The Knot New Jersey Fall/Winter 2020

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IN THIS ISSUE

FALL/ WINTER

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THEKNOT.COM

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EDITOR’S NOTE

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THE KNOT TOOLS

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ASK THE KNOT SQUAD

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TRENDING

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VENUE SCOUT

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EXPERT ADVICE

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MARRIAGE LICENSES AND WEDDING ANNOUNCEMENTS

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LAST LOOK

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Lush meets lavish at Crystal Plaza.

MY DAUGHTER’S DREAM WEDDING BECAME A REALITY AT CRYSTAL PLAZA Rosalie R. 3.9.19

THANK YOU FOR MAKING OUR WEDDING DAY THE BEST DAY OF OUR LIVES Maria U. 4.22.19

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CONTENTS

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151 REAL WEDDINGS 67

JACCI + STEVE September 14, East Brunswick

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VICTORIA + AVINASH August 17, Stockton

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SOPHIA + TERR ANCE May 24, Somerset

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ANASTASIA + GREG August 3, Morristown

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ALANA + MEGAN August 24, Peapack & Gladstone

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JOANNA + HEE

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MOLLY + MICHAEL November 1, Whitehouse Station

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NICOLE + LIAM July 19, Asbury Park

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CHRISTINA + DANIEL August 17, Rumson

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STYLE + PLANNING 111

ROSEMARY + LOUIS

Venues, amenities and expert advice for a memorable wedding.

November 10, Cape May Court House

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ERIC + DAN

SPECIAL JERSEY SHORE GUIDE

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October 12, Cape May

SCANDI SKI Get inspired by this destination bash with Scandinavian-style flair.

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SHADES FOR EVERY SEASON Upgrade your celebration with these fresh color palettes. ››

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BOUQUETS YOU’LL LOVE No matter your style or location, there’s a bundle of blooms for you.

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FA S H I O N + B E AU T Y

PERSONALITY-PACKED EATS Use your menu to channel the details of your relationship.

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FLIGHTS OF FANCY Let your style soar with gorgeous engagement rings and bands.

YOU ASKED, WE ANSWERED Editor Louis Baragona answers top wedding planning questions.

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EDITOR TEST DRIVE A firsthand look at the hottest prewedding beauty treatments.

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All the prettiest styles, from the traditional to the new and trendy.

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RINGS: JOHNNY MILLER; FLOWERS: SARAH ANNE WARD

Break the fashion rules with fun details and unexpected silhouettes.

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SALTWATER STUDIOS

KAITLIN NOEL PHOTOGRAPHY

IMPRESSIONS PHOTO & VIDEO

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COVER Suit in sizes up to 32, $2,517, Justin Alexander.com; earrings, $75, KennethJayLane .com; shoes, $425, Stuart Weitzman.com; dress in sizes up to 20, price upon request, Viktor-Rolf.com; earrings, $295, LeleSadoughi .com; shoes, Manolo Blahnik courtesy of Albright Fashion Library

In love with our gorgeous cover outfits? Check out more fashion-forward styles for your wedding day and beyond at TheKnot.com/fashion.

COVER Dress in sizes up to 20, price upon request, Viktor-Rolf.com; shoes, $975, JimmyChoo.com

Behind the Scenes Chic in the City

PHOTOGRAPHY Chris Craymer FASHION STYLING Shelley Brown HAIR Yoichi Tomizawa for Bumble and bumble at Art Department MAKEUP Hector Simancas for Elizabeth Arden at Art Department PROP STYLING Kayleigh Snowden

Get a sneak peek of what went on at The Knot cover shoot

NYC City Hall Weddings

Fun facts about our shoot theme.

HAUTE MEAL Photographer Chris Craymer snaps a shot of our model snacking on a pretzel from a real food cart in downtown NYC.

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FOOTWEAR FETISH The best part about short dresses? The statement shoe moments, of course.

We had upward of 50 stunning pairs on set.

SIP, SIP, HOORAY Our models had a blast shaking up several bottles of bubbly—and letting the corks fly—on the steps of city hall.

The New York City Marriage Bureau in downtown Manhattan hosts tens of thousands of weddings.

A ceremony costs just $25 and requires no reservations.

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COVER Suit in sizes up to 32, $2,517, JustinAlexander .com; earrings, $75, KennethJayLane .com; engagement ring, price upon request, Lauren Addison.com

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AN ELEGANT AND ROMANTIC CELEBRATION AWAITS...

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YOUR HOST TO WEDDINGS, REHEARSAL DINNERS, AND ALL OF LIFE’S MOST IMPORTANT CELEBRATIONS.

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Learn More at TheEstateNJ.com

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D I G I TA L DOWNLOAD Get even more ideas on TheKnot.com/newjersey and at @TheKnot on social.

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Vida and Eric’s love story took them all over the world—so they brought their travels to The Skylands Manor. After the couple’s Copenhagen engagement, “I fell in love with the beautiful estates I’d seen in France and England,” Vida says. “A wedding abroad wasn’t realistic for us, so we brought European vibes to New Jersey.” A pastel palette and wax-sealed calligraphy did just that.

BEST OF WEDDINGS

LOCAL LOWDOWN

Ready to assemble your pro squad? Discover the top-rated wedding vendors in your area and find out why couples love them at TheKnot.com/bow.

Gather your dream team of local wedding vendors with the help of our Ultimate Wedding Guides at TheKnot.com/newjersey.

You can connect with planners, photographers and other vendors by searching by region and price in our local Marketplace. Your state directory has everything you need to know to get married, even where and how to secure a marriage license. You’ll also discover real wedding inspiration from other New Jersey couples.

#TheKnot

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#TheKnotRegistry

Find endless inspiration, no matter your style or budget. @scratchstudiosny

Browse some bling, or snap a selfie with your sparkler. @courtneynicolebrannan

Post pics of your fave gifts, or get ideas for your registry asks. @tedandchelsea

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#MakeTradition Show us how you put a new spin on tradition to personalize your day. @studiofinch

Keep up with everything weddings by following along with The Knot on Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and Twitter. You’ll get tons of tips and tricks to help with your planning journey, plus ideas and inspiration, the latest nuptial news and so much more.

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EDITOR’S NOTE

WE ’RE IN THIS T O G E T H E R

5 Y E A R S L AT E R

CELEBRATING LOVE FOR ALL It’s hard to believe the legalization of samesex marriage passed just five years ago.

To think the inability to marry whom you wanted existed so recently in this country is staggering. And while there’s still much to be done to create equality for all, we wanted to take the opportunity to celebrate the anniversary of such a historic moment.

Turn to p. 192 to read the touching stories of two couples married the same year as the monumental decision, and what it means to them.

KRISTEN MAXWELL COOPER Editor in Chief @kristenmax kristen@theknot.com

CAKE FOR ONE

Let’s just say sharing food isn’t my strong suit. This individual confection is just one of the fun ideas in the issue. (p. 145)

BAND TOGETHER FANCY FOOTWORK

I loved this bride’s genius solution to include her crowd-shy rescue dogs in the wedding. (p. 42)

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From rainbow stones to mixed metals, wedding bands are more unique than ever and we’re so here for them. (p. 171)

CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT: SARAH LOVE PHOTOGRAPHY; CHRIS CRAYMER; MILANES PHOTOGRAPHY; JOHNNY MILLER; SARAH PORTER PHOTOGRAPHY; ALICIA WILEY PHOTOGRAPHY

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As we go to press, an unprecedented pandemic is impacting our country in ways we’ve never experienced before. Schools and stores are closed, and working from home has become the new normal. Another reality?

Canceled weddings. My deepest hope is that by the time this issue hits stands, our world is seemingly back to normal, but I know the repercussions of this will be felt for months. So while we all work to rebuild our way of life, we want you to know that The Knot is here for you via social (@theknot), online (TheKnot.com) and in these pages. Whether you’re forced to reschedule your wedding day or simply feel behind on planning due to weeks of social distancing, we’re here for you. We created the content of these pages before the global pandemic, and we’ll be here when the dust settles too.

We’re all in this together.

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The newly renovated Renault Winery Resort is “The East Coast’s Premier Vineyard Wedding Destination.”

With five unique ceremony options and seven diverse reception venues, including a bespoke vineyard pavilion which can accommodate over 500+ guests, Renault is the perfect place to create long lasting memories.

Taking place in a rustic winery setting, the resort offers picturesque vineyards, a 55-room boutique hotel, the Vineyard National Golf Course, and House of Renault’s new American cuisine. Our wedding managers will execute your vision, making your experience distinguished and worry-free.

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The newly renovated Renault Winery Resort is “The East Coast’s Premier Vineyard Wedding Destination.”

With five unique ceremony options and seven diverse reception venues, including a bespoke vineyard pavilion which can accommodate over 500+ guests, Renault is the perfect place to create long lasting memories.

Taking place in a rustic winery setting, the resort offers picturesque vineyards, a 55-room boutique hotel, the Vineyard National Golf Course, and House of Renault’s new American cuisine. Our wedding managers will execute your vision, making your experience distinguished and worry-free.

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Where Wedding Dreams Come True

The Royal Manor is where all your wedding dreams come true!

Celebrate your new beginning with style, glamour and elegance as our team brings your wedding dreams to life right before your eyes!

V I S I T T H E RO YA L M A N O R . C O M T O L E A R N M O R E 454 Midland Avenue, Garfield, NJ 07026 | 973-478-8590 | 201-WEDDING | 973-478-9464 fax | info@theroyalmanor.com

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D I S C O V E R N E W J E R S E Y ’ S T WO B E AU T I F U L & E X Q U I S I T E W E D D I N G V E N U E S

We introduce you to...

New Jersey’s newest, most luxurious & exquisite venue

V I S I T T H E G R A N D E V E N T S. C O M TO L E A R N M O R E 38 Lackawana Avenue, Totowa, NJ 07512 | 973-256-8316

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TOOLS

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Here are the big to-dos from “yes” to “I do.” Turn the page for more, including the 411 on our tools and how to get your personalized checklist.

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Meet with your officiant to discuss the details and attend prewedding counseling, if required.

Plan your rehearsal dinner, after-party and morning-after brunch.

Have final attire fittings and arrange for dress and/or suit pickup.

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Head to TheKnot.com to start a wish list and site. Share the link so guests are in on the details, like room blocks.

Select invites, thank-you notes and other stationery.

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Research and book pros— anyone you have to have should be locked in ASAP.

Shop for your attire and schedule necessary fittings—don’t forget accessories.

Choose what your wedding party will wear too.

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Search for the perfect place to celebrate, keeping budget and guest count in mind. Then set the date.

PIGGY BANK: KALININ ILYA/NOUN PROJECT; VENUE: KOBY BROWN PHOTOGRAPHY; LAPTOP: OLGA/NOUN PROJECT; STAMPS: CLAIRE BENOIST; CARD, DRESS, VOW BOOKS: COURTESY OF VENDORS; MEASURING TAPE: TATYANA/NOUN PROJECT; RINGS: ALEX MURAVEV/NOUN PROJECT; BOUQUET: SARAH ANNE WARD; DRINKS, CAR: ISTOCK; CONFETTI, MARIACHI BAND, MAKEUP, SIGN: GETTY IMAGES

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Envision your wedding and decide how much you want to spend (and who else will be contributing).

IIff you don’t have a wedding planner or daywedding o off coordinator, task an a ttendant or family member attendant to be the go-to so you can relax and enjoy the day.

Turn the page for the tools to G ET THE J O B D O NE

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Located just steps from the Ocean City beach and boardwalk, The Flanders Hotel is New Jersey’s most historic and elegant seaside celebration venue.

The ornate sophistication of The Flanders is reminiscent of the grandeur of the early 1900s, with all of the modern amenities of the present.

The Flanders’ certified coordinators will personally assist in all of your wedding details, ensuring all of your dreams become reality.

711 East 11th Street Ocean City, NJ

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TheFlandersHotel.com

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TOOLS

All your wedding plans at your fingertips, anytime.

WE’VE G O T YO U And You’ve Got This!

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FIND YOUR WEDDING We know—you’re probably wondering where you should even start (totally normal, btw). First, download our app and take our Style Quiz. It’s a fun way to help zero in on your vibe, (think: industrial with bohemian details).

We’ll generate your very own Wedding Vision (more on that on the next page).

EDITOR TIP Think about what you love as a couple—are you

homebodies or always looking for an excuse to dress up and hit the dance floor? Your wedding should be a true reflection of who you are, so let your personalities lead your style.

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KEEP Not sure what to do when? Look no further than our totally customizable checklist. If you’re asking your future brother-in-law to officiate, you can cross “find an officiant” off your to-do list. Want to add extra entertainment? No problem. Bonus: Our budgeter will help you track your overall spending.

EDITOR TIP Psst, it’s okay to go out of order or to not tick off

every to-do. Really. It’s also totally okay to ask for assistance from your crew or your wedding VIPs—they want to help!

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Organizing all those details and a checklist? There’s an app for that.

The Knot Wedding Planner pulls together your vision, pros and guests to put planning in the palm of your hand.

PLANNING WITH We’re here for you, every step of the way.

Now, let’s get you married.

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Share your proposal story with us at HowTheyAsked.com

We’ve got 10-plus titles full of advice, inspo and DIY crafts to bring your day to life. TheKnot.com/books

Customize everything from save-the-dates to invites for your wedding at Elli.com.

Find personalized décor, favors and wedding party gifts at TheKnotShop.com

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YOUR WEDDING VISION

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PROS

COMPILE YOUR After sharing your info (budget, location, guest count) we’ll help you assemble your squad with recommended vendors. And if you want to keep scrolling, we’ve got tons of award-winning pros (right where you are), plus reviews, on The Knot Marketplace.

EDITOR TIP If you have your heart set on a master chef, a true

DISCOVER WHAT YOU LOVE You’ll start by swiping right on images you love—these will be added to your final board (you can always add more).

There’s also room to add personalized, must-haves (think: taco truck, dog-friendly venue or room for a sangeet).

floral wizard or an epic cover band, book those pros first.

Many in-demand vendors get scooped up early, especially in high season. Don’t panic: If your first choice is already booked, ask them for a recommendation. Chances are they have an industry BFF who can also help bring your vision to life.

DEFINE YOUR STYLE No couple is just one set style—instead, you’ll get a series of words that describe your vibe. Bonus: You can use this lingo when talking with your pros.

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REGISTRY

MANAGE YOUR People will want to shower you with gifts from “we’re engaged” to your wedding day, so a registry is a must-have.

Build yours on The Knot Registry and add items from anywhere you shop with our universal registry tool.

That means you don’t have to choose between bespoke Etsy finds and smart home tech from Amazon. Plus, your guests get a one-stop shopping experience—a win-win.

SHARE YOUR IDEAS When you’re ready, send your inspo-packed vision board to your fam and the people bringing your day to life.

Your series of images will help convey your idea of what a “romantic garden party” really looks like.

EDITOR TIP The Knot Registry also lets you ask for cash

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for things like an epic trip to Bali or a down payment on a new home. Yes, you read that right: It’s okay to ask for $$$.

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PERFECT YOUR COLOR PALETTE We’ll even suggest colors that match your wedding style.

Not quite right? Change them up as you plan.

GET PERSONAL RECOMMENDATIONS

GUESTS

THINK OF YOUR A wedding website is clutch—for your guests and you. Fill your site with need-to-know info, like hotels and registries, then share it with your guest list. Your friends and family will be in the know, and you won’t be fielding “directions please” emails hours before you say “I do.” You can even stay on top of RSVPs with our handy built-in reply tool.

We’ll take your quiz answers and match you with vendors based on your location, style and budget—starting with your venue.

SAY “I DO” WITH EASE We’ll send you helpful reminders along the way and create a day-of timeline to ensure smooth sailing.

EDITOR TIP Choose from free designs (coordinate

SHARE PHOTOS

MAKE IT LAST

Prompt guests to download The Guest app, and their photos and videos will be shared in real time, no hashtag necessary!

Keep the flame alive while planning and beyond with Lasting. Download the app for on-the-go relationship counseling. GetLasting.com

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LO O K FO R

with your Minted wedding invites), and even snag a custom URL for an extra touch of personalization.

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IS ICON Throughout the issue we’ve included more ways we can help you pull it all off, like creating your wedding website and setting up the ultimate registry.

LIGHT BULB: HEADSOFBIRDS/NOUN PROJECT; MAGNIFYING GLASS: LINSEED STUDIO/NOUN PROJECT; IDEAS: CREATIVE STALL/NOUN PROJECT; COLOR PALETTE: OLGA/NOUN PROJECT; TARGET: PRIME ICONS/NOUN PROJECT; LIST: ALEX MURAVEV/NOUN PROJECT

Take our Style Quiz in the app and we’ll help you create your very own Wedding Vision board. Use it to plan your #bestdayever.

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ADVICE

Q+A

ASK THE KNOT SQUAD You’ve got questions, we’ve got answers. We tapped our team—and one of our go-to industry pros—to solve some of your most of-the-moment planning asks.

OUR TAKE I really want a modern, fun invitation suite, but my fiancé is feeling something a bit more classic with calligraphy. Any design tips for picking invites that suit both of our styles?

SARAH EVANS

Private vows allow you to express yourselves without an audience.

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My partner and I are both major introverts— we don’t do PDA and hate being the center of attention—so a traditional ceremony seems really scary to us. Are there ways for us to rethink the structure to fit our personalities?

PRO TAKE

JOVE MEYER

Owner Jove Meyer Events Jove is an NYC-based event designer known for throwing celebrations that take personalization to new heights.

Your wedding ceremony should be true to both of you—that includes reflecting your style, love story and personalities. If you’re both introverts, you could consider a city hall ceremony. This allows you to bring a few friends, keeping things intimate and casual. But, if you go with a city hall wedding, a majority of your loved ones will miss out on your public commitment. As an alternative, rethink the day in a way that pulls the attention away from you.

Maybe you could skip walking down a traditional aisle and instead hang out with your guests preceremony. Think: no processing, just getting married where you are, on your terms. You could also walk down the aisle with your partner or ask guests to process to you instead, meeting you, your partner and the officiant at the altar. Starting the ceremony together might make you more comfortable. In the end, the goal of the wedding ceremony is to make your commitment of love in front of those you care about most. This can really take place in whatever form feels most authentic to your relationship.

Marriage is all about collaboration and figuring out how to blend two individual styles. Here’s the good news: When it comes to stationery design, seemingly opposing tastes can actually complement each other nicely and really represent you as a couple. If your fiancé is nonnegotiable on calligraphy, try pairing hand lettering with clean, modern typefaces for a combo that won’t feel too stuffy. Give your suite an energetic vibe by experimenting with color and avoiding any fussy details that might not feel true to your combined style. Letting the script shine as the focal point can feel clean and bold but simple and timeless at the same time. Win, win!

We’re trying to settle on a first dance song, but the classics feel too serious. Where can we find a first dance jam to start the party?

S H A R LY N P I E R R E Assistant Editor, Research

Check out different radio stations or comb through Spotify, but keep this in mind: As you’re researching, don’t be afraid to explore different genres you might not always find yourself listening to. Try pop, hip-hop or even Afrobeats. If nothing makes you want to strut and shake something, enlist the help of your wedding party and ask for song recs or even a playlist—they’ll know what feels most like you both.

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Art Director

Find more advice on THE K N OT WE D D IN G PL ANNE R APP

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A Tradition in the Grand Manner

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300 E. Evesham Rd. Cherry Hill, New Jersey 08003 Less than 15 miles from Philadelphia!

all you need to think about is each other.

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ROAD TO LOVE

SMALL WONDERS

JOEY + SCOTT CINCINNATI

“Our genius designer paid tribute to the thousands of miles we traveled when we were long distance,” Scott says. “The path on the ampersand is the highway we drove to get to each other on I-71 in Ohio.”

GET

Looking for a subtle way to personalize your suite?

Try a custom wax seal in a favorite color, a meaningful stamp on the envelope or an illustration on the liner.

creative W I T H Y O U R

Set the tone for your celebration with a suite that’s as one of a kind as your story. Invites are an opportunity to take personalization to the next level, from custom illustrations of your abode to subtle tributes to your journey down the aisle.

Ask your designer to create custom art of something special.

HOME SWEET HOME S I LV I A + M A R I O S A N A N TO N I O

“Oddly enough, we found our stationery when we moved into our home,” Silvia says.

“I stumbled upon this handdrawn illustration as I was dusting and organizing our cabinets. I got copies printed and held onto them for a long time in the hopes of using them in the future. I never thought that the occasion would be our reception in the front yard of our home—but here we are.”

INCLUSIVE ‘I DOS’ CHRISTINA + JAMES PHILADELPHIA

“I created a version of our invitations in braille for my friends with vision impairment,” Christina says.

“Not all people with vision impairments can read braille, so we also made sure the paper was white with a dark font to ensure a high contrast for universal legibility.”

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S TAT I O N E R Y

Discover your vibe at THE K N OT.CO M/ WE D D IN G -VI S I O N

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Brigalias

3 9 6 Wi l l i a m s t ow n R o a d , Wi n s l ow, N J 856-629-4545 - Brigalias.com

A once-in-a-lifetime wedding combined with our intimate & romantic atmosphere makes Brigalias the perfect choice.

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FURRY FRIENDS

TOP IT OFF

R A C H E L + K E V I N B A LT I M O R E

“It was always important for Kevin and me to include our pups in the ceremony,” Rachel says. “They’re rescues and don’t handle large crowds well, so this was my way of having them with me as I walked down the aisle.”

H AV E

Shoes aren’t the only accessory that can speak to your style.

Rocking a suit?

Try a custom bow tie or a bolo made from a special stone. If you’re wearing a gown, add extra meaning with jewelry or a veil.

fun W I T H Y O U R

Your wedding day is a chance to channel your personal style from head to toe—literally. These couples kicked their footwear up a notch by running wild with color, illustration and meaning, bringing a new definition to “happy feet.”

SEEING DOUBLE DANI + MIKE BEAVER, PA

GOOD LUCK CHARM RACHEL + FANGZHI CHICAGO

“I originally got these slides during a trip to my husband’s hometown of Yichang, China,” Rachel says. “I thought I’d wear them for our ceremony in China, but decided it would be even more special for them to serve as a nod to my husband’s family as well as a pop of color in our more modern Chicago ceremony.”

Channel your cultural identity with your accessories.

“I absolutely love wearing saddle shoes, and Mike is into the look too,” Dani says.

“We wanted to do something a little different, and our wedding had a slight vintage flair, so these seemed like the right fit. We both felt stylish in a quirky, old-school way—not to mention confident and comfortable.”

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KICKS

Find footwear inspo at THE K N OT.CO M/RE AL-WE D D IN G S

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Here, Your Day Is All About You AT EDGEWOOD COUNTRY CLUB we only accommodate a single event per day, so you’ll feel at ease knowing our staff is committed to every detail of your special occasion. Delivering one-to-one service is our personal touch, and we do it all in our stunning, newly redesigned clubhouse.

This unique experience is what turns a single moment into a lifelong memory.

FOR YOUR PRIVATE TOUR, CONTACT CANDICE Candice@EdgewoodNJ.com | (201) 666-1200 Ext. 218 449 Rivervale Road, River Vale, NJ 07675

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STITCHED WITH LOVE

PUT DOWN ROOTS

MELISSA + DANE ALMA, KS

“After Dane’s mom passed away, a dear friend and Sioux elder wrapped and blessed him in a morning star quilt,” Melissa says.

“At our ceremony, she blessed us together as a couple in the same piece.”

Embrace your inner green thumb and plant a tree together. Add a sentimental twist to the ritual by using soil from your family homes.

After their ceremony, Melissa and Dane hung their quilt up at home.

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meaning W I T H Y O U R

When it comes to saying “I do,” there are a myriad of ways to seal the deal. Though many couples choose to light candles or pour sand, you can also link your lives together by remixing rituals, whether they’re based in your faith, your family or your favorite midnight snack.

FRESHLY MADE CASSIE + ERIC SAVANNAH, GA

FAMILY TIES A N G E L A + B R I T TA N Y CINCINNATI

“It was important to us to involve our pastor—who has played a huge role in our spirituality—in our ceremony,” Angela says. “We also wanted to honor our diverse faith journeys and those of our guests.

A handfasting struck that perfect balance for us.”

“A few days before the wedding in a hungry stupor, we decided to make guacamole in front of everyone to seal the deal,” Cassie says. “Our officiant explained to our guests why chips and guac stood as a strong metaphor for marriage as we delightfully smashed avocados and shared bites.”

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UNITY CEREMONY

Shop for your nest at THE K N OT.CO M/REG I S TRY

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Park Ch창teau Estate and Gardens is located on 15 acres of luscious gardens.

With a private pond and serene chapel, it will provide the perfect setting for your exclusive outdoor or indoor wedding ceremony and reception.

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Two Landmark Facilities.

www.naninasinthepark.com

973.751.1230 540 Mill Street, Belleville, NJ info@naninasinthepark.com

www.theparksavoy.com

973.377.7100 236 Ridgedale Avenue, Florham Park, NJ info@theparksavoy.com

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TRENDING DISCO DROPS Earrings, $38, Zaxie.com

BRING THE

drama W I T H

BOLD TIPS

EMERALD + BLUE

Gel Couture nail polish in Caviar Bar, $12, Essie.com

Get glamorous with a daring dose of jewel tones that will make any event feel luxe.

CROWN JEWEL Bobby pin, $82, JenniferBehr.com

DAPPER TOUCH Bow tie, $25, TheTieBar.com

INTO THE DEEP Saturated table number in Tidepool, $30 for 15, Erin Deegan, Minted.com

THE BACKSTORY

Dress in sizes up to 20, $280, TheiaCouture.com

PLUSH PERCH

KEEP CLEAR Clutch, $995, Edie-Parker.com

CANDY CRUSH Coffee crunch extra dark chocolate bar, $10, Compartes.com

SASSY STEPPERS Shoes, $395, LoefflerRandall.com

ARTSY VESSEL Libra blue and white vase, $15, CB2.com

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Green velvet chair, $60 per day to rent, RentPatina.com

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TRENDING WHAT A DISH

Food52 dinnerware

by Jono Pandolfi, from $34 each, Food52.com

MOONSTONED Earrings, $495, KendraScott.com

KEEP IT

chic W I T H

GREIGE REIGE + CREAM STRAPPED IN

Shoes, $100, ChineseLaundry.com

Use tone-on-tone neutrals to lend an effortless and elegant appeal to your stylish celebration.

TREASURE TROVE Keaton jewelry box, $40, KateSpade.com

COLD SHOULDER Dress in sizes up to 28, $270, Amsale.com

MODERN MEMO Foil-stamped colorblow wedding invitation, $270 for 100, ArtifactUprising.com

FIDO FASHION

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Flax lines dog bandana, $26, TheFoggyDog.com

PEARL POWER SWEET SCENT

Candle in Chandelier, $36, Otherland.com

GLOW UP

Ambient Lighting finishing powder in Diffused Light, $48, Sephora.com

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Clutch, $950, EKRDesigns.com

POWDER: GETTY IMAGES; ALL OTHERS COURTESY OF VENDORS

Dress up your fur baby in a pictureperfect coordinated bandana.

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THE KARTRITE RESORT, CATSKILLS. A DISTINCTIVELY DIFFERENT WEDDING.

Picture this… You and your guests enjoying an absolutely spectacular weekend in the beautiful Catskill Mountains.

The Kartrite is the perfect venue for any sized party, either inside the ballroom or outside amidst the trees. Amazing event spaces, modern and stylish suites including one, two and even three bedrooms, and scrumptious farm to table local cuisine.

Create lifelong fun memories at NY’s newest indoor waterpark, the indoor adventure zone, the luxury spa and down the road at the new Resorts World Catskills Casino Resort. It’s all in one place - over one perfect weekend - at the one and only…

Kartrite Resort.

Don’t settle for ordinary when you know that extraordinary exists. The Kartrite is a convenient 90-minute drive from most of NYC, NJ and Connecticut.

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luxe W I T H

AMBER + RUST

COLORFUL TOSS Cactus silk pillow in Mustard Yellow, $60, CB2.com

BOW-TIFUL

Barrette, $138, JenniferBehr.com

SHINE ON

Marc Jacobs Beauty See-Quins Glam Glitter liquid eyeshadow in Copperazzi, $26, Sephora.com

Embrace all things fall with an unexpectedly cool palette that brings the warmth.

VELVET TOUCH

Dress in sizes up to 24, $295, JennyYoo.com

POSH PAPER

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Natural shapes save the date, $129 for 100, PaperCulture.com

BUZZY FAVOR

BumbleBerry honey, $20, ShopTerrain.com

FUNKY FRINGE

DAZZLING DANGLERS

Cotton fringe napkins, $22 for 4, Creative Co-op, Amazon.com

Earrings, $150, KennethJayLane.com

FESTIVE FIZZ

TOST beverage, $21 for 3, TOSTBeverages.com

Shoes, $1,245, ManoloBlahnik.com

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COURTESY OF VENDORS

FANCY FEET

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DESTINATION BROOKLAKE Live Your Best Life Come see for yourself why Brooklake is the destination for your perfect wedding.

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Contact one of our Event Specialists today • 973-377-2235 139 Brooklake Road, Florham Park, NJ • weddings.brooklakecc.com

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Acres and Acres of Dreams

185 MADISONVILLE ROAD, BASKING RIDGE, NJ 07920 • 908-953-8092 • BASKINGRIDGECATERING.COM Under Delicious Heights Management

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ON LOCATION

VENUE SCOUT

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JIM LEE VISION; COST APPLIES TO A SATURDAY WEDDING IN FALL OR WINTER 2020; GUEST COUNT IS DEFINED AS THE MAXIMUM NUMBER THE VENUE CAN ACCOMMODATE FOR A PLATED DINNER AND DANCING.

Rock Island Lake Club

The first—and often hardest—decision you’ll make is where to throw down. Here are 10 spots to make that task a bit easier.

B Y L I L LY B LO M Q U I S T

ROCK ISLAND LAKE CLUB SPARTA

THE PALACE AT SOMERSET PARK SOMERSET

UPDIKE FARMSTEAD PRINCETON

COST

THE INN AT FERNBROOK FARMS BORDENTOWN

GUEST COUNT

COST

from $8,500 GUEST COUNT 225 ABOUT Over 25 acres of organic farms create a beautiful backdrop, while also cultivating seasonal ingredients used to prepare the freshest cuisine.

from $135 PP GUEST COUNT 600 ABOUT Ornate fireplaces, crystal chandeliers and an open ballroom combine for a refined setup that fuses old Hollywood glamour with contemporary design.

GUEST COUNT

from $180 PP 196 ABOUT Located on a private lake and featuring an extensive menu, outdoor pavilion and luxe ballroom, this rustic-chic spot provides a tranquil, nature-filled experience.

VENUE AMENITIES

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PLANNER

FLOWERS

RENTALS

COST

CATERING

CAKE

TRANSPORTATION

from $8,000 150 ABOUT Built 125 years ago, this quaint venue’s renovated barn emits rustic yet elegant charm with vaulted ceilings, wood beams and double doors that open to a private courtyard and rolling fields.

COST

ON-SITE ACCOMMODATIONS

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ON LOCATION BATTELLO JERSEY CITY

from $200 PP 200 ABOUT Mesmerizing views of the Manhattan skyline and mouthwatering menu options make this industrial joint a surreal site for “I do.”

COST

GUEST COUNT

THE ROCKLEIGH ROCKLEIGH COST

from $18,430 850

GUEST COUNT

ABOUT Recent upgrades, including a fresh coat of paint, new carpets and a redecorated lobby accentuate the venue’s timeless architecture.

WOODSEDGE FARM STOCKTON

from $20,000 400 ABOUT At this quaint countryside site (on over 90 acres of private land), couples can celebrate alongside more than 150 alpacas and llamas.

COST

GUEST COUNT

Battello

CRYSTAL SPRINGS RESORT HAMBURG

Crystal Springs Resort

from $100 PP 300 ABOUT This top-rated resort offers five unique wedding venues, each nestled into the mountains with sweeping views.

COST

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GUEST COUNT

from $139 PP 350 ABOUT After swapping vows to the tune of cascading waterfalls, couples can make their way to the grand ballroom, which boasts soaring ceilings decked out in crystal chandeliers.

COST

GUEST COUNT

THE LEGACY CASTLE POMPTON PLAINS

from $275 PP 1,000 ABOUT Royal vibes abound at this lakeside venue, thanks to towering ceilings, floating staircases and wrought iron railings covered in gold detailing.

COST

GUEST COUNT

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ON THE APP

D E F I N E YO U R D E S I G N Having trouble finding a venue that’s right for you?

Take The Knot Style Quiz to discover your Wedding Vision, then create a short list based on our recs.

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weddings & special events

LAKE MOHAWK COUNTRY CLUB We offer enchanting beach and boardwalk ceremonies with breathtaking views.

Lake Mohawk, surrounded by the foothills of northern New Jersey, is the perfect setting to exchange vows and celebrate your memorable occasion with charm and elegance.

Customize your day and make your dream wedding a reality at Lake Mohawk Country Club.

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Matt Gruber Photography

Fred Marcus Photographers

Brett Matthews Photography

THEROCKLEIGH.NET/25YEARS | (201) 768-7171 2 6 PA R I S A V E N U E , R O C K L E I G H , N J

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25 YEARS OF MAKING DREAM WEDDINGS COME TRUE Timeless elegance. Effortless planning. Extraordinary execution.

Jovon Photography and Video

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EXPERT ADVICE

ALL ABOUT

FLOWERS HOW SHOULD COUPLES PREPARE FOR THE FIRST MEETING WITH THEIR FLORAL PRO?

TO P T I P S

WHAT ARE SOME COMMON MYTHS ABOUT THE PROCESS OF SELECTING WEDDING FLOWERS?

Katherine suggests adding depth and dimension to a reception space by decorating a backdrop with flowers, lanterns and candles to place behind the sweetheart table.

The biggest myth that we often debunk for clients is the idea that greenery is always the most economical way to decorate a venue.

When I meet with couples, I show them a branch of eucalyptus and compare it to the photos of lush garlands that they show me for inspiration—most couples don’t realize how much material, time and supplies go into making those iconic looks.

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HOW CAN COUPLES SAVE MONEY ON THEIR FLORAL DESIGNS? Couples tend to exceed their budget when they’re super particular about their floral selections. If you specify your budget, share

your color scheme and provide photos for inspiration, your floral designer will then come up with alternatives or seasonal flower swaps that will capture the same essence you’re going for and fit your budget.

HOW CAN COUPLES TAKE CEREMONY FLORAL DESIGNS AND REPURPOSE THEM FOR THE RECEPTION? Most couples reuse the pieces on their ceremony arch for their sweetheart table. It’s an easy and affordable way to have full and lush flowers throughout your wedding venue, and as long as they let us know that’s the plan, we design it to transition onto the table seamlessly.

WHAT ADVICE DO YOU HAVE FOR COUPLES LOOKING TO PERSONALIZE THEIR WEDDING FLORALS? Be true to your style and who you are as a couple. Instead of picking flowers that are trendy, choose buds that speak to your love story. If you love a rustic design, rock it! If you prefer more traditional, make that happen. Although flowers die, they live on forever in photos, so pick something that will continue to evoke the same fuzzy feeling you felt on your wedding day.

WHAT FLORAL TRENDS DO YOU PREDICT WILL ENTER THE WORLD OF WEDDINGS IN 2021?

We have so many exciting and vibrant colors coming in 2021.

Whether it’s more desert-inspired hues, like burgundy, mustard or burnt orange, or deep jewel tones, like sapphire blue or amethyst purple, the upcoming year is going to be full of bold color. You can also expect to see more geometric designs, like gold flower vases and stands in a variety of shapes and sizes for centerpieces.

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OUR PRO Katherine Herrman, lead floral designer and owner of Thistle Bee the Florist

Before discussing details with your floral designer, make sure you have your venue and date finalized, a color scheme in mind and inspiration photos handy. Past that, you’ll also want to have an estimate of how many people will be in your wedding party and how many guests will be in attendance. Preparing and sharing all of these important details will help your pro create a more accurate design from the start.

Book a local floral designer at THE K N OT.CO M/NE WJ E RS E Y

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EXPERT ADVICE

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HOW CAN COUPLES SAVE MONEY ON CAKE DESIGNS IF THEY’RE ON A TIGHT BUDGET?

TO P T I P S Jennifer encourages her couples to try every one of her most popular cake combos so they can get a taste of the flavor and design they want for their wedding day.

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HOW CAN COUPLES INFUSE PERSONALITY INTO THEIR CAKE’S DESIGN? Shake up tradition and make a fun flavor request, like cotton candy or s’mores for the base. If you can’t agree on a single flavor, opt for a different flavor for each tier. For instance, one tier can be a chocolate cake with a cookiesand-cream filling based on the groom’s preferences, while the other can be the bride’s choice of light and airy vanilla cake combined with buttercream frosting. You can also get creative with your cake topper—choose one that represents your interests as a couple or a cherished hobby you share together, like a cutout of a snowboard or your favorite sports team’s logo. Or, include your pet by placing a sugar cat or dog on the back of the cake.

Enjoying a defrosted slice of wedding cake with one another on your first anniversary is a fun tradition and makes for a very special (and delicious) date night.

WHAT IS THE MOST UNIQUE OR CREATIVE CAKE YOU’VE EVER DECORATED? We had a bride who wanted an eight-tier cake, so we went for it! The cake was covered in all-white fondant and wrapped in gold ribbon around each tier, with the couple’s initials featured at the center of the dessert. It was very tall but very elegant.

WHAT TIPS WOULD YOU SHARE WITH COUPLES WHO ARE PLANNING THE CAKE FOR THEIR CELEBRATION? Before selecting a baker, make sure to do your homework.

Choose a professional who has several weddings under their belt—your wedding day is not the time to have your aunt or best friend try making a wedding cake for the first time.

Stick to a pro and you’ll save yourself the stress of trying to book a cake baker at the last minute. Check online reviews or ask your recently married friends for referrals. When you find “the one,” instead of letting a picky bridesmaid’s request get in the way, choose which flavors you like best.

It’s your day! A tiered cake can have different flavors, so I always suggest that couples select their favorite flavor in one tier (like pink champagne and strawberries) along with a classic flavor (like chocolate or vanilla) in another. You can also start a meaningful (and tasty!) tradition by freezing a few slices of your cake to enjoy on your one-year anniversary. Simply ask your baker for a small box and some suggestions for preserving slices of the cake—I recommend wrapping the cake in plastic wrap and foil and storing it in the freezer until your anniversary rolls around.

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OUR PRO Jennifer BunceTimmons, head cake baker and designer at The Hudson Cakery

Instead of having your cake designer decorate your cake with pricey sugar flowers, ask your florist to prepare fresh flowers as adornments.

You’ll save money while still decorating your wedding cake. Or, if you’re hosting a large wedding of more than 200 people, consider ordering a sheet cake in addition to a decorated tiered cake to feed the masses without breaking the bank.

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COUPLE STYLE

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Jacci + Steve

For their ceremony, Jacci walked down the aisle in a mermaid dress with sparkly embellishments, while Steve looked sharp in a black suit and slim black tie.

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THEIR STORY Jacci Levine (27 and a visual design consultant) and Stephen (Steve) Hehl Jr. (31 and a vice president of engineering) met while working at a floral startup, and—thanks to Jacci’s design expertise—knew exactly how they wanted to customize their celebration.

“I sourced every detail myself to ensure it spoke to us and left our guests feeling like they knew us better as a couple,” Jacci says. The pair planned a dreamy day decked out in airy textures and soft neutrals so every guest could feel like they were on cloud nine. — LI LLY B LO M Q U I S T

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PHOTO OP For a keepsake shot, guests could pose in front of a watercolor backdrop alongside antique-inspired props, the couple’s initials and arrangements of wispy pampas grass and roses. BUBBLY ON WHEELS A champagne cart greeted guests as they entered the chateau before the ceremony.

RECEPTION Jacci and Steve achieved a light and airy reception vibe with towering floral arrangements of pampas grass, roses, orchids and anthurium.

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B E V Y O F B LO O M S Since Jacci has worked with flowers for almost her entire career, floral design took priority for the day. Various lush displays of pink and white roses, orchids, pampas grass, ranunculus and scabiosa created a romantic atmosphere.

ESCORT CARDS Guests found their seats with help from calligraphed watercolor cardsattached to a vintage mirror using gold wax seals. CAKE For dessert, Jacci and Steve served a four-tier white cake with strawberry preserves and vanilla custard, covered in marbled fondant and finished with edible gold leafing. TRANSPORTATION Outdoors, a vintage golf cart (decked out with a garland of white balloons) playfully greeted guests at the reception.

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PA R T Y O U T F I T S For their reception, Victoria changed into a traditional Indian lehenga (the fabric matched Avinash’s sherwani jacket from the ceremony), and Avinash rocked a navy suit paired with a yellow tie.

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THEIR STORY When it came time to tie the knot, Victoria Carey (30 and a consultant) and Avinash Danashekar (30 and a project manager) planned a rustic and whimsical wedding steeped in tradition as a way to honor their backgrounds. “It was important to us that we blend our two families and two cultures into one celebration,” the pair says. To do so, they incorporated both Western and Indian attire, Christian and Hindu ceremony touchpoints and a reception of Western and Indian cuisine to embrace their new union. — LB

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WEDDING PLANNING

To help cope with the stress of planning, Victoria and Avinash stuck to the mantra, “No matter what happens, we’ll be married.”

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FIRST DANCE For their first dance, the pair chose a cover of “Summertime Clothes” by Animal Collective, the song that Avinash played for Victoria the summer before they started dating. CENTERPIECES The charming ceramic llama centerpieces doubled as favors and were a cheeky nod to the venue’s on-site llama and alpaca farm. CAKE “Chocolate-on-chocolate was a no-brainer for us,” the couple says. They topped the sweet treat with DIY llama cutouts.

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Sophia + Terrance PHOTOGRAPHY BY AMY ANAIZ PHOTOGRAPHY

“I DO” STYLE

Sophia wore an elegant white tulle ball gown with a sweetheart neckline and embellished lace, while Terrance looked sharp in a polished custom tux.

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THEIR STORY Sophia Dupont (37 and a social worker) and Terrance Carter (47 and a social worker) began their office romance after working at the same company for more than 12 years. Once they were ready to make it official, they decided to plan an elegant celebration that embraced the blooming florals and soft colors of springtime. “We wanted to include as many flowers as possible,” the pair says. “We were really going for that ‘wow’ factor.”

From white rose petals lining the aisle to edible blooms atop their cake, the couple transformed their venue into a budding garden perfectly suited for a day of romance. — LB

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W E D D I N G PA R T Y

Sophia’s bridesmaids wore floor-length dusty-pink dresses and carried bouquets of blush and cream, seamlessly matching the wedding’s floral theme and warm color palette.

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SWEETS A tiered confection—made from layers of snickerdoodle, red velvet and vanilla cake and garnished with delicate pink flowers—did double duty as a dessert and décor. COCKTAILS Bartenders served up champagne, lemon martinis and margaritas. SWEETHEART TABLE A gold table, covered in flowers and framed by a floral arch, displayed the newlyweds’ cake. In front, the pair’s wedding logo decorated the dance floor.

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TABLESCAPE Unique birch “trees” overflowing with luxe blooms (think: orchids, roses, hydrangeas, lisianthus and more) took center stage at the reception, while floating candles, mirrored tabletops and metallic blush rosebud chairs added to the romantic vibe. RECEPTION “We were so excited to see what all of our months of planning ended up looking like,” the couple says. “We were both floored—we couldn’t believe how gorgeous everything turned out.”

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FIRST DANCE

Sophia and Terrance swayed to “Why I Love You” by Major during their first dance. “The title speaks for itself,” the pair says.

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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Palace at Somerset Park, Somerset PHOTOGRAPHY Amy Anaiz Photography PLANNER & EVENT DESIGNER Elle Audrey New York FLOWERS NYC Flower Project GOWN Pnina Tornai, Kleinfeld Bridal, New York City TUXEDO Robbie & Co. Mens Shop, New York City WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: The Dessy Group; groomsmen: Men’s Wearhouse; flower girl: David’s Bridal; ring bearers: Robbie & Co. Mens Shop HAIR Modimel Weddings MAKEUP Juicy Looks by Abby VEIL Kleinfeld Bridal ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Blue Nile STATIONERY Invitations, programs & escort cards: Hanan Paikin Stationery; menus: Papered Wonders, Inc. RENTALS Evolution Event Rentals; Glam Party Rentals; Perez Events; SHOUT! CAKE BCakeNY OFFICIANT Aretha Gaskin MUSIC Ceremony: Diverse Concert Artist; reception: DJ Stakz PHOTO BOOTH Shake and Share Media, LLC FAVORS Sugarfina GUESTS 210 HASHTAG #CallUsTheCarters1

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8.3 | MORRISTOWN

Anastasia + Greg PHOTOGRAPHY BY HALEY RICHTER PHOTOGRAPHY

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THEIR STORY Anastasia Marek (24 and an artist) and Gregory (Greg) Pagano (32 and an electrician) wanted to plan a celebration that would resonate with their loved ones. “Our wedding wasn’t just for Greg and me,” Anastasia says. “It was also for our families, and we wanted everyone to feel special.”

As a tribute to the flower shop Anastasia’s parents owned, the couple planned a vintage garden party, decked out in personal florals that Anastasia’s mother arranged. Greg wore a purple rose in honor of his father, while Anastasia added her grandmother’s favorite flower, lily of the valley, to her bouquet. — LB

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RECEPTION The couple decked out their reception space with bright flowers and greenery to create a lush indoor garden. Anastasia added a little edge to the light and airy setting with a hint of black, her favorite color. SENTIMENTAL TOUCHES After the ceremony, Greg and Anastasia held a private butterfly release in memory of Greg’s father. ESCORT CARDS DIY escort cards mounted with a monogrammed wax seal covered a vintage mirror at the reception.

FIRST DANCE “When our friends and family joined in, Greg and I had this special moment together,” Anastasia says.

“We felt pure happiness without the pressure of all eyes on us.”

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FA S H I O N When designing their looks, the pair chose accessories with sentimental value.

Megan (left) wore diamond earrings from her in-laws, while Alana paired her jumpsuit with her grandmother’s gold bracelet and her stepmother’s diamond earrings.

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CEREMONY Alana and Megan exchanged vows in front of a chuppah embellished with hydrangeas, orchids and loads of greenery.

THEIR STORY Alana Katz (32 and a marketing professional) and Megan Colson (35 and a human resources professional) designed their wedding with one guiding principle in mind: Simplicity is key.

After visiting at least 20 venues, the couple landed on Mansion at Natirar, thanks to its effortless, classic style.

“When we arrived at the mansion, we instantly knew it was the one for us,” the pair says.

With help from timeless décor elements and a neutral palette, their personal details—like Jewish traditions, Italian touches and pizza party favors—could shine. — LB

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RECEPTION A towering display, wrapped in greenery and adorned with delicate white orchids, served as the focal point for the room.

Classic place settings, simple linen tablecloths and glowing candlelight finished the look.

SIGNATURE COCKTAILS The pair served bourbon cocktails named after their dog, Ollie. CAKE Alana and Megan cut into a lemon vanilla cake with white chocolate basil mousse filling. They also served cookies paired with Ben & Jerry’s ice cream, Alana’s wedding surprise to Megan.

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WEDDING STYLE

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Erin complemented her vintage-inspired lace gown with her grandmother’s gold charm bracelet and a pair of emerald earrings gifted to her by her godmother.

Phil rocked a classic tux, adding a dose of personality with his favorite socks and a mountain tie clip.

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S TAT I O N E R Y

Erin’s friend used her design skills to help transform the pair’s love of mountains and stars into a unique suite.

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THEIR STORY Erin Henke (29 and a pilates coach) and Phil Ernst (28 and a police officer) wanted to plan a wedding that would take their guests on an adventure, allowing them to share their passion for physical activity and nature with their loved ones. “We transformed our venue into a representation of what makes our love limitless,” Erin says. They decked out the space in jewel tones, covered it in greenery and hung string lights from the ceiling to evoke all the places they’ve explored. — LB

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FA M I LY F I R S T

The couple placed old photos of loved ones’ weddings in vintage frames to add a sweet dose of sentimental value to the card table.

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CAKE DISPLAY A vintage buffet, glass votives and a hoop of eucalyptus and lemon leaf garland set the stage for the tiered confection.

CARD BOX Inspired by their love of travel, the pair created a card box out of vintage steamer suitcases. WEDDING PARTY Other than asking her bridesmaids to wear fall colors, Erin didn’t provide any style guidelines. “I wanted to showcase my inner circle by letting them be who they are,” she says.

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TA B L E S C A P E

Each table was decorated with a collection of vintage wine glasses, black lanterns and a runner of greenery.

Snow-capped wood mountains served as table numbers, reflecting the duo’s passion for the great outdoors.

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LIGHTS Fixtures made from metal shutters wrapped in greenery and twinkling Edison bulbs hung from the ceiling. CAKE A banana cake with salted caramel swirl, buttercream frosting, edible gold foil and fresh figs stood out on a wood slice. FIRST DANCE Erin and Phil chose “Dig” by Incubus for their first dance in an effort to re-create their experience listening to the band perform the song live at a music festival. “I never wanted to forget how we felt that night,” Erin says.

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PA R T I N G T H O U G H T S “It made us happy to have a night where we lived more than we talked,” Erin says.

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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Art Factory, Paterson PHOTOGRAPHY Edward Winter/Readyluck PLANNER Christina Whitney/Whitney Events FLOWERS Park Floral Designs LLC GOWN Vagabond, Lovely Bride, New York City SUIT StudioSuits.com; hat: Amazon.com; tie: Sean John; tie clip & cuff links: TreeTownPaper, Etsy.com WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: Lulus.com; groomsmen: StudioSuits.com HAIR Alexa Borino MAKEUP Lauren Diaz & Diana A. Parra VEIL Sew Elegant Bridal, New York City ENGAGEMENT RING Arlington Jewelers WEDDING RINGS Erin: T&R Jewelers; Phil: Arlington Jewelers STATIONERY Invitations: Briana Bednarski; programs, escort cards & menus: Margaret Henke RENTALS & CATERING Sterling Affair CAKE Miss Emm’s CAKE TOPPER Amazon.com DESSERTS Sterling Affair OFFICIANT Michele Gumney (Phil’s aunt) MUSIC Almost Easy Entertainment, LLC PHOTO BOOTH Ashley Cabrill TRANSPORTATION Marriott Saddle Brook HONEYMOON Minimoon: California GUESTS 240

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Vibrant autumn hues of red, orange and purple inspired the couple’s floral arrangements and accessories. The duo kept it casual in sneakers, and Joanna wrapped herself in a snuggly shearling jacket to play into the cozy fall vibe.

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THEIR STORY Joanna Han (34 and an attorney) and Hee Chul Chung (36 and a loan officer) hosted a minimalist and modern fall wedding reminiscent of the day they first met. “Having our wedding three years to the month after our blind date meant so much to us,” Joanna says. The couple planned a casual and intimate DIY celebration steeped in rich autumnal tones and organic details, complete with a sparkler send-off and color bomb release to highlight their love for one another and the people in their lives. — LB

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CAKE With fresh fall flavors and colors in mind, the newlyweds chose a semi-naked, citrus-scented cake with raspberry coulis filling and vanilla buttercream frosting, topped with figs, blueberries and blackberries. FAVORS Guests took home personalized shot glasses as a token of the bash.

STATIONERY To help eliminate waste, the couple mailed paper invitations to only family members and sent the rest of the guests e-invitations.

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FIRST DANCE Joanna and Hee choreographed their own dance to Andy Grammer’s “Fresh Eyes.” “During the beginning stages of our relationship, I told Joanna that this song portrayed my feelings for her, and the song has stuck ever since,” Hee says.

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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Inn at Fernbrook Farms, Bordentown PHOTOGRAPHY Pat Furey Photography FLOWERS DIY, Afloral.com; FiftyFlowers.com; Metropolitan Plant and Flower Exchange; Michaels GOWN Nicole Miller, Glamour Closet, New York City; jacket: Karl Donoghue; scarf: Paul Smith SUIT Paul Smith HAIR Up & Out Salon MAKEUP Namie Bae (Hee’s cousin) ENGAGEMENT RING Ultimate Diamond WEDDING RINGS Joanna: Hortense Jewelry; Hee: Cartier STATIONERY Invitations: Zola.com; menus: Zazzle.com CATERING & CAKE Inn at Fernbrook Farms CAKE TOPPER Sparklers: Amazon.com MUSIC Starshield Entertainment Group OTHER ENTERTAINMENT Fujifilm Polaroid cameras & games: Amazon.com FAVORS Shot glasses: BarProducts.com GUESTS 65 HASHTAG #JoWedsHandsomeChung

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Molly + Michael PHOTOGRAPHY BY KAMP WEDDINGS

FA S H I O N To match their classy yet edgy wedding vibe and moody color scheme, Molly rocked combat boots with her champagne-hued dress, while Michael paired his custom gray suit with a pair of leather boots.

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THEIR STORY Since Molly Farrell (31 and a therapist) and Michael Murphy (31 and a business owner) have known one another since sixth grade, they wanted to take the reins when it came to planning their wedding. “It was important that the event be a reflection of both of us,” Molly says. The couple threw a magical and romantic wedding painted in dark hues and decorated with minimal designs. By privately exchanging vows and having bridesmaids carry lanterns instead of bouquets, they infused passion and intimacy with tradition. — LB

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“We kept the decorations simple because our venue was already so beautiful, it didn’t need much more to make it stand out,” Molly says.

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TABLESCAPE Black taper candles and deep burgundy blooms at each table created a dark and romantic ambience. FAVORS Instead of traditional party favors, the pair set up a tattoo bar (along with three other stations) with playful temporary tattoos of their faces. CAKE The couple selected a chocolate fudge and red velvet layered cake as the night’s sweet. It was topped with a silhouette of the bride, groom and their goldendoodle, Wren.

FIRST DANCE

Molly chose “Cosmic Love” by Florence and the Machine for their first dance because she felt the lyrics described their path to marriage.

“I fell in love with the song, too” Michael says.

“The tone and message are both powerful.”

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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Ryland Inn, Whitehouse Station PHOTOGRAPHY Amanda Vellekamp and Joe Vellekamp/Kamp Weddings PLANNER Michelle Ross/The Ryland Inn FLOWERS Strange Vine Studio GOWN Hayley Paige, Castle Couture, Manalapan SUIT Indochino; shirt: The Tie Bar; tie: Men’s Wearhouse WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: Azazie.com; groomsmen: Men’s Wearhouse HAIR Suheil Serrano MAKEUP La Belle Visage Hair and Makeup Team HEADPIECE Crown: Elemental Child VEIL Castle Couture ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Diana Michaels STATIONERY Invitations: Zazzle.com CAKE Palermo Bakery OFFICIANT Alicia Casteline (friend) MUSIC POSH DJs FAVORS Tattoos: lilimandrill, Etsy.com GUESTS 125

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Ocean views and charming boardwalks are reason enough to flock to the Jersey Shore for your wedding day destination, but if you need some convincing, these seaside spots will surely sweeten the deal.

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THE REEDS AT SHELTER HAVEN STONE HARBOR COST From $147 PP GUEST COUNT 220

At this swanky site, couples can take in views of the sparkling harbor from the beachy sun deck, covered veranda and open-air concept ballroom.

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Situated directly on the shore, this peaceful oasis presents the ideal spot, with guest rooms harboring floor-to-ceiling windows and a pool deck cushioned with luxe sofas and pillows.

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SHORE THINGS Show off Jersey’s finest by incorporating the below flavors, products and activities into your wedding weekend.

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HOT SPOTS

FLOWER POWER

Gilded Lily Events Owner: Paige VanGombos

Flowerchild Florals Creative Director: Chelsie Perez

“I love Sandy Hook because it’s such a large expanse of beach, but it still feels secluded and intimate.”

REHEARSAL DINNER “Avenue in Long Branch, The Rum Runner in Sea Bright and Tim McLoone’s Supper Club in Asbury Park are just a few great options, though any restaurant with a private area would work.” WELCOME PARTY “A barbecue joint, local bar or fun place for an activity—like bowling at the new Asbury Lanes—is a great way for guests to break the ice ahead of the wedding weekend.”

ENGAGEMENT PHOTOS

LOCAL LOVE “I have an affinity for dahlias—which can continue to bloom into November—and anything with a center, like cosmos, daisies and zinnias. I source the most amazing ranunculus from H J Hautau & Sons, which are technically in-season in the spring, but I see them around most of the year.

Foxglove is another favorite that blooms in the spring and turns up again in the fall.” NEXT UP “I’m really into adding fruits to my designs, like blueberry branches, because they make for a nice surprise—and a great talking point!”

GOOD EATS

SWEET TALK

Chef and Owner of The Red Store: Lucas Manteca

Mueller’s Bakery Managers: Katie Lansing and Kerry O’Neill

“Pork chops and celery root puree.” LATE-NIGHT “We often make pots de crème for dessert, which is the perfect individual sweet for guests to enjoy anywhere—even by a fire.” FRESH TAKE “Local oysters, like Cape May Salts, and scallops from right offshore are always popular menu items.”

FALL FAVORITES LOVES

SEASONAL SPIN “Our ‘Jersey blues’ blueberry flavor pairs well with our lemon pound cake that’s filled with house-made lemon curd.” TOP SELLERS “Our cheese claws—flaky puff pastries stuffed with sweet cheese filling and dusted with crumbs and powdered sugar—are to die for, along with our chocolate cake with cannoli filling, and—of course—our infamous crumb cake!”

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Garden State Wine Growers Association Executive Director: Tom Cosentino OVERVIEW “Many wineries offer sweeter wines, but most also produce outstanding vinifera varietals like cabernet franc, cabernet sauvignon and chardonnay, because the growing conditions in South Jersey mirror those of France’s Bordeaux region.” BUBBLES “William Heritage Winery in Mullica Hill makes a wonderful sparkling wine.” FRUITY FIX “Hammonton is the world’s blueberry capital, and many wineries there make delicious blueberry wine.”

GUEST ENTERTAINMENT NJ Division of Travel & Tourism Executive Director: Jeffrey Vasser

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A I S L E TA L K There’s no one way to get married—or one way to make your way down the aisle. Case in point: This duo rode the Seaside Heights Sky Lift down the aisle to their “I do.”

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GETTING AROUND “On summer weekends, there’s a free ferry service from Tuckerton Seaport to Beach Haven and a paid shuttle service running the entire island. Monmouth County can be easily accessed by train, car or ferry, and Cape May is a very walkable town.” TOURIST ATTRACTIONS “Charter a private whale-watching excursion or arrange a tour of the Victorian historic homes in Cape May. Encourage visitors to embrace nostalgia at Asbury Park’s Silverball Museum or catch a show at The Stone Pony concert venue, where Bruce Springsteen has made numerous appearances.” SOUVENIRS “Gift artisanal coffee, handmade fudge, salt water taffy or even peanut butter.”

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ALL ABOUT

C AT E R I N G WHAT’S THE EASIEST WAY FOR COUPLES TO PERSONALIZE THEIR CATERING SELECTION?

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This skilled chef uses fresh, local ingredients to whip up meals that represent couples, their heritage and their relationship.

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DESCRIBE YOUR FAVORITE MENU. We catered a classic summer wedding on the Jersey Shore, and the spread we organized was bursting with color, flavor, simplicity and fresh produce. During cocktail hour, we served warm buttery lobster rolls with a drizzle of Old Bay aioli alongside a cheese and charcuterie display for guests to pair with drinks. For dinner, the first course was a salad of mustard greens, baby lettuce and aged parmesan, coated in a wild herb vinaigrette, plus semolina knots spread with whipped salted garlic butter. The dinner was served family style and consisted of a choice of roasted organic chicken with fennel, cherry tomatoes, shallots and capers, or a seared strip steak with a zingy chimichurri. Roasted baby

We ask our couples to vocalize what they envision for their big day, and we pull out all the stops to make sure their culinary dreams come to life.

potatoes, an heirloom tomato and cucumber salad with fresh mozzarella and buttery corn on the cob accompanied the main course. I love being able to blow people’s minds with the simplest ingredients, and this spread did just that.

WHAT CATERING TRENDS DO YOU ENVISION WILL DOMINATE WEDDINGS IN THE NEXT YEAR? For the past few seasons, all-night cocktails and familystyle dinners have been popular with couples, but now plated dinners are coming back in full force. Instead of grazing on the food display as guests please, the dining experience is shifting toward a more formal affair, where guests can gather around the table to savor the cuisine being served and indulge in conversation.

WHAT TIPS AND TRICKS DO YOU WISH COUPLES WOULD KEEP IN MIND WHEN WORKING WITH THEIR PRO? When you’re working with your caterer to plan a menu, share as much personality and background into your relationship as possible so your caterer can work with you to bring your ideal menu to life. I always ask couples to send me a list of ideas they have in mind for their wedding day dishes, and I combine the couple’s preferences with inspiration from the venue, their budget and the season to execute our vision.

From there, we’ll schedule a menu tasting. During the tasting, bring a bottle of champagne! Enjoy the experience and treat it as a celebration. Come your wedding day, it’s a great idea to ask your caterer to send a plate of leftovers to your room afterward, so you can satisfy the midnight munchies when they hit later in the evening.

FROM LEFT: VERONICA LOLA PHOTOGRAPHY; COURTESY OF CARDINAL PROVISIONS

OUR PRO Laura Brahn (right), the co-owner and culinary genius behind Cardinal Provisions

Incorporating your favorite foods into your wedding day dishes is a simple but impactful way to tell your guests who you are as a couple and what you love. It’s so special to serve a menu that evokes feelings of nostalgia and joy, and your family and friends will notice and appreciate it. Even if it’s something as small as an appetizer, passing out your must-have bites reminds guests that the party is about you, and it allows them to feel even closer to you.

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Peter Shields Inn Masters the Art of Wedding Bliss

The Peter Shields Inn & Restaurant is one of Cape May’s most historic and iconic homes. From our beautiful ocean views to our award-winning chef and newly renovated guests rooms, this beachfront Georgian Revival mansion offers everything a couple could need to have the wedding of their dreams!

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VIBRANT VOWS Layers of overlapping fluorescent acrylic sheets, funky florals and views of the ocean served as the backdrop to the couple’s outdoor ceremony.

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THEIR STORY Nicole Formisano (30 and a creative project manager) and Liam McWilliams (30 and a sign painter) first caught one another’s eye while working at an advertising company that hand-paints murals and signs. Together, they used their creative backgrounds to piece together a fun and funky workof-art wedding. “I felt fulfilled being able to coordinate everything on my own and see our creative ideas come to life,” Nicole says. From playful illustrated invites to pink acrylic table numbers, the pair covered their venue in bold rainbow hues for a truly one-of-a-kind celebration. — LB

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WEDDING PARTY The couple’s sisters all wore a dark green dresses, funking things up with rainbow statement earrings and saturated blooms. LUXE LOUNGE Guests could take a break throughout the night on a pair of personality-packed sofas in the lounge area, which was also decked out with an eclectic mix of florals. FLOWERS Whimsical monochromatic arrangements (with lots of spray-painted buds and palms) lent a dramatic effect throughout the day.

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PARTY PLACE Colorful hanging installations dotted the reception venue, while yellow linens and towering arrangements decorated the tables. “It was beyond everything I ever imagined for the space,” Nicole says. LET THERE BE LIGHT Multicolored taper candles cast a bright glow on the scene. SIMPLE SWEETS Instead of cutting a cake, Nicole and Liam offered guests an assortment of their favorite sugary treats, including doughnuts, hand pies and Choco Tacos.

Nicole + Liam’s

WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Asbury Hotel, Asbury Park PHOTOGRAPHY Cassie Castellaw Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Simple Love Films PLANNER Month-of coordinator: Castiglione Events FLOWERS & EVENT DESIGNER Faye and Renee Floral and Event Design GOWN Vagabond, Lovely Bride, New York City SUIT Suitsupply; tie: Gucci WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: BHLDN; groomsmen: Suitsupply HAIR & MAKEUP Lock & Shade ENGAGEMENT RING Heirloom WEDDING RINGS Nicole: Digby & Iona, Catbird Wedding Annex; Liam: Catbird Wedding Annex STATIONERY DIY; programs: SquiddyShop, Etsy.com RENTALS Faye and Renee Floral and Event Design CATERING & DESSERTS Cardinal Provisions OFFICIANT Aaron Ricchio (Liam’s best friend) MUSIC Reception: Sound Explosion Event Group HONEYMOON Greece GUESTS 125 HASHTAG #LiamTakesANe

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ALL DRESSED UP The couple opted for traditional formal attire, with Daniel wearing a custom blue tux and Christina rocking a lace dress with a side slit and diamond jewelry. “I err on the traditional side, but the slit made it youthful, fun and daring,” Christina says of her choice.

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THEIR STORY Christina McNamara (27 and a financial services director) and Daniel Weber (34 and a commercial manager) value the comfort and connection that stems from tradition, so they stuck with the classics for their bash, hosting a formal wedding with romantic flair. The duo exchanged vows in Christina’s hometown at the same church where her mother got married, then continued the party at a local country club. Delicate flowers in white and green and flickering candles cast an idyllic glow on the intimate evening. — LB

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The ring bearer carried the couple’s wedding rings on a bundle of rose stems tied together with a silk ribbon. “I wanted a ‘pillow’ made of organic objects that would complement the flowers,” Christina says.

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PARTY SCENE Wood chairs, white linens, lush greenery and an ocean backdrop created a fresh and crisp reception scene. FLORAL AFFAIR To achieve an elegant look, the couple opted for centerpieces of white roses, potted ferns and standard myrtles. TAKE A SEAT Christina used her grandfather’s mirror to display table assignments. “My grandfather was a significant presence in my life, and incorporating the mirror was a nice reminder of him,” Christina says.

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Christina and Daniel swayed to “Into the Mystic” by Van Morrison. “The song is so special—I used to dance to Van Morrison with my grandfather,” Christina says.

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PIECE OF CAKE Since the couple wanted a chocolate fix, they decided to combine the standard vanilla cake with layers of chocolate cake and cookiesand-cream filling. CUTE CREST The couple used a custom monogram to complete their table numbers. “It really tied everything together,” Christina says.

“We’ll have that monogram for life.” SOMETHING BLUE Bridesmaids wore navy dresses, tying them into the colors of the venue’s surrounding ocean views.

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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Holy Cross Church, Rumson RECEPTION SITE Rumson Country Club, Rumson PHOTOGRAPHY Jenelle Hilton/Jenelle Kappe Photography PLANNER DIY FLOWERS Katydid Signature Events & Floral Design GOWN Rita Vinieris, Aunchalee Boutique, Bangkok, Thailand TUXEDO Custom, Mohan’s Custom Tailors, New York City WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: Amsale; Bella Bridesmaids; groomsmen: custom, Mohan’s Custom Tailors HAIR Etre Hair Spa MAKEUP Amanda Rae ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Mariane Jewellery & Watches STATIONERY Invitations: Reaves Engraving; calligraphy: The Jess Press; monogram: Emily McCarthy RENTALS Fabrico Productions; Party Rental Ltd. CAKE The Vintage Cake OFFICIANT Father Michael Manning MUSIC Ceremony: Four Shore Strings; reception: The Sultans HONEYMOON Japan GUESTS 175

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FA S H I O N F O R W A R D For their wedding day attire, the duo opted for chic and formal looks, with Rosemary rocking a longsleeved lace gown and Louis opting for a bespoke suit and velvet bow tie.

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An assortment of roses, peonies, scabiosa, king protea and greenery added a burst of life to the rustic venue.

THEIR STORY Rosemary Olivieri (30 and a wedding client development associate) and Louis Carayol (29 and a purchasing director) planned a rustic and vintage wedding full of jewel tones and nostalgia at Rosemary’s family-owned venue. “The Abbie holds a very special place in my heart, and I always knew I would end up here for my wedding,” Rosemary says. From serving up a signature dish made by Rosemary’s mother, to placing a signed brick on the springhouse’s path, the couple used their day to deepen and revitalize their family ties. — LB

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PARTY PEOPLE The bridesmaids’ floral velvet dresses and the groomsmen’s black tuxedos complemented the couple’s elegant attire. AN ECLECTIC MIX The pair opted for an altar backdrop of ivy, hanging mirrors and an “All You Need Is Love” sign, along with a repurposed fireplace mantel from Rosemary’s childhood home. RUSTIC RECEPTION To enhance the farmhouse vibes, the duo selected wood tables with navy runners and metallic candlesticks.

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SMOOTH MOVES “The band learned Lauryn Hill’s version of ‘Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You,’ and it was awesome,” Rosemary says of their first dance.

OYSTER ACCENTS Rosemary grew up in New Jersey, so oyster shells appeared throughout the day. A HINT OF SPICE The pair sent guests home with chocolate chip cookies and a bottle of Louis’s homemade hot sauce called “Loucifer.” “Guests are still asking when he’s making more,” Rosemary says.

S W E E T D I S P L AY In addition to carrot cake, guests could choose from a variety of mini apple pies, mini pumpkin pies, pastries and homemade ice cream sandwiches.

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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY AND RECEPTION SITE The Abbie Holmes Estate, Cape May Court House PHOTOGRAPHY Liz Unruh and Jackie Evans/Have Heart Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Jose Medrano PLANNER & EVENT DESIGNER Dena Corrado FLOWERS Blooms Cape May GOWNS Blush by Hayley Paige, La Belle Mariée Bridal, Langhorne, PA; Anthropologie TUXEDO TheBlackTux.com WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: Yumi Kim, Revolve.com; groomsmen: TheBlackTux.com HAIR Fifth & Fitz MAKEUP Capelli & Trucco HEADPIECE La Belle Mariée Bridal ENGAGEMENT RING Winthrop Jewelers WEDDING RINGS Steven Singer Jewelers STATIONERY Invitations: Minted.com; escort cards, programs & menu cards: theCulturedCoop.com, Etsy.com RENTALS Rustic Drift; Ultimate Textile CATERING Xenia Catering at The Abbie Holmes Estate CAKE & DESSERTS Chez Michel; Sundae Best Homemade Ice Cream OFFICIANT Betsy Shoustal MUSIC Silver Arrow Band; Dueling DJs FAVORS Tate’s Bake Shop; hot sauce: DIY TRANSPORTATION Mike’s Affordable Shuttle Bus HONEYMOON Greece & Barcelona GUESTS 240 HASHTAG #LetsGetCarayoledAway

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S TAT E M E N T S U I T S The stylish pair both opted for unique looks, with Dan in a forestgreen suit and a gold flower pin and Eric in a rich, raspberry-hued style. “I chose my suit a whole year before the wedding,” Eric says.

“I saw the color and was like, ‘I need that.’”

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THEIR STORY Eric Keller (30 and a teacher) and Daniel (Dan) Bechhofer (29 and a financial reporting director) were advocates of bypassing tradition from the start, wanting to design a celebration that reflected their unique style and personalities. “We wanted to have a wedding that people would remember forever,” Eric says. Instead of sticking to one venue, the grooms hosted a “wedding crawl” at three different spots in Eric’s hometown so guests could fully immerse themselves in Cape May’s history and charm. — LB

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“From the first day we met, I’ve always felt there was something very serendipitous about our relationship,”Dan says. “I promised Eric it would always stay that way.”

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CUSTOM CALLOUT Eric’s graphic designer friend used her creativity to paint a wood sign with the couple’s names, wedding date and location on it. “She knocked it out of the park,” Eric says. SO FETCH As Mean Girls enthusiasts, the duo wanted to feature the notorious Burn Book, which Dan’s sister read from while she officiated their ceremony. VICTORIAN ESCAPE The pair opted for minimal decorations so The Chalfonte Hotel’s quaint style could stand out.

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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE The Chalfonte Hotel, Cape May RECEPTION SITES Union Park Dining Room, Cape May; Rusty Nail, Cape May PHOTOGRAPHY Brandi Brooks Photography FLOWERS Kate’s Flower Shop SUITS Eric: ASOS.com; Dan: Suitsupply ENGAGEMENT RING Gemvara WEDDING RINGS Eric: Luxurman; Dan: Blue Nile STATIONERY Invitations & escort cards: Greenwich Letterpress; table cards and large sign: Jessica Nam RENTALS Petrosh’s Big Top OFFICIANT Victoria Urbelis (Dan’s sister) FAVORS Fralinger’s Original Salt Water Taffy; drawstring bags & books: Amazon.com; hotel key tags: OnlineRiver.com TRANSPORTATION Great American Trolley Company GUESTS 100

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Infuse your signature cocktail with symbolic ingredients, like Scandinavian lingonberries.

HAPPY HOUR Your cocktail space deserves love too.

Here, chic seating and patterned linens set a festive scene.

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Your invites are the first look guests have into your wedding style, so let them shine. Here, muted tones and classic Swedish florals make for a stylish and thematic suite.

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TO W E R I N G T R E AT Your cake is a great place to lend a cultural touch, like this kransekake, a cookie tower typically stacked atop a champagne bottle for the couple to drink during the reception.

Smilax vine and sweet blue tweedia flowers tie the cake into the bouquet.

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C LO U D O F B U D S Draw the eye up with sprawling florals. This bright arrangement features dahlias, anemones and more.

BLUE BUNDLE This bouquet of blue tweedia boasts a hidden meaning: peace and harmony.

Very Scandi, no?

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Carry similar patterns throughout your event (like bitsy blue florals) for a cohesive look.

A retro Airstream trailer adds to the ski town aesthetic—and can double as a photo booth for guests.

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COLOR IS IN— AND BOLDER THAN EVER. U P G R A D E YO U R D AY W I T H THESE FRESH PA L E T T E S .

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FALL modern moody

Saying “I do” in autumn is all about embracing the dramatic atmosphere of the season, so concentrate on working with colors that pack on the saturation. Traditional fall shades like inky navy blue and rich burgundy get a very 2020 upgrade with help from of-the-momenthues like coral, mauve and fiery orange.

HOW TO USE IT When working with a palette as unexpected as this one, it’s only right to keep the surprises coming. Instead of focusing all the color attention on your tabletops, why not turn to your florals to bring that wow-factor? Painted or dyed botanicals like baby’s breath, feather ferns and dried blooms are a great way to add a dose of unexpected (and other-worldly) color. From there, you can complement the look with a modern mix of signage or paper goods printed on colored paper, a bold menu and seasonal sips.

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WINTER icy pastels

There’s no better way to embrace the snowy nature of (most) winter climates than to add a subtle layer of “frost” over all your favorite pastel shades. Slightly whitewashed hues like pale blue and soft lavender still feel lively while not seeming completely out of place for the season. The best part? This pretty palette helps to keep your celebration from skewing too “holiday,” which can often be a struggle in winter.

HOW TO USE IT Good news: You’ll be able to find tons of florals in these shades, even during the depths of winter, so that’s a great jumping off point for your palette. From there, layer on extras like table linens, bridal party attire and more to help set the scene. Just keep in mind: You’ll want any fabrics and or textures to uphold a seasonal feel, so opt for heavier-weight materials like wool and velvet over lighter options like silk.

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SPRING natural retro

This unique combo marries the best of mid-century design with a modern feel totally fit for any of-the-moment celebration.

Think of this palette as neutrals-but-better— calming shades like nude and olive green set the foundation for more zesty picks like mustard yellow, coral and soft mint. The end result? A look perfect for a boho, nature-inspired spring soiree.

HOW TO USE IT These shades beg to be mixed and matched, so start by decking out your wedding party in looks that range in color, texture and saturation. From there, set the scene at your reception with funky lounge furniture and interesting tablescapes. Don’t shy away from embracing the retro feel of this palette—you’ll be able to find tons of cool couches, chairs and even rugs in shades perfect for your party. Then, bring everything together with an eclectic mix of buds.

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SUMMER posh palm springs

West Coast is the best coast—at least when it comes to summer wedding palettes.

For a bright and cheery warm-weather bash, look no further than the citrus-inspired shades of colorful Palm Springs. A range of orange, yellow and fuchsia will practically create the party atmosphere for you—plus they’ll all pop amazingly in your photos.

HOW TO USE IT When you’re going this bright with your palette, more is more. Look to create photo-ready installations, like paper lanterns or a standout floral wall that doubles as a photo booth backdrop. You can also have some cheeky fun with oranges in this palette by incorporating the real-deal fruit into your decor.

Think: blood oranges slices used as a table runner, clementines in your salad appetizer and even orange-blossom buttercream on your cake.

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Melissa Andrushko is the founder of Variety Vintage Events. With her team, she helps couples in New Jersey, New York and beyond create memories and bring their vision to life.

When it comes to planning, set aside an hour or so each week to focus on what has to be done. It will help keep you on track and ensure you’re not overwhelmed by the process.

While Pinterest weddings are beautiful, they’re not the standard. Work within your budget by prioritizing what’s most important to you and spending accordingly.

Think about things you enjoy as a couple and implement those details into your day.

By incorporating your personality, you help guests feel like a part of your story.

This year, we’re so excited to see palettes that are completely unexpected. Blush and neutrals are timeless, but guests will be wowed by the energy fresh hues can bring.

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Add dimension to a bouquet with sprawling feather ferns and curly garlic scapes.

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Tropical picks, like ti leaves, pink anthurium and orchids, team with classic favorites ranunculus and garden roses for an accessible combo.

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t’s no secret that wedding food can sometimes feel a little one-note. But if the two of you are

big foodies and looking to create a memorable meal for yourselves and your guests, “good enough” just isn’t going to cut it. While any meal cooked up by a pro catering team is bound to be delicious, you shouldn’t feel, ahem, married to the traditional (and, typically, expected) steak, fish and chicken way of doing things. Instead, use your wedding day menu as means of illustrating the ins and outs of your truly unique love story, with a meal packed with foods that unite your cultures, harken back to your first date or make you feel like you’re at Grandma’s dinner table.

First up is the fun part—daydreaming!

When it comes to the big meal, the possibilities are endless, so cast a wide net when gathering inspiration for your menu. For a personalized dinner, think of ways you can tell your story through food (you can explain the deets on your paper menus!). Are you and your partner from two different cultural backgrounds?

Serve up traditional eats from both sides for a fusion menu that will have guests feeling like they just hopped on a plane to a different world. If a love for cooking runs in your family, consider compiling a few signature recipes (like Aunt Mary’s mac and cheese or Mom’s chicken tikka masala) and using those as a jumping off point for the day’s spread—most catering teams are willing to adapt a family recipe if you just ask. Or, design a menu that calls to mind your first date at that holein-the-wall taco joint or a memorable trip you took to Italy for your anniversary.

Whatever the inspiration, a meal deeply ingrained in your couple history is sure to be a big hit with the hearts—and the stomachs—of your friends and family.

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FIND THE RIGHT TEAM Once you’ve settled on your perfect menu, it’s time to find your dream team.

If you’ve already chosen a venue that has an in-house catering staff, make an appointment to sit down with the team and talk through your vision. Remember, just because what you’re asking for isn’t “typical” of their client offerings, doesn’t mean they can’t make it happen. Just be prepared to compromise if necessary— there’s a chance your unique asks may up the cost per person from what you were originally quoted, or they may only be able to fulfill a few of your culinary wishes. If you’re hosting your day at a

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venue that requires you bring in your own catering team, then you’re in luck— this is going to make it easier for you to handpick the crew that can best execute your menu. Our advice? Let your pro do what they do best. Just because you fall in love with the drool-worthy Instagram feed of a local barbecue team, doesn’t mean they’re the right people to pull off your Italian-meets-Asian menu. When in doubt, hire a team within the culinary culture of your choosing—not only will that guarantee you’ll get delicious eats, but you’ll know that there will be less of a risk for day-of surprises that could derail your whole dinner.

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Traditionally, most wedding meals are served one of three ways—buffet style, where guests get up and serve themselves; family style, where platters of food are placed on each table and passed around like at a dinner party; and plated, where waitstaff will place an individual plate in front of each guest. As you can imagine, all of these options ring in at different price points—but they also boast different vibes too.

Once you’ve booked your team and have a general idea of what you’ll be serving, it’s time to think about how you’ll be serving. A casual Tex-Mex menu of tacos, guac and street corn may not necessarily jive with a whiteglove plated dinner, so consider mixing up the service style to better complement the overall feel of your menu. From food stations to a slew of roaming servers, the right combo can take your meal to the next level.

Chances are, you’ve already put a bit of thought into how your reception tables will look—after all, they’ll be the design focal point of your event and are a great way to contribute to the overall energy of your day. If budget allows, think beyond basic linens and white dishware, and explore some truly unique rental options to help your menu come alive. Ask your catering pros to weigh in on what color plates will make your main meal pop, or complement your traditional cultural dinner with accessories suited to that style (think: handmade Moroccan lamps and bespoke napkins to pair with your Middle Eastern menu). One more important thing to note? Specialty plates and utensils! If you’re having an out-ofthe-box meal, chances are your typical place setting won’t suffice. Be sure to rent things like chopsticks, seafood forks, bamboo steamers or whatever else you may need to ensure your dining experience is complete.

At this point, you’ve put a lot of love and care into crafting a menu that feels unique to you and your partner—so you obviously want guests to notice, right?

That’s where your paper goods come in.

When designing day-of items like your menus or cocktail hour food cards, it’s important to take the time to explain the backstory behind some of your yummy selections. If you’re opting for a seated meal, consider creating a little booklet to walk guests through your love story and what each dish means to you as a couple or to your families’ cultures (this is especially important if the majority of guests will be eating dishes unfamiliar to them). Or, if you’re serving up a lot of family-favorite dishes, include a few of the best recipes in the welcome bags for the weekend so guests can re-create their favorites at home. Whatever you choose, letting guests in on the fun story behind your menu will help tie the whole occasion together seamlessly.

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AWKWARD QUESTION: DO I TIP MY VENDORS? WHO? HOW? HELP!

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MY WEDDING PARTY HAS BEEN SUPER PICKY ABOUT OUTFITS, AND THEY’RE NOT INTO ANYTHING I LIKE. HOW CAN I PLEASE EVERYONE?

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Okay, we got this, but remember: You can’t please everyone! I know, I know, groundbreaking stuff here, but if there’s ever a day on which this sentiment should be remembered, it’s your wedding day. You and your partner’s style and preferences should reign supreme for your event.

Does that mean you need to rule with an iron fist? Um, no. Instead, think of ways you can compromise with your wedding party without abandoning your vision. Try giving your besties a color swatch and a few rules (aka no sparkle), and let them go wild (subject to veto!).

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Nothing awkward here, friend. You’re talking to someone who blacks out every time they’re asked to do simple math, so I get it. Who you tip (and what you tip) depends on the vendor in question. Here’s a quick cheat sheet: Caterers, beauty pros, transportation pros and DJs should all get 15 to 20 percent of the total bill amount for their services. If you’re hiring servers, tip them around $20 each (or more), and same goes for musicians. Some pros don’t expect or require tips at all (floral designers, event planners and photographers, for example). When in doubt, head over to our site—TheKnot.com has your back with an extensive tip list.

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YOU ASKED, ANSWERED! MY PARENTS ARE DIVORCED, AND IT’S NOT EXACTLY AMICABLE. HOW DO I KEEP THEM FROM STRANGLING EACH OTHER AT MY WEDDING?

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I’m sorry you’re in the position of worrying about this. The best thing you can do here is overcommunicate, even when it’s hard.

Remind your parents that it’s your day—not theirs—so a peace treaty is necessary. Talk logistics and comfort levels. Can they sit next to each other at the ceremony? What about posing for family photos?

Be considerate of their feelings, but not at the expense of your own.

I THINK MY PRO IS GHOSTING ME. WHAT DO I DO? Okay, okay. Before you send off that fiery email, let’s keep one thing in mind: Things happen, and depending on your timeline, your pro might have other clients who are getting married sooner and are getting their attention. If the amount of time is absolutely unreasonable (think: weeks with NO response to emails or calls, but meanwhile they’re still active on Insta), it’s time to check out your contract and begin considering your options. After all, you’re paying your vendors—get your money’s worth.

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MY FAMILY IS UNSUPPORTIVE OF MY PARTNER AND ME. CAN WE PLAN A WEDDING WITHOUT THEM? SHOULD WE EVEN INVITE THEM?

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Please know you’re not alone in this. Care for yourself and set firm boundaries. You can plan without your fam, I promise. It may not be easy, but luckily, a chosen family is a special, valid thing too. Lean on your pros, be open with your friends and be honest with your partner.

If you think inviting them would take away from the day, listen to your heart. Your day, your way—all the way down to your feelings.

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WE MET ONLINE, BUT OUR FAM DOESN’T KNOW—AND WE’RE NOT SURE IF OUR WEDDING IS THE TIME OR PLACE FOR US TO GET OUTED. WHAT DO WE DO? You legend, you. I think you first need to ask yourself why exactly you wouldn’t want your family to know that you met via swipe, spark, tap, woof or whatever else I may or may not have done to find love on an app. At this point, you’re probably in the clear—you’re about to seal the deal! If you’re really nervous, give anyone toasting you a heads up, but I say you be honest and tell the story of your appily ever after.

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YOU ASKED, ANSWERED! HOW DO I TALK TO MY FIANCÉ ABOUT BUDGET? WE’RE ON TWO DIFFERENT PAGES, AND MONEY DISCUSSIONS ARE SO UNCOMFORTABLE.

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Uh, I get it—thinking about bills makes me want to cry. Budgets are stressful, but money needs to be something you can discuss openly with your partner. Consider this talk a little practice for your financial future. Bring up your wedding spend in a way that doesn’t feel accusatory, set boundaries (no raised voices, no low blows, etc.) and work together to come up with a list of priorities—costs included.

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HOW MANY SPEECHES OR TOASTS IS TOO MANY? I’m a sucker for a good toast, but even I can agree there’s such a thing as too many. You don’t want to keep guests from mingling and dancing just to hear the whole wedding party wax poetic about your love. I say you choose a rep from each side (typically an MOH and a best man, but gender is made up, my loves) and allow for parents to toast at their discretion. Somewhere around four to five short (think: around six minutes) toasts feels just fine to me. From there, get the party started.

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NEITHER OF US WANTS TO WRITE OUR OWN VOWS, BUT WE WANT OUR CEREMONY TO FEEL PERSONAL. ANY IDEAS?

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You’d be shocked by how many people have this same issue. Writer’s block can be a beast, and some of us just aren’t cut out for public declarations of love. Whatever your reason, you could replace traditional vows by reciting a poem you both love, repeating the lyrics to a song that means a lot to you, or taking part in a personalized unity ceremony. (My fave I’ve seen: a guac-making ceremony. *Drools.*)

MY ____________ IS CONTROLLING AND WANTS A SAY IN EVERY DECISION. HOW DO I MAKE SURE THIS WEDDING ISN’T THEIR “I DO” TAKE TWO? I’m #TeamCompromise, but to a point. Is this person dictating major choices and expressing disapproval for the details too? Is this turning into a wedding you don’t even recognize? Hard stop. Form a united front with your s/o and talk to this person about the importance of your vision. If they have a financial stake in the game, you might need to make some tough compromises—prioritize accordingly.

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The trendiest wedding rings are anything but basic.

You don’t need a giant rock to make a statement. While an engagement ring is an undoubtedly special piece of jewelry, a wedding band is equally meaningful to add into the mix or wear alone. The best part? The bands of the moment are all about letting your personal expression fly high with new shapes, color combinations and textures.

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Don’t know the difference between platinum and white gold? No problem! Read up on your options before you select a ring setting.

PLATINUM A rare, natural white metal known for its strength and purity, platinum is usually 95 percent pure. Platinum’s density makes it extremely durable, meaning it will keep your center stone protected and secure. It’s also naturally hypoallergenic, so it won’t irritate sensitive skin. While it is the most expensive of the metals, when platinum scratches, there’s very little metal lost, so your ring will withstand years of wear. Also, since it’s a pure white metal, it won’t cast any tint onto your center stone.

YELLOW GOLD Besides the fact that yellow gold is on trend right now, the pure form of gold has plenty of other appeal too. It’s about as low maintenance as it gets (it’s easier to clean than white or rose gold) and it’s a fairly hypoallergenic metal as well, depending on its karat measurement.

Not to mention, it’s typically priced slightly lower than other fine jewelry metals like platinum.

WHITE GOLD Yellow gold is turned into white gold when the surface is plated with rhodium (a white metal). If you want the look of a white metal setting but don’t want to splurge on platinum, white gold is a budget-friendly choice.

Though it has a similar resemblance to platinum, it’s more widely available and, therefore, less expensive.

If you opt for this metal, keep in mind you may need to have your ring replated in the future. The white rhodium coating may eventually wear away and return the ring to its original yellow color.

EDITOR’S TIP If you fall in love with a ring that isn’t available in your size— say, you’re a woman in love with a men’s band or vice versa—don’t count yourself out. Ask if your jeweler can make your preferred design to fit you.

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RO SE GOLD Made popular in 19th-century Imperial Russia, this pink-tinted metal is gold with an added copper alloy. The more copper alloy in the metal, the deeper the rosy tones will be. One of rose gold’s most attractive qualities is its underlying meaning.

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EDITOR TEST DRIVE GET THE DEETS ON WHAT THE HOTTEST PREWEDDING BEAUTY TREATMENTS REALLY HAVE IN STORE.

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A S A B E A U T Y E D I T O R A T T H E K N O T, I'll try anything once. Sometimes this is a super perk (hello, fancy facials). Sometimes it’s risky, like the time I went in for trendy highlights and came out a peroxide blonde. For better or for worse, I’ve tested (almost) every buzzy beauty option out there. Here’s the scoop on some of the most popular prewedding treatments, so you can decide what to splurge on—and what to skip.

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W H A T I T I S If you have naturally thin or uneven brows or were an over-plucker like so many of us in the early aughts, this corrective brow treatment could be for you. A more sophisticated take on permanent makeup, microblading is a form of tattooing where hairlike strokes are drawn onto the brow area to resemble the look of your existing brow hairs. The result is a series of naturallooking, fine tattoo “hairs” that will last one to three years.

E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S If there’s one big takeaway here, it’s that timing is especially important. Microblading is a process, not a quick fix. I recommend scheduling your first appointment at least 12 weeks before your wedding date. After my initial microblading appointment at Better Brows & Beauty (BetterBrowsNYC.com) in New York City, I had to keep my brows totally dry for a full week while scabs formed—no easy feat if you’re into consistent exercise or showers. Once my scabs fell off, it took another couple of weeks before I could go in for touch ups to perfect the look. While it was a time commitment, it was also a game changer. I've shaved minutes off my morning makeup routine and I never worry about smudging or sweating off my brows anymore. I also feel comfortable without makeup because my face is more symmetrical now—no more cringing at glaring bald patches whenever I catch myself in the mirror.

LASH LIFT W H A T I T I S Swap falsies, extensions and even mascara for this quick curling and darkening treatment that amplifies what you’ve already got. Your lashes are wrapped around small silicone rods and secured with a medical-safe glue, then permed

with a curling solution and tinted (usually with a vegetable dye).

It takes around 40 minutes, and the results last up to 12 weeks or the amount of time it takes for a new set of lashes to grow in.

E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S Think of this as a substitute for a kick-ass mascara. It dramatically boosts what’s already there but won’t weigh down your lashes or come unglued, as can be the case with falsies and extensions. It also addresses a variety of lash woes (think: straight lashes, lashes that grow downward instead of upward or unruly lashes that stick out in different directions).

My lash lift at Glo Skin & Laser in New York City (GloSpaNY.com) only took half an hour, and my annoyingly thick but straight lashes looked amazing for weeks—like, people on the street commenting on how good they looked, good. You should schedule your lash lift a week or so before your wedding in case you have a reaction to the lash dye or curling solution. I had to give up my favorite oil-based cleanser afterward (oil-based products reverse the effects of the treatment) but it was a small price to pay for gorgeous lashes I couldn’t cry or rub off.

LYMPHATIC DRAINAGE FACIAL W H A T I T I S If you’ve been hitting the wine or salty snacks to combat wedding planning stress, you could find yourself dealing with a puffy face all of the contouring in the world can’t fix.

Enter: your new BFF, the lymphatic drainage facial. A jade roller on steroids, this combination of various massage techniques (including gua sha, acupressure points, and manual lymphatic drainage massage) reduces inflammation by draining excess water and toxins trapped beneath the skin. The result? A contoured face and jawline, lifted and toned cheekbones and a brighter and clearer complexion overall.

E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S Extra-dirty martinis are my guilty pleasure, so I’m no stranger to facial puffiness. I booked a lymphatic drainage facial with celebrity facialist Cecilia Wong (CeciliaWongSkincare .com) right around the holidays, when the martinis were flowing and the bloat was real. While part of the treatment was slightly uncomfortable (the massage portion of the facial requires pretty firm pressure to work), my face was noticeably firmer afterwards, especially around my jawline and cheekbones. If you can swing it, book a series of six treatments leading up to your wedding to look your most contoured. Schedule your last one a week or so before your day for a taut complexion that’s extra camera-ready.

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W H A T I T I S Microneedling (also called collagen induction therapy if you're fancy) involves a mechanized device that repeatedly punctures the skin with tiny, sterile needles. The treatment creates microscopic "damage" in the skin, which activates your body's wound-healing processes and revs up collagen production. Without getting too technical, an increase in healthy skin cells and collagen can reduce fine lines, scars and hyperpigmentation.

E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S I didn’t know exactly what to expect from my microneedling session at Better Brows & Beauty, but it was surprisingly painless. Since I was numbed beforehand, the process felt like using a gritty face scrub. However, there's no

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sugarcoating it: Immediately after microneedling, I looked rough.

My face was blotchy, bright red and swollen. (You know that scene in Sex and the City where Samantha shows up to Carrie's book party looking like beef carpaccio? It was kind of like that.)

Despite the initial shock of how I looked after, there was virtually no downtime—I even wore makeup the next day without any residual irritation. My skin started to peel about four days after my appointment, but was back to normal within a week. In the weeks following my microneedling treatment, there was a remarkable improvement in my skin. The treatment faded the hyperpigmentation on my top lip, my overall complexion was smoother and my pores even seemed smaller. Coworkers commented I look "refreshed" and a friend even asked what I'd done to amp up my skincare routine. Bottom line: Whether you want to correct severe skin issues in the months leading up to your wedding or just boost your glow with a one-and-done approach, this is one Instagram trend worth investing in.

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BOTULINUM TOXIN W H A T I T I S Commonly referred to as Botox (Botox is actually a brand name of one of the most popular versions of botulinum toxin), this injectable also goes by the name Dysport and Xeomin. When used for antiaging purposes, it smooths out wrinkles caused by the repetitive activity of the facial muscles.

Once injected into the face, it blocks the transmission of nerve signals, causing the facial muscles at the injection site to relax.

E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S While it’s easy to find injectables these days, it’s still important to go to an experienced professional (plastic surgeons and dermatologists tend to be best) who can inject you safely. I did my research and went to celebrity dermatologist Lisa Airan in New York City (DrLisaAiran.com). I was a little

nervous about sticking needles in my face, but she worked as quickly and as painlessly as possible while injecting my forehead and crow’s feet, which helped to put my mind at ease. Botox takes about three days to kick in, and I didn’t feel the full effects for about a week. After that, I noticed I had less movement in my forehead, my fine lines had disappeared and my brows even appeared slightly lifted. I looked, in a word, younger. The results lasted for three months. If you go under the needle before your “I dos,” make sure you still have some movement in your face— otherwise, you could end up looking emotionless in photos.

DERMAL FILLER W H A T I T I S Similar to botulinum toxin, dermal fillers go by many names. Some popular ones are: Restylane, Juvéderm and Sculptra. And while this trendy procedure may conjure images of pouty-lipped Instagram celebrities, it can also help stave off the aging process—for a little while. Once injected into the face, filler (hyaluronic acid is the most popular kind) sits under the skin, plumping up hollow areas and smoothing wrinkles.

E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S This is not for the faint of heart, but it sure is effective. While luscious lips have never been on my wish list, the areas under my eyes have always been hollow, making me look permanently tired. The big downside to this particular issue is that no eye cream can fix it, so I took the plunge and got my under eyes injected with filler by Dr. Konstantin Vasyukevich, a plastic surgeon in New York City (FacialArtistryMD.com). It was pretty painful (the skin around your eyes is very sensitive) and I was bruised and swollen at the injection sites for a week. But after the swelling went down, my results were nothing short of amazing. I looked instantly well-rested. The only drawback?

Filler lasts for just six months, so the gorgeous effects were only temporary. Pro tip: Get filler around four months before your day so you won’t look less refreshed at your prewedding events.

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W H A T I T I S There’s no shortage of peels out there, but the SkinCeuticals Smart TCA System (SkinCeuticals.com) is especially potent. Applied in layers, this higher concentration of glycolic acid and trichloroacetic acid deeply penetrates the skin in just 30 minutes, stimulating collagen and solving a myriad of skin issues like fine lines, acne, discoloration and scarring.

E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S I’ve done tons of at-home peels but the SkinCeuticals Smart TCA System was the real deal. After the first layer of chemicals was applied, I could only feel a slight tingling, but once the second and then third layer kicked in, the stinging was squirming-in-my-chair levels of intense. Afterwards, my skin was bright red and felt hot to the touch. In the week that followed, my entire face peeled off in large sheets (lovely visual, I know). While you can wear makeup immediately after, I decided to forgo the cover-up and let my skin slough off without any poreclogging interference. Within 10 days, all the dead skin peeled off to reveal a much dewier complexion, but I was disappointed to discover my sun spots and fine lines remained intact. My results weren’t as dramatic as I expected, so if you’re looking to totally overhaul your skin, plan to get a few peels in the months leading up to your day. Give yourself at least two weeks between treatments to bounce back, especially if you have sensitive skin.

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A birdcage veil gives off serious retro-glam vibes

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Veils are an easy way to express yourself. But with so many options to choose from, how do you know which one’s right for you?

We broke down all the different styles, including the latest trends, with tips on how to wear them so you can uncover (sorry, we had to!) the perfect veil for your wedding look.

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Birdcage

Also known as a cage, this shorter style covers and frames just your face for a more minimalist statement. Most often it’s made out of wide net or sheer tulle—something you’ll easily be able to see through—and finished with whimsical accents like feathers, flowers or pearls. The trick to pulling off this less traditional look is to let the edge of the veil fall just below the nose.

P A I R I T W I T H Cage veils were the height of fashion in the ’40s and ’50s, so that makes them the perfect match for retro-inspired dresses like swingy, tea-length gowns, structured sheaths and slinky, old-Hollywood-inspired slip dresses. They’re also a fun way to add a touch of vintage glam to a suit or jumpsuit.

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One of the most popular lengths (even Kate Middleton sidestepped royal tradition and chose this shorter option), this veil falls below the hips and extends to—you guessed it—the fingertips. Secure this style, which is usually made up of several layers of tulle or netting, at the crown of your head, slightly behind it or, if your hair is up, just above your updo.

P A I R I T W I T H This versatile veil is beautiful with a wide range of dresses, but it looks particularly pretty with ball gowns and, since it puts the focus on the torso, dresses with more elaborate bodices. You may also want to consider pairing it with a cathedral- or chapel-length veil—that way you can remove the longer one for the reception and leave the shorter top layer in place.

Juliet Cap

Inspired by the fashion of the 16th century, this unique veil is making a comeback thanks to its pretty, old-world feel. This über-romantic style is typically made of sheer tulle or tulle with a lace-embellished edge. There are two ways to work it: You can either take a lace-trimmed veil and wear it as a cap, with the sides pinned back behind each ear, or attach a veil of your choosing to a separate cap.

P A I R I T W I T H It’s perfect for a lacy gown with a vintageinspired feel or a simple slip dress with lace details. Add fresh blooms behind one ear for an extrasweet effect.

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D I D Y O U K N O W T H E B R I D E O R I G I N A L LY W O R E A V E I L BECAUSE THE GROOM WASN’T SUPPOSED TO SEE HER BEFORE THEY WERE MARRIED? AND NOT JUST IN THE HOURS BEFORE THE W E D D I N G , B U T N OT O N C E B E FO R E T H E Y S A I D “ I D O.”

Elbow

Slightly shorter than fingertip, this veil extends 25 inches in length to the bride’s elbows. The more manageable length tends to be more versatile. It’s a nice complement to a simple silhouette, but it also won’t overpower a more showstopping gown.

P A I R I T W I T H One of the best things about this veil is you can pair it with just about any style. The elbow length is also perfect for brides who want the look of a longer veil but have a gown with details on the lower half (like intricate buttons, lace appliqués or ruffles) they don’t want to cover up.

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Mantilla

A chapel veil works best with a dress with a train

This Spanish-style veil almost always comes in either all lace or in tulle that features a wide, intricate lace edge. It should be positioned two inches from your hairline so its circular shape gracefully drapes down and frames your face on either side. For the traditional look, attach it with an ornamental comb (also called a peineta), or edge it up with a fresh flower crown or crystal tiara.

P A I R I T W I T H Allow the dramatic lace to take center stage and pair this romantic veil with sleek silhouettes that won’t compete with its shape. Skip the heavy embellishments as well and opt for a gown with small touches of matching lace instead.

Flyaway

A wispy, multilayered style that just brushes the shoulders, it’s considered less formal than other options. As the name suggests, the tulle used in this kind of veil usually has a stiffer quality that causes it to “fly away” from the to-be-wed, adding poufy volume to the top of the head.

P A I R I T W I T H Due to its short and sweet feel, a flyaway veil works well with shorter, more casual dresses. If your gown is heavily embellished or has a sexy, plunging back, this simple style is also the perfect way to wear a veil without obscuring the details you love.

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Typically 90-inches long, this is a formal veil that extends to the floor, falling two-and-a-half yards from the headpiece. It should sweep the floor, extending slightly past your gown.

P A I R I T W I T H This simple style is often worn in combination with a sweep train (a veil that just brushes the floor) and blusher for extra oomph. It works with most dress silhouettes and styles but is particularly stunning when layered over a flowy or multilayered gown with a train. If you’re forgoing a train, a chapel veil can add drama without the weight or the hassle—no bustle required.

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DO WHETHER YOUR HAIR WILL BE DOWN AND FLOWING OR IN A FORMAL UPDO, YOU WANT A FINAL DETAIL TO TIE YOUR WHOLE LOOK TOGETHER. IF A VEIL ISN’T FOR YOU, THERE ARE PLENTY OF OTHER OPTIONS, FROM JEWELED HEADBANDS AND TIARAS TO A BOHEMIAN FLORAL WREATH OR FLIRTY FASCINATOR.

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Also sometimes called a ballet veil, this style falls between the knee and the ankle and is usually double layered and worn with a blusher. These veils exude elegance and formality and, because they don’t touch the floor, they’re short enough for a bride to comfortably walk and even dance in—hence the name.

P A I R I T W I T H This style pairs well with formal floor-length gowns, like A-line and mermaid silhouettes, and dresses without trains.

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Blusher

A blusher actually refers to the short, single layer of tulle, lace or netting that’s worn over the face and then flipped over the head or removed after you walk down the aisle. It comes in chin, shoulder or fingertip length and can be added to a variety of veil styles.

But a blusher can also stand on its own. Choose one layer, or if that’s too simple, try a double-tiered style where you have two layers of tulle: one layer pulled over the face and the other draped behind your head. Whichever length or however many layers you choose, the veil should be fastened to the crown of your head.

P A I R I T W I T H A universal style, the blusher works with almost any type of gown. Wearing just the short layer gives off a chic, sophisticated air that lends itself to more fashion-forward dresses.

Channel your inner royal with this dramatic option

Cathedral

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Looking to make an entrance? This is the style for you. The mother of all veils, the cathedral is also the most formal.

Sometimes referred to as the “royal veil”—it’s the veil of choice for countless members of the British royal family, including Diana and Meghan Markle—this style typically falls about three-and-a-half yards from the headpiece and is often worn in combination with a blusher and a gown with a long train. It’s an especially great option if your ceremony venue has a long aisle to walk down.

P A I R I T W I T H The sweeping cathedral can hold its own next to even the most overthe-top ball gown. As a rule of thumb, the veil should extend past the train, so if you choose a cathedral veil, opt for a cathedralor semi-cathedral-length train.

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Your veil should complement your dress. If your gown is simple, you may want a statement veil. But if your dress is dramatic, an understated style may work better.

If you’re wearing a floor-length veil, make sure it extends far past the edge of your train.

Otherwise, the details of your veil and your train could compete with each other.

If you’re in the market for a fashion-forward veil, there are lots of heavily embellished and colorful options out there. If you go bold, consider opting for a more streamlined gown.

Your veil shouldn’t determine your wedding ’do, but it’s still a good idea to bring it and any other headpieces to your hair trial so your hairstylist can plan where to place them.

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MARRIAGE EQUALITY

BY THE NUMBERS

EQUAL

Five years after the US Supreme Court’s monumental decision to make marriage equality the law of the land, two of our real couples look back.

BY LOUIS BARAGONA

2001 The year The Netherlands became the first country to legalize same-sex marriage

JOHN CHENG + PAUL CRAYTHORNE

2004

SEPTEMBER 17 | NEW YORK + ATLANTA “By the time marriage equality passed, we were already well into our wedding planning,” John says.

“We deliberately chose to get married in New York City—not only because we both love it, but also because gay marriage was legal in New York state and we live in the South. Once marriage equality passed nationwide, our preparations took on a much more celebratory feel. We had that giddy sense of anticipation that you get between Thanksgiving and Christmas or on the day before you start vacation.

Our wedding went from a necessary expense in order to get the protections afforded to legal marriage to the happy expense of a destination wedding.”

The year Massachusetts became the first state to support marriage equality

61%

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The evolution of marriage eqality.

“The day of the Supreme Court’s decision, we were so happy and overwhelmed with joy—though we were already married in our eyes, it was still emotional,” Nichole says. “I remember Kelli couldn’t wait to get to the DMV to finally change her last name on her driver’s license—and we celebrated by doing exactly that. Though the decision didn’t change or affect our relationship directly, it was an amazing feeling to finally be recognized as equals. We’re just happy and proud to have been alive to witness marriage equality nationwide, and since then, we’ve seen same-sex couples gain more acceptance in society.

We even notice more and more same-sex couples represented on TV.”

The number of cohabitating American LGBTQ+ couples who married post ruling in 2015

10 MILLION The number of tweets in response to the decision, including the #LoveWins

LOUD AND PROUD Express your pride with these ceremony ideas.

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WA L K T H I S WAY

TA K E N OT E

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MAKE IT MEANINGFUL

Mix up your processional—ask guests to walk to you.

Define any LGBTQ+ terms in your ceremony programs.

Recognize your community with queeraffirmative vows.

Choose a reading or music by a LGBTQ+ activist.

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LOCAL RESOURCES

make it legal New Jersey Marriage License Requirements

GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In New Jersey, the legal age for marriage is 18. Those ages 16 or 17 must have parental consent, or parents may have to be present when the couple applies. Couples over the age of 18 must apply for the license together with an adult witness who knows both parties. Applications must be made at the municipal office of the New Jersey township where the bride lives. If neither the bride nor the groom is a resident, applications must be made where the marriage will take place. There is a 72-hour waiting period, and licenses are valid for 30 days in New Jersey only. The fee is $28; payment methods vary. Proof of age and residency is required; blood tests are not. If previously married, a divorce decree or death certificate is sometimes required. To find your municipal office, contact any office below (all are open Monday through Friday, unless otherwise noted). Call ahead for details.

WHERE TO APPLY Belvidere

Town Hall–Municipality 691 Water St. Belvidere, NJ 07823 (908) 475-5331 9 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Elizabeth

Freehold

Elmwood Park

Hamilton

Bridgeton

Vital Statistics 50 Winfield Scott Plz., Rm. G12 Elizabeth, NJ 07201 (908) 820-4082 8 a.m.–3 p.m.

Camden

Health Department 182 Market St. Elmwood Park, NJ 07407 (201) 796-1457 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Office of the Registrar 181 E. Commerce St., Rm. 102 Bridgeton, NJ 08302 (856) 455-3230 x213 8:30 a.m.–3:45 p.m.

Vital Statistics 520 Market St., Rm. 103 Camden, NJ 08101 (856) 757-7085 8:30 a.m.–3:30 p.m.

Dover Township

Office of the Registrar 33 Washington St., Fl. 1 Toms River, NJ 08753 (732) 341-1000 8:30 a.m.–12, 1–3:45 p.m.

Flemington

Borough Clerk 38 Park Ave. Flemington, NJ 08822 (908) 782-8840 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Registrar’s Office 1 Municipal Plz. Freehold, NJ 07728 (732) 294-2010 7:30 a.m.–12, 2:30–4 p.m., M–Th.; 7:30 a.m.–12, F Vital Statistics 2100 Greenwood Ave. Hamilton, NJ 08650 (609) 890-3826 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Jersey City

City Clerk 280 Grove St. Jersey City, NJ 07302 (201) 547-5150 8:30 a.m.–12

Morristown

Vital Statistics 200 South St. Morristown, NJ 07960 (973) 292-6638 9 a.m.–3 p.m.

Mount Holly

Registrar of Vital Statistics 23 Washington St., Fl. 3 Mount Holly, NJ 08060 (609) 845-1114 9 a.m.–3 p.m., M–W, F

Newark

City Clerk 920 Broad St. Newark, NJ 07102 (973) 733-3825 8:30 a.m.–4 p.m.

New Brunswick

Health Department 78 Bayard St. New Brunswick, NJ 08901 (732) 745-5015 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Newton

Trenton

Paterson

Woodbury

Municipal Clerk 39 Trinity St. Newton, NJ 07860 (973) 383-3523 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Division of Health 176 Broadway Paterson, NJ 07505 (973) 321-1277 8:30 a.m.–4:15 p.m.

Salem

City Clerk 17 New Market St. Salem, NJ 08079 (856) 935-0373 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Somerville

Administration Dept.

25 West End Ave. Somerville, NJ 08876 (908) 725-2300 9 a.m.–4 p.m. (by appointment only)

Office of Vital Statistics 319 E. State St. Trenton, NJ 08608 (609) 989-3236 8:30 a.m.–4 p.m.

Vital Statistics 33 Delaware St. Woodbury, NJ 08096 (856) 845-1300 9 a.m.–3 p.m, T only (by appointment only)

Although The Knot strives to provide accurate information, we assume no responsibility for changes since publication.

Please confirm all details with your local licensing bureau and inform us of updates or errors at help@theknot.com.

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GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting.

GUIDELINES/ RESTRICTIONS

FEE

Must submit info within one year of the wedding date. It will be published on a space-available basis.

Form: Yes; available online.

Packages start at $100.

(732) 565-7292 Attn: Weddings 92 E. Main St., Ste. 202 Somerville, NJ 08876

Must submit info as soon as possible after the wedding.

Form: Yes

Basic fee is $60.

Daily Record

(973) 428-6601 Attn: Weddings 800 Jefferson Rd. Parsippany, NJ 07054

Submit info at noon on the Wednesday prior to Sunday publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Cost is $1.25 per line.

The Star-Ledger

(973) 392-5880 Attn: Classified Dept.– Celebrations 1 Star-Ledger Plz. Newark, NJ 07102

There are no time constraints. It will be published on a space-available basis.

Form: Yes; available online.

Call for pricing.

The New Jersey Herald

(973) 383-1500 2 Spring St. Newton, NJ 07860

Announcements should be submitted within 60 days of the wedding date.

Form: Yes; available online.

There is no charge for this service.

The Record

(973) 569-7487 Attn: Celebrations 1 Garret Mountain Plz. Woodland Park, NJ 07424

Submit info Thursday at noon prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: No

Fees vary.

Call for details.

Southern Ocean County

(609) 597-3211 Attn: Weddings & Engagements 345 E. Bay Ave. Manahawkin, NJ 08050

Announcements should be submitted within three months of the wedding date.

Form: Yes; email to lreddington@njpressmedia.com.

There is no charge for this service.

PUBLICATION

CONTACT

TIME CONSTRAINTS

Asbury Park Press

(732) 643-4023 Attn: Weddings PO Box 1550 Neptune, NJ 07754

Courier News

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RESOURCE INDEX Above

75

The Estate at Florentine Gardens

33

The Architects Golf Club

163

Fiddler’s Elbow

21

Atlantic City Country Club

119

The Flanders Hotel

29

Auletto Caterers

97

The Grand

27

Avenue

31

The Grand Hotel Cape May

135

Basking Ridge Country Club Catering

56

The Graycliff

165

Bohemia Overlook

195

The Grove

14

The Bradford Estate

1

Highlawn Pavilion

13

The Breakers on the Ocean

137

Hyatt Regency Jersey City

193

Bridgewater Manor Catering

66

The Imperia

81

Brigalias

41

Jumping Brook Country Club

88

Brooklake Country Club

54

The Kartrite Resort & Indoor Waterpark

51

Camden County Boathouse at Cooper River

49

Lake Mohawk Country Club

59

Château Grande Hotel

46

The Landing

193

Clarks Landing Yacht Club

1

The Legacy Castle

200

The Cranbury Inn

195

Lucien’s Manor

25

Crystal Plaza

5

The Madison

16

The Crystal Point Yacht Club

141

The Madison Hotel

37

Daymark

133

Magnolia Event Rentals

65

Doolan’s Shore Club

113

The Mansion at Mountain Lakes

63

Eagle Oaks Golf & Country Club

105

Mansion on Main Street

7

Earth Treasures Fine Jewelers

22

Marian House

53

Edgewood Country Club

43

Maritime Parc

9

The English Manor

141

The Merion

Cover

The Estate at Farrington Lake

18

The Mill Lakeside Manor

1

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Morningside Greenhouse

174

The Shore Club

129

Nanina’s In The Park

47

The Sunset Ballroon

121

Park Avenue Club

103

Sweet Harmony

174

Park Château Estate & Gardens

46 The Terrace at Biagio’s

34

The Tides Estate

87

Tomasello Winery

10

47

Perona Farms

77

Peter Shields Inn & Restaurant

115

The Primavera Regency

99

Valley Regency

144

Ramsey Golf & Country Club

93

The Venetian

2

Renault Winery & Champagne House

Insert

Waterside Restaurant and Catering

45

The Rockleigh

60

The Westin Governor Morris

Cover

Royal Manor

26 The Westwood

83

Ruth Fischl Event Rental

109 Windows on the Water at Frogbridge

91

Scotland Run Golf Club

119

Seasons Catering & Special Events

2

Windows on the Water Sea Bright

125

Seaview, A Dolce Hotel

110

Windrift Resort

127

Shadowbrook at Shrewsbury

2

Woodcrest Country Club

38

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The Park Savoy Estate

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At the close of cocktail hour, the couple lowered the flag and spent a quiet moment reflecting on military service and its sacrifices. To cap off the tribute, Sarah pulled an antique cannon before heading into the reception.

I wore Bob’s uniform shirt as I got ready in the morning. He served for four-and-a-half years as an Infantry Officer in the United States Army. The Army played a huge role in our love story and I thought this would be a fun, more private way to pay tribute to his service while getting to sport my soon-to-be last name on my getting-ready attire.”

Sarah + Bob

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