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Volume 119 Issue 3
Ariella Frommer and Heidi Li Contributing Writers This past weekend, the annual Governors Ball Music Festival (Gov Ball) took place in the parking lot of Citi Field in Queens, NY. The festival was cancelled in 2020 due to COVID-19 but resumed this year, requiring attendees to be vaccinated or show proof of a negative COVID-19 test, according to the Gov Ball website. While some students were uneasy about attending a public event, others trusted the COVID-19 protocols and went to the festival. Benjamin Rothman (12) wore a mask most of the time to be cautious, he said. “It didn’t feel any less safe than in past years.” Gov Ball was the first large event Ariela Weber (10) attended since the start of COVID, she said. “This past year we’ve been deprived of large events, and I thought this would be a good way to still be safe by being outside and vaccinated, but start to return to them.” Lynn Egan (10) also felt comfortable with the COVID-19 precautions put in place at the
festival. “Because it was an outdoor concert, there was a vaccine mandate, and I wore my mask when it was crowded, it felt safe,” she said. However, Maya Westra (11), who decided to sell her Gov Ball ticket a few weeks before the event, did not believe the precautions were enough. As the number of COVID cases increased leading up to Gov Ball, Westra felt uneasy about going. She was also not sure of the school’s stance on the festival and did not want to quarantine, she said. “After seeing Gov Ball on social media, it didn’t look the most COVID-safe, so I’m not mad about selling my ticket.” Meanwhile, many students returned to the event after attending in 2019. This year, in an effort to make the festival more accessible, Gov Ball moved from its traditional location on Randall’s Island to Citi Field. Rothman, who went to Gov Ball both in 2019 and 2021, said the new location made the event different from previous years. “There weren’t huge grassy areas for people to sit on, and it was a bit smaller,” he said. “But that didn’t affect the quality of the performances.”
Weber’s favorite moment was watching Megan Thee Stallion’s performance and trying to get to the front of the crowd. “Megan’s music is one that most of my friends and I know really well because of how popular she is, so we were all singing and jumping together,” Weber said. “The crowd was very alive and just very excited and almost grateful to be there because it had been so long since we have had events like these.” Sofia Kim’s (10) favorite moment was also the performance by Megan Thee Stallion, who sang her new hits. “She was a great performer and singer, and really knew how to hype up the crowd,” she said. For Maddie Kim (10), who went to Gov Ball on both Saturday and Sunday, the most memorable part of the event was seeing her friends around the festival, she said. Because a lot of her friends went to the event this year, she was constantly running into them — even people she hadn’t seen in years. Rothman said the energy of the crowd made performances more enjoyable. “There were audio issues during Billie Eilish’s performance
Clubs and Pubs Fair returns in person Athena Rem Staff Writer
Yesterday, the Upper Division (UD) revived the annual Clubs and Publications Fair to showcase both new and existing clubs. 15 new clubs and one new publication made their debut at the Fair. While the fair took place online last year because of the pandemic, it is back in-person this year with the traditional booths, banners, and snacks, Dean of Students Michael Dalo said. Despite some adjustments being made due to the pandemic, the fair has almost completely returned to normal. The main difference is that club leaders were only permitted to bring individuallypackaged food, Dalo said. Since the Clubs Fair was online last year, Dalo was excited to bring back the traditional in-person version. “I really believe that participating in [clubs and publications] is integral to the HM UD experience, and the Fair offers an easy way for students to access that,” he said. “We tried to simulate it as best we could [last year] through the virtual directory, which included videos. While that was okay, it was not the same. I’m so happy that we are back to the usual Fair.” The Fair is also important for sharing passions and creating a sense of community, Dalo said. “Our students do incredible things in the classroom, and the Clubs and Pubs Fair is a way to see some of [what they do].” When they entered the UD, Rizaa Fazal (10) and Yasmeen Masoud (10) looked for a publication on humanitarian issues, but could not find one, Fazal said. This inspired them to start their own publication called the HuMannitarian, she said. “It highlights
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human rights crises, past and present, around the world,” Fazal. “By doing so, the main purpose is to educate people.” Fazal is also excited to bring another club to the school with Nuisaba Ashraf (10), Zain Lakhaney (10), and Masoud: Horace Mann for Islamic Awareness (HMIA). The club is an open space to discuss prejudice against and the achievements of Muslim people around the world, Fazal said. They plan to hold discussions on fundraisers on these topics and donate these proceeds to nonprofits helping immigrant and refugee families around the world, Fazal said. Miller Harris (11) and Sammi Strasser (11) started a new club called HM Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts and Math Coalition. The program operates several times a year, allowing UD students to collaborate with the Lower Division (LD) to conduct various science experiments, Harris said. Harris was especially excited to gain volunteers at the Fair. Sophie Dauer (11), Allison
Markman (11), and Rachel Baez (11) introduced the Horace Mann Criminal Justice Club at the fair. Dauer and her co-presidents wanted to create a space to discuss issues pertinent to criminal justice, she said. “This is a space that currently does not exist at the school.” Dauer plans to invite speakers and hold discussions amongst students to inspire a meaningful dialogue on incarceration and legal justice, she said. The group will also reach out to various nonprofits and organizations based on reentry, the return to society after incarceration, she said. The club plans to connect with multiple groups over the course of the year, she said. This was Oliver Guyer’s (9) first Clubs Fair. “I remembered seeing it when I was in sixth grade and it was really cool to see how enthusiastic everyone was.” Guyer also spoke to a lot of upperclassmen about clubs, which he found interesting. “The energy level was very high, and it was great to see everyone’s interests.”
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and people couldn’t really hear her well, but the crowd’s energy was still great.” Meanwhile, this year was also some students’ first time at Gov Ball. “I wanted to go to Gov Ball in 2019 but didn’t really know it was happening, so I didn’t buy tickets in time,” Maddie Kim (10) said. Now that she is two years older and knows more about music, Kim made a bigger effort to track ticket availability and bought them the day they came out, she said. Egan also bought her Gov Ball tickets last spring, hoping that the event would happen this year, she said. “It was one of the first concert tickets that I bought that [the concert] wasn’t cancelled.” Sofia is excited that big events like Gov Ball are now able to happen, she said. “I thought it was really fun because it was a good balance of music and food and you could just say ‘hi’ to people you haven’t seen in a while.” Egan enjoyed the familiarity of being at a music festival, she said. “It felt good to be back to old ways for a day.”
Murphy teaches parents about power of listening Jillian Le Staff Writer “Listening is a superpower,” author and journalist Kate Murphy said on Tuesday night at this year’s first virtual Parent Institute (PI) event. “We’re all Clark Kents waiting to be Superman.” Murphy is a Texas-based journalist and has written for publications such as the New York Times and the Wall Street Journal. Her book about the importance of being attentive, You’re Not Listening, was the main reason why the PI invited her to the school, director of the PI Wendy Reiter said. Reiter learned about Murphy’s work from the Macmillan Speakers Bureau, a publishing house she often collaborates with for PI events, she said. The event was part of the PI BookTalk series. Murphy, Reiter, and English Department Chair Vernon Wilson met a week in advance to prepare for the event, Wilson said. The event consisted of a conversation between Murphy and Wilson, followed by a Q&A with parents. “The quality of the conversation that they had throughout the evening was really remarkable,” Reiter said. Wilson, the facilitator, catered the conversation towards parents by asking questions about the overarching ideas in Murphy’s book, rather than the neuroscientific aspects of her research. The conversation was meant to help parents become better listeners. Parentchild relationships can greatly benefit from the encouragement of actively listening to make one feel heard, Reiter said. Within families, closeness communication bias, the tendency
to make presumptions about what someone will say based on the intimacy of your relationship, tends to occur frequently, Murphy said. Nancy Korff P’23, ‘25 ‘27 learned that when talking to family members, it is important to actively listen and avoid making assumptions, she said. Listening for understanding can also carry over into classroom spaces, Wilson said. “Listening is key for the functioning of a classroom,” he said. “Discussion rather than debate.” The first step to becoming a better listener is to ask open-ended questions that provoke interpretation rather than generic compensatory questions, Murphy said. That may look like asking the following after returning home from school: “What was something new that you learned in school today?” Rather than asking “How was your day?” The former will foster more fruitful conversations, Murphy said. Murphy encouraged families to spend time together in person – without technology – to work on improving listening skills. Murphy’s book explains how technology has altered the chemical processes of the human brain in a way that weakens our abilities to actively listen. In addition to technology, regular everyday duties can make it difficult to slow down and be attentive towards body language when listening to others. The pandemic has had silver linings, she said. With more free time, people are more attentive towards each other, Murphy said. PI events this year will have a theme of communication. Tuesday’s event was a good way to start off the year since listening is an integral component of