Active Life Spring 2021

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ACTIVE LIFE SPECIAL SUPPLEMENT TO THE GLOBE

MAY 2021

Faith, positivity define Cavanaugh Giving back, blessing others at Worthington man’s core By Jane Turpin Moore The Globe WORTHINGTON — If, as many wise people have suggested, attitude is everything, then Tom Cavanaugh has it all.“ If you’ve been blessed, it’s very easy to be a blessing to someone else,” said Cavanaugh, 69. “It all comes back to learning to be a giver, extending that to the community and wanting to be a part of whatever the Lord lays on your heart to do. Then you can give of your time and resources in any way you choose.” Cavanaugh, an active member of the Worthington community since 1978, knows he is blessed despite deeply felt personal loss, numerous medical interventions throughout his life for the cerebral palsy with which he was born and other trials he’s experienced. Today, he continues his life of service as a frequent volunteer at the Center for Active Living (CAL) and Love INC while often exercising his sly wit. And he’s looking forward to the marriage of his only daughter, Megan, sometime in the next few years.

A true Hawkeye

Besides being the location of artist Grant Wood’s “American Gothic” farmhouse and the hometown of actor Tom Arnold (and the quirky MASH character Radar), the southwest town of Ottumwa, Iowa, is Cavanaugh’s childhood home. “I’m the fourth of 10 kids,” said Cavanaugh before quipping, “My parents [Barb and Joe, the latter a World War II pilot from Philadelphia sent to Ottumwa’s naval air station] didn’t get cable till later.” Born with cerebral palsy, Cavanaugh had no choice but to roll with life in his bustling family from the start; after all, before he was even quite 3, his mother had six kids under the age of 9. “I have a disability, but it’s not stopped me,” said Cavanaugh. “It’s slowed me down some but hasn’t stopped me from doing anything.” When he was about 4 years old, Cavanaugh was taken to the University of Iowa hospitals in Iowa City for the first of several surgeries to treat his cerebral palsy. “My first one was in 1955 and my last one there was in 1969,” said Cavanaugh. “It was kind of rough,” he admitted of the extended hospital stays each surgical pro-

cedure required. “I hated to leave home, but once I got used to being away from my family, I didn’t want to go back.” That was due, at least in part, to the excellent care he and other pediatric patients at the University of Iowa medical establishment received. Plus, the budding sports fan, whose maternal grandfather had coached football, basketball and track, was introduced to the rabid fan culture of the Hawkeye athletic machine. “I became a Hawkeye fan early on,” said Cavanaugh. “The hospital was right on the U of I’s campus and they had people who worked at the hospital who were connected with different sports. “After 17 years of losing [football] seasons, Hayden Fry came to Iowa. He’d noticed how nuts the fans went when their team even got a first down,” Cavanaugh continued. “Fry wondered what they’d do if they ever won a game.” Under Fry’s leadership at Iowa from 1979-98, the Hawkeyes did win, often, and Cavanaugh admitted it would be fair to call him a “diehard Hawkeye fan.” Besides cementing his athletic team loyalty, Cavanaugh’s childhood medical stints in Iowa City taught him another valuable life lesson — namely, whatever difficulty one might be battling, there is always someone with a harder fight. “I met other kids who were probably worse off,” said Cavanaugh. “This one guy had a pair of wooden legs. “He’d strap them on, jump out of bed, grab his crutches and down the hall he went. At night, he’d take his legs off and walk on his hands; you do what you have to do, and that was ‘normal’ for him because that was all he knew. “When you have a handicap, you just have to keep going, and if someone looks at you and says you’re not ‘normal,’ they don’t understand that it’s ‘normal’ for you.”

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Tom Cavanaugh is pictured taking a break from his volunteer activities at the Center for Active Living prior to the COVID-19 pandemic. Cavanaugh has been an active part of the Worthington community for decades and continues serving as he nears 70.

be in Worthington for about two years.” Instead, Worthington became Cavanaugh’s home. While attending what is now Solid Rock Assembly Church, where he still worships today, Cavanaugh met the former Tami Eckerson. The two married in 1987. “Of all the institutions I’ve been involved with, marriage was the best one,” said Cavanaugh. Sadly, his happy union with Tami lasted just 15 years; she died of complications from lupus in May 2002, leaving Cavanaugh to raise their Moving on to only surviving child, Megan, who was 7 seven Worthington After graduating from years old. “Lupus is hard on high school in Ottumsaid wa, Cavanaugh attended pregnancies,” Central College in Pella, Cavanaugh, mentioning Iowa, thereafter taking that he and Tami’s first daughter, Brittany, was a job in Sheldon, Iowa. “After that work stillborn at eight and a opportunity, I inter- half months. They sufviewed at The Achieve- fered another miscarment Center in Worth- riage later, and Tami was ington and worked pregnant with twins — there for 20 years,” said one of whom was Megan Cavanaugh, chuckling. — when her labor began “I thought I’d only at only 31 weeks’ gesta-

tion. Megan’s twin did not survive. “The only difference between Megan and Brittany was that Megan was breathing and Brittany wasn’t,” said Cavanaugh, noting Megan’s birth weight — three pounds, 11 ounces — was actually two ounces short of Brittany’s. “That reinforced my whole pro-life position.” Cavanaugh’s personal convictions led him to serve two three-year terms on the board of Helping Hands Pregnancy Center. He also spent six years on the board of District 518’s Community Education program. More recently, he has regularly volunteered at Love INC and the Center for Active Living (CAL). “Each of these roles has given me quite a variety of things to do and connected me with different aspects of life in Worthington,” said Cavanaugh. “We have several organizations here to help people, and I’ve been a

part of that,” he continued. “I like to give back, be active and find ways to help other people.” Mary Luke, the CAL’s managing director, showers praise on Cavanaugh’s attitude and efforts. “Tom is a breath of fresh air,” said Luke. “He’s always willing to do what people need, and he really wants to provide support.” Luke mentioned that Cavanaugh’s roles have ranged from helping her track attendance (the CAL had over 12,000 visits in 2019, she knows in part due to Tom’s help), assisting with administrative tasks and, during the 2020 pandemic, making outreach calls to CAL members to ensure people were doing OK. “Tom is active and follows through on his intentions,” said Luke. In addition, Luke says Cavanaugh is witty, a wonderful dad, a zealous sports fan and “a down-to-earth guy.” For his part, Cavanaugh has enjoyed seeing

the various folks who frequent the CAL. “Some are card players, some play dominos, some are passionate about pickle ball, some come for lunch,” he listed. “People look forward to things like that, and it’s been hard on everyone in the past year to not have those activities.”

Trials and blessings

Cavanaugh shepherded his daughter Megan to a successful graduation from Worthington High School in 2013; she graduated in 2017 from Bethany Lutheran College, Mankato. Recently, she launched Done Right Pest Solutions in the Twin Cities metro area with three partners, and became engaged to Caleb Wede, a fellow WHS Class of 2013 alumnus. “There’s no date set yet,” said Cavanaugh, though he will be happy for her wedding when that day arrives.

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