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BCSD breaks ground on new May River Elementary School

The Beaufort County School District officially broke ground Oct. 20, on May River Elementary School, a new 113,000-square-foot facility designed to ease overcrowding and support continued population growth in Bluffton.

District leaders, members of the Board of Education, local officials, and community partners joined Superintendent Dr. Frank Rodriguez at the site, located at 607 New Riverside Road beside May River High School, for the ceremonial turning of the soil.

“The May River Elementary School groundbreaking marks an exciting milestone for our district,” Rodriguez said during the ceremony. “We are grateful for the voters’ support of the 2023 bond referendum that made this possible. This new school represents our shared commitment to providing high-quality learning environments for every student.”

The new elementary school, scheduled to open for the 2027–2028 school year, will accommodate up to 800 students and help relieve capacity pressures in several Bluffton-area elementary schools currently operating above enrollment limits.

May River Elementary will be built on a portion of the May River High School campus, creating a shared educational corridor serving students from early grades through high school. The new school’s mascot will be the Manatee.

The $202 million 2023 bond referendum, approved by voters, provides funding for several key projects, including the new May River Elementary, expansions at existing schools, and districtwide facility upgrades.

In his remarks, Rodriguez emphasized that community support has been essential in moving projects like this forward. He said the investment represents not just a physical expansion but also a commitment to future generations of students.

The Beaufort County School District serves more than 22,000 students across 20 elementary, middle, and high schools.

Construction on May River Elementary

is expected to begin immediately, with completion slated for summer 2027, allowing time for staff preparation before the 2027–2028 school year.

For more information on the district’s bond projects, visit www.beaufortschools. net

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Nominations open for Bluffton’s Best 2026 readers’ choice contest

Get ready to celebrate your friends, go-to places and favorite businesses in the Bluffton’s Best 2026, The Bluffton Sun’s brand-new contest highlighting the area’s best in more than 200 categories.

From real estate to food, finance and more, readers can nominate their favorites Nov. 4 through Nov. 18 at BlufftonSun.com/Best. The Top 5 nominees in each category will advance to a final voting round held Dec. 2 through Dec. 23. Users can nominate and vote once per day throughout the contest period.

Entrants with a Bluffton mailing address or in the greater Bluffton area are eligible to participate and

win. The greater Bluffton area covers zip codes 29909, 29910, 22926 (mainland only), 29936 (east of I-95 only) and 29927 (east of I-95 only).

Finalists who receive the most votes will be celebrated at a Bluffton’s Best exclusive winners’ event. Winners will also be featured in the annual Bluffton’s

Best 2026 glossy magazine, on the winners’ website and will receive a free framed certificate and window cling.

“We’re excited to to launch the Bluffton’s Best contest,” Sasha Sweeney, editor, said. “It’s a great way to celebrate our community and recognize the amazing local businesses, organizations,

and people who help make Bluffton such a special place to live.”

You do not have to receive The Bluffton Sun to nominate, be nominated, vote or win. Promotional advertising packages are available to promote nominees and finalists throughout the nomination and voting period, and high reader engagement is expected.

Nominees can find promotional options on the contest homepage or by contacting your sales representative.

Winners will be celebrated throughout 2026 acrossThe Bluffton Sun’s newspaper and digital products.

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Cybercriminals are everywhere — stay cyber safe

As we rely more on technology to stay connected, manage our finances and conduct daily business, cybercriminals are keeping pace. Their tactics have grown increasingly sophisticated — from “phishing” emails that mimic familiar organizations to “spoofed” messages that look like official Town correspondence. Even Bluffton’s own name and logo have been used in recent scams designed to trick residents and businesses.

Recently, the Town’s Information Technology (IT) Department detected and contained a phishing attack that used a fake “Town of Bluffton” email address to trick residents and businesses into entering access codes. Fortunately, our team responded quickly and prevented any damage to the Town’s systems. While this attack was stopped, it underscores how important it is for everyone—residents, business owners, and community partners—to stay alert when it comes to digital communication. Scammers are getting better at what they do. They copy our logos, mimic our writ-

ing style, and even use legitimate-looking addresses to gain your trust. One quick click on a bad link can compromise more than your computer—it can expose personal data, financial information, and entire networks.

As mayor, I want to emphasize one simple truth: cybersecurity is everyone’s responsibility. Just as we lock our doors and look both ways before crossing the street, we must also pause before clicking on a link or sharing information online.

Here are some simple steps every Blufftonian can take:

• Verify before you click. If you receive an unexpected email from the Town or any organization asking you to open an attachment, click a link, or provide personal information, stop. Pick up the phone and call the sender directly. Our customer service center can always verify whether an email came from us at 843-706-4500.

• Check the sender’s address carefully. Even one extra letter or symbol in an email domain can be a clue that the message isn’t legitimate.

• Be wary of urgent or emotional language. Scammers often use phrases such as “immediate action required” to prompt panic and quick responses.

• Use strong passwords and enable multi-factor authentication. This extra step helps keep accounts secure even if someone manages to steal your password.

• Keep your devices updated. Regular

software updates patch vulnerabilities before bad actors can exploit them.

The Town of Bluffton will never send an email asking for personal information, access codes, or account confirmation links. Our official email domain is@townofbluffton.com. If you are ever in doubt, please verify with us before acting.

Phishing scams are not just a Bluffton problem—they are a national issue growing in complexity every year. According to the Federal Trade Commission, phishing remains one of the top causes of identity theft and data breaches nationwide. That’s why the Town will continue to educate the community about these risks and provide resources to protect your digital safety.

As our community continues to grow and technology becomes more integrated into daily life, protecting ourselves online must become second nature. Bluffton’s small-town spirit depends on trust, and that trust extends to how we handle information and communication.

Let’s keep looking out for one another—both in our neighborhoods and in our inboxes. Together, we can make Bluffton not only a beautiful place to live but also a safe and secure one.

For more information on protecting yourself from phishing scams, visit the Federal Trade Commission’s website at www.consumer.ftc.gov.

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New record set in Beaufort County’s Walk for Water

Hundreds of Bluffton residents joined neighbors from across Beaufort County last month to raise nearly $90,000 for clean water projects around the world during the 2025 Walk for Water.

More than 700 participants took part in the annual event, held Sept. 13 in Port Royal and Sept. 20 at Wright Family Park in Bluffton. The walks, covering about three miles, symbolized the long, often

dangerous journeys that millions of people in developing countries make each day to collect unsafe water.

The Bluffton walk drew families, students and volunteers who carried buckets to represent the weight of the daily struggle for clean water. Funds raised through both county events will help Water Mission International — a Charleston-based nonprofit engineering organization —

provide safe water and sanitation solutions to an estimated 1,800 people worldwide.

Nan Krueger, Beaufort County Walk for Water committee leader, said this year’s total marked a record for local participation and impact.

“These are things most of us take for granted but make a transformational difference to those who don’t have them,” Krueger said. “The money the walk raises lifts up people for

generations in communities around the world.”

Walk for Water events are part of a national initiative coordinated by Water Mission, which partners with local communities to design and build sustainable clean-water systems in developing countries and disaster zones.

For more information about Beaufort County Walk for Water, visit www.walkforwater. com/beaufort.

Larry Toomer is the mayor of the Town of Bluffton.
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$36 million Carolina Station development breaks ground

HIC Land, a Charleston-based real estate investment and land development company, has broken ground on Carolina Station, a $36 million, 2,600-acre master-planned community that will bring new homes, businesses, and infrastructure improvements to Hardeeville’s growing U.S. 278 corridor.

Located on the historic Morgan Tract, the large-scale development marks one of the most significant residential and commercial projects in Hardeeville’s recent history. Developed in partnership with D.R. Horton, the nation’s largest homebuilder, Carolina Station will feature more than 650 multifamily units, 95 acres of commercial space, and a network of parks, trails, and sidewalks.

“This groundbreaking represents more than just the start of construction — it marks the realization of a vision to create a thriving community that blends opportunity, connection and quality of life,” said Stefan Hoyer, founder and CEO of HIC Land. “Local and national developers pursued this land for more than 25 years without success, so we’re proud to be the team that finally brought it across the finish line.”

Infrastructure upgrades surrounding Carolina Station are also planned. D.R. Horton has committed $8 million toward

improvements at the U.S. 278 and John Smith Road intersection, including new turn lanes and a traffic signal. The project will also include a new “spine road” connecting Highway 278 and Highway 46 to improve east-west access through the area.

“This project reflects Hardeeville’s commitment to thoughtful, sustainable growth,” said Mayor Harry Williams. “We need nurses, first responders and teachers — and they need quality starter homes like what D.R. Horton is building. Carolina Station will bring housing, jobs and new opportunities to our community while strengthening the infrastructure that supports our city and region.”

Carolina Station will be developed in multiple phases, creating hundreds of local construction and service jobs while contributing to Hardeeville’s tax base. Its location provides convenient access to Hilton Head Island, Savannah and major employers such as Hyundai Motor Group Metaplant America, which is projected to support up to 8,500 jobs in the nearby Savannah area.

“This is an extraordinary opportunity to deliver one of D.R. Horton’s flagship communities,” said Brad Brundage, president of D.R. Horton’s Coastal Carolina region. “Together with HIC Land, we’re creating a place that residents will be proud to call home for generations.”

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A not so “very small thing”

“In 1972, the Vietnam War was so prevalent. It was ever-present,” said Okatie resident Donna Pernice. She was a sophomore at St. Helena Catholic School for girls in the Bronx, N.Y. “College students were protesting the war, but we were too young to protest. The college generation started VIVA (Voices Vital in America) to engage the younger generation, and about 100 girls paid a $2 or $3 donation and got a bracelet with a small piece of paper with the name of a soldier,” she said. “It was a very big movement, and a very small thing we could do.”

VIVA distributed millions of POW/ MIA bracelets, each bearing the name of a missing or captured American service member to raise public awareness about their plight and garner support for their return. The wearer was to keep the bracelet on until the service member named on it was returned to the United States, at which point they would present the bracelet to the returning individual.

Pernice has worn her bracelet since

1972. Her soldier was Ray Salzarulo from West Virginia.

“Wearing mine and promising to only remove it when he returned, I decided to wear it forever and honor him. It has made me aware of keeping commitments and keeping his name alive,” she said. When Nixon ended the war, Pernice watched for Salzarulo’s name on lists of service members designated as returned or deceased, but his name never appeared.

“I’ve been wearing my bracelet for 53 years,” Pernice said. “It’s silver and glossy and it’s part of me. The engraving says: Capt. Ray Salzarulo 9-4-66. So next year it will be 60 years since he went missing. He wasn’t listed as alive, so I didn’t want to take the bracelet off. I’m wearing it to acknowledge his service, but it is also about keeping my word.”

Around 1991, Pernice went to a job interview and a man saw her bracelet and asked her to come into his office. He knew Ross Perot and provided Pernice with a helpful link to search testimonials. Ross Perot’s involvement in the Vietnam War issue focused on accounting for missing service members. Throughout his career, including during his presidential cam-

paigns, Perot was a vocal proponent of the POW/MIA cause.

Years later, Pernice found a book on eBay for a penny, called 2,355 Days – A POW’s Story by Spike Nasmyth who had spent 2,355 days in the Hanoi Hilton, a POW camp, along with John McCain. “The book was enlightening,” Pernice said. “It gives an account of the mission and what happened to Ray in only a few pages of the book.” She learned that Nasmyth was a pilot, and Salzarulo was his co-pilot and that their plane was hit by a bomb. Salzarulo was killed instantly. Pernice got in touch with Nasmyth and exchanged emails with him to learn more about Salzarulo. Ironically, Nasmyth’s book was autographed for someone named Don – which just happens to be Pernice’s nickname.

“It’s a page of history of the young men who served our country.” Salzarulo’s remains were returned on September 13, 1990, Pernice’s tenth wedding anniversary.

Pernice recently honored Salzarulo at the Bluffton Veterans Memorial by purchasing an engraved brick. Located in Buckwalter Place Park, the Memorial features engraved bricks to honor veterans. The brick-lined courtyard is a result of a

partnership between the Town of Bluffton and American Legion Auxiliary Unit 205. Pernice will return to the Bronx for her 50th class reunion in November. Most likely, she will be the only attendee still wearing the POW/MIA bracelet, but she hopes it will spark memories and conversations about their bracelets and the pledges they made and the soldiers they represented.

Edwina Hoyle is a freelance writer in Bluffton.

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Bluffton public art sculpture unveiled at Welcome Center

The Town of Bluffton unveiled a new public art sculpture Oct. 24th at the Squire Pope Carriage House in Wright Family Park, marking the Public Art Committee’s first permanent installation since the committee formed in October 2023 to implement Town Council’s public art policy.

The piece by artist Brandy Scholl was selected through a competitive process managed by the Public Art Committee after a June 2024 call invited four pre-approved artists to submit designs. The committee chose Scholl’s proposal unanimously for its thoughtful interpretation of Bluffton’s setting and heritage.

The steel, spherical sculpture includes laser-cut illustrations of the May River, native wildlife and figures from Bluffton’s past, including the Wright family and the Gullah Geechee community. It sits on a concrete base etched with the outline of the May River.

“Public art connects people to place,” Mayor Larry Toomer said at the unveiling. “This sculpture is more than a visual piece—it tells Bluffton’s present and past story and reflects our community’s character throughout time.”

Scholl said the work was designed to interact with its surroundings. “Its reflective stainless steel surface mirrors the people and landscape around it, creating a dynamic interaction that changes with time, light and perspective,” she said. “I

wanted to capture what makes Bluffton special — a place that honors its history, treasures its natural beauty and keeps a strong sense of community at its heart.”

Town Manager Stephen Steese said the installation underscores Bluffton’s longterm commitment to cultural investment.

“This piece embodies what Bluffton values most—our connection to the river, our respect for history and our shared future,” Steese said. “Public art enhances public spaces and gives residents and visitors new ways to experience Bluffton.”

The sculpture cost $30,800 and was approved by Town Council following the committee’s recommendation. It is installed outside the Squire Pope Carriage House, 111 Calhoun St., which houses the town’s Welcome Center. The ribbon cutting took place Friday, Oct. 24th, at 9 a.m.

The Public Art Committee continues to identify opportunities for artwork in parks, public buildings and gathering spaces across Bluffton. For information about the artist roster or upcoming calls for art, contact Felicia Roth at froth@ townofbluffton.com.

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Bluffton to kick off holidays with tree lighting and 54th annual Christmas parade

The Town of Bluffton will open the holiday season the first weekend of December with its 54th annual Christmas parade and a community tree lighting, town officials announced.

The celebration begins Friday, Dec. 5, at 5:30 p.m. with the town’s Tree Lighting at Martin Family Park. Afterward, Santa’s Workshop will be open at the DuBois Park pavilion, and a screening of the animated film “Arthur Christmas” is set for 6:30 p.m. under the stars. Festivities continue Saturday, Dec. 6, when the Christmas parade steps off at 10 a.m. through Bluffton’s Historic District.

Now in its sixth decade, the parade continues to grow with the town’s population. To keep the event safe and orderly, organizers emphasized that participants and spectators must follow the rules outlined in the parade application. This year’s field is capped at 125 entries, accepted on a first-come, first-served basis, and early submission is encouraged.

Instead of an entry fee, organizers ask parade participants to donate to the Mayor’s Stay Safe, Bluffton! Scholarship Fund. Donations support scholarships for Bluffton students and the town’s safe-driving campaign aimed at reducing traffic injuries and fatalities. Contributions of any amount may be made online through the Community Foundation of the Lowcountry, which manages the fund and provides tax-deductible receipts.

Safety rules prohibit throwing candy or other items from vehicles or floats. Participants walking alongside their entries may distribute candy or promotional items hand-to-hand along the route. Spectators are not permitted to enter the roadway to collect items.

Applications are due Friday, Nov. 21, 2025. The online application is available on the town’s website at townofbluffton. sc.gov. Paper applications are available at Town Hall, 20 Bridge St., and at the Town of Bluffton Welcome Center, 111 Calhoun St. Completed applications and questions may be sent to the Events and Venues Department at tobchristmasparade@

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The town notes the tree lighting and parade are held rain or shine the first Friday and Saturday of December each

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year. Events will be canceled only if weather conditions are deemed unsafe; due to scheduling and logistics, a canceled parade will not be rescheduled this year.

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HHCA tops JPII in rivalry game

For the better part of the 21st century, Hilton Head Christian Academy has boasted the preeminent private school football program in the Lowcountry, but this has developed into a rough season for the Eagles, culminating with an unexpected quarterback change at midseason.

As the lopsided losses began to mount, it was looking bleak on Bluffton Parkway. The star quarterback was dismissed from the program, the ground game was nonexistent, and the defense was beaten and battered.

Meanwhile, a young and talented John Paul II team was gaining momentum, piling up rushing yards and wins ahead of schedule after winning just one game a year ago.

For the better part of a month, we talking heads who keep folks abreast of the goings-on in the local sports scene wondered aloud whether the tipping point was approaching.

Our speculation was premature.

Ron Peduzzi’s team turned in its most complete performance of the season Friday night in Hardeeville, spoiling the Golden Warriors’ senior night and maintaining their stranglehold on the rivalry with a 35-21 win, HHCA’s 10th straight in the series.

“We had a lot of people make big plays,” HHCA senior Kres Langhals said. “Coach always says big-time players make big-time plays, and we made a lot of big plays at the

right times tonight. It was good to finish a close game and beat our rivals.”

No one has come up bigger than Langhals, and no one has felt more of the pressure to maintain HHCA’s status as a perennial power.

After doing yeoman’s work as an undersized running back working behind an undersized offensive line in a system built around the pass throughout his career, Langhals was thrust into the frying pan and asked to take over the reins of the offense right when the season was sitting on the precipice.

Oh, yeah, on top of that, his dad is the head of school. No pressure.

Langhals’ debut as QB1 was a mixed bag — he passed for 390 yards and three touchdowns but threw five interceptions in a lopsided loss at Bulloch Academy — and three more interceptions against struggling First Baptist didn’t inspire confidence despite another 331 passing yards, three more touchdown passes, and a 33-6 win.

Then the Eagles got the break they needed. Their Oct. 17 game against Beaufort Academy was wiped off the schedule because BA had to complete its suspended game at Colleton Prep.

The opportunity to hit the pause button and go back to the drawing board to tweak the offense to fit around Langhals as the centerpiece was just what Peduzzi and his staff needed, and the result was HHCA’s most complete offensive performance of 2025.

Not only did Langhals have his best game yet through the air, completing 20-of-26 passes for 308 yards with

two touchdowns and only one interception, but he also rushed for 112 yards and two touchdowns to lead a season-best rushing effort from the Eagles. Senior Hudson Baker, once Langhals’ understudy in the backfield, also had a breakout game, rushing for 100 yards on 12 carries and catching two passes for 69 yards, including a 65-yard touchdown after Langhals hit him in full stride.

Still, it took everything the Eagles had to retain the belt, so to speak.

“We had some challenges,” Peduzzi said. “They battled and kept the game close and kept coming at us with that triple option.”

Indeed, the duo of junior quarterback Alan Wolf and freshman phenom Jadon Inabinett punched back all night, and Merrick Baroni’s kickoff return touchdown pulled the Golden Warriors within 28-21 and renewed hope among the home crowd.

That hope will not soon fade. John Paul II has arrived, and with an impressive corps of young talent and more on the way from a powerhouse middle school program, we talking heads will soon wonder again when the scales will tip.

And the Eagles will be waiting to try to prove us wrong again.

Justin Jarrett is the sports editor of The Island News and is the founder of Lowco Sports. He has a passion for sports and community journalism and a questionable sense of humor.

Yellow-legged hornets confirmed in Bluffton; officials urge residents to report sightings

The Town of Bluffton, in partnership with Clemson University Extension, has confirmed the presence of yellow-legged hornet nests in several locations around Bluffton, including one near the intersection of Calhoun and Lawton streets in Old Town.

Clemson Extension specialists safely removed the nest and are planning additional removals.

Town officials are urging residents to report any sightings of the invasive species, which pose a threat to honeybees and other pollinators vital to agriculture and the environment.

The yellow-legged hornet, native to Southeast Asia, was first detected in the United States in 2023 near Savannah, Ga., before

spreading into South Carolina. According to Clemson University, the hornets prey on bees and other insects and, if left unchecked, could harm pollination, reduce honey production and disrupt native ecosystems.

“Early detection is key to protecting our environment,” said Larry Beckler, Bluffton’s public

services director. “Working with Clemson Extension allows us to remove nests safely and prevent these hornets from becoming established in Bluffton.”

Officials advise residents not to disturb suspected nests or attempt removal on their own. The hornets can become aggressive if threatened.

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Nests are typically tan or gray in color, egg- or pear-shaped, and constructed from chewed wood fibers. Mature nests can reach up to 20 inches in diameter, often hanging high in trees or attached to structures such as sheds or eaves. The entrance hole is usually located on the side of the nest rather than at the bottom.

Residents who believe they have spotted a nest or individual hornets should report sightings immediately through Clemson University Extension’s online portal at www.clemson.edu/public/regulatory/plant-industry/ invasive

The town continues to work with Clemson University and state agencies to track and manage sightings across the Lowcountry.

AT A GLANCE

What: Yellow-legged hornets confirmed in Bluffton

Why it matters: Invasive species threatens bees, agriculture and native ecosystems

What to do:

• Do not disturb nests or attempt removal

• Report sightings at www. clemson.edu/public/regulatory/plant-industry/ invasive

• Nests often found high in trees or attached to structures

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More new technology in plastic surgery

What is the goal for new plastic surgery technology? Patients are looking for noticeably better results toward looking better and younger with less discomfort, a lower price, and shorter or minimal recovery time. Plastic surgeons must look very hard into products and devices that are promised to deliver such results to determine if they truly work for their practice goals. These devises would include instruments that produce light beams such as lasers, emit heat produced by radiofrequency or ultrasound, and other treatments

Most of these devises ablate (eliminate by vaporizing) skin and/or tighten the skin, reduce fat pockets, resurface the skin, reduce wrinkles, and most importantly, stimulate new skin by increasing production of collagen and elastin. The

best and most effective results often require combinations of treatments, although improvement is visible after every treatment.

What are these new advanced treatments?

Everesse by Cartessa: This is a radiofrequency producing devise which both tightens the skin and increases thickness of the skin, usually used for the face and neck, arms, knees, abdominal skin, and even buttocks. Naturally, thicker skin wrinkles less. The strong points of the Everesse are that it really works, and there are no needles, pain, recovery time, and no numbing is needed for treatment. Discomfort is minimal to none although high energy is used, because of a cooling head on the instrument that touches the skin.

Typically, one side of the face is first treated and the patient is given a mirror to see the difference in both sides. The usual response is “OMG” or “Wow.” The other side is then treated. The usual treatment time for the face and neck is 30 minutes. For larger body parts, treatment time is longer.

Regarding the buttocks, dimples from cellulite are not improved with the Everes-

se. For cellulite treatment the Aveli devise is the most effective. This instrument can sever all the fibrous bands between the muscle and the skin that create the dimples. Bruising can occur, but the Aveli is highly effective in reducing or eliminating buttocks and thigh dimples. Local anesthesia is used.

Ultra Plus is a small hand-held instrument that emits ultrasound that forces topical medications deep into the skin. Its primary use is in reducing hair loss and even stimulating dormant hair follicles to start growing hair. The exosome the Ultra Plus is designed for is Derive, plant-based exosome. The results are better than we have ever seen with needles or microneedling plus exosomes. There is zero pain, and no numbing topicals are necessary.

Also, the Ultra Plus is used to force numbing creams deeper and faster into the skin for other procedures requiring numbing creams. An additional use is with EVO exosomes, also plant-based topical exosomes, for facial rejuvenation alone and following laser treatments, reducing the recovery time by as much as 50%. Many patients use daily EVO exosomes topically along with their night skin care regimens for skin rejuvenation.

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Dr. Ronald Finger, MD, FACS is a board-certified plastic surgeon with offices in Savannah and Bluffton. fingerandassociates.com

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Bluffton real estate November market update

As we move deeper into the fall season, the Bluffton real estate market is showing mixed signals worth noting. After several months of inventory decline, November brings a slight reversal, giving both buyers and sellers something to watch closely.

The number of homes for sale in Bluffton stands at 768, up modestly from 760 last month. While this increase is small, it breaks a multi-month pattern of shrinking inventory. A rise of just over one percent might not seem dramatic, but any uptick in supply can influence buyer behavior and negotiating power, especially during the slower fall season.

Average days on market saw a sharp and unexpected drop to 55, down from 78 last month. That’s nearly a 30% decrease

in market time and the lowest level since early 2023. A year ago, homes were taking around 65 days to sell, so this is a dramatic acceleration. Faster market times signal that well-priced homes are being quickly absorbed by renewed buyer demand—likely a reflection of improving mortgage rate conditions as the year winds down. However, the pending sales number tells a different story. There are currently 130 homes under contract, down steeply from 214 last month—a 39% decrease and the lowest pending figure of 2025. This suggests that while individual listings are selling faster, overall buyer activity slowed considerably in October and early November. For perspective, this time last year pending sales were around 160, about an 18% annual decline.

So far in 2025, Bluffton has recorded 1,655 closed sales, up from 1,551 last month. Compared to 1,695 at this same time last year, total sales volume is slightly lower—about 2% off 2024’s pace—but still strong given broader market conditions.

Based on current supply and demand, Bluffton’s absorption rate sits at 5.9 months, up from 3.6 months last month, placing us squarely in a neutral market.

Anything under four months signals a seller’s market, while five to six months indicates balance, and seven or more points to buyer advantage.

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The median sale price for 2025 now sits at $529,900, down from $560,000 in 2024 and $540,000 in 2023. October’s lower-priced transactions pulled this figure down, creating an unusual dip late in the year. Still, this presents a buying opportunity—especially as rates continue to trend lower. When interest rates ease, prices typically correct quickly upward, meaning buyers who act now could benefit from significant appreciation ahead.

In summary, Bluffton’s market remains steady but clearly in transition. Slightly higher inventory, faster sales, and a temporary dip in pending activity all reflect a market finding its equilibrium. With rates improving, conditions are setting the stage for a busy start to 2026—and for buyers, this moment may represent the best value we’ve seen in quite some time.

Talk soon, Bluffton!

Dan Prud’homme is the Visionary & Success Coach of The Prud’homme Team at William Raveis Real Estate. dan@danprudhomme.com theprudhommeteam.com.

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McDonald’s manager honored

A Bluffton McDonald’s restaurant manager has earned one of the company’s highest global honors, placing her among the top 1 percent of managers worldwide.

Yusmari Hernandez, manager of the McDonald’s restaurant at 1370 Fording Island Road, was named a 2025 Ray Kroc Award recipient, a distinction that recognizes outstanding restaurant managers across more than 100 countries. She is the only McDonald’s manager in South Carolina to receive the award this year.

The Ray Kroc Awards, established in 1999 and named for McDonald’s founder, honor managers who demonstrate exceptional leadership, customer service, and commitment to their restaurant teams. Recipients receive a cash prize, a trophy, and an invitation to attend the McDonald’s Worldwide Convention.

Hernandez, who began her career as a McDonald’s crew member, was surprised with the award Oct. 7 during a presentation at the Bluffton restaurant. The celebration was led by local McDonald’s Owner/Operator John Palmaccio and her restaurant team.

“Yusmari exudes excellence at our Fording Island restaurant, and we could

not be prouder to have surprised our Ray Kroc awardee within our McDonald’s organization.” Palmaccio said in a statement.

Palmaccio also added $5,000 to Hernandez’s cash award in recognition of her leadership and dedication to the restaurant and its employees.

McDonald’s franchisees and regional management nominate managers annually for the Ray Kroc Awards, which highlight those who embody the company’s values and play a central role in shaping each customer’s experience.

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If you have ever left your dental cleaning amazed by how smooth your teeth feel, you have experienced the power of removing tartar. Tartar tells a bigger story about what is happening inside your body, from nutrition and saliva chemistry to lifestyle and even vitamin levels.

Tartar begins as plaque, a sticky film made of bacteria, food particles, and minerals. When plaque is not removed daily through brushing and flossing, minerals from your saliva crystallize in the plaque and harden. Once that happens, it bonds to the enamel like barnacles on a boat hull. No amount of at-home brushing will remove tartar once it has hardened. That is where your dental hygienist’s professional tools come into play.

The truth about tartar

Tartar tends to collect most heavily behind the lower front teeth and along the gumline, where saliva glands release minerals continuously. Over time, tartar creates a rough surface that attracts more bacteria, allowing the cycle to repeat.

For years, we assumed tartar buildup was mostly about brushing habits. But research now shows the causes run deeper. Your saliva composition plays a major role. Some people naturally have higher calcium and phosphate levels, which speed up mineral deposits on plaque. Mouth pH, diet, and hydration also influence the process.

Then there is nutrition. Studies suggest that deficiencies in certain vitamins, particularly vitamin K2, may affect how your body directs calcium. Vitamin K2 acts as a traffic controller, guiding calcium to where it belongs: bones and teeth, not the soft tissues or artery walls. When K2 levels run low, calcium may deposit in the wrong places, potentially contributing to both tartar buildup and arterial calcification. The connection between nutrition, inflammation, and oral health is clear. Our mouths are part of a whole-body system,

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and the same nutrients that support strong bones support healthy gums and enamel.

Left untreated, tartar becomes more than a cosmetic concern. It forms a porous foundation where bacteria thrive, releasing toxins that irritate and inflame the gums. That inflammation can progress to gingivitis and, if ignored, to periodontal disease. The result is not just the risk of tooth loss, but it is also linked to systemic conditions like heart disease and diabetes.

Regular cleanings remove tartar before it can cause that chain reaction. If you are prone to heavy tartar buildup, take a closer look at what is fueling your body and your mouth.

1. Eat nutrient-dense foods. Vitamin K2 is found in grass-fed dairy, eggs, meat, and fermented foods such as certain cheeses, kimchi, or sauerkraut. Paired with vitamin D3 and magnesium, it helps guide calcium properly to where it is needed most.

2. Stay hydrated. Water keeps saliva flowing, which protects enamel and neutralizes acid.

3. Limit sugary or sticky foods. Frequent snacking on refined carbo-

hydrates fuels the bacteria that form plaque.

4. Keep regular dental visits. Professional cleanings remove buildup that brushing cannot, and your hygienist can track patterns in your tartar that may reveal bigger health clues.

5. Do not skip your daily routine. Even with perfect nutrition, brushing twice a day and flossing remain the frontline defenses against plaque turning into tartar.

Our humid coastal climate affects more than our comfort; it can influence oral health too. Higher humidity can alter saliva flow and mineral concentration, and diet patterns shift with the seasons. Removing tartar in the dental chair is essential but preventing it starts at home. If you notice rapid buildup, persistent roughness behind your lower front teeth, or bleeding gums, schedule a visit. Together, we can identify the underlying causes and protect your smile for the long run.

Robyn May is a dentist at ROC Dental Group in Bluffton. Learn more at ROCDentalGroup.com.

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Great idea, now what? Turning inspiration into a business plan

So, you’ve got a business idea. Congratulations! Welcome to the club of women who’ve stood in the shower, at a red light, or in the middle of Target thinking, “This could be a business.” It’s exhilarating. It’s intoxicating. And if you’re not careful, it’s also the fastest way to go broke buying domain names at 2 a.m.

Here’s the cold splash of water: an idea is not a business. It’s the spark. And sparks are fabulous—especially if you actually build a fire out of them. But too many women get stuck in “dream mode.” They doodle logos, brainstorm names, maybe even set up an Instagram handle… but never move past the fun part. If you want this to be more than a hobby with business cards, it’s time to get serious.

Step 1: Gut-check your idea

Ask yourself three questions:

1. Who actually needs this? (And “everyone” is not an answer.)

2. Why would they pay for it?

3. How is this different from what already exists?

If you can’t answer those, you don’t have a business yet—you have a cute concept. And that’s okay! But your rent isn’t going to accept “concepts” as payment.

Step 2: Validate before you renovate

Don’t sink money into websites, equipment, or Aunt Linda’s cousin’s cousin’s marketing package until you know your idea holds water. That means market research. (Yes, the dreaded phrase.) But listen, “market research” doesn’t have to mean a 200page MBA-approved binder. It can be as simple as:

• Talking to 10 potential customers.

• Stalking your competition (online, not in person—orange jumpsuits are not a good look).

• Pricing out what people actually pay for similar services.

If you skip this, you risk building something no one wants. And then you’ll be the proud owner of an expensive hobby.

Step 3: Write a baby business plan

I’m not asking you to crank out a 50page document that no one but a bored banker will ever read. I’m talking about a one-page sanity check. Who are you serving? What problem are you solving? How will you make money? How much do you need to get started? Write it down. Seeing it on paper turns the dream into something you can act on. Step 4: Stop hiding, start doing Perfection is the enemy of progress. Your logo doesn’t need to be perfect. Your website doesn’t need to sparkle. What you need is momentum. Pick one small step this week: schedule a coffee with a mentor, set up your LLC, or call that first potential client. Do something. The Bottom Line Ideas are easy. Execution is where the women-owned empires are built. So if you’ve been sitting on your “someday business” idea for too long, consider this your loving shove: Get out of your head and into the world.

Because the truth is, your great idea isn’t going to launch itself. And if you wait too long, someone else will.

Lucy Rosen has spent 40+ years helping women find business success. She also runs the Lowcountry Women’s Network. Lucy@smartmarketingcommunications. com.

5 FAST STEPS TO TURN YOUR IDEA INTO ACTION

1. Write it down. Ideas vanish — put yours on paper today.

2. Talk to three people who might actually buy it.

3. Google your competition. (If no one’s doing it, there might be a reason.)

4. Run the numbers. Even rough math beats “I think it’ll work.”

5. Tell someone out loud. Saying it makes it real — and gets you moving.

LUCY ROSEN

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Beaufort Memorial begins work on Hilton Head’s Emergency & Urgent Care facility

State-of-the art facility will bring convenience, affordable cost of care

Emergency and urgent care services are now only one year away from making a difference in southern Beaufort County, as work has begun on the site of Beaufort Memorial’s combination healthcare facility on Hilton Head Island.

Beaufort Memorial, with MUSC Health, is bringing emergency and urgent care services under one roof to the southern end of Hilton Head Island. The site along William Hilton Parkway saw its first flurry of activity as demolition on the vacant structure began Oct. 27. This demolition process is slated to take two weeks, with construction immediately following.

Memorial to bring this innovative care model to Hilton Head Island,” said Thom Herrmann, CEO of Intuitive Health. “By combining emergency and urgent care services under one roof, patients and families will no longer have to decide where to go when they need care. They can simply come to one location and trust that they’ll receive the right level of care, right away.”

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The facility’s innovative model keeps healthcare costs at the appropriate level for patients. If it’s determined that the patient doesn’t require emergency-level care, they are treated with urgent care services and receive a bill to match. Patients can expect the walk-in convenience of an urgent care (no appointment needed) as well as the medical expertise of a traditional hospital ER –without the traditional wait time, saving them time, money and peace of mind.

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The facility, which will be open 24/7 and staffed with emergency-trained, board-certified physicians and nurses, will also be fully equipped with on-site lab equipment and a radiology suite that includes X-ray and CT scanners. With a construction timeline of 12-14 months, the facility is expected to open in Fall 2026.

“Beaufort Memorial is staying true to its promise to expand access and grow healthcare services in southern Beaufort County,” said Beaufort Memorial President and CEO Russell Baxley. “This combination emergency and urgent care facility is a huge milestone, providing an innovative, patient-centered approach to deliver healthcare on Hilton Head Island.”

Beaufort Memorial is partnering with Dallas-based Intuitive Health to open one of the first combination ER & urgent care sites in South Carolina. It’s a critical step for the nonprofit community hospital system in its dedication to meet the ever-growing need for medical care on Hilton Head Island.

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“We are pleased to be able to provide enhanced access to emergency and urgent care services to the residents of the Hilton Head Island community alongside Beaufort Memorial,” said Patrick J. Cawley, M.D., MUSC Health CEO and executive vice president for Health Affairs, University. “When a patient experiences a sudden health concern, they want the best quality care delivered as quickly as possible, and this facility provides just that.”

Beaufort Memorial Emergency & Urgent Care is only the first major milestone in Beaufort Memorial’s ongoing commitment to expanding access to healthcare services on Hilton Head Island.

“Beaufort Memorial has always been dedicated to growing in smart, innovative ways,” Baxley said. “This combination urgent care and ER is a fantastic first step in our goal to continue making high-quality, cost-effective healthcare more accessible for Lowcountry residents, especially those on Hilton Head Island.”

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Ask the Expert: What happens if I don’t have a will?

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swer: Many people put off writing a will, thinking they’ll get to it “someday.” But what happens if that day never comes? Dying without a will— known legally as dying intestate— means the state decides who receives your property, who handles your estate, and even who will care for your minor children. That can lead to confusion, delays, and outcomes that may not reflect your wishes.

per. Under South Carolina law, creditors then have eight months from the date of that notice to file any claims against the estate. Because the estate cannot be fully closed until that creditor period has expired, probate in South Carolina takes at least eight months. It can easily take much longer if there are disputes, property to sell, or complex assets involved. For parents, one of the most serious consequences of not having a Will is that you lose the right to name a guardian for your minor children. Instead, the court must decide who will raise them—potentially creating emotional and legal challenges for your family.

When someone passes away without a will in South Carolina, the intestate succession laws determine who inherits their property. Generally, the estate passes to the closest living relative(s)— starting with a spouse and children, then parents, siblings, or more distant family if no immediate relatives exist. More specifically, if you are married and you have children, your spouse and children will each get a share or your estate. It is not the case that “everything” goes to your spouse! This legal formula doesn’t consider blended families, unmarried partners, or your personal relationships. Someone you care about deeply may end up with nothing simply because the law doesn’t recognize them as an intestate heir.

Dying without a will also means you don’t get to choose who manages your estate. The court must appoint a personal representative (sometimes called an executor) to handle your affairs, which can lead to family disagreements or delays while the court decides who is best suited for the role.

All estates—whether or not there is a will—must go through probate, the court-supervised process of settling someone’s affairs. During probate, the personal representative must notify creditors that the estate is open by publishing a legal notice in a local newspa-

Having a will in place provides clarity, can shorten the probate process, and gives your loved ones the guidance they need when they need it most. It’s not just about distributing property—it’s about protecting your family and ensuring your final wishes are honored. If you haven’t created a will yet, talk with an experienced estate planning attorney. A little planning today can save your loved ones months—or even years—of stress and uncertainty later.

For educational purposes only. This is not legal advice. Lisa Hostetler Brown is a Certified Elder Law Attorney certified by the National Elder Law Foundation. 2 Hampton Hall Blvd, Ste 100, Bluffton, SC 29910. | 843-757-5294 | LawyerLisa.com.

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Dispelling Medicare misconceptions

Between its parts and plans and supplements, many pre-retirees find Medicare hard to navigate without some guidance. Here are the facts about five common Medicare myths: Myth: Medicare offers free healthcare.

companies. Many of these plans cover dental, vision, hearing and prescription drug costs not covered by Parts A and B, which the government sometimes calls “Original Medicare.” However, the plans may have limited networks to keep costs down and beneficiaries will have cost-sharing structures that may vary with different plans.

Part D is optional prescription drug coverage that has myriad variables, such as premiums, copays, coverage gaps and coinsurance. You can choose which prescription drug plan best fits your needs.

Myth: Medicare may not cover me.

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Dr. Pallitto recently joined Beaufort Memorial from UPMC in Pittsburgh, where he practiced across several top-tier hospitals and contributed to orthopaedic research and education. He is part of the team at BOSS Orthopaedics and sees patients in Beaufort, Bluffton, and Hilton Head. Specializing in hip and knee replacements, Dr. Pallitto has expertise in both primary and revision arthroplasty, robotics, and the direct anterior approach. He is trained on both the MAKO SmartRobotics™ system and the VELYS™ Robotic-Assisted Solution for knee replacement.

Fact: The Affordable Care Act allows Medicare beneficiaries an annual wellness check at no charge. Beneficiaries also are entitled to free recommended preventive screenings, such as mammograms and colonoscopies, annual wellness visits and personalized prevention plans. For most people, Medicare Part A – which covers hospital stays and services up to certain limits – does not require a premium. But that’s it. You’re still responsible for copays, coinsurance and deductibles.

Medicare Part B, which covers medically necessary and preventive services, has monthly premiums that start at $185.00 for individuals earning less than $106,000 in 2025 up to $628.90 for individuals earning more than $500,000. Part D, which covers prescriptions, has added surcharges for those making more than $106,000.

Many Medicare beneficiaries also purchase a Medigap supplemental insurance plan to help cover out-of-pocket costs.

Myth: Medicare covers everything

Fact: Not true. Dental, vision and hearing are not covered by Medicare. Prescription drug coverage is only offered through Part D and Medicare Advantage plans. What’s more, you are responsible for the premiums, deductibles and copayments associated with the coverage you choose.

Myth: A Medicare Advantage plan or Part D coverage will fill gaps in my coverage.

Fact: Medicare can be complicated. Medicare Advantage plans – sometimes known as Part C – offer optional coverage through private insurance

Fact: One major advantage of original Medicare is that you can’t be rejected for coverage or be charged higher premiums because you’re sick. However, if you’re a high earner, you’ll pay higher premiums for Medicare Part B and Part D. In addition, the Affordable Care Act now prohibits discrimination based on a pre-existing condition. However, private “medigap plans” can have underwriting after the initial guaranteed issue period. Myth: I will be notified when it’s time to sign up for Medicare.

Fact: No. Unless you are already receiving Social Security benefits, you must apply for Medicare. You will not receive any official notification on when or how to enroll.

If you’re over 65, still working and covered by employer healthcare, you may want to delay enrollment in Part B to avoid paying for coverage you don’t need. Once you stop working, you must enroll within eight months to avoid permanent late penalties. COBRA or retiree benefits are not considered creditable coverage and you will be penalized if you have COBRA and sign up for Medicare past the age of 65.

For those without employer coverage, it’s a good idea to sign up when you’re first eligible for Part B.

Source: Medicare.gov

Nick Martin is a financial planner and the founder of Bluffton Financial Planning. blufftonfinancialplanning. com. Bluffton Financial Planning is not a registered broker/dealer, and is independent of Raymond James Financial Services. Investment advisory services offered through Raymond James Financial Services Advisors, Inc.

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Navigating rising inventory: 4 key strategies for sellers

Across the Lowcountry of South Carolina, the real estate market is seeing an increase in available inventory, with listings up roughly 25% through August, compared to the same time last year. While this trend introduces more competition for sellers, it also creates new opportunities for those who approach the market with informed, strategic preparation.

At Collins Group Realty, we believe success in this environment comes down to understanding the nuances of timing, pricing, presentation, and market communication. Below are four key strategies to help sellers achieve optimal results, even as inventory rises.

1. Leverage “Listing Delay” Strategies

Before a property is officially launched to the active market, there’s an opportunity to generate anticipation and control timing through the MLS “Coming Soon” status, only visible to licensed realtors. This period acts as a holding tank – the listing agreement is signed, but marketing assets such as photography and staging are still being finalized. Using this strategy allows sellers to build momentum and ensure their property makes a strong first impression the moment it becomes publicly visible. In a competitive market, a coordinated launch can make the difference between simply listing and truly positioning a home for success.

2. Focus on the First Wave of Buyers

When a home first hits the market, it captures the attention of the most active and motivated buyers – those already searching, pre-approved, and ready to act. You may have heard the phrase, “the first offer is often the best offer,” as it

tends to come from this initial wave of serious prospects.

To maximize this window, sellers should ensure their home is presented in the best light and priced strategically from day one. Missing that early surge can result in extended market time and reduced leverage in negotiations.

3. Embrace Price Repositioning as a Tool

What may have once been interpreted as a setback is now understood as a valuable opportunity to realign with buyer activity and market demand. A significant percentage of homes that ultimately sell have undergone at least one price reduction. Repositioning a property is not always about lowering the number… It’s about refreshing the narrative and visual presentation to capture renewed buyer attention.

When done thoughtfully, a price reposition can reignite interest, attract new audiences, and ultimately lead to a successful sale.

4. Understand the “Power of the Ping”

Every time a property’s status or price changes, that update “pings” across multiple buyer devices and platforms – from real estate apps to automated search alerts. Each ping represents a renewed opportunity for engagement.

Strategic timing of these updates helps keep a listing active in the digital ecosystem and top-of-mind for buyers, even weeks into its lifecycle.

A Hyper-Local Market Requires Hyper-Local Strategy

While national trends make headlines, real estate remains hyper-local. What works in one neighborhood may differ in another, making professional guidance essential.

As inventory grows across the Lowcountry, sellers who plan intentionally – and align with agents who understand timing, technology, and buyer behavior – will continue to find success in this evolving market.

Chip Collins is the Broker-Owner of Collins Group Realty founded in 2002. Find Chip at chip@collinsgrouprealty. com or collinsgrouprealty.com.

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Novant Health Foundation supports patients and care teams

Novant Health announced the expansion of Novant Health Foundation into South Carolina, building on its long history of advancing health and healing across the Carolinas. The foundation serves as a vital resource in supporting patient care, community health programs and team member well-being across Novant Health’s growing healthcare network.

The South Carolina division of Novant Health Foundation, led by Nancy McInroy, will help deliver on Novant Health’s commitment to high-quality, compassionate care. With healthcare campuses in Hilton Head, Charleston and Greenville, the expansion ensures that local giving directly supports local needs.

McInroy, a longtime champion of healthcare access, recently joined Novant Health as chief philanthropy officer for the South Carolina region. In her previous role as president of the National MS Society’s Greater Illinois Market, McInroy spearheaded philanthropic development and major giving campaigns.

“Novant Health is dedicated to building a healthier future for South Carolina, and with that comes the opportunity and responsibility to invest meaningfully in the patients and care team members we serve,” said McInroy. “The foundation’s work in South Carolina will empower our neighbors to play an active role in shaping the future of healthcare in their own backyards.”

The foundation will strengthen team work on critical priorities, including:

• Access to care: funding for programs and services that reduce health disparities and increase access to care in underserved communities.

• Clinical innovation: investments in advanced technology, specialty services and facility improvements.

• Team member support: resources such as scholarships, emergency assistance and professional development for the healthcare workers who care for us.

• Patient experience: enhancements that provide comfort, dignity and connection during life’s most vulnerable moments.

The foundation in South Carolina is already making an impact. One of its first initiatives took place at Novant Health Coastal Carolina Medical Center in Hardeeville, where grateful patient Joan

Kulchar honored a care team member through Novant Health’s Guardian Angel program. The recognition included a personal note of thanks, a meaningful gift through the foundation and the presentation of a Guardian Angel pin to speech language pathologist Brittany Patnaude in a heartfelt ceremony.

“Brittany made sure I knew I was No. 1. She not only did her job but communicated what she was doing and reassured me that I was OK,” Kulchar said, describing her experience undergoing a swallow study ahead of sinus surgery. “The interactions between Brittany and her team members were wonderful. You could tell they took pride in their work; you knew you were getting the best of care. That all translates to your patient experience.”

Patnaude was honored to be recognized and appreciated Kulchar going the extra mile to acknowledge her commitment to patient care.

“These early acts of generosity underscore the powerful bond between patients and providers – and the role philanthropy plays in strengthening those relationships,” McInroy said. “As our foundation’s work grows here, Novant Health invites individuals, businesses and civic partners throughout South Carolina to join in supporting its mission.”

Honoring a team member through the Novant Health Foundation Guardian Angel program is one of the easiest ways to make a difference. Patients can honor remarkable caregivers, staff, and personnel, while supporting programs and services in their local Novant Health facilities.

Visit the supportnovanthealth.org/ guardian-angel/ for more information or to make a gift.

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Arts & Entertainment Calendar

The Roommate

October 31 – November 9, 2025 | HHPS Main Street Theater, 3000 Main Street, Hilton Head Island. By Jen Silverman, directed by Whitaker Gannon. A comedy-drama about an unexpected friendship between two very different women. Talkbacks follow Nov. 1, 2, 7 and 9 performances. leanensemble.org

SOBA Annual Holiday Market

November 3 – December 28 | SOBA Gallery, 6 Church Street, Bluffton Monday–Saturday: 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Sunday: 11 a.m.–3 p.m.

SOBA transforms its featured artist room into a cheerful boutique bursting with handcrafted treasures made by local artists. www.sobagallery.com

First Thursday Artisan Alley

Nov. 6 , 4 - 7 p.m. | The Shops at Sea Pines Center. Attendees can explore local art, crafts and food offerings while supporting a featured charity. theshopsatseapinescenter.com/

The Art of Storytelling: A Panel with Local Authors

Saturday, November 8, 2 - 3 p.m. Bluffton Branch Library, 120 Palmetto Way, Bluffton

Step into the world of storytelling with four talented local authors. Hear firsthand what sparks their creativity, how they shape ideas into stories, and the paths they’ve taken to publication and engage in a lively question -andanswer session. Afterward, continue the conversation while mingling with the authors and enjoying light refreshments, courtesy of the Friends of the Bluffton Library. Seating is first come, first

served.

Beaufortcountylibrary.org/calendar

Palm Trees & Pistons Car Show

Saturday, November 8, 9–11 a.m. | Nalas Beach Bar & Grill, Hilton Head Island

Monthly car show featuring vintage, antique, exotic, and muscle cars. Free admission for participants and spectators. Mention “Palm Trees & Pistons” in the restaurant that morning to receive 25% off breakfast from 9 a.m. to noon. Held the second Saturday of each month, weather permitting.

Opening Reception. Artist of Bluffton Library! Staff Creations

Saturday, November 10, 5:30 - 6:30 p.m, Bluffton Branch Library, 120 Palmetto Way, Bluffton

Be the first to explore this colorful and dynamic exhibit, featuring drawings, lithographs, paintings, sculptures, and more—all created by the people who make your library a special place. Enjoy light refreshments provided by the Friends of the Bluffton Library as you mingle, connect, and celebrate local creativity. Beaufortcountylibrary.org/ calendar

Library Plant Swap

November 10 | 1 p.m. | Hilton Head Branch Library, 11 Beach City Road, Hilton Head Island

Bring a healthy plant, seeds, or a rooted cutting to trade during the library’s free monthly Plant Swap. Indoor or outdoor, big or small—every plant is welcome. Browse the swap selection and chat about gardening with fellow plant lovers. For questions, call the Hilton Head Library Reference Desk at 843-2556525. www.beaufortcountylibrary.org

Author Talk with Mary J. Nestor

November 10 | 2–3 p.m. | Hilton Head Branch Library, 11 Beach City Road, Hilton Head Island

Local author Mary J. Nestor discusses her debut fiction release, Bus No. 7, during this free Friends of the Hilton Head Library event. No registration required. Signed copies of the book will be available for purchase. www.beaufortcountylibrary.org

Holiday Craft and Bake Sale

Saturday, November 15, 9 a.m.–2 p.m. | Christ Lutheran Church, 829 William Hilton Parkway, Hilton Head Island Sponsored by Hilton Head Plantation Crafters, featuring handmade items and baked goods. Admission free; proceeds benefit Hospice Care of the Lowcountry.

Thanksgiving Turtle Trot 5K

Thursday, November 27, 9 a.m. | The Dunes House, 14 Dunes House Ln., Hilton Head Island The fifth annual familyfriendly beach run/walk hosted by the Palmetto Dunes Property Owners Association. Registration is $35 for adults and $20 for kids 12 and under. Proceeds benefit Palmetto Dunes Cares, supporting local youth and environmental programs. Register at pdpoa.run

Community Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday, November 27, 11 a.m.–3 p.m. | Hudson’s Seafood House on the Docks, Squire Pope Rd., Hilton Head Island

The 26th annual free, family-style Thanksgiving meal hosted by St. Andrew By-The-Sea United Methodist Church and Hudson’s. Donations benefit Bluffton Self Help, Deep Well Project, and Second Helpings. Open to residents

and visitors. communitythanksgiving. com | 843-505-1370

Hilton Head Choral Society’s “Celebrate the Holidays” Concert December 5 | 7 p.m. | First Presbyterian Church, 540 William Hilton Parkway, Hilton Head Island

Celebrate the season with the Hilton Head Choral Society during an evening of cherished traditions and contemporary holiday favorites. This year’s program features selections from Handel’s Messiah in honor of the Society’s founding in 1975. Tickets are available at www. hiltonheadchoralsociety.org. For information or ticket assistance, call 843-341-3818 or email tickets@ hiltonheadchoralsociety.org.

JPII 2025 Ugly Sweater 5K Run & Walk

Saturday, December 6, 9 a.m. check-in | John Paul II Catholic School, 4211 N. Okatie Hwy., Ridgeland Festive 5K run and walk sponsored by the JPII PTO. Proceeds benefit JPII PTO programs. Race begins at 10 a.m. Registration is $35 by Nov. 19 (includes T-shirt) or $45 after Nov. 19. Prizes awarded to top finishers by age group and for the ugliest sweaters. Open to the public. Contact: Miranda Shipman, PTO@thejp2.org

Please note: Events are subject to change. For the most current details, contact event organizers directly. To submit events for consideration in future issues, email editor@blufftonsun. com.

Enjoy the Holidays

HOLIDAY ART WALK

November 14th 3 - 7 pm

Its the perfect time to start your holiday gift shopping!

MALL-TERNATIVE PARTY

November 28th All Day

Find the best LOCAL deals for all your gift giving this holiday season! Follow Shop Old Town Bluffton on Facebook & Instagram for more info.

3rd ANNUAL JINGLE STROLL

December 4th 3 - 7 pm

Find treats for every age and a few just for yourself. Be on the lookout for Santa!

CHRISTMAS TREE LIGHTING

December 5th 5:30-8:30 pm

Tree Lighting at Martin Family Park, then Santa’s Workshop and a Movie

CHRISTMAS PARADE

December 6th 10 am - 12 noon

54th annual parade through Historic Old Town Bluffton

The Old Town Merchants will be collecting donations for Blessing Box Project throughout November

“Slow-seeing,” discovering nature through art

In a world constantly moving at high speed, art offers a rare chance to slow down — to really see. Nowhere is this more powerful than in the experience of nature through art. It’s more than just drawing a bird or painting a flower; it’s about noticing the curve of a leaf, the way light hits a feather, or how bird calls in the woods create a kind of music. Art invites us to pause, observe, and connect. This past summer, a Hilton Head Audubon local youth exhibit reminded the community just how powerful that connection can be. The “Feathered Friends” show, held at the Hilton Head Recreation Center, featured young artists renditions of the Lowcountry’s resident and migratory birds. The collection, a vibrant and heartfelt group of drawings and paintings, captured images like the splendor of a great blue heron and the unique character of a spoonbill. Visitors were moved not only by the talent on display but by the clear affection and attention each piece reflected.

Experiencing nature through art transforms how we see the world. It encourages what some call “slow seeing” — the intentional act of observing something deeply and without rush. Where a casual glance might miss the iridescence of a blue jay’s wing or the delicate architecture of a spider’s web, art demands patience. And in that patience, wonder is born.

To continue to nurture this way of seeing, Hilton Head Audubon is offering two upcoming courses on experiencing nature through art. The first workshop, entitled “How to Begin and Keep a Bird and Nature Journal,” will be led by local illustrator and artist Pam Johnson Brickell at the Newhall Preserve on December 6th at 12:00 PM. Surrounded by the wonders of the preserve, Pam will lead a series of specifically designed exercises to hone nature observation skills through journaling.

The second program will take place in 2026 at SOBA, The Society of Bluffton Artists, on Saturday, April 25, 2026. Entitled “Conservation Through Painting,” this program will be led by local artist Karen Richards who uses art to explore conservation themes. Each participant will create a work of art to take home. Both classes are open to all ages and skill levels. For more details about these programs and other Hilton Head Audubon events visit www.hiltonheadaudubon.org

Nature has always had the power to heal, inspire, and ground us — but sometimes we need help to see it clearly. Through art, we’re reminded that the extraordinary is often hidden in the ordinary. All it takes is a little time, a quiet place, and the willingness to look a little closer.

Denise Prichard is a board member of Hilton Head Audubon, outdoor enthusiast, and conservation storyteller.

Roseate Spoonbill, painted by Michael Church, student Hilton Head Island:

An art-filled and fun fall season

After a slow-ish summer season in Old Town Bluffton, suddenly there’s a whirlwind of excitement and activity! I cannot speak for the other shops, but at La Petite Gallerie, gone are the lazy days of families and couples on vacation, looking for an air-conditioned diversion from the beaches, pools and hot summer sun. Now the visitors are more serious shoppers and new-to-the-area customers looking for original and unique art to fill their Lowcountry homes.

The biggest excitement so far this fall was the nine-day Historic Bluffton Arts and Seafood Festival, now in its 21st season spearheaded by our local Rotary Club. Most pertinent to the Old Town galleries was the local art first Sunday which features artists at our shops and galleries, and local independent artists set up in tents in grassy Martin Park. This year was a bit of a wash-out with persistent rain in the afternoon. The park artists did their best to keep dry while passersby stayed under umbrellas. At La Petite Gallerie our outdoor guest artists powered through

and sales were brisk until the rain finally made it impossible.

Local non-profit Bluffton Self Help held a bang-up Sips and Seafood fundraiser at Hewitt Oaks on October 17. La Petite Gallerie’s Sue Grilli was the featured artist, creating a beautiful and collaborative painting raising money for the live auction.

The final Arts and Seafood ‘Street Fest’ weekend was picture perfect with lovely sunshine and balmy temperatures. Artists from across the region and beyond lined Calhoun Street with tents featuring pottery, woodworking, metalwork, funky sculpture, and paintings. The event brought over 20,000 people to town. Visitors were overheard saying it was the best selection of festival art they had ever seen – very gratifying to hear for the artists displayed on the street! As always, the food trucks and booths featuring local cuisine were popular, with long but fast-moving lines, and delicious fare.

As a long-time vendor at the Arts and Seafood Street Fest myself, the preparation and set up is still a challenge – last minute painting, varnishing and framing, plus the labor of the tent and paintings transport – but as always, the event itself

makes it all worthwhile. The excitement, positive feedback from visitors, new and old friends stopping by, an amazing myriad of dogs accompanying their people all made for an exhilarating weekend for the tent artists.

Meanwhile, down Calhoun Street at La Petite Gallerie, our gallery artists were hopping. Guest artist Joey Taylor was turning pots and wowing visitors as he demoed at his wheel. Our jeweler Patricia Mothershead was delighting with her latest pieces. Lisa Grady’s oyster shell creations and Gary Alexander’s metal sculptures were on display in fine fashion.

Gallery artist Bill Winn did a painting demo on Saturday – finishing up with a stunning sunset piece at the end of the day. Artist Jane Capraro instigated two giant abstract paintings on canvas, inviting visitors to add their marks to the pieces –a wonderful collaboration of splashy color and movement. Please stop by the gallery to see the end result. Artist Sanders Black debuted an over six-foot hammerhead shark sculpture, and Mary Burrell showed her skill with graphite pencil to admiring visitors. Wally Palmer and friends kept toes tapping with live music.

I heard from other shops and galleries that the weekend was a great success as well. Our Bluffton Rotary should be lauded and thanked for putting together yet another fun and busy festival, introducing crowds of folks from far and near to our not-so-small-anymore town. Be sure to come again next year!

Marching forward we are looking ahead to lots more activity with strolling, shopping, sipping, and dining events between now and the upcoming holidays.

Murray Sease is an artist at La Petite Gallerie, 56 Calhoun Street, Bluffton, SC. lapetitegallerie.com.

Omega Boost Granola –a love letter for your body

We all know that breakfast is the most important meal of the day—but what if it could also be the most powerful? This Omega Boost Granola is more than just a crunchy, crave-worthy topping for your yogurt bowl. It’s a nutrient-packed powerhouse loaded with healthy fats, plant-based protein, and enough omega-3s to make your heart do a happy dance.

The magic lies in the mix: heart-healthy almonds, buttery cashews, and brain-boosting walnuts join forces with flax meal and a colorful medley of seeds to deliver a slow-burning energy boost that’ll carry you through your busiest days. Lightly sweetened with maple syrup and agave, and given an

extra crunch from a whipped egg white, this granola strikes that perfect balance between indulgent and wholesome.

Top your smoothie bowl, pair with milk, or simply eat by the handful—this granola is your new go-to snack. And let’s not forget the jewel-toned finish: dried fruits like goji berries, blueberries, and dates give this mix a tart-sweet burst of flavor and a chewy contrast to every crunchy bite.

Think of it as a love letter to your body… with just enough cinnamon and coconut to keep things interesting.

INGREDIENTS

• 4 cups oats

• 2 cups assorted seeds

• 1/2 cup unsweetened coconut

• 2 cups nuts (your choice - cashews, almonds, walnuts)

• 1/4 cup flax meal

• 2 teaspoons cinnamon

• Pinch of salt

• 1/4 cup coconut oil

• 1/4 cup agave to taste

• 1/4 cup maple syrup

• 1 tablespoon vanilla extract

• 1 egg white

• 1 cup assorted fruits: goji berries, dried blueberries, figs, dates, raisins, cranberries

INSTRUCTIONS

1. In a large bowl, mix oats, nuts, seeds, coconut, and flax.

2. In a small bowl, mix maple, agave, oil, egg white and vanilla.

3. Mix dry and wet ingredients. Spread on cookie sheet and bake at 325 Check every 5 to 10 minutes to avoid burning. Remove when golden and add dried fruit.

Leslie Rohland is the owner of The Cottage Café and Bakery, The Juice Hive and the Bluffton Pasta Shoppe. Leslie was named one of the South Carolina Chef Ambassadors for 2024.

LESLIE ROHLAND

Annual Christmas Market set for Nov 22nd

The Church of the Cross Parish Hall will welcome the community on Nov. 22nd for its annual Christmas Market, a tradition that brings together handmade crafts, baked goods and holiday cheer. The market runs from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. at the Parish Hall, 110 Calhoun Street, Bluffton, S.C.

For nearly a year, parish members have been preparing for the event. Women and men alike have contributed their talents, creating a wide variety of items for sale. Shoppers will find handcrafted angels, decorated wreaths, miniature Christmas trees, handmade cards, woodworking products, aprons, stuffed animals and jewelry. Baked goods from the Daughters of the Holy Cross will also be available.

Organizers say the market gives shoppers a chance to find distinctive holiday gifts and decorations while supporting local artisans and church ministries. The event is expected to feature items for a range of ages and tastes.

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Young women from the Heritage Girls will volunteer at the market, assisting visitors and helping maintain the festive atmosphere. Christmas music will play throughout the morning, adding to the ambiance as shoppers browse the parish hall.

A highlight of this year’s event is the raffle for a handcrafted birdhouse modeled after the historic Church of the Cross overlooking the May River.

The birdhouse was designed and built by Jim Sidon of Sparrow 1029, known for his antique-style craftsmanship. The piece is both a work of art and a functional decoration for a garden or home.

The Christmas Market has grown into a tradition for both the congregation and the wider Bluffton community, drawing regular attendees as well as newcomers each year. Proceeds help support the church’s programs and outreach efforts.

The Church of the Cross encourages residents and visitors to attend the Nov. 22nd event, shop for seasonal treasures and enjoy the fellowship that comes with preparing for the holidays.

LEARN ABOUT LOCAL HISTORY

We preserve and share the rich history of Hilton Head Island, stewarding two historic sites listed on the National Register of Historic Places. Throughout the year, we offer engaging classes, tours, and events, with sessions available in the spring and fall. For full details and registration, visit HeritageLib.org.

EDUCATE & CELEBRATE –

250TH ANNIVERSARY OF THE AMERICAN REVOLUTION

Join us as we celebrate 250 years of American independence and honor the fight for freedom! Discover Hilton Head Island’s vital role in shaping our nation’s history at HeritageLib.org – your local resource for all things related to the American Revolution

The Heritage Library is the heart of Hilton Head Island’s history and genealogy. Visit us soon!

The Savannah Wind Symphony

John Madden, Conductor presents our Fall Concert

ENIGMA

Sunday, November 9, 2025

3:00pm

UNDER THE ANCIENT OAKS LIVING HISTORY & OYSTER ROAST

When: Saturday, Nov. 8 2025, 10 a.m.–4 p.m. (festival); 6 p.m. (oyster roast – ticketed event)

Where: Heyward House, 70 Boundary Street, Bluffton, S.C.

Admission: Daytime festival free; oyster roast (paid tickets required)

Info: historicbluffton.org

Living history, oysters and community

The Historic Bluffton Foundation will host its second annual Under the Ancient Oaks Living History and Oyster Roast on Saturday, Nov. 8th, 2025, at the historic 1841 Heyward House. The fullday celebration of Lowcountry culture will raise funds for the foundation’s preservation and educational programs. The event, running from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., is designed to immerse visitors in the antebellum Lowcountry through the work of more than 30 living historians portraying life before 1860. Attendees can expect interactive demonstrations of period clothing, crafts and everyday activities, as well as reenactor military drills and musket firings by a regiment from The Citadel. According to event organizers, the regiment will camp

in Old Town before marching down Bridge Street to Martin Family Park for demonstrations.

Organizers said the festival will also feature tintype photography, live music, blacksmithing, and outdoor cooking presentations throughout the day. Admission to the daytime festival is free. Following the daytime festival, the oyster roast fundraiser begins at 6 p.m. under the live oaks. Tickets are required for the evening oyster roast and advanced purchase is required, with proceeds benefiting the Historic Bluffton Foundation and the Heyward House Museum. For more information visit historicbluffton.org/under-the-ancient-oaks

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Disney’s FROZEN will melt your heart

The Arts Center of Coastal Carolina’s holiday production of Frozen is a dazzling triumph of theatrical magic, emotional depth, and musical brilliance. Experiencing this celebration of courage, connection, and ultimately love, live and in-person is truly enchanting.

The Arts Center has transformed its stage into the icy wonderland of Arendelle for its production of Frozen, onstage November 26 to December 28, 2025. Based on the Academy Award-winning Disney film, this musical adaptation brings beloved characters like Elsa, Anna, Kristoff, Sven, and Olaf to life with breathtaking visuals, soaring music, and heartfelt performances.

Director Larry Rabun, known for his visionary approach to family-friendly theater, shared his passion for the production: “Frozen is more than a fairy tale—it’s a celebration of courage, connection, and the power of love. We’ve worked tirelessly to ensure every moment on stage resonates with audiences, both young and young-at-heart.” His direction emphasizes the emotional journey of the characters, especially the evolving relationship between sisters Elsa and Anna.

The production features all the iconic songs from the film, including “Let It Go,” “Do You Want to Build a Snowman,” and “Love Is an Open Door,” alongside new music written exclusively for the stage by Kristen Anderson-Lopez and Robert Lopez. The score is both familiar and fresh, offering audiences a deeper dive into the characters’ inner lives.

Visually, the show is a spectacle. The Arts Center’s creative team has crafted a set that seamlessly shifts from the warmth of the royal palace to Elsa’s glittering ice castle. The use of lighting, projection, and costume design creates a truly immersive experience. Young theatergoers will be enchanted by Olaf’s whimsical charm and Sven’s playful antics, while adults will appreciate the themes of self-discovery and resilience. The cast, composed of seasoned professionals and rising local talent, is sure to deliver standout performances. Elsa’s emotional arc—from fear to empowerment—is portrayed with nuance and strength, while Anna’s optimism

and bravery shine through every scene. Kristoff and Olaf provide comic relief and heart, grounding the fantastical elements in genuine humanity.

This production underscores the Arts Center’s commitment to producing high-caliber theater for Lowcountry residents and visiting guests to our region. With Frozen, they’ve not only met expectations—they’ve exceeded them. Families, tourists, and longtime patrons alike will find something to love in this magical winter offering. “You don’t have to be a little one to fall in love with this show,” stated Jeffrey Reeves our CEO president.

Unlike anything you can experience by watching this on a screen, experiencing the true magic of Frozen come to vibrant life onstage is truly unforgettable. Tickets are available through the Arts Center’s box office by calling 843-842ARTS (2787) or visiting online at www. artshhi.com. Early booking is recommended due to high demand especially during the holiday season.

This show is the full-length Broadway musical, running about 2.5 hours. It is intended for children 5 years+ and adults. Everyone, regardless of age, will only be admitted with a paid ticket. As customary in live theater productions, no children in laps, seat sharing, or infants in carriers or arms will be permitted.

Friday November 14 3-7 pm

ENTER TO WIN

A Stitch in Time

Celebrate the 250th Anniversary of the American Revolution, support The Heritage Library, and enter to win a one of kind art piece.

A Stitch in Time is a visual timeline of history that starts with The Battle of Sullivan’s Island and moves through glimpses of the changing decades that are Hilton Head Island and Lowcountry history.

This unique piece showcases the artistry of the Art Quilters of the Low Country – Ron Hodge, Ro Morrissey, Peg Weschke and Jody Wigton.

Just walk through the door

Scan the QR Code to purchase a ticket and a chance to win “A Stitch in Time”. Tickets are $10 each or 3 for $25. Tickets can also be purchased at the Heritage Library or online at HeritageLib.org.

The Heritage Library Foundation proudly sponsors the raffle of this quilt. All proceeds from this raffle will be used for educational programming on local and regional history.

Monday-Friday 10am -3pm

Professional Bldg | 2 Corpus Christi | Suite 100 Hilton Head Island, SC 29928 | 843.686.6560 | HeritageLib.org

There are many different reasons why people want to learn to dance, but that first step of walking into a dance studio is sometimes hard for people. Some would like to learn social dancing while some want the physical exercise. Some come with a goal in mind, to learn their wedding dance, work towards a competition or want to be in a dance show production.

From an instructor’s perspective everyone has the ability to learn to dance - they all have the potential. Many say they don’t have any rhythm or they can’t count or they have two left feet, but in reality, it is just a matter of an instructor being able to pull out what’s inside someone and use it to the fullest.

I think most people secretly would like to know how to dance, but what’s keeping them from walking through the door of a dance studio? I decided to ask some of my own students.

One student had driven by the dance studio several times always wondering what was offered but never made the move to stop in. Then a friend invited her to one of the Halloween parties and

she ended up signing up for several classes. She just had to break the ice of walking in.

One of our male students was worried about learning everything that was expected from a male dancer – learning all the steps, leading the lady and maintaining the timing of the music, which meant he really had to learn a lot and thought it would be difficult. Since his wife wanted dance lessons for Christmas, it pushed them both through the door and they are still dancing today.

Another student received a coupon for a free ½ hour lesson. She decided not to waste it and pushed herself to walk through the door. This student not only continues to take lessons but competes as well.

For another student, it was on her bucket list so she had to push herself to walk through that door in order to stay on track for her bucket list.

So, all you really have to do is walk through the door – it’s easy why not try it!

Sandro Virag is a partner and instructor at Hilton Head Ballroom Dance Studio of Hilton Head, hiltonheadballroom.com

Hilton Head Dance Theatre to present annual ‘Nutcracker’ this November

The Hilton Head Dance Theatre will mark its 40th anniversary season this fall with its annual production of “The Nutcracker,” opening Friday, Nov. 14th, at the Seahawk Cultural Center.

The holiday classic will run for six performances through Sunday, Nov. 23rd, continuing a local tradition that began in 1985 when the company first brought “The Nutcracker” to Hilton Head Island. Artistic directors Karena Brock-Carlyle and John Carlyle, who have led every production since its debut, will again oversee the staging.

The ballet tells the story of a young girl named Marie who receives a magical nutcracker on Christmas Eve, leading her into a dreamlike adventure filled with dancing snowflakes, a battle with the Mouse King, and the Land of Sweets.

This year’s cast will feature guest artist Will Scott performing the Grand Pas de Deux with Sarah Tiller and Sara Beth Vergakis in alternating shows. Emmy Ott and Kylah Arnholt will share the role of the Snow Queen, appearing alongside Jamal Edwards as the Snow King. Georgia Denckhoff and Vergakis

will alternate as the Sugar Plum Fairy, with Tiller and Denckhoff sharing the role of the Dew Drop Fairy.

Performances begin at 7:30 p.m. on Nov. 14th, 15th, 21st and 22nd, with matinees at 2:30 p.m. on Nov. 16th and 23rd. Tickets are $30 for adults, $25 for seniors, and $20 for children 18 and under.

For more information or to purchase tickets, visit www.hiltonheaddance.com

HILTON HEAD DANCE THEATRE PRESENTS “THE NUTCRACKER”

When: Nov. 14th–16th and Nov. 21st–23rd

Where: Seahawk Cultural Center, Hilton Head Island High School

Tickets: $30 adults, $25 seniors (60+), $20 students (18 and under); prices $5 higher at the door

Info: www.hiltonheaddance.com/nutcracker

HOLIDAY MARKET

Free your photos: turning camera rolls into keepsake books

design and order.

On Oct. 22nd, I had the pleasure of presenting “Free Your Photos: From Phone or Camera to Photo Book” at the Hilton Head Plantation Community.

About 60 people joined me for an informative, fun hour focused on turning everyday snapshots into printed photo books, wall collages, and keepsake gifts.

My goal was simple: help people move images off their phones and cameras and onto something they can hold and share. November is the perfect time to do this, just in time to enjoy these projects with family and friends or to give as a gift for the holidays.

I taught a straightforward flow that works for any skill level. Start with a clear goal to keep focused, gather everything into one project album or folder, curate the best, make light edits, then choose your photo book publisher,

To keep the room engaged, I kept specific device steps off the screen and provided a take-home handout that covers iPhone and Android, plus importing from a camera to a computer.

Early on I clarified a common confusion. Sync and backup are not the same thing. Sync mirrors changes, which means a photo or video deletion in one place will remove the photo everywhere that is synced. A true backup is a separate, recoverable copy. I encourage a 3-2-1 plan: three copies, two different locations or devices, and one offsite or cloud copy. With that safety net in place, people can relax and focus on the creative part.

For curation, we talked about removing near-duplicates, choosing the shot with the best expression, favoring sharp faces and meaningful moments, and adding short captions with names, dates, and places.

For editing, I shared quick tweaks that make a big difference without heavy filters: crop, straighten, exposure and contrast. When building a book, I like to think about the story I am telling and pick a layout and style that reflects that.

Use a variety of wide and close shots as well as vary the amount of photos on each page to create a rhythm and move the story along. When it comes to layout, I

prefer a square book with a clean, modern look, but style is personal. Most photo book companies offer many templates and themes, including seasonal designs.

Before ordering, I recommend proofing at actual size on a computer screen, checking edges and any text, and saving the final files with the project album name. We also discussed how to include older printed photos. If your club or neighborhood group would like a private workshop, full photo-management services, including cameraroll cleanups, cross-device consolidation, backup setup, print organizing, album design, and legacy storytelling; I would love to help. Learn more at digyourphotos.com, email rhoda@sunflowerphotosolutions.com, or call 732-740-7230.

Rhoda Gordon, a local Certified Photo Manager, is the owner of Sunflower Photo Solutions and the creator of DIG YOUR PHOTOS!™, a DIY photo organizing kit. For a decade, she has been helping families and businesses sort, organize, digitize, and back up their print and digital photo collections. Discover more tips, tricks, and how-tos on her YouTube channel: youtube.com/@digyourphotos, and visit sunflowerphotosolutions.com or digyourphotos. com for expert guidance and support with your media collection and organizing projects.

RHODA GORDON

Coastal Discovery Museum highlights Beaufort County artists in Governor’s School exhibit

The Coastal Discovery Museum is showcasing the work of Beaufort County graduates from the South Carolina Governor’s School for the Arts and Humanities in a new exhibition celebrating the school’s 25th anniversary.

The show, titled Four Sketchbooks a Year: Celebrating 25 Years of the South Carolina Governor’s School for the Arts and Humanities, will remain on view through Jan. 4, 2026, at the museum on Hilton Head Island.

The exhibit features visual art by alumni spanning the school’s first graduating class to its most recent, including Emma Barnes, Alex Coley, Amelie Davis, Evan Ford, Alex Gentemann, Colleen Gleason, Nathaniel Greenberg, Kevin Hopkins, Tori Lusik, Luis Paredes, Jack Perry, Olivia Ruxton, Jessie Peterson Tarazi and Wylder Voegele.

Founded in Greenville, the Governor’s

School began as a five-week summer music program in 1980 and became a full-time residential high school in 1999. It has since earned a statewide reputation for cultivating young talent across disciplines including visual arts, music, dance, drama and creative writing.

Elizabeth Greenberg, director of exhibitions at the Coastal Discovery Museum, said the display reflects the caliber of work produced through the Governor’s School’s visual arts program.

“As a curator and parent of a Govie, it’s been a joy to see such consistently strong work from students in the visual arts program,” Greenberg said. “And it’s so rewarding to see how the artists continue to grow in college and beyond.”

David Gerhard, visual arts department chair at the Governor’s School, said the program’s emphasis on discipline and creativity prepares students for long-term artistic growth.

“These artists embody our department’s

mission of giving South Carolina’s young creatives the tools and resources to flourish as artists in an environment centered around respect, hard work, creativity and connection,” Gerhard said in a statement.

The Governor’s School’s visual arts curriculum includes studio instruction in drawing, painting, ceramics, printmaking, photography, jewelry, and digital design. Students are required to complete four sketchbooks each year, a practice that inspired the title of the exhibit.

The Coastal Discovery Museum, a Smithsonian Affiliate located on the historic Honey Horn property, offers year-round exhibits and educational programs focused on Lowcountry culture, history and the environment. Admission to the museum and the exhibit is free.

For more information about the exhibit, visit www.coastaldiscovery.org. Details about the South Carolina Governor’s School for the Arts and Humanities are available at www.scgsah.org.

Sun City Chorus and Orchestra presents “Sing Hallelujah!”

Celebrate Christmas and the holidays with the Sun City Chorus and Orchestra’s “Sing Hallelujah!”

The program will feature traditional carols, contemporary arrangements, and gospel-inspired selections that reflect the joy and wonder of the season. Musical Director Art Hansen will conduct the 60to 70-member chorus and professional orchestra, with Assistant Director Lorraine Hansen accompanying on piano.

Performances are scheduled for Dec. 4th, 5th and 6th at 7 p.m., and Dec. 7th at 2:30 p.m. The concerts are open to Sun City residents, guests, and the wider community.

Art’s entertaining, informative comments intersperse the two-hour program of traditional and contemporary musical selections. A sit-up-and-pay-attention rendition of “Little Town,” by Chris Eaton, with additional words and music by Joshua Spacht, opens the program. “Emmanuel Medley,” arranged and orchestrated by Lari Gross, follows with its news, “Born is the King, rejoice!”

Three other traditional selections, “Silent Night,” arranged by Dan Forest, “Hark! The Herald Angels Sing,” another Joshua Spacht arrangement, and “The First Noel,” arranged by Jay Rouse, continue to tell the Christmas story.

For a change of pace, the contemporary, easy-going gospel tune, “We Need a Little Love,” is timely and encouraging. Closing the first half of the program is “Sing Noel, Sing Hallelujah,” written by Michael W. Smith and David Hamilton.

Kicking off the program’s second half, the upbeat, fun tune, “We Wish You the Merriest,” written by Les Brown and recorded by Frank Sinatra, convinces the performers and audience alike to “Deck the hall, we’re gonna have a ball!” Art and Lorraine Hansen are known for their ability to use many styles of music

to tell a story. Following the jolly opening number is a spectacular Spacht arrangement of “O Holy Night” that soars and assures. The favorite “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day” is next and is followed by “Pat-a-Pan-Salsa” with its joyful salsa-dancing groove. The story continues with “Do You Hear What I Hear?” and a moving arrangement of “It Is Well With My Soul.”

Handel’s “Hallelujah Chorus,” climaxes the program. The Orchestra performs two special selections alone, “Overture to a Winter Celebration,” and “A Most Wonderful Christmas.”

When asked what is satisfying to him about this program, Art replies, “The music expresses the emotion of the time. When we hear it, it sort of brings it out of ourselves. It brings us together a little bit. But the important part is getting the message to the audience. That’s really what the diction’s about, the singing and pitches, it’s about getting the words out so that people understand. And so it’s all about communication.”

Many Chorus members agree with Art that singing Christmas and holiday music is a special experience. Singer Tammy Estrada says, “Being able to do something I love on a regular basis and bringing joy to the people who attend the concerts is so rewarding.”

Chris Rivello adds, “Singing makes me happy. And I like the challenge of making beautiful music. Sometimes when we sing, I get shivers!” Speaking for many others in the group, Gary Gehlhoff shares that his participation in the Chorus has taught him that “learning to really ‘make music’ has been an unexpected bonus.”

Tickets are $28 for the holiday concert or $26 each when purchased as part of the holiday and spring concert series. Tickets are available online at www. SCHHChorus.org, by phone at 843-9419729, or by email at suncitytix@gmail. com. They may also be purchased at the Magnolia Hall Box Office on Monday, Wednesday and Friday from 9 to 11 a.m.

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BLUFFTON HOLIDAY POPS CONCERT

Saturday, November 29, 2025, at 7:00 pm

St. Gregory The Great Catholic Church Parish Life Center, Blu ton

John Morris Russell, conductor

Hilton Head Symphony Orchestra Chorus

Michael Preacely, baritone

The Lowcountry’s cherished Holiday tradition features JMR’s eclectic mix of music and merriment, Hilton Head favorite, baritone Michael Preacely, and the Hilton Head Symphony Orchestra Chorus.

Quilt raffle celebrates Lowcountry history

A richly detailed quilt honoring 250 years of American and Lowcountry history is being raffled by the Heritage Library, offering participants a chance to own a one-of-a-kind work of quilted art piece while supporting local education and preservation programs.

Titled “A Stitch in Time,” the quilt was created by members of the Art Quilters of the Lowcountry; Ron Hodge, Peg Weschke, Ro Morrissey and Jody Wigton, whose work combines fine art techniques with the texture and warmth of traditional quilting. The group, known for exhibiting throughout the Lowcountry, donated their time and talents to bring the region’s history to life in fabric.

The quilt traces centuries of local heritage, from Native American roots and the Revolutionary War through Gullah culture and modern landmarks.

Each panel represents a distinct aspect of Lowcountry history, stitched together against a backdrop of sky, sea and marsh. The border includes palmettos, crescents and 13 stars representing the original colonies, along with imagery honoring African American contributions to the region’s story.

Members of the Art Quilters of the Lowcountry collaborated on the design and assembly of “A Stitch in Time,” contributing their individual skills and artistic styles to create a unified tribute to Lowcountry history.

Quilters Ron Hodge, Peg Weschke, Ro Morrissey and Jody Wigton are known regionally for their fine art quilts, which combine traditional craftsmanship with original design. Each artist brings a distinct approach, ranging from textile collage and fabric painting to intricate piecing and surface embellishment.

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Their techniques were united to depict key moments, landmarks and cultural symbols from across 250 years of local heritage. The completed sections were assembled and quilted by the group to create a cohesive design that weaves their individual styles into a single narrative of the Lowcountry’s past and present.

The quilt is part of the library’s “Educate & Celebrate” campaign, a series of programs and events tied to the national Semiquincentennial celebration

“A Stitch in Time” Quilt Key:

Background:

Represents the Lowcountry’s natural landscape of sky, sea and marsh.

Border:

Highlights the 250th anniversary of the American Revolution with palmettos and crescents inspired by the South Carolina flag, 13 stars for the original colonies, and motifs honoring the Native American and African American communities whose histories are central to the region.

Top row (left to right):

Church of the Cross – The historic Bluffton church was built in 1857.

Golf (Heritage Tournament) – Recognizes the RBC Heritage.

Biking – Reflects the island’s trail system and outdoor recreation.

Historic Gullah neighborhoods –Honors the self-sustained communities established by formerly enslaved people after the Civil War.

Summer fireworks – Celebrates local gatherings and island traditions.

Lowcountry arts and culture – Represents the region’s creative community.

Second row:

Water sports – Illustrates activities central to coastal life.

Oystering – Pays tribute to the area’s oyster industry and shellfish heritage.

Eliza Pinckney – Recognizes the 18th-century agricultural innovator who developed indigo as a major SC crop.

Mitchelville – Honors the first self-governed town for freed African Americans.

Robert Smalls – Features the Civil War hero and later U.S. congressman from Beaufort, celebrated for his bravery in commandeering a Confederate ship to freedom.

marking 250 years since the American Revolution. The campaign focuses on the region’s diverse historical narratives and encourages community participation in commemorating the milestone.

Proceeds will benefit the Heritage Library’s educational programs, local history projects and genealogical research initiatives. The raffle is open to all, with no residency restrictions. Tickets are $10 each, or three for $25, and can be purchased through the library’s website at heritagelib.org.

Third row:

Great blue heron – Symbolizing the region’s abundant wildlife.

Farming and sea island cotton – A nod to the agricultural economy.

Battle of Sullivan’s Island (1776) –Marks South Carolina’s Revolutionary War victory that helped secure independence.

Zion Chapel of Ease Cemetery – Reflects early island settlement.

Shrimping – The commercial and cultural importance of shrimping.

Fourth row:

Beach – Captures Hilton Head’s shoreline and its role in the area’s identity and tourism.

Native Americans – Acknowledges the island’s first inhabitants and their lasting legacy.

Emily Geiger – Commemorates the Revolutionary War courier who delivered a vital message to Gen. Nathanael Greene.

Francis Marion “The Swamp Fox” –Honors the South Carolina militia leader known for his guerrilla tactics during the Revolution.

Liberty Oak – Features the iconic oak at Harbour Town.

Gullah culture – Celebrates the language, art and traditions preserved by descendants of enslaved Africans.

Bottom row:

Lowcountry boil – Depicts the region’s signature dish.

Charles Fraser – Recognizes the developer and visionary who shaped Hilton Head communities.

Sea life – Highlights dolphins, turtles and marine conservation efforts.

First bridge to Hilton Head Island – Marks the 1956 construction of the bridge that connected the island to the mainland.

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Workplace accountability isn’t optional

Talk of culture often fills workplaces, but accountability is the piece that makes or breaks a team. Without it, even the best businesses struggle. And make no mistake: accountability starts at the top.

Why accountability breaks down

Accountability challenges rarely come from laziness. More often, they’re the product of unclear expectations, avoidance, or inconsistent follow-through. The cost isn’t abstract — it lands on the team. When one person isn’t held accountable, others quietly pick up the slack. Over time, high performers burn out or leave, while disengaged staff linger.

Some common breakdowns include:

• The “nice boss” who avoids tough conversations.

• Leaders who demand accountability but never own their own mistakes.

• Teams that confuse “flexibility” with “anything goes.”

• Shifting priorities without explanation, leaving people scrambling.

• High standards applied to some, but not all.

These aren’t minor missteps. They are cracks in the foundation that weaken culture and damage trust.

Employer accountability: setting the tone

Employers set the standard. When leaders avoid accountability, culture suffers — visibly. Employees notice when performance issues go unchecked, when discipline is inconsistent, and when leadership sidesteps responsibility.

Strong leaders do the opposite. They:

• Own their decisions and admit mistakes.

• Apply expectations consistently and fairly.

• Communicate changes clearly, so teams aren’t left in chaos.

• Have tough conversations respectfully, instead of dodging them.

When leaders model accountability, they signal that it’s woven into the culture — not a tool pulled out only when convenient.

The cost of avoidance

Avoiding accountability may feel easier in the short term, but the long-term costs pile up quickly:

• Resentment grows as some employees carry more than their share.

• High performers leave, taking knowledge and client relationships with them.

• Standards slide as teams think, “Why bother if no one else does?”

What looks like conflict avoidance often creates bigger conflicts later. Resetting the standard

The good news: accountability can be reset. Leaders can re-establish it by:

• Discussing where accountability has slipped.

• Re-setting clear goals and expectations.

• Checking in regularly — not just on results, but on follow-through and initiative.

Final thought

Accountability isn’t finger-pointing; it’s respect. Employers must model it and make it part of the culture. When they do, teams thrive. When they don’t, the burden falls on peers — and often drives the best people away.

Accountability isn’t optional. It’s the foundation that keeps workplaces strong — and the competitive edge that keeps them growing.

Jamie Harrison is the CEO of Wolff Engagement Solutions, a Bluffton-based HR & Organizational Development consultancy helping businesses align people, culture, and strategy during growth, compliance pressure, or transition.

JAMIE HARRISON

Rose Hill Golf Club –coming around again

Every few years I highlight some of the great public golf courses in Bluffton. We are very fortunate to have these great designs that you can play. This is the first of the series.

Rose Hill Golf Club was designed by Carolina golf architect Gene Hamm and is one of the oldest golf courses in Bluffton opening in 1983. Originally it was an 18-hole facility with a third nine added in 1995. However, the economy and poor management reduced the course back to 18 holes. The 9 holes that closed is now a beautiful park for the residents.

The good news is that Rosehill is now thriving again having received the 2025 Best in Bluffton Community Choice Award for Public Golf courses. This is mainly due to the IGM Management Agronomy Group, a golf operations and turf grass company. They take great pride in their course conditions. The head professional, Mark Teed, oversees the golf operations and wants the golfers to have a great experience. “I am in charge of people’s leisure time. It all starts with the friendly bag drop, starter, pro shop personal, and course ranger. We want the players to have a fun four-hour round and to keep up with the group in front of them”.

The course: The course is a very challenging design with four sets of tees for all levels of golf experience. The greens are mini-verde ultradwarf and they stay in good shape year-round.

The course is set among live oaks with Spanish moss hanging from the trees, giving the golfer a true feeling of being in the Lowcountry. Wildlife is abundant. Every time you play the course in the late afternoon, you will see deer, especially on the #8 teeing ground. There are several breeds of squirrels that roam the fairways.

The course has many terrific holes.

The front side has a demanding par four, number six hole, with a narrow fairway and a green with water on the left and bunkers on the right. The par three holes on the front side are short but difficult because of the water surrounding the greens. The back side is more difficult, especially hole #14. There are long par fours and two challenging par five holes.

The only area that needs improvement is the bunkers. Teed stated that “the bunkers have not been updated since the course was built. We are putting our emphasis on course conditions and grass.”

Green Fees: The green fees have a three-tiered structure:

• Rose Hill residents can get a membership that also includes use of the range.

• Local residents of nearby counties including Beaufort, Jasper, and Chatham get reduced rates that include green fee and cart.

• Visitors

There are also reduced rates for service personnel and juniors.

Driving range: Located just behind the Clubhouse makes for a short walk to practice. There are two practice holes adjacent to the range.

Dining: The Fair Winds Bar and Grill is open from 11:00 to 9:00 Tuesday to Sunday serving a full menu and drinks. There is also a beverage cart on the course on Mondays. The Pro Shop has drinks and healthy snacks you can purchase before you tee off or at the turn.

Walking the course: Rosehill is the most walkable course in the Lowcountry. I believe that golf was meant to be walked and it is great to see walkers at Rose Hill.

If you haven’t played Rose Hill, you will have a great golfing experience.

Dr. Jean Harris is an LPGA Master Professional and teaches at local golf courses.

Coastal Care Partners opens new Bluffton office

Coastal Care Partners has opened a new location in Bluffton, marking an expansion of its comprehensive aging care services across the Lowcountry.

The company celebrated the grand opening with a ribbon-cutting ceremony at its new office in Suite 101 at Towne Commons Business Park. The event brought together local business leaders, community members, and representatives from the Greater Bluffton Chamber of Commerce.

The Bluffton location will provide nurse care management and in-home care services, with adult primary care scheduled to launch in the near future.

“We’re thrilled to celebrate this new chapter for Coastal Care Partners,” said CEO and co-owner Amy Pierce. “Our mission has always been to provide innovative, compassionate care for older adults and their families, and this expansion allows us to serve our community in an even greater way.”

Coastal Care Partners, based in Savannah, has been recognized as the

region’s top home health care company. The locally owned business offers an integrated approach to aging care that combines medical support, home-based assistance, and coordinated health management to improve quality of life for older adults and peace of mind for their families.

“When my husband, Scott, and I began searching for care solutions for our own loved ones, we quickly recognized a critical gap in the local landscape,” Pierce said. “We created Coastal Care Partners to offer more than just services — our dream was to build a company focused on improving and maintaining quality of life.”

The company’s programs include nurse care management, in-home care, and soon, adult primary care — all designed to provide coordinated, patient-centered support.

More information about services and programs is available at www.coastalcarepartners.com.

Teacher of the year

Beaufort County School District Teacher of the Year Allison Gallagher of H.E. McCracken Middle School receives the 2025 Dr. Wayne Carbiener “Above & Beyond” Award from the Foundation for Educational Excellence. Gallagher was presented with a $1,000 grant for classroom projects during the Oct. 17 ceremony.

The award is presented annually to the Beaufort County School District’s Teacher of the Year in honor of former

Beaufort County Board of Education member and Foundation for Educational Excellence supporter, Dr. Wayne Carbiener. On hand for the presentation were (L-R) Board Members Connie Johnson and Dr. Christine Gray, H.E. McCracken Middle School Principal Dr. Roger Ward, BCSD Teacher of the Year Allison Gallagher, Jacqueline Carbiener - widow of Dr. Carbiener, her daughter Jody Dreyer and Karen Beltz.

The importance of balance

How often do patients tell me “I’m having balance issues.”

A major concern with peripheral neuropathy is loss of balance. The nerves in your feet act like sensors, constantly sending information to your brain about where you are standing. When those messages slow down or get mixed up, the brain must guess and that is when wobbles and falls can happen. Even a small amount of nerve loss can make a big difference in how stable you feel.

Peripheral neuropathy happens when the nerves that carry messages between the brain, spinal cord, and body stop working the way they should. It usually starts in the feet or legs, showing up as tingling, burning, numbness, or weakness. When those nerves misfire, even simple movements like standing or walking can feel unsteady.

Many people think peripheral neuropathy only comes from diabetes, but that is not always the case. Poor circulation, vitamin deficiencies, nerve pressure in the spine, certain medications, or old injuries can all play a role. Another common belief is that once a nerve is damaged, nothing can be done. The truth

is, nerves can often improve when blood flow, movement, and overall health are restored. It takes time, but the body is capable of remarkable healing when it gets the right support.

That is why balance training is so important. It helps the body and brain learn to communicate again. Simple things like standing on one leg, walking heel-to-toe, or using a gentle balance board can help rebuild coordination and confidence. The correct therapies can also wake up the nerves and strengthen the connection between the feet and the brain.

The real progress comes from consistency. Healing takes discipline, and discipline equals freedom; the freedom to walk without fear, move with confidence, and live more fully. The people who practice their balance and circulation exercises at home usually see steady improvements. Small efforts every day add up to lasting results.

The goal of peripheral neuropathy care is simple: restore connection between the brain, the nerves, and the body. When that connection improves, so does quality of life.

If you are having balance issues or feel numbness, tingling, or burning in your feet, your body is trying to tell you something. Do not ignore it. Find a neuropathy physician to get an evaluation to see what can be done to help you move safely and comfortably again.

Dr. Kenneth Horup, DC is a Chiropractic Physician at Discover Specific Chiropractic, Board Certified in Neuropathy.

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Holiday Shop Hop to return supporting Memory Matters

The Lowcountry’s Holiday Shop Hop for Memory Matters will return this November, bringing together local businesses and shoppers for two days of community giving and festive fun.

The charity shopping event will be held Thursday, Nov. 6th, 2025, on Hilton Head Island, and Thursday, Nov. 13th, 2025, in Bluffton. Participating boutiques will donate 10 percent of all sales from those days to Memory Matters, a Hilton Head–based nonprofit that provides programs and support for individuals living with memory loss and their caregivers.

The Holiday Shop Hop follows the success of a spring edition earlier this year that saw strong participation from residents and merchants across the area. Organizers say the holiday event aims to capture that same community spirit while adding a seasonal touch with festive décor, refreshments and early gift-shopping opportunities.

“This event is all about local love— supporting our small businesses while lifting up a cause that touches so many Lowcountry families,” said co-chair Kathryn Mademann in a statement. “Every purchase helps keep vital programs available year-round.”

Co-chair Julie Martin added that the

community’s enthusiasm has been inspiring. “We saw firsthand how shopping local can make a real difference—and now we’re bringing that same spirit to the holidays,” Martin said. “It’s heartwarming to see how our community continues to show up for Memory Matters.”

Memory Matters offers education, counseling, and respite services for families navigating dementia and cognitive challenges. Funds raised from the event help sustain those programs throughout the year.

A full list of participating shops and event details are available at www. mymemorymatters.org/shophop-2025

In addition to shopping, attendees can learn more about Memory Matters’ programs—including caregiver support, respite services, and brain-health education—at select participating stores. Join your neighbors and friends for this holiday tradition in the making. Together, we can shop small, give big, and make memories for families across Hilton Head Island and Bluffton. For more information about the Holiday Shop Hop for Memory Matters or to find out how to participate, call 843-8426688 or visit www.mymemorymatters. org.

Temple Oseh Shalom donates to Bluffton Community Kitchen

Candyce Valmont, Program Director of Bluffton Community Kitchen, accepts donations from Steve Dutka, Outreach chairman of Temple Oseh Shalom. Temple members donated over 200 lbs of food and $200 during a food drive as part of their High Holy Day observance. Temple Oseh Shalom is the largest Jewish congregation in Bluffton.

The value of a self-assessment

The United States government, through the Department of Homeland Security and the FBI, tells citizens involved in a highly traumatic event, like an sctive Shooter, to do the following: Run-Hide-Fight. Schools, businesses, and houses of worship are all addressing this unique problem through some form of training or messaging.

The strategy as written is reactive, once the violence begins act. Professional security folks know there are a number of behaviors that are exhibited prior to the violence that serve as an early warning – but the warnings are only available to those people who are actually paying attention and are aware of their environment.

There are a number of questions that must be asked, but the first is: once the situation has reached a point where RunHide-Fight is required, can the person actually run or fight?

The answer to that critical question is found in a thorough self-assessment. Self-assessments are uncomfortable but very valuable. For purposes of this article, let’s look at four critical areas of a self-assessment to consider before you find yourself in a dangerous, or even violent situation: Commitment, Capability, Capacity, and Consequences.

Who is your commitment to? The answer should be yourself and your family members - if they are with you in the moment. This is very important to assess now and can seem callous but there are countless examples of highly traumatic events where people chose no action because the people they were with froze and they did not want to leave them behind. This is called mirroring and it can be deadly. There are people reading this who think they have a commitment to everyone, and they will save the day – this is admirable and very rare. Remember what the ancient Greek poet Archilochus said: “We don’t rise to the level of our expectations; we fall to the

level of our training.”

What is your capability? Perhaps you work out daily, are a triathlete, a boxer, a martial artist, or you do jiu jitsu. Excellent – you know your capability. Many reading this carry a pistol, train frequently, and are sure of their capability. Unfavorably, some people carry firearms and have no idea how to use them or carry them and secretly pray they never have to use it. Perhaps you are reading this and think you have no capability, if this is you – reassess and find an area where your strength lies or work to improve something in this area.

What is your capacity to handle violence? Often, it is far higher than you can actually imagine. The human body can withstand a tremendous amount of damage and is one of the most impressive survival organisms ever developed. It is entirely designed to survive and avoid danger: listen to it and let it work for you.

What are the consequences of taking action? So many people just think of personal security as owning and carrying a firearm. There are so many situations where using or displaying a firearm is not only unfavorable – it is illegal. It is very important to educate oneself on the law - particularly the self-defense law in the State of South Carolina. There are consequences for taking action, criminal and civil trials, and there are consequences for doing nothing.

Be prepared. Think about these areas now and not in the moment.

James Hamilton is a nationally recognized executive protection expert and former FBI Supervisory Special Agent. With 18 years at the Bureau, he created its Close Protection School, served on the Director’s detail, and continues to advance protective security worldwide.

JAMES HAMILTON

Thanksgiving safety

Inside cooking – in the kitchen:

With all the people and activity going on at Thanksgiving, it’s important to keep the kitchen safe. Did you know that according to the National Fire Protection Association, Thanksgiving is the leading day of the year for home fires involving cooking equipment? Which reminds me, it’s a good time to make sure your smoke alarms are working!

When you are using the stovetop, stay in the kitchen to keep an eye on things. As far as the oven goes, start with a clean oven and make sure you stay in the house and check on it from time to time. Keep anything that can catch fire away from your stove – potholders, wooden utensils, food wrappers, or paper towels.

Make sure your sleeves are out of the way when cooking. Wear tighter fitting clothing with shorter sleeves.

Keep the floor clear so you don’t trip over toys, bags or other items.

Make sure things like knives, electric cords from appliances, matches and lighters are out of a child’s reach.

Remember that steam or splash from vegetables, gravy or coffee can cause serious burns. Keep those pot handles turned in and away from the edge of the stove.

Have activities that keep kids out

of the kitchen during this busy time. Games, puzzles or books can keep them busy. Let kids get involved in Thanksgiving with recipes that can be done outside the kitchen or without cooking.

Outside cooking – turkey fryers: Turkey fryers should always be used outdoors, a safe distance (10 ft) from buildings or anything else that can burn. Never use on a wooden deck or in garages.

Keeping fryers on a flat surface will help prevent accidental tipping. Never leave a fryer unattended. Some units do not have thermostat controls and the oil could end up heating until it catches fire.

Never let children or pets come near the fryer when it is in use. Even hours after use, the oil can remain dangerously hot. Use well insulated potholders or oven mitts when touching pot or lid handles or the side of the cooking pot. Be careful with marinades. Oil and water don’t mix and water can cause oil to spill over, which can cause a fire or even an explosion hazard. That’s also why your turkey should be completely thawed before it goes into the fryer Keep an all-purpose fire extinguisher nearby and never use water to extinguish a grease fire.

Cinda Seamon is the Community Risk Reduction & Outreach Program Coordinator for Hilton Head Island Fire Rescue.

Daufuskie Island Independent School seeks head of school and teachers

The Daufuskie Island Independent School (DIIS), hailed by International Business Times as a model for “reimagining rural education,” is growing—and now seeking a Head of School and dedicated teachers to help shape its next chapter.

Founded in 2023, DIIS was created to provide local students with access to quality middle school education without the hours-long commute to the mainland that island families previously faced.

“The education gap here wasn’t just wide; it was isolating,” said DIIS co-founder Kimberly Lundgren. “We wanted to rewrite that narrative.”

According to International Business Times, DIIS “was born out of necessity” as the public middle school was disbanded over 20 years ago with no replacement despite need and discussion. “The community had been petitioning for years to bring it back, but no one heard them,” Lundgren learned as she listened to frustrated voices.

Drawing on decades of experience navigating public, private, urban, and rural education systems around the world, Kimberly Lundgren brought a global perspective to Daufuskie Island. Having witnessed families abroad—from Malaysia to Zimbabwe—sacrifice everything to access quality schooling, Lundgren applied best global practices from her international work.

Emphasizing community engagement and hands-on learning, she (with co-founder Justin Dacanay and community organizer Erin Quinn) designed a school that is deeply rooted in place, leverages local expertise, and provides students with a rigorous, real-world education without forcing them to leave their families or community. Her approach turned DIIS into a model of learner-centered, inquiry-based education adaptable to communities throughout the world.

DIIS’s model of rural education is built on community volunteers and collaborators. Local residents, retirees, and professionals contribute to student learning by teaching electives, mentoring, and supporting hands-on projects. Students learn about their island by engaging in environmental science by analyzing local water samples with the NOAA and mapping coastal erosion using decades of GIS data.

“You don’t need massive funding or sprawling campuses to deliver exceptional education,” Lundgren emphasized. “You need creativity, community, and a belief that every child deserves a top-quality and inspiring education.”

DIIS has received national recognition for its approach. Stand Together, which supports education innovation, highlighted DIIS as an inspiring model of learner-centered, individualized education, shaped by the students, parents, educators, and neighbors who believed “communities don’t have to rely on external interventions or accept the status quo when it comes to teaching their kids. Instead, innovation in education can come from parents, neighbors, retirees, and students.”

Now entering its second academic year, this microschool continues to expand its offerings and impact. To meet growing demand, the school is seeking a part-time Head of School to guide its next phase of development, along with additional part-time teachers who are passionate about experiential, place-based learning. Lundgren reiterated, “You build something that can sustain itself because it belongs to the people.”

Educators who are creative, collaborative, and inspired by learner-driven education are encouraged to explore this new adventure. For application details or to learn more, visit www.diis-sc.org or email admin@diis-sc.org.

With over 550 charitable funds administered, including 15 residential community funds, CFL is proud to help individuals, families, and neighborhoods strengthen the place we all call home.

CONNECTING GENEROSITY

WITH COMMUNITY

At Community Foundation of the Lowcountry (CFL), our knowledgeable team connects giving people with the causes and organizations that matter most to them.

At Community Foundation of the Lowcountry (CFL), our knowledgeable team connects giving people with the causes and organizations that matter most to them.

A native South Carolinian, Emily is happiest in the sunshine with a big bowl of grits and a side of “burrelled” peanuts. She thinks in prose as she explores the coast on foot, bike, and boat with her family and she sure loves calling this community of B-LOVE-ton home.

CONNECTING GENEROSITY WITH COMMUNITY

At Community Foundation of the Lowcountry (CFL), our knowledgeable team connects giving people with the causes and organizations that matter most to them.

With over 550 charitable funds administered, including 15 residential community funds, CFL is proud to help individuals, families, and neighborhoods strengthen the place we all call home.

With over 550 charitable funds administered, including 15 residential community funds, CFL is proud to help individuals, families, and neighborhoods strengthen the place we all call home.

With over 550 charitable funds administered, including 15 residential community funds, CFL is proud to help individuals, families, and neighborhoods strengthen the place we all call home.

As year-end giving season approaches, now is the perfect time to begin your philanthropic journey by establishing a charitable fund at CFL.

As year-end giving season approaches, now is the perfect time to begin your philanthropic journey by establishing a charitable fund at CFL.

As year-end giving season approaches, now is the perfect time to begin your philanthropic journey by establishing a charitable fund at CFL.

As year-end giving season approaches, now is the perfect time to begin your philanthropic journey by establishing a charitable fund at CFL. To take the first step, contact CFL at 843-681-9100, visit cf-lowcountry.org, or scan the QR code.

To take the first step, contact CFL at 843-681-9100, visit cf-lowcountry.org, or scan the QR code.

To take the first step, contact CFL at 843-681-9100, visit cf-lowcountry.org, or scan the QR code.

To take the first step, contact CFL at 843-681-9100, visit cf-lowcountry.org, or scan the QR code.

EMILY LOADER

Living as gratitude, being thankful

Welcome to November, a month set aside for gratitude, for opening our hearts to the gentle art of being thankful. So often, up until now, we have been taught to anchor our thankfulness in outer circumstances -- when life lines up neatly, when we have what we want, when the sun seems to shine just for us. How easy it is to offer thanks when everything is going our way. Yet, true gratitude, the kind that transforms and uplifts, does not rely on conditions. It is not a reward for a perfect life. True gratitude lives and breathes within us; it is the quiet, comforting song of the soul, humming beneath the noise of daily living.

Take a breath with me. Now, exhale.

Unity minister and author Eric Butterworth reminds us, “Life is consciousness.”

Our awareness of gratitude is not a fleeting reaction – it is a conscious presence. As we practice nurturing gratitude, we awaken to our profound connection with the Divine within, and from this awareness, thankfulness can spring forth.

The Apostle Paul shared in 1 Thessalonians 5:18: “In all things give thanks.”

This stirs my heart. Notice, he doesn’t say to be thankful for all things, Paul says be thankful in all things. This invites you and me to keep our hearts open, to let gratitude flow no matter what or how the world presents to us. Living in the flow of Spirit means we get to give thanks, not because everything is perfect, but because we are rooted in something deeper -- we are rooted in our unity with God.

And yet, there are days when we wonder, “What is there to be thankful for?”

The answer is as close as our next breath. Thankfulness is not about adding up blessings; it is about allowing gratitude to well up from within.

After 36 years of being a Unity Truth student, I have discovered this: We do not need reasons to be grateful. We need only

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to open our hearts to the divine spark within, and gratitude will naturally arise, especially when we remember our oneness with God.

Psalm 46:10 tells us, “Be still and know.” For me, there is such comfort in knowing that God is the reality at the heart of our beings and, therefore, we live, move, and have our very being in God.

This month is a reminder that we are invited into a life of gratitude -- not as an obligation, rather the choice to choose joy. We can allow our prayers to become expressions of deep appreciation, flowing from our sense of unity and our consciousness of oneness with Spirit. Set aside time for quiet reflection, prayer and meditation, letting our hearts settle into thanksgiving. Cultivate an attitude of gratitude. In this way, being grateful transforms our vision, allowing us to witness goodness in every moment.

As we nurture this attitude, we nourish our connection with the Divine, and true thankfulness becomes our everyday way of being. May you walk through this month as gratitude embodied, being grateful in every breath and thankful with every step. Many Blessings.

Reverend Randall Haase
Rev. Therese Donlan Lee is the senior minister of Unity Spiritual Center on Hilton Head Island. revthereseunityhiltonhead@gmail.com.
THERESE DONLAN LEE

Thanksgiving Day. Oh, the memories.

Many was the Thanksgiving day at our house on Myrtle Island when we had family, friends, an occasional orphan who wandered in from who knows where, but who were all ready to fix a plate, find a spot to sit, eat, and be thankful.

We’d have a turkey, an icy, slippery, frozen, solid blob of poultry brought home from the supermarket, jammed into the refrigerator to spend a week languishing while defrosting.

Hallelujah, after hours of baking and basting in the oven, we had a golden offering, the emblem of Thanksgiving. Surrounded by the green of parsley and the orange of kumquats, ye olde bird lay on the ironstone platter brought out from the depths of the kitchen cupboard where it had reposed since the year before.

And always, the Thanksgiving Day turkey had pride of place on the dining room

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table. Carving knife sharpened, ready and waiting, we successfully corralled a member of the tribe to slice and dice, separate white meat from dark, and do all of the above with culinary aplomb. The aroma seeping out into the backyard sent the feline population in the neighborhood into raptures.

We’d have gravy, with or without giblets. There would be cornbread dressing and dressing made with white bread, my favorite. Pecan pie and sweet potato pie. Pumpkin pie was considered to be best served north of the Mason-Dixon line.

Naturally, there were two kinds of cranberry sauce, jellied and whole berry. And veggies. And rolls warm from the oven. A vulgar abundance of food.

Always an argument as to when to eat. Noon is good, one o’clock is better. Whenever.

Trying to gather up the thundering herd on the outside deck was like corralling cats, but we finally managed, held hands, and before the blessing was asked, one by one, we could offer up what we were thankful for. A special moment.

Best time of the day is after everyone

has eaten, food put away, garbage sacks tied and ready for the dump. Football games on the TV. Older bodies reclining on sofas, indulging in a nap. Children hyped on all the sugar made use of the tree swing in the yard.

And all too soon it was time to raid the fridge, manufacture that Thanksgiving Day sandwich, white bread with glops of cranberry sauce on sliced turkey. Delicious, nutritious.

So, who started this once-a-year thanking business anyway?

According to diligent research, I discovered that a slew of very important people are credited with declaring a national day of Thanksgiving, from Madison to Lincoln to Roosevelt. Jefferson felt it was an intrusion on the concept of division of religion and government. Refused to have anything to do with it.

Through the years, we celebrated variations of Thanksgiving Day.

As Army dependents living in Hawaii with head of the house in Vietnam, there was the time the children and I went to the mess hall at Schofield Barracks to join the troops for Thanksgiving dinner.

The Mess Sargent tried. Truly. Soft music, tables decorated with tablecloths and artificial leaves in fall colors, candles. Food was delicious. Somebody else to clean the kitchen. Somehow, not being able to raid the refrigerator later for leftovers was terribly depressing. Jim and Nick’s have a turkey dinner plate basted with barbecue sauce. It’s definitely tasty. Can you say “succulent”?

But, in my humble opinion, there is no way you can have turkey without cranberry sauce and one Thanksgiving Day when we were stationed at Kelly Barracks in Germany, I reached for a can of it in the pantry. Nope, not there. I panicked. Military commissaries were closed. They observed national holidays. German stores closed for lunch. I jumped into the car and rushed to the nearest grocery store, fingers crossed that A, they were still open, and B, they had something, anything vaguely resembling cranberry sauce. They were and they did. Preiselbeeren. Saved.

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Join us at the Gallery for a Pre-Holiday

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Step into the season with an afternoon of art, conversation, and connection. Our pre-holiday open house is the perfect way to discover new works, meet the artists, and enjoy a relaxed Sunday gathering with fellow art lovers at the gallery.

Sunday, November 16th, 2025

from 3pm – 6 pm

Light refreshments and beverages will be served. The show will hang through December 14th.

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HIPPA? No, J-O-E!

The blood pressure monitor betrays me immediately—its shrewd little beep tattles to my neighbors that I’m nervous, even though I’m trying very hard to look like I’m not about to come apart at the seams. I’m sitting in a weird vinyl chair in a “room” made of four gray curtains—basically a medical pop-up tent of doom. On all sides, other patients are waiting for their turn at disfigurement. I can hear their sighs—equal parts fear and boredom.

A door slams open and the surgeon booms, “How are you doing under there?” A gravelly voice answers, “Not good.” Without missing a beat, the doctor replies in a deadpan voice, “Well, alright then.” and closes the door behind him.

My daughter’s shoulders shake as she tries not to laugh. I’m not nearly as disciplined. We await my turn at the chopping block well past my scheduled appointment time. We entertain ourselves by eavesdropping as nurses buzz in and out of these curtained confessionals while they tend to the anxious and the anesthetized. I remind my daughter—half joking, half not—about my DNR, should anything go

terribly awry when the surgeon removes the melanoma from my leg.

“Mom, you can’t go brain dead from five inches of your leg being cut out.”

“Well, what if they accidentally nick my femoral artery? While trying to stop the bleeding, they could slip in the puddle of my blood, stab me in the brain, and— boom—coma.”

We’re mid-debate about the likelihood of this medical domino effect when the squeak of wheels announces the return of Mr. ‘Not Good’ as he’s rolled out of surgery and parked in the cubicle next to mine. The nurse leans in and gently promises to go fetch his wife.

“What’s your wife’s name?” she asks. “Smith.” “Not your last name. Your wife’s name.” “Joe.” “Jill?” “NO. JOE. J-O-E. JOE!” “Sir… not your name. Your wife’s name.” “Oh. Ethel.”

This exchange happens mere inches from us, but I am almost positive the people in the waiting room can hear every detail. My daughter and I are trying to swallow our treasonous laughter as I wipe away my tears of hysteria with the hem of my greige hospital johnny. We are caught by the nurse as she finally arrives to collect me for The Coppertone Baby’s Revenge Surgery —a procedure name I made up that sounds far more glamorous than “cancerous leg chunk removal.” She apologizes for the delay, but I assure her that it has been worth every highly entertaining minute.

TRACY WINSLOW

Six internal stitches and nine staples later, my silent assassin is evicted. I’m ushered back to the curtained closet to change out of the hospital-issued ball gown. My daughter and I head to the nurse’s station to schedule my follow up appointment. The nurse is entering my information when the door bursts open so hard it nearly knocks me over. I jump out of the way just in time and send up a silent prayer that I didn’t just pop a staple.

It’s J-O-E - armed with a walker and the confidence of a mafia don who owns the joint and is surrounded by people who owe him money.

“2:00 on Monday—yeah, that’ll work for me!” he bellows down the hallway.

The nurse tries to explain she’s already helping me with my 2:00 on Monday appointment, but this only makes him louder. I stare at the floor - my laughter no longer absconded by my grey curtain shield.

“Smith! Joe Smith - Monday at 2 works for me! Yup, I’ll take that one!” He doesn’t even stop to confirm the time - just keeps shouting personal information as he walks down the hallway. We watch him continue to use his walker as a battering ram, smashing his way through multiple doors to get to the parking lot, and talking all about his procedure to the ears of God and half of Hilton Head Island.

The nurses are horrified by what just

happened and keep apologizing. My mascara is making me look like a Jackson Pollock original, and I’m laughing so hard the staples in the back of my thigh are in danger of popping open like a macabre piñata - if they haven’t already broken free after my jump out of the way of Joe’s walker/snow plow. I grab the next available appointment and hobble out to the car, trying to wipe away the evidence of my laughter before it dries into a Rorschach test of trauma and joy.

Somewhere in the chaos, I realize I’m a few shards closer to setting off the alarms at the airport, but survived without my daughter having to read up on my DNR requirements. J-O-E helped my daughter and me laugh our way through an otherwise fingernail chomping afternoon. My Yelp review for this appointment: Zero dignity, moderate blood loss, new fancy bling, and five stars for entertainment value. Waterproof mascara is highly recommended prior to arrival.

Tracy Winslow is best known for her poker face and resolute calm in the face of adversity. When she’s not busy owning the premier yarn store in the Low Country—Shrimp and Knits— she can be found participating in staring contests with sharks, walking on beds of nails, and modeling the latest in Frankenstein hardware. Check out www.shrimpandknits.com for all your fiber needs—and for classes and events designed for people who don’t knit or crochet!

Walk to End Alzheimer’s

Participants fill the streets of Old Town Bluffton during the Alzheimer’s Association Walk to End Alzheimer’s. The event drew 480 walkers and has raised more than $140,000, surpassing its $110,000 goal. Donations are accepted through Dec. 31 at alz.org/walk.

Staying mentally resilient amid overwhelming news

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In an age of 24/7 news cycles and continual instant updates, it’s easy to feel emotionally flooded by headlines about war, climate change, political unrest, and humanitarian crises. These issues are vast, complex, and beyond the scope of any one individual to fix. Yet, maintaining mental health in the face of such overwhelming information is not only possible—it’s essential.

Start with boundaries. Constant exposure to distressing news can lead to emotional exhaustion and helplessness. Limit your media intake to specific times of day, and choose sources that inform without sensationalizing. Curating your feed to include more uplifting stories or solutions-focused journalism can also help balance your perspective.

Focus on what you can control. While you may not be able to solve global problems, you can make meaningful contributions in your own sphere. Volunteering locally, donating to organizations, and engaging in respectful dialogue can foster a sense of agency and purpose.

What. A. Match.

Talk about it. Sharing your feelings with trusted friends, family, or a mental health professional can help you process anxiety and grief. You’re not alone in feeling overwhelmed—many if not most people are navigating similar emotional terrain. Connection is arguably the most powerful antidote to despair.

Practice compassionate detachment. Caring deeply doesn’t mean carrying the weight of the world. It’s okay to acknowledge suffering without internalizing it. Mindfulness practices, such as meditation, journaling, or just getting outside in some fresh air and feeling the sun on your face can help you stay grounded and present.

Create and consume joy. Whether it’s art, music, nature, or laughter, engaging with beauty and playfulness replenishes emotional reserves. These moments of joy aren’t frivolous—they’re fuel for resilience.

Ultimately, staying mentally well in a requires intention. By setting boundaries, cultivating agency, and nurturing joy, you can remain emotionally strong—even when the headlines feel heavy. Your mental health matters, not just for your own well-being, but for your ability to show up with compassion and clarity in a world that needs both.

Alex Barry, MA, LPC-A. is the acting Executive Director of Mental Health America of the Lowcountry, providing daily adult group mental health counseling programs in Bluffton and Beaufort.

ALEX BARRY
John Paul II Catholic School’s Golden Warrior volleyball team captured the region championship with a five-set victory over Hilton Head Christian Academy. Emma McKamey led with 14 kills, while Gabby Heathcott, Miranda Moulton, and Gracie Cotter powered the offense in a hard-fought team win.

Growing pains – not

Growing pains aren’t just for kids anymore. They happen to businesses too — and while they’re technically “happy pains,” they still hurt.

Take one small Sugar Scrub company, for instance. Back in 2020, it was a cozy kitchen operation. The founder made scrubs between dinner prep and bedtime, sneaking in a few orders here and there. She might’ve been working another job at the same time, dreaming up new labels while her husband unknowingly ate mashed potatoes that tasted faintly of coconut peach.

But progress came. A little commercial space was rented to get the sugar out of the kitchen. There was more room, a few more orders, a little more comfort. It was the good kind of growth — steady and sweet. Then, one day, the phone rang. A big retailer said yes. Then another. And suddenly, those “happy pains” kicked in with full force. Where would the inventory come from? Who would make it all? Who would pay for it? Ten large orders landed at once, and with them came the emotional trifecta: excitement, exhaustion, and just a touch of panic.

This is the achy stage — when your brain throbs from constant thinking, your joints ache from lifting boxes, and your spirit stretches just a little too far. You cry, you stomp, maybe you throw a mini tantrum or two. You question your sanity while stirring shea butter at midnight.

But here’s the thing: these growing pains mean you’re doing something right. They mean the world is noticing. They mean your dream — the one that started in a kitchen with a hand mixer and a sugar bag — is becoming real. So how do you ease the pain? Lists. Lots of them. “What do I need?” “Who can help?” “Where can I get more jars?”

“Is there enough coffee in the world to keep me going?” Slowly, painfully, solutions appear. More space. More hands. More courage.

Because every ache, every long night, every “uh-oh” moment — that’s the sound of growth. It’s uncomfortable, messy, and sometimes sticky (especially when sugar is involved). But it’s also beautiful.

Stay tuned — this story isn’t finished yet.

Wendy Kushel is the owner of Wendala’s LowCountry Sugar Scrub, LLC based in Bluffton, SC. Drawn to the Beauty & Personal Care Industry Wendy founded her company in 2020. Her background includes stand-up comedy, film, TV and a lot of sales and marketing. For more information about Wendala’s® LowCountry Sugar Scrub visit www.lowcountrysugarscrub.com or call/text 843-949-8933.

WENDY KUSHEL

Beyond the numbers: addressing retirement’s nonfinancial challenges

As Head of Wealth Management for Alliance Global Partners of the Lowcountry, my work centers on helping clients grow, protect, and enjoy their wealth. But over the years, I’ve learned that true wealth extends far beyond balance sheets and investment portfolios. It’s about how people live — the sense of purpose, connection, and fulfillment they experience each day.

This perspective becomes especially important in retirement. After decades of working, saving, and planning for “someday,” many retirees find that the financial piece is only part of the equation. The transition itself can bring unexpected emotional and social challenges that quietly shape this new phase of life.

Living Longer, Feeling Different

We’re living longer than ever, and with that longevity comes both opportunity and complexity. Research from the Harvard School of Public Health found that retirees are 40% more likely than working adults to experience a heart attack or stroke—especially within the first year of retirement. Longer life spans can also mean more time for feelings of isolation, anxiety, or even loss of purpose to set in.

The Hidden Hurdles of Retirement

While every retiree’s experience is unique, a few themes have become increasingly common:

• Loss of identity: After years of defined roles, titles, and responsibilities, many find it difficult to replace the sense of purpose that work provided.

• Social isolation: Not everyone has a readymade group of friends to meet for coffee or golf. In fact, social isolation has been described as one of America’s most pressing public health issues.

• Fear of overspending: Even those who have saved well may hesitate to enjoy their

wealth once paychecks stop, often worrying about running out of money.

• Relationship changes: Divorce rates among those 50 and older have more than doubled since the 1990s, highlighting how major life transitions can test even longterm relationships.

Building a Fulfilling Next Chapter

The good news: a thoughtful approach can help you avoid many of these pitfalls and embrace retirement with clarity and confidence.

• Try a “practice retirement.” Before fully retiring, experiment with parts of your plan — travel more, volunteer, or reduce work hours — to see how the lifestyle feels.

• Find new social outlets. Volunteer at a local school, take classes, or join a community group. Meaningful, social daytime activities are key to maintaining energy and purpose.

• Communicate with your spouse. Be open about expectations and routines. Retirement can be a big adjustment for both partners.

• Consult your advisor. A trusted financial advisor can help align your plan not only

with your finances but with your broader goals for a life of significance.

• Practice gratitude. A small daily habit of noting what you’re thankful for can have a major impact on emotional well-being.

• Seek help when needed. If feelings of disconnection or anxiety persist, reach out for professional support. You don’t have to navigate this alone.

A Holistic View of Wealth

You’ve likely worked hard and invested diligently to reach this stage of life. True wealth, however, isn’t measured only in dollars — it’s found in the quality of our relationships, our health, and our sense of purpose. By taking a holistic view of retirement, you can enjoy not just financial freedom, but a life of lasting significance.

Thomas M. Dowling, CFA, CFP®, CIMA® is the Head of Wealth Management at Alliance Global Partners of the Lowcountry on Hilton Head. He can be reached at infohh@allianceg. com or (843) 420-1993.

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Bluffton awards historic preservation grant to 1892 Patz Brothers’ House

The Town of Bluffton has awarded its 14th Historic Preservation Grant to support repairs at the historic Patz Brothers’ House, a two-story residence built in 1892 that remains one of the town’s few surviving examples of late 19th-century commercial-era housing.

The $30,000 grant, awarded in October, will help the homeowner repair the porch and roof of the property at 26 Calhoun Street. The home, constructed by Lithuanian Jewish brothers Abraham and Moses Patz, owners of the former Planters’ Mercantile store next door, is part of the Bluffton Historic District, which was listed on the National Register of Historic Places in 1996.

“Preserving this house, and the memory of the family who built it, is vital to Bluffton’s story,” Mayor Larry Toomer said in a statement. “Since its construction, the house has endured hurricanes and hardship, witnessed periods of growth and decline, and stands today as a testament to Bluffton’s resilience, from a quiet village to the heart of the Lowcountry.”

The grant is part of Bluffton’s Historic Preservation Grant Program, launched in January 2022, which provides financial assistance to owners of designated “Contributing Resources” in the Old Town Bluffton Historic District. Eligible projects include preservation, restoration, or rehabilitation of historically significant structures.

Since the program began, Bluffton has awarded more than $327,000 in funding to help preserve eight individual contributing resources. The town currently has 86 designated contributing resources within the district, including homes, churches, schools, and natural landmarks such as the Heyward and Huger coves.

Residential property owners may apply for grants of up to $30,000, while commercial or non-residential structures may qualify for up to $20,000.

For information about eligibility or future grant opportunities, contact the town’s historic preservationist, Glen Umberger, at gumberger@townofbluffton.com

Beaufort Children’s Theatre brings holiday cheer with ‘Elf

The Musical JR.’

The Beaufort Children’s Theatre will bring the spirit of the holidays to the stage this month with its production of Elf The Musical JR., running Nov. 21st–23rd at the University of South Carolina Beaufort’s Center for the Arts.

The show features 78 young performers, ages 8 to 18, in a musical adaptation of the 2003 film Elf. The story follows Buddy, a human raised as an elf at the North Pole, who travels to New York City to find his biological father and teach others the true meaning of Christmas.

Performances are scheduled for Friday, Nov. 21st, and Saturday, Nov. 22nd, at 7 p.m., and Sunday, Nov. 23rd, at 3 p.m. at the USCB Center for the Arts, located at 805 Carteret Street in downtown Beaufort.

Tickets are $24 for adults, $20 for seniors and military members, and $16 for students. Tickets are available online at www.uscbcenterforthearts.com

ELF THE MUSICAL JR.

When: Nov. 14th–16th and Nov. 21st–23rd

Where: USCB Center for the Arts, 805 Carteret Street, Beaufort.

Tickets: Adults $24, Seniors/ Military $20, Students $16 Box Office: 843-521-4145 Online: www.uscbcenterforthearts.com

What to expect from a sport psychology consultation

When players sign on for sport psychology consultation, they often think they have purchased a magic wand. Even if they had, they have no idea over what to wave the magic wand. In effect, they are just lost and want immediate relief.

The truth of the matter is that the player is signing on for a process, the same kind they had with the physical game. But now, instead of learning sport-specific bodily movements and technique, the process is learning mental and emotional facets of their games. In short, they are in for a “mindset reset” regarding how to play their games.

The Role of the Sport Psychologist

A sport psychologist’s role amounts to temporarily “living the game” with the player. For example, helping them see the good in each practice session or competitive event; assisting their awareness of where work needs to be done; and supporting them through difficult times in their development.

Between competitions, the psychological coach might restructure practice based on things learned from the previous event. The remedies might be drills in the practice area; might be trying on new ways of thinking and feeling; or it might be certain suggestions for the physical coach to attend to with the players’ games. It is all important that the psychological and physical coach be on the same page and work together.

Other Matters that Might Arise

The sport psychologist’s main job is performance enhancement. However, sometimes personal issues arise, ones that might interfere with progress. The sport

psychologist is in a position to provide some understanding and reflection on how players might move forward with their lives, so they can also move forward with their sports.

Similarly, sometimes the practice of sport psychology gets drawn into family issues, as athletes don’t live in a vacuum. They live in families, and families have developed and supported them in their journey from a young age on to where the player is now. So family dynamics certainly come into play and need to be addressed. It is wise to select a sport psychologist with background in clinical psychology, particularly when it comes to dealing with personal and family issues.

One other area that sometimes emerges with athletes is career evaluation and guidance. The sport psychologist is likely to know other athletes that have struggled with the same issues and might be of help. Indeed, the sport psychologist might have experienced the same discernment process and can shed some light on it for their younger clients.

Professional Fees

All coaches, instructors and sport psychologists set their hourly fees according to their credentials, experience and demand for their services. In addition to an hourly fee, some might have packages of hours that reduce the hourly fees considerably. Some offer the option of being on retainer for, say, 3 months or even a year. This would provide unlimited availability for face-to-face consultation, getting out on the field of play with the player, attending competitions, and all the phone and electronic communication desired.

Sport psychologists want to make their services available and affordable, so as to help players achieve their full potential and happiness in their sports.

Dr. Tom Dorsel is Professor Emeritus of Psychology and a clinical/sport psychologist in Hilton Head. His best-selling book is “GOLF: The Mental Game.” He works with athletes from all sports and can be reached at tom@dorsel.com.

TOM DORSEL

Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays

While holidays from Thanksgiving to Christmas time are happy, busy times for families and friends, there are dangers lurking during this season. There are more emergency trips to the veterinarian this time of year than any other season except summer. Items such as onions, raisins, grapes, alcohol, chocolate, caffeine, fruit pits and seeds, sharp bones from the turkey, yeasty dough for bread, macadamia nuts, nuts in shells (cause intestinal blockages), xylitol, and plants such as Poinsettias are all dangerous to dogs. Hazardous items surround the Christmas tree, ribbon, wire hangers for ornaments, ornaments, candles and more.

From a dog’s perspective there is food everywhere and people to play with from the end of November to the beginning of the New Year. It may be fun but can be disruptive.

Dogs are by nature creatures of routine and change doesn’t sit well. Potty training for a puppy can be disrupted, or if an older dog, excitement can lead to diges-

tive issues and possibly even destructive behavior. With kids at home or having visitors, even the routine changes such as nap times and walks mess with their sense of time. If they are used to family being at work or school during the day and now everyone is home there goes the accustomed routine.

The ideal situation is to keep to the dog’s regular schedule as best as possible. With the changes to sleep patterns, people, exercise and food, expect that your dog

may exhibit some unusual and unwanted behaviors. Usually they get back to normal once the holidays are over. Give your dog a quiet space to retreat to so they can get away from activity. Play to tire them out before guests arrive and make sure they have a long walk. Do not over feed them with goodies. Turkey, although a healthy food for most dogs, can also wreck their digestion potentially making them have malaise or even diarrhea.

If kids are running around the house, it may cause your dog may chase and nip them, have kids play outside or put your dog outside if possible. If this can’t be done, then play time for kids may be appropriate nap time for the dog. Keep your dog away from tables or food preparation areas since you may not see if they steal something. Feed them at their regular times, but possibly move their feeding area to somewhere quiet. Remember to keep small kids away from the food bowl.

If you do have small kids roaming the house, make sure they have long toys to play with the dog to keep the dog’s mouth away from their small body parts. Try not to have kids walk around with food since most dogs can’t resist the temptation and may steal it, and in the process, may accidentally nip or graze a child’s hands. If you are careful, this holiday season will be enjoyed by humans as well as canines.

Abby Bird is the owner of Alphadog Training Academy. AlphadogTrainingAcademy@gmail.com

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A good estate plan will avoid “the last minute switcheroo”

If you want to structure your legal affairs so as to (1) keep your assets in your family, (2) leave assets to loved ones protected from lawsuits, (3) have your loved ones be able to take steps to qualify you for government benefits such as Medicaid, (4) avoid the acceleration of income taxes on retirement accounts, (5) avoid estate taxes, and (6) keep your affairs private and out of the view of the general public, then you need a good estate plan. A good estate plan for you and your family will also avoid the last minute switcheroo.

Without careful guidance and representation from a qualified attorney, then you

will not achieve the above benefits. After having represented more than 2,000 people over the course of more than one decade, I have seen many cases where the survivor altered the ultimate distribution of assets, sometimes disinheriting people that the first spouse did not want disinherited. This is “the last minute switcheroo” most want to avoid. The solution to this is to leave assets “in trust” with vested remainder interests and to use an agreement not to alter the plan.

Let’s say, for example, Kevin and Susie (the clients) have two children: Hobbs and Fritz. The clients are in their late 60’s and they want to make sure Hobbs and Fritz will inherit what is left over in equal shares. They want to make sure that it will not be subject to loss in divorce if either of their children get divorced. They also want to make sure their kids can try and qualify them for Medicaid should they become disabled. Okay, so what should they do?

They should each make sure their papers direct their assets (upon survivor’s passing) go to their children in two sepa-

rate trusts. Each child can be the trustee of their own trust. Each child will therefore have total control of the trust which is for their benefit. It will be protected from loss if they get sued (exceptions: IRS and child support). But, in all other cases, the creditors will be out of luck. This is like a built-in prenuptial agreement for your assets. Kevin and Susie can also make sure when their kids pass that the remaining funds will go to grandchildren and not in laws.

If Kevin and Susie do not sign an agreement not to alter the plan, and if Susie survives, there is nothing preventing her from being taken advantage of by someone else in the future or from her getting remarried and her changing the disposition of her property.

Under South Carolina law, an agreement not to alter the plan gives the children rights that are enforceable in court. So, if Susie survives and then redirects her property to a new love interest, or if she is unduly influenced to change her papers, the children (Hobbs and Fritz) will be able to assert their rights in court and

have Susie’s new will or amendment to her trust set aside. This preserves their inheritance and avoids the last-minute switcheroo.

Mark F. Winn, Master of Laws (LL.M.) in Estate Planning, a local asset protection, estate planning and elder law attorney. www.mwinnesq.com

MARK WINN

Talking to your family - making the independent living conversation easier

One of the biggest challenges facing Lowcountry residents considering independent living isn’t the move itself, it’s having “The Conversation” with family members. But this important discussion doesn’t have to be difficult when approached thoughtfully.

The key is starting the conversation early and framing it positively. This isn’t about giving up any independence—it’s about maintaining it in a supportive environment where you can continue to thrive, and you are making the positive choice. Many adult children worry about their parents’ safety and well-being, sometimes projecting their own fears onto the situ-

ation. Understanding this dynamic can help bridge communication gaps. Rather than viewing family concerns as interference, successful conversations recognize that everyone wants the same thing: a safe, fulfilling life for their loved one.

Harvard’s Study of Adult Development, which has tracked participants for over 85 years, consistently shows that open family communication is crucial for well-being across all life stages. This research underscores the importance of honest, respectful dialogue about housing transitions.

Timing matters. Rather than waiting for a crisis or health event to force the conversation, Lowcountry residents are increasingly taking a proactive approach. Many start discussing their options while they’re still healthy and active in their late 60s, giving family members time to adjust to the idea. By the time the actual move happens a few years later, everyone is on board and excited about the new chapter. Experts recommend these conversation strategies:

• Lead with your vision. Share what excites you about this lifestyle—

whether it’s the social opportunities, freedom from home maintenance, or staying active with experiences like group travel, beach trips and fitness centers.

• Address concerns directly. If family members worry you’re “giving up,”

explain how independent living actually supports your goals for staying engaged and healthy.

• Invite participation. Tour communities together, attend social events, or have lunch in the dining room. Seeing the vibrant atmosphere often transforms skepticism into support, that you are making a great decision.

• Share the research. Studies show that seniors in independent living communities often experience improved social connection and overall well-being compared to aging in isolation.

The bottom line? This is your decision, but bringing family along on the journey creates a smoother transition for everyone involved.

Matt Uppenbrink, MS, is the Executive Director of The Seabrook of Hilton Head. Interested in learning more about The Seabrook of Hilton Head or if you would like to schedule a tour: https://www.theseabrook.com/ or call 843-842-3747.

MATT UPPENBRINK

Drew and the TreeWiseMen

It is said that the greatness of a community is most accurately measured by the compassionate actions of its members. Bluffton and Hilton Head are no stranger to wonderful members of the community, and they have been around in all the generations of folks that have called this area home.

Drew Bedingfield has called Bluffton home most of his 38 years on this earth. He spent most of his growing up years on Buckingham and on the waters of the May River. As with many youths of the area in the 80s and 90s, there was not a lot of money, and the kids found ways to earn some cash and found ways to entertain themselves.

“I kind of came from a family that wasn’t around a lot. We didn’t have a lot of money,

so me and my buddies were always either on the water shrimping in our little john boats trying to make some extra income, or we were riding dirt bikes or 4 wheelers on the power lines, mud bogging around town. I never owned any of those but was nice that my friends did!”

Drew fondly tells me stories, explaining that the closest way to picture his childhood was that of the Netflix series, “Outer Banks.”

His good friends, Chris and Matt Shoemaker, Allick Inglis, CJ Steedley, and William Goodman were the main characters in his movie.

“We were thick as thieves.” Drew tells me with a slight smile coming over his face.

“We all had to work through high school -- we graduated from Hilton Head High. I remember when I first got my learners permit to drive, mom just treated it like I now had a license and now it was my job to take my brother to school. I worked at Charlie’s that was owned by the Golson’s (RIP Mr. Charlie) as well as stints at Do Si Dos and Brooke’s Bed and Biscuit cleaning up dog kennels.”

Drew ended up going to Clemson and graduated in 2008 with a degree in business management and a minor in fisheries

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and wildlife. He wasn’t quite sure what he was going to do with these degrees, but the thought of land management always excited him. He had visions of taking care of a big piece of property, regulating the deer populations etc.

When Drew came back from Clemson to Bluffton he started working on boats and motors, and that kept food on the table for a while. He eventually decided to work for the Bluffton Fire Department and spent 20102015 as a fireman and EMT.

To supplement his income on his off days from the station, Drew was a sub-contractor for All Care tree service. He tells me the story of how he borrowed $7,000 from his mother and bought his first dump trailer to help in the tree service industry. Little did he know that it was the beginning of quite a big business for him.

Drew saved his money and eventually bought his first used Bobcat and an old work truck. He borrowed $15,000 on his aunt’s credit card and purchased a commercial woodchipper. In 2014, with the help of his main side kick and friend, Javier, TreeWiseMen was born!

Today, Drew, his wife Carly, and TreeWiseMen crew have a fleet of 22 trucks and 35 employees, and they stay BUSY!

“I think that I have done well in Bluffton and this business because of respect. I have done my best to treat everyone that I grew up with and members of this community before me with fairness and respect, and in turn they have shown me the respect back.

PAUL TOLLEFSON

TREEWISEMEN

It’s nice to know that I am one of the first that get the call when a big oak has fallen or some one needs trees trimmed up at their house. One of my basketball coaches growing up, Mr. David Mack, just called me the other day to help with something. It’s nice to live in a community where I can help out and give back as much as I can.”

“Bluffton will always be special to me. If it wasn’t for some of the folks that helped me growing up, Jonathon and Monica Bragg, Stan Yocco, and all my friends’ parents, I may not be where I am today. There was something special to be able to grow up in Bluffton during that time. We may be the last real generation of eccentrics that lived here before the tourist boom and the development. I had a random thought the other day about when the Pantry gas station at Buckingham had coloring contests for kids. I remember I won an ICEE beach towel one time from there! That’s just a mere glimpse into things we had when I was growing up. Something so small but looking back was something so big.”

Today, Drew and Carly are raising their two children and letting them

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enjoy the May River as Drew has done for so many years. He is still happy to call Bluffton his home and was just nominated to the rank of fire commissioner in Bluffton, a spot held by 6 other individuals around the area. Although nothing can be done to change Bluffton back to the years past, he does all he can do to give back to the community, a community that has given him and his family so many wonderful memories. I am very proud to call Drew and his family my friends.

Paul Tollefson is the Director of Tennis at the Hampton Hall Club in Bluffton. He found his love for the Lowcountry in early 2002 after graduating high school and unsure of what career path he was destined towards. After moving from Hilton Head to Bluffton he became enthralled with the history of the town and the people and cultures that called it home for many generations. He has found a passion in writing and enjoys being able to share the stories and pictures of long-time locals. He is the co-creator of the Facebook page “Bluffton Then and Now.”

OBITUARIES

Col. Robert D. Raines passed away on October 15, 2025, in Hospice, Edgewood, KY. Born August 8, 1947, in Wooster, Ohio to Duane and Virginia (Glass) Raines. A graduate of Northwestern High School, University of Mount Union (BA) and The University of Toledo (MBA). He retired from United States Marine Corps with 8 years active duty and 14 years reserve. He retired with the rank of Colonel. While serving, he was a member of the 1976 Marine Corps Shooting Team and was the 1000-yard inter-service champion team member. His civil career was managerial positions with Whirlpool, Bose, and Honda of America Corporations. He also was an adjunct professor at Bluffton University in Ohio, in business and leadership management.

Athletics - 1965 All-Ohio selection as a pitcher with a career record of 40 wins and 3 losses; quarterback football; member of 1965 Northwestern High School State Championship basketball team. He was a 4-year letterman in baseball at University of Mount Union and was captain his senior year. He also was the activities director at Fairmont Children’s Home, Alliance, Ohio.

In retirement, Robert volunteered his time with the South Carolina Lowcountry Heroes on Horseback Therapeutic Equine program for special needs individuals, where he was responsi-

ble for the training of horses and their handlers. He was instrumental in expanding the therapeutic equine program to include Veterans and 1st Responders.

He is survived by his wife, Patricia A. Raines of Independence, KY; stepchildren, Amy Brown, Lori Brown, Andy Brown, and Lindsay (Eric) Saalfeld, and 8 step-grandchildren all of the Northern KY area; sister, Pam (Ray) Ginther of Wooster, OH; friend, Bonnie Raines of CO and her 2 children, 5 grandchildren & 6 greatgrandchildren, and his many nieces and nephews from the Wooster, Orrville, and Huron, OH area.

He was preceded in death by his parents; sister, Chaneta “Shawn” (Sonnie) Daugherty; brother, Randal Raines; niece, Meredith Ginther; and nephews, Greg Ginther, and Michael Raines. Services were held on Friday, October 24, at Schlabach Funeral Home, Shreve, Ohio, followed by the interment with military honors at Newkirk Cemetery, Shreve, Ohio.

In lieu of flowers the family suggests memorial contributions be made to the New Pittsburg Fire Department, New Pittsburg, Ohio (in memory of Greg D. Ginther). The National Kidney Foundation, or any veteran’s program-charity of your choice in memory of Robert Raines. Those wishing to share a memory or make online condolences may do so by visiting www. schlabachfh.com.

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Since I am relatively new at being old, I guess reminiscing becomes more frequent in ones so called “Golden Years.” Before my dad passed away, I remember hearing the same story umpteen times but it really didn’t bother me much. The way I figured it was if he got a kick out of telling me about some speck from his interesting life, then I should just shut up and listen because it obviously made one heck of an imprint on his memory.

Since bringing up the good old days in my last column I have received tons of emails wanting more about those times. Quite honestly, if I were to keel over right this minute, I would go down happy as a clam. What a neat life I have lived and I owe it all to my folks making the decision to bag the mundane 9-5 working life and move all five of us kids to a relatively unknown island off the coast of South Carolina in 1961. Of course, that island was Hilton Head.

I was only six years old but I can still remember driving by cotton field after cotton field as we headed to our new home. I didn’t know that cotton balls still in the field will rip you to shreds but I do remember that I begged my parents to stop so I could roll in that fluffy cotton. Luckily, they opted to keep going, no doubt because there were five kids piled in that old Ford Galaxy station wagon, and the South Carolina state line couldn’t come quick enough.

If only you could have seen this area back then. If you think it is paradise now, it was heaven then. The swing bridge coming onto the island had just been built and the two-lane road was lined with monster oaks that had so much Spanish

Nature’s Way Memories a-plenty

moss on them that it draped all the way to the ground. The two-lane Highway 278 was paved but pretty much every other road was dirt.

Even at six, I was hooked on fishing so you can imagine what was going through my mind when I realized that every lagoon was chock full of shrimp and fish. Crabbing was as simple as walking down to the beach and filling a bucket with crabs that would be in the tide pools at low tide. Deer, wild turkeys, pigs, ducks and lots of rattlesnakes and alligators

were absolutely everywhere you looked. I often got spooked during the night when I would wake to a noise and with my curtains drawn, all I could see were the moving silhouettes of herds of deer in our yard. At times there would be as many as thirty deer in the yard at one time. As you can imagine, landscaping didn’t stand a chance.

With so few people around, and even fewer kids, entertainment was what you made it. Friday nights were for coon hunting. We would meet up at the Plantation

Club in Sea Pines and then follow the baying dogs through swamps and woods alike. I wasn’t ever big on coon hunting but I’ll admit it was educational, especially when the dogs would tree a big fat racoon. PETA would have a field day if I were to tell you the finale of these hunts. Can you imagine Sea Pines sponsoring deer, coon and pig hunts these days? Personally, I would love to see it happen!

Bluffton was not just a sleepy town it was more like it was in a coma. The sound of cicadas and tree frogs was deafening, and besides the brick schoolhouse where the courthouse now sits, Messex Store (where Eggs N Tricities used to be) was about the only other place to go. Especially if you wanted an RC Cola, which was definitely the drink of choice in these parts. I attended school in Bluffton from the second through six grades and then commuted to school in Savannah every day with my brothers and sisters. It was weird going to school in Savannah because those city kids regarded any of us from Hilton Head as country bumpkins. That view didn’t change until the late 70’s when Hilton Head’s fame exploded. From then on, we were the “rich kids.” Yeah, right.

I wish I had more space to write so I guess I’ll have to continue with more “Good Old Days” tales when the mood strikes me. Just recounting some of those days has jogged my memory about other quirky things about my life here in the Lowcountry that I seriously haven’t thought about in years. All I can say is next time folks, next time.

Collins Doughtie is a 60-year resident of the Lowcountry, is a sportsman, graphic artist, and lover of nature. collinsdoughtie@icloud.com

More Than a Retreat: A Journey Together

Matthew 18:20 reads, “For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I in the midst of them”. Over the last four years, Cross Upper School students have gathered in Greenville, SC for an annual retreat. The trip started with a small group of 40 students in 2022 and grew to 100 participants in 2025. Students traveled to Look Up Lodge Christian Camp for a three-day retreat filled with community building activities.

From the moment students stepped off the bus, lasting bonds were forged. Starting with colorful grade-level flags, team clothing, and competitive spirit, students dove headfirst into team chal lenges, ranging from relay races and water slide kickball to lip sync battles and comical skits performed by both teachers and staff who joined in the fun.

“We’ve seen so much growth, not just in numbers, but in spirit,” states Mrs. Leslie Albert, director of Faith Formation. “This retreat

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Celebrando la Herencia

Estabamos increíblemente emocionados de invitarlos a la Noche de la Herencia Hispana de la Escuela Cross, una noche dedicada a honrar y explorar la hermosa diversidad dentro de las culturas hispanas y latinas. Hemos trabajado para crear una experiencia significativa y atractiva para toda nuestra comunidad escolar.

Esta celebración nació de nuestro deseo de reconocer y enaltecer culturas que con frecuencia son poco valoradas. Creemos que es importante reconocer las tradiciones, historias y

contribuciones que han ayudado a moldear nuestras comunidades. Durante la noche, los invitados tuvieron la oportunidad de explorar varias mesas, cada una representando un país hispano diferente. Estas mesas eran atendidas por familias y voluntarios ansiosos por compartir su herencia a través de sus historias y más. Todos pudieron disfrutar de comidas típicas representativas de Guatemala, Costa Rica, Honduras, Puerto Rico, Venezuela, Colombia, Uruguay, México y Argentina. Nos sentimos especialmente honrados de dar la bienvenida a algunos negocios locales con raíces hispanas, quienes se unirán a nosotros para compartir sus trayectorias, desafíos y éxitos. Algunos estudiantes bailaron Salsa y Cumbia. Para terminar la noche, un grupo de estudiantes enseñó un baile tradicional dando a todos la oportunidad de experimentar una parte alegre de la cultura hispana. El baile no solo es una forma de celebración, sino también una expresión poderosa de identidad, conexión y orgullo.

Fue una noche increíble y todos disfrutaron la experiencia de conocer culturas hispanas y latinas.

Cross THY Team Launches 2025 Project

Cross’ Teens for Healthy Youth (THY) team is up and running. Teens for Healthy Youth is the youth chapter of the Lowcountry Alliance for Healthy Youth (LCAHY), and the program is implemented in schools across Beaufort County. Participating schools include Cross Schools, Hilton Head Island High School, Hilton Head Christian Academy, Bluffton High, and May River High School. Officers participate in different projects each month, with September focused on Suicide Prevention. This year’s officers launched the year with visits to Cross chat groups to deliver a message for September’s Suicide Prevention Awareness month, themed as Strength in Scripture: Power of Faith for Mental Health. They followed with a schoolwide drive to create student authored “message leaves” for the You Matter tree in the US hallway.

with Carina(third grade) and Luca (Pre-K) representing Uruguay.

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truly reflects how far we’ve come, from small, quiet beginnings to a bright school community rooted in faith, friendship and purpose.”

While every day featured fun outdoor activities, each evening was also anchored in faith and reflection, from the first evening to the final send off. This trip did not just impact the students, as all who took part came back with stronger bonds, open hearts, and renewed enthusiasm to tackle the great year ahead.

THY aims to change the stigma related to asking for help and instead encourages students who are struggling to reach out for assistance. The mission of THY is to unite the community and to promote positive choices. More on the mission of THY and LCAHY can be found at https://www.lcahealthyyouth. com/mission-1

Pictured above: Cross THY representatives stand in front of the Cross fountain.
Pictured left: Teachers Tate Fisher (upper school Spanish teacher), Bailey Adkins (middle school Spanish teacher) and May Angull (lower School Spanish teacher) present Hispanic Heritage Month presentation.
Pictured right: Daraiza Ramirez (David Ramirez, eighth grade) with Rosa Garcia and senior Jose-Gabriel Garcia represent Venezuela.
Pictured below: Parents Sebastian and Tatiana Villavicencia

Cross Campus Expands: New Cafeteria

Building Community: An Eagle Scout Project

Caleb Davis, a junior at Cross Schools, recently completed his Eagle Scout project for the new cafeteria expansion on campus. He began the project in the summer of 2024 with the goal of completing it by his 18th birthday. The timing was perfect, allowing him to hand the keys of two trophy cabinets to head of school, Mr. Almeida, on October 2nd to coincide with the official opening of the facility.

One of many on-campus Eagle Scout and Heritage Girls projects housed on Cross Campus, the cabinets carry a small plaque honoring Caleb’s troop, Troop 222. Caleb led a team of 14 scouts engaged in building the trophy case, a project that took 314 hours to compete. Reflecting on the project, Caleb remarks that “despite all the planning and hard work on my part, absolutely nothing would have been accomplished without the generosity and selflessness of those who assisted in the journey.”

The new cafeteria on Cross Schools’ campus, a dedicated wing for cafeteria space to alleviate the back-and-forth use of the multipurpose gym, is open. The gym is still home to family chapel and physical education classes but the new extension improves much of the scheduling constraints experienced in the past.

Speaking to head of school Joe Almeida during a sneak preview of the facility before its official opening, Cross Schools’ journalism students were curious about how much of his time and effort the new building took. “The project started on February 10th, 2024 during the third quarter of the school year and ended October 1st, 2025. It took quite a bit of my attention,” he explains, “but with our excellent team and lots of prayers, we are finally open.”

The new space also serves as the Sunday school room on weekends. The second wing allows Cross Schools to partner with Joyful Journeys in a dedicated educational space and to have an expanded nursery for Sunday church services.

Cross Talk spoke to Jay Fraser, president of Fraser Construction, about the project. “This project delivered a 2,800 squarefoot expansion and 2,300 square foot renovation to the Cross Schools facility, significantly increasing functional space by extending the Sunday school and nursery wings,” he explains. “We integrated additional HVAC units and maintained aesthetic continuity by matching finishes while adding flexible space with movable walls,” says Mr. Fraser. “Despite being a relatively small building footprint for the expansion, it required control of the additional rainwater runoff from the impervious surfaces.”

Scan this QR code for a glimpse of the construction of the new cafeteria.

From Student to Teacher Miss Drury

First grade teacher Miss Emma Drury joins Cross faculty in her own classroom. How she came to make this unique role swap from a Cross student for eleven years (2005-2017) to taking on the job of teacher and guide in a Cross kindergarten classroom is the question begging to be answered.

Emma’s Cross career started when she was three years old in Ms. Diane’s preschool classroom and ended in middle school with eighth grade teachers Mrs. Tracey Cannon and Mr. Josh Hicks. These were the years before Cross had opened an upperschool and she moved to May River High School to complete her high school years.

It is the school culture and strong connection to faith she experienced going to Cross as a young student that influenced her decision to return in 2025 but this time as a teacher.

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Pictured above: Miss Drury shows her students different ways they could use plastic gears to make different arrangements that move on their own.
Pictured above: Caleb hands over the keys of the trophy case to Mr. Almeida.

Cross Alumni

Bethany Carlson

Bethany Carlson is enjoying her second year at Calvin University, Grand Rapids Michigan. She is majoring in Environmental Health and Conservation and also in Spanish.

Alaysia Hollings

Pictured left: Alaysia Hollings in her cadet uniform on her first break.

Alaysia reported to the Citadel on August 16th for matriculation. On August 24th, she finished challenge week, which is a period of training and

From Student to Teacher Miss Drury

Alex Homann

Alex Homann completed her freshman year at Georgetown, Washington DC. She joined many clubs (such as Club Filipino and the The Hoya newspaper), made friends for life, roamed our nation’s beautiful capital, was a DC Reads tutor at Plummer Elementary, and explored classes in Georgetown’s government department. This year, she will be declaring a major in Government with a minor in Classical Studies; she is potentially looking at a double minor in Environmental Studies. Her main on-campus involvements will be GWOW Ambassador and ESCAPE Retreat Leader. She hopes there will be more to come.

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and indoctrination that introduces cadet-recruits, also known as "knobs", to the "Fourth-Class System” at the Citadel. This rigorous training focuses on acclimating cadets to a military-style environment through physical and mental stress, leadership development, and discipline. Her training includes physical fitness, military drills, and proper wear of military uniforms, and military customs. Alaysia is pursuing a degree in Business Administration/Accounting.

Jackson Melton

Jackson Melton is a freshman at Keuka College, where he’s majoring in business management. Jackson is a scholar athlete and is a member of the cross country team. Competing at the college level presents a welcome challenge. Outside of athletics and classes, he is involved in campus activities such as student senate, leading a bible study group, being a part of the mental health club, and making friendships that have made the transition to college a really exciting experience.

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his cross country team.

After attending Mercer University where she completed her B.S. Ed in Elementary/Special EducationThe Holistic Child, she completed her student teaching at Springdale Elementary in Macon, GA. However, it was while working on Cross campus with young readers through Cross after-care, summer camp, and as a substitute teacher, that she came to the realization that returning to Cross to teach and share the same loving, faithfilled environment she grew up in, was the right decision for her. Miss Drury loves building relationships with her 14 students and pushing them to grow spiritually and academically, bringing faith into their lives while also educating them in important core subjects. She plans to explore a degree in speech language pathology and possibly pursue higher education to qualify her for administrative positions in the future.

Pictured above: Bethany Carlson is pictured left posing in a gazebo. On the right, Alex Homann poses in front of the Washington Monument.
Pictured right: Jackson Melton with
Pictured above: Miss Drury uses a spinning wheel to assign her students various fun stations, including building blocks, puzzles, and drawing, which help her students to grow their fine motor skills.

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