Diocese of Fall River
The Anchor
F riday , November 11, 2011
Speaker implores Faith Formation leaders, ‘Go out and tell the Good News’ By Becky Aubut Anchor Staff
home sweet home — Open for just over a year, the Sean Brooke House, a former abandoned mill in New Bedford, now provides a clean, safe, and comfortable permanent home to several veterans. (Photo by Dave Jolivet)
New Bedford house provides peaceful haven for veterans By Dave Jolivet, Editor
NEW BEDFORD — Some of the residents of the Sean Brooke House have experienced the horrors of warfare. Others face the lifelong battle against the demon of addiction. Still others sought a clean, safe place to live out their civilian lives. But all have one thing in common — a bond that nothing can break — the bond of having served in the U.S. Armed Forces, protecting the freedoms many Americans take for granted. The Sean Brooke House opened in June of 2010, following a 10-year effort from fellow veterans seeking to provide secure, permanent housing for those who served so honorably. Kathleen M. Splinter, a parishioner of Notre Dame Parish in Fall River, was one of the main proponents of the project. Splin-
ter was a Vietnam War veteran, having served as a lieutenant in the Army Nurse Corps. She witnessed first-hand the traumas of battle. Just as she had in Vietnam, Splinter, who received the Bronze Star in 1969 for outstanding service to her patients, has spent countless hours seeking to help fellow veterans live the lives they deserve. Facing the fact that many of the homeless in the Whaling City were veterans, Welcome Home Veterans Housing, Inc. worked tirelessly to help turn the former sweater mill at 280 North Street into a permanent haven for 19 of their peers. Splinter, the former Welcome Home president, and Joe Remedis, also an Army Vietnam War vet, agreed that many of those returning from their tour of duty Turn to page 18
TAUNTON — The hallways of the Holiday Inn in Taunton filled as attendees of this year’s Faith Formation Ministry Convention began a day filled with workshops focused on this year’s theme, “Go Out and Tell the Good News.” Father Richard Degagne, the celebrant for the morning Mass, said, “You are in the trenches. You are the front line of evangelization.” It is rarely the clergy who make the permanent mark on individuals, but those who walk out of the parish doors to spread the word among the people, he said. “It doesn’t matter what ministry you are in Church,” said Father Degagne. “You are giving witness to your faith. You are the examples and the witnesses.” Evangelizing wasn’t something just invented, said Father Degagne, it is something that with the prophets pre-dates Christ. He said that their personal story of their relationship with Jesus could likewise inspire conversion in people.
“Go in peace,” said Father Degagne. “You are sent today. Preaching can happen in many ways, and they will believe because you have been called.”
walking by Faith — Keynote speaker for this year’s Faith Formation Convention Dr. Carole Eipers drew many laughs as she focused on the convention’s theme, “Go Out and Tell the Good News” by challenging those in the audience to “walk by faith, not by sight.” (Photo by Becky Aubut)
The workshops ranged in ideas, from strengthening marriages to strengthening the bond within the families themselves. The workshop given by Lisa Rose Bucci focused on engaging lessons for teen-agers and offered ideas and techniques to get students interested in learning. Bucci drew on her years of teaching at Hope High School in Providence and Faith Formation classes at St. Paul’s Parish in Foster, R.I. “Comedy helps you remember,” said Bucci. “Teen-agers are awkward. Our job is to mold them into good people and good Catholics.” Acknowledging that teen-agers are insecure, it helps to build them up while “tricking them into an activity,” she said. “Simple tasks get them talking to each other,” she added. Bucci used interactive examples within her workshop to bring home the lesson. You can tie in any lesson, either one offered by her or one thought of all on your own, into Scripture and help kids realize the importance Turn to page 18
Vigil for the deceased: The first step in healing
By Becky Aubut Anchor Staff
MANSFIELD — The “vigil for the deceased” or “wake” is the time when family gathers around their deceased loved one to pray and to console one another. The wake can last for a few hours or be held over a couple of days. Contrary to the thoughts of some individuals who today overlook the importance of the wake, it serves a very specific purpose. “Sometimes there can be a lack of understanding on that healing process. We have become practical in everything now,” said Msgr. Stephen Avila, pastor of St. Mary’s Parish in Mansfield and director of the diocesan Office of Worship. “I think, sometimes, it’s not dealing with the reality. I think that the importance of a wake service is for us to begin that process of acceptance that the person has indeed died.” He added, “I believe the Church gives us these three moments in the funeral Liturgy — the vigil, the funeral Mass itself and the rite of committal — as important in the whole process of healing and a deeper understanding of our beliefs in our faith.” During the vigil, the casket is usually open with candles lit at either end, reminiscent of the
candle lit at Baptism. Flowers as symbols of the Resurrection but also of the ephemeral nature of life are almost always present. Often a crucifix is nearby with Rosary beads placed in the Turn to page 14
St. Patrick’s Cemetery, Fall River. (Photo by Dave Jolivet)