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Good friends bring good health

How friends keep you healthy Good friends may already know how helpful they can be to one another, but

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By Carol Sorgen Valentine’s Day is the traditional celebration of sweethearts. But it might also be worth your while to lift a glass of bubbly in recognition of the friends in your life as well. “What would life be without friends?” asked Randy Jacobs. “Oh God!” “I’d be at a loss without my family and friends,” continued the 61-year-old Jacobs, who has known her best friend, Pam Schneider, virtually since birth. The two are just six months apart in age, grew up as next door neighbors, and now live around the corner from each other in Northwest Baltimore County. Not only are Jacobs and Schneider best friends, so too are their daughters. Though Jacobs is long divorced and Schneider long married, that makes no difference in their relationship. “I’m one of the family,” said Jacobs. The two families even take an annual beach trip together every summer. “She is my go-to person,” said Jacobs, director of clinical operations at the University of Maryland School of Dentistry. “She knows everything — and more — about me, and vice versa. She’s my rock.” The two “besties,” as the young folks say, do have other friends as well. Jacobs has two friends whom she first met in fourth grade, and though she doesn’t see them as often as she sees Schneider, when she does, “time melts away.” “And there’s never been a family event that we haven’t shared together,” Jacobs added. “We’ll always be Ellen/Laurie/Randy…all one word,” referring to her grade school friends. Jacobs has also always made it a priority to make new friends, especially since her married friends are not always available to join her on, say, a trip to Alaska. But it’s her longtime friends who share her history — ”they knew me when” — are part of her present, and hopefully will be there in the future to share in both the good times, such as a child’s wedding, and the sad times, such as the deaths of parents. “Friends mean support,” said Jacobs.

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ARTS & STYLE Pam Schneider (left) and Randy Jacobs, who grew up next door to each other, have been best friends their whole lives and now live around the corner from one other. Having friends generates benefits in one’s mental as well as physical health — from improved cancer survival to a lower risk of developing dementia.

now scientists are finding out that friendships also offer the benefit of good health. So says developmental psychologist Susan Pinker, author of The Village Effect: How Face-to-Face Contact Can Make us Healthier, Happier and Smarter. Unfortunately, said Pinker, the middleaged are the loneliest group of all in the United States. A third of those between the ages of 45 to 49 say they have no one to confide in. For those people, Pinker’s advice is succinct: Find a friend — and preferably more than one! “Those with a tightly connected circle of friends who regularly gather — even if it’s just to eat and share gossip — are likely to live an average of 15 years longer than a loner,” said Pinker.

She also observed that people with active social lives have greater physiological resilience and recover faster after an illness than those who are solitary. She cites a recent study of women with breast cancer that found that those with a large network of friends were four times as likely to survive as women with sparser social connections What researchers are beginning to find, Pinker explained, is that social contact switches on and off the genes that regulate our immune responses to cancer and the rate of tumor growth. Some other intriguing and perhaps startling statistics: The lowest rate of dementia appears in people with extensive social See FRIENDS, page 32

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