The Anchor Diocese of Fall River
Faithful get lobbying tips at workshop
F riday , March 13, 2009
By Gail Besse Anchor Correspondent
EAST SANDWICH — Citizens can lobby more effectively for life and family legislation if they ask for a personal meeting with lawmakers and give them some fresh insight on an issue. That was some of the advice given to participants at a recent Lobby Training Day run by the Cape Cod Family Life Alliance and Catholic Citizenship, a statewide lay-run group that encourages Catholics to participate in the political process. “Attitude and knowledge are everything,” said Tricia Doherty, an attorney and former lobbyist for Massachusetts Citizens for Life. “Know your subject matter from A to Z and go in with a friendly, helpful attitude. “Approach lawmakers as if you’re not just there to change a no vote to a yes; you’ve got something to add to the conversation. Explain that he might not have realized this piece of information you’re going to give him,” she said. A face-to-face meeting is the best way to communicate, added Republican Rep. Jeffrey Perry of Sandwich. Written letters and phone calls on an issue are next best. Turn to page 20
By Kenneth J. Souza Anchor Staff
St. Joseph the carpenter: A role model for today’s dads By Deacon James N. Dunbar
OSCAR PERFORMANCE — Victor Pap, executive director of Catholic Citizenship, acts out a mock meeting between a legislator and constituents during a recent Legislative Lobbying Day held at Corpus Christi Parish in East Sandwich.
Boston Men’s Conference is April 18
NEW BEDFORD — For Eduardo Borges, putting aside his well-worn carpenter’s tools to become a “stay at home dad” because of the poor economy, finds him calling on St. Joseph for a whole new variety of skills. “As a self-employed carpenter out of work I pray to the carpenter’s traditional patron saint, who was also a great family man, to help me become a better family man as I take on many domestic duties that I know I don’t perform too well,” said the 44-year-old owner of Ed Borges Construction. As the March 19 feast that celebrates St. Joseph as the husband of the Blessed Virgin Mary, approaches, Borges said his devotion to the foster father of Jesus has become deeper over time. Because his devotion to the Virgin Mary has always been strong naturally led to praying to the Holy Family and then particularly to Joseph, he said. “The family has always been the most important thing for me, and so it is easy to pray to the Holy Family for help. But to St. Joseph I ask help in being a better father; to strengthen the virtue of chastity which is needed even by married men in a good and wonderful marriage; to be bet-
ter in my relations with others, being more sensitive to their needs; and most important for the virtue of patience,” he added. His prayers are also for his wife Ann, who is an accountant currently working long hours and weekends preparing income tax returns as the family breadwinner. He also prays for his three children, daughters Cassandra, 15, and Carina nine, and son Christian, 10. “And in the current situation I sure am learning about a lot of things I didn’t know before as I drive the children to school, do the laundry, shopping and taking care of things around house,” he said with a smile. “Thanks be to God that we have a roof over our head. We have had steady income over the years and the mortgage on our house is safe,” said Borges, who has been out of work since last year. Instead of seeing his employment as a devastating catastrophe, he realistically sees it as temporary situation as well as an opportunity to be a better husband and father and grow in the faith legacy of his Portuguese forbears. The winter months from January through April are customarily “slow” times for those in the building trades in Turn to page 11
FALL RIVER — As Catholic men prepare for the feast of St. Joseph, anticipation is growing throughout the Fall River Diocese for the fifth annual Boston Catholic Men’s Conference on April 18 at Boston College. The theme of this year’s conference is “In the Footsteps of Christ” and key speakers for the day-long event will include Jerry York, hockey coach for Boston College; Curtis Martin, founder of the Fellowship of Catholic University Students; Jim Stenson, author and one of the Church’s foremost experts on Catholic men’s issues; and actor Jim Caviezel, who played Jesus Christ in Mel Gibson’s “The Passion of the Christ,” and is making a return appearance after speaking at the inaugural conference back in 2005. The annual gathering — which piggybacks with a Catholic Women’s Conference counterpart on April 19 — evolved out of a meeting of a Catholic Men’s Group at St. Paul Parish in Cambridge in the fall of 2004 and was established to help then-Archbishop Sean O’Malley rebuild the Church in Boston. But similar interest in reinvigorating the faith eventually spread to areas outside the archdiocese and the first conference drew more than 2,200 men on March 19, 2005 — the feast of St. Joseph. In subsequent years, interest and attendance in the two-day conference has steadily increased — to as many as 5,200 men — and organizers are looking forward to another impressive turnout for this fifth outing. Following the format of a one-day retreat, the conference includes the aforementioned keynote speakers along with music and video presentations, exhibitions and group discussions, prayer and Turn to page 18