Hilton Head Sun • November 5, 2025

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Hilton Head’s holiday kick-off celebration at the Arts Center

Holiday cheer and family fun will fill the grounds of the Arts Center of Coastal Carolina on Saturday, Nov. 15th, as the Town of Hilton Head Island hosts its annual Holiday Kick-Off Festival, the community’s official start to the holiday season. The free, family-friendly celebration will take place from noon to 3 p.m. and is open to residents and visitors.

The afternoon will feature performances by talented local youth groups, holiday crafts for children, and photo opportunities with Santa, Mrs. Claus and

Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer. A highlight of the day will be a special preview performance from the cast of the Arts Center’s upcoming holiday production, the musical “Frozen,” offering guests a taste of the theater’s seasonal show. Festivalgoers can also enjoy shopping at the Holly Day Art Market, returning for its fifth year. The market showcases original work from local artists and makers, including handcrafted jewelry, paintings, photography, baked goods and Christmas decorations. .

The event will also include food and refreshments. A variety of food trucks will be on-site offering family favorites, along with soda, water, beer and wine. Guests can also participate in raffles and prize giveaways throughout the afternoon.

The Holiday Kick-Off Festival is presented by the Town of Hilton Head Island and the Arts Center of Coastal Carolina. Admission is free, and parking will be available on-site. For more information, visit www.artshhi.com or www.hiltonheadislandsc.gov

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Former Beaufort County deputy, neighbor arrested

A former Beaufort County Sheriff’s deputy and his neighbor have been arrested following a September incident in which the deputy was filmed pointing a gun at teenagers in his Hilton Head Island neighborhood while off duty.

William Paul “Billy” Squires, 41, and neighbor Brian Henry Stahlheber, 47, were taken into custody after a South Carolina Law Enforcement Division (SLED) investigation into the Sept. 28th incident in the Squiresgate neighborhood. Squires was fired Oct. 3rd after an internal investigation found he violated multiple agency policies, including misuse of a firearm, insubordination and unprofessional conduct.

Squires, a 19-year veteran of the sheriff’s office who was fired Oct. 3, is charged

with four counts of pointing and presenting a firearm and one count of breach of peace of an aggravated nature. Stahlheber faces charges of aggravated breach of peace and making a false complaint to law enforcement.

According to arrest warrants, Squires was off duty, in civilian clothing and under the influence of alcohol when he first approached several unarmed teenagers in the neighborhood. He reportedly returned home, put on his duty vest and weapon, and confronted them again without identifying himself as law enforcement or contacting dispatch.

Warrant documents say one teen told investigators he feared Squires was going to shoot him. A video of the incident widely shared online shows him pointing the weapon and shouting orders while the unarmed teens scream for help.

Stahlheber, according to warrants,

allegedly arrived on an ATV, physically restrained one teen and later admitted he falsely claimed to have seen an extended handgun magazine. No weapons were found on the teens, investigators said.

Deputies responding to the scene secured Squires’ weapon and relieved him of his badge, credentials and county-issued equipment.

Sheriff P.J. Tanner said following the internal investigation that Squires’ actions violated multiple agency policies, including misuse of a firearm, insubordination, and unprofessional conduct. Squires refused to take a sobriety test at the scene, according to reports.

SLED obtained warrants for both men and turned the case over to the Solicitor’s Office for prosecution.

The agency also confirmed that a civil lawsuit has been filed against Squires, alleging he pointed his service weapon at

unarmed minors and “deliberately enlisted neighborhood vigilantes.”

The incident drew widespread attention after cell phone footage of the confrontation was circulated online. Sheriff’s officials said the department moved quickly to ensure transparency and accountability, referring the matter to SLED for criminal review shortly after the incident.

Squires joined the Beaufort County Sheriff’s Office in 2006 and most recently served as a master sergeant. His firing and arrest have drawn widespread attention across the Lowcountry and beyond, with cell phone video of the encounter circulating online and the case being picked up by several national news outlets.

SLED’s investigation into the incident remains ongoing.

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EDITORIAL

By Mayor Alan Perry Contributor

Last month I was invited to speak to a local leadership class in my role as the Town’s mayor. These engagements provide a chance to share some details about how our municipal government works, my leadership experiences (the good, the bad and the ugly), and, if I’m doing it right, leave folks with a little inspiration about their ability to lead from wherever they are in life.

Did you know there are more than 57,000 books with “leadership” somewhere in the title on Amazon? To say that there are a few thoughts about what makes good, or even great, leadership is an understatement. As Town Council continues to tackle complex policy decisions from the dais in the coming months, I want to offer some insight into two of the most important leadership characteristics, in my opinion, that I believe should guide our approach.

To say it simply: humility and civility

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matter. Great leaders don’t tear others down to build something up. Great leadership, the kind that sets the stage for effective and long-lasting decisions that do right for most people, that incorporates multiple viewpoints, and which demonstrates compassion for those whose shoes you haven’t walked in, is also self-aware.

Great leaders recognize that problems or challenges are often more intricate than any one person’s ability to solve. They balance time, knowledge, and the need for more of both before deciding what to do, especially given the pace and fluidity with which things can change. That’s not analysis paralysis, either: that’s understanding policy decisions need to be driven by specific goals, evidence, research, feedback, and a willingness to change your mind once you’ve learned more.

Great leaders don’t just point out the problems respectfully, they show up with solutions. They recalibrate when they understand that unintended consequences changed the intended outcome.

Great leaders never have all the answers, but they are willing to go to responsible ends to find them, customize them, and think critically before presuming to know the best path forward. They learn. They teach. They are vulnerable and do their best with the information they have.

Great leaders put the needs of those

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they serve ahead of personal agendas, desires and beliefs.

Hilton Head Island, as we know it right now, is the culmination of some great leadership choices — from the stewardship of the land by Indigenous cultures and the Gullah community to Charles Fraser’s visionary, planned-development leadership — all of which continue to inform who we are as a town.

And yes, some of the challenges we face today are the result of some notso-great decisions over time. But Hilton Head Island belongs to us all — residents, businesses and visitors — and I want you to know that your Town Council is proud of that.

As we move forward, it’s going to take more than strength, decisiveness, vision and action for us as your leaders to do what’s in the best interest of our community as a whole; we must also lead from a place of civility and humility that doesn’t fuel a fire of negativity, finger-pointing, disinformation and divisiveness. Those who lead with fire end up destroying the very thing they seek to improve, whereas great leaders build solutions and address challenges from a civil and humble foundation.

Alan Perry: Alan Perry is the mayor of the Town of Hilton Head Island. AlanP@ hiltonheadislandsc.gov

Town Council special meeting highlights

The Hilton Head Island Town Council held a special called meeting on Monday, Oct. 13.

A full recording of the meeting is available on the Town’s YouTube channel, and a complete meeting overview (agenda and packet materials) is posted by the Town and can be found here: hiltonheadsc. portal.civicclerk.com.

Town Council met to consider the first reading of an ordinance to repeal and replace Title 10, Chapter 2 of the Municipal Code of the Town of Hilton Head Island Entitled Short-Term Rentals. The primary goal in considering short-term rental ordinance amendments is to protect and enhance the quality of life for residents and visitors.

Town Council voted to amend the proposed short-term rental ordinance with the following changes:

1. Require a fire alarm system only for short-term rentals which have 3,600

or more square feet. The system must meet the intent of the National Fire Alarm and Signaling Code standards. Remove the requirement of a manual fire alarm.

2. Limit parking for short-term rentals to a maximum of six exterior parking spaces as described in the property site plan. Garage parking spaces are not included in this count.

3. No occupancy limitations. The effective date for these changes

is May 1, 2026. The one exception to this compliance time frame is for the fire safety alarm requirement for permit holders. For those permit holders with a valid permit on the adoption date of the proposed ordinance (considered by Town Council on Oct. 21, 2025), compliance with the fire safety alarm requirements is May 1, 2027. Upon second reading and adoption of the repeal and replace ordinance for short-terms rentals, the new annual permit period will be May 1 to April 30, which aligns with the business license renewal period.

Since the Community Development and Public Services Committee did not act to amend the Fiscal Year 2026 Consolidated Budget fee schedule and short-term rental permit fees during their meeting on Oct. 7., any changes to short-term rental permit fees will be brought forward for Town Council consideration as part of a future budget ordinance or amendment.

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South Carolina takes the wheel on modernizing its roads

By Rep. Jeff Bradley Contributor

After decades of stop-and-go progress on transportation funding, South Carolina has, over the past year, accelerated into a new era of statewide highway improvement, and at last we will see the fruits of it on I-95 between Exit 8 and the Savannah River.

The South Carolina Department of Transportation (SCDOT) has officially broken ground on its largest contract ever with the $825-million widening and modernization of Interstate 95 at the South Carolina-Georgia line. The project will add a lane in each direction along the 10-mile stretch from the Georgia side of the river to U.S. Route 278, plus several interchange upgrades and bridge replacements.

More than 64,000 vehicles currently travel this section daily, many of them freight trucks. Our SC Secretary of Transportation, Justin Powell once called the stretch of highway “one of the most notorious choke points on the entire Maine to Miami corridor.” The improvements are designed not only to ease congestion but also to prepare the corridor for projected 2050 traffic volumes as the Lowcountry continues to grow.

Additionally, while bulldozers are rolling in the Lowcountry, state lawmakers in Columbia are laying the groundwork for a longer-term fix to how South Carolina plans, funds, and manages its roadways. This summer, House Speaker Murrell Smith appointed a bipartisan SCDOT Modernization Committee to determine how SCDOT can better serve the needs of the Palmetto State’s rapidly growing population.

My good friend Shannon Erickson, Beaufort’s state representative, is cochair of the committee. She and her panel have been traversing the state, gathering testimony from citizens, engineers, and business leaders, examining where things are going well and where they are not.

The need is obviously pressing. South Carolina maintains the fourth-largest state-owned road network in the USA —41,000 miles—even though it is the 11th smallest state. And with a population growth that ranks among the nation’s fastest, the strain on infrastructure is mounting.

Since lawmakers raised the gas tax in 2017 (for the first time in 30 years) the South Carolina has repaved nearly 10,000 miles of roadway and reduced fatalities by 20 percent on completed projects. But those funds were mostly targeted at long-delayed repairs, not new capacity. Now, the focus is shifting to expansion and efficiency.

Transportation officials and lawmakers alike say the goal is not just to build more roads, but to build them smarter—coordinating both local and state priorities, and potentially giving counties greater responsibility for maintaining local roads. I agree with Shannon who has said in many cases local governments could do it more efficiently, but the challenge is helping them afford it.

This I-95 project matters greatly to Beaufort County and Hilton Head Island as a significant quality-of-life and economic milestone. The new six-lane highway will ease the frustration of getting to the Savannah Airport and for seasonal vacationers reaching our island. For residents, overall roadway improvements mean fewer backups and safer bridges with travel more predictable and less stressful — especially during tourist season or hurricane evacuations.

Jeff Bradley is the representative for District 123 in the State House of Representatives.

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26th Community Thanksgiving Dinner returns

By Sasha Sweeney Editor

The spirit of gratitude and fellowship will once again fill Hudson’s Seafood House on the Docks this Thanksgiving, as volunteers and organizers prepare for the 26th annual Community Thanksgiving Dinner on Thursday, Nov. 27, from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m.

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The free, family-style meal, a Lowcountry tradition since 1999, is expected to serve more than 1,500 residents and visitors this year. The event is a partnership between St. Andrew By-The-Sea United Methodist Church and Hudson’s Seafood House on the Docks, which hosts the dinner each Thanksgiving Day.

The Community Thanksgiving Dinner began 26 years ago after an Island Packet article highlighted residents with nowhere to go for the holiday. Hudson’s co-owner Brian Carmines, community member Allan LaCoe, and Betsy Doughtie, former executive director of the Deep Well Project, came together to create a shared meal open to anyone in need of company or food. With the help of St. Andrew By-The-Sea, the first dinner served about 500 people.

This year marks a leadership transition. After 25 years of organizing the event, Gloria and Allan LaCoe have retired from their volunteer roles. Lesley Kyle, who has served on the leadership team for the past two years, has stepped in to coordinate the 2025 dinner.

“The LaCoes have done a wonderful job all these years and I’m honored to step into the role,” Kyle said in the event announcement. She added that her move to the island and membership in St. Andrew By-The-Sea made the opportunity feel like a natural fit.

Hudson’s co-owner Andrew Carmines said the restaurant is proud to continue hosting the event. “The Thanksgiving dinner is such a tremendous community endeavor every year, and we are excited to host and serve again at this year’s event,” he said in a prepared statement.

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While the meal is free, donations collected during the event and through the Community Thanksgiving website benefit local nonprofit organizations, including Bluffton Self Help, the Deep Well Project, and Second Helpings.

For more information or to contribute, visit communitythanksgiving.com.

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When: Thursday, Nov. 27, 11 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Where: Hudson’s Seafood House on the Docks, Squire Pope Road, Hilton Head Island

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Hosted by: St. Andrew ByThe-Sea United Methodist Church and Hudson’s Seafood House on the Docks Volunteer info: Registration typically fills by mid-October

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Visitors and locals alike attend the Community Thanksgiving Dinner, co-founded by St. Andrew By-The-Sea UMC and Hudson’s Seafood House on the Docks.

Yellow-legged hornets confirmed in Bluffton; officials urge residents to report sightings

By Sasha Sweeney Editor

The Town of Bluffton, in partnership with Clemson University Extension, has confirmed the presence of yellow-legged hornet nests in several locations around Bluffton, including one near the intersection of Calhoun and Lawton streets in Old Town.

Clemson Extension specialists safely removed the nest and are planning additional removals.

Town officials are urging residents to report any sightings of the invasive species, which pose a threat to honeybees and other pollinators vital to agriculture and the environment.

The yellow-legged hornet, native to Southeast Asia, was first detected in the United States in 2023 near Savannah, Ga., before

spreading into South Carolina. According to Clemson University, the hornets prey on bees and other insects and, if left unchecked, could harm pollination, reduce honey production and disrupt native ecosystems.

“Early detection is key to protecting our environment,” said Larry Beckler, Bluffton’s public

services director. “Working with Clemson Extension allows us to remove nests safely and prevent these hornets from becoming established in Bluffton.”

Officials advise residents not to disturb suspected nests or attempt removal on their own. The hornets can become aggressive if threatened.

Nests are typically tan or gray in color, egg- or pear-shaped, and constructed from chewed wood fibers. Mature nests can reach up to 20 inches in diameter, often hanging high in trees or attached to structures such as sheds or eaves. The entrance hole is usually located on the side of the nest rather than at the bottom.

Residents who believe they have spotted a nest or individual hornets should report sightings immediately through Clemson University Extension’s online portal at www.clemson.edu/public/regulatory/plant-industry/ invasive

The town continues to work with Clemson University and state agencies to track and manage sightings across the Lowcountry.

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What: Yellow-legged hornets confirmed in Bluffton

Nests often found high in trees or attached to structures

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Beaufort Memorial begins work on Hilton Head’s Emergency & Urgent Care facility

By Emma June Grosskopf Contributor

Emergency and urgent care services are now only one year away from making a difference in southern Beaufort County, as work has begun on the site of Beaufort Memorial’s combination healthcare facility on Hilton Head Island.

Beaufort Memorial, with MUSC Health, is bringing emergency and urgent care services under one roof to the southern end of Hilton Head Island. The site along William Hilton Parkway saw its first flurry of activity as demolition on the vacant structure began Oct. 27. This demolition process is slated to take two weeks, with construction immediately following.

The facility, which will be open 24/7 and staffed with emergency-trained, board-certified physicians and nurses, will also be fully equipped with on-site lab equipment and a radiology suite that includes X-ray and CT scanners. With a construction timeline of 12-14 months, the facility is expected to open in Fall 2026.

“Beaufort Memorial is staying true to its promise to expand access and grow healthcare services in southern Beaufort County,” said Beaufort Memorial President and CEO Russell Baxley. “This combination emergency and urgent care facility is a huge milestone, providing an innovative, patient-centered approach to deliver healthcare on Hilton Head Island.”

Beaufort Memorial is partnering with Dallas-based Intuitive Health to open one of the first combination ER & urgent care sites in South Carolina. It’s a critical step for the nonprofit community hospital system in its dedication to meet the ever-growing need for medical care on Hilton Head Island.

“We’re proud to partner with Beaufort

Memorial to bring this innovative care model to Hilton Head Island,” said Thom Herrmann, CEO of Intuitive Health. “By combining emergency and urgent care services under one roof, patients and families will no longer have to decide where to go when they need care. They can simply come to one location and trust that they’ll receive the right level of care, right away.”

The facility’s innovative model keeps healthcare costs at the appropriate level for patients. If it’s determined that the patient doesn’t require emergency-level care, they are treated with urgent care services and receive a bill to match. Patients can expect the walk-in convenience of an urgent care (no appointment needed) as well as the medical expertise of a traditional hospital ER –without the traditional wait time, saving them time, money and peace of mind.

“We are pleased to be able to provide enhanced access to emergency and urgent care services to the residents of the Hilton Head Island community alongside Beaufort Memorial,” said Patrick J. Cawley, M.D., MUSC Health CEO and executive vice president for Health Affairs, University. “When a patient experiences a sudden health concern, they want the best quality care delivered as quickly as possible, and this facility provides just that.”

Beaufort Memorial Emergency & Urgent Care is only the first major milestone in Beaufort Memorial’s ongoing commitment to expanding access to healthcare services on Hilton Head Island.

“Beaufort Memorial has always been dedicated to growing in smart, innovative ways,” Baxley said. “This combination urgent care and ER is a fantastic first step in our goal to continue making high-quality, cost-effective healthcare more accessible for Lowcountry residents, especially those on Hilton Head Island.”

HHI Community Market accepting 2026 nonprofit applications

By Channing Heiss Contributor

The Hilton Head Community Market is accepting applications until Dec. 1 from local nonprofit leaders wishing to have their organizations considered for one of the month-long spots from February through December as a featured nonprofit.

Selected nonprofits are awarded a free booth at the Shelter Cove Community Park location every Saturday of the month during the market’s business hours from 9:30am to 12:30pm. There, they have the opportunity to set up a tent and a display table where they can welcome visitors, provide organization literature, and explain their mission. Representatives from these organizations are expected to be present for at least three of the Saturday markets during the month they are featured, and are encouraged to attend all of them, excepting cases of dangerous weather or other unforeseeable circumstances.

Social media engagement by the nonprofit and cross-promotion among participants is encouraged. The featured nonprofit receives 50 percent of the amount taken in from vendor fees during the month and may receive additional money from donations. Each featured

organization is guaranteed a minimum of $700, but many participants value the promotional opportunity at least as much as the money.

The nonprofits are a mixture of seasoned organizations with several appearances at the market and newcomers introducing themselves. Among the newest participants this season were All About Cats, The Mary Green Chorale, and Lowcountry Legal Volunteers.

Fifteen applications were submitted for the 2025 season. Market co-founder Andrea Hattler-Bramson explains what the organizers are looking for in an applicant.

“We want to see how they impact and work with and for the community,” she said.

Preference is given to organizations located in Beaufort and Jasper counties and not nationally affiliated.

Prospective participants must fill out the application on the Hilton Head Community Market website.

Those selected for a nonprofit spot on the 2026 market calendar, which runs from February through December, will be notified of their selection by email no later than January 15, 2026.

Channing Heiss is a freelance writer and a member of the Beaufort County disAbilities Coalition.

Coligny Plaza Black Friday celebration

Coligny Plaza will launch the holiday season Friday, Nov. 28th, with a full day of shopping, entertainment, and family fun during its annual Black Friday celebration — capped by Santa’s arrival by helicopter and the debut of a new pop-up Christmas bar.

“Black Friday has become a day that we really honor Coligny’s commitment to the community,” said JR Richardson, owner of Coligny Plaza. “It’s a day-long opportunity for our shops and restaurants to get a jump on the holidays, and a chance for the community to come together and celebrate.”

New to this year’s event, Carolina Coffee & Crumbs will transform into a holiday-themed speakeasy beginning on Black Friday and continuing through the season.

The pop-up bar will feature festive décor, music, and specialty cocktails.

“We’re so excited to put a pop-up Christmas bar in Coligny,” said owner Erika Waronsky. “The festive atmosphere here is perfect for this. It’s all about celebrating the joy of the season together.”

Family activities will begin with the Jevon Daly Kids Show from 11:30 a.m. to 1 p.m., offering music, comedy, and holiday fun. Santa Claus is scheduled to make his entrance at 12:45 p.m., arriving by helicopter before meeting children and taking photos from 1 to 2:30 p.m.

The celebration continues throughout December, as shoppers and diners can enter to win $1,000 by submitting receipts from Coligny businesses at www.colignyplaza.com/christmas.

By Mark Winn Contributor

A good estate plan will avoid “the last minute switcheroo”

If you want to structure your legal affairs so as to (1) keep your assets in your family, (2) leave assets to loved ones protected from lawsuits, (3) have your loved ones be able to take steps to qualify you for government benefits such as Medicaid, (4) avoid the acceleration of income taxes on retirement accounts, (5) avoid estate taxes, and (6) keep your affairs private and out of the view of the general public, then you need a good estate plan. A good estate plan for you and your family will also avoid the last minute switcheroo.

Without careful guidance and representation from a qualified attorney, then you

will not achieve the above benefits. After having represented more than 2,000 people over the course of more than one decade, I have seen many cases where the survivor altered the ultimate distribution of assets, sometimes disinheriting people that the first spouse did not want disinherited. This is “the last minute switcheroo” most want to avoid. The solution to this is to leave assets “in trust” with vested remainder interests and to use an agreement not to alter the plan.

Let’s say, for example, Kevin and Susie (the clients) have two children: Hobbs and Fritz. The clients are in their late 60’s and they want to make sure Hobbs and Fritz will inherit what is left over in equal shares. They want to make sure that it will not be subject to loss in divorce if either of their children get divorced. They also want to make sure their kids can try and qualify them for Medicaid should they become disabled. Okay, so what should they do?

They should each make sure their papers direct their assets (upon survivor’s passing) go to their children in two sepa-

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rate trusts. Each child can be the trustee of their own trust. Each child will therefore have total control of the trust which is for their benefit. It will be protected from loss if they get sued (exceptions: IRS and child support). But, in all other cases, the creditors will be out of luck. This is like a built-in prenuptial agreement for your assets. Kevin and Susie can also make sure when their kids pass that the remaining funds will go to grandchildren and not in laws.

If Kevin and Susie do not sign an agreement not to alter the plan, and if Susie survives, there is nothing preventing her from being taken advantage of by someone else in the future or from her getting remarried and her changing the disposition of her property.

Under South Carolina law, an agreement not to alter the plan gives the children rights that are enforceable in court. So, if Susie survives and then redirects her property to a new love interest, or if she is unduly influenced to change her papers, the children (Hobbs and Fritz) will be able to assert their rights in court and

Mark F. Winn, Master of Laws (LL.M.) in Estate Planning, a local asset protection, estate planning and elder law attorney. www.mwinnesq.com

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Great idea, now what? Turning inspiration into a business plan

By Lucy Rosen Contributor

• Pricing out what people actually pay for similar services.

If you skip this, you risk building something no one wants. And then you’ll be the proud owner of an expensive hobby.

Step 3: Write a baby business plan I’m not asking you to crank out a 50page document that no one but a bored banker will ever read. I’m talking about a one-page sanity check. Who are you serving? What problem are you solving? How will you make money? How much do you need to get started? Write it down. Seeing it on paper turns the dream into something you can act on.

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So, you’ve got a business idea. Congratulations! Welcome to the club of women who’ve stood in the shower, at a red light, or in the middle of Target thinking, “This could be a business.” It’s exhilarating. It’s intoxicating. And if you’re not careful, it’s also the fastest way to go broke buying domain names at 2 a.m.

Here’s the cold splash of water: an idea is not a business. It’s the spark. And sparks are fabulous—especially if you actually build a fire out of them. But too many women get stuck in “dream mode.” They doodle logos, brainstorm names, maybe even set up an Instagram handle… but never move past the fun part. If you want this to be more than a hobby with business cards, it’s time to get serious.

Step 1: Gut-check your idea

Ask yourself three questions:

1. Who actually needs this? (And “everyone” is not an answer.)

2. Why would they pay for it?

3. How is this different from what already exists?

If you can’t answer those, you don’t have a business yet—you have a cute concept. And that’s okay! But your rent isn’t going to accept “concepts” as payment.

Step 2: Validate before you renovate

Don’t sink money into websites, equipment, or Aunt Linda’s cousin’s cousin’s marketing package until you know your idea holds water. That means market research. (Yes, the dreaded phrase.) But listen, “market research” doesn’t have to mean a 200page MBA-approved binder. It can be as simple as:

• Talking to 10 potential customers.

• Stalking your competition (online, not in person—orange jumpsuits are not a good look).

Step 4: Stop hiding, start doing Perfection is the enemy of progress. Your logo doesn’t need to be perfect. Your website doesn’t need to sparkle. What you need is momentum. Pick one small step this week: schedule a coffee with a mentor, set up your LLC, or call that first potential client. Do something. The Bottom Line Ideas are easy. Execution is where the women-owned empires are built. So if you’ve been sitting on your “someday business” idea for too long, consider this your loving shove: Get out of your head and into the world.

Because the truth is, your great idea isn’t going to launch itself. And if you wait too long, someone else will.

Lucy Rosen has spent 40+ years helping women find business success. She also runs the Lowcountry Women’s Network. Lucy@smartmarketingcommunications. com.

5 FAST STEPS TO TURN YOUR IDEA INTO ACTION

1. Write it down. Ideas vanish — put yours on paper today.

2. Talk to three people who might actually buy it.

3. Google your competition. (If no one’s doing it, there might be a reason.)

4. Run the numbers. Even rough math beats “I think it’ll work.”

5. Tell someone out loud. Saying it makes it real — and gets you moving.

LUCY ROSEN

ENDLESS WAYS TO PLAY

MORE THAN NEIGHBORS

Hilton Head Seahawks Capture the 4-AAAA Girls Golf State Championship

Hilton Head Island High School’s girls golf team captured the 4-AAAA state championship at Hilton Head Lakes, winning by 30 strokes in cold, rainy conditions. Sophomore Harper Hedden led the Seahawks with a 1-under total to claim the individual state title as Hilton Head posted the lowest team score in South Carolina that day.

Sea Pines Resort earns accolades

The Sea Pines Resort on Hilton Head Island has received multiple national honors for 2025, highlighting its excellence in hospitality, dining, and recreation.

Condé Nast Traveler named The Inn & Club at Harbour Town one of the top 10 hotels in the South, while The Sea Pines Resort ranked among the top 20 Southern resorts in the magazine’s Readers’ Choice Awards. The annual rankings, based on surveys of more than 750,000 readers, recognize leading destinations, hotels, and travel experiences worldwide.

Adding to the acclaim, Tripadvisor named Quarterdeck — the resort’s signature waterfront restaurant — one of the Top 25 Casual Dining Restaurants in the United States, placing it at No. 18. The recognition celebrates the restaurant’s relaxed coastal atmosphere, locally inspired seafood, and sweeping views of Harbour Town Marina and Calibogue Sound.

Golf Digest also ranked the resort No.

28 on its 2025 list of “America’s 75 Best Golf Resorts,” praising the scenic design of Atlantic Dunes by Davis Love III, the restored Harbour Town Golf Links, and Heron Point’s challenging layout.

“We are honored to be recognized by readers and travelers across the country,” said Steve Birdwell, president of The Sea Pines Resort, in a prepared statement. “These awards reflect our team’s dedication to delivering exceptional guest experiences.”

For more information, visit www. seapines.com

What this means for you: Inventory and new listings are both up sharply, giving buyers more options, but homes are taking longer to sell—up 77% year-over-year. Prices have climbed 8% to a $1.3M median, showing steady demand despite the slowdown. Sellers can still command strong values, though realistic pricing and patience are key in today’s shifting market. Call Andy today to discuss your real estate needs!

With more than 30 years of experience in the local real estate market, Andy Twisdale brings unmatched knowledge and insight to every transaction. As a seasoned Realtor, he has not only witnessed but helped shape Hilton Head Island’s growth, making him an indispensable guide for both buyers and sellers navigating the market.

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At Seabrook, everyday is a masterpiece. Whether it’s painting by the pond or sharing laughter side by side, our community celebrates connection, creativity, and the simple joy of being together.

Daufuskie Island Independent School seeks head of school and teachers

By Emily Loader Contributor

The Daufuskie Island Independent School (DIIS), hailed by International Business Times as a model for “reimagining rural education,” is growing— and now seeking a Head of School and dedicated teachers to help shape its next chapter.

Founded in 2023, DIIS was created to provide local students with access to quality middle school education without the hours-long commute to the mainland that island families previously faced.

“The education gap here wasn’t just wide; it was isolating,” said DIIS co-founder Kimberly Lundgren. “We wanted to rewrite that narrative.”

According to International Business

Times, DIIS “was born out of necessity” as the public middle school was disbanded over 20 years ago with no replacement despite need and discussion. “The community had been petitioning for years to bring it back, but no one heard them,” Lundgren learned as she listened to frustrated voices.

Drawing on decades of experience navigating public, private, urban, and rural education systems around the world, Kimberly Lundgren brought a global perspective to Daufuskie Island. Having witnessed families abroad—from Malaysia to Zimbabwe—sacrifice everything to access quality schooling, Lundgren applied best global practices from her international work.

Emphasizing community engagement and hands-on learning, she (with co-founder Justin Dacanay and community organizer Erin Quinn) designed a school that is deeply rooted in place, leverages local expertise, and provides students with a rigorous, real-world education without forcing them to leave their families or community. Her approach turned DIIS into a model of learner-centered, inquiry-based education adaptable to communities throughout the

world.

DIIS’s model of rural education is built on community volunteers and collaborators. Local residents, retirees, and professionals contribute to student learning by teaching electives, mentoring, and supporting handson projects. Students learn about their island by engaging in environmental science by analyzing local water samples with the NOAA and mapping coastal erosion using decades of GIS data.

“You don’t need massive funding or sprawling campuses to deliver exceptional education,” Lundgren emphasized. “You need creativity, community, and a belief that every child deserves a top-quality and inspiring education.”

DIIS has received national recognition for its approach. Stand Together, which supports education innovation, highlighted DIIS as an inspiring model of learner-centered, individualized education, shaped by the students, parents, educators, and neighbors who believed “communities don’t have to rely on external interventions or accept the status quo when it comes to teaching their kids. Instead, innovation in education

can come from parents, neighbors, retirees, and students.”

Now entering its second academic year, this microschool continues to expand its offerings and impact. To meet growing demand, the school is seeking a part-time Head of School to guide its next phase of development, along with additional part-time teachers who are passionate about experiential, place-based learning. Lundgren reiterated, “You build something that can sustain itself because it belongs to the people.”

Educators who are creative, collaborative, and inspired by learner-driven education are encouraged to explore this new adventure. For application details or to learn more, visit www.diis-sc.org or email admin@diis-sc.org.

A native South Carolinian, Emily is happiest in the sunshine with a big bowl of grits and a side of “burrelled” peanuts. She thinks in prose as she explores the coast on foot, bike, and boat with her family and she sure loves calling this community of B-LOVEton home.

FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 28

EMILY LOADER

Hilton Head Real Estate November Market Update

By Dan Prud’homme Contributor

As the year winds down, Hilton Head Island’s real estate market continues to move in fascinating ways. After several months of steady activity, October brought some dramatic shifts worth unpacking.

The most striking change is in the average days on market, which dropped to just 42 from 81 last month, nearly a 48 percent decrease. This is the lowest level seen since mid 2022, when homes were selling at a record pace. A year ago, properties were averaging 70 days on the market, so this decline represents a notable acceleration in buyer activity. This kind of movement suggests renewed confidence, likely driven by easing mortgage rates and seasonal momentum as buyers look to close before year end.

Inventory saw a modest but meaningful

increase, rising to 883 active listings from 857 last month. That 3 percent rise follows typical late fall patterns when new listings appear before the holidays. Compared to the 734 homes for sale in November 2024, this year’s supply is up about 20 percent, giving buyers more choices than they have had in the past several years. Even so, current inventory remains well below pre pandemic averages, when the island regularly carried more than 1300 listings. Closed sales dipped slightly to 165 from 179 last month, an 8 percent decrease. While that may sound like a slowdown, it is consistent with seasonal trends heading

into the holidays. For perspective, November 2024 saw just 120 closed sales, meaning this month’s total is still up 37 percent year over year, clear evidence of a market that is more active than last fall.

One area that deserves close attention is pricing. The list to sale price ratio slid to 93.9 percent from 95.2 percent last month. That is the lowest point since 2020 and reflects growing negotiating room for buyers. A year ago, sellers were receiving 95.4 percent of their asking prices, so this drop confirms what I have been telling clients, that this is the best opportunity buyers have had to secure a strong deal in

at least five years and probably the next five as well.

Median sales prices tell a longer story. At $1,171,506, this year’s median is up 7.7 percent from 2024’s $1,087,500, continuing a steady climb from $1,035,000 in 2023 and $925,000 in 2022. Over the past five years, that represents a 46 percent increase, proof of Hilton Head’s enduring long term value even through short term fluctuations.

Altogether, Hilton Head Island is showing early signs of rebalancing. With slightly higher inventory, slower sales, and greater buyer leverage, the market is leaning toward neutral but still carries strong fundamentals. For those looking to buy, conditions may not be this favorable again for quite some time. Sellers who have been patient this year are also likely to benefit as rates stabilize, and demand accelerates again in early 2026. Talk to you next month!

Dan Prud’homme is the Visionary & Success Coach of The Prud’homme Team at William Raveis Real Estate. dan@danprudhomme.com theprudhommeteam.com.

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Coastal Discovery Museum retrospective honors Hilton Head’s Round Table artists

The Coastal Discovery Museum will open a new exhibition Nov. 12th highlighting the influential group of artists known as the Round Table, whose weekly gatherings helped shape Hilton Head Island’s art community from the 1970s through the mid-1990s.

Titled It’s Thursday! Artists of the Round Table, the retrospective will feature about 80 works drawn from private collections and new museum acquisitions. The exhibition runs through March 23rd, 2026, at the museum’s galleries on the Honey Horn campus. An opening reception is scheduled for Thursday, Nov. 13th, from 5 to 7 p.m.

The Round Table artists include Aldwyth, Ralph Ballantine, Joe Bowler, Danielle DeMers, Joe DeMers, Ray Ellis, Elizabeth Grant, Walter Greer, Tua Hayes, Katy Hodgman, Louanne LaRoche, Allen Palmer, Marge Parker, George Plante, and Coby Whitmore. The group met every Thursday at The Red Piano Gallery to share ideas and critique one another’s work.

“We are thrilled to present this historically significant exhibition that captures a remarkable time in Hilton Head’s art community,” said Elizabeth Greenberg, the museum’s director of exhibitions. “I would have loved to have been at their Thursday meetings and listened to these influential artists talk about their craft.”

The exhibition will also display memorabilia, photographs, and articles about the artists, including writings by Christian Science Monitor art critic Theodore F. Wolff, who was a favorite of the group. The original red grand piano from The Red Piano Gallery and the round wooden table where the artists met will also be on display.

Louanne LaRoche, who owned The Red Piano Gallery and loaned the piano to the museum, reflected on her experience as the youngest member of the Round Table. “At 25, I was just a kid stepping into the world of the Round Table’s legendary artists,” LaRoche said. “They took me under their wings, teaching, inspiring, and supporting me. Their voices still echo in spirit today.”

LaRoche will speak at the museum on Dec. 4th as part of its Legends & Luminaries series, one of several programs marking the Coastal Discovery Museum’s 40th anniversary.

Free curator-led tours of the exhibition are scheduled for Dec. 16th at 1 p.m.; Jan. 22nd at 1 p.m.; Feb. 24th at 11 a.m.; and March 14th at 11 a.m.

Founded in 1985, the Coastal Discovery Museum is a Smithsonian Affiliate and nonprofit organization dedicated to preserving and sharing the natural and cultural history of the Lowcountry. More information is available at www.coastaldiscovery.org

Arts & Entertainment Calendar

The Roommate

October 31 – November 9, 2025 | HHPS Main Street Theater, 3000 Main Street, Hilton Head Island. By Jen Silverman, directed by Whitaker Gannon. A comedy-drama about an unexpected friendship between two very different women. Talkbacks follow Nov. 1, 2, 7 and 9 performances. leanensemble.org

SOBA Annual Holiday Market

November 3 – December 28 | SOBA Gallery, 6 Church Street, Bluffton Monday–Saturday: 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Sunday: 11 a.m.–3 p.m.

SOBA transforms its featured artist room into a cheerful boutique bursting with handcrafted treasures made by local artists. www.sobagallery.com

First Thursday Artisan Alley

Nov. 6 , 4 - 7 p.m. | The Shops at Sea Pines Center. Attendees can explore local art, crafts and food offerings while supporting a featured charity. theshopsatseapinescenter.com/

The Art of Storytelling: A Panel with Local Authors

Saturday, November 8, 2 - 3 p.m. Bluffton Branch Library, 120 Palmetto Way, Bluffton

Step into the world of storytelling with four talented local authors. Hear firsthand what sparks their creativity, how they shape ideas into stories, and the paths they’ve taken to publication and engage in a lively question -andanswer session. Afterward, continue the conversation while mingling with the authors and enjoying light refreshments, courtesy of the Friends of the Bluffton Library. Seating is first come, first

served.

Beaufortcountylibrary.org/calendar

Palm Trees & Pistons Car Show

Saturday, November 8, 9–11 a.m. | Nalas Beach Bar & Grill, Hilton Head Island

Monthly car show featuring vintage, antique, exotic, and muscle cars. Free admission for participants and spectators. Mention “Palm Trees & Pistons” in the restaurant that morning to receive 25% off breakfast from 9 a.m. to noon. Held the second Saturday of each month, weather permitting.

Opening Reception. Artist of Bluffton Library! Staff Creations

Saturday, November 10, 5:30 - 6:30 p.m, Bluffton Branch Library, 120 Palmetto Way, Bluffton

Be the first to explore this colorful and dynamic exhibit, featuring drawings, lithographs, paintings, sculptures, and more—all created by the people who make your library a special place. Enjoy light refreshments provided by the Friends of the Bluffton Library as you mingle, connect, and celebrate local creativity. Beaufortcountylibrary.org/ calendar

Library Plant Swap

November 10 | 1 p.m. | Hilton Head Branch Library, 11 Beach City Road, Hilton Head Island

Bring a healthy plant, seeds, or a rooted cutting to trade during the library’s free monthly Plant Swap. Indoor or outdoor, big or small—every plant is welcome. Browse the swap selection and chat about gardening with fellow plant lovers. For questions, call the Hilton Head Library Reference Desk at 843-2556525. www.beaufortcountylibrary.org

Author Talk with Mary J. Nestor

November 10 | 2–3 p.m. | Hilton Head Branch Library, 11 Beach City Road, Hilton Head Island

Local author Mary J. Nestor discusses her debut fiction release, Bus No. 7, during this free Friends of the Hilton Head Library event. No registration required. Signed copies of the book will be available for purchase. www.beaufortcountylibrary.org

Holiday Craft and Bake Sale

Saturday, November 15, 9 a.m.–2 p.m. | Christ Lutheran Church, 829 William Hilton Parkway, Hilton Head Island Sponsored by Hilton Head Plantation Crafters, featuring handmade items and baked goods. Admission free; proceeds benefit Hospice Care of the Lowcountry.

Thanksgiving Turtle Trot 5K

Thursday, November 27, 9 a.m. | The Dunes House, 14 Dunes House Ln., Hilton Head Island The fifth annual familyfriendly beach run/walk hosted by the Palmetto Dunes Property Owners Association. Registration is $35 for adults and $20 for kids 12 and under. Proceeds benefit Palmetto Dunes Cares, supporting local youth and environmental programs. Register at pdpoa.run

Community Thanksgiving Dinner

Thursday, November 27, 11 a.m.–3 p.m. | Hudson’s Seafood House on the Docks, Squire Pope Rd., Hilton Head Island

The 26th annual free, family-style Thanksgiving meal hosted by St. Andrew By-The-Sea United Methodist Church and Hudson’s. Donations benefit Bluffton Self Help, Deep Well Project, and Second Helpings. Open to residents

and visitors. communitythanksgiving. com | 843-505-1370

Hilton Head Choral Society’s “Celebrate the Holidays” Concert

December 5 | 7 p.m. | First Presbyterian Church, 540 William Hilton Parkway, Hilton Head Island

Celebrate the season with the Hilton Head Choral Society during an evening of cherished traditions and contemporary holiday favorites. This year’s program features selections from Handel’s Messiah in honor of the Society’s founding in 1975. Tickets are available at www. hiltonheadchoralsociety.org. For information or ticket assistance, call 843-341-3818 or email tickets@ hiltonheadchoralsociety.org.

JPII 2025 Ugly Sweater 5K Run & Walk

Saturday, December 6, 9 a.m. check-in | John Paul II Catholic School, 4211 N. Okatie Hwy., Ridgeland Festive 5K run and walk sponsored by the JPII PTO. Proceeds benefit JPII PTO programs. Race begins at 10 a.m. Registration is $35 by Nov. 19 (includes T-shirt) or $45 after Nov. 19. Prizes awarded to top finishers by age group and for the ugliest sweaters. Open to the public. Contact: Miranda Shipman, PTO@thejp2.org

Please note: Events are subject to change. For the most current details, contact event organizers directly. To submit events for consideration in future issues, email editor@blufftonsun. com.

Enjoy the Holidays

HOLIDAY ART WALK

November 14th 3 - 7 pm

Its the perfect time to start your holiday gift shopping!

MALL-TERNATIVE PARTY

November 28th All Day

Find the best LOCAL deals for all your gift giving this holiday season! Follow Shop Old Town Bluffton on Facebook & Instagram for more info.

3rd ANNUAL JINGLE STROLL

December 4th 3 - 7 pm

Find treats for every age and a few just for yourself. Be on the lookout for Santa!

CHRISTMAS TREE LIGHTING

December 5th 5:30-8:30 pm

Tree Lighting at Martin Family Park, then Santa’s Workshop and a Movie

CHRISTMAS PARADE

December 6th 10 am - 12 noon

54th annual parade through Historic Old Town Bluffton

The Old Town Merchants will be collecting donations for Blessing Box Project throughout November

November 18–January 3

10am-4pm,

Flatbread Grill

FLATBREAD GRILL

Quilt raffle celebrates Lowcountry history

A richly detailed quilt honoring 250 years of American and Lowcountry history is being raffled by the Heritage Library, offering participants a chance to own a one-of-a-kind work of quilted art piece while supporting local education and preservation programs.

Titled “A Stitch in Time,” the quilt was created by members of the Art Quilters of the Lowcountry; Ron Hodge, Peg Weschke, Ro Morrissey and Jody Wigton, whose work combines fine art techniques with the texture and warmth of traditional quilting. The group, known for exhibiting throughout the Lowcountry, donated their time and talents to bring the region’s history to life in fabric.

The quilt traces centuries of local heritage, from Native American roots and the Revolutionary War through Gullah culture and modern landmarks.

Each panel represents a distinct aspect of Lowcountry history, stitched together against a backdrop of sky, sea and marsh. The border includes palmettos, crescents and 13 stars representing the original colonies, along with imagery honoring African American contributions to the region’s story.

Members of the Art Quilters of the Lowcountry collaborated on the design and assembly of “A Stitch in Time,” contributing their individual skills and artistic styles to create a unified tribute to Lowcountry history.

Quilters Ron Hodge, Peg Weschke, Ro Morrissey and Jody Wigton are known regionally for their fine art quilts, which combine traditional craftsmanship with original design. Each artist brings a

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distinct approach, ranging from textile collage and fabric painting to intricate piecing and surface embellishment. Their techniques were united to depict key moments, landmarks and cultural symbols from across 250 years of local heritage. The completed sections were assembled and quilted by the group to create a cohesive design that weaves their individual styles into a single narrative of the Lowcountry’s past and present.

The quilt is part of the library’s “Educate & Celebrate” campaign, a series of programs and events tied to the national Semiquincentennial celebration marking 250 years since the American Revolution. The campaign focuses on the region’s diverse historical narratives and encourages community participation in commemorating the milestone.

Proceeds will benefit the Heritage Library’s educational programs, local history projects and genealogical research initiatives. The raffle is open to all, with no residency restrictions. Tickets are $10 each, or three for $25, and can be pur-

chased through the library’s website at heritagelib.org.

“A Stitch in Time”

Quilt Key:

Top row (left to right):

Church of the Cross Golf

Biking

Historic Gullah neighborhoods

Summer fireworks

Lowcountry arts and culture

Second row:

Water sports

Oystering

Eliza Pinckney

Mitchelville Robert Smalls

Third row:

Great blue heron

Farming and sea island cotton Battle of Sullivan’s Island (1776)

Zion Chapel of Ease Cemetery

Shrimping

Monday-Friday 4pm-9pm

Early Bird Dining 4pm-5pm

Saturday-Sunday 1pm-9pm

Weekend Lunch 1pm-4pm

Hilton Head Dance Theatre to present annual ‘Nutcracker’ this November

The Hilton Head Dance Theatre will mark its 40th anniversary season this fall with its annual production of “The Nutcracker,” opening Friday, Nov. 14th, at the Seahawk Cultural Center.

The holiday classic will run for six performances through Sunday, Nov. 23rd, continuing a local tradition that began in 1985 when the company first brought “The Nutcracker” to Hilton Head Island. Artistic directors Karena Brock-Carlyle and John Carlyle, who have led every production since its debut, will again oversee the staging.

The ballet tells the story of a young girl named Marie who receives a magical nutcracker on Christmas Eve, leading her into a dreamlike adventure filled with dancing snowflakes, a battle with the Mouse King, and the Land of Sweets.

This year’s cast will feature guest artist Will Scott performing the Grand Pas de Deux with Sarah Tiller and Sara Beth Vergakis in alternating shows. Emmy Ott and Kylah Arnholt will share the role of the Snow Queen, appearing alongside Jamal Edwards as the Snow King. Georgia Denckhoff and Vergakis

will alternate as the Sugar Plum Fairy, with Tiller and Denckhoff sharing the role of the Dew Drop Fairy.

Performances begin at 7:30 p.m. on Nov. 14th, 15th, 21st and 22nd, with matinees at 2:30 p.m. on Nov. 16th and 23rd. Tickets are $30 for adults, $25 for seniors, and $20 for children 18 and under.

For more information or to purchase tickets, visit www.hiltonheaddance.com

HILTON HEAD DANCE THEATRE PRESENTS “THE NUTCRACKER”

When: Nov. 14th–16th and Nov. 21st–23rd

Where: Seahawk Cultural Center, Hilton Head Island High School

Tickets: $30 adults, $25 seniors (60+), $20 students (18 and under); prices $5 higher at the door

Info: www.hiltonheaddance.com/nutcracker

Art League Studio Tour showcase artists in their creative spaces

By Sasha Sweeney Editor

More than 20 local artists will open their doors to the public next month for the Art League of Hilton Head’s Studio Tour, a self-guided exploration of the island’s creative spaces and working studios.

The one-day event, set for Saturday, Nov. 8, 2025, offers visitors the chance to meet artists, see their work in progress, and purchase art directly from the creators. Stops on the tour include five private home studios, two commercial studios, and two Art League locations — the Art League Academy on Cordillo Parkway and the Art League Gallery at Shelter Cove Lane, both of which will host multiple artists.

Media on display will range from painting, pottery, and jewelry to fused glass, basket weaving, quilting, and leatherwork.

“It’s about more than seeing the final artwork,” said Rebecca Jeffries, a member of the Studio Tour team, in announcing the event. “This is a rare opportunity for art lovers and curious visitors alike to

engage directly with the artists in their own creative spaces.”

The Studio Tour revives a longstanding island tradition first launched in 1977, when the Art League organized its original open-studio event featuring prominent Lowcountry artists such as Ray Ellis, Walter Greer, Joe Bowler, and Coby Whitmore. Nearly 50 years later, the League plans to make the tour a recurring showcase of the region’s arts community.

Tickets cost $50 per person and advance registration is required. Proceeds will benefit the Art League Academy’s Capital Improvement Campaign, which supports facility upgrades and educational programming.

The Art League of Hilton Head is the island’s only nonprofit visual arts organization combining a gallery and teaching academy. The Gallery, located inside the Arts Center of Coastal Carolina, features rotating exhibits from more than 250 member artists. The Academy offers classes and workshops for students of all skill levels.

For more information, visit studiotour. artleaguehhi.org

The Savannah Wind Symphony

John Madden, Conductor presents our Fall Concert

Sunday, November 9, 2025

Mahr Verdi Karrick Ticheli Sheldon Jacob Giroux Elgar Fillmore

BRINGING THE PAST TO LIFE

BUILD YOUR FAMILY TREE WITH US

Unlock your family history with the help of our volunteer genealogists!

Whether you’re just getting started or facing a research roadblock, we’re here to guide you. Call 843.686.6560 to schedule your appointment today!

LEARN ABOUT LOCAL HISTORY

We preserve and share the rich history of Hilton Head Island, stewarding two historic sites listed on the National Register of Historic Places. Throughout the year, we offer engaging classes, tours, and events, with sessions available in the spring and fall. For full details and registration, visit HeritageLib.org.

EDUCATE & CELEBRATE –

250TH ANNIVERSARY OF THE AMERICAN REVOLUTION

Join us as we celebrate 250 years of American independence and honor the fight for freedom! Discover Hilton Head Island’s vital role in shaping our nation’s history at HeritageLib.org – your local resource for all things related to the American Revolution

The Heritage Library is the heart of Hilton Head Island’s history and genealogy. Visit us soon!

Scan to register for classes and tours at HeritageLib.org

Disney’s FROZEN will melt your heart

By Andrea Gannon Contributor

The Arts Center of Coastal Carolina’s holiday production of Frozen is a dazzling triumph of theatrical magic, emotional depth, and musical brilliance. Experiencing this celebration of courage, connection, and ultimately love, live and in-person is truly enchanting.

The Arts Center has transformed its stage into the icy wonderland of Arendelle for its production of Frozen, onstage November 26 to December 28, 2025. Based on the Academy Award-winning Disney film, this musical adaptation brings beloved characters like Elsa, Anna, Kristoff, Sven, and Olaf to life with breathtaking visuals, soaring music, and heartfelt performances.

Director Larry Rabun, known for his visionary approach to family-friendly theater, shared his passion for the production: “Frozen is more than a fairy tale—it’s a celebration of courage, connection, and the power of love. We’ve worked tirelessly to ensure every moment on stage resonates with audiences, both young and young-at-heart.” His direction emphasizes the emotional journey of the characters, especially the evolving relationship between sisters Elsa and Anna.

The production features all the iconic songs from the film, including “Let It Go,” “Do You Want to Build a Snowman,” and “Love Is an Open Door,” alongside new music written exclusively for the stage by Kristen Anderson-Lopez and Robert Lopez. The score is both familiar and fresh, offering audiences a deeper dive into the characters’ inner lives.

Visually, the show is a spectacle. The Arts Center’s creative team has crafted a set that seamlessly shifts from the warmth of the royal palace to Elsa’s glittering ice castle. The use of lighting, projection, and costume design creates a truly immersive experience. Young theatergoers will be enchanted by Olaf’s whimsical charm and Sven’s playful antics, while adults will appreciate the themes of self-discovery and resilience.

and bravery shine through every scene. Kristoff and Olaf provide comic relief and heart, grounding the fantastical elements in genuine humanity.

This production underscores the Arts Center’s commitment to producing high-caliber theater for Lowcountry residents and visiting guests to our region. With Frozen, they’ve not only met expectations—they’ve exceeded them. Families, tourists, and longtime patrons alike will find something to love in this magical winter offering. “You don’t have to be a little one to fall in love with this show,” stated Jeffrey Reeves our CEO president.

Unlike anything you can experience by watching this on a screen, experiencing the true magic of Frozen come to vibrant life onstage is truly unforgettable. Tickets are available through the Arts Center’s box office by calling 843-842ARTS (2787) or visiting online at www. artshhi.com. Early booking is recommended due to high demand especially during the holiday season.

This show is the full-length Broadway musical, running about 2.5 hours. It is intended for children 5 years+ and adults. Everyone, regardless of age, will only be admitted with a paid ticket. As customary in live theater productions, no children in laps, seat sharing, or infants in carriers or arms will be permitted.

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Hilton Head Island Lantern Parade to light up Coligny Beach Nov. 22nd

The Town of Hilton Head Island’s night sky will glow with hundreds of illuminated lanterns during the annual Lantern Parade on Saturday, Nov. 22nd, 2025. The beachside event has become one of the island’s most popular fall traditions, celebrating community, creativity and coastal beauty.

The parade will feature large-scale lanterns by Atlanta-based artist Chantelle Rytter alongside works created by residents, visitors, school groups and local organizations. Four marching bands; the Black Sheep Ensemble, Soda City Band, the United States Marine Corps Dirty Boots Brass Band and the Atlanta Drum Academy, will provide live music throughout the evening.

“For this parade, we want to see our entire community shine as volumes of light — whether you’re carrying one of the many beautiful lanterns or cheering from the sidelines,” said Natalie Harvey, the town’s director of cultural affairs, in a prepared statement. “It’s all about coming together to enjoy this wonderful event on our beach.”

The parade lineup begins at 4:45 p.m. at Alder Lane Beach Access, with step-off scheduled for 5:30 p.m., shortly after sunset. Participants will walk north along South Forest Beach from Alder Lane and exit the

beach at The Beach House before ending at Lowcountry Celebration Park.

Spectators can watch from anywhere along the route or gather at Lowcountry Celebration Park, where the evening will conclude with live music by Groove Town Assault and food trucks operating from 3 to 9 p.m. The event will also be live streamed on the Beaufort County Channel.

Parking will be available at several locations, including the Coligny Beach parking lot, former Wild Wing Café and Aunt Chilada’s lots on Pope Avenue, First Baptist Church on South Forest Beach Drive, and St. Luke’s Anglican Church. Additional parking will be offered at the University of South Carolina Beaufort’s Hilton Head campus at 1 Sand Shark Drive, with a shuttle running between 4:15 p.m. and 9:15 p.m.

A designated handicapped parking and viewing area will be available along the southern edge of the Coligny Beach lot. Volunteers will verify hangtags for vehicles in that section.

Participants must carry a lantern to walk in the parade. Lantern-making workshops and group registration details are available at www.culturehhi.org.

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Scan the QR Code to purchase a ticket and a chance to win “A Stitch in Time”. Tickets are $10 each or 3 for $25. Tickets can also be purchased at the Heritage Library or online at HeritageLib.org.

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By Robyn May Contributor

If you have ever left your dental cleaning amazed by how smooth your teeth feel, you have experienced the power of removing tartar. Tartar tells a bigger story about what is happening inside your body, from nutrition and saliva chemistry to lifestyle and even vitamin levels.

Tartar begins as plaque, a sticky film made of bacteria, food particles, and minerals. When plaque is not removed daily through brushing and flossing, minerals from your saliva crystallize in the plaque and harden. Once that happens, it bonds to the enamel like barnacles on a boat hull. No amount of at-home brushing will remove tartar once it has hardened. That is where your dental hygienist’s professional tools come into play.

The truth about tartar

Tartar tends to collect most heavily behind the lower front teeth and along the gumline, where saliva glands release minerals continuously. Over time, tartar creates a rough surface that attracts more bacteria, allowing the cycle to repeat.

For years, we assumed tartar buildup was mostly about brushing habits. But research now shows the causes run deeper.

Your saliva composition plays a major role. Some people naturally have higher calcium and phosphate levels, which speed up mineral deposits on plaque. Mouth pH, diet, and hydration also influence the process.

Then there is nutrition. Studies suggest that deficiencies in certain vitamins, particularly vitamin K2, may affect how your body directs calcium. Vitamin K2 acts as a traffic controller, guiding calcium to where it belongs: bones and teeth, not the soft tissues or artery walls. When K2 levels run low, calcium may deposit in the wrong places, potentially contributing to both tartar buildup and arterial calcification. The connection between nutrition, inflammation, and oral health is clear. Our mouths are part of a whole-body system,

and the same nutrients that support strong bones support healthy gums and enamel.

Left untreated, tartar becomes more than a cosmetic concern. It forms a porous foundation where bacteria thrive, releasing toxins that irritate and inflame the gums. That inflammation can progress to gingivitis and, if ignored, to periodontal disease. The result is not just the risk of tooth loss, but it is also linked to systemic conditions like heart disease and diabetes.

Regular cleanings remove tartar before it can cause that chain reaction. If you are prone to heavy tartar buildup, take a closer look at what is fueling your body and your mouth.

1. Eat nutrient-dense foods. Vitamin K2 is found in grass-fed dairy, eggs, meat, and fermented foods such as certain cheeses, kimchi, or sauerkraut. Paired with vitamin D3 and magnesium, it helps guide calcium properly to where it is needed most.

2. Stay hydrated. Water keeps saliva flowing, which protects enamel and neutralizes acid.

3. Limit sugary or sticky foods. Frequent snacking on refined carbo-

hydrates fuels the bacteria that form plaque.

4. Keep regular dental visits. Professional cleanings remove buildup that brushing cannot, and your hygienist can track patterns in your tartar that may reveal bigger health clues.

5. Do not skip your daily routine. Even with perfect nutrition, brushing twice a day and flossing remain the frontline defenses against plaque turning into tartar.

Our humid coastal climate affects more than our comfort; it can influence oral health too. Higher humidity can alter saliva flow and mineral concentration, and diet patterns shift with the seasons. Removing tartar in the dental chair is essential but preventing it starts at home. If you notice rapid buildup, persistent roughness behind your lower front teeth, or bleeding gums, schedule a visit. Together, we can identify the underlying causes and protect your smile for the long run.

Robyn May is a dentist at ROC Dental Group in Bluffton. Learn more at ROCDentalGroup.com.

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The value of a self-assessment

By James Hamilton Contributor

The United States government, through the Department of Homeland Security and the FBI, tells citizens involved in a highly traumatic event, like an sctive Shooter, to do the following: Run-Hide-Fight. Schools, businesses, and houses of worship are all addressing this unique problem through some form of training or messaging.

The strategy as written is reactive, once the violence begins act. Professional security folks know there are a number of behaviors that are exhibited prior to the violence that serve as an early warning – but the warnings are only available to those people who are actually paying attention and are aware of their environment.

There are a number of questions that must be asked, but the first is: once the situation has reached a point where RunHide-Fight is required, can the person actually run or fight?

The answer to that critical question is found in a thorough self-assessment. Self-assessments are uncomfortable but very valuable. For purposes of this article, let’s look at four critical areas of a self-assessment to consider before you find yourself in a dangerous, or even violent situation: Commitment, Capability, Capacity, and Consequences.

Who is your commitment to? The answer should be yourself and your family members - if they are with you in the moment. This is very important to assess now and can seem callous but there are countless examples of highly traumatic events where people chose no action because the people they were with froze and they did not want to leave them behind. This is called mirroring and it can be deadly. There are people reading this who think they have a commitment to everyone, and they will save the day – this is admirable and very rare. Remember what the ancient Greek poet Archilochus said: “We don’t rise to the level of our expectations; we fall to the

level of our training.”

What is your capability? Perhaps you work out daily, are a triathlete, a boxer, a martial artist, or you do jiu jitsu. Excellent – you know your capability. Many reading this carry a pistol, train frequently, and are sure of their capability. Unfavorably, some people carry firearms and have no idea how to use them or carry them and secretly pray they never have to use it. Perhaps you are reading this and think you have no capability, if this is you – reassess and find an area where your strength lies or work to improve something in this area. What is your capacity to handle violence? Often, it is far higher than you can actually imagine. The human body can withstand a tremendous amount of damage and is one of the most impressive survival organisms ever developed. It is entirely designed to survive and avoid danger: listen to it and let it work for you.

What are the consequences of taking action? So many people just think of personal security as owning and carrying a firearm. There are so many situations where using or displaying a firearm is not only unfavorable – it is illegal. It is very important to educate oneself on the law - particularly the self-defense law in the State of South Carolina. There are consequences for taking action, criminal and civil trials, and there are consequences for doing nothing.

Be prepared. Think about these areas now and not in the moment.

James Hamilton is a nationally recognized executive protection expert and former FBI Supervisory Special Agent. With 18 years at the Bureau, he created its Close Protection School, served on the Director’s detail, and continues to advance protective security worldwide.

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Expert: What happens if I don’t have a will?

By Lisa Hostetler Brown Contributor

Expert Answer: Many people put off writing a will, thinking they’ll get to it “someday.” But what happens if that day never comes? Dying without a will— known legally as dying intestate— means the state decides who receives your property, who handles your estate, and even who will care for your minor children. That can lead to confusion, delays, and outcomes that may not reflect your wishes.

per. Under South Carolina law, creditors then have eight months from the date of that notice to file any claims against the estate. Because the estate cannot be fully closed until that creditor period has expired, probate in South Carolina takes at least eight months. It can easily take much longer if there are disputes, property to sell, or complex assets involved.

For parents, one of the most serious consequences of not having a Will is that you lose the right to name a guardian for your minor children. Instead, the court must decide who will raise them—potentially creating emotional and legal challenges for your family.

Having a will in place provides clarity, can shorten the probate process, and gives your loved ones the guidance they need when they need it most. It’s not just about distributing property—it’s about protecting your family and ensuring your final wishes are honored.

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When someone passes away without a will in South Carolina, the intestate succession laws determine who inherits their property. Generally, the estate passes to the closest living relative(s)— starting with a spouse and children, then parents, siblings, or more distant family if no immediate relatives exist. More specifically, if you are married and you have children, your spouse and children will each get a share or your estate. It is not the case that “everything” goes to your spouse! This legal formula doesn’t consider blended families, unmarried partners, or your personal relationships. Someone you care about deeply may end up with nothing simply because the law doesn’t recognize them as an intestate heir.

Dying without a will also means you don’t get to choose who manages your estate. The court must appoint a personal representative (sometimes called an executor) to handle your affairs, which can lead to family disagreements or delays while the court decides who is best suited for the role.

All estates—whether or not there is a will—must go through probate, the court-supervised process of settling someone’s affairs. During probate, the personal representative must notify creditors that the estate is open by publishing a legal notice in a local newspa-

If you haven’t created a will yet, talk with an experienced estate planning attorney. A little planning today can save your loved ones months—or even years—of stress and uncertainty later.

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Volunteers in Medicine expands “edible” parking lot

Volunteers in Medicine Clinic of Hilton Head Island has expanded its parking area to better serve patients and staff — and, in keeping with the clinic’s mission, the project grows more than just pavement.

At a ribbon-cutting ceremony held Oct. 16, clinic leaders, town officials and community supporters celebrated the new “edible” parking lot, which features added green space planted with banana trees, citrus and nut trees, and culinary herbs. The expansion provides 58 new parking spaces and reflects the clinic’s focus on linking wellness, nutrition and access to care.

The land for the project was donated to the clinic through a land lease from the Town of Hilton Head Island.

Mayor Alan Perry joined VIM Executive Director Dr. John Newman, Diane Wilson of VIM, and Ray Deal from the Hilton Head Island-Bluffton Chamber of Commerce at the ceremony, which drew more than 40 attendees.

“VIM not only treats illness, but champions prevention and wellness,” Newman said. “Every patient receives

personalized counseling on nutrition, physical activity and healthy habits. VIM’s wellness program and innovative Food as Medicine initiative is helping our community thrive from the inside out.”

In addition to its edible landscaping, VIM operates a hydroponic “Farm-acy” that produces more than 30,000 leafy greens annually. The produce supports the clinic’s Food as Medicine program, which encourages patients to incorporate healthy eating habits into their daily lives.

According to the clinic, growth in both its patient and volunteer base made the expansion necessary to accommodate increased activity at its Hilton Head Island facility.

Founded in 1993, Volunteers in Medicine serves uninsured and medically underserved residents and workers on Hilton Head and Daufuskie Islands. The nonprofit does not accept federal funding, relying instead on grants, donations and fundraising events. For more information, visit www.vimclinic. org.

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The importance of balance

By Dr. Kenneth Horup Contributor

How often do patients tell me “I’m having balance issues.” A major concern with peripheral neuropathy is loss of balance. The nerves in your feet act like sensors, constantly sending information to your brain about where you are standing. When those messages slow down or get mixed up, the brain must guess and that is when wobbles and falls can happen. Even a small amount of nerve loss can make a big difference in how stable you feel.

Peripheral neuropathy happens when the nerves that carry messages between the brain, spinal cord, and body stop working the way they should. It usually starts in the feet or legs, showing up as tingling, burning, numbness, or weakness. When those nerves misfire, even simple movements like standing or walking can feel unsteady.

Many people think peripheral neuropathy only comes from diabetes, but that is not always the case. Poor circulation, vitamin deficiencies, nerve pressure in the spine, certain medications, or old injuries can all play a role. Another common belief is that once a nerve is damaged, nothing can be done. The truth

is, nerves can often improve when blood flow, movement, and overall health are restored. It takes time, but the body is capable of remarkable healing when it gets the right support.

That is why balance training is so important. It helps the body and brain learn to communicate again. Simple things like standing on one leg, walking heel-to-toe, or using a gentle balance board can help rebuild coordination and confidence. The correct therapies can also wake up the nerves and strengthen the connection between the feet and the brain.

The real progress comes from consistency. Healing takes discipline, and discipline equals freedom; the freedom to walk without fear, move with confidence, and live more fully. The people who practice their balance and circulation exercises at home usually see steady improvements. Small efforts every day add up to lasting results.

The goal of peripheral neuropathy care is simple: restore connection between the brain, the nerves, and the body. When that connection improves, so does quality of life.

If you are having balance issues or feel numbness, tingling, or burning in your feet, your body is trying to tell you something. Do not ignore it. Find a neuropathy physician to get an evaluation to see what can be done to help you move safely and comfortably again.

Dr. Kenneth Horup, DC is a Chiropractic Physician at Discover Specific Chiropractic, Board Certified in Neuropathy.

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Workplace accountability isn’t optional

By Jamie Harrison Contributor

Talk of culture often fills workplaces, but accountability is the piece that makes or breaks a team. Without it, even the best businesses struggle. And make no mistake: accountability starts at the top.

Why accountability breaks down

Accountability challenges rarely come from laziness. More often, they’re the product of unclear expectations, avoidance, or inconsistent follow-through. The cost isn’t abstract — it lands on the team. When one person isn’t held accountable, others quietly pick up the slack. Over time, high performers burn out or leave, while disengaged staff linger.

Some common breakdowns include:

• The “nice boss” who avoids tough conversations.

• Leaders who demand accountability but never own their own mistakes.

• Teams that confuse “flexibility” with “anything goes.”

• Shifting priorities without explanation, leaving people scrambling.

• High standards applied to some, but not all.

These aren’t minor missteps. They are cracks in the foundation that weaken culture and damage trust.

Employer accountability: setting the tone

Employers set the standard. When leaders avoid accountability, culture suffers — visibly. Employees notice when performance issues go unchecked, when discipline is inconsistent, and when leadership sidesteps responsibility.

Strong leaders do the opposite. They:

• Own their decisions and admit mistakes.

• Apply expectations consistently and fairly.

• Communicate changes clearly, so teams aren’t left in chaos.

• Have tough conversations respectfully, instead of dodging them.

When leaders model accountability, they signal that it’s woven into the culture — not a tool pulled out only when convenient.

The cost of avoidance

Avoiding accountability may feel easier in the short term, but the long-term costs pile up quickly:

• Resentment grows as some employees carry more than their share.

• High performers leave, taking knowledge and client relationships with them.

• Standards slide as teams think, “Why bother if no one else does?”

What looks like conflict avoidance often creates bigger conflicts later. Resetting the standard

The good news: accountability can be reset. Leaders can re-establish it by:

• Discussing where accountability has slipped.

• Re-setting clear goals and expectations.

• Checking in regularly — not just on results, but on follow-through and initiative.

Final thought

Accountability isn’t finger-pointing; it’s respect. Employers must model it and make it part of the culture. When they do, teams thrive. When they don’t, the burden falls on peers — and often drives the best people away.

Accountability isn’t optional. It’s the foundation that keeps workplaces strong — and the competitive edge that keeps them growing.

Jamie Harrison is the CEO of Wolff Engagement Solutions, a Bluffton-based HR & Organizational Development consultancy helping businesses align people, culture, and strategy during growth, compliance pressure, or transition.

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Holiday Shop Hop to return supporting Memory Matters

The Lowcountry’s Holiday Shop Hop for Memory Matters will return this November, bringing together local businesses and shoppers for two days of community giving and festive fun.

The charity shopping event will be held Thursday, Nov. 6th, 2025, on Hilton Head Island, and Thursday, Nov. 13th, 2025, in Bluffton. Participating boutiques will donate 10 percent of all sales from those days to Memory Matters, a Hilton Head–based nonprofit that provides programs and support for individuals living with memory loss and their caregivers.

The Holiday Shop Hop follows the success of a spring edition earlier this year that saw strong participation from residents and merchants across the area. Organizers say the holiday event aims to capture that same community spirit while adding a seasonal touch with festive décor, refreshments and early gift-shopping opportunities.

“This event is all about local love— supporting our small businesses while lifting up a cause that touches so many Lowcountry families,” said co-chair Kathryn Mademann in a statement. “Every purchase helps keep vital programs available year-round.”

Co-chair Julie Martin added that the

community’s enthusiasm has been inspiring. “We saw firsthand how shopping local can make a real difference—and now we’re bringing that same spirit to the holidays,” Martin said. “It’s heartwarming to see how our community continues to show up for Memory Matters.”

Memory Matters offers education, counseling, and respite services for families navigating dementia and cognitive challenges. Funds raised from the event help sustain those programs throughout the year.

A full list of participating shops and event details are available at www. mymemorymatters.org/shophop-2025

In addition to shopping, attendees can learn more about Memory Matters’ programs—including caregiver support, respite services, and brain-health education—at select participating stores. Join your neighbors and friends for this holiday tradition in the making. Together, we can shop small, give big, and make memories for families across Hilton Head Island and Bluffton. For more information about the Holiday Shop Hop for Memory Matters or to find out how to participate, call 843-8426688 or visit mymemorymatters.org.

Saint Luke’s to host women’s conference

Saint Luke’s Anglican Church will host its annual fall women’s conference on Nov. 8, from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. at 50 Pope Avenue. This year’s event, titled Intimacy with Jesus Is Our Legacy, will feature author and Bible teacher Erin Davis as keynote speaker.

Davis, a nationally known Christian writer, podcaster, and mother of four, has written more than 20 books and Bible studies, including The Story of Joseph, 7 Feasts, and Fasting & Feasting. She also hosts The Deep Well with Erin Davis podcast, which focuses on helping women deepen their understanding of Scripture.

Davis’ teaching has been praised by fellow author and radio host Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth, who called her “a fresh, clear voice with a timely message, developed in the laboratory of life, with God’s Word in hand.”

Jessica Maples, women’s ministry director at Saint Luke’s Anglican, said

the event will invite women of all ages to reflect on how faith shapes their personal and spiritual legacies.

In addition to Davis’ keynote sessions, attendees can choose from several breakout workshops on topics such as grandparenting, Christian heritage, generosity, encouragement for young mothers, and reflections on the Psalms and Proverbs.

The conference fee is $45 per person, with discounted group rates available for parties of 10 or more.

Saint Luke’s Anglican Church, a member of the Anglican Diocese of South Carolina and the Anglican Church in North America, has served the Hilton Head community for decades through worship, outreach, and education programs.

Registration and additional information are available at www.stlukeshhi. org/womens-ministry or by calling 843785-4099.

Thanksgiving safety

By Cinda Seamon Contributor

Inside cooking – in the kitchen:

With all the people and activity going on at Thanksgiving, it’s important to keep the kitchen safe. Did you know that according to the National Fire Protection Association, Thanksgiving is the leading day of the year for home fires involving cooking equipment? Which reminds me, it’s a good time to make sure your smoke alarms are working!

When you are using the stovetop, stay in the kitchen to keep an eye on things. As far as the oven goes, start with a clean oven and make sure you stay in the house and check on it from time to time. Keep anything that can catch fire away from your stove – potholders, wooden utensils, food wrappers, or paper towels.

Make sure your sleeves are out of the way when cooking. Wear tighter fitting clothing with shorter sleeves. Keep the floor clear so you don’t trip over toys, bags or other items. Make sure things like knives, electric cords from appliances, matches and lighters are out of a child’s reach. Remember that steam or splash from vegetables, gravy or coffee can cause serious burns. Keep those pot handles turned in and away from the edge of the stove.

Have activities that keep kids out

of the kitchen during this busy time. Games, puzzles or books can keep them busy. Let kids get involved in Thanksgiving with recipes that can be done outside the kitchen or without cooking.

Outside cooking – turkey fryers:

Turkey fryers should always be used outdoors, a safe distance (10 ft) from buildings or anything else that can burn. Never use on a wooden deck or in garages.

Keeping fryers on a flat surface will help prevent accidental tipping. Never leave a fryer unattended. Some units do not have thermostat controls and the oil could end up heating until it catches fire.

Never let children or pets come near the fryer when it is in use. Even hours after use, the oil can remain dangerously hot. Use well insulated potholders or oven mitts when touching pot or lid handles or the side of the cooking pot. Be careful with marinades. Oil and water don’t mix and water can cause oil to spill over, which can cause a fire or even an explosion hazard. That’s also why your turkey should be completely thawed before it goes into the fryer

Keep an all-purpose fire extinguisher nearby and never use water to extinguish a grease fire.

Cinda Seamon is the Community Risk Reduction & Outreach Program Coordinator for Hilton Head Island Fire Rescue.

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“Slow-seeing,” discovering nature through art

By Denise Prichard Contributor

In a world constantly moving at high speed, art offers a rare chance to slow down — to really see. Nowhere is this more powerful than in the experience of nature through art. It’s more than just drawing a bird or painting a flower; it’s about noticing the curve of a leaf, the way light hits a feather, or how bird calls in the woods create a kind of music. Art invites us to pause, observe, and connect. This past summer, a Hilton Head Audubon local youth exhibit reminded the community just how powerful that connection can be. The “Feathered Friends” show, held at the Hilton Head Recreation Center, featured young artists renditions of the Lowcountry’s resident and migratory birds. The collection, a vibrant and heartfelt group of drawings and paintings, captured images like the splendor of a great blue heron and the unique character of a spoonbill. Visitors were moved not only by the talent on display but by the clear affection and attention each piece reflected.

Experiencing nature through art transforms how we see the world. It encourages what some call “slow seeing” — the intentional act of observing something deeply and without rush. Where a casual glance might miss the iridescence of a blue jay’s wing or the delicate architecture of a spider’s web, art demands patience. And in that patience, wonder is born.

To continue to nurture this way of seeing, Hilton Head Audubon is offering two upcoming courses on experiencing nature through art. The first workshop, entitled “How to Begin and Keep a Bird and Nature Journal,” will be led by local illustrator and artist Pam Johnson Brickell at the Newhall Preserve on December 6th at 12:00 PM. Surrounded by the wonders of the preserve, Pam will lead a series of specifically designed exercises to hone nature observation skills through journaling.

The second program will take place in 2026 at SOBA, The Society of Bluffton Artists, on Saturday, April 25, 2026. Entitled “Conservation Through Painting,” this program will be led by local artist Karen Richards who uses art to explore conservation themes. Each participant will create a work of art to take home. Both classes are open to all ages and skill levels. For more details about these programs and other Hilton Head Audubon events visit www.hiltonheadaudubon.org

Nature has always had the power to heal, inspire, and ground us — but sometimes we need help to see it clearly. Through art, we’re reminded that the extraordinary is often hidden in the ordinary. All it takes is a little time, a quiet place, and the willingness to look a little closer.

Denise Prichard is a board member of Hilton Head Audubon, outdoor enthusiast, and conservation storyteller.

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Novant Health Foundation supports patients and care teams

Novant Health announced the expansion of Novant Health Foundation into South Carolina, building on its long history of advancing health and healing across the Carolinas. The foundation serves as a vital resource in supporting patient care, community health programs and team member well-being across Novant Health’s growing healthcare network.

The South Carolina division of Novant Health Foundation, led by Nancy McInroy, will help deliver on Novant Health’s commitment to high-quality, compassionate care. With healthcare campuses in Hilton Head, Charleston and Greenville, the expansion ensures that local giving directly supports local needs.

McInroy, a longtime champion of healthcare access, recently joined Novant Health as chief philanthropy officer for the South Carolina region. In her previous role as president of the National MS Society’s Greater Illinois Market, McInroy spearheaded philanthropic development and major giving campaigns.

“Novant Health is dedicated to building a healthier future for South Carolina, and with that comes the opportunity and responsibility to invest meaningfully in the patients and care team members we serve,” said McInroy. “The foundation’s work in South Carolina will empower our neighbors to play an active role in shaping the future of healthcare in their own backyards.”

The foundation will strengthen team work on critical priorities, including:

• Access to care: funding for programs and services that reduce health disparities and increase access to care in underserved communities.

• Clinical innovation: investments in advanced technology, specialty services and facility improvements.

• Team member support: resources such as scholarships, emergency assistance and professional development for the healthcare workers who care for us.

• Patient experience: enhancements that provide comfort, dignity and connection during life’s most vulnerable moments.

The foundation in South Carolina is already making an impact. One of its first initiatives took place at Novant Health Coastal Carolina Medical Center in Hardeeville, where grateful patient Joan

Kulchar honored a care team member through Novant Health’s Guardian Angel program. The recognition included a personal note of thanks, a meaningful gift through the foundation and the presentation of a Guardian Angel pin to speech language pathologist Brittany Patnaude in a heartfelt ceremony.

“Brittany made sure I knew I was No. 1. She not only did her job but communicated what she was doing and reassured me that I was OK,” Kulchar said, describing her experience undergoing a swallow study ahead of sinus surgery. “The interactions between Brittany and her team members were wonderful. You could tell they took pride in their work; you knew you were getting the best of care. That all translates to your patient experience.”

Patnaude was honored to be recognized and appreciated Kulchar going the extra mile to acknowledge her commitment to patient care.

“These early acts of generosity underscore the powerful bond between patients and providers – and the role philanthropy plays in strengthening those relationships,” McInroy said. “As our foundation’s work grows here, Novant Health invites individuals, businesses and civic partners throughout South Carolina to join in supporting its mission.”

Honoring a team member through the Novant Health Foundation Guardian Angel program is one of the easiest ways to make a difference. Patients can honor remarkable caregivers, staff, and personnel, while supporting programs and services in their local Novant Health facilities.

Visit the supportnovanthealth.org/ guardian-angel/ for more information or to make a gift.

HOLIDAY POPS HILTON HEAD

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John Morris Russell, conductor Hilton Head Symphony Orchestra Chorus Michael Preacely, baritone Brooklynn Thatcher, violin (2025 Youth Concerto Competition winner)

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By Collins Doughtie Contributor

Since I am relatively new at being old, I guess reminiscing becomes more frequent in ones so called “Golden Years.” Before my dad passed away, I remember hearing the same story umpteen times but it really didn’t bother me much. The way I figured it was if he got a kick out of telling me about some speck from his interesting life, then I should just shut up and listen because it obviously made one heck of an imprint on his memory.

Since bringing up the good old days in my last column I have received tons of emails wanting more about those times. Quite honestly, if I were to keel over right this minute, I would go down happy as a clam. What a neat life I have lived and I owe it all to my folks making the decision to bag the mundane 9-5 working life and move all five of us kids to a relatively unknown island off the coast of South Carolina in 1961. Of course, that island was Hilton Head.

I was only six years old but I can still remember driving by cotton field after cotton field as we headed to our new home. I didn’t know that cotton balls still in the field will rip you to shreds but I do remember that I begged my parents to stop so I could roll in that fluffy cotton. Luckily, they opted to keep going, no doubt because there were five kids piled in that old Ford Galaxy station wagon, and the South Carolina state line couldn’t come quick enough.

If only you could have seen this area back then. If you think it is paradise now, it was heaven then. The swing bridge coming onto the island had just been built and the two-lane road was lined with monster oaks that had so much Spanish

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moss on them that it draped all the way to the ground. The two-lane Highway 278 was paved but pretty much every other road was dirt.

Even at six, I was hooked on fishing so you can imagine what was going through my mind when I realized that every lagoon was chock full of shrimp and fish. Crabbing was as simple as walking down to the beach and filling a bucket with crabs that would be in the tide pools at low tide. Deer, wild turkeys, pigs, ducks and lots of rattlesnakes and alligators

were absolutely everywhere you looked. I often got spooked during the night when I would wake to a noise and with my curtains drawn, all I could see were the moving silhouettes of herds of deer in our yard. At times there would be as many as thirty deer in the yard at one time. As you can imagine, landscaping didn’t stand a chance.

With so few people around, and even fewer kids, entertainment was what you made it. Friday nights were for coon hunting. We would meet up at the Plantation

Club in Sea Pines and then follow the baying dogs through swamps and woods alike. I wasn’t ever big on coon hunting but I’ll admit it was educational, especially when the dogs would tree a big fat racoon. PETA would have a field day if I were to tell you the finale of these hunts. Can you imagine Sea Pines sponsoring deer, coon and pig hunts these days? Personally, I would love to see it happen!

Bluffton was not just a sleepy town it was more like it was in a coma. The sound of cicadas and tree frogs was deafening, and besides the brick schoolhouse where the courthouse now sits, Messex Store (where Eggs N Tricities used to be) was about the only other place to go. Especially if you wanted an RC Cola, which was definitely the drink of choice in these parts. I attended school in Bluffton from the second through six grades and then commuted to school in Savannah every day with my brothers and sisters. It was weird going to school in Savannah because those city kids regarded any of us from Hilton Head as country bumpkins. That view didn’t change until the late 70’s when Hilton Head’s fame exploded. From then on, we were the “rich kids.” Yeah, right.

I wish I had more space to write so I guess I’ll have to continue with more “Good Old Days” tales when the mood strikes me. Just recounting some of those days has jogged my memory about other quirky things about my life here in the Lowcountry that I seriously haven’t thought about in years. All I can say is next time folks, next time.

Collins Doughtie is a 60-year resident of the Lowcountry, is a sportsman, graphic artist, and lover of nature. collinsdoughtie@icloud.com

What to expect from a sport psychology consultation

By Tom Dorsel Contributor

When players sign on for sport psychology consultation, they often think they have purchased a magic wand. Even if they had, they have no idea over what to wave the magic wand. In effect, they are just lost and want immediate relief.

The truth of the matter is that the player is signing on for a process, the same kind they had with the physical game. But now, instead of learning sport-specific bodily movements and technique, the process is learning mental and emotional facets of their games. In short, they are in for a “mindset reset” regarding how to play their games.

The Role of the Sport Psychologist

A sport psychologist’s role amounts to temporarily “living the game” with the player. For example, helping them see the good in each practice session or competitive event; assisting their awareness of where work needs to be done; and supporting them through difficult times in their development.

Between competitions, the psychological coach might restructure practice based on things learned from the previous event. The remedies might be drills in the practice area; might be trying on new ways of thinking and feeling; or it might be certain suggestions for the physical coach to attend to with the players’ games. It is all important that the psychological and physical coach be on the same page and work together.

Other Matters that Might Arise

The sport psychologist’s main job is performance enhancement. However, sometimes personal issues arise, ones that might interfere with progress. The sport

psychologist is in a position to provide some understanding and reflection on how players might move forward with their lives, so they can also move forward with their sports.

Similarly, sometimes the practice of sport psychology gets drawn into family issues, as athletes don’t live in a vacuum. They live in families, and families have developed and supported them in their journey from a young age on to where the player is now. So family dynamics certainly come into play and need to be addressed. It is wise to select a sport psychologist with background in clinical psychology, particularly when it comes to dealing with personal and family issues.

One other area that sometimes emerges with athletes is career evaluation and guidance. The sport psychologist is likely to know other athletes that have struggled with the same issues and might be of help. Indeed, the sport psychologist might have experienced the same discernment process and can shed some light on it for their younger clients.

Professional Fees

All coaches, instructors and sport psychologists set their hourly fees according to their credentials, experience and demand for their services. In addition to an hourly fee, some might have packages of hours that reduce the hourly fees considerably. Some offer the option of being on retainer for, say, 3 months or even a year. This would provide unlimited availability for face-to-face consultation, getting out on the field of play with the player, attending competitions, and all the phone and electronic communication desired.

Sport psychologists want to make their services available and affordable, so as to help players achieve their full potential and happiness in their sports.

Dr. Tom Dorsel is Professor Emeritus of Psychology and a clinical/sport psychologist in Hilton Head. His best-selling book is “GOLF: The Mental Game.” He works with athletes from all sports and can be reached at tom@dorsel.com.

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Living as gratitude, being thankful

By Rev. Therese Donlan Lee Contributor

Welcome to November, a month set aside for gratitude, for opening our hearts to the gentle art of being thankful.

So often, up until now, we have been taught to anchor our thankfulness in outer circumstances -- when life lines up neatly, when we have what we want, when the sun seems to shine just for us. How easy it is to offer thanks when everything is going our way. Yet, true gratitude, the kind that transforms and uplifts, does not rely on conditions. It is not a reward for a perfect life. True gratitude lives and breathes within us; it is the quiet, comforting song of the soul, humming beneath the noise of daily living.

Take a breath with me. Now, exhale.

Unity minister and author Eric Butterworth reminds us, “Life is consciousness.”

Our awareness of gratitude is not a fleeting reaction – it is a conscious presence.

As we practice nurturing gratitude, we awaken to our profound connection with the Divine within, and from this awareness, thankfulness can spring forth.

The Apostle Paul shared in 1 Thessalonians 5:18: “In all things give thanks.”

This stirs my heart. Notice, he doesn’t say to be thankful for all things, Paul says be thankful in all things. This invites you and me to keep our hearts open, to let gratitude flow no matter what or how the world presents to us. Living in the flow of Spirit means we get to give thanks, not because everything is perfect, but because we are rooted in something deeper -- we are rooted in our unity with God.

And yet, there are days when we wonder, “What is there to be thankful for?”

The answer is as close as our next breath. Thankfulness is not about adding up blessings; it is about allowing gratitude to well up from within.

After 36 years of being a Unity Truth student, I have discovered this: We do not need reasons to be grateful. We need only

to open our hearts to the divine spark within, and gratitude will naturally arise, especially when we remember our oneness with God.

Psalm 46:10 tells us, “Be still and know.” For me, there is such comfort in knowing that God is the reality at the heart of our beings and, therefore, we live, move, and have our very being in God.

This month is a reminder that we are invited into a life of gratitude -- not as an obligation, rather the choice to choose joy. We can allow our prayers to become expressions of deep appreciation, flowing from our sense of unity and our consciousness of oneness with Spirit. Set aside time for quiet reflection, prayer and meditation, letting our hearts settle into thanksgiving. Cultivate an attitude of gratitude. In this way, being grateful transforms our vision, allowing us to witness goodness in every moment.

As we nurture this attitude, we nourish our connection with the Divine, and true thankfulness becomes our everyday way of being. May you walk through this month as gratitude embodied, being grateful in every breath and thankful with every step. Many Blessings.

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Rev. Therese Donlan Lee is the senior minister of Unity Spiritual Center on Hilton Head Island.

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Talking to your family - making the independent living conversation easier

By Matt Uppenbrink Contributor

One of the biggest challenges facing Lowcountry residents considering independent living isn’t the move itself, it’s having “The Conversation” with family members. But this important discussion doesn’t have to be difficult when approached thoughtfully.

The key is starting the conversation early and framing it positively. This isn’t about giving up any independence—it’s about maintaining it in a supportive environment where you can continue to thrive, and you are making the positive choice. Many adult children worry about their parents’ safety and well-being, sometimes projecting their own fears onto the situ-

ation. Understanding this dynamic can help bridge communication gaps. Rather than viewing family concerns as interference, successful conversations recognize that everyone wants the same thing: a safe, fulfilling life for their loved one.

Harvard’s Study of Adult Development, which has tracked participants for over 85 years, consistently shows that open family communication is crucial for well-being across all life stages. This research underscores the importance of honest, respectful dialogue about housing transitions.

Timing matters. Rather than waiting for a crisis or health event to force the conversation, Lowcountry residents are increasingly taking a proactive approach. Many start discussing their options while they’re still healthy and active in their late 60s, giving family members time to adjust to the idea. By the time the actual move happens a few years later, everyone is on board and excited about the new chapter. Experts recommend these conversation strategies:

• Lead with your vision. Share what excites you about this lifestyle—

whether it’s the social opportunities, freedom from home maintenance, or staying active with experiences like group travel, beach trips and fitness centers.

• Address concerns directly. If family members worry you’re “giving up,”

explain how independent living actually supports your goals for staying engaged and healthy.

• Invite participation. Tour communities together, attend social events, or have lunch in the dining room. Seeing the vibrant atmosphere often transforms skepticism into support, that you are making a great decision.

• Share the research. Studies show that seniors in independent living communities often experience improved social connection and overall well-being compared to aging in isolation.

The bottom line? This is your decision, but bringing family along on the journey creates a smoother transition for everyone involved.

Matt Uppenbrink, MS, is the Executive Director of The Seabrook of Hilton Head. Interested in learning more about The Seabrook of Hilton Head or if you would like to schedule a tour: https://www.theseabrook.com/ or call 843-842-3747.

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By Thomas Dowling Contributor

Beyond the numbers: addressing retirement’s nonfinancial challenges

As Head of Wealth Management for Alliance Global Partners of the Lowcountry, my work centers on helping clients grow, protect, and enjoy their wealth. But over the years, I’ve learned that true wealth extends far beyond balance sheets and investment portfolios. It’s about how people live — the sense of purpose, connection, and fulfillment they experience each day. This perspective becomes especially important in retirement. After decades of working, saving, and planning for “someday,” many retirees find that the financial piece is only part of the equation. The transition itself can bring unexpected emotional and social challenges that quietly shape this new phase of life.

Living Longer, Feeling Different

We’re living longer than ever, and with that longevity comes both opportunity and complexity. Research from the Harvard School of Public Health found that retirees are 40% more likely than working adults to experience a heart attack or stroke—especially within the first year of retirement. Longer life spans can also mean more time for feelings of isolation, anxiety, or even loss of purpose to set in.

The Hidden Hurdles of Retirement

While every retiree’s experience is unique, a few themes have become increasingly common:

• Loss of identity: After years of defined roles, titles, and responsibilities, many find it difficult to replace the sense of purpose that work provided.

• Social isolation: Not everyone has a readymade group of friends to meet for coffee or golf. In fact, social isolation has been described as one of America’s most pressing public health issues.

• Fear of overspending: Even those who have saved well may hesitate to enjoy their

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wealth once paychecks stop, often worrying about running out of money.

• Relationship changes: Divorce rates among those 50 and older have more than doubled since the 1990s, highlighting how major life transitions can test even longterm relationships.

Building a Fulfilling Next Chapter

The good news: a thoughtful approach can help you avoid many of these pitfalls and embrace retirement with clarity and confidence.

• Try a “practice retirement.” Before fully retiring, experiment with parts of your plan — travel more, volunteer, or reduce work hours — to see how the lifestyle feels.

• Find new social outlets. Volunteer at a local school, take classes, or join a community group. Meaningful, social daytime activities are key to maintaining energy and purpose.

• Communicate with your spouse. Be open about expectations and routines. Retirement can be a big adjustment for both partners.

• Consult your advisor. A trusted financial advisor can help align your plan not only

with your finances but with your broader goals for a life of significance.

• Practice gratitude. A small daily habit of noting what you’re thankful for can have a major impact on emotional well-being.

• Seek help when needed. If feelings of disconnection or anxiety persist, reach out for professional support. You don’t have to navigate this alone.

A Holistic View of Wealth

You’ve likely worked hard and invested diligently to reach this stage of life. True wealth, however, isn’t measured only in dollars — it’s found in the quality of our relationships, our health, and our sense of purpose. By taking a holistic view of retirement, you can enjoy not just financial freedom, but a life of lasting significance.

Thomas M. Dowling, CFA, CFP®, CIMA® is the Head of Wealth Management at Alliance Global Partners of the Lowcountry on Hilton Head. He can be reached at infohh@allianceg. com or (843) 420-1993.

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A legacy of harmony: John Carter’s Impact on the Hilton Head Choral Society

By Emily Campbell Contributor

When John Carter and his wife, Mary Kay Beall Carter, arrived on Hilton Head Island in the 1980s, they brought with them an impressive musical résumé along with passion for sharing the joy of choral music. Nationally acclaimed composers of choral works, the Carters had already published more than 300 pieces before making Hilton Head home.

The Carters’ connection to Hilton Head came about almost by happenstance but turned into a lasting admiration of both the island and its community.

“We said, we can write music anywhere. And Hilton Head just happened to be the most beautiful place on earth we’d ever seen” says Carter.

Shortly after settling in, the couple became the first music directors at Providence Presbyterian Church. That role deepened their ties to the community as well as creating connections between church musicians and members of the

Choral Society.

Upon founding director Martha Gregory’s retirement in 1986, the Choral Society was looking for new leadership to carry forward the annual holiday Messiah performance while helping the organization to grow. And the Carters appeared to be the perfect fit.

The couple’s enthusiasm and leadership resulted in the expansion of the Choral Society’s season as they introduced the annual Spring Concert in 1987. The new performance gave singers and audiences a chance to experience a broader range of music without leaving the Island.

“We had a lot of momentum,” Carter explains. “There were so many people who wanted to sing other kinds of music. The spring concert provided a wonderful outlet for that.”

For five years, the Carters filled the Choral Society with a spirit of creativity and collaboration that reflected both their professional expertise and their shared love of choral music.

Eventually, the Carters felt called to move to Columbus, Ohio, for Mary Kay

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to attend seminary. Together, they went on to establish a church while continuing to write and publish music performed by choirs nationwide. Despite the distance, their connection to the Hilton Head Choral Society never faded.

“I’m still following them…just reveling in the fact that we were part of those early days,” shares Carter. “They’re obviously doing great stuff.”

Even in retirement, Carter’s creative spirit hasn’t slowed. He continues to write and publish music online, carrying forward the same passion that embodied his time with the Choral Society decades ago.

The Hilton Head Choral Society will perform Carter’s arrangement of Silent Night at its “Celebrate the Holidays” concert on December 5th - aptly serving as a meaningful nod to the Carters’ lasting influence on the organization.

“I was very proud of that work,” Carter says. “So, I’m glad it has a life.”

The performance will also carry special tenderness following the passing of Mary Kay Beall Carter earlier this year. Together, the Carters dedicated their lives to

creating and sharing music that uplifted others - work that continues to resonate through performances like this one.

As the Hilton Head Choral Society celebrates its 50th anniversary, Carter’s words express both gratitude and hope for the future.

“I would say to the Choral Society… here’s to at least 50 years more!” he says warmly. “As long as there is a Hilton Head - it will go on.”

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Navigating rising inventory: 4 key strategies for sellers

By Chip Collins Contributor

Across the Lowcountry of South Carolina, the real estate market is seeing an increase in available inventory, with listings up roughly 25% through August, compared to the same time last year. While this trend introduces more competition for sellers, it also creates new opportunities for those who approach the market with informed, strategic preparation.

At Collins Group Realty, we believe success in this environment comes down to understanding the nuances of timing, pricing, presentation, and market communication. Below are four key strategies to help sellers achieve optimal results, even as inventory rises.

1. Leverage “Listing Delay” Strategies

Before a property is officially launched to the active market, there’s an opportunity to generate anticipation and control timing through the MLS “Coming Soon” status, only visible to licensed realtors. This period acts as a holding tank – the listing agreement is signed, but marketing assets such as photography and staging are still being finalized. Using this strategy allows sellers to build momentum and ensure their property makes a strong first impression the moment it becomes publicly visible. In a competitive market, a coordinated launch can make the difference between simply listing and truly positioning a home for success.

2. Focus on the First Wave of Buyers

When a home first hits the market, it captures the attention of the most active and motivated buyers – those already searching, pre-approved, and ready to act. You may have heard the phrase, “the first offer is often the best offer,” as it

tends to come from this initial wave of serious prospects.

To maximize this window, sellers should ensure their home is presented in the best light and priced strategically from day one. Missing that early surge can result in extended market time and reduced leverage in negotiations.

3. Embrace Price Repositioning as a Tool

What may have once been interpreted as a setback is now understood as a valuable opportunity to realign with buyer activity and market demand. A significant percentage of homes that ultimately sell have undergone at least one price reduction. Repositioning a property is not always about lowering the number… It’s about refreshing the narrative and visual presentation to capture renewed buyer attention.

When done thoughtfully, a price reposition can reignite interest, attract new audiences, and ultimately lead to a successful sale.

4. Understand the “Power of the Ping”

Every time a property’s status or price changes, that update “pings” across multiple buyer devices and platforms – from real estate apps to automated search alerts. Each ping represents a renewed opportunity for engagement.

Strategic timing of these updates helps keep a listing active in the digital ecosystem and top-of-mind for buyers, even weeks into its lifecycle.

A Hyper-Local Market Requires Hyper-Local Strategy

While national trends make headlines, real estate remains hyper-local. What works in one neighborhood may differ in another, making professional guidance essential.

As inventory grows across the Lowcountry, sellers who plan intentionally – and align with agents who understand timing, technology, and buyer behavior – will continue to find success in this evolving market.

Chip Collins is the Broker-Owner of Collins Group Realty founded in 2002. Find Chip at chip@collinsgrouprealty. com or collinsgrouprealty.com.

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More new technology in plastic surgery

By Dr. Ronald Finger Contributor

What is the goal for new plastic surgery technology? Patients are looking for noticeably better results toward looking better and younger with less discomfort, a lower price, and shorter or minimal recovery time. Plastic surgeons must look very hard into products and devices that are promised to deliver such results to determine if they truly work for their practice goals.

These devises would include instruments that produce light beams such as lasers, emit heat produced by radiofrequency or ultrasound, and other treatments

Most of these devises ablate (eliminate by vaporizing) skin and/or tighten the skin, reduce fat pockets, resurface the skin, reduce wrinkles, and most importantly, stimulate new skin by increasing production of collagen and elastin. The

best and most effective results often require combinations of treatments, although improvement is visible after every treatment.

What are these new advanced treatments?

Everesse by Cartessa: This is a radiofrequency producing devise which both tightens the skin and increases thickness of the skin, usually used for the face and neck, arms, knees, abdominal skin, and even buttocks. Naturally, thicker skin wrinkles less. The strong points of the Everesse are that it really works, and there are no needles, pain, recovery time, and no numbing is needed for treatment. Discomfort is minimal to none although high energy is used, because of a cooling head on the instrument that touches the skin. Typically, one side of the face is first treated and the patient is given a mirror to see the difference in both sides. The usual response is “OMG” or “Wow.” The other side is then treated. The usual treatment time for the face and neck is 30 minutes. For larger body parts, treatment time is longer.

is the most effective. This instrument can sever all the fibrous bands between the muscle and the skin that create the dimples. Bruising can occur, but the Aveli is highly effective in reducing or eliminating buttocks and thigh dimples. Local anesthesia is used.

Ultra Plus is a small hand-held instrument that emits ultrasound that forces topical medications deep into the skin. Its primary use is in reducing hair loss and even stimulating dormant hair follicles to start growing hair. The exosome the Ultra Plus is designed for is Derive, plant-based exosome. The results are better than we have ever seen with needles or microneedling plus exosomes. There is zero pain, and no numbing topicals are necessary.

Regarding the buttocks, dimples from cellulite are not improved with the Everesse. For cellulite treatment the Aveli devise

Also, the Ultra Plus is used to force numbing creams deeper and faster into the skin for other procedures requiring numbing creams. An additional use is with EVO exosomes, also plant-based topical exosomes, for facial rejuvenation alone and following laser treatments, reducing the recovery time by as much as 50%.

Many patients use daily EVO exosomes topically along with their night skin care regimens for skin rejuvenation.

The goal for better results with no nee-

Immediately after the Everesse. Notice change it cheek and jaw line.

dles, discomfort, minimal recovery time, and less expense continues to evolve as demonstrated by the treatments mentioned.

Dr. Ronald Finger, MD, FACS is a board-certified plastic surgeon with offices in Savannah and Bluffton. fingerandassociates.com

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‘Rock the Future’ concert to benefit The Children’s Center

By Sasha Sweeney Editor

The Children’s Center will host its annual fundraiser, Rock the Future: Concert for the Kids, on Wednesday, Nov. 19, at Poseidon Rooftop, featuring live music, family fun, and community support for early childhood education programs.

Doors open at 5:30 p.m., and music runs from 6 to 8 p.m. The evening’s entertainment will feature Cornbred, a well-known local band popular for

its high-energy performances and loyal following.

Tickets are $20, with all proceeds supporting The Children’s Center’s mission to provide affordable, high-quality early education and care for working families across the Lowcountry. The organization, founded in 1969, serves children from diverse economic and cultural backgrounds, focusing on preparing them for success in school and life.

“Rock the Future” has become one of the center’s major annual fund-

raising events, combining live music with community outreach. The event is open to all ages, offering a relaxed atmosphere for families, friends, and supporters to enjoy.

Sponsorship opportunities remain available, with recognition for participating businesses and individuals during the concert and in event materials.

For ticket information or sponsorship details, visit www.thechildrenscentersc.org/concert-for-the-kids.

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ROCK THE FUTURE

What: Annual fundraiser concert benefiting The Children’s Center

When: Wednesday, Nov. 19, 2025; doors open at 5:30 p.m., concert 6–8 p.m.

Where: Poseidon Rooftop, 38 Shelter Cove Lane, Hilton Head Island

Music by: Cornbred

Tickets: $20, available online at www. thechildrenscentersc.org/concert-for-thekids

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