Vol 38 • No. 12
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November 2017
Heroes week renewed military brotherhood
Editor’s note: Veterans Day is Saturday, Nov. 11, a special day to thank veterans for their services. On Nov. 11, 1918, an armistice was signed that ended World War I hostilities between the Allied nations and Germany. Courtesy photo
Thanksgiving dinners may include tamales, paella, shish kebabs, sushi, pho, pierogies and more.
Thanksgiving menus as diverse as population
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By Leslie Chaffin Roast turkey, stuffing, sweet-potato and green-bean casseroles, pumpkin pie... What does this menu say to you: A traditional Thanksgiving dinner? Not any more. We live in a multicultural county and traditions vary by heritage. In fact the U.S. Census Bureau
says our population will reach a “multicultural tipping point” with a majority-minority in 2043. Today it’s about 35 percent minority. This diversity is reflected by what’s placed on holiday tables. Thanksgiving revolves around food, so each family’s culture may be reflected in the dishes placed on their feast table. The first Thanksgiving, traced back to 1621 in Plymouth, Mass., was held with 53 settlers who had fled England to escape the oppression of the Church of England, and 90 Wampanoag natives who had helped the newcomers plant crops that would grow in the new land. Their table was filled with wild fowl, venison, corn porridge, shellfish, turnips, carrots, onions and pumpkin, according to the Smithsonian. Ovens had not yet been built and there was no sugar or milk for pastries, which the English settlers were used to being served at special dinners. It would be more than 200 years before Sarah Josepha Hale, the editor of a women’s magazine in Boston, campaigned to make Thanksgiving a national holiday, rather than a holiday celebrated only in New England. She wrote letters to four presidents before Abraham Lincoln declared See Holiday, page 2
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By Steve Ochsner When a man or a woman leaves military service, we have a Hail & Farewell gathering. It’s a time to celebrate the end of this soldier’s era and to wish him/her well in the future. There’s a cake, an award, perhaps a medal and probably a few beers afterward. But after it’s over, the soldier is left with a void. Whether you are a soldier, sailor, airman or marine, you’re a member of a brotherhood that does not consider race, religion or gender. It gives your life its purpose: a
sense of mission, dedication and belonging that can’t be found elsewhere. And when you leave, that’s gone. It was not always this way. My Dad, back in World War II, served on the same ship with the same shipmates for four years, until the war ended. Their bond held for decades. Dad traveled to that ship’s reunion every year until Alzheimer’s claimed him. For that week he and his shipmates came together and recaptured what they once had. Today, wars don’t end. Soldiers come and soldiers go, only to be replaced by other soldiers. They are called Hail & Farewells for a reason. See Heroes, page 9
The active age won five national awards in the 2017 North America Mature Publishers Association annual competition. Faculty from the University of Missouri School of Journalism, Columbia, judged the 235 entries submitted from 18 publications. The active age winners and judges comments: Personal Essay 1st — Grayson Barnes describes with candor and heartfelt emotion his belatedly taking charge of his life as a transgender man. A testosterone shot injects emotional and mental changes along with the physical ones. 3rd — Steve Ochsner learns as he talks with young people about his experiences in the Vietnam War.
Feature Writing 1st — “Neither snow, rain nor heat stayed man or dog,” by Glenn Stephens, is an especially appealing reminiscence about a mail carrier and a beagle, Chrissie, who accompanied him on his route for a decade. Sweet, well-placed details about the relationship move the story along, and the ending gives the 95-year-old carrier a chance to remember a “simpler, kinder” time. This is very satisfying storytelling. Topical Issue 2nd — Hoarding can be a symptom of mental illness as well as a hazard. Debbi Elmore uses a case study to explain causes and possible solutions. Resource Guide or Directory 2nd — This 55+ Resource Guide packs a lot of information into a small space. Yet, the material is arranged for easy navigation.
Active age wins 5 awards
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