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get the look... daily fix editor’s letter ask carley haute hues top picks 8 rustic venues in the carolinas secrets from real couples expert advice love stories local lowdown checklist marriage licenses and wedding announcements snapshot

DRESS BY IV Y & ASTER

in this issue

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Experience the Legend of Happily Ever After Create a destination wedding that will inspire a lifetime of memories. Your coastal wedding as it should be With so much to do before the “I Do,” you need someone to ensure everything is perfect. With multiple stunning venues and full-service support, our team of professionals is there to make certain your wedding exceeds your dreams.

L U X U R Y W E D D I N G S on the C O A S T START PLANNING YOUR IDEAL WEDDING TODAY | 843-913-2842 | G R A N D E D U N E S W E D D I N G S . C O M a signature community by All information is deemed reliable but not guaranteed and should be independently verified. © 2016 LStar Communities. All rights reserved. Photograph by Crystal Lee Photography.

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CONTENTS

f  ashion 122 playing for keeps mix up your look with edgy silhouettes and whimsical details

131 the well-groomed groom a guide to helping your guy look (almost) as good as you

137 maid for each other find bridesmaid dresses that are both affordable and fabulous

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making the grade how to determine which diamond is right for you

health & beauty 173 beauty awards

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foolproof products to take you from your engagement to wedding day

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paper trails

style 96 paper trails let your locale inspire your invites

103 petal talk the most asked about wedding flowers

111 too pretty to eat (well, almost) edible favors that are sure to leave a lasting impression

115 the real deal on wedding cakes answers to all your frosting, flavor and topper questions

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Tradition Meets Style

SARA LOGAN PHOTOGRAPHY

GINNY CORBETT PHOTOGRAPHY

SARA LOGAN PHOTOGRAPHY

Planning • Coordinating • Designing • Directing Provided by Sutherland’s On-site Wedding Professionals Weddings • Receptions • Rehearsals • Galas • Private Parties and More One of Wake County’s Oldest Historic Homes

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CONTENTS

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nina & matt april 2, charlotte, nc

72 joy & cuncho june 5, wilmington, nc

76 caitlin & ben october 3, sapphire, nc

80 naadia & jeff april 23, winston-salem, nc

84 irene & ben june 11, durham, nc

88 caroline & trey may 21, charlotte, nc

92 abby & rachel june 26, saxapahaw, nc

94 taylor & jay june 3, corolla, nc

143 nicole & ben june 20, charleston, sc

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148 samantha & chris september 26, charleston, sc

154 francesca & ed

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158 molly & michael

eat, drink and be married

may 14, bluffton, sc

162 nadia & clay may 4, columbia, sc

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164 taylor & logan may 21, johns island, sc

184 destination by design

166 abby & kyle september 6, hilton head island, sc

188 kendall & andrew

make planning from afar a breeze

193 savvy spending

tips to having your nuptials among the grapevines

211 snap happy

how to manage your budget

may 2, islamorada, fl

204 vineyard vows

197 eat, drink and be married

find a photographer that clicks

a sit-down dinner isn’t your only reception option

r  eal wedding budget key $ = $10,000 or less

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W   e know your #1 question is “How much does this cost?” so we worked with the couples to tally up their final budgets (sweat and tears not included!). Keep in mind that this total doesn’t reflect the prices of their individual wedding professionals or the quality of their work. Every couple has different priorities— while one might have spent the majority of their budget on a stellar cake, another might have splurged on their photographer or showstopping florals.

$$ = $10,001–$30,000

$$$ = $30,001–$50,000

$$$$ = $50,001–$75,000

$$$$$ = $75,001+

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With Ooh! planning your event, it is a creative adventure! We offer event rentals, tabletop rental, decor services, lighting, event design and coordination, floral artistry and beauty services. Let us translate your vision into reality. We look forward to the opportunity to create with you. 113 Pitt Street, Mount Pleasant, South Carolina 29464 | OohEvents.com | 843.881.7576 Design center open daily at 2532 Spruill Avenue, North Charleston, SC

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ABOUT THE COVER

get the look... ON HER Dress, $4,500, Christian Siriano, KleinfeldBridal.com; engagement ring, $895, EffyJewelry.com; earrings, price upon request, NewYorkVintage.com

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ON HER Dress, $958, Truly Zac Posen, DavidsBridal.com; earrings, $3,500, EffyJewelry.com; shoes, Giuseppe Zanotti, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library ON HIM Suit, $595, socks, $10, Tommy Hilfiger, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; tie, $160, Olch.com; wedding band, $1,250, CrownRing.com; shoes, $750, Burberry.com

CAROUSEL CREW Jane’s Carousel, with its vibrant colors and whimsical details, felt like the perfect backdrop for our celebratory fashion shoot in this issue. Here, our whole team (including The Knot cofounder Carley Roney) strikes a group pose in front of the landmark in Brooklyn Bridge Park, New York.

ON HER Top and pants, $4,150, Rosa Clará at Ladies of Lineage, LadiesofLineage.com (Charlotte, NC), Traditions by Anna Bridal Boutique, TraditionsbyAnna.com (Raleigh, NC); veil, $120, TwigsandHoney.com; engagement ring, $920, MarsJewelry.com; cocktail ring, $98, KateSpade.com; earrings, $425, OscardelaRenta.com; shoes, Manolo Blahnik, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library

PHOTOGRAPHER: STEPHANIE RAUSSER FASHION STYLING: LAURA PRITCHARD HAIR: ELOISE CHEUNG USING T3MICRO AT KATE RYAN INC. MAKEUP: LEANNE HIRSH USING VAPOR ORGANIC BEAUTY AT SARAH LAIRD & GOOD COMPANY PROP STYLING: SAM COOK AT KATE RYAN INC. FLORALS: TIN CAN STUDIOS LOCATION: JANE’S CAROUSEL, BROOKLYN, NY

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K THE CAROLINAS

EDITOR IN CHIEF

Kellie Gould

MANAGING EDITORS

EXECUTIVE EDITOR

Susan Berryman Kellee Kratzer

Kristen Maxwell Cooper

CONTRIBUTING ART DIRECTOR

ART DIRECTOR

Toby Fox

Tracy Everding

REAL WEDDINGS PHOTO DIRECTOR

PHOTO DIRECTOR

Rebecca Crumley

Kathy Nguyen

SENIOR STYLE EDITOR REAL WEDDINGS EDITOR PLANNING EDITOR NEWS EDITOR ASSOCIATE EDITOR, FASHION & BEAUTY ASSOCIATE EDITOR, REAL WEDDINGS SENIOR COPY EDITOR ASSISTANT EDITOR, RESEARCH ASSISTANT EDITOR EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, FASHION & BEAUTY EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, PLANNING SOCIAL EDITOR SENIOR DESIGNER DESIGNER REAL WEDDINGS DESIGNERS

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Lauren Kay Stephanie Cain Ivy Jacobson Esther Lee Shelley Brown Rachel Sylvester Maria Bouselli Katie Kortebein Andrea Fowler Avery Hutchinson Margaret Seaver Jessica Molinari Katelyn Baker Katie Ragan Kasey Schroeder, Kate Richter ASSOCIATE PHOTO EDITOR Sarah Love ASSOCIATE ONLINE PHOTO EDITOR Barrie Tovar MARKETING AND EDITORIAL COORDINATOR Stefany Arias

PRODUCTION VP, PRODUCTION Frank Dolphens PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Jesse Hardy PUBLICATION DESIGNER Nicole Daberkow SYSTEMS MANAGER Sheryl Ziegler SENIOR GRAPHIC DESIGNER Daryl Wills GRAPHIC DESIGNERS Katie Hover, Nicole Daberkow PHOTO PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Carly Steier PRINT QUALITY ASSURANCE Lois Brunnert Bethune

THE STUDIO @ XO HEAD OF STUDIO Nick Fortunato EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Elizabeth Roehrig DIRECTOR, ACTIVATIONS AND SPECIAL PROJECTS Alexis Jonnson PROJECT MANAGER Elizabeth Smith SENIOR DESIGNER Amanda Kocis Gallagher PRODUCER Joanna Dedvukaj ASSISTANT MANAGING EDITOR Kelley Rowland

SALES & MARKETING PRESIDENT, LOCAL MARKETPLACE Kristin Savilia, ksavilia@xogrp.com (212) 515-7455 GROUP VP, LOCAL SALES John Pike, jpike@xogrp.com (212) 515-3535 PUBLISHER Carolyn Mantone, cmantone@theknot.com (888) 873-5093 REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR Wendy Southers, wsouthers@theknot.com (770) 969-0373 ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES Tamara Crenshaw, tcrenshaw@theknot.com (877) 789-8817

Audrey Groves, agroves@theknot.com (877) 259-2606 REGIONAL/NATIONAL ACCOUNT MANAGER Rhonda Haberkamp, rhondah@theknot.com (888) 332-7815 SPECIALIST REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR Tricia Dixon, tdixon@xogrp.com (866) 743-2278 FASHION ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE Kristy Newquist, knewquist@xogrp.com (877) 927-3070 JEWELRY ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE Danielle Wilson, dpelletiere@xogrp.com (844) 848-4639 BEAUTY ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE Jill Rothman, jrothman@xogrp.com (855) 753-4100 DIRECTOR OF SHOWS & EVENTS Susana Diharce, sdiharce@xogrp.com (866) 960-9909 SENIOR MARKETING MANAGER Bevin Stella, bstella@xogrp.com (212) 515-3544 STRATEGY SPECIALIST Christina Frauendorfer, christinaf@theknot.com (877) 825-1806

VP, CORPORATE COMMUNICATIONS Jennifer Perciballi, pr@xogrp.com DIRECTOR, PUBLIC RELATIONS Melissa Bach, pr@xogrp.com MANAGER, PUBLIC RELATIONS Lauren Nolan, pr@xogrp.com COFOUNDER Carley Roney

The Knot The Carolinas is a publication of Weddingpages LLC, a subsidiary of XO Group Inc. All content © 2016 XO Group Inc. All rights reserved. Reproduction, either in whole or in part, is forbidden without written permission from the publisher. The Knot, TheKnot.com and The Knot The Carolinas are trademarks of XO Group Inc. The Knot is not responsible for the return or loss of, or damage to, unsolicited materials. Those submitting manuscripts, photographs, artwork and other materials for consideration should not send originals, unless specifically requested to do so in writing by The Knot. Manuscripts, artwork and other materials submitted must be accompanied by a self-addressed stamped envelope. Editorial Offices: 195 Broadway, New York, NY 10007 (212) 219-8555. Production Offices: 11106 Mockingbird Drive, Omaha, NE 68137 (800) 843-4983 please recycle after wedding

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Browse the top weddings from across America as part of our 50 Weddings, 50 States roundup. Nina and Matt, our North Carolina pick, married in an elegant garden celebration at Charlotte’s Duke Mansion with lush greenery, neutral colors and an alfresco reception. It’s the ultimate local inspiration. 50

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Gather your dream team of wedding pros with the help of our newly launched Ultimate Wedding Guides at TheKnot.com/stateguides. Your North and South Carolina guides have everything you need to know about saying “I do,” like how to get your marriage license. Then, connect with planners, florists, photographers and more by searching by region and price in our Marketplace.

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Duke Mansion has beautiful gardens of flowers and greenery. We knew immediately it was the place we’d have our wedding.

LAPTOP: SHUT TERSTOCK , ILLUSTR ATION BY YING CHANG; NINA & MAT T: ALLISON KUHN

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EDITOR’ S LET TER

We’ve tested all of The Knot Beauty Award winners. (p. 173)

All your wedding cake questions answered. (p. 115)

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This painterly invite says “city wedding” in the most elegant way. (p. 96)

—GLORIA STEINEM

You’re getting married! Congratulations. We love filling your head with hundreds of inspiring ideas—like destinationinspired stationery (p. 96)—as well as the practical advice you need to get your planning done. From the most effective beauty products for every wedding-related event (p. 173) to a flower primer you’ll want to tear out and take with you to your first meeting with a florist (p. 103), this issue was created to help with all your to-dos and make you feel confident every step of the way. And when it comes to fashion, we’ve got brides and grooms covered. In “Playing for Keeps” (p. 122), we used a carousel, cotton candy and other playful elements to show how edgy silhouettes, unconventional hues and unique accessories can add a touch of whimsy to your wedding look. For the guys, check out our ultimate guide to looking great, from manscaping to choosing the right menswear (p. 131). In order to make all of your ideas come to life, of course, you’ll need to think about a budget that works for you—and we’ll help with that too (p. 193). Wherever planning takes you, be sure to share your favorite wedding details with us on Instagram (#TheKnot). Now, let the dreaming begin.

KELLIE GOULD Editor in Chief

A feathery two-piece frock is perfect for dancing. (p. 122)

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Send me questions at kellie@theknot.com or find me on Instagram @kelliegouldny

GOULD: SAR AH LOVE PHOTOGR APHY

Pink peonies: the ultimate romantic flower, and one of my faves. (p. 103)

“Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.”

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EXPERT Q& A

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O   ur cofounder answers your questions.

My wedding band and engagement ring are both platinum, but I’m thinking about wearing gold jewelry for my wedding. Will that work?

RUDE REMARKS A friend of ours keeps making comments about our wedding budget, wondering aloud how we’re paying for it—in front of other people. How can we deal with these types of comments? We know it’s easier said than done, but don’t let a guest with a negative or insensitive attitude affect your wedding. You shouldn’t have to defend yourself— plus, your budget is nobody’s business but yours, so don’t get into an argument about how much you are or aren’t spending. Instead, simply thank them for noticing the details of your wedding and let them know how you plan to pay for it is a personal matter between you and your families. Being polite yet direct (not to mention honest) is the best way to get your friend to drop the subject for good.

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MOM ON A MISSION My mom’s taken over our wedding guest list, but the chapel we’ve chosen for the ceremony is pretty tiny. How can we rein in her list without stepping on toes? Parents helping to pay for the wedding should have a say in how their money is spent, but there’s nothing anyone can do about how many people will fit in the chapel you’ve chosen. If your mother keeps expanding her list at the exclusion of those guests most important to you, speak up—but make sure you don’t sound like you’re placing blame. Start with, “I’m worried about the number of people we’re inviting and that the ceremony will be overcrowded. Is there a way we can compromise?” Hopefully she’ll understand the dilemma and rethink the large head count without too much pushback.

REQUESTING CASH How do we let our guests know we want to receive money instead of gifts? Asking for money as a wedding gift may seem taboo, but more couples are going that route instead of a traditional registry. We suggest using an online cash registry website like Tendr, which lets guests gift money gracefully and discreetly with a personal note of congratulations. Or you may decide you’d rather receive money to fund your honeymoon. Create an account on a website like Traveler’s Joy for guests to contribute to. Whatever route you take, post your registry preference and links on your wedding website. But keep in mind that some people still want to give you something personal or material, so give them the option to do so. >>

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You can absolutely mix metals on your wedding day. Your engagement ring and wedding band might be your most meaningful (and asked about) jewelry, but that doesn’t mean they have to stand alone or dictate your entire look. For a little fashion inspiration, let the color and details of your gown point you toward which baubles will work best for your wedding. Gold usually pairs beautifully with creamier ivory fabrics, while silver typically complements brighter whites.

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3150 Platt Springs Road, Springdale, SC 29170 • 803.794.5557 info@springdalehouse.net • www.springdalehouse.net • #springdalehouse CELIA G PHOTOGRAPHY • MR. AND MRS. HINKLE (BRIDE & GROOM)

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PLANNER PAINS I don’t think we can afford a wedding planner, but I’m drowning in details. I can’t even imagine how overwhelmed I’ll be on the actual day. What should I do? It’s no secret: Planning a wedding alone is hard, but hiring a planner can be pretty pricey. The good news? Most pros really can work with any budget. If a full-service planner—who’ll hold your hand through finding a florist to cutting the cake—is out of your price range, hire one either on a freelance basis (they’ll help lay the groundwork for you early on) or just as a day-of coordinator. The latter actually starts at least a few weeks before your wedding and costs a fraction of a full-service planner but is pretty priceless—the last thing you should be doing on your wedding day is worrying.

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of couples hire a professional wedding planner TRIAL AND ERROR Am I being too pushy if I bring photos of styles I like to my hair trial? Not at all. Most stylists actually love when you bring pictures for inspiration— plus, your idea of classic might be totally different from theirs. Same goes if you mention celebrities whose locks you admire. Stars change their looks so often, you might be visualizing a sleek redhead while your stylist sees a tousled blond. In addition to photos of styles you like, bring a picture of your dress along with the jewelry and hair accessories you plan on wearing, including your veil, to ensure everything works flawlessly altogether when it’s time to walk down the aisle.

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ALTAR UPGRADE We’re getting married in a church— what are some ways we can make the space feel special and personal? You don’t need much to dress up your ceremony spot, especially if the venue’s interiors are already beautiful to begin with. And remember: Your wedding party will be “decorating” the scene too. Start by checking with your church as it may have décor restrictions. If your congregation allows it, have your florist create two arrangements to mark the altar, and line the aisle with candles, small arrangements or topiaries. If flowers or candles are a no-go, a simple, personalized aisle runner can be enough to make it feel more you.

what would you do Is it necessary to list the groom’s parents on the invitation if they’re not contributing? Tell us what you think at TheKnot.com/talk ANSWER ANXIETY There are only two weeks left until my wedding and I still haven’t heard from a big portion of my guest list. What should I do? As the date draws nearer, there’s nothing wrong with following up with a quick phone call or email to get a definitive yes or no. If you’ve got a particularly trusted and helpful bridesmaid, relative or friend, ask them to help make the calls. Or have whoever added each guest to your list pitch in—if it’s your friend, it’s up to you to track him or her down; if it’s your mother-in-law’s coworker, she should make the call.

MOCKTAIL HOUR Is it appropriate to have a cocktail hour if we know a good portion of our guests don’t drink alcohol? Absolutely. A cocktail hour is a fun way for guests to pass the time between the ceremony and reception, especially if you’re planning on taking photos. In addition to a signature cocktail, you can also create a custom mocktail, which is always an unexpected and appreciated refreshment for nondrinkers. If you’re just serving beer and wine, make sure you have plenty of soda and bottled water on hand as well. Plus, you’ll definitely want enough tasty hors d’oeuvres for everyone to munch on while they sip and mingle.

76% of couples host a cocktail hour

HONEYMOON HITCH My fiancé and I have completely different ideas on the perfect getaway spot. How can we both get excited about choosing and planning the right trip? Your honeymoon should and will be special, but remember, this isn’t the only trip you’ll ever take together. Sit down and rank your top five honeymoon spots, then see if you have any overlap. Sure, your third choice might be his fifth, but chances are you’d both be happy with the locale. If you want to go rock climbing and he wants to lounge poolside with a good novel, find somewhere that offers both. Or, if you have enough time (and energy!), hop to multiple destinations to satisfy both tastes. Have a question for Carley? Tweet at @carleyroney

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Crisp Petals invitation, $254 for 100, Petite Alma, WeddingPaperDivas.com

shimmery lids

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1525 Highway 107 S., Cashiers, NC; (800) 334-2551; HighHamptonInn.com Sitting on 1,400 acres of private land dotted with pristine lakes and surrounded by mountains, this locale offers wedding parties a chance to escape from reality with guest rooms void of televisions, internet and telephones. Exchange vows in front of Hampton Lake with a spectacular view of Rock Mountain’s shimmering peak in the distance, then move to the cozy, wood-beamed Pavilion (120 guests) for an elegant seated dinner. Plus, pets are welcome on the property.

242 Boals Farm Road, Wando, SC; (843) 501-6339; BoalsFarm.com Originally a sugarcane farm, this working horse farm that sits on 33 acres perfectly defines a Lowcountry wedding venue. Hold a large outdoor ceremony with 350plus guests in front of the two-story wood barn with an open hay loft. For a indooroutdoor reception, all of your guests will enjoy the open pavilion sporting rustic touches such as copper accents and a wagon wheel chandelier. TIP Golf cart transportation easily moves guests across this spacious property.

4717 Shamrock Drive, Charlotte, NC; (704) 910-1967; AlexanderHomesteadWeddings.com This Queen Anne Victorian estate dates back to 1903 and features plenty of turnof-the-century charm. Host your ceremony under 200-year-old oak trees while up to 225 of your guests are seated in the adjacent flower garden, before a reception in the rustic dairy barn with wood beams and arched windows. As an extra perk, you and your bridesmaids can prep the day of in the on-site bridal suite located in an antique carriage house. >>

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the old cigar warehouse 912 South Main St., Greenville, SC; (864) 248-4868; OldCigarWarehouse.com This retired cigar warehouse exudes rustic, urban ambience with its brick walls and massive vaulted ceilings. Say “I do” in an outdoor ceremony in front of 100 guests on the shipping deck under vintage cigar signage. Need something more spacious? The main hall won’t disappoint with room for 160, stamped concrete floors and a grand staircase. Very large weddings can even use the cellar to seat up to 500.

48 Links Drive, Cashiers, NC; (828) 743-6161; TrilliumNC.com With eight indoor and outdoor venues, Trillium offers couples the variety to plan a wedding focused both on nature and formal elegance. The Clubhouse Lawn can fit up to as many as 200 family members and friends outside with a view overlooking the breathtaking Blue Ridge Mountains. The Serenity Chapel, with exposed wood beams, is an ideal spot for a more intimate affair of up to 50. TIP To make your day less stressful, Trillium offers a trolley service to transport guests to and from their local accommodations.

banner elk winery 60 Deer Run Lane, Banner Elk, NC; (828) 898-9090; BannerElkWinery.com The vineyard producing North Carolina’s most sought-after wines offers to-be-weds spacious tasting rooms, manicured lawns with fireplaces and fields of grapevines to serve as venues for their nuptials. We especially love the Enchanted Barn for smaller soirees of 65 guests and the Villa Lawn for bigger parties of 120 guests. Plus, rent the elegant villas, complete with Jacuzzis, for the wedding weekend.

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309 N. Dawson St., Raleigh, NC; (919) 391-8350; MelroseKnittingMillRaleigh.com Exposed brick, wood ceiling beams and dramatic arched windows make this former knitting mill the perfect blank canvas for creative couples. Host a lavish cocktail hour among the ivy-covered courtyard, which includes heated tents for cooler months. The courtyard and mill can hold up to 200 guests seated, and if you’re going for a cocktail party vibe, 350 can mingle in the 19th-century building.

454 Damascus Church Road, Long Creek, SC; (864) 647-9768; ChattoogaBelleFarm.com This distillery and working farm is home to an event barn with wow-worthy views of the Appalachian Mountains. Set up a tent on the lawn for up to 200 guests, and for those couples planning a snowy winter wedding, the heated barn holds 100 and features cozy stone fireplaces. TIP The in-house catering team can

supply personalized jars of local jams, jellies and butters for your favors.

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In Charleston, many vendors book up one year in advance. Give yourself 10 to 12 months to plan your wedding and find the right venue. Lowering your guest count is the best way to lower your expenses and stay on budget. Bringing in a planner at the beginning of the process will save you countless hours of research and time. Planners can give you the scoop up front before it’s too late.

let’s talk style. name a wedding trend you wish would go away? In the South, we see burlap, mason jars and lace. We’d be happy to never see those again. what’s a twist you’ve put on tradition? For one Indian wedding we planned, it was important to the couple to have authentic Indian cuisine. We found an incredible Indian chef and paired her with one of the top caterers in Charleston. The result was a mix of classic Indian and Southern cuisine that all of the guests raved about. lastly, your top wedding day moment? Definitely the couple’s reaction when they see their reception for the first time. It makes all the hard work worth it. F ind venues, photographers and more in our directory on p. 225

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Drink lots of water and get eight hours of sleep the nights leading up to your “I dos.” A little spot concealer and translucent powder can even out your groom’s skin. Crier? Hold a piece of tissue around the bouquet and pat, don’t rub, tears to “cry pretty.”

and what shouldn’t she do? Don’t try new skin care products the month before your wedding because you don’t know how your skin will react. how do you talk a bride out of a beauty trend you know won’t flatter her? People are more responsive to positivity, so rather than say we can’t do something, we try to focus on her favorite features. We give advice on ways to bring those out. If she is set on a look, we may try the trend they like on one side and what we would recommend on the other, so they can see the difference. describe the best way to deal with this day-of disaster: streaky self tanner. Streaky sunless tans can be blended out with lemon juice on a cotton ball or a little baking soda scrubbed onto damp skin. If you don’t have those things, ask the hotel—most can provide them. lastly, name three beauty essentials brides must keep in their clutch? Lipstick, bobby pins and powder. And if you’re a crier, eyelash glue doesn’t hurt. heck out more local wedding pros C at TheKnot.com/marketplace

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Repurpose bridesmaid bouquets by placing them in vases on guest tables or other accent tables.

and one trend you’re loving right now? More brides have begun using richer and more saturated colors. I love a wider color variety. I also love lush spring blooms such as anemone and lilac paired with bold tropical foliage like palm or philodendron. we’re curious: what really happens to flowers postwedding? We always encourage the couple, family and guests to take flowers home after the wedding. If there are any additional flowers leftover, we have the catering staff and other vendors take the flowers home to enjoy. Flowers can also be donated to local hospice and retirement communities to be repurposed for residents to enjoy.

Be open to using a variety of colors for a wider choice of flowers and textures. If you don’t want to toss your actual bouquet, order a second, lighter “toss” bouquet for the tradition. If you’re on a tight budget, focus on the most heavily photographed flowers, like your bouquets, and use less expensive blooms for the reception flowers.

iscover more tips and trends from D your area at TheKnot.com/carolinas

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MAC & B. EVENTS hosted a refined affair full of Southern charm at THE GADSDEN HOUSE in Charleston, South Carolina, decorated with oyster shells, vintage silver cups, sweet peas, natural wood accents, various shades of blue and pops of playful cotton candy for sweet cocktail treats.

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“Our inspiration was Charleston and our love of all things Southern and chic. The décor was sophisticated, with pale blue linens blowing in the warm breeze, cozy nooks for guests to lounge and china creamers filled with florals.” —Mac & B. Events

LOCAL TREND ALERT The Knot editors are traveling the country reporting on the hottest wedding style trends brought to life by local wedding pros. Charleston’s top trend from Pure Fluff Co. and Mac & B. Events was cocktails topped with cotton candy. Dollops of Pure Fluff added a sweet touch to coupes of champagne—perfect for both bridal showers and cocktail hours.

THE TEAM VENUE The Gadsden House PLANNER Mac & B. Events PHOTOGRAPHY

Marni Rothschild Pictures VIDEOGRAPHY EPIC Charleston FLOWERS Branch Design Studios STATIONERY The Lettered Olive CALLIGRAPHY The Town Serif RENTALS EventHaus; Ooh! Events; PDA; Polished; Snyder Events CATERING B. Gourmet Catering; Callie’s Charleston Biscuits DESSERTS Swank Desserts CAKE Ashley Bakery COTTON CANDY Pure Fluff

Co. SPARKLING WINE Blanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux ENTERTAINMENT Bunn DJ Company; Heather Rice; The V-Tones of Charleston PHOTO BOOTH The Photobooth People LIVE EVENT PAINTING Natalie Taylor Humphrey FAVORS Coastal Kelder; Cru Catering; Duvall Catering HAIR & MAKEUP

Madison Hughes; Paper Dolls Wedding Hair & Makeup; Patrick Navarro

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WE TIE THE KNOTS threw a Palm-Springs-meets-Hollywood-Regency-inspired cocktail soiree at 220 NORTH TRYON AT FOUNDATION FOR THE CAROLINAS in Charlotte, North Carolina, by creating an indoor patio party complete with tiki drinks like mai tais, a fondant-succulent-flanked cake and plenty of tropical botanicals.

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“The party was a feast for the eyes—with colorful palm, floral and pineapple décor—and for the mouth—with mini crudo plates, truffle fries in paper cones, raspberry tartlets and Key lime pie pudding cups.” —Ivy Jacobson, Planning Editor

LOCAL DETAIL WE LOVE Local pros always delight us! Our favorite detail in Charlotte, tropical florals, comes from Lily Greenthumb’s and We Tie the Knots. Pairing palm leaves with brightly colored flowers instantly transports guests to a vacation-like atmosphere and creates a party-friendly mood we can’t get enough of.

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Five supersweet proposals from the Carolinas. BY JULIETTE CHEATHAM

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damion & donald • Raleigh, NC PHOTOGRAPH BY ARIEL PERRY PHOTOGRAPHY

When Donald (left) planned an elaborate vacation to Punta Cana, Dominican Republic, he craftily led Damion to believe it was for a family member’s birthday—but he actually planned on popping the question. Once on the island, Donald escorted Damion to a small gazebo in the middle of the resort’s garden and dropped to one knee. “I was completely caught off guard,” Damion says. “It was not long ago that we couldn’t express our love so openly for each other and experience the things that other couples have always been able to express. I now have my own fairy tale.” The ring: Kay Jewelers >>

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During a family vacation to Seabrook Island over Chandra’s birthday, Andrew suggested the couple go outside to watch the lightning from the beach house’s dock during a rainless August storm. “I was annoyed that he barely remembered my birthday, but I guess he had bigger things on his mind,” Chandra says of what happened next. “When we got to the dock, he got down on one knee and asked me if I would marry him. I could only see him through flashes of lightning, but said ‘yes’ in a heartbeat!” The ring: J&L Designs

crystal & brandon Mount Pleasant, SC PHOTOGRAPH BY TAYLOR RAE PHOTOGRAPHY

One night after work, Crystal and Brandon planned to meet at Mount Pleasant Seafood to pick up shrimp for an at-home dinner of shrimp and grits. Since Crystal arrived right at sunset, Brandon asked her to take a walk on the pier before grabbing the ingredients for dinner. As the sun set, he popped the question. “I was completely surprised,” Crystal says. “I always knew Brandon and I would get married, but that night I definitely thought we were just picking up seafood. When we got home, there was champagne, and we really did make shrimp and grits!” The ring: Diamonds Direct >>

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Wanting to take a weekend getaway, Diana and Tyler headed up to their favorite destination: Asheville, North Carolina. Diana thought nothing was out of the ordinary, since they hike in the area several times a year. During a trek to one of their favorite pinnacles near Craggy Gardens, Tyler set up his tripod when the couple got to the peak. “It’s something he does quite often,” Diana says of still not suspecting a thing. Secretly, Tyler hit the record button, walked over to Diana and proposed. “The connection we share is the kind that only comes around once in a lifetime,” she says. The ring: Tacori

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To celebrate the purchase of their first home, Kaela and Isiah headed to the Biltmore Estate for a luxurious weekend. A foot of snow had blanketed the property, making for a magical house tour, but rather chilly for the fancy dinner Isiah planned. “I decided to stay in my oversize, cozy ‘grandma’ sweater,” Kaela says. “It didn’t turn out to be the ideal look for postproposal pictures!” When dessert arrived, Kaela’s favorite coconut cake sat on a plate that read, “Will you marry me?” The ring: Solomon Brothers Fine Jewelry Find more amazing photographers in your area on p. 229

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Nina Manzullo, 27, a marketing specialist GROOM Matt Chase, 29, a finance manager HOW THEY MET Through mutual friends WEDDING STYLE The duo hosted an elegant garden party on the lush grounds of The Duke Mansion, focusing on a subtle color palette of ivory, gold and gray. —Juliette Cheatham

Nina’s bridesmaids wore gray floor-length gowns with an illusion neckline. “Gray was the only color we used as an accent for our wedding, and I loved the thought of the bridesmaid dresses being one of the few things in that color,” Nina says.

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The couple served a round buttercream cake accented with fresh greenery.

Five chandeliers and leafy garlands transformed a clear-top tent into an elegant dinner party. Gold-rimmed chargers, crinkly gray tablecloths and beautiful menus handwritten in gray ink completed the place settings.

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NINA & MATT’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Little Church on the Lane,

Charlotte, NC RECEPTION SITE The Duke Mansion, Charlotte, NC

PHOTOGRAPHY

Katrina Hutchins Events Room

CONSULTANT

FLOWERS The Bloom

OFFICIANT Rev. Jeff Carter

GOWN

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SHOES Badgley Mischka, BHLDN

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Donald

Haack Diamonds JEWELRY Bracelet: Kendra Scott; earrings: Marchesa

HAIR &

MAKEUP Be Pretty by Lindsey Regan Thorne BRIDESMAID DRESSES Jenny Yoo, Bella

Bridesmaids Wearhouse

MENSWEAR Calvin Klein, Men’s STATIONERY Empress Stationery;

escort & menu cards: Delighted Calligraphy RENTALS Party Reflections Inc.

The Duke Mansion Cakes

CATERING

CAKE The WOW Factor

MUSIC Cocktail hour: Greg Lilley;

reception: Mo Money Band/ Entertainment

EastCoast

TRANSPORTATION Trolleys,

Sunway Charters & Tours

ACCOMMODATIONS

The Duke Mansion; The Dunhill Hotel; Omni Charlotte Hotel; The Ritz-Carlton, Charlotte REGISTRIES Belk; Pottery Barn; Williams-

Sonoma The couple had their first dance to “Crazy Love” by Van Morrison. “Matt would play it while I’d be cooking, and next thing you know, we’d be dancing in the kitchen,” Nina says of the song choice inspiration.

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Joy carried a mix of hanging green amaranthus and soft pink and white roses, wrapped in satin and accented with crystals.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Joy Pearsall, 36, a clinical research associate GROOM Cuncho Brown, 38, a real estate investment and security consultant HOW THEY MET At a party WEDDING STYLE Joy and Cuncho used a timeless black and white palette accented with bold greenery for their streamlined and chic urban wedding. —JC

Joy describes their ceremony space as “absolute perfection,” and says it needed little else in the way of décor. “The open-air roof and crawling greenery on the walls were existing focal points throughout the space,” she says. “Coupled with the exposed brick and wood benches, it created the magical ambience we wanted.”

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EVENT DESIGN

Creative Touch Events

GOWN Rosa Clará,

Traditions by Anna Bridal Boutique, Raleigh, NC

VEIL DIY

SHOES Valentino

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS L.

Laine Jewelers EARRINGS L. Laine Jewelers HAIR Cori Dunn

Ragland House

MAKEUP KeeDreeka

BRIDESMAID DRESSES JJ’s MENSWEAR Groom: Giorgio

Armani, Saks Fifth Avenue; groomsmen: Nordstrom

STATIONERY Paper Buzz

RENTALS BBJ Linens; Creative Touch

Events; High Performance Lighting & Power CATERING Bakery 105

Bakery

CAKE One Belle

MUSIC Ceremony, second line &

cocktail hour: Benny Hill Music; reception: DJ Jus Right

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Courtyard Wilmington Downtown/Historic District; Hilton Wilmington Riverside; The The couple had a jazz band play throughout the ceremony and then join them for a New Orleans–style second line parade. “It was magical!” Joy says. “The band was playing ‘When the Saints Go Marching In’ as my husband and I were leading our guests down the street.”

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REGISTRY Crate & Barrel

GUESTS 120 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 8)

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redefining the bridal gown shopping experience 1419 East Boulevard, Suite E, Charlotte, NC 28203 704-547-4208 • info@ladiesoflineage.com • www.ladiesoflineage.com DESIGNERS: Rosa Clará Couture • AIRE Barcelona • Matthew Christopher • Lea-Ann Belter • Sassi Holford of London • THEIA Couture • Lis Simon Bridal • Ella Rosa by Kenneth Winston • Thomas Knoell • Elle & Jae

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Caitlin’s bouquet included wild-looking natural elements like lamb’s ear and thistle.

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Rustic wood contrasted the elegant linen draping and a sparkling chandelier at the tented reception.

THEIR STORY BRIDE Caitlin Weems, 28, an e-commerce manager GROOM Ben Pinegar, 29, a digital analyst HOW THEY MET At work WEDDING STYLE With organic details and muted fall hues, Caitlin and Ben’s day perfectly echoed the rustic vibe of their Lonesome Valley setting. —JC

Ben personally designed a number of stationery items, including the rehearsal dinner invitation, welcome letter, program and even the logo that was used as a sticker on their welcome bags and cocktail napkins. “It was a lot of fun picking out the fonts for it,” Caitlin says of the design process.

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Caitlin paired her high neck, deep V-back gown with a sentimental family heirloom: her cathedral-length lace veil purchased in Belgium in 1954 by a family member on her father’s side. “I was the 17th family member to wear it,” she says. “It was so special.”

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Fiddlehead Designs Harry Pritchett

FLOWERS

OFFICIANT Rev.

GOWN Tara Keely, Bridals

by Lori, Atlanta

SHOES Nine West

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Pavé

Jewelers EARRINGS Anthropologie HAIR &

MAKEUP Hair and Makeup

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BRIDESMAID DRESSES MENSWEAR BlackLapel.com

STATIONERY Paces Paper; Shannon

Berrey Design Party Rentals

RENTALS Professional CATERING Canyon

Kitchen at Lonesome Valley Hampton Golf Club

CAKE Wade

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Inn & Suites Cashiers-Sapphire Valley; High Hampton Inn & Country Club

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“We wanted our wedding to be an experience for our guests, and something our Pakistani guests, in particular, had not witnessed in the past,” Naadia says of their venue search. “With a beautiful backdrop and landscape, the Graylyn Estate did that for us.” The couple created a clean, classy look by decorating in shades of white with pops of gold to complement the romantic, old-world charm of the stone mansion.

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“In traditional Pakistani weddings, the bride and groom sit on a stage as the centerpiece of the reception,” Naadia says. “We took a more low-key approach to that idea with a sweetheart table under a beautiful canopy.” Naadia and Jeff also blended cultures with the food by serving entrees alongside both American and Pakistani sauces and naan.

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Nouveau Events

FLOWERS Embellished Blooms

Arshad Anwar

OFFICIANT

GOWN HSY, Lahore, Pakistan

SHOES Giuseppe Zanotti

ENGAGEMENT

& WEDDING RINGS Kogita Jewelry JEWELRY

Sapna Creations

HAIR Sonya Madsen/Fire

Salon MAKEUP Makeup Artistry by Amani BRIDESMAID DRESSES Nadia Farooqui,

Lahore, Pakistan

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Hickey Freeman, Paul Simon Co., Charlotte, NC; groomsmen: Calvin Klein, Barons Menswear, Greensboro, NC Diva

STATIONERY The Desktop

RENTALS CE Rental; ThemeWorks

CATERING Graylyn Estate

Originals

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CAKE Regi

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Ensembles; reception: Sohil Kharva/DJ Hungama

TRANSPORTATION Fantasy

Limousine Inc. Naadia’s custom gown took her designer four months to bead by hand.

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Embassy Suites Winston-Salem; Winston-Salem Marriott

REGISTRY Neiman Marcus

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BRIDE Irene Pappas, 29, works in public relations GROOM Stanford (Ben) Rudnick, 32, senior director of finance at INC Research HOW THEY MET Through mutual friends WEDDING STYLE Irene and Ben used plenty of white and shades of green to create an organic feel for their reception after a traditional ceremony at a Greek Orthodox church. —Meghan Overdeep

“I wanted to celebrate their differences so I let them pick their own dresses,” Irene says of her nine bridesmaids. “I simply chose the color palette, and voila!” The result was a pretty mix of patterns, fabrics and styles in neutral hues and soft pastels.

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Garlands of fresh greenery decorated the couple’s ivory buttercream cake.

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CEREMONY SITE St. Barbara

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“Our reception décor was inspired by a restaurant in Manhattan we both love,” Irene says. “It has gorgeous greenery suspended from the ceiling, creating a hanging garden feel. It’s so romantic, we had to have it for our wedding day.” Guests left with bags of five Jordan almonds, a nod to Irene’s Greek heritage.

Tobacco Campus, Durham, NC PHOTOGRAPHY Anna Routh Barzin/

Anna Routh Photography Heart Stone Films McLean Events Garden Florist Stavroforos

VIDEOGRAPHY

CONSULTANT Erin FLOWERS Watered

OFFICIANT Rev. Dean GOWN Monique Lhuillier,

New York City

VEIL Christian Siriano

SHOES Miu Miu

ENGAGEMENT

RING Bailey’s Fine Jewelry WEDDING RINGS Bride: Suzanne Kalan; groom:

Bailey’s Fine Jewelry EARRINGS Elizabeth Cole

HAIR &

Culture

MAKEUP The Makeup

BRIDESMAID DRESSES Various

STATIONERY Smitten on Paper;

Wiregrass Weddings Rental

RENTALS CE

CATERING Angus Barn

Ashley Cakes

CAKE

MUSIC Ceremony:

Arioso Strings; reception: The Shakedown Band

TRANSPORTATION Carolina

Livery

ACCOMMODATIONS 21c

Museum Hotel Durham

HONEYMOON

Montenegro GUESTS 260

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Caroline McGuire, 30, a senior wealth strategy associate GROOM Henry Edward (Trey) Winslett III, 31, a director in fixed income strategy HOW THEY MET At a housewarming party WEDDING STYLE The couple brought their black-tie wedding to life with classic touches and a white, silver and pink palette. —JC

Caroline and Trey were married at Caroline’s family church. Floral wreaths of hydrangeas, roses, peonies and fresh greenery greeted the guests as they arrived at the church, and two large arrangements framed the altar. For a whimsical touch, the flower girls wore floral wreath headpieces and off-white dresses with blush sashes that matched the color of the bridesmaid dresses.

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Country Club, Charlotte, NC

PHOTOGRAPHY

Gayle Brooker Photography

VIDEOGRAPHY

Heart Stone Films Robinson Events

CONSULTANT Ivy

FLOWERS Ceremony: The

Blossom Shop; reception: John Lupton Events OFFICIANT Rev. Albert Gillespie Peery Jr. GOWN Romona Keveza, Nitsa’s Apparel,

Charlotte, NC NC

VEIL Nitsa’s Apparel, Charlotte,

SHOES Jimmy Choo

ENGAGEMENT &

WEDDING RINGS Diamonds Direct Charlotte HAIR &

MAKEUP Jami Svay

BRIDESMAID

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groomsmen: Paul Simon Co., Charlotte, NC STATIONERY Arzberger Stationers; Grace

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RENTALS Crush Event

Rentals; Party Reflections Inc.; Party Tables CATERING Charlotte Country Club CAKE For Goodness Cakes

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Abby Seeskin (left), 28, a graduate student BRIDE Rachel Stebing, 30, a retirement plan consultant HOW THEY MET OKCupid.com WEDDING STYLE The pair planned a rustic meets urban wedding with a vibrant, summery color scheme. —JC

Abby and Rachel patterned their interfaith ceremony after a Jewish wedding, but tailored parts of it to feel more significant to them as a couple. They rewrote the traditional “seven blessings,” and had each member of their wedding party offer them a blessing. “We really wanted our ceremony to reflect who we are as individuals and who we are as a couple,” Abby says.

Mint and basil added a pop of green (and fresh scents) to the bouquets.

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GOWNS Abby: Maggie Sottero, Clarice’s

Bridal, St. Louis; Rachel: Catherine Deane, BHLDN

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Hampton Inn & Suites Chapel Hill/Carrboro REGISTRIES Crate & Barrel; Honeyfund

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Sea glass, pieces of driftwood, succulents and shells were scattered throughout the reception space.

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ENGAGEMENT RING Zales EARRINGS

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Suite Day, Etsy.com Rustic Restyle, Etsy.com

SIGN-IN BOOK RENTALS Ocean

Atlantic Event Rentals; Renee Landry Events

THEIR STORY BRIDE Taylor Raney, 26, a nutritional assistant GROOM James (Jay) Jennings Jr., 35, head of maintenance at a public school system HOW THEY MET At a cookout WEDDING STYLE Taylor and Jay used natural sea life and muted blues to adorn their rustic beach theme and waterfront venue. —JC

“Jay and I always knew we wanted to be married at the beach,” Taylor says. The couple picked Wild Horse—a sprawling 23-bedroom estate on the Outer Banks—not only for their nuptials, but to house their family and close friends for the week leading up to their seaside wedding. “It was the perfect amount of everything,” Taylor says.

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Coastal DJ & Video Leigh, Etsy.com Corolla Shuttle

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TRANSPORTATION ACCOMMODATIONS

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carry your invite theme into your wedding day paper! this dinner menu mimics the invite

Getting hitched in the Southwest? Choose a symbol or motif that suits, like this playful cactus illustration. A mix of graphic and elegant typography elevates the suite, making it perfect for any formality, from hacienda to casual ranch party. Cacti wedding invitations, $234 for 100, Cass Loh, Minted.com

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Tying the knot in a field of flowers? Incorporate some flora into your wedding paper. (Bonus points for adding the blooms to your bouquet too.) A monochromatic palette lends subtle sophistication to this illustrated design while a portrait (aka the new monogram) gives it bespoke personalization. Matching inserts coordinate the whole suite. Frankie collection invitations and envelopes, $582 for 100, ColorMeCarla.com

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Celebrating in the big city? Give guests a sneak peek of the party spot and generate excitement with a custom watercolor invitation backer— imagine pulling this out of an envelope. Add a glitzy paper liner, monogrammed reply card and handpicked vintage stamps for a unique invitation. Travis and Mario invitations, $2,850 for 100, RegasStudio.com >>

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opt for a fill-in reply card so guests can pen you a note of excitement

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Making it official in a mountain chalet? Play up your chosen spot in big (hello, maps!) and small ways. A neutral palette is perfect for mixing motifs and typography, while gold foil details add a hint of formality and make each piece of the suite feel extra special. Haynes collection invitations, reply cards and coordinating envelopes, from $1,990 for 100, Amy Graham Stigler, SmockPaper.com

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Sometimes trying to describe your favorite blooms to a florist is like trying to tell the car repair shop what sound your engine is making. Unless you’ve been around the block a few times, it’s hard to establish an extensive floral vocabulary. So we called on floral expert Jihyen Crowley of Gotham Florist for some help, and she shared the stems she’s asked about most often when it comes to wedding flowers. From anemones to garden roses and sweet pea, we’ve created a cheat sheet of perennial favorites, so you can brush up on the flower speak before meeting with your florist to choose your perfect petals. >>

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anemone This small bloom comes in a range of jewel-toned hues, but white may be the most popular color. It’s a shoo-in for formal black-and-white weddings because it’s one of the only flowers that naturally grows in that color scheme (white petals, black center). SEASON Spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Expectation, protection PAIR IT WITH Anemones look great next to their floral cousin ranunculus. Ranunculus have very compact, layered petals that complement the open shape of anemones.

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The pointy petals sported by this bloom are thanks to its roots in the protea family. We love the shape they add to an arrangement, and you can’t beat the name when it comes to your bouquet. SEASON Summer SYMBOLIC MEANING Courtship PAIR IT WITH Crowley recommends a big flowering bloom with lots of petals, like peonies, and florals with a smaller head, like ranunculus, to fill out the whole arrangement.

lisianthus The ruffled petals are similar to a rose, but the center of lisianthus is what separates it from the pack. The petals appear pulled away from the center, really exposing the pollen. It’s also a hardier flower, which makes it a great choice for warm-weather weddings. SEASON Year-round SYMBOLIC MEANING Flashy, showiness PAIR IT WITH Roses are a great choice since the two blooms look so alike, but for something more edgy and less sweet, include some lisianthus buds in the mix. Before the flowers bloom they have tall, slender buds that give texture to an arrangement.

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Dahlias come in all shapes, sizes and colors. They can grow up to 12 inches in diameter or be as small as a button mum. The petals can expand in a straight, spiky fashion or in a round, tube-like shape, and the colors range from pastels to jewel tones and monochromatic combinations. Basically, options. SEASON Summer SYMBOLIC MEANING Dignity, elegance PAIR IT WITH If your dahlias have large heads, they’ll likely take up more space in an arrangement allowing you to complement with greenery (think: dusty miller or seeded eucalyptus) and a few filler flowers. If you want to supplement with a similar-looking bloom, consider zinnias, which share the same architecture.

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This sought-after hybrid (also know as a David Austin English rose) adds depth and fragrance to a bouquet. The petals are reminiscent of a peony while the shape maintains its traditional rose demeanor. SEASON Year-round SYMBOLIC MEANING This variety was bred too recently to have a symbolic meaning, but classic roses stand for love, joy and beauty. PAIR IT WITH These stems are universally loved. “They pair well with almost any flower,” Crowley says. “But we use them most often with anemones, tulips, dahlias and orchids.” >>

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lily of the valley Royal brides like Grace Kelly and Kate Middleton have helped make lily of the valley an iconic wedding flower. Its little bellshaped blooms are clustered close together on a vinelike stem, making it the perfect choice to offset big-headed flowers in large bouquets. But, out of season, these tiny buds can really cost you. SEASON Spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Humility, purity, sweetness PAIR IT WITH When peeking out from a cluster of lush peonies, lily of the valley is incredibly glamorous and charming. Stephanotis and tuberose are also good pairings—both sharing the vine structure and small white flowers.

peony Maybe the most requested of all wedding flowers, the peony definitely steals the show. There are hues for any season, like fall maroons or springy hot pinks. BEST SEASON Spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Bashfulness, prosperity, romance PAIR IT WITH Peonies look amazing on their own or when paired with other large-headed blooms like double tulips or roses.

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sweet pea These ruffly, feminine petals are a popular choice because of their sweet aroma and sentimental name. Different colors bloom in different seasons, so if you’re interested in a specific hue, check with your florist about what’s available when. BEST SEASON Fall, spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Blissful pleasure PAIR IT WITH Hydrangeas look incredibly lush and romantic with sweet pea. If you want something more understated, garden roses are equally as fabulous but with a bit less volume. >>

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ranunculus Though small in size, this petal-filled flower is used in a range of different-styled bouquets. It perfectly completes a round bouquet, or adds a sense of whimsy to a rustic-looking arrangement. And because of its size, it makes the perfect boutonniere bloom. SEASON Winter, spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Charming, radiant PAIR IT WITH Gardenia petals grow in a beautiful spiral, which makes for a striking juxtaposition when placed next to the small heads of ranunculus.

thistle The distinctive shape of this stem (also known as sea holly) makes it a total standout. It has an interesting texture and is one of the few true-blue florals out there. The best part? No petals means no wilting, so it will last through any summer wedding. SEASON Summer, fall SYMBOLIC MEANING Protection, strength PAIR IT WITH Thistle is very rustic, so keep the vibe going with wax flowers, Queen Anne’s lace and seeded eucalyptus. Find your bridal blooms at TheKnot.com/flowers

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You’ve probably seen a lot of scabiosa pods in rustic weddings, but when the flower is in full bloom, it has a different appearance. The seed-dotted center gives the bloom an identifiable architectural element that stands out among other stems. SEASON Spring, fall SYMBOLIC MEANING Admiration PAIR IT WITH For a totally romantic-without-fuss bouquet, clematis and anemones go amazingly well with this easy, breezy bloom.

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Send guests home with a sweet treat that will leave a lasting impression. Here are some of our favorite edible favors for your wedding day. >> BY ANDREA FOWLER PHOTOGRAPHY BY KATE SEARS

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Couples take note: Edible favors never (okay, rarely) get left behind. And while favors aren’t required, they’re a nice way to show your guests you appreciate their support and attendance. And if they traveled to celebrate, an edible token means instant gratification—no packing something extra in the suitcase for the trek home. Just like your invitation sets the stage for your wedding, your favors leave a lasting impression, so pick something fun that speaks to your wedding theme, the locale or your personality as a couple. Are you two always on the hunt for the best macarons? Or maybe you’re popcorn gurus or cookie connoisseurs? Treat your guests to an indulgence you both love. Whether you’re after something sweet, foodieapproved or ridiculously Instagrammable, we’ve got you covered with nine edible favors that ship nationwide.

1. chocolate-covered pretzels You can’t go wrong with a sweet and salty postreception snack, especially when there are rainbow sprinkles involved. Customize the colors and the packaging of these yummy pretzels for foolproof favors. FROM $7 PER BOX, FATTYSUNDAYS.COM

2. whoopie pies These aren’t just any old whoopie pies. With their creative flavors (fig honey goat cheese, anyone?), these treats are fit for a foodie. And if your guests aren’t that adventurous, stick to classics like double chocolate and vanilla Funfetti. $16 FOR 10, BATTERANDCREAM.COM

3. b’day cake truffles Allow us to introduce you to the ultimate truffle: vanilla rainbow cake mixed with vanilla-infused milk, coated with white chocolate and rolled in rainbow cake crumbs. Mind blown. $17 FOR 12, MILKBARSTORE.COM

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5. popcorn tins You’ll be hard-pressed to find a guest who wouldn’t want to take home this iconic popcorn. A delectable combo of caramel and cheese—Garrett Popcorn Shop’s signature mix—is both a savory treat and a dessert snack in one. $189 FOR

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6. cake pops A bite of cake on a stick is the perfect grab-and-go fix, whether you’re on the dance floor on your way out the door. And with sparkly frosting, these cake pops can double as décor—they can even be styled to look like a mini wedding cake or a bride and groom (perfect for a prewedding celebration too!). Have a bow-tie-clad waiter stand by the exit to send guests off with something sweet in a grand way. FROM $39 FOR 12, SHOPNYCAKEPOPS.COM >>

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These tasty little treats come in fun flavors, like mint chocolate, chocolate lavender, passion fruit and white chocolate cherry. And you can personalize the cookie with a custom illustration of the two of you or even your wedding date—total win. $5 FOR 2-PIECE FAVOR BOX, BYWOOPS.COM

9. marshmallow sandwich cookies Not only are these marshmallow cookies totally unique, they’re also made with fair-trade ingredients and zero artificial preservatives. Pick from flavors like raspberry hibiscus, vanilla and caramel, and peppermint chocolate. Thinking of keeping guests toasty at your winter nuptials with a hot chocolate bar? Station these next to the cocoa for a perfect pairing. Customize the packaging for an ultra-personalized favor. FROM $5 FOR 4, MALVIMALLOW.COM

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do I have to have a wedding cake? Technically no, but we think the tradition is definitely worth keeping. If you decide to forgo a cake, offer your guests some other kind of sweet treat, be it a plated dessert or passed chocolates. If you’re skipping the cake solely to save money, consider scaling back instead. Keep your add-ons and decoration requests simple— the less ornate the design, the less time-consuming (and costly) to make. Avoid exotic fillings, such as fresh guava, and instead order classic flavors that can easily be sourced. If you still need to come down on price, ask your baker about having two cakes. Order a small one- or a two-tier confection you can cut, then supplement with a sheet cake in the kitchen.

Sort of—the cost of a bowl of buttercream is less expensive than rolled fondant. But generally speaking, labor is a big indicator of the price of your cake, no matter what kind of frosting you choose. If you’re asking for a super-detailed design, like a smooth finish with several sugar flower clusters and a patterned motif, plan to pay for the baker’s time. Same goes for shapes—a twisty, stacked style could take up to three days to create and frost. For a less costly option, try a simple design and add a dramatic cake topper or fresh blooms. Besides being a showpiece, your cake should also be delicious. Choose the frosting that tastes best or allows your baker to design your dream cake. >>

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do I have to have a vanilla-flavored wedding cake? Remember: In addition to being unique and stunning, your cake has to taste good too. When you meet with prospective bakers, try a lot of flavors. Don’t be afraid to shy away from classics like chocolate or vanilla in favor of something less traditional such as carrot or lemon. And sample the available fillings—sometimes this layer is the most flavorful part of the slice. Many bakers are working with complex pairings like rose, hazelnut or lychee. Some will even whip up something custom for you. Choose the flavor you and your fiancé like best—after all, it’s your wedding cake.

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Terrible is a stretch, but it’s not quite as tasty as a buttercream or meringue. The upshot of using fondant is the virtually limitless design possibilities. Want a ribbon that matches your bouquet wrap? No problem. Want a smooth surface that can easily incorporate geometric designs or a ton of gum-paste roses? You got it. If you’re worried about the taste, ask your baker to add a layer of buttercream between the cake and the fondant (most do this anyway) to offset the flavor. Or speak to your cake designer about your vision and see if it can be accomplished or modified to work with a different type of icing.

is a naked cake right for my wedding? It all depends on the kind of celebration you’re planning. Naked cakes are essentially unfrosted confections. These designs tend to have a more natural and organic feel, since they don’t really lend themselves to gum-paste flowers or metallic dust. That doesn’t necessarily mean they should be reserved for casual weddings though. A naked cake garnished with some lavender sprigs would be well suited for a vineyard affair, for example. If you like the naked look, talk with your baker about ways to tailor the design to the formality of your celebration.

are fresh flowers safe to put on a cake, and do they cost less than the sugar variety? Generally speaking, fresh flowers will cost you less than anything made from sugar, mostly because of the time and effort required to create each delicate petal. If you want to use fresh flowers on your cake, speak to your florist in advance. They’ll need to source the requested blooms and make sure they haven’t been sprayed with pesticides. If you have your heart set on a particular bud, check to see if it’s in season. In some cases, it might be less costly to fashion a peony in the kitchen than to source one in February.

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will a buttercream cake be fancy enough for my black-tie wedding?

Most buttercreams are made of the ingredients you’d expect: creamed butter and sugar. But they aren’t all created equal. Some are meringue based while others use custard or oils (making them better for fillings or decoration). Talk with your baker about sweetness preference and taste samples. Bottom line: You can achieve a spreadable cream without risking a cavity. You may even want to opt for a cream cheese frosting, which is a mix of savory and sweet that you and your guests will enjoy.

Absolutely—just ask cake icon Sylvia Weinstock, who only frosts with buttercream. This fluffy icing can be applied in a smooth appliqué, giving it a flawless finish similar to that of fondant. An assortment of sugar flowers dresses things up even more. Buttercream’s consistency also allows it to be easily shaped or piped into swags, borders and flowers (perfect decoration for less formal celebrations). The only real downside to buttercream is it’s not ideal for transfers, stencils or embossing. >>

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do we have to have two cakes, including a groom’s cake? One cake is all you need, but if you like the idea of serving a second dessert or getting your groom involved, go for it. The tradition of the groom’s cake has evolved over time—a slice of this second cake used to be given to guests as a favor when they headed home for the evening. The groom’s cake is usually much smaller than the couple’s wedding cake and is decorated to reflect the interests of the groom (think: hobbies, favorite sports team or even a childhood superhero). There are no rules to the flavors and fillings, but, like the design, they typically reflect his favorites.

if I don’t want a traditional cake topper, do I have to have one? You have free rein to top your cake with whatever you’d like— or nothing at all. If you have an heirloom piece, like your grandparents’ vintage topper, work with your baker to add it to your top tier (it can even double as your “something old”). Many wedding cakes are so decorative or colorful that a topper could actually detract from the design.

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I’m planning an outdoor wedding—will a buttercream cake melt? The biggest downside to buttercream is its sensitivity to heat. Most buttercreams will stand at room temperature for hours, developing a pretty iredescent shine, but it’s good to have a designated refrigerator at your venue for storing the cake before the reception begins. If you’re hosting an outdoor party, you can still have a buttercream cake—just take a few extra precautions. Chill the cake leading up to the reception and opt for an early cake cutting, before you sit down to eat. If it’s too hot or humid, the cake can be removed and chilled until it’s time to serve your guests.

cake décor glossary Learn some lingo before meeting with your cake baker.

basket weave

A piping technique that has interwoven vertical and horizontal lines.

beading

A border along the edge of tiers that resembles tiny pearls.

cornelli

An elaborate piping technique that yields a lacelike pattern.

Adds sparkle or sheen to a cake.

piping

Decorative technique created using a pastry bag and various metal tips. Piping details include leaves, borders, basket-weave patterns and flowers.

pulled sugar

Edible colored sugar balls used for decorative purposes.

A technique in which boiled sugar is manipulated and pulled to produce flowers and bows.

ganache

royal icing

dragees

A sweet, rich chocolate, denser than mousse but less dense than fudge, which can be used as icing or filling.

gum paste

This paste of sugar, cornstarch and gelatin is used to mold realisticlooking fruits and flowers to garnish a cake.

latticework meet the expert: maggie austin Former ballet dancer turned cake designer Maggie Austin creates detailed works of (delicious) art. The process of designing a wedding cake can begin a year or more in advance with Austin and the couple discussing elements of the reception in great detail, resulting in a unique design. The cake is typically made and decorated the day before delivery, but she works on sugar flowers and other delicate details well in advance. MaggieAustinCake.com

petal dust

A crisscross piping with an open pattern.

marzipan

A paste made of ground almonds, sugar and egg whites used to mold edible flowers to decorate the cake. Marzipan can also be rolled in sheets, and used as icing.

Made of egg whites and confectioners sugar, this icing is a soft paste piped from a pastry bag to create flowers, beading, bows and latticework.

swiss dot

A piping technique that forms tiny dots in random patterns that resemble a fine dot Swiss fabric.

torte

A dense cake that does not use leavening agents like baking powder or baking soda.

whipped cream Heavy cream beaten to achieve a thick consistency.

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A sleek pantsuit with a flouncy top is the best of both worlds: It’s fashion forward but still feels bridal. Add a veil for a look that’s all your own. Pantsuit, $4,150, Rosa Clará at Ladies of Lineage, LadiesofLineage.com (Charlotte, NC), Traditions by Anna Bridal Boutique, TraditionsbyAnna .com (Raleigh, NC); veil, $120, TwigsandHoney.com; engagement ring, $920, MarsJewelry.com; earrings, $425, OscardelaRenta .com; shoes, Manolo Blahnik, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library

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flirty skirt Lace sleeves and a tutu-inspired skirt make this short frock anything but simple. Dress, $958, Truly Zac Posen, DavidsBridal.com; stacking ring, $6,935, EffyJewelry.com; shoes, Giuseppe Zanotti, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library ON HIM Suit, $595, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; tie, $160, Olch.com; shoes, $750, Burberry.com

party plumes Planning to change it up for your reception? A feathery cocktail dress is made for dancing the night away. Top, $4,280, skirt, $3,180, LihiHod.com; engagement ring, $2,360 (not including center stone), AJaffe.com; wedding band, $1,590, ring, $4,450, HeartsOnFire.com; earrings, $198, LeleSadoughi.com >>

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While pastel florals are classic, a bold, vibrant bouquet instantly adds a celebratory vibe to your wedding. Top, $550, pants, $605, Ivy & Aster at Southern Protocol Bridal, SouthernProtocol.com (Charleston, SC), Wildflower Bridal, WildflowerBridal.com (Asheville, NC), Gilded Bridal, GildedBridal .com (Raleigh, NC); necklace, $245, CZbyKennethJayLane.com

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daring details All minidresses aren’t created equal. Abstract embellishments give this little white dress a dose of avant-garde appeal. Dress, $4,500, Christian Siriano, KleinfeldBridal.com; clutch, $4,995, Judith Leiber, NeimanMarcus.com; earrings, price upon request, NewYorkVintage.com; bracelet, $6,750, HeartsOnFire.com; shoes, price upon request, ChristianSiriano.com ON HIM Suit, $595, shoes, $230, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; pocket square, $16, SprezzaBox.com; wedding band, $1,250, CrownRing.com

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It’s no secret brides follow strict wedding prep before the wedding day—but what about the guys? These days, groom style is about so much more than just a tux. From manicuring his facial hair to choosing the right accessories to complement his perfectly tailored new threads, here are four easy ways to pamper your groom and give his wedding day style a little extra polish.

Odds are, your groom is going to wear either a suit or tux, but that doesn’t mean all menswear is created equal. Consider a slim-cut tux or suit to up the style factor. And, this may be surprising, but slimmer-cut suits actually work for every body type. “Sometimes guys think going for a boxier shape will make their body appear slimmer, but it actually has the opposite effect,” says Andrew Blackmon, cofounder of The Black Tux. You’ll know a slim-cut (not to be confused with skinny) suit has the right fit if it meets the following criteria: shoulders that are close to his body but not constricting, sleeves that are long enough to show a quarter- to a half-inch of his shirt while his arms are at his sides, and a jacket length ending at the base of his thumbs. Even if your groom is happy with the general fit of his suit, don’t skimp on the tailoring—it’s even more important if it’s a rental. After all, you wouldn’t skip your wedding dress alterations. He’ll typically have three fittings: one for chalking, one to try everything on and one to make final adjustments. He should give himself a month or so for alterations to avoid any last-minute fixes.

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If you want your groom to totally change his facial hair, flip through magazines and collaborate on a new style together. But don’t go too crazy. You still want him to look like the man you fell in love with—maybe just a little bit more put together.

upgrade his accessories Standout accessories are the simplest way to give your groom’s look a personal touch. If his groomsmen want in on the action, make sure they don’t match each other perfectly—complementary accessories will create a cohesive look without being too cookie cutter. Consider adding one or two of the following options for a more unique twist on the standard suit and tie combination.

pocket square A pocket square gives just enough personality to a formal look without going over the top. Choose patterns that go together without being matchy-matchy, like a floral-print tie and a gingham pocket square. boutonniere While we love florals, they aren’t your guy’s only option. A customized boutonniere, like a brooch or lapel pin, are perfect for the edgier groom. “It’s a fun way to add to your look without the formal association a classic boutonniere can bring,” says Allyson Wicha Lewis, vice president of merchandising at The Tie Bar.

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novelty belt Belts in unexpected fabrics, colors and textures are the hottest new accessory for men. A stretchy braided herringbone belt in blue or gray is perfect for a nautical wedding, while a wool belt with subtle plaid accents feels just right for a casual winter affair. The best part? A belt with elastic, as opposed to all leather, has more give and will still be comfortable after hours of wear. socks A pair of statement socks (think: novelty patterns or bold prints) is an understated way for your groom to inject some personality into his look. “Because only a portion of the sock shows when you’re sitting down, it’s perfect for guys who are generally averse to bright color to wear it subtly,” Wicha Lewis says. To pull off this trend, your guy should stick with socks that are grounded in his pant color, with just a hint of something bold. >>

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pamper him in private Your guy may not be into spa days, but that doesn’t mean he can’t indulge in a relaxing professional massage. “As great as weddings are, they’re a high-stress event,” says Tamim Ghilzai, a Zeel massage therapist based in San Francisco. “A massage will help your groom relax and take his mind off any worries.” On-demand massage companies like Zeel deliver professional massages to your door, without the frills of scented candles and cucumber water your groom may not care about. “Men are just more comfortable in their home—they’re in their own environment,” Ghilzai says. “Some feel awkward sitting in the waiting room wearing a fluffy robe and slippers.” Another idea: Because of close-up ring shots on your wedding day, you’ll want your groom to consider what’s recently been coined “handshake maintenance,” or a manicure for men. If your guy doesn’t know his way around an emery board, opt for a professional job to clean up his cuticles and buff his nails to a healthy-looking shine. To maintain his newly manicured nails at home, he should invest in an all-in-one nail file and buffer to smooth out any ragged edges that appear over time. And have him apply a fragrance-free hand cream at night before bed to stave off callouses and keep his hands nice and soft. Get more menswear tips at TheKnot.com/groomsmen

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mix-and-match groomsmen ideas Pick one or two of these styling tips for a totally dapper (but not cookie cutter) entourage.

go gradient

Instead of opting for multiples of the exact same necktie color, start with a bold hue and select slightly lighter colors for each groomsman. (This works for bow ties too.)

mix up the boutonnieres

Give each guy in your party a different bloom in your signature hue for unique-looking lapels.

get fancy with your folding

Pocket squares are always a dapper add-on. We love the idea of snagging identical ones but folding each of them differently.

skip the matchymatchy shirts

Patterned shirts will make the most basic suit feel funky. Match the color but choose a different design for each guy. Think: flowers, stripes, plaids or polka dots for a fun twist on tradition.

select fun footwear

Be particularly playful by opting for sneakers. Choose a specific style and let your gents pick the color. Or go for mismatched socks in novelty prints for a fun look that’s a little more understated. ONELOVE PHOTOGR APHY

If he’s considering changing his facial hair before your wedding, make sure he has at least a three-month head start. “It’s better to live with the style for a bit prior to the wedding to make sure this is the look you want to have in your photos,” says Troy Harris, a master barber at The Art of Shaving. Once he’s decided whether he’ll be clean-shaven, bearded or mustachioed, consider treating your groom to some must-have products to kick-start his prewedding skin-care regimen. Start by swapping his bar of soap for an actual facial wash plus a scrub for a smoother shave. If he’s bearded, have him mix facial wash and scrub together. “This helps remove dry skin under the beard hair to keep his skin from feeling dry and itchy,” Harris says. Applying a shave oil (yes, it exists) before shaving is another way to step up his routine—it prevents razor burn and scratchy first kisses. Your groom should also have at least one professional shave before your wedding day, according to Harris. If he’s clean-shaven he’ll want to make sure he reacts well to a close shave to prevent irritated skin in your wedding photos. If he’s bearded or in the process of growing a beard, a barber can help shape the lines of his facial hair, taking the guesswork out of shaving.

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let them choose the dress Just hear us out on this one: Letting each bridesmaid choose her own dress proves you want everyone to look their best and shows you trust in their fashion sense. The trick to pulling off the mismatched trend is setting color and fabric guidelines so your whole party still looks cohesive. It’s even okay to create a don’ts list, with requests like no miniskirts or plunging necklines.

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Bridesmaid dresses, like wedding gowns, are ordered using the largest measurement as a guide. Chances are, your bridesmaids will end up with dresses that are a size or two larger than what they normally wear. Depending on the dress and on the body types of your bridal party, alterations can cost anywhere from about $30 (for a simple hem) to about $150 (taking in, hemming, adding straps). Suddenly, a small price tag becomes a small fortune. Stick to flowy silhouettes, which will require fewer alterations, or styles your bridesmaids can buy in their regular sizes from department stores to decrease the chance that alterations will be necessary.

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The best argument for black? Whether it’s for a formal event or cocktail party, your girls can definitely use another LBD.

pick up the tab One of the most common gripes you’ll hear about bridesmaid dresses is the price. Even if you’ve been considerate by finding budget-friendly options, the dress still contributes to a long list of expenses (think: travel costs, shower gift, bachelorette party, wedding gift—you get the idea). If you have room in your budget, consider gifting your girls their dresses—it’s a thoughtful way to thank them for being part of your day.

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Speaking of heels, insisting bridesmaids purchase a specific pair may feel like the perfect finishing touch to you, but it’s also another expense. And, like the dress, it’s unlikely they’ll want to wear the shoes again. Your friends probably have a pair of black or metallic shoes they’d be thrilled to reuse. Another bonus: Wearing a pair of their own shoes means blister-free dancing.

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But don’t skip the mimosas—relaxed bridesmaids are more likely to fall in love with your dress choice. And finally: the bridal shop. Pick your preferred styles ahead of time to make the process less overwhelming. Then let your ladies put on a fashion show—it will be a fun way to narrow in on their favorites.

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Here’s the deal: Your bridesmaids don’t want to steal the show, but they do want to look their best. They’ll be standing in front of a room full of friends and family too. The best way to prove you respect their feelings is by trying on the bridesmaid dress. Does it flatter your figure? Is the fabric itchy? If you answer yes, move on. When you find one that you’d love to wear yourself, you’ll have no problem convincing your friends to get on board.

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let her bring the baubles By letting each bridesmaid select her own jewelry, you’re encouraging her to express her unique personality (that’s the reason you chose her in the first place, right?). Plus, the right jewelry will make any bridesmaid look and feel more like herself.

make sure it’s comfortable We’re aware the term “comfortable” can be somewhat subjective (to your bustier friends, strapless dresses can lack support; to your smaller-chested pals, thick straps seem overwhelming) but who can argue with the idea of slipping into a frock made of itch-free fabric? Or a flowing gown that won’t cling to the midsection? Small details like fabric choice and silhouette can make a world of difference where dress wearability is concerned. Bring on the dancing and the wedding cake! S earch bridesmaid dresses by style at TheKnot.com/bridesmaiddresses

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bouquets You’re expected to pay for your attendants’ flowers, which is something to consider when you’re thinking about how many bridesmaids you want. The bridesmaid bouquets (and the groomsmen boutonnieres) are factored into the floral budget along with your bouquet, centerpieces and other décor.

transportation While you don’t have to order a car service to pick up each and every one of your bridesmaids, you should make sure they have a ride to the wedding and from the ceremony to the reception, especially if your two venues are far apart or in an unfamiliar area. You can hire a bus or limo to pick them up from guests to give the out-of-towners a lift.

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bridesmaid luncheon Despite the name, this is actually an event thrown by the bride for her bridesmaids as a way to show her appreciation for the many things each girl has done to make her wedding special. This sit-down lunch or brunch is typically held the afternoon of the rehearsal dinner. Think of it as a “thank you” to your girls for their support.

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SOUTH CAROLINA Lowcountry culture exudes from these seven weddings, spanning from the Midlands to the Sea Islands and downtown Charleston.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Nicole Silvernale, 27, a second grade teacher GROOM Ben RussellSchlesinger, 29, a restaurateur HOW THEY MET Through a mutual friend WEDDING STYLE Neutral hues and organic shades of green allowed the historic venue to take center stage at Nicole and Ben’s elegant, Southern day. —Juliette Cheatham

Lowndes Grove was the only spot Nicole even considered. “When I was a little girl, my father took me to a wedding there, and I remember it being the most magical and beautiful place,” she says. Ben designed the day’s logo, which depicts the joining of iconic bridges from their hometowns: Charleston’s Arthur Ravenel Jr. Bridge for her and San Francisco’s Golden Gate Bridge for him.

The couple was married beneath a wooden chuppah covered in greenery and white blooms.

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Nicole reused the same cake topper her grandmother gave her parents on their wedding day.

Focusing on white blooms and lots of greenery, the day’s floral arrangements included gardenias, peonies, ranunculus and magnolias in shades of white and accents of dusty miller and rosemary. “I love white flowers but I liked being able to choose things that all had great scents as well,” Nicole says.

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NICOLE & BEN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS

VIDEOGRAPHY Film Anywhere Productions CONSULTANT A Charleston Bride; Ooh!

Events

FLOWERS A Charleston Bride

GOWN Romona Keveza, Maddison Row,

Charleston, SC

VEIL Maddison Row,

Charleston, SC

SHOES Jimmy Choo

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Sohn

& McClure Jewelers Blair Mathis

HAIR &

MAKEUP

BRIDESMAID DRESSES

Jenny Yoo, Nordstrom

MENSWEAR

Groom: Brooks Brothers; groomsmen: Brackish, Charleston, SC Blue Glass Design

STATIONERY

RENTALS Snyder

Event Rental Co.; Technical Event Company CATERING Fish

MUSIC Ceremony:

Charleston Virtuosi; reception: The Neons PHOTO BOOTH ShutterBooth TRANSPORTATION Absolutely Charleston;

Lowcountry Valet & Shuttle Co. GUESTS Nicole glammed up her reception look with a gold beaded sash. Ben’s piece of flair? His velvet Stubbs & Wootton shoes with a skull and crossbones embroidered on them.

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Samantha and Chris were married in a traditional Greek ceremony—a nod to his heritage.

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Lush wreaths with fresh citrus hung at the entrance of the church.

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BRIDE Samantha Wood, a 27, registered associate for Morgan Stanley GROOM Christopher (Chris) Zecopoulos, 27, IT director HOW THEY MET At University of South Carolina WEDDING STYLE The couple planned a traditional wedding with a modern flair. Much of the inspiration for the vibrant citrus and berry tones came from an floral oil painting by Samantha’s grandma. —JC

All nine bridesmaids wore the same floor-length gown with cap sleeves and a flattering empire waist. Samantha donned a silk shantung gown with a bateau neckline and a stylish trumpet silhouette. During the ceremony she added a modest lace bolero. “I wanted to look classic,” Samantha says of her beauty and fashion choices.

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Watercolor linens and vases made of real pineapples created a bold and vibrant atmosphere for the alfresco cocktail hour.

“I wanted a lot of organic wildflowers with bright colors and greenery,” Samantha says of her vision for the day’s florals. The boutonnieres included hypericum berries, while the reception tables featured low arrangements of bold blooms and hanging greenery to create an aura of intimacy in the open space.

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The couple exited their reception in style—on a rickshaw! “It was so fun because there were still people out on King Street wishing us well,” Samantha says.

The day’s paper goods featured images from Samantha’s grandmother’s gorgeous oil paintings of brightly colored flowers. Everything from the invitations to the sign on the getaway rickshaw was inspired by her work. “It was so special,” Samantha says.

SAMANTHA & CHRIS’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Greek Orthodox Church of

the Holy Trinity, Charleston, SC RECEPTION SITE The Cedar Room, Charleston, SC PHOTOGRAPHY Ashley Seawell Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Cinema Weddings CONSULTANT Lindsey Shanks/A Charleston

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FLOWERS Palmetto Bloom

OFFICIANT Rev. Aristotle Damaskos

GOWN

Legends by Romona Keveza, Maddison Row, Charleston, SC

VEIL Cheryl King Couture,

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A Charleston Bride; BBJ Linen; Innovative Event Services; Nüage Designs; Polished!; Snyder Events; Technical Event Company Mercantile & Mash MUSIC TFC/

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CAKE Ashley Bakery

EastCoast Entertainment

TRANSPORTATION Marquee Limo Company ACCOMMODATIONS Zero George Street HONEYMOON Cap Maison, St. Lucia GUESTS

240 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 8)

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May 1 • Charleston, SC

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Pieces of vintage velvet furniture added old-world charm to the rustic farmhouse reception.

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BRIDE Francesca Clyburn, 28, a CPA GROOM Edward (Ed) Johnson, 38, a commercial analyst HOW THEY MET At work WEDDING STYLE Francesca and Ed planned a vintage Pride and Prejudice–inspired wedding with shades of pink and a mix of rustic and feminine details. —JC

The couple said “I do” beneath a canopy of ancient oak trees draped in Spanish moss on the bank of the Ashley River. “The backdrop was already so beautiful, so all we added was a single large crystal chandelier that hung above us in the trees,” Francesca says.

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Francesca’s timeless dress was all lace with a V neck, delicate cap sleeves and fitand-flare skirt. “I wanted a light, airy dress that would be comfortable for an outdoor ceremony,” she says. She added a beaded champagne sash for some sparkle.

The newlyweds had their first dance to “Breathless” by Corinne Bailey Rae.

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Richard Bell

CONSULTANT Cruz Coordination

FLOWERS Horst Wholesale Florist; OK

Florist

OFFICIANT Doug Farmer

Paloma Blanca,

GOWN

Poffie Girls, Gastonia, NC

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Coralie Beatrix, Etsy.com

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Groom: Bruce Julian Clothier, Charlotte, NC; groomsmen: Men’s Wearhouse

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428 Main Vintage Rentals; AV Connections; Snyder Events

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CAKE DeClare Cakes

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MUSIC Lowcountry

FAVORS Cupcake DownSouth

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Charleston Historic District

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Michael opted for a nontraditional light blue suit and a patterned pocket square.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Molly Coleman, 28, a yoga instructor GROOM Michael Frank, 27, an executive health care recruiter HOW THEY MET In high school on a spring break trip to the Bahamas WEDDING STYLE A muted color palette echoed the laid-back, down-to-earth vibe Molly and Michael were after for their rustic-chic Southern wedding. —JC

“I don’t like color and am obsessed with black and white,” Molly says. With this in mind, the couple chose minimalist black-and-white stationery full of crisp, clean lines. Black-andwhite-striped envelope liners added a preppy edge to the chic invitation suite.

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Molly surprised Michael and their guests with a late-night hot dog truck adorned with a sign that read “celebrate The Franks with a frank!” The couple offered fun desserts such as Dippin’ Dots ice cream and cookie shot glasses filled with milk.

Clusters of vintage furniture created comfortable lounge areas at the reception.

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Groom: Robbini, Philadelphia; tie: Trussini STATIONERY Printing: Savannah Print

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Montage Palmetto Bluff DESSERTS Dippin’ Dots MUSIC Ceremony: David Kimbell/Hilton Head

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ACCOMMODATIONS Hampton Inn

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REGISTRIES Pottery Barn;

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Soaring pink, green and white floral arrangements spilled out of towering white vessels at the tented reception.

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Guests went home with traditional Bulgarian favors: rose oil for the men and handkerchiefs for the women.

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Nadia and Clay didn’t let a little rain dampen their spirits on their wedding day. “I remember dancing with my husband during our first dance, looking up and seeing the raindrops trickle down on the clear tent, it was magical,” Nadia says. Before the night ended, friends and family joined hands for a Bulgarian folklore dance.

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Lacy Geary/By Invitation Only FLOWERS American Floral OFFICIANT Rev. Pat Riddle

Bella Vista, Charlotte, NC Jimmy Choo

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WEDDING RINGS

Ballantyne Jewelers, Charlotte, NC MAKEUP Sari Catherine

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Wilson J.Crew

BRIDESMAID DRESSES MENSWEAR BLACK by Vera

Wang, Men’s Wearhouse Party Reflections

Southern Way Catering Parkland Cakes

RENTALS

CATERING CAKE

MUSIC Ceremony:

Micah Gangwer Trio; reception: A Social Function/ Entertainment Pottery Barn

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Cana, Dominican Republic GUESTS 75 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 8)

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Taylor Benton, 22 GROOM Logan Birchfield, 23, an officer in the US Army HOW THEY MET On a volunteer service trip to Honduras while studying at Clemson University WEDDING STYLE The couple used royal blue, white and gold to pull off their shabby-chic affair. —JC

Taylor and Logan loved how Wingate Plantation epitomized Lowcountry style. “I just knew that Wingate’s large oak trees covered in Spanish moss, along with its large pond, would make the perfect backdrop to my wedding day,” Taylor says. “The first time I visited I knew it was the venue for us.”

TAYLOR & LOGAN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

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The couple had their first dance to “From the Ground Up” by Dan + Shay.

FLOWERS Plantation Florist & Gifts OFFICIANT Sen. Tim Scott (bride’s

uncle)

GOWN Watters, Fabulous Frocks,

Charleston, SC

SHOES Jack Rogers

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Zales HAIR Professional Stylers

Lashes and Lace

MAKEUP

BRIDESMAID

DRESSES Wtoo, Bella Bridesmaids STATIONERY Christine Brinson Designs SIGN-IN BOOK Kate Spade New York RENTALS Ash and T’s Consignment

and Moving Company; EventWorks CATERING Café Catering

Dream Weaver Cakes by Shelly

CAKE MUSIC

Complete Weddings + Events Charleston FAVORS Sip Hip Hooray, Etsy.com TRANSPORTATION Julian’s Transportation

Service

REGISTRIES Bed Bath &

Beyond; Belk; Pottery Barn GUESTS 175 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)

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Abby wore a strapless lace gown with a dramatic sweetheart neckline.

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Champagne linens, overlaid with gold sequin runners, topped the reception tables.

“I wanted my bouquets to be full, soft and beautiful enough to be reused at the reception,” Abby says.

ABBY & KYLE’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Omni Hilton PHOTOGRAPHY Jeanni Dunagan CONSULTANT Amanda Rose Weddings and FLOWERS Flowers by Freshcuts

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Extraordinaire, Shawnee, KS MENSWEAR Groom: “I Do” Bridal & Tux,

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Abby Bartlett, 26, a radiation therapist GROOM Kyle Larson, 28, a health care director of operations HOW THEY MET Through mutual friends WEDDING STYLE The pair’s beach wedding featured soft, romantic hues of champagne, blush and ivory with pops of bright green and touches of sparkling gold. —JC

The Midwestern couple decided to leave their native Kansas and travel to beautiful Hilton Head Island for their destination wedding. “We wanted to share a fun and romantic atmosphere with our friends and family that didn’t require a passport, but would be a fun vacation getaway over Labor Day weekend,” Abby says. “We loved the idea of a dreamy Southern beach wedding off the coast.”

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CATERING Omni Hilton Head

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When you begin searching the perfect engagement ring (and for that secret Pinterest board, of course) the word “overwhelming” may come to mind. Before you even make the purchase, a number of factors, from budget to style, have to be considered. And while a lot of the old rules no longer apply when choosing an engagement ring—like having to buy one with a more traditional setting— there are some guidelines you should always keep in mind when shopping for a diamond. If you’re thinking of a buying a white diamond, the four Cs—cut, color, clarity and carat—are important to consider before settling on a ring. Editor’s note: No standardized quality grading system exists for colored gemstones, so if you’re on the hunt for a colorful center stone, these rules don’t apply.

cut The cut of a diamond isn’t actually the shape (think: round, oval, pear), but how well the angles and proportions of the stone interact with light. Since diamonds start as rough stones and not faceted gems, the cut grade of a diamond is the only one of the four Cs that’s not determined by nature, making it the most important aspect to consider. In other words, a bad cut can ruin an otherwise perfectly good stone. If the diamond is cut too deep or too shallow, it will leak light on the sides, giving it a duller appearance, which will reduce its value and brilliance. A well-cut diamond will have three factors: brightness, fire and scintillation. If that jargon is confusing, here’s a quick breakdown: Brightness is a “white light” reflected both internally and externally; fire is the presence of colorful (or rainbow) sparkle; and scintillation is the amount of sparkle a diamond produces in general.

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color A structurally perfect white diamond has no hue. The degree of a diamond’s colorlessness is measured under controlled lighting and graded on a scale from D (colorless) to Z (light yellow), with colorless stones being the most valuable. As a general rule, a colorless diamond will cost you more than a colored stone, unless the color is extremely rare (like green or red diamonds).

clarity The fewer impurities or inclusions a diamond has, the clearer and more expensive it is. Inclusions occur when the diamond crystallizes in the earth’s mantle. While there are treatments that can create a clearer stone, a “flawless” diamond is extremely rare. Similar to color, the clarity of a diamond is also measured on a scale. Diamonds that are graded in the SI1 and SI2 range are included but their imperfections are invisible to the naked eye.

carat Carats refer to the weight of the diamond. As the carat size increases, so does its rarity and price tag. But a diamond that has a bigger carat weight doesn’t necessarily mean it will look bigger. A diamond with a smaller carat size but a shallow cut may look larger than a diamond with a bigger carat size and a deeper cut. Size depends on not only the shape of the diamond, but the different mountings you choose—a halo will make a smaller stone appear larger, and so will a shape with more surface area, like a pear or emerald. Find out more about your diamond at TheKnot.com/rings

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Voluminous waterproof mascara, $11, LorealParisUSA.com Don’t worry about tearing up during your ceremony: This mascara delivers tons of drama without the fear of raccoon eyes.

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Powder blush, $22, MACCosmetics.com The compact is generously sized and the shade selection doesn’t disappoint, with more than 50 options ranging from romantic to bold.

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Perfect Luminous liquid foundation, $61, DolceGabbana.com It’s got just enough coverage, but isn’t overly opaque. And its dewy finish looks amazing in photos.

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Eye shadow, $25, BobbiBrown Cosmetics.com These silky powders glide on lids, then stay put without creasing or fading.

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Pop lip colour and primer, $18, Clinique.com Brights for the bachelorette, pinks for the wedding, corals for the honeymoon—this line is packed with shades that last.

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Sculpting eyebrow pencil, $29, Chanel.com Many pencils can look harsh, but not this one. The blendable color appears almost like a powder once it’s on.

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Amazing concealer, $42, Amazing Cosmetics.com It’s thick enough to obliterate dark circles and has enough staying power to keep stubborn zits hidden.

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Relevée lash curler, $30, SurrattBeauty.com Squeeze, hold for a few seconds, then release to get a longlasting curl with zero tugging or pinching.

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Sonia Kashuk brushes, from $11, Target.com These sleek tools may be budget friendly, but trust us: The ultra-soft bristles hold their own against any brand out there.

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Diaphane loose powder, $40, SurrattBeauty.com Dust this translucent powder over skin to set makeup and stave off shine.

tip of this marker-like liner makes it easy to draw an expertlooking swoop.

LIP GLOSS

Color Elixir lip color, $9, Maybelline.com The color payoff, nonsticky feel and pretty shine is on par with highend formulas. >>

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BRONZER

Hoola matte bronzer, $29, BenefitCosmetics.com Sweep this sparkle-free powder across your chin, cheeks and forehead for a subtle, natural glow.

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TALK ABOUT BEAUTY AND BRAINS: A PROFESSOR AT MIT HELPED DEVELOP THIS HAIR CARE LINE

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Sleek & Shine antifrizz serum, $6, GarnierUSA.com Even the most humid honeymoon destination is no match for this frizz fighter. Work a few drops through hair to keep the fuzzies at bay for hours.

2 HAIR SPRAY Superfine hair spray, $33, Oribe.com Mighty enough to hold an updo

in place, but still flexible enough for a down ’do, this ultrafine mist is our go-to spray for any hairstyle.

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Perfect Hair Day shampoo and conditioner, $25 each, LivingProof.com Whatever your hair type, this sulfate-free duo leaves it soft, smooth and full. One of our testers even called it “life changing.” We’re sold.

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Luxurious Volume fine to full blowout spray, $10, JohnFrieda.com Want your hair to have Victoria’sSecret-model-level volume? Then this bodifying mist is for you. The fine-haired among us swear by it.

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Brilliant Glossing crème, $20, Fekkai.com We’re obsessed with this cult favorite’s ability to hydrate,

tame and even add shine to the most unruly hair. Plus, the formula is super effective but won’t weigh down your locks or feel greasy.

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Bb. Curl defining crème, $31, Bumble andBumble.com Curly girls, meet your new BFF. This rich, curl-defining cream will have you falling in love with your natural texture all over again. Just rake through your wet hair and go.

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DRY SHAMPOO

Fresh Start dry shampoo, $5, TRESemme.com One spritz at the roots and this light mist will perk up limp locks without any residue.

HAND CREAM

Shea Butter hand cream, $12, LOccitane.com Prep your hands for all those #ringselfies with this intensely nourishing cream.

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Almond Coconut Milk scrub, $50, LauraMercier.com This thick scrub sloughs away rough patches and smells like dessert.

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Dry Oil Moisture nourishing body wash, $6, Dove.us The tiny bursts of argan oil in this rich formula leave skin super hydrated, so you won’t need to use lotion afterward.

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Outlast Xtend antiperspirant gel, $5, Secret.com Wedding planning stress is no match for this deodorant. Swipe it on for major odor control.

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Flash bronzer, $42, Lancome-USA.com The bronze-colored lotion lets you see exactly where to apply it, so there’s no danger of streaks.

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Ultra Sheer DryTouch sunscreen SPF 55, $10, Neutrogena.com This fast-absorbing protector won’t leave a ghostly white residue behind. >>

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1 GEL FORMULA Infinite Shine Gel Effects 2 lacquer, $13, OPI.com This three-step process is the closest thing we’ve found to a true gel manicure. It won’t chip and it keeps its glossy finish.

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Instant nail polish remover, $10, Sephora.com Simply dip your fingertip inside and twist it back and forth. The built-in

sponge whisks away polish quickly.

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Formula X Shine nail topcoat, $11, Sephora.com Keep your nails photo ready with this clear polish. It delivers a shiny finish that lasts for days.

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All About That Base CC base coat, $20, Deborah Lippmann.com This nifty formula strengthens and primes nails.

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Complete Salon Manicure Dry & Go Drops, $8, SallyHansen.com These drops cut drying time dramatically—ideal for a busy bride.

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Crème Abricot Fortifying Cream for Nails, $27, Dior.com Oils can be messy but this cream keeps cuticles soft without a greasy residue. >>

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NAIL POLISH

Nail Polish in Ballet Slippers, $9, Essie.com There’s a reason why this polish is a bridal staple: Its pale pink shade is universally flattering and works in any season.

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BEAUTY AWARDS HEALTH & BEAUT Y

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Anthelios face sunscreen SPF 45, $30, LaRoche-Posay.us Stay safe by wearing SPF every day. This one feels invisible on skin.

Get ready for your close-up. A gorgeous wedding day glow starts with these finds.

2 MOISTURIZER   Hydro Boost gel, $19, Neutrogena.com This airy gel quenches dry skin with a hefty dose of hyaluronic acid.

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Phloretin CF Gel, $163, SkinCeuticals.com With this powerhouse blend of antioxidants, skinharming free radicals don’t have a chance.

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Truth Sugar Glow polishing mask, $42, OleHenriksen.com Loaded with sugar, pomegranate and pumpkin, this scrub sloughs off dead skin like nothing else.

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Acne spot treatment, $18, Murad.com Here, two acne fighters (sulfur and salicylic acid) team up to destroy zits.

THIS SUGARY SCRUB DOESN’T JUST SMELL AMAZING, IT INSTANTLY BRIGHTENS SKIN

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Yes to Cucumbers towelettes, $6, YestoCarrots.com These handy wipes whisk away dirt and makeup faster and more thoroughly than any fancy brand out there. >>

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Decadence, $95 for 1.7 oz., MarcJacobs.com An exotic combo of plum, saffron and amber, this perfume screams bachelorette party.

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Mediterranean Honeysuckle, $110 for 1.7 oz., AERIN.com This lush, sexy blend of honeysuckle,

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bergamot and gardenia feels like a destination wedding in a bottle.

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La Vie Est Belle Intense, $110 for 1.7 oz., Lancome-USA.com Floral notes are wrapped with spicy patchouli and a decadent twist of hazelnut for a warm scent that’s just a little bit mysterious.

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Knot Eau Florale, $125 for 1.7 oz., BottegaVeneta.com This might be the perfect bridal scent. Notes of rose and peony are soft and feminine, mandarin adds freshness, and musk rounds it out with a sultry feel.

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Embrace, $30 each, VeraWang.com

The fragrances in this trio (two shown) may cost only $30 each, but the combos are sophisticated and totally elegant.

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Lime Basil & Mandarin, $65 for 1 oz., JoMalone.com Lime, basil and thyme make for the crispest scent ever.

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CLASSIC

Coco Mademoiselle, $94 for 1.7 oz., Chanel.com This distinct combination of citrus, floral and woodsy notes is luxe and totally unforgettable.

Read about our runner-ups, our editors’ fave products and more at TheKnot.com/beautyawards

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destination by design pick the perfect spot The location of your wedding is going to be instrumental in determining the overall vibe of your celebration (rustic, sophisticated, beachy). You want your guests to walk away from your wedding weekend thinking, “That was so them!” so it should say something about your personal style, experiences and your passions. Did he propose on vacation in Paris? Then why not host a swank wedding in the City of Lights? Are you foodies? Think about gathering your crew in a place

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like Tuscany or California wine country. Or if you love outdoor adventures, consider Costa Rica, where guests can zip-line through the treetops before the rehearsal dinner. Also keep in mind that the location you choose will determine the travel, time and budget required to pull it off.

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time it right Unfortunately, the best weather in popular vacation destinations tends to correlate with tourist season, when there are typically more crowds, fewer hotel and

venue availabilities, and higher rates. If you choose to marry during high season, you’ll want to reserve hotel blocks and venues immediately and send out save-the-dates 10 to 12 months in advance so guests can book their flights and accommodations before prices skyrocket. If you choose the shoulder season (right after high season), you may be able to save yourselves and your guests some money and still enjoy great weather. While the off-season means fewer crowds, the weather can be iffy, and many stores, venues and vendors may close up shop.

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take a trip We seriously can’t recommend this enough: Take at least one planning trip, and if you can swing it, two or three is ideal. On the first trip, scout and secure your key venues—ceremony and reception spaces, hotels for guests, a rehearsal dinner spot—and local suppliers such as caterers, florists and photographers. Next (or during a second trip), schedule tastings with your caterer, see sample bouquets from the florist, plan a hair and makeup session with a local salon and organize activities (golf, tennis, walking tours, museums) for your guests.

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research local marriage requirements The legal side of tying the knot in a different country can be complicated. Many countries have a residency requirement (for example, 48 hours in Turks and Caicos and seven days in England), which means you must reside in the country for a certain length of

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get help Type As, beware: If you’re hosting a wedding in a distant locale, you’ll need to entrust at least part of the planning to someone else’s capable hands. A wedding planner can shoulder the burden of researching and securing local vendors (especially valuable if said vendors speak English only as a second language), dealing with logistics like tent rentals and lighting, and handling any lastminute fires in the weeks leading up to your wedding. A planner can also be the behind-the-scenes guru, creating gift bags for guests, vetting special requests (babysitters, dry cleaners and so on), and getting you, your fiancé and all of your guests where you need to be—on time. Many resorts include a coordinator in their wedding packages, but it might be a good idea to set aside about 10 to 15 percent of your total budget for a

planner. Generally speaking, a local planner is your best bet, as they can be your man or woman on the ground when you can’t be there. But if you prefer to go with a planner from back home, make sure they have experience planning weddings in your chosen destination, and expect to cover the transportation costs for their planning visits and the actual wedding.

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remember you’re on island time Don’t keep a constant eye on the clock. Remember that many tropical islands run on “island time”—things happen when they happen—so don’t mistake a vendor’s laid-back attitude for incompetence. Schedule regular check-ins and then trust your vendors to work their magic.

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hotel, and a car rental (if necessary) can really add up. And while your wedding is a mini vacation for you, it may not be the one they want to take.

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mind mother nature Don’t just assume the weather in the Caribbean, Hawaii and Mexico is gorgeous year-round. Hurricane season lasts from June through November in the Caribbean and can put a major damper on your nuptials, while rainy season makes marrying in Hawaii dicey from November to March, and Italy can be uncomfortably hot in July and August.

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take care of guests In addition to arranging group rates for flights and rooms, list information for your friends and family on how to get to and from the nearest airport to your wedding locale, invite everyone to the rehearsal or welcome dinner and next-day brunch, and deliver welcome bags full of essentials for the trip, like sun tan lotion, snacks, water and bug spray.

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dress the part Consider the climate when picking your wedding dress—and everyone else’s attire. You’ll be swimming in sweat if you pair your satin ball gown with tropical humidity, and asking your groomsmen to wear tuxes in the heat is just cruel. Also, if you’re exchanging vows outside, you may want to reconsider a long train that will easily get grass stained or stilettos that might stick in the mud.

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stay organized Every trip should be a to-do list of appointments with vendors, coordinators and venue managers, so do your research, set up appointments and form a clear vision of what you want before you go. The good news: If you give yourselves one weekend to find a reception site, you’ll find one. In other words, distance will make you decisive, which will make the whole planning process a lot less stressful. Find more destination planning tips at TheKnot.com/destination-weddings

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strongly suggest making at least one planning trip to meet with potential pros.) If you must hire your vendors unseen, schedule a video chat so you can get a sense for their demeanor and personality before you sign a contract. You could also have your wedding planner meet with them on your behalf, and then brief you on your options. Another idea: Bring pros you trust from home to handle critical aspects such as the wedding photography, your hair and makeup, and the design (the lighting, flowers), and then work with local vendors in a supervisory capacity to avoid any communication mishaps. Just remember: You will have to cover their travel and lodging expenses.

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motif Pineapples popped up on everything from the invitation suite to the tabletops, while lawn flamingos held signage around the resort venue. flowers To accent the blackand-white patterns on the linens and signs, Kendall requested magenta, deep red and dark green blooms and foliage. “Our florist did the most amazing job of having our flowers both blend with the natural surroundings yet pop in bouquets and on display tables,” she says. ceremony Kendall and Andrew married under a wood pergola next to the ocean in a traditional ceremony officiated by the bride’s uncle. “Mother Nature provided the most beautiful backdrop,” she says.

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reception After cocktails along the marina, guests moved to a transparent tent filled with long feasting tables covered with patterned table runners and bright blooms. “I wanted it to feel like a summer night underneath the stars,” Kendall says. advice “Businesses in the Florida Keys reflect that laid-back vibe,” Kendall says. “Trust that your vendors will show up and perform on the day. All of ours exceeded our expectations—it couldn’t have been more perfect.”

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7 hidden wedding costs Protect your budget from these unexpected extras.

band equipment An extra-large venue may call for additional (and pricey) speakers.

postage stamps Oversize and oddly shaped invites can cost a lot more to mail.

coat check Union rules may dictate the number of people needed to work it as well as their fees.

rental deliveries Drop-off and pickup fees usually aren’t included in the price for table and chair rentals.

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gratuities The service fee your venue may charge you is in addition to the tips you should be giving banquet managers and service staff.

cake-cutting fee Your venue’s servers have to cut and plate each slice, which can be an additional cost.

welcome-bag delivery Some hotels might tack on a fee of several dollars per bag delivery.

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Put your accounting skills to the test by deciding on a budgeting system to track all the money going in and out for your wedding day. The easiest way? The Knot Budget Calculator, which estimates how much you should spend on everything from music to mother-in-law gifts, and allows you to track all your payments and their due dates. Otherwise, you can put all your info in an old-fashioned spreadsheet.

If you account for budget overages, then you never actually blow your budget. Try to earmark 5 percent of your budget for unforeseen costs. These are some areas where you might go over: flowers You may realize that something you hadn’t considered needs to be decorated, or you might need an additional boutonniere or corsage. weather-related expenses It’s best to be prepared for any unforseeable weather on your day. Have umbrellas for a rainy day, space heaters if it’s unseasonably cool and additional shade if it’s particularly hot. small accidents Life happens! Your gown may need a last-minute spot removal or something could break. Bottom line: Have room in your budget for emergencies.

explore any hidden costs Knowing all of the costs for your wedding up front will guarantee that your budget can actually cover all the details. But remember: There are extras that you may not think about. Here’s what you should consider: avoid overtime If the party’s hopping, the extra 45 minutes after your reception was supposed to end may whiz by, but you’ll probably pay dearly in overtime fees for everyone from the photographer to the venue manager. If you think the celebration may go long, add overtime costs into the budget. factor in tips From the sexton who cleans the church to the hotel steward who delivers your welcome bags, even conservative tipping can add hundreds to your wedding cost. Make sure to account for these costs in your initial budget. remember: trials aren’t always free A florist’s demo may be gratis the first time, but if you make repeated changes, you risk being billed. Also, take your trial hairstyle into consideration. It’s going to cost you, so make sure to include it in your budget. don’t forget the little stuff Things like stamps for the RSVP cards, ribbons for the favors and marriage license fees seem so small that you can shrug them off, but like any costs, they add up. Going just over budget in a couple categories with a vague plan of making it up somewhere else can push you past your limit.

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“Most couples don’t know how much to expect to pay for various vendors. Let your planner coach you through the budget breakdown.” —Sarah Beth Thie of We Tie the Knots in Charlotte, NC

be smart with your budget Take advantage of budgeting and money management tricks along the way. Put all your wedding money in one separate account, so you can easily track it without getting it confused with the rest of your day-to-day funds. Pay for as many of your expenses as possible on a credit card that gives you benefits. Make sure everyone making purchases (your fiancé, your mom and so on) are all on the same card system, so you can easily track your purchases. Use The Knot Budgeter tool at TheKnot.com/budgeter

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the photographer Trust us—you don’t want a wedding album filled with blurry photos. A good professional photographer knows what moments to capture—the rings, the cake, the classic photo of the two of you holding hands. They’ll also be able to work the crowd.

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the bouquet Your bouquet is the one floral purchase you shouldn’t hold back on—it will be your most photographed arrangement. Consider your bouquet as a part of your look, which means that it should be exactly what you want.

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raising the (food) bar Live preparation stations are as entertaining as they are delicious.

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No matter how you’re celebrating, an amazing meal is central to your wedding. But before you choose the menu, you need to know which meal you’re serving. Your options are nearly endless—from a formal, seated dinner or a festive brunch buffet to nothing but a five-tier fondant couture cake.

brunch Brunch can be served buffet style or as a seated meal (or as a combo). The other alternative is a cocktail brunch, where guests enjoy passed hors d’oeuvres, like scrambled-egg tartlets and mini French toast sticks, and cocktails, such as mimosas and Bellinis, as they mingle among a mix of lounge furniture and tables. THE PROS

• Y our liquor costs will be lower than they’d be for an evening affair, and site-rental fees are often less expensive during the day. • Sunrise ceremonies up the romance factor. • It’s a great choice if you’ve invited lots of children. • It’s more conducive if you’ve chosen not to have any alcohol at all at your wedding. • You can leave after the event and start your honeymoon.

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Cooks flip and fill sweet (from sugar and lemon to dark chocolate) and savory (like smoked ham and swiss or tomato and mozzarella) crepes.

Guests choose their sauce (marinara, vodka, Bolognese) and watch as their pasta is tossed just for them with tasty mix-ins like caramelized onions, roasted vegetables, fresh basil and grated parmesean.

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Dishes are made to order, with chooseyour-own add-ins and toppings from applewood-smoked bacon to fresh berries and whipped cream.

Along with the traditional graham crackers, marshmallows and chocolate, consider a spread of unexpected additions like farmers market strawberries or creamy Nutella.

Swiss, cheddar and mozzarella are key go-tos, but take your cheese plate up a notch with artisanal flavors too.

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Chefs slice and assemble fresh maki rolls.

• Fewer people are in the mood to party at 11 a.m. or 1 p.m. • Without all the dancing, your wedding may feel like less of a big celebration (but that may be exactly what you’re after). • If you’re not immediately jetting off on a fabulous honeymoon, you might wonder what to do with yourselves for the rest of the day, after your ceremony and brunch are over. >>

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Display pretty pastries, finger sandwiches and scones on tiered stands that double as centerpieces. Offer three or four types of tea, plus coffee and sparkling sodas. Background music—anything from a string quartet to a bluegrass band—is a nice touch. You can also use the tea theme to create a whimsical wedding cake. Think: Alice in Wonderland or a royal tea party. Personalize the tea offerings by including a blend of your and your fiancé’s favorites and giving it a unique name that’s personal to you as a couple.

Offer hors d’oeuvres while guests stand and chat. Similar to a cocktail hour, food is either set up in stations or passed by waiters, but a mix of the two will keep everyone mingling and well fed.

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• G uests will be impressed by your mellow sophistication—so much so that no one will realize that tea is far less than a full meal. • You two get the entire evening alone together. • Finger food is always fun, and you can include as many sweet or savory options as you like. THE CONS

• I f you want hours of dancing, a tea reception is probably not the right type of party for you. • The idea of a tea party may be too “precious” for some crowds. • Guests may leave hungry (note “tea reception” on your invites).

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• I t’s a classy but typically lower-stress, more party-friendly option than a sit-down dinner. • It can save you money, depending on what you serve, how long it lasts and the décor. • It’s easier: You don’t have to worry about setting up dozens of tables, complete with centerpieces, chairs, favors and place cards. • You can still have a band and dancing. THE CONS

• The standing-and-chatting approach may be less comfortable for older guests than a seated meal. If you go this route, make sure to provide plenty of seating. • Cocktail receptions aren’t always a money saver. Guests may drink more than they would at a full meal, so liquor costs could be higher, and to ensure you have enough food, you may order more than you would for a plated dinner when portions are preset. >>

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cake and champagne Cake-and-champagne receptions can take place anywhere from a gorgeous backyard to a chic restaurant or sophisticated loft. In addition to bubbly and cake, consider a dessert spread. THE PROS

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I t’s the most economical and easiest way to go. It’s appropriate at any hour of the day. You’ll have less to prepare and coordinate. It’s great for second marriages or to keep the celebration low-key.

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• T here’s less pomp and circumstance, so you’ll be disappointed if you want everyone to make a fuss over you for hours. • Guests may leave hungry (list “dessert reception” on the invites).

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dinner The most popular wedding meal is, of course, dinner, fitting in perfectly after a sunset ceremony, photos and a festive cocktail hour. It could be set up as a buffet, stations, or a formal or familystyle seated dinner.

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• I t gives you an opportunity to truly treat your nearest and dearest, and you won’t have to worry about anyone leaving hungry. • A full meal lasts the longest (it typically includes a cocktail hour too), so you’ll have plenty of time to mingle. THE CONS

• I f your style is less formal, it may feel stuffy unless you host a family-style feast or buffet. • It tends to be the most expensive option—there’s more to plan and pay for (linens and centerpieces for every table).

If you’re only inviting locals and want something elegant and edgy, have a 9 p.m. ceremony followed by delicious late-night treats. THE PROS

• It’s a unique and festive way to celebrate. • It’s an affordable option on par with a cake-and-champagne reception, but guests are more likely to dance at midnight than they are in the late afternoon or early evening. • You won’t need formal place settings or a full waitstaff. THE CONS

• I f you’re inviting kids or older guests, it’s not the best choice— they won’t make it to the reception. • If you and your guests aren’t night owls, it may be hard to get the party going, and it could fizzle after just an hour or two. Search for caterers near you at TheKnot.com/caterers

serve it up Once you know which meal you’re having, decide on a serving style.

A buffet offers your guests a full meal and the chance to choose exactly which foods and how much of them they want. You might have catering staff creating crepes or pasta dishes while guests watch, or just have food set up in large serving dishes. Be sure to have a variety of offerings, including vegetarian and even gluten-free dishes.

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food stations

It’s like a wedding food festival. Guests are invited to sample foods from various stations in a buffet-like manner. Make each station have a theme and offer a moderate assortment of cuisine. This style works best for cocktail receptions or dessert receptions, but couples often have stations at their cocktail hour, followed by a seated meal.

seated meal

The traditional reception meal is a sit-down, four-course dinner consisting of an appetizer, soup, entrée and dessert, though a threecourse dinner is perfectly acceptable too. Additional courses may include salad, pasta, and fruit and cheese. If you’re a foodie couple and want to make dinner a more luxurious part of your reception, this is the way to go.

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vineyard vows There’s a lot more than just a great vino selection to consider when your wedding venue is a winery. Here’s what you need to know if you’re saying “I do” among the grapevines.

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Delicious wine, lush green leaves and a rustic setting— wineries make for unforgettable wedding venues, so what’s not to love when planning a vineyard wedding? There’s more to the process that you have to plan for: Grapes aren’t always on the vines for pretty photos, and pastoral vineyards don’t always show up on even the most high-tech GPS devices. That’s why we consulted Madeleine McQuarrie, event planner at Chateau St. Jean winery in Sonoma, California, who gave us the lowdown on all of the logistical ins and outs you might not have considered. Cheers!

check the local sound-ordinance rules Usually, rural counties (in which most wineries reside) are strict with their sound ordinances—in some cases, music must be turned off by 10 or 11 p.m. Just be sure to doublecheck any rules in the area and confirm what time your entertainment will wrap up. “This shouldn’t deter you from booking your wedding at a winery,” McQuarrie says. “In most cases, you’re able to add more time to the beginning of your event to maximize your time at the venue.”

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Since some vineyards are used to doubling as wedding venues, they may have access to equipment that a large event requires, like microphones, extension cables, speakers, linens, tents and tables. But if it’s a vineyard that’s not full service, you may have to rent everything you need from a vendor—even electricity. “If your site doesn’t provide electricity, you must rent generators,” McQuarrie says. “The generators will provide power for all of the basic wedding essentials, including lighting.” If that’s the case for you, ask the venue if it has a vendor list to see what you have to work with, and consult a local wedding planner—they’ll know all the local vendors specializing in vineyard events.

make sure your eats can be prepared Vineyard weddings are all about delicious wines, cheeses, fruit and more—but just make sure your caterers will have everything they need in terms of available food-prep areas. If your venue doesn’t already have a commercial kitchen, your caterer may need to bring in a remote kitchen. “This is a very common occurrence—caterers are pros when it comes to vineyard weddings,” McQuarrie says. “With careful communication and planning among you, your wedding planner, the venue and the caterer, this will not negatively affect your event.” >>

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While vineyards are typically in gorgeous, bucolic settings, some of them may be a little hard for modern technology to find. Picture winding, unpaved roads that are somewhat off the beaten path. “The easiest way to ensure the safe and timely arrival of wedding guests is to provide them with transportation from their hotel to your venue,” McQuarrie says. “There are so many fun options available now to fit your budget and theme, and not just stretch limos. You can charter luxury SUVs and school buses.” And if you don’t have any room for transportation in your wedding budget, it’s a great idea to give guests extremely detailed driving instructions on how to get to your event venue, along with approximate travel times, since GPS devices often won’t work way out in the vineyards. Your wedding website is a great place to share this information with friends and family who might not be familiar with the area.

harvest may affect your wedding plans For most venues, the summer season just means warm weather. But for a vineyard, summer means vibrant green vines, which is why it’s so important to know how seasons may impact your planning and aesthetics for your day. “Deciding on the season and date of your wedding is major, so you must do research for the region that you are looking into,” McQuarrie says. “Do you want the vines to be green and full of grapes? Then early summer may be your target date. Do you prefer burnt oranges and reds as your vineyard canvas? Late September and October may be the best months for you. During the winter, vines will become dormant, so you won’t have any foliage on the vines, and in some regions there may even be snow. All seasons make for beautiful wedding photos—it’s up to you and your vision for your wedding.” Most vineyard venues also have fully functional wineries, so during the harvesting season of your region (usually August), there may be some commotion (think: large trucks, grape picking and unexpected smells). This is because the grapes are very delicate, and when the vineyard manager decides it’s time to harvest, nothing can stand in the way. Talk with your planner or your venue contact to make sure the vineyard will have the look you want on your wedding date. Otherwise, if you’re set on a photo with grapes growing in the background but your wedding is in the fall, you’ll likely run into some issues.

make a plan if your vineyard is public Lots of wineries that host weddings are also open to the public and give tours and tastings and have restaurants, bars and shopping options. “If you’d like a private wedding, communicate that to your site and ask if it’s able to close one part of the property to public guests,” McQuarrie says. “Or plan for an evening or morning wedding—something that’s outside of normal operating hours. Most vineyard venues will be accommodating as they’re excited to be a part of your day.” Of course, you’ll need to make sure that private wedding pricing fits into your budget. You can also ask if there are any off-season or less busy weekend options that may make reserving the entire winery more affordable. >>

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ask about the liquor license Having an open bar? Remember that just because a vineyard produces alcoholic beverages doesn’t mean it’s licensed to serve liquor too. A wine license and liquor license are two very different permits, so before you start planning your signature cocktails, see what the vineyard’s licenses allow. “Many wineries function under a permit that regulates them to producing and serving wine only,” McQuarrie says. “Often, this means that just beer, wine and sparkling wine may be served. Check in with your venue to determine its alcohol policy as this will vary.”

consider your powder room resources

Sometimes a rustic setting means the floors are rustic too, so aside from posing in the soil near the grapes and vines, you may be walking on wood, pebble or dirt floors. “Many of our clients use the term ‘vineyard formal,’ ” McQuarrie says. “This helps rule out stilettos that may sink into the ground or long dresses that may get dirty.” Of course, you’ll have a dress code that fits your personal wedding aesthetic, but just communicate to your guests on your wedding website what they should anticipate from your venue so they can dress accordingly.” You may also want to provide flip-flops for your female guests, so they can slip them on at your reception and not ruin their heels.

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“If your venue is not full-service, you may need to bring in additional restrooms,” McQuarrie says. “For a five-hour event, with a guest count of around 150, you’ll need at least four to five restrooms. There are portable rental restrooms that have granite countertops, running water and multiple stalls that are perfect for weddings.” A tent-rental company can also cover the restroom area to have it blend in with the wedding space. Fresh flowers, air fresheners and amenities baskets with mints, antibacterial hand lotion, hair spray and aspirin are also game changers.

raise your glass How to choose wine for your reception

variety is the spice of life Don’t feel like you have to stick with the most familiar types of wine. “You can have a large variety of wines to choose from, so you can wow your guests with something just a little different. Viognier, anyone?” says Margo Van Staaveren, head winemaker at Chateau St. Jean.

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red, white or both?

It’s nice to offer both white and red wine, no matter the season. A good rule of thumb is a lighter white wine for the reception. “Think pinot gris, pinot blanc or fume blanc,” Van Staaveren says. It’s also nice to add a pinot noir because it can pair with lighter fare (chicken, fish and salads) but can also stand up to heavier foods.” Cabernet sauvignon or malbec is good for guests who enjoy a more robust red wine.

do the math

When planning for the quantity of wine, keep in mind that each 750 ml bottle will pour approximately five glasses. It’s safe to assume each guest will have one glass of white and one glass of red. “It’s easy to do the math with your guest count from there,” Van Staaveren says.

bartender basics

Instruct bartenders not to open every bottle of wine at the beginning of the reception. They should open the bottles as they go so wine isn’t wasted. “Most bottles should be consumed the day they’re opened,” Van Staaveren says. If you have unopened bottles at the end of the evening, stock your personal bar with them.

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the portrait list These are the don’t-miss moments you’ll want to display forever.

the happy couple Snaps of you two should be the priority. Consider doing a first look, where you and your fiancé come together before the ceremony to see each other for the first time in your wedding attire. You’ll be less nervous for your “I dos,” and you won’t miss cocktail hour.

the wedding party Your close friends and family should also take center stage in your album. You’ll want shots of you with the entire bridal party as well as ones with each attendant. Some couples get creative with a mix of fun group shots and more traditional posed compositions.

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immediate family You may be eager to get to the reception, but your mom will never let you hear the end of it if you don’t take the time to have at least a few portraits of you with your parents and siblings. You’ll probably also want to get a photo of both families together, which makes for an extraspecial framed photo later—after all, it symbolizes the merging of two lives, and isn’t that what this whole thing is about?

guests If your photographer’s setup allows for it, one huge group photo of you two with all of your guests can really capture the spirit of the day. The default for most couples is to take pics with smaller groups—college and high school friends, cousins, and so on. But a big group shot is a reminder of all the special people who took the time to celebrate with you.

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settle on a style First, decide what style of photography you want. All photographers specialize in a format and style, and knowing up-front whether you prefer film to digital, or candid shots to posed ones, will go a long way in determining the right person for the job. Here are the most common methods:

documentary: Expect spontaneous, inthe-moment pictures of people and décor. Typical shots might include a close-up of your bouquet, your fiancé’s motley crew of cousins tearing up the dance floor or your bridesmaids laughing, champagne in hand. When you hire someone schooled in photojournalism, you’ll rarely see people looking straight at the camera—the photos capture the moments exactly as they happened, and together they tell a story. portraiture: If you prefer the kind of posed shots that populate your parents’ 1980s wedding album, go with someone who specializes in portraiture. You’ll get pictures of the two of you with your wedding party, friends and family in front of various backdrops. But that’s not to say there isn’t room for creativity. It’s true that many photographers shoot in expected places (think: the church altar or the lawn of a country club). But just as many push the artistic limits of portraiture, embracing dramatic compositions, like situating the couple on a lounge chair in a hip hotel lobby. fine art: Similar to documentary style, this format allows the shooter artistic license to impart their particular point of view—the shots reflect reality, but it’s the photographer’s reality. The results, usually shot on black-and-white film, are dramatic and gorgeous, with a grainier, softer appearance that keeps the subject in focus and the background slightly blurred.

But with the right gear and lens, a pro can use a digital camera and capture this style. One note: Not all fine-art photographers take formal portraits, so if that’s important to you, make sure yours does both.

edgy and bold: This style is marked by outside-the-box, tilted angles, called “Dutch angles,” and unconventional framing. So instead of a straight-on shot of the couple saying their vows at the altar, the photo might look a little slanted, with an object like a flower arrangement or candle in the foreground. Or the photo of the bride having her makeup done might be shot from above, with an emphasis on the eye shadow brush rather than on her face. Even a portrait of a bridesmaid might be framed so her face appears in only the bottom right of the photo, with the rest taken up by whatever is behind her. Although they might prefer a particular technique over another, many photographers offer a mix of styles, blending portraiture with documentarytype shots, and black and white with color images. But if there’s a specific look you absolutely love, seek out only those pros who practice it.

do your homework Once you know what kind of photos you want, start your search: Comb through the local marketplace on TheKnot.com, and read reviews from recent brides and grooms. Go to photographers’ websites and blogs and check out their portfolios of the weddings they’ve shot to get an idea of their style. The design of the website may also clue you in to their personality and sensibility. If available, scope out their Facebook, Instagram and Twitter pages too. Also consider the feedback from other couples and clients: Is it generally positive? And how does the photographer herself respond to it?

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If you like what you see on a photographer’s site—and their fees are in your range—call to see if they’re available on your wedding date. If they’re already booked, ask if they have an associate or can recommend someone with a similar style. Schedule in-person meetings with three to five photographers to view more of their work and see if your personalities mesh. Then, talk shop: Tell them about your venue, your overall wedding style and what you and your partner have in mind for your photos.

Think about the kinds of shots you want and then scour the photographer’s work to see how, or if, they captured them. For example, did they get photos of the couple when they locked eyes for the first time? Also, look at how they composed the shots and whether the framing works. Consider how crisp an image appears and what the lighting is like; beware of washed-out photos where small details are blurred— unless that’s the style you’re after. One last thing to be on the lookout for: how the photographer captures emotions. You want to see people looking relaxed, not like deer caught in headlights.

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make sure your personalities are a match Don’t underestimate the importance of liking and bonding with your photographer—that part is crucial. Are they excited about your vision for your wedding when you describe it? Do they present suggestions in a clear and respectful way? Are their mannerisms off-putting to you? The best photographers will ask lots of questions and be good listeners. You should go with a pro who not only has a firm grasp of social graces but is also bold enough to go on the hunt for great images. Above all, you’re looking for someone who puts you and your fiancé at ease and doesn’t irritate you. Remember: Your photographer will be shadowing your every move, and the more comfortable you are, the better all of your photos will turn out. And, obviously, you want the photographer to shoot your guests in their best light in an unobtrusive, subtle way. In a nutshell: Your photographer should be assertive enough to seek out the really great moments, cajoling enough to coax relaxed smiles and natural stances from guests, and calm enough to be a positive force throughout the day. >>

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are just about as good as the ones in their online portfolio, then you’ve got a consummate pro on your hands. Finally, ask to see at least one or two complete wedding albums that are in similar settings to yours. So if you’re getting married indoors with dark lighting, don’t just look at weddings that were shot outdoors in natural sunlight. And if you’re planning to say “I do” on a beach at sunset, see examples of similar setups.

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need to know: photo contract checklist Mark these off to make sure your contract is airtight. All addresses, dates and starting times are listed Estimated number of hours to be worked Name of the photographer(s) Name of acceptable substitute(s) Number of cameras that will be used and which formats (digital or film) Number of photos to be shot (including color and black and white) Number of proofs you’ll receive and in what format you’ll receive them Number of prints included O ther package details: number of completed albums, specialrequest shots Dates for proof/final

confirm who will be there the day of Many larger photo studios have more than one photographer, and unless you specify it in your contract, the lead photographer may not be the one shooting your day. Double-check that the one you interview and click with will be the same one who works your wedding. Also, include specific stipulations in the contract about who will cover for the photographer should something happen. Check whether they will bring any assistants, and if so, how many? If you have room in your budget, consider hiring a second shooter. (Many top-notch photographers already include this in the contract.) The main benefit to having two photographers is that you get twice as much coverage. During your formal photo session, one photographer can capture the formal photos, while the other can get behind-the-scenes shots, like of guests mingling.

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Detailed shot list you’ve agreed to

You won’t be able to nail down an exact dollar amount until you’re sure of how many hours of coverage you want and how many albums you need. Packages typically range from $2,500 all the way up to $15,000-plus for a high-profile photographer. Ask about what’s included in the standard package and the price of any extras you want, like an engagement shoot. In particular, find out exactly how many hours of coverage are included. Ideally, you want your shooter there for the entire day, from when you’re getting ready to after you’ve made your grand exit from the reception. While packages may vary, most do include about 6 to 12 hours to cover everything. If you’re on the fence about booking them for a longer period, err on the side of caution and go for it if your budget allows—overtime is usually charged at a higher hourly rate.

Timing for breaks (schedule during dinner to avoid missing dance floor shots) Dress code stipulations (optional) Total cost D eposit amount and date paid Remaining balance and due date Any relevant overtime, refund and cancellation policies

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ask about your rights Most contracts stipulate that the photographer owns the rights to all of the photos taken at the wedding, even the ones of you. In other words, they can use them for promotional purposes. That also means that you can’t just post the digital proofs they send you—most photographers have a policy that you can only share watermarked images or images that include their credit. Also, unless you negotiate otherwise, if you want to print the photos yourselves or order an album from another source, you’ll have to buy the image rights.

get postproduction details It usually takes at least a month, if not two, to get photo proofs back. Why? Your photographer is working with enormous files far bigger than your typical JPEG. Shooting raw files gives your photographer greater ability to correct photos, but it also takes a longer time to upload, process and edit them. It varies, but many photographers estimate an additional 40 hours spent editing images from a single wedding. Here’s what to ask: How many photos should I expect? Will they be high or low resolution? Will I be able to print them myself, or does the photographer retain the rights? Will the proofs I see be the retouched versions, or does that happen after I select the photos I want? Also, ask about retouching options and special effects, which can range from light beauty retouching to stylized art effects, like super-saturated colors, and the additional cost for both. —Special thanks to Duke Photography, Todd France, Jen Kroll Photography, Salvatore Cincotta Photography and Mel Barlow & Co. F ind your photographer at TheKnot.com/photography

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Looking beyond the traditional bridal silhouette? At Rachel Gordon’s fullservice design studio in Charleston, South Carolina, the bride and designer work together to create each skillfully handmade gown. Combined with an in-house jewelry designer, Gordon’s vintage-inspired, ethereal designs attract even the most free-spirited brides.

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Resting on a tropical barrier island off the coast of South Carolina, the Wild Dunes Resort boasts new amenities after a multimillion-dollar, six-month revamp. For weddings, the Boardwalk Inn sits a convenient 150 feet from the ocean and serves gourmet coastal Southern cuisine.

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CHECKLIST

let the planning begin! Here’s what to do, when, on your way to the altar.

6 to 8

12+

months

months

DATE: ______ /______ /______

DATE: ______ /______ /______

Think about when and where you’d like to have your wedding (the question everyone will ask about 20 minutes after you get engaged).

Plan the ceremony with your officiant; it’s the reason you’re having this party, so don’t wait too long. Discuss religious requirements, like premarital counseling.

Nail down a budget and go to TheKnot .com/budget. We’ll help you figure out how much you should spend on flowers, stationery and your day-of looks.

Have engagement photos taken so you can get comfortable with your photographer.

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Research and book ceremony and reception locations. This is your first big decision. Book any pros you just have to have, like a band or wedding planner, especially if you live in a competitive market.

months

DATE: ______ /______ /_____

Find a stationer and order your savethe-dates. This is really happening!

Reserve hotel room blocks. Book them on HiSkipper.com/weddings/TheKnot. Decide whom you want to officiate your ceremony and book him or her. Create a “look fab” plan, including facials, teeth whitening and haircuts. Start your wedding website to keep guests in the know. Include important info—such as hotel room blocks and transportation options—and some fun details too. Create a free customizable one at TheKnot.com/pwp.

Choose the formalwear and give groomsmen instructions about what to wear.

Propose to your bridesmaids and groomsmen to see if they’re up for being in your wedding party. Book your photographer, florist, musicians, cake baker and other pros. If there’s no in-house caterer, interview candidates and select one. Send out your save-the-dates.

Start searching for the dress. Get the ring appraised and then insured ASAP. (Trust us—this is one to-do you don’t want to delay.)

Book your honeymoon. Thinking about Hawaii? Europe? Check out our fave trips at TheKnot.com/honeymoons.

Register at TheKnot.com/registry, and then put the links on your wedding website. Order the gown and veil and schedule fittings for six weeks and one to two weeks before the wedding. Choose the bridesmaid dresses and have bridesmaids order them.

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While you’re in organizational-planning mode, download The Knot Wedding Planner app. It’s a cool way to research local pros, keep your contacts and inspiration board updated, draft your guest list and take it all with you.

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Iron out the rehearsal dinner details, like the time and location. Order invitations and thank-you notes. Reserve venues for the welcome party, after-party and next-day brunch. Book a day-of coordinator (if you don’t have a full-service planner and a day-of planner isn’t included with your venue). Schedule beauty trials and book hairstylists and makeup artists. Buy any special lingerie. Purchase wedding insurance (if you’re planning on getting it). >>

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months

months

DATE: ______ /______ /______

DATE: ______ /______ /______

Finalize your flower proposal with your florist. Will you go with roses or ranunculus, gerbera daisies or gardenias? Address your invitations or hand them off to your calligrapher. Finalize the rental list (tables, chairs) with the caterer or rental company.

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Mail your wedding invitations at the six- to eight-week mark. RSVPs should be due one month before the wedding. Work on your ceremony vows, especially if you’re writing them yourselves.

Buy wedding day accessories. Think: shoes, purse and jewelry.

Purchase presents for your parents, attendants and each other (you deserve it after all this planning).

Schedule dance lessons (worth it if your first dance is already stressing you out).

Order or start making your ceremony programs.

Complete your cake order—and order the groom’s cake, if you’re having one.

Buy your guest book, a nice pen and any supplies you’ll need for your escort card display.

Purchase or rent ceremony decorations, like an aisle runner or program basket.

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month DATE: ______ /______ /______

Compile a must-take photo list for your shooter. Keep it under a dozen so you get the shots you really want. Check off your “something old, new, borrowed and blue.” Put together a day-of emergency kit (bandages, deodorant, fashion tape, concealer).

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Confirm your hotel room blocks.

Buy wedding rings—yes, it’s totally normal to freak out (in a good way) in the store.

Finish assembling ceremony programs or pick them up from your stationer or printer.

Order wedding favors—go to TheKnotShop.com.

Put together welcome baskets for out-of-town guests.

Arrange day-of transportation for yourselves and the wedding party.

Send out your invites for the rehearsal dinner. Buy some fun books and new clothes for your honeymoon. >>

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Have a blast at your shower and bachelor or bachelorette party. Finalize your playlist with your band or DJ. Figure out how to get a local marriage license—you need one to make it legit.

Go to the first dress fitting— bring shoes and undergarments.

Write thank-you notes for gifts as they arrive (you’ll thank us later).

Finalize the menu with your caterer.

Finalize your ceremony with your officiant.

Create a timeline for the weekend and share it with your attendants, planner and photographer.

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1 to 2

2 to 3

DATE: ______ /______ /______

DATE: ______ /______ /______

weeks

Missing RSVPs? Follow up now. Once you’ve got your final head count, share it with the caterer, cake baker and site manager. Give your caterer the final seating chart (and have a glass of bubbly to celebrate finishing this puzzle). Pass on requests from your pros, like a table for the DJ, to the site manager.

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Pack an overnight bag for the wedding night (include outfits for any day-after events, like a good-bye brunch). Leave a copy of your honeymoon itinerary with your family and other important people, like your pet sitter. Steam the dress or suit if wrinkled. Touch base with the ceremony and reception sites one more time to go over the schedule and any important details.

day of DATE: ______ /______ /______

Eat breakfast. You may forget to eat later— even if that never happens to you.

Plan the processional/recessional. Give gifts to your parents and each other. Confirm last-minute details, like flower and cake deliveries and when you’re meeting your photographer. Deliver welcome bags to out-of-town guests’ hotels (the staff will usually hand them out at check-in).

Go to the last dress fitting (and get butterflies thinking about the next time the gown will be worn).

postwedding to-dos DATE: ______ /______ /______

Confirm all final payment amounts, details and deliveries with your pros. Double-check the day-of schedule and contact list; distribute to wedding party, parents and pros. Write your toasts. Pick up your marriage license (the most fun you can have at a government office). Give a “must-play” or “don’t-play” song list to the DJ or bandleader. Include your first, father-daughter and mother-son dances. Get a final hair trim and color touch-up. Arrange transportation for out-of-town guests who aren’t renting cars. Give tips for your pros to an attendant or planner to distribute.

1 day before

Freeze the top layer of your cake (you’ll be shocked that it’s still pretty tasty on your one-year anniversary). Have your dress and formalwear cleaned and/or preserved and return any rentals.

DATE: ______ /______ /______

Get a mani and pedi. Bring all ceremony accessories, like the unity candle, to the site. Give the marriage license to your officiant (this is one to-do you definitely don’t want to forget). Rehearse the ceremony and have dinner. Give your attendants their presents. And for goodness’ sake, get some rest. You’re the stars of the show tomorrow, remember?

Send your pros thank-you notes and submit online reviews at TheKnot.com/marketplace.

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Print or write your escort cards or send them to your calligrapher.

Hand off your wedding rings to the best man. Have him hold the officiant’s fee to deliver after the ceremony.

Thank your attendants for standing by you on the day—and during planning. Finish up thank-you notes for gifts. Changing your name? Streamline the entire process by going to HitchSwitch.com/TheKnot. Get more planning tips and to-dos at TheKnot.com/checklist

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make it legal

North Carolina Marriage License Requirements

GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In North Carolina, the legal age for marriage is 18 years old. Those under 18 must have parental consent. Couples must apply for and sign the license together at the Register of Deeds office. A Social Security number and a driver’s license (and sometimes a birth certificate) are required as proof of identification. Residency and blood tests are not required. If previously married, the bride or groom may be asked to provide the appropriate documents regarding the divorce or death. There is no waiting period to obtain the license, which is valid for 60 days. The fee for a marriage license is $60; methods of payment vary. All offices are open Monday through Friday; in some counties appointments are required. Please call ahead to get all of the details. WHERE TO APPLY Alamance County

Craven County

Gaston County

Iredell County

Brunswick County

Cumberland County

Guilford County

Johnston County

118 W. Harden St. Graham, NC 27253 (336) 570-6565 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Register of Deeds 75 Courthouse Dr. Bolivia, NC 28422 (910) 253-2690 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Buncombe County

35 Woodfin St., Ste. 226 Asheville, NC 28801 (828) 250-4300 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Cabarrus County

65 Church St. SE Concord, NC 28025 (704) 920-2112 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Catawba County

117 Dick St., Rm. 114 Fayetteville, NC 28301 (910) 678-7775 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Davidson County

203 W. 2nd St. Lexington, NC 27292 (336) 242-2150 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Durham County

200 E. Main St. Durham, NC 27701 (919) 560-0480 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Forsyth County

201 N. Chestnut St., Fl. 2 Winston-Salem, NC 27101 (336) 703-2700 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

325 N. Marietta St. Gastonia, NC 28052 (704) 862-7511 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. 201 S. Eugene St. Greensboro, NC 27402 (336) 641-7556 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Harnett County

305 W. Cornelius Harnett Blvd., Ste. 200 Lillington, NC 27546 (910) 893-7540 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Henderson County 200 N. Grove St., Ste. 129 Hendersonville, NC 28792 (828) 697-4901 9 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

201 E. Water St. Statesville, NC 28677 (704) 872-7468 8 a.m. – 5 p.m. 207 E. Johnston St. Smithfield, NC 27577 (919) 989-5160 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Mecklenburg County

720 E. 4th St., Rm. 106 Charlotte, NC 28202 (704) 336-6090 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

New Hanover County

216 N. 2nd St. Wilmington, NC 28401 (910) 798-4530 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Onslow County

109 Old Bridge St. Jacksonville, NC 28540 (910) 347-3451 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m., M–F; 4:30 – 5:45 p.m., T. & Th. (by appointment only)

Orange County

228 S. Churton St., Ste. 300 Hillsborough, NC 27278 (919) 245-2675 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Pitt County

100 W. 3rd St. Greenville, NC 27834 (252) 902-1650 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Randolph County

158 Worth St. Asheboro, NC 27203 (336) 318-6960 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Robeson County

500 N. Elm St., Rm. 102 Lumberton, NC 28358 (910) 671-3044 8:15 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Rowan County

402 N. Main St. Salisbury, NC 28144 (704) 216-8626 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Union County

Register of Deeds 500 N. Main St., Ste. 258 Monroe, NC 28112 (704) 283-3610 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Wake County

421 Fayetteville St., Ste. 300, Fl. 3 Raleigh, NC 27601 (919) 856-5460 8:30 a.m. – 4:45 p.m.

Wayne County

224-226 E. Walnut St. Goldsboro, NC 27533 (919) 731-1449 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

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GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In South Carolina, the legal age to obtain a marriage license is 18 years old. Parental consent can be granted for those younger than 18 years of age. Residency and blood tests are not required. The fee for a South Carolina marriage license varies according to the county, typically between $50-$100. There is no expiration date for a South Carolina marriage license. No proof of divorce is required if previously married. There is a 24-hour waiting period before the marriage license is in effect. Proof of age is required in the form of a passport, driver’s license, etc. Some counties may require a social security card.

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100-C Southwest Blvd. Newton, NC 28658 (828) 465-1573 7:30 a.m. – 5:30 p.m.

226 Pollock St. New Bern, NC 28560 (252) 636-6617 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

WHERE TO APPLY Aiken County

Probate Court 109 Park Ave. SE, Rm. E126 Aiken, SC 29801 (803) 642-2009 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Anderson County Probate Court 100 S. Main St. Anderson, SC 29622 (864) 260-4049 Call for hours

Berkeley County

Probate Court 300 California Ave. Moncks Corner, SC 29461 (843) 719-4519 9 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Charleston County

Judicial Center– Probate Court 100 Broad St., Ste. 469 Charleston, SC 29401 (843) 958-5183 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Beaufort County

Hilton Head Island Satellite Probate Office 539 William Hilton Pkwy. Hilton Head, SC 29928 (843) 255-5866 9 a.m. – 4 p.m., T-W, F Beaufort Probate Office 102 Ribaut Rd. Beaufort, SC 29902 (843) 255-5850 9 a.m. – 4 p.m.

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Dorchester County

Probate Court 5200 E. Jim Bilton Blvd. St. George, SC 29477 (843) 832-0104 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Florence County

Probate Court 180 N. Irby, Rm. 206 Florence, SC 29501 (843) 665-3085 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Greenville County Probate Court 301 University Ridge Greenville, SC 29601 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Horry County

Probate Court 9630 Scipio Ln. Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m., M, W-F, 8:30 a.m. – 3:30 p.m., T

Lexington County

Probate Court 205 E. Main St., Ste. 134 Lexington, SC 29072 (803) 785-8324 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Pickens County

Probate Court 222 McDaniel Ave., B-16 Pickens, SC 29671 (864) 898-5903 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Richland County

York County

Spartanburg County

Although The Knot strives to provide accurate information, we assume no responsibility for changes since publication. Please confirm all details with your local licensing bureau and inform us of updates or errors at licenseinfo@theknot.com.

Judicial Center– Probate Court 1701 Main St. Columbia, SC 29201 8:30 a.m – 4:45 p.m. Probate Court 180 Magnolia St. Spartanburg, SC 29306 (864) 596-2556 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Sumter County

Probate Court 215 N. Harvin St. Sumter, SC 29150 (803) 436-2166 8:30 a.m. – 5:30 p.m.

Probate Court 1 E. Liberty St. York, SC 29745 (803) 684-8513 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.

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North Carolina Publications

GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the

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announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting. GUIDELINES/ RESTRICTIONS

PUBLICATION

CONTACT

TIME CONSTRAINTS

Asheville Citizen-Times

(828) 232-5998 Attn: Weddings PO Box 2090 Asheville, NC 28802

Nonpaid weddings must be submitted within 30 days after the wedding date by noon on the Wednesday prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

Basic announcement is free; larger announcements range from $50 to $210.

Charlotte Observer

(704) 358-5260 Attn: Celebrations PO Box 32188 Charlotte, NC 28232

Must submit info at least 24 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Fees range from $115 to $1,885.

Greensboro News–Record

(336) 373-7053 Attn: Celebrations Rep. PO Box 20848 Greensboro, NC 27420

Must submit info by 5 p.m. Wednesday, at least 11 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes All announcements must be proofed before they can be published in the paper.

Six-line announcements (no photo) are free. For longer announcements, rates start at $30.10 and must be prepaid.

Raleigh News & Observer

(919) 836-2800 Attn: Special Occasions Dept. PO Box 191 Raleigh, NC 27602

Must submit info by 4 p.m. on Monday, six days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

The cost is $40 per column inch, approximately eight lines of text.

Wilmington Star-News

(910) 343-2325 Attn: Occasions PO Box 840 Wilmington, NC 28402

Must submit info by 4 p.m. Thursday, 10 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Optional; must be typed and double spaced.

There is no charge for submitting a basic announcement. The fee for an announcement plus a photo is $18.55 per column inch. There is also an additional $13.25 online posting fee.

Winston-Salem Journal

(336) 727-7422 Attn: Celebrations Dept. 418 N. Marshall Street Winston-Salem, NC 27101

Must submit info by noon on Friday, nine days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

There is no charge for submitting a basic announcement. Packages range from $90 to $2,500.

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South Carolina Publications GUIDELINES/ RESTRICTIONS

PUBLICATION

CONTACT

TIME CONSTRAINTS

The Post and Courier

(843) 937-5775 134 Columbus St. Charleston, SC 29403

Must submit by 3 p.m. on Monday, two weeks prior to the wedding date.

Form: Yes; available online.

Online-only fee is $75; online and print packages vary in price .

The State

(803) 771-8431 Attn: Celebrations The State Media Company PO Box 1333 Columbia, SC 29202

Must submit by 3 p.m. the Monday before the desired date of publication and online posting.

Form: Yes; available online.

The cost varies according to text and/or photo size. Packages range from $117 to $422.

Island Packet

(843) 706-8181 Attn: Celebrations PO Box 5727 Hilton Head Island, SC 29938

Must submit info by 3 p.m. Wednesday, prior to the Sunday of publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Standard announcement is free; larger packages range from $140 to $535.

The Greenville News

(864) 298-4130 Attn: Celebrations 305 S. Main St. PO Box 1688 Greenville, SC 29602

Must submit by noon Wednesday, prior to Sunday publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Prices range from $20 to $120 according to size.

The Sun News Daily

(843) 444-1771 Attn: Celebrations PO Box 406 Myrtle Beach, SC 29578

Must submit info by 4 p.m. Tuesday, prior to the Sunday of publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Starting at $30 for a one-column passage without photo, ranging up to $350.

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burke manor inn & pavilion

303 Burke Street, Gibsonville, NC (336) 449-6266 | (888) 679-1805 BurkeManor.com Our historical inn, beautiful gardens, pavilion, exceptional cuisine and professional staff create the perfect combination to host your special occasion. The Burke has become the premier wedding and reception facility in the Triad. We look forward to hosting your event, large or small. capacity 300 | price $$$

callawassie island

(843) 987-2155 | CallawassieIsland.com Whether you choose our Low Country–style Clubhouse, tented marsh front lawn or waterfront River Club, Callawassie Island is a perfect location for your wedding reception or rehearsal dinner. On-island accommodations are available. capacity 250 | price $$$

the cedar room

701 East Bay Street, Charleston, SC (843) 793-4103 TheCedarRoom.com The Cedar Room is an open and airy space, featuring historic wood columns, hardwood floors and original elements of the circa 1881 building. The venue can accommodate parties and celebrations of all sizes, from intimate cocktail receptions to seated dinners for 300+ guests. capacity 300+

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20 Patriot’s Point Road, Mount Pleasant, SC (843) 284-7039 | CharlestonHarborResort.com Charleston’s only harbor-front resort is located on Patriot’s Point. The resort offers a full-service marina, golf, pool, private beachfront, two restaurants and event space with views of Charleston Harbor. Whatever season, we can design the perfect setting and event tailored to your dreams. capacity 400 | price $$$

chestnut ridge

(828) 549-8411 | info@chestnutridge.events ChestnutRidge.events Chestnut Ridge is a timeless-style venue nestled on a family farm with breathtaking views that overlook the Blue Ridge Mountains at an elevation of 3,000 feet. Full venue access comes with every package, all-inclusive package options have preferred vendors and rehearsal dinner accommodations are available. capacity 300 | price $$$

cobblestone park golf club

1298 University Parkway, Blythewood, SC (803) 333-8100 | CobblestoneParkGolfClub.com Cobblestone Park Golf Club is perfect for your “I do,” with several outdoor ceremony locations and an awardwinning clubhouse overlooking our beautiful 18th hole and lake with elegant fountains. capacity 250 | price $$

the cottages on charleston harbor

(866) 901-2688 | CharlestonHarborWeddings.com The Cottages on Charleston Harbor are beautifully arranged just yards from the harbor. The picturesque two-bedroom luxury cottages feature spacious living areas and private screened porches, complete with hammocks. Host your ceremony on the water’s edge and the reception on our beautiful event lawn. capacity 125 | price $$$

the creek club at i’on and cottage on the creek

130 Mill Street, Mt. Pleasant, SC (843) 606-2083 CottageontheCreek.net | IOnCreekClub.com The Creek Club at I’On is a picturesque waterfront venue boasting an open floor plan with tall, oversize windows, high ceilings with exposed rafters and two grand fireplaces. Cottage on the Creek is a multi-level venue with a spacious interior, rooftop deck, sprawling waterfront deck and gazebo. capacity 300 | price $$$

daniel stowe botanical garden 6500 South New Hope Road, Belmont, NC (704) 829-1268 | privateevents@dsbg.org DSBG.org

With 110 acres of stunning themed gardens, sparkling fountains and ever-changing Southern seasonal displays, DSBG is one of the Charlotte region’s most beautiful wedding venues, offering a wide range of wedding packages and unique sites. It’s located in charming Belmont within 30 minutes of Uptown. capacity 400+ | price $$

the diamond room at wades jewelers

103 East Main Street, Gibsonville, NC (336) 449-4949 | WadesDiamondRoom.com Wades Diamond Room is a full-service event facility located between Burlington and Greensboro, North Carolina. The Diamond Room is the perfect venue for wedding receptions, corporate events and large or small parties. capacity 250 | price $$

doubletree suites by hilton charlotte-southpark

6300 Morrison Boulevard, Charlotte, NC (704) 364-2400 | natalie.hoekstra@hilton.com CharlotteSouthParkSuites.Doubletree.com You create the guest list…we create the rest. The beautiful surroundings and professional wedding experts at the DoubleTree Suites By Hilton Charlotte-SouthPark make it easy to create that special day for you! capacity 250 | price $$

the farm

215 Justice Ridge Road, Candler, NC (828) 667-0666 | TheFarmEvents.com The Farm has rustic charm, hardwood floors, a huge fireplace and wraparound porches that are designed for use in winter and summer. Imagine declaring your vows at sunset in the gazebo, a romantic spot nestled in the trees with the western mountains as a backdrop. capacity 300 | price $$

fontana village resort

300 Woods Rd., Fontana Dam, NC (828) 498-2150 | tabitha.henry@fontanavillage.com FontanaVillage.com At Fontana Village Resort, your picturesque wedding nestled in the Great Smoky Mountains awaits. Whether surrounded by lush forest or gazing over pristine Fontana Lake, Fontana Village can set the scene for your perfect wedding. Let Fontana’s Event Team help you plan your dream wedding today. capacity 400+ | price $$

fripp island golf & beach resort

2119 Sea Island Parkway Harbor Island, SC (843) 838-1507 | (888) 974-1873 kkluttz@frippislandresort.com FrippIslandResort.com All you’d expect for your important event. There’s every amenity imaginable for your guests—golf, tennis, boating, 3 1/2 miles of beach, catering to meet your every wish and more. Our accommodations range from spectacular beachfront homes to scenic panoramic views and offer something for everyone. capacity 200 | price $$$

gambill estate

7348 Old 60, Roaring River, NC

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GambillEstate.com With down home charm and natural elegance, this family-owned country estate has 145 exquisite acres coupled with mountain vistas—an ideal wedding location. Southern hospitality is our foundation, and an atmosphere of community and exceptional service is our trademark. capacity 200 | price $$$

grande dunes

(843) 913-2842 | GrandeDunesWeddings.com Imagine your wedding at the Ocean Club or Members Club at Grande Dunes—an experience of luxury and elegance in South Carolina’s premier coastal resort community. The serene, natural beach has stunning Atlantic views, and the private club offers world-class golf—both settings can be exclusively yours. capacity 200 | price $$$

the hall and gardens at landmark

12450 Cleveland Road, Garner, NC (919) 329-7674 weddings@thehallatlandmark.com TheHallAtLandmark.com The Hall is a grand ballroom located on the top floor of the Landmark Building. The Gardens at Landmark are host to vibrant flowers and lush foliage. Exquisite details and amazing amenities at the Hall and Gardens will add a special touch for any event. capacity 300 | price $$$

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highgrove estate

1613 S. Main Street, Fuquay Varina, NC (919) 552-6154 | info@highgrove-nc.com Highgrove-NC.com Whether your dream is an elegant garden wedding or an evening soiree, Highgrove Estate is the ideal setting for your special day. Exchange your vows overlooking Lake Laurel, celebrate the pleasure of fine food and dance the night away in our fabric-draped Garden Ballroom. capacity 200 | price $$

historic rice mill and good food catering

17 Lockwood Drive, Charleston, SC (843) 723-7952 GoodFoodCatering.net | HistoricRiceMill.net Congratulations on your engagement! We are Charleston’s most spectacular waterfront wedding location, featuring versatile indoor and outdoor space and unparalleled sunset views over the Ashley River— everything you can imagine for your fairy-tale wedding. Call today to schedule a complimentary tour!

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linbrook heritage estate

5507 Snyder Country Road, Trinity, NC (336) 861-6959 | LinbrookHeritageEstate.com The estate’s outdoor grounds can serve as the perfect backdrop for any wedding ceremony. Elegant mahogany-carved rooms lead out onto spacious terraces, creating a memorable backdrop. Wisteria-clad walkways, blooming gardens and a lake all contribute to an experience you’ll treasure for a lifetime. capacity 400+ | price $$$$

majors estate

(828) 476-7763 | MajorsEstate.com Host your unforgettable wedding weekend at our unique 200-plus-acre Smoky Mountain ranch that sits among the most breathtaking scenery in the Carolinas. Call us today to schedule a free tour and wine tasting. capacity 100 | price $$$

middleton place

Charleston, SC (843) 556-6020 | MiddletonPlace.org/weddings Middleton Place offers an unparalleled wedding experience in the Lowcountry of South Carolina. In one place, extraordinary natural beauty, cultivated landscaped gardens and early American history converge to give your wedding a picture-perfect backdrop—an enchanting day filled with beautiful memories. capacity 250 | price $$$$

the millennium center

101 West Fifth Street, Winson-Salem, NC (336) 723-3700 MillenniumEvents.ws Our full service, five-star venue with three levels can host any event size. We have hosted over 1,000 wedding celebrations including rehearsal dinners, ceremonies, receptions and going away parties. Enjoy in-house catering, full bar service, A/V, décor, design and planning.

130 Oldfield Way, Okatie, SC (843) 645-4600 | Oldfield1732.com Historic River Club, River Front Outfitters Center and Magnolia Grill Clubhouse are truly unique venues that offer you historic elegance and authentic Low Country for cocktail receptions, rehearsal dinners, bridal luncheons, cottages, golf outings, private fishing charters and riverfront cruises. capacity 350 | price $$$

one eleven place

(919) 654-5413 111Place.com The place to be for all of your wedding events! One Eleven Place offers you privacy, elegance, uniqueness, great staff, and ­creative catering. The grand ballroom and garden patio are perfect for a rehearsal ­dinner, ceremony, and reception. Enjoy the day you have been waiting for at One Eleven Place. capacity 250 | price $$

proximity hotel

704 Green Valley Road, Greensboro, NC (336) 379-8200 ProximityHotel.com Whether celebrating a wedding or any special milestone, you can be guaranteed that our attentive staff will do everything possible to create a bespoke event in our modern spaces. We’re a AAA Four Diamond hotel. capacity 200 | price $$$

riverbanks zoo & garden

(803) 602-0900 planyourevent@riverbanks.org Riverbanks.org/planyourevent Riverbanks Zoo & Garden in Columbia, SC, is home to more than 2,000 magnificent animals. Receptions take place in elegant suites with patios, and ceremonies look out over fountains and a beautiful botanical garden. Events and catering can be booked through one dedicated zoo representative! capacity 350 | price $$

sanderling resort

1461 Duck Rd., Duck, NC (877) 574-8219 Sanderling-Resort.com Sanderling boasts unique event spaces on the beaches of the Atlantic Ocean, plus beautiful Currituck Sound sunsets. capacity 200 | price $$$

the oaks wedding and event venue

325 Huitt Road, Anderson, SC (864) 293-3606 TheOaksWeddingVenue.com Happily ever after starts here! Enter the building through 10-foot French oak double doors from the 1800s French Carriage House to a 5,000-square-foot venue facing a 30-foot wall of glass on a 180-acre gated estate along a serene 20-acre lake. capacity 375 | price $$$

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Waynesville, NC (828) 564-1105 | InnatTranquilityFarm.com The Inn at Tranquility Farm is a distinctive and unique event venue and lodging destination situated in the peaceful mountains of western North Carolina. Tranquility Farm offers you an exclusive, elegant and exceptional backdrop for your special event or wedding day.

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(828) 333-3401 | hiddenriverevents@gmail.com HiddenRiverEvents.com An elegantly simple events center nestled along the Swannanoa River, just five minutes from Asheville, North Carolina. Reserve our 17+ acre farm for weddings, reunions and other celebrations. Specializing in allinclusive and destination weddings. We craft eve nts with your love and comfort in mind. Be a guest at your own wedding.

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the sea pines resort

32 Greenwood Drive, Hilton Head Island, SC (843) 842-1495 | agoodman@seapines.com SeaPines.com A world-renowned destination, The Sea Pines Resort offers an unparalleled setting for your unique and special occasion. With several new venues offering spectacular views and beautifully appointed event space, The Sea Pines Resort is sure to exceed expectations and ensure the wedding of your dreams. capacity 250 | price $$$

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sea trail resort

SeaTrailWeddings.com Sea Trail Resort is the premier wedding destination on the North Carolina coast. We offer both beach and garden weddings and beautiful golf course views. Whether you are looking for a casual or elegant setting, let our professional staff handle all the details to make your day memorable. capacity 300+ | price $$

shiki catering & events

Durham, NC (919) 973-2727 | ShikiTasu.com As the perfect place for weddings, receptions, corporate and private events, our banquet hall seats up to 180 guests with an expansive dance floor, state-of-theart A/V systems and available bridal room. We offer international menu selections, each customized specifically to meet your individual needs. capacity 180 | price $$

spirit communications park

1640 Freed Street, Columbia, SC (803) 888-3023 Spirit Communications Park is a multi-purpose facility that can accommodate a wedding ceremony, reception, rehearsal dinner or bridal lunch! Our dedicated catering team will create custom menus for you and your guests, while the special event team ensures all you have to do is say “I do!”

Imagine walking down the aisle amidst the grandeur of our historic mansion, surrounded by the stunning beauty of the Blue Ridge Mountains. Each wedding is exclusively assured the personalized attention of our entire staff to help you create the day of your dreams. capacity 150 | price $$$

winmock at kinderton

168 East Kinderton Way, Bermuda Run, NC (336) 397-2010 | rebecca@winmock.com WinMock.com A visual gala of breathtaking architecture and lush greenery, WinMock at Kinderton combines historic charm with a relaxed atmosphere. Grassy knolls lead the way to the romantic West Terrace, while the soaring Loft provides an unforgettable backdrop to your special day. capacity 300 | price $$

bridal fashion & beauty

Perry’s Emporium carries some of the most exclusive bridal collections and fashion-forward jewelry lines on the North Carolina coast. Family owned and operated, Perry’s Emporium prides itself on having the largest selection of quality products, the best prices and exceptional customer service.

pixton bridal

9307 Monroe Road, Suite F, Charlotte, NC (704) 890-7533 | PixtonDesignGroup.com Located on the edge of Cotswold, Pixton Bridal offers brides the ultimate intimate bridal experience. Working one-on-one with designer Kimberly Pixton Millar, brides can select gowns from the current collection, modify existing styles or design the gown of their dreams by appointment.

winnie couture flagship bridal salon Charlotte, NC (704) 496-9603 | cbrides@winniecouture.com WinnieCouture.com Sought-after designer Winnie Chlomin brings a one-ofa-kind experience to brides. Her impeccably crafted, feminine gowns have become celebrity favorites for red carpet events and weddings. Offering both the Diamond and Blush Collection, Winnie can capture any bride, from glamorous to fashion-forward.

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springdale house & gardens

3150 Platt Springs Road, Springdale, SC (803) 794-5557 | SpringdaleHouse.net Discover Columbia’s hidden jewel. Host your celebration in the Mansion, in the beautiful Pavilion ballroom or in the Charleston-style gardens. Treat your guests to our signature cuisine, created with your taste and budget in mind. Let’s begin planning your memorable event. capacity 350+ | price $$

the sutherland

Wake Forest, NC | TheSutherland.com The Sutherland, a spectacular location for your wedding and reception, offers on-site planning and coordination, along with beautiful gardens, suites for both bridal and groom parties, as well as numerous romantic venues to choose from for your wedding or special event. capacity 300 | price $$$

tides folly beach

1 Center Street, Folly Beach, SC (843) 588-6464 | TidesFollyBeach.com Tides offers the perfect oceanfront venue for ceremonies on the sand and beachside festivities. With full-service catering, we are pleased to host everything from casual beachside events to formal black-tie affairs for up to 300 guests. capacity 300 | price $$$

westglow resort and spa

224 Westglow Cir., Blowing Rock, NC (800) 562-0807 | jen@westglow.com Westglow.com

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biltmore bride prom & tux

800 Fairview Rd., Asheville, NC (828) 299-7403 | BiltmoreBride.com Biltmore Bride Prom & Tux is also the home of Merle Norman of Asheville, where we have been serving our customers for over 30 years. Appointments are scheduled for each bride to make sure you receive the highest level of personalized service with a dedicated bridal consultant.

fabulous frocks

Charleston, SC | Huntersville, NC (843) 754-1855 | (704) 727-0181 FabulousFrocksBridal.com Fabulous Frocks offers designer sample gowns curated for the sophisticated, effortless bride. Shop our amazing selection of discounted, off-the-rack gowns in a relaxing atmosphere. Schedule your one-on-one appointment today with one of our fabulous stylists and create your head-to-toe look!

the lily rose bridal

19826-D North Cove Rd., Cornelius, NC (704) 895-1007 | LilyRoseBridal.com The Lily Rose Bridal is 15 minutes from uptown Charlotte. Specializing in couture fashion, The Lily Rose features designer lines for bridal, bridal party, special events and head-to-toe accessories. Enjoy attention to your personal style, designer selections and service that is a cut above the rest.

perry’s emporium

2520 Independence Blvd., Suite 100, Wilmington, NC (910) 392-6721 | info@perrysemporium.com PerrysEmporium.com

malak jewelers

8042-1000 Providence Road, Charlotte, NC (704) 341-1188 | info@malakjewelers.com MalakJewelers.com Malak Jewelers, the diamond specialists, has one of the largest selections of diamonds and fine jewelry in Charlotte. They carry everything bridal, including designer engagement rings, diamond wedding bands, men’s wedding bands, bridal party gifts and more. They also carry vintage estate jewelry.

perry’s at southpark

6525 Morrison Blvd., Charlotte, NC (704) 364-1391 | PerrysJewelry.com Perry’s at SouthPark’s one-of-a-kind antique and estate pieces provide a classic touch—everything from engagement and wedding rings to the perfect earrings or pendant. Or, if you prefer, our custom jeweler can design a beautiful engagement ring or wedding band for a truly unique piece.

rhudy’s jewelry showroom

2410 Murchison Road, Fayetteville, NC (910) 488-7571 EXT. 2 rhudysinfo@rhudysjewelry.net RhudysJewelry.com With over 100 years of combined experience, our staff has knowledge as vast as our inventory. We give you better pricing on a much larger inventory, including more than 15 live bridal lines. Shop with us to see

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thurston southern catering

(843) 352-2099 | events@thurstonsouthern.com ThurstonSouthernCatering.com From a backyard wedding to an extravagant Charleston affair, our immaculate attention to detail will ensure your special event is a truly unparalleled experience.

photography & video

(919) 772-2366 | david@theozagency.com TheOzAgency.com The Oz Agency has over 40 years of experience in the music industry. Our ultimate goal is to make your event easy and enjoyable. We offer several choices for your entertainment, whether a band or a DJ. The Oz Agency provides lights, staging and tents. It is your day and we want to make it special!

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mary bell events

(828) 450-2209 | mary@marybellevents.com MaryBellEvents.com Mary Bell Events is a full-service wedding and event planning company, offering affordable packages designed to bring your vision to life and to perfection.

invitations & details

faith harris photography

(843) 291-8955 faith@faithharrisphotography.com FaithHarrisPhotography.com I take pride in getting to know my clients on a personal level to create truly authentic images. My number one goal is for you to look back at your photos and absolutely love what you see—pictures that make you smile, laugh, cry and be in awe of how amazing you look. Those are the images you can expect.

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gigi’s cupcakes of charlotte

4732 Sharon Road, Suite M, Charlotte, NC (704) 643-7117 | gigischarlotte@gmail.com GigisCupcakesUSA.com A gourmet cake piled high with delicious frosting and exquisitely decorated—that’s a Gigi’s Cupcake. We offer more than 100 flavor varieties, all baked with the finest ingredients. Our signature swirl is a uniquely delicious way to make your special day a hit!

paolo’s gelato catering

info@paolosgelatocatering.com PaolosGelato.com | PaolosGelatoCatering.com Paolo’s Gelato offers the first-ever mobile gelateria. Now you can have authentic Italian gelato anywhere— perfect for a plantation wedding. We have a variety of carts and catering ideas as well as custom flavors of gelato—even fresh flower flavors!

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event haus

2220 Old School Drive, Charleston, SC (843) 407-0473 | info@eventhausrentals.com EventHausRentals.com Event Haus is a complete event rental resource for your wedding or social function. We offer the widest range of products in the region—from sailcloth tents to salad forks, our top quality defines us. Experience service, selection and style served up with a dose of Southern hospitality.

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entertainment

charleston virtuosi

(843) 270-7158 | CharlestonVirtuosi.com The Charleston Virtuosi is an ensemble of the finest local musicians offering a broad variety of musical styles. Our ensemble is comprised of a solo electric violinist, guitarist, string quartet, orchestra, jazz, bluegrass and cover band as well as a DJ providing exceptional and intimate performances.

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(855) 874-2394 Blanc de Bleu is the world’s first blue sparkling wine—a dry, crisp, sparkling grape wine made with organic blueberry juice concentrate and certified color. It’s perfect for wedding receptions. Visit Facebook.com/blancdebleu for your nearest retailer. Drink responsibly.

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(336) 525-1206 | hello@oldnorthstatepress.com OldNorthStatePress.com At Old North State Press, we are dedicated to preserving the tradition and craft of fine letterpress printing.

(704) 320-3089 | hello@robpluskristen.com RobPlusKristen.com Weddings produce some of life’s most intensely emotional moments—the culmination of months and years of a relationship. We are invited into these moments as honored historians to make art inspired by what unfolds before us. Beautiful wedding photos start with the most beautiful thing we can possess: love.

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belk

Serving nationwide | Belk.com Belk’s professionally-trained bridal consultants make planning your wedding gift registry enjoyable and convenient. You’ll find quality brand names and styles in china, crystal, flatware, kitchen electrics, bedding and bath essentials and more. Your guests are a click away from making your house a home. Just visit our website.

irresistible groove

(919) 721-8242 | IrresistibleGroove.com Irresistible Groove offers custom-tailored performances for your event. Our song list is larger and more diverse then any other band in the country—every single show is tailored to the exact event.

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Majors Estate

13

The Barn & The Stables at Forevermore Farm

130

Middleton Place

209

Belfair

49

The Millenium Center

33

Bellamy Mansion Museum

217

The Oaks Wedding & Event Venue

181

Burke Manor Inn & Pavilion

139

Oceanfront Weddings of N.C.

217

Callawassie Island

171

O.Henry Hotel

39

The Cedar Room

207

Oldfield Club

19

Charleston Harbor Resort & Marina

172

One Eleven Place

112

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Proximity Hotel

39

Chestnut Ridge

117, 217

Riverbanks Zoo & Garden

203

Cobblestone Park Golf Club

199

Sanderling Resort

119

Cottage on the Creek

9

The Sea Pines Resort

142

The Cottages on Charleston Harbor

199

Sea Trail

161

Creek Club at I’ON

9

Shiki Catering & Events

133

Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden

119

Spirit Communications Park

201

DoubleTree Suites by Hilton Charlotte - Southpark

130

Springdale House & Gardens

23

The Sutherland

7

The Farm

139 Tides Folly Beach

213

Fontana Village Resort

43 Twickenham House & Hall

217

Fripp Island Golf & Beach Resort

203 Westglow Resort & Spa

27

The Winds Resort Beach Club

217

WinMock at Kinderton

35

Gadsden House

183

Gambill Estate

133

Good Food Catering

179

Grande Dunes

5

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The Hall & Gardens at Landmark

21

Biltmore Bride Prom & Tux

57

Hidden River Events

113

Cali Stott Hair & Makeup Artistry

117

Highgrove Estate

135

Fabulous Frocks Bridal

153

The Inn at Tranquility Farm

65

Ladies of Lineage Bridal Boutique

75

Linbrook Heritage Estate

109

The Lily Rose

41

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ENTERTAINMENT

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Pixton

55

Bunn DJ Company

121

Winnie Couture

25

Charleston Virtuosi

51

Irresistible Groove

140

The Oz Agency

141

JEWELRY

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CMI Jewelry Showroom

87

Diamonds Direct

Cover

Malak Jewelers

59

Melissa Tyson Designs

217

Perry’s Jewelry

1

Rhudy’s Jewelry Showroom

63

Wades Jewelers

31

INVITATIONS & DETAILS

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Old North State Press

141

SPECIALTY SERVICES

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Blanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux

Cover, 53

Carolina Bridal Fair

102

Event Haus

195

CAKES & CATERERS

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B. Gourmet Catering

2

Best Impressions Caterers

60

Flipside Catering

28

Gigi’s Cupcakes

121

Paolo’s Gelato Catering

209

Thurston Southern

37

FLOWERS & DÉCOR

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Branch Design Studio

201

Lily Greenthumbs

14

Ooh! Events

10

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HoneyBee’s Events LLC

217

Mac & B. Events

157

Mary Bell Events

91

We Tie the Knots

83

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PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO

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Party Reflections

135

Eivan’s Nationwide Photo & Video, Inc.

217

Rock My Wedding

187

Epic Charleston

196

The Surface Collection by Snyder

207

Faith Harris Photography

66

Paul Seiler Photography

217

BRIDAL REGISTRIES

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Rob + Kristen Photography

138

Belk

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lyashia & maurice GARNER, NC “Our daughters, Trinity and Serenity, mean the world to us,” Lyashia says. “Since the day I became a mom, I knew I wanted to share this moment with my girls. I wanted them to see what love, perseverance and commitment look like. Hearing and seeing how they excited they were every step of the way made it so much more meaningful.”

Get inspired by more real weddings in your area at TheKnot.com/carolinas

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