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UNSUNG HEROES –
They’ve Got Your Health at Heart!
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orking Moms. Carpooling Queens. Food Service Phenoms. The women in our lives do it all, but it’s often at their own physical expense.
So who are their heroes? Who picks up on the tell tale signs that they might be dragging? Try their neighborhood pharmacist. They, too, serve on the front lines. The men and women who fill your prescriptions and guide you on what over-the-counter remedies might get the baby well, boost your energy, or ease that queasy stomach play an even greater role than you think when it comes to your health and well being. Take Rachel Peters, PharmD, RPh. The Houston native is a Pharmacist at the Brookshire Brothers at Gaslight. Not a week goes by that Rachel doesn’t advise a customer to seek medical help. Whether it’s noticing they’re not complying with their prescribed medicines or that their blood pressure reading is at an alarming level, Rachel ‘s mission is educating others about early detection of risk factors for heart disease. Cindy Petrash, RPh is a Pharmacist at the Brookshire Brothers in Onalaska. This is what one of her customers says about her. “I credit Cindy with saving my life! I was picking up a prescription one day and told Cindy about some side effects I was experiencing. Cindy said to me in a personal, concerned tone, ‘Melody, you really don’t sound good. I think you should go to the ER.’ I did. I was in cardiac distress. If it weren’t for Cindy and the wonderful care she and her team provide, I’d be pushing up daisies instead of riding camels in the Canary Islands!”
"Thanks to my pharmacist, I'm not pushing up daisies, I'm riding camels and crossing the Artic Circle." -Melody, Onalaska
Just last month, Matt Baker, PharmD, RPh and his pharmacy staff at the Brookshire Brothers store on Chestnut in Lufkin had a first. They noticed one of their regular customers slumped in a chair in the Pharmacy waiting area. They took immediate action by checking his vitals and then calling 911. A short hospital stay followed and then a firm conversation between Pharmacist Matt and his customer about taking medicine consistently and in the right doses. Having that relationship with his customers, and the opportunity to provide counsel, is one reason this Lufkin native chose Pharmacy as a profession. Matt’s shares his philosophy, “You only get one life. I love being a pharmacist and connecting with people by showing them that they can count on me and that I care. In a society where people are numbers almost everywhere, I hope that’s never said about the Brookshire Brothers Pharmacy on Chestnut. I care about our customers’ numbers – blood pressure, cholesterol, or blood glucose. I use those numbers to help guide our customers to a better, healthier life.” Brookshire Brothers Pharmacy District Director Laura Edmundson, PharmD, RPh, wants to help customers know their numbers. This summer, the Gaslight location will start a pilot project to screen customers while they are in the store. A simple prick of the finger or use of a monitoring device, and within a few minutes a customer can know their glucose, cholesterol, blood pressure, and even body fat percentage. Why do we care about these numbers? Edmundson says, “The numbers tell it all. There are healthy ranges for everything and when we become aware that a customer’s readings are out of those healthy ranges, we can intervene.” What does that look like? Edmundson says Brookshire Brothers pharmacists can educate patients about ways they can modify their lifestyle habits like exercise, diet, and smoking cessation, as well as provide tips to help them become more compliant with their prescribed medications. Most frequently, pharmacists will encourage customers with concerning numbers to see a doctor. As healthcare changes in America, pharmacists are doing more than filling prescriptions. They are out from behind the counter, on the front line, answering questions, giving recommendations, empowering customers to be pro-active when it comes to their health, and by all means, encouraging customers to
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eing part of the police family gives you different perspective and outlook on life. I know how honored I felt to have the man I love put on a uniform and badge every night. But as I kissed him goodbye for the night, my heart beat worried sick for God to bring him safely home in the morning. It was that feeling that I can recall in an instant. It is because of that feeling that my children will always be thankful to the law enforcement who choose to wear a uniform and badge. Those brave men and women put their life on the line every night, and we should never take that lightly. Right now, there are so many agencies across the country that are running their departments under staffed. That is because there are fewer and fewer men and women willing to put their lives on the line to protect us. Now more than ever, we need to thank these men and women for all they do for us: police officers, firefighters, paramedics, and all military. These heroes can be out of sight/out of mind until we need one of them, and how thankful we are when we are in need and they are there! This issue is dedicated to the men and women who put their lives on the line to protect my family and yours. Not only the individuals that work in those roles, but the wives, children, and family that kiss them goodbye on their way to work. There are so many who have gone out to do their jobs and never return home. Blessings and thank you a million times over for all you do,
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Home Tour: Bringing Indoor Comfort Outside Design Tips: Spring into a Fresh Outdoor Look In the Kitchen: The New Grilling Superstar Burlap & Besties: Birthday Parties...Big Fun, Small Budget
27 YOUR COMMUNITY 28 32 34 36 40
Mission Statement: Olivia Williams with Ags for Orphans In the News Giving Back: Almost 40 & Completely Fabulous Making Strides: Lufkin Lady Panther Softball Community Heroes: Everyday Heroes Among Us
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EAST 83 Leadership Training: Shannon Douglas Call of Duty: Byron Hancock Hometown Heroes: Brothers in Law Enforcement Patriots Challenge: A Special Fishing Adventure Fashion: Summer
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Something Abundant: I Am Now Going to ALLURE Her... Stretch Marks: MY Hometown Heroes Fashion: Fun & Flirty Dresses Hair 101: Celebrating 50 Years
59 YOUR CHILD 60 62 66 70 72
Pretty Babies The Creative Mom: Fancy Pancakes You Are Invited: Birthday Pawties Look at Me A Child's Heart: One Rule to Rule Them All
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cover photo by Rikki Trotti | www.rikkitrotti.com • Lufkin Police Officer Torry Trotti with sons, Jansen & Tripp • Sergeant Chase Fifield with daughters, Sadie & Sophia Fifield
Sergeant Chase Fifield (pictured) and his wife, Corporal Kristina Fifield, both currently serve in the Marine Corps. Corporal Kristina has served 4 years and one tour in Afghanistan in 2011. Sergeant Chase is currently serving and has been for almost 9 years. He served one tour in Iraq in 2007 and one MEU in 2010. Chase and Kristina met while stationed in North Carolina at Camp Lejeune in 2008. • Captain Jason Stuck of the Lufkin Fire Department with daughters, Ainsley & Haley
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HOME TOUR
BRINGING INDOOR COMFORT OUTSIDE
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he arrival of summer, along with its sunny skies and beautiful weather, beckons homeowners to create a space to entertain guests and enjoy the great outdoors. Design an outdoor living room that merges style and function and incorporates elements of indoor comfort. Whether entertaining for two or 10, the warmer weather provides an abundance of opportunities to lounge in peaceful, open-air surroundings. New offerings in decor and design breathe indoor inspiration into your outdoor spaces, creating a beautiful extension of your home for all to enjoy. “It’s easier than ever to bring the comfort and style of your favorite indoor spaces into your porch, patio and other outdoor areas,” said Aimee Beatty, in-house stylist with Pier 1 Imports. “From comfy throw pillows to trendy rugs, colorful artwork and cheery curtains, new outdoor products boast durability and so much style that your patio will be the neighborhood’s go-to summer hot spot.” Beatty shares some of her stylish secrets to make your outdoor space an elegant living space worth sharing.
Make outdoor space an extension of your home
Arrange away Treat your outdoor area as you would your living room. If space is limited, use sectionals to create seating in whatever arrangement fits best. If there is more room, add an investment piece, such as the Echo Beach Dining Table from Pier 1 Imports. This high-quality piece is made from handcrafted, all-weather synthetic rattan and offers plenty of space to arrange chairs just as you would in your dining room. Finish the look by layering your favorite accessories, such as handcrafted trays, detailed lanterns and a colorful floral arrangement to create a cheerful centerpiece that makes your guests feel welcome. Tie it all together To let you in on a little secret — outdoor rugs tie everything together and really bring a space to life. Simply layer a rug, such as Pier 1 Imports’ chic Wavy Geo Rug, with a beautiful seating collection, colorful cushions and pillows, and you’ve got an outdoor area that makes everyone comfortable and happy. Embrace the bold Some might be afraid to create a statement outside because — it’s outside. But an outdoor living space lends itself to adventures with color and pattern, providing the opportunity to be bold and to go beyond your comfort zone. When shopping for the outdoors, remember — anything goes. Make it uniquely yours Mix and match with color and patterns, and personalize your space with accents such as outdoor artwork, planters, umbrellas and more. A smart combination of accessories really transforms an outdoor space from simple to fabulous. Be bright, all night The sun may still be shining when the guests arrive, but you’ll need something to light up the night and keep the party going all evening long. Create a delightful, welcoming atmosphere with a variety of outdoor lighting options, such as string lights, paper lanterns or floating LED candles placed around the patio. Fashion an elegant glow with lanterns in various sizes, such as the Scroll Trim Lanterns from Pier 1 Imports. Serve in style Al fresco entertaining always focuses on food, drinks and friends. A self-service food station or bar enhances the casual tone, freeing guests to grab refreshments whenever they please. This also allows you, the host, to focus on the fun at hand. Look for serving and drink carts that maximize space, such as the Rania Serving Cart from Pier 1 Imports, which has three levels so there’s plenty of room to stash an ice bucket, drink dispenser, snacks, lawn games and more. So let the warmth of the season bring many memorable moments to your life and stylish elements into your outdoor spaces. For more great decorating ideas, visit http://www.pier1.com/.
Outdoor-Friendly Materials Have you ever wondered how some products are suitable for the outdoors while others can only be kept inside? Various processes and materials give outdoor furniture and decor durability and weather-resistant appeal. Synthetic Fibers Ever think about all the abuse from the elements outdoor pillows, seat cushions and umbrellas suffer? Between the sun, rain and everything in-between, fabrics made for outdoor use are designed to withstand the elements, keeping your newly designed patio fresh for all the parties to come. Synthetic fibers used in these fabrics are designed to bead water, resist stains and maintain their color. With this in mind, you can lengthen the lifespan of such materials by covering them when not in use and avoiding prolonged exposure to rain or sun. Acrylics and Melamine Outdoor drinkware and dinnerware made of acrylic and melamine provide much of the same great style as their glass counterparts without the breakability. A nice set of acrylic drinkware and melamine dinnerware, such as Summer Quench Turquoise Goblets and Trellis Dinnerware, both from Pier 1 Imports, will keep your outdoor soiree safe and fun throughout the evening. Synthetic Rattan and Wicker Wicker may be the traditional material for outdoor furniture, but this new generation of synthetic wickers and rattans is not your grandmother’s porch furniture. All-weather chairs, tables and more are woven of synthetic rattan or wicker over durable, rust-resistant frames, making them durable and easy to clean. This approach offers the flexibility to incorporate a woven look into furniture of all styles — from traditional to global, modern to whimsical — without sacrificing durability and longevity.
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by Sabrina Lumpkin, owner of Bellissima Home
DESIGN TIPS
Spring into a Fresh Outdoor Look
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ith spring finally here and summer right around the corner, we are finding ourselves, after what seemed like the longest winter ever, racing outdoors to embrace the sights and sounds of new beginnings. We are also racing to local nurseries and home/garden stores to update our outdoor look with special touches to our porches, outdoor rooms, lawns and landscaping. A unique concept in incorporating new outdoor additions is to use what is called “garden sense.” This concept uses our senses to ultimately create an appealing environment. You want to include things that will help you see, smell, hear, feel and taste the outdoors. * Add vibrant color additions in bold patterns for eye appeal. * Choose fragrant plants, flowers and herbs for aromatic smell. * Incorporate birdbaths and birdhouses to attract songbirds and bring music to the ear. * Search for richly textured fabrics and pillows for lawn and patio furniture to add a luxurious feel. * Invest in a great little garden space full of seasonal fruits and vegetables to fulfill the fresh tastes of summer.
Outdoor grilling is a great area for a spring update. Create a cool, fun grilling space and the family will be fighting to wear the chef’s hat and flip the burgers. A popular concept, very on-trend at the moment, is to bring vintage and contemporar y elements together to create rustic, industrial looks. This design trend appeals to the creative sense and can be loads of fun. This element can be achieved by blending shiny and rustic materials. A great example would be to use shiny chrome garden chairs with a recycled barn wood table! Most importantly, make it a style of your own. Look for interesting garden pieces and furniture that reflect individual styles and interests. Unique art pieces, fountains and whimsical objects can bring years of joy when chosen personally to fit your taste instead of someone else’s. Every new season invites change. Take the opportunity to spring into a new look!
Sabrina Lumpkin is the creator and owner of Bellissima Home, www.bellissimahome.com, an online shopping experience offering hand selected, premium, designer inspired items for the home. Luxury you can afford!
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IN THE KITCHEN
Lamb Loin Chops with Green Bean & Potato Salad
The New Grilling Superstar
Delicious, lean lamb shimmers with summertime flavors
Yield: 6 servings For salad:
1/2 cup fat free plain Greek yogurt 1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil 1 lemon, zested and juiced 2 tablespoons chopped fresh dill 1 tablespoon chopped fresh chives 1 teaspoon salt 1/2 teaspoon pepper 1 pint cherry tomatoes, cut in half 1 pound green beans, ends trimmed and cut in half
This grilling season, choose lean, tender lamb as the centerpiece for your summer entertaining menu. A better-for-you selection Serve up lean lamb cuts, including the leg, loin and rack, for a protein and nutrient packed dish. In fact, on average, a 3-ounce serving delivers almost 50 percent of your daily protein needs and is a good source of iron. Also rich in zinc, selenium and vitamin B-12, a 3-ounce serving of lamb can provide nearly five times the amount of essential omega-3 fatty acids when compared to beef. Lamb is also raised without the addition of synthetic hormones.
2 pounds small red new potatoes, larger potatoes cut in half For lamb: 4 cloves garlic, minced 3 tablespoons olive oil 1 teaspoon salt 1/2 teaspoon pepper 2 1/2 pounds lamb loin chops (or 10 loin chops) In large bowl, whisk together yogurt, olive oil, lemon juice and zest, dill, chives, salt, pepper and cherry tomatoes; set aside.
Chef Amy Riolo provides these tips for serving up the most scrumptious, savory lamb right from your own grill.
In large saucepan bring 6 cups water to a boil. Add green beans and cook until tender, 3 to 5 minutes. Remove with slotted spoon and add to bowl with dressing. Add potatoes to already simmering water and cook until tender, about 10 minutes. Drain potatoes and add to bowl. Toss to coat.
· In a hurry? Choose cubed leg of lamb for kabobs, rib chops or boneless butterflied leg of lamb — cuts which can be grilled in minutes.
Combine garlic, olive oil, salt and pepper in small bowl. Place lamb chops on large tray and rub garlic oil mixture all over lamb loin chops; set aside while grill heats.
· Aromatics are lamb’s best friends. Onions, garlic, spices and lemon juice enhance the natural sweet flavor in lamb.
On gas grill, turn all burners to high, close lid and heat until grates are hot, about 15 minutes. Scrape grates clean. Grill lamb chops about 6 minutes per side or until cooked to 145°F for medium rare. Move to clean plate and let rest 5 minutes. Toss potato salad again and serve with lamb chops.
Grill up goodness
· Grilling lamb with garlic, mint and olive oil is a great way to introduce lamb for first-timers. Cut slits into the lamb meat and insert pieces of garlic cloves, then rub with oil and dried mint. · Use a meat thermometer to measure the internal temperature. Lamb will continue cooking after you pull it off the grill, so it’s best to remove it about 10 degrees lower than your target temperature. · Lamb is best served medium rare (145°F) or medium (160°F). All ground lamb should be cooked to 160°F. For more lamb recipes and cooking tips, visit http:// www.leanonlamb.com/, www.pinterest.com/leanonlamb or on Twitter @leanonlamb.
Nutrition information per serving: Calories: 660; Calories from Fat: 370; Total Fat: 41g, 63%DV; Saturated Fat: 13g, 65%DV; Trans Fat: 0g; Cholesterol: 105mg, 35%DV; Sodium: 870mg, 36%DV; Total Carbohydrate: 36g, 12%DV; Dietary Fiber: 5g, 20%DV; Sugars: 3g; Protein: 34g; Vitamin A: 20%; Vitamin C: 90%; Calcium: 8%; Iron: 25%
Kale & Pomegranate Salad with Grilled Lamb Yield: 6 servings
For marinade: 1 1/2 cup pomegranate juice 3 tablespoons olive oil 3 cloves garlic, chopped 1 tablespoon ground ginger 1 tablespoon cinnamon 2 teaspoons cumin 1 teaspoon salt 1/2 teaspoon pepper 1 (4-pound) leg of lamb, deboned, butterflied and trimmed of visible fat For dressing: 2 teaspoons Dijon mustard 2 tablespoons pomegranate balsamic vinegar 1/4 cup olive oil Salt and pepper For salad:
Combine marinade ingredients in large plastic zip top bag; add lamb and place in refrigerator 8 hours or overnight. Remove lamb from marinade, pat dry and set on tray. On gas grill, turn all burners to high, close lid and heat until hot, about 15 minutes. Scrape grates clean and brush with oil. Grill lamb, fat side down, over medium-high heat 25 to 35 minutes total, turning half-way through cooking, depending on desired doneness, about 145°F for medium rare and 160°F for medium. Remove from grill and loosely cover with foil, let rest about 15 minutes and thinly slice. While resting, prepare salad. In large bowl, whisk together all dressing ingredients. Add kale, fennel, pomegranate seed or grapes and toss to coat. Arrange dressed salad on platter and top with sliced lamb, Gorgonzola cheese and toasted walnuts. Nutrition information per serving: Calories: 700, Calories from Fat: 410; Total Fat: 46g, 71%DV; Saturated Fat: 15g, 75%DV; Trans Fat: 0g; Cholesterol: 165mg, 55%DV; Sodium: 520mg, 22%DV; Total Carbohydrate: 23g, 8%DV; Dietary Fiber: 4g, 16%DV; Sugars: 10g; Protein: 51g; Vitamin A: 170%; Vitamin C: 130%; Calcium: 15%; Iron: 35%
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BURLAP & BESTIES
by Melissa & Tiffani
Birthday Parties...Big fun, small budget
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ach year we have done Cullen’s party a little bigger than the previous year, while staying on a low budget. Parties don’t have to cost a lot to be great; you just need to put in a little extra time and recruit some friends and family to help! Our biggest tip to save you money for parties is to use a similar color scheme each year. We are coming up on Cullen’s 4th birthday, and I have managed to stick to this and get a lot of good use out of party items, most of which I find at the dollar store!
Dino Dig (Price $10)
Lava Falls (Price $5)
Supplies: some type of water table/crate/ Supplies: swing set/doorway • 4 plastic table tub • sandbox sand (we used 2 bags) • small cloths • scissors • duct tape dinosaurs • paint brushes • spray paint This was such a big hit with the kids! They Fill your water play table with sandbox absolutely loved running through it!! Unfold sand (You want to do this a few days the table cloths lengthwise so they are in a long before your party in case your sand is strip like a hot dog. While they are lying on damp it will have time to dry out.) Bury the f loor and folded, cut long strips about 2 your dinos shallow in the sand. Cover inches wide leaving about 6 inches at the top the bristle end of your paint brushes with uncut. Don’t worry about how straight you cut a plastic bag and either tie or tape to your strips, they will be blowing around and secure. Spray paint the handles in your no one will be able to tell! Take off the swings party colors. from your swing set, unfold all your cut table cloths and use your duct tape to attach them to the back of the top bar of your swing set.
T-Rex Rib Crawl (Price $7) Supplies: 6 pool noodles • 12 stakes • hammer Put your first stake in the ground and slide your noodle over the top and bend it down to determine where your next one needs to go. Our stakes were about two feet apart; you just want to make sure that the arch of your noodle is high enough for the kids to crawl through. Now move away a few inches and repeat for your next noodle. We used six, but you could do more or less depending on your preference.
Dino Silhouette (FREE!) Supplies: frame • fabric or paper • computer and printer • double sided tape We LOVE silhouettes and this one was super easy to do! We did an image search online for dinosaur silhouette, printed it and cut it out. Then we took some fabric and wrapped it around the backing of our frame, taped the silhouette in the middle and put the frame back together.
Dinoculars (Price $5) Supplies: toilet paper rolls • scrapbook paper • double sided tape • ribbon • hot glue gun • computer & printer • single hole punch or drill Party Dino’s (Price $0.25) Supplies: dinosaur • scrapbook paper • pattern straw • hot glue gun • computer & printer • white card stock paper • tape Cake Topper (Price $4) Supplies: pattern straw • honeycomb puff party swizzle sticks • needle • thread • cake pop sticks Gently slide the honeycomb puff off of the swizzle stick (use as many or as few as you want). Take your needle and thread and thread your puffs together. Using your needle, poke holes through the tops of each straw and pull your thread through the holes and tie knots in your thread to secure. Gently place your straws on top of your cake to make a mark where you want them to sit. Now take your cake pop sticks (or something similar) and stick them into the cake where you made your marks with your straws; you want to leave these sticking out enough so that they will hold up your straws. Slide your straws over the cake pop sticks and you’re done! Birthday cake made by Amber Brandenburg.
We don’t know what it is about these dinos, but they just brighten our day!! We can’t look at them and not laugh!!!! Cut out mini party hats from your scrapbooking paper and use your tape to hold it together. You can find a pattern online by doing a quick search and then adjust it to the size you need. Attach your hat to your dino with your hot glue gun. We just used one dot on the back of our hats and it worked great. Print off your labels and mat them onto pattern paper attaching with tape. Tape your labels to the top of your straw. Attach your straw to your dinos arm with your hot glue gun.
Melissa is a housewife who loves her husband and son, Ben and Ty, more than anything else on earth. In a previous life, she was a CPA. Her passion for serving Jesus took her and Ben to Africa for two years where, among other things, she learned she can never pack too many crafting supplies. If you want to see a happy girl, give Melissa an old piece of furniture and a paintbrush then stand back and watch the magic happen.
Cut your scrapbook paper to fit your toilet paper rolls and adhere with double sided tape. Using your hot glue gun, attach two toilet paper rolls together and let them dry completely. Using your hole punch, punch one hole in the outer side of each toilet paper roll. Measure out how long you want your ribbon and tie to each hole. Print out your “Dinoculars” label and attach with double side tape. Wood signs: (FREE!) Supplies: pallet • white paint • skill saw • drill • screws • jute • stakes • stencils (optional) We loved using little wood signs for this party because we LOVE to label things!! We were able to get our hands on some blue pallets which worked perfectly with our color scheme, but you could use regular pallets and paint or stain them or just leave them as they are. First get your sweet husband/brother/dad/friend to cut up your pallet for you. We didn’t measure these, but they were all around a foot long. We free handed our words on the signs, but you could also do this with stencils. For some signs we drilled holes into the top and hung with jute, others we attached to stakes with screws and put them into the ground.
Tiffani Brantner is a part-time nurse and student, a constant crafter, party-thrower, "idea-comer-upper", and a richly rewarded wife and mother to Jeff and Cullen. Call her to come and get your old junk, she LOVES it! She'll turn it into something beautiful, create a theme, throw a party around it, and invite you as the guest of honor. You can reach Tiffani day or night at tifandmel@gmail.com.
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PLACES & FACES
photographed by Lisa Crow
PACE Gifted/Talented Program Parent Night
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MISSION STATEMENT
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Olivia Williams with Ags for Orphans
livia Williams is a student at Texas A&M University. On break from her studies during the Christmas holidays, Olivia traveled to Haiti with Ags for Orphans (AFO). AFO is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization centered on connecting the Aggies of Texas A&M University, and their friends and family, with local and international orphan care opportunities. The organization exists to share God’s love with orphaned children through mission trips, fundraising to meet their basic needs, and partnering with like-minded organizations. Since 2012, AFO has partnered with Coreluv by providing financial support to their orphanages in Haiti, as well as, to the teams who visit on short-term mission trips. “I have always been passionate about kids, and I find joy in serving others selflessly. When I heard there was a trip where I could do both of these things simultaneously, I reserved a spot immediately,” said Olivia. Through a very prayerful process, and with the permission of her parents, Olivia says she was blessed with the opportunity to visit Haiti for the first time from December 31-January 5. A group of seven current Texas A&M students helped comprise a team of sixteen, half of whom had been to Haiti before. “We flew into Port-au-Prince and then proceeded to drive another four hours to our destination. The majority of our trip was spent in Gonaives and Myan. Gonaives served as our home base,” says Williams. “When I first got to Haiti, I didn’t know
what to expect, but as soon as I stepped off the plane, I fell in love with all the sights and sounds around me. The people, kids, culture, everything about Haiti consumed me. People constantly greet you with warm smiles and laughter fills the air as kids run around playing games. The joy amongst the circumstances is overwhelming. Everything about this place has taken hold of my heart,” shares Olivia. The team’s time was split evenly between working with the children at the orphanage in Gonaives and getting their hands dirty at the new Coreluv orphanage being built in the city of Myan. “My time spent at the Gonaives orphanage was life changing. That may even be an understatement,” says Olivia, who started traveling at a very young age and has participated in various mission trips. However, her trip to Haiti over the New Year’s break was her first international mission trip. “At the Gonaives orphanage, we played soccer, took walks around the village, painted our faces-arms, legs, and clothing too-and played on the new swing set.” The new orphanage in Myan is where the team did a lot of manual labor, building benches for the school, sanding furniture, and clearing debris from the area where a new guesthouse will be built. Olivia tells of one day when the team loaded up after spending the morning with the children at the Gonaives orphanage and headed to a feeding center in the poorest city in Haiti, Roboto. “We provided lunch to approximately 300 children. This is often the only meal they will eat that day. The
meal consists of rice, beans, and ground meat. The children in the street begin sprinting to the feeding center the moment they see the teams in the Coreluv trucks. The children were patient, respectful, and filled with so much joy as they waited on us to pass out the food. You would hand a child a plate, blink, and their plate would be completely empty. If the plate wasn’t completely empty, it’s because they were putting their leftovers in a plastic bag to take home to their families. The amount of joy these children share, even in having so little, is incredible.” Olivia is already making plans to return to Haiti in the future and says she will continue going back as long as the Lord allows. She is especially thankful to the founders of Ags for Orphans, Matt Hemberger and his wife, Meghann, for listening to the Lord’s calling on their lives in creating such a wonderful organization. She adds, “No matter if you are in full time ministry or a college student just trying to get by, our mission is the same. If you profess faith in Christ, our goal is to spread the name of Jesus. Loving on kids, spending time with people, and building relationships are all part of building His Kingdom. Missions isn’t just going overseas, it’s being the hands and feet of Christ wherever you are.”
Ags for Orphans love. give. go. whoop! Learn more about Ags for Orphans at: www.agsfororphans.org
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IN THE NEWS
1 1. New Permanent Moon Rock was presented to the Naranjo Museum by NASA Representatives. 2. Did you know that Texas’ first millionaire is buried in Oak Grove Cemetery? Discover the facts, see the sites and hear the secrets of the red brick streets on a historic downtown walking tour.
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Walking tours will be offered at 10:30 a.m. each Saturday in May starting May 10th at the Visitor Center, located at 200 E. Main St. Tickets are $2 and can be purchased beginning at 10 a.m. the day of the tour. Children 12 and under are free. The walking tours take approximately 1.5 hours to complete. For more information, contact the Nacogdoches Convention & Visitors Bureau at 888-OLDEST-TOWN or www.visitnacogdoches.org. Be our friend on facebook @ See Nacogdoches. 3. The Nacogdoches Convention & Visitors Bureau partnered with Race Texas to produce the Color Up 5K this past weekend. Through this partnership, the CVB raised $7,785 for downtown Christmas lighting. Pictured are Race Texas event organizer Franco Marquez and Nacogdoches CVB Media & Community Relations Coordinator Jannette Watts.
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4. Woodland Heights Medical Center is happy to announce that Emilie Hobbs has been named as the new Director of Human Resources for the hospital.
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GIVING BACK
by Tamara Elliott, 2013-2014 NJF President
Almost 40 & Completely Fabulous!
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acogdoches Junior Forum is a non-profit women’s organization committed to supporting the Nacogdoches, Texas community and enriching the lives of those in need. Nacogdoches Junior Forum was formed through the interest of a small group of active, young Nacogdoches women. Nurtured by the friendship of Judy Hale and Ann Ethridge, membership chairmen for Junior Forums Incorporated, Nacogdoches Junior Forum began to grow. It was evident that young women in Nacogdoches had the desire to give time and effort to create and support an organization whose purpose was “SERVICE TO THE COMMUNITY.” With the election of officers and compiling of by-laws, Nacogdoches Junior Forum established its official roots. In the spring of 1975 an invitational coffee was given to promote membership in Junior Forum. We began with 50 members. Having enjoyed much success, we have blossomed into a dedicated and respected women’s service organization in our community, our dream come true. Almost 40 years after the invitational coffee, NJF is still going strong. There are currently 73 members active in our organization, and last year those ladies provided our community with over 4000 service hours spread out over 23 community projects. On an average day, you may see our members serving dinner to and playing bingo with the clients at the Nacogdoches Senior Center.
You might also find our members hosting Pajama Story time at the Nacogdoches Public Library. During the holidays, our dedicated members can be found at Millard’s Crossing. We enjoy passing out candy to the visitors at the Ghosts of Millard’s Crossing as well as serving up hot chocolate at their annual Old Fashioned Christmas event. In addition to providing our community with volunteer service hours, NJF financially supports several organizations in Nacogdoches County. Some of the organizations that are funded by NJF include: CASA of Deep East Texas Harvest House Christian Women’s Job Corps Women’s Shelter of East Texas Nacogdoches Treatment Center Nacogdoches County Aging Committee, Inc. – Senior Center Nacogdoches Public Library Love, INC. Greater East Texas Community Action Program – Project SOS Federation of Women’s Clubs Millard’s Crossing Historic Village, Inc. SFASU Art Galleries SFASU Mast Arboretum and Pineywoods Native Plant Center
In addition to the above, NJF supports the organizations listed below every year: Heritage Festival Brunch - NJF members host a brunch to welcome the young women who are participating in the annual Heritage Festival in Nacogdoches. SFASU Scholarship – Each year NJF selects one female SFA student to receive a $1,000 scholarship. All of our f inancial support is made possible through Nacogdoches Junior Forum’s annual Holiday in The Pines, a collection of more than 60 specialty stores and shops from coast-to-coast gathered for holiday shopping in a festive atmosphere. Located in the brand new Civic Center in Nacogdoches, Texas, the event space is transformed into a holiday wonderland. The net prof its of Holiday in the Pines go directly back into the Nacogdoches community through grants to non-prof it organizations throughout the county. Last year, Holiday in the Pines, with an attendance of 2480, raised $61,411 during the 3 day event, all of which will be given back to the community. Nacogdoches Junior Forum is proud of the impact made in our community and very thankful for the community support that has allowed our organization to continue to thrive and grow over the last almost 40 years. We are dedicated to making a difference in our town and we look forward to what the next 40 years will bring.
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MAKING STRIDES
Members of the Lady Pack softball team celebrate the playoff-clinching win over Conroe.
LUFKIN LADY PANTHER SOFTBALL
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t’s not a strategy most coaches would prefer: Take a group of underclassmen with no varsity experience and throw them into the fire hoping a couple of years of seasoning will generate success.
The risk involved with such a move is even higher when the team happens to play in one of the best districts in the entire state. But Lufkin Lady Panther softball head coach Heather Slaton realized several factors with her decision to risk everything on a group of youngsters. First, the Lufkin softball program hadn’t made a playoff appearance in 10 years. Competing in District 14-5A with several perennial state-powerhouse programs – including a recent state champion – was a monumental task every single year, and the Lady Pack struggled against the larger schools. The next factor involved the group of players itself. The 2014 Lady Panther softball team featured several members who have been playing together for years on area youth and select teams. Those types of youth programs are the lifeblood of any successful high school program; by the time these dedicated players exit middle school, they’re already
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performing at a high level, the same reason some of the programs in larger cities experience so much success. Slaton already had been hearing those kids’ names long before they arrived at Fish Camp. So when the kids showed up for their first season in Lufkin purple, they had a little surprise in store. They weren’t going to play on the junior varsity. They were going to hit the field running with the big girls. As expected, it wasn’t pretty in the beginning. The Lady Panthers took their lumps – some of them painful. The bigger teams knocked Lufkin around for a couple of years, taking advantage of the inexperience and keeping the Lady Panthers at the bottom of the standings. Everything changed in 2014. Suddenly, Lufkin became one of the toughest outs in the district. The same powerhouses that had once run-ruled the Lady Pack now found themselves winning by a couple of runs, and some of them were shocked to find themselves on the losing end to a group featuring just three seniors.
article & photography by Gary Stallard
And on April 17, 2014, the 10-year drought died with a water-bucket shower for Coach Slaton, washing the monkey right off the program’s back. Luf kin’s ladies hammered Conroe 9-1, clinching a post-season berth for a group of youngsters who were tired of taking their lumps. “It seems like longer than 10 years, to be honest,” Slaton said. “But this is the payoff for these kids who have been taking their licks for the past two years. I felt like this would be their year. It’s incredible, but I’m not surprised. This was our expectation before we played our first game this season. I’m really proud of them.” It was the reward for Slaton’s risk, but the win might also have been the elusive karma smiling upon the Lady Pack – a little nod toward the program’s charitable nature. For several years, Slaton and her Lady Panthers have developed numerous community-service projects. There’s the annual “Lady Pack Can” project in which players sponsor a food drive in time to deliver Thanksgiving and Christmas meals to deserving families. In 2013, the drive netted more than 1,000 assorted items, including turkeys and canned foods, for the team’s three “adopted” families at Thanksgiving. Then there’s the toy drive for the children of Harold’s House, an organization whose mission, according to its web site, “Is to serve child victims of sexual and/or physical abuse, minimizing their trauma through a team approach in a child friendly environment.” Children who leave Harold’s House receive those toys as a means of providing comfort; it’s a reminder to them there are people who care for them. This year, the Lady Panthers gathered more than 150 toys for those children. “Our girls love this,” Lufkin head coach Heather Slaton said at the time. “They learn so much about recognizing and being aware of their situations and surroundings, so that if they ever do come in contact with a child who could possibly be suffering from abuse, the girls will know how to handle the situation.” LaQwitha Thomas, a senior on the team, has participated in the toy drive for four years; she said delivering those toys never gets old. “It makes me happy to know those little kids will have at least something to bring them a little comfort,” Thomas said. “We tell our younger players these little kids need us. It might seem like it’s just a little toy, but it means more to them than we can ever know.” So the Lady Panther’s success certainly hasn’t been of the overnight variety, and it hasn’t come without more than a little lump-taking. But like any other great investments, great risks bring great rewards. The very team knocking down the playoff wall in 2014 will, in all likelihood, return mostly intact in 2015 – a year in which Lufkin teams will compete in a different district, one in which the playing field should be closer to level. One thing’s for sure. It won’t be another decade before this team receives another playoff invitation. Top: Shortstop Lauren Camp makes a running catch of a line drive during the Conroe game. Middle: Pitcher Alex Flores delivers to the plate during the game against Conroe. Bottom: Reagan Jordan drops a perfect bunt in front of the plate in the game against Conroe.
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COMMUNITY HEROES
EVERYDAY HEROES AMONG US
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eroes are all around, and while our minds might first imagine a person in uniform, many heroes within our community look just like you and me. They are hard at work within organizations that make this community great. Without their tireless work, many in our community would be in greater need. The United Way organization of Lufkin and Nacogdoches, the Women’s Shelter and Azleway are heroes to the thousands of people they serve.
The United Way of Nacogdoches County is a 61-year old, well loved organization. Their organization has grown exponentially within the last few years, growing to support over 20 non-profit agencies in the county. The agency partners with Stephen F. Austin State University in many ways; SFA students serve in staff positions.
United Way of Angelina and Nacogdoches Both Nacogdoches and Luf kin are blessed to have United Way offices in each county. These organizations provide support for non-profit organizations within the communities they serve. The United Way of Angelina County will celebrate 66 years of helping provide the basic necessities of life for friends and neighbors within their county. The United Way funds 20 hardworking, nonprof it agencies that provide daily basic needs, while at the same time preparing and meeting any emergency needs that may arise. Their main focus is equipping these agencies to provide food, shelter, clothing and crisis intervention to county residents in need. The 2014 goal of $475,000 was exceeded during the October 2013 fundraising campaign. Overall, the community donated $645,500. By going over the goal, the United Way board had the opportunity to provide United Way agencies additional funds, which further increases their ability to serve the community. 40 • THE JOURNEY • MAY2014
Last year, The United Way of Nacogdoches exceeded their goal of $350,000. This year they are projecting to raise at least $375,000. The funds are allocated to agencies who support one of their 3 cores values: education, health and financial stability. Not only does the United Way fund these agencies, but they are proactive about supporting them with volunteers. Both United Way agencies have plans in place to ensure the agencies receiving funds are good stewards of the community’s donations. The Luf kin agency puts together a 40 member budget committee that is charged with reviewing the agencies’ applications, budgets and making site visits to ensure each agency is providing the services that Angelina County needs. They also set the overall campaign goal each year and determine the amount each agency will receive for the campaign year. Nacogdoches United Way has a board of 30 people who ensure that organizations receiving United Way support are using funds in appropriate ways to serve one of their 3 core values. The money donated to United Way changes lives in the counties they serve. Not only do these United Way offices depend on your financial support, but they are both in need of volunteers. For more information on the Angelina County United Way, call 936.632.3203 or email united-way@consolidated.net. To learn more about Nacogdoches County United Way, call 936-564-5869 or visit their website at www.unitedwaynac.com.
Azleway Azleway is a faith based, non-profit foster care and adoption agency which began in 1979 helping to f ind safe homes for children that have been abused and/or neglected. They train and license foster homes to care for children in a capacity where they can receive structure, compassion, educational opportunities and coping skills. They serve children ages 0-21 years of age. Not only does Azleway care for children that have been abused and/or neglected, but they serve the community by providing food and clothing to individuals in need. Each week, they provide groceries to approximately 15 to 17 families. In order to benefit from this service, you must make an appointment by calling the office on Mondays. Members of Azleway are active in the community through participation with our Chamber of Commerce, Rotary Club, Greater East Texas Community Action, Nacogdoches Head Start, Glory Gang, Stephen F. Austin State University and Angelina College. Christmas is a big time of year at Azleway. They come alongside the community to help provide Christmas gifts for the children in their care and for those less fortunate in the community. Wish lists are completed by the children and Azleway makes every effort to make sure the child’s Christmas is one to remember. As with any organization that serves, Azleway is always looking for volunteers and donors to help with the operations of the agency. Once a month, they hold a foster parent training, and the foster parents bring the children that are not in school to the office. Volunteers are needed to help love on kids while these foster parents are in training. There is a great need for respite providers to help care for children on an as-needed basis. This is not a long term commitment to care for a child, but in case a parent is in need of a break or has an emergency, the respite provider will be trained to care for a child on short notice. Prospective volunteers should contact Azleway for more information. Financial donors also play a vital role in the day to day operations. To give online or to learn more about Azleway, go to www.azleway. org or visit their facebook page. You can also reach the office at 936.205.5641 or visit at 1100 South St. in Nacogdoches.
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Janelle Grum Family Crisis Center of East Texas (Women’s Shelter of East Texas, Inc.)
The Family Crisis center is a nonprofit organization incorporated to enhance the safety of women, children and men by providing crisis intervention and advocacy services to reduce and prevent the occurrence of family violence and sexual assault through education and community awareness. They provide support and services to the counties of Angelina, Houston, Nacogdoches, Polk, Sabine, San Augustine, San Jacinto, Shelby and Trinity. All of their services are confidential and free of charge.
professionals specializing in assistance for survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault. Those services included emergency shelter, a 24-hour crisis hotline, access to food and clothing, information and referral, legal and personal advocacy, child advocacy, counseling, support groups, job readiness training, transitional housing, homeless prevention financial assistance, child care assistance, and more. In fact, in 2013, the agency provided 1,185 residential and non-residential clients with over 100,000 essential services. The Family Crisis Center has The Women’s Shelter of East Texas began in 1979 when two cooperative working agreements with over 40 entities in our Nacogdoches women recognized a need in their community service area. That is one of the keys to the agency’s success, to provide services to battered women and their children. but also ensures that services are not duplicated. These women volunteered their time and their resources for two years, enabling East Texas women to have a safe haven The Family Crisis Center provides essential, life-saving services in a violent world. They used their private telephone lines as to victims of abuse. Without them, these individuals would not have the safe haven to flee to in a time of crisis. Their focus is crisis hotlines and their homes as safe houses. empowerment-based advocacy. The Family Crisis center also In May of 2008, their new administrative office and 39-bed operates two Thrift Stores, one in Luf kin and one in Nacogemergency shelter opened its doors in Luf kin. This new, doches, that help the agency by using the profits to fund direct state-of-the-art, multi-service crisis intervention center was client services, providing on the job training through their constructed with the contributions of generous donors from self-sufficiency program and serving as a place for client to use Angelina County, including the T.L.L. Temple Foundation their vouches to purchase things they will need to begin a new and Mr. Clifford Grum, in memory of his late wife Janelle life. Donations can be dropped off at either location. Contributions Grum, for which the center is named. Many still know them of clothing, shoes, bedding, furniture, house wares, books, as the Women’s Shelter of East Texas; the two names are now movies, and toys, are all appreciated. used interchangeably. The agency offers assistance to men and children in addition to women, and they provide more The agency is always looking for volunteers; there is a job to than just shelter services. f it just about any interest. For more information, call 936.639.1681 in Luf kin or 936.569.1018 in Nacogdoches or Today, the Janelle Grum Family Crisis Center of East Texas visit www.familycrisiscenterofeasttexas.com (Women’s Shelter of East Texas, Inc.) staffs a full array of 42 • THE JOURNEY • MAY2014
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SOMETHING ABUNDANT
by Angie Nichols
I am now going to ALLURE her...
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hen Mycah blew out the candles on her birthday cake in March, we thanked God especially for the gift of another healthy year with her. Although it may seem ironic, God has taken me down a path of healing in the past seven years initiated by Mycah’s blood cancer diagnosis when she was four. Simple math leads one to the conclusion that we just marked her eleventh birthday. And while we truly celebrated her birth and her healing, this year’s number eleven came with an unexpected sting for me as old wounds pulled my mind down a familiar path of cancerous fear. Looking at my eleven-year old daughter--a pony tail and sun tan, confident of fairy tales and safety--she is like a photograph of me that came to life. I remember standing in the front yard of my childhood home in the northern Texas panhandle the year of my eleventh summer. I also remember when my belief in happily-ever-afters went up in f lames at the news of my daddy’s life-ending plane crash. The sudden and horrif ic death of the man I loved most sometimes threatens to twist and malign my faith in a good God even to this day. I’ve never considered visiting the site where my dad’s lifeless body landed and his blood poured into the soil in south Texas. Fear, I suppose, kept me from even thinking of it. What would be the reason? It was too morbid, too sad. That was 26 years ago, and I was over it anyway. However, just a few short weeks after her birthday celebration, our family of three stood shoulder-to-shoulder in Sunday morning worship. Eyes closed, I heard my own voice sing, “Lifted out of the wreckage I f ind hope in the aftermath...” {Aftermath by Hillsong} And in that moment, God lovingly led me to see the connection between that field of death and a field of dreams He wanted me to claim for His kingdom. Jesus is relentless to pursue healing, but we have to be willing to follow His path to get there. So He tenderly called me. No, He allured me to that place. On Palm Sunday, my family of three stood shoulder-toshoulder in the grassy f ield where my daddy’s life ended so violently and suddenly 26 years ago. Through Christ’s strength and because of His grace alone, I locked my eleven year-old daughter in my embrace as we walked upon that grassy f ield.
It was so very necessary for me to take her to that place on this broken Earth and cry into her ear, “Death doesn’t win,” then breathe in the sweet fragrance of Texas wild f lowers springing up from the ashes of my childhood. At the invitation of Jesus, we taunted death, “O, where is your sting?” We stood there singing songs of joy. Friend, do you have a place--literal or within--that you wouldn’t dare revisit? Wouldn’t think of it? Is there an experience in your past you’d prefer pretend didn’t happen? Is there a location of woundedness, loss, pain that still reigns defeat over you? Would you be willing to consider the character of a God who allures you to the wilderness places of your life so that He might speak tenderly to you? Is your curiosity peaked at the thought of knowing a God who desires to make your places of trouble, even shame, into a door of hope, a harvest of abundance? Could you be turned on by the notion of a Son-King who wants to build a bridal chamber for you upon the very piece of property where your life shattered to a million pieces? If anything inside your heart whispers a ‘yes,’ even through painful tears of doubt, please listen to me. I am a 26 yearlong failure. I’ve gotten more wrong than I could ever brag of getting remotely right. Except for one thing. One person. Jesus. When He beckoned me, “Come,” my only boast is I was too weak to f ind a better option. In some miraculous sea of love, that is enough for Him. God’s eternal Love story culminates with the wedding of His King-Son. I want to pass you this incredible message: You are the bride. However, a wounded child can’t hold her crown on a bowed, defeated head. An immature girl won’t f it into the bride’s gown, white and clean. Will you risk it all and follow His path of healing and holiness? Now is the time. {Hosea 2:14, Psalm 126:5, Revelation 19:7}
PineyWoods ALLURE Friday and Saturday, October 3-4 You are invited to come away for a night and two days of worship, Bible study, and even a little pampering. Come hear the beautiful message of Something Abundant in three sessions and enjoy time in the scenic magnificence of Pineywoods Camp and Retreat Center located in Woodlake, Texas (approx 35 miles southwest of Lufkin). Arrival time is 1:00 pm Friday and departure is 12:00 pm Saturday. Invite a friend or three and book your accommodations today. ALLURE is a unique opportunity to hear the message for Christ’s bride and to learn, or perhaps --remember--you are her. register at www.somethingabundantministries.org
Angie Nichols is the founder of Something Abundant Ministries, serving women through worship and Biblical teaching and the author of Something Abundant: growing from a child of God to the bride of Christ. Her passion is for women to know the beauty of an abundant life knowing Christ as Bridegroom. She is married to Chris and they have one daughter, Mycah. For more information, to read Angie’s blog, or book speaking events visit: somethingabundantministries.org.
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by Melissa Radke
STRETCH MARKS
MY Hometown Heroes 7:37 AM – We are entering a school zone, so I know I have to decrease my speed. I enter the same school zone every single day so it really shouldn’t be a shock to me that it’s coming up; I slam on my brakes nonetheless, though. And then I see him waving at every car. I’m not sure of his name, but he’s out here every morning when I drop my kids off and every afternoon when I pick them up. He stands in front of Hudson High School in the mornings and in front of Peavey Primary in the afternoons, and more than once he’s kindly told me to put my phone away and sloooooow down. And he does it with a wink, a wave and southern drawl. I can’t help but appreciate him out there when it’s freezing cold and when it’s pouring rain. 8:02 AM – One kid down, one to go. The one who gets dropped off first? Never late. The one who gets dropped off second? Never on time. So I race through the doors and see Mr. Williford greeting parents and hugging kids. I see Father Art giving high five’s, and I wonder if the reason they are losing their hair is because they chose a career that involves kids 24/7. But no matter their reasoning, I’m certainly thankful for them. 8:32 AM – Oh my sweet, chipper, friendly barista. I give thanks for you every day. You hand me my Salted Caramel Mocha and remind me daily that, “This was just a seasonal drink so you realize we don’t have the salt for the top, right?” And I laugh like an idiot because that means I really just ordered a Caramel Mocha, but you don’t make me feel foolish. No, you let me keep ordering a drink that actually no longer exists. And we laugh. And you hand me lifeblood and wave me off. Aaahhhh…. 10:00 AM – I woke up with a tickle in my throat and they said, “Yes, come on in.” So don’t tell me there’s nothing to love about a small town! The nurses comment on how long my hair has gotten and they tease me about my last article in The Journey. Dr. Lewis asks me how my job is going and comments on how my weight has gone down some, (because I assure you, he ALWAYS comments on when it’s gone up some) and I’m thankful that I’m known and I’m not just a number. Who doesn’t enjoy being known as opposed to just being a number? Dr. Lewis’ office does that well and it doesn’t go unnoticed. 12:30 PM – And now for someone who has literally seen me at my worst and at my best. My confidant, my counselor, my lifeline when I want to jump off a bridge and do something radical, my advisor: Wendy Rojo….my hairdresser. Oh the things that woman could tell you, the confessions that have been made in that chair. And as important as Dr. Lewis is
for my health – she beats him, hands down. This is HAIR we’re talking about, people. HAIR!! And for that reason, and for that little bowl of liquid gold she mixes up and places on my roots, she is my hero! 3:05 PM – And now begins our portion of the day where we pick up kids from two different school districts who get out at the exact same time. It’s always fun, (she said sarcastically) and yet although the schools are different, there’s one thing that stands true for both: the teachers. There they are, out front with the kids waving at parents and helping little ones into cars. They look a little more deflated than they did at eight this morning, but no less determined. They hold on to grimy, snotty nosed little hands all day. They spell the same words over and over and over until a child finally gets it. They watch a first grader struggle with 9+4. They appoint line leaders and door holders, and they send home smiley faces and Field Day papers. I do not, for one moment, think that I could do that job because I’m smart enough to know I can’t. And so today, when she opens up my door to let my little girl in, I make it a point to say, “You’re hair looks great today! Thank you for all you do!” And she makes it a point to say, “I know you’re lying. And you’re very welcome.” Have you thanked your teacher today? 5:50 PM – It’s a Monday and I do not want to be here. I have a tickle in my throat and I just got my roots done. Doesn’t he know that? But do I really think he wants to be here anymore than I do? He just got off work and has a family of his own. But there he is, week after week, practice after practice, game after game. Coach Bob Scott. Poor, poor, Coach Bob. Teaching little girls how to swing a bat, catch a fly ball, be aggressive, get dirty and stop crying all in an hour and half each week. (Better him than me!) But I’ve watched enough Dateline’s to know that our world is full of the creepiest kind of Coach Bob’s. So you gotta be really thankful when your child lands on the team of a hard-working, family-loving, high-fiving, Coach Bob. My lovelies, this is just one day in my life. If I were to have written about a whole week in my life I would be talking about Dre’ at the Crown Colony Grill who slips me free cookies whenever he sees me coming, or my dentist, Dr. Ross, who leaves her family to meet me at her office when I get too aggressive with a popcorn kernel. Then there’s my Pastor and my friends. Hometown heroes are everywhere. Yes, there are some heroes who go off to war and some who fight battles right here on our streets. But sometimes, if you look close enough, heroes are just the friendly faces who make our home…a home.
Melissa Radke is married to the best looking man in town, whom she affectionately refers to as The Attorney General. They have two children, Remi and Rocco; you have probably seen their picture in the Most Wanted list at your local schools. She loves movie popcorn, telling her friends what to do with their hair and being the center of attention. You can find her anytime at melissa@luf kin.org or Chik-fil-A. You are encouraged to ask for her autograph. In fact, she insists.
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St. Cyprian's Bayou Bash
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by Jessica Tinsley Bridges, Creator of jesslea.com
Fun & Flirty Dresses
FASHION
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ne thing that I love for spring is to break out dresses again. I spend so much of the winter covered up in long pants and tights.
Now that spring is here and summer is around the corner, you’ve got every reason to show off your legs in a flirty dress. Whether you’re heading to a backyard party, a casual wedding or date night, these 7 dresses are spring sensational and affordable, with a price tag under $50.
$29.94 Poplin Crepe Dress Old Navy
$29.99 Merona Seersucker Ruffle Neck Dress Target
$36.94 Spaghetti Strap Eyelet Dress Old Navy
$35.99 a.n.a. Sleeveless Belted Maxi Dress JCP
$44.99 Robbie Bee Sleeveless Chevron Stripe Fit & Flare Dress Belk’s
$29.99 Mossimo Crisscross Maxi Dress Target
$35.99 Bisou Bisou Sleeveless Twist-Back Dress JCP
Jessica (Jess) is a 28-year old brunette born and raised in Lufkin. She is in love with fashion and wearing high heels, even though she’s 5’10’’. She graduated from Stephen F. Austin with a Fashion Merchandising degree. She and her husband live in Houston with their 2 dogs, Bella and Bentley. She is an assistant buyer for a department store in Houston, Texas. She has her own fashion blog, Jess Lea where she shares her love for fashion on a budget. photo by The Silhouette Studio
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HAIR 101
Celebrating 50 Years
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o stay in one industry for 50 years is not very common anymore. For one lucky lady, Shirlene Kelsey has had the opportunity to celebrate doing hair for 50 years this month.
Her son Arik Kelsey said, “It is important for mother to get this recognition because she would never ask for it or think it is important. But, I want her to see all that she has accomplished in her lifetime and see what she means to people.” Shirlene became a hairdresser when she was 18 years old. Haircuts were $2 and shampoos were $2. She has seen a lot change over 50 years. Her longest standing client is Bettye Modisette who has used her for those 50 years. Bettye’s mother used Shirlene and that is how Bettye began using her and has not changed. The Modisette family has had 5 generations come through “Shirlene’s Beauty Shop.” Even though Ms. Modisette is her longest client, many of her clients have been with her thirty and forty years. Her clients come from all around; every week clients come from Nacogdoches, Zavalla, and Alto. When Shirlene began, she worked for two different salons for 4 years. Then she went off on her own for 8 years running a single chair salon. She expanded to a 2 chair salon, then later a 4 chair salon where she stayed for 14 years. And for the last 20 years, she has operated where she is today on Highway 69. When she began, she would work 6 days a week. Later, when she had children, she worked three and a half days. “She has worked 3 ½ days all my life, “said her son Arik. Only in the last five years has she slowed down to three part-time days. Shirlene has long said that she plans on working until no one wants her anymore. Through the 50 years, she has seen many fads and styles come and go, big hair, straight hair, permed hair, dyed hair; she has seen it all. She says everything comes and goes and it always comes back around. Trends may have a new name associated with it, but more than likely it has been done before.
Shirlene's Beauty Shop is located on 6889 N US Highway 69, Pollok, TX Below: Shirlene has seen many hairstyles come and go over the years!
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The big change in hair was the “pick perm.” Women could pick their own hair without having to come in every week for a wash and style. “That was a time when a hair style hurt beauty shops. The bouffant era was the best time. Women would come in to get their hair styled like clockwork, every week!” What makes Shirlene’s experience even more special is that her son is a hair dresser in her shop as well. He joined his mother in 1987 and he has been with all this time. “She is very outspoken. Even when you don’t want to know what she thinks, she will let you know, but it comes from a woman with a big heart. She has the biggest heart you will ever meet. She has helped so many hairdressers along the way. My mom means so much to me and to so many others. It is important that she sees that.”
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1. Maximus Zaidan Adams. 12/31/13. Proud Parents: Zane & Danae Adams. Proud Grandparents: Allen & Terrye Adams / Daniel & Dalal Lakey. 2. Samuel Joseph Klatzkin. 1/30/14. Proud Parents: Lindsay & Kyle Klatzkin. Proud Grandparents: Fran & Mike Bazar / Lynn & Mark Hopper / Varsi & David Klatzkin. 3. Miles Antonio Morales. 2/23/14. Proud Parents: Margo Parrish & Marco Morales. Proud Grandparents: Michele Flippen / Jose’ & Teresa Morales (Nacogdoches, TX). 4. Brylie Grace Vinson. 3/11/14. Proud Parents: Jay & Ashli Vinson (Luf kin, TX). Proud Grandparents: Steve & Sally Allen / Robert & Cathy Vinson. 5. Ariya Dianne Wilkie. 2/19/13. Proud Parents: Alan & Staci Wilkie (Huntington, TX). Proud Grandparents: Hugh & Sandra McEwin (Lovelady, TX) / Patricia Wilkie (Huntington, TX). E-mail Pretty Babies submissions to prettybabies@tjmag.com. Please include the information seen above. Submissions are free of charge.
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THE CREATIVE MOM
by Shanna Crew
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f you like to play with your food, here is a fun way to make toppers to dress up your pancakes.
I use a Wilton Candy squeeze bottle from Hobby Lobby to draw designs on a heated pan. This batter was homemade with fresh cow milk and eggs from our hens. (How pretentious does THAT sound?!?) Truth is I ran out of the just-add-water Hungry Jack we usually use, so it was a bit thick. To make sure the batter for my squeeze bottle is extra smooth and lump free, I run it in my blender for a quick second, adding a couple more tablespoons of milk to get a good f lowing consistency.
The more simple the design, the better it turns out. I’m not going to lie, some of these were nearly impossible to flip! For the more ambitious designs, I use a lower heat setting and allow it to cook through and then place a regular, previously cooked pancake on top before flipping out of the pan onto a plate. This helps stabilize the design. If you want more contrast, brown your base pancake a bit longer and cook your design just until it sets, so it will be lighter. If you make letters and you plan to f lip them, remember you have to pipe them backwards!
Shanna Crew left her job training astronauts at NASA to become a full time artist and mom. She is married to her high school sweetheart, Jeremy, who is a local attorney and co-founder of Big Thicket Brewery---Lufkin’s first craft brewery. They have 3 children: Devon, Weston, and Evangeline. 62 • THE JOURNEY • MAY2014
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wo precious girls wanted to do something very different from the norm for their birthdays this year. Kylie Riddings is an avid animal lover and wants to be a veterinarian when she grows up. That is when her mom came up with the idea and asked her about volunteering at the humane society and letting all the friends play with the dogs and cats. Kylie loved the idea! She decided to ask for donations to the shelter in lieu of gifts. At age 9, that is a very big decision, but she was f irm. Kylie›s mom, Mary Riddings, contacted Angelina County Humane Society and inquired about doing the party there. They were on board and said the girls could walk, bathe, and play with the dogs and cats. The party went so well; Kylie ended up adopting a boxer that was there.
Earlier that same morning, Katie Ronaghan hosted her 10th birthday party there. The last 2 years she has chosen a charity to donate to, instead of receiving gifts. Last year it was the children of Haiti, and this year she chose the Humane Society. Katie hosted her friends over for a slumber party. They woke up Saturday and headed to the Humane Society to volunteer. They gave baths, walked the dogs, learned to train dogs, and played with cats. One friend from Katie’s party adopted a cat.
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“Grow in the grace & knowledge of our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ.” -2 Peter 3:18 When First Presbyterian Church had the vision of offering a preschool education to Lufkin, they needed to find the right director for the program. The search committee scoured the country and did just that. They brought back the perfect person to get the preschool started off in the right direction. Sandy Kelly is a graduate of Lincoln Christian University and holds a B.A. in Christian Education. She has served as a teacher, children’s pastor, and as preschool director for several Christian ministries, having over 20 years of experience as a preschool director. “I began helping in Sunday School & VBS when I was in junior high & caught the teaching bug. I love teaching children of all ages, but must admit that my absolute favorite age group is the 3’s & 4’s. I believe each child’s first school experience should be fun and exciting, with new & creative methods to introduce concepts.” Kelly explains she has no children and is the 4th out of 5 siblings. “My 3 older siblings are all married with 14 children between them, and 4 of their kids now have children of their own, so I’ve been an aunt many times over since I was in high school. Instead of children, I joke with my sister that I got custody of our parents. My dad is a retired pastor, so when I decided to move to Lufkin, mom & dad chose to come along as well. The family is pretty spread out across the country, so they take multiple trips each year to visit grandchildren.”
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“As a Christian ECE professional, I’m happy to be part of the FPC family at the new Presbyterian Early Learning Center (PELC) and providing high quality services for families with young children. Serving Christ by serving families and children is what I’m all about.” Her main focus is teacher quality. “I’m looking for teachers who are well-trained, open to using individualized instruction, & understand developmentally appropriate practice, but who also want to be part of a Christian team, working together to provide exciting hands-on meaningful experiences for children to enjoy. Every child is uniquely made by God, growing & learning at their own pace in their own way. In order to help each child succeed, we’ll use formal assessment tools & curriculum plans, but most of all we’ll inject fun, curiosity, & excitement into each day as we “dig into learning” at Presbyterian Early Learning Center.” The plan for PELC is to utilize weekly themes, incorporating small group “Learning Centers” in science, math, art, and literacy, as well as using programs such as Zoo-phonics & A Beka. As a Christian school, we’ll use Biblical integration and age-appropriate teaching with a balance of play-based and academically-focused activities. Area parents will be happy to hear that PELC will be offering schedule options that provide families with a choice. “One of the first things I discovered upon moving here was the limited availability of 2 & 3-day schedules for families. We will be offering a half-day morning, a school-day option, & full-day for families who need extended care. 9 am-12 pm, 9 am – 2:30 pm, & 7 am – 6 pm respectively. All of the schedule options are available on Monday/Wednesday/Friday or Tuesday/Thursday as well as all 5 days. For those wanting 3 days a week – I do suggest contacting us quickly, as that schedule is typically the first to fill up. In addition, we plan to seek accreditation by outside preschool agencies such as the National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) and the Association of Christian Schools International (ACSI). These agencies set very high quality standards and determine current industry practices in the field of early education. “ PELC is still under construction. According to Child Care Licensing regulations, they are unable to begin formal registration and accepting tuition/fees until their permit is received. However, an active “waiting list” has begun. The target date for the first day of school is August 18th. Any interested families may contact PELC at skelly@fpcelc.org, or by calling the church office at 936-634-3711. “How will our garden grow? By God’s grace & with a lot of tender loving care,” says Ms. Kelly.
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1 1. Maci Rice, 6th grader at Central Junior High, received the DAR youth citizenship award.
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2. St. Cyprian’s first grader, Maci Ross, gets her hair colored by third grader Magen Nevills during the school’s Market Day. 3. Third graders, Anna-Kate McKinley and Maury Spore, sell their homemade lemonade during St. Cyprian’s market day. 4. St. Cyprians Outdoor Learning Center is completed. Psalm 66:5 “Look what the Lord has done.”
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A CHILD'S HEART
by Jason Soule
One Rule to Rule Them All
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y philosophy of parenting can probably be summarized in one word: simplify. Let’s face it, raising kids can be complicated. There are a lot of situations and circumstances to navigate. How should a person act if their child throws a screaming fit in the middle of Wal-Mart because they refuse to buy his favorite fruit snacks? What is the rule for dealing with a child who will not do the chores they are told to do? Navigating these issues can be tricky and frustrating. At times it may feel as if you need to redefine your parenting strategy for every nuance you face, but with a little prior thought, you can simplify your parenting, ease your mind, and raise better kids in the process.
Explain Expectations Early: My wife’s parents live in Bismarck, North Dakota and my parents live in Wichita, Kansas. As you can imagine, our family travels a lot. I have always used this rule to head off problems before they turn into annoyances. Before we ever leave the driveway, I will tell my girls something like this: “This will be a very long trip. You are going to get bored and tired. If you sleep, it will make the ride go faster. No matter how you feel during this trip, you need to be respectful of the other people in the car.” Saying this sets the tone for my expectations while we travel, and I can refer to my expectations later when dealing with problems.
Deal with Defiance Directly: First, it is important to def ine “def iant behavior.” Def iance is when your child knows clearly what your expectations are, and he chooses to do the opposite. In our house, a spanking is the most severe punishment someone can receive, but I am by no means a one-trick pony; I have all sorts of creative means to make a misbehaving child’s life miserable. When it comes to def iance, I use the motto of the Cobra Kai from Karate Kid, “Strike hard, strike f irst, no mercy sir!” Intentional disobedience must be dealt with in a way that your child understands that you’re not playing around.
Avoid Punishing in Anger: There is no question that kids can push our buttons and make us angry. When we feel this way, the temptation is to let the child feel the fury they created, but punishment should be a tool that we use to teach –not the end goal. Ultimately, we want a child to leave a time of
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discipline thinking about what they did, not what you did. Almost every time I punished one of my children, I sent them in to my bedroom and made them wait while I gathered my thoughts and settled down. It is not a problem to let a kid stew in his own juices for a quarter hour. The time they spend anticipating punishment makes the punishment that much more poignant. Plus, with a calmer disposition, I am able to deal with the true problem and not just blow off steam.
Provide Potential to Make Me Proud: All kids want their parents to be proud of them. Some kids fail because they have no idea how to make that happen and are frustrated because of it. If my child doesn’t know how to please me, it is ultimately my fault. I try to tell my girls as often as possible how proud I am of them and why. The more a child knows what makes you proud, the more that they will strive to do those things. The fifth of the Ten Commandments says to, “Honor your father and your mother…” The idea of honoring is sometimes confused with obeying. While honor does include obedience, it is not limited to just doing what you are told. Kids who only understand it in that way might say something like, “Well, nobody told me not to, so…” This commandment can be more accurately summed up by saying, “At all times, no matter your surroundings, act in a way that will make your mom and dad proud of you.” That is the basis for everything I teach my girls. After all, it’s what your Heavenly Father expects of you.
Jason has dedicated his life to teaching kids. During his career he has been a coach, an elementary teacher, a principal and is currently the kid’s pastor at Lufkin First Assembly. He speaks the language of kids and loves to see them grow in Christ-like character. He is married to Karli, and they have three beautiful daughters, Haley, Abby, and Olivia. To see more of what he does, visit the KidWorks website at www.lufkinkids. org. You can also reach him by mail at jsoule@lufkin.org.
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Downtown Date Night
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SPOTLIGHT
Lee TranServices
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ith the humble beginnings of starting his business in his garage and being the sole employee, Gene Lee never saw the blessings Lee TranServices would have today.
Lee was working for Luf kin Industries when he thought other companies may need what he was doing. He explains, “In April 1984, I started to assist local (a 4-5 county radius) companies and drivers with keeping their vehicles legal. By that I mean licensing, titling, registrations and permits, things of that nature.” Over the years, the growth was steady. They moved out of the garage into the Waters Building and added two additional employees. Today as they celebrate their 30th anniversary, they are located in the Bank of America Building with over 80 employees. Gene Lee says, “We have surpassed the goals I set back then. I stand in awe at where we are today and the journey it took to get us here. I only envisioned 1-10 truck companies and thought if I can corner that market I will be set. I had no idea that Lee TranServices would be where it is today.” Today the company is very focused and specialized in their operations, client services, sales and information technology. The company is one of the Nation’s largest, privately held, fullservice providers of affordable Transportation Compliance and Risk Management services facilitating the needs of numerous clients on a regional, national and international level. After 30 years you learn many lessons along the way. Lee explains, “I have learned that I am a small piece in a very large puzzle. It takes surrounding yourself with a great team to make you successful, and I am proud to say that I have surrounded myself with the best! You want people around who will share your goals and help you reach them, but at the same time keep you grounded.” Mr. Lee admits that he has failed many times, but he explains, “The key to great success is being willing to fail. If you aren’t pushing the boundaries, you are playing it too safe and you’ll never have true success.” Every great leader has someone who is encouraging them along. Lee says, “When you decide to leave a solid job in order to start something in your garage, you better have a good partner, and I did. My wife, Annette Lee, has been through every decision I’ve ever made. She is the best sounding board I could ever have. And when I feel like I’m king of the world and the smartest man in the room she reminds me to feed the dogs and that I need a haircut. That’s a great partner!” Lee TranServices is looking forward to continued growth and expansion. The future will bring many new ventures and innovative technologies. Lee says, “We have really just started to scratch the surface of our potential.”
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Morgan Insurance Agency Bob Morgan started his insurance career in 1962. Terry Morgan joined the business in 1982 and Morgan Insurance Agency was formed. They strive to educate the community on the best options for their insurance needs. Their philosophy is to work for you, not the insurance company. Their one on one service approach is their #1 goal for all their insurance clients For the 6th consecutive year, Morgan Insurance Agency was recognized as the best insurance agency in Angelina County out of over 100 agencies.
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POLITICS
POLITICAL FORUM BOB BROWN, LUFKIN MAYOR
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like to talk about the good things that we have going on in the City of Luf kin. Each year our City employees are part of what makes Luf kin so great. This year is no different. In looking ahead to warmer months in the spring and summer I would like to highlight the importance of the City of Luf kin’s Code Enforcement Division. This department may not be well known by many of Luf kin’s citizens, but they deserve some recognition and you would benefit from knowing more about Code Enforcements’ services to the community. The City of Luf kin Code Enforcement Department is responsible for enforcing Municipal Code regulations on private and public property throughout the city. The purpose of the Code Enforcement Department is to promote, protect, and improve the health, safety, and welfare of the citizens of Luf kin by encouraging compliance with the City Municipal Code of Ordinances. The current Code Enforcement team is made up of three officers who are each assigned to a specific area of town. Code officers make routine inspections by driving through neighborhoods and spotting code violations such as weeded lots with grasses higher than 12 inches tall, unsightly conditions
like trash, litter, and junk, inoperable vehicles that have remained on a private or public property for more than 30 days, or signs violations. Many people don’t know this but, signs may never be placed within the public right-ofways or posted on public utility poles, whether they are something like garage sale signs or political. Other specific violations include the stagnant water violation, which could be something like a neglected swimming pool, pothole, or even tires that have accumulated water, all of which can breed mosquitos during the Summer months. The City of Luf kin Code Enforcement team is trying to address an issue that has plagued North Lufkin and other parts of the City for more than a year; illegal dumping. Construction debris, vegetative trash, and especially tires accumulate in large piles on some roads. In response to this, Code Enforcement officers recently met with the Luf kin Neighborhood Alliance, City Councilmember Victor Travis, and County Judge Bob Inselmann along with many other volunteers to spread out into neighborhoods along Culverhouse Avenue and side streets that lead up to Wilson Avenue, in a massive code enforcement sweep that will, in the coming months, cover the rest of the city. This “Mission Possible” clean-up sweep is the latest attempt to clean up the City’s streets and image without spending more taxpayer funds. I recommend to the citizens of Lufkin to give your Code Enforcement division a call whenever you see a need for improvement based on the violations I just listed. Our City Code Enforcement officers are offering you a great service in trying to clean up this town and improve neighborhoods to build a better community, but they need your help too. You can reach the Code Enforcement Department for the City of Lufkin at 633-0298. Thanks to each and every one of you for caring about the City of Luf kin, with your voice and the efforts of the Code Enforcement Division we can keep Luf kin a beautiful place to call home.
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TEXAS STATE REPRESENTATIVE
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his month I am going to give you an inside look at what is going on under the dome of your State Capitol by highlighting some of the
interim charges for the Texas House of Representatives. The Speaker of the House gives these charges to the various House Committees, and essentially tells them what to work on during the months leading up to the 84th Legislative Session. My Committees The two committees I serve on, Appropriations and Natural Resources, have been tasked with studying some of the most serious issues facing Texas. The House Appropriations Committee was given the most charges, including examining the immediate and long-term f iscal impact of both the Teacher Retirement System and Employees Retirement System health care plans; as well as monitoring the performance of state agencies and institutions, and analyzing the implementation of cost-containment initiatives in health and human services programs. We also are going to be looking at short and long-term deferred maintenance costs for state facilities and recommending methods to further reduce the reliance on dedicated accounts for budget certification. The primary charge for the Natural Resources Committee is monitoring the implementation of the voter-approved, statewide water infrastructure plan; but there are several other key topics that we will look at as well, including the protection and stewardship of privately owned lands. A key focus for me will be to make sure that property and landowners’ rights are preserved and protected. I’ll also be looking to examine strategies that will enhance the use of aquifer storage and recovery projects, as well as evaluating the management and development of groundwater in Texas. These charges are what my staff and I will focus on over the next several months, but there are other committees that are of importance to East Texans as well.
undertake is the examination of current statutes and rules as related to the eradication of feral hogs. As many of you know, the growing feral hog population is responsible for significant destruction of private property and agriculture commodities. Business and Industry Members of the Business and Industry Committee will meet during the interim to study the impact that the theft of credit card data and privacy information has on Texas consumers and businesses. As our business transactions, both as consumers and as producers, become increasingly tied to technology, protecting our identity and account information becomes even more important. County Affairs The House Committee on County Affairs has been charged with examining population growth in Texas counties and the impact the growth has had on housing, available land resources and businesses, as well as the impact of growth on the state’s economy. The committee will also be evaluating Texas’s preparedness to respond to future growth and ensure economic stability.
Agriculture and Livestock One charge of the Ag Committee came in the form of a successful bill from the 83rd Legislative Session. The bill states that the committee must study the feasibility of creating a border agricultural inspection training program and the authority of Texas Department of Agriculture employees to augment federal inspectors at Texas border land ports of entry. A very important charge for the committee will be evaluating the Texas Right to Farm Act and determining if updates to the law should be made in an effort to protect agricultural operations. Another interesting task the Ag Committee will
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CHAMBER NEWS
Nacogdoches County Chamber of Commerce held a ribbon cutting ceremony for Alpha Gamma Rho - Beta Chi Chapter, a social and professional fraternity with a strong foundation in agricultural and life sciences, 512-734-1259, www.facebook.com/AlphaGammaRhoSFA. Noble Ruler Tyler Montgomery, Planning Officer Austin Conley, Advisor John Mehaffey and members Gus Walker, Nic Roberts, Keaton McKinney, John Minter, Austin Conley, John Lanier and Scott Sutton welcomed Chamber members, sponsors and guests.
Nacogdoches County Chamber of Commerce held a ribbon cutting ceremony for the new business location for Handler Insurance, 418 E. Main St., Ste. 103, 936-569-7822. Owner Grace Handler welcomed Chamber members, sponsors and guests.
Nacogdoches County Chamber of Commerce held a ribbon cutting ceremony for the new business location for Rees Jewelry, 418 E. Main St., (936) 564-0537, rees-jewelry.com. Owner Charlene Rees welcomed Chamber members, sponsors and guests.
Nacogdoches County Chamber of Commerce held a ribbon cutting ceremony for the fifth anniversary and new Chamber membership at Space Walk of East Texas, 3801 North St., # 3, (936) 560-5731. Owners Maury and Tracy Littleton welcomed Chamber members, sponsors and guests.
Leadership Luf kin Disc Golf Course
Luf kin First Assembly Business After Five
Power Networking Breakfast
Science and Tech Fair
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LEADERSHIP TRAINING
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hannon Douglas Todd is a junior at The Citadel, the internationally renowned military college famous for the development of principled leaders through the South Carolina Corps of Cadets. As an East Texas son, he is making his hometown proud by his accomplishments, future goals, and noble character. “I decided I wanted to attend The Citadel my senior year of high school. It was a childhood goal of mine, since the sixth grade, to become part of the United States armed services. I had every intention of attending a military school/academy. I went through the process of applying to West Point and The United States Naval academy, receiving my military academy nomination from Congressman Louie Gohmert for both schools. After being denied acceptance from both academies, my next school of choice was The Citadel. I was very disappointed at first, but I knew God had a plan for everything and there was a reason he wanted me at The Citadel,” says Todd.
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Shannon’s inspiration for wanting to attend a military school was his cousin, Mark Miller, who is now an officer in the United States Army. Todd says his cousin exemplifies the finished product of a cadet, and he is always hard-working, respected, and humble. “That is what I wanted to be,” he adds. Shannon says the application process was just like any other public college: SAT/ACT scores, application packet, fees, doctor physical, etc. “Going through high school, I was engaged in many activities to help me gain acceptance and prepare for military school. I knew there were many young men and women out there who wanted acceptance just as badly as I did, and I felt that anything I could do to increase my chances was worth doing.” Todd was engaged in varsity sports such as baseball, cross-country, and tennis. He was an active member in the FFA (Future Farmers of America) and held numerous officer positions. He served as president of D.A.R.K (Drugs are Real Killers), and also an officer on the Student Council, among other activities. However, his main focus was to be engaged in activities to help him grow into a well-rounded individual. With an overall grade point average of 3.89, Todd’s primary ambition was to work hard, saying, “I knew that if I worked hard, everything else would fall into place, which is why I am at The Citadel.”
In addition to his academic and military training, Shannon has been named to the Summerall Guards, a silent drill platoon who, “Demonstrate The Citadel ideals of honor, integrity, loyalty, leadership, self-discipline, and patriotism.” The platoon is made up of 61 rising seniors. The process for being a part of the Summerall Guards begins during the first semester of junior year. Selection is based on a process that lasts a few months and consists of military personal appearance, physical training and precision drill. “Being involved in the Summerall Guards is a very humbling experience. Those that earn the position are always expected to uphold the prestige of the Summerall and exemplify the characteristics of honor, integrity, loyalty, leadership, self-discipline, and patriotism,” shares Todd. The Summerall Guards perform at various locations around the world to represent The Citadel. Todd also says his Citadel experience is unique compared to other schools. “Not only are you participating in earning your degree, but you have to accomplish other military duties as well. The Citadel has definitely taught me how to manage time better. Any free time is usually spent studying or completing military obligations. The most important experience I have received from The Citadel is the brotherhood I have gained with my classmates in my company.” The Citadel has also taught Shannon how to be an effective leader and the importance of integrity. Todd explains, “This past year, I had the privilege of becoming part of The Citadel’s “Cadre”. Cadre is made up of selected upperclassmen cadets who come back early to partake in teaching the freshman class the fundamentals of drill, personal appearance
and honor to make it through their cadet career. This ultimately taught me many leadership traits that I will use, not only here at The Citadel, but in my future as a Naval officer/engineer.” Todd’s future goals are pretty straight forward: To join the United States military and become a professional engineer. He shares, “I am currently contracted with the United States Navy and will commission as an officer in the Navy just before graduation. My plan for the Navy is to become a Surface Warfare Off icer. After my service in the military, if I choose to leave, I have ambitions to work at an engineering firm doing environmental engineering.” Although Todd wouldn’t call himself a hero, he does hope he can be an inspiration to others to stay determined and continue to work hard toward one’s goals. He is proud of his school and is grateful for his education. “The Citadel has ultimately broken me down and molded me into a young man of character. I am fortunate to attend an institution of such tradition, high standards, and the ability to produce leaders,” he says. In a world in desperate need of quality leaders, this hometown hero is one to watch. Bottom, Left: Shannon and his twin brother, Zachary, after Shannon received his Summerall Guard Rifle during The Citadel’s Corp Day Weekend. Bottom, Center: Parents Weekend at the Citadel. Bottom, Right: Shannon with some of his close friends from The Citadel (L-R: Shannon Todd, John Lintner, Ryan Cass, Sam Doron, Martin Walke).
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CALL OF DUTY
BYRON HANCOCK His full time job was working with the Bryan Police Department. Even though Hancock was not an active reserve, he knew he could be called up to serve during that time. The Marine Corps never called him up.
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yron Hancock is like so many veterans who have gone before him. His love for his country and his duty to serve definitely came first. For Hancock, all of his uncles have served in the military in every war, so he knew this would be a good path and legacy to follow. After talking with a friend about all the different branches, he knew the Marine Corp was the right branch. The military was a great way to expand on all the things Hancock already knew he loved to do: hunt, f ish, shoot, and be outdoors. As a senior in high school at the age of 18, he enlisted in the Marine Corps Reserve delayed entry program. When he turned 19, he was headed to boot camp. In 1991, he was activated for Desert Storm and assigned to the Sniper Platoon. In 1992 he attended a 13 week, basic sniper school in Quantico, Virginia. He says, “I was the 1st reservist to graduate sniper school in 3o years.” Because of his performance, he was invited back the next year to attend the advanced sniper training. The Marine Corps was doing their part to build up the program. The next two and a half years he served on the rifle team. Shortly after, his contract was up, so he had two years of “broken time.”
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Then September 11, 2001 happened, the infamous day that so many recall. He knew it was his duty to rejoin. That October, he drove to Houston along with so many others to reenlist as an active Reserve. He explains, “I, along with a long line of others, felt it was my duty to serve our country.” During the next years, Hancock was deployed to South America, Columbia, and Iraq. “I was in Iraq when the real moments of the movie ‘Sole Survivor’ were taking place in Afghanistan. I remember hearing about it, and it was hard to news to hear. But we were hearing that all the time. We would go in on a mission with 32 guys and come out with 10.” He continued to serve until he finally got out in 2009. Since then, he knows what it is like to live with Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome (PTSS). For many it doesn’t seem like the real thing, and for those living with it, they too want to act like it doesn’t exist. Hancock explains, “I lead a Bible study group at church, The Veterans Group at Holly Springs Baptist Church. Many of the men in my group served in Vietnam. They are finally at a place where they can talk to others about it. Unfortunately, those my age or younger have a problem opening up and talking about what they still relive.” Just last week, Hancock received phone call that a friend in their platoon killed himself.
“It happens way too much. It’s important that veterans understand that they are not awkward.” That is Hancock’s goal right now, to help others who are willing to open up and be an ear to hear, so the tragedy and suffering from PTSS can stop. Hancock says, “Seventyfive percent of those who enlist feel like it is their duty to serve their country. I am sure glad they do feel that way, because where would America be without them. So many sacrifice things in life due to the hectic pace of the job and the schedule. Any chance you get, take the opportunity to say, ‘Thank you.’ It would mean a lot to those who made that commitment.”
JUNE 28 Holly Springs Baptist Church will hold a benefit golf tournamant at Woodland Hills Golf Course in Nacogdoches to raise money for their Veterans group. For more information call 559-5511.
PLACES & FACES
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Women in Red Luncheon
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HOMETOWN HEROES
Brothers in Law Enforcement he·ro 'hi(ə)rō/ noun a person, who is admired or idealized for courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities
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he Lufkin Police Department is proud of two pairs of brothers who exemplify the qualities of a hometown hero. Eduardo and Alberto Ibarra, and Devin and Torry Trotti are proud members of the LPD family who say they love serving God, country, and community. Among a distinguished brotherhood of officers, these men get to serve alongside a blood brother, too.
TJMag & Co. asked both sets of men to tell our readers more about their childhood heroes, the influence they had on their lives, and what they love most about their important roles as officers and public servants in East Texas.
Devin & Torry Trotti Devin is a graduate of Hudson High School and the police academy of Angelina College. He is married to Courtney and father to two daughters. He has been in law enforcement for eight years and enjoys spending his time off with his family, hunting, fishing and doing anything outdoors. Torry also graduated from Hudson High School and was a helicopter engine mechanic in the Marine Corps before becoming a police officer and joining LPD in July, 2013. He is married to his wife, Rikki and is the father of three sons. Torry is 20 months younger than older brother, Devin. Both say they are proud to be Lufkin Police Officers.
What is it like to work/serve with your brother in the Lufkin Police Department? Devin: I am very proud of Torry and his choice to become a police officer. I think that it is an honor to serve the city of Lufkin with Torry. We have not had an opportunity to work together on the same shift, but I look forward to that possibility in the future. Torry: I am very proud to be working alongside my brother. Although we work opposite days, it gives us an understanding of what the other goes through on a daily basis.
Who are your heroes and what qualities do they have that you hope to possess?
Devin & Torry Trotti
Devin: I have always admired and looked up to both of my grandfathers. Bobby Trotti is a pillar of strength in my eyes. He has always been a hard worker, provider and a devoted family man. He has definitely been one of my biggest supporters. Wayne Powell served as the Sheriff of Newton County for 25 years. As a young child, it was obvious to me how devoted he was to his community. He loved God and his family, was selfless, and highly thought of by all. I want to always keep God in the center of my life. After that, I feel like the other things will fall into place. I want to be a great provider for my family and hope that they will always know how important they are to me. Torry: One of my childhood heroes was Sylvester Stallone in the movie series Rocky. Rocky was inspirational to me because he started from absolute zero and with a lot of hard work and dedication he worked his way up to become #1 in the world. Besides, what kid wouldn’t want to be Rocky Balboa? Rocky never gave up when things got tough. He just kept getting up every time he got knocked down, and that is a characteristic I try to have.
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My real life hero is, without a doubt, my brother Devin. As a kid I looked up to him only because he was my big brother and he could do things that I could not. As a teenager it was because he had a truck and would take me places. But as an adult, it is because he is what anyone should aspire to be-- a Christian family man and an amazing brother who I can honestly say is my friend.
What is the best part about being a hometown hero? Devin: I don’t feel that I am a hero. However, I am proud to be a police officer for the city of Luf kin. I enjoy being able to help others in the midst of a crisis. I hope to provide a sense of security for the community. Torry: I really don’t feel like a hero, but my favorite part of being a police officer is being able to have people count on you to help them out. It’s a great feeling when you know that you made a difference in someone’s life.
Eduardo & Alberto Ibarra Eduardo and his brother Alberto are Lufkin police officers assigned to the Traffic Division. Eduardo has been with the Lufkin Police for over fourteen years, and prior to his service with LPD, he worked for the Nacogdoches Police Department for three years. Brother Alberto worked five years for the Angelina Sherriff’s office, and has been with the Lufkin Police Department for the last ten years. Six years his senior, Alberto says he enjoys working with his older brother and realizes the rare honor it is to serve the community alongside him, not only in the same department, but also the same division.
What is it like to work/serve with your brother in the Lufkin Police Department? Eduardo: We share stories about what happened to each other at work. Being part of the traffic division allow us to work toward reducing automobile crashes and injuries. We work all crashes whether minor, major or fatal. It’s nice to work with him since we don’t see each other as much as we’d like while off of work. Alberto: I love working in the same field as my brother. Although, it would be even better if we always worked same shift.
Who are your heroes? Eduardo: My childhood super hero was Spiderman. I liked Spiderman because he was a young boy who decided to do good with the powers he had. I liked the way he changed to fight crime and then went to being himself once the spider uniform came off. Plus, he looked cool. Not knowing it back then, but looking back I have to say my real life hero is my dad. Growing up, he showed us tough love. My dad, mom, older brother, my sister and I were all born in Mexico. My dad brought us to the United States when I was three years old. He taught us to respect authority and obey the laws of this country. My dad was and is an example of how we should behave ourselves at home and in public. He taught us to love and fear the Lord our God.
Now that I’m married, I’m glad my dad taught us to put our faith and trust in God. My God saved my marriage and my wife. We’ve been married over seventeen years and we have three children. God has blessed me more than I deserve. Alberto: My favorite childhood superhero is Superman. He was unstoppable. However, my real hero is my dad. He is always there for me and the entire family. He followed Jesus Christ and leads me to be a good parent.
What qualities of your hero do you hope to possess? Eduardo: To be a godly man, because I’ve seen how God has been faithful to my dad and his family, and I want the same for my family. So far neither my dad nor God has let me down and I’m sure they won’t. Alberto: Perseverance. I want to possess that quality--to never give up, no matter what comes my way.
What is the best part about being a hometown hero? Eduardo: I really don’t see myself as a hero. I believe the good Lord placed me here on Earth to do a job. I’ve been very blessed. I would like to think that I have made a difference in people lives by making the roads a little safer for them and their families to drive. I also get the opportunity to teach Driver Alertness and Responsibility Training (D.A.R.T.) to people who have been arrested for D.W.I. or involved in a crash. I also love the people I work with, which make it more enjoyable. Alberto: Simply, helping the community and making my family proud of me.
While these siblings all say they wouldn’t call themselves heroes, their families, friends, and the citizens they serve and protect hold them in highest regard. For their sacrifice, courage, character, and so much more, we say ‘thank you.’
Eduardo & Alberto Ibarra
PATRIOTS CHALLENGE
A Special Fishing Adventure
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ackson Hill Park and Marina’s Outdoor Freedom Network is a growing network of sponsors, volunteers and organizations working together to provide appreciation and access to the natural resources of deep East Texas and Sam Rayburn Lake. Their purpose is to bring economic good to our local communities from outdoor recreation and to do social good by raising funds and offering outdoor recreational opportunities for worthy charitable causes and people in need. To accomplish those goals, they host outdoor activities and events that bring people together in the great outdoors. Among their events are Wounded Warrior hunts and the Patriots Challenge weekend fishing series benefitting military members and their families. Jackson Hill Marina has seen a scurry of activity recently with many special guests including some of the biggest stars from the Fishing League Worldwide (FLW) Pro Tour. However, none are more special to owner Terry Sympson than the two disabled veterans and their caregivers from the VA hospital in Dallas, who the marina hosted for a special weekend of f ishing fun. “We knew the veterans would be coming the Monday following the FLW Elite Pro fishing tournament, so we contacted some of the guys we knew to see if their schedule would allow them to stay an extra couple days to help out,” said Terry Sympson from Jackson Hill and founder of The Patriots Challenge. “When 2014 Frosted Flake’s Pro Angler, Dave Lefebre, one of the top bass anglers in the world, said that he would love to help we were really excited,” he added. Local tournament pro Dean Perkins from Broaddus also helped to make the two days of fishing exciting and memorable. It all started Monday afternoon with everyone boarding a pontoon boat with volunteer fishing guide Dean Perkins taking the whole group out to one of his favorite catfish holes. Everyone found themselves in a mess of cooperative channel cats. That evening’s menu offered cowboy rib eyes with all the trimmings to the hungry anglers. Tuesday night’s menu boasted a fish night, and with the pressure on to help catch dinner, veterans Hance and Kenny, and therapists Kaitlyn and Danielle managed to get a mess of crappie for Chef Terry to prepare. That afternoon everyone loaded up in bass boats and took off for nearby coves that immediately produced some hot Sam Rayburn largemouth action. “Both Danielle’s boyfriend and my husband were so jealous when they found out we were fishing with Dave Lefebre in the Kellogg’s tournament boat,” said Kaitlyn Moore VA Recreational Therapist. He didn’t believe I was catching so many fish until I sent him the pictures.”
Lucy, the Jackson Hill boat slip fishing dog, points to the right spot while disabled veteran and official camp cutup Kenny tries to catch dinner.
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“We are truly blessed to have people like Dean and Dave who do so much to help make this event special,” said Terry Sympson. “We would also like to thank our food supplier Ben E Keith foods for donating supplies, as well as, many others who came through for this event. We are truly grateful.” “We knew that our guys would have fun, but had no idea what a great time it would be for all of us!” exclaimed Danielle Michael CTRS VA Recreational Therapist. “We caught catfish, crappie and bass, saw bald eagles, four alligators and we ate the best food ever. We want to thank Terry and Jackson Hill Marina so much for the opportunity to come down and fish with our amazing vets from Dallas! So many laughs and good times were had, and it was absolutely relaxation therapy for all of us,” she added.
TOP: Kenny, FLW pro Dave Lefebre, Hance and Danielle show off some of Sam Rayburn’s green treasure. MIDDLE: VA therapist Kaitlyn Moore shows off a fat 4 lb bass that she tricked into biting her plastic lizard. BOTTOM: VA patients, caregivers and volunteer boaters enjoy a big juicy cowboy rib eye steak dinner courtesy of Patriots Challenge.
Patriots Challenge is a program of the Outdoor Freedom Network, a 501(c)3 public charity operated by Terry and Connie Sympson of Jackson Hill Marina. You can see the entire photo album at www.facebook.com/ jacksonhillmarina. For more information on Patriots Challenge, visit www.patriotschallenge.com or call Jackson Hill Marina at 936-872-9266.
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photographed by Edge Photography
PLACES & FACES
The Helping House Family Kite Fest
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FASHION
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at Miller's Point
he time of grilling out, boating on the lake, having a drink by the pool and taking a vacation is upon us! Miller’s Point has a great selection of merchandise ready for the Summer including swim trunks, linen button ups, Costa Del Mar sunglasses, caps, flasks, polos, and shorts. One summer trend for men is color segmentation and bold color blocking. This can be accomplished with a pair of our Southern Tide colored shorts and a brightly colored polo or button up. To make the outfit complete, add a Smather’s and Branson belt and a pair of Southern Tide flip flops. If you’re headed to the pool or lake we’e got fun printed and solid Vineyard Vines, Southern Marsh, and Tommy Bahama swim trunks and even a pair for the little boy in the family. Add one of our Southern Point tank tops, a Brewer’s Lantern koozie and some Jack Black sun guard and you will be ready to go!
All clothing pictured at Miller’s Point. Miller's Point is located at 203 E Main Street, Nacogdoches, TX /// (936) 462-1515.
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PLACES & FACES
Blueberry Golf Bash at The Pineywoods Country Club
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