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Vol 24, No. 1 • May 2024
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Bonds of motherhood extend beyond biology for Laticia Barnes in our home, so my husband and I decided to go for it after we discussed it with our family. We had to go through a 9-week class through a private foster agency. We have been foster parents now for 17 years.” Laticia harkens back to the subject of faith as pivotal in their journey. “Having faith plays a major role in being a foster parent because, without God in our lives, we wouldn't have made it for 17 years. It takes lots of praying.” In describing the duties of and as a foster parent, she is plain and bold. “In my opinion, being a foster parent is the same as being a parent, ‘cause you bring these kids into your home and try to treat them like your own kid. In some cases, it's a bit different, because some kids feel like you are trying to take the place of their biological parents and will resist the love and care that you are trying to show them. In these situations, you just wait until the child is ready and let them come to you.” Thirty-five-plus children have been invited into the Barnes’ family home, and all Return Address: P.O. Box 1292 Corinth, MS 38835 have been approached by them with the equivalent goal of providing a POSTAL PATRON loving and stable ecosystem for the children
By Lorcan McCormick The subject of family stirs an urgency and pride in Laticia Barnes; without skipping a beat, she can recite history and details of herself and her family with love and conviction. She is the wife of Charles Barnes, and together they have eight children, one of whom is a foster child, and one grandson, who, as Laticia puts it, “has us wrapped around his finger.” Laticia has been a certified nursing assistant for over 25 years. The child of Barbara Springfield and the late Willie C. Loving Sr., she finds roots in Richardson, Texas, where she graduated from Berkner High School in 1990. She has one sibling, aged 10 years apart. Service and faith have long played a role in her life. “There is something that stuck in my head that our pastor preached about, and that is having faith the size of a mustard seed. If you have that faith, it will go a long way, and that is so true.” Laticia and her husband are their church youth group leaders, as well as the leaders of the youth choir. Laticia serves her job helping people as a nurse; but perhaps her boldest and most important role in being a provider for the community is as a foster parent. “We got started as foster parents after I saw an article in the paper where there was a desperate need for foster parents because there are thousands of children in the foster care system that are in need of a loving, nurturing, and stable home. We had extra room for a couple kids
to grow and feel nurtured in a safe space. The range of personalities and backgrounds that a foster parent will be confronted with are detailed by her nearly two decades of experience. “When being a foster parent, you have to remember that these kids come with a lot of behaviors, traumas, and attitudes, and they will not take and act like your own biological children you raised from birth. Some kids are good matches for your home; some are not so good. You have to make sure you choose wisely when you get a phone call about taking one as a placement into your home; always ask questions first about the kids and their background.” Laticia describes some of the foster children in their care today: “I have one who is 14 and extremely autistic. He is super smart and energetic. He loves to collect coins and four-leaf clovers, and he loves hearing the word of God. He's the comedian in our home because we never know what he is going to say. Then I have one that is 15; he always has a smile on his face, is smart, easy to get along with, and loves being friends with everybody. He is the loudest singer in our youth choir and plays a major part in the church as an usher. Then, I have an 11-year-old who loves to give hugs, is super smart, and loves. I will never forget the day Laticia Barnes
they brought him to my home at the age of 5, and the first thing he asked me was, ‘Will you be my mommy? I never had a real one before.’ Oh, how that touched my heart and brought tears to my eyes.“ My girls— I have one who is 15 and loves to clean and read. She is the announcement reader at church and also helps in the community. The 10-year-old is the boss; she's super smart, full of energy, loves math, is intelligent, and loves to play softball. Our 9year-old; she's the only one in our house that hasn't been adopted yet. She's been in our home since January 2022, and she is very loving, smart, loves the Lord, and her hobby is singing.” Laticia's expression of love for her children is voluminous and indefatigable, a portrait of a mother as the greatest cheerleader of their children. For those considering taking on the potential responsibility of foster parenthood, she is blunt. “If you are considering becoming a foster parent, please make sure you have the heart for it and love for the kids, because foster parenting is not for everyone. It isn't easy, no matter how you look at it. Sometimes you will shed lots of tears and have to make adjustments and sacrifices in your life. So please, before you do it, ask yourself, Could I love these kids? Could I give them what they need? Am I ready to give up all I'm doing to be the best parent I can be? If that is you, then go for it.” Foster care is handled by Children's Services in individual states; to learn more, if one is interested, please visit your local .gov website to obtain more details about how to contribute.