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Mitzvah Day 2019: Community connection can make a difference MITZVAH DAY JOANNE N. LOEWY IRONS All you need is a champion to inspire, community to connect and together we can make a difference. Why not be that champion?

On the third Sunday in November, Jews globally participate in a range of hands on projects supporting existing charities and local initiatives to build stronger communities. Mitzvah Day is a grass roots international Jewish led day of good deeds.

In 2018, 40,000 people from diverse groups, across 30 countries participated. There were in excess of 70 projects Australia wide.

Mitzvah Day is a day when people come together as a community to bring a little joy, reduce hardship and help the environment.

This is a day to give of one’s time, rather than money.

Mitzvah Day was born from a belief that we can all make a positive difference to our world by acting together. Mitzvah Day was introduced to Australia in 2011 by our Founder Judy Feiglin. This is our ninth year.

To our wonderful partners and participants, thank you for contributing your time and energy so generously in previous Mitzvah Days. We need each and every one of you to help make Sunday 17 November 2019 another success in giving back to community. Together we can achieve great things and make a difference.

The diversity of project offerings is always impressive, and we are amazed with your creative ideas even including pets visiting nursing homes for good cheer and a Bark Mitzvah to honour our animal companions.

Your inclusive inter-generational activities

and multi-cultural events truly connect community. The support given to a vast array of charities is heart-warming. We are sure our ninth year will be no exception.

Mitzvah Day serves as a platform for creating local relationships with individuals connecting and communities working together for the common good. Mitzvah Day provides a taste of volunteering and many participants continue with giving back throughout the year.

Mitzvah Day is one day in the year where people can volunteer to do “good deeds” as a community. The day provides a wonderful

The MDA Blood Services Centre, the most strategically important security project in Israel today MAGEN DAVID ADOM Magen David Adom supplies 97% of the blood used by Israeli hospitals and the IDF. That’s why Israel’s Home Front Command, the Defence and Security Ministries have made building a new secure blood bank and blood-services centre the highest national priority. The current blood bank processing centre is highly vulnerable to terrorist bombings, missile attack, earthquake and cyberattack. It’s critical to have a safe and secure blood supply to ensure the survival of injured civilains and IDF soldiers, medical research, treatment

and cure. In addition, Israel’s population is expected to grow to 11.8 million within 20 years. The new centre will have the capacity and capabilities to supply all of Israel’s future blood needs.

The new Centre being built by MDA, will be the world’s first underground blood bank and processing centre. Without it, Israel’s lifeblood is in jeopardy.

The security of Israel’s blood supply is in our hands. And yours.

For more information, contact the Magen David Adom office at 02 9358 2521 or www.magendavidadom.org.au

opportunity to attract new volunteers, to come together, do something positive and make a difference.

Projects have included park, beach and cemetery clean ups, collect-a-thons, cooka-thons, friendship picnics, giving blood, concerts, working bees, visiting the sick, isolated and elderly, toy and book drives and making crafts to give as gifts.

There is a project for all demographics, affiliation, ability and interest. The choice is up to the participant.

We have so many new and exciting projects on our projects page which is updated on a

regular basis - whenever you, our partners, register! In whatever you are interested, we are bound to get you excited!

Don’t create a new charity, connect with an existing one.

Many people would like to volunteer and help others but in the busyness of life are time poor. Treat yourself to the gift of Mitzvah Day and give back. You might just receive more than you give.

LET’S MAKE A DIFFERENCE TOGETHER SUNDAY 17 NOVEMBER 2019 www.mitzvahday.org.au for project ideas and to register your project.

Join us at UIA’s 2020 Campaign Launch UIA

United Israel Appeal Victoria is excited to launch its 2020 Campaign at the organisation’s AGM on Wednesday 20 November with guest speakers Sam Grundwerg - World Chairman Keren Hayesod-UIA, Steven Lowy AM – Chairman of Keren Hayesod-UIA’s World Board of Trustees and Amira Ahronoviz - CEO & Director General of the Jewish Agency.

The AGM will also launch the extraspecial Campaign for UIA, as 2020 marks 100 years of the organisation’s support for the People of Israel. The centennial will be celebrated throughout the year; from the main Campaign events to many more exciting gatherings and initiatives planned for all ages.

From 2016 to 2018, Grundwerg served as Consul General of Israel in Los Angeles.

Prior to this, he was Director General in Israel for the World Jewish Congress, an international organisation representing Jewish communities in over 100 countries.

At the WJC Grundwerg advanced the overall mission to strengthen and support Jewish communities around the world, as well as the State of Israel and the Jewish People.

Steven Lowy is a Principal of LFG, the private investment business and family office of the Lowy Family Group. For over 30 years he was an executive director of the global shopping centre company Westfield Corporation serving as Co-chief Executive Officer for many years prior to its sale in June 2018. He is the Chairman of OneMarket Limited, director of the Lowy Institute, a director of the Lowy Medical Research Institute, President of Hakoah Club and Chairman, World Board of Trustees Keren Hayesod-UIA.

Ahronoviz has been working at The Jewish Agency for over 22 years in various roles. This year, she was appointed the first ever female CEO and Director General. As an outcome of her vast research, Ahronoviz and The Jewish Agency team are currently developing Crowd.IL, a digital platform that would both address economic gaps in Israeli society and advance The Jewish Agency’s strategic goal of connecting world Jewry to Israel.

In addition to launching the 2020 Campaign, the 2019 Campaign results will be presented. “2019 has been another inspiring year for UIA Victoria and we will deliver those results at our forthcoming AGM. Together, we have continued to strengthen and empower the People of Israel. In 2020, we celebrate our centennial – 100 years for the People of Israel. We acknowledge the incredible momentum building as we near this full century of being partners in Israel’s growth and progress and we invite the community to attend our events, to hear from our exceptional speakers and engage with the UIA family. We look forward to showcasing our organisation and our vital work on the grand stage next year. Please stay tuned for details which will also be announced,” said UIA Victoria President Hayley Southwick.

AGM AND CAMPAIGN LAUNCH Wednesday 20 November 2019, 6.45pm for 7.00pm No charge, no appeal.

RSVP essential by 7 November To RSVP and for venue information, contact UIA Victoria on 1300 ISRAEL (1300 477 235), events@uiavic.org or visit uiaaustralia.org.au/our-events/vic

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UJEB’s Response To Antisemitic Bullying Incidents In Government Schools

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The recent anti-Semitic bullying incidents at two Melbourne government schools, reported in the media last month, were an unfortunate reminder that there continues to be vilification of our community. The incidents were all the more shocking because children were involved. We need to speak out strongly against these occurrences, to ensure a swift and determined response by both schools and government, and to prevent similar events occurring in the future. Anti-Semitic incidents such as these have no part in Australia’s tolerant and multicultural society.

UJEB is here to offer any support that the families involved in these incidents, or others with similar experiences, may need.

We also fully stand behind the responses of other Jewish community organisations to these incidents.

UJEB represents the Jewish community in Victorian government schools. Although we do not currently run programs in either of the schools involved in these incidents, we are now working in 26 Melbourne government schools. As such, we have strong relationships with both the Victorian Department of Education and Training (DET), and school principals. Parents can always call on UJEB for support should incidents like these occur in the future.

UJEB’s mission is to build a strong and meaningful Jewish future, by providing quality Jewish educational experiences to students in non-Jewish schools. Although it

is not a guarantee against bullying, schools that include UJEB usually celebrate cultural diversity. UJEB’s programs are always supported by the school administration and parent-led school councils, which promotes tolerance and inclusion within school communities.

Our programs encourage Jewish students to feel proud of their heritage, and help them to feel a sense of acceptance and belonging in their schools.

Over the last two weeks, UJEB has met with the Victorian Education Minister and key executive staff at DET. The Minister and DET have offered UJEB their full support, in recognition of the important role that UJEB plays in strengthening the identity of Jewish students in government schools, and in fostering an understanding and acceptance of Judaism in the wider school communities. UJEB is currently working with DET to actualise

this support, including expanding UJEB programs into more government schools.

UJEB fully supports the Minister’s statement made last month, that antiSemitism is not to be tolerated in our schools.

“Every child should feel safe and happy when they are at school,” he said. This echoes UJEB’s highest priority, and we will do all that we can to ensure that this is the case.

Shalom Gamarada taps the philanthropic trend of Giving Circles SHALOM GAMARADA Shalom Gamarada is an Indigenous Residential Scholarship Program based at Shalom College that is now in its 15th year.

50 students have graduated through the program. This is a remarkable achievement as each of these graduates (amongst whom 24 are doctors) will make a significant impact through their professional expertise, cultural insight and role modelling. With an annual pass rate of 90% Gamarada students surpass other non-indigenous university students.

Giving an Indigenous student access to a University education is life changing for the individual and also beneficial in the creation of a more equitable society. Shalom Gamarada is so grateful to its individual donors who sustain it. But fundraising is always challenging as donors have so many pulls on their discretionary income.

Given this, there is a clear philanthropic trend that has evolved over the last decade that is making a significant difference to the fundraising strategies of many charities.

That is the emergence of Giving Circles.

This is a form of participatory philanthropy where groups of individuals donate their own money or time to a pooled fund, decide together which charity to donate these funds to and in doing so seek to increase their awareness of and engagement in the issues covered by the charity.

In 2018 , in an article in Fundraising and Philanthropy magazine it cited that “Research published in Australia in 2017 suggests that participating in collective giving has the potential to substantially grow philanthropy and build stronger communities in Australia.” This is certainly holding true for Shalom Gamarada.

Presently, there are two Giving Circles that

each sponsor a full residential scholarship.

There are also two next generation Giving Circles that have contributed to the establishment of the Shalom Gamarada Emergency Fund which will provide emergency accommodation for a student in need. The benefits of this type of philanthropy are significant – donors can maximise their impact and the organisation can nurture multiple donors at once who can become more invested in the work of the organisation over time while still making a tangible and significant contribution.

Gina Cohen, ED of Shalom Gamarada said “Many of our donors have said how inspiring it is to be part of a Giving Circle, which gives them the opportunity to give so consciously and to feel part of something so impactful”.

The students who benefit from the donations of these Giving Circles are going to make great contributions to our society.

One example is Bridget Cama, who spent 3 years at Shalom College as part of the Gamarada Program and graduated at the end of 2018 with a Bachelor of Arts/Law. She said “The Gamarada Program provided me with stability and a community in my move from Lithgow to Sydney to study law at UNSW. The scholarship was a major factor in the success of my studies. It is my goal to become a highly skilled lawyer which will allow me to give back to community in a meaningful way”.

If you are interested in joining a Giving Circle on behalf of Shalom Gamarada, please contact Gina Cohen on gina@shalomgamarada.org

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Taking the initiative: What I learnt about Jewish-Aboriginal partnerships STAND UP ALON GLICKMAN Before leaving for the Derech Eretz program (or DE for short) I quite literally had no idea what to expect. All I knew was that I’d be going to northern NSW for one week as part of a Jewish-Aboriginal partnership program, and all that I knew about where I was going was from what I had read about the communities a few weeks before I arrived.

Within the span of the week I was in rural NSW, my perspective on not only about what it means to be a Jew, but also what it means to be a Jew in Australia, enhanced dramatically. Coming from Melbourne, I find that education on Aboriginal life and culture is limited, and without the desire to learn about it yourself, you’d most likely remain fairly uneducated on Aboriginal history and current affairs. However, after I was in Boggabilla and Toomelah (the two towns where we spent most of our time), it became clear to me the importance of taking initiative and learning more about First Nations Peoples and their culture.

I was with a group of five other volunteers and two leaders, and my first impression of the communities we spent time with was their warm and welcoming nature. We were lucky enough to be in the communities during NAIDOC week, and while I’ll never forget the food or the festivities that were attached to the celebrations that we were a part of, I’ll also always remember the conscious effort

A visit from Aunty Madge - an Elder from Toomelah Zina, Yvie, Aunty Madge, Alon.

Back: Eden, Chava, Hannah, Sarah of the Gomeroi people (the traditional owners of the land we were on) to make sure we felt welcomed on their land. This encapsulates what the term ‘partnership’ means for me, as we were there primarily for the children of the community during their school holidays, yet we also received so much in return from the local people. This came in the forms of cultural enrichment, vital education on major issues facing First Nations Peoples,

and what I find most important, a mutual relationship continuing to be built between the Jewish community and the Gomeroi people.

From visiting the Myall Creek memorial site during our drive to Boggabilla, to learning about the dark mission days of Toomelah, the DE program served as a reminder of the gloomier similarities of Jewish and Aboriginal histories. However, our week in

AI Innovation at Shaare Zedek

AUSTRALIAN FRIENDS OF SHAARE ZEDEK INC MIRIAM PACANOWSKI

What happens when Artificial Intelligence is used in medical applications?

What benefits can be achieved by analysing the massive amount of data collected by hospitals?

Can we use Artificial Intelligence to find a cure for cancer?

How can the questions that you ask Dr Google help improve our society’s health?

While the Australian Friends of Shaare Zedek Inc. were busy raising funds in support of the hospital throughout their Annual Giving Day on 15th September, Shaare Zedek Medical Centre Jerusalem was hosting an innovative meetup in collaboration with JerusaML, an organisation which brings together experts from both industry and academy in the fields of Data Science, Machine Learning and Deep Learning.

The meetup, hosted by Shaare Zedek, featured talks by two of the leading researchers in the field, Dr. Elad Yom-Tov, a Senior Principal Researcher at Microsoft Research and a visiting Assistant Professor at the Faculty of Industrial Engineering and Management at the Technion, and Mr. Yuval Globerson, Director of Research and Development at BrainQ. Dr Elad Yom-Tov’s lecture was entitled “How can Internet data inform and improve medicine?”

He focused on the fact that many people

the communities reinforced that the positive partnership we have with the Gomeroi people holds us all in good stead, and the reciprocal bond we share has not only vastly benefitted young Jewish adults, but also the community members in Boggabilla and Toomelah. Even from brief conversations with Elders, the sense of resilience and family that the Gomeroi people hold speaks volumes of the strength of the communities.

It’s difficult to briefly and concisely summarise why I’d recommend this program to a prospective volunteer. Perhaps what I enjoyed the most about Derech Eretz was the versatility of the activities and experiences that come with it.

From the fun, easy going activities at NAIDOC week and spending time with the kids on a daily basis, there was also plenty of time to indulge in the much more intellectual and cultural component that Derech Eretz has to offer.

The program was balanced in such a way that you felt that you had done so much learning and experienced so many new things, whilst also building so many relationships with people from the communities.

It has left me with a want to not only remain culturally informed, but also stay active in celebrating the wonderful culture First Nations Peoples wish to share with us, and the lessons and wisdoms that they impart on the land we are on.

users can be assessed and what this tells us about people seeking information on suicide.

Dr Yom-Tov presented his work which assessed the benefits of childhood flu vaccines, a policy which has now been adopted in Israel.

Mr Yuval Globerson then spoke about using machine learning to cure brain disorders. His company has developed a therapeutic medical device for neurological disorders like stroke, where the treatment parameters are chosen using the patient’s brainwaves and Machine Learning tools.

This innovative meetup was held in collaboration with Shaare Zedek Scientific which is responsible for research and development collaborations between Shaare Zedek and the industry, including implementing new technologies in the field of digital health and providing access to medical data through Shaare Zedek\’s Innovation Center.

Shaare Zedek Director General Prof Ofer Merin with Yossi Gottesman, of Shaare Chairman of the Australian Friends of Zedek at the JerusaML meetup which explored innovative approaches to the use of Shaare Zedek Inc, Dr Allan Garfield says, Artificial Intelligence in medicine.

“The JerusaML meetup is yet another example of the world leading approach that turn to the Internet when they have a bias, or when most activity happens online. Shaare Zedek represents. medical concern. The data people generate Dr Yom-Tov presented some of the “We are proud to support Shaare when searching for information, as well as opportunities that Internet data offer Zedek’s innovative and crucial work in the during other activities, creates new ways to medical research through three examples. centre of Jerusalem. We aim to bring the learn about and influence human health.

He showed how search engine queries best of medical discovery emerging from This is especially true when you consider can be used to screen for serious diseases Jerusalem to our local community and to that the questions you ask Dr Google are a and discussed the algorithmic challenges continue to contribute in significant ways more sensitive indicator than that attainable posed by such analysis, which is based on to the prevention and treatment of disease from traditional sources, when the required anonymized data. both in Israel and around the world.” data is prone to reporting or association He also demonstrated how the anxiety of www.shaarezedek.org.au

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MH Formal Dinner with Dr Rob Silberstein

MANDELBAUM HOUSE HALEY SOUSA MANDELBAUM HOUSE RESIDENT

On 17 October 2019 Mandelbaum House welcomed Dr. Rob Silberstein as a guest lecturer to our monthly formal dinner. Dr. Silberstein has faced many obstacles that the majority of us have not even considered when embarking on our anticipated careers.

As he shared the challenges he had faced, he told us that one of the biggest obstacles were the attitudes of those people who put limits on what they believed he was capable of achieving.

The evening began with a captivating piano performance by Daniel, a Mandelbaum resident from Mexico studying abroad in Australia. The microphone was then handed to one of the Mandelbaum residents Lily, who is from London. She introduced Dr. Silberstein and warmly welcomed him into our home.

Dr. Silberstein holds many degrees including, Bachelor of Medicine (MB, Bachelor of Surgery (BS), Bachelor of Laws (LLB Hons I), Master of Health Law (MHL), Master of Industrial Property (MIP), Graduate Diploma in Legal Practice (Grad Dip (Legal Practice). He is a Fellow of the Institute of Patent Trade Marks Attorney, a Registered Australian Patent Attorney, a Registered New Zealand Patent Attorney, a Registered Australian Trade Marks Attorney, a Registered non practising Medical Practitioner and a Registered Solicitor NSW. Undoubtedly, Dr. Silberstein is a well rounded, successful, and an inspirational

individual. But his success did not come easy.

Born with Arthrogryposis multiplex congenital (a joint and muscular) disability, Dr. Silberstein has had to overcome many obstacles that most people never had to face. Dr. Silberstein took us on his path to success by starting from the beginning. It was a time when children with disabilities were segregated from mainstream schooling. His mother, who understood that he was a gifted child, had an extremely tough time trying to find a normal school that would accept

him. He distinctly remembers countless school administrations telling his mother, in more acceptable terms ‘you are insane and should have your head examined’. Dr. Silberstein was five-years-old at the time, and in his words, “very impressionable”. He did not let these impressions dictate his life, even when he described them as trying to determine his fate.

Dr. Silberstein went on to talk about his journey in the medical field. An academic advisor at one of the universities he applied to called Dr. Silberstein to his office and

spent two hours trying to deter him away from studying medicine. Despite his academic success in medical school, the medical board did everything in their power to prohibit Dr. Silberstein from practising medicine.

While he has full sensation in his limbs, Dr. Silberstein does not have much anti-gravity movement of his hands. In Medical school, his fascilitator, a registered nurse, raised his hand to the required spot in order to make diagnoses which (for a student), were extremely good. Yet, in the final analysis, the Medical Board used his disability against him, not wanting to accept his achievement of being the very first person to complete Medicine with a disability.

After many attempts of trying to obtain permission to become an Intern in a hospital, Dr. Silberstein ultimately decided to go to law school. From there, he has successfully worked as a law practitioner and continues to defy the odds he was given. In 2014 Silberstein & Associates boutique law firm was established and for the third consecutive year is a finalist in the Boutique Firm of Year and Managing Partner of the Year categories. This year they also received a nomination for Wellness Initiative of the Year.

Dr. Silberstein closed his lecture with the line “I make my own life for myself,” and I think this is a line we can all take with us, whoever we are, wherever we go.

MANDELBAUM HOUSE is the Jewish Residential college at the University of Sydney. Applications for 2020 accommodation is now open.

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“That’s The Best Holiday I Have Ever Had!” TRUE NORTH The TRUE NORTH offers adventure-cruises all-around the magnificent Australian coastline and, in the stunning waters of Indonesia and Papua New Guinea.

An adventure on the TRUE NORTH is one of Australia’s most desired holidays.

Your taste for adventure and our carefully crafted sailing schedule will ensure every destination is at its stunning best! Regardless of whether you are witnessing breathtaking majesty in the Kimberley, being humbled by the overwhelming hospitality of the South Pacific or, kicking up your heels in one of the most beautiful cities in the world, you will be in the right place at the right time and, you will quickly discover why our guests consistently remark “that’s the best holiday I have ever had”.

Extended periods at sea are specifically excluded and activity-based itineraries provide ultimate opportunity for guests to experience the destination. Daily activities can include walks, fishing, snorkelling, diving, picnics, natural history and cultural events.

The TRUE NORTH is purpose built to access wilderness areas - bigger ships cannot go where we go! Multiple adventure boats take guests away in small groups to experience wilderness up-close and the luxury of numerous tenders also means that guests have greater opportunity to do "what they want, when they want"! And, to add another dimension to adventure, most cruise options feature an onboard helicopter.

The TRUE NORTH is an Australian registered ship and is not required to exit territorial waters during Australian voyages – every day onboard the TRUE NORTH is an activity day!

The TRUE NORTH also features the

ultimate in comfort and style. Spacious cabins offer modern decor, en-suites and satellite telephones. Guest numbers are limited to 36 and an Australian crew of 22 uniquely chaperones every experience.

The platform for dining on-board the TRUE NORTH is sustainable, organic and very modern Australian cuisine.

The ship’s menus are also destination inspired and feature the very best of locally sourced ingredients.

Signature dishes might include the revered barramundi – perhaps caught by your own hand that very day, plump black-lip oysters that you no doubt helped to prize from the rock while at the same time sipping on an essential glass of champagne, mud crabs cooked on the beach at sunset and, Spanish mackerel served as sashimi in the ship’s lounge.

Hometown highlights can include delicious mangrove jack and finger-mark bream, seasonal yellow-fin tuna and Yeeda Estate beef. The TRUE NORTH’S ‘heli-picnics’ are an unforgettable way to enjoy the quintessential Aussie barbeque featuring a wide variety of seafood cooked alongside your private waterfall in the wild. Destinations include the Kimberley – a panorama of rugged mountains, spectacular gorges and majestic waterfalls; the still-wild coast of Western Australia featuring the intriguing Abrolhos Islands, world-famous Ningaloo Reef, fishing paradise at the Montebello Islands and, the pristine Rowley Shoals; the dragons on Komodo; the breathtaking islands of the Raja Ampat; the whale sharks of Cenderawasih Bay; the mighty Sepik River and the un-spoilt islands of Papua New Guinea; mysterious Bougainville; beautiful Sydney Harbour and, a seafood safari around the delightful Eyre Peninsular!

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When a love for art is the canvas for the art of love TODAY, TOMORROW, FOREVER Ryan Abramowitz is a painter, poet and romantic at heart. He draws on all these colours of his being through the Ketubot he creates, and in his endeavour to bring meaning and magic to express love stories.

The Jewish proverb “only love gives us a taste of eternity” textures the philosophy of Ryan’s Ketubah business ‘Today Tomorrow Forever’.

Ryan strives to champion eternal love by creating artworks that are celebrated today, admired tomorrow and treasured forever.

After being asked to paint a Ketubah for a close friend back in 2015, Ryan’s own love affair for creating unique artworks for Simchas truly blossomed (like the peonies he adores to paint).

4 years and over 100 pieces later, Ryan's artworks traverse a wide range of aesthetic styles and technologies, for example embroidery on linen, gilded gold leaf and laser cutting. A variety of artistic approaches can be used to suit the composition and the

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couple for whom it is painted. Some Ketubot feature landscape imagery (think the old city of Jerusalem, Sydney Harbour or Table Mountain), and others crown floral, animal or historical motifs. While some couples prefer a more neutral and contemporary piece with abstracted undertones and textured brush strokes, others opt for symbols and colours that have visual reference to their relationship. All tastes can be catered for as Ryan is always innovating and expanding, searching for new ways to realise the dreams of his clients.

Today Tomorrow Forever offers both Predesigned and Bespoke Ketubot services.

When selecting a Predesigned piece access to a wide range of artworks is available there are currently more than 20 options to choose from. These are all customizable with the option of individualised text and hand painted initials, as well as other details for a personalized touch.

Amongst the Predesigned gallery, these designs include biblical references, botanical illustrations, Jewish festivals, as well as a

rich palette of romantic, nature and oceanic scenes. On the other hand, a bespoke Ketubah is a partnership that results in the depiction of a couple’s unique narrative.

After listening to shared memories and how the couple fell in love, Ryan helps to create a philosophical and artistic expression of their love story. As time is required to converse and create the perfect bespoke Ketubah, arrangements must be made at least four months prior to the wedding to begin this process. On the other hand, Predesigned Ketubot may be organised up to a month beforehand, and are therefore suitable for last minute orders.

The commissioned artwork can also be infused into other aspects of the wedding.

Visual elements in the Ketubah can be iterated and incorporated into the Thank You cards, invitations, Birkat HaMazon booklets or even the pouch holding the glass which is smashed under the Chuppah. One bride even printed a flower from her Ketubah on the desert cookies! Ryan has also painted many Birkat HaBayit which make for

Photo: Tristan Cardew - The Bow Pho´tograpy

perfect wedding presents, commissioned by the couple’s family and friends. In many cases, marrying couples have opted to get a Birkat HaBayit which either matches or complements their Ketubah so they can be displayed together.

As an artist and as a hopeless romantic, Ryan feels that he is charged with a great honour when given the opportunity to create a Ketubah. Today Tomorrow Forever is the ultimate marriage of his own love for visual storytelling, Jewish traditions and artistic passion. Ryan’s Ketubot have given ceremony to weddings all over the world; from the Caribbean to Cape Town, and from Byron Bay to Brooklyn. His artworks have been printed in calendars and machzorim, and grace on the walls of synagogues, as well as the homes newly wedded couples and families. Like a love that is timeless, Ryan strives to create something that is as eternal as the love it represents - Today Tomorrow Forever.

Ryan’s Ketubot can be viewed https://todaytomorrowforever.com.au/

Photo: Sterwart Leishman

Today Tomorrow Forever Ketubot Invitations Benching cards Blessings / Brachot Smash Glass Pouches Art for all Simchas

For inquiries contact Ryan

0432 343 974 www.instagram.com/ttfcreations www.todaytomorrowforever.com.au ttfcreations@gmail.com

Creating artwork celebrating weddings, simchas & momentous life occasions cherished today tomorrow & forever

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UJEB’s Engaging And Contemporary Bar And Bat Mitzvah Programs UJEB If only all learning was like this.”

(Tal Buzza, current UJEB Bar Mitzvah program participant and grade 6 student at Coatesville Primary) UJEB’s Bar and Bat Mitzvah programs are particularly tailored to students in government schools. These programs enable participants to take their place in the Jewish community, as passionate and engaged young men and women.

JOURNEY TO 13, our unique Bar Mitzvah program is a creative, contemporary and meaningful way to mark this important milestone. This six-month program focuses on four themes: community, culture, wellbeing and rites of passage.

Weekly sessions include visits from inspiring community figures and organisations. This year the boys completed a community project with the Jewish Teen Giving Initiative, hosted a speaker from Stand Up and met a Holocaust survivor, Guta Goldstein. They also did three workshops with Dylan Rubinstein, who works at The Man Cave, on healthy masculinity and respectful relationships for young men.

Other fun highlights in 2019 have included a “Krav Maga” (Israeli self-defence) session, go-karting and laser tag at Sidetracked, and celebrating Jewish food and traditions with a special Sukkot Shabbat dinner.

The program is led by experienced youth leader Sam Herz. Sam is currently leading year 7 and 8 students in the Hineni youth movement, and studying for a science degree at Monash University.

Sam completed leadership training and led school camps whilst studying at Mt Scopus

College. He did his primary schooling at a government school. Sam is a terrific leader and engages well with youth from all walks of life.

Journey to 13 runs twice per year, starting in February and July. It can either stand alone, or complement a more traditional synagogue Bar Mitzvah. The boys design their own ceremony for family and friends to complete the program.

During UJEB’s year-long BAT MITZVAH program, girls develop their own emerging identities as young Jewish women. They learn about and experience social action, Jewish history, religion, traditions and culture, as well as their connection to Israel.

Through partnerships with Kids in Philanthropy (KiP), the Jewish Museum and the National Council of Jewish Women of Australia (NCJWA), the girls explore the vibrant Jewish world through a variety of lenses. The program culminates in a beautiful ceremony with family and friends in December.

Highlights of the 2019 program have included: creating an individual ceramic Jewish artefact with Glaze It artist Sigal Levin, exploring family history through a “Roots Project”, touring the beautiful St Kilda shule, debating different ways of celebrating the Jewish festivals, and learning about the history of Jewish Australians.

The Bat Mitzvah program is led by dedicated facilitator Elke Goldberg, who has enjoyed working with UJEB’s Bat Mitzvah girls for the past 5 years. Elke is a Primary Jewish Studies Teacher at Leibler Yavneh College and a mum.

UJEB’s Kulanu Project also offers tailored Bar and Bat Mitzvah programs for students with special needs.

Enrolments are now open for our 2020 Bar and Bat Mitzvah programs. For further information or to enrol, please visit our website at www.ujeb.org.au, call 9523 6844 or email ujeb@ujeb.org.au.

What to Expect at an Upsherin NECHAMA GOLDING So, you have been invited to an upsherin (upshernish). What exactly is an upshernish, and what do you need to know to attend?

The word upshern or upshernish means “hair-cutting” in Yiddish. It is an age-old custom to allow a little boy’s hair to grow untouched until he’s three years old, and on his third Jewish birthday, to invite friends and community members to a festive haircutting ceremony. In Hebrew it’s called a chalakah.

As in one sense an upshernish is a glorified child’s birthday party, there will often be kid-friendly food and activities (such as face paint, balloons, or a craft table) as well as adult refreshments on offer. But this is a celebration for everyone to attend, with or without a little cupcake enthusiast in tow.

What is Being Celebrated, Exactly?

For the first three years of life, the child was a baby—a receiver, not yet ready to give. At the age of three, his development takes a leap. He is now ready to actively participate in the process of his education.

The world will soon begin to benefit from the mitzvot—the good deeds—he will perform.

The haircut is significant, and not just because he will look very different afterwards—whereas before he was a longhaired tot, whose hair his mother lovingly tended and who was perhaps sometimes even mistaken for a little girl, he will now be transformed a short-haired little boy. The chapter of his babyhood is closing.

But there is more to this haircut than that.

While all the rest of his hair will be cut short, the child’s peyot (biblically mandated side locks) will be left intact—this is his initiation

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into the mitzvah of peyot. From this point on, he will also be taught to wear a kippah and tzitzit (four-cornered fringed garment), and he will be increasingly expected to do other mitzvot as well.

The child is not only making a leap from baby to little boy—he is making a leap from baby to proud Jewish boy. This is a transition that is relevant to the entire community, and that becomes more meaningful with the presence of every additional guest.

What to Expect?

An upsherin is traditionally a modest

event. While it is usually held at home or in a local synagogue, there is plenty of variation (a barbecue in the park, for example). Light refreshments or hors d’oeuvres, buffet style, are the standard fare.

There will usually be lots of mingling and munching time both before and after the ceremony. The details of the hair-cutting ceremony itself are not set in stone. Unlike many Jewish events, there are no Hebrew words involved, as the upshernish is a valued tradition rather than a halachicallymandated event.

What to Wear?

Whatever you would wear to any community event will likely be right for an upshernish. Men are encouraged to wear a kippah (a baseball cap can do in a pinch) and women will probably feel most comfortable in a modest dress or modest skirt and top.

What to Bring?

A gift is appropriate. While this can be any gift appropriate for a three-year-old boy, if it has Jewish value, all the better. Examples include a Jewish puzzle, a collection of Jewish-themed stickers, or an ageappropriate Jewish book. You can also give a gift certificate to a Jewish book store. If you don’t have a Jewish store nearby, you can order just about anything online these days.

The Ceremony: At some point during the party, someone, usually a family member, will take the stage to welcome everyone to the party and speak a few words of Torah.

The lad, dressed in tzitzit and kipah, will be brought to sit in a chair that may be raised and specially decorated. The honor of cutting the first lock is often reserved for a grandfather or other special guest. All other guests are then invited to approach and cut off a snippet of the little boy’s hair.

In Chabad communities, a charity box will often be put near where the boy is sitting.

Guests are invited to give coins to the little boy to put in the box. Coins may be provided for anyone who does not happen to have small change handy. This is a way of signify that this party is about an increase in mitzvot, and is also something that may engage the newly-minted three-year-old.

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Bnei Mitzvah Action Projects STAND UP Young people have the power to create positive social change. The next Malala or Greta could be growing up in Caulfield or Bondi right now.

That’s why non-profit organisation, Stand Up, is dedicated to educating the next generation of Jewish change agents and leaders to think about social responsibility.

The Bnei Mitzvah year is a pivotal time in a young person’s life when they begin to examine the social justice aspects of Jewish life, and explore the values of Tikkun Olam (repairing the world), Tzedakah (Justice) and Chessed (kindness). They consider how they might actualise these concepts as they reach young adulthood.

Stand Up believes that young people can achieve great things. So they have designed Stand Up And Be Counted (ABC) as a fun and interactive social justice Bnei Mitzvah program, which motivates 11 – 13 year olds to take action to create a better future. Run by a team of passionate and experienced educators, the program sparks participants’ interest to explore and address contemporary social challenges, such as poverty, reconciliation, homelessness and the treatment of refugees – through a uniquely Jewish lens.

Stand Up ABC also equips participants with the skills to create and deliver their own social justice ‘Action Project’. This communityfocused experience adds a memorable and meaningful element to a child’s Bnei Mitzvah year, alongside a strong sense of personal pride and achievement. In addition, kids have the opportunity to hone their organisational leadership and public speaking skills in the process.

Here are Stand Up ABC’s tips for creating a successful Bnei Mitzvah Action Project: Tip 1: Your child should choose a social justice issue that resonates with them personally. If they select a cause close to their hearts they will be more motivated to see their project through to the end. For example, one Bar Mitzvah boy presented an oral account of his grandfather’s Holocaust survival story in front of his school class. His project encouraged greater awareness amongst non-Jewish youth about the experiences of war survivors and refugees.

Tip 2: Encourage your child to include their own interests, talents and skills as an integral part of their project. One Stand Up ABC participant hosted an art exhibition where she sold her drawings, and another completed a 4km swim-a-thon to raise donations for charity.

Tip 3: Involve your child’s family, friends, schools and broader networks so their Action Project can have maximium impact. One Bat Mitzvah girl wanted to share her love of music with kids who couldn’t afford to purchase musical instruments. She hosted a violin concert for her family, friends and classmates and also set up an online charity fundraising page for people who couldn’t attend the concert in person. Her efforts helped provide musical instruments to Sudanese families through Stand Up’s refugee

empowerment programs and as well as other charities.

Tip 4: Taking positive action doesn’t always have to involve raising donations. There are many creative ways to help others. One patient Bat Mitzvah girl grew her hair over a one-year period. When it reached the required length, she cut her long hair and donated it to a charity that supports people who have lost their hair as a result of cancer and other medical conditions.

Tip 5: Encourage your child to have fun with their action project. This will help them stay focused on the project and enjoy the whole experience. Two Stand Up ABC graduates teamed up to create a ‘Pets in the Park’ family day to raise money for an animal welfare organisation. The event they designed featured funny activities including a dog and owner look a-like competition.

Every Stand Up ABC participant who completes an Action Project is also eligible to win the Gandel Young Leader Award, an annual prize awarded to two outstanding program participants in Victoria and NSW. Jenna Rock, the 2019 NSW award winner shares her advice for kids creating their own simcha Action Project: “Choose a project that you’re passionate about.

If it’s something you care about, you’ll stick with it and do some good”.

About Stand Up: Stand Up is a Jewish non-profit dedicated to working with disadvantaged communities in Australia and inspiring the next generation of Jewish change makers and community leaders. Stand Up works to empower Sudanese refugee women and families and runs a range of leadership and development programs for Aboriginal youth. Stand Up has also built a vibrant social justice education department that runs innovative programs for the Jewish community, including the Stand Up ABC Bnei Mitzvah program in Melbourne and Sydney.

To register your child for Stand Up ABC in Melbourne and Sydney visit: Standup.org.au/abc or call (03) 9500 2206 To set up a Simcha Giving donation page visit: StandUp.org.au/donate or call (03) 9500 2206.

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Everybody Loves a Wedding

BY MINA ESTHER GORDON When two people have found each other and two halves of one soul are reunited, their family and friends want to rejoice with them, to express gratitude to G-d , to celebrate their future together with joy and hope.

But what happens when organizing that special day becomes overwhelming?

The basic costs are straining the budget, the family is under pressure, and the couple starts to associate their wedding with stress. Can there be a way to keep costs down and make the to-do list more manageable, reduce the burden before it bears down on the whole family, yet ensure the Chatan and the Kallah a truly beautiful wedding?

This is the vision which led to the creation of the Oliver/Cylich Community Simcha Gemach. The goal of the Gemach is to provide an extensive range of items required at the time of the Simcha, with the aim of relieving the financial pressure that often accompanies the planning of a wedding. The founder, Mrs. Zipporah Oliver O.A.M. describes her dream which

has thus far materialised into a onestop Simcha Gemach. There, one can find exquisite bridal gowns, headpieces, veils, petticoats, and yes, even white shoes for the bride. There are gowns for family, children and friends, outfits for Sheva Brochos, Bar-mitzvahs or other celebrations. Jewellery and hats are also available. All items are available for loan for a nominal donation. But that is not all!

The Gemach also supplies elegant centrepieces for the tables with many options for various combinations. A wide range of ‘shtick’ is available too, as are other wedding necessities, such as the Kallah chair, glass candleholders and a chuppah. For those who are making a D.I.Y. Simcha, the Oliver/Cylich Simcha Gemach offers such amenities as tables, chairs, serving dishes, vases, cake platters, cupcake stands and much more.

The Gemach had its beginnings in 1994, when Zipporah and Kasriel Oliver’s youngest son, Rafael Dovid A”H. passed away. They wanted to perpetuate his memory in a way that would bring joy and support to others. Not wasting any time, they started with a special chair for the

Kallah, props for wedding ‘shtick’ and a stock of elegant table centrepieces.

With the passing of her mother, Raizel Cylich A”H, two years later, Zipporah took on to open a gown Gemach in her merit.

As the two Gemachs grew, they merged to become one multifaceted Simcha Centre dedicated to providing practical help to one and all in a dignified manner.

It is a true Gemilas Chessed, in that it is available to all; one does not have to be financially challenged to benefit, nor does one need to belong to a particular shul or school.

The Simcha Gemach has been housed at various places over the past twenty five years of its existence. Once again the Gemach needs to soon vacate its present (temporary) location.

Without proper premises, it is impossible to provide the wonderful services that this Gemach can offer. It is vital that a space for the Oliver/Cylich Community Simcha Gemach be found. We cannot allow such a valuable asset to the community to flounder, G-d forbid. The Mitzvah of Hachnossat Kallah, assisting a bride brings reward both in this world and in the

World to Come. By assisting the Oliver/ Cylich Simcha Gemach, you can gain that merit countless times over.

At the end of your Simcha, consider donating your gowns, dresses, and table pieces to the Gemach to help support a fellow Jew in making his or her Simcha.

We hope to find a suitable premises for this worthy purpose.

It would be ideal if a permanent solution was developed; a place large enough to house and display the stock efficiently and aesthetically. If anyone can help find such a place, even temporarily, in a location that’s readily accessible to the Jewish community, or wants to be involved in some practical way please contact: Zipporah Oliver O.A.M. at O438 345 770 or email people@zoliver.com.au Mina

Esther

Gordon

grew

up

her husband and children. She has been teaching Torah classes to young adults and women for over thirty years and is a well published author.

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Ingredients for a happier marriage SOUTH CAULFIELD HEBREW CONGREGATION RABBI DANIEL RABIN “Rabbi, would you officiate at our upcoming wedding?” This is probably the most enjoyable question to be asked as a rabbi and one which provides you the honour and privilege to play a significant part in the couple’s most special day. It is a significant journey that leads to that magical moment under the Chuppah and it is tremendously rewarding getting to know the couple and watch how they navigate the stresses and joys of planning a wedding.

As part of the preparation in the lead up to the wedding day I encourage my couples to think beyond the day itself. Whilst there is much time, effort and resources spent on the wedding ceremony and the reception function (anytime you mention the word wedding, costs automatically skyrocket) it is crucial to promote and support the bride and groom in thinking about and preparing for marriage. I offer the traditional marriage preparation classes but also believe it to be highly important to ensure the couple complete a number of other preparation classes which allows them to have a look at some of the strengths and potential growth areas in their relationship. I have found these classes to be very rewarding for the couple as it provides them with the opportunity to think about the ‘day after’ amongst all the hustle and bustle of arranging a wedding.

If you do a google search on ‘marriage books’ you will be inundated by the amount of literature that has been authored on how to have a successful marriage. This is probably a close second to the amount of books written on raising children! I think the reason for the plethora of material on these two subjects is because they are both extremely challenging feats in their own right.

To significantly add to the abundant wealth of knowledge and advice already written on this subject in the allotted word count granted would be difficult. However I would like to provide a few ideas that I often share with brides and grooms on some of the key ‘ingredients’ necessary in maintaining a healthy relationship.

Interestingly the Chuppah ceremony is replete with symbolic customs, traditions and laws which reflect the energy and attitude that the couple should take with them as

they begin the rest of their lives together.

One of those customs is the breaking of the glass at the conclusion of the ceremony.

In addition to it reminding us of our yet to be rebuilt Temple in Jerusalem, I think it also send a strong message to the couple. The message being that things are not always perfect. I once read that the only ‘perfect couples’ are the ones you don’t know well enough. It is okay for there to be challenges.

In fact it is the imperfection that leads to growth and maturity within the relationship.

It is from this platform, knowing that life often incorporates moments of a “broken glass” that the couple can embark on the beautiful exploration of life together.

The second ‘ingredient’ which can never been understated or repeated enough

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times is ‘communication’. To be able to steer through the issues and difficulties that life may throw at us, as mentioned above, the art of effective, respectful and open communication is necessary. Many couples who have had their relationship deteriorate can often trace it back to the lack of communication. As your google search will point out there are endless amounts of books that can assist in guiding and teaching about communicating successfully. There are also highly trained and competent professionals available today who can assist if you are struggling in this regard. I said it cannot be repeated enough times so I will say it again. If you don’t communicate what you are thinking or feeling your partner cannot acknowledge those feelings, respond to your

wishes or make the necessary changes that you might be seeking. Unless you happen to be married to a mind reader make sure you say it, make sure you communicate it!

The third aspect is one which requires a change or shift in ones thinking. Marriage requires a person to ask, what I call, the JFK question. “Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country.” Replace the word country with your spouse. Preserving a harmonious relationship necessitates the person to continuously ask “what can I do for my spouse?” The incredible phenomenon is that if one looks at the Hebrew word for love it is ‘ahava’. The middle letters produce the Aramaic word “huv”, which means to give. If you often find yourself asking “what can my partner do for me?” then you need to quickly shift gears to the mindset mentioned above.

Giving opens up a pathway to love and the more we focus on bettering the life of our significant other the stronger and more fulfilling will we find our relationship.

One final point, although there are many other important points that can be mentioned, is the idea of having fun. I know this sounds rather simple but it is incredible how many couples I know who have forgotten how mandatory this actually is. If marriage is seen as just another chore of life there is no wonder a relationship might become strained or unpleasant. Sure, there are many chores necessary to run a home or family but the relationship itself should be seen as something entertaining.

There are numerous strategies suggested or offered in this regard. Some propose a weekly date night out’, whilst others would say a ‘date night in’. Whatever the strategy, the important point is to ensure your way of thinking becomes one constantly looking for ways to make your relationship spontaneous, exciting, refreshing and enjoyable.

In conclusion we are taught by our sages that the unification that occurs between the bride and groom under the Chuppah is the coming together of two half souls now reuniting so-to-speak to become one.

It is this union which is most sacred and celebrated by our faith. But I believe it is up to us to awaken each day and remind ourselves that it requires our constant effort, focus and attention to ensure the two parts remain one!

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A gift may well be bribery if you’re the prime minister ALON TAL Arnon Milchan (left) and Benjamin Netanyahu at a press conference in the Knesset on March 28, 2005. (Flash90/File)

These are especially demanding days for Israel’s attorney general, Avichai Mandleblit and his legal team from the State Attorney’s office as they review the many arguments presented by the prime minister’s attorneys, and decide whether to indict Benjamin Netanyahu on three separate counts of corruption and

misuse

of

power.

Netanyahu

continues to claim that “there will be nothing because there was nothing.”

Yet, anyone who read the detailed, 45page report prepared by the attorney general prior to the hearing understands that there appears to be very much indeed – and that much of it was illegal.

How can we reconcile the disconnect between the obdurate position taken by the prime minister and the litany of to understand (and empirically show)

attributes great importance to the quality

and those which appear to them to be

One compelling explanation can be

the motives behind human behavior.

of honesty. Indeed, acting honestly,

gleaned from the research of Dan Ariely

In his best-selling book Predictably

typically leaves people with a positive

only trivial indiscretions. This distinction

and his many publications. Professor

Irrational, Ariely dedicates an entire

feeling.

Ariely is an international expert on

chapter to reasons why so many people

Ariely’s explanation is associated

behavioral economics and in general

engage in dishonest behavior, when,

with the distinction that people make

an academic with an uncanny ability

in innumerable surveys, the public

between meaningful, major offences

details which have come to light?

is apparently germane in understanding the

dissonance

behind

the

prime

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Angela Merkel deserved the WJC Award And here’s why RONALD S. LAUDER On October 24, I was strongly criticized for the fact that the World Jewish Congress gave its highest honor, the Theodor

Herzl

award,

to

German

Chancellor Angela Merkel.

Although Mrs. Merkel has been strong in her defense of the Jewish people, some have suggested she wasn’t worthy of the award because, among other reasons, antisemitism is on the rise in Germany and throughout Europe, and her measures have not been strong enough to stop it.

Mrs. Merkel has, indeed, been strong in our defense. She has been, at times, a lone voice among European leaders defending Israel. She has followed in the traditions of previous chancellors, starting with Konrad Adenauer, to defend the Jewish people – and she has been one of the strongest voices against antisemitism.

Granted, she has not been perfect, although I don’t know any leaders that

German Chancellor Angela Merkel holds a joint news conference with Dutch Prime Minister Mark Rutte (not pictured) at the Chancellery in Berlin, Germany, October 2, 2019. (photo credit: MICHELE TANTUSSI/REUTERS)

I just wish those critical of me would

Congress, which showed that:

more loyal to Israel than to Germany.

have listened to what I said to Chancellor

• More than a quarter of all Germans

• And, in the country that is historically

I believe it was necessary and right to

Merkel in Munich on October 28. If they

– 27% – hold strong, negative views of

responsible for the Holocaust, 41% of

encourage her, along with other German

had, they would have heard me tell the

Jewish people.

all Germans believe Jews talk too much

politicians, to take stronger steps in this

chancellor the results of a new poll,

• Almost half – 48% – believe the old

regard.

commissioned by the World Jewish

canard of dual loyalty, saying Jews are

would fall into that category. That is why

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Angela Merkel deserved the WJC Award And here’s why FROM PAGE 12

about what is, perhaps, the greatest crime in history.

Why was it important to hear?

Because in the audience, some of the most influential Germans in the country heard me say: “This is not a survey from 1929 or 1939. It is a survey conducted here, in Germany, weeks ago in 2019.”

I told them that “this is not a Jewish problem, it’s a German problem.”

I then repeated the points of an oped that I published in one of the leading German newspapers two days earlier, which stated that: 1. There must now be police protection for all synagogues and Jewish schools in Germany.

2. There must also be Increased and

gate and I spoke with Mr. Remis. What

the facts. And, sadly, it is too prevalent

substantial penalties for anyone who

I reminded Chancellor Merkel and the

within our people and throughout our

commits an antisemitic attack.

entire audience was that it is completely

history to fight amongst each ourselves.

3. Hate speech of any kind must be forbidden.

policeman standing guard in front of that

4. All German political parties must expel any members that engage in antisemitism. neo-Nazi ideology must be outlawed.

Did this have an impact? Two days Germany

synagogue on Yom Kippur.

I think it was important for the chancellor to hear these things first

5. Any political party that espouses a

later,

unacceptable that there was not one

tightened

its

laws

against online hate speech.

other with respect.

On the recent holiday of Simhat Torah, Jews ended our reading of the scrolls

Remis was educated and trained in one

with congregations throughout the world

of the programs funded by the Ronald

standing and saying in unison: “Chazak

S. Lauder Foundation.

… Chazak … v’nitchazak.”

On Yom Kippur, a gunman tried to

criticized for the 40,000 students that

enter a synagogue in Halle, Germany,

have received a Jewish education in

but because of a locked gate and the

Lauder schools throughout Central and

bravery of one congregant – Yossel

Eastern Europe, along with the Jewish

Remis – he was unable to get in.

communities that have now taken root

Instead, he shot and killed two innocent

around those schools?

My point here is that it is much too easy

I went to Halle last week. I saw the

believe we should always treat each

hand – and, for that matter, that Yossel

I wonder – would I would be

passersby.

Disadgreements will arise, but I

to criticize anyone without waiting for all

Have strength … Have strength … and have strength in each other.”

I believe we can still find wisdom and guidance in our lives through the Torah – and we should never forget that we are stronger as one people, united and focused on the very real problems that confront us.

A gift may well be bribery if you’re the prime minister FROM PAGE 12

minister’s position. Ariely argues that only after we violate a significant, societal norm does the “superego” (that Freudian synonym for human conscience) signal us that we have done something wrong.

Ariely writes: “The problem is that our internal honesty monitor is active when we contemplate big transgressions, like grabbing an entire box of pens from the conference hall. For the little transgressions, like taking a single pen or two pens, we don’t even consider how these actions would reflect on our honesty and so our superego stays asleep.”

Ariely

conducted

a

range

of

experiments that assessed how the public classifies

honest

behavior.

In one of them, students at an MIT dorm with a public refrigerator did not hesitate to take a cans of cola that Ariely left there, even as it was clear

In other words, when behavior is

even though it would be completely

from movie producer Arnon Milchan

not considered to be an indisputable,

inappropriate to stand up at the

and

socially prohibited transgression, then

end of the meal — and exclaim that

Packer. From the couple’s subjective

the conscience ceases to drive how

you want to pay $200 for such a

perspective,

we act and equations of “cost-benefit”

sumptuous dinner. At the same time,

have been entirely social, even if the

take over. For instance, in these cases

it is perfectly acceptable to bring a gift

aggregate value of the gifts exceeded

when people believe that they will not

to the meal of equal or greater value

be caught taking something, and the

as a token of appreciation. The offer

a million shekels – unquestionably a

profits outweigh the losses — in their

of a cash payment is inappropriate

less than systematic calculations, they

in this case, because it relates to the

will go ahead and take it — even if

meal as a commercial situation when

formally it that is against the law. In the

it is generally recognized as a context

case of Prime Minister Netanyahu, this

which is social.

sort of thinking appear to have led to acts of bribery and corruption.

When the prime minister sought gifts from “friends” or elicits positive press

The definition of “bribery” under

coverage in return for assistance —

Israeli law is very broad. Section 293

he apparently sensed that he was

of Israel’s Penal Code holds that it

operating in a social/political context —

makes no difference if the bribe was

and did not understand that it actually

money or the equivalent of money —

held financial/commercial meaning.

or alternatively: a service or a benefit.

Many

other

people

living

their

Moreover, the law reads: “There is no

everyday lives in our modern society

significance if it was for actively doing

are probably inclined to agree and see

— or from ceasing to do, slowing,

nothing unfitting about manipulations

giving

to receive gifts or positive press

preferential

treatment

or

discriminating negatively.”

coverage — unless perhaps there is

Australian

billionaire,

the

James

dynamics

may

commercially relevant sum. According to the evidence which has been accrued by the Israeli police, there appears to have been reciprocation: promoting a law to grant Milchan tax exemptions as a returning Israeli citizen; asking American authorities to help him resolve a visa problem and promotion of other commercial enterprises.

It is quite possible that Netanyahu also believed that he was conducting a legitimate, friendly social exchange — when he suggested marketing assistance to a newspaper owner in return for positive coverage. The problem is that in these cases, Israeli criminal law does not differentiate between

commercial

and

social

that the cans did not belong to them.

Another insight of Ariely is particularly

money exchanged. Indeed, there are

By way of contrast, when in lieu of the

relevant. Ariely distinguishes between

probably instances where such quid-

contexts. From the law’s perspective:

sodas, Ariely left a plate with dollar

contexts which are either commercial

pro-quos are the norm in commercial

corruption

bills on it, the students’ response

or social. In his view, the distinction

interactions. But this is simply not the

unacceptable, and it is illegal.

was entirely different. It seems that

completely defines what is acceptable

case in the public sphere.

removing the cash from the refrigerator

behavior at a given time.

was

perceived

categorically

is

corruption;

it

is

In the 1000 file, for example,

Professor Alon Tal, is the chair of

Netanyahu and his wife regularly

the Tel Aviv University Department of Public Policy and a veteran

as

One example he gives in his book

stealing — and for days the bills were

involves a holiday dinner with one’s

received

left untouched.

mother-in-law. Ariely explains that

champagne, cigars and even jewelry

gifts

of

expensive

environmental activist.

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Aliyah’ seems to be the hardest word RUTHIE BLUM At its three-day board of governors meeting in Jerusalem this week, the Jewish Agency for Israel, which recently turned 90, revealed a new plan of action. Addressing the Jewish leaders who convened in the Israeli capital on Sunday, Jewish Agency chairman Isaac Herzog announced that the organization, which “founded the State of Israel and brought 3 million Jews on aliyah,” is now “refining our strategic mission for the coming decade, based on the challenges Jews are facing today.”

Herzog, who kicked off the event with a ceremony to honor and mourn the victims of last year’s attack on the Tree of Life*Or L’Simcha Synagogue in Pittsburgh that left 11 Jews dead and six others wounded— explained the mission as one aiming to “provide concrete solutions to the greatest challenges facing the Jewish people at this time: mending the rifts among our people, building a two-way bridge between Israel and world Jewry, encouraging aliyah and providing security for Jews around the world.”

The only thing really new in this mission lies in its reduced emphasis on immigration to Israel. When it was established in 1929 as the operative branch of the World Zionist Organization, the Jewish Agency’s main raison d’être was aliyah, absorption and the building of communities in the Jewish state.

This subtle yet significant gradual shift in the perception and description of the Jewish Agency’s job has coincided with the evolution of the concept of “Zionism.”

Once considered to be the ideological basis for Jews striving to live in their ancestral homeland-turned-state, it now is a general term denoting anything from a strong love or political backing for Israel to the wishywashy, often veiled anti-Israel claim that it has a “right to exist.” As long as it behaves itself, of course.

Long gone are the days when legendary Israeli Prime Minister Golda Meir was able to cause Diaspora Jews ill ease—even outright guilt—for remaining in their comfort zone abroad. Passed, too, is the time when Israelis were viewed as traitors for moving to greener pastures in America and Europe, and referred to as such by the likes of late Israeli Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin.

Ironically, this move away from shaming Jews for not settling or staying in Israel to embracing and strengthening Jewish life in the Diaspora began to take place alongside the re-emergence of anti-Semitism worldwide. Yes, as radical Islamism started to spread from the Middle East to the West, the classical Jew-hatred that had crawled

Some 300 new immigrants from France arrive on a special “Aliyah Flight”" organized by the Jewish Agency, at Ben-Gurion International Airport in central Israel on July 23, 2018. Photo by Miriam Alster/Flash90. under a rock of taboo in Europe after the Holocaust came out of the closet.

Both such forms of anti-Semitism seemed to skip over the United States, however. Until recently, that is, when it began to emerge in previously unheard of places, among them on college campuses and even in the halls of U.S. Congress.

Strikingly, whenever a pubic Israeli figure responds to the above by urging Jews to “come home,” or even suggesting that they might, he is chastised for it.

Take Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, for instance. In the wake of the 2015 attacks on the Hyper Casher market in Paris, which accompanied the slaughter of cartoonists at the satirical magazine, Charlie Hebdo, Netanyahu was slammed for telling French Jews that those wishing to immigrate to Israel would be “welcomed with open arms.”

Israeli President Reuven Rivlin criticized Netanyahu’s perfectly appropriate statement on the grounds that aliyah should be undertaken for Zionist reasons, not out of the fear of anti-Semitism.

Really? Wasn’t the State of Israel founded to provide refuge to Jews in their historical homeland? To serve as the venue for the “ingathering of exiles”?

Apparently not, according to European Jewish Association director Rabbi Menachem Margolin.

Incensed by Netanyahu’s statement, Margolin said that

Israel shouldn’t call on Jews to make aliyah when they are victimized by anti-Semitism, but rather must “employ very diplomatic and informational means at its disposal to strengthen the safety of Jewish life in Europe.”

Netanyahu was bashed again for appealing to European Jews to make aliyah after the shooting to death of two people in Copenhagen, including a guard at a Jewish Community Center protecting the entrance to a bat mitzvah party.

That was four years ago. Last year, following the massacre of Jewish worshippers in Pittsburgh, former Israeli Opposition leader Avi Gabbay came under similar fire for calling on American Jews to “immigrate more and more to Israel, because this is their home.”

Former Israeli Ambassador to the United States and Knesset member Michael Oren responded by tweeting that Gabbay “said things that should not be said. … Through his words, he adds insult to injury. The call to U.S. Jewry … deeply hurts their feelings and reduces their desire for aliyah. Gabbay does not understand anything about Israel’s relationship with the Diaspora.”

It is totally understandable for Jews to consider relocation to Israel a nonstarter, even those who occasionally toy with or fantasize about the prospect. Once a person has built a life somewhere, whether or not he

or she was born in that place, the prospect of picking up and starting over can be daunting to the point of virtually impossible. Strikes against embarking on such a momentous move include scant career options, a lack of language fluency, adjusting children to a new education system and the difficulty of leaving parents and circles of friends behind.

Indeed, in the absence of the level of affluence that affords flights back and forth to visit loved ones, along with other financial or emotional expenses involved in uprooting one’s entire ecosystem, aliyah can be more terrifying than keeping a low profile as a Jew elsewhere. This doesn’t make it any less ridiculous and appalling for Jews to be insulted when offered a haven in the Jewish state, however.

That the Jewish Agency is altering its course somewhat may be unavoidable, particularly in a world that deems causing “offense” to someone practically worthy of the electric chair. But if Herzog imagines that the kind of Israel-Diaspora unity he has in mind will put even the slightest dent in the deep political/ideological rifts at the heart of the divide, he has another think coming.

Ruthie Blum is an Israel-based journalist and author of “To Hell in a Handbasket: Carter, Obama, and the ‘Arab Spring.’ ”

Bernie Sanders doesn’t get it MICHAEL BOYDEN Bernie Sanders, described as a presidential hopeful, spoke at the annual J Street national conference this week and is reported as proposing that some of the military aid currently being given to Israel by the United States be rechanneled to provide humanitarian aid to Gaza.

As he put it, “My solution is, to Israel, if you want military aid, you’re going to have to fundamentally change your relationship to the people of Gaza…. I would say that some of the $3.8 billion should go right now to humanitarian aid in Gaza”. What about the people of Gaza fundamentally changing their relationship to Israel, or is that asking too much?

The unstated premise that lies behind

Sanders’ populist remarks is that Israel is responsible for the wretched plight of Gaza’s Palestinians and should, therefore, be punished by reducing military aid that is used to defend her against Iran and her proxies, such as the Hamas leadership in Gaza, who are committed to wiping the Jewish State off the map. Hamas’ Charter affirmed in 1988, that Hamas was founded to liberate Palestine, including modern-day Israel, from Israeli occupation and to establish an Islamic state in the area that is now Israel, the West Bank and the Gaza Strip.

While some claim that Hamas has abandoned its Charter, Mahmoud al-Zahar, co-founder of Hamas and a member of the Hamas leadership in the Gaza Strip, has stated categorically that “Our ultimate plan is [to have] Palestine in its entirety. I say this

loud and clear so that nobody will accuse me of employing political tactics. We will not recognize the Israeli enemy”.

Israel’s late, renowned author, Amoz Oz, who led Israel’s left-wing peace camp for decades, was quoted as saying: “I have been a man of compromise all my life … but even a man of compromise cannot approach Hamas and say: ‘Maybe we meet halfway and Israel only exists on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays'”. Hamas controls the Gaza Strip and Bernie Sanders proposes channeling American aid to Gaza!

Where does he condition support for Gaza upon Hamas’ recognizing the State of Israel, holding democratic elections, granting full and equal rights to all Palestinians and ceasing its belligerence towards Israel?

None of that is there, because the

Palestinians are in his view the innocent and wretched victims of Israeli aggression and bear no responsibility for their condition.

It is that misguided view that has enabled the Palestinians to continue to bemoan the injustice that they suffer while refusing to sit down with Israel and hammer out an agreement that could one day lead to a twostate solution.

Rabbi Boyden was educated and received his rabbinical ordination in London, England. Having served as the rabbi of Cheshire Reform Congregation for thirteen years, he made aliyah with his family in 1985. He has established Reform congregations in Ra'anana and Hod Hasharon and previously served as director of the Israel Reform Movement's Beit Din.

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One Campus, One Community, One Family at Bialik College BIALIK COLLEGE A Bialik education is different because children from three months through to eighteen years are all on one campus and benefit from the outstanding, purposebuilt facilities and family atmosphere that permeates the environment of the College.

With everyone on one campus, from Creche to VCE, respectful relationships are ingrained into the fabric of the school with mentorship programs between older and younger students.

Not only does Bialik offer a world-class education, with a Reggio Emilia inspired ELC and a Cultures of Thinking pedagogy throughout the school, developed in partnership with The Harvard Graduate School of Education, the College also presents students with the chance to be a part of an inclusive Jewish family. Bialik’s pluralistic approach means that we support all the choices our families make in the diversity of their beliefs and practices.

In the Early Learning Centre, students enjoy close relationships with older Bialik students. The Year 10s run exciting programs and lunch activities with the ELC as part of their Hadracha (Leadership) program.

The Year 11s form very tight bonds with their Kinder 4 buddies and this mentoring relationship extends all the way through Year 12 and Prep, the highlight of which is the Year 12 and Prep Pesach Seder, a warm, joyous event that is treasured by all the students involved.

The Kinder students feel very grown

At Bialik, older students regularly meet with and mentor younger children. up when they visit the Creche to share a Kabbalat Shabbat with the Bialik bubs.

In Year 10, students have the opportunity to volunteer to accompany the Primary students on camps, during which they facilitate activities and build friendships with the younger students that continue once back at school.

With shared areas for Primary and Secondary students, it is not uncommon to see a group of Seniors playing sports or chatting with the younger children, adding to

BIALIK ELC CELEBRATES SIMCHAT TORAH

the camaraderie felt throughout the student body.

Whole school events like Science Week or the week-long Bialik Arts Festival extend from the ELC, all the way through to the Senior School. This means that children as young as three years old benefit from the expertise of Bialik’s outstanding teaching staff, as well as the knowledge of visiting experts. With everyone on one campus, it is possible to provide all students with mind-expanding experiences in state-of-the-art facilities. All

students have access to the Gringlas Sports Centre, including the pool and basketball courts, as well as the magnificent grounds that surround the campus.

Children of different age groups often celebrate Shabbat together, with music, songs and a genuine family feel.

Principal Jeremy Stowe-Lindner proudly describes Bialik College as, “Big enough to offer a spectacular range of opportunities for our students, while small enough to know every child by name.”

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CHC INKR: Sushi & Sukkah CAULFIELD HEBREW CONGREGATION SAMMY BRYGEL - CAULFIELD SHULE YOUTH DIRECTOR On Thursday night Chol Hamoed Sukkot, Caulfield Shule’s millennial/young professional group – INKR – held its inaugural Sukkot event, titled, ‘Sushi & Sukkah: The African Migrant Experience’ generously hosted by the Kleid family. The two presenters, Shimon Riak and Babiker Osman are both migrants from war-torn Sudan, however, audience members soon realised that the similarities end there.

Shimon was born in a small African village in what is currently South Sudan and in 2004 migrated to Australia as a refugee on a humanitarian visa. Together with his wife Hana and three children, the Riak family are currently undergoing conversion to Orthodox Judaism, joining the Bet Menachem (Chabad Bentleigh) community.

Shimon discussed his fascinating migration story, together with his perhaps even more remarkable journey to Orthodox Judaism. The latter beginning with learning the Bible by heart during school in Kenya and ultimately pushed along by an encounter with a Chabad Rabbi in the suburbs of South Australia. Shimon also reflected proudly on the economic, social and religious opportunities life in Australia has given him and his family, despite acknowledging some moments of racism in his work life.

Babiker also originates from Sudan - in the Darfur region - migrating to Australia in 2008.

He is of Muslim faith and is a member of the Darfur Executive office in Australia, serving various roles. Stand Up Australia also assists Babiker with integrating into Australian culture and finding employment. Similarly to Shimon, Babiker also reflected on the opportunities Australia has given him, describing how he has gone from riding camels to driving a car everyday, noting to the attentive audience that we should not take everyday luxuries that we are afforded in Australia for granted.

Indigenous Leader Visits Iconic Shule ST KILDA HEBREW CONGREGATION St Kilda Shule hosts over 600 visits per year from schools, faith based communities, politicians and numerous others but the Shule was recently privileged to have hosted a unique visitor. Jason Briggs, Owner & Principal Solicitor of Jason A. Briggs Lawyers and owner of four overseas companies, is the Chairman of the Boonwurrung Land & Sea Council (BLSC) – the representative Boonwurrung People’s organisation and the political and corporate arm of the Boon Wurrung Foundation.

A direct descendant of two prominent Indigenous historical leaders, Mr Briggs has continued his ancestors’ struggle for recognition, equality and continuation of their cultural heritage. His grandmother Louisa Briggs was kidnapped by sealers to reside and work on the islands of Bass Strait. She married John Briggs – Grandson of Chief Mannalargenna – last Warrior Chief of the Tasmanian People and resistance leader in the Tasmanian Black War of 1828-30 that saw the decimation of his people and their relocation off the Tasmanian mainland to the islands in the Bass Strait.

“Jason’s story was absolutely intriguing” said the Shule’s Rabbi Yaakov Glasman, who joined the then Vice President (currently President) Harold Sternfeld and CEO Rabbi Ronnie Figdor in hosting this memorable visit. “Having said that, his history is also a very tragic one considering what his ancestors went through and the discrimination they faced – unfortunately this is something that both the Indigenous and Jewish communities have in common”, he said.

Twice winner of the National John

Guided by the discussion facilitator Jacqui Solomon, the pair also compared their differing journeys to Australia and the various challenges encountered along the way. The Arabic speaking Babiker migrated through Egypt while Shimon migrated through Kenya.

The connection of the presentation topic to the chag (festival) of Sukkot was also not missed. Caulfield Shule Senior Rabbi, Ralph Genende delivered a passionate message highlighting the

Koowarta Law Scholarship awarded for Academic Excellence from the Law Council of Australia, Jason successfully negotiated the first Indigenous Land Use Agreement (ILUA) for an urban area in Australia in 1999.

In 2001 Briggs advised on the Federal Court challenge by Victoria’s Native Title Representative Body in the Federal Court of Australia and has successfully represented the Indigenous community on numerous land title claims.

“Jason was a truly impressive person who demonstrated strong intellectual and legal prowess but is also humble, approachable and very down to earth” Rabbi Glasman said, “We decided to stay in touch and we’ve already invited him to our next major social event and are delighted he responded positively”.

INKR have recently formed a committee who will be dedicated to planning many new and exciting events for 2020.

If you would like to learn more about INKR please contact Director of Programs at Caulifeld Shule, Sammy Brygel M: 0466 873 557 E: programs@caulfieldshule.com.au

Sukkot in Melbourne CBD NORTH EASTERN JEWISH CENTRE

Rabbi Yaakov Glasman and Jason Briggs; Photo: Paul Topol

connection between Sukkot and the need for inclusivity and hospitality towards others, including migrants who come to Australia.

On Thursday, 17 October, local businessman and friends attended a Sukkot in the City luncheon, organised

by Chabad of Melbourne CBD. The luncheon was held in the large Chabad Sukkah, erected in Spring St, Melbourne, CBD. The Sukkot in the City festival runs annually and is held in partnership with the City of Melbourne. Sukkot is a Jewish holiday that is both a festival of the harvest and remembers the fragile dwellings the Israelites lived in during their 40 years of travel in the desert after being freed from slavery in Egypt. The event was also attended by member for Caulfield, Mr David Southwick MP, member for Box Hill, Mr Paul Hamer MP and QC Mr Remy Van De Weil. Rabbi Chaim Herzog of Chabad Melbourne

CBD and Rabbi Menachem Sabbach of NEJC (Doncaster).

David Southwick explained the importance of having this event in the public in light of the recent racial violence across the globe. “I am tremendously proud of the support that the Victorian Government shows towards the Jewish community and other multicultural communities, as evidenced by the beautiful Sukkah prominently here today,” he said.

Rabbi Sabbach shared a meaningful Sukkot message and how the rickety structure of a Sukkah serves as such a profound reminder that ultimately, we are all just travellers in this uncertain world.

The Sukkot festival in Melbourne’s CBD, was enjoyed by all. We are thankful for the freedoms that we enjoy in Australia and lucky to be part of a society that embraces all cultures and focuses on “Our Common Bond”.

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King David School’s Spring Concert

KING DAVID SCHOOL

Years 3 to 12 King David music students performed a dazzling variety of popular, classical, Israeli and educational repertoire at the annual Spring Concert recently. Our VCE Music students shone with their solo performances as did the younger students, many of whom were participating in their first formal concert. Every KDS ensemble was featured in this event which has become a highlight of the school calendar.

New Student Leaders at Scopus

MOUNT SCOPUS COLLEGE

As we ushered in a new year in the Jewish calendar, Mount Scopus College welcomed its new Student Leaders and Office Bearers for 5780.

Just before Rosh Hashanah, at a special induction assembly in front of the entire secondary school and proud parents and grandparents, the outgoing Year 12 Student Leaders were thanked and farewelled, as the newly appointed Student Leaders for 5780 took their place.

Mazal Tov to new School Captains, Ramona Chrapot and Raphael Lipshut and to the Portfolio Captions and office bearers, who all look forward to their new roles.

School Environment Captains: Jordan Jaffe and Gemma Smithson, School Spirit

Captains: Carly Glasser and Marty Schwarz, Social Action Captains: Holly Feldman and Aaron Weinberg, Jewish Life Captains: Joshua Golshevsky and Abigail Slonim, Israel Kesher Captains: Jack Davis and Saskia Liberman.

Performing Arts Captains: Charlie QuittnerBinstock and Jaimee White, Visual Arts Captain: Natalie Cowan, Sport Captains: Guy Faiman and Halli Klinger, House Captains: Ashkanasy - Cody Rosenzweig, Bialik - Zohar Reznik, Hillel - Ashleigh Zuchowski and David Blecher, Monash - Ashira Silverstone.

Co-curricular Office Bearers: Tzedakah Coordinator - Brayden Lustig, Radio Manager Emma Gunn, Video Crew Manager - Gabriella Platus, Opus/Scoop Editor - Ariel Nagel, Minyan Gabbai - Asher Hirschfield, Minyan Merakezet - Alyssa Felbel. www.scopus.vic.edu.au

Fee assistance for entry in 2020 and 2021 at Mount Scopus Mount Scopus is proud to assist parents to provide an immersive Jewish education to children during their formative primary years and in secondary schooling when they are consolidating their identity.

Bursaries are available on a needs basis, open to current or new students.

Grow with Scopus primary bursaries (Prep entry) Bursaries of up to $11,000 per year, open to current or new students entering Prep in 2021, these grants are awarded for Prep to Year 3 or Prep to Year 6.

Applications close Friday 15 May, 2020.

Ruben Fried Scholarship (Year 7 entry)

Back row: Aly Felbel, Carly Glasser, Asher Hirschfield, Marty Schwartz, Ashleigh Zuchowski, David Blecher, Jack Davis, Zohar Reznik, Saskia Liberman, Jordan Jaffe, Gemma Smithson, Aaron Weinberg, Holly Feldman, Brayden Lustig, Emma Gunn, Natalie Cowan, Charlie Quittner-Binstock, Jaimee White. Middle row: Mr Jared Alford (Director of Student Development), Mrs Sharon Stocker (Deputy Principal, Secondary), Ramona Chrapot, Rabbi Kennard, Raphael Lipshut, Mr Avi Cohen (Director of the Alter family School of Jewish Studies and Ivrit), Ms Dale Stocker (Head of Year 11). Front row: Ashira Silverstone, Cody Rosenzweig, Joshua Golshevsky, Abigail Slonim, Gabriella Platus, Halli Klinger, Guy Faiman, Ariel Nagel

Open to students entering from government schools for entry in Year 7 in 2020, covering tuition fees for the six years of secondary school.

Applications close 28 February, 2020.

Scopus Values Excellence in Learning

Holistic Development

Jewish Identity

Community and Service

See our website for full details on these and other bursaries or contact Enrolments on 9834 0070 for a confidential discussion.

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Inspiration at Yeshivah – Beth Rivkah Colleges YESHIVAH - BETH RIVKAH COLLEGE

Notable Personalities at Beth Rivkah

Recent months have seen students from Yeshivah and Beth Rivkah Colleges taking part in numerous activities to develop their best self and to enhance the lives of those around them – both within the school community as well as the wider community.

Year 4 Beth Rivkah students participated in the annual Beth Rivkah Primary Change Maker Evening – a night of poetry, creativity and ingenuity that was enjoyed by the audience of family and friends. After researching notable personalities from many fields - religion, the environment and the arts - the Year 4 students prepared information booth displays, multimedia presentations, vibrant costumes and speeches to showcase their change maker’s achievements. It was an inspirational evening, with students now geared up to be the change makers of the future!

Mishnayos in Memory The annual Yeshivah College Mishnayos B’al Peh program once again inspired students to learn sections of Torah by heart in their free time, in memory of Yeshivah student Nathan Dzienciol ‫הע‬, who tragically passed away in 1990 when he was in year 3. Over 470 students actively participated in the optional program this year, and incredibly in excess of 305,700 lines of Torah were memorised. A celebratory dinner was held to award prizes to students in recognition of their spectacular learning accomplishments, and the program is already promising to be even bigger and better in the coming year.

Milestones Shared Bar and Bat Mitzvah age students at Beth Rivkah and Yeshivah have participated in eye-opening and engaging classes throughout the year as part of the Bnot Chayil (Bat Mitzvah) and ‘Man Up’ (Bar Mitzvah) programs. The well-received programs incorporated a weekly in-depth learning component as well as a chessed (kindness) program that connected students to the wider community. Beth Rivkah students held cooking sessions to provide food for CCare recipients and visited residents at Sheridan Hall, Arcare and Regis in conjunction with Smile on Seniors Oz – where students and

elderly residents enjoyed chatting, playing games and creating craft activities together.

The Bat Mitzvah program culminated in a Bnot Chayil evening – rounding off the program with a celebratory evening of performances and chessed activities together with their mothers. Man Up Bar Mitzvah students at Yeshivah extended a hand to those in need with their tremendous Tzedakah efforts throughout the year for both local charities and Pantry Packers in Israel. A celebratory dinner shared with

family and punctuated by student reflections of the event closed the year of growth for the boys.

In a similar vein, the generosity of Beth Rivkah students was celebrated recently at a Yad L’Ezra ivolunteer appreciation dinner, honouring the volunteer efforts of over 130 student volunteers who participated in mentoring, fundraising, visiting the elderly and assisting families, enriching and benefitting the wider community over the past year.

Standing Against Bullying In Schools: Students From Melbourne’s Jewish & Islamic Schools Build Bridges In Museums JEWISH MUSEUM OF AUSTRALIA Students from King David School and Sirius College will participate in this year’s final Museums Together session at the Islamic Museum of Australia 11 November.

Sirius students will guide their King David counterparts through activities exploring Islamic faith, architecture, cuisine, script and social contributions as well as the Australian Muslim experience. The session will close with a ceremony detailing lessons learnt and how they might be held onto.

Reports of bullying in Victorian schools have underscored the importance of Museums Together’s mission of building bridges between communities – so future generations might accept and respect each other and stand against intolerance and racism.

‘Museums Together is a powerful vehicle for cross-cultural exchange,’ said Islamic Museum of Australia General Manager Maryum Chaudhry. ‘We are thrilled to be part of it and contribute to positive interfaith dialogue.’

Sirius College Religion & Values Educator Dr Sadik Kirazli agreed, stating ‘Museums Together represents an opportunity for students to learn about difference as well as how to live with people from diverse backgrounds, which in this country is so important.’

Funded via a three-year Sidney Myer Fund grant, the program has seen 100 Year Six students get to know each other, train as guides at their respective museums, and act as hosts when their counterparts visit. It has been tailored to integrate with the Victorian curriculum across civics and citizenship plus ethical, intercultural, and personal and social capabilities.

Jewish Museum of Australia Senior Education Coordinator Jenny Better: ‘Museums Together encourages students to meet and engage with each other in a meaningful way. This is the simplest way to break down barriers and strengthen multiculturalism. We look forward to it continuing in 2020.’

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A second taste of Yiddish KADIMAH Fancy a masterclass in pickling cucumbers conducted by renowned journalist and author Michael Gawenda, all in Yiddish?

How about a craft session with Yiddish Diva Freydi Mrocki and designer Dan Goldberg, with instructions peppered with Yiddish? Or a Yiddish singalong with music legends Adam Starr and Karen Feldman? Does cooking latkes with father-and-daughter act Joe and Rachel Tigel tickle your palate? What about that beginners’ Yiddish conversation class you’ve always thought about taking – there’s one for every level on offer with beloved Yiddish teaching twins Reyzl andDvora Zylberman and beginners’ Yiddish mentor Esther Singer.

You don’t need a single word of Yiddish, just the curiosity for a taste, to immerse yourself in the joy of Yiddish language and culture in A Taste Of Yiddish / Mit A Yiddishn Tam, a day-long program of activities and entertainment on Sunday

November 10, from 11am-3pm.

After a hugely successful debut in March, A Taste Of Yiddish returns to Selwyn St, Elsternwick, the heart of the proposed Jewish Culture & Arts Precinct, with nine fun-filled sessions celebrating the vibrancy of Yiddish language and culture.

Activities include language workshops, drama classes, games, arts and crafts, cooking, pickling, conversation sessions and of course lots of music!

Program co-ordinator Ebony Erez, who grew up speaking Yiddish at home, said the program was designed to be intergenerational, with activities to be enjoyed by people of all ages. One session, run by Dvora Zylberman, is aimed at parents whose children may be learning Yiddish as a way for them keep pace with their kids’ expanding vocabularies.

“We have especially included activities that target our younger audiences with programs that are fun and educational for children and young people, including Yiddish drama, Yiddish for parents and

kids and an activity run by our very own Yiddish youth movement SKIF,’’ Erez said.

“Learn to cook, craft, speak and laugh in the exciting day that makes Yiddish easy and accessible to all.”

Aided by a Glen Eira City Council Community Service Grant, all of the program’s activities cater for people with little or no knowledge and experience of Yiddish, across all age groups from 1 to 100.

Lunch will be provided as part of the $20 entrance fee and anyone under 18 has free access to the day’s events.

Mit a Yiddishn Tam Tzvey – A Second Taste of Yiddish Sunday November 10, 2019, 11am – 3pm At the Kadimah Jewish Cultural Centre and Sholem Aleichem College, Selwyn St Elsternwick Proudly co-presented by the Kadimah, Sholem Aleichem College, Jewish Labor Bund, SKIF, Jacob Kronhill Program in Yiddish Language and Culture at Monash University and the Penina Zylberman Foundation.

Tickets: Adults $20 Children under 18 free www.trybooking.com/BFPRW For more information visit: www.kadimah.org.au

Young adults celebrate Sukkot ARK CENTRE AND CHABAD YOUNG PROFESSIONALS

religious affiliations, and backgrounds coming together to perform the Sukkot mitzvot, like shaking the lulav and etrog,

Rabbi Pinny Super of Chabad Young Professionals teamed up with Rabbi Gabi Kaltmann of the ARK Centre to host a young adult party for Sukkot. The event was a huge success with over 100 young adults from all over Victoria attending the Sukkot festivities. With a vast array of delicious dishes beautifully set up for the guests, catered by ARK Centre chef Dan Woltema, young adults from the across the community celebrated together in a warm and entertaining environment.

This party fostered a sense of community, with many people of different

and eating in the Sukkah. Rabbi Gabi expressed his delight at the event’s success stating, “Watching everyone have such a good time and displaying such a level of Achdut (“unity”) really underpins the whole point of Sukkot, which is to celebrate with others and foster

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Chabad Young Professionals and the ARK Centre plan to coordinate many more events together in the future. Stay tuned for more.

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JCA launches a brand new report on Australia’s Jewish community JCA

Do you know how many Jewish babies are born in a year? Which suburb has the largest Jewish population? What the most common Jewish occupation is? Or, how Jewish household income compares to the rest of the population?

You’ll find the answers in a new special report just launched by JCA – The Jewish Population of Australia: Key Findings from

the 2016 Census. Authored by Dr. David Graham with Leon Narunsky, it provides rich insights into the geography, demography, economics and national origins of the Australian Jewish community. It also examines the make-up of Jewish families and households, and covers topics like intermarriage.

Commenting on the census – which was conducted by the Australian Bureau of Statistics in 2016 at a cost of $500 million

– Dr. Graham said, “I have often described the census, and the religion question in particular, as a gift to the Jewish community.

Its sheer breadth is unparalleled by any single survey or other data gathering exercise and it is simply not possible to obtain the kind of data a census delivers in any other way.”

Building on previous research undertaken

by JCA – including the landmark Gen 17 Report – the census analysis helps provide a clear picture of the community and trends

over time. “Accurate information is critical for the community,” said Alain Hasson, JCA Acting CEO. “Our local community organisations rely on this information for planning purposes and we encourage all of them – not just the 23 members of JCA – to download the report from our website.”

The Jewish Population of Australia: Key Findings from the 2016 Census can be downloaded from www.jca.org.au/ publication.

Australia’s total Jewish population was estimated to be 117,903 in 2016 and constituted 0.5% of the national population

Compared with the general Australian

The number of Jewish immigrants arriving in Australia has declined by 30% over the last 10 years

Of the 18,000 Jewish children attending primary and secondary schools in Australia, 50% attend Jewish schools

population, Jews were more likely to live in couple families, and less likely to live in single parent families

For what was probably the first time, Hebrew became the most common non - English language spoken in Jewish homes (10,707 speakers), now surpassing Russian (9,496 speakers) It is generally considered that a fertility rate of 2.1 children per woman is ‘replacement-level’.

In 2016 the Jewish fertility rate was 1.9 in 2016, i.e. below replacement level

In 2016 the Jewish median personal annual income was 43% higher than in the general population ($49,200 v $34,400);

Australia has the ninth largest Jewish population in the world Jews have an older age structure than the general population. In all age groups from age 60 and above, there were proportionately more Jews than was generally the case

Jews were more than twice as likely to live in apartments than the general population and far less likely to live in separate, ‘ standalone’ homes

Whilst historically an immigrant community, a majority (53%) of Australia’s Jewish population was native-born in 2016

Jews who rented were more than twice as likely to pay $450 per week or more in rent ($1,950 per month) than the general population (53% v 24%)

TGIM or TGIS CAULFIELD HEBREW CONGREGATION RABBI RALPH GENENDE OAM

How tired are you? Well if you look at the stats more than half of us are tired most of the time and the rest of us are just worn out, burnt out, fatigued and fed up. Not just parents with young kids and they’ve just identified a new condition called parental burn-out exhaustion.

We’re all running ragged and so many of us just can’t switch off and relax… We’re working crazy hours in a 24/7 society and even when taking time-out there’s a constant stream of emails and Netflix, text messages, that relentless ping for our attention.

There’s an epidemic of insomnia and sleep deprivation. Our own Parliament set up an enquiry a year ago into Sleep Health Awareness because billions of dollars are being lost from inadequate sleep.

Exhaustion is simply bad for us – it affects our physical health and emotional wellbeing, as well as our capacity for sound decision-making.

It’s killing us but we don’t talk about it most of the time because it seems “wussy”, a source of shame, often for fear of losing our edge or our job. It’s been called the last taboo. Dr Nick Read wrote a great book about it called ‘Sick & Tired (of being Sick & Tired’). And he puts the blame on our consumer culture and our social media age.

In N.Y, the so-called WeWork headquarters have got neon signs telling you to “Hustle harder” and the murals on the wall cry out T.G.I.M (Thank God It’s Monday). It’s all about “rise and grind” and “Don’t stop when you’re tired – stop when you’re done”. Performative workaholism is the millennial mantra. Elon Musk boasts that nobody changed the world in 40 hours a week. The correct number, he says, is about 80 sustained and peaking at about 100…

As a formally unrepentant workaholic, I’ve now got an admission to make to my family that they were right. It’s not heroic to live on 5-6 hours sleep. In this season of confession, I must say.

Chatati For the sin of not sleeping enough; for the error of courting fatigue. Tiredness not only kills us physically but is also at the heart of our spiritual malaise. How can you face a fresh new year if you’re feeling burn-out and jaded? How can you get high on the High Holidays if you’re feeling so low, so depleted? How can you take time out and celebrate on Sukkot and Simchat Torah if you’re under the pump?

And I’m confessing today, not just because all the studies and stats are telling us that the more rest you get, the more years you add to your life, but also because I now think it’s a mitzvah to have a good shloof and not only on a Shabbos afternoon.

This hasn’t come easy – after all I’m a shtikel Litvak and had it drummed into me at

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yeshiva, that to sleep is to waste time ;you should be learning Torah. And the Vilna Gaon, hero of Lithuanian Jewry got by on just 2 hours a night and a couple of power-naps. My hero, Rambam, Maimonides, tells of his punishing work schedule and how he didn’t get a chance to sleep for more than a few hours and an occasional cat -nap.

But now I know better. The Gaon was either an angel or an insomniac and probably both. The Rambam didn’t have a choice and anyway both these individuals were one of a kind, one of a generation – sui generis.

I’ve got a sound source to back me up: The very first reference in the Torah to someone being sick and tired isn’t Abraham or Moses but the cunning and devious hunter, Esau. Coming in from the chase, a hectic day in his office, he is weary to the bone.

(Esau came in from the field and he was bushed – Genesis 25:29) And he turns to his Master-Chef twin brother, Jacob, who has been cooking up a storm called ‘Lentil as Anything” and shouts out: “Give me some of that red stuff, feed me, pour it down my throat because I’m finished, depleted and exhausted”. (Ibid:30) He wanted to eat without delay so he sells his birthright, his future for a pot of soup saying – I’m literally dead tired (Ibid:32) or about to die, what do I care about a birthright?

Esau’s over-tiredness was due to his life as a hunter, but also possibly as a result of his dissolute lifestyle. He felt drained and made bad decisions because he was so focused on the now, instant gratification, immediate satisfaction.

He wanted to eat and he wanted to eat now; he didn’t care to delay his gratification for a future spiritual promise and illusory birthright. His philosophy was Epicurean and in many ways so contemporary: Death is always around the corner and especially if you live in a dangerous world, so why wait when you can indulge and enjoy right away? Hence his words: “Look I am going to die, so what use to me is a birthright” (Ibid 25:32). His behaviour is symptomatic of our fatigued and consumer-driven society: we are how we feel and what we consume. And as Freud reminded us civilisation is determined by delayed gratification ..

Jacob, by contrast, is consumed by a dream and a vision. According to the Midrash he’s also tired but he’s worn-out because he’s been overstudying, sitting in the tents late into the night to learn Torah. Jacob is also tired but from overstudy; he stays up late at night to learn Torah. He may be weary, but he is clear and focused on the future, he takes the long view. He puts principle before pleasure, mind before might ,how before now - he is representative of Judaism’s long-term gaze.

In an age of 24/7 it’s a reminder of where we place our priorities and that the tiredness, the that comes from staying up late to improve yourself, look after your baby, help another, or complete a meaningful project is ultimately a deeply satisfying weariness. As Markus Zusak puts it those are moments of “perfect tiredness”. The fatigue the ayef anochi that comes from trying to keep up with others, escape anxiety, check your

e-mails or watch another episode of Shtisel or Stranger Things, is ultimately debilitating.

Our relentless, competitive, sleepless society makes talking about tiredness difficult. After all, if everyone’s tired what make you so special? Yet we need to talk about slowing down, knowing our limits, leaving time for our closest relationships, taking control. Hudson points out modern life is exhausting because we often feel compelled to live by its standards, even though we have a choice to live otherwise. This has long been recognised and promoted by the Torah and Jewish wisdom: we have a choice – we can decide how to use our precious time. It’s encapsulated in the phrase “choose life”, it’s embodied in the observance of Shabbat, it’s energised by taking time every day to pray.

And yes, this difficult thing called Tefillah or prayer is good for your heart. It enhances and is in turn improved by meditation and yoga. Tefillah stops you in your tracks, no matter how busy you are- it makes you pause – and that’s also why we should have an embargo on mobile phones in our shules at all times (and am speaking to myself too) and not just Shabbat and Yom Tov. So our old masters, the rabbis, were onto something special and significant when they told us that the best cure for burn-out is to burn with passion, to be interested in something beyond yourself, to always have something to aspire to.

If I had to distil their antidote to wisdom in just to two words, I would say they’re limud learning and chesed kindness. Learning is internal – inner – directed. Kindness is outer-directed. Learning keeps my mind agile and nimble, creative and alive. Kindness frees me from the prison of ego and narcissism.

And you want to know what these two activities have in common: they’re both impelled and empowered by curiosity. The older I become, the more I’m convinced what keeps me fresh and hopeful, energised and engaged is a sense of curiosity. If you’re inquisitive about the world and the people around you, you will always be capable of hope, capable of renewing yourself, freeing yourself from the tyranny of routine, the debilitating grasp of depression, the servitude of selfishness. It’s the underlying principle of teshuvah itself for what is repentance if not the ability to ask how can I change my life, how can I do things differently, how can I find a new way of doing the same old thing?

So this year I’m going to sleep more, I’m going to strive for more balance, learn more, reach out more. The only things I’m going to be sick and tired of are racism and bigotry, antisemitism and climate destruction, sexism and abuse.

I’m going to sleep better, learn more, pray harder, hustle for charity, rise and grind for a better community, thank God for every day and proudly say TGIF –Thank God it’s Shabbat!

Prominent Lawyer and Activist Releases Poetry Book on Society, Politics, Religion and Life TOO SOON TO BE LATE Stewart Levitt, best known for his work as a lawyer successfully fighting public causes against banks and governments for the underdog, whether Indigenous outliers or down-at-the heel farmers, has released an anthology of poems titled ‘Too Soon to be Late’.

Drawing on his liberal values, Jewish heritage and experience as an Australian lawyer, the 184-page compilation has been written by Stewart over twenty years.

The content explores themes associated with his career, including social activism, politics and human rights, as well as his personal experiences related to his closeknit family and travels around the globe, to every continent except Antarctica.

Many of the high impact poems carry strong messages of outrage, love or disdain and often exhort readers to locate their better selves.

Geoff Todd – who was this year made a Member of the Order of Australia for his significant service as a visual artist and sculptor – and artist, Alan Duffy, both

provided the evocative imagery, adding an extra visual dimension.

The release of ‘Too Soon to be Late’ is timed to coincide with the launch of a biennial poetry prize for poems on political, social or personal themes of particular relevance to Indigenous Australians or Torres Straight Islanders.

The award will be called “Levitt Indigenous Poetry Prize” (L.I.P.P.) and will see the top three poems receive a share of $20,000.

The 100-150 best entries will be selected by a panel of expert judges from across the country, and included in a biennial anthology called the “L.I.P.P Edition”, published by Saray Publishing, with net profits to go to the Indigenous Literacy Foundation.

Contestants need not be Indigenous or Torres Strait Islanders. Stewart and his wife Odelia, hope that the Biennial Poetry Prize will help to channel emotion, eloquently and constructively and engage white and black Australians in focusing on Indigenous issues in literature.

Details for submissions will be released by the end of November, 2019.

Stewart Levitt comments, “‘Too Soon To Be Late’ is my way of explaining myself and providing a cue for others to stand up and be counted”.

Pre-release testimonials include: “These pages document the interior life of a man who, it must be said, has come wonderfully to personify Sydney’s grit and colour. A villain’s advocate and a crusader for the innocent, Stewart Levitt has embraced every one of life’s contradictions.” Linton Besser – acclaimed author.

“Such an utterly unusual book deserves rapid recognition, not just for its inspired use of language and images but because it states truths that our whole planet’s populace ought to be anxious to hear.” Giles Auty – author and artist.

For more information, and to purchase a copy of Too Soon to be Late, please visit: https://www.toosoontobelate.com/

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The finer points of sleep THE SLEEP COACH CHERYL FINGLESON As the business and distraction of modern life and parenting intensifies, it is good to be reminded of the value of sleep and its allencompassing role in supporting wellness, development and health. Whether you are nurturing a newborn or wrangling an adolescent, its critical to consider whether he or she is getting enough of the right quality sleep, and to be reminded of why this is so fundamental.

Newborns can require up to 17 hours of sleep a day, a toddler between 10 and 14, a primary school child between 8 and 12 hours and an adolescent around 10 hours sleep a night. Every individual will have slightly varying sleep needs, but without exception all will benefit from a solid sleep routine, a clean and quiet place to sleep, a nutritious diet and learned relaxation techniques.

I always stress the need to start with a consistent and predicable bed routine to parents who are looking to address sleep issues. Its impossible to underestimate how important this is. It allows little people to know what’s coming next, that sleep time is near and it helps them to unwind. Avoiding over-stimulating activities right before bed is crucial, as is keeping the child’s room dark, having clean natural linens and a safe comforting sleep environment.

Most of the growing babies and children do takes place during the sleep phase.

Sleep impacts young people’s mental and physical development, comprehension, memory, alertness and wellbeing. Rested children are more alert and happier, they are more even-tempered and they have stronger immune systems.

The sleeping brain produces a growth hormone, which is vital in stimulating muscles, organs, blood and bones.

Research shows that growth can be slowed or even stunted if a child does not get sufficient sleep.

Some children’s sleep is affected by nightmares, which can be disruptive. In most cases though, it’s a temporary phase. Parents need to remain patient and comforting, stay with their child for a short while until the fear passes, and to remind them that the dream is not real. Repetitive, soothing verbal prompts such as ‘I’m here, its just a dream, its not real, I won’t leave you’ can be helpful, as well as offering a comfort item like a toy or a blanket, leaving the bedroom door slightly ajar and a night

light on, as well as producing a hastily relabeled bottle of ‘anti-nightmare spray’ (a water diffuser with glitter in it) which can do wonders.

When it comes to teenagers, sleep can be just as much of an issue for families, but without the placebo of a magical spray to fix it. Few Australian adolescents get the ten hours of sleep optimal for their age.

The plethora of personal electronics hasn't been helping this crisis, with teachers reporting many high school students as severely sleep-deprived, with a significant impact on their school performance and general wellness.

Just like with babies, I recommend turning your teen's bedroom into a quiet place, devoid of technology. Adopt a policy of handing these in at a certain time each evening, and retreating to a cool quiet room with blackout blinds if needed.

Teenagers may benefit from a hot bath/ shower before bed, essential oils, learned meditation techniques (there’s an app for that!), sleeping on natural linens or cotton as well as a caffeine-free diet. In the mornings, open their curtains to allow natural light into the room. This provides vital cues for the brain to begin the circadian rhythms of waking appropriately.

It is imperative that babies, children and teenagers all get the right amount of sleep.

Sleep is vital for growth, development, health and happiness. I always advise my clients’ to take control of their children’s sleep routine regardless of their age or circumstances. It’s not worth deferring, as sleep loss and poor routine has been proven to have significant impacts on the wellbeing of these precious young people.

There are plenty of tools available to improve sleep and settling. And if parents can’t do it alone, there is professional help on hand too. Don’t be afraid to ask for help!

Sleep is our golden key to health.

Cheryl Zzz For more sleep tips and advice, please visit: www.cherylthesleepcoach.com.au Please like our facebook page: www. facebook.com/thesleepcoach Cheryl Fingleson is a paediatric sleep consultant. As a mother of two, she knows only too well the feelings of agony and desperation when you have a child that struggles to settle and sleep. She doesn’t believe in leaving babies or children to cry it out, nor in the practices of controlled crying. Her gentle approach is to empower parents with the right tools and techniques to teach their babies and children to go to sleep calmly, happily and independently.

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Gaining Perspective GLOBAL AMBASSADOR, MORIAH COLLEGE & CEO, MOSAIC UNITED RABBI BENJI LEVY ‘God said to Abram, “go for yourself from your land, your birthplace and your father’s house, to the land that I will show you.’ These words are among the most consequential in the history of mankind. With this summoning of one man, Judaism, Christianity and Islam, were set in motion. In return for his journey into the unknown and allegiance to the One God, Abraham was promised fame, fortune and the blessing to be the father of a great nation with many descendants.

With such guarantees from God Himself, ‘Abraham went as God had commanded him…’ However, immediately upon arrival to the destination that would assure his destiny, ‘there was a famine in the land’ and Abraham was forced to descend to Egypt. As the story unfolds, he encounters challenges with his wife Sarah, with his cousin Lot, and despairs in his lack of progeny. What happened to all that that God promised Abraham?

Many people join religion in search for instant benefit – they feel that they did their part, and God should reciprocate. They are attracted by the religious charisma of spiritual satisfaction, communal cohesion and a sense of purpose. Seeing others who appear to have achieved these feats, they believe that in return for rejuvenating their religious practice they receive them instantaneously. Yet this is rarely attained and when it is, it’s often of a temporary nature before hurdles are presented.

Abraham too must have been excited by the allure of God’s blessings. As the first initiate into monotheism and the prototype for the future, following his trials and tribulations he seemed to be somewhat sceptical, ‘what can you give me seeing that I am childless?’ God then: ‘took

him outside and said, “gaze towards the heavens and count the stars…”’ Since the Torah never mentioned that he was inside per se and the language of gazing suggests viewing from above, the midrash posits that God took Abraham out of the world to gaze upon the stars. When Abraham complained as to the lack of God’s promise, God was suggesting that he should figuratively step out of his immediate reality and gain some perspective. Just as the stars and world seem almost insignificantly small from this distanced standpoint, one’s immediate situation can be viewed in a similar light, implying there is more to life then the moment or phase we are in right now.

Immediately following this lesson in perspective, Abraham again asked, ‘how shall I know that I am to inherit it [the land]?’ Perhaps Abraham as an individual was worrying about his descendants of the Abrahamic faith. Thus God asks him to perform a strange ritual, forging a covenant

and providing a prophecy of Egyptian servitude and subsequent freedom for his offspring. Essentially, God seemed to be suggesting that the Jewish people will go through troubles and triumphs, but their relationship as a people, beyond individuals, is not contractual; it is covenantal. Whereas a human contract can be revoked if one party does not uphold its side, the biblical covenant between God and Abraham’s descendants as the Jewish people is irrevocable and eternal. Hereto God was extending the lesson beyond immediate perspective to historical perspective.

With the incredible advancement of technology, we live in a microwave generation whereby at the click of a button, within seconds we can gain access to or create many things that in the past would take extended periods of time. This instant gratification has opened many doors of convenience, but closed traditional doors of patience and perspective. As Abraham

took his first religious step forward, he too expected that which God promised. Yet whilst this expectation was for automatic delivery God was teaching him and all of his descendants that real gain can take time.

We should thus deal with each challenge as it presents itself rather than expecting immediate results. From this perspective, religion can infuse meaning without its adherents misleading themselves.

Rabbi Benji Levy is the CEO of Mosaic United, a partnership between the State of Israel and the global Jewish community dedicated to addressing wide-ranging approaches to Jewish engagement and raising the playing field to ensure a stronger Jewish future. A recent Oleh from Australia, he previously served as the Dean of one of the largest Jewish schools in the world, Moriah College and now is their global ambassador.

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Recovering from an eating disorder in a Western culture ARMCHAIR PSYCOLOGY AMANDA GORDON We have a problem in our culture today. The idealisation of “thin”, the idea that women (and men) should be judged by their size and shape. In order to decide whether I am thin enough, I have to view my body as if it is an object and then evaluate it. My body is no longer me and I am no longer my body. It is distinct from me and yet under my control.

If I am good enough, I will manage my body and keep it in shape (and very thin). If I work hard enough, reduce my calorie intake enough, I will force my body into the shape and size that is ideal in our culture.

When my body does not conform to my ideal of thinness, it must be my fault, so I just have to work harder at it. If I don’t then I am not worthy.

When you think about it, when that sort of

thinking happens, anorexia nervosa, that is the starved body with the starving brain’s response, is almost inevitable in our culture.

So many women (and men) play into the messaging that prevails, that somehow life is better for thin people and that they deserve the good life because they are thin (and beautiful).

We all need to challenge this linking of thinness with beauty and goodness. We need to replace our commentary towards each other _ “Don’t you look fabulous! Have you lost weight?”, “Have you seen how such and such has lost (or put on) weight?”, or other messages that link weight loss with health.

Just be pleased to see your friend, rather than be pleased to see them “looking good”.

Bodies (especially women’s bodies) change over time. It is important to always feel good in your body. Your body is you, and just trying to force it into shape is to deny that

Outta Here BALLOON (M) ALEX FIRST Tense and dramatic, with moments of melodrama, comes the true story of two East German families’ escape to the West a decade before the Wall was torn down.

We are in the summer of 1979.

The Strelzyks and Wetzels have been working on an audacious plan for more than two years.

They want to flee East Germany in a selfmade hot-air balloon, but at the last moment one of the families opts out.

Still, the other moves ahead, but their escape doesn’t go according to plan.

Worse than that, they leave behind clues as to who they are, which the infamous Stasi immediately pounces upon.

A full-scale investigation gets underway.

On the run, the family won’t let go of their dream and before long the Strelzyks and Wetzels are again united in their endeavours.

This time though they are under extreme time pressure as the Stasi closes in.

With a screenplay by Kit Hopkins, Thilo Röscheisen and Michael Bully Herbig, and directed by the latter, Balloon is a gripping

thriller.

The air of unease and suspicion sits over residents of the East like a thick, immovable fog.

The way this is played all moves are made surreptitiously, with the risk of being found out or failing all too real.

That, of course, is what keeps the story on a knife edge.

The period detail is exacting, while the score serves to add another layer of intrigue.

Overall, the performances are workmanlike and carry enough credibility to ensure we are on the journey with them.

I also appreciated the fact that the head of the Stasi conducting the investigation was portrayed as having two sides to his character.

Balloon has undoubted appeal to a general audience that will appreciate a look back at the tension of the times through a personal against-the-odds tale.

Rated M, it scores a 7 to 7½ out of 10.

Alex can be heard every Sunday at 11am on radio station, J-AIR 87.8FM, where he hosts an hour-long program called “First on Film and Entertainment”.

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If you recognise yourself or someone you know in this story, have problems feeling good enough and are working to change your feelings about yourself by changing your body, you should seek professional help before your starving brain confuses you and makes you respond to yourself and others in ways that are unusual or unhelpful for you and your relationships.

The new Medicare items mean that people with diagnosed Anorexia Nervosa, Binge Eating Disorders and some other eating disorders can get the help that they need, using a team approach of dieticians, GPs and Psychologists to reconnect with their bodies and change their thinking.

Amanda Gordon is a psychologist and the Clinical Director of Armchair Psychology, based in Edgecliff, Sydney.