hundred-plus-year movie-going history, the pressure for your movie-watch parties is on. Try not to sweat it though, I think

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I’ve figured it out. Here are all the different ways people are watching movies in their homes, and how you can find the best experience for you and your friends.

Looking to make memories that last a lifetime? Consider a dive-in movie experience in the pool. Just grab a swimsuit and your favorite pool floaty and let the night be the envy of your neighbors. This is one of those movie experiences you won’t have all of the time, but once or twice a year to mix things up every now and then isn’t bad at all. I’m a fan of the dive-in experience due to the level of comfort and pure comradery you feel while watching movies in the comfort of your own pool/ backyard with a group of friends. Movie

watching has always been an experience, and the pool just brings that experience to a new level— one that’s drenched in moonlight and good vibes. To pull off a movie night like this one, you’ll need: • Projector • Speakers • Large blank wall or large white sheet • Laptop or Apple TV If you can scavenge those four things either yourself or maybe with the help of some friends, you’re in for a movie night destined to be photographed. Just wait for the sun to go down, and you’ll be good to go. The good news is, projectors have gone down in price quite a bit over the years, so if you’re in the market for a decent one

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“It provides a space for families and friends to escape from the noise of everyday life and jump into any of the hundreds of thousands of stories told on screen.”

and don’t want to break the bank, now is as good a time as ever to pull the trigger.

Go ahead and grab some floatable drink/ snack holders as well for the ultimate comfort experience. Your fingers and toes might be pruned by the end, but isn’t that part of the experience?

The next watch party you might consider is an at-home theatre experience.

“Truly, this is more attainable than you might think”, explains Soundwaves Audio Video Interiors Lakeland, a company specializing in at-home theatre experiences and audio/video installations.

If your family is the type to bond over movies, then this might be the option for you to most consider. All you need

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“It provides a space for families and friends to escape from the noise of everyday life and jump into any of the hundreds of thousands of stories told on screen.”

is a spare bedroom or office that’s not being used, and you can turn it into movie central. If you find yourself missing that movie theatre seating and that movie theatre-quality sound, this is for you. This is for the ones who want the best of the best, down to both the lighting and screen resolution, and want to feel the vibrations of sound from the movie below their feet.

With this setup, you’ll need: • Normal-sized bedroom or office • Dark paint for the walls • Projector or TV • Speakers • Comfy seating Home Theatre Experts (Soundwaves Audio Video Interiors Lakeland) Building or assembling a designated theatre room in your home outside of the already established living room can be really rewarding. It provides a space for families and friends to escape from the noise of everyday life and jump into any of the hundreds of thousands of stories told on screen. Movie theatres have always been top-tier escapism, and with the proper setup, you can truly bring that immersive escapism of a movie theatre into your own

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No matter the size of your television, a good sound system goes a long way when planning your home theatre experience.

Consider a soundbar with a wireless subwoofer to bring your watch parties to the next level.

home. If you watch a lot of movies, what more could you ask for?

Last, but not least on the list is the everyday option: your living room. This is the space you probably already utilize the most for watching movies, but that doesn’t mean you can’t make it better, right? To utilize your space and bring your living room watch parties to the fullest, you’ll need: • Comfy couch • Floor Pillows for extra seating • Blankets • Popcorn and drinks

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• 4K TV or Projector • Soundbar plus subwoofer In the living room, movie-watch parties are all about the cozy factor. Are you comfortable? Are you set up with snacks and drinks? You should be. Watching movies at home is all about the comradery of it all. This is why floor pillows are a good idea to prepare for any overflow if the couches are to fill up quickly. In the living room, it’s all about being together.

Blankets, pillows, snacks, and drinks only enhance and better that experience. It’ll make guests leave your home, feeling at

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home. And what more could you want as a host?

As you can tell, there are many ways to host a movie watch party at home. Do I still believe in going out and visiting the theatre? Absolutely. But I believe our at-home experience with movies is just as important and has the power to give you some core memories with your friends and family. So whether you plan to have your own dive-in experience, build your own theatre, or just enhance the living room space you already have, you’re bound for good times.

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HISTORY

Guests around the table at a party held at the Lakeland Yacht and Country Club in Lakeland, Florida.

1938 Photo courtesy of the Lakeland Public Library

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TH E L A K E L A N D E R

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Defining the future of breast health Scheduling your annual mammogram is the most effective defense against breast cancer.

With our team of mammography-certified technologists and dedicated mammographers/radiologists utilizing the most advanced 3D imaging technologies available, Watson Clinic has raised the bar in the detection and treatment of breast cancer in our community.

We may be turning 80 this year, but we’re just getting started.

For all your Mammography needs, call 863-680-7755, option 3 or visit WatsonClinic.com/BreastHealth.

Highlands

2300 E. County Rd. 540A – South Lakeland

Women's Center

1400 Lakeland Hills Blvd. – Suite A – North Lakeland