The Bellaire Buzz - October 2023

Shyla Jogi

The Magic of Music Festivals The Barber Bond Pumpkin Patch Traditions Cindy Gabriel: Full-Circle Moment

A Decade of School Buzz

by Caroline Siegfried

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Travel Buzz: Dancing through the Chaos

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EDITOR’S NOTE In this issue, we introduce our 2023-24 School Buzz correspondents. Every fall, we kick off this program with a photo shoot. I love meeting talented, inquisitive students.

At the shoot, I asked why they want to be part of the program and how they heard about it. They all expressed passion for writing and storytelling, and many of them said they grew up reading The Buzz and were inspired to join the program. Music to my ears. Mind you, they’re already accepted, so I don’t think they’re just telling me what I want to hear. (Or maybe these bright students figured out the importance of their first assignment: Keep your editors happy.) Regardless, it makes me proud to think we’re empowering the next generation of journalists – and that our program is now a decade old. Also in this issue, read a story about “young at heart” neighbors who love the vibes at live music festivals. There is always something special to report on in our great communities. joni@thebuzzmagazines.com

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Your letters, thoughts, opinions Springsteen super fan I really enjoy reading the Tanglewood/River Oaks Buzz. Most recently, the article Ready To Rock [Ready to Rock: Always Up to See Springsteen by Cheryl Ursin, Sept. 2023] put a smile on my face because, I too, am a Springsteen super fan (25 shows in 2 countries and 10 states). In July, I flew to London to see two Bruce Springsteen concerts in Hyde Park. It was a bucket-list trip I had planned a year in advance. It was an experience I will never forget!

Laurie Pozmantier

A lovely legacy Cathy, thank you so much for the lovely article! [Stitches of Love: Honoring a grandmother's legacy by Cathy Gordon, Sept. 2023] You really captured our story so well. The article is far more in-depth and thorough than I expected! This is such a lovely closer to our family project and a wonderful document of our connection. Thank you for your patience and diligence. We are so proud!

Keerthi McIntosh

Plenty to say Cindy, I thought your It’s Too Hot to Write article [It's Too Hot to Write: But here goes anyway by Cindy Gabriel, Sept. 2023] was terrific.

The only line I would take issue with was the second sentence, “I’m writing with nothing to say.” You had plenty to say and it was hilarious. I had to read some sections more than once. My favorite line was about the sisters who “sang into the handles of their hairbrushes” – hilarious!

I also liked the comments at the end about everyone’s concern about who is and who isn’t going to hell and which religion was “right.” I grew up with a Pastor (Lutheran) as a Dad so I had plenty of lessons as a child about who was “right!”

Thanks for an excellent article, some good tongue-in-cheek thoughts and some really good laughs. Keep up the good work!

Dave Bergt

Down memory lane I just came across your 2014 article in The Buzz [Restaurant Memories: A look back at Houston's dining past, by Russell Weil, Nov. 2014]. Years ago, I (with help from other native Houstonians), compiled a list of now shuttered local restaurants and clubs.

I’ve selected a few of my faves from years gone by: Weldon’s Cafeteria (on Main near Southmore). Youngbloods on Main (and later a second location on Bissonnet near Chimney Rock). Sonny Look’s Depot (also on Main but this location was downtown…if memory serves me correctly, part of an old rail car). Brittain’s Broiler Burger (W. Bellfort and Chimney Rock. It had a carousel in the middle). Bill Bennett’s 24-hour restaurant (Caroline at Pierce; it had mini juke boxes on the table!). Los Troncos, the Tree House Restaurant (my first New Year’s date! It was a restaurant built as a tree house with ascending private nooks for dining. Very intimate yet casual dining. So unique!)

This barely touches the tip of the iceberg! If anyone would like to see a copy, I’d be happy to email one!

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A look back at the ’60s Cindy [Gabriel]: Loved your article in the September issue. A lot of subtle humor and interesting memories. Now I know why it was so hard to get the girls to make out. Keep up the good work.

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Another Cindy fan Cindy, your article about the Jaybird War [The Jaybird/Woodpecker War: An 'Undertold' Story by Cindy Gabriel, Aug. 2023] was fabulous, but the photo of you peeking through the metal fence was even better!

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NEIGHBORS

by Cindy Gabriel, staff writer

New Couple Friends Travel tales of a non-traveler

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tan likes to travel. His whole family does.

That’s an understatement. I say I don’t like to travel but I really do, once I’m there. I just don’t like the disruption of stopping my life, leaving projects in limbo, packing, and deciding what to do with Zoe-the-Dog. One thing Stan enjoys about me is that my closest friends seem to live elsewhere. It’s the story of my life. I meet a person or couple I really like. Then, what do they do? They move.

Should I take it personally?

Stan wastes no energy wondering what people think of him. He just says, “Let’s go visit them.” It’s not about the free digs. Ok, that’s some of it. But Stan is mostly curious and interested in other people’s lives and he’s not one bit shy about meeting total strangers. He can walk in, meet them, and start cooking dinner for them in their kitchens.

I had no idea how far he could take this until last spring, at his daughter Jenny’s wedding, in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. (Out of the country, and the whole family came, of course.)

It was the afternoon before the rehearsal dinner, the night of Stan’s “Father-of-the-Bride” speech. He had worked on it most of that day, then fell into a full-snore afternoon nap. I don’t know how he does it. I was too keyed up to sleep and I didn’t have to give a speech.

I was fidgeting with my phone, when it started ringing one of those weird rings that comes from Facebook messaging. Jason Bradley! I hadn’t spoken to him in decades. We met at TGI Friday’s way back in the late ’70s. Who could turn down a date with a handsome guy with a British accent, fresh out of Oxford University?

Jason had landed a job in the oil and gas business during Houston’s Boomtown days. I was trying to get my first job in the news business, which was still actually hiring people. We were both more interested in moving our careers along than finding the loves of our lives. At some point, I recall, Jason’s job took him overseas, and we basically lost touch. Still, I have fond memories of Jason and have occasionally wondered how his life turned out.

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LIFE COMING FULL CIRCLE Jason Bradley, Cindy Gabriel, Stan Ehrenkranz, and Cindy Bradley enjoy a moment on the Bradley’s back porch in Durango, Colorado.

sons, one engaged, and three Labrador Retrievers. Jason appeared to be having a great life I was happy to see, and shot him a quick wave. But that was six months ago.

He apparently only saw it at the moment he called. I guess he was happy to see it. When I didn’t pick up, he called again, and again, and again with Stan snoring next to me less than two hours before the rehearsal dinner. I hoped the ringing would wake him up. Then I could explain who Jason was, and we could get on with the call-back.

Once Stan was standing on two feet, I explained. As expected, Stan was more intrigued with the prospect of meeting someone new and interesting than feeling threatened. Moments later, the three of us were on speakerphone.

“Hello, Cindy.” There was that delightful British accent. I quickly introduced Jason to Stan and explained our time crunch. In our brief conversation we learned that one of Jason’s three sons was finishing graduate school at Rice University in Houston, that Jason’s Cindy was Cindy Cash, a cousin of the legendary Johnny Cash, that they lived in Arlington, Texas. He said that Cindy was a professional fundraiser devoted to Open Arms Health Clinic in Arlington for families with limited budgets.

And, oh yeah, they have a second home in Durango, Colorado. Stan perked up on that one.

“Durango? Can we visit?”

My face broke into a thousand embarrassed pieces with that question. “Absolutely,” came the British reply. I could tell Jason meant it. But was he speaking for just himself? He and Cindy have been married a long time. Hopefully they have their signals worked out better than Stan and I. There is another Jason too, Jason Presley, the one about to marry Stan’s daughter, who would be looking for us soon at the rehearsal dinner.

We had to go, but first, I needed to sit a moment to give my head a chance to stop spinning.

Stan’s Father-of-the-Bride speech was declared a classic, one for the ages. Then spring dissolved into the record-breaking heat we are all trying to forget. Even I, the traveling “nontraveler” wanted out. We flew into Albuquerque, then spent 16 days hovering outside of the heat dome, mixing two friend visits with three B&Bs, including two days in Durango with Jason and Cindy, our second stop.

Before we arrived, we stopped to pick up some wine and found the largest, brightest bunch of sunflowers I had ever seen. They led the way as we broke through 40 years into their large, lovely home. Cindy, Jason, and the Labs greeted us with Open Arms. (Pardon my subtle plug for Cindy’s favorite charity.)

At some point into the visit, I felt Stan and I were making new couple friends, who can’t break my heart by moving. They are already out of town.

KIDS

by Annie Blaylock McQueen, staff writer

The Pumpkin Patch An annual birthday tradition

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very October since 2014, three moms, Sandye Fertman, Rachel Teichman, and Sara Saber, and their kids, have met up at a local pumpkin patch.

It all began when Sandye’s middle child, Isabel, was just a toddler. The new friends decided to meet at the pumpkin patch at St. Philip’s United Methodist Church in Meyerland to celebrate her second birthday.

It was a simple, laid-back get-together. The kids had a great time and so did the moms. It was not over-the-top, no one had to do dishes afterward – it was easy. They decided to keep it going. Every year, on Isabel's birthday, they would meet on the quaint church grounds, surrounded by the vibrant orange pumpkins, and fall air.

They were all friends through Beth Yeshurun Day School, where their children attended preschool. Sandye’s kids are Maxwell, now 14, and Isabel, who turns 12 this month; Rachel’s kids are Nina, now 15, Eli, 13, and Ezra, 6; and Sara’s kids are Nathan, now 12, and Julia, 13.

As time marched on, the kids grew out of toddling around the patch and instead decided to throw a ball around or play games like tag. The family’s schedules filled up with more afterschool activities, but the group did not let the tradition break. Each year, they have made it a point to meet at the patch for cake and to sing happy birthday to Isabel.

Sandye sends out a text at the beginning of October to check everyone’s schedules. They pick a Friday in October close to Isabel’s birthday, Oct. 24. Sandye says, even if it is a short meet-up, they make it work. “It is so nice that they still make an effort to come,” said Sandye.

Isabel is now a sixth grader at Trafton Academy. She says all her lifelong friends, even though they are no longer all at the same school, meeting each year makes her feel special. This month, she will also have her Bat Mitzvah where she will celebrate with them as well.

Sandye plans to continue the pumpkin patch birthday tradition even though it is an exceptionally busy month.

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MEET ME AT THE PUMPKIN PATCH A group of friends including (pictured, from left) Maxwell Fertman, Isabel Fertman (sitting), Julia Saber, Nathan Saber, Eli Teichman, and Ezra Teichman have gathered at a local pumpkin patch every fall for nearly 10 years. They meet up with cupcakes to celebrate Isabel’s October birthday.

after moving here in 2013 from California. “It was so special to me to be included right away in what would quickly become such a fun tradition,” said Rachel. “Every year I wonder if Isabel will still want to do this, and I am always so glad that she still does.”

Rachel says hanging out at the pumpkin patch brings a nostalgic feeling from their early days. “It is especially fun for us moms to hang out and talk, while the kids played and looked for pumpkins,” said Rachel. “When they were in preschool, we had a weekly ‘lunch bunch’ at our houses, and we would hang out while the kids played and ate lunch, so it was reminiscent of that.”

As the years have passed, the moms’ friendships and their kids’ have grown stronger, and this tradition has served as a steadfast reminder of the enduring bonds. The importance of keep-

ing up with this tradition has also become evident as the years rolled on. Life is busy, with each of them navigating work, family, and personal responsibilities. Yet, no matter how hectic their lives became, they made it a point to come together at the pumpkin patch.

As the kids grow older, the pumpkin patch tradition takes on new layers of meaning. It is no longer just a birthday celebration; it is a way to celebrate the bittersweet passing of time. A chance to get together and reminisce about the past year, share stories, and provide a sense of community.

The pumpkin patch itself has evolved with new decorations. Each visit, always with a group photo, allows them to see how much Isabel and all the kids have grown and show just how fleeting childhood can be.

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become familiar faces at the St. Philip's pumpkin patch. “When we walk up, the church members say, ‘Oh, here comes the birthday girl,’” said Sandye. That part always makes them feel happy and brings a smile to their faces.

In an ever-changing world, the tradition of celebrating Isabel's birthday together at the same pumpkin patch remains a source of joy for these three families. Traditions that stick are the ones that carry memories that last a lifetime.

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Pumpkin Patches Whether you’re celebrating a birthday or just embracing the fall season, visiting a pumpkin patch is fun to do with friends and family. Here are a few around town (please check individual websites for hours and more details): Blessington Farms blessingtonfarms.com/pumpkinpatch Through Nov. 19 510 Chisolm Trail, Simonton, TX 77476 General admission: $28.64. Pumpkins are sold per pound.

Farm Funland includes a range of familyfriendly activities such as a hay ride, sand mountain, trolley swing, duck races, animals to visit.

Dewberry Farm dewberryfarm.com Through Nov. 12 FM 362 & Morrison Road, Brookshire, TX 77423 General admission: $34.95 Fall Festival includes pumpkins, activities, animals, Houston Astros-themed corn maze.

Froberg’s Farm frobergsfarm.com/fall-festival Through Nov. 5 3601 West Hwy 6., Alvin, TX 77511 General admission: $12 (ages 3+). Pumpkins available for an additional cost. Some activities require tokens ($1/each or 15 for $12) Fall Festival includes a corn maze, flower garden, plastic duck races, emoji cannon, bee coaster, Berry Fun Land playground.

Memorial Drive United Methodist Church mdumc.org 12955 Memorial Dr., Houston, TX 77079 Free to the public; pumpkin prices vary Nature Discovery Center naturediscoverycenter.org/pumpkin-patch 7112 Newcastle, Bellaire, TX 77401 Pumpkin Patch Fall Festival: Oct. 14-15, 11 a.m.-4 p.m.: Festival games, crafts and activities, foods, exhibitors. Admission is free; games, concessions, pumpkins have a cost.

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FEELS LIKE FALL There are lots of pumpkin patches and fall festivals going on around town this month.

Nature Discovery Center hosts its Pumpkin Patch Fall Festival (pictured) Oct 14-15, including festival games, crafts and activities, and more.

Pumpkin Patch: Through Oct. 31 General admission: $18.65/person. Free pumpkin for each child’s paid admission.

Activities include train rides, pony rides, petting zoo, playgrounds, duck pond, sand mountain, tetherball.

Old Time Christmas Tree Farm oldtimechristmastree.com/pumpkinpatch October weekends only 7632 Spring Cypress Rd., Spring, TX 77379 Entry fee: $10/person (ages 2+); pumpkins and attraction tickets sold separately

Attractions include train rides, hay rides, petting zoo, inflatable activities.

St. Philip’s United Methodist Church spumchou.org 5501 Beechnut St., Houston, TX 77096 Free to the public; pumpkin prices vary Opens Oct. 9, 2023 St. Luke’s United Methodist Church stlukesmethodist.org 3471 Westheimer Rd., Houston, TX 77027 Free to the public; pumpkin prices vary

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ARTS

by Cheryl Ursin, staff writer

The Magic of Music Festivals Everybody get together

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ven though we live in a world where you can stream any song you want anytime you want, sometimes what you really crave is a real-life experience.

“Magic may be a weird word,” says Melinda O’Connell, “but there’s something electric about people coming together, all to listen to music.

Everyone loves everyone.” She’s not alone in feeling that: According to a survey of music-festival fans, 80 percent said going to festivals gives them a sense of connection and community.

This year, Melinda, 64, will have attended five festivals (and about 10 other concerts).

There are two aspects to festivals, she says.

“There’s the good show – and it’s always good music,” she explains, “and there’s the good experience.” People don’t know, she says, how easy it is to have a good experience at a music festival.

She has been doing this for the last 10 years because she has found that music has a more profound impact on her than just fun.

Eleven years ago, Melinda’s younger son, Brendan, died suddenly at the age of 17.

“Music helps keep me going,” she says simply.

“I needed music.”

Research into the effect of music supports Melinda’s experience. In one study of people receiving bereavement counselling, 95 percent reported that music helped them with their grief. Music, particularly live music, soothes preemie babies in neonatal intensive care units.

They sleep better, eat better, and their physical signs of stress (such as blood pressure and heart rate) are lower. By the way, those physical signs of stress are lower in their parents as well. And music reaches so deeply into our memories that sometimes patients with late-stage Alzheimer’s who have lost the ability to communicate can still sing the lyrics when they hear a song from their childhood.

You know that tingle down your spine you feel when you hear particularly beautiful music? That’s the music flooding your brain with dopamine.

Sometimes the feelings stirred can be cathartic. Buzz editor Joni Hoffman remembers a moving moment at Sea.Hear.Now, an oceanside music festival in Asbury Park, NJ, as legend BELLAIRE BUZZ OCTOBER 2023 14

Stevie Nicks performed the classic song Landslide (“Well, I’ve been afraid of changin’/‘Cause I’ve FAMILY AFFAIR Often, families go to music festivals together and bond over the built my life around music. Here, Melinda O'Connell and her sister, Melanie Embry, at Austin City Limits. you/But time makes you held in May on a private ranch outside the town bolder/Children get older/And I’m getting older of Cherokee, Texas (population 200), near too”). “I was crying,” she remembers. “Everyone Llano. Attendees can camp onsite; the musiaround me was crying happy tears. Literally, live cians stay right on the ranch. “Kids can run music, being there, does something to you.” around; you can walk; you can fish,” says Music is so linked to our memories and Melinda. “It’s so easy and fun.” emotions that music therapists speculate it Some festivals focus on a particular genre of gives us a safe space to process our deepest music; others present a wide range. They are emotions and, as one put it, “tame the overoften multi-day affairs; some are scheduled for a whelming.” couple of consecutive weekends.

“I probably cry at every single concert I go to,” Music festivals have become increasingly says Melinda. “I’ll be teary for 10 or 20 minutes, popular. According to Music Festival Wizard, and then I’m okay.” there will be 310 in the United States this year.

According to Nielsen Music, 23 percent of the nd of course, music festivals are fun, fans U.S. population attended a music festival in say.

2018. In consumer surveys, people are increas“Who doesn’t have fun at a music festival?” ingly reporting that they prefer buying experiasks Seema Mir, 44, who has been going to ACL ences over things. Also, the business model for pretty much every October since 2008. the music industry has changed. Since the early Me, maybe? I haven’t been to a festival in years.

2000s, with the advent of streaming services, Perhaps I am becoming a party-pooper as I musicians don’t make their living from selling age. (Here my smart-aleck husband would interrecords or CDs anymore. Now, the bulk of ject, “Becoming?”) These days, when I see an musical groups’ income comes from performing advertisement for a music festival, one part of and touring. me is noting all the bands I want to see, but I Festivals attract all ages. When Melinda and also think, “It’s going to be hot, and crowded, her friend, Karen Burns, 66, went to the the parking will be impossible, there will be lines Telluride Jazz Fest, they met an 80-year-old coueverywhere, and don’t forget, the bathrooms will ple going to their first music festival (who were be porta-potties.” having such a good time, they plan on attending Melinda loves music festivals. more) and a young family attending with their “You’re listening to good music while you 1-year-old. (The baby wore ear protection.) Joni watch the sun set,” she says. “You get to be outHoffman said she had no idea how much she side in a pretty place. It’s a chance to act silly.” would love the music festival experience, espeWhat are music festivals? They are events, cially at her age (her first music festival was usually held outside, featuring several musical ACL in 2019, at age 58). She’s since attended acts. Some festivals feature more than 100 difseveral festivals. ferent performers, from the very famous (Paul Festival attendees seem to fall into two McCartney, Pearl Jam, Green Day, Coldplay, camps. There are those who love to get right Willie Nelson, Foo Fighters) to the (as yet) notup front. That would be Melinda. “I like to well-known, performing on different stages. stand and to dance and to be close. Sometimes Other festivals are smaller. One of Melinda’s you can hear the perform- (continued on page 16) favorites is the Cherokee Creek Music Festival,

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BACK AT BASE CAMP Left: Janvi and Hina Pandya, Namrata Khotari, Renu Roy, and Nirja Aiyer at Austin City Limits. Right: Despite a rainy day, Melinda O'Connell, Karen Burns, Jan Cobden, and Dana Townsend are all smiles at Telluride Jazz Festival. (continued from page 14) ers talk amongst them-

selves; sometimes they talk to the audience,” she says. Others, like Karen, like to hang back.

“I like to sit down, be comfortable with my vodka tonic, and not be jostled,” she says.

“There are people who will dance and really let go, and there are people who will sit and bob their heads, and the sitters are getting just as much out of it as the dancers.”

A few music festivals have been the sites of horrendous tragedy, such as the Astroworld Festival here in Houston in 2021, where 10 people were killed in a “crowd crush,” and the mass shooting at the Route 91 Harvest Music Festival in Las Vegas in 2017, in which 60 were killed and approximately 867 injured.

Hence, all the rules and security measures at well-run festivals. Hina Pandya and her family have gone to ACL every year since 2015. She, like other attendees, says she has never felt unsafe there. “The lines can get pretty long, but that never bothers me,” she says. “I feel good that they are being so thorough. Security is pretty tight; they examine everything.”

Tips from Festivalgoers Make your plans early. Tickets do sell out.

And so do hotel rooms near the festival.

Though it may be more expensive, many veteran festivalgoers opt to stay at hotels or Airbnbs within walking distance. That way, they don’t have to deal with parking or with ride-share companies, given that cell-phone reception may be jammed and Uber will probably institute surge pricing because of the crowds.

For ACL, Seema points out, some hotels, like The W and The Four Seasons, are where the performers stay, so the chance to see some of them might be a factor when deciding where you’ll stay. One year, Seema got to take a picture with LL Cool J at one of the hotels.

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size, for example, and most often, outside food and drink are not allowed. But do bring a refillable water bottle.

Then there’s the question of what kind of tickets to buy. Tickets range from general admission all the way up to VIP and Platinum packages, which can cost thousands of dollars per person and can include amenities such as complimentary dining, an open bar, even onsite complimentary salon services and chauffeured golf carts to bring you to reserved space at the front of the stage. Consider what you can and cannot live without. Melinda says her sweet spot for festival tickets is General Admissions Plus. “They have some perks but are not the ‘perkiest,’” she explains. “I want airconditioned bathrooms.”

It helps to have a plan for the festival itself.

Festivals release their line-ups ahead of time.

You can see when and where the bands you know you want to see are playing and plan accordingly, although you might still be conflicted on which performances to watch. Seema once split her time between watching Haim and Young the Giant because both were performing on different stages in the same time slot.

A large part of the fun of a music festival is discovering new bands. When you get the lineup ahead of time, you can stream the music of bands you don’t know and decide who you want to see of them as well.

Many music festivals have their own phone apps. Seema has used the one for ACL. “You tap the bands you want to see and it will auto-generate a schedule for you,” she says.

At the festival itself, people tend to bring lawn chairs and blankets to sit on, and they establish their “base camp.” Surprisingly, these chairs and blankets, though maybe not valuables like your wallet or phone, can generally be left unattended without problem, these veteran festivalgoers say. “Music festivals are a trustworthy type of climate,” says Melinda.

Try to travel light, though. Seema doesn’t bring chairs, just a waterproof tarp she got at a camping store that folds up to the size of a rain poncho and fits in her small backpack.

Wear comfortable, weather-appropriate clothes and comfortable shoes, “with closed toes,” suggests Hina Pandya, for when you are walking near the porta-potties. (Yikes.)

For Hina and her family, ACL has become a family tradition. Pro-tip from Hina’s two daughters, Janvi and Shivani, both alumna of the University of Texas, Austin: Check the football schedule. The weekend of a big game will be less crowded.

And still, things will not always go according to plan. When Karen, Melinda, and their friends went to the Telluride Jazz Festival in 2022, thunderstorms rolled through on two of the days. “We sat in our chairs, pulled our tarp over ourselves, opened our umbrellas, and put on our hats,” says Karen. Likewise, when it became very cold at night at the Innings Festival in February, held in the desert town of Tempe, Arizona, they went back to their hotel rooms and put every piece of clothing they had on.

“You just roll with it,” says Karen. “Even if it’s cold or rainy, I don’t ever regret going. It’s all part of the experience.”

Seema sums up: “Keep an open mind, wear comfy shoes, and put your reservations aside.”

Music festivals are the chance to have an adventure.

Near and Far: A Partial List of Music Festivals Austin City Limits Music Festival (ACL) Austin, TX , Oct. 6-8; Oct. 13-15, 2023 aclfestival.com VetsAid San Diego, Calif., Nov. 12, 2023 joewalsh.com/pages/vetsaid-homepage (continued on page 18)

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Sydney Gawlik for ACL Fest

GOLDEN HOUR Country star Kacey Musgraves performing onstage at ACL in 2019. Lucky festivalgoers may get to see their favorite artists perform at “golden hour,” as the sun sets.

Innings Festival Tempe, Ariz., February (2024 dates have not been announced); Tampa, Fla., March (2024 dates have not been announced) www.inningsfestival.com

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South by Southwest Music Festival (SXSW) Austin, TX, March 11-16, 2024 www.sxsw.com/festivals/music Big Ears Music Festival Knoxville, Tenn., March 21-24, 2024 bigearsfestival.org Ultra Music Festival Miami, Fla., May 22-24, 2024 ultramusicfestival.com Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival Indio, Calif., April 12-14; April 19-21, 2024 coachella.com Old Settler’s Music Festival Dale, TX, April 18-21, 2024 oldsettlersmusicfest.org Stagecoach Indio, Calif., April 26-28, 2024 stagecoachfestival.com New Orleans Jazz & Heritage Festival New Orleans, La., April 25-May 5, 2024 nojazzfest.com Shaky Knees Music Festival Atlanta, Ga., May 3-5, 2024 shakykneesfestival.com Electric Daisy Carnival Las Vegas, Nv., May 17-19, 2024 lasvegas.electricdaisycarnival.com BELLAIRE BUZZ OCTOBER 2023 18

BottleRock Napa Valley, Calif., May 24-26, 2024 bottlerocknapavalley.com Boston Calling Music Festival Boston, Mass., May 24-26, 2024 bostoncalling.com Cherokee Creek Music Festival Cherokee, TX, May (2024 dates have not been announced) cherokeecreekmusicfestival.org Movement Detroit, Mich., May (2024 dates have not been announced) movementfestival.com Hangout Music Festival Gulf Shores, Ala., May 17-19, 2024 hangoutmusicfest.com Governors Ball Music Festival New York City, N.Y., June (2024 dates have not been announced) governorsballmusicfestival.com Bonnaroo Music & Arts Festival Manchester, Tenn., June (2024 dates have not been announced) bonnaroo.com SummerFest Milwaukee, Wis., June 20-22; June 27-29; July 4-6 summerfest.com Pitchfork Chicago, Ill., July (2024 dates have not been announced) pitchforkmusicfestival.com

Lollapalooza Chicago, Ill., August (2024 dates have not been announced) lollapalooza.com WonderBus Music & Arts Festival Columbus, Oh., August (2024 dates have not been announced) wonderbusfest.com Outside Lands San Francisco, Calif., Aug. 9-11, 2024 sfoutsidelands.com Telluride Jazz Festival Telluride, Colo., Aug. 9-11, 2024 telluridejazz.org Telluride Blues & Brews Festival Telluride, Colo., September (2024 dates have not been announced) tellurideblues.com Life Is Beautiful Festival Las Vegas, Nev., September (2024 dates have not been announced) lifeisbeautiful.com Farm Aid 2023 venue: Noblesville, In.; locations vary, September (2024 dates have not been announced) farmaid.org Sea.Hear. Now Asbury Park, N.J., September (2024 dates have not been announced) seahearnowfestival.com Editor’s note: See musicfestivalwizard.com to search music festivals by location, month, genre, venue, or size.

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NEIGHBORS

by Russell Weil, contributing writer

The Barber Bond More than just a buzz cut

THEN AND NOW On left: Thomas Royce III getting his first haircut by Jeanne Mar on his first birthday on Sept. 18, 1984. On right: Forty years later, Thomas still gets his hair cut by Jeanne. Recently, Jeanne announced her plans to retire, much to her customers’ disappointment.

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onds formed with our barbers can go far beyond a haircut. Trips to the barbershop are more than just a place where grown men with fading hairlines open newspapers to talk politics and NFL playoffs. Barbers are often among our longest and most trusted relationships.

More than just someone who keeps us wellgroomed, barbers become faithful confidants with whom we share intimate details on many topics.

During my childhood years, regular buzzes were at my dad’s discretion. My opinion as to whether a haircut was needed was neither sought nor considered. That all changed as an adult with my standing appointment every Saturday morning since the mid-1980s with my BELLAIRE BUZZ OCTOBER 2023 20

barber, Jeanne Mar. The time spent together has cemented ours as an enduring friendship. As my hair has evolved from brown to gray, so has our bond. This rapport is not unique. Just ask any guy who has a long-term relationship with the person cutting his hair.

Many long-time barbershops continue to thrive in Houston, including Bellaire Original Barber Shop in Bellaire, Avalon Barber Shop in River Oaks, and Times Barber Shop near Rice University. Times has been around since the 1960s. Originally launched in Rice Village, the shop eventually moved to their current location near the intersection of the Southwest Freeway and Shepherd Drive.

As a long-time local barber, Robert Arellano has been with the iconic Times Barber Shop since 1963, when he moved to Houston from Austin. He pivoted to an ownership role when he purchased Times Barber Shop in 1971. Now, at 80 years old, Robert has no intention of slowing down from the craft he knows and loves.

Alongside Robert are his daughter Christina, brother Robert, and grandson Arthur, making Times a true family affair.

One recent Tuesday afternoon, the business was brisk at Times with walk-ins and scheduled appointments. Conversations ensued as each took their place in one of the vibrant red vintage barber chairs.

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THROUGH THE TIMES Pictured, standing from left: James, Arthur, Robert (owner), and Christina Arellano and barber Richard Walker with customers at Times Barber Shop. (continued from page 20) Staub has been coming to

Times for his haircuts for over 20 years. Staub shared, “Christina and I talk about everything that I can’t talk about with my wife. Our conversations are sacred, and I know she won’t divulge anything. It’s almost like attorneyclient privilege.”

Local urologist and West University resident Dr. Robert Renner has had a long-standing relationship with Times Barber Shop dating back several decades. He shared, “I like to go in, relax, and get my haircut without too much small talk.

I think a lot of families in this area have taken their children and maybe even grandchildren there.” Dr. Renner added, “I like Robert – he’s an institution, and there aren’t many institutions left in Houston.”

Over time, I have witnessed the camaraderie among the generations of men who frequent the barbershop where I am a customer – grandfathers and fathers to sons and grandsons. There is an unspoken brotherhood among us, a place where we have gathered not only for haircuts but for lively conversations, debates, and occasional jests. Jeanne, my barber, shared, “I found an old photo of me holding my customer’s little boy, Thomas Royce III, in my arms. That kid is now a 40-year-old man who still comes in for haircuts. A big burly guy. We had a good laugh when I showed him the photo.”

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I still look the same. I can’t think of a time when Jeanne wasn’t my barber. I can remember coming to her as a little kid with my father, and I was never scared.”

Royce recalled one recent appointment. “I came in for my haircut appointment earlier this past May while Jeanne was with another customer. As I waited, I decided to call my dad, and when he picked up the phone, I realized he was the customer in Jeanne’s chair. We didn’t know that we had back-to-back haircut appointments.”

Royce also recalled another story that Jeanne shared about his dad. “He loves to barbecue.

Jeanne told me that she can always tell when he has been barbequing because he comes in with singed hair. She knows him well.”

Jeanne and I have shared countless experiences, creating a unique sanctuary within the walls of the barbershop. Our conversations delve into topics both light and heavy, ranging from family anecdotes to heartfelt confessions. I have found solace in sharing joys, sorrows, and aspirations with Jeanne, who listens attentively and offers wise words of advice, providing the kind of ear and guidance that might come from a professional counselor or life coach.

For example, several years ago, I was offered a new role with a local marketing firm. I brought their offer letter to share with Jeanne. Looking over the document, she suggested that I counter the offer with a more competitive salary request.

Heeding this advice to negotiate brought favor-

able results. The company agreed, and I accepted the offer thanks to her collaboration. Jeanne possesses an incredible skill that goes beyond her mastery of the scissors and comb.

Recently, Jeanne announced her plans to retire in the near future. Reality has not yet set in, and I haven’t begun to contemplate the impact of Jeanne hanging up her shears. A sensitive topic of discussion, many of her other long-time clients suggested we picket outside her shop when the time comes.

Thomas Royce III shared, “I couldn’t even wrap my head around her retiring. All I could focus on was either setting her up in a parking lot somewhere or finding an apprentice to work under her to take over. My dad said he was actually losing sleep over it all.”

In a world where relationships often come and go, barbers stand as a testament to the enduring power of connection. The simple act of my Saturday morning haircut has evolved into something profound – a refuge of understanding, a bastion of trust, and a haven where I can confide in my most cherished secrets.

While I will miss the weekly catch-ups and conversations that have been a mainstay for most of my adult life, I am confident our bond will continue to endure.

Do you or someone you know have a long-term relationship with a barber? Share your story with us in the comments section of this story at thebuzzmagazines.com or email info@thebuzzmagazines.com

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A Decade of School Buzz Meet our 2023-24 correspondents

by Caroline Siegfried, staff writer

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SCHOOL BUZZ A group of 2023-24 School Buzz correspondents gathered at The Emery/Weiner School to meet each other and take headshots for the upcoming year. Front row, from left: Donna Xue (Houston Christian), Madeleine Skaufel (St. Agnes), Keira Donovan (Memorial), Eden Williams (Westbury Christian), Sophia Wagner (St. Pius X), Kelsy Donovan (Memorial), Eli Karpas (Emery), Shyla Jogi (Bellaire), Audrey Nguyen (Saint Thomas' Episcopal), Solemei Scamaroni (The Village School), Catherine McClees (Stratford), Caroline Larrabee (Stratford); second row, from left: Tessa Harfenist (Duchesne), Julia Harfenist (Duchesne), Anjali Martinez (Carnegie Vanguard), Agnes Tang (Westbury Christian), Dani Barg (Emery), Emma Lai (Post Oak), Carver Hix (Strake Jesuit), Beatrix Gnemi (DeBakey High School); back row, from left: Anika Engler (Second Baptist), Charles Yu (Bellaire), Maggie Hester (St. John’s), Asia Williams (Lamar), Nia Shetty (St. John’s), Alexandra Wong (St. Agnes), and Jordan Muscal (Kinder HSPVA).

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his fall begins the 10th year of School Buzz. A decade. We’re proud of how this program has grown over those years, and how it’s allowed high school students to practice writing and journalism skills while connecting to the broader community. Each year, our student reporters write about their schools and share their perspectives with Buzz readers on our website, thebuzzmagazines.com.

As the years have passed, the number of reporters has ticked up and up – and we have so enjoyed that students want to be part of this program. But after a record-breaking 97 School Buzz reporters last year, we decided to rethink our approach. This program was always aimed at engaging with students; with so many reporters, that had become difficult. This year, we chose to accept a more limited number of reporters, so that we can give each student more personal feedback.

This year’s School Buzz program reflects a

slower, more thoughtful process – our overall goal is to foster writing with care and precision. Out of a large pool of exceptionally talented applicants, we chose 38 students, from 21 local high schools. Read on to see how they began their journeys with writing, in their own words.

Shyla Jogi, Bellaire High School As long as I can remember, my classmates have agreed upon one, and only one, perspective: English class is the worst. And there's good reasoning behind it, too. Long essays, time-consuming reading assignments, having to think critically, of all things. I would join in on the complaining and commiserating, until the day I realized that the exact opposite was true for me. Unlike my classmates, I looked forward to spending hours and hours on the essay assignments, reading classics late at night (probably the reason I need glasses),

and participating in the class discussions that my peers so loudly bemoaned. My discovery of my passion for writing was less of a triumphant revelation than a gradual stumbling to a conclusion. When I learned about this opportunity to write for School Buzz, it dawned upon me that this was exactly what those English classes were leading up to: for me to be able to tell the stories of the people around me and at the same time, do what I love doing the most.

Eli Karpas, The Emery/Weiner School 12,000 ft on top of Anchor Mountain, located in Dolores County, Colorado, I had finally filled out my journal. At the beginning of the two-week-long outing through Colorado, I bought a black-and-white spotted journal at a local gas station, which I deemed necessary considering the vast amount of free time I would have. Each day I would journal,

School Buzz 2023-24 Reporters The Awty International School Ava Nair Alina Syed Gregory Shafir Zelitt

Memorial High School Alden Farrow Keira Donovan Kelsy Donovan

Bellaire High School Melanie Fung Shyla Jogi Charles Yu

The Post Oak School Emma Lai

Carnegie Vanguard High School Anjali Martinez Michael E. DeBakey High School for Health Professions Beatrix Gnemi Duchesne Academy of the Sacred Heart Isabel Fernandez-Cueto Julia Harfenist Tessa Harfenist The Emery/Weiner School Dani Barg Eli Karpas Houston Christian High School Donna Xue Kinder High School for the Performing and Visual Arts Matthew Jeong Jordan Muscal

Saint Thomas’ Episcopal School Audrey Nguyen Elsie Wire St. Agnes Academy Alexandra Wong Madeleine Skaufel St. John’s School Maggie Hester Nia Shetty Stratford High School Caroline Larrabee Catherine McClees St. Pius X High School Sophia Wagner Second Baptist School Anika Engler Strake Jesuit College Preparatory Carver Hix

The Kinkaid School Oliver Oldham Eshaan Mani

The Village School Solemei Scamaroni

Lamar High School Aleisha Paulick Asia Williams

Westbury Christian School Agnes Tang Eden Williams

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losing track of time, and once I finally reached the summit of Anchor Mountain, every page was full. I realized how much I loved writing, and how it models a haven for me. From then, I have maintained an interest in writing with purpose, leading me to take journalism classes throughout high school as well as writing for my school newspaper.

Writing for School Buzz will only enhance my passion for writing along with shouting out the awesome school I attend.

school. My love for writing started as a little first grader and continues to flourish even now as a sophomore in high school. Now, I like to write articles about events happening around the world and in my community. I am so excited that I get to continue to write for School Buzz this year!

Maggie Hester, St. John's School I have always been competitive, so I have wanted to win just about every game, match, or competition imaginable. I was introduced to competitive writing through the UIL program at Horn Elementary. In my first Creative Writing competition, I won first place and knew immediately that I wanted another shiny medal. Having grown up as an athlete and in a family of athletes, I had never thought of participating in a writing contest, but I quickly fell in love and participated in these competitions throughout elementary

Jordan Muscal, Kinder High School for the Performing and Visual Arts Before I was ever a writer, I was a reader. I loved Magic Treehouse and Flat Stanley books, Judy Blume and Harry Potter, E.L. Konigsburg and Lois Lowry. When I had my first creative writing assignment in third or fourth grade, it blew my mind that this writing thing was something I could do too. Before that, I'd never thought about how intertwined reading and writing are, and it made me so happy to be doing the same art that produced my favorite books. My love for writing of all types has only grown as I've gotten older, and as I start my second year at Kinder HSPVA in the Creative Writing department, I'm excited to explore journalism as a writer for School Buzz.

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I'm looking forward to meeting reporters from schools outside my own, as well as getting to write and share some of the things I love about HSPVA. Charles Yu, Bellaire High School Since the days when I was learning to color inside the lines, writing has taken on many monstrous and attractive forms throughout my life. From the dreaded “Tuesday Night Writes” assigned by my third-grade teacher to my slightly mortifying history on fanfiction sites, writing has been a timeless method of expression. I found my footing as an editor for my school's yearbook, where I was forced out of my comfort zone to engage my classmates in their uncharted interests. Writing with School Buzz can help me convey an unfiltered perspective on what makes life entertaining, whether it be a major service event in the community or a simple student spotlight. As a diverse school of 3,000 students, Bellaire has many pageturning scoops that I believe are worth capturing. To write about (continued on page 28) BELLAIRE BUZZ OCTOBER 2023 27

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for the written word. This passion was ignited by a childhood filled with bedtime stories and visits to the local library. But it was in middle school that I truly found my calling as a writer, when my poems and articles started getting published.

Beyond writing, my mission is to ensure that every child has access to the wonders of literacy. I organize book donation drives and literacy events, taking small steps to make this dream a reality.

Additionally, I’ve had the opportunity to promote the incredible resources and activities that local libraries offer to our community. I see an opportunity to combine my passion for writing and my commitment to literacy by writing for School Buzz. What excites me most is being surrounded by peers who, like me, have a tremendous amount of school pride and a love for literacy. Through my writing, I hope to not only express myself but also to highlight all the amazing things that happen at St. John’s and contribute to our society.

opportunity to immerse myself in my school and not only learn, but actually apply real-life skills in journalism. I first fell in love with writing when I was four. My mother had given me a mini journal, complete with a matching fluffy pink pen, and from that moment, my path to journalism was inevitable. I couldn't help but be drawn to the art of storytelling. For me, writing was – and still is – about capturing and preserving every moment. Extraordinary stories unfold behind the walls of my school each and every day, even in places that seem mundane. These past few years, I’ve covered incredible topics, including a sit-down interview with the new Headmaster and the World Culture Club's International Festival. STE’s spirit and vibrant community are what makes my school so incredibly special to me. With each article, I uncover even more remarkable stories that I can’t wait to share.

Audrey Nguyen, Saint Thomas’ Episcopal School Entering my third year as a School Buzz reporter, I am continuing to embrace the

Carver Hix, Strake Jesuit Throughout my life, I have always enjoyed writing, whether it be in the form of poetry, creative storytelling, or even school essays,

serve their legacy in a medium that can outlast the experience itself.

Eden Williams, Westbury Christian School I have been writing for a long period of my life, but it wasn't until my sophomore year that I found my true passion for it. Throughout last year, my writing has begun to exude more than just words on a page; now it is meant to tell a story, with every aspect coming together to form something beautiful! Writing allows me to express my perspective of this amazing world.

Moreover, School Buzz stood out to me because I hope to share a new point of view with the community. I've hoped for an opportunity to bring my writing to greater heights, and I am so grateful that I can continue on that path! I also grew up reading The Buzz Magazines, and I cannot wait to be a part of it. Overall, I aim to spread joy in my stories, bringing smiles to any reader who sees them.

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where I was given the opportunity to write about and express what I wanted on a page, but I discovered my passion for writing during my journalism class at my school last year. Through this class I realized the power of writing, or rather the power of telling a story, and the potential it has to not only give presence to what usually lies underground, but also express the stories of different peoples, places, events, and actions that take place to shed them in a new light to all different audiences. I am looking forward to writing for School Buzz so that I can gain more experience writing in a more professional setting but also so that I can share the stories in my school and community with a wider audience.

contrast each other. It is impossible for one to be entirely devoted to one form of art without touching upon its peers. Thus, it is not surprising for me to admit that I did not simply pick up my pen and a passion for writing was kindled in me. Rather, I was steered towards it by my familiarity with visual arts and my commitment to expressing ideas in the most fitting way. During this process of experimenting, I discovered that certain concepts were more suited to words and figurative language rather than colors and shapes, and it appealed to a different audience. This led to the realization that I needed opportunities such as School Buzz to improve my writing skills while presenting our school events through the honesty and freedom of art.

Gregory Shafir Zelitt, The Awty International School I discovered that I enjoy writing when my teachers at The Awty International School, where I have been a student since sixth grade, encouraged me to write about whatever I have a passionate interest in. As a hobby, I study WWII and the history of my family, so my eighth-grade history teacher encouraged me to submit to the Scholastic Writing Awards a piece I wrote about my great-grandfather, a Soviet war hero who liberated the concentration camp where his mother perished. I won a Silver Key award for that piece. The following year I won a Gold Key for a piece I wrote about how my family emigrated from the former Soviet Union to flee Jewish persecution and came to the United States as refugees. I have enjoyed writing ever since. With School Buzz, I want to share all that we are doing at Awty to serve our community, as well as the programs we put on to learn from our school, comprised of students from all over the world.

Melanie Fung, Bellaire High School I was actually pretty bad at writing when I was in elementary school. Writing paragraphs or stories took hours to start because I didn't know how to phrase anything. After my mom took me to a writing workshop, I had more opportunities to write and started to enjoy it more and more. Dancing is one of my hobbies, and I absolutely love it.

Agnes Tang, Westbury Christian School Art is a vast topic involving various inextricably linked elements that complement and

Emma Lai, The Post Oak School When I was about six, my mom told me how light is commonly portrayed as good, and dark is portrayed as bad. In TV shows I watched and books I read, I began to notice: protagonists had light features, and antagonists had darker ones. I decided I wanted to be an author whose protagonists had darker features, and whose villains had lighter ones.

But, at six, I only imagined that, and eventually those dreams lingered more as memories than goals. When I was in middle school, I rediscovered my love for writing. I had written a historical fiction story for Humanities class and shared it with my parents. Seeing how impressed they were made me feel proud.

After that, I became more involved in writing

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for my school's newsletter. Writing became a way for me to share my perspective and find my voice. This summer, my mom suggested I apply to be a student reporter for School Buzz.

I saw this as an opportunity to share unique experiences from The Post Oak School and continue writing. I hope to represent my school, gain experience in journalism, and, most of all, do what I wanted to do even at six: make a difference through my writing.

Matthew Jeong, Kinder High School for the Performing and Visual Arts From high school superlatives to rags-toriches success stories, news stories have a way of bringing people together. It can be funny, inspirational, sometimes just informational.

Regardless, the ease in which information is distributed, written by a careful hand and perspective, has a special effect. People learn more about each other, from little quirks and tidbits to major events and revelations.

There's a sense of spirit, of a culture that everyone's a part of, all facilitated through reporting. My love for human-to-human connections has helped me realize my passion for writing and reporting. I love how news can forge connections between people that can't be observed anywhere else, forming a community bond. As a high schooler, I have a unique perspective of what’s happening in my community that I want to share with everyone else. To pursue those aspirations, I’ve developed editorial skills as the managing editor of my school newspaper and student reporter for School Buzz, where I work to deliver the impact of a proper newspaper firsthand.

Alexandra Wong, St. Agnes Academy From grades one through five, I was readily identifiable as the little girl lugging around a book into the most inappropriate places: in restaurants, with relatives, before piano lessons. My younger self reasoned it was always necessary to have a book (continued on page 30) BELLAIRE BUZZ OCTOBER 2023 29

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when I was introduced to poetry. Since then, I have written numerous poems, and have expanded my writing in other genres as well.

Journalism is one of my favorite types of writing.

There is power in words, and I believe School Buzz gives writers a chance to develop their passions and tell stories within their communities.

In the age of hyperconnectivity, the fundamentals of newswriting only become more important to future generations.

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which was how I often explained to my perplexed parents why going to the movie theater required a copy of The Land of Stories.

Though I doubt they ever understood, by the time sixth grade rolled around, I had grown out of that habit and into a new one. I started carrying a notebook and pen around instead – which was, in retrospect, maybe not a considerable improvement. Regardless, I started taking note of the “coolest” outfits I saw, what I ate for lunch, and anything I deemed exciting. Journaling these things had become my favorite part of the day. So, when applications to write for my middle school's newsletter opened, it was only natural to send in my writing and apply. There I discovered a love for journalism that I took to high school. I am so excited to continue my writing journey with School Buzz and share what being a sophomore at St. Agnes is like!

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Asia Williams, Lamar High School Growing up, writing was always my favorite subject. I noticed I was always better at it than my peers in school. My true passion for writing began around the third grade, when I began to compete in writing competitions. I was always intimidated by the fact I was younger than the majority of kids that competed. I was encouraged to continue to write when I won my first competition. I started to write on a higher level starting with UIL in high school, state essay competitions, and writing for a local newspaper. School Buzz will give me the chance to work with different

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local people my age and get an inside look at different perspectives.

Beatrix Gnemi, Michael E. DeBakey High School for Health Professions I first discovered my passion for reading at a young age; when I was in elementary school, I was constantly reading books – even during car rides and going up or down the stairs. I never thought I had any reason to think other people would want to read my own words, but when Covid-19 left me stuck at home for a year and a half, I decided to chronicle my quarantine life in a cerulean blue journal. I wrote to a made-up person named “Marie” every single day until the pandemic ended, detailing the happenings of my day and my general thoughts on everything. Since then, I have gained a strong sense of voice in my writing. After this experience, I have grown to be fond of writing, but have never written for a larger audience than myself. I know for a fact that writing for School Buzz will be exhilarating, as I spread information on what is happen-

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ing in my school and community to a real audience now.

very well after I interviewed them. A few months later, they graduated. I stood outside the graduation hall, and everybody greeted me, telling me their goodbyes. It was emotional, but I appreciate having listened to them talk with passion and having recorded their experiences in words. Moving into senior year, I want to share memories of high school that will be there for the seniors, teachers, and all students to read and remember.

Aleisha Paulick, Lamar High School My passion for writing started in middle school when I got into story writing. I loved creating characters and developing plots, or even taking original stories and creating a different ending. While many people groan at the thought of a writing task, it has never been that way for me. I feel that writing is a way for me to express my opinion, and journalism has allowed me to give my take on topics and talk about situations that don't get enough attention. I love discovering the why, what, and how something occurred.

Eshaan Mani, The Kinkaid School I first discovered my passion for journalism as a TIME for Kids Kid Reporter in eighth grade – the rush of covering a meaningful story in realtime is truly special. Over my past three years with School Buzz, I have enjoyed covering the vibrant Kinkaid community and spotlighting the talented students and interesting goings-on on campus. One of my favorite stories I've written for School Buzz has been my profile of Jaivir Pande, a Nepali-American junior golfer who won the Drive, Chip, and Putt competition in Augusta, GA, at one of the most prestigious golf courses. I hope to continue covering the Falcon family in my senior year. The publication's reach, the breadth of topics covered, and the amazing editorial staff are all reasons why I love to write for School Buzz.

Donna Xue, Houston Christian High School Last summer, I was accepted to School Buzz.

As someone who wants to write as a career, this opportunity opened my eyes to what might be my future. I started looking at projects at school and the people involved in them. Through that, I got to know people I would've never encountered if not for the articles I wanted to write. I knew some seniors

Solemei Scamaroni, The Village School The Doom approached. Hearing his thundering call, my sister and I fled towards the lake. See, the lake wasn't just a lake – it was a magical kingdom that needed saving, and we were its saviors. My father was The Doom, the villain. Before adolescence, I used to spend hours, pen and Moleskine journal in hand, creating new stories, new worlds, for my sister and I to explore around the lake next to our home. Despite growing up in a time saturated with iPad screens and flashing TVs, to me, our “normal” world was incredibly unstimulating.

I felt the need to create magic because I could never find it. It wasn't until I was thrust into activities, like theater and journalism, where I was forced to connect to the world around me, instead of inventing it, that I noticed the true magic was the one that lay between us – the people. It is this revelation that has inspired me to explore the magic of the people in my community.

Oliver Oldham, The Kinkaid School I found my love for writing when I realized that it is not a task, but an opportunity to express myself. To be honest, I used to dread writing. I associated writing with assigned schoolwork, and it took me a long time to realize that writing is only as fun as you make it. I began to dive deeper into my writing, and I started to enjoy developing my answers to each prompt I was given. I began to feel a sense of accomplishment and pride each time I finished a piece. At

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that point, around two years ago, I found a whole new way to express myself through words.

I am so excited to continue to write for School Buzz and I look forward to highlighting the amazing things people in the Kinkaid community are doing.

Anika Engler, Second Baptist School From writing every detail of my day in my diary, to putting together an eight-page research paper, I love every step of the writing process. Gathering my ideas, formulating a piece of work, and seeing it all come together spark an unexplainable rush in me. The creativity that comes with journalism allows individuals to express themselves, and I thoroughly enjoy participating in that. I appreciate the freedom one possesses when coming up with ideas, stories, and prompts. I tend to be a person that desires spontaneity, and writing provides me the opportunity to embrace that trait through reporting about something new every time. My dream is to one day have my own column in a magazine, and I think that School Buzz is the perfect way to launch my dream. I want to give people a behind-the-scenes look at what happens in the real high school world, the things most people are not aware of and do not see. I want to show others a different way of looking at situations and events that occur.

Along with writing and reporting, I love the aspect of being able to take photographs, because it helps embellish the story and allows the person reading to visualize everything in a more detailed manner. School Buzz will allow me to capture the moment and then further explain the moment to all my peers.

MORE ONLINE See this article at thebuzzmagazines.com to read more from 2023-24 correspondents about their love of writing. Check out the School Buzz blog at thebuzzmagazines.com/columns/school-buzz throughout the year as these correspondents share school happenings.

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KIDS

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by Annie Blaylock McQueen, staff writer

Buzz Baby

Family Halloween Costumes

Buzz Baby is a column about life with little ones.

Writer Annie McQueen is a mother of four children under the age of 9.

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alloween costumes can bring out so much laughter and creativity – especially when a family gets in on a groupthemed costume. It gets even better when the tiniest family member plays a role as well.

My nieces and nephews have dressed in themed costumes over the years – from a medieval theme of a princess, knight, and dragon, a group of spotted pups and a Cruella (of 101 Dalmations), a Tinker Bell and Peter Pan (of Peter Pan) to a group of Texans football fans with a cheerleader. The big reveal of their group costume is so fun to see every year. It was always so cute when their youngest would be the starring role (such as Cruella).

My husband and our kids decided to hop on the family costume bandwagon a few years back. I snagged a perfect set of costumes from a Facebook group – and we stepped out as The Incredibles. Our youngest son, Hank, was 2 at the time, and he was baby Jack-Jack. I can still see his little eyes peering out of the red mask he wore while we trick-ortreated around our neighborhood. It is always my favorite part of every Halloween – checking out the costumes as we meander around with the kids darting up and down sidewalks to ring doorbells and ask for candy.

Mother-of-two Natalie Mercer has come up with some clever ideas for her family’s coordinated Halloween costumes. She and her husband Michael have one son, Shep, 4, and one daughter, Maddie, 6.

When children are smaller, they usually do not mind the parent deciding on the costumes, but as they grow older, they can have opinions.

She says the most challenging part is the selection of the costume. “As they are getting older, they might change their mind on Halloween night,” says Natalie, laughing.

Natalie says her favorite family costume to date is when her husband Michael matched their then 3-year-old Shep with a Daddy Shark and Baby Shark costume. “Shep was really into Baby Shark at the time and seeing his dad as BELLAIRE BUZZ OCTOBER 2023 32

CREATIVE COSTUMES Family Halloween costumes can bring out creativity and laughs, especially when the little ones are part of the costume. On left: Last year, Michael and Shep Mercer dressed as Daddy and Baby Shark while mom Natalie and daughter Maddie coordinated as witches. On right: The Ramsey family trick-or-treated as the Royal Family.

Daddy Shark put the biggest smile on his face,” said Natalie. Even though it was difficult for them to waddle around in their blowup costumes, and hard for a 3-year-old to keep on the whole time, it made for a hilarious photo opportunity and memory. She said the experience of wearing matching costumes makes Halloween extra special and brings out a lot of laughs from neighbors while out trick-or-treating.

Kathleen Van Keppel, a mom of three, says she has loved Halloween for as long as she can remember. “Now, having kids has made the holiday even sweeter,” she said. “To plan our costumes, I just ask the girls what they want to be, and then I plan a family costume around that.

It is so fun to have the whole family involved,” said Kathleen. Their themes have included a Shipley’s donut theme, a space theme with a Martian costume for their daughter, a Frozen theme, and more.

A few great tips from these parents are not to wait till the last minute to assemble a group costume. Visit a local thrift store to find accessories or browse Facebook Marketplace or local buyand-sell groups online. There are many accessories and parts to find, and a lot of it can be done yourself so also check out local crafts stores if you want to DIY. I personally cannot wait each year to see the creative costumes around my neighborhood and on my social media feeds. Dressing up as a themed family for Halloween adds a touch of humor and a whole lot of heart to the holiday.

So, tap into your creative side, and make this Halloween a family affair. You will be sure to create some everlasting memories.

Editor’s Note: Dressing up as a family this year to trick-or-treat? Send us your family-themed Halloween costumes at info@thebuzzmagazines.com.

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ARTS

by Cindy Burnett, staff writer

Buzz Reads

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Five picks for October

Buzz Reads is a column about books by reviewer Cindy Burnett. Each month, Cindy recommends five recently or soon-to-be released titles.

A Beautiful Rival: A Novel of Helena Rubinstein and Elizabeth Arden by Gill Paul (historical fiction) – A Beautiful Rival chronicles the bitter feud between two beauty industry giants, Elizabeth Arden and Helena Rubinstein, the women responsible for launching the cosmetics industry we know today. Alternating between the two women’s points of view, Paul tells each woman’s story and then paints a vivid picture of their rivalry: copying products and ad campaigns, poaching employees, planting spies, spreading rumors, and more. Both women were extremely driven and motivated to succeed, sometimes no matter the cost, personal or professional. So much history is woven into the tale as the two women kept their businesses afloat during two world wars and the Great Depression. Paul has another winner on her hands as she continues to highlight strong historical women.

Kill Show by Daniel Sweren-Becker (mystery) – Structured in transcript format, Kill Show is set 10 years after a 16-year-old girl goes missing and the circus that ensued after a true crime show comes to town to try to “help” find the girl.

The tale is relayed through “interviews” with all of the key participants in the tragedy and demonstrates how Hollywood and others exploit these tragedies for entertainment purposes. It is a compelling story that is also a commentary on the true crime industry, its dark underbelly, the lives that end up ruined by all of these amateur sleuths and online shaming, and why the country’s fascination with it is often problematic.

Sweren-Becker says of the inspiration for the book: “I’m fascinated by our national obsession with true crime. How do we detach from the horrific facts to find it entertaining? How do people doing this professionally sleep at night?”

Kill Show is a massive page turner and very thought provoking; I highly recommend this brief but powerful novel.

Murder by Degrees by Ritu Mukerji (historical mystery) – Set in 1875 Philadelphia, BELLAIRE BUZZ OCTOBER 2023 34

this stellar debut follows Dr. Lydia Weston, a professor at Women’s Medical College of Pennsylvania. Anna, a patient Dr. Weston has been seeing in the college’s affiliated outpatient clinic, shows up one evening in a manic state and then disappears just as quickly.

Lydia is dismayed to learn that Anna’s body was subsequently WHAT TO READ This month’s selections include a witty science fiction take dredged out of the on supervillains, a look at the rivalry between Helena Rubinstein and Elizabeth Arden, a historical Georgian saga, a fascinating glimpse into the impact of our Schuylkill River, and obsession with true crime, and a historical mystery set in Philadelphia. her death deemed a suitomancy, intrigue and drama into a well-struccide. Certain Anna’s death could not be a suitured and clever tale with a fabulous ending. cide, Lydia insists on participating in the postStarter Villain by John Scalzi (science ficmortem, after which she is drawn into the tion) – John Scalzi’s latest novel is an engaging investigation of her demise. Mukerji creates a and witty romp starring Charlie Fitzer, an exstrong sense of time and place as well as craftjournalist working as a substitute teacher, who ing realistic and authentic characters. She discovers that his estranged uncle has died and vividly depicts Lydia’s medical procedures and left him his supervillain business. Suddenly, examinations as well as what it would be like Charlie is thrown into the world of comical to work as a female doctor during this time James-Bond-style villain societies, talking cats, period. The crime will keep you guessing until laser death rays, dolphin labor disputes, a volthe last pages – the best kind of mystery. cano island lair, and lots of double and triple The Square of Sevens by Laura Shepherdtwists. The book is chock-full of laugh-out-loud Robinson (historical fiction) – This multilaydialogue as well as Scalzi’s thoughts on modern ered, gothic historical saga is structured around day billionaires and who is actually running the cartomancy, telling fortunes using the ancient world, making this both an enjoyable and Square of Sevens method. The structure of the intriguing read. This is a short book that will book itself is built around the Square of Sevens, appeal to a wide range of readers; I highly recwith each chapter assigned a significant card ommend it. Note: Readers who aren’t usually with an explanation about the significance of drawn to science fiction may want to give this a that card. The story opens with 7-year-old Red try; it’s not heavy on the sci-fi and is a fun read. traveling from place to place with her Cornish father, a “cunning” man who tells fortunes using Editor’s note: Southside Place resident Cindy the ancient Square of Sevens to make a living.

Burnett also writes our weekly Page Turners colShortly before he dies, her father entrusts her umn at thebuzzmagazines.com. She hosts the care as well as an ancient Square of Sevens docaward-winning Thoughts from a Page Podcast, is ument to a gentleman to raise her. Eventually, co-creator of the Houston literary event series Red’s desire to understand her past leads her on Conversations from the Page, runs the Instagram a journey across England to solve the mystery of account @thoughtsfromapage, and regularly speaks her origins. This lengthy novel (it runs over 500 to groups about books. pages) incorporates history, twists and turns, car-

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by Tracy L. Barnett, staff writer

Travel Buzz

Dancing through the Chaos

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his is not a joke. I’m legit stranded in Japan w/ 31 people and have no clue when I’m coming home.”

So begins the now-viral video series of Dr. Trevor Boffone (aka @dr_boffone on Instagram, @official_dr_boffone on TikTok, and @trevor.boffone on Facebook), a virtual journey that followed an arduous real-life one on social media.

On the first video, a perplexed Trevor stands in the soft drink aisle of a convenience store, shrugs helplessly and launches into a peppy dance number to the tune of “Can’t Take My Eyes Off You.” In front of him is the text: “POV: You chaperoned a student trip to Japan and when you arrive at the airport you find out that American Airlines/Japan Airlines lost your booking and now you're stranded in Osaka, Japan and American Airlines tells you the soonest available flight is in 12 days and the only thing that will comfort you is another trip to the 7-11.” The video quickly amassed thousands of views and comments.

Dr. Trevor Boffone knows what it’s like to go viral – he and his Bellaire High School Spanish students took TikTok by storm four years ago when he started choreographing and posting the dance moves his students were teaching him. “It happened immediately; I got like 10,000 followers within a week, and 50,000 within six weeks,” he told Good Morning America in an interview at the time. Within two months, his followers shot up to 100,000, with views in the millions.

Trevor’s outsized social media presence began as a way to connect with his students, and ended up as the subject of his first book: Renegades: Digital Dance Cultures from Dubsmash to TikTok. Now the pop-culture scholar has begun a new career as a professor at Rice University and a content producer for Stages Houston. But he never imagined that his flair for dance and social media would help him get back home from the other side of the world – along with 30 other teachers, parents, and Carnegie Vanguard High School students on a class trip to Japan, all stranded in Osaka because of an airline error.

Wife Kayla Boffone, theatre director at Bellaire High School, had joined him on the chaperoning gig, invited by longtime friend and BELLAIRE BUZZ OCTOBER 2023 36

BUSTING A MOVE Takia and Talia Palmer, who were students in Dr. Trevor Boffone’s Spanish class at Bellaire High School, were also among his best dance teachers – and ended up appearing with him on Good Morning America.

fellow theater teacher at Carnegie Vanguard, Steward Savage, and they’d had a great trip – nine days exploring Tokyo, Kyoto, Osaka, several smaller cities and a number of temples and museums. They’d ridden a bullet train, eaten sushi in its place of origin, and, surprisingly, had some of the best pizza they’d ever tasted. Trevor had done TikToks eating the famous black eggs of Owakudani, which was supposed to extend his life by seven years; danced his signature “Hannah Montana” dance in front of Kyoto’s Nijo Castle; and did a montage of some of his favorite Japanese architecture. In short, he’d had a blast.

Until, that is, the group checked in at the Itami Airport in Osaka for the trip home and got the shock of their lives. They all had reservations, they were informed, but no tickets.

Somehow American Airlines made a mistake and didn’t pass along the information about the 31 passengers that were to fly to Tokyo on the morning of August 11. And so they had a reser-

vation, but not a booking. The soonest they could get a flight home, they were told, was in 12 days.

“We kept calling and they kept saying, ‘We cannot help you until the group booking opens,’ which to me feels insane,” said Trevor. “You have 31 teachers and students stuck in Japan.

Like someone should be able to help you, right?”

At the height of his frustration, he stepped out to film the 7-11 video, which quickly shot to 135,000 views on TikTok, and nearly another thousand on Instagram. But it was the next one that really topped the charts – the one where, standing in the hotel lobby in front of the vending machines, he laid out the whole debacle, ending with the solution the airlines finally came up with: an obligatory 48-hour trip around the world.

It wasn’t until their first layover – some 12 hours later, in the middle of the night, in Bangkok, Thailand – that he logged back on,

WEST MEETS EAST Left: Trevor and Kayla Boffone enjoy bowls of ramen in Kyoto, which they consider one of the best meals of the trip. Right: A shrine at Bangkok International Airport, which became the backdrop in a now famous TikTok video (@official_dr_boffone).

ready to make a new video, and saw that his second post had gone viral – big time. It had already topped a million views; at press time, it was over 2.7 million.

“I was super shocked because, you know, you just throw things out, and even though I've gone viral before… but you just never know what is going to resonate with people and what stories they're going to want to pay attention to.”

This story, apparently, had all the ingredients for a viral post: “It had a good hook – I’m stuck in Japan. I'm with 31 students and teachers. And big corporate American Airlines will not help us.”

It didn’t hurt, of course, that he was already a hip hop dance sensation on “the Clock App,” as he calls TikTok. But for the first time, he went viral with a non-dance video.

Kayla, for her part, was not too surprised.

She’s seen her husband’s TikTok account take off before, but it wasn’t until they finally made it back to Houston that it hit home the impact his posts had had.

“I don't want to say I'm used to it at this point, but yeah, he has a strong presence on social media, so it I guess was helpful in getting the attention of the airlines to hopefully fix the issue faster,” said Kayla. As for herself, she’s a bit more reserved and definitely does not have a big social media presence, she says.

“So I usually just kind of step to the side and let Trevor do his thing when he is social mediaing. At this point it happens a lot.” Sometimes, like when they were at Nijo Castle in Kyoto, she

gets to lend a hand. “He was like, ‘Hey, um, I know it's raining, but can you please come film me? I need to make a video in front of this arch.’

And so we went out … and sometimes my cinematography skills are not up to par, but I felt honored to be asked on that day.”

Once they got to Bangkok and Trevor saw the overnight sensation his Osaka video had become on TikTok, he hopped back on and made the Thaithemed dance video he’d been planning on the 12hour flight there – “One Night in Bangkok” – and linked it back to the previous ones: “American Airlines stranded me in Osaka, Japan. Now I’m flying around the world. First stop, Bangkok.”

In Munich, he only had 2.5 hours, so he made a quickie sharing the best pretzel of his life.

And in Charlotte, N.C. – the last stop before Houston – an exhausted Trevor responded to the news of his and Kayla’s lost luggage with a half-hearted dance number dedicated to Meryl Streep singing ABBA – and “watching Mamma Mia on every flight.”

Finally, back at home, they were able to relax and go through the photos and remember some of the highlights of the trip itself. “I know we've focused a lot on what happened at the very end of the trip,” said Kayla. “But the trip itself – just getting to be there and experience the culture was really incredible.”

She loved Tokyo the best – she remembers the neon lights, the breathtakingly fast bullet trains, the bustling energy everywhere she went.

One of the things that really surprised her was that, despite the fact that Tokyo was nearly as hot and humid as Houston, she still enjoyed spending time outdoors.

“I don't want to sound cheesy, but I thought it was a really magical place. Like the signage and the lights, everything there. I don't know if it was the humidity or what it was, but it felt very glowy and it had a really beautiful energy to it. It’s one of those places where you travel to and you just connect with it in such a different way.”

For his part, Trevor has been focused on getting their lost luggage back – hours of filling out forms and waiting through automated phone hell – and trying to recover the $600 he lost in extra expenses.

His goal throughout the ordeal was to stay positive – to help raise the group’s morale and his own. And if the videos are any indication, to a large extent, he succeeded.

“I tried to have fun with it and tell the story in a way that felt organic to who I am and also a way that felt organic to TikTok. I never wanted to rant, you know, and complain and be negative. I tried to be positive about it. And even though I was very upset about American Airlines, I've never wanted to use my platform to just be mean or ranty or negative. I can do that behind closed doors.”

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ALL TOGETHER NOW Trevor and Kayla Boffone traveled with a group of 30 teachers, parents, and Carnegie Vanguard High School students to Japan. Here, the group is pictured in the Asakusa district of Tokyo in front of the Sensō-ji, a Buddhist temple dedicated to the bodhisattva Kannon. (continued from page 37) al resiliency, he said.

At the end of the day, he found a heartwarming side to the whole fiasco.

“It was kind of funny because I was posting updates as I went. And so every time I got off the plane, I had DMs, and usually they were a bit late because people got the videos too late, but they were like, ‘Hey, I'm in Munich, or my cousin lives in Munich. I'll send him to the airport with food for y'all.’ Or several people offered to drive me from IAH to Hobby

(Trevor’s car was parked at Hobby Airport, but he was rerouted to George Bush Intercontinental…). One person was in Charlotte and she was like, ‘I work for American. I can have some special stuff for y'all in Charlotte.’ And I'm like, I don't know what the special stuff would be, but like, people were trying to help, right? And they wanted to offer their resources in whatever way they could.”

And for those who want to know if they ever got their luggage back… as of press time, one

suitcase out of two had arrived. Twelve days after their departure from Osaka … the day American Airlines had first offered to send them home.

Grist for another TikTok, of course.

Editor’s note: See this story at thebuzzmagazines.com for links to Trevor’s videos. Also, read an article Bellaire High School student Olivia Baba wrote about Dr. Boffone for our School Buzz blog in 2019. It was one of The Buzz Magazines’ most-read stories of the year in 2019.

Tips from our Travelers Trevor shares a few insights gained from his recent foray.

On Japan: Don’t miss: (Restaurants, museums, parks, historic sites, etc.) Kyoto, especially the Arashiyama area. The walk from the Bamboo Forest along the river back into town is gorgeous, peaceful, and a perfect respite from the crowded city.

Don't bother: Skip sushi. It's not that different from the sushi you can get in Houston so I wouldn't "waste" a meal on it. The ramen on the other hand...

What surprised me: Japan is the cleanest place I've ever been. The entire country was meticulous!

What delighted me: The food! Japanese food is top-tier, but don't forget about the desserts. The sponge cakes were off the charts!

Worth the splurge: Japan has excellent shopping so definitely budget to spend some money on souvenirs.

What I learned from the locals: Silence is king.

What I will never forget: (Besides the trip home!) Stumbling upon a pop-up bar in Kyoto and then strolling along the Kamo River at night.

On Travel Under Duress: Lessons learned: Don't forget to eat and drink often so you don't get hangry or more easily lose your patience. Sleep as much as you can!

Lessons I'd rather forget: Always pack extra clothes and deodorant in your carry-on bag.

How to keep a positive attitude: Knowing that so much of the travel kerfuffle was beyond my control helped me to view it in a positive light. After a certain point, I was along for the ride and couldn’t change anything about that.

How to help boost group morale: Make TikToks! ... Jokes aside, staying positive can go a long way. Creating fun social media posts can be a great way for group bonding and to help pass the time.

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DINING

by Dai Huynh, staff writer

Chef’s Corner

Dimitri Fetokakis

CHEF FETOKASIS Dimitri Fetokakis displays a Greek feast, highlighting all the various dishes offered at Niko Niko's.

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he blue and white Cycladic architecture paintings at the entrance of Niko Niko’s on Montrose call to mind the Mediterranean and Greece. But the eclectic interior of this 46-year-old restaurant – lined with “Greek Is Chic!” and “Get Your Greek On” T-shirts – screams Houston.

Here and there, you get glimpses of Dimitri Fetokakis – well, hand-drawn caricatures of the owner wearing oversized, black-rimmed glasses anyway – because the walking-and-talking version is in the kitchen or working at another location. These days, the salt-and-pepper-bearded man whom many people credit for keeping the Greek culture buzzing in Houston is on the go as he closes one chapter and starts a new one.

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to date: Opening a 10,800-square-foot Niko Niko’s Greek & American Café in the Woodlands with Cousin Niko Bossinakis.

“My cousin Niko is the second Niko on the sign. The first one is my brother,” Dimitri says.

“He came to me about two years ago and said, ‘Hey, how about we do something together?’ I was like, ‘Nik, if it’s with you, I’ll do it. If it were with anybody else, I wouldn’t do it.’”

October is a busy time. Dimitri is preoccupied with opening the new eatery by spring 2024, then there’s the annual Original Greek Festival.

In its 57th year, this is when the entire Greek community comes together Oct. 5-7 in a celebration that attracts 35,000-plus attendees.

“We have an amazing community: The older people work the booths, the grandmas make all the desserts, and the kids dance,” says the

Memorial resident, who turned 51 last month.

The Original Greek Festival started in 1966. A decade later, his family – Dad Chrisanthos Fetokakis, Mom Eleni, and their four children – arrived in Houston from New York City. An ornate, silver-framed black-and-white photo hangs near Niko Niko’s kitchen, showing a woman ordering from a walk-up to-go window. At the bottom is a tag – 1977 – the year Niko Niko’s opened.

The décor at the original Niko Niko’s (2520 Montrose Blvd.) is a mishmash of old and new.

That was by choice when the space was remodeled and expanded in 2004. Framed family photos – many faded – are scattered throughout the restaurant. Dimitri lived in the back of the restaurant, but when Niko Niko’s took off, he converted the living quarters into a commercial kitchen.

Greek album covers hang above the pastry

ALL IN THE FAMILY Left photo: A summer family vacation in Greece with wife Laura, son Chrysanthos, and daughter Nikoletta. Right photo: The original Niko Niko’s, a former filling station. Niko Niko's opened in 1977.

case. In one, a handsome dark-haired man holding a guitar is flanked by sultry models. Oldtimers instantly recognized the vintage artwork when Niko Niko’s had a dozen or so tables, and Dimitri was the only cashier working the register. “That’s my uncle, Tasso. He’s the reason my mother came to America,” he says.

The LP covers remind him of when his mother – then-18-year-old Eleni, a gifted singer – performed with her brother in nightclubs and communities in Greece and the United States. They were popular and recorded vinyl records. Later, she became the heart and soul of Niko Niko’s kitchen. The Moussaka, Pastichio, dolmathes, and cabbage rolls are her recipes.

Nearby, plywood board menus hang below cash registers, written with pseudo-Greek fonts that date back to 1977. They tell the story of his father, a risk-taker and gambler who ran dice games, but had keen business sense. A year after moving to Houston, Dimitri recalls his family being evicted from their apartment across from Niko Niko’s because they adopted a stray dog.

While sitting on the doorsteps, pondering, Dimitri’s dad noticed a “For Lease” sign on an abandoned gas station across the street. “That’s how we got Niko Niko’s,” Dimitri says. “He signed the lease that day and borrowed $350 or $400 for the first month's rent.”

The next day, dad Chrisanthos went to the farmers market, bought some produce, and started selling it. “Niko Niko’s started as a fruit stand,” Dimitri says. That didn’t last long. Dad had bigger dreams – a gyro booth. People thought he was nuts. This was barbecue country. Still, he was convinced he would succeed with blond-haired Eleni by his side. She was born in 1937 in the back of her father’s restaurant on Christmas Day. He thought, “‘She’s an amazing cook, a stickler for detail, and will run the restaurant like a sergeant.’”

With hat in hand, Dimitri’s father approached Pete Pappas. “Back then, the Pappas sold restaurant equipment, and their reputation was golden,” says Dimitri, adding that after the legendary

co-founder of Pappas Restaurant heard the request, he asked whether he was a gambler.

“Yes, I am,” Dimitri’s dad replied.

Pete told Chrisanthos to get the equipment he needed and pay the money back when he could.

Next, Dimitri’s dad approached the Demeris family of Demeris Bar-B-Que, who introduced his dad to a banker and co-signed for a loan even though they hardly knew his parents.

Soon enough, then-five-year-old Dimitri started peeling potatoes while his older siblings helped slice tomatoes and onions for the lamband-beef gyros. Today, the gyro sandwich remains the No. 1 seller, and in August, Yelp picked Niko Niko’s as the best sandwich shop in Texas because of it. “We have one of the best gyros,” Dimitri says. “It’s our proprietary recipe and something I always work on, little tweaks here and there, but I was surprised. I mean, we’re in Texas. I would think they would pick barbecue or something like it, but hey, I’ll take it.”

Running a restaurant can feel like wading through uncharted waters. Starting with his dad as his mentor, Dimitri learned that good advice could clear hurdles faster. Now, he frequently meets with veteran chef Arturo Boada and restaurateur Ziggy Gruber at Kenny & Ziggy’s (1743 Post Oak Blvd.) to “solve a lot of the world’s problems,” Dimitri jokes. “It’s a nice friendship, and it’s fun. We love each other. I call those guys my brothers.”

Ziggy refers to it as an “unofficial breakfast club.” Frequently, another chef or restaurateur, such as Breakfast Klub owner Marcus Davis; a purveyor; or a produce guy will drop in. On this day, it’s chef Mark Cox, who for nearly 20 years operated Mark’s American Cuisine.

“We show up, eat, and discuss the restaurant business's problems. You know, all kinds of stuff, like, ‘Do you know a good AC guy or an accountant?’ We all help each other,” Ziggy says.

This breakfast club meets once or twice a week unless Dimitri is in Greece. “He usually goes away with the family for a couple of months

in the summer,” Ziggy says. “People know about his great sense of humor, but what most people don’t realize about Dimitri is his whole existence, and his whole life is for his family. He is very active in his kids’ lives.”

When he bought the business from his mother after his dad passed away in 1998, he mapped a plan to grow the business so he could start a family. Before remodeling the original Montrose location, he worked from 8 in the morning to midnight every day. “After 10 years of that, I didn’t want to be stuck behind the register anymore. I had to plan for the future,” he says.

He added more entree options, starting with oven-roasted lamb shanks with olive oil, oregano, and lemon. “That went crazy, then I added the grilled pork chops. That went crazy. I started doing oven-roasted whole fish, bringing fresh catch from Greece. I saw an upswing not just at lunch, but also at dinner. It was just the right time. The neighborhood was changing.

When I took over, we were only doing about $700 a day. I was happy if we made a thousand, then we went to $1,600, then $2,000, and the rest is history, right?” says Dimitri.

Publications often describe Niko Niko’s as a Houston institution or a landmark. Its rise seems like a shooting star, especially after the Food Network’s Guy Fieri of “Diners, Drive-Ins, and Dives” featured Dimitri on his show not once, but three times since October 2009. “We were already busy before that, but business went up 35 percent when the show aired,” he says.

By 2016, he opened a stand-alone, 8,000square-foot location at 1040 W. Sam Houston Parkway North. Not only was there enough demand for it in the Memorial/Spring Branch area, but it also was just minutes from his home with his wife Laura and his two children. “It’s why I built it,” says Dimitri, who named his oldest boy Chrysanthos after his dad and baby daughter Nikoletta after the restaurant. For him, “food ties into everything in life.”

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(continued from page 41) Niko Niko’s is the only

place in town to get these addictive crispy honey balls (Greek doughnuts) besides the Greek Festival. Dimitri served this to Guy Fieri on his first visit to the eatery. He asked the Food Network star if he thought it was good. Guy replied, “It’s great!”

Niko Niko’s Loukoumades 1/4 teaspoon active dry yeast 2 cups warm water (80 degrees F) 3/4 tablespoon sugar 1/4 teaspoon iodized salt 3/4 teaspoon vanilla extract 3 1/8 cups all-purpose flour Vegetable oil for frying For Honey Sauce: 2 cups water 1 1/8 cups sugar 1/4 teaspoon vanilla extract 1/4 cinnamon stick 1/4 lemon, juiced 1 ½ tablespoons honey For Topping: 1 1/8 cups sugar 2 teaspoons ground cinnamon In a small bowl, add one cup of warm water and stir in the active dry yeast until a creamy foam forms. In a large mixing bowl, combine the sugar, salt, and remaining warm water. Add the yeast mixture and vanilla extract to this mixture and mix well. Gently work in the flour until the mixture forms a smooth, soft dough. Transfer the dough to a larger, oiled mixing bowl, cover, and allow to rise at room temperature until it doubles in volume, which should take about 1 ½ hours.

Meanwhile, make the honey sauce. Bring the water to a boil in a medium-sized sauce pot over medium heat. Add sugar, vanilla extract, cinnamon stick, and lemon juice, then simmer for 45 minutes. Add the honey and simmer for another five minutes. Set the sauce aside until ready to use.

To make the topping, combine the sugar with ground cinnamon in a bowl and set aside. If you don’t want to make this topping, you can substitute powdered sugar for the cinnamon-sugar topping.

To make the Greek doughnuts, heat about two to three inches of oil in a deep fryer or large saucepan to 350 degrees F. Using a tablespoon, scoop the dough into balls about ½-inch in diameter. Try not to overhandle the soft, puffy dough. Drop the dough into the fryer and cook in batches, being careful not to overcrowd. Fry until golden brown.

Remove the fried doughnuts from the oil with a spider strainer and drain on a baking sheet lined with paper towels. Transfer the warm doughnuts to a serving platter. Drizzle with honey syrup, sprinkle with cinnamon sugar, and serve immediately. Makes about 8 servings.

Editor’s note: Buzz dining columnist Dai Huynh is a James Beard food-journalism award winner and longtime Houston-based restaurant writer.

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ith its runner-up finish in the prestigious Katy/Cy Fair Volleyball Tournament, the Stratford Spartans served notice of a powerful season ahead for the team. Stratford won its first seven games of the tournament before falling to state number one ranked Grand Oaks in the championship final.

“To get to the finals was special,” said Spartans head coach Jenny Adcock. “We defeated several of the area’s best volleyball programs. The source of our success is that these girls love and play for each other. They also push each other every day so what happens on the court is because of those relationships.”

Beyond the opening tournament, Stratford maintained its winning ways with a 22-6 record entering district play. “We went into the season wanting to do great,” added Adcock. “We also talked about being humble, selfless, and putting the success of others above yourself.” Leading the Spartans to great success was a standout core of eleven seniors including libero Izzy Rodriguez. “Izzy has great ball control and also hits the ball well,” said Adcock. “She’s the heart of our energy on the court.”

In addition, setters Jaelyn Chen and Audrey Cook were both major contributors. “Both girls are incredibly intelligent players who play great defense while also anchoring our offense,” said Adcock. Also, sophomore outside hitter Gwen Koss led the team in kills, while 6-foot-4 sophomore Sarah Hickman was a dominant presence for the Spartans. “Gwen has one of the highest volleyball IQs I’ve ever seen,” added Adcock.

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On the field this season, the Eagles are led by senior quarterback Turner Murdock.

“Turner has total command of the offense,” said Brydon.

“He’s making great decisions and is our field general.” The Eagles boast a LEAD EAGLE Led by the return of standout quarterback Turner Murdock, the Second dynamic one-two Baptist Eagles have high expectations this season under the direction of first-year head punch at running coach Beck Brydon. back in sophomore something to prove. I wanted to do it for everyLangston Davis and junior Bryce Butler while one who had supported me,” added McMackin.

Brydon says the Eagles offense is bolstered by a But the state championships did not end in pair of outstanding receivers in JD Crisp and wrestling, with McMackin capping off the school Jackson Powers. The offensive line is anchored year as a starting defenseman for Kinkaid’s Texas by 6-foot-4, 340-pound tackle R.J. Lee and senHigh School Lacrosse League State ior guard Chase Tepper.

Championship team, in essence earning him a On defense, Eagles defensive end Charlie fourth state championship in one school year. “It Shears already owns several collegiate offers, was kind of a shock to me,” said McMackin. “I while Brydon says sophomore lineman Kelvin don’t consider myself a lacrosse player. I’m more Baptiste and junior linebacker Cash Harris are of a football player who happens to play lacrosse. also making a major impact.

My nickname was The Enforcer.”

But all state championships aside, fter taking down all opponents while winMcMackin’s talents also extend well beyond the ning this past season’s Texas Prep State athletic arena. The Falcon senior has performed Wrestling Championship as well as the SPC with the Kinkaid honors choir and musical theWrestling Championship, Kinkaid Falcon Will ater company over the last several years, and this McMackin is bringing down opposing players past month joined with his sister Lauren to sing this fall as a standout linebacker and defensive the national anthem just before the Falcons end on the Falcons football team. As a returning football game against Archbishop Shaw. “My All-SPC and All-State defensive player, the sister is someone I’ve always admired and to Falcons senior has been a part of two SPC foothave her side by side with me on the football ball championships. field as brother and sister means the world to “Last year’s football championship was extra me. I just love that connection.” special,” said McMackin. “I had major knee surgery on both knees during the off-season and Editor’s note: Todd Freed is the host and execwas able to come back and lead the team in utive producer of H-Town High School Sports, tackles and quarterback sacks.” Then, only four which airs Saturday at 10:30 p.m. on CW39 months later into his junior season, McMackin and Monday-Thursday on AT&T SportsNet would be crowned the Texas Prep State SW. To submit high school sports news for possiWrestling champion in the 175-weight class. “I ble inclusion in SportzBuzz, please email missed my sophomore season of wrestling todd@thebuzzmagazines.com. because of the knee surgeries, so I felt like I had

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The boys of Blue Anchor The West U Blue Anchor Baseball team finished the season with 31 wins, 3 perfect game championships, first place in First Colony Fall League with a 10-2 overall record, and Westbury Surf and Turf tournament runner-up. The team started the first fall kid pitch season with a championship appearance, falling short after an 8-0 comeback in the last inning. In addition to competitive tournaments, the team plans to participate in the Baseball USA fall league. The team considers itself more than a baseball team – more like a family – celebrating teammates’ birthdays, loss of teeth, holidays, and coping with rough times, such as surgeries, together. With most Little Leagues only playing 3-4 months of the year, their goal is to mimic a Little League family environment, while competing at a select level. Pictured (from left) are Jack Jurgens, Asher Levy, Henry Croley, Oliver Chen, Ewan Walker, James Walter, Zain Thowfeek, Beckett Whitman, Eli Musher, and Banks Dailey. Coaches are Rob Whitman, Zach Dailey, Ted Walker, and Anthony Croley.

A season to remember The West University Little League Intermediates All-Star team had a jaw-dropping season with a 12-0 winning streak that led to the title of Texas East State Champs. The 13U WULL team first impressed by winning District 16 followed by taking the banner in the Section 3 Championship.

The State tournament took place in Sugar Land’s First Colony where the team defeated Harvey Little League out of Bryan, to be named East Texas State Champions. Regionals followed with a game win against West Texas champs from Weslaco, but WULL Intermediates lost the next two games against Sante Fe, NM, and ultimately Weslaco in their final game. The WULL community is proud of what the Intermediate boys accomplished, as well as WULL Seniors who also won the state title. Pictured (front row, from left) are Bennett Parker, Nathan Olivia, Tripp Somers, Grant Allen, Elliott Beasley, Beau Smith, Cole Stagg, Harrison Benitez, Rocky Zeve, Deven Patel; (back row, from left) Coach Taylor Parker, Kyle Behan, Ryan Schlegel, Coach Jack Behan, Coach Joseph Smith; additional Allstar players (not pictured) are Zane Parker, Blake White, Ethan Ou, Barrett Bedortha, and Reuben Nicholas.

Player meet and greet Bull Shark Baseball, a nonprofit select travel baseball organization, consists of four teams that vary from 11U to 14U AA/AAA to Majors level players. The teams kicked off their fall season with a family event at Evelyn's Park where players and parents were able to meet. The teams are coached by Wilmy Marrero, Jesse Holiday, Raffi Fross Jr., and Euro Diaz.

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Ethan Li, Ethan Hudson, Collin Chang, Grayson Smith, Logan Wienart, and Josiah Opurum. Not pictured: Ethan Wood, Matthew Hill, Phoenix Garza, Aaron Jacobs, Beckham Wright, Dane Pearl, Jackson Frawner, Lincoln Grimm, Tyler Rubinsky, and William Ericksen.

Editor’s note: Send your best high-resolution photos and behind-the-scenes stories about young local athletes, in both team and individual sports, to SportzBuzz, Jr. at info@thebuzzmagazines.com. Include all contact info, names, ages, grades and schools. Featured athletes must live in Buzz-circulation neighborhoods. Items will be published on a space-available basis.

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by Adam Mirza, age 13

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A MOUNTAIN-SIZED MILESTONE Adam Mirza, an eighth grader at River Oaks Baptist School, completed the demanding Philmont Scout Ranch High Adventure in the Sangre de Cristo range of the Rocky Mountains with his fellow Troop 222 Boy Scouts.

Pictured, from left: Kazim Mirza, Feifen Liu, Nicholas Varner, Christopher Dai, Jeff Draper, Ethan He, Lee Beasley, Jack Draper, Josh Hernandez, Adam Mirza, Marshall Smith, Mitch Beasley, Alex Tang, Roy Varner, John Mirza, and Alan Du. Not pictured: Dylan Welsh.

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hundred miles into our hike, our crew was huffing and puffing. Covering over 140,000 acres of rugged mountain wilderness, Philmont Scout Ranch (Cimarron, NM) was founded in 1938 by Waite Phillips.

With abundant wildlife and a fascinating history, Philmont is home to many animals such as deer, buffalo, bears, horses, and elk. Each year, thousands of Scouts trek Philmont’s ample trails to enjoy nature’s beauty.

Philmont is a wild piece of God’s country filled with dangers, so Scouts must be prepared with survival skills and the physical strength to endure the demanding trek. With multiple Philmont veterans in our crew, Troop 222 (Bellaire) prepared physically and mentally. For example, prior to the trek, our troop would meet

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at 7 a.m. on Saturdays to hike around nine miles on the bayou with weighted backpacks.

During the expedition, we were woken up before dawn by the shake of our tent. We would quickly pack up our tents, take down bear bags, and chow down our breakfast to get on the trail. Let’s just say our mornings weren’t that graceful. Once on the trail, we would navigate to our next campsite.

Occasionally, we’d get lost and have to navigate back on track. Our longest day of hiking was 20 miles (we got lost). Once we reached the next site, we’d set up our tents, prepare dinner, tuck in for the night, and sometimes watch a show at staff camps.

Beyond hiking, our days were full of fun events.

At the staff camps, there were activities such as muzzleloading rifles, a tour of an original pioneering homestead, obstacle courses, atlatl throwing

(Native American spear-throwing), rock climbing/bouldering, and a chuckwagon dinner.

The Philmont experience is one of camaraderie. You grow close to your fellow Boy Scouts, have unforgettable experiences, and become a leader. The hard work, preparation, time, calories, and money are all worth it when you’re on top of the world at Baldy Mountain’s summit. For Scouts, the trek is not only enriching, but also a major milestone in their progress toward becoming an Eagle Scout.

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Surprise! You’re a trustee!

Today everyone enjoys a $10+ million federal estate tax exemption.

Normal families don’t pay estate tax because normal people die without saving $10 million. However, everyone reading this article had grandparents if not parents that came of age when the estate tax exemption was much lower ($60,000 in 1976; $600,000 as late as 1997). As surviving spouses die, children and grandchildren discover they were named successor trustees of taxplanned trusts they know little enough about. Don’t accept the appointment without reading the trust instrument, reviewing the trust accounts and assets, meeting with a lawyer and CPA, and discussing with the beneficiaries.

In Texas, the trustee’s powers and duties are defined by the trust instrument as sometimes limited and often supplemented by the Texas Trust Code. Common law (court decisions) fill in the gaps. If a will created the trust on Grandpa’s death, the will is the trust instrument and it’s available from the clerk of the probate court. Other trust instruments are private, and easily lost. If Grandpa’s lawyer or CPA can’t help, ask the banker or a broker for a copy; they often require one to open a trust account. If an estate tax return was filed, the IRS may have a copy.

What are the trust assets? Are they all there? If the trust is a surprise, that suggests Grandpa neglected to make annual reports to the beneficiaries. Did Grandpa steal the grandkids’ share? Grandma’s? Every trustee is responsible for collecting trust assets, including stolen ones. Beneficiaries can forgive Grandpa (or his estate); the trustee cannot. Best to know the required cleanup before accepting the job.

Get professional help. A lawyer can determine and explain the trust

requirements, even the unwritten ones, e.g., annual accounts. If Texas law does not govern, a Texas lawyer cannot help. Because Texas does not have a state income tax, Grandpa’s CPA in Ohio may be as qualified as any Texas CPA to assist with the income tax return required for irrevocable trusts.

Talk to the beneficiaries. Will they release prior trustees from liability? If not, Thanksgiving may never be the same. Do they oppose trustee compensation? Good to know if you’re working for free. Is there consensus regarding reasonable expenses of administration, e.g., replacing a roof to insure a house that’s already paid off, hiring a CPA, or engaging an investment advisor?

Trustee appointments are not mandatory and you can decline to serve.

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Neighborhood Tails Ginger, age 11, Cavapoo, Oleander St. Hi! I’m Ginger and I will be 11 in November. I was born in Iowa but got to Texas as fast as I could.

My favorite time of day is the evenings when my mom and dad walk me. I get very excited when I pass sprinklers that are spraying water… I like to get my face wet and cover the sprinkler with my mouth. I used to sleep in my kennel at night, but now I sleep in my parents’ bed. I love how cozy it is! I like to dig in the pillows when the bed is made and curl up in between them. I like to be where my family is – I follow my mom around when she is home, but I also sleep quite a bit (I am 11, after all). I have three brothers and one sister, and I love when they are all at home.

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Recently, I suggested to one of our long-time clients that he take a weekend off from caring for his wife. He retired four years ago, but he hasn’t taken a break from being his wife’s caregiver during that time. Now, he’s close to burning out.

I told him to give me a week’s notice that he wants to take a weekend, and we’ll ensure there’s sufficient coverage for his wife to feel comfortable without him.

He hasn’t given me notice yet.

At S. Gerber & Associates, we understand when you want to be your loved ones’ primary caregiver. But no one can provide care 365 days a year. We all need breaks to indulge in our hobbies and social interactions. Abstaining from these things is detrimental to your mental and physical health and leads to caregiver exhaustion.

Many people fear leaving their loved one because the care that person will receive when they’re gone won’t be the same – and that’s true. But sometimes, it’s refreshing for the loved one to see a new face. They might need a break as much as you do.

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2023 update on nose sprays The most popular type of preventative nose sprays for allergy contains small amounts of steroids. Examples include Flonase, Nasacort, and Nasonex.

For the past several years, Flonase and Nasacort have been available without a prescription (OTC). After that, Johnson & Johnson brought Rhinocort OTC, but it didn’t sell well, so they discontinued it. One advantage of Rhinocort is its lack of irritating preservatives. If Rhinocort helped you, search for “Budesonide Nasal Spray, 32 mcg” – many places still sell the generic. Regular Flonase contains phenylethyl alcohol (PEA), which gives it that floral odor. Many people find the odor unpleasant, though others tell us it’s the “smell of relief.” PEA, an alcohol, can dry the inside of the nose and cause nosebleeds. Both Flonase and Nasacort contain benzalkonium chloride (BKC), another preservative that can dry out the nose. Rhinocort has neither, so many prefer it. In March 2017, Glaxo (owner of Flonase) put Veramyst OTC, renaming it Flonase Sensimist. Like Rhinocort, Flonase Sensimist has no PEA or BKC, so it too is gentler. Why would Glaxo put its superior product OTC? To sell some! They couldn’t sell much prescriptiononly Veramyst for $250, but OTC Flonase Sensimist sells for $28. Costco has it in a pack of three that goes on sale for about $45 a few times a year. In 2022, Nasonex went OTC. It contains BKC but not PEA. Meanwhile, Glaxo’s Flonase, which contains fluticasone propionate (along with PEA and BKC), is losing more and more market share to generics, which can sell for less than half the $20 price. Recently, Costco had a package of five bottles of its Flonase generic, called Aller-Flo, on sale for $16.99! That’s less than $4 each.

Unlike decongestant nose sprays, such as Afrin, you can’t become physically dependent on steroid nose sprays. The decongestant nose sprays go to work more quickly than steroid nose sprays, but the more you use them, the less effective they are. They work for stuffy nose, but not for sneezing, itching, or runny nose.

Besides steroid sprays, you can also get antihistamine nose sprays (e.g., azelastine or olopatadine), and anticholinergic nose sprays. Both of the antihistamine sprays provide faster relief for sneezing and itching than nasal steroids, and Astepro went OTC in 2022. Ipratropium nasal, an anticholinergic spray, works like magic for runny or drippy nose, but doesn’t relieve any other symptoms. It is Rx only, but inexpensive as a generic. As of August 2023, GoodRx has it for $6.82 at Walgreens.

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by Angie Frederickson, staff writer

Buzz About Town The basic needs

expertise to children in Bangladesh, and he was honored to work alongside them. The Basic Needs Foundation volunteers are (pictured, from left) Dr. Diego Casali, Dr. Judy Becker, Abdul Khader Biplop, Dr. Selim Rokonujjaman, Dr. Richard Hubbard, and Dr. Rezwana Rima.

For the love of poetry

The Houston Chapter BB of the Philanthropic Educational Organization International (P.E.O.) awarded a $2,500 STAR scholarship to Bellaire High School graduate Lexi Clark (pictured, center). The highly competitive award is given to women who demonstrate excellence in leadership, extracurricular activities, community service, and academics. STAR chair Sherry Peterson (pictured, left) presented the award to Lexi who was joined by her mother Lagenia Clark (pictured, right). Lexi was nominated by the Houston Chapter BB and received a named scholarship funded by the P.E.O. Baytown Chapter AS. After spending the fall in a Semester at Sea program, Lexi will attend Trinity University where she plans to major in anthropology with a minor in museum studies.

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A group of physicians recently returned from Bangladesh where they provided heart-surgery procedures for local children through The Basic Needs Foundation. Established in 1993 by Dr. Richard Hubbard, a pediatric cardiac anesthesiologist at Texas Children’s Hospital, The Basic Needs Foundation connects corporations and nonprofit organizations to provide assistance including food, clothing, and medical care. Dr. Hubbard said he is grateful to the team of dedicated doctors who gave their time and medical

The Writers in the Schools (WITS) youth poetry team Meta4 won the championship at the International Brave New Voices (BNV) Slam in San Francisco. Alinda “Adam” Mac, Isabella Diaz-Mira, Myaan Sonenshein, Samiyah Green, Ariana Lee, Emanuelee “Outspoken” Bean, and Kylan Denney (pictured, from left) took home the national title in a first-time win for the city of Houston. For the last 40 years, WITS has worked with Houston’s children to nurture a love of reading and writing. The Meta4 Houston team presented poems on topics including women’s health, the refugee crisis, the human condition, and race relations, and established themselves as leaders in youth poetry.

Bright star

Mother of four boys Jennifer Tiras (pictured) published her first book, Sweetie…Squeeze Your Cheeks!, sharing her motherhood journey with practical, mom-to-mom advice for raising children. Tiras describes her experiences, from the pre-baby conception phase all the way through the college years, detailing plenty of humorous, heartwarming, and sometimes harrowing moments. The former teacher never intended to write a book but her husband, Scott, encouraged her to compile the lessons (continued on page 54) BELLAIRE BUZZ OCTOBER 2023 52

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(continued from page 52) she has learned into a

book for others. As for the inspiration for the book’s title, when Jennifer’s son Avery was a toddler and told her he needed a potty break, she said, “Okay, we will be at playgroup in a few minutes, squeeze your cheeks together and hold on.” Sweetie…Squeeze Your Cheeks! is available at amazon.com.

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In the mountains

System donors and friends, highlighting the work of Memorial Hermann Life Flight. More than 150 guests joined hospital leaders and kicked off the event at a cocktail reception. A string quartet of students from Aspen Music Festival entertained the group while they enjoyed blood-orange rosaritas and beautiful mountain views. Memorial Hermann executives Anne Neeson, Dr. David Callender, and Dr. Jamie McCarthy welcomed and thanked supporters, and gave an update on Life Flight operations and service to the community. The celebration continued the following morning with brunch at the Garden at Hotel Jerome, hosted

by Melissa Juneau and Leticia Trauber, who was represented by her daughter Lexi Trauber.

Before heading home, guests received a gilded Aspen leaf ornament in honor of trees donated

by Memorial Hermann Foundation that will be planted at the Aspen School District campus.

BHS senior sunrise Erin Asprec, Suzie Johnson, and Scott Seligman (pictured, from left) escaped the Houston heat and enjoyed time in Aspen, Colo. at a celebration for the Memorial Hermann Foundation. This was the third annual event in the mountains for Memorial Hermann Health

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Seniors at Bellaire High School welcomed the new school year by watching the sunrise together from the Bellaire Town Center parking garage. Donning hand-decorated overalls, members of the class of 2024 got up extra early and gathered to kick off their final year as high school students. When the sun had risen, the group came to the home of classmate Ava

Noamouz to enjoy breakfast compliments of Ava’s mom, Kristi Coffey, before heading to their last first-day. The BHS seniors are (top row, from left): Chloe Chang, Flynn Collins, Colby Phillips, Ainsley Pinkerton, Eden Harrari, Elisa Adams, Claire Fajkus, Sloan Goodman, and Juliana Morales; (bottom row, from left): Sydney Fell, Ava Noamouz, Charlotte Smith, Sofia Dale, Camryn Suminski, and Elizabeth Burress.

Ready for school Christian Community Service Center’s (CCSC) back-to-school event provided supplies for more than 4,000 Houston-area students as they started the new school year. CCSC held a school registration event at Bellaire United Methodist Church and distributed supplies at Faith Lutheran Church. Since 1986, CCSC member church congregations, community supporters, and volunteers have worked together to ensure that underserved children have what they need for school. This year, thousands of pre-kindergarten through 12th grade students each received new, grade-appropriate school supplies, a new backpack, and a clothing gift card. The 2023 back-to-school committee members are (top row, from left): Alma Lopez, Laura Notestine, Elaine Fitzgibbon, Kelly Mathews, Jennifer Rosenfeld, Leisa Novak, Elizabeth (continued on page 56)

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Gelman was honored to participate in the hometown event. Candy P-O-P will also be featured at additional shows this fall, including Art Basel Miami Beach, which showcases modern and contemporary art, and the Red Dot Miami contemporary art fair. (continued from page 54) Detweiler,

Kenya Rodriguez, Sarah Hans; (bottom row, from left): Karen Womack, Sarah Lopez, and Bronwyn Campbell; not pictured: Whitney Anderson, Kip Haines, Rachelle Maldonado, Mayra Marshall, and Miriam Zatarain.

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Summer Soiree

Johnny Bravo. This year’s event, chaired by Anna Gryska and Catherine Sdao, raised nearly $20,000 to help Houston women achieve economic independence through professional attire, development tools, and a network of support. Since 2003, Summer Soiree has raised more than $280,000. DFS Houston president Lauren Levicki Courville welcomed the crowd, including WOW cofounders Mia Gradney and Traci Lee, and current WOW president Sarika Patel, and thanked guests for their support.

Sweet success Local artist Diane Gelman’s collage of 36-inch x 36-inch candy-inspired acrylic on canvas pieces, titled Candy P-O-P, was featured in the 2023 Art Comes Alive exhibit and competition in Cincinnati. Art Design Consultants (ADC Fine Art) hosted the gallery’s competition and awarded Gelman the Art Collective Ultimate Membership award. As a Cincinnati native,

More than 300 guests gathered for the 20th annual Summer Soiree hosted by Tootsies and Women of Wardrobe (WOW). Toby Brown and Jenn Wiley (pictured, from left) joined the group of supporters at Tootsies to shop the latest fall trends and raise funds for Dress for Success Houston (DFS Houston), while enjoying local bites and sips and entertainment from DJ BELLAIRE BUZZ OCTOBER 2023 56

Splash-tacular movie Caroline Moore and Andy Williamson (pictured) joined friends and neighbors at the PATRONS for Bellaire Parks annual dive-in movie at the Bellaire Family Aquatic Center.

This year’s event featured the movie Jungle Cruise and moviegoers enjoyed refreshments from area restaurants and food vendors. The annual end-of-summer tradition gives Bellaire families a chance to get together and cool off before starting the new school year, while Bellaire Parks and Recreation staff and lifeguards keep everyone safe. This year’s event raised more than $10,000 for Belaire Parks recreational programs, services, and facilities.

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by Andria Frankfort Dilling, staff writer

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Halloweens Gone Wrong The fine line between fun and fright

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alloween: it’s fun until it’s not. For a holiday that in our world is supposed to be all about candy and pumpkin spice and friendly ghosts, Halloween has a tendency to cross the line from fun to fright pretty quickly.

We’re not talking about watching movies like The Exorcist or patronizing haunted houses where floors shake and “bloody corpses” jump out at people who pay to feel their stomachs in their throats. Somebody please tell me why any of that is fun?

We’re talking about regular old neighborhood Halloweens gone wrong. Like when The Buzz’s editor Jordan Magaziner Steinfeld’s grandmother thought she was being funny but wound up ruining Halloween for Jordan’s younger brother for a long time.

Ryan Magaziner, who founded Atlantic Recreation Group, a real estate investment firm, says his grandmother Flo Magaziner (who passed away several years ago) was the “sweetest, most caring, generous person we knew. She was always laughing and giggling,” he says. “If I ever had a long drive to work or was driving from Austin to Houston, I would just call her and talk for an hour and a half. She was my go-to person.”

But when Ryan was 3, Flo – a.k.a. Buby or Bubbie to her grandchildren – showed up to Halloween masked. “I have this memory in my head of kind of a monster-looking thing that covered her whole face and head, and I had no idea who she was when she walked in our door.

I saw this person walk into my house and look at me, and that was it. I did not like this monster in my house. From that moment on until, really, I was in middle school, I hated the whole concept of Halloween. I went a decade hating it and pretty much refused to do Halloween.

Elementary school days are pretty much peak Halloween, but I was not participating.”

Ryan says it took 10 years for him to realize, when he was maybe 13, that going out to trickor-treat was cool. “She probably felt horrible,” he says of his beloved grandmother. “She was just trying to be funny, and it went wrong.”

A young woman who grew up in West U – what most of Houston sees as the epitome of an idyllic trick-or-treating neighborhood (it’s a

SO MUCH FOR FUN Halloween is all fun and candy...until someone gets spooked.

Halloween night destination, if the cars entering the ’hood filled with trick-or-treaters are any indication) – says she’s scarred from her nights knocking on doors in the 77005.

“We had a neighbor, an older lady, who lived across the street,” she says. “She smelled like smoke, and it was always pounded into our heads that smoking was bad, so maybe that was the start of my fear. She also kind of looked like a witch to me, in my little-kid eyes.

“On Halloween, she had a green porch light.

Or maybe it was orange. I don’t know but it was some weird color. You would knock on her door, and she would shuffle over and look down on you, because we were little, and I was like, ‘OMG she’s gonna eat me.’ But then she would hand you the bag of candy, and she was actually very nice. Just very terrifying. Don’t use my name because everyone in the neighborhood will know who it was!”

The young woman continues: “There was also a house we called ‘the funky house.’ It wasn’t that

funky, but it was modern in the middle of all these traditional houses. They had this stupid red light – or whatever color it was, it was not normal lighting – and a smoke machine and a talking witch that said heheheheee when you walked by.

It was enough to send me into a coma! I hated that thing. It always made me think of Fiddler on the Roof and Fruma Sarah [a ghost who appears in a dream in the musical]. “I thought she was coming for me. The sheets would be hanging from her, and she was blowing around in the wind. My dad would try to hype me up to trickor-treat at their house. We’d stand there in the street, and he’d say, ‘Okay, go!’ and I’d be like, ‘No way, I’m not going. I’m good right here.’ The other kids would walk up to their door and get their candy and I would just stand on the street.”

Her dad chimes in: “That witch startled me, too. But I got over it.”

The young woman shakes her head. “I didn’t,” she says adamantly. “The witch wasn’t worth it.”