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Retirees are hardly retiring
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By Carol Sorgen For Jeff and Marie Halka, retirement was both a matter of choice and circumstances. The couple — who spent most of their individual careers working for Maryland state government — were becoming increasingly involved in the care of their elderly parents. Already living in Anne Arundel County and commuting to their Baltimore jobs, the Halkas decided to “upsize” so Jeff’s mother could move in with them. “That left us even further from our jobs with a longer commute,” they said. Commuting issues aside, however, Marie, who is 63, acknowledged that she was ready to leave the workday world behind her and officially retired in March 2013. Jeff, who is 65, followed her lead four months later, though he said, “It wasn’t a decision I went into lightly.”
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Planning is key Nor should it be, say experts on the topic. “You wouldn’t start a business without a plan,” said Boston-based psychologist, transition coach and author Dorian Mintzer. “You shouldn’t head into retirement without a plan either.” (Mintzer does acknowledge that not everyone gets that choice; sometimes retirement is forced upon you.) As the population ages and the number of retirees grows, retirement planning that focuses on more than just the financial aspect is becoming such a hot topic that even major institutions have hired gerontologists to help their clients navigate the sometimes murky waters. Bank of America Merrill Lynch, for example, recently appointed Baltimorebased Cynthia Hutchins as director of gerontology. Hutchins not only has a background as a financial advisor/retirement specialist, but also recently earned a graduate degree in gerontology from the University of Southern California. “Preparing for retirement today also means having meaningful discussions about longevity, how to smoothly transition into retirement, what it means to go from being a son or daughter to being a caregiver, and how to plan for the unexpected,” she said, adding that planning for retirement is both an ongoing and evolv-
Recently retired from a career in public relations, Gail Lipsitz now has more time to go hiking with her son David, who is a professional guide. In addition to preparing finances, planning your time, from classes to exercise to a possible encore career, is crucial, according to retirement experts.
ing process. “You may put a plan into place, but you should always have room for a course correction. This is an everchanging, dynamic stage of life.” Mintzer, author of The Couple’s Retirement Puzzle, whose website (www.revolutionizeretirement.com) features a free monthly online interview series with leading retirement experts, recommends that while you’re still working think about what role work plays in your life. “Does it give your life meaning? A sense of purpose? Camaraderie with your coworkers?” she asked. “Many people don’t really understand what work has meant to them, apart from a paycheck,” she said. Then ask yourself, “What are you retir-
ing to?” Retirement itself used to be a “destination,” Mintzer explained, but today it is more likely to be a transition. “The concept of retirement is changing, and you need to explore what retirement actually means to you. What are your expectations of retirement?” For the Halkas, their expectations are influenced in large part at the moment by elder care. Still, Marie has developed a new hobby in screenwriting and is working on a project with a partner, while Jeff, an active outdoorsman, is happy “doing yard work ad nauseum,” he laughed (though he also volunteers at his former office for the time being). See RETIREMENT, page 24
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