The
SHOFAR
NOVEMBER 2013 Volume 90 No. 4 CHESHVAN/KISLEV 5774
Temple Beth-El
The Temple Beth-El Shofar is dedicated by the Chase Family Foundation.
Congregation Sons of Israel & David
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For decades adults and children have gathered in front of the Temple Beth -El Menorah on Orchard Avenue to kindle Chanukah candles, sing songs and get a treat.
Please join us in this special tradition. Wednesday ~ November 27
K’tantan, Pre-School & Kindergarten
Thursday ~ November 28 Friday ~ November 29 NO OUTDOOR CANDLE LIGHTING
(Candles lit at Shabbat Services)
Saturday ~ November 30 ~ Grade 1 Sunday ~ December 1 ~ Grade 2 Monday ~ December 2 ~ Grades 3 & 4 Tuesday ~ December 3 ~ Grade 5 Wednesday ~ December 4 ~ Grade 6 Lighting begins approximately 6:00 pm (following minyan)
WORSHIP SERVICES
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PARASHAT TOLDOT
PARASHAT VAYISHLACH
Torah: Genesis 25:19 -28:9 Haftarah: I Samuel 20:18- 42
Torah: Genesis 32:4-36:43 Haftarah: Obadiah 1:1-1:21
Friday, November 1 7:00 PM Family Shabbat Service (led by PROVTY, our Senior Youth Group) Children with November birthdays will be honored. Oneg sponsored by the Brosofsky Family in honor of the B'not Mitzvah of Jillian & Sarah
Friday, November 15 7:00 PM Hallelu Shabbat Abundant & filling hors d’oeuvres will be served at 6:30 PM followed by an uplifting musical Shabbat featuring Temple Beth - El Musicians and a short D’var Torah. Oneg sponsored by Julie Peters and Eric Montague in honor of their son, Joshua’s Bar Mitzvah
Saturday, November 2 9:00 AM Shabbat Service 10:15 AM Torah Study 11:00 AM B'not Mitzvah of Jillian & Sarah Brosofsky 5:45 PM Minyan
Saturday, November 16 9:00 AM Shabbat Service 10:15 AM Torah Study 11:00 AM Bar Mitzvah of Joshua Montague 5:45 PM Minyan
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PARASHAT VAYETZEI
Torah: Genesis 28:10 -32:3 Haftarah: Hosea 12:13 - 14:10 Friday, November 8 5:45 PM K’Tantan Shabbat and Dinner A 45 minute service designed especially for families with very young children. Songs, games and crafts to learn all about Shabbat. 7:00 PM Shabbat Service Rabbi Sarah E. Mack will speak Oneg sponsored by Naomi Kramer and Warren Licht in honor of Jonathan’s Bar Mitzvah. Saturday, November 9 9:00 AM Shabbat Service 10:15 AM Torah Study 11:00 AM Bar Mitzvah of Jonathan Licht 5:45 PM Minyan
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PARASHAT VAYESHEV
PARASHAT MIKETZ
Torah: Genesis 37:1 - 40:23 Haftarah: Amos 2: 6 - 3:8
Torah: Genesis 41:1 - 44:17
Friday, November 22 5:30 PM Beth Elders Dinner ~ Our guest will be Professor Lisa Grant. Dr. Grant is Professor of Jewish Education at Hebrew Union College ~ Jewish Institute of Religion (New York campus). Her research and teaching interests focus on adult Jewish learning, the professional development of Jewish leaders and the place of Israel in American Jewish life. She has published widely on these topics in a range of academic journals, books, and teaching guides. Lisa is the niece of Jason Grant, our member. Join us in welcoming this distinguished teacher from the Seminary of Reform Judaism. 7:00 PM Kabbalat Shabbat Oneg sponsored by the Emily & Steve Shalansky in honor of their daughter Julia’s Bat Mitzvah. Saturday, November 23 9:00 AM Shabbat Service 10 :15 AM Torah Study 11:00 AM Bat Mitzvah of Julia Shalansky 5:45 PM Minyan
Maftir: Numbers 7:24 - 7:35 Shabbat Chanukah ~ Day 3 Haftarah: Zechariah 2:14 - 4:7 Shabbat Chanukah ~ Day 3 Tuesday, November 26 7:00 PM Interfaith Thanksgiving Service at Temple Beth-El. We will welcome Christina H. Paxson, President of Brown University. For decades we have gathered at this season to celebrate our common American heritage with prayer and song. President Paxson will address the congregations.
WORSHIP SERVICES
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Friday, November 29 5:45 PM Kabbalat Shabbat Service ( PLEASE NOTE SPECIAL TIME ) Saturday, November 30 9:00 AM Shabbat Service 10:15 AM Torah Study 5:45 PM Minyan
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PARASHAT VAYIGASH Friday, December 6 7:00 PM Family Shabbat Service (led by Sixth Grade) Children with December birthdays will be honored. Oneg Sponsored by Sue Robbio and Michael Gaffin in honor of their daughter Sadie’s Bat Mitzvah. Saturday, December 7 9:00 AM Shabbat Service 10:15 AM Torah Study 11:00 AM Bat Mitzvah of Sadie Gaffin 5:45 PM Minyan
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The Chanukah Blessings THE FIRST TWO ARE OFFERED EACH NIGHT:
Barukh atah Adonai, Eloheinu, melekh ha'olam Praised are you, Adonai, our God, Ruler of the universe,
asher kidishanu b'mitz'votav v'tzivanu Who made us holy through the commandments and commanded us
l'had'lik neir shel Chanukah. (Amen) to kindle the Chanukah lights. (Amen)
BLESSING FOR CHANUKAH Barukh atah Adonai, Eloheinu, melekh ha'olam Praised are you, Adonai, our God, Ruler of the universe,
she'asah nisim la'avoteinu bayamim haheim baziman hazeh. (Amen) Who performed wondrous deeds for our ancestors in those days at this season.
SHEHECHEYANU (first night only) Barukh atah Adonai, Eloheinu, melekh ha'olam Praised are you, Adonai, our God, Ruler of the universe,
shehecheyanu v'kiyimanu v'higi'anu laz'man hazeh. (Amen) who has given us life, sustained us, and enabled us to reach this season. (Amen)
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A SPIRITUAL THOUGHT FOR EACH NIGHT OF CHANUKAH The first night of Chanukah is WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 27th. Remember, candles are inserted in the menorah from right to left and lit from left to right. We suggest the following ritual: light the Shamash, read the nightly meditation, sing or say the traditional blessing, use the Shamash to light the candles, then sing Chanukah songs, play dreidel, and enjoy the miracles of the lights. In our Hebrew alphabet, each letter corresponds to a number: Alef, one, bet, two, and so on. During the festival of Chanukah, we add one more candle each night, counting up to eight nights. As you light each candle, consider the mystical meaning behind the first eight letters of the Hebrew alphabet, and the ways you can grow spiritually this season.
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THE FIRST NIGHT, ALEF: The letter alef originally looked like a circle with horns, an ox. The ox was used to pull plows and the plows were used to turn the earth. If the soil is not turned, however; it becomes hard-packed and no longer capable of bringing forth life. We turn the soil of self through spiritual practice. On this night, ask yourself where you need turning. Where are you hard-packed by habit?
THE FIFTH NIGHT, HEH: The letter heh is found twice in the sacred name of God known as the Tetragrammaton-yud, heh, vov, heh-and connotes divine revelation. Its sound, resembling a mere exhalation, teaches that attentive focusing upon the breath is a means of spiritual development. On this night, as you watch the candle light, focus on your breath. What are ways you can pause and reflect within the rhythm of your life?
THE SECOND NIGHT, BET: The letter bet is closed on the top, bottom, and back, meaning that your history (the back), your birth (the bottom), and your death (the top) are closed to you; that is to say, you cannot escape the fact of your biology, the things you have done, and your mortality. Only the present is open to you. On this night, ask yourself where you are wasting energy, bemoaning those things over which you have no control. What can you do to pull these energies back and refocus them on things you can control?
THE SIXTH NIGHT, VAV: The letter vav is the Hebrew prefix meaning "and"- that which joins together words, sentences, and concepts. Vav signifies that things seemingly separate and even contradictory 足such as in a conflict ~ can be viewed as comprising a higher unity. How can you help create more interconnectedness between yourself and others? Among people?
THE THIRD NIGHT, GIMMEL: The letter gimmel was originally a stick figure of a one hump gamal (camel), and represents your ability to cross deserts. The desert represents times of barrenness, dryness, lack of creativity. On this night, remind yourself that Judaism is a desert faith, born from the vast emptiness that is the desert, and see if you can hear, as Hosea did, the voice of God saying, "I will call you to the desert and there I will speak to your heart." THE FOURTH NIGHT, DALET: Dalet is a door and represents openings and closings. At each moment of your life there are doors. They are meant to be walked through, and as you do they close behind you. You cannot know what is on the other side, and you cannot go back once a door is passed through. You cannot know for certain if any given door is the right door. It is only the next door. On this night, remind yourself of the fundamental not-knowingness of life, and ask where you may be standing before a door too afraid to open and walk through. Acknowledge the fear; and walk on.
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THE SEVENTH NIGHT, ZAYIN: Zayin begins the Hebrew words zachar (to remember) and zikaron (remembrance). On this night, we remember the Maccabees, and those Jews throughout history, who fought for their right to keep Jewish tradition alive. As you light the seventh candle, remember a person in your life who has inspired you to be more courageous. THE EIGHTH NIGHT, CHET: The eighth letter of the Hebrew alef-bet was originally the symbol of an enclosure, a pen. Chet is your ability to hold things. Ultimately what you are asked to hold is the paradox of existence. On this night, look to see if your life is defined by "either/or" or "both/and." How wide is your pen? Is it wide enough to allow for contradiction and paradox, certainty and uncertainty, knowing and unknowing, health and illness, good and evil, or is it looking to hold only one half of reality? The ultimate spiritual work is to hold rather than to heal. What can you do to expand your capacity to hold?
~ Sources: Rabbi Sheryl Leward, Kehillat Israel website; Edward Hoffman, The Hebrew Alphabet
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OH CHANUKAH
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OH CHANUKAH Before Kindling The Lights, The Following Might Be Read: The lights of Chanukah are a symbol of our joy, in time of darkness. Our ancestors had the courage to struggle for
T he Festival of Chanukah begins WEDNESDAY,
NOVEMBER 27th, with the lighting of the first candle. On the next night, two candles are lit, and one more candle is added every night. The candles are placed in the menorah from right to left and are lit from left to right. The lighting of the Chanukah candles can be a meaningful ceremony, not only in terms of the warm family spirit that is created, but in deepening the understanding of the holiday’s historical and contemporary significance.
CHANUKAH IN OUR TIME From The Jewish Way by Rabbi Irving Greenberg The question is: What model of Chanukah can speak to this generation? Several important issues in Chanukah’s origins remain central in contemporary culture.
themselves, freedom to
One theme is the clash of the universal with the particular. Hellenism saw itself as the universal human culture, open to all. But Mattathias, Judah Maccabee and the brave people who saved Judaism were not fighting for a pluralist Judea. They were fighting against the state’s enforcement of Hellenist worship because they believed it was a betrayal of Israel’s covenant with God. When, after decades of fighting, they liberated Jerusalem and purified the Temple, they established a state in which Jews could worship God in the right way ~ not in just any way. Chanukah is not a model for total
way. Theirs was a victory of the weak over the strong, the few over the many, and the righteous over the arrogant. It was a victory for all ages and all peoples.
Chanukah Service For The Home
freedom; freedom to be worship in their own
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separation of church and state. On the other hand, the Maccabee victory saved particularist Judaism. It preserved the stubborn Jewish insistence on “doing their own thing” religiously – never mind the claims of universalism that only if all are citizens of one world and one faith will there be one humanity. By not disappearing, Jews have continued to force the world ~ down to this day ~ to accept the limits of centralization. Jewish existence has been a continued stumbling block to whatever political philosophy, religion or economic system has claimed the right to abolish all distinctions for “the higher good of humanity.” [Because] the centralizing forces often turned oppressive or obliterated local cultures and dignity, this Jewish resistance to homogenization, has been a blessing to humanity
the Jews. The Maccabee revolution made clear that a universalism that denies the rights of the particular to exist is inherently totalitarian and will end up oppressing people in the name of one humanity. Universalism must surrender its over weaning demands and accept the universalism of pluralism. Only when the world admits that oneness comes out of particular existences, linked through overarching unities, will it escape the inner dynamics of conformity that lead to repression and cruelty.
The Menorah The central symbol for Chanukah is light. Menorah is a Hebrew word meaning candelabrum. In relation to Chanukah, it refers to the nine-branched ceremonial lamp in which the Chanukah candles are placed and then blessed. But the menorah is not unique to Chanukah. It originated as a religious symbol in biblical times. The Torah records how the great artist Bezalel fashioned a sevenbranched menorah for the desert tabernacle in fulfillment of a Divine commandment (Exodus 25:31-40; 37:17- 24). Such a seven-branched menorah adorned the Temple in Jerusalem. The nine-branched Chanukah menorah or “Hanukkiah” was a modification of the biblical model and seems to have originated in the first century C.E. It had eight branches, one for each day of the
holiday, and a ninth branch for the shamas or “servant” light. In ancient times, oil was used in the menorah. Over time, candles were substituted for oil. Some scholars believe that the use of small candles for the menorah was a deliberate choice, designed to distinguish Chanukah lights from Christmas votive candles. The menorah can be made from almost any nonflammable material ~ glazed ceramics, copper, silver, brass, stone, glass, pewter ~ and can vary in size and shape. The actual lighting of the Hanukkiah is a beautiful ceremony, and the kindling of the Chanukah lights is a mitzvah.
The Dreidel The most popular of all Chanukah activities has always been spinning the dreidel. As the name from the German “dreihen,” to spin, implies, this is a spinning top (in Hebrew, sevivon). This top was popular in medieval Germany; its letters in Latin characters stood for the directions of the name: N-nisht (nothing); G-ganz (all); H-halb (half); and S-shtel (put), referring to coins or tokens put into the kitty or taken out. These letters were then translated into the Hebrew letters nun, gimmel, heh, and shin, and interpreted as an acronym for the phrase, “Nes gadol hayah sham,” “A great miracle happened there.” In Israel the shin is usually changed to a peh, the peh stands for po (here): “A great miracle happened here.” To justify the gambling, many interpreted the game as a disguised
form of studying. When the Jews were not allowed to engage in the study of the Law, they would assemble to play the game and at the same time discuss the Law orally. Symbolically, the top recalls the “turnover” of events when Judah Maccabee’s meager forces vanquished the much larger Syrian army. The natural sequence of events was overturned: the strong were spun into the hands of the weak, as enunciated in the “Al Ha-nissim” prayer of Chanukah. Through Jewish history it has been stressed that the world is like a dreidel. Everything is set forth in cycles: things change and spin but all emanate from one root. The dreidel reflects the game of change in life as an on-going event.
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and a continuing source of religious pluralism for everybody, not just
Chanukah Foods The single constant in Chanukah cuisine around the world is fried food. It is traditional to eat foods fried in oil in remembrance of the miracle in which one day’s supply of oil lasted for eight days. Further evidence of the appropriateness of using oil derives from the fact that the Hebrew words for Hasmoneans (Hashmoniam) and for eight (shemoneth), the number of days of the festival, contain the Hebrew letters for oil (shemen)! Among Ashkenazic (Eastern European) Jews, latkes (potato pancakes) are the traditional Chanukah food. (The word latke means pancake in Yiddish.) According to at least
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one source, the symbolism
general Holofernes before she cut
Among Sephardic (Mediterranean)
behind pancakes is threefold.
off his head, thus delivering the
Jews, fried sweets are more common.
Made initially of flour and water,
Jews from the Syrians ~ in another
In Israel, sufganiyot (jelly doughnuts),
they remind us of the food hurriedly
assault against the Jewish people
are traditional on Chanukah. They
prepared for the Maccabees as
during the Hasmonean era.
are similar to doughnuts made
they went to battle. The oil in
The use of potatoes in the
which they are fried symbolizes the cleansing and rededication of the Temple after it was defiled by the Syrians. The third meaning, added in medieval times, was that latkes symbolize the cheesecakes the widow Judith served the Syrian
pancakes is relatively recent, since potatoes were first brought to Europe from South America in the 16th century and eventually became a staple in the diet of Eastern European Jews.
throughout Germany and Austria, but they are also reminiscent of a sweet, spongy cookie popular throughout the Mediterranean area since the time of the Maccabees. The Hebrew word sufganiyot comes from the Greek sufgan, meaning “puffed and fried.�
Youth Programming 2013 - 2014
K'Tantan Ages 0-6
Shabbat Service & Dinner Shabbat Service & Dinner PJ Havdalah Shabbat Service & Dinner
Friday, November 8th @ 5:30 PM Friday, January 3rd @ 5:30 PM Saturday, February 1st @ 5:30 PM Friday, February 28th @ 5:30 PM
Azeh Kef Grades 1-3
Movie Night Saturday, November 2nd @ 5:30 PM Pool Party Saturday, January 25th @ 5:30 PM Movie Night Saturday, April 5th @ 5:30 PM
Provty Grades 8-12 PROVTY Shabbat Fall Conclavette December Institute
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Friday, November 1st @ 7:00 PM Friday, November 15th - Sunday, November 17th Thursday, December 26th - Monday, December 30th
INTRODUCTION TO JUDAISM THE REFORM TEMPLES OF RHODE ISLAND PRESENT AN INTRODUCTION TO JUDAISM COURSE Offered by Temple Beth-El, Temple Habonim, and Temple Sinai The class presents a mix of study, discussion and practical experiences designed for all interested in exploring Judaism for themselves, interfaith couples, non-Jews considering conversion, and Jews looking for adult-level basics. Partners in interfaith relationships are encouraged to enroll together. Topics include Jewish hoildays and life cycle events, theology and prayer, Israel, history and Hebrew. the class runs for 18 weeks and will be held at Temple Beth-El in Providence. The Faculty will include: Rabbis Gutterman, Kelin, Mack and Stein and Cantors Brown and Seplowin.
$160 One Person $225 Couple SEATING IS LIMITED. REGISTRATION REQUIRED. (fee includes all books and a catered class Shabbat dinner in March)
November 7 ~ March 20 Thursday Evenings 7-9 PM
For more information on class dates and registration: contact Judy Moseley EMAIL: jmoseley@temple-beth-el.org WEBSITE: www.temple-beth-el.org PHONE: 401-331- 6070
CLASSES WILL TAKE PLACE AT
Temple Beth-El 70 Orchard Avenue Providence, RI 02906
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Who.. What ..
for moms and dads in interfaith families and anyone else who wants to learn more! a FREE holiday preparation class to help you celebrate Hanukkah in an enjoyable and meaningful way. Participants will: • explore the origins of the holiday • light the Hanukkah candles • play the game of dreidel • make latkes • discuss the “December Dilemma” • discover the joys of Hanukkah music
Where.. Alliance JCC | 401 Elmgrove Avenue, Providence When .. Thursday, November 14 | 7:00 - 9:30pm For more information contact Kit Haspel at 401.421.4111 ext. 184 or khaspel@jewishallianceri.org. Pre-registration is encouraged.
The Mothers Circle is a program of the Jewish Outreach Institute and is made possible locally by the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island, with additional funding from the Women’s Alliance Endowment Fund.
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H A K U N CHA T R E C N O C & N O I T A R B E
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Peri Smilow is a nationally recognized singer/songwriter, educator and community organizer. Her music has been heard throughout the US, Canada, England, Singapore and Israel.
Temple Beth-El | 70 Orchard Avenue, | Providence, RI | 02906 Funded by the Freda & Louis Kaufman Memorial Fund
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SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 15th
The Social Action Committee thanks the congregation of Temple Beth-El for the kind and generous donations during our High Holy Day Food Drive. We also want to thank all those volunteers (large and small) who helped with the sort on Sunday, September 15th. This year's drive was a great success and a wonderful way to start the New Year.
SOCIAL ACTION
High Holy Day Food Drive
We also thank Pamco Label Co, Resource Label Group and Fox Tag & Label, LLC, who generously donated the labels, as well as Admiral Packaging that year after year has supported our efforts by donating the bags. Donations were distributed on September 16 th to the following organizations: Blackstone Valley Community Action Camp Street Ministries Crossroads RI Kosher Pantry Mt. Pleasant Backpack Pawtucket Soup Kitchen Project Outreach (United Methodist Shalom Zone) Ronald McDonald House Urban Core FCCP Family Services of RI THANK YOU all again! We wish you and your families a Happy, Healthy, Safe and Prosperous New Year. The Social Action Committee
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September 16, 2013
Mr. Stuart Feldman Temple Beth-El 70 Orchard Avenue Providence, RI 02906
Dear Mr. Feldman: On behalf of our Board of Directors and Guests, I would like to take this opportunity to thank you and the members of Temple Beth-El for your generous donation of non-perishable food items and cleaning supplies that were collected during the High Holy Day Food Drive. This is a tremendous help to us and we are very grateful for this gift. This summer was exceptionally hot and humid and we saw many new faces at the Soup Kitchen, many of whom were families with children and elderly single adults. We continue to serve breakfast and dinner, Monday through Saturday, and remain the only Soup Kitchen in the Blackstone Valley area to provide this service. In addition to the meals we serve on site, we also provide a full dinner, seven days per week, to the homeless men and women who stay at the St. Paul's Episcopal Church Emergency Shelter, located in downtown Pawtucket. We are also a host site for the R.I. Coalition of the Homeless' Legal Clinic, which is held monthly in our dining room. When available, we offer free clothing and health & beauty aid items to our guests. Improvements to the economy have been slow catching up with the population we serve, so we anticipate the need continuing throughout the fall and winter. We rely heavily on the support of the community to assist us in providing for all those in need. Thank you again for your support and generosity. We could never do what we do without your help. Have a Happy Fall! We wish you and all at Temple Beth-El a Happy and Healthy New Year! Sincerely,
Adrienne Marchetti Adrienne Marchetti Executive Director
Improving our Community . . . One Meal at a Time
Founder Ernie Marot Executive Director Adrienne Marchetti Board of Directors Raymond Gannon Vice President Laureen Grebien Chief George Kelley (Ret.) Hon. Joseph Keough Sheryl Marshall, B.A., M.S. Maj. Arthur Martins Elizabeth McKenna Mary Anne Quinn Secretary Brother Michael Reis Asst. Treasurer Monica Santos Treasurer Charles Sczuroski President Mary Turillo 195 Walcott Street Pawtucket, RI 02860 Tel: 401.258.4616 PawtucketSoupKitchen.org
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Ronald McDonald House PROVIDENCE
OFFICERS President Daniel D. Hanlon Vice President Brian C. Schattle Secretary Jay R. Marshall Treasurer Christina E. Hilton, CPA
September 16, 2013
Social Action Committee Temple Beth-El 70 Orchard Avenue Providence, RI 02906
BOARD OF DIRECTORS Daniel J. Cunningham David S. Denyse Colleen M. Dickson Jim Gilmore John R. Liesching Jerry Munoz, MBA Joseph M. Muscarella Glen L. Palmer, MBA John L. Pucci, CPA Stephen M. Walach Tracey Wallace, MBA
COMMUNITY LEADERSHIP COUNCIL Lion Peter G. Barilla Carol M. Barnabe Jeanette Bucci Edwin N. Forman, MD Rev. Evangelos Georgiadis John H. King F. Paul Mooney Beverly Motta Norton Mark D. Mueller Lou Provenzano Russell R.Shippee Robyn G. Smalletz
Dear Friends, On behalf of the Providence Ronald McDonald House, I want to thank you personally for your generous donation of groceries and household items. Thanks to Temple Beth-El we are able to continue our important mission, providing a home-away-from-home to families of pediatric patients being treated at area hospitals. Each year we are host to nearly 400 families who hail from Rhode Island and Southeastern New England, as well as locales national and international. Every donation helps us provide all the comforts of home to a family during what is, perhaps, the most difficult time in their lives. Thank you for your continued support. Sincerely,
Michelle LePage Michelle LePage Director of Operations
Chief Executive Officer Michael G. Fantom
45 Gay Street • Providence, RI 02905 • Phone: 401.274.4447• Fax: 401.751.3730 • www.rmhprovidence.org
RELIGIOUS SCHOOL
RELIGIOUS SCHOOL ENROLLMENT APPROACHES 170 STUDENTS! Temple Beth - El Religious School continues to grow!
Reini Silverman, is available each
Silverman. All of our students will
Sunday morning to meet with our
also study phrases and vocabulary
Enrollment is approaching 170
students. Students in grades 4-6
of conversational Hebrew. Faculty
have the wonderful opportunity of
include: Paula Annenberg and
participating in chugim, activities
Estelle Millman (Bereshit ~ Grade
of their choosing. They may
3 Hebrew); Jill Bromberg and
select from Arts & Crafts with
Sandra Lamchick (Shemot ~ Grade
Shannon Boucher; Computer Lab
4 Hebrew); Nitza Attali and
with Steven Kahan and Gilad
Joie Magnone (Vayikra ~ Grade
Seckler; Jewish Cooking with
5 Hebrew); Stanley Freedman
Laura Levinson, Nikki Hamburger
(Bemidbar ~ Grade 6 Hebrew);
and Robert Oster; Jews on the
Rabbi Mack, Cantor Seplowin and
BIG and little Screen with Avis
Reini Silverman (Rabbi’s Workshop
Gunther-Rosenberg and Alan
~ Grade 7 Hebrew); and, Marsha
Rosenberg; and Mah Jongg with
Horovitz (Mechinah).
Wendy Joering.
We are also delighted to
students, ages 4 through 17. This year, we have gathered a dedicated faculty who are committed to sharing their knowledge and their love of Judaism with our children. Our teaching staff includes: Tonya Glantz (Pre-School); Paula Annenberg (Kindergarten); Marsha Horovitz (Grade 1); Sandra Lamchick (Grade 2); Nitza Attali and Erin Moseley (Grade 3); Avis Gunther-Rosenberg and Gilad Seckler (Grade 4);
Five students are studying
Nikki Hamburger and Alan
with Rabbi Mack this year
Rosenberg (Grade 5); Robert
in preparation for their
Oster (Grade 6); Robert Oster
Confirmation. Twenty - two 11th
and Alan Rosenberg (Grade 7);
and 12th grade students are
Avis Gunther-Rosenberg and Rabbi
enrolled in our Post - Confirmation
Mack (Grades 8, 9 and 10);
program and will participate in
Anita Steiman and Rabbi
a Teacher Training Program and
Gutterman (Grades 11 and 12).
serve as Teacher Aides in the
We also are very fortunate to
Religious and Hebrew Schools.
welcome our talented creative
They will meet monthly with
specialists: Judaic Art ~ Shannon
Rabbi Gutterman for a discussion
Boucher; Music ~ Deborah
focusing on Jewish issues.
Waldman; and Computer Lab ~ Steven Kahan.
Curriculum in the Religious School
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Eighty-two students are enrolled in our Hebrew School. The focus of the four years of our program
focuses on holidays, Bible,
is to increase vocabulary, reading
God, Israel, tzedakah, mitzvot,
fluency and language skills, as
American Jewish history, life cycle,
applied to the prayer book. Our
Holocaust, ethics, and comparative
third year Hebrew students will
religions. Studies are supplemented
take part in leading worship
with music, art, videos, and
services under the direction
educational field trips. Librarian,
of Cantor Seplowin and Reini
welcome our Israeli emissary, Matan Graf, to our school this year!
CONSECRATION OF CHILDREN On Wednesday evening, September 25th, at Erev Simchat Torah services, thirteen first grade students marked the beginning of their formal Jewish education by participating in the 81st annual Consecration ceremony.
Consecration is the first of many milestones in the course of Jewish upbringing. It marks the beginning of formal Jewish education, just as Simchat Torah marks the
Save the Date RELIGIOUS SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE FAMILY DAY SUNDAY, DECEMBER 8, 2013 AT 9:00 A M Our Religious School Open House this year begins with a breakfast sponsored and prepared by our Temple Brotherhood. Please join Rabbi Mack, Anita Steiman and members of our School Board at this wonderful opportunity to meet each other, schmooze, and learn about our school.
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Following the breakfast, teachers will welcome you to your children’s classrooms.
beginning of the reading of the Torah. Each of the Consecrants received miniature Torah scrolls, a gift from the Temple Sisterhood, to commemorate this occasion.
We congratulate the following Consecrants and their families: Jonah Bramson Dylan Cicchitelli Nathaniel Finger Maxwell Frank Eric Friedman Zachary Gessman Jacob Jaffe Esther Mellion Violet Orth Jacob Salzillo Noah Schein
Temple Beth-El Parenting Group Facilitated by Matthew Goodman, Psy.D, Clinical Psychologist DATES November 3rd December 15th January 5th February 2nd March 2nd TIME 9:15AM LOCATION Bennett Chapel
William Torgan We all rejoice in welcoming these young people into our Religious School family!
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RELIGIOUS SCHOOL trip to
Dame Farm
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 29TH
K'TANTAN Shabbat & Holiday Experiences for Young Families Join us in celebrating Shabbat with songs, stories, crafts and other fun activities!
SCHEDULE / TIMES 5:30 PM
K'TANTAN SHABBAT Family Shabbat Dinner follows
November 8 & January 3 February 1 ~ PAJAMA HAVDALAH February 28 March 15 ~ PURIM PARTY April 11 & May 9
Temple Beth-El 70 Orchard Avenue Providence, RI 02906 401-331- 6070
Want to learn more about young family programming? Please email: info@temple-beth-el.org
K'TanTan is open to both Temple & non-Temple families. Funded by The Frances & David Friedman Family Fund
Upcoming Fall 92Y Broadcast Program .....................................$5 per member Program .....................................$10 per non-member
Program ~ 8:00 PM
You know that Alan Dershowitz, the preeminent defense lawyer in America today, has had an impact on the lives of storied clients like O. J. Simpson, Claus von Bülow, Bill Clinton, Julian Assange, Jeffrey MacDonald, Patty Hearst, Mike Tyson, and many more. But who has affected Dershowitz himself?
ALAN DERSHOWITZ
and Jeffrey Toobin MONDAY, NOVEMBER 4th
Professor Alan M. Dershowitz is a Brooklyn native who has been called “the nation’s most peripatetic civil liberties lawyer” and one of its “most distinguished defenders of individual rights,” “the best-known criminal lawyer in the world,” “the top lawyer of last resort,” “America’s most public Jewish defender” and “Israel’s single most visible defender – the Jewish state’s lead attorney in the court of public opinion.”
To Register online go to www.temple-beth-el.org and sign in to Chaverweb or call Temple Beth-El at 401-331- 6070.
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2013 YEAR-END GIFT IDEAS
A s you consider your year- end tax planning, we hope you will make good use of the income tax charitable deduction. Your 2013 year - end gift to Temple Beth - El can significantly reduce your income taxes while providing meaningful support for our beloved temple. * HERE ARE SOME OF THE BEST 2013 YEAR-END GIFT IDEAS JOIN THE PREMIUM SUPPORT PROGRAM
GIFTS OF LIFE INSURANCE policies that are no longer needed make perfect charitable gifts. Your insurance broker can assist you with this transaction.
Enhanced levels of annual support will ensure that the temple can welcome individuals and families who cannot afford to pay some or all of the basic membership dues. The program also ensures the continuation of high quality and essential programs and services the temple provides.
CHARITABLE REMAINDER TRUSTS AND CHARITABLE GIFT ANNUITIES
ESTABLISH A NAMED FUND in honor or in memory of loved ones. With a minimum gift, you may establish a named fund and the purpose for such a fund. Add to existing special funds. Temple Beth-El has more than 25 named funds. Gifts in honor or in memory of a loved one are often directed to one of these funds. INSCRIBE A MEMORIAL TABLET OR HONOR THY NAME PLAQUE Consider inscribing a memorial tablet for display in the Rosalie and Norman Fain Sanctuary or purchasing an Honor thy Name plaque for display on a chair in either the Rosalie and Norman Fain Sanctuary or the Herman L. Bennett Chapel.
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There are many vehicles for you to make your charitable contribution to Temple Beth - El, some of which are listed here: GIFT OF CASH is the easiest method of earning a tax deduction for the year. GIFT OF APPRECIATED SECURITIES may allow you to avoid capital gains tax as well as earning a deduction on your personal income tax. GIFTS OF REAL ESTATE or other property, may allow you to deduct the full fair market value of the property.
Partnering with either the RI Foundation or the Jewish Federation, a gift made during your lifetime to this partnership may allow you or a loved one to receive income during your lifetime while designating Temple Beth-El as the beneficiary of your gift in the future. BEQUESTS With the advice of your attorney, you may make a bequest to Temple Beth-El by preparing a new will or adding a codicil to your present will. Notifying the temple of your intentions allows us to recognize your gift during your lifetime. Please consult your tax advisor regarding year-end gifts.
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To help you prepare for your year - end gift to Temple Beth-El, or to discuss the myriad opportunities for charitable giving, please call Ruby Shalansky or Judy Moseley at 331- 60 70.
Temple Beth-Elders Shabbat Dinner
Special Guest Lisa Grant FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 22, 2013 RSVP Deadline November 18th
5:30 PM Dinner 7:00 PM Shabbat Service Speaker Following Service Dr. Lisa Grant will speak about “Israel: One Land, Many Narratives.” Dr. Grant is Professor of Jewish Education at Hebrew Union College – Jewish Institute of Religion (New York campus). Her research and teaching interests focus on adult Jewish learning, the professional development of Jewish leaders and the place of Israel in American Jewish life. She has published widely on these topics in a range of academic journals, books, and teaching guides. Lisa is the niece of Jason Grant, our member.
Beth- Elders Dinner with Lisa Grant, Friday, November 22nd. Reservation Deadline Monday, November, 18th. NAME:
PHONE:
# of ADULTS ($18 each):
TOTAL ENCLOSED $
Please let us know how many vegetarian meals are requested: For more information call (401) 331- 6070 • www.temple-beth-el.org • info@temple-beth-el.org Your check will serve as an RSVP payaable to Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Avenue, Providence, RI 02906
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Brotherhood NEWS BIG NIGHT AT BETH-EL!
The stage is set, the lights and sound are ready; now all we need is you !! If you don’t have your tickets to see The Edwards Twins yet, take action now. This Vegas level of entertainment is coming to our very own Silverstein Meeting Hall Saturday, November 16th. They will amaze and astound you as they become Elton John, Cher, Billy Joel, Bette Midler, and hundreds more. They look like them, they move like them, they sound like them; you’ll think you’re watching the real stars live!
This is Brotherhood’s major fundraiser of the year, and it’s one you’ll thank us for bringing to you. Tickets are just $35 each, (about half of what you’ll pay locally, and a fraction of what you’ll pay in Vegas or Atlantic City). So PLEASE join us, Saturday, November 16th right in the meeting hall. Snacks and drinks will be available, along with some great auction items ~ all to raise money that helps your own Temple and family. We’ll say it one more time….Don’t you dare miss it.
Now is also the time for the men of the congregation to join Brotherhood for 2014. Dues start at $40, but feel free to do more if you choose. Obligations are non- existent, but we welcome your involvement. Fun is there for the taking, so feel free to grab the brass ring!! We could give you fifty reasons to join, but we’ll only give you one…… BECAUSE YOU SHOULD !!!
Become a fan on Facebook www.bethelbrotherhoodri.org
Silverstein Meeting Hall
Saturday, November 16TH at 7:00 pm
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Thanksgiving Interfaith Service TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 26, 2013 Temple Beth-El 7:00 PM
Our Annual Interfaith Thanksgiving Service will be held at Temple Beth-El. Join us with our East Side neighbors, St. Martin's Episcopal Church in celebrating the glory of our shared American heritage.
CHRISTINA H. PAXSON Following the service, our guest speaker Christina Paxson, President of Brown University, will address the congregations.
Please kindly bring a donation of canned fruits & vegetables.
Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Avenue, Providence, RI 02906 info@temple-beth-el.org or (401) 331- 6070 www.temple-beth-el.org
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SISTERHOOD
HELLOfrom
SISTERHOOD When I joined Temple Beth-El, I remember someone called to welcome me from Sisterhood and I’m pretty sure I politely said “I’m not interested.” I had visions of the Sisterhood in the temple I grew up in and thought, “That’s not for me. I’m not a mom yet. I’m too young. That’s for my mom or grandma.” Fast forward some Purim spiels, one daughter, and here I am now Vice President of Membership. How did that happen? If someone asks me what the Sisterhood is, I explain that it is a multi-generational group of women with a host of activities throughout the year that help build community and support various temple programs. Getting involved meant getting over my preconceived notions about what it is. What I like about Sisterhood is very much related to what kept me away at first. It is that wide range of ages and life stages that women are at and ways we can all learn from one another. For me personally, yes, I like connecting with other young moms like myself. But I also like having women with children older than mine, or perhaps who have gone through various career paths or been a past leader as good role models. This month we’re paying special attention to our members with our Paid Up Event on Nov. 17th (see details below). If you’re not a member yet, don’t let preconceived notions keep you away. I’ve met some great women through Sisterhood. I hope you will too. Karen Isenberg Vice President, Membership
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SISTERHOOD MEMBERSHIP NOW AVAILABLE ONLINE THROUGH CHAVERWEB Becoming a Sisterhood member is now as easy as a few clicks away! You can now pay Sisterhood membership dues online by credit card through ChaverWeb. Go to http://www.temple-beth-el. org/community/sisterhood/ join-sisterhood to learn more and understand how your membership supports Temple Beth-El activities.
SHOP OUR CHANUKAH SALES NOVEMBER 3rd & 17th 9:00 - 1:00 PM Chanukah starts on Thanksgiving this year! Make Temple Beth-El your shopping destination for all things Chanukah. You’ll find wrapping paper, bags, candles, menorahs, dreidels, toys, books, tablecloths, napkins, clings and many more great items. Come browse and shop until you plotz!
Upcoming Events December Open Board Meeting ~ TUESDAY, December 10th, 7:00PM Make-A-Meal at Ronald McDonald House ~ SUNDAY, December 15th, 2:00PM
READING CIRCLE The next meeting is planned for NOVEMBER 25th, when we will discuss The Tenth Song by Naomi Ragen. Call Rona at 401- 331- 6070 for location and to RSVP.
CHANUKAH BAKE SALE Our Chanukah Bake Sale will be held on SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 3rd from 10 -1. We hope that you will be just as generous with your donations of delicacies as always when we call or email Sisterhood members. Cookies, cupcakes, and brownies are always welcomed, either store-bought or homemade. Something with a Chanukah theme would be awesome!
RELAX & PAMPER YOURSELF AT OUR PAID UP MEMBERSHIP EVENT NOVEMBER 17th, 1:30 - 4 :00 PM Make time for yourself and join us for a special afternoon of relaxing, pampering activities as we say thank you for being a paid member of Sisterhood. There will be chair massages, yoga, delicious food, and other activities. If you aren’t a member yet, consider joining to see what this is all about.
“LIKE” US ON FACEBOOK AT THE SISTERHOOD OF TEMPLE BETH-EL
Camp & Summer Camp
Israel Trips Travel providers
Israel Travel
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from kindergarten to college Sunday, November 17 12 - 3:30pm Alliance JCC | 401 Elmgrove Avenue, Providence This is your chance to meet Summer Camp and Israel Travel providers all in one place! Learn what opportunities are available and what best fits your lifestyle. And find out how incentive grants and savings programs can help make summer camp and Israel travel a possibility for your family.
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Summer Camp options including: Camp Avoda Camp JORI Camp Ramah Camp Zeke J-Camp URJ Crane Lake Camp URJ Eisner Camp ...and many more!
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Israel Travel opportunities including: Alexander Muss High School BBYO Passport BBYO, New England Region Lapid MASA Onward Israel, Boston Ramah programs, Israel Tel Aviv University ...and many more!
Food will be available for purchase. For more information contact Elanah Chassen at 401.421.4111 ext. 140 or echassen@jewishallianceri.org. 401 Elmgrove Avenue | Providence, RI 02906 | 401.421.4111 | jewishallianceri.org
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PREMIUM SUPPORT CAMPAIGN
Premium Support Members The Premium Support Program of Temple Beth-El is enhanced levels of annual support which ensure that the temple can welcome individuals and families who cannot afford to pay some or all of the basic membership dues. The program also ensures the continuation of high quality and essential programs and services the temple provides. Temple Beth-El is grateful to the following families who have joined our Premium Support Program. PILLARS
( 18,000 + )
Joseph A. Chazan Anonymous (1)
GUARDIAN’S CIRCLE
( 10,000 + )
Gussie Baxt Rosalie Fain Merle & Stanley Goldstein Vivien & Alan Hassenfeld
RABBI’S CIRCLE
(5,000 + )
Lawrence & Atsuko Fish Joyce & Arthur Hurvitz Sheila & Arnold Kaufman Trinidad & Peter Wallick Anonymous (4)
CHAI CIRCLE
( 3,600 + )
Jeanie & Samuel Brickle Bonnie & Donald Dwares Samara & Stuart Feldman Robin & Burt Homonoff Judy & Robert Mann Jamie & Brock Manville Tara & Bruce Pinsky Faye & Robert Stolzman Ina & Bernard Wasserman
PRESIDENT’S CIRCLE
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Judith C. Labossiere Sally Lapides & Arthur Solomon Joyce & Alan Leven Sharon & Stephen Linder Carol & Fred Levinger Susann Mark & David Josephson Jane S. Nelson Lila Sapinsley Helaine & Mark Schupack Judge & Mrs. Bruce M. Selya Genie Shao & Neil Steinberg Barbara & Arun Singh Kristin & David Soforenko Marjorie & Philip Torgan Deborah & Ellis Waldman Vanessa & Lewis Weiner Elaine & Howard Weiss Kimberly & John Zwetchkenbaum Anonymous (3)
SUSTAINER’S CIRCLE
( 2,800 + )
Lori Barnet & Jeffrey Savit Susan & David Bazar Mitzi & Robert Berkelhammer Lisa & Michael Bigney Patricia & Melvyn Blake Arlene & David Cohen Harold L. Cohen Melanie & Stephen Coon Judy & Stephan Deutsch Diane & Robert Ducoff Susan & Michael Eides Mary & Richard Engle Frances Friedman Gail & James Galkin Ellen Barth Geltzer Suzanne Gilstein * Katherine C. Haspel & Paul A. Silver Jo-An & Paul Kaplan Susan & Saul Kaplan Donna Kimmel & Marilyn Nappen Nancy & Kenneth Kirsch
Steven M. Abrams Wesley Alpert Susan & Robert Bahr Beverly & Banice Bazar Deborah & Neil Benharris Arlene Berrol & Stan Smith Muriel & George Borts Barbra & Max Brickle * Carolyn & David Brodsky Barbara & Jeffrey Brown Wendy & Steven Buckler Suzanne & David Cane Jill & Andrew Caslowitz Eszter & Samuel Chase Phyllis & Irwin Chase Cary Coen Sherry & Mark Cohen Rosalea Cohn Jaffa & David Davies Lisa & Larry Davis Barbara & Walter Feldman Jocelyn & Carl Feldman Susan & Robert Fine Susan & Roy Finkelman Elizabeth & Charles Fradin Linda & Fred Franklin Nancy & Louis Goldman
( 2,450 + )
Amy & Bruce Goldstein Amy Gottlieb & Peter Friedmann Bernice & Samuel Gourse Marcy & Rick Granoff * Paula & Leonard Granoff Elizabeth & David Greenberg Helen Grossman Alexis Hafken Susan & Charles Hahn Sandra & Milton Hamolsky Eileen & Harold Horwitz Deborah & David Jacobson Susan & Richard Kaplan Ellen & Jeffrey Kasle Susan & David Kertzer Lorraine & Robert Kingsbury Anne Berkelhammer Krause Marjorie & Robert Krause Dorothy & Howard Lampal Roberta & Steven Lasser Sara & Robert Leach Barbara Levine Doris Licht & Ron Borod Nancy Troy Lovett Leonard C. Mandell Hedy & Fred Massotti Judy & Andy Matt Beth Mazor Rita Michaelson Dorothy M. Nelson Maria & Ralph Posner Robin & Michael Prescott Lynn Rakatansky Kim & Kenneth Rickler Audrey & Barry Robbins Joyce & Russell Robinson Karen Rosen & David Pomerantz Elinor & Stanley Rosenthal Susan Weinman & Andrew Rosenzweig * Marjorie & David Rubin Linda & Michael Rubinstein Carolyn & Harold Salk Sandra & Alan Samdperil Judith & Jonathan Savage Ellen & Harold Schein Barbara & Larry Schoenfeld Sarah & Peter Scoliard Emily & Steven Shalansky
Ellen & Barry Shepard Els & Allan Shine Cathy & Jeffrey Siegal Ellen & Mark Silverman * Linda & Richard Silverman Deborah Miller Tate Jill & Jim Tobak
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Jillian & John Torgan Susan & Herbert Triedman Lisa Weingeroff Beth & Stanley Weiss Gloria Winston Sarah & Richard Zacks Janet & Melvin Zurier
Lauren & Samuel Zurier Morrisa & Joseph Zwetchkenbaum Anonymous (9)
Members who have either joined the Premium Support Program or who have moved to a higher circle.
Please call Judy Moseley, Executive Director, or Ruby Shalansky, Fundraising and Development, at 331- 6070, if you would like more information about our Premium Support Program.
I would like more information about the honors and benefits of Premium Membership. Please send me a Premium support Brochure.
Name:
Address:
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The best time to call is
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B’NEI MITZVAH
JILLIAN & SARAH BROSOFSKY November 2, 2013
Parents Lisa & Dan Brosofsky School Nathan Bishop Middle School
Grade 7th
Favorite Activities
Tennis
To Jillian, becoming a Bat Mitzvah means “that I am growing up.” For her Mitzvah Mania Project, Jillian will be setting up a tennis tournament and donating the money raised to the Food Bank. She is also donating “dead” tennis balls to Rebounce, a company that depressurizes tennis balls. During her lifetime, Jillian is “undecided on what I would like to accomplish.” To Sarah, becoming a Bat Mitzvah means “that I am growing up and becoming more mature and responsible.” For her Mitzvah Mania Project, Sarah will be setting up a tennis tournament and donating the money raised to the Food Bank. She is also collecting tennis balls that can’t be used anymore and donating them to Rebounce, a company that revives “dead” tennis balls. During her lifetime, Sarah would “like to attend all four grand slams, one done, three to go.”
JONATHAN LICHT November 9, 2013
Parents Warren E. Licht & Naomi R. Kramer School Nathan Bishop Middle School
Grade 7th
Favorite Activities Basketball, guitar
To Jonathan, becoming a Bar Mitzvah means “that I am making a commitment and doing a lot of hard work. It is part of becoming an adult.” For his Mitzvah Mania Project, Jonathan plans to volunteer at the RISPCA. During his lifetime, Jonathan would like “happiness.”
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Parents Eric Montague & Julie Peters School North Attleboro Middle School
Grade 7th
Favorite Activities Baseball, Basketball, backyard/flag football, video games
To Josh, becoming a Bar Mitzvah means “that I am getting older and into manhood. That comes with responsibilities, but also more freedoms and fun times.” For his Mitzvah Mania Project, Josh plays flag football with special needs athletes. They go to two tournaments; one is in Gillette Stadium. They also practice every Tuesday. During his lifetime, Josh would like to “get a good job, have a family and live in a big house. Hopefully, I will be a business man and maybe own a successful franchise.”
JULIA SHALANSKY November 23, 2013
B’NEI MITZVAH
JOSHUA MONTAGUE
Parents Emily & Steven Shalansky School The Wheeler School
Grade 7th
Favorite Activities Fencing, Singing
To Julia, becoming a Bat Mitzvah means "becoming more mature and embracing my Jewish heritage." For her Mitzvah Mania project, Julia helped teach fencing to beginners at the Rhode Island Fencing Academy and Club. During her lifetime, Julia hopes to become an Olympic fencer and a doctor, and to have a family of her own.
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B’NEI MITZVAH
SADIE GAFFIN December 7, 2013
Parents Michael Gaffin & Sue Robbio School Nathan Bishop Middle School
Grade 7th
Favorite Activities Lacrosse, Rowing, Babysitting, Hanging with friends and family
To Sadie, becoming a Bat Mitzvah means “being a mature, responsible adult. It means facing the real world and coming out of the shell a little bit more. To me, being Bat Mitzvah is a huge milestone.” For her Mitzvah Mania Project, Sadie is volunteering in the preschool/ITC area of the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island. She goes to the Jewish Alliance at least once a week from 3:30 to 5:00 PM. She is also collecting diapers for families who cannot afford them. During her lifetime, Sadie would like to “accomplish being a pediatrician, have a comfortable and happy family, and have people in my life that I love and who love me back”.
CORRECTION: Bar Mitzvah, Samuel Goldstein attends Wheeler School not St. Andrews.
Shabbat Hallelu FRIDAYS November 15 December 20 January 10
(Special Family Services)
February 21 March 21 April 18 May 16
(High School Graduation)
A service in song, featuring Temple Beth-El musicians. Light refreshments at 6:30 PM prior to the 7:00 PM service.
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Betty & Bob Kotlen on the birth of their great-grandson Yona Betzalaial Schwartz.
MEMORIAL
Tablets
Engraving a Memorial Tablet means that the name of your dear departed becomes a permanent remembrance in our Temple. The tablet will hang on the marble wall inside the entrance to the Fain Sanctuary during the anniversary month of one’s passing.
Sharon & Charlie Kinnane on the birth of their grandson and Shandelle Kenler on the birth of her great-grandson, Benjamin Craig Kinnane.
The following tablets has been lovingly inscribed:
Suzanne & David Cane on the marriage of their son Eli to Rachel Kaadzi Ghansah.
Albert C. Salzberg, Ph.D., inscribed by Helen Salzberg.
IN OUR FAMILY
YIZKOR ELOHIM
The Milton Hamolsky Lecture was established in recognition of Dr. Hamolsky’s contributions to the Brown Medical program, Rhode Island Hospital and healthcare in Rhode Island. He also received the Home and Hospice Care 2013 Human Dignitary Award. Phyllis Hoffman, daughter of our member Elaine Hoffman, received an Achievement Award from the University of California, Berkeley four outstanding service to the Executive Vice Chancellor and Provost.
The sympathy of the congregation is extended to the family of: FRANCES BERGER 12 Cheshvan 5774 16 October 2013
FRANCES GRANOFF 22 Tishrei 5774 25 September 2013
LILLIAN DRESSLER 3 Tishrei 5774 7 September 2013
GEORGE LEVINE 2 Cheshvan 5774 6 October 2013
NEW MEMBERS
IN MEMORIAM
We welcome the following members to Temple Beth-El. May your membership in our Congregation bring you spiritual peace and joy.
The congregation notes with sorrow the passing of:
Adam Chase of Boston
Howard Anstendig, Brother of Ruby Shalansky
Mardi Dana of Providence Dawn Friedkin, Ben & Jacob Salzillo of Providence Joanna, Zachary, & Elijah Magnone of Warwick Nina Tannenwald, Mark, Isaiah, & Naima Suchman of Providence
MILESTONE ANNIVERSARIES & BIRTHDAYS IN OUR FAMILY FOR THE MONTH OF NOVEMBER We are pleased to honor members who are celebrating their 100 th birthday and beyond as well as anniversaries of those who are celebrating their first, fifth, tenth, twenty - fifth, and fifty - plus celebrations. Milestone Anniversaries in NOVEMBER: Linda & Nathaniel Baker ~ 52
Sarah & Tod Luginbuhl ~ 25
Carolyn & Burton Botvin ~ 66
Barbara & Murray Miller ~ 64
Sheila & Arnold Kaufman ~ 53
Joanne & Shelly Summer ~ 56
Beverly & Henry Levin ~ 55
B’NAI MITZVAH Jillian & Sarah Brosofsky Sadie Gaffin Jonathan Licht
IN OUR SYNAGOGUE
A Blessing On Your Head Mazal Tov, Mazal Tov
Sidney Goldsmith, Brother of Betsy Yetra Tillie Klitzner, Grandmother of Jonathan Salinger Beatrice David Krakoff, Mother of Linda Silverman William Michaels, Brother of Harvey Michaels
HONOR THY NAME PLAQUES Honor Thy Name Plaques continue to provide members with an opportunity to remember a loved one or to honor someone dear. Inscribed plaques are affixed to a seat of your choice in either the Rosalie and Norman Fain Sanctuary or the Herman L. Bennett Chapel. Donations to establish a plaque enhance the Temple’s Endowment.
The Temple is grateful to: Joshua Montague Julia Shalansky
Gussie Baxt who inscribed a plaque in loving memory of Victor J. Baxt, Beloved Husband
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DONATIONS
SEPTEMBER 1, 2013 to SEPTEMBER 30, 2013
“...who donates much to charity becomes the richer for it...”
BERNICE & SANFORD WHITE FUND
Enhances adult and family education
Gloria & Martin Feibish
In Memory of MARTIN ZIAS
BROTHERHOOD FUND
Russell Kushner Mr. & Mrs.Steven Kahan Mr. & Mrs.Steven Kahan Mr. & Mrs.Steven Kahan Sophie Waitsman Sharon & Ken Waitsman
In Honor of his wife, ISABEL KUSHNER In Memory of BERNARD LEVY MARVIN GRANOFF ANNETTE GESSMAN MORRIS WAITSMAN MORRIS WAITSMAN
CANTOR’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
In Appreciation
Isabel & Russell Kushner Bobbie & Bob Andreozzi Bobbie & Bob Andreozzi
In Memory of HELEN TRINKLE JAMES BORSTEIN
CEMETERY BEAUTIFICATION FUND
Enhances the Temple cemetery’s landscaping
Marcus Rand
In Memory of BETTY FINKELSTEIN
DAVID A. COHEN FAMILY RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND Provides support and development of resources for children with special needs in the Temple Beth -El Religious School
Andrea & David Reiser Andrea & David Reiser & Family
In Memory of MARVIN GRANOFF FRANCES GRANOFF
DOROTHY & JAY ISENBERG FUND
Supports music and cultural programs
David Isenberg
In Memory of JACOB ISENBERG
DOROTHY EMERS FINKELMAN MEMORIAL FUND For the Annual Religious School Passover program
Mr. & Mrs. Roy Finkelman Gerald Finkelman
In Memory of MARVIN GRANOFF EVA FINKELMAN
ENDOWMENT FUND
Helps to establish financial security for the Temple
In Appreciation The late Aaron & Helen Caslowitz In Honor of The Manville Family the engagement of SUZANNE JACOBER
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Lisa & Carl Weinberg Estelle & Bud Handell Hope Mellion Pat & Mel Blake
In Memory of MARVIN GRANOFF MARVIN GRANOFF MARVIN GRANOFF MARVIN GRANOFF
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Janice & Howard Shapiro The Benatovich & Brosofsky Family Lezli & James Pious Ruth Samdperil Sheila & Bob Greenbaum Mary (Murph) Carmody Dr. Clyde Fish Frances Granoff & Family Sherri Holland Rissy & Joe Zwetchkenbaum Doris Salvadore Mr. & Mrs. John DeAlmo Evelyn Hornstein Hannah & Jack Feibelman Elizabeth Fradin & John Tedesco Deb & Jonathan Fitch Nancy Shackett Adler Pollock & Sheehan P.C. Ronni & William Guttin Harriet Bomzer Susan Leach DeBlasio Maureen Krasnow Marcia & David Gold Ellie & Bud Frank Francis J. Mariano Amy Goldman Sharon, David & Alex Goldstein Judy & Mayer Levitt Deborah Magner Barbara Greenberg Edna Rubin Maureen Krasnow Judy & John Moseley
MARVIN GRANOFF MARVIN GRANOFF MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN
GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF
MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN MARVIN
GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF GRANOFF
MARVIN GRANOFF MARVIN GRANOFF MARVIN GRANOFF & SHELDON ABRAMS MILTON RUBIN SHARYN WILK HOWARD ANSTENDIG
FAY GOLDSTEIN MEMORIAL FUND
Funds small torahs as gifts to students who are consecrated at Temple
Elaine & Burton Goldstein
In Memory of LOUIS GOLDSTEIN
FELDMAN FAMILY GENERATION FUND
For programming to promote Jewish continuity and/or youth leadership
Jocelyn & Carl Feldman Jocelyn & Carl Feldman
In Memory of WARREN FOSTER BRINA ORCHOFF & KAREN SEECHE
FINE ARTS FUND
For the purchase and maintenance of fine art and Judaica
Phyllis Goldberg
In Honor of MIM & ED HOCHMAN on their 60th anniversary
In Memory of ANNETTE GESSMAN MARVIN GRANOFF
FRANCES & DAVID FRIEDMAN YOUNG FAMILIES FUND Enhances program opportunities for very young families (K’Tantan)
Frances Friedman Frances Friedman Frances Friedman
In Memory of SAMUEL GRANOFF & MARVIN GRANOFF DAVID FRIEDMAN, LARRY FRIEDMAN & MILTON LEVIN LIL & MORRIS DUCOFF
GLORIA BLACKMAN FUND
For social justice programs and causes relating to Religious School
Flo Tilles
In Memory of NORMAN TILLES
HELEN & AARON CASLOWITZ FUND
For studies in Jewish philosophy, literature and art In Memory of
Katherine Haspel & Paul Silver HELEN CASLOWITZ Jill & Andrew Caslowitz HELEN CASLOWITZ & Family Joan & Sumner Fishbein EVA ZUCKER HINEINU
A Friend
In Memory of HOWARD ANSTENDIG
JOSEPH H. COHEN MUSIC FUND Sponsors a Music Shabbat
Joan & Sumner Fishbein Shlomo Neeman
In Memory of LENORA DRAGUTSKY YEHUDA NEEMAN
JUDITH SMITH MEMORIAL FUND Supports Temple youth groups
Sandy & Alan Samdperil
In Memory of NATHAN CHAIKEN
LARRY H. FRIEDMAN FAMILY FUND
Supports arts enrichment in the Religious School
Sondra Price
In Memory of JULIUS B. RUSS
LOUIS & FREDA KAUFMAN MEMORIAL FUND In Memory of Stacy and Douglas Emanuel MARVIN GRANOFF LOUIS & PHYLLIS DRESS SCHOLARSHIP FUND
Provides need-based assistance for youth and travel to Israel
Ardean & David Botvin Ardean & David Botvin
In Honor of MICHAEL FELDMAN on his special birthday In Memory of GRACE ALPERT, MARVIN GRANOFF & SAMUEL GRANOFF
MAX I. MILLMAN FUND
Provides awards for outstanding Religious School teachers
Robert Berman
In Memory of BESSIE HOOD
MELVIN & ELEANORE FRANK FUND
Assists students participating in Religious School field trips
Selma Stanzler
In Memory of ANNETTE GESSMAN
MICHAEL S. ROBERTS MEMORIAL FUND
Enhances educational opportunities for youth in Religious School and/or youth groups
Francey Nathan Marcus Rand
In Memory of SEMA ULLIAN BETTY FINKELSTEIN
MINYAN FUND
Reva & Milton Lewis Mr. & Mrs. Donald Dwares Mr. & Mrs. Donald Dwares Ina & Bernard Wasserman Bill Forman Ethel Axelrod Sandy & Alan Samdperil Betty & Bob Kotlen Andrea & David Reiser Sharon & Perry Garber Dr. Edward Spindell Arlene & David Cohen Steven D. Lasser Cindy Halpern Helen Salzberg The Lasarte Law Firm Bessie Lindenbaum Ellen B. Geltzer Gloria Feibish The Manville Family
In Memory of GRACE ALPERT MARVIN GRANOFF SAMUEL GRANOFF SAMUEL GRANOFF SAMUEL GRANOFF beloved father, ISADORE NOVECK SAMUEL GRANOFF SAMUEL GRANOFF SAMUEL GRANOFF LOUIS GARBER JEANNETTE SPINDELL SAMUEL GRANOFF KENNETH LASSER SAMUEL GRANOFF SAMUEL GRANOFF SAMUEL GRANOFF CHARLES LINDENBAUM FELICE BARTH SAMUEL GRANOFF beloved father & grandfather, IRVING SIGAL
DONATIONS
Pat & Mel Blake Phyllis Goldberg
NATHANIEL SUGERMAN MEMORIAL FUND Supports the outdoor Spiritual Garden
Lynn & Stephen Dressler
In Memory of his dear mother, RUTH DRESSLER
PAULA GOLDEN MEMORIAL FUND Flowers for the High Holy Days
Barbara Fine & David Golden Barbara Fine & David Golden Jill & Michael Thaler Eileen & Harold Horwitz Barbara Fine & David Golden Barbara Fine & David Golden
In Honor of CHARLES KAHN on his 75th birthday JERRY & NANCY SOCOL on their 50th anniversary birth of EVA PEARL GOLDEN In Memory of DR. MANUEL HORWITZ SIDNEY GOLDSMITH & KENNETH GREENBERG Speedy Recovery LINDA FRANKLIN
PRAYER BOOK FUND
For purchase of prayer books for worship services including High Holidays
In Memory of Bitkower & Feldman Families BERNARD LEVY Linda, Nat, Jeff & SARAH BAKER Craig Baker Fredda & Michael Korber IDA GOLDSTEIN
PROVTY
Temple Beth-El Youth Group
Judith & Edward Spindell Judith & Edward Spindell
In Honor of birth of HENRY WILLIAM RABINOWITZ In Memory of LOLA SCHWARTZ, DR. MICHAEL RYVICKER & SAMUEL GRANOFF
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DONATIONS
RABBI’S GUTTERMAN'S DISCRETIONARY FUND In Appreciation Leonard Granoff Dorothy & Milton Rosen In Honor of Phyllis Homonoff RABBI GUTTERMAN Max Dittelman birth of ELLIE REED DITTELMAN In Memory of Lisa & Michael Bigney MARVIN GRANOFF Lee & Bob Krasner MARVIN GRANOFF Avis Goldenberg ROSALIE STRAUSS Evelyn & Patti Saltzman beloved daughter & sister, MARJORIE SALTZMAN Roberta Loebenberg ANN & HIRAM BARRON Randi & Stephen Wasserman EVERETT SCHIFFMAN Dr. & Mrs. Michael Rubinstein LOUIS RUBINSTEIN
SUMNER MARSHALL SAKLAD BOOK FUND
RABBI MACK'S DISCRETIONARY FUND In Appreciation Norman C. Gessman In Honor of Jill & Jim Tobak LAURENCE POHL on his special birthday Andrea & Matthew Wool birth of ASHER WOOL In Memory of Jill & Larry Goldstein MARVIN GRANOFF Lisa & Michael Bigney PAUL E. BIGNEY Mark Schneider TILLIE SCHNEIDER
ZURIER FAMILY FUND
RICHARD & EVELYN SEIGLE RELIGIOUS SCHOOL SCHOLARSHIP FUND For Religious School scholarships
Helene & Lawrence Gates Anita & Mark Steiman Lorelei & Harvey Benatovich Penny Benatovich Mr. & Mrs. Sreven Kahan Jo-An Kaplan Gloria & Sam Jarcho Anita & Mark Steiman Helene & Lawrence Gates
In Honor of DR. & MRS. ED HOCHMAN on their special anniversary MIM & ED HOCHMAN on their 60th anniversary JILLIAN & SARAH BROSOFSKY becoming B'Not Mitzvah JILLIAN & SARAH BROSOFSKY becoming B'Not Mitzvah In Memory of SHARYN WILK ELISSA KRIVITSKY ANNA KLEIN & BOB HERSKOWITZ ANNETTE GESSMAN & SHARYN WILK HOWARD ANSTENDIG
SISTERHOOD FUND
Laurie & David Sholes
In Memory of MORRIS BLOOM, BERNARD LEVY & MARVIN GRANOFF
SOCIAL ACTION FUND
Provides funds for social action or social concern
Ina & Bernard Wasserman Rosalind & Alvin Kurzer Marion J. Goldsmith Judy, Andrew & Michael Matt Anita Norman
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In Memory of MARVIN GRANOFF & GRACE ALPERT MARVIN GRANOFF precious daughter, DOROTHY JANSMA SHARYN WILK & MARVIN GRANOFF ELIAS NORMAN
Purchases children’s books for the William G. Braude Library
Diane Swindlehurst
In Memory of BARBARA DAVIS
WILLIAM G. BRAUDE LIBRARY FUND For purchase of new library books
Hyman Jacobson Helen Salzberg Beatrice Robinson Simon Horenstein Renate Sandgren Elizabeth Berger Evelyn Shatkin
In Memory of BEVERLY JACOBSON FRED GINSBERG & CHARLES GINSBERG MENDELL ROBINSON & SOL TUREK BETTY PICKETT & SARAH SCHUMAN JAN SANDGREN & ALICE BUD ROBERT ABEL MOLLIE LAMPERT BERGMAN
Supports the Temple’s archives and museum
Janet & Mel Zurier
In Memory of ANNETTE GESSMAN
70 Orchard Avenue Providence, RI, 02906-5402
Office: (401) 331-6070 Fax: (401) 331-8068 www.temple-beth-el.org
Executive Director Judy Moseley x.105 jmoseley@temple-beth-el.org
Assistant to the Executive Director Kim Campbell x 109 kcampbell@temple-beth-el.org
Office Manager/Receptionist Rona Nachbar x.100 rnachbar@temple-beth-el.org
Controller Chris W. McLain x.104 cmclain@temple-beth-el.org
Assistant to Clergy & Religious School Communications Judith Gilson x 113 jgilson@temple-beth-el.org
Building Manager George Hetu x.119 ghetu@temple-beth-el.org
Senior Rabbi Leslie Y. Gutterman x.112 rabbigutterman@temple-beth-el.org Study: (401) 521- 0343 Rabbi Sarah E. Mack x.106 rabbimack@temple-beth-el.org Cantor Judith A. Seplowin x.118 jseplowin@temple-beth-el.org
Assistant to Controller/ Social Media Coordinator Latoya White x.102 lwhite@temple-beth-el.org
President Fred J. Franklin fjfranklin@aol.com
School Administrator Anita F. Steiman x.107 afsteiman@temple-beth-el.org
Facilities Toly Magidin x119
Fundraising & Development Ruby Shalansky x.110 rshalansky@temple-beth-el.org Librarian Reini Silverman x.111 rsilverman@temple-beth-el.org
CONTACTS
Congregation Sons of Israel & David
DONATIONS
Temple Beth-El
The Shofar is published by the Harold A.Winstead Charitable Trust in his memory.
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Non-Profit Org. U.S. POSTAGE PAID PERMIT No. 863 Providence, RI
SHOFAR Temple Beth-El Congregation Sons of Israel & David 70 Orchard Avenue Providence, RI 02906-5402
The Shofar is published by the Harold A. Winstead Charitable Trust in his memory.
This issue of the Shofar was mailed on October 21. If you receive it after October 31 please call your local post office. Because of REGULATIONS PROTECTING PATIENT PRIVACY, hospitals no longer provide patient lists. If you want a visit from the Cantor or Rabbis, please inform the Temple Office, 331- 6070.
Temple Beth-EL's Annual
CHANUKAH CONCERT FEATURING
Peri Smilow SUNDAY November 24th at 4:00 PM FREE ADMISSION!