THE
BLUE &GRAY
THE UNIVERSITY OF MARY WASHINGTON STUDENT NEWSPAPER
February 8, 2018
VOLUME 91 | ISSUE 14
PRESS
SERVING THE COMMUNITY SINCE
1922
Survivors find support ES HETHCOX Online Editor
A trickle of female students amble into a warm room and smell the swirl of incense in the air and a selection of maroon upholstered chairs surrounding a table covered with coloring books, glitter jars, stress balls and beaded thingamajigs. As the students nervously settle into their chosen seat and carefully avoid eye contact, their discomfort and hesitation hang heavily above the circle of chairs. Most of these students have never been in a room like this. The space is designated for members of Survivor’s Group, a special therapy series designed by the University of Mary Washington’s Talley Center for Counseling Services to aide survivors of sexual assault. The #MeToo movement, which has swept social media over the last four months, galvanizing an international crusade against sexual assault and harassment, was not yet a movement when the Survivor’s Group began meeting in the fall of 2015. Led and designed by Talley Center staff therapists Melissa Palguta and Catherine Smith, the group has provided counseling and a confidential safe haven for more than 20 sexual assault survivors on campus every semester since then. Sexual assault is a continuing issue in the United States, with 1 in 5 women experiencing sexual assault during their lives, according to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center. Of these
victims, according to RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network), females between the ages of 16-19 are four times more likely than the general population to be victims of sexual assault. Women between the ages of 18-24 are three times more likely than women in general to experience sexual assault, according to RAINN. These age demographics drastically overlap with the typical years that women attend college, and if the assault happens before they go to college, they still have to deal with the aftermath of their trauma. Increasingly colleges are offering free counseling and resources to students and many survivors of sexual assault are turning to therapy centers on campus’ for support. The Talley Center is one of them, offering a variety of services such as oneon-one counseling, crisis services and consultation for reporting an assault. While these resources greatly benefit survivors with much-needed support, the Survivor’s Group offers something unique: the chance to interact with others who have endured similar experiences. Palguta, who holds a doctorate in psychology in clinical psychology from the University of Indianapolis, believes the group not only provides survivors with methods to cope with trauma, but also offers a safe place to talk, heal and foster empowerment through interaction with other group members. In this safe place, members of the group have •TALLEY CENTER | 10
“I now don’t carry shame around with me and I feel like a survivor. I feel that I am a stronger person now because of this group.” -Sierra McCahon
Krystiane Urbaniak / The Blue & Gray Press Greek Life using the rock to promote rushing has led to mixed opinions.
Greek life gets ‘boulder’ Koty Bowen Staff Writer
All students at the University of Mary Washington know of the boulder used for announcements that sits outside of Woodard. “The rock,” is coated in layers and layers of paint. Students paint the rock for many of reasons, whether to announce the annual “Rocky Horror Picture Show” or to advertise a club meeting or event. Recently though, there has been some controversy over the rock and its message. Greek Life has been a topic of debate at UMW due to their use of the rock. Many people have not seen Greek Life announcements on the rock in the past however, this season of rushing fraternities have begun to use the rock to advertise to many students. Typically the rock provides a space for advertisements that range from simple gatherings, to in memoriams,
special club hostings, and even special days to catch President Paino on campus. It is a billboard along the Campus Walk highway. The issue at hand is that Greek Life is not a recognized part of UMW life. According to Student Activities and Engagement rules of the rock’s use, the rock should not serve as a space for non approved announcements. Since Greek Life is banned from Club Carnival, an event where all the clubs and student organizations that are recognized by the school gather to obtain new members, they can not use this event to get new members and must resort to different means. However, the rock is ‘operated’ by the Office of Student Activities and Engagement. This office determines what clubs are allowed to use the rock, what they can write on it and what type of events they can host through it. Traditionally, rushing a •ROCK | 2 fraternity refers to pledges
Concern over Confederate flag Laura Taylor Staff Writer
On Thursday, January 25 around 8:30 p.m., a University of Mary Washington student posted a picture of a Confederate flag flying in Mason Hall. Following the event, junior Alex Sakes posted the picture of the Confederate flag in question flying in Mason hall at 8:30 p.m. on the “Overheard at Mary Wash” Facebook page. The page is used a platform for students to post funny things that they have seen or heard around campus. In this case, the posting was used as a
platform for discussion. In Sakes post he wrote that “white supremacy will NOT be tolerated on this campus. I will not allow this. This will not fly, not if I have anything to say about it. Your ‘free speech’ isn’t a pass to perpetrate slavery and racism on this campus.” Reactions began pouring in on the comments of the post and Sakes also received direct messages over Facebook. “Until a good portion of this individuals ancestors experience 300 years of slavery and then is constantly oppressed in today’s society then this student, nor anyone else, gets to tell those who •FLAG | 10
“White supremacy will NOT be tolerated on this campus. Your ‘free speech’ isn’t a pass to perpetrate slavery and racism on this campus.” -Alex Sakes
Confederate Flag hangs in student window in Mason Hall.
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POETIC PROTEST
GO GREEK
Political poets collective hosts resistance event.
UMW should officially recognize Greek life.
LIFE | 6
VIEWPOINTS | 4
BEST CATCH
UMW ultimate frisbee team participates in tournament.
SPORTS | 12