The Bluffton Sun • July 1, 2025

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One woman’s quest to honor MIA soldier from Vietnam War

When Kathy Strong was 12, she received a POW/MIA bracelet engraved with the name of Green Beret Sgt. 1st Class James Leslie Moreland, missing since Feb. 7, 1968, during the Vietnam War from her parents.

The POW/MIA bracelet movement began in 1970 by college students with Voices in Vital America (VIVA) as a student-led reminder: wear the bracelet bearing servicemen’s names until the soldier was returned or was accounted for. Approximately five million were distributed between 1970 and 1973.

“Everyone in my seventh grade English class had one, every single student.” said Strong. While the fad faded in the mid1970s, Strong’s solitary vigil endured—and blossomed into a national tribute.

“I really didn’t know anything at all about him for over two years and then in 1975 my mom wrote to VIVA asking for more information and they sent me a short biography and a photo of him”

She pledged never to remove her bracelet until he returned—alive or not. She wore it for 38 years.

Her vow began Christmas Day 1972 and ended May 14, 2011, when Moreland’s remains were positively identified and returned to his family.

“That was a very emotional moment. I went to the funeral home, and, with the family’s permission, I took off the bracelet. Since I had worn it on my left wrist I placed it on the left sleeve of his full dressed uniform, so that he could wear it on the same spot where I had been wearing it all those years.”

After returning Moreland’s bracelet to his uniform at his funeral, Strong’s mission grew.

“I fulfilled my childhood promise.” Strong said, “Then, over the course of the next year, I just felt like there was some-

thing more I should be doing to honor him. I wanted to do something more to make sure that he was not forgotten.”

She resolved to honor him not only in her own remembrance, but also publicly—by placing engraved bricks for him at veteran’s memorials in all 50 states.

Her journey began modestly, with the first brick in Ocean Springs, Miss., at a Vietnam veterans park near a cousin’s home. Encouraged by that first placement, she continued, quietly installing bricks.

In February 2008, the 40th anniversary of the battle at Lang Vei and 35 years after she started wearing her bracelet, a local news story prompted Moreland’s younger sister, Linda, to contact her. Within months, Strong traveled to Seattle and met both Moreland sisters. Family connection deepened at later ceremonies. In Edmonds, Wash., a brick placement drew three generations of the Moreland fami-

ly—James’s sisters, niece and grand-niece. Along the way, Strong has encountered moments she describes as predestined. During her first brick ceremony in Bowl-

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ing Green, Ky., on her late mother’s birthday, a purpleand-red butterfly—her mother’s favorite colors—landed at her feet. At Wisconsin’s ceremony, a veteran gifted her $80 (four $20 bills) whispering to her that he hoped it was enough for her next brick. A week and a half later she was in Eglin Air Force base in Florida and bought a $1.99 rose on her way to leave with her brick. When she arrived, she was surprised to see that the brick, which can cost between $50-$500 dollars, was $78. “I could hear his voice saying I hope it’s enough for your next brick and it was with – along with a rose - leaving one penny left over, she said.

Another time in Des Moines, Iowa, she after getting lost finding her brick she came up to the stop sign and the instead of saying it just instead of it just saying stop someone added two words and it said “Don’t stop believing” —another poignant prompt.

Strong chooses each location with care. Her first requirement: the memorial must have a brick program. If they also hold an annual ceremony, that adds appeal. And if both are in place, she looks for parks that offer specific recognition for POWs and MIAs, Purple Heart recipients, or special forces service members.

In June, Strong installed her 46th brick at The Bluffton Veterans Memorial, a location she found online. In Bluffton, American Legion Post 205 member Kay Ranta assisted Strong in coordinating.

“I’d been googling a lot of different places and when I talk to Kay Ranta of the American Legion Post 205, I could just tell that they had a lot of pride in their park,

and it just sounded like a beautiful location. I was excited to be able to place one there because it was near where his commanding officer lives. His commanding officer Paul Longer and his wife were able to join me for the ceremony.”

As of June 2025, Strong has completed 47 states. Her next placements: Maine in July, Wyoming in August and Maryland—state No. 50—in November, near Washington, D.C. She hopes to include a member of Congress in that ceremony.

Strong, a former photojournalism major at Pepperdine University, has documented every trip with photos and plans to write a book. She shared that her left wrist remains bare since removing the bracelet in 2011—a permanent memorial to Moreland’s homecoming.

“Every time I look at my bare wrist, I remember he’s finally home,” she said.

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#KnowYourTown: Bluffton’s new resident resource guide

As Bluffton continues to grow, it’s more important than ever for residents—especially those new to our community—to understand how their local government works. That’s why the Town of Bluffton created a new Resident Resource Guide, a printed reference designed to help you navigate the Town’s services, structure and responsibilities. It was mailed to all residents in June.

This guide is essentially the print version of Bluffton’s Mobile Town Halls—an outreach initiative we launched to meet residents where they are, listen to their questions, and explain how Bluffton operates. During those conversations, one theme was clear: people bring expectations based on how their previous hometowns functioned. In Bluffton, things may work differently—and this guide helps explain why.

The Town of Bluffton operates under a council-manager form of government. That means your elected officials — Town Council sets the vision, policies and ordinances. The town manager and staff are responsible for implementing those directives. This structure differs from a “strong mayor” system, and the guide outlines how these roles work together to serve you.

It also clarifies what the Town is—and isn’t—responsible for. Roads, for example, may fall under town, county or state jurisdiction. Fire protection is provided by the Bluffton Township Fire District, while the Town oversees police services for Town residents. The guide also explains development agreements, annexation law and their legal parameters. The guide explains who handles what, so you know who to call and what to expect.

One of our key messages is: When in doubt, reach out. The guide is a great first stop for common questions, but Town Hall is always just a phone call, email or visit away. Our goal is to make local government accessible and transparent, and that only works when residents feel comfortable asking questions.

Bluffton is not just where you live—it’s your town. Your voice matters here. From public meetings and advisory boards to

community events and volunteer projects, your involvement helps shape our future. The guide includes information on how to get engaged and make your voice heard. We created the Resident Resource Guide not just to inform, but to help build community. Whether you’ve lived here all your life or just moved in last week, we hope the guide helps you feel more connected and confident about how Bluffton works.

We’re proud of this town—its history, its growth and the deep pride our residents feel in calling Bluffton home.

I encourage you to take a few minutes to read through the guide, ask questions and get involved. #KnowYourTown—and remember, we’re here to help. If you would like additional copies of the guide for yourself or your organization, please contact Public Information Officer Debbie Szpanka at dszpanka@townofbluffton. com.

A digital copy of the guide is available on the Town’s website, www.townofbluffton.sc.gov. The guide includes useful information for everyone who has Bluffton in their address—whether you live inside the Town limits or not.

Larry Toomer is the mayor of the Town of Bluffton. ltoomer@townofbluffton.com

Bluffton celebrates summer with concerts, fireworks, and family fun

The Town of Bluffton’s “Celebrating Bluffton 2025” event series continues through the summer with a packed lineup of family-friendly activities between July and September, ranging from fireworks and concerts to water slides and community cleanups.

As part of the town’s expanded effort to bring neighbors together and foster civic pride, July kicks off with one of Bluffton’s largest annual events: the Independence Day Pre-Party and Fireworks on Wednesday, July 3rd, from 5 to 9:30 p.m. at Martin Family Park. Fireworks will be visible

from Wright Family Park and Oyster Factory Park, offering multiple vantage points for families to enjoy the show.

The celebration continues the following evening with the Mayor’s Cup 5K and Concert on Tuesday, July 2nd, from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. at Oyster Factory Park—a new addition to this year’s lineup. The 5K encourages community wellness and culminates with live music along the May River.

Younger residents can beat the heat at two water-themed events: “Jump Into Summer” on June 21st and “Slide Out of July” on Friday, July 19th,

from 9 a.m. to noon at Buckwalter Place Amphitheater. Both feature inflatable water slides and plenty of room for kids to splash and play.

Music lovers can mark their calendars for two concerts in the Bluffton Concert Series:

• Aug. 15th at Oyster Factory Park from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m., featuring local favorite Tru Gentlemen.

• Oct. 3rd at Buckwalter Place Amphitheater from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m.

The town will honor service and remembrance on Sept. 11th with the 9/11 Remembrance Ceremony at the Buckwalter

Veterans Memorial, held from 8:30 to 10:30 a.m., and promote environmental stewardship on Sept. 20th with the River Sweep Cleanup at Oyster Factory Park from 9 to 11 a.m.

Mayor Larry Toomer emphasized that the summer events reflect the town’s commitment to unity and wellness. “Every event is a chance to build memories and celebrate the spirit of Bluffton,” he said. All events are free and open to the public. For updates, visit hiltonheadislandsc.gov or follow the Town of Bluffton Government on Facebook and Instagram.

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Bluffton earns state preservation award for second straight year

The Town of Bluffton has received the 2025 South Carolina Historic Preservation Award for its Historic Preservation Grant Program, marking the second consecutive year the town has been recognized for its efforts to safeguard local heritage.

The award, presented June 18th at the South Carolina State House in Columbia, was one of 16 statewide honors issued by the South Carolina Department of Archives and History, Preservation South Carolina, and the Office of the Governor. Bluffton received the Preservation Service Award, which highlights exemplary contributions to the preservation, rehabilitation, or interpretation of the state’s architectural and cultural history.

Town officials accepted the award during the ceremony, which acknowledged projects and activities that strengthen South Carolina’s preservation landscape. Bluffton’s program was cited for its targeted grant assistance to owners of historic properties within the Old Town Bluffton Historic District.

Launched in January 2022, the grant program supports the preservation, restoration, and rehabilitation of “Contributing Resources,” a designation applied to structures and sites that help define Bluffton’s historic character. These include homes, churches, schools, and cultural landscapes such as the Heyward and Huger coves.

“Bluffton’s ‘sense of place’ is what sets it apart—it’s why so many people choose to live here,” Mayor Larry Toomer said. “That uniqueness is rooted in the historic structures and stories that have been preserved through the shared investment of our residents and the Town.”

Since its creation, nearly $300,000 in grants have been awarded to aid in preserving 10 designated resources. The town currently recognizes 86 such properties within the district. Grant amounts may reach up to $30,000 for residential buildings and $20,000 for commercial or non-residential properties.

Toomer said the grant program allows Bluffton to honor its heritage and serve as an example to other municipalities. “This program allows public and private funds to honor Bluffton’s heritage, character, and especially the stories which connect us to our past neighbors,” he said.

In 2024, former Bluffton Mayor Lisa Sulka received the South Carolina Elected Official Award for her preservation advocacy, further underscoring the town’s leadership in historic conservation.

For more information about the grant program, contact Glen Umberger, Bluffton’s historic preservationist, at gumberger@townofbluffton.com.

Left to right: South Carolina Governor Henry D. McMaster, Town of Bluffton Director of Growth Management Kevin Icard, Town of Bluffton Historic Preservationist Glen Umberger, Director and State Historic Preservation Officer, South Carolina Department of Archives and History, W. Eric Emerson, Ph.D., Chairman of Preservation South Carolina John B. Hildreth

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Big changes on the horizon

We live in one of the most beautiful and unique places on earth—a paradise that many of us are proud to call home. But even paradise isn’t immune to change. Our beloved corner of the Lowcountry is experiencing growth and development at an unprecedented pace. From rising population numbers and infrastructure demands to environmental concerns and the evolving needs of diverse communities, the decisions we make today will echo for decades to come.

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By collaborating with neighbors, local organizations, businesses, and government leaders, we can ensure that our region continues to thrive while staying true to its character. The Greater Island Council of Hilton Head Island and Bluffton (GIC) is committed to fostering discussions and advocating for quality-of-life outcomes. We invite you join us, attend our monthly speaker meetings, share your thoughts, and participate in one of our committees. Whether you’ve lived here your entire life or just moved to the area, your perspective is vital.

Our members are participating in the discussions and looking for solutions for affordable childcare, coordinated regional planning, answers for the next level of recycling and solid waste disposal and the future of our parks.

But these are just starting points. You may see other priorities that deserve attention, and your insights could shed light on issues we haven’t yet considered.

• Development: How do we balance economic growth with the preservation of our natural beauty and cultural heritage?

• Ar ts & culture: How do we grow environmentally sustainable industries like the arts, culture and historical sites which improve our quality of life.

• Infrastructure: Are our roads, bridges, and public services prepared to handle increasing demands?

• Housing: How do we address affordability and accessibility while maintaining the character of our neighborhoods?

• Environment: What steps should we take to protect our waterways, marshlands, and wildlife from the impacts

• Schools: How can we ensure that our schools and institutions are equipped to prepare future generations for success?

What matters most to you

We want to know what you think are the most pressing issues that will define our shared future? What steps should we, as a community, take to preserve what makes our home so unique while preparing for the changes ahead?

The Greater Island Council of Hilton Head Island and Bluffton, a non-partisan, citizen-led organization, is dedicated to advocating for initiatives and policies that shape the quality of life in our region. We believe that listening to the voices of our neighbors is the first step in creating proactive, effective solutions. That’s why we’re asking you to join the conversation. Let’s work together to ensure that the next decade is one of smart, sustainable, and inclusive growth for Beaufort and Jasper counties.

Share your thoughts with us at GreaterIslandCouncil.com/contact-us.

Ray Warco is the Board Chair of the Greater Island Council of Hilton Head Island and Bluffton.

Ask the expert: how do I plan when my children and stepchildren don’t get along?

Expert Answer: Blended families are more common than ever, and with them come unique challenges—especially when it comes to estate planning. While love may bring families together, differing expectations, loyalty to biological parents and long-standing tensions can make navigating inheritances emotionally charged. When children and stepchildren don’t get along, having a clear and thoughtful estate plan isn’t just helpful—it’s essential.

One of the biggest mistakes in blended family planning is assuming “it will all work itself out.” Without written instructions, what you leave behind can lead to confusion, resentment and even costly legal battles. This is particularly true when there are unequal distributions, or if a surviving spouse is expected to “do the right thing” after your death without any legal obligation to do so.

Start by being realistic. Acknowledge family dynamics as they are—not as you wish them to be. If tensions exist between your children and your spouse’s children, your estate plan should account for that. This may mean using tools like a trust to ensure your biological children are protected while still providing for your spouse or stepchildren. Trusts can allow you to set clear terms and avoid probate, which keeps your wishes private and less vulnerable to challenges.

Communication is key. While you’re not required to share every detail of your plan, giving your family a general sense of your intentions can help reduce misunderstandings. Consider writing a personal letter to explain your decisions—especially if they might

be perceived as unequal. Sometimes, fairness doesn’t mean equal—it means thoughtful.

It’s also important to choose the right people to handle your estate. If your children and stepchildren don’t get along, naming one of them as executor or trustee can create conflict. In these cases, a neutral third party like a professional fiduciary or trusted advisor can help keep things fair and objective.

Lastly, update your documents regularly. Life changes—marriages, divorces, births, deaths—all can affect your plan. Make sure beneficiary designations on retirement accounts and life insurance policies align with your wishes and the rest of your estate documents. With blended families, estate planning isn’t one-size-fits-all. It requires honest reflection, clear documentation, and the right guidance. Done well, it can help preserve family relationships—or at least prevent further strain—while ensuring your legacy is honored. A strong elder law and estate planning attorney can guide you through this making sure your wishes are clearly laid out so there is no question about your plan.

For educational purposes only. This is not legal advice. Lisa Hostetler Brown is a Certified Elder Law Attorney certified by the National Elder Law Foundation. 10 Pinckney Colony Rd, Ste 400, Bluffton, SC 29909 | 843-757-5294 | HiltonHeadElderLaw.com

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Community kindness: Blessing Box Project Bluffton

A quiet movement of generosity is making a big difference—one box at a time. Blessing Box Project Bluffton is aimed at fighting food insecurity and supporting neighbors in need through small, community-stocked food pantries.

Blessing boxes are simple, 24/7-accessible structures filled with non-perishable food items and basic necessities. For temporary hardship or ongoing challenges, the boxes offer immediate help. At the core is a simple motto: “Take what you need...Give what you can.”

Bluffton’s leader Kathy Straughn was inspired by her Granny, who taught that

giving comes from the heart—a personal decision guided by empathy. Bluffton’s boxes locations include: Sea Smiles Pediatric Dentistry, Alljoy Donut, The Store on Calhoun, New Life Church, Okatie-Bluffton Fire Department.

This summer 12-year-old Lincoln Keene, a rising 7th grader at River Ridge Academy, launched a food drive for Blessing Box Project Bluffton as part of his National Junior Honor Society service hours.

Lincoln explained, “My mom told me about these boxes that can help children who don’t get to eat as much while public school is out. Since they wouldn’t get school breakfast or lunch, I wanted to help because I don’t want any kids to go hungry.”

He spread the word through social media and the project grew. JustServe.org added it to their volunteer site. Neighborhoods learned of Lincoln’s goal. Even Lincoln’s summer camp helped. During his summer day camp, Lincoln noticed something small yet meaningful. One lunch included craisins, which Lincoln mentioned was one of his favorite

treats. After that off-hand comment, a few friends gave him their packs. Rather than keep them, Lincoln realized he could share the packets with his food drive efforts. Soon, word spread among campers aged 5 to 12, and about 20 kids handed over their craisins for the drive.

Impact truly takes a village. Local youth like Lincoln have embraced the cause, proving that service and compassion start early.

Ella Carlson, from H.E. McCracken

Middle School, shared: “I collected food donations for a month, and then my mom and I filled the boxes. I really enjoyed knowing we are were helping our community. I hope more adults and kids get involved as Miss Kathy is easy to work with and was always so supportive.”

Nico Jackson, from Hilton Head Christian Academy, added: “I had the opportunity to help the community, in particular kids in need, by hosting a virtual food drive. This experience has been really fulfilling knowing that I got to help people as a child of God.”

From young children to devoted adults, Bluffton’s cycle of giving reflects the community’s strength and compassion.

A native South Carolinian, Emily Loader is happiest in the sunshine with a big bowl of grits and a side of “burrelled” peanuts. She thinks in prose as she explores the coast on foot, bike, and boat with her family and believes everyone has a story that helps others grow, sparking further connections with our relatives and community members.

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Is your wealth plan built to withstand the unexpected?

In today’s uncertain world, many successful families are turning to stress testing to ensure their wealth plans are up to the task. Once used primarily by ultra-wealthy families, stress testing has become a valuable tool for individuals and families at a range of wealth levels who want confidence in their financial future.

At its core, stress testing is a formal process that evaluates a wealth plan, or parts of it, under various scenarios to determine whether the plan will still meet the family’s goals. These scenarios might include market downturns, tax law changes, unexpected expenses, or windfalls. The idea is to uncover any weaknesses or blind spots before they become real problems.

Beyond revealing vulnerabilities, stress testing can also highlight overlooked opportunities. By assessing what’s already in place and comparing it to alternatives, families can make small adjustments that may significantly improve outcomes.

A major benefit is seeing how well all your financial pieces work together. Many families work with multiple professionals, accountants, attorneys, investment advisors, who may not always coordinate. That can lead to inefficiencies or even conflicting strategies. A thorough stress test takes a comprehensive view and identifies ways to better align all the moving parts.

Originally adopted by the “Super Rich,” those with $500 million or more in net worth, stress testing has expanded to serve a wider group. As more advanced financial tools become available to affluent but not

ultra-wealthy families, the popularity of stress testing continues to grow.

But with that growth comes a downside: not all stress tests are created equal. Some advisors offer a watered-down version of the process or treat it as a sales tactic to push new products. That’s not what stress testing should be.

To ensure your stress test delivers real value, here are three key steps:

1. Work with someone who can clearly explain the process.

A good advisor should help you understand why stress testing matters and that the goal isn’t necessarily to change your plan, but to confirm it’s strong or make minor improvements. Think of it like a financial physical: you may feel fine, but it’s worth checking under the hood to catch issues early or find ways to perform even better.

2. Choose someone who sees the human side of wealth.

Your wealth plan shouldn’t just look good on paper, it should reflect your values, goals, and priorities. The best stress tests consider not just performance metrics but how your plan supports what matters most to you.

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Your advisor must be capable of understanding complex financial structures and comparing them against possible alternatives. That includes evaluating legal, tax, and investment strategies thoroughly and responsibly.

When done right, a stress test can reveal hidden risks, uncover missed opportunities, and help ensure that your wealth plan is truly working for you and not just on autopilot. For families who want peace of mind and clarity, it’s a smart step forward.

Thomas M. Dowling, CFA, CFP®, CIMA® is the Head of Wealth Management at Alliance Global Partners of the Lowcountry on Hilton Head. He can be reached at infohh@allianceg.com or (843) 420-1993.

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Dr. Chris Wixon, a vascular surgeon who has practiced in the Lowcountry for more than two decades, launched RosettaMD on June 18th. The free, adfree tool allows users to paste or upload medical documents—such as CT scans, lab reports or discharge summaries— and receive immediate, plain-English explanations.

“There’s no reason a patient should feel panic reading their own chart,” Wixon said. “RosettaMD is about replacing fear with clarity. That starts with language people actually understand.”

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The platform requires no login, collects no data, and operates without ads or upsells. Wixon, who founded Bluffton-based ArchimedesMedical to build the app, said the idea came from personal experience.

“My brother had a cancer scare,” Wixon said. “He read his CT report and assumed the worst. It turned out to be a common, harmless finding—but that moment stuck with me. I realized how often this happens in my own practice.”

RosettaMD has already translated more than 15,000 real-world medical documents and is being used by cancer patients preparing for second opinions, parents managing pediatric diagnoses, seniors navigating imaging results and caregivers coordinating care.

Unlike symptom-checkers or chatbots, the platform uses physician-trained, deterministic AI that produces the same trusted output every time. The underlying engine was built using more than half a million medical language patterns and plain-English interpretations.

Wixon said he chose to stay in the Lowcountry—not Silicon Valley—be-

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“This isn’t about replacing doctors,” Wixon said. “It’s about making sure people understand what their doctors write. That understanding is what leads to better outcomes—and peace of mind.”

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Hilton Head adjusts beach parking fees, clarifies policy for residents and visitors

The Town of Hilton Head Island has officially implemented new beach parking fee changes, effective June 24th, following a Town Council vote on June 17th, according to the town’s press release.

Under the revised schedule, weekend visitors will now be charged $5 per hour for parking at Town-managed beach parks, replacing the previous $20 flat daily rate. On weekdays, the former $15 daily maximum has been removed, and the $3 per hour rate remains in effect. Parking fees are enforced daily from 7 a.m. to 5 p.m., while parks remain open from 6 a.m. to 10 p.m., the release stated.

The changes come as part of a broader effort to improve parking management and address the rising costs of maintaining and enhancing the island’s popular beach parks. “The research determined that previous parking fees were not aligned with the use of beach parks, as well as the subsequent need for increased funding to preserve, maintain, and improve beach parks,” according to the town’s press release.

Coligny Beach Park, one of the island’s most frequented destinations, remains exempt from the new fee structure and continues to offer free parking. According to the town’s release, officials opted for a different approach at Coligny due to its proximity to a dense cluster of local businesses. Town staff are currently studying summer traffic patterns in the area to assess whether changes may be needed in the future.

Town of Hilton Head Island residents continue to receive free beach parking through a resident pass program, which the Town defends in the release by noting that “Hilton Head Island residents pay to preserve, maintain, and improve the Island’s beaches through various taxes and fees.” Consequently, the council determined residents should not be required to pay additional parking fees.

Town of Hilton Head Island residents who live at least 183 days per year in town limits may apply for up to two free digital parking permits, valid year-round at all town-managed beach parks. Permits are

limited to residents; non-residents are not eligible.

The town also addressed questions

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about Chaplin Park and Burkes Beach, which share a parking lot used by both beachgoers and youth sports participants. Parking at this location remains free annually from early September through midMay while youth sports are in session. The town said it would be impractical to differentiate between users and decided to suspend fees during those months.

Additionally, the town clarified that Beaufort County tax payments do not contribute to Hilton Head’s beach maintenance or preservation. Therefore, county residents outside the town limits are not eligible for free beach parking passes.

Visitors must pay via the MyHHI app, as cash payments are no longer accepted. Fines range from $50 to $500 for violations.

For more information on beach parking policies, visit https://hiltonheadislandsc. gov/beach/parking/permit/

The next Town Council meeting is scheduled for July 15 at 3 p.m., for more information visit https://hiltonheadislandsc.gov/towncouncil.

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Bluffton real estate market update

As we head deeper into the summer season, Bluffton’s real estate market is proving to be both dynamic and revealing. After months of change, June brought a shift in momentum—one that is particularly worth watching as we look toward the second half of the year.

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The number of homes for sale in Bluffton has climbed to 1,028, up from 996 in June and well above the 611 homes available in July 2024. This marks the highest level of inventory since July of 2019, giving buyers more choices than they’ve had in years.

The average days on market in Bluffton is now 75 days, just a hair below last month’s 76. This figure is up from 61 days this time last year, a 23% increase, and confirms that while homes are still selling, they’re doing so at a more deliberate pace than in recent years.

One of the most eye-catching figures this month is pending sales. Bluffton currently has 244 homes under contract, a 61.6% jump from 151 in June, and an 11.4% increase over July 2024, when 219 homes were pending. This kind of surge in buyer activity suggests renewed confidence and demand, even in the face of

higher inventory.

There have been 806 closed sales year-to-date, up from 706 just a month ago, though still well below the 1,319 closed sales by this point in 2024. While overall volume is lagging year-over-year, momentum appears to be building as we move deeper into the summer market.

The market’s absorption rate has dropped sharply. Last month’s 6.6-month supply has decreased to 4.2 months, a 36% drop. That shift nudges Bluffton back from buyer’s market territory and closer to a neutral or slightly seller-favored environment.

The median sale price for 2025 now stands at $540,473, very close to the 2023 median of $543,260, but down slightly from $556,818 in 2024. While prices have cooled modestly from last year’s peak, they remain well above pre-pandemic levels—56% higher than 2020.

Bluffton’s market continues to evolve. Inventory is higher than it’s been in years, but the pace of sales is catching up. With pending sales rising and months of inventory tightening, the market is no longer tilted in favor of buyers as it was just a month ago. Wellpriced homes are moving, and buyer urgency is clearly picking up again.

See y’all next month, Bluffton!

Dan Prud’homme is the Visionary & Success Coach of The Prud’homme Team at William Raveis Real Estate. dan@danprudhomme. com theprudhommeteam. com

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Proper planning prevents poor performance

I would like to provide you with a behind-the-scenes look at how intentional planning protects your budget, your time, and your peace of mind.

If you’ve ever had a construction project spiral out of control with missed deadlines, surprise costs, and communication breakdowns, there’s almost always one root cause… poor planning. Want to know the truth? I’ve been there. I’ve rushed project starts to meet unrealistic requested timelines because I didn’t want to lose the job. And I’ve paid the price.

If there’s one thing we’ve learned after years of remodeling and building homes in the Lowcountry, it’s this: Proper planning prevents poor performance. When I was working in the marketing

world for a large insurance corporation, our leader was a weathered, rough, Marine Gunnery Sargent. He added an extra “P” in between “prevents” and “poor,” but I never forgot the phrase. It’s more than a catchy phrase. It’s the difference between a project that runs smoothly and one that turns into a stressful disaster.

So, what does proper planning actually look like in our world now?

Here’s how we do it step by step.

It starts with a conversation, not a quote. We don’t believe in fast quotes based on a five-minute walkthrough. We believe in understanding. We take time with you.

That means sitting down to discover such items as: What is your ultimate desired outcome? What’s driving this project, space, style, functionality, resale? What’s your ideal timeline and investment range?

I’ve had homeowners call us in for an addition, and after listening to what they actually needed, we were able to save them tens of thousands by remodeling what they already had. That came from actually listening to what they needed, not just hearing what they wanted.

Then, we move into discovery and feasibility. This is where proper planning really starts to happen.

We create a design and feasibility agreement so we can define the scope clearly, create a realistic design within your goals and budget, explore materials, layouts, and options side by side, and catch issues before we even get the quote together.

When you travel, your ticket tells you where you’re starting from and your destination, when to arrive, when you leave, when the gate closes and what gate to use, your boarding class and even where you’ll sit. That’s exactly what our Design Agreement does for your project. It gives you all the details in one document with a clear map of how we are going to get there together, safely, comfortably and unlike flying on Spirit, no fights should break out midflight if we do this right!

Before we move into production, you’ll have a finalized set of plans, a clear breakdown of pricing, an honest timeline based on labor and material availability, and a plan for selections, permitting, and prep work.

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We can start strong because we planned smart. Once we break ground, things move quickly, not chaotically. Everyone’s on the same page. Expectations are set. Your materials are ready. Your project manager has a game plan, not just a to-do list, scrambling at the last minute.

The result? Fewer surprises. Fewer change orders. Fewer headaches. And a better experience from start to finish.

You don’t get a dream project by winging it. You build it by planning well.

So whether you’re ready to start next month or just thinking about next year, start by finding a builder who values the plan and the process as much as the product and price tag.

That’s how you protect your investment and your peace of mind.

Ryan Chowansky is the owner of Bluffton Builders, LLC, www.bluffton. builders.

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Welcome To My Pack

When I meet readers of my articles in the community, they often ask about my dogs and their history. I currently have four, ranging in age from 4 to nearly 9.

The oldest is Finn, an almost 9-yearold Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. I adopted him at 1½ from a home where he was constantly attacked by a male Corgi. He was miserable and afraid. The owner asked if I would take him in. I’m not usually a small-dog person, but Cavaliers are my favorite small breed—so I (sigh) said yes.

The transformation was complete. Finn went from being a beaten, submissive pup to the top dog in my pack. He walked in, looked around, and seemed to decide: no male dogs here, so I guess I’m in charge. Not what I expected. He’s a 23-pound alpha who still dislikes male dogs. Thankfully, he’s also very affectionate and now serves as a Hos-Pets therapy dog. He loves visiting assisted living and hospice facilities and soaks up attention from anyone willing.

Gidget is about 7½, a brown and white Newfoundland. She was purchased at an Amish farm auction at age 3 to be bred. That didn’t work out—thankfully—and she was listed on Petfinder. I drove to Atlanta and came home with her. After spaying her, she joined the pack.

Gidget has a high prey drive—small animals, lizards, even insects aren’t safe. She’s afraid of the dark and thunder, likely from spending her early years in a barn. She’s only mildly affectionate and

has little interest in pleasing humans but loves other dogs. Occasionally, she’ll deign to offer a kiss or ask for attention. Grizzly Bear came to me at 1½, a Newfie-Doodle rescued through RescueMe. org in Florida. His original owners gave him up because he got “too big.” (Really—what did they expect from a Newfoundland-Poodle mix?) At 121 pounds, he became mine. Now almost 4 and 135 pounds, he’s the sweetest goofball I’ve ever met. His nickname is Dufus. He’s affectionate but not the brightest dog I’ve owned. He has no sense of personal space and loves swimming and snuggles.

The newest addition is Jade, a 3-yearold purebred brown Newfoundland. She was put up for adoption because she wasn’t considered breedable due to bilateral hip dysplasia. She’s sweet as sugar, another dog with no understanding of personal space, and proudly identifies as a Velcro dog. She recently became a therapy dog and loves visiting assisted living and memory care residents—and children. She’s also my most expensive: she requires medications, supplements and alternative therapies to stay comfortable.

These four-legged fur balls let me share their home. They drain my credit cards and bank account. Their food, pills and accessories take up a room of their own. They leave fur, toys, chew bones and slobber everywhere.

I wouldn’t change a thing.

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A newcomers guide to finding the right dentist

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Moving to a new town comes with a long list of to-dos: unpack boxes, find the nearest grocery store, update your address, and—eventually—choose a new dentist. There are many options, and the internet offers a sea of reviews, but how do you know who to trust?

Look for a practice that feels local — not just professional

When you’re new to Bluffton or Hilton Head, you want more than just someone who can clean your teeth—you want someone who understands the people, pace, and personality of the area.

judgment and explain procedures in plain language.

5. A Commitment to the Community Bluffton and Hilton Head are more than just scenic destinations—they’re tightknit towns where people care about their neighbors. A dentist who shows up for their community is likely to show up for you, too.

Helpful questions to ask before choosing your dentist

Once you’ve narrowed down your list of potential practices, don’t be afraid to ask questions. The right dental team will welcome them.

• Do you see families and patients of all ages?

• What dental technologies do you use?

• How do you help patients with dental anxiety?

• What’s your process for new patient consultations?

• Can you explain how you present treatment plans and options?

• Are you involved in the Bluffton or Hilton Head community? Their answers will tell you a lot about their values—and how comfortable you’ll feel under their care.

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A great dental office should reflect that community spirit. Are they involved in local events? Do they support charities, schools, or neighborhood initiatives? These things may seem small, but they speak volumes about how invested a practice is in the people they serve.

What to look for in a dentist

As you begin your search, here are a few key qualities to look for:

1. Advanced technology

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2. Friendly, professional staff

Online reviews can be helpful, but it’s important to read them with a discerning eye. One or two negative comments are normal for any business. What matters is how the practice responds and whether the majority of patients describe a consistent, positive experience.

Look for phrases like: “They made me feel comfortable.” “The staff was so kind.” “They helped me overcome my fear of the dentist.” And “They explained everything and gave me options.”

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3. Experience with families

Those are signs of a team that truly prioritizes patients.

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If you’re moving with children—or planning to start a family—finding a dental home that can grow with your family matters. A family-focused practice will offer both pediatric and adult care, making scheduling more convenient and fostering trust across generations.

4. Gentle care for anxious patients

Let’s face it: not everyone loves going to the dentist. A compassionate dental team understands this. They listen without

A great dentist doesn’t just treat problems—they help you prevent them, educate you, and support your goals, whether that’s staying cavity-free, restoring your smile, or simply not dreading your next appointment. The right dental home will feel like just that: a home. Somewhere you feel welcome, cared for, and never rushed or judged.

Matthew Mastrorocco, DMD is the owner and founder of ROC Dental Group, serving Bluffton and Hilton Head Island.
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Beaufort Memorial expands heart care on Hilton Head and adds new specialist to team

Beaufort Memorial is expanding access to cardiovascular care in the Lowcountry, welcoming a board-certified nurse practitioner with more than 20 years of experience and launching new screening services on Hilton Head Island.

Beaufort Memorial Heart Specialists has added Nicole Gray, MSN, FNP-C, AGACNP-BC, to its team. Gray, a Navy veteran and board-certified nurse practitioner, brings decades of experience in both acute and chronic cardiovascular care. She will see patients in Beaufort, Okatie and the main hospital.

“Ms. Gray and her extensive background in acute care will be a valuable addition to our team of cardiology specialists,” said Beaufort Memorial President and CEO Russell Baxley. “Her skill in connecting with patients and experience delivering compassionate, patient-centered care will benefit patients throughout the Lowcountry.”

Originally from Buffalo, N.Y., Gray has worked in trauma care, forensic nursing, cardiology and administrative leadership. In 2023, she founded a heart failure clinic while working for the Department of Veterans Affairs in New York. She also served as a clinical instructor and public speaker on cardiovascular health.

“I treat all of my patients like they are members of my family,” Gray said. “Having a sense of humor is key; I like to make them laugh and put them at ease.”

Gray joins a care team that includes board-certified cardiologists Drs. Francis O’Neill, Stephen Fedec and Stuart Smalheiser, as well as physician assistant Tara Kay.

Beaufort Memorial Heart Specialists has offices in Okatie at 122 Okatie Center Blvd. North, Suite 300, and in Beaufort at 300 Midtown Drive.

In a further investment in regional heart care, in June the nonprofit health system began offering low-cost vascular screenings at its Island Imaging facility on Hilton Head, joining its existing locations in Beaufort and Okatie.

The screening, which costs $60 and is

not covered by insurance, includes three evaluations: a carotid artery scan, an abdominal aortic aneurysm scan and an ankle-brachial index scan.

“If you are 50 or older and have cardiovascular disease risk factors, you should be screened,” said Dr. Francis O’Neill, an interventional cardiologist at Beaufort Memorial Heart Specialists. “These risk factors include obesity, high blood pressure, smoking, diabetes or a family history of cardiac or vascular disease.”

The screening is designed to identify stroke risk and detect conditions like peripheral vascular disease, aortic aneurysms and plaque buildup in the carotid arteries. To schedule a screening in Hilton Head, Beaufort or Okatie, patients can call 843-522-5635.

To schedule an appointment with Gray or any of Beaufort Memorial’s cardiovascular providers, call 843-770-4550.

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Do you watch the LPGA on TV?

I asked a number of my friends and golf students this question and got a variety of answers. Most of them were reasons why they didn’t watch women’s golf. I will list some of these and see if you are in this category. I will also list reasons why I feel you should be watching these great athletes. Reasons why some people do not watch the LPGA on TV:

• They are playing for smaller purses. Last year Nellie Korda won 7 tournaments and won only 4.4 million dollars. The PGA pros in Majors and Signature events receive that for winning one tournament. The winner in the KPMG Major for women won 1.6 million. The winner of the PGA Traveler’s tournament the same week won 3.6 million.

• They don’t play the big-time courses like the Augusta National and the Players. I like watching golf on courses that I have heard of. The good news is the LPGA will be playing in future years Pebble Beach, Olympic Club, Erin Hills, and the Old Course at St. Andrews.

• They are usually on TV channels that cost extra to subscribe such as Peacock. I tried to find the KPMG Ladies tournament on Sunday and they were on Peacock from 11 – 3:00 and 3:00-6:00 on NBC. Conversely. The PGA tournament was on TV most of the day on ESPN, Golf Channel and CBS.

• The tour is dominated by golfers from Asia and Korea. I can’t even pronounce their names. What happened to the good old days of

women’s golf with Kathy Whitworth, Nancy Lopez, Michele Wie and other American golfers I could relate to.

• The TV graphics aren’t as good as the PGA Tour. The commentators aren’t as interesting.

• Many women athletes are typically stereotyped by their appearance rather than their athletic performance. The PGA pros do not have this type of scrutiny.

Reasons why you should watch the LPGA on TV:

• LPGA golf is more relatable to the amateur golfer.

• Most LPGA Tour courses are set up between 6,200 and 6,600 which compares to what most men play at their home courses. Men can definitely relate to the women’s distances compared to the PGA tour.

• The average clubhead speed for LPGA golfers is 100 mph and that is more than most amateur men at 80-90 mph.

• LPGA golfers have great tempo compared to PGA professionals.

• LPGA typically have great short games.

• The LPGA players are using equipment that the average male golfer should be using.

• LPGA will carry clubs in their golf bag, such as hybrids, that the amateur golfer will have in their bag. Most amateur golfers cannot relate to the distances the PGA golfers hit. I really hope that you will be watching the LPGA in the future.

Dr. Jean Harris is an LPGA Master Professional and teaches at local golf courses. jean.golfdoctor.harris@gmail. com; golfdoctorjean.com.

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Turtle Talks

Mondays (June–August) • 8–9 p.m.

Lowcountry Celebration Park, 94 Pope Ave, Hilton Head Island

Free weekly sea turtle presentation by Amber Kuehn, Director of Sea Turtle Patrol HHI. Learn about turtle biology and island conservation efforts. Held rain or shine—bring a chair or blanket. seaturtlepatrolhhi.org/eventcalendar/

Mayor’s Cup 5K and Concert

Wednesday, July 2nd • 6:30–8:30 p.m.

Oyster Factory Park, Bluffton Evening run followed by a community concert. Walkers and families welcome. Registration details at townofbluffton. sc.gov.

Town of Bluffton Independence Day

Pre-Party & Fireworks

Thursday, July 3rd • 5–9:30 p.m.

Martin Family Park, Bluffton Live music, food trucks, and fireworks viewable from Oyster Factory and Wright Family Parks. Family friendly and free to attend.

Gregg Russell Summer Concerts

Monday–Thursday through August 7

Also Friday, July 4th • 8–9:30 p.m. Under the Liberty Oak Tree, Harbour Town

Beloved island tradition with live music for all ages. Free and family friendly.

Fourth of July Parade

Friday, July 4th • 8:30 a.m. registration / 9:30 a.m. parade start

Harbour Town, Hilton Head Island Decorate bikes, wagons, and pets to

join this patriotic parade. Followed by carnival games on the lawn. Free; first 100 registrants get supplies.

Fourth of July Fireworks

Friday, July 4th • starts at 9 p.m.

Harbour Town, Hilton Head Island

Celebrate Independence Day with fireworks over Calibogue Sound. Live music, food, and fun throughout Harbour Town. Weather permitting.

Flight n Fancy Exhibit by Janet Urbanic

July 6th–August 2nd

SOBA Gallery, 6 Church St, Old Town

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Featuring whimsical oil and watercolor batik art inspired by Lowcountry wildlife. Free public reception Thursday, July 10 • 3–5 p.m.

Info: sobagallery.com • 843 757 6586

DJ Alan Family Shows

Fridays, July 11th & 25th • 8–9:30 p.m.

Liberty Oak Tree, Harbour Town Interactive games, dancing, and music for all ages.

Palm Trees & Pistons

Car Show at Nala’s

Saturday, July 12th • 9–11 a.m.

Nala’s Beach Bar & Grill Parking Lot, Hilton Head Island

Monthly car show showcasing vintage, exotic, muscle, and unique cars. Free to attend or display—bring a vehicle or just enjoy breakfast and cars.

Starts at 7 a.m. with breakfast at Nala’s.

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Rick Hubbard’s Great American Kids Show

Friday, July 18th • 8–9:30 p.m.

Liberty Oak Tree, Harbour Town

Family comedy, music, and fun where every child participates—ending with a kazoo finale.

Slide Out of July

Saturday, July 19th • 9 a.m.–noon

Buckwalter Place Amphitheater, Bluffton Free waterslide fun for kids to beat the summer heat. Bring towels and sunscreen.

Lowcountry Boil Benefit

Saturday, July 19th • 4–7 p.m.

SideHustle Brewing Co. Lot, 10 Buck Island Rd, Bluffton

Traditional Frogmore Stew buffet (shrimp, sausage, corn, potatoes) at $35/platter. Includes live music and kids’ entertainment. Tickets available online through July 17. Proceeds support The Blessing Ministry’s Christmas Shop. Details: blufftonworship.com/ lowcountry-boil/

May River Shrimp Fest Hawaiian

Shirt Sunset 5K

Thursday, July 24th • 7:30 p.m.

Oyster Factory Park on the May River, Bluffton

A festive 5K run/walk—run in Hawaiian shirts! Includes post-race party, themed T-shirt, and lei. Open to runners and walkers; strollers and leashed pets welcome.

Register at bearfootsports.com • 843 757 8520

May River Shrimp Fest Sunset Party

Friday, July 25th • 5:30–9:30 p.m.

Oyster Factory Park on the May River, Bluffton

Sunset celebration featuring live music by “Cristaldi & Stiltner” and “Vanna & The Rump Shackers,” local seafood, craft beer & boutique wine. Family and pet friendly.

More info at blufftonsunsetparty.com • 843 757 8520

Shore Notes Summer Camp for Singers

Mondays, July 28th, August 4th, 11th, and 18th • 6–8 p.m.

Church of the Palms, 1425 Okatie Hwy (Rte 170), Okatie

Free singing camp for women 18+ hosted by Shore Notes A Cappella Chorus. Learn 4-part harmony—no music reading required. Ends with a performance on August 25th at 7:30 p.m.

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Take and Make: Beeswax Wrap

Wednesday, July 30th

Hilton Head Branch Library

Sustainable kitchen craft—while supplies last.

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Adult Crafts: Oyster Shell Trinket Dishes

Thursday, July 31st • 11 a.m.

Hilton Head Branch Library

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Bluffton to celebrate Independence Day with two days of family fun, music and fireworks

The Town of Bluffton will celebrate Independence Day with a two-day lineup of events on July 2nd and 3rd, including a 5K race, live music, family activities, and a fireworks show over the May River. Now in its fourth year, the town-sponsored festivities begin Wednesday, July 2nd, with the second annual Bluffton Independence Day 5K at Oyster Factory Park. The race steps off at 7 p.m. and benefits the Mayor’s “Stay Safe, Bluffton!” initiative, which funds student scholarships promoting safe driving.

The event is open to all ages and welcomes strollers and leashed dogs. The top three canine finishers will win prizes, and the first 400 registrants will receive a commemorative race T-shirt. Winners will be awarded the “Mayor’s Cup,” with their names engraved and displayed at Town Hall.

Live music from Deas-Guyz, a popular Lowcountry band known for its blend of Motown and beach music, will accompany the race and continue until 8:30 p.m. Food, beer, and wine will be available for purchase.

Runners and spectators must park at M.C. Riley Elementary School and use the free Palmetto Breeze shuttle to access Oyster Factory Park. Paid parking is also available at First Zion Missionary Baptist Church and Campbell Chapel AME Church, with proceeds benefiting church programs.

The celebration continues Thursday, July 3rd, with a pre-party at Martin Family and DuBois Parks from 5 to 9 p.m. The evening will feature carnival-style games, bounce houses, a rock climbing wall, and food vendors. DJ Jeff “T-Bone” Taylor will emcee the festivities, with live music from the Marine Corps Parris Island “Dirty Boots” Brass Band scheduled from 6 to 7 p.m. A local teenager will perform the national anthem on electric guitar at 5:55 p.m.

The day concludes with a 20-minute fireworks display beginning at 9 p.m. The show will launch from a barge in the May River and can be viewed from Oyster Factory and Wright Family Parks. Due to potential changes in barge positioning, attendees are advised to adjust

their seating for optimal viewing.

To accommodate the crowds, road closures around Calhoun, Green, Lawrence, Bridge, and Water streets will go into effect starting Wednesday evening and again at 4 p.m. Thursday. Homeowners will have limited access during the event, and police officers will be stationed at key intersections to assist with traffic flow.

Both the Calhoun Street Regional Dock and the Oyster Factory Dock will be closed to pedestrian traffic from 5 to 11 p.m. on July 3rd due to safety concerns. Boaters will still be able to access the docks.

Handicapped parking will be available at Town Hall, with free golf cart transportation for attendees with mobility needs.

Town officials remind residents and visitors that personal fireworks are prohibited within Bluffton limits and will be confiscated. The events will proceed rain or shine, unless canceled for safety reasons.

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The “Summer” score features more than twenty classic hits including “Love to Love You Baby,” “She Works Hard for the Money,” and “Hot Stuff,” to name a few! JUL 14 – 18 | AGES 6-8 9:30AM-12PM | AGES 9-14 12:30-3PM A MUSICAL ABOUT THE QUEEN OF DISCO JUL 14 – 18 | AGES 9-14 9:30AM-12PM | AGES 6-8 12:30-3PM

Enjoy a fun and inspiring environment to explore different art forms: painting, drawing, sculpture, and mixed media. Each day features exciting projects with an art showcase on Friday! MULTI-MEDIA MADNESS

Explore music, dance, and drama while working with professional artists to create scenes and musical numbers! Then get ready to perform a mini showcase performance on Friday!

‘Back of the House’ art exhibit honors kitchen workers with one-day show in Bluffton

A unique summer art exhibition celebrating the often-unseen heroes of the food industry will take place Sunday, July 14th, from 4 to 7 p.m. at the Restaurant Equipment Company of Bluffton, located at 1 Sherington Drive.

Titled The Back of the House, the one-night-only show features artwork by South Carolina artists who spent the past six months documenting life behind the kitchen door — including dishwashers, line cooks, pastry chefs, food truck operators, and others whose work typically goes unnoticed by diners.

The exhibition is free and open to the public. Guests will enjoy live music by South Carolina bluegrass band Flatt Silly, complimentary refreshments, and the chance to view paintings, drawings and photographs portraying commercial kitchen life. Art will be presented in a range of media, including oil, acrylic,

pastels, pen and ink and photography.

The idea to host the exhibit at Restaurant Equipment Company of Bluffton (RECOB) came after an artist approached the business with a proposal to showcase artwork depicting culinary professionals using equipment sold in the store.

“Was it a hard sell? Nope,” Danie Connolly recalled. “Once I explained that the exhibition could introduce a new audience to RECOB by having a talented group of South Carolina artists depicting the everyday life working with the exact equipment RECOB sells... [they] were in.”

RECOB opened in Bluffton 15 months ago when five longtime salespeople from Restaurant Equipment Company of Savannah — William Chavis, Carlton Parker, Lonnie Harley, David Dougle and Jeff Carey — purchased the business from its founder and relocated operations to a larger 14,000-square-foot facility. They were joined by Cynthia Cravey, who has remained a key part of the company’s customer-focused approach.

The event is intended as a tribute to the people who “create the magic” in kitchens and food service operations — from fine dining restaurants to food trucks and school cafeterias.

For more information, contact danie.connolly@ yahoo.com.

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DANIE CONNOLLY

2025 May River Shrimp Festival kicks off with Sunset 5K Run

The Bluffton Sunset Party Series returns this summer with the annual May River Shrimp Festival, set for Thursday, July 24th and Friday, July 25th at Oyster Factory Park. The twoday festival blends seafood, live music, family fun and community spirit, anchoring Bluffton’s summer social scene.

Thursday evening’s highlight is the Sunset 5K Hawaiian Shirt Run at 7:30 p.m. The run/walk begins and ends at the park and winds through historic Old Town Bluffton. Participants are encouraged to sport colorful Hawaiian shirts or shorts, with prizes awarded for the most vibrant attire. All registrants receive a themed Tshirt, lei and postrace refreshments during the celebration. The event invites runners, walkers, families with strollers and leashed pets alike. Registration is now open via Bear Foot Sports Libraries for Kids Int’l is the designated charity partner for the 5K this year. The organization, which works to bring books to children in Africa, is seeking volunteers to assist with race-day logistics.

The following evening, from 5:30 to 9:30 p.m., the May River Shrimp Festival Sunset Party will unfold at Oyster Factory Park. Guests can enjoy local seafood, food trucks, craft beers, boutique wines and live performances by Cristaldi & Stiltner and Vanna & The Rump Shackers. The family- and pet-friendly event permits leashed dogs and low-profile lawn chairs.

Tickets start at $12 during pre-sale, rising to $15 at the door. Children 12 and under enjoy free admission. Group discounts are available, and all beverage tips benefit local charities. Note that event purchases are cash only; food and adult beverages are not covered by admission fees.

The May River Shrimp Festival spotlights Bluffton’s longstanding seafood heritage and community pride. The Sunset Party Series, sponsored by Bear Foot Sports and supported by local businesses including Tanger Outlets and Kia Country of Hilton Head, has raised more than $70,000 for nonprofit partners in past seasons.

Bear Foot Sports event coordinator Keelie Robinson says the festival “brings together the Bluffton community in a vibrant atmosphere,” with boats, bikes and golf carts adding to the festive flair. Whether racing through Old Town’s streets or dancing by the river with shrimp in hand, residents and visitors alike can look forward to two nights of sunsoaked fun, vibrant music and seafood celebration.

For tickets, volunteer information or further details, visit blufftonsunsetparty. com or call 8437578520.

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Hilton Head author debuts thriller ‘Bus No. 7’

Mary J. Nestor, a Hilton Head Island author and communications consultant, has released her debut psychological thriller, Bus No. 7, through Bold Story Press.

Published June 24, the 448-page novel is now available online and through major distributors.

Set in the fictional town of Shepherdsville, the book opens with a drug addict’s plan to rob a pregnant woman and escalates into a high-stakes ride aboard a runaway bus. Characters tangled in addiction, deception, and desperation collide in a suspense-driven plot exploring survival and morality.

Nestor said the idea came unexpectedly. “It started as a short story exercise at a writers conference in Michigan,” she said. “I picked a pregnant woman, a drug addict, a bus stop—and it just took off from there.”

The short story sparked immediate interest. “I stood up to read it at the open mic, and people’s mouths just dropped open,” she recalled. “They asked, ‘What happens next?’ I didn’t know, but I knew I had to find out.”

The novel was a finalist in the Novel-in-Progress category of the 2020

William Faulkner Literary Competition and was picked up for publication in 2023. Nestor worked with Bold Story Press, a boutique publisher known for supporting women authors. “The editing process was intense,” she said. “I had to learn to take criticism—every page came back marked up. But they believed in my story, and that made me push through.”

Nestor’s previous books include Emily’s Best Birthday Party Ever!—a children’s story inspired by her grandchildren—and Say It Now! Say It Right!, a communications guide that draws on her experience as a speaker and HR consultant. She believes her background in communication helped shape the nuanced dialogue in Bus No. 7.

“These characters are flawed,” Nestor said. “But I think that’s what makes them real. We all carry something. That’s the humanity I wanted to bring to the page.”

Early response to the novel has been enthusiastic “Mary Nestor’s debut novel introduces a collection of unsavory and dangerous characters that sweep the reader into a dark landscape of crime and addiction where even the savvy detective has to play catch-up. Bus No. 7 has readers wondering—what awaits when they turn the next page?”—Karen Dove Barr, author of Burnt Pot Island and the forthcoming

Night’s a Shadow, Day’s a Shine

The author now lives full-time on Hilton Head Island, where she is already working on the sequel. “It starts exactly where Bus No. 7 leaves off,” she said. “Some familiar faces return—and some don’t.”

Bus No. 7 is available in paperback and hardcover. ISBNs: 978-1954805859 and 1954805853. To learn more, visit maryjnestor.com or follow @maryjnestor on social media.

Nestor will host a signing at Barnes & Noble in Savannah on Aug. 2, with additional events planned on Hilton Head later this year.

Savannah’s Waterfront to host July 4th celebration with fireworks and live entertainment

Savannah’s Waterfront will host its annual Independence Day Celebration on Friday, July 4th, with a full evening of music, festivities, and fireworks along the historic riverfront. The free public event is expected to draw thousands of residents and visitors to downtown Savannah for the city’s largest patriotic celebration.

The highlight of the night will be a 20-minute fireworks show launched from a barge on the Savannah River in front of the Savannah Convention Center. The display is scheduled to begin around 9:30 p.m. and will be synchronized to a patriotic musical soundtrack broadcast throughout the viewing area. The fireworks can be seen from Rousakis Riverfront Plaza, Plant Riverside District, Eastern Wharf, downtown rooftop bars, and will also stream live on WTOC+ and WTOC.com.

Live entertainment and family activities will begin earlier in the evening at multiple waterfront locations. The Plant

Riverside District will feature its Stars & Stripes Celebration with live music throughout the weekend, along with arts and crafts, a fireworks party at Myrtle & Rose, and a movie night in the park.

Eastern Wharf will host “Yacht Rockin’

the 4th,” featuring a performance by The Fabulous Equinox Orchestra from 6 to 10 p.m., along with food trucks and face painting. On Rousakis Riverfront Plaza, the Third Infantry Division Brass Band & Rock Band from Fort Stewart will perform

from 7:30 to 9:30 p.m.

To ensure a safe and enjoyable experience, organizers have issued several guidelines:

• Chairs and blankets are welcome.

• Alcohol must be purchased from bars or restaurants and served in 16 oz. plastic to-go cups.

• ID is required for all alcohol purchases—no exceptions.

• Prohibited items include glass containers, coolers, personal fireworks, skates, bikes, and disruptive behavior.

• River Street and all access ramps will close to vehicle traffic around 6 p.m. and reopen after crowds disperse.

Parking is available at the Savannah Convention Center, Plant Riverside Garage, and Eastern Wharf Garage. All locations accept credit or debit cards only, and special event rates may apply.

More details are available at savannahswaterfront.com.

Mary J. Nestor

Two left feet? Anyone can learn to dance

Are you one of those people who says “oh I can’t dance – I have two left feet?” You are not the only one thinking that. So many dancers have started out that way –feeling awkward or intimidated. Ballroom dancing is a skill, which means anyone can master it. With the proper instruction, anyone can learn to move with confidence and grace. All you have to do is show up.

So many people think they must be a natural or have years of experience; but in fact, ballroom dancing is designed to be taught step by step at each person’s own pace. Just be sure and bring a positive attitude and a willingness to learn. Your instructor will know how to break down moves and make them approachable and fun. It’s not about perfection, it’s about progress.

The nice thing about ballroom dance is you will start seeing results quickly. In only a few lessons, people notice better posture, more fluid movement and increased body awareness. You will learn

about leading and following, staying with the rhythm of the music and connecting with a partner. Plus, you will leave each lesson with something newly learned. Feeling a sense of accomplishment after each lesson keeps you motivated and keeps you coming back.

Along with teaching footwork, ballroom dance teaches patience and how to be present in the moment. If you are stressed, dance will give you an outlet. If you are looking for a new social circle, the dance floor is full of people probably looking for the same thing. Remember the fabulous dancers you see today were once beginners.

If you are curious about dance, why wait? You probably don’t have “two left feet” and with practice you will find yourself dancing and smiling in no time.

I once read “Come as you are. Leave as a dancer” and I can’t think of anything more true when it comes to ballroom dance!

Sandro Virag is a partner and instructor at Hilton Head Ballroom Dance Studio of Hilton Head, hiltonheadballroom.com

Hilton Head Island offers full day of July 4th festivities

Independence Day on Hilton Head Island will offer a full day of activities ranging from early morning races and parades to evening concerts and two major fireworks displays.

The Firecracker 5K Run & Family Fun Walk kicks off at 8 a.m. at Jarvis Creek Park. This event, now in its 38th year, is the island’s oldest Independence Day road race and includes post-race activities for families. www.hiltonheadfirecracker5000. com

An alternative USA 5K is also scheduled to take place at Coligny Beach with proceeds benefiting the Sea Turtle Patrol. runningintheusa.com/details/11029

Patriotic spirit continues with the Sea Pines Fourth of July parade near Harbour

Town. Participants can register starting at 8:30 a.m. for the 9:30 a.m. event, which welcomes decorated bikes, wagons, and pets. Post-parade games and entertainment will follow. www.seapines.com/experiences/ events

At approximately 1 p.m., residents and visitors are encouraged to look skyward for the annual Salute from the Shore flyover. This tribute features military aircraft, including F-16s, a C-17, and vintage planes passing over Hilton Head’s beaches. salutefromtheshore.org

The island’s largest celebration, HarbourFest at Shelter Cove Harbour & Marina, will feature a free shuttle service to help ease access to its family-friendly entertainment and fireworks display.

Fireworks over Broad Creek will begin after dark, following musical performances by Shannon Tanner at 6:30 and 8 p.m. and family activities including balloon animals, face painting, and interactive games with Cappy the Clown from 6 to 9 p.m. Bounce houses and train rides will be available for an additional fee.

Free parking and continuous shuttle service will be available from 5:30 to 10:30 p.m. at HHI Community Church and Sparklight parking lots near the Fresh Market at 860 William Hilton Parkway.

Visitors to Shelter Cove are reminded to use the pedestrian underpass beneath U.S. 278 if walking or biking from Palmetto Dunes. The underpass is located near the entrance to Palmetto Dunes and connects

directly to the bike path. www.ShelterCoveHarbourFest.com.

In Harbour Town, another fireworks show will light up the sky over Calibogue Sound near the Harbour Town Lighthouse. Live music and food vendors will round out the evening’s festivities there, including a concert under the Liberty Oak with Gregg Russell beginning at 8 p.m. www.seapines.com/experiences/events/ fourth-july-fireworks

Events are free and open to the public unless otherwise noted. Food and drink will be available for purchase, and attendees are asked to leave coolers at home. All events are weather dependent and subject to change.

Charcoal-grilled corn with honeyed goat cheese ( AKA: Dad’s corny side)

Any day is the perfect time to fire up the grill and make something that’s just as bold and unexpected. Enter: Charcoal-grilled corn with honeyed goat cheese. This is not your average backyard corn. With smoky charred kernels, a creamy goat cheese spread kissed with honey and lime zest, and a sprinkle of fresh basil—it’s summer on a cob. Sweet, tangy, savory, and just a little fancy, it’s the side dish that steals the show. Serve it alongside grilled steaks, burgers, or even as the star of a meatless meal. It’s easy to prep, fast to grill, and guaranteed to impress—even if Dad usually claims the grill as his kingdom. One bite, and he’ll gladly hand over the tongs. Just don’t forget the napkins—this one’s meant to get a little messy.

Ingredients

• 1(4-ounce) lo g plain creamy goat cheese, at room temperature

• 3tablespoons unsalted or salted butter, at room temperature

• 1½ to 2 tablespoons honey, depending of the sweetness of your corn

• 2 small limes

• 4 ears of corn, silk and husks removed

• 4 basil leaves, chopped or torn

Instructions

1. Prepare the coals of a charcoal grill. (Alternatively, you can use a gas or electric grill set to the highest temperature.)

2. As the g rill heats, in a small bowl, smash the goat cheese into a paste with the back of a fork. Add the butter, honey and harissa, and whisk until smooth.

3. Using a rasp g rater (such as a Microplane), zest the limes and add to the mixture. Cut the limes into halves or wedges, and pile them on a large serving platter, along with the bowl of goat cheese spread. Set aside.

4. Once most of the coals are covered in ash and the fire has subsided (or once your gas or electric grill is at temperature), add the shucked corn,

completely dry, over the grates, directly above the heat. Cover the grill to trap the heat and smoke while making sure there is still airflow, and cook the corn, turning the cobs over every few minutes so they cook evenly, until the kernels go from a pale to vibrant yellow and char nicely in spots, 8 to 12 minutes.

5. Remove the cobs from the heat while the kernels are still plump and juicy, being sure not to overcook, and arrange them on the serving plat-

ter. While corn is still warm, use a pastry brush to brush liberally with the goat cheese mixture. Squeeze the lime wedges all over the corn to cut through the sweetness and sprinkle over the basil before serving.

Leslie Rohland is the owner of The Cottage Café and Bakery, The Juice Hive and the Bluffton Pasta Shoppe. Leslie was named one of the South Carolina Chef Ambassadors for 2024.

LESLIE ROHLAND

Southern author Brenda Sutton Rose to speak in Bluffton on July 21st

Libraries for Kids, International will welcome acclaimed Southern author and visual artist Brenda Sutton Rose for a special author talk on Monday, July 21st, from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. at the Roasting Room, located at 1297 May River Road in Bluffton. The event is free and open to the public, with a suggested donation of $5.

Rose will speak about her award-winning debut novel, Dogwood Blues, and her newly released novella, A Wiregrass Childhood. The presentation will be followed by an optional Dutch treat lunch with the author at a local restaurant. Space is limited, and reservations are required. Early arrival is recommended. To RSVP or obtain additional information, contact Tamela Maxim at 843-683-4100 or tamela.maxim@libraries4kids.org.

Brenda Sutton Rose is known for her lyrical writing style and evocative storytelling rooted in the culture and geography of the American South. A native of Georgia, Rose draws on her experiences and local history to craft stories that resonate with themes of identity, community, and resilience.

In A Wiregrass Childhood, Rose blends fiction with elements of local history to create a nostalgic and imaginative portrait of rural life in Georgia’s Wiregrass region. While the story is fictional, she enriches the narrative with inspiration from Irwin and Turner County records and the traditions of the Creek people. Rose calls the book “a creation of my imagination,” yet the emotional truths she conveys are drawn from the region’s deeply rooted past.

Her first novel, Dogwood Blues, unfolds in the fictional town of Dogwood, Georgia, near the Alapaha River. It follows New York writer Kevin Kilmer, who returns to his hometown to face unresolved personal conflicts, and Boone Marshall, a blues pianist and farmer whose second marriage causes a stir among the town’s residents. With colorful characters like the outspoken members of the Honeysuckle Bridge

Club, the novel explores the friction between tradition and change in a tightknit community.

Rose’s poetic reflection on her craft reveals her deep connection to the Southern landscape and storytelling tradition:

“I write from the seeding syllables of my gardens, from the crumbling graves of my ancestors, from sorrow sleeping in my grandmother’s tattered Bible... I dig for stories in the soil of the Southern landscape, under longleaf pines, ancient oaks dripping with Spanish moss.”

The July event marks the beginning of a yearlong author series hosted by Libraries for Kids, International. The Bluffton-based nonprofit supports schools in rural Kenya, Tanzania, and Uganda by supplying reference and leisure reading books to areas with little to no electricity or internet access.

Future speakers include Mark O’Neill on August 18, Pat Branning on September 15, Scott Gould on October 20, Lynn and Cele Seldon on November 17, and Annelore Harrell on December 15. Author talks are scheduled monthly through June 2026.

For more information on the author series or the organization’s mission, visit www.libraries4kids.org.

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Unlock your family history with the help of our volunteer genealogists! Whether you’re just getting started or facing a research roadblock, we’re here to guide you. Call 843.686.6560 to schedule your appointment today!

LEARN ABOUT LOCAL HISTORY

We preserve and share the rich history of Hilton Head Island, stewarding two historic sites listed on the National Register of Historic Places. Throughout the year, we offer engaging classes, tours, and events, with sessions available in the spring and fall. For full details and registration, visit HeritageLib.org.

EDUCATE & CELEBRATE –

250TH ANNIVERSARY OF THE AMERICAN REVOLUTION

Join us as we celebrate 250 years of American independence and honor the fight for freedom! Discover Hilton Head Island’s vital role in shaping our nation’s history at HeritageLib.org – your local resource for all things related to the American Revolution

The Heritage Library is the heart of Hilton Head Island’s history and genealogy. Visit us soon!

The great American Martin

Every year, up to 800,000 martins migrate to their breeding grounds in North America from Brazil. They fan out across the entire United States and into Canada in search of birdhouses on farms, fields, lakes and rivers. Meanwhile, “martin landlords,” welcome their arrival with clean, spacious homes to raise their new broods.

In South Carolina, Purple Martins arrive in February and stay through August. Males are recognized by their glossy, midnight blue feathers, while the female is duller with lighter underwings. Early arriving birds are sometimes called “scouts,” but these are actually older birds getting a head start on last year’s housing. On Hilton Head, the Sea Pines community garden has erected eight martin “condos,” complete with wraparound

porches. Provided homes remain clean and safe from predators, martins return every year to the same nesting site.

Purple Martins are called “aerial insectivores.” They forage on flying insects “in mid-air, on the wing. Contrary to popular myth, mosquitoes account for only two percent of the martin diet, not 2,000 a day. The oft-claimed quote stems from an ad campaign for martin houses that stated, “Purple Martins CAN eat 2,000 mosquitoes a day.” Perhaps they can, but they don’t. Martins forage high in the air on large dragonflies, bees, beetles and wasps. Mosquitoes hang close to the ground so their flight paths seldom intersect.

Purple Martins have cohabitated with humans ever since Cherokee tribes enticed them to their villages with hollowed gourds. American settlers followed suit, tempting the sociable birds with impressive gourd racks and apartment-style homes. It was a win-win deal — safe housing in exchange for pest control. In 1831, John James Audubon wrote in his travels across America, “Almost every country tavern has a martin box…the more handsome the box, the better does the inn generally prove to be.”

Though impossible to determine, educated

estimates suggest the Purple Martin population numbered 70 million in the mid-1800s. Audubon described “prodigious numbers”

of martins around the country and wrote about a flock in New Orleans that was “a mile and a half in length, by a quarter of a mile in breadth.” But martins lost out in the nineteenth century when vast forests were cleared in the eastern U.S.

About the same time, invasive starlings and house sparrows from Europe were released into America, and they hijacked the tree cavities where martins once nested. Today, Purple Martins east of the Rockies are almost totally dependent on people to provide nesting sites. They are on the Watch List; their numbers have declined 25 percent since 1966, primarily due to habitat loss and overuse of pesticides.

The current worldwide population of Purple Martins is 9.3 million. An estimated 900,00 landlords volunteer in the U.S. and Canada, but 95 percent are fifty years and older. Groups like the Purple Martin Conservation Association and the National Wildlife Federation work to promote and provide opportunities for younger generations to become landlords, citizen scientists, and volunteers to reverse the martin’s decline.

As you read this article, Purple Martins

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are preparing to fly back to South America for the winter. But first they gather in enormous colonies called “roosts,” where hundreds of thousands of birds meet to rest, refuel and socialize before leaving on their 3,000 mile journey back to Brazil.

The largest Purple Martin roost in the country is three hours away in Columbia, South Carolina. Since the 1980s, up to a million martins have gathered on Lake Murray’s Bomb Island, a former military training site in WWII. In July and August, skies appear as living clouds of darkened birds swirling, twirling, dipping and diving over the island. More an avian force than a flock of birds, boaters gather round all summer, mesmerized by the natural phenomenon. The roost is Lake Murray’s must-go summertime show; tours and boat rentals can be made online for a reasonable fee.

Learn more about attracting Purple Martins at www.purplemartin.org or National Wildlife Federation www.nwf.org

Rosemary Staples is a member of Hilton Head Audubon, long time Lowcountry resident, writer, speaker, storyteller and Master Naturalist.

Italian American Club of Hilton Head awards scholarships

The Italian American Club of Hilton Head awarded $2,000 scholarships to nine area high school students during a ceremony held May 1st, 2025, recognizing academic achievement and community involvement.

This year’s scholarship recipients are Connor Wiendl, Jack Boatwright, Bryce Broome, Brody Doyle, Ronnie Harvey, Isabella Perez, Olivia Perry, Connor Sheeran, and Angela Torres. All recipients are high school seniors from Hilton Head, Bluffton, and Hardeeville who reside south of the Broad River.

According to the club, the scholarships are awarded annually based on academic performance, extracurricular activities, and other criteria detailed in the club’s scholarship application. The awards are provided for one year to assist students in pursuing post-secondary education.

The scholarship program is part of the Italian American Club of Hilton Head’s broader commitment to supporting education and community service. More information, including application details, is available at www.iachh.org.

JULY 4TH FIREWORKS

Summer reading

I consider myself incredibly lucky in so many ways but one of the simplest, yet most long lasting, is my love of reading.

I don’t remember when it began but one of my earliest memories was the collection of newspapers my dad would bring into the house each day. We lived in a second floor walk up in the Bronx, NY and on the corner, next to the entry to the Subway, was a green newsstand. My dad would pick up The New York Daily News and The New York Times on the way to work and on the way back from his job as a bus dispatcher, The New York Post as it was, at that time, an afternoon publication only.

On the weekends, as soon as I was old enough, he’d send me out to pick up the Sunday editions of the News, Times, the Journal-American and the Herald-Tribune since there was plenty of time to read them all. I started reading the various comic sections before I even went to school, then the sports sections for the results and stats of my beloved Yankees, and Football Giants as I got older. When I was first married, it became tradition to go out on Saturday night and pick up the early edition of the Sunday

New York Times so that we could be among the first to find the upcoming concerts which were announced in the Arts and Leisure section and make plans to get on line for tickets (no internet or phone orders, and even the brand new Ticketmaster required you to show up and line up.)

All of this is to set the stage for how I became enamored of reading. My dad, as mentioned, was a NYC Bus dispatcher. My mom, who didn’t go back to work as a secretary, until I was 11 and my sister had started school. My younger sister and I never wanted for anything but our folks always lived paycheck to paycheck and never owned a home of their own until after they both retired and purchased a small condo in VT (that they never moved into but that’s a story for another piece).

They had to be careful with how their paychecks were spent, but one of the things they never hesitated to allow me to buy were books. We were lucky enough to have a branch of the NYC Library right around the corner, but when I would get frustrated that what I wanted was either not there or checked out, I would go to the local book shop. The Hardy Boys and Tom Swift series gave way in pre-teen years to the entire James Bond series.

When I started high school at Cardinal Spellman, one of the first things that arrived in the mail as an entering freshman, was the summer reading list. It was required that you read 15 books over the summer, 5 were mandatory, the rest were from a very long list of suggestions. While that may seem like a lot, they had the list structured in a way that there were some not so large, think Red Badge of Courage

as an example, gradually, as you went down the list to Frankenstein, or Dracula as examples of longer works. There were biographies, historical works, poetry, classics (Dickens and Shakesphere were always included). It was set up in a way to make a seemingly impossible task doable for everyone.

Some of my favorite reads to this very day came from that experience, and the discussions of Mary Shelley’s epic work Frankenstein still resonate, the idea of it only couching the actual intent behind the use of a “monster,” and why she actually wrote it, how difficult it was for her to actually get it published with her name on it (we were given historical perspective during the discussion as well.)

That brings me back to the newspaper as the generator of my love for reading. When my daughter was born in October of 1980, we were living in Lenox, MA and one of the things I always did very early on Sunday morning was to go out and grab The New York Daily News and The New York Times before the limited quantity sold out. I would then come home and sip my morning coffee while having my daughter rocking in her little seat on the table while I read the papers and gave her the colorful comics to play with to keep her occupied.

I noticed that at about 3 months old she was turning the comics “right side up” and seemed to be noticing not just the pictures but the words, that continued along with a nightly story being read to her before bed, until around age 4 she would ask to read the story to us. So, I guess there is something to what that hard copy of the newspaper meant to both of us from

the beginning.

While I am well aware that reading has morphed from holding the paper or the book for many and, in fact, print editions are becoming less and less available and for many desirable, there is a magic that still takes place when you are sitting around a pool, or at the beach, or in a plane or just in your living room and turn page by page to find out what the outcome is.

One of the joys of this part of the Lowcountry is knowing that Pat Conroy took most, if not all, of the inspiration for his works from this area, and having read many before, I found far more in those works once we moved here and I was able to relate to locations, themes, and to the point of being able absorb the feelings of the weather that I couldn’t do when I first read them.

To read is to explore without leaving your chair. A good friend posted this saying a while back, I think it explains why I find such pleasure in holding a book as I read, why I hope those of you who are reading this are holding the print edition and turning the pages. I also think it’s a great coda:

“The thing about reading is that, in that very moment, while your nose is stuck in that book, all your troubles fade and you and your book are the only two things in the world.”

Kevin Fitzpatrick is a retired teacher who, along with his wife Sue (also a retired teacher) is enjoying exploring life in the lowcountry and all it has to offer.

KEVIN FITZPATRICK

The little things: everyday joys that quietly change everything

People often associate life-changing events with major milestones: a new job, the end of a relationship, a sudden loss. And while those moments undeniably shape us, sometimes the real transformation lies in the little things— the overlooked tools, the everyday comforts, the tiny sparks of joy that smooth out life’s edges. Take, for instance, a simple tool found at craft stores—an ice pick-style gadget, usually priced around $1.99. Resembling the hook a dental assistant might use; it’s a humble item that quietly earns its place in the “small but mighty” category. It’s not the kind of thing that ends up on a list

of world-changing inventions, but anyone who’s ever struggled to open shrinkwrapped packaging knows the magic it holds. Whether it’s tearing into sealed eye drops, cosmetics, or that stubborn safety wrap on a bottle of cream, this little hook can save minutes, frustration, and the occasional broken nail. That alone?

Life-changing.

And that’s just one example. Life is full of these small mercies. A crisp, cool pillowcase freshly laundered, untouched and waiting at the end of a long day. The satisfying “click” of a car’s air conditioner cranked to high on a 100-degree afternoon in the Lowcountry. The first plunge into a swimming pool after a stressful day—when tension dissolves and muscles sigh in relief.

Then there are the small pleasures that quietly enrich the senses, like finding a hole-in-the-wall Vietnamese restaurant that serves the most perfectly balanced chicken wonton soup. The first spoonful is a reminder that joy doesn’t always come in grand gestures. Sometimes it’s broth, a

Are you a singer looking for a fun summer activity?

If so, the Shore Notes A Cappella Chorus is hosting a ‘Summer Camp’ on four Mondays: July 28, August 4, August 11 and August 18 from 6:00 to 8:00 pm, and ending with a performance on August 25 at 7:30 pm!

dumpling and a quiet moment to savor. Even so-called “useless” gadgets—like one meant to crack a hard-boiled egg— have their champions. While some stick

to the classic finger-peel method, others revel in the novelty. It’s not about necessity. It’s about delight.

These are not the things that make headlines or prompt dramatic social media posts. But they matter. They lighten our days. They restore our mood. And they quietly, consistently, make life better.

In the end, it’s the little things that give the big things their meaning. They anchor us, surprise us, and most importantly, remind us how sweet life can be—even in the smallest moments.

Wendy Kushel is the owner of Wendala’s LowCountry Sugar Scrub, LLC based in Bluffton, SC. Drawn to the Beauty & Personal Care Industry Wendy founded her company in 2020. Her background includes stand-up comedy, film, TV and a lot of sales and marketing. For more information about Wendala’s® LowCountry Sugar Scrub visit www.lowcountrysugarscrub. com or call/text 843-949-8933.

WENDY KUSHEL

Most of us have encountered a snake at one time or another, often while doing yard work. In the Lowcountry, this is to be expected. People generally have a strong aversion to snakes and the comment

“The only good snake is a dead one” is one heard many times. Never try to kill a snake, that is often how snake bites occur.

To learn more about snakes in our area, I spent an hour with an expert, asking questions and listening to recommendations. Wayne Harris, the Refuge Wildlife Biologist at Savannah National Wildlife Refuge (SNWR) and his two Herpetology students from Clemson were happy to share their knowledge.

I inquired about the venomous snakes common to the southeast and specifically the Bluffton area. I learned that of the thirty-eight species of snakes in South Carolina, only five are venomous; the copperhead, the cotton-mouth (also known as a water moccasin), the eastern diamondback rattlesnake, the timber (or canebrake) rattlesnake and the coral snake. It is rare to encounter a coral snake here but the other four are commonly seen. Experts recommend learning how to identify these venomous snakes and teach your children.

Copperheads are light brown with hourglass-shaped bands and a copper-colored head. Cottonmouths, or water moccasins, are darker with thick bodies and show a white mouth when threatened. Eastern diamondback rattlesnakes display dark diamond patterns along their back and have a prominent rattle. Timber rattlesnakes, also called canebrakes, have dark V-shaped crossbands on a gray or brown body and may show a rusty stripe. Eastern coral snakes are slender with red, yellow, and black bands—remember: “Red touch yellow, kill a fellow.”

I asked what we can do, if anything, to reduce our chances of encountering

Lowcountry snakes

a venomous snake in the Lowcountry. He first emphasized how important it is to NOT kill harmless (non-venomous) snakes. They are beneficial to humans because they eat other snakes, including venomous ones. A king snake or rat snake hanging out under a raised deck or in a hole or tree stump is a good thing. The homeowner will likely never encounter a venomous snake.

The wildlife biologist recommends minimizing mulch, straw and leaves near doorways and not spending money on commercial snake deterrents because there is truly no such thing. They are not effective.

When gardening or doing landscaping, use a rake or shovel to move pine straw or mulch aside. When hiking, stay on the trail and pay attention to where you step, avoiding old logs and downed branches as snakes often hide there. Snake boots are highly recommended for hunters and field workers.

The most common harmless snakes seen in the Lowcountry are the black snake, rat snake, corn snake, king snake, black racer and green snake. They are not interested in humans and will move away quickly if you approach.

Many people want to know what to do if bitten by a snake. If possible, try to identify the snake or be able to describe it. Forget about sucking blood from the bite site and applying a tight tourniquet, immediately call 911 and move towards your car or road to be transported to the nearest hospital emergency room. Wrap the bite area securely (not tightly) to keep it clean during transit. If someone is with you, allow them to either carry you or help you take weight/pressure off the affect ed extremity.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, only about 5 people die annually from bites by venomous snakes in the entire United States, surprisingly low for the level of fear that exists about snakes.

Knowledge is empowering and reduces that fear. The Savannah National Wildlife Refuge is a rich resource for learning about snakes and their experts are happy to answer questions. The visitor center offers educational programs and is an easy drive from Bluffton.

A former Bluffton resident, Glenda finds stories everywhere and writes about nature, travel, healthy living and books.

GLENDA HARRIS
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Coral Snake

Travel smarter this summer: tips for capturing and preserving your

Summer is in full swing: school’s out, the days are long, and families everywhere are on the move. Whether your plans include a big vacation, a family reunion, a once-in-a-lifetime adventure, or simple day trips close to home, capturing those moments matters. In the next few paragraphs, you’ll find practical tips to help you enjoy your experiences and return with meaningful, well-organized photo memories. When traveling, it’s easy to get caught up in documenting every moment, but the most memorable experiences often come when you’re fully present. Aim to

strike a healthy balance between living in the moment and capturing it. One simple strategy is to designate a specific “photo moment” each day: take a few intentional shots, then put your phone or camera away and immerse yourself in the experience. Later, jot down a few quick notes or reflections about the day alongside your photos. Use the photo caption feature of your photo app. These small journal entries can help tell a richer, more personal story when you revisit your memories.

You don’t need a fancy camera to take great travel photos, just a few simple techniques can make a big difference. Pay attention to natural lighting, frame your subjects thoughtfully, and try using the “rule of thirds” by placing points of interest slightly off-center for a more dynamic shot. Don’t focus only on posed pictures; candid moments often tell the best stories. Capture the small details like a shared meal, a bustling market, or a quiet sunrise, things that make your trip unique. And to protect those memories,

make it a habit to back up your photos daily while you travel, either to the cloud or an external device.

Organizing your photos while you travel can save you hours of frustration when you return home. Create folders or albums on your phone by trip, event, or outing to keep everything sorted as you go, and place only your favorite shots in those albums to avoid digital clutter. Many photo apps also allow you to add keywords or notes, making it easier to search for specific memories later. If your summer plans include printed photos—like bringing along old family snapshots for a reunion—consider using a tool like DIG YOUR PHOTOS!™, a DIY kit that helps you organize printed photos before or during your trip. A little effort along the way can turn photo chaos into a meaningful, easy-to-navigate collection. Don’t let your photos disappear into a digital abyss after your trip ends. Make your photos matter. Print your favorite images or create a photo book that

captures the highlights and hidden gems of your journey or your summer. You can also host a slideshow night or share stories with family and friends to relive the experience together. Your summer travels are more than just snapshots, they’re part of your story. With a few thoughtful habits, you can both enjoy the moment and preserve it for years to come.

Rhoda Gordon, a local Certified Photo Manager, is the owner of Sunflower Photo Solutions and the creator of DIG YOUR PHOTOS!™, a DIY photo organizing kit. For nearly a decade, she has been helping families and businesses sort, organize, digitize, and back up their print and digital photo collections. Discover more tips, tricks, and how-tos on her YouTube channel: youtube.com/@digyourphotos, and visit sunflowerphotosolutions.com or digyourphotos.com for expert guidance and support with your media collection and organizing projects.

Bluffton Sun and Hilton Head Sun invite

to like and follow our socials, as we will be more active on our social media channels moving forward to keep an open dialogue with our community members. We will also be posting events, calls to action, and opportunities to get involved in the newspaper. Don’t miss the chance to get involved and/or get published! We look forward to your feedback, ideas, and ongoing communication.

RHODA GORDON

July Fourth can trigger PTSD

For many Americans, July 4th is a day of celebration—filled with fireworks, family, and festivites. But for combat veterans and others living with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), the explosive sounds can trigger intense emotional and physical reactions. The sudden booms and flashes may evoke memories of combat or traumatic events, leading to anxiety, flashbacks, or panic attacks. With some thoughtful planning and community awareness, it’s possible to make Independence Day more inclusive and manageable for those affected.

1. Prepare in advance

Veterans should be encouraged to create a personal coping plan. This might include using noise-canceling headphones, creating a calming environment in a windowless room, or taking a trip to a quieter area during peak fireworks hours. Practicing grounding techniques—such as deep breathing or engaging in mindful distractions—can provide a buffer against distressing stimuli.

2. Open communication

Veterans living with PTSD can benefit from letting neighbors and friends know about their condition in advance. A simple conversation or neighborhood note can go a long way in fostering understanding and potentially minimizing nearby fireworks activity. For those in supportive relationships, discussing the day’s and agreeing on a plan for comfort and safety can be empowering.

3. Utilize support resources

Mental health organizations, including the VA and local veterans’ centers, often offer toolkits or hotlines around triggering holidays. Veterans should know that they are not alone. In addition to professional support, online communities or peer support groups can offer encouragement from others who’ve navigated similar challenges.

4. Encourage firework-free zones

Communities can play a crucial role by establishing designated firework-free areas or setting limits on when and where fireworks can be set off. Public awareness campaigns that highlight how fireworks affect PTSD sufferers can lead to more considerate celebration practices over time.

5. Practice compassionate celebration

The joy of Independence Day doesn’t have to come at the expense of others’ well-being. Families can opt for alternatives—like sparklers or light shows—to keep the spirit of celebration while reducing harm. Small gestures of empathy and understanding can have a lasting impact.

Ultimately, July 4th is about honoring freedom—including the freedom for all to feel safe in their own neighborhoods. With compassion, communication, and preparation, we can make that promise a reality for veterans and others with PTSD.

Alex Barry, MA, LPC-A. is the acting Executive Director of Mental Health America of the Lowcountry, providing daily adult group mental health counseling programs in Bluffton and Beaufort for clients with schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, depression, anxiety, PTSD and more.

ALEX BARRY

INVESTING IN JOURNEYS

organizations, and businesses, CFL currently administers over 60 scholarship funds, all with unique criteria and histories. In 2025, 175 students were awarded $1.2+ million in scholarships, and over 1,200 students have received $13+ million in scholarships since CFL’s inception!

INVESTING IN JOURNEYS

Community Foundation of the Lowcountry’s (CFL) commitment to providing post-secondary opportunities for promising students in our four-county service region has been a cornerstone of our mission since we were established in 1994. Thanks to the generosity of individual donors, organizations, and businesses, CFL currently administers over 60 scholarship funds, all with unique criteria and histories. In 2025, 175 students were awarded $1.2+ million in scholarships, and over 1,200 students have received $13+ million in scholarships since CFL’s inception!

INVESTING IN JOURNEYS

Community Foundation of the Lowcountry’s (CFL) commitment to providing post-secondary opportunities for promising students in our four-county service region has been a cornerstone of our mission since we were established in 1994. Thanks to the generosity of individual donors, organizations, and businesses, CFL currently administers over 60 scholarship funds, all with unique criteria and histories. In 2025, 175 students were awarded $1.2+ million in scholarships, and over 1,200 students have received $13+ million in scholarships since CFL’s inception!

Community Foundation of the Lowcountry’s (CFL) commitment to providing post-secondary opportunities for promising students in our four-county service region has been a cornerstone of our mission since we were established in 1994. Thanks to the generosity of individual donors, organizations, and businesses, CFL currently administers over 60 scholarship funds, all with unique criteria and histories. In 2025, 175 students were awarded $1.2+ million in scholarships, and over 1,200 students have received $13+ million in scholarships since CFL’s inception!

Community Foundation of the Lowcountry’s (CFL) commitment to providing post-secondary opportunities for promising students in our four-county service region has been a cornerstone of our mission since we were established in 1994. Thanks to the generosity of individual donors, organizations, and businesses, CFL currently administers over 60 scholarship funds, all with unique criteria and histories. In 2025, 175 students were awarded $1.2+ million in scholarships, and over 1,200 students have received $13+ million in scholarships since CFL’s inception!

Congratulations to all 2025 scholarship recipients and best of luck in the future!

Congratulations to all 2025 scholarship recipients and best of luck in the future!

Two shark bites reported on Hilton Head in one week

Local officials confirmed two shark bite incident in June, both resulting in non-life-threatening injuries and prompting renewed focus on beach safety.

marine stability—and shark movement—near beaches.

Beach safety experts from American Lifeguard Association and local authorities recommend:

• Swim near lifeguard stands and avoid isolated areas

• Don’t swim alone, especially in murky water or low light

Congratulations to all 2025 scholarship recipients and best of luck in the future!

Congratulations to all 2025 scholarship recipients and best of luck in the future!

To support CFL scholarships in the four-county region, please scan the QR code.

To support CFL scholarships in the four-county region, please scan the QR code.

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The first incident occurred June 17th at Sea Pines Resort, where a 12 year old girl suffered a shark-inflicted laceration to her lower right leg. She was treated by Shore Beach Services personnel and Hilton Head Island Fire Rescue before being airlifted to a Savannah hospital. Authorities later described her condition as stable, noting the injury was not life-threatening.

• Avoid dawn and dusk hours, when sharks are most active

• Steer clear of areas with splashing fish, which may attract predators

• Avoid shiny jewelry and erratic movements that could mimic prey

Experts also suggest that signs of baitfish—such as diving birds—may signal increased shark presence; beachgoers should leave the water promptly if observed.

Just five days later, on June 22nd, a teenage girl was bitten at Coligny Beach Park. The injury—also to the leg— was non life-threatening. She received on scene care before being taken to a local hospital.

Lifeguards from Shore Beach Services are trained to watch for marine predators and will clear beaches when sharks are near. If you spot a shark exit the water calmly and quickly.

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four-county region, please scan the QR code.

4 Northridge Drive , Hilton Head Island, SC 843-681-9100 | cf-lowcountry.org

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In response, Hilton Head Island Fire and Rescue spokespersons emphasized that both beaches were immediately cleared and relevant stretches of water were closed for a time. Officials stressed the dynamic nature of ocean conditions and confirmed that Shore Beach Services is maintaining vigilant marine life monitoring throughout the busy summer season.

Shark bites in South Carolina remain rare. State Department of Natural Resources statistics indicate just about four such incidents occur annually.

If bitten, apply pressure to control bleeding and seek immediate medical help.

Hilton Head attracts nearly 2.8 million visitors annually. Despite the rare bite incidents, tourism figures have not declined this season. Officials emphasize that increased shark presence is a sign of a robust marine ecosystem—not an invitation to panic.

Bottom line: Shark encounters remain highly uncommon. Still, vigilance—especially during peak feeding times—adds an important layer of safety. Swim near lifeguards, avoid risky conditions and respect the ocean’s unpredictability. By following guidelines, beachgoers can enjoy Hilton Head’s waters while minimizing risk.

Still, recent activity corresponds with a national trend: early summer sees heightened shark presence near shorelines, often as sharks follow baitfish into shallower waters. Conservation success has rebounded fish stocks, increasing

Since I usually write my column a week or two before being published, this time around seemed like the perfect time to sit down and knock out one of my rambling, hodge-podge of words complete with atrocious grammar. Hopefully it is sunny outside as you read this because as much as we needed the rain, we sure as heck have put a dent in the that dry spell in this last week and a half.

Take last night for example. If you are anywhere around Hilton Head, Bluffton or Beaufort the storms that rolled through here last night were absolute frog chokers. The first storm cell barely moved as it settled over my hacienda and the raindrops were the size of lima beans. The part that really amazed me about this deluge was the lack of any wind at all. The limas were falling straight down with hardly a space between each bean. According to my rain gauge I got nearly three inches in less than 30 minutes. That is dumping!

Then, an hour or so later, the second storm cell approached. It too put a dent in the frog population but it was the light show that dazzled me. Most folks hide under the beds during lightning storms like that, but for whatever reason I can’t help but grab an umbrella and step outside to watch.

I guess most small children are comforted by their parents during severe thunder storms, with some explanation as to what is making all that racket. Mine was “it’s just angels moving furniture” or “the angels are bowling.” If that is indeed the case, then every single angel was up there moving grand pianos or some equally big

The eyes have it Nature’s Way

piece of furniture last night and not one of them could decide where best to place the piece. “Honey, move it a bit to the left, no a bit more. Maybe it would look better over by the window.” You get my drift, right? If my children were still toddlers, I would have explained that storm as angels having one of those old school dance contests like they had in the 1940’s where the last couple standing wins. There was nary a pause between flashes for more than an hour. As the storm finally started moving out toward the ocean, I walked down to the May River and watched. The lightning was horizontal, not vertical, and some bolts split off into dozens of fingers that etched across the entire horizon. What a

show!

With all this wild weather flying around, fishing has been out the question for the past week. Thinking ahead about this column’s theme (something I rarely do) I began scratching my head about the time the first rain hit, knowing that the rest of the week was to be more of the same. I seriously hadn’t planned on eating up space talking about thunder storms and lightning, but those thunder boomers last night were just way too spectacular not to mention.

Many of my columns come from inspiration that hit me in the oddest places or at the most unexpected times. Having pretty much blown what I had intended

to write about, hopefully I have enough space left to tease you a bit. Since I have spent most of my life in the world of art and design it should come as no surprise that I am avid watcher. Even when driving, if I catch a glimpse of some bird way up riding the thermals I have to look. Is it an eagle, an osprey or maybe a swallow-tailed kite? It’s just my nature. The same goes if I am on the water or walking my beagle. I cannot tell you how many once-in-a-lifetime events in nature this trait has afforded me. If I had a video camera implanted in my skull I would rich right now by selling the film to National Geographic.

It was during a lull in the weather while walking my beagle Butterbean that I caught a glimpse of some red bricks partially covered in dirt. Exciting huh? Actually - it was, because as got closer I saw that the bricks were settled at the base of a tree and the roots had conformed perfectly to the 90º edges of the bricks. To top that off, some sort of bird (I suspect a hummingbird by the size of the nest) had built its nest on this natural sculpture completing this one in a million piece of art. It was as if I had discovered a masterpiece hidden under another artist’s sub-standard painting.

Between frog choker rain storms, sheet lightning and my newly acquired piece of art, I would say nature is on a roll. Taking a line out of my favorite Pink Floyd song to praise all that nature gives me, “all in all it’s just another brick in the wall.” And folks, what a wall it is.

Collins Doughtie is a 60-year resident of the Lowcountry, is a sportsman, graphic artist, and lover of nature. collinsdoughtie@icloud.com

Board formally challenges County project

In one of their strongest challenges yet to the policies behind the construction of a sidewalk through the Alljoy neighborhood, members of the Beaufort County Stormwater Management Utility Board unanimously passed a resolution opposing the use of concrete for the project. The board instead advocated for pervious materials to help protect the May River and other environmentally sensitive resources, as well as to reduce residential flooding and associated health hazards.

The full text of the motion reads:

“The Beaufort County Storm Water Utility Management Board has unanimously voted to disagree with the County Engineering Department’s decision to approve a walking and bike path along Alljoy Road constructed with an impervious material. This decision to approve the South Carolina Department of Transportation’s plan is inconsistent with current Best Management Practices (BMPs) for stormwater runoff control and containment. The area is prone to flooding, which could potentially introduce pollutants into the nearby May River’s fragile ecosystem. We urge the County Council to reconsider this decision and explore the feasibility of using permeable materials instead of concrete.”

Proposal of the motion by Chairman Marc Feinberg and its subsequent unanimous passage by the board was the culmination of a discussion initiated under new business by Board Member At Large Dennis Ross, who reviewed the history of the sidewalk debate and expressed frustration over the way Alljoy residents have been treated by the county. He said county officials came in to the process “raising their cape behind them” and decided to go forward in spite of neighborhood protest over the project.

“Alljoy residents presented a petition with over a thousand signatures and that went nowhere,” Ross said.

“They decided they needed to march forward with this in spite of opposition from the Alljoy people who have been dealing with flooding and stormwater

problems since God knows when.” Ross asked Public Works Director Brad Harriott to find out from the engineering department if there is a possibility of using pervious materials for the sidewalk.

“Isn’t there any way we can have a nature trail with a natural environment so we don’t make the existing problems worse?” asked Ross. Commenting on the SCDOT plan to use concrete, Ross said “It just makes no sense to me at all.”

Beaufort County Councilwoman and stormwater liaison Paula Brown intended to introduce the motion at the June 23rd council meeting but was told it must first be brought before the Public Facilities Committee. She and Councilman Tom Reitz, who were both in attendance at the stormwater board meeting, agreed to work together to advance the motion.

With this formal declaration, the board continues its effort to demand answers and accountability from the people advocates have described as “hell bent” on following through with the sidewalk project. Alljoy residents and supporters say is part of a trend that prioritizes development and tourism over the rights of locals. It was their passionate testimony at the board meeting that started the conversation that ultimately unfolded.

For their part, Beaufort County engineering has emphasized that the SCDOT is within its right of way to conduct the project, and they have stated they intend to follow the SCDOT standard and use concrete in the project, for which bids have already been submitted. The SCDOT cites considerations such as cost and safety for its use of concrete. Several people have said responsibility for maintenance is also an issue that has resulted in the current situation.

Meanwhile, the next chapter for the motion passed by the stormwater board will be written at the upcoming Public Facilities Committee meeting. According to the Beaufort County website, they are scheduled to meet later this month.

Channing Heiss is a freelance writer and a member of the Beaufort County disAbilities Coalition.

Sand Shark 20/20 Project Public Meeting

The USCB Sand Sharks might be hosting their biggest home game yet June 26th, but it won’t be in The Cove. In fact, if all goes well, it will lead the Sand Sharks to a much bigger tank.

USCB planned a public meeting on Thursday, June 26th, to present the Sand Shark 20/20 Project — a “bold new vision” that would make up for almost two decades of dead ends on the quest for the type of multi-pronged partnership required to deliver the funding required to compete in today’s college athletics arms race.

More details will come at the public rollout, but the project promises to deliver “a multi-purpose arena and sports complex … that will support athletics, education, entertainment, and community events for years to come.”

This would be the culmination of nearly two decades of work by far more people than will be present at the groundbreaking — and in full disclosure, I’ve been one of them.

I was assigned to cover USCB’s athlet-

ics teams from the program’s inception and sat with the school’s first athletics director, Kim Abbott, and baseball coach Rick Sofield in the dilapidated trailer that served as the athletics office in 2008 as they discussed the plans for an on-campus baseball field.

When Sofield left three years later for a job with the Pittsburgh Pirates, assistant Bryan Lewallyn took over and led the Sand Sharks to the NAIA World Series, re-routing the road to Lewiston, Idaho, through their makeshift home at Hardeeville’s Richard Gray Sports Complex in the process. Meanwhile, former athletics director Ty Rietkovich quickly built a winner on the softball field, and the success continued under Laura Heberling, as USCB grew into a formidable NAIA power.

Despite both programs’ immediate and sustained success, every effort to bring the teams on campus hit one snag or another, and Lewallyn left for Pensacola State (where he’s now the AD) while Heberling kept climbing and is now the pitching coach at Kansas. Both programs have since seen their prestige diminished as they languish in a subpar facility, but it has been masked

by the hype generated by the launch of basketball and Ron Fudala’s men’s team’s incredible run to the Peach Belt Conference championship game in its second year.

USCB managed to get the basketball programs off the ground in a makeshift facility that was designed to be a student recreation center — and funded because of the importance of such a facility to campus life. The Cove is amazing. But every year the basketball programs have to call it home delays the start of more indoor sports (potentially volleyball or wrestling) and moves us one step closer to seeing more transformative coaches leave for greener grass while the programs they wilt behind them.

This facility would bring thousands of prospective students on campus every year, not only for sports camps, clinics, and tournaments, but also for concerts, conventions, and — perhaps most important — high school graduations.

I’ve spent more time than I’d care to admit considering the possibilities, and I’m not the only one. As current athletics director Quin Monahan often said during my tenure as USCB’s director of sports information and athletics marketing from

2011-17, we kissed a lot of frogs.

Now, finally, it seems the Sand Sharks have found their prince — or rather, they’ve assembled one, because getting this thing over the finish line will require a whole lot of hands.

I’m not privy to the details and eagerly await the opportunity to gain a better understanding of how this project has finally come to this point, but I can tell you this much: It should include financial support from both Beaufort and Jasper counties, as well as the state, and every municipality it will serve, because it has a chance to transform the Lowcountry and launch USCB in one fell swoop.

Note: This edition went to press on the same day the meeting was scheduled, and any developments will be reported in a future issue.

Justin Jarrett is the sports editor of The Island News and is the founder of Lowco Sports. He has a passion for sports and community journalism and a questionable sense of humor.

Pre-Hab over rehab: why injury prevention needs to be your workout after 40

You’ve probably heard the old saying, “An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.” When it comes to fitness over 40, that should be printed above the entrance to every gym.

Here’s the truth: pre-hab isn’t just for athletes or people recovering from injury - it’s one of the smartest, most effective ways to stay in the game long term. It’s how you train to keep training.

Pre-hab - short for prehabilitation - is all about staying ahead of injuries before they happen. It combines mobility, stability, flexibility, and corrective strength movements specifically designed to address your body’s weak links.

Instead of waiting until your shoulder’s

screaming or your back locks up, pre-hab focuses on things like tight hips, poor posture, weak core muscles, or unstable joints now, so they don’t become big problems later.

Once you hit 40, your body doesn’t bounce back like it used to. Years of sitting, old sports injuries, and just living life can leave you with imbalances or limited range of motion. And if you’re just getting back into fitness after some time off, chances are you’re starting with more wear and tear than you realize.

This is where pre-hab comes in. Instead of pushing through pain or ignoring the small stuff, you take a smarter approach. It’s like drinking water and getting good sleep. You don’t always notice the benefit right away, but skip it for too long and your body reminds you.

Pre-Hab vs. Rehab: Rehab happens when it’s already too late. You’re dealing with pain, rest, and recovery. Pre-hab gives you a chance to skip that mess altogether.

I include pre-hab work in all my clients’ routines. Most of them don’t even realize it - they just think it’s part of the workout. But trust me, it’s intentional. That little bit of effort upfront saves us from setbacks later on.

Here’s what you’ll usually see in a solid pre-

hab routine:

• Moves that open the hips, activate the core, and get joints prepped for real movement.

• Mobility Drills like foam rolling, band work, and gentle stretching to improve joint range of motion.

• Stability Training such as single-leg work, balance drills, and core strength to protect against falls and awkward movements.

• Cor rective Strength - light resistance work that strengthens weak muscles - often in your shoulders, hips, glutes, and lower back - usually things most people avoid or never even think of working.

• Mindful Movement like focusing on form, breathing, and alignment instead of just speed or weight like most of us did in our younger years.

A pre-hab session might look like regular strength workouts, but also include or even start with foam rolling or some soft tissue work, a hip mobility movement (think fire hydrants or 90/90s), then of course some light strength and core stability. It’s more like a tune-up than a “go crush it” workout - but the payoff is huge.

And yes - you’ll still build muscle, burn fat,

and get in great shape. You’ll just do it with fewer injuries and better posture, and you’ll feel good doing it.

If your workouts are just the treadmill and weights, you’re missing a key piece of the puzzle. Pre-hab isn’t optional - it’s essential if you want to move and feel your best, especially after 40.

Before your next workout, ask yourself: Are you training just to look fit? Or are you training to stay fit?

PRO TIP: Make one day each week your “Pre-Hab Day.” Focus on:

• Soft tissue work

• Band resistance training

• Joint mobility movements

• Deep stretching or myofascial release I’ve always said: If you train the body like it’s already been injured, you’ll train it to avoid injury altogether.

Chad Cannon is a health & fitness coach, life coach, and founder of CannonFit Transformation Center, where he helps adults 40+ move better, feel better, and live injury-free. Learn more at www.cannonfit. com.

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CHAD CANNON

Life as a Hospice CNA

“If you can’t fly, then run. If you can’t run, then walk. If you can’t walk, then crawl. But whatever you do, keep moving forward.” – Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

This powerful quote has helped me get through some difficult moments in my career. I’ve been a hospice-certified nursing assistant for 29 years—21 years actively working as a CNA and eight years in an administrative role, all with Friends of Caroline. In the beginning, besides a lot of crying and prayer, I came to recognize that this work is my calling. Some may find it depressing, but I find it deeply rewarding.

It was especially challenging at the start of my career, particularly after losing my first patient. But, over time, I realized that my patients were giving me something as meaningful as the care I gave them.

Working with terminally ill patients helped put some perspective in my life because they shared their regrets and the things they wished they had done differently, hearing their stories helped me appreciate my own life so much more.

Through this work, I became a better mom and wife, I hug my loved ones, telling them how much I love and appreciate them. I’ve learned to live life with no regrets, and I’m truly grateful for each day God gives me.

It is a blessing to provide physical and emotional care to someone at the end of life. I once had a patient who refused to let her family bathe her. Several of my fellow CNAs tried, but she still declined. When it was my turn to visit her, we simply talked. I learned that Yahtzee was her favorite game. So, I made a deal with her: after her bed bath, we’d play a game of Yahtzee. She agreed.

That became our morning ritual—a bed bath, a cup of cappuccino, and a

game of Yahtzee. Week after week, we had so much fun. As her health declined and she could no longer roll the dice, I rolled them for her. We kept playing because it brought her joy. We continued this routine until her last week. I truly believe this small gesture brought light into her life.

Not every case is like that one. Sometimes, the dying process is difficult to witness, so knowing when to take time for yourself is important. Having a healthy work-life balance is essential.

Over the years, I’ve worked with some amazing CNAs who are passionate about their work.

One of my fellow CNAs once volunteered to help a patient pull weeds from her garden—not part of her job, but she did it because the patient loved her garden. When you love what you do, it’s easy to provide compassionate, handson care and emotional support, all while enhancing a patient’s quality of life. I could tell countless stories about how extraordinary hospice CNAs are. But great patient care takes more than just individual effort—it takes a team. Our team includes a skilled medical director, nurse practitioners, nurses, a social worker, a chaplain, and volunteers. CNAs often spend the most time with the patient, and we work closely with nurses to act as a bridge between patients, families, and the care team, ensuring everyone is aligned on the patient’s needs.

It’s heartwarming when someone stops to thank you after learning you work in hospice. I believe it’s an honor to help someone cross over with dignity. If I had the chance to change anything about my career, I wouldn’t. Serving our community has been both an honor and a privilege, and I look forward to the next chapter with our amazing team at Friends of Caroline.

Bluffton couple reflects on decades of service

Cols. Tony and Gina Ladouceur share more than 39 years of marriage — they also share distinguished careers in the U.S. Army Medical Service Corps, each rising through the ranks to achieve colonel and helping shape military medical operations across the globe.

Tony Ladouceur immigrated to the United States from Haiti at age 13 in 1967. He later enrolled at Queens College in New York with aspirations of becoming a doctor and a standout on the soccer field. But balancing school with part-time work became unsustainable, prompting him to enlist. He completed basic training at Fort Leonard Wood, graduating in the top 5 percent of his class and earning an early promotion to E-2 — a moment he still calls the most exciting of his career.

Meanwhile, Gina Ladouceur was studying biology at Penn State and advancing through the ROTC program. Upon graduation, she was commissioned as a second lieutenant.

Tony began his career as an enlisted soldier, working his way up to staff sergeant before being selected for Officer Candidate School. He again graduated at the top of his class and went on to a 35year career, retiring as a full colonel. Gina also rose to colonel over a 30-year career that included command roles and pioneering positions for women in military leadership.

The two met in Maryland while stationed at Fort Detrick — not on duty, but in a martial arts class where Tony was the instructor. “Love at first kick and punch,” he joked. Both earned black belts and shared a commitment to fitness and discipline.

Tony completed 102 parachute jumps in Ecuador, Jordan, Peru and Spain, earning Master Parachutist status and Ranger qualification. Gina earned her jump wings with 15 jumps and added the Air Assault Badge and Expert Field Medical Badge. She became the first female battalion commander in her support area at Fort Bragg and later the first woman to command Fort Detrick.

Tony’s roles included assignments as an executive and operations officer at every Army level, as well as service as an aide and linguist to Gen. Hugh Shelton, later chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff.

Tony credits Shelton, along with his mother and wife, as among the most influential people in his life.

His many recognitions include the Ranger Tab, Master Jumpmaster Wings, Air Assault Badge, Expert Field Medical Badge and several foreign jump qualifications. His assignments included missions requiring advanced training and strategic expertise.

In a recent interview, the couple reflected on their experience. “The best part was working with leaders who chose the harder right over the easier wrong,” they said. “Gen. Shelton was a prime example.”

Asked about the hardest aspect, they pointed to poor leadership decisions, especially when influenced by favoritism or self-interest.

Tony recalled the saddest and happiest moments of his career. “The saddest was seeing a soldier killed in battle — friend or foe. The happiest was saving a soldier’s life after he fell 40 feet and landed on a live electrical cord. Quick action and CPR saved him.”

Would they recommend military service today? “Absolutely,” they said. “This is the greatest country in the world, and there are countless educational and professional opportunities through service. I (Tony) earned my bachelor’s while enlisted, followed by two master’s degrees — one from the University of Oklahoma and one from the Army War College.”

As for final thoughts, they posed a question: “Why wouldn’t someone want to experience the challenges and growth we did in the military — all while serving the proud U.S. Army and this great nation?”

“May the caissons keep rolling along,” they added.

Dr. Tom Dorsel, a resident of HHI, is Professor Emeritus of Psychology, a clinical/sport psychologist, and the author of, “GOLF: The Mental Game.” He can be reached through Facebook or Dorsel.com.

Are you a safe driver?

Are you a safe driver? With summer upon us, we will have so many visitors in Bluffton and Hilton Head Island that are unfamiliar with the area so it will be even more important that we drive defensively.

Maintain a safe distance from other vehicles and don’t speed. Try to remain calm even in the midst of frustrating traffic issues.

Watch out for the “other guy.” Be prepared for sudden lane changes, unsignaled turns, sudden stops, tailgating and all other bad driving behavior. Check your mirrors often and pay attention to the other cars around you. Expect the unexpected.

Avoid Distractions. We know cell phones and electronic devices are distracting but so is eating, applying makeup or interacting with passengers. Keep your eyes on the road.

Don’t Speed. Speeding is one of the most prevalent factors contributing to traffic crashes. Need to get somewhere faster? Leave earlier.

Don’t drive if you are sleepy. Get a good night’s sleep before a long trip. People can go from drowsy to fast asleep without warning.

Buckle up. Seat belts save lives. Seat belts can prevent you from being thrown around the inside of a crashing vehicle or thrown through the windshield. Don’t drink and drive. Alcohol reduces your reaction time and coordination. Most of all, it is a crime and can have disastrous consequences. Be careful in bad weather. Fog or a rain storm makes it necessary to drive the speed limit or lower and use extra caution. Remember to use your headlights whenever you use your windshield wipers and do not use cruise control when it’s raining as it can cause hydroplaning.

Do you comply with the “Move Over” law? If you approach stopped emergency vehicles, including law enforcement, fire trucks, ambulances, and tow trucks on the side of the road with flashing lights, the law requires drivers to change lanes or slow down. The fine for failure to comply varies from state to state but the fines can be costly. This law was put into effect to save the lives of law enforcement, emergency responders and possibly yours as well.

Finally, the most important thing to remember - wear your seatbelt!

Cinda Seamon is the Community Risk Reduction & Outreach Program Coordinator for Hilton Head Island Fire Rescue.

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Good planning neutralizes threats

Good estate and asset protection planning with proper use of trusts can neutralize many threats, namely: Loss of assets to---taxes, lawsuits, probate fees & costs, family disputes, loss to in-laws if a child becomes divorced.

Do you have a married child who may become divorced later in life? Unfortunately, in modern times the risk of divorce is high. Some statistics indicate that nearly 50% of newly married couples will divorce later in life. Leaving assets to them in trust, instead of outright, can protect these assets from claims of alimony and division in a divorce. You can then direct the assets will stay in your bloodline and not go to your in-law.

Do you have a child or grandchild with “special needs?”

If there are government benefits a loved one receives, then leaving assets to them in trust, instead of outright, can help pre-

serve these benefits for your loved one.

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serious debt or have a gambling problem. Leaving assets to them in trust, instead of outright, can protect these assets from irresponsible behavior. Also, you can provide them a stream of income and not stifle their initiative.

Do you have a successful child who is in a “high risk” profession? Perhaps, you have a daughter who is a surgeon. This profession brings with it a significant exposure to liability from lawsuits. Leaving assets to such a child in trust, instead of outright, can protect these assets from future lawsuits.

While there are many tax related benefits that can be achieved with proper estate planning and use of trusts (like avoiding estate taxes and deferring income taxes), a carefully tailored trust can accomplish many non-tax objectives, see above, that will protect and preserve your family wealth.

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Common plastic surgery questions

Q. What can I do about loose skin above my knees? (that’s a very common problem and question.)

A. This may involve a combination of procedures: VirtueRF (microneedling with radiofrequency) is a very advanced device that can both melt fat and/or tighten skin anywhere. It has various depths, heat settings, and is technologically very advanced. It’s all done under topical anesthesia, and there is little to no recovery time needed. VirtueRF can be used to reduce facial jowls excess neck fat, lower eyelid bags, and more. Lasers, such as the Helix Cool Peel laser or UltraClear 3-D Miracle laser can also further tighten skin with minimal recovery time needed.

PDO lifting threads: These are different thickness dissolvable threads with barbs that lift the skin and stimulate collagen and elastin production for one to two years, according to the thickness of the threads used. PDO threads are excellent for lifting skin in the face and neck as well.

If “fillers” are needed to increase volume, Sculptra, Radiesse, or the newest one, Renuva are available. The latter stimulates your own production of fat and lasts 5 years or more.

Combination therapy is often the best according to the extent of the patient’s problem and their goals.

Q. I hate the loose skin on my arms. Can this be improved?

A. Yes. Most people say they prefer no surgery. With severe skin sagging as in lots of weight loss, surgery may be the best option for the optimum result. Sagging is from excess sun exposure, and this causes loss of elasticity and/or from excess fat as well as weight loss. The treatment must be individualized. Most patients have liposuction for fat removal combined with Renuvion, which tightens the skin. This is usually done under local

Before and one year after lip lift, laser, and PDO lifting threads

anesthesia.

Lesser procedures, which can also be successful in some cases, such as the mentioned VirtueRF can both tighten the skin and diminish fat. Add to this the lasers and PDO threads, when necessary, as with the knees.

Q. I am in my fifties, and my upper lip is disappearing. Is there anything I

can do besides injections?

A. As we age, our upper lips (the skin between the red part of the lips and the nose) get longer, sometimes considerably longer to the point where upper teeth cannot be seen with the mouth slightly open, unlike when young. When the skin part gets longer as described, the lip vermillion (the red part of the lip) turns under.

The treatment is a “buckhorn” excision of skin just below the nose. In youth the distance between the nose and vermillion is 1.4 to 1.5 millimeters. I have seen the distance increase to 2.5 mm with aging. The Buckhorn excision removes the excess skin. Anesthesia is under local, and the scar is imperceptible.

With so many new technologies available today, it is necessary for your plastic surgeon to carefully assess each patient very carefully to choose which option(s) are best suited for them.

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is by finding more, which is becoming harder over time. As with all mining, gold is subject to geological risk as well as changes in taxes and other government policies. Gold is mined all over the world, with some of the top producers being China, Australia and South Africa.

• Purchase off-the-shelf investment vehicles tied to the value of gold, such as ETFs and mutual funds. These allow you to attempt to track gold’s underlying value without owning any of the physical commodity, thus reducing transaction costs. And you have the benefit of a managed fund.

It’s important to keep in mind that gold is highly sensitive to sentiment in the short term. While gold has historically outpaced inflation over longer periods of time, it can be volatile due to a wide range of economic and political factors. As with any investment, consulting with your trusted financial advisor can help you find the right strategy for incorporating gold into your

long-term financial plan. Past performance may not be indicative of future results. There is no assurance the trends mentioned will continue. Gold is subject to the special risks associated with investing in precious metals: price may be subject to wide fluctuation, the market is relatively limited, the sources are concentrated in countries that have the potential for instability, and the market is unregulated. Investing in mining commodities is generally considered speculative, with high levels of volatility, limited market regulation, and emerging markets risk. Prices of precious metals such as gold are influenced by central bank decisions.

Nick Martin is a financial planner and the founder of Bluffton Financial Planning. Bluffton Financial Planning is not a registered broker/dealer, and is independent of Raymond James Financial Services. Investment advisory services offered through Raymond James Financial Services Advisors, Inc.

Pets of the week

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Ace isn’t the kind of guy who demands the spotlight. He’s a gentle cat who prefers calm energy and quiet moments. He loves to gaze out the window as if contemplating the future or watching the world go by in peaceful reflection. Ace is a steady companion looking for someone who understands and appreciates the soulful purr of a rescue cat who has found his home. He is neutered, up to date on vaccinations, and microchipped.

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Avoid closing day surprise over contents & fixtures in a home sale

In the world of real estate, most buyers and sellers focus on price, inspections, and closing dates. But one of the most common, and least discussed, pitfalls in a home sale involves something far more personal: furniture, fixtures, and contents. These items can become major sticking points late in the transaction if not addressed clearly and early on. Here in the Lowcountry, where vacation homes and investment properties are prevalent, the issue is particularly common. Many homes are sold fully furnished, especially villas that are used as short-term rentals. In those cases, it’s often expected that everything stays - from

silverware to sofas to bikes and beach gear. Why? Because future bookings often rely on those items being in place, and pricing usually reflects a “turnkey” package.

Problems arise when expectations aren’t clearly communicated. For example, if a buyer assumes everything is transferring with the house but a seller wants to negotiate out the furniture cost, or vice versa, the result can be confusion or frustration at best - or a failed deal at worst.

That’s why it’s so important to be specific. Sellers should take the time to create a “Not Included in Sale” list ahead of listing the home. This list should call out any heirloom furniture, sentimental items, or personal artwork that won’t be staying. Ideally, those items should either be labeled clearly or removed from the home before showings begin. Even if the buyer sees a list, if they fall in love with a painting hanging on the wall, they might still try to negotiate for it—so eliminating temptation can be a smart move.

Another helpful tip: put this list together while you’re actually at the property.

Especially for owners who live out of town or use the home seasonally, it’s much easier to remember and document everything in person rather than trying to recall details remotely when a contract is being negotiated.

Some sellers may be downsizing or moving far away and willing to part with certain pieces. In those situations, a simple line in the listing such as “furnishings negotiable” can invite a conversation without complicating the deal itself. If the buyer is interested, a separate bill of sale can be drafted outlining the agreed-upon items and value. This bill of sale should be tied to the real estate contract—but handled separately to keep things clean.

Why is separation important? For one, lenders won’t finance personal property like furniture. They’re only interested in the value of the real estate itself. That means any furnishings need to be valued and transferred outside of the mortgage. Appraisers follow the same logic. If a property sells for $800,000 and includes $50,000 worth of furnishings, the appraiser will likely remove that $50,000 from the

valuation of the home to reflect the true real estate value.

Sometimes, sellers and buyers will even agree to attribute little or no value to the furniture—particularly if it’s dated or inconvenient to move. In that case, the furniture becomes more of a convenience factor than a financial one, and a bill of sale for $1 might be drawn up just to document the arrangement.

Another area of confusion can be appliances and wall-mounted TVs. In this market, appliances like refrigerators, washers, and dryers typically stay, though that’s not always the norm in other regions. Mounted TVs, while technically considered personal property, are often expected to remain too - especially when removing them involves patching holes and repainting. Sellers are encouraged to include these in the sale when possible, to keep things simple.

At the end of the day, smooth transactions come down to preparation. The earlier sellers (and buyers) think through

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Road work continues on Gumtree, Mathews and Squire Pope

Traffic safety improvements continue this month on three key roads in Hilton Head Island — Gumtree Road, Mathews Drive and Squire Pope Road — with overnight work planned to reduce daytime impact. Crews will work from 7:30 p.m. to 5 a.m. during two scheduled periods: July 20–24 and July 27–31.

The project includes new pavement markings at all crosswalks, milling and repaving problematic areas, adjusting signage to meet federal safety standards, and adding crosswalk signs where needed. It builds on earlier safety work at the Gumtree exit from Cross Island Parkway, where town officials installed markings and caution signs to improve traffic flow and pedestrian visibility.

With overnight lane closures anticipated, residents and visitors are asked to use caution in work zones and allow extra travel time. The town says the upgrades support its broader strategy

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East Africa and Qatar Travel Part 2

In Part 1, I shared information and tips related to my month-long trip to Kenya, Tanzania, and Qatar in the summer of 2023. Covered topics included: packing, passports, vaccinations, and visas.

Traveling to places like East Africa and Qatar is exciting, but it requires thorough preparation. Here are some of my travel recommendations, many of which will be helpful no matter where you travel outside the United States.

Register your travel plans with the U.S. State Department

Visit the travel.state.gov website. Once there, click on the red button that says, ‘U.S. Citizen Travelers’ and sign up for the free Smart Traveler Enrollment Program (STEP), which will register your itinerary with the nearest U.S. Embassy or Consulate.

Benefits:

• You will receive health and safety security alerts for your destination(s).

• The U.S. Embassy can more easily contact you or notify your family in the event of a crisis.

Notifying Financial Institutions Before Traveling

Before your trip, notify your bank and credit card providers to prevent fraud alerts, declined transactions, or account restrictions. You can set up travel notifications online or via customer support.

• Provide Travel Details: Inform your bank of specific destinations and dates to help them recognize legitimate purchases.

• Review Fees: Request information about foreign transaction fees and ATM withdrawal costs to avoid unexpected charges.

• Verify International Partnerships: Confirm which banks have affiliations with your financial institution for convenient withdrawals.

• Enable Security Features: Activate mobile alerts to monitor real-time account activity and detect suspicious transactions.

• Diversify Payment Options: Carry an adequate amount of cash and at least two credit or debit cards as backup in case of account freezes or declined transactions.

• Understand Currency Exchange: Familiarize yourself with exchange rates and withdrawal limits.

Potential Risks Without Notification

Failing to notify your bank can result in transaction declines, frozen accounts, vulnerability to fraud, and difficulty disputing unauthorized charges. Foreign transactions are often flagged as suspicious, which can result in security blocks that may prevent you from accessing your funds.

A 2020 study by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau found that 67% of travelers experienced account freezes due to suspected fraud. Similarly, the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center reports that overseas travelers are especially vulnerable to scams involving their payment information. Additionally, a 2022 study under the Fair Credit Billing Act noted that failure to notify banks resulted in 30% longer resolution times for disputes, as financial institutions required additional verification for unauthorized charges.

Currency Exchange & U.S. Dollars

Each country has different currency requirements.

• Kenya: Kenyan Shilling (KES)

• Tanzania: Tanzanian Shilling (TZS)

• Qatar: Qatari Riyal (QAR)

Bringing U.S. Dollars

• Car ry new, crisp bills. Older or damaged notes will probably not be accepted. I ordered US dollars newer than 2009 from my bank, and it took more than a week, so don’t wait until the last minute.

• $50 and $100 bills often get better exchange rates, but some locations won’t take large bills, so bring a good mix.

Where to Get Foreign Currency

• Air port Exchange Counters: Convenient but may have higher fees.

• Local Banks: Offer competitive rates.

• ATMs: Provide direct withdrawals in local currency.

TSA PreCheck vs. Global Entry

I applied for TSA PreCheck at an approved TSA enrollment center (located temporarily on Hilton Head). To find a location near you, visit www.tsa.gov and enter your zip code.

I wish I had enrolled in the Global Entry program, as it costs only slightly more and includes TSA PreCheck.

TSA PreCheck

• Speeds up security screening at U.S. airports.

• Allows travelers to keep shoes, belts,

and light jackets on.

• Costs $78 for a five-year membership. Note: TSA PreCheck does not guarantee expedited security clearance. Random security measures—both visible and behind the scenes—are in place. Travelers may be randomly selected for additional screening, even if they have PreCheck status.

Having experienced this firsthand, I discovered that algorithmic selection sometimes excludes passengers from the program for a single trip. Not much of a problem when it’s for a single, short flight, but it’s particularly aggravating on longhaul journeys that span 30–40 hours with multiple layovers. If you happen to be randomly selected, your usual PreCheck privileges won’t apply. Hope it never happens to you, but be prepared for the possibility.

Global Entry

• Includes TSA PreCheck benefits.

• Provides expedited customs clearance for international travelers.

• Costs $120 for a five-year membership. For frequent international travelers, Global Entry is a better option. Visit www. cbp.gov to find instructions on how to apply. There are no enrollment centers in South Carolina. The closest one to our area is in Jacksonville, Florida.

Travel insurance

Selecting travel insurance can be challenging due to the many (sometimes confusing) options. It’s a good idea to ask questions and compare plans before deciding on the best one for you. Travel insurance plans can protect against unex-

pected expenses due to medical emergencies, trip cancellations and interruptions, lost or delayed luggage, and theft. I always make sure to buy a policy that includes evacuation costs resulting from a medical emergency or, heaven forbid, my death. My go-to company is Allianz, but there are other reputable travel insurance companies to consider. Read the reviews, ask your friends.

Look for policies that reimburse non-refundable expenses if plans change due to illness, political unrest, or natural disasters. Special coverage is available for injuries related to adventure tourism, such as safaris. It costs more, and not all insurance packages include it.

FYI, another option that some insurers offer is a ‘cancel for any reason’ option – look for the abbreviation CFAR. With CFAR (yes, it’s expensive), you won’t need a medical or any other excuse to cancel your trip and make an insurance claim for a partial refund, typically 50%-75% of your prepaid, nonrefundable costs, such as airfare, hotel reservations, and prepaid tours and excursions.

Final Thoughts

Planning a trip overseas requires careful preparation. Taking the time to research and apply tried-and-true travel tips can help ensure a smooth and enjoyable journey.

In the next installment of my travel series, I will begin sharing my day-to-day experiences, hoping to create vivid word pictures that make you feel as though you are right there with me during my exciting month-long visit to the other side of the world.

Wishing you many safe and exciting travel adventures!

Tamela Maxim is thrilled to write for the Bluffton Sun and Hilton Head Sun. She was previously the assistant publisher of Realtor Listings magazine, editor of Bluffton Breeze and Premier Lowcountry magazines, and occasional contributor to local newspapers and magazines, including Carolina Morning News, Bluffton Today, Bluffton Eccentric, Premier Lowcountry, and PINK. She plays the role of the assistant art instructor on the YouTube channel Art Posse, a local reality TV show that has just completed its 2nd season. www.artposseproductions.com She recently edited and published two books, Et Cetera Y’all, Volume 1 by Annelore Harrell, and From Jellybeans to a Nobel Prize Nomination by Arthur V. Martin, Ph.D.

Why sleep alone isn’t enough: understanding neuropathy and nighttime nerve pain

Getting through the day with nerve pain is tough. But for a lot of people with neuropathy, the real trouble starts at night — just when your body should be relaxing. Weirdly enough, you might feel fine during the day, only to get hit with burning, tingling, cramping, or that strange restless feeling in your feet right when you’re trying to fall asleep. Why does that happen? One big reason is circulation. When you lie down, blood flow to the feet can slow down, and that’s bad news for your nerves. Less blood

means less oxygen and fewer nutrients getting to the nerves, which can make symptoms worse when you’re trying to rest.

There are other things that can make it worse too — dehydration, blood sugar spikes or dips, and stress (thanks, life). But here’s the real kicker: if you have neuropathy, those things aren’t your biggest problem — they’re just pouring gas on the fire.

Yes, sleep matters — but it’s not a magic cure. Sleep is when your body does its repair work, especially the nervous system. During deep sleep, blood flow improves, inflammation goes down, and the brain kicks in to do some much-needed nerve repair. But if you’ve got neuropathy, your nerves are already overwhelmed. Poor sleep doesn’t just leave you groggy — it adds pressure to a system that’s already limping along. Many people try the follow the usual advice— avoid caffeine, dim the lights, try magnesium, turning off your phone

or drinking a glass of water; but if your nerves are already damaged, it’s going to take more than that. And all of that’s helpful…if you’re not already dealing with nerve damage. But if your neuropathy has progressed past the early phase, those tips might not be enough to move the needle.

You don’t just need better sleep. You need a real plan.

If nighttime nerve pain is messing with your rest, it’s time to stop guessing. You need answers — not just more pillows or bedtime teas.

Here’s what matters:

• How far has your neuropathy progressed?

• What phase are you in?

• And most importantly — is there still time to help the nerves recover?

There’s a window where the nerves can still heal — but it doesn’t stay open forever. If too much damage has already been done, small changes like drinking more water or sleeping longer probably

aren’t going to cut it. That’s why it’s so important to take your symptoms seriously, especially if they’re keeping you up at night.

You’re not alone. And, you’re definitely not hopeless

Go see your physician to get an evaluation. There are safe, non-invasive treatments that can increase blood flow, lower inflammation, and support actual nerve healing. But none of that happens unless you start with an evaluation.

So yes, sleep matters — but let’s make sure your nerves aren’t quietly screaming while you’re trying to count sheep. You don’t have to suffer in silence (or in socks). The sooner you find out what’s going on, the better chance you have to feel like yourself again — both day and night.

Dr. Kenneth Horup, DC is a Chiropractic Physician at Discover Specific Chiropractic, Board Certified in Neuropathy.

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New rankings show bright spots for Beaufort County children amid statewide challenges

South Carolina ranks 38th in the nation for overall child well-being, according to the 2025 KIDS COUNT® Data Book, released Monday by the Annie E. Casey Foundation. While the state’s rank is a slight improvement over last year’s 40th place, the Children’s Trust of South Carolina cautions that the shift reflects a change in comparison to other states—not a true gain for South Carolina’s children.

Locally, Beaufort County outperforms the state in some measures, such as child poverty and education, but continues to face challenges—particularly in child health.

The Beaufort County Child Well-Being Profile, released alongside the national report, shows that 8% of children in the county lacked health insurance in 2022, compared to 6% statewide. The county also reported a higher rate of child and teen deaths than the state average—36 per

100,000 youth, compared to 30 per 100,000 statewide.

“We want every child in South Carolina to thrive, and this means they have a safe and stable place to sleep at night, a community with enough resources to help support them when they need help, and access to a doctor for regular check-ups and when they get sick,” said Sue Williams, CEO of Children’s Trust of South Carolina.

Local and State Concerns

Beaufort County fares better than the state average in other areas:

• 13% of children live in poverty, below the state average of 18%.

• The high school graduation rate stands at 89%, above the state average of 84%.

• 29% of children live in single-parent households, compared to 37% statewide.

Still, Williams emphasized the need for deeper investment across South Carolina.

“Raising kids is hard work, and parents— especially single parents—need support and community,” she said. “With isolation as a key stressor for child abuse and neglect, we need more investments to help families build community and gain the tools to help them raise healthy and safe children before costly or heartbreaking interventions are needed later.”

Programs Supporting Prevention

Children’s Trust leads a network of statewide prevention programs focused on strengthening families before a crisis occurs. These include:

• Family resource centers offering parenting classes, job training and childcare assistance

• The state’s Strengthening Families Program and Triple P Positive Parenting Program

• The online parenting hub scParents. org, recently expanded to connect fam-

ilies with local services and resources

“We celebrate these small victories. More families have steady income, and more children are not struggling with obesity,” Williams added. “However, we cannot lose sight of the fact that as a state, we continue to stagnate on critical measures for economic well-being, education, health and community.”

County-Level Data Now Available

In addition to the national rankings, Children’s Trust released updated child well-being profiles for all 46 counties. The Beaufort County profile offers local leaders a snapshot of needs and strengths that can guide decision-making and resource allocation.

The full 2025 KIDS COUNT® Data Book is available at aecf.org/databook, and Beaufort County’s profile can be accessed directly at scchildren.org.

Adventurous, outdoorsy dog longs for a kindred spirit to do life with

The winter storm of 2025 was a turning point for a shelter dog named Linus. We brought this charming, playful, 4-year-old boy to the Palmetto Animal League Adoption Center to spare him the long nights of freezing temperatures in an outdoor kennel at a rural shelter in our area.

“Poor Linus had dog bite wounds covering his entire body,” remembers PAL President Amy Campanini. “Once the snow melted and it was time for him to return, we didn’t have the heart to send him back.”

Once we got to know Linus at PAL, we discovered he is incredibly loving toward people. However, due to his past experiences, he is not fond of other dogs and, honestly, who could blame him.

“Linus needs a place where his heart can heal, and we want him to understand that we won’t let him get into an-

other situation where he has to defend himself against another dog,” explains Campanini.

Linus longs for a home where he can soak up all the love from his humans. In the right environment, he will be the most loyal, fun-loving companion anyone could ever ask for.

“His tail never stops wagging,” says dog caregiver Kaydence Collins. “He’s the kind of dog that never meets a stranger. Every new person is just a friend he hasn’t said hello to yet.”

Linus has a playful spirit and a soft spot for plush toys. He’s often seen trotting around the PAL Adoption Center carrying one of his prized possessions in his mouth. He also loves exploring the outdoors and basking in the sunshine whenever he gets the chance.

“He especially loves a good game of fetch,” says Collins. “He will happily chase a ball for as long as you’ll throw it!”

Linus is good on a leash, probably because there’s nowhere he’d rather be

than right next to his person. He knows how to sit, does well in a crate, and absolutely loves a cozy dog bed!

“He is eager to please and picks up on new commands quickly,” says Collins. “He will thrive in a home that can provide structure, confident leadership, and above all, love.”

If you enjoy the great outdoors and need a positive, reliable adventure buddy, Linus might just be the perfect dog to do life with.

“He’s an affectionate dog with joyful energy and a goofy grin that’ll melt your heart,” says Campanini.

If you’d like to meet Linus, visit PAL’s no-kill adoption center located at 56 Riverwalk Blvd. in Okatie, Monday through Saturday from 12 p.m. to 6 p.m. Your new best friend is waiting for you.

Lindsay Perry is the Marketing Coordinator for Palmetto Animal League. www.PalmettoAnimalLeague.org

Dear Jason, I’m a grandmother to three grandkids who live in Bluffton. I’m worried about the 14-year-old girl, but my daughter (their mother) says she’s fine. I understand moods—I raised five girls and two boys— but all of a sudden, my granddaughter is wearing hoodies in the summer, barely says more than “yeah” or “no,” and keeps her face buried in her phone, which her parents allow everywhere—even at the dinner table. I don’t want to rock the boat too much, but I also don’t want my granddaughter to go any further down a path that may prove more harmful than my daughter realizes. Ideas?

Dear Grandmother, I understand your concerns, but from what you’ve described, it doesn’t sound

Dear Jason

like anything is seriously wrong—at least not yet. This might be the perfect time to apply the “pick your battles” approach. For example, let’s talk about the hoodie. Fashion trends are always shifting. Remember your tight-rolled jeans and big hair? It would’ve been strange not to dress like your peers back then. While hoodies in the summer make no sense to rational adults, this isn’t a hill worth dying on. One sweaty afternoon on a crowded bus might teach her more than any lecture ever could.

As for the one-word answers — “yeah,” “no,” and silence — that’s practically the lingua franca between teens and adults. They’re navigating their identity, teth-

ered to an inner circle that often excludes grown-ups. It’s less about rejection and more about preoccupation. Don’t take it personally, and don’t fight that battle either.

Now, the phone? That’s a battleground worth entering—but with unconventional tactics. Rather than telling your daughter that your granddaughter is screen-addicted, try something gentler and more relational. Invite your granddaughter over for dinner. Cook one of her favorite meals—or DoorDash something fun. Let her know your only request is that you both turn off your phones and put them out of sight.

A well-known youth speaker named Josh McDowell used to say, “Rules with-

out relationship lead to rebellion.” In my time as a pastor, I’ve seen that the more someone feels your support, the more open they are to challenge. When a young person knows you’re in their corner, they’re more likely to listen—even when it’s hard to hear.

Most of us agree that unchecked screen time isn’t helping anyone. They call it “brain rot” for a reason. But instead of waging war against the screen, wage peace through presence. If you can offer your granddaughter a space where she feels seen, heard, and safe—without distraction—you just might help her rediscover something better than what she’s scrolling through.

You won’t win every battle. But you might win her heart. And that’s the war worth waging.

Send your questions to jason.smith@ newspring.cc

Lowcountry native, husband, and dad to two teenage daughters. Jason Smith is Pastor of NewSpring Church’s Bluffton campus, passionate about faith, family, and connection. jason.smith@newspring.cc

JASON SMITH

Lowcountry business briefs: Conservation, growth, honors and new ventures shape local scene.

From expanding luxury vacation portfolios to launching bird conservation programs and debuting stylish new dining venues, the Lowcountry’s business community continues to thrive with innovation and purpose. Here’s a roundup of recent business developments across Bluffton and Hilton Head Island:

Luxury Simplified Retreats expands through merger and acquisition. Charleston- and Palmetto Bluff-based Luxury Simplified Retreats has expanded its vacation rental portfolio by 40% in the past year. A merger with Stay in Palmetto Bluff and the acquisition of Charleston Island Rentals helped grow the firm’s holdings to over 140 properties, including new markets Kiawah Island and Isle of Palms.

Founder Sebrina Leigh-Jones emphasized their focus on personalized service, stating: “We offer 24/7 guest services, upscale amenities, and personalized concierge support so guests can fully unwind.”

Juicebox opens in Bluffton with ribbon-cutting.

Natural wine and craft beer enthusiasts now have a new spot in Old Town Bluffton. Juicebox opened June 18th at 1266 May River Road, offering tastings and a curated selection of natural wines and specialty brews. Follow @juiceboxbluffton for updates.

Nectar debuts private event space ‘The Loft’ in Old Town Bluffton.

Nectar Old Town Bluffton has unveiled “The Loft,” an upscale private dining space for events ranging from rehearsal dinners to corporate meetings. Located above the restaurant, the second-floor venue seats up to 50 and features customizable chef-driven menus, AV capabilities and Southern charm.

Managing Partner Paul Norris said the addition “offers guests a stylish, private

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setting to celebrate life’s special moments.” Reservations are now available through nectarfarmkitchen.com.

Bluffton Rotary awards over $25,000 in charitable grants.

The Rotary Club of Bluffton awarded more than $25,000 in grants to six local nonprofits during its first round of 2025 funding. Recipients include Bluffton Self Help, Boys & Girls Club of the Lowcountry, Habitat for Humanity, Beaufort-Jasper Volunteers in Medicine, Reading Discovery and Spirit of Sebastian.

Funds were raised through events such as Mayfest and the Bluffton Arts & Seafood Festival.

Hilton Head PSD’s Pete Nardi named national water conservation chair.

Pete Nardi, general manager of Hilton Head Public Service District, has been named Chair of the American Water Works Association’s (AWWA) Water Conservation Division and appointed to its Technical Education Council. The AWWA represents over 4,300 utilities nationwide.

Nardi, who has led the PSD since 2015, called the honor “an opportunity to help lead water professionals across the country in advancing conservation and efficiency.”

PSD earns 5-Year Safe Water Award.

Hilton Head PSD received the 5-Year Directors Award from the Partnership for Safe Water for its rigorous efforts to optimize its drinking water distribution system. Water Quality Supervisor Sarah Hickman leads the utility’s self-assessment program.

“This award is recognition of the team’s commitment to quality for our customers and community,” said Nardi.

Audubon grant to boost conservation with new hire.

Hilton Head Audubon (HHA) has been awarded a $10,000 grant by the Community Foundation of the Lowcountry to hire a Conservation Coordinator. The role will be filled by Denise Prichard, who will spearhead initiatives to protect local habitats and engage the public in environmental stewardship.

According to the organization, Prichard will lead shorebird protection campaigns, develop educational efforts under the “Safe Birds Need Safe Cats” program, and expand the Certified Bird & Wildlife Friendly Habitat Program. Her work will include collaborating with volunteers, schools, and youth groups such as Adolescents Advocating for HHA.

Sea Pines Resort welcomes new golf sales director.

John Haskins has been appointed Director of Golf Sales at The Sea Pines Resort.

A Clemson University graduate with extensive experience in golf tourism, Haskins previously led group sales at a five-star resort and Charleston Golf, Inc.

Mark Goodwin, Director of Sales and Marketing, praised Haskins’ industry expertise: “Our three courses are the crown jewels, and John’s network will help us showcase them.”

Palm Trees & Pistons returns July 12th.

The monthly “Palm Trees & Pistons” car show is set for Saturday, July 12th, from 9 to 11 a.m. at NALAS Beach Bar & Grill Restaurant, the former Carrabba’s location on Hilton Head Island. The event features vintage, muscle, and exotic cars and is free and open to the public. Weather permitting.

Pet Wants Bluffton brings holistic pet nutrition to Bluffton.

Pet Wants Bluffton, located at 1256 Fording Island Road, now offers a range of fresh, small-batch pet food and wellness products targeting optimal pet health. The store carries Small batch raw and freezedried dog and cat foods featuring organic meats, vegetables and supplements like kelp and bee pollen. Customers can access in-store pickup, curbside service, local delivery and same-day delivery.

The family-owned store emphasizes pet wellness through nutritional counseling and high-quality ingredients slow-cooked at low temperatures every 45 days. With consistently high customer ratings, Pet Wants seeks to reshape pet food norms in the Lowcountry. PetWantsHiltonHead. com

STMT Boutique opens, curates chic women’s fashion.

STMT Boutique has launched a contemporary women’s fashion store in Old Town Bluffton, offering a curated mix of resort-ready and everyday styles. Founded by Jennifer Miotto, the boutique features brands like Free People, Z Supply, SPANX, Show Me Your Mumu, Vintage Havana, Surf Gypsy and Steve Madden

The store emphasizes “effortless

Lowcountry elegance,” blending comfort, versatility and style across pieces such as denim, accessories and statement items. STMT cultivates a personalized and warm customer experience, centered on individual expression through fashion. shopatstmt.com

Jean-Pierre Klifa debuts French resort wear at Coligny.

Upscale French designer Jean-Pierre Klifa has opened a new boutique at Coligny Plaza, marking the brand’s arrival in the Lowcountry. Known for vibrant resort wear and sophisticated accessories, the line emphasizes high-quality fabrics and bold prints chosen for comfortable elegance. The store caters to both residents and visitors seeking resort-ready ensembles with European finesse. jeanpierreklifa.com

Nala’s Beach Bar & Grill opens June 28 near the sand.

Nala’s Beach Bar & Grill has opened its doors at 14 Folly Field Road, promising vibrant fare and beach ambiance. Founded by mother-daughter duo Susana Legare and Val Plasse, the restaurant honors their late dog, Nala, who loved Hilton Head’s coast

The all-day eatery brings Caribbean-inspired dishes alongside scratch-made menu items and cocktails in a relaxed, dog-friendly space. nalasbeach.com

MilkShake Factory debuts fun dessert destination.

MilkShake Factory has opened its first South Carolina location at 1201 Main Street, part of Main Street Village, elevating the local dessert scene The family-owned franchise delivers hand-spun milkshakes crafted from in-store, homemade ice cream, along with signature chocolates and non-dairy alternatives. milkshakefactory.com

Do you remember, when we were kids, they had “Backwards Day” or “Opposites Day” at school?

We would dress backwards by wearing our clothes inside-out, walk to school backwards, read sentences in our books backwards, and even eat our lunches backwards by starting off with dessert and finishing with a sandwich. When school was over, we would extend the excitement of the day of opposites by having breakfast food for dinner and wearing our clothes to bed.

Fun for sure, but little did we think those silly days of innocent confusion would actually serve as valued preparation for the most backwards, opposite-minded game ever invented — welcome to the world of golf!

The opposite of golf

Virtually all other sports have a ball in motion, requiring a spontaneous, athletic, mindless reaction. Golf is the total opposite, with a stationary ball that menacingly dares us to hit to our intended target, while providing way too much time to clutter our brains with a myriad of mechanical and negative thoughts.

Before we head to the first tee, our practice sessions at the range are often in total opposition to our actual play on the course. If we have a great warm up at the range, heaven help us out on the course — many a golfer has wasted all their best shots with their flawless pre-round practice sessions.

Haven’t played for an extended period and have extremely low expectations? Don’t be surprised if the opposite occurs and you have a great round. Have you been on a hot streak and are out to beat your personal best? Sorry to disappoint, but your swelled confidence and presumption of brilliance are often doomed by the ever-present law of averages.

The idea that these opposites — your longest shot of the day (a 200-yard drive) and your shortest shot of the day (a 3-inch putt) each count as an identical single

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stroke, makes no sense whatsoever! Low scores are better than high scores — totally illogical!

We hit the ball to the right to go left, to the left to go right, swing up to go down and then swing down to have the ball go up! Swinging slow and smoothly results in our longest shots, while fast, aggressive swings often yield disappointingly short mis-hits. We hit dead straight, precision-like drives on forgiving, wide fairways and wander aimlessly offline on tight layouts, when we need our tee-balls to be pinpoint accurate. Clubs that go the furthest have the lowest numbers imprinted on their heads, while the highest

numbered clubs are used for the short and delicate shots around the green.

We can get a wonderful result with a terrible shot and a terrible result with a wonderful shot. Players with the best swings get beaten every day of the week by players with terrible swing motions. Perhaps Ben Hogan’s famous quote sums it up best — “Reverse every natural instinct and do the opposite of what you are inclined to do, and you will probably come very close to having a perfect golf swing.”

During any given round of golf, we feel overjoyed one moment and filled with despair the next. We adore it, we hate it, we master it, it defeats us — the list of golf’s opposites seems endless. As they say, opposites attract, so it’s no surprise why we are enthralled with this diabolical, illogical, backwards, opposite game of golf!

Rich Bernstein recently moved to Sun City - Hilton Head. He has been experiencing the joy, challenges and frustrations of golf since his selection as the 6th player on his 5-player high school golf team.

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God writes straight with crooked lines

Life is full of twists we never saw coming—betrayals, illness, injustice, grief. And if we’re honest, some of what we experience is not just inconvenient or difficult—it is evil. The world is broken. That’s not how God designed it to be, and it’s certainly not how God desires it to remain. But even amid the brokenness, even in the face of real suffering, God remains present. One of the most enduring truths I’ve carried with me came from a dear friend, Father Dallas, who would often say, “God writes straight with crooked lines.”

I first met Father Dallas while serving as a Navy Chaplain. His quiet wisdom and deep faith helped anchor many of us in seasons of disruption. He never used that phrase to minimize pain or explain away

suffering. On the contrary, he understood that some things should not happen. But still, he believed—and helped others believe—that God could redeem what was meant for harm and bring forth good from it.

This belief doesn’t ignore the reality of evil. It recognizes it. We live in a world marred by human sin, injustice, violence, and loss. God does not cause these things. It is not God’s will that we suffer. But suffering is, tragically, a part of life in a fallen world. The hope of our faith is not that we are spared hardship—but that God does not abandon us to it. God is constantly working to bring healing, justice, and new life, even from the ruins.

Nowhere is this clearer than in the story of Joseph in the book of Genesis. Evil actions upended Joseph’s life—his brothers betrayed him and sold him into slavery. Later, he was falsely accused, imprisoned, and forgotten. For years, it seemed as if evil had the final word. But God never stopped working. Over time, Joseph rose to a position of influence and was able to save a nation—including the very family that had once betrayed him. Joseph didn’t excuse what had been

done to him. He named it clearly: “You meant it for evil.” But he followed that truth with a greater one: “God meant it for good.”

This is the redemptive thread of our faith. God does not will the evil that comes into our lives, but God is not defeated by it either. When we walk through dark valleys, we are not alone. When our stories feel derailed, God is still writing. Every crooked line, every unexpected turn, every painful chapter—none of it is wasted in God’s hands.

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"A Freedom Given Back Freely"

John 14: 15-21

Rev. Randall Lynn Haase

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"God Sees Something Different” Luke 4:40-43

Rev. Randall Lynn Haase

So when life breaks our heart or shakes our foundation, we must remember: God is not the author of evil, but God is the master of redemption. The pen is still in God’s hand. And yes, God writes straight with crooked lines.

The Rev. Dr. Jon R. Black is the Presiding Elder of the Beaufort District of the African Methodist Episcopal (AME) Church. He oversees the ministry of 30 congregations across southern South Carolina.

received a bachelor’s degree in Religious Studies from Lourdes College in Sylvania, Ohio, and a Master’s Degree in Divinity from The Methodist Theological School in Ohio in Delaware, Ohio. He was ordained as an Elder into the United Methodist Church in June of 2006. He and his family moved to South Carolina in 2011. Rev. Haase believes his call to ministry includes parish ministry, teaching ministry, and helping new pastors as they respond to their call to ministry through the certification and educational processes. His wife, Laura, teaches fifth grade math and science. They have four children and three grandchildren.

our New Pastor the Reverend Randall Haase!
JON R. BLACK

Freedom as a divine awakening

Welcome July, the month wherein we are called to celebrate freedom not only as a collective reality but also as an inner truth.

As a UNITY Minister, I see freedom as a spiritual awakening - a stirring of the inner divinity within each of our souls. In Unity, we understand that all outward manifestations begin within; hence, for us to honor freedom fully, you and I must first embrace it in the silence of our own mind and hearts.

Freedom is the very essence of God (by whatever name you all it) moving in, through and as us, bringing each of us into harmony with the divine order of our lives. The founding of this great nation was a historical act and a deeper declaration - what we call in UNITY a spiritual affirmation - of the liberty bestowed upon

each of our souls to seek communion with the Infinite (God).

Each day brings us the sacred opportunity to craft our own declaration of independence, a living proclamation written in the language of our own spirit. I invite us all to loosen the chains of old thought patterns and BS (belief systems) that no longer serve the truth of our divine identity.

This sacred act of unbinding is an internal evolution - a holy shift, a transformation, that aligns us with the universal flow of love, higher consciousness and divine wisdom. The truth that sets us free is not found outside of us, it is found in the stillness of our inner personal sanctuary within.

As scripture tells us, “You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” The key word for me is “know.” This truth is a divine revelation, a light that dispels the shadows of our fears and egos. This truth is an awakening of us to the infinite potential of divine connection. Through this light of truth, we begin to see ourselves and others as expressions of God’s unconditional love and intelligence, letting go the lenses of limitation and

judgement.

In this radiant awareness, we see ourselves and others through the lens of divine equality, embracing the sacred individuality that each soul embodies. “You be you, and I’ll be me,” has become not just a phrase, it is a profound acknowledgement, a metaphysical mantra for me that honors the unique vibration, the divine perfection of every single being.

And, I now joyously add, “Let them,” thank you to Mel Robbins. Let us allow the divine consciousness within each of us to rise, bursting forth like July fireworks from the confines of old paradigms and limited thinking, illuminating the world with the radiant glow of God-inspired, Spirit-led, open-minded thought.

In the quiet stillness of divine commUnity, we claim our spiritual independence as a deeper connection to the eternal presence of God within. This presence empowers us to rise above circumstances, to pursue happiness, liberty, and peace with hearts open to the flow of divine love and curiosity.

In the quiet stillness of divine wisdom within every single one of us, we get to claim our spiritual independence.

We call forth the awareness of God as the eternal presence everywhere present –the living, loving presence that empowers us to pursue joy and the divine harmony of being all we have come here to BE. And so it is! Sparklers and blessings to all.

Rev. Therese Donlan Lee is the senior minister of Unity Spiritual Center on Hilton Head Island. revthereseunityhiltonhead@gmail.com

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pillin’ the Tea... Tales from the Lowcountry

This story is from a collection of interviews from long time locals who have generously shared their lowcountry memories with me to be saved for historical purposes and future generations

What could have been and almost was

“The sand is too dark, and the water is too murky; it will never work”. This exact sentence was uttered in the mid-1960s from a potential investor, a wellknown, high-profile money man from New York, speaking on Hilton Head Island, and more specifically, the land that would become Palmetto Dunes: Oh, how wrong they were!

From the early 1900s up until the 1960s, what we know today as Palmetto Dunes, was used as a hunting club owned by the Hilton Head Agricultural Company; mainly for deer, hogs, racoons, and waterfowl. Many members would come on weeklong and weekend trips with folks from Gaston County North Carolina and surrounding areas and states.

It was a Tuesday morning in February of 1968, and Mr. Johnny White, V.P. of Palmetto Dunes Development Company was on a mission, a multimillion-dollar mission. It was midafternoon, and it was determined that two additional property plats were needed by the Clerk of Court and the closing attorneys to properly close the transaction. This needed to be done by the close of business that day. His mission was to drive from Hilton Head Island to Savannah Ga. to recover the two plats and get them to the Beaufort County Courthouse before 5pm. If he accomplished this trip, and all went as planned, they would be able to purchase and close on the 2,000+ acres of land in mid-island Hilton Head. To those of you reading this, the trip from Hilton Head to Savannah is a daily

commute in the morning before work and the return trip after work for many people. But remember we are talking about the 1960’s. Many of the roads of Hiton Head were no more than rutted up beach sand and dirt, the two lane 278 was nothing like the rapid and busy road we know today. This could take a while.

Mr. Johnny’s mission unfortunately did not go as planned and he knew that he was not going to be able to get from Savannah to Beaufort with the two recovered plats by 5pm, the close of business. But, that old phrase “It’s always good to know people in high places” came into play, as it has so many times to Lowcountry natives and long timers alike.

“We talked with the Clerk of Court, a friend of ours, and called in a favor. We asked him to please keep the courthouse open past 5 p.m. as I was on my way from

Savannah and this business deal had to be completed by today.” said Mr. Johnny as he reminisced on this trip. “I made it alright, but it was darn near early evening by the time I reached Beaufort!”

“But there was still work to be done. Dowling, Dowling, Sanders, and Dukes, closing attorneys, met me at the courthouse on that Tuesday evening in February of 1968 and the 2,000-acre Palmetto Dunes deal went through.”

Why was it so important that the deal went through that day? Why didn’t Mr. Johnny just come back on Wednesday when the courthouse was open again? Why call in such a big favor to keep someone waiting till evening and have attorneys there?

Well, here’s the kicker.

Mr. Charles Fraser and family, responsible for the development of Sea Pines and

the southern tip of Hilton Head, never thought these investors would be able to come up with the money needed to purchase such a big parcel of land on Hilton Head. Mr. Fraser was ready to purchase the property if it didn’t go through that day. He even went so far as to write the check for the property and give it to the closing attorneys, as he had such little faith that the investors would come up with the money.

What may have been? What if Palmetto Dunes was purchased by Charles Fraser, and not the Palmetto Dunes Development Company, would the old Leamington Lighthouse be painted in a red and white candy stripe like the iconic Harbour Town Lighthouse? We may never know.

My friend, Ms. Susan White Treadaway, a Bluffton local now, remembers when her father (Mr. Johhny White) moved them from Greenwood SC down to Hilton Head when she was around 4 years old. Although she remembers very little about her time in Greenwood, she fondly remembers early Hilton Head Island, where she would grow up and never really leave.

“I can vaguely remember our first house which was located in the South Forest Beach area and my mother bathing my little sister in the kitchen sink as we did not have a tub. I remember going to Montessori School which was located on South Forest Beach when I was quite young. I remember the slide on the playground area that would slide us right into the dunes on the beach! I met my best friend, Tina Bates, at that time, and I am still best friends with her to this day! Tina’s father, Mr Charles Bates, actually designed the Hyatt in Palmetto Dunes.”

“When we moved to Palmetto Dunes, none of the roads were paved yet. My friend “E” Robinson, son of EG and Peg Robinson, and I were always outside

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things to do with some of the other neighborhood kids. Sometimes we would climb underneath some of the bridges and make “mudpies” and make our younger siblings eat them!”

“As we got older, my mother, Alison Marshall White, would go on to open the islands first furniture consignment shop called Nearly New. Mrs. Peg Robinson worked there along with Mrs. Marianne Barker, Maynard Barker’s wife (Barker Field). Later, Peg and Marianne opened up their own consignment shop, Classic Consignments, which is still in existence to this day.”

Ms. Susan left to go to college where she attended Lander University but came back to Hilton Head shortly after for a family tragedy. Today Ms. Susan can be found in her quaint cottage near the end of All Joy and Brighton Beach in Bluffton or working at Coastal Exchange in the plaza that once held Scotts Meat. (A fabulous store by the way, and owner Ms. Julie Hampton is a doll!)

When asked what kept Susan White Treadway here so long after her father had a hand in the development of Palmetto Dunes, she replied in such wonderful Lowcountry fashion:

“I can’t imagine living anywhere else!

Sometimes I think it may be nice to live where no one knows me. But then when I walk into the Piggly Wiggly in Coligny and run into (owner) David Martin and end up talking to him for thirty minutes in the “butt wipe” aisle, I think to myself: There is no better place on earth!”

Paul Tollefson is the Director of Tennis at the Hampton Hall Club in Bluffton. He found his love for the Lowcountry in early 2002 after graduating high school and unsure of what career path he was destined towards. After moving from Hilton Head to Bluffton he became enthralled with the history of the town and the people and

cultures that called it home for many generations. He has found a passion in writing and enjoys being able to share the stories and pictures of long-time locals. He is the co-creator of the Facebook page “Bluffton Then and Now.”

Weddings

The wedding was everything it should be: beautiful bride, handsome groom, perfect weather, ideal location. My granddaughter Sydney was marrying Liam, her true love and best friend. They stood in front of an ancient oak, clasped hands, and, prompted by an officiate, repeated their vows.

Husband and wife, they turned and faced us, family, friends.

Done.

Simple.

Not.

Took a year, maybe two or three of planning.

I thought of how different weddings can be, yet the basics are the same.

Outdoor weddings, like the one for the newly wed Mr. and Mrs. Finn at Honey Horn Plantation, are definitely a challenge.

Granddaughter Anna Catherine and her Blaine planned a bucolic beach wedding on Hilton Head, complete with a floral arch bursting with blooms and calm afternoon sea breezes.

Oops, an unwanted, unexpected, last-minute superstorm named Ernesto raged across the Lowcountry. Rain came pouring down. The wind blew fiercely.

The bursting-with-blooms floral arch, now a shade bedraggled, was moved inside to where tables had been set up for the wedding dinner. The displaced ceremonials were held on the dance floor.

Improv on steroids.

Yet another granddaughter married in the garden of a French castle. Who would have thought there would be an October heatwave in the Pyrenees’ foothills? Fortunately, massive stone walls kept the castle cool, and more importantly, there was a refrigerator to chill the champagne.

The funniest—no, not funniest—was an “I can’t believe this” outside family wedding in Edenton, North Carolina. The garden was gorgeous, weather sublime. Guests were seated in those fancy white folding chairs neatly lined up, bride’s side on the left, groom’s on the right. Everyone dressed to the nines.

Music softly played. Lots of Mozart. On and on. We waited for that special “Here Comes the Bride” tune. And waited. We visited. One guest left to make her hair appointment. She came back, freshly coiffed. We were still waiting. At long last, as the sun was setting over the bay, the bride appeared, absolutely stunning, beautiful in her wedding gown. The ceremony was a hiccup long. Finally, they were husband and wife. Time to go across the street to Wessington’s garden, where tables dressed with white cloths, flower arrangements, and lamps sheltered by hurricane glass chimneys were set up around a wooden dance floor, food was divine, shag music was North Carolina ready, and best of all, the bar was open.

We flew way out west for grandson Daniel’s wedding. It was an intimate outdoor ceremony at his Nevada home. The garden was small, Zen-like, with a soupçon of manicured grass protected from view and desert winds by a solid fence. Daniel and Justine, his lovely petite bride in her gown of satin and lace, exchanged vows before immediate members of the family. Then, off to a private room at a local Las Vegas casino for dinner and a serious bout of line dancing.

Another wedding that was a tad different had nothing to do with gardens or our family, but it intrigued us Savannahians.

Robert C. Roebling, whose great grandfather John A. had built the Brooklyn Bridge, raised black Angus cattle at Modena Plantation on Skidaway near Savannah back in the days before there was a bridge to that island, and they commuted by boat from Isle of Hope. The site of the plantation’s annual cattle auction was a circular 14,000 square foot barn used to host the wedding in 1950 of Roebling’s lovely 23-year-old daughter Ellin Cochran to James Hermann Hagan of Sylvania,

- flowers and potted palms, music and light libations, orchid corsages, and whiffs of Chanel No 5.

Northern hospitality, Southern style. Weddings can be costly, which is the understatement of the year. No one knew this better than Japanese couples in the 1960s who took advantage of a package deal offered by the Salvation Army in Hawaii. For a flat fee, everything needed, including obi, kimono, headpiece, and clogs, a wedding could be had with the service conducted in a charming lava rock chapel on the island of Oahu. The whole shebang, including airfare, was cheaper than a similar wedding in Japan. I drove past the chapel many times on my way to the Salvation Army’s Waioli Tea Room for lunch. From its lanai you could see the grass shack in which Robert Louis Stevenson, author of Treasure Island, on an 1840’s visit to Hawaii spent many an hour. Aloha, brah.

Then, there were church weddings.

One daughter married in Bluffton’s Church of the Cross on a summer day so hot you could have fried an egg on the sidewalk. The air conditioning was out in the parish hall. Shortest reception ever.

Another trotted up the aisle at the Evangelical Lutheran Church of the Ascension. Lovely wedding. However, we don’t have a

single picture. I’m still not sure what happened to the photographer. He was there. In the balcony. Totally zoned out?

Nothing went wrong at the Sacred Heart wedding in Savannah unless you count us running around like chickens with their heads cut off trying to find a safety pin when a bridesmaid’s zipper broke just before the service.

George William and I had the best wedding ever.

If you have a free hour or two, I’ll tell you all about it.

But I have to laugh to myself, thinking about Papa Harrell, who balked at wearing a tuxedo and what he called “all the folderol.” He graciously offered to give us $50.00 if we would run away to Ridgeland and be married by the Justice of the Peace.

Ah, but then who would have caught the bouquet?

Annelore Harrell’s journey is a tapestry woven with fascinating experiences and extraordinary accomplishments. Even at 92 in 2025, Annelore’s energy and zest for life continue to inspire. Annelore Harrell’s story is a testament to living with passion, resilience, and an unquenchable thirst for adventure.

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The best kept secret in the world are the names of the four ingredients of the sea salt diet recipe for losing weight. After about an hour and a half of their “seven-minute commercial” I realize it’s going to cost a pretty penny. Apparently, all my friends are skin and bones. No one knows what the missing ingredients are, and they aren’t as obsessed with diets.

Here’s what I do know: fat melts from the top down – that would explain why my earrings keep falling off because the only place I’m losing weight is in my earlobes. Unfortunately, it’s a little further south where the big problem lays.

What I really need is a patch. You know, like the ones they give you to stop smoking. Only, I need one for cheese- that’s my downfall. I’m addicted to Cheddar and

The best kept secret…

Swiss and Provolone and Manchango and while I’m getting the cheese patch I ought to slap on a Coca-Cola patch and a Milky Way bar patch and a potato chip patch. By the time I’m through putting on the patches of everything I’m addicted to, I’ll look like the decal back of a rusty old 1978 RV! It would be easier to invent a workout machine that could do all my exercising while I slept. I’d make room for a nice pillow with down feathers- this should be top-of-the-line. After I drift off to sleep, I will painlessly lose weight and get toned at the same time. Genius. Instant results, I tell myself. BBB thinks I should approach

the pharmaceutical companies and possibly could sleep for two weeks and dream my flab away.

I sense a tinge of sarcasm.

My husband also thinks I should drink more water. Water? I have it in my coffee every morning and I do use ice cubes in my martini - but eight glasses a day? What am I …a camel?

He pondered for a moment and asked if I’ve ever considered that my elbow is the culprit for shoveling food into my mouth. I told him that I can’t get into the blame game and sue every candy company around. I’d hate to be the reason they

close Hershey Park.

So, I’m going to be a little more proactive. I won’t go to the movies anymore; therefore, I won’t eat the two giant buckets of over drenched buttered popcorn that I usually buy.

Speaking of gluttony though, If you ask me, I think they’re not making the hot fudge banana split sundaes as big as they used to - I’ll cut down to one a day. Hopefully Ben and Jerry can survive without my contributions to Rocky Road and Cherry Garcia.

I probably should be rewarding my earlobes with a nice pair of pearl earrings. Nothing says ‘keep up the good work’ like jewelry.

Unfortunately, I’ve noticed that my dog seems to be packing on some extra pounds as well (it might be the vanilla ice cream I’ve been buying him.) I think I’ll go to the pet store and buy him some doggy sweat clothes.

“Perhaps I should be inventing doggy exercise machines” I informed my husband. BBB stared at me for a moment and with the most sincere voice announced, “Darn it, they already have…It’s called a leash!”

DANIE CONNOLLY

Independence within community – finding the right moment for independent living

The decision to transition to an Independent Living community represents a significant life choice, and many struggle to identify the optimal timing for this lifestyle change. Rather than waiting for declining health or mobility issues to force the decision, many suggest recognizing the proactive indicators that signal readiness for independent living that can lead to more positive and fulfilling experiences with this choice.

Freedom Factor: When Maintenance Becomes a Burden

One of the clearest signs that it may be time to consider an independent community is when home maintenance begins to feel overwhelming rather than rewarding. “Tired of spending 60 hours per month on housekeeping?” is a question resonating with many adults approaching retirement age (A Place for Mom, 2024). The endless cycle of yard work, home repairs, and household cleaning and management can consume precious time that could be better spent on personal interests, like sports and hobbies and keeping and growing your relationships.

Many prospective community members discover that the maintenance-free lifestyle offered by independent living allows them to reclaim their weekends and redirect their energy toward more meaningful pursuits. When thinking of climbing ladders to clean gutters or spending entire Saturdays on lawn care begins to feel more like a chore than a choice, it may signal readiness for a different living arrangement. And if your green thumb becomes itchy, many communities have member gardens or workshops to get those DIY hands dirty!

Another Lowcountry feature that many communities in our area offer is help with hurricane planning or even all-inclusive hurricane evacuation services that can allay concerns of the “where to go and how to get there” questions if a weather event requires leaving the area for safety, plus any clean up and repairs after a storm.

Social Connection and Community Building

Desire for deeper social connections often emerges as a key motivator for exploring independent living. Many adults who find themselves spending increasing amounts of time alone, particularly after retirement or the loss of a spouse, may benefit from the inviting and open social structures these communities provide.

Isolation that can accompany traditional suburban living becomes more pronounced with age, especially when adult children move away and longtime neighbors relocate. Independent living communities address this challenge by creating

environments where “neighbors build lasting friendships and often become close like a family” (Where You Live Matters, 2024). In my experience in senior living, I’ve seen amazing friendships develop in these communities, making these years some of the most significant in terms of person relationship growth, comfort, and understanding.

Health and Wellness Considerations

The emphasis on active living within the independent living communities offers significant health advantages that extend beyond simple convenience. “Specific health benefits associated with staying active and social in a 55+ community include: reducing the risk for cardiovascular problems, rheumatoid arthritis, some cancers and osteoporosis” (Messiah Lifeways, 2025). These communities typically feature “fitness programs, wellness classes and opportunities to engage in physical recreation activities” (Private Communities).

Financial and Lifestyle Readiness

The decision to move to an independent living community often coincides with significant life transitions such as retirement, downsizing, or the desire to simplify financial obligations. Many adults find themselves maintaining homes that no longer match their current needs or lifestyle preferences.

Additionally, the predictable monthly fees associated with many of these communities can provide financial security by eliminating unexpected major expenses like roof repairs or HVAC replacements.

This financial predictability becomes increasingly valuable on fixed incomes.

Making the Decision

The ideal time to consider independent community living varies significantly among individuals, but common themes emerge. Those who value their independence while desiring reduced responsibilities, who seek active social engagement with peers, and who prefer to make housing decisions proactively rather than reactively often find the transition most rewarding.

The key lies in honest self-assessment about current satisfaction with living arrangements, future goals, and personal priorities. When the vision of community amenities, social opportunities, and simplified living begins to outweigh attachment to current housing, the timing may be right to explore available options.

The decision to move to an independent living community should feel empowering rather than limiting, representing a positive step forward to a lifestyle that better aligns with current needs and future aspirations. By recognizing the signs early and planning accordingly, adults can make this transition during a period of strength and choice rather than necessity.

Matt Uppenbrink, MS, is the Executive Director of The Seabrook of Hilton Head. Interested in learning more about The Seabrook of Hilton Head or if you would like to schedule a tour: https://www.theseabrook.com/ or call 843-842-3747.

Beaufort County secures $120 million for U.S. 278 bridge upgrades

The South Carolina Transportation Infrastructure Bank (SIB) has approved $120 million in funding for the U.S. 278 Corridor Project, a long-planned initiative to replace aging bridge spans and enhance transportation safety between Hilton Head Island and the mainland.

In a vote held June 23rd, the SIB board authorized funding for the project, which is considered a critical infrastructure improvement for Beaufort County. The funding will support replacement of the existing bridge spans, enhancements to safety features, and improvements aimed at bolstering evacuation capabilities during hurricane events. Additional upgrades will include improved traffic

signals, dedicated bike and pedestrian lanes, and better access points to nearby communities.

“Beaufort County is grateful for the State Infrastructure Bank’s vote today to approve funding for the U.S. 278 Corridor Project,” Beaufort County Council Chair Alice Howard was quoted as saying in a press release. “This is a monumental moment for Beaufort County residents and visitors, both present and future.”

The project is being led through a partnership between Beaufort County, the South Carolina Department of Transportation (SCDOT), and the Town of Hilton Head Island.

Officials said the approval marks a sig-

nificant milestone, allowing the project to move into the next phases of environmental review and final design. Construction is currently expected to begin in 2028.

According to the town’s release, the bridge spans currently in use are reaching the end of their effective life. Officials said the new infrastructure will improve traffic flow and public safety and provide more reliable evacuation routes during emergencies.

Beaufort County officials credited state legislators and local stakeholders who advocated for the revised project proposal, including Sen. Tom Davis, who played a key role in the process. His support helped secure state-level funding and facilitate

cooperation among various agencies.

Key milestones

• June 23rd, 2025: SIB approves $120 million in project funding

• Mid-2026: Final design phase to be gin

• 2028: Construction scheduled to start Public engagement will continue throughout the project’s development, with updates and design input opportunities provided by Beaufort County and SCDOT.

For more information and ongoing updates, residents can visit Beaufort County’s website: beaufortcountysc.gov or the Town of Hilton Head Island at hiltonheadislandsc.gov.

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