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VOL.34, NO.11

Granny nannies who love their jobs

Reasons to help Circumstances are different for every family. “There are a number of reasons why a grandparent would step in to help,” said Donna Butts, executive director of Generations United, a D.C.-based nonprofit that works to strengthen practices and poli-

PHOTO COURTESY OF MARGARET MCDERMOTT

By Margaret Foster Call it good timing. Seven years ago, Silver Spring resident Margaret McDermott was expecting her first grandchild. At the same time, her longtime job as an event planner fizzled out. When she realized she could spend her empty days with her baby grandson, McDermott jumped at the chance, much to her surprise. “I thought, ‘I’ll just try it for a day,’ and I was hooked,” said McDermott, now 70 and taking care of her two grandchildren, ages 7 and 3, three days a week, down from five. “It really gives me purpose. I’ve been offered job opportunities, but I say, ‘I have the best job I’ve ever had, and I’ve never been paid so much.’ I am paid in love.” In recent years, more and more grandparents are filling in for gaps in childcare, some helping out part-time, some full-time. In fact, more than 2.7 million grandparents are live-in, primary caregivers to their grandchildren. That’s a 12% increase from 2000, according to Pew Research Center, which noted “a precipitous rise” after the 2007-8 financial crisis. “Grannies stepping in to help with the grandkids is becoming as American as taking selfies,” wrote Lesley Stahl in her 2016 book Becoming Grandma. “You see it in the projects as well as the suburbs, with single working moms in Pittsburgh who can’t afford a nanny and with well-to-do working couples on Park Avenue who don’t trust a nanny.”

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Margaret McDermott takes care of her granddaughter, Gretta, and another grandchild three days a week. It’s “the best job I’ve ever had,” she said. “It gives me purpose.” Some grandparents even relocate or retire in order to take care of their grandchildren full-time or part-time.

cies to benefit children and older adults. “Often the families are working more than one job,” Butts pointed out. “Often it’s because they can’t find childcare — or they can’t afford childcare. “Often it’s a choice, too. The parents realize the value of the connection between grandparent and grandchild,” she said. The ancient arrangement, in which grandparents mind the children while parents

work, hasn’t changed much over the years. “My mother was a granny nanny for all [four] of my children, and her mother was, too,” McDermott said. “But I always thought to myself, ‘I’ll never do that. I have a career.’”

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