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Finding the right retirement community By Daniel Bortz Many older adults decide that a retirement community will be their next move. However, retirement communities can vary significantly in terms of their housing options, amenities, healthcare services and the lifestyle that they offer. Here are seven steps to help find the right retirement community for you. 1. Choose a location for the retirement community search Step one is to figure out where you want to live. Consider your motivation for moving. Are you looking to be closer to family? That’s the main reason baby boomers purchased a new home in 2022, according to the National Association of Realtors’ annual Home Buyers and Sellers Generational Trends report. Are you looking for an area with more affordable housing? Do you want to live in a bustling city or a quiet suburb? Does your ideal retirement entail living near the beach? 2. Set a budget Establishing how much you’d like to spend on housing is crucial. Your budget should include not only your monthly housing costs but also entrance fees — many retirement communities charge them, according to the National Investment Center for Seniors Housing & Care (NIC), with entr y fees ranging widely, from $40,000 to more than $2 million. Once you’ve determined what you can afford, you can zero in on the retirement communities that fit your budget. 3. Decide whether you want to buy or rent Some retirement communities offer only rental properties, some offer only homes for sale, and some offer both. Consider whether you want to put down roots
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Contestants learn about the show through online national casting calls, such as the one taking place now for those who hope to follow in Hulkower and Vassos’ footsteps. Hulkower first heard about the casting call from her niece, who encouraged her to apply. The sense of community that grew from their appearance on the show has been transformative. Before participating as a contestant, Vassos, 61, said she was used to living as a widow in a couples’ world since nearly all of her friends were married or in relationships. But then she “walked into this room with 21 other
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Inside ABC’s ‘Golden Bachelor’ By Laura Sturza The hope that lasting love can happen later in life recently got a huge boost, thanks to two women from the mid-Atlantic who appeared on the first season of the popular ABC program The Golden Bachelor, which premiered last fall. The show is a spinoff of the reality TV shows The Bachelor, which premiered in 2002, and the 2003 series The Bachelorette. The franchise produces romance and relationship programs that offer unmarried contestants a chance to find love — on national television. Not only did Joan Vassos of Rockville, Maryland and Nancy Hulkower of Alexandria, Virginia become ambassadors of the idea that romance is possible for people over 60, but they also got an unexpected bonus: new friends among the 22 contestants. When they flew to Los Angeles last August in the hopes of finding love and marriage, they didn’t know that a different type of deep relationship awaited them. “The camaraderie and the friendships with the [other] women...truly, I did not expect it,” Hulkower said. “I went on looking for love, like everybody else did. What came together was so much more than that. We all really stuck with each other and (have) supported one another since then.” While neither woman was among the final three who were selected to go on hometown dates with 72-year-old Gerry Turner, the pair invited four of their fellow contestants, who have become close friends, to come for a visit in February.
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There’s plenty of people to meet and fun to be had at retirement communities like this Erickson community in Maryland.
or have the flexibility of renting. It’s easy to be dazzled by the amenities, like swimming pools and golf courses. If you intend to purchase rather than rent, then consider what the retirement community property market is like. 4. Consider what level of care you’re looking for Retirement communities offer different levels of healthcare, from independent living communities to assisted living, to communities that specialize in memory care. Some offer several options for care, with different association dues depending on the level of assistance you select. If you are uncertain how much care you may need, then a Life Plan Community (formerly called Continuing Care Retirement Communities, or CCRCs) may be for
you. These settings aim to enable retirees to shift from independent living to higher levels of care as they age. 5. Look at a community’s amenities and services Retirement communities offer a variety of on-site amenities and services — such as beauty salons and barbershops, libraries, gyms and exercise classes, yoga studios, swimming pools, clubhouses, housekeeping, dog parks, spas, art studios, lakes, pickleball and tennis courts, restaurants, continuing education, laundry, game rooms, movie theaters, live entertainment, and transportation to nearby shopping centers and grocery stores. The trend of niche retirement communities is growing, so if one community just doesn’t feel right, consider one with a dif-
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ferent culture or focus. There are communities linked to universities, for example, for retirees who want to stay intellectually active. Others focus on wellness or spirituality, and there’s even a Jimmy Buffett-themed retirement community. Some offer horse riding, chicken coops and media lounges where residents can record and produce podcasts. What lifestyle and culture do you want in a retirement community? Pro tip: Don’t overlook the value of access to gardens and parks. Studies show older adults living in neighborhoods with more green spaces live longer and have a lower risk of cardiovascular disease, slower See COMMUNITIES, page B-3
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Maryland resident Joan Vassos, 61, is shown enjoying a televised date with Gerry Turner, 72, star of “The Golden Bachelor,” an ABC reality TV show whose first season attracted more than six million viewers last fall. Although Vassos — one of the show’s 22 contestants — didn’t get a marriage proposal, she made good friends among her fellow bachelorettes.
women who were in the same boat as me.” Hulkower agreed. “It’s like being at summer camp, where you make friends for life.” Before leaving for Los Angeles, both women said they panicked a bit when they saw ABC’s suggested packing list, which they had to put together quickly (contestants had to bring their own clothes). While both women already owned some beautiful dresses, they quickly shopped to fill out their wardrobe for the show. Once they arrived, they still didn’t have everything they needed for all occasions. So, the contestants generously shared with one another — everything from shoes to dresses to styling help. Both women found that the show was less of a competition than they expected. While they hoped to find a soulmate, they also wanted to be sure it was the right match for Turner and for the woman he would ask to marry him. So, they wanted to
help one another look and feel their best. But it wasn’t all about glammed-up looks, Hulkower said. “I also like that some of us...were more natural in some of the settings. If I was watching it, I would want to see some people who weren’t all dolled up.” Indeed, the women left the program thrilled that they represented so many viewers who don’t necessarily wear ball gowns on dates. “We wanted it to be a platform for good,” Hulkower said. “I hope that people see that at our age, when you have been divorced or widowed, you will still have hope.” While most contestants stayed for about a month, both women left the show after the first few episodes. Vassos had a tearful goodbye with Turner, departing because See BACHELORETTES, page 12
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