St. Sebastian's Magazine, Spring/Summer 2024

S T. S EBASTIAN’S SPRING / SUMMER 2024

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TRADITION & TRAJECTORY Brendan Sullivan begins his tenure as St. Sebastian’s 10th Head of School

2024-2025 Board of Trustees Seán Cardinal O’Malley, O.F.M. Cap. Chairman Devin C. Condron ‘92, P’29,’29 President Brendan W. Sullivan P’25,’29 Executive Officer, Head of School James F. Mooney III P’18 Vice President Barbara E. Connolly P’10,’12,’17 Secretary Michael J. Maguire ‘91, P’22,’25 Treasurer David M. Calabro ’78, P’16 Assistant Treasurer Members: Mark H. Carter P’28 Tara B. Ciongoli P’25,’25,’27,’29 Casey M. Condron ’94, P’23,’24,’28 Timothy J. Connelly P’17,’19 Marybeth Connolly P’27 Catherine C. Daniel P’15,’18,‘20 Paul A. D’Attanasio ’96 Timothy P. Doherty ’87, P’17 Michael R. Frisoli P’17,’19,’21,’22,’26 Dr. Chris Hahm P’22,’26 Kristen D. Maxwell P’25 Matthew R. Perry ‘06 John A. Piccione ‘76 Dr. Edward T. Ryan P’23 Randall P. Seidl P’17,’19 Michael J. Stanton ‘88, P’20 John D. Suliman ‘03 Jeffrey P. von Arx, S.J. Robert V. Wallace Jr. ‘89, P’25 Stephen P. Ward ‘96, P’24,’25,’27,’29 Kyle E. White ‘09 Elizabeth A. Derenzo P’20,’22,’24,’27 President, Guild of St. Irene Richard H. Sutphin Jr. P’26 President, Men’s Association Ryan R. Fitzpatrick ‘92 President, Alumni Association David F. Gately ‘73 Trustee Emeritus

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Assistant Head of School Michael P. Nerbonne

FEATURES

IN EVERY ISSUE

16 80th Commencement

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Head of School’s Letter

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Around Campus

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Event Highlights

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Fine Arts

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Winter Sports

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Spring Sports

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Alumni Gatherings

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Class Notes

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In Memoriam

St. Sebastian’s presents diplomas and awards to 71 members of the Class of 2024 on June 6

34 Tradition & Trajectory Brendan Sullivan begins his tenure as St. Sebastian’s 10th Head of School

44 Farewell Celebration

Over 700 members of the community gather on May 18 to celebrate Bill and Patty Burke

62 Reunion 2024

Alumni from the classes of 4’s and 9’s come back to campus to celebrate Reunion

Head of School Brendan W. Sullivan P’25,’29

Director of Advancement Richard F. Arms P’14

Editor & Designer Christine Y. Robertson, Director of Communications Contributors Allie Colgan, Communications Associate Michael Melley P’18,’22, Director of Alumni & Development Principal Photographer Brett Crawford, Visual Media Coordinator Editorial Advisor Michael Deschenes P’28, Director of Library & Information Services

St. Sebastian’s Magazine is published twice a year by the Communications Office.

Correspondence concerning the magazine should be sent to: communications@stsebs.org St. Sebastian’s School 1191 Greendale Avenue Needham, MA 02492 781.449.5200 www.stsebs.org

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Head of School Brendan Sullivan

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Reunion 2024

St. Sebastian’s School Mission Statement A Catholic independent school, St. Sebastian’s seeks to engage young men in the pursuit of truth through faith and reason. By embracing Gospel values in an inclusive, nurturing community and by inspiring intellectual excellence in a structured liberal arts curriculum, St. Sebastian’s strives to empower students for success in college and in life. The ideal St. Sebastian’s graduate will be a moral and just person, a gentleman of courage, honor, and wisdom, a life-long learner who continues to grow in his capacity to know, to love, and to serve God and neighbor.

COVER: Brendan W. Sullivan P’25,’29, St. Sebastian’s 10th Head of School (Photo: Bobby Quillard P’27)

INSIDE COVER: The varsity baseball team celebrates their ISL championship.

From the desk of the head of school Brend a n W . S u l l i v a n

Deep gratitude, overwhelming excitement, and a faithful sense of purpose.

I have so much to be grateful for. To the St. Sebastian’s community, I cannot say it enough— Thank You! Thank you, parents, for trusting us with your sons. Thank you, faculty and staff, for devoting yourselves to our School’s mission. Thank you, trustees, for your vision, strategic planning, and extreme generosity. And thank you, students, for working so hard and taking good care of your brothers.

I am especially grateful to two of St. Sebastian’s most dedicated leaders, Headmaster Emeritus Bill Burke who retired in June after 34 years of service at the helm and former Board President Jim Elcock ’77, P’08 who stepped down after 25 years on the Board of Trustees, 13 of which he served as President. Under Bill and Jim’s leadership, the School flourished, and they left plenty of wind in the sails, ensuring that the future of St. Sebastian’s is bright. I am so excited to work with our new Board President, Devin Condron ’92, P’29,’29, whose leadership, talent, character, and vision are certain to take us to new heights.

There are so many reminders at St. Sebastian’s that we are part of something much greater and much more powerful than our individual selves. A recent one occurred on the evening of March 4th in our Chapel, when former parent Artie Boyle (Brian ’03) led the Rosary for a large group of parents, faculty, and even a few students. Artie was diagnosed with cancer in 1999, when Brian was just a sophomore. The following year he went on a pilgrimage to Medjugorje from which he returned cancer free. Now, 25 years since that grim diagnosis, Artie continues to share testimony of his miraculous healing.

I sat in the Chapel that night next to Lisa Ogrinc P’25 who was deep into her own battle with cancer, a battle that would claim her life three weeks later. After the service, I walked with Lisa to her car. Despite her poor physical health, I could feel her spirit soaring. She was moved by the prayers and the support from the St. Sebastian’s community, and there was something more—something much deeper. I’ll never forget the sentiments of hope and peace expressed by Lisa that evening, it was such a privilege to walk with her.

Artie Boyle describes himself as a witness to the faith, and so I chose WITNESS to be this year’s theme, and Artie’s book, Six Months to Live, to be the All School Read. It is just one of many incredible stories I have borne witness to in my 30 years at St. Sebastian’s School. Those moments, shared with our students and families, fill me with hope, and faith, and love.

May peace be with you,

Brendan W. Sullivan Head of School

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Visiting Writer Series Hosts Author Andre Dubus III

Chief Wunnanumwau Tom Frederick (center), with MPA students, Meyer Chambers, and Brendan Sullivan during the Black History Month Assembly.

Love and the Pursuit of Truth

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On February 1, St. Sebastian’s welcomed Andre Dubus III to campus as part of the Visiting Writer Series. The award-winning author of nine books, including the New York Times bestseller of House of Sand and Fog, addressed Grades 11 and 12 and spent time in three English classes. Dubus shared memories of his childhood in working-class Haverhill, his turn to boxing and violence as a way to fight perceived injustice, and his eventual embrace of creative writing as a way out of that violent life. Our young writers were inspired by his message: “Do the thing that makes you feel more like you than anything else.”

t. Sebastian’s annual Black History Month Assembly on February 5 focused on the theme of “Love and Pursuit of Truth.” Filled with powerful words and music, the assembly included a welcome from Men with Positive Attitudes President Jonathan Demosthene ’24, an opening prayer from Fr. John Arens, and several readings delivered by MPA students. Keynote speaker Sachem Wunnanumwau Tom Frederick, Principal Tribal Chief of the Chappiquiddic Nation, gave a heartfelt, compelling speech, stating that we are all related and “we are meant to stand together as one race, the human race.” Throughout the assembly, music was performed by Director of Music Ministry Meyer Chambers on piano, and Boston College graduate students Joseph Penny on drums and Lauren Warner on bass guitar.

Harvard MEDscience Program Provides Hands-On Learning

Members of the Life Sciences Club in Harvard Medical School’s state-of-the-art simulation lab run by trained MEDscience educators.

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Over the course of six weeks this past winter, 12 members of the Life Sciences Club participated in the Harvard MEDscience program.

Each week, the Arrows traveled to Harvard Medical School to engage with life-like mannequins designed to simulate an array of symptoms that they were responsible for diagnosing and treating as if they were real doctors treating patients. St. Sebastian’s students have benefited from this initiative for the past several years thanks to the generosity of the McNeil family. With some returning students and some first-timers, this year’s program was a new experience for everyone, with content focusing on the nervous system, the reproductive system, and trauma scenarios. From learning how to suture to using a backboard, this was an excellent opportunity for students to get hands-on experience in healthcare while developing critical thinking and teamwork skills.

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Fourteen Arrows Inducted into the Cum Laude Society Fourteen members of the Class of 2024 were inducted into the Cum Laude Society during a ceremony held on April 12. Keynote speaker Lionelle Demosthene P’24 spoke about her upbringing and how her son, Jonathan ’24, came to St. Sebastian’s and how grateful she is for his experience at the School. The Cum Laude Society, established in 1906, is modeled on the Phi Beta Kappa Collegiate National Honor Society and recognizes the scholastic achievement of secondary school students.

Class of 2024 Inductees: Aiden J. Barclay Raif S. Boit Deven S. Carkner Kamden S. Carkner Neal R. Carlson Gianluca Centola Jonathan J. Demosthene Rui S. do Rosario Brendan T. Fulham Liam V. Gavin Chase W. McCann Brendan M. Schmidt Ye Tian Cormac A. Walsh

LEFT: Lionelle Demosthene P’24 delivers the keynote address; RIGHT: Kam '24 and Deven '24 Carkner with their mother, Ashini.

Arrows Robotics Team Takes Home 1st Place

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eam 133, our veteran Robotics team, earned first place overall at the FIRST Robotics Massachusetts Qualifying Tournament at Canton High School on February 3. Their victory included finishing as the top seed in the qualifying matches with Science Department Chair David Wilbur with Team a 5-0 record, conquering 133: Liam Gavin ’24, Raif Boit ’24, Jay Liu ’27, Wright their semifinals handily, and Shinzawa ’27, and John Joyce ’27. winning two matches in the best-of-three finals. Our rookie team, Team 19556, posted a 2-3 record on the day, performing with a strong end game that kept them competitive in every match. Team 133’s impressive performance secured them a spot in the State Championships on March 9 at Andover High School, where they finished inside the top 10 in most scoring categories against 35 other teams.

The Spring Robotics Competition, another season highlight, challenged new and current club members to build unique robots and compete against each other in a 1-v-1 double elimination tournament. Both robotics teams also used their robots for good, showcasing their inventions at a fundraising event to help raise awareness for individuals battling ALS.

Finance Academy

Speaker Series Through fantastic presentations using real-world examples, the Speaker Series gives club members insight into the complex world of finance.

On February 15, Michaela and Olivia Thompson, Boston College Carroll School of Business graduates and sisters of Chris Thompson ’24, presented to the Finance Academy on private equity and navigating a career in finance. Michaela is a software investor at EAM (Equality Asset Management) and Olivia is also a software investor at M33 Growth, both based out of Boston. The presentation was launched with a video made by Olivia portraying a typical workday in private equity. The sisters then took a deeper dive into the field, describing the steps involved in buying and selling private companies, types of private equity, and factors to consider before investing.

On April 25, Eddie Mitchell P’24 presented on the company he cofounded, Image Stream Medical.

Mitchell spoke about the evolution of Image Stream Medical and product innovations that led the startup to becoming a leader in clinical visual collaboration solutions for hospitals and outpatient surgery centers. He also explained the financial benefits of a startup and successful acquisition, when he sold the company to Olympus Medical in 2017. Mitchell’s advice for future entrepreneurs included remaining committed to the mission of the startup and taking an undercommit and over-deliver approach to ensure customers are satisfied. He ended with a quote that a doctor at the Mayo Clinic once shared with him, “Start small, dream big, move fast.”

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Grandparents & Special Friends Day On April 30, students welcomed a record number of over 345 grandparents and special friends to campus to experience a day at St. Sebastian’s School.

The special guests began their day with a luncheon in Ward Hall where they were welcomed by event co-chairs Marie Carroll P’25,’28, Noel Stavaridis P’24,’25,’27, and Seton Spagnuolo P’25. During the program, Guild of St. Irene President Deneige Nash P’23,’25 and current grandparent Amy Habib GP’25,’28 said a few words and student speaker Declan Carroll ’25 spoke about his school experience.

Grandparents were then treated to a classical musical performance, performed by Caleb Casiano ’29, Luke Hiles ’27, Rohan Ghatge ’28, Finn Govender ’28, and music teacher Karl Grohmann. Headmaster Burke thanked the grandparents and special friends for their support and for being part of the St. Sebastian’s community. Students then took their guests to class before celebrating Mass with Fr. John Arens. The afternoon concluded with a dessert reception in the Burke Family Center.

A special thank you to the mothers of the Guild of St. Irene, who worked tirelessly to make the entire day, from registration to dessert, run smoothly.

LUCK, LOVE & LEADERSHIP Randall Kennedy P’13,’17 addressed students and faculty on April 25 as part of the Birmingham Lecture Series.

TOP LEFT: Danny Porter ’27 with his grandparents, Elaine and Richard Porter. TOP RIGHT: Jack Connors GP’20,’23,’24,’24,’26 observes as his grandson, Gavin Joyce ‘26, conducts a science experiment. BOTTOM LEFT: Mary Baker joins her grandson, Carter Dedier ‘26, in class. BOTTOM RIGHT: Event Co-Chairs Seton Spagnuolo P’25 (left) and Marie Carroll P’25,’28 (right) with Guild of St. Irene President Deneige Nash P’23,’25 (center).

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In addition to being the Michael R. Klein professor at Harvard Law School, Kennedy has authored several books and numerous articles relating to law and race. His inspirational lecture focused on success and how it relates to luck, love, and leadership. He reminded Arrows that whether they have found success in the classroom or on the field, they owe part of their success to luck and to the people who have helped them along the way, including parents, friends, teachers, and coaches.

Kennedy also encouraged Arrows to never look down upon those who are not successful, as there are many people who work very hard, but are never given the same opportunities that our Arrows have received, including the opportunity to attend a school like St. Sebastian’s that has a devoted faculty, a rigorous curriculum, and spiritual depth.

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From Greendale Ave. to Australia,

Arrows Master the Art of Debate

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uring the second half of the academic year, the Debate Team delivered excellent individual and team performances in both the Novice and Advanced Divisions at several tournaments. At the tournament hosted by St. Sebastian’s, Conor Sullivan ’26 (Advanced) and Aiden Mack ’27 (Novice) won a Speaker’s Prize in their respective divisions. At Deerfield Academy, seniors Raif Boit and Jonathan Demosthene placed first out of 28 teams and Raif placed first out of 56 debaters in the Advanced Division. At the Winsor School, Jack McRoskey ’27 and Ryan Connolly ’28 won Speaking Prizes and compiled a perfect 3-0 record for the day.

In April, Raif travelled to Canberra, Australia, to compete in the World Individual Debating and Public Speaking Championships. Earning a place on the U.S. team through outstanding regular season performances, Raif demonstrated his debate prowess in several categories. “Meeting and competing against so many talented students from across the world was an awe-inspiring experience!” shared Raif. “Whether it was from people who spoke with unrivaled fluidity or people who brought up arguments and evidence that were incredibly interesting, I was constantly learning throughout the tournament and went home with both new friends and new knowledge.”

LEFT: Ryan Connolly ’27 (left) and Jack McRoskey ’27 (right) with Assistant Head of School Michael Nerbonne. RIGHT: Raif Boit ’24 with his U.S. teammates at the World Individual Debating and Public Speaking Championships in Canberra, Australia.

The Definition of a True Hero At the Needham Memorial Day Ceremony on May 27, Devin Maguire ’25, a studentathlete committed to West Point, gave a stirring speech in honor of those who have bravely served our country, especially our fallen heroes. Maguire spoke about his definition of a hero, citing Pat Tillman as an example of true courage when he enlisted following 9/11 after he’d just begun to live out his dream of playing in the NFL. Ben Goffredo ’24 was once again invited to sing the National Anthem. A group of fellow Arrows and Assistant Head of School Michael Nerbonne were also in attendance.

Former Celtic Chris Herren Talks Addiction & Recovery Not many basketball players get to realize the dream of playing in the NBA—and even fewer get the chance to play for their hometown team. Chris Herren, a basketball legend from Fall River, MA, briefly got to live both dreams when he was drafted by the Denver Nuggets in 1999 and then traded to his hometown team, the Boston Celtics in 2000, before losing his career and almost his family to the disease of addiction. On May 14, Herren—a much sought after speaker on addiction and recovery—shared his story with the St. Sebastian’s community.

Alcohol and drug-free since 2008, Herren has spoken to over two million students nationwide with the goal of sparking honest discussions and making a positive difference in their lives. His inspiring presentation encouraged the students to rethink how they look at the disease of addiction.

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Men with Positive Attitudes Celebrates Its Senior Members

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TOP: Meyer Chambers (far left) and Headmaster Burke (far right) with Class of 2024 members of MPA. BOTTOM LEFT: Neal Carlson ’24 is presented with his stole. BOTTOM RIGHT: Danny Gillis ’24 receives a congratulatory handshake from former faculty member and MPA club moderator Aturo Adkins ’14.

amily and friends of Men with Positive Attitudes gathered in Ward Hall to share a delicious meal prepared by the dining staff and celebrate senior members at the annual MPA Banquet on May 23. The program included musical performances, recited poems, reflections by senior members, and tributes to the graduates by underclassmen. Bill Burke served as the keynote speaker, delivering a moving speech at his last MPA Banquet as the headmaster of St. Sebastian’s.

Following the evening’s address, a video introducing each of the new MPA officers was shown. Assistant Head of School Michael Nerbonne gave senior recognitions, and notes from each senior’s memory box were read out loud by faculty members. The evening closed with Fr. Arens offering a traditional blessing upon the seniors. The members of MPA, past and present, congregated at the front of Ward Hall and joined together to sing, “Lift Ev’ry Voice and Sing.” It was a special night for the seniors, their families, underclassmen, and alumni who came back to campus for the event.

Alumni Association Welcomes Class of 2024 into Its Ranks The Class of 2024 gathered on the Class of 2007 Terrace at the Griffith Headmaster’s House on May 29 to celebrate the annual Alumni-Senior Breakfast. The soon-to-be graduates were joined

by Trustees, Alumni Board members, and alumni fathers. Board President Jim Elcock ’77, P’08 addressed the class, encouraging the seniors to take part in and enjoy the traditions that define the St. Sebastian’s experience going forward. Elcock also presented each of the graduates with one of Headmaster Burke’s favorite books, Jayber Crow by Wendell Berry. Peter Galligan ’74 stressed the importance of relationships made at St. Sebastian’s in his remarks before being recognized for his three years of service as President of the Alumni Association.

Headmaster Burke gave his famous speech one last time, encouraging his final graduating class to focus on the three S’s…

Slow down and take it all in, Savor the final days together, and Say the things that need to be said to your classmates and teachers who made your time at St. Sebastian’s what it was.

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TOP: Chris Merageas ’24 receives a gift of St. Sebastian’s swag from the Alumni Office. BOTTOM: Board President Jim Elcock ’77. P’08 chats with seniors during the breakfast.

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Undergraduate & College Book Awards The following students were presented with awards recognizing their academic achievements during the Undergraduate Awards Assembly on May 22.

COLLEGE BOOK AWARDS Boston College Ty Ciongoli

St. Lawrence University Colby W. Nash

Brown University Ryan Pat

St. Michael’s College Kaelan C. Chudzinski, Benjamin D. Corbett

Dartmouth College Benjamin G. Molinsky Harvard Club of Boston Liam N. Cunjak, Maxim D. Kalinichenko

50th Anniversary of Fr. Arens’ Ordination

On May 18, 2024, Fr. John Arens celebrated the

50th anniversary of his ordination to the priesthood.

For 34 of those 50 years, St. Sebastian’s has been truly blessed to have Fr. Arens serve as our Chaplain and a dedicated member of our faculty.

The School community gathered in Ward Hall on Friday, May 17, to recognize Fr. Arens’ golden anniversary. Faculty member Joseph Cressotti and Daniel Yang ’25 gave speeches in Fr. Arens’ honor, speaking about what he means to them and to the St. Sebastian’s community as a whole. “Father has celebrated masses, received confessions, performed baptisms and all the other sacraments. He has offered prayers, taught classes, coached teams, and led retreats. He has congratulated the successful, consoled the defeated, counseled the doubtful, and encouraged the weary,” shared Cressotti. “If you are in need of advice, information, a sympathetic ear, or simple fellowship, Father is there for you.”

The following day, on May 18, Fr. Arens marked the special anniversary by celebrating Mass at St. Bartholomew Church, the parish of which he has been an integral part for over 40 years. Many Arrows and other members of the St. Sebastian’s family came out to show their love and support our beloved Chaplain.

Suffolk University Declan H. Carroll Trinity College Dublin Daniel W. Yang

College of the Holy Cross Erik J. Saradjian, Joseph B. Sullivan

University of Virginia Hugh P. Turner

University of Notre Dame Robert R. Keller IV

Yale University Teddy M. Mutryn

St. Anselm College Peter J. Bachiochi

MEMORIAL & SCHOOL AWARDS Alizadeh Most Improved Student Award Manuel R. Pereira Bausch and Lomb Science Award Ryan Pat John P. Birmingham, Jr. Writing Award Ryan M. Connolly, Rowan G. Koppenheffer Catholic Citizenship Award Declan H. Carroll Joseph Compagnone Memorial Award Avedis B. Najarian, Matthias J. Ogrinc Gandolfo Language Award Ryan C. Healey, Maxim D. Kalinichenko, Avedis B. Najarian, Michael A. Rohatgi Kevin Ghelli Award Declan H. Carroll, Ty Ciongoli Frank J. Hennessey, Jr. Award Benjamin D. Corbett Robert J. Joyce, Jr. Award Joseph B. Sullivan

William P. Judge Award Joseph B. Ryan William P. Judge Scholarship Lucas B. Candiotto Jason Keating Award Paul P. Joyce James P.B. McDonough Award Benjamin G. Molinsky Men with Positive Attitudes Award Joseph B. Sullivan, Robert Walusimbi-Mitchell Kevin T. Mutch Award Matthew E. Doherty, Brendan P. Keaveney Grace S. and Raymond M. Vorce, Sr. Award Travis A. Hodge Chapel Speech Awards Grade 11: Manuel R. Pereira, Peter A. Stavaridis; Grade 10: Carter J. Mays; Grade 9: John J. Joyce; Grade 8: William D. Reed; Grade 7: Brendan T. Fleming, Connor T. Martin SPRING / SUMMER 2024

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Growing as

Writers & Thinkers Members of the Class of 2027 and their families celebrated the 23rd Annual Freshman Writing Night on May 7.

The event marks the publication of “Freshman Voices,” a collection of written work done in the Freshman Writing classes, and honors Jack Birmingham ’59, P’84, GP’14,’17, former Board President and inspiration for St. Sebastian’s Writing Program. During the event, a representative from each section read a sample from his work.

Congratulations to the recipients of this year’s John P. Birmingham Freshman Writing Award, Ryan Connolly and Rowan Koppenheffer, for their exceptional work.

Excelling in The Classics

St. Sebastian’s students had the opportunity to demonstrate their knowledge of Latin and Greek literature at various events this spring.

Members of the Latin Club had a successful CLASSICS DAY at the College of the Holy Cross on April 11, earning two trophies.

The Upper Division Certamen team of Peter Bachiochi ’25, Liam Cunjak ’25, Max Kalinichenko ’25, Anthony Marcucci ’27, and Ryan Pat ’25 finished in third place.

The Lower Division Certamen team of Felix Cressotti ’28, Joseph Ryan ’28, Conor Sullivan ’26, Ryan Sullivan ’27 and Nolan Wishart ’27 also placed third.

On May 14, students in Sean Albertson’s Latin IV Advanced Placement class demonstrated their mastery of Latin in the annual VERGILIAN ACTUS. Timothy Joseph, Professor of Classics at the College of the Holy Cross, engaged the students in a “conversation” about significant passages from Vergil’s Aeneid. Students read passages from the poem, translated the lines, and offered reflections on Vergil’s themes. Students who participated were Liam Cunjak ’25, Dominic Funke ’26, John Grimes ’26, Maxim Kalinichenko ’25, Benjamin Molinsky ’25, Donal O’Connor ’26, Michael Rohatgi ’26, and Hugh Turner ’25.

Arrows Participate in Harvard Model Congress A delegation of eight St. Sebastian’s students attended Harvard Model Congress from February 22-25 at the Sheraton Boston. Known as the nation’s premier government simulation, Arrows assumed the roles of U.S. senators, representatives, and delegates to international groups such as the G20 and the United Nations.

Raif Boit ’24, Ben Goffredo ’24, and Jack Knight ’25 received Honorable Mention awards for their outstanding performances.

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On May 22, St. Sebastian’s held its first annual THESPIS FESTUS—a Latin declamation contest conceived of and implemented by Liam Cunjak ’25.

Sixteen students volunteered to memorize and perform Latin passages from mythology and the regular canon of authors, such as Catullus and Vergil.

Students also performed Latin versions of Martin Luther King’s “I Have a Dream” speech, Antony’s famous “Friends, Romans, Countrymen” speech from Shakespeare’s Julius Caesar, and Maurice Sendak’s childhood classic, Where the Wild Things Are. The following students were crowned the winners: Rohan Ghatge ’29, Lower Division; Ethan Abdella ’27, Intermediate Division; Liam Cunjak ’25, Upper Division.

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Faculty member Johnny McNamara passes the ball in the annual Faculty vs. JV Basketball game.

Members of the Jazz Band jam out at the 9th and 10th grade semi-formal.

A GLIMPSE

along Greendale Avenue

Students in John Ryan’s science class put their mousetrap cars to the test.

Arrows stare at the sky in awe during the historic solar eclipse of 2024.

8th graders in Deirdre Rynne Annan’s Art History class create a chalk depiction of van Gogh’s Starry Night.

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Serving Our Neighbors

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ntegral to the St. Sebastian’s mission, our Service Program lives the order of the day of loving God, working hard, and taking good care of one another. Below are just a few of the many ways our students have served our neighbors recently.

Bringing Joy to Senior Citizens at Avita Fine Arts Foundations students visited Avita, an assisted living facility in Needham, on May 21 to perform music and create art with the residents.

The boys were greeted by Grade 12 Arrows who were doing their Senior Service Project at Avita and jumped right into engaging with residents.

A Day of Service & Reflection As part of the Sophomore Retreat, half of the Class of 2026 traveled to Hingham to help the monks at Glastonbury Abbey. They raked leaves, picked up debris, and made every effort to beautify the grounds of the Stonecrest Retreat House. Meanwhile, at Sunset Point Camp in Hull, the remaining sophomores helped prepare the campgrounds for the influx of campers in June. Sunset Point Camp, run

by Catholic Charities of Boston, offers an overnight camp experience for 6–14-year-olds from the Greater Boston and South Shore areas. The whole sophomore class reunited at the chapel of Glastonbury Abbey to celebrate Holy Mass together and bring the day to happy conclusion.

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Bonding with Our Brothers at San Miguel St. Sebastian’s students enjoyed several visits with students from the San Miguel School in Providence, RI. In February, Arrows from the junior class and 8th grade hosted 16 San Miguel 6th-graders for a day on campus, including lunch, chess matches and a special project in the Innovation Lab. In June, nine juniors and three 8th-graders travelled to Providence to further strengthen the bonds with our brothers at San Miguel while playing basketball and board games.

GIVING BACK & GOING HOME For Harvard-bound Jonathan Demosthene ’24, the relationship between St. Sebastian’s School and Saint John Paul II Catholic Academy is more than an afterschool tutoring program or senior service initiative—it’s going home, giving back to his community, and the reason he became an Arrow in the first place.

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nce a week on Wednesdays, a group of St. Sebastian’s students from sophomores to seniors visits Saint John Paul II Catholic Academy in Dorchester, MA, to tutor students in grades 1-6 after school. The SJP students get to know the Arrows, and they bond throughout the school year. With a younger coed student population of K-8, an urban campus, larger class sizes and less resources, SJP contrasts St. Sebastian’s in more ways than one. However, the schools share similar missions that unite them. At SJP, “Students are known, loved, and called to excellence,” which complements St. Sebastian’s pledge, “Your son will be known, loved, and called to greatness by great people.”

During his time as a student at SJP, Demosthene was tutored by Arrows and began to see them as his role models, recalling, “My tutors really wanted to get to know me, always asking me how I was doing, if I had plans for the weekend, or if I was going to watch the next Celtics game. They were really enthusiastic and engaging, which made me want to learn more about St. Sebastian’s. They persuaded me to apply, and that was life-changing for me.”

Becoming an Arrow in the fall of 2018, Demosthene was the first student from SJP to attend St. Sebastian’s. His journey came full circle when he began tutoring SJP students himself. Once a week, from his sophomore through senior year, Demosthene returned to his roots and gave back to his community as a tutor. He also volunteered at the annual SJP field days hosted at St. Sebastian’s and even returned to SJP on his own accord, outside of school.

For Demosthene, his favorite parts about the tutoring program are “talking to the kids, asking them how they are doing, and cheering them up if they had a bad day.” Unlike the other Arrow volunteers, Demosthene shared common ground with the students as someone who once donned their same uniform. “For me, going back to my old school is

Demosthene engages with SJP students at the annual field days.

really nostalgic,” reflected Demosthene. “It’s a big learning experience as well because now I’ve had the opportunity to see from two different perspectives: first as a younger kid who looks up to the older kids, and now I’m the older kid, and I have all these young kids who look up to me. I see myself in them, and it’s come full circle.”

Demosthene enjoyed giving back to SJP so much that he decided to make it his Senior Service Project. From ten in the morning to three in the afternoon, Demosthene aided in a fifth-grade classroom. His duties included answering questions during class, supervising recess and lunch, and helping with anything else the teacher needed. “There are a lot of people at SJP who helped me get where I am today, so I wanted to give back, and I thought the best way to do that would be to help the next generation,” asserted Demosthene.

“The best piece of advice I can give them is to work hard, stay persistent, and be kind.”

To Demosthene, service is much more than merely a line on a resume. In his words, “service is giving back and not expecting anything in return.” Between his love for St. Sebastian’s and his gratitude to be where he is today, Demosthene realized that no one gets where they are on their own, which sparked a passion in him to help others. With the next chapter of his story being Harvard in the fall, Demosthene says that his goal is to continue to live out what he learned at St. Sebastian’s: pursuing truth through faith and reason, and loving God, working hard, and taking good care of one another.

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ABROAD

This past March Break, St. Sebastian’s students traveled to Dublin, Ireland, and Rome, Italy.

These adventures abroad gave students the opportunity to experience another culture and return to campus with a new perspective.

Rome, Italy The sixteen students who traveled to Rome explored 2,700 years of history, spanning the founding of Rome by Romulus, the legalization of Christianity under Constantine, the beautification of the city in the Renaissance, and the present administration of the universal Church under Pope Francis.

Faculty members Josef Cressotti and Sean Albertson led the group on a tour organized by Polymnia Education.

The Arrows included: seniors George Addona, Raif Boit, Jonathan Demosthene, and Danny Gillis; juniors Cooper Bolton, Travis Engel, Brian Keene, Colby Nash, Luc Olivier, Erik Saradjian, Luis Sosa Espinal, and Hugh Turner; and sophomores Sebastian Culleton, Finn Daley, Wachira Njoroge, and Ben Osunsanya.

The Arrows enjoyed a busy week, in which they viewed churches, museums, fountains, and archaeological ruins.

Among the highlights were visiting St. Peter’s Basilica, seeing the Sistine Chapel, and attending a papal audience in St. Peter’s Square. The group made a special pilgrimage to the tomb of the School’s patron, whose remains are kept in the Basilica of St. Sebastian. While walking up to 25,000 steps a day, they worked up a good appetite, enjoying Roman classics like pasta carbonara, saltimbocca and pizza and had their fill of gelato! It was a fun and intellectually stimulating trip to the Eternal City that our students will long remember.

TOP LEFT: The Spanish Steps are the first stop after the Arrows arrive in Rome. BOTTOM LEFT: The group stands outside of the iconic Colosseum.

RIGHT: Students get ready to tuck into just one of many delicious meals.

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AROUND CAMPUS

Celebrating the Distinguished Careers of Our Retiring Faculty

St. Sebastian’s pays tribute to two long-time members of our faculty for their many years of devoted service.

Thank you, Brian and Mark, for your tremendous contributions to our community!

Mark Rogers started his career at St. Sebastian’s

in 1996, initially working part-time and filling in for his wife, Sally, while she was on maternity leave. Within a few years, he was here full-time and then some, running the Drama Club on top of teaching drama and English classes.

In the mid-2000s, Rogers became Chair of the Fine Arts Department. Whether teaching or directing a play, Rogers has inspired Arrows to discover their strengths in the classroom and to dig deeper on the stage.

Brian Richter joined the faculty in the fall of 1988,

TOP: Connor Fleming ’27 with his host family in Dublin. BOTTOM: The St. Michael’s and St. Sebastian’s boys pre-game before the Six Nations Ireland vs. Scotland rugby match.

Dublin, Ireland This is the 10th year St. Sebastian’s has participated in the annual Ireland Exchange program with St. Michael’s College, an all-boys’ Catholic high school in Dublin. Nine St. Sebastian’s students took part in the exchange program, including freshmen Connor Fleming, Abner Machuca, Quincy Quillard, and Jack Usechek, and sophomores Brendan McHugh, Brendan Treseler, Colin Williams, Jared Hughes, and Andrew Donovan.

The Arrows spent the first week of March Break in Dublin, attending classes at St. Michael’s and bonding with their host brothers while exploring the city and other parts of Ireland. A highlight of the experience was attending the Six Nations Ireland vs. Scotland rugby match! Two weeks later, it was the Arrows’ turn to host the St. Michael’s students. Along with spending time on Greendale Avenue, their visit included outings to Top Golf and the Hockey East Championship at the TD Garden.

The exchange continues to be a fantastic opportunity for Arrows to create memories that will last a lifetime.

serving as a member of the English Department for 36 years. He is also the proud parent of an Arrow, Brian ’09. In his classes, including many years of 11th Grade English and AP Language & Composition, Richter preached simplifying writing by removing clutter. Known affectionately by many faculty and students as “Colonel,” Richter was also head coach of the varsity tennis team and offensive line coach for the varsity football team. Whether in the classroom or on the court or field, every day Richter exemplified the school’s values for our students.

Brian Richter and Mark Rogers are honored at the closing faculty dinner.

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Congratulations, Class of 2024!

On June 6, 2024, St. Sebastian’s School graduated 71 students at its 80TH COMMENCEMENT EXERCISES in a ceremony held in St. Bartholomew Church. The morning’s celebrations included awards, speeches, and the conferral of diplomas to the outstanding Class of 2024.

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CLASS OF 2024 MATRICULATION Nicholas A. Adams

Providence College

George E. Addona

College of the Holy Cross

John R. Harney

Gap Year

Brendan W. Arcara

University of Richmond

James R. Joyce

University of Michigan

Liam J. Barbosa

College of St. Joseph the Worker

Aiden J. Barclay

Cornell Commit, 2025

John M. Barry

Fordham University

Raif S. Boit

Harvard College

Brian D. Hall

Kellan R. Kilmartin James Y. Ko Charles J. Leverone

Fairfield University

College of the Holy Cross Boston College Gap Year

Dylan M. Lipof

Syracuse University Gap Year

Robert A. Brady III

Providence College

Owen T. Lynch

Deven S. Carkner

Dartmouth College

Ronan I. Massenburg

Fairfield University

Kamden S. Carkner

Middlebury College

Chase W. McCann

Harvard College

Neal R. Carlson

Georgetown University

Seamus M. McDonough

Boston University

Matthew P. Cataldo

Brown Commit, 2025

John J. McHugh

Gianluca Centola Lochlan C. Chisholm

University of California (Los Angeles) Boston College

Jack C. Condron

Georgetown University

Aidan B. Connors

Gap Year

Jack R. Connors

Boston College

Owen J. Connors

Clemson University

B. Patrick Cooney IV Matthew C. Dalto Stephen J. DeMatteo Jonathan J. Demosthene Adric I. Denis

Wake Forest University Providence College Villanova University Harvard College Seton Hall University

Tyler J. Derenzo

Southern Methodist University

Rui S. do Rosario

Johns Hopkins University

Henry J. duBose

University of Richmond

Luke S. Eastwood

University of Miami

Quinn B. Feyler

University of Virginia

Liam C. Field

College of the Holy Cross

Nolan M. Flynn

Sacred Heart University Commit, 2025

Jack P. Foreman

Providence College

Brendan T. Fulham

Duke University

Liam V. Gavin

Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute

Daniel E. Gillis

Boston College

Benjamin C. Goffredo Colin T. Gorman

Western Connecticut State University Gap Year

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United States Military Academy at West Point

Nicolas McLaughlin

Boston College

Matthew McLaughlin

Boston College

Christopher J. Merageas Isaac M. Mitchell Jack A. Mulka Sebu P. Najarian Max J. Proia

University of Denver Gap Year Boston College University of Notre Dame Colby College

Michael J. Quinn

University of Michigan

Perry J. Rassiger

College of the Holy Cross

Pellegrino A. Russo

Anna Maria College

Benjamin L. Scemama

Lehigh University

Brendan M. Schmidt

Vanderbilt University

Elliot C. Slayne

Bucknell University

Michael A. Spalla

Boston College

Derron J. St. Marie

Suffolk University

Benjamin R. Stavaridis

Providence College

Colin K. Sullivan

Boston College

Christopher J. Thompson

Boston College

Ye Tian Cormac A. Walsh Luke R. Ward

Middlebury College Bowdoin College College of the Holy Cross

John F. Williams

Merrimack College

Edward B. Zhang

Oxford College at Emory University

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Matriculation #’s

Colleges to which 5 or more students have matriculated over the past 5 years LEFT: Fr. Arens celebrates Baccalaureate Mass. RIGHT: John McHugh ’24 accepts a Certificate of Appointment to West Point from Army representative Dale Kurtz.

Boston College ..............................31 College of the Holy Cross .............. 27

Baccalaureate Mass & Dinner

Providence College ......................16

On June 5, 2024, the eve of St. Sebastian’s Commencement, the Class of 2024 and their parents, along with the faculty and administration, gathered in St. Bartholomew Church for the Baccalaureate Mass, followed by dinner in Ward Hall and an awards presentation recognizing the seniors’ contributions to the School.

Villanova University .....................13

Some of the awards presented include:

Colby College ................................10

ISL Award of Excellence

Northeastern University ................9

James R. Joyce

Athletic Commitment Award Chase W. McCann, Jack A. Mulka

Letterman Award Seamus M. McDonough

Marine Corps Scholastic Excellence Award

Semper Fidelis Award for Musical Excellence Henry J. duBose

Army ROTC 4-Year National Winner Full Tuition Scholarship Henry J. duBose

Appointment to the United States Military Academy at West Point

Harvard College.............................14 Georgetown University .................11 University of Notre Dame .............11

Tufts University................................7 Fordham University........................6 Middlebury College ........................6 Wake Forest University ..................6 Clemson University........................5

Deven S. Carkner, Rui S. do Rosario

John J. McHugh

Fairfield University .........................5

Marine Corps Distinguished Athlete Award

Mothers Medals

Trinity College ................................5

Neal R. Carlson, Brendan M. Schmidt

Wendy Cataldo (Christopher ’20, Michael ’22, Matthew ’24) Jennifer Gorman (Liam ’19, Brendan ’22, Colin ’24) Carla Ko (Andrew ’19, Daniel ’21, James ’24)

University of Michigan...................5 Univ. of Wisconsin (Madison) .......5

Mastering the Art of Tying a Bow Tie During Commencement rehearsal, the Class of 2024 received a lesson from Headmaster Burke on how to tie a bow tie. Continuing a tradition that began in 2006, the seniors then wore the bow ties to the Baccalaureate Mass & Dinner and their fathers were invited to wear them to the ceremony the next morning.

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Commencement Awards Pursuit of Excellence in the Discipline Awards

Greek

Presented to individuals selected by the faculty

Computer Science

English Literature Deven S. Carkner, Jonathan J. Demosthene

Latin Liam V. Gavin

History Jonathan J. Demosthene, Chase W. McCann

Religion Neal R. Carlson, John J. McHugh

English Writing Chase W. McCann, Cormac A. Walsh

Spanish Lochlan C. Chisholm, Jonathan J. Demosthene, Brendan T. Fulham, Jack A. Mulka

Photography Derron J. St. Marie

Ceramic Arts James R. Joyce, Kellan R. Kilmartin

Music Deven S. Carkner, Henry J. duBose, Benjamin C. Goffredo, Dylan M. Lipof, Perry J. Rassiger, Derron J. St. Marie

Mathematics Raif S. Boit, Rui S. do Rosario, Liam V. Gavin

Physics Raif S. Boit

Chemistry Neal R. Carlson

Biology Christopher J. Thompson

Raif S. Boit, Neal R. Carlson Rui S. do Rosario, Liam V. Gavin

Special Medals Awarded to individuals who, during their high school years, have achieved the highest grade point average in required and advanced courses in the respective disciplines

Humberto Cardinal Medeiros Memorial Medal for Modern Languages Brendan M. Schmidt

Rev. Msgr. Joseph A. Beatty Memorial Medal for English Brendan T. Fulham

Rev. Msgr. John F.X. Harney Memorial Medal for Religion Neal R. Carlson, Jonathan J. Demosthene, Rui S. do Rosario, Chase W. McCann, Brendan M. Schmidt

Rev. Msgr. Charles D. McInnis Memorial Medal for History Raif S. Boit, Jonathan J. Demosthene

Paul A. Ablondi ’57 Memorial Medal for Mathematics Raif S. Boit

John A. and Kathleen T. Nerbonne Memorial Medal for Classics Raif S. Boit

St. Sebastian Medal for Science Rui S. do Rosario

St. Sebastian Medal for Fine Arts Derron J. St. Marie

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The Headmaster’s Award Presented to the graduate who has achieved the highest cumulative grade point average Rui S. do Rosario

The St. Sebastian’s Scholar with Distinction Award Presented to the graduates who have received a yearly average of A- or higher in every course every year Raif S. Boit, Deven S. Carkner, Gianluca Centola, Rui S. do Rosario, Brendan T. Fulham, Chase W. McCann, Brendan M. Schmidt, Cormac A. Walsh

The St. Sebastian’s Scholar Award Presented to the graduates who have received a yearly average of B or higher in every course every year Brendan W. Arcara, Aiden J. Barclay, John M. Barry, Kamden S. Carkner, Neal R. Carlson, Lochlan C. Chisholm, Bernard P. Cooney, Stephen J. DeMatteo, Jonathan J. Demosthene, Henry J. duBose, Quinn B. Feyler, Liam V. Gavin, James R. Joyce, James Y. Ko, Dylan M. Lipof, Owen T. Lynch, Seamus M. McDonough, John J. McHugh, Matthew McLaughlin, Sebu P. Najarian, Max J. Proia, Perry J. Rassiger, Benjamin L. Scemama, Elliot C. Slayne, Michael A. Spalla, Derron J. St. Marie, Benjamin R. Stavaridis, Christopher J. Thompson, Ye Tian

The Sr. Evelyn C. Barrett, O.P. Scholarship Award

The Robert S. Gilligan Award Presented to a senior who best exemplifies the qualities of courage, determination, and perseverance Sebu P. Najarian

The Cardinal Cushing Memorial Medal for Student Service Presented to a senior for exemplary service to the School Jack R. Connors, Jonathan J. Demosthene

The Joseph P. MacDonald Award Presented each year by the Student Council, in conjunction with the School community, to a member of the St. Sebastian’s family for outstanding service to the School Brian L. Richter, Mark H. Rogers

The Reverend Charles K. Riepe Medallion

Presented to that senior who, in the opinion of the Faculty, most exemplifies in body, mind, and soul the spirit of St. Sebastian’s School

Presented by the Assistant Headmaster, in consultation with the administration and faculty, to the members of the graduating class who have shown true leadership in exemplifying the virtues of faith and honor for which the School stands

John J. McHugh

Daniel E. Gillis, Jack A. Mulka

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The Founder’s Medal Presented to the member of the Senior Class whose character, leadership, and fortitude most closely reflect the ideals that inspired William Cardinal O’Connell to found this School in the name of St. Sebastian James R. Joyce

The Leslie C. Quick, Jr. Medal Presented each year to a senior for exemplary initiative, creativity, and perseverance in advancing the mission of the School Benjamin C. Goffredo, Derron J. St. Marie

The Alumni Award Presented to a senior, selected by the faculty, who possesses strength of mind, body, and character; who displays outstanding attitude, effort, and achievement; has innate commitment to excellence in all endeavors; and who has made many and varied contributions to St. Sebastian’s School Raif S. Boit, Brendan T. Fulham

TOP TO BOTTOM, LEFT TO RIGHT: Kamden Carkner ’24 processes across campus during the Headmaster’s Walk; Jack Mulka ’24 and Assistant Dean of Students Dan Burke exchange a hug; Brendan Fulham ’24 is visibly excited after receiving his diploma; Headmaster Burke presents Danny Gillis ’24 with the Reverend Charles K. Riepe Medallion; Jack ’24 and Owen ’24 Connors are congratulated by faculty members as they make their way down the aisle; Derron St. Marie ’24 receives a handshake from Assistant Head of School Michael Nerbonne; Dylan Lipof ’24 accepts his diploma.

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HEADMASTER’S ADDRESS

The Lord’s Work

BY WILLIAM L. BURKE III It’s all a gift.

It’s the Lord’s work.

Every person here is a gift.

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here’s a Jesuit priest in East Los Angles named Father Gregory Boyle, who runs the biggest gang reform agency in the history of the world. In his book, Barking to the Choir, he advises that the first thing a speaker should do is introduce the people in the audience to their own goodness. And what an easy and delightful task that is for me today! We know and we love you truly good people.

Parents, grandparents, godparents, guardians, siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles—all of you have played very important roles in the accomplishments we celebrate today. Look at these handsome scholars. Aren’t they wonderful. What love you have given and received. How many times have you held your child, cuddled him, kissed him, fed him, bathed him, clothed him, nurtured him, taught him, prayed for him and paid for him. You have known from the moment of birth, and even before, when you looked upon your child, that you loved him then and you would love him forever and care way way way more about what happens to him than you could ever care about yourself.

These genetically unrepeatable gifts from God we honor today know and revel in your goodness, and not one of them has the words to express his gratitude because there are no words that could ever describe the depth and breadth of the eternal, self-sacrificing love that has gushed and rushed forth from your hearts and souls from even before birth right up to this graced moment and will surely gush and rush forever. God bless you all for the pure goodness of your unconditional love!

Gentlemen, this is your big day but it’s their big day, too.

Please rise, turn to your families, and express your gratitude. _____________________________________ In your Corporate Chapel speech, one of you paid homage to your math teacher, proclaiming: “He was so joyful about the subject that it would have been impossible not to learn.”

Contagious it truly is—this love of learning. When you’re blessed with an educator who loves you and loves her or his discipline, falling ever more deeply in love with learning yourself proves delightfully unavoidable. Ineluctable. It’s a beautiful thing!

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Each of you knows that your teachers and coaches and advisers and moderators and mentors love you, that they believe in you, that they have your backs, that they go the extra mile for you, that they give and they give and they keep on giving from their heads and from their hearts from well before dawn till well after dark, challenging you and encouraging you and inspiring you to scale ever rising peaks of excellence and become ever more fully all that God wants you to be—all that our country and our world needs you to be—in body, mind, and soul. And they support you every step of the way. Please rise, face your mentors, and express your heartfelt gratitude. _____________________________________ If a young man is loved in his home and loved in his school, he can do anything. Nothing is going to stop him. Your parents are the primary educators, and we’re blessed that they allow us to partner with them in this truly sacred mission.

There’s so much I want to say but can’t say. Gustav Flaubert expresses my frustration asserting: “Human language is a cracked kettle we beat on for bears to dance to when all the while we wish to move the stars to pity.”

And so I tell you that the powerful truth burning and churning in my heart this morning is more felt than understood and more understood than expressible in words, but words are what we’ve got, so let’s give it a shot.

I’d apologize for not telling you in advance that you graduates—and all of you in the audience—have speaking parts in today’s ceremony—yes, I’d apologize if I were sorry,

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but I’m not sorry because I’m very, very happy to get everyone engaged. You’re compelled to do so much listening on a day like today, so let’s do some speaking, too.

As many of you know, I have put together a 21-word presentation comprised of seven 3-word sentences lifted from sacred scripture.

God is love.

Love never fails.

Love one another.

I love you.

Pray without ceasing Be not afraid.

We are one.

So, we are going to do this one at a time. I’m going to say, “God is love,” and I’m going to hear it coming back at me really loud. You ready?

God is love! Etc. I hope you enjoyed the experience—but even if you didn’t—I want you to know that another very small speaking part awaits.

I speak for my beloved colleagues, when I say: congratulations, gentlemen. You know we are all so proud of, happy for, and grateful to you. And we love each of you so much more than we can say. Congratulations. You have completed your course of study at St. Sebastian’s—a school which many of you refer to as the best place on earth, and if that’s true, you gentlemen certainly help make it so, and we love you for it!

Completed. Complete. Here’s the dictionary definition of complete: “to make something whole or perfect.” Wholeness we can achieve.

Perfection is something for which we can strive and something for which we should strive.

About a decade ago, I watched our excellent lacrosse team do battle with another great team in our league. Each school boasted a 10-0 record at the time. Though we were not a better team than our opponent, we played so well that day that we were up 6-0 at half-time and won the game 8-2. The next day, when I encountered several of our players in the hallway, I called them together and said in these or similar words: “You know, C.S. Lewis and other religious writers and theologians remind us that there is no perfection this side of the grave. That’s what heaven is for, but, yesterday, Gentlemen, you approached it!”

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by Assistant Headmaster Michael P. Nerbonne

“He must increase, but I must decrease.” —John 3:30 Bill Burke and I have often discussed this verse from Holy Scripture, and we have both long considered it a favorite, not only for all that it says to us, but also for all that it demands of us.

Here John the Baptist serves at the height of his powers and his ministry, even to the point of being confused with the Messiah himself. John says these words as a reminder to all that his life and work have been focused on the Lord alone, even, remarkably, to the point of his own diminishment. In fact, John’s “decrease” only has meaning in its relationship to the other, more important half of the equation: the Lord’s increase.

I believe that these words also sum up the life and mission of Bill Burke, especially as they relate to his tenure as our beloved Headmaster for the past 34 years.

I need not mention this morning so many aspects of Bill’s remarkable success leading St. Sebastian’s for over three decades: the beautiful buildings and fields all around us, the growth of the School’s endowment providing the resources we need for financial aid and support for our outstanding faculty and academic, athletic and extracurricular programs, all focused on our School’s mission of pursuing truth through faith and reason. By any measure, all are most certainly extraordinary accomplishments, but as Bill is fond of reminding us, “Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain” (Psalm 127:1).

Bill has come to a point in his life and career where he can look back and contemplate his own time, talent, energy, and resources spent in worthy service of our Lord, building a God-centered, mission-centered School, focused on academic excellence and worthy service to others.

And as he does so, he can say with prayerful confidence, “He must increase, but I must decrease.”

Bill is also fond of quoting another John, St. John of the Cross, who wrote, “In the twilight of life, God will not judge us on our earthly possessions or human successes, but on how well we have loved.” We know that Bill Burke has certainly loved well from the evidence of his extraordinary life, and he has done so by serving our Lord and his people faithfully and generously.

Please join me in a very warm welcome of William L. Burke III in his final address as Headmaster of St. Sebastian’s School.

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It’s all a gift.

It’s the Lord’s work.

Jesus said to his disciples: “As the Father loves me, so I love you. Remain in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and remain in His love. I have told you this so that my joy might be in you and your joy may be complete” (John 15:9-11).

There it is again: complete, whole.

As you may know, I’m a big fan of Wendell Berry. In his essay titled “Health is Membership,” Berry writes: I take literally the statement in the Gospel of John that God loves the world. I believe that the world was created and approved by love, that it subsists, coheres, and endures by love, and that, insofar as it is redeemable, it can be redeemed only by love. I believe that divine love, incarnate and indwelling in the world, summons the world always toward wholeness, which ultimately is reconciliation and atonement with God. Divine love—summons the world always toward wholeness!

Now we’ve already buried the lead on this one, but it’s worth sharing. By the way, you read in scripture that Jesus says no one knows where the wind comes from or where it goes. But the spirit that runs through this place really keeps proving to us time and time again that we are all one. There is no race better or worse than another. Concepts like white supremacy are ridiculous, they don’t mean anything. We are all one here, and in the world, and we’re supposed to take care of each other.

One of you very new graduates stood before a gathering of almost 400 people at the Christmas Auction in December and told us what was repeated here today: that you had arrived at St. Sebastian’s traumatized and that you’re leaving whole. If our School can take any measure of credit for this brave Arrow’s glorious transformation, could anything we accomplish here be more consequential, be more noble, be more gratifying?

When asked what we want for our students, I answer in these words: “We want them to live long, happy, healthy, holy lives of love and service in this world and eternal joy in the next.” That’s complete, that’s whole, that’s perfect!

A community’s culture is so vitally important and so hard to define, but it occurs to me that one of the most distinctive aspects of our culture is our powerfully positive, consistent, insistent, unapologetic focus on heaven. You don’t hear a lot about heaven elsewhere in society. In this year of Love, especially, we remind one another that love is the eternal part of us. Death ends a life, not a relationship and death is not the final period on the sentence; it’s only a comma.

“We’re not in charge of the love that comes in. We’re in charge of the love we express in our relationships, the love that each of us puts out into the universe.”

Our deceased loved ones haven’t really left us; they’re just walking on ahead, and we live in hope of one day walking with them in heaven. God is love, and love is eternal. Every good business plan—and there are a lot of good business people in this Church right now—focuses on the end, the outcome, and so do we. Our job is to get to heaven and take as many people with us as possible! And I just have to add these two lines from our Massachusetts brother poet of yesteryear, Henry Wadsworth Longfellow: Life is real! Life is earnest! And the grave is not the goal; Dust thou art, to dust returneth, was not spoken of the soul.

Thirty some years ago, at the conclusion of our Commencement exercises, our then Board President, Mr. Jack Birmingham ’59, P’84, GP’14,’17, turned to me and said, “Well, you’ve had another good year.” And I responded, from my heart: “Jack, it’s all a gift.” He looked at me and said something like: “With that attitude, maybe they’ll all be good years.” How prophetic! Every one of the 34 years that Patty and I have been blessed to serve here has indeed been a good year, actually a great year. Even though failure and tragedy have visited us from time to time, we knew—and our community of St. Sebastian’s knew and certainly knows now—that we always and forever have access to the two most powerful forces in the universe: God and people of good will through whom our Lord works. And if we choose, we get to be part of that second force, and I’m looking right now out at a community of good people who have made that choice and make it anew every day, so let me remind you all, once again, of your own goodness, and thank you for it.

We all struggle, to be sure, but at St. Sebastian’s we struggle not alone. One of you gentlemen when delivering your Corporate Chapel address this year shared your favorite passage from sacred scripture: “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you fulfill the law of Christ” (Galatians 6:1-3).

That sounds an awful lot like “Love God, work hard, and take good care of one another” to me.

Grief shared is divided. Joy shared is multiplied. Father John brought us those words years ago. We cry and we laugh together in true brotherhood and true sisterhood.

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Headmaster Burke receives a rousing standing ovation following his 34th and final Commencement Address.

One of your moms wrote these beautiful words in a letter to me earlier this year: Your promise that my son will be known and loved and called to greatness by great people has held true since the first day of 7th Grade. I’m so proud of him and the young man he’s become. We are so blessed and so very thankful of our/his decision to attend this beloved School and be embraced by and immersed in this Brotherhood.

It’s all a gift from our gracious and loving God, the giver of all good gifts.

It’s the Lord’s work. It’s the Lord’s work was my friend, Ron Burton’s refrain. Ron played football for the Patriots in the 1960s, then worked in public relations for the John Hancock Company and gave up his vacation weeks to run a summer camp for kids, most of whom were financially disadvantaged. When with him at a function in Boston, I was struck by how many people approached him to thank him for helping their children, and I was stirred by how reverently he would bow and how sincerely he would say those words: It’s the Lord’s work.

So, if it’s all a gift and if it’s the Lord’s work, where do we come in? We cooperate with grace. Grace—it has been said that justice is getting what we deserve; mercy is not getting what we deserve—thank God, and grace is getting what we don’t deserve. We cooperate with the free gift of the grace of God by letting His love flow through us to our neighbors, especially the ones who need us most. It’s the Lord’s work.

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I love Shakespeare’s Hamlet. I studied the play in prep school, I studied the play in college, I studied the play in graduate school, I have read and taught the play many, many times, and I have been blessed to see several productions of the play. I love it, but I know how the play ends.

When you gentlemen engage in your academic, artistic, debate, athletic and other pursuits, you don’t know the outcome until the endeavor draws to a close, which is fine because you’re not in charge of outcome. You’re in charge of output. We all are.

Over the years, we have shared this message: “Good teams have good players. Great teams have great teammates.” And a great teammate does not have to be a great athlete. Anyone can strive to become the best teammate, and if any of you do, you will succeed. That’s output.

Here comes the other speaking part I promised. I’m going to give you two lines from a W.H. Auden poem. After I recite the first line, I want you to repeat it. And the same with the second line. But before I do, I want you to know that if you live the message of these two lines, you will enjoy the very best relationships imaginable. In fact, if everyone lives the message of these lines, I guarantee world peace. Are you ready?

If equal affection cannot be Let the more loving one be me.

We’re not in charge of the love that comes in. We’re in charge of the love we express in our relationships, the love that each of us puts out into the universe.

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Four suggestions about college and a few words about life beyond college and we’ll call it a wrap.

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Do all of your own work. Even though many around you may not. Block your ears to the spirit deadening siren song of AI. Hold sacred your integrity.

Set reasonably high goals. Go to class. Take good notes.

Make appointments to meet with each professor every semester. Develop a relationship. You have much to learn from one another. And you don’t need to plan anything. Ask the professor where he or she grew up.

Put the onus on your mentor.

Sunday to Thursday from 7:00 to 10:00 p.m. be in the library, free from the inevitable distractions in the dormitory. And I just have to give you another Longfellow gem: The love of learning, the sequestered nooks / And all the sweet serenity of books. Gentlemen, fall in love with the library.

Go to church and fall even more deeply in love with that sacred building.

We live in a divided country and in a divided world. You may find yourself on a politically slanted campus that fails to encourage or even provide for a fully free exchange of ideas.

And the concept of pursuing truth through faith and reason may not be viewed as a possibility let alone a virtue. Keep the faith. Speak from your hearts, and embrace this 800-year-old message of St. Thomas Aquinas: “We must love them both.

Those whose opinions we share and those whose opinions we reject, for both have labored in the search for truth and both have helped us in finding it.”

As far as life after college goes, resolve to be the kindest person to your co-workers and others. Anyone can become the nicest guy in the place. It’s a matter of choice. Output. And just wait to see what happens when you commit to being that guy!

“Embrace the struggles and stand firm in the face of temptation. It will be your positive responses to the bumps and the setbacks that will build your character.”

There are bound to be bumps in the road and setbacks along the way through college and beyond, but it’s all going to come out right—if you hold sacred your relationship with God and with everyone else. Embrace the struggles and stand firm in the face of temptation. It will be your positive responses to the bumps and the setbacks that will build your character.

It will be your refusal to lie and cheat and steal that will help you find your way to a happy, productive life in this world and eternal joy in the next.

Again, I congratulate you on your accomplishments to date, and I want you to know that it has been a great honor and a true joy to serve as your Headmaster. There is no place I’d rather be and no young men with whom I’d rather be working.

So good-bye now our wise, just, balanced and brave warriors.

Return to us often in sadness or in joy and the School will be right here waiting for you with hearts and arms wide open. Know that we love you and that we will forever, saecula saeculorum.

“In the twilight of our lives, all that will matter is how we have loved (St. John of the Cross).”

It’s all a gift.

It’s the Lord’s work.

And the best is yet to come.

Go now in peace.

Shalom!

LEFT: Bill Burke accepts an honorary St. Sebastian’s diploma at his final Commencement as Headmaster. RIGHT: Seniors pray with Headmaster Burke before lining up for the Headmaster’s Walk.

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BOARD PRESIDENT’S ADDRESS

Right by Your Side

BY JAMES L. ELCOCK ’77, P’08

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hat have you done with your name? What have you done with your time? These two questions were asked of me at my graduation and I now ask these of you.

Good morning to the great Class of 2024. On behalf of my fellow trustees, we congratulate you on this most welcome and richly deserved accomplishment. I know you’ve heard this many times, but it’s hard to believe that your graduation is finally here and that your years of being a student at St. Sebastian’s are coming to a close—Yes, your time has flown by.

A day like this is not only exciting, but it’s necessary.

Your friends, your family, your teachers, and your coaches all needed to see that the support, mentoring and cheering that they have constantly been giving you while getting to the finish line has paid off, and that you have won the race!!

Today validates all the hard work and extraordinary hours that you have dedicated to make this day a reality—a true team effort as well as many tremendous individual accomplishments by so many.

If this were the Oscars, I can say unequivocally that your parents and teachers would’ve been nominated as best nonsupporting actor in a supporting role and would’ve won that nomination easily.

Headmaster Burke spoke so eloquently at the AlumniSenior Breakfast, about slowing down and remembering the moment. Gentlemen, this is your moment—the weather, our indoor graduation—the last-minute instructions for that final class picture before you all processed to these exercises, remembering your class valedictorian and salutatorian, and Mr. Burke’s Commencement address. These are just a few things that will help define the moment. Undoubtedly, today will be filled with many more “moments” that will be yours to remember fondly and share with graduating classes years from now when you find yourself chairing the Board of Trustees.

As Board President, I can promise that St. Sebastian’s will always be here for you. The alumni family has never been stronger nor more engaged. We welcome the addition of 71 strong. u We know that you come from 32 different cities and towns

u Four of you have fathers who are alumni who will be

handing you your diplomas shortly.

u My dear friend, and grandfather, Peter McLaughlin, from

the Class of 1955, will give his twin grandsons their diploma as well.

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u 32 of you have a total of 45 brothers that have graduated

before you.

u 24 of you are the oldest Arrow among your siblings, with 24

younger brothers soon to follow.

u 14 members of the senior class were inducted into St.

Sebastian’s prestigious Cum Laude Society and seven members were recognized by the National Merit Scholarship Program, including one finalist.

From sports championships to robotic tournaments and debate competitions and hours of community service, the list could go on and on.

Your class has left an indelible mark on this school. As you venture off to your next phase, please remember the brotherhood. The brotherhood of the Class of 2024 or just the brotherhood of St. Sebastian’s doesn’t end today—as a matter of fact, I can tell you from this day forward the brotherhood only gets stronger. Once in, never out.

What you may or may not realize is that you’re sitting among your closest friends for life. That science lab partner, or that lacrosse lineman, or that fellow classmate who took multivariable calculus, will never give up on you. The same classmate may one day be your best man, your doctor, your financial advisor, your children’s teacher, or even perhaps a future brother-in-law.

St. Sebastian’s has prepared you better than you could ever expect. This reality will quickly become apparent from every day forward. However, if there is ever a moment of “uncertainty” or “self-doubt” where you just need that reset or an enlightened perspective, reach out to your fellow classmates, call or email or send a text to your teachers or advisor—have that conversation. There is nothing more flattering than to hear from someone you love and admire.

The essence of life is in relationships, and these relationships

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do not end with this graduation. It is your responsibility and our expectations that you will always be engaged with your school and your fellow classmates from the graduating Class of 2024.

Go forth and share that St. Sebastian’s spirit with all your new friends you are soon to make and let them understand the order of the day and why being an Arrow is different.

As I look to conclude my remarks, and as most of you may know, I try to end it with some sort of quote or lyric from a country singer/songwriter. You also may know that my son Jimmy, Class of 2008, is a musician, in large parts thanks due to Mr. Meyer Chambers and Mr. Karl Grohmann, who supported his music interests since he was a seventh grader.

Jimmy is now touring and they’re opening for Luke Combs who is on a six-month stadium tour, so I’ve been listening to a lot of Luke Combs and Mitchell Tenpenny. Thus, I find myself thinking about today’s Commencement and Mr. Burke, so I want to leave you with some lyrics from a really wonderful song by Luke Combs, “Even Though I’m Leaving.”

To the great Class of 2024, give some thought to the two questions that were asked of me at graduation, and perhaps every year around this time, ask yourself: What I have done with my name? What I have done with my time?

Just ‘cause I’m leaving, it don’t mean that I won’t be right by your side when you need me.

When you can’t see me in the middle of the night, just close your eyes and say a prayer.

It’s okay, I know you’re scared when I’m not here but I’ll always be right there.

Even though I’m leaving, I’m not going nowhere.

TOP: In a time honored tradition, Max McLaughlin ’24 receives his diploma from his grandfather and former Trustee, Peter McLaughlin ’55, GP‘13,’19,’24,’24.

BOTTOM: Headmaster Burke and Board President Jim Elcock ’77,P’08 join the Class of 2024 legacy graduates: Jack and Joe Harney ’92, Luke and Stephen Ward ’96, Max and Todd Proia ’91, and Jack and Casey Condron ’94.

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VALEDICTORY ADDRESS

Ubuntu

BY RUI DO ROSARIO ’24

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oy oh boy, where do I even begin? Mr. Burke, Mr. Nerbonne, Mr. Sullivan, Mr. Elcock, Father Arens, Father Parrish, members of the faculty, members of the Board of Trustees, invited families and guests, my countrymen of the Class of 2024, how are we doing? I’m deeply honored to speak up here on behalf of my classmates.

Together we’ve slogged through every type of derivative, written dissertations on the Cold War, and done what I thought was the unthinkable: workout through Coach Carr’s hippie music. When his tunes, older than I am, are blasted through my ears, I can barely bench the bar. Then again, I can barely bench the bar to begin with.

Before I speak of my days of cold feet at Henry T. Lane Rink, long nights in the library, and mentoring my little brother, Brendan Arcara, I’d like to point out the misfit I find myself as I stand here. I’m part of a generation whose favorite word is “rizz,” the average time students here go to bed is 1:32 AM, and today I woke-up beside my collection of Lightning McQueen, Buzz Lightyear, and Thomas the Tank Engine.

And yet, I’m tasked with speaking the words of wisdom I’ve gathered in my eventful 18 years on this planet. And on top of this laundry load, to do so before hearing from the GOAT of this: Headmaster William L. Burke III. I feel like a little boy hanging up his crayon doodle next to the Mona Lisa.

In five years, when my classmates showcase their national championship rings and embellish the difficulty of classes taught by Nobel laureates, I will be quick to remind them that they have never played the warm-up act to Mark Twain.

Nonetheless, hello. My name is Rui. I’m an 18-year-old Arrow from Holliston, MA. My goal here today is simple: to tell you about my favorite word, “ubuntu,” and I’ll do so by doing what every high schooler also does: stretching a five word message into a 500 word filibuster. If you ever need to write an essay on Tolstoy’s word choice of “nearly” on page 467 of Anna Karenina, come find me.

2008. A terrible year for reasons I won’t disclose. I will add, though, that my sister was born in the same year. In 2008, Doc Rivers, coach of the Celtics, subdued the egos and harnessed the talents of his new “Big Three” —Ray Allen, Kevin Garnett, and Paul Pierce—with the idea of “Ubuntu.” It means, in the Zulu language, “I am because we are” and it’s a philosophy I strive to live by every day. It could be described as a synonym for humility, synergy, and perhaps the only word every Arrow can think of at an admissions event: brotherhood.

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Over the past five years, I’ve been part of a hive of young men, buzzing like bees, droning toward team goals through individual improvement. I’ve dodged the supersonic bullets of Chris Merageas during his late afternoon shooting sessions and witnessed Deven Carkner’s blossoming passion as Sebs’ unofficial poet laureate whenever he takes the stage sharing his original works. This school is because we all are. We’re toiling for hours on Webassign, driving hundreds of miles to cheer on the hockey team, forging relationships that last beyond our lives with underclassmen. Everything we do here is to make that stained glass window in front of the Academic Building shine a bit brighter, that net in the basketball gym swish slightly louder, and, if you’re Henry duBose, that tenth Chipotle bowl of the month a bit tastier.

Mr. Palmaccio’s favorite artist, Aubrey Drake Graham, once wrote, “OT, OT, there’s never much love when we go OT.” Drake must have known something about this class because for the love of God there is not a single time that we have not found ourselves on the shorter end of a golden goal in overtime. Four times in lax, five times in hockey, and perhaps the worst one, the end of Ultimate’s undefeated season against Williston—sorry if I got a little emotional there. That was a tough one. One of these tragedies, it happened on that field outside actually, was against Govs in the ISL playoffs two years ago. The lax team had made this incredible fight back into the game. Sticks were flying, tensions were rising, and Kernkraft was roaring. Then, in a snap, it was all over. ISL hopes disintegrated, senior seasons perished, and Henry’s Corner—dead silent. However, not a single fan left the field for another 20 minutes. Instead, St. Sebastian’s showed the world that “ubuntu” is stronger than the most heart-breaking of losses. We gave a round of applause that lasted ages for the team that poured their heart and soul serving the crest to the left of me. We may have lost

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the playoffs that day, but how incredible is it that a bunch of teenage boys had the maturity, the respect, and the awareness to embrace that humility, to take in defeat, look it straight in the eye, and not falter?

Isn’t this how St. Sebastian’s was started though? I’m not talking about 1941 when this amazing institution of learning was founded. I’m talking about the OG St. Sebastian, who was tied to the stake for execution for his Christian faith. As I hope we all know, St. Sebastian never faltered as he was shot with four arrows and the legend of his persistence and tenacity lived on—just ask Mr. Ryan; he was there. He told me he was calculating the “net flux” of the arrows through Sebastian’s body (what a nerd). And do not sleep on St. Irene either.

Despite the risk of persecution from the most formidable empire known to man, St. Irene devoted herself to the faith and her care to a dying man. Ubuntu bonds St. Sebastian to St. Irene as one singular force of the Christian faith. Likewise, nobody here has ever or will ever walk alone through the hardships we face. They (the world, the opps as we might call them) can throw whatever they want at us—if your name is Seamus McDonough you’ll probably fail to catch it—but for the rest of us, we’ll remain unfazed as you try to attack, annihilate, and destroy all 71 of us.

This fabric of camaraderie isn’t just woven into athletics.

We seniors are bold, daring, and overly ambitious young men who think they can conquer the world. As a new Arrow in 8th grade, I came to Sebs carrying extremely one-dimensional and self-centered goals. I thought I was Hollywood, writing in my application, “I get frustrated when I hustle to do my job and then my peers don’t do theirs and we all fail.” Yet I had the audacity to write in the next essay, “my strength is leadership.” Is good leadership blaming others while not looking in the mirror? To some degree, every student in the world places their character on a pedestal, but the harsh truth is that the juvenile mind hasn’t matured an ounce to understand how we’re only as strong as our weakest link.

Such was the case for me and many of the seniors here today.

However, I was dragged out of this hubristic cave by the faculty who foster a learning and living community with one mission: shaping the hearts of young men to align with the ambition their minds run on. Whether it’s Mr. Cressotti fanning out his love of literature during his recitations of his own high school poetry, Ms. Wiggin surprising the Ultimate team with donuts despite not even coaching us, or even Mr. Nerbonne introducing himself as the world’s highest-paid and most over-educated babysitter, the adults at 1191 recognize that their goals are the school’s goals. They see that they are part of something bigger than themselves, part of a victory in the distant future. To all my teachers, coaches, to the kitchen staff, the groundskeepers, and all the adults keeping this place buzzing, I find myself in an eternal debt of gratitude for the mundane yet valuable life habits and lessons you’ve taught

me and my classmates. To Mom and Dad, I must be the luckiest child in the world to have parents who are the embodiment of love and care. I owe all my success to you guys and I’m so glad I’m your favorite. To the three siblings hissing at that joke, please know it was only a joke. And to those three siblings, Anna, Lara, and Duckie, you guys are my best friends. Our memories of drowning each other at the lake and my domination on the mini golf green will be cherished forever. I can’t wait to be in your seats and see you three take on the world.

Finally, to the Arrows I’m proud to say I’m graduating with, we must carry forth these same ideals. Others will no doubt engineer robots that fly faster, prevail in debates with better arguments, and lay harder hits into the boards of the rink. Your mission, Arrows, is to love your neighbor unconditionally, to trust your brother radically, and to sacrifice yourself for dreams unimaginable to you alone, but within reach for everyone. Your job is to be “ubuntu.”

Thank you and God bless.

“Your mission, Arrows, is to love your neighbor unconditionally, to trust your brother radically, and to sacrifice yourself for dreams unimaginable to you alone, but within reach for everyone.”

Class of 2024 graduates Jack McHugh, James Joyce, Liam Field and Cormac Walsh celebrate following the Commencement ceremony.

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SALUTATORY ADDRESS

Whatever You Need

BY RAIF BOIT ’24

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ood morning. My name is Raif, and I guess I’m batting leadoff today. Mr. Burke, Mr. Nerbonne, Mr. Sullivan, Mr. Elcock, Father Arens, Father Parrish, members of the Board of Trustees, members of the faculty, invited guests, families, fellow Arrows. Here we are on our last day at St. Sebastian’s, and I can’t believe it. I don’t know what to say. Those words kept going through my mind as I wrote this speech. I don’t know what to say. Frankly, there is so much that I want to say, that I don’t know how to say it all. I want to express my love for this place and give tribute to it. I want to praise its high values and the stellar education it has given us. I want to give thanks for the tireless efforts of our teachers and the even more tireless efforts of our parents. But most of all, I want to give thanks to you, my fellow classmates, for making these years so special.

And what’s made these years so special are people like Jack McHugh and Jack Connors. I mention the two of them because we don’t have many scheduled interactions.

The three of us don’t play sports together, nor do we have classes together. Yet, every so often whether at lunch or in the hallway, one of them stops me and says, “How are you doing?” And it’s not the cursory, “Hey, how you doing” “good, good, good.” It’s genuine interest; they take the time to actually engage me in conversation, really diving into how I’ve been, and even tolerating my ramblings. They don’t have any obligation to do this, but they do, because they care.

And that’s what makes this place so special; whether it is administrators like Mr. Nerbonne, coaches like Mrs. Annan and Ms. Uhlman, teachers like Mr. Willey, or other students, people genuinely care. I just want to take a second and say thank you for this. Thank you so much for caring. Thank you for taking a shy, insecure, 7th grade boy and accepting him.

You see, when I came to Sebs, I really did need that acceptance; I’d been bullied at my old school, seriously enough that my mom considered taking me out of school.

Since I’d been accepted to Sebs, she called Mr. Burke, and he said three words: “Whatever you need.” Three simple words that have so much impact and define this school. It is a culture of caring and a culture of love. It is a culture that brings people together. Personally, I never dreamed that I’d be at school till 10 p.m. for weeks happily working with Liam Gavin on our robot. I never dreamed I’d excitedly wake up at 6 a.m. to play frisbee all day with Seamus, Ben, Deven, and Rui. I never dreamed I’d enjoy spending my Sundays at

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debates with Gianluca, Jonathan, and George. Yet, I have and I do because the community at Sebs and the people here make me enjoy it. They took a young boy, traumatized by bullying, and made him whole because St. Sebastian’s is a place of love.

Now, a loving environment is great but what truly sets Sebs apart is how your community is not just the hockey team or the lacrosse team or whatever team. It’s the entire school. Yes, you may be closer to your teammates than other kids and understandably so, but Sebs is one school. It’s a hard concept to grasp so when I came to Sebs I was just thanking the Lord that it wasn’t Belmont Hill… Seriously though, I was a nerd going to a school of top-notch athletes, and I was worried about making friends. But at Sebs the line between the labels of athletes and nerds doesn’t stop us from being one community. Take Brendan Fulham for example. Until this year, we never interacted much. I knew he was a pretty nice guy who was good at lacrosse and that’s it. Then, this year we had AP Literature together. Fulham’s not the most talkative guy in the class, and I never thought of him as an academic weapon like Rui—actually I mean Chase, don’t know why I said Rui—but regardless when Fulham talks I listen because every comment he makes is literally genius, to the point where I actually say “Wow” at his points because they blow my mind, like every time. In fact, Fulham genuinely made me look at people differently. Previously, because I knew Fulham was a really good lacrosse player, I just hadn’t considered that he could be intellectual and that we could be friends, and I was wrong.

My experience with Fulham opened my mind. Just like Fulham could be an athlete and an academic and my friend, Sebs is more than just a school that’s good at athletics.

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In fact, as we all know, Sebs is even more than just a school.

Look at our school mission: it reads: “The ideal St. Sebastian’s graduate will be a moral and just person, a gentleman of courage, honor, and wisdom, a life-long learner who continues to grow in his capacity to know, to love, and to serve God and neighbor.” It’s striking how out of nine descriptors only three mention something related to knowledge. Odd for a school.

In comparison, the very first part of the description is that a graduate of St. Sebastian’s will be a moral and just person.

Now, many schools advertise things like this; I know I’ve given the pitch many times at Open House while thinking about how I’m stretching the truth. But it really isn’t that stretched. Yes, we are still high school boys and do high school boy things, but I think about how we’ve grown here and beyond those dweeby photos of us all in seventh grade—not going to name names but there are some funny ones—I think about how we’ve changed and grown as people, how we truly have become brothers.

It’s a transformation that defies belief. I remember when I was younger I kept hearing three types of Senior Chapel Speeches: speeches about moms, speeches about the brotherhood, and original speeches. Now, it’s somewhat contradictory that the first two are cliches as they are perhaps the most heartfelt, but when I was younger, I felt like I heard them every week and they were insincere cop-outs. Fast forward to this fall, after I gave my own Senior Chapel Speech, I genuinely wanted to give another speech, thanking Sebs more and expressing how truly fortunate I am to stand here among you. I guess I got my chance, so here it is: THANK YOU. Now, we are at Commencement, congratulations. It is a serious accomplishment. Never again will any of us have to sweat through Mr. J. Cressotti’s philosophy class, Mr. Lynch’s hours of reading, or Mr. Ryan’s tendency towards “easy” physics courses. Seriously though, congratulations.

Thank the people who have made this journey possible—your parents—Mom, Dad thank you—I love you so much; Your love and dedication do not go unnoticed and while I know I don’t show my appreciation enough, I am grateful. Thank your siblings—Darley, thank you—Let’s settle that debate, I love you more. And finally, thank your friends.

“Carry the spirit of this great school off into the world...Carry the spirit that causes us to have more fans at away games than the home team.

And I say this because this spirit has meant the world to me.”

So many people have gotten us to this point so make sure to thank them. Because of them, we’ve reached this place, about to go off into the world, to college, then to work, and to life. Our paths will sadly never again be as close as they are now, with only reunions, meetups, and individual hangouts to bring us back together. I will miss all of you, truly. But I beg you all, take Sebs with you. Carry the spirit of this great school off into the world. Carry the spirit that makes students get to school at 1:45 a.m. when Mr. Palmaccio is already here. Carry the spirit that causes dozens of students to still be at school at 10 p.m. Carry the spirit that causes us to have more fans at away games than the home team. And I say this because this spirit has meant the world to me. As an introvert, I never was and probably never will be the guy who goes to the most games, has the most friends, or spends the most time hanging out. However, your companionship has meant the world to me, and while I am thrilled to be graduating, I am also saddened to leave this great community. So in truth, I do know what to say. To the Class of 2024, my friends: Congratulations, Thank You, and God Bless.

Salutatorian Raif Boit ’24 and John Barry ’24 exchange smiles during the Commencement ceremony.

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Tradition &

TRAJECTORY On July 1, 2024, Brendan W. Sullivan P’25,’29 began his tenure as St. Sebastian’s tenth Head of School.

A faithful and talented leader with an exceptional passion for St. Sebastian’s and its mission, Brendan has called this campus his second home for 30 years. As the former Dean of Students, he knows and loves our school, and he is ready to guide a new generation of Arrows—a powerful combination of tradition and trajectory as we usher in a new era.

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There is no place like St. Sebastian’s.

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his sentiment genuinely reflects how Brendan feels about the School as he takes the helm. Indeed, as an independent school with a Catholic mission, St. Sebastian’s is different from the other 15 schools in its league and beyond. After a sixmonth national search that drew a pool of impressive candidates, Brendan rose to the top as someone who was not only ready to take us to the next level but had a deep understanding of our traditions and values. Last July, the Board of Trustees unanimously voted to select Brendan as Bill Burke’s successor upon his retirement in June 2024, following a remarkable 34 years as St. Sebastian’s headmaster. “With Brendan, there was no learning curve,” shared Board President Jim Elcock ’77, P’08. “We found someone with a proven track record who knew the inner workings of our school, the students, the faculty, the parents, the culture, our strengths, and our challenges.”

Joining the faculty in 1994, Brendan has served St. Sebastian’s as a beloved and well-respected science teacher, coach, Athletic Director and Dean of Students. He has touched 29 graduating classes, becoming a legend in his own right. “It is difficult for me to go out in the greater Boston area without running

Brendan leads science class as students work on a project in the Innovation Lab.

into a member of the St. Sebastian’s family,” noted Brendan. “I meet Arrows everywhere I go, and my excitement grows with every chance meeting and every conversation about the future of the school. I know as I take office, I am taking with me every student and every family that I have worked with over the past 30 years.”

Members of our community, from alumni to parents, are equally thrilled that one of our own was given the opportunity to head the school.

“It has been said that we’re successful when the people who know us best love us most,” observed Burke. “Judging from their ecstatic responses to the news of his selection, our alumni of the past three decades certainly know and love Brendan Sullivan, as do today’s students and the adults in our community. Under his leadership,

“Every boy, no matter his background or abilities, has truly been Brendan’s concern each and every day of his career.”

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the best is yet to come.” Elcock noted, “Even older alumni who might not know Brendan as well have seen and heard what’s happening on campus and understand that it’s a team effort and he’s been a big part of our success.”

The product of an all-boys Catholic education, Brendan’s focus on his faith has been paramount in making him the man he is today. His parents believed in an education that would push their children academically and athletically, but also had a faith component. When Brendan was 12 years old, his father passed away, and his mother Martha’s faith and resolution gave her the strength to raise six children and ensure they had the opportunities for the best education possible and the values to give back to their communities. The opportunity to attend BC High a few years later and benefit from this school setting proved to be very important for him.

“I came into that community at a time when I really needed that extra support and love. Being at BC High helped me develop my faith life and find my way.”

Brendan went on to attend Princeton University, where he played football and majored in the history of science, fueling his interest in becoming a doctor.

Following graduation, he spent a year teaching in Ireland. When he accepted a teaching position at St. Sebastian’s upon his return, it was with the intention of staying for one year as he prepared to apply for medical school. That first year was full of new challenges as he taught five science classes and coached all three seasons. With invaluable guidance from his colleagues in the Science Department and young faculty members who were also graduates of the school, he learned the ropes in the classroom and on the fields.

In the end, Brendan never applied to medical school, realizing he had found his true calling at St. Sebastian’s.

“I had some guidance from people who knew me, including some family members from the medical community. They saw how much I thrived in this environment and the way I was connecting with young people,” shared Brendan. “Some of my colleagues made me see education as a profession that I would be very happy to have as my life’s work and understood that it was going to be something that fit me really well.” And so, he went full steam ahead, devoting his career to education.

In 2006, a new opportunity presented itself when Morris Kittler retired, and Brendan transitioned to the role of Dean of Students. While juggling his many responsibilities, he deepened his commitment to education by earning a Master of Arts in Liberal Studies from Wesleyan University. Over his 18 years as Dean of Students, Brendan has shown a tremendous ability to administer and lead, including under the most trying circumstances. When COVID-19 kept other schools learning remotely, Brendan led the charge in figuring out how to make a full schedule of inperson learning work while keeping our students and faculty safe. That amazing feat required collaboration across all

constituencies, creativity, and careful planning, reflecting his many virtues.

Understanding the power of what a school can do for a young person based on his own experiences, Brendan has served our students as a dedicated mentor and caring confidant. “Every boy, no matter his background or abilities, has truly been Brendan’s concern each and every day of his career,” shared Assistant Head of School Michael Nerbonne. “I have witnessed this care and concern in literally thousands of ways over thousands of days, in situations too

many to name.” While there have been countless moments of joy, Brendan has also been a rock for students dealing with a personal loss or other struggles. “Some of my greatest achievements come from graduates who didn’t always have the smoothest path when they were here, spending a considerable amount of time in my office—and then they come back 10 to 15 years later doing really well and say thank you,” reflected Brendan. He has also acted as an incredible resource for parents, building a sense of partnership with them.

TOP TO BOTTOM, LEFT TO RIGHT: A graduate of the Class of 2023 receives a hug from Brendan at Commencement. n Brendan stands proudly with his son, Joseph ’25, at the Undergraduate Awards Ceremony. n During Corporate Chapel, Brendan addresses the student body. n Brendan engages with the father of a new Arrow at the New Parent Dinner.

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“What’s held me here is the people that I have met along the way. I want to honor all those relationships and successes of my predecessors as I take the School into a bright, beautiful future.”

—Brendan Sullivan, Head of School

As current parents of two Arrows, Brendan and his wife, Rebecca, have had a front row seat to how students experience the School. In addition to their sons, Joseph ’25 and Patrick ’29, they have a daughter, Eliza, who will be a senior at the College of the Holy Cross. “The type of education that was important to my parents is important to me and I’m so glad that I can give that to my sons,” noted Brendan. “What gets me most excited about having Joseph and Patrick here is the incredible faculty.

They have mentors who care so much for them, who push them, and they want to get better every day.” Rebecca agreed, “I am floored by the talent, energy and leadership demonstrated by the school’s faculty, from those who were Brendan’s peers in his 20s and still love teaching today, to the newer teachers who are equally dedicated to their vocation.”

As Brendan settles into his new role, he feels blessed to inherit such a formidable team. “I’m surrounded by people who inspire me—my fellow teachers, coaches and colleagues on the administration and staff. They fuel my excitement for what lies ahead.”

Rebecca, who has excelled in her own career as a public relations professional, shares his enthusiasm. “I’ve worked in the corporate world for the same time Brendan has worked in education and it’s rare to see an exciting opportunity to lead and shape the future of an organization after 30 years at the same company! Brendan has opened the 38 | ST. SEBASTIAN’S MAGAZINE

door to an invigorating new journey at a place he knows and loves and I’m excited to see him make his mark.”

Although Brendan officially took over on July 1, he began to plan and strategize immediately after the announcement about his appointment as Head of School was made last summer. “I believe day one was July 14, 2023, when I received that phone call, and ever since, I’ve been trying to talk to as many people as possible about how to take this school into its next chapter.”

In a way, day one was in September 1994 when Brendan first walked onto campus and started meeting people and getting to know the school. “What’s held me here is those people that I have met along the way. I want to honor all those relationships and successes of my predecessors as I take the school into a bright, beautiful future.”

In the early weeks of Brendan’s tenure, some exciting developments have already taken place. With a solid understanding of St. Sebastian’s needs, as well as the unprecedented challenges all schools face, he established the Director of Operations role and made some other astute adjustments to the school architecture. The Archdiocese of Boston’s decision to close St. Bartholomew and merge with St. Joseph Parish presents the School with the chance to make a key investment.

“Developing the East Campus is going to be a focal point of the next chapter of St. Sebastian’s,” shared Brendan.

“Thanks to the dedicated work of our

trustees, who have always kept an eye on our ever-growing needs, we have incredible opportunities in front of us to further enhance our campus.”

As Brendan works with the administration and the Board to advance our strategic priorities, he is committed to staying true to who we are as a School, our mission, and our values. “We will hold fast to the traditions that strengthen our community, while continuing a trajectory that provides the best experience and opportunities for our students,” stated Brendan. The road map to accomplishing these goals is laid out in the second sentence of our mission statement: By embracing Gospel values in an inclusive, nurturing community and by inspiring intellectual excellence in a structured liberal arts curriculum, St. Sebastian’s strives to empower students for success in college and in life. Committed to expanding upon this legacy, especially in a time of great social change and increasing divisiveness, Brendan elaborated, “I believe the best way to prepare our students to live in and be productive members of communities is to give them the skills that will allow them to be critical thinkers, excellent communicators, and collaborators who can reach out to and work with those who may have different opinions.”

One constant throughout St. Sebastian’s existence has been the strong—and lasting—sense of community. It’s what builds great Arrows and it’s what makes Brendan most excited about taking on this new role. “Our alumni, parents and students believe in St. Sebastian’s—and there is nothing more exciting than that.

Making sure that we can continue to foster that community, that loves to work together, that loves to bring our students to a better place, will continue to be the number one priority.”

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Cardinal O’Malley Blesses Outdoor Worship Sites Cardinal Sean O’Malley paid a special visit to campus on April 29 to bless St. Sebastian’s outdoor worship sites— the Oratory and the Stations of The Cross Pathway.

The entire school community gathered for the ceremony led by Headmaster Bill Burke and Cardinal O’Malley.

Headmaster Burke delivered remarks, emphasizing that these holy sites are open to all, 24/7, for prayer, meditation, or worship. Cardinal O’Malley then addressed the students and faculty before officially blessing the Oratory and the Stations of The Cross Pathway. In his reflections, he shared, “Certainly, this lovely grotto to Our Lady and the Stations of The Cross are very tangible signs of God’s presence in our lives and of the call to the life of discipleship which always begins with a life of faith and prayer.”

These two sacred spaces, designed by our architect, Rob Olson P’15,’18, in concert with Fr. John Arens, are beautiful additions to our community of spiritual depth.

The Oratory, featuring a gorgeous statue of our Holy Mary holding the Christ child and a beautiful wall, was made possible by funds raised from the 2021 Christmas Auction. The Stations of The Cross Pathway, located along the stairwell leading to the Charles River, was funded by parents of the Class of 2023 through their Senior Class Gift. The marble statue of Mary was sculpted by artist Steve Shaheen, who also designed the images depicted in bronze on the Stations of The Cross.

It was an honor to have Cardinal O’Malley join us for this joyful celebration.

Cardinal O'Malley blesses the Stations of The Cross Pathway.

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TOP: Dan Burke, Jim Elcock, Michael Nerbonne, Brendan Sullivan, Cardinal O’Malley, Patty Burke, Bill Burke, Peggy McDonough, Fr. Arens, Fr. Parrish, John Straub, Rob Olson, Fr. Kickham, and Rich Arms; BOTTOM LEFT: Headmaster Burke welcomes Cardinal O’Malley to campus; BOTTOM RIGHT: Cardinal O’Malley addresses the assembled students and faculty.

A Heartfelt

THANK YOU

We are forever grateful to James L. Elcock ’77, P’08, our outgoing—and outstanding—Board President, for his dedicated service, steadfast leadership, and countless contributions to St. Sebastian’s School.

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or the past 13 years, Jim has been instrumental in stewarding St. Sebastian’s through an exciting period of growth. A loyal alumnus and proud former parent, he was elected the seventh President of the Board of Trustees in 2011, succeeding David Gately ’73. As the School’s second longest-serving Board President after Jack Birmingham ’59, and a trustee for 25 years, Jim never slowed down in moving St. Sebastian’s toward a better position than when he assumed the presidency.

“There’s no status quo,” was always his motto. “You’re either getting better or you’re getting worse, and we’re always going to be striving to get better.”

An impressive list of accomplishments took place during Jim’s tenure. He and Headmaster Bill Burke made an excellent team, working together and with the other trustees to achieve the school’s strategic priorities. From 2016 to 2021, Jim led St. Sebastian’s through the Spirit & People Campaign, which exceeded its $55 million goal and resulted in the beautiful Burke Family Center. The second, vitally important component of the Campaign added $22.5 million to the endowment, an accomplishment which made Jim especially proud: “I was delighted that we were able to grow the endowment significantly because that in itself is going to give our school such a runway.” Jim also served as co-chair of the Search Committee to identify Brendan Sullivan as the next Head of School and following the Archdiocese’s decision to close St. Bartholomew Church, led discussions for the School to acquire the Church property—two initiatives that will play a pivotal role in the future of St. Sebastian’s.

Jim handled every task and challenge with aplomb, from raising Campaign funds, to acquiring real estate, or shepherding the School through a pandemic—all while keeping an unwavering commitment to the mission. “Jim always impressed

me with his intellect, natural leadership skills and love of our School,” shared Devin Condron ’96, P’29,’29, who has sat on the Board since 2005 and will serve as its next President.

“A consensus builder who led by example, he always solicited feedback from Trustees before making a decision.” When making remarks at alumni and trustee events, the pride Jim has for St. Sebastian’s is palpable, whether he’s talking about the Innovation Lab, the curated curriculum, wellness initiatives, or the quality delivered by administrative departments. “Jim has been a number one cheerleader for the school, even before joining the Board, always interested and supportive throughout his years since graduating,” shared Director of Advancement Rich Arms.

What Jim most enjoyed about being the Board President was really getting to know the students, their families, and the faculty. “Spending time with these three constituencies made all of the work at the committee and board meetings really worthwhile because I knew how we could positively impact that young student, the faculty, or the family that was looking at St. Sebastian’s,” noted Jim. “Not everybody gets to have that type of engagement.” Jim will miss not seeing the boys, faculty members, and fellow trustees on a regular basis, but will no doubt remain a loyal alumnus and leaves the School on a strong footing. “I’m thrilled with Devin being named the Board President and am really excited about the trustees that are in place and their enthusiasm, vision, and strategy.”

Although Jim’s time on the Board has come to an end, his influence will be felt for years to come. As Devin praised, “Jim is one of the most consequential trustees of our generation, serving 25 years. How fortunate our community has been to have had him at the helm!”

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EVENT HIGHLIGHTS

LEFT: Class of 2023 parents Rachel Hansen, Meg Grande, Susan Porter, Sarah Garrity, and Kathryn DeAnzeris, reunite during the reception. RIGHT: Paul Tryder P’23, John Merageas P’21,’24, Patrick McKeigue P’17,’22,’25 and Mark Hoffman P’23 enjoy being back on campus with fellow Arrows alumni parents.

Inaugural Quinquennial Reception On the evening of January 25, nearly 100 parents of alumni gathered in Martin Hall to launch the Quinquennial Society, recognizing parents whose sons graduated in the past five years. As close as our graduates are after their time at St. Sebastian’s, parents also form lifelong friendships.

The Quinquennial Society will be a fun and casual annual gathering to bring our most recent parents of alumni back to the place where these relationships were fostered. Guests reminisced and reconnected while adorned in their favorite St. Sebastian’s gear.

A Night of Fun & Fashion Mothers from across the grades gathered in the Arrows Wrestling Room for the Guild of St. Irene Closing Event on May 2. The evening included shopping, dinner and a fashion show, with senior moms displaying latest trends. A highlight of the night, Bill and Patty Burke surprised guests with a special appearance on the runway! Special thanks to our fabulous Fashion Show Chairs—Kristen Maxwell P’25 and Kelly Stenberg P’25— for organizing a fun evening to close out the year.

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HEADMASTER SCHOLARSHIP GOLF TOURNAMENT On May 13, the Headmaster Scholarship Golf Tournament at the Charles River Country Club brought together one hundred golfers, including St. Sebastian’s parents, grandparents, parents of alumni, alumni and friends. Golf Committee members Richard Walsh P’22,’24, Mike Frisoli P’17,’19,’21,’22,’26, Anton Melchionda P’27, Rick Sutphin P’26, and Joe Harney ’92, P’21,’24,’27 did a tremendous job planning this event. Thank you to all of our sponsors and participants for their generous support of the tournament, which raises funds for financial aid.

Blessed with a beautiful day, the golfers enjoyed a wonderful afternoon on the course. During a reception, participants heard from Men’s Association President Richard Walsh and Headmaster Bill Burke, and with help from Marty Kane ’84, P’22, we auctioned off some fantastic items.

Champions of the tournament were John Maxwell P’25, Bryan Stenberg P’25, Don Armstrong P’21,’25, and Jim Broderick with a blistering 58!

A Special Celebration for the Class of 2024 Parents

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arents of the Class of 2024 gathered on June 2 to celebrate their sons and kickoff graduation week with the Senior Parent Dinner. The evening began with a reception in Martin Hall.

Fr. Arens offered an opening prayer and grace and fellow senior parent, alumnus, and trustee Casey Condron ’94 delivered brief remarks. After congratulating the parents on a job well done and thanking other Senior Parent Gift Committee members, Casey gave an update on the Class of 2024 Senior Parent Gift. The senior parents exceeded their $400,000 goal, with contributions supporting the Annual Fund and newly created Class of 2024 Brotherhood Fund. Providing financial aid for St. Sebastian’s students, this fund will ensure that the extraordinary experience their sons have received will continue for future Arrows. Casey then surprised Headmaster Burke with the announcement that the Headmaster’s Conference Room will be named in honor of him and the Class of 2024, forever linking them together.

The senior parents then moved to the Class of 2007 Terrace at the Griffith Headmaster’s House for a delicious dinner and continued comradery. Headmaster Burke gave heartfelt remarks, reminding parents to savor each moment of the coming week and noting that he was experiencing many similar emotions as he approached the conclusion of his tenure as headmaster. The evening was capped off when parents collected a specially framed photograph of their son and a commemorative Class of 2024 St. Sebastian’s hat.

TOP: Patty and Bill Burke unveil the plaque dedicating the Headmaster’s Conference Room in honor of Bill and the Class of 2024. BOTTOM LEFT: Noel and Andrew Stavaridis P’24,’25,’27. BOTTOM RIGHT: Dan Field P’24 enjoys the company of fellow senior parents during dinner.

A Reunion for Parents of Alumni Parents of alumni returned to St. Sebastian’s on April 25 to gather for a reception in Martin Hall. To kick off the evening, the parents of the Class of 2023 enjoyed a special preview of the Stations of The Cross Pathway, located behind the Oratory, which was made possible by their Senior Parent Gift. During the reception, Cathy Daniel P’15,’18,’20 addressed her fellow parents of alumni, along with Headmaster Burke. The event drew over 100 attendees and truly captures the phrase “Once in, never out. Arrows forever.”

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Farewell CELEBRATION

On May 18, over 700 members of our community gathered at the Fairmont Copley Plaza in Boston to honor Bill and Patty Burke in recognition of their 34 years of outstanding service to St. Sebastian’s.

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he joyous gathering included students, alumni, parents, parents of alumni, grandparents, and friends, each of whom came to personally wish Bill and Patty a fond farewell. The evening began with a festive cocktail reception and buffet along with music performed by “The Grift.” Planning Committee Member Wendy Thurmond P’25,’28 kicked off the program, followed by Fr. Arens with an opening prayer. In a fortuitous twist of fate, Fr. Arens celebrated the 50th Anniversary of his ordination as a priest on the same day as the gala and received a standing ovation for his dedicated service to the church and St. Sebastian’s. Music Ministry Director Meyer Chambers P’10,’14, along with several members of the faculty, then led the assembly in a rousing rendition of “10,000 Reasons (Bless the Lord),” a favorite hymn of Bill Burke and many of today’s Arrows.

Throughout the program, speakers were introduced from four corners of the room by Bill and Patty’s sons and Arrows alumni: Will ’95, P’23, Dan ’97, P’29, Matt ’00, and Sam’04 Burke.

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experiences with Bill while serving on the Board. The ballroom erupted with cheers and applause as Head of School elect, Brendan Sullivan, appeared on stage to recall his time with Bill from his earliest days on campus to witnessing Bill’s powerful presence in the lives of so many over the years.

With the instantly recognizable riffs of The Standells’ “Dirty Water” filling the room, John Harrington GP’16,’21,’25, President of the Red Sox from 1987-2001, was joined by Steve Burton, Sports Director for WBZ-TV, to introduce a video message from #34 David “Big Papi” Ortiz congratulating Bill on his 34 years of service to St. Sebastian’s. Bill and Patty were both presented with “Burke 34” Red Sox jerseys signed by Ortiz. Special thanks to Tara Ciongoli P’25,’25,’27,’29, for arranging the jerseys and video. Burton went on to highlight the “ripple effect” of a man like Bill Burke, extending far beyond the 700+ people in the ballroom.

He then introduced a video featuring school leaders, parents, students and alumni that highlighted how Bill has impacted not only the physical plant of St. Sebastian’s, but most importantly, how he cultivated, defined, and exemplified the school culture, “Love God, work hard, and take good care of one another.”

It was then time for Will, Dan, Matt, and Sam Burke to toast, and sometimes roast, their parents and thank them for their lifetime of dedication to their family and St. Sebastian’s. Bill and Patty spoke from the ballroom rostrum to share their thoughts on their time at St. Sebastian’s, thanking those who have been by their side throughout the years. For the Burkes, their journey was so much more than a professional endeavor. With four alumni sons, two Arrows grandchildren, along with a 24-7-365-day approach to leadership, St. Sebastian’s has truly been a life’s work for Bill and Patty Burke.

Following their stirring and sometimes emotional goodbye, the band picked up and everyone hit the dance floor to celebrate with Bill and Patty one more time. As the guests left the Copley Plaza, every family received a copy of Bill’s most recent book, It’s All a Gift, a collection of his speeches written and delivered over the past 34 years. This is the second of Bill’s books generously funded by Bob (past trustee) and Debbie Reardon P’15 as a gift to the St. Sebastian’s community. While we know that Bill and Patty will never be far from the St. Sebastian’s community, the night ended with many heartfelt expressions of gratitude and well wishes.

TOP TO BOTTOM, LEFT TO RIGHT: Bill and Patty Burke share a special moment as he speaks about his book of speeches, It’s All a Gift. n The Burkes with their four Arrow alumni sons, Matt ’00, Sam ’04, Dan ’97 and Will ’95. n Bill and Patty hold up the Red Sox jerseys personalized with their last name and the number 34 in recognition of Bill’s years of service to St. Sebastian’s. n The crowd gathered in the ballroom at the Fairmont Copley Plaza is moved as Bill shares remarks from the heart. n Bill speaks from the rostrum. n John Harrington GP’16,’21,’25 and Board President Jim Elcock ’77, P’08 catch up during the reception. n Trustee Emeritus David Gately ’73 shares memories of Bill during his days as Board President.

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DEDICATION OF THE

Arrows Wrestling Room

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n Saturday, May 11, Bill and Sue O’Malley, their sons, Sean ’09 and Brian ’13, other members of the O’Malley family, current and former wrestling coaches, and founding members of St. Sebastian’s wrestling team gathered to dedicate the Arrows Wrestling Room in the Burke Family Center. Fr. Arens cited Sebastian, the patron saint of athletes and soldiers, in his blessing and dedication. Bill and Sue O’Malley unveiled the plaque that features team photos from the 2007-2008 and 2008-2009 seasons.

The entrepreneurial spirit of the O’Malley boys and parents spawned what has become one of the strongest wrestling programs in the prestigious Independent School League. In the early days of the program, the wrestling team vied for practice time with the basketball team. The wrestlers had to move mats in and out of the gym every day. The spacious, truly beautiful new wrestling room features two full-sized competition mats that remain in place all season and stadium seating for 100+ fans of Arrows wrestling.

As Co-Chair of the Spirit & People Campaign that successfully raised funds for the facility, Bill O’Malley foresaw the powerfully positive impact that a state-of-the-art large wrestling team would have on the program. How prophetic! With the addition of the Arrows Wrestling Room, interest in the program has exploded.

The 2023-2024 team saw a record 43 participants, finishing third in ISL dual meets and an overall record of 14-4 against some of the best teams in all of New England.

We will never be able to thank the O’Malley Family enough for their vision, courage, generosity of spirit, and steadfast support of St. Sebastian’s School.

TOP: Fr. Arens leads the blessing of the Arrows Wrestling Room. MIDDLE: Members of the O’Malley family—Jessi and Sean ’10, Bill and Sue, and Brian ’13 —reveal the plaque commemorating the founding teams of the wrestling program, 2007-2008 and 2008-2009 (not pictured, Jake ’10 and Caitlin O’Malley).

BOTTOM: Founding teammates and coaches gather in the Arrows Wrestling Room, which served double duty that day as the venue for the Reunion Clambake.

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FINE ARTS Unique Perspectives AP Photography students each brought their own style into their portfolios, creating images as unique as the artists who captured them.

LEFT: Mosaic by Kellen Kilmartin ’24; RIGHT: Vase by James Joyce’24.

EXPLORING PATTERNS & TEXTURES From glazes to glass, AP Ceramics students experimented with different techniques and materials for their portfolio pieces. The results were beautiful, one-of-a-kind works of art!

TOP LEFT: A photo collage by Derron St. Marie ’24 delves into the themes of cultural expectations and self-identity. TOP RIGHT: Brendan Fulham ’24 focuses on the connection between nature and urban environments; BOTTOM RIGHT: By taking close-up, wide angle pictures, Matthius Ogrinc ’25 creates the illusion that small objects are actually big.

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FINE ARTS

SPRING

REVUE

The annual Spring Revue on May 9 provided our artists, actors and musicians an opportunity to showcase their talents for parents, peers, faculty, and friends. In Martin Hall, attendees were able to view student photography, ceramics, paintings and more. Performing arts were highlighted in the West Campus theater.

The Slings & Arrows Players presented three skits, “Playground Injuries,” “Who’s on First,” and “The Restoration,” written and directed

by Benjamin Corbett ’25 and Patrick Dunn ’28. The Chamber Ensemble performed two pieces, including “Cinema Paradiso” and “Brandenburg Concerto” and the Jazz Pop Ensemble entertained with a range of songs, from “Country Road” to “Born to Run.”

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FINE ARTS

Gunshot, Stage Left The Slings & Arrows Players delivered a wonderful performance of this year’s winter play, Gunshot, Stage Left, on February 23 and 24.

Written and directed by Ben Corbett ’25, Gunshot, Stage Left employs the Agatha Christie murder mystery formula: establish multiple possible suspects, assemble them all in the same room, and the culprit is revealed by the shrewd detective (or, in this case, not too shrewd and someone else does the revealing). Gunshot, Stage Left is a play within a play that takes place in a theatre. Someone has exchanged blanks for live bullets with murderous results. The actors and the crew excelled under Corbett’s direction in bringing his original play to life.

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WINTER SPORTS ISL CHAMPIONS

Varsity Hockey

BY COACH SEAN MCCANN

The 2023-24 edition of Arrows hockey was one of anticipation, excitement and promise. Although the hockey landscape encourages prep players to leave their schools early in pursuit of junior hockey, every rising senior decided to commit themselves to the school, the program and more importantly to each other.

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ability to win on the road. The start was going to test that immediately as St. Sebastian’s travelled to Rivers. The game was an intense back and forth affair in which the Arrows led by a 3-2 score after two periods. A hat trick

by Nolan Flynn ’24 and four points from each of his linemates Teddy ’25 and Casey ’26 Mutryn ensured a 7-3 victory and a great start to the season.

The following two games the Arrows were able to outscore their opponent 14-3 with Ben Stavaridis ’24 leading the D core with two assists in a 6-2 win over Milton and Kam Carkner ’24 and Chase McCann ’24 combining to only allow one goal while Ty Hymovitz ’27 contributed a goal and an assist in an 8-1 victory over Portsmouth Abbey.

The team headed on the road to face an always difficult Exeter team and although outshooting their opponent 34-23, Seb’s fell 4-1 for its first loss of the season. Only a few days later they rebounded to beat Brooks 5-3.

The Mutch Cup Tournament was next as Seb’s took on Winchendon in the first round; Isaac Mitchell ’24 led the way with four assists in a convincing 5-0 triumph. Northwood School was the second round opponent and 11 different Arrows contributed offensively to attain a 6-2 win. The final was against a familiar foe in Brunswick, a team that had numerous seniors on its roster. Brunswick jumped out to a quick 3-0 lead in the first period and although the Arrows scored twice and had numerous chances, the team fell as time ran out before the Arrows could get the equalizer.

During Winter Break, the team played in the New Years Showcase against Williston and Berkshire.

Jack Connors ’24 had a strong game defensively and contributed offensively to aid the team in a 9-4 win, while the next day, Ty Curry ’24 scored his first of the season to lead the Arrows to an impressive 5-3 defeat over Berkshire.

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The team entered the new year at 8-2 but the hardest part of the schedule was in front of them. The next five games were away from Henry T. Lane Rink, which would test the team’s development. Unfortunately, losses to Nobles and Belmont Hill to start this stretch were deflating. A lopsided win versus NYA was followed by a 7-6 overtime defeat against Andover. It was at this point that the team needed to reevaluate its approach and strategies as St. Seb’s was once again struggling on the road. A long team meeting, a revamped philosophy, and a new direction with systems were discussed to restore confidence and keep alive our goals of an ISL championship and an Elite 8 berth into the playoffs.

A road game against a highly improved Middlesex team was on tap; outstanding goaltending by Carkner and a 3-point night by Ben Merrill ’25 secured the 4-1 win. The next day Brendan Keaveney ’25 had a spectacular game and two points to topple Governor’s 6-2. A couple days later, the team had a chance to redeem itself at home while facing Nobles. Cataldo struck for an amazing four goals while adding an assist to lead the team to a 6-3 victory.

Heading back on the road for three games, the team tied Thayer, lost to Tabor and beat Milton. Every game was a hard-fought contest, but the results were not what the team had wanted based on its overhauled approach.

Improvement was evident but better results needed to come soon.

St. Mark’s and Belmont Hill were up next; Rian Chudzinski ’27 scored two while Owen Lynch ’24 had an outstanding defensive game to defeat St. Mark’s. In the next game, Belmont Hill jumped out to a 2-1 lead after the first, but the team stayed true to the process and a huge third period goal by Colin Gorman ’24 locked in the win.

Over the course of the following week, an outstanding performance by Brian Hall ’24 secured a crucial road win against Lawrence, while inspired play by Owen Connors ’24 and Aiden Barclay ’24’s physicality aided the team in an 8-4 win versus Tabor. Finally, Jack Harney ’24 netted an important goal to defeat Gov’s for the team’s third win in a row on the road. The team was down to its final two games and Pelle Russo ’24 backstopped the team to a great 2-2 tie versus Lawrence and an amazing 5-2 win versus Thayer.

The Arrows went 7-0-1 down the stretch and a remarkable 4-1-1 on the road and lowered its goals against average by over a goal a game while improving its offensive output to capture its first ISL Championship in 21 years and its third Elite 8 berth in the past five years.

An extremely talented and deep Cushing team was the Arrows’ playoff opponent. The arena was packed as the student sections roared for every hit and save. These teams were evenly matched and played at a level very few prep games ever reach. It wasn’t until early in the third period when Cushing struck first on a shot from the point to take a 1-0 lead. The third period remained intense and physical as the clock wound down and Seb’s pulled their goaltender for an extra attacker. With 8 seconds left Cataldo banged home a rebound to send the game to overtime. Unfortunately, the ending was not what the Arrows had hoped for, but the year finished with their most inspiring and complete game of the season. The commitment, development, determination, and unwavering support for each other made this season one of the most successful in St. Seb’s history.

OPPOSITE: Kamden Carkner ’24 tends the net while Jack Harney ’24 breaks the puck out in The Mutch Cup Tournament. LEFT: Captain Matt Cataldo ’24 performs a backhanded pass across the crease against Belmont Hill. RIGHT: Isaac Mitchell ’24 evades a Tabor defenseman.

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WINTER SPORTS

Varsity Basketball

BY COACH MATT KARPOWICZ

The 2023-24 Arrows Basketball Season began with some uncertainty and a lot of excitement. Uncertainty that the heights of the previous two seasons could be reached again, but excitement for a next group of Arrows to have their opportunity to write another chapter of the program’s story. The uncertainty only increased after we sat 0-6 at Christmas, dropping four games in which the game was tied with 2 minutes left or in overtime, as well as playing four games against future playoff opponents.

But the story of this team was quickly written as a group of fight, grit, and resilience, and 0-6 quickly turned into 7-6 as captains Timmy Bollin ’25 and Jack Williams ’24 led the charge with two great wins over local foe Dexter, a holiday tournament win against Belmont Hill that developed our identity as Williams and Marky Walbridge ’26 dominated the paint.

Isaiah Simmons ’26’s three pointer with less than a minute left against Suffield Academy made for a great bus ride home from Springfield on Martin Luther King Day. Timmy Bollin’s 25 points against Roxbury Latin and 23 against Thayer catapulted us up the ISL standings, and TJ Allen ’27’s late scoring barrage at Nobles put us firmly in the mix for a Class A playoff spot.

Finishing at 12-13 overall and 8-7 in the ISL might not jump off the page, but this team was far more than just a record of wins and losses. A record does not speak to the leadership of the senior class, embodied by Neal Carlson ’24, Adric Denis ’24 and Stephen DeMatteo ’24’s day in and day out attitudes, embracing different roles from game to game and being ready 52 | ST. SEBASTIAN’S MAGAZINE

LEFT: Jacob Pichay '25 leads the charge on the offense. TOP RIGHT: Adric Denis ’24 performs an underhand layup in game against BB&N. BOTTOM RIGHT: Captain Jack Williams ’24 slams down a dunk versus BB&N.

to go to hit big shots or set the bench a light like DeMatteo did with back to back dunks in a win against BB&N. Charlie Hinman ’25 and Ty Ciongoli ’25 hit key shots, brought energy, and were always ready to go when their numbers were called, both coming in cold off the bench late in games to secure key rebounds, steals, or make long range inbound passes. Steven Hettrich ’25 and Robert Walusimbi-Mitchell ’25 refused to let injuries affect their abilities to help the team, bringing energy, leadership, and infectious positive attitudes every day. Preston Bollin ’27 showed how bright the future was on numerous occasions, making a statement with a career high 16 points in the home finale against St. Paul’s, trying to will the team to victory one last time, going out like the fighters they were all year. Perhaps no one

embodied the commitment to embrace adversity like Jacob Pichay ’25, overcoming an early season injury and forcing his way into the rotation, seeing all of his hard work pay off leading the team with 22 points off the bench in perhaps the best win of the season against playoff opponent Governor’s to clinch a winning record in the ISL. For their efforts, Timmy Bollin ’25 was named All-ISL First Team, and Jack Williams ’24 was named All-ISL Honorable Mention and All NEPSAC Class A Honorable Mention. The captains for next season will be Jacob Pichay ’25 and Robert WalusimbiMitchell ’25, who have already begun their preparations to lead another season of fight, grit, and resilience for the future of Arrows basketball.

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Wrestling

BY COACH MATT WILLEY

The St. Sebastian’s wrestling team performed well this year, placing third in dual meets against ISL opponents.

Finishing with a record of 14-4, they fought hard against some of the best teams in all of New England. The only losses came from three teams that placed in the top five in New England teams and one top ten team. The Arrows wrapped up the season at the NEPSWA tournament, held at Choate Rosemary Hall. Our wrestlers finished in 13th place as a team with three grapplers placing in the top eight for their respective weight classes (Dom Funke ’26–5th, James Joyce ’24–7th, captain Seamus McDonough ’24–8th). After placing fifth, Funke qualified for the National Prep Tournament held at Lehigh University in Pennsylvania, where he beat the fourth seeded wrestler.

The wrestling team had many great matches throughout the season, but beating Nobles on their home mat was

one of the best wins in St. Sebastian’s wrestling program history. It took a complete team effort that started with a quick pin from heavyweight Funke and a last second pin from Sawyer Bean ’26.

After those matches, Luis Sosa Espinal ’25 wrestled a back-and-forth match that led to an 8-7 points victory. The team didn’t know it yet, but if Luis had not won, St. Sebastian’s would have lost the team match by points. Ray Usechek ’28 pinned his opponent in the first period, extending the Arrows lead for the moment.

Captain Eddie Zhang ’24 wrestled a highly ranked opponent and kept the match close for a while and was eventually beat by points. Nolan Wishart ’27 put the Arrows back into the win column with a convincing victory by pin at the 144lb weight class. St. Seb’s next wrestler up was Carter Rich ’27, another freshman in the varsity lineup. He also secured a pin against his opponent with just ten seconds remaining on the clock.

Nobles wouldn’t give up without a fight. They would win the next four out of five matches by pin or by tech

fall, gaining them another 21 points.

However, that one match would be the difference. McDonough went down 2-0 early in his match but would storm back to beat his opponent 4-3 and secure the match for St. Sebastian’s wrestling team.

The final score was 36-31.

The wrestling team has a bright future with many young contributors to the program at every level. The team had a total of 43 participants and had the biggest middle school team in program history.

LEFT: Senior members of the team—Eddie Zhang, Seamus McDonough, Dylan Lipof, James Joyce, Jack McHugh, Chris Thompson, Derron St. Marie, Ben Scemama (Manager), Perry Rassiger, and Sebu Najarian pose for a Senior Day shot on the mat. TOP RIGHT: Sebu Najarian ’24 goes in for the pin. BOTTOM RIGHT: Captain Eddie Zhang ’24 gains leverage on his opponent.

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LEFT: Bobby Keller ’25 carves his way down the mountain; RIGHT: Captain Henry duBose ’24 rips down to the finish.

Varsity Skiing

BY COACH DEIRDRE RYNNE ANNAN

While this past winter was still lacking the once typical natural snowfall, the varsity ski team was happy to have colder nights which made it possible for ski areas to make snow. This allowed us to practice regularly and complete seven of our eight weekly races.

Led by senior co-captains Raif Boit and Henry duBose, our seven skiers competed admirably against ISL competitors. Arrows Skiing placed 8th in our weekly ISL competition and a respectable 5th place at the NEPSAC Class B Alpine Championships held on February 14 at Bousquet Mountain in Pittsfield, MA. It was a standout season for Bobby Keller ’25, who earned 6th at NEPSACs and was awarded All NEPSAC and ISL Honorable Mention.

Younger brother James Keller ’29 had an impressive debut in racing for the Arrows and joined Donal O’Connor ’26 in anchoring the team throughout the season with consistent performances.

Since I began coaching Arrows Skiing in 2002, it has been a joy to see skiers come out for the team, improve individually, and find gains together.

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program would not have been possible without the dedication of so many Arrows skiers. At the Winter Athletic Awards Assembly, I was delighted to announce the addition of an annual award to be given to a skier who has demonstrated outstanding leadership and commitment to the team. The Coach’s Award was established in the spirit of all the skiers over the years who devoted their time to develop and promote the team.

It gave me great pleasure to award our senior captains, Raif Boit ’24 and Henry duBose ’24, as the first recipients of the Coach’s Award.

Boit and duBose are strong leaders, considerate and respectful of teammates and competitors, take initiative, and appreciate the efforts everyone is taking to make things happen. Each arrives to practice with a positive attitude, they genuinely love the sport, and are always willing to put in another run, even in subpar conditions. Seeking out ways to improve their skills from coaches, they both consistently modeled a growth mindset for the team, emphasizing the process rather than the results.

Boit transitioned from a JV skier to a slalom competitor, the most technically challenging competition for our team.

Our program has had success in turning recreational skiers into racers and

Boit threw himself into working run after run, season after season, to shave seconds off his time. Both in and offseason, duBose dedicated countless hours to strength and conditioning, working with our excellent athletic trainers. He has been a leader in helping with course inspection and acclimating those new to the program.

Together, these two leaders synergized our small squad while having fun and modeling what it means to be committed and all in.

A word of thanks and gratitude to the entire community for their support and prayers at the beginning of December when I found myself needing a three-level cervical spinal fusion. (Not a ski related injury!) I am forever grateful to Coach Uhlman, who continues to prove herself to be a committed coach and ultimate team player. Thank you to Assistant Coach Jesse Stansfield who was brought on to help on the snow, and to the squad, who was supportive and patient upon my return in mid-January. Lastly, thank you to our incredible support team: Mr. Bartlett, Mr. Fitzgerald, Coach Carr, and Mr. Duffy. We are full of MVPs. We invite any skier who likes to go fast but might not have racing experience to consider joining Arrows Skiing!

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Squash

BY COACH BEN BROWN

The 2023-24 season was certainly one to remember. Faculty members Ben Brown and Paul Keady ’16 reprised their coaching roles from last year, and the program also welcomed back Nick Taylor to help round out the coaching staff. Up until this year, Sebs squash had not competed against any varsity programs in the ISL, but this past season we were able to field a varsity, JV, and middle school team. The ISL is an extremely talented league filled with teams that perennially contend for national championships and filled with some of the best players not only in the country but in the world overall.

Needless to say, it was a substantial jump up in the caliber of opponent that we have been used to playing. It would have been easy for the team to lose focus and commitment when

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faced with such a daunting schedule, but the 2023-2024 squash squad did anything but that. They worked hard all season, in practice and in matches, and consequently each player made tremendous strides in his personal game.

If our end of February team could have played our November team, the contest would not be close.

The team started off the year 1-1 at the Jackson Tournament at Brooks, securing the first varsity win in the program’s history. Unfortunately, that was to be our last match victory this year. However, several players did win individual matches along the way, and our final match vs. Brooks ended in an extremely close 3-4 loss. Despite the overall record, the coaches and I are extremely proud of how hard the team fought in every match and are impressed with the amount of personal progress each player made. Arrows squash is certainly on the rise, and we can’t wait to challenge the rest of the ISL again next year!

ISL All League: Matt Cataldo ’24, Aidan Connors ’24, Ben Merrill ’25, Casey Mutryn ’26

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ISL Honorable Mention: Nolan Flynn ’24, Brendan Keaveney ’25, Isaac Mitchell ’24, Teddy Mutryn ’25

ISL All-League: Timmy Bollin ’25

Jack Doherty Award:

ISL Honorable Mention: Jack Williams ’24, TJ Allen ’27 Fr. Daniel J. Gilmartin Award: Given by the coaches to the basketball player who possesses the qualities of commitment, teamwork and outstanding attitude.

Neal Carlson ’24

HOCKEY ISL Keller Division Hockey MVP: Matt Cataldo ’24

Presented to the member of the varsity hockey team whose commitment to excellence and devotion to the game has repeatedly been evidenced by aggressive and spirited play and selfless contribution to the total team effort.

Brian Hall ’24 and Charlie Leverone ’24

SKIING All-NEPSAC: Bobby Keller ’25 ISL All-League: Bobby Keller ’25

TOP: James Ko ’24 performs an acrobatic shot.

BOTTOM: Liam Cunjak ’25 fires off a return.

Coaches Award: Given by the coaches to the skier who demonstrates outstanding leadership and commitment to the team.

Raif Boit ’24 and Henry duBose ’24

SQUASH ISL Honorable Mention: César Hernández ’26

WRESTLING ISL Honorable Mention: Eamon McCarthy ’26, Eddie Zhang ’24, Liam Barbosa ’24, Sawyer Bean ’26, Seamus McDonough ’24, Dom Funke ’26, James Joyce ’24, Ray Usechek ’28 O’Malley Family Award: Given by the coaches to the wrestler who most exemplifies commitment, willingness to learn, and enthusiasm for the sport of wrestling.

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Varsity Baseball

BY COACH MATT DUFFY

As I reflect on our championship season, I’m filled with gratitude for the dedication and effort of the St. Sebastian’s varsity baseball team. For the first time since 2018, we are the ISL champions, and this achievement is a testament to the hard work, perseverance, and teamwork displayed by our players throughout the year.

Taking on the role of Varsity Head Coach in my first year was an honor and a privilege. Alongside our dedicated coaching staff—1st Assistant Coach Matt Karpowicz ’16 and Assistant Andrew Noviello—we set out to create a winning environment rooted in hard work and mental toughness. The result was a 10-1 regular season ISL record, capped off with a 13-1 total record and a perfect 3-0 run in the playoffs.

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Our success was driven by the leadership of our three senior captains: Aiden Barclay, Luke Ward, and Matt Dalto. These young men led by example both on and off the field. Barclay and Ward were honored with 1st Team AllISL recognition, and Dalto earned the ISL Gold Glove Award for his exceptional defense throughout the season.

Barclay had an outstanding senior year, hitting .417 with 12 RBIs and an impressive 1.161 OPS. His contributions were crucial to our success, and I have no doubt he will continue to excel at Deerfield Academy next fall before heading to Cornell University to further his baseball career. Ward, our leadoff hitter, was equally impressive, hitting .381 with 12 runs scored and a .958 OPS. His ability to set the tone for our offense was something that we will greatly miss!

Our pitching staff was anchored by Gavin Wainwright ’27, who earned the ISL MVP title, and Connor Crane ’25, who received ISL Honorable Mention.

Wainwright finished the season with a 6-0 record, a 0.170 ERA, and a .128

batting average against, allowing just one earned run all season. His success also extended to the batter’s box as well, where he hit .371 with 12 runs scored and a 1.510 OPS. Seniors James Ko and Jack Mulka, along with junior Ryan Pat, provided stability and depth to our bullpen. Their efforts allowed us to stay competitive in every game, giving us the edge we needed to succeed.

Behind the plate, sophomore Brett Gallo was a defensive stalwart and a First Team All-ISL award recipient.

Gallo had a breakout year, hitting .306 with a .909 OPS, further solidifying his role as a key player for our team.

Our outfield showcased incredible defensive skills, with Ty Ciongoli ’25, Cole Pastore ’25, Jack Kelleher ’26, and Jack Dorsey ’27 contributing significantly. Ciongoli and Kelleher earned ISL All League Honorable Mentions for their efforts.

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average. His speed and agility on the basepaths made him a constant threat to opponents, earning him ISL Honorable Mention recognition.

The playoffs were a thrilling journey. In the first round, we faced Roxbury Latin and secured a 6-1 victory behind Wainwright’s complete game pitching performance. The second round against Belmont Hill was intense, with Crane pitching five innings of one-run baseball. Key hits from Gallo and Kelleher led us to a 3-2 extra-innings win. In the Championship Game, Wainwright once again dominated, pitching a complete game shutout. Offensive contributions from Ward, Ciongoli, and Barclay secured our 2-0 victory and the championship title.

This season’s triumph marks a significant milestone for St. Sebastian’s Arrows. It reflects the dedication, hard work, and talent of our players.

As we celebrate this well-deserved championship, we look ahead with anticipation, ready to build on this success and continue our legacy of excellence in the seasons to come. Thank you to our fans, and everyone who supported us along the way.

Matt Duffy ’07 Named ISL Baseball Coach of the Year

OPPOSITE: Surrounded by teammates, captain Matt Dalto ’24 hoists the ISL Championship trophy over his head, following the Arrows 3-2 extra-innings win over Belmont Hill.

TOP LEFT: Captain Aiden Barclay ’24 prepares to smash the ball. TOP RIGHT: ISL MVP Gavin Wainwright ’27 delivers a pitch. BOTTOM: Captain Luke Ward ’24 steals a bag against Lawrence Academy.

Congratulations to Matt Duffy ’07, who was named ISL Coach of the Year following an outstanding inaugural season as Varsity Baseball Head Coach. After serving in a volunteer/ assistant role the prior two seasons, Duffy took the helm this spring, helping his team secure the ISL Championship for the first time since 2018.

Duffy’s extensive baseball background began at St. Sebastian’s where he was a key player for the Arrows. During his senior year, he served as captain, earned League MVP, and helped to seal the 2007 ISL Baseball Championship. He went on to play at the University of Vermont and the University of Tennessee where his impressive play caught the eyes of MLB scouts. Drafted by the Houston Astros in 2011, he began to rise through the ranks in the minor leagues, before making his MLB debut in 2015 with Houston. Toward the end of his professional career, Duffy had the opportunity to play ball in the Japan Pacific League (currently the Nippon Professional Baseball League.)

Athletic Director Jon Bartlett had his own words of praise for Duffy: “Even though Coach Duffy would be the last person to take credit for the ISL Championship season, I know I speak for the players when I say he is absolutely deserving of this award. He had the team prepared and ready to compete in each game.”

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LEFT: Captain Chris Merageas ’24 rips a shot through traffic versus Nobles. TOP RIGHT: Captain James Joyce ’24 (right) celebrates with teammate Jack McHugh ’24. BOTTOM RIGHT: Captain Brendan Fulham ’24 delivers a pass.

Varsity Lacrosse

BY COACH ADAM WHITE

The varsity lacrosse team had a tremendous season, finishing 13-5 overall and 12-2 against ISL opponents.

The season began with a road trip down to New Jersey and Connecticut to play Lawrenceville and Brunswick (the #1 and #2 teams in the country), followed by out-of-league play against Dexter and Taft. In the regular season, the Arrows cruised to a 10-1 record, highlighted by a thrilling 13-12 overtime win at Middlesex, which earned them the #2 seed in the ISL playoffs. In the first round, they beat two-time defending champion Nobles 16-11 in what was one of the team’s best performances of the season. For the third straight year, the Arrows lost in the semi-final round, and this one was especially painful, as a bevy of penalties eroded a four-goal lead and turned the tides in Middlesex’s favor.

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Though the season didn’t end with a trip to the championship game, this was undoubtedly a team to remember.

The Arrows stayed positive in the face of plenty of adversity (they played without two of their captains, James Joyce ’24 (Michigan) and Brendan Fulham ’24 (Duke), for the bulk of the ISL season), competed hard, and found new ways to have fun at every practice and game. The Arrows earned a league-high six All-ISL nods, with Chris Merageas ’24 (attack, Denver), Cormac Walsh ’24 (midfield, Bowdoin), Michael Quinn ’24 (midfield, Michigan), Brendan Keaveney ’25, Ryan Farley ’25 (defense, Lafayette), and Chandler McClements ’25 (goalie, Penn) earning spots on the first team.

Two sophomores, Tedy Frisoli (attack) and David Hahm (faceoff specialist), earned All-ISL Honorable Mention.

Congrats are also in order to Merageas for earning All-NEPSAC honors and for Cormac Walsh on his All-NEPSAC Honorable Mention and Academic AllAmerican honors.

Led by Merageas, Fulham, and Joyce, our captains and seniors showed the younger Arrows the right way to do things. The Class of 2024 will be missed by all of us but never forgotten. They had a huge impact and made a lasting difference.

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Varsity Golf

BASEBALL

BY COACH PAUL KEADY

All-League MVP: Gavin Wainwright ’27

St. Sebastian’s varsity golf team tied for third in the ISL this season. Our regular season record was 10-5-2. Most of those losses could’ve easily gone the other way. With such a talented league, this third-place finish wasn’t easy. For some context, at our end of the year tournament, ten players finished even par or better at the demanding Red Tail Golf Club.

In our matches, we were right there with our competitors and won twice as often as we lost.

Our team not only had talent at the top but was also remarkably deep. On any given day, there was a real chance that not just our top couple golfers, but even the lower seeds, would finish around par. Having that depth was such an advantage for us. Some highlights of the season included a win against a strong Milton team in our last match and a key victory in a tight match against St. George’s on a foggy day at Newport Country Club. Going into next season, we hope to continue to develop.

The team graduated two seniors, Ronan Massenburg and Brian Hall, who will be greatly missed. Two captains, Charlie Hinman ’25 and John Grimes ’26, will step up to the plate and lead the team to another great season. JP Martin ’26 and Ben Molinsky ’25 are great golfers who will be major contributors for us next year. We also have three very promising younger players, Charlie Lans ’29, Brooks Carter ’28, and Liam Reed ’28, who will keep getting better and better. The future is bright for Arrows Golf.

Another notable highlight of our season, we had the honor of competing at the first annual International Independent Invitational at the CrumpinFox Club. Teams from throughout America and even England and China were present. Although we didn’t have our best showing that weekend, finishing in the middle of the pack, I trust our performance was strong enough to earn an invitation back to show them our best stuff next year.

All-League First Team: Gavin Wainwright ’27, Brett Gallo ’26, Aiden Barclay ’24, Luke Ward ’24 All-League Honorable Mention: Justin Bourque ’25, Jack Kelleher ’26, Connor Crane ’25, Ty Ciongoli ’25 ISL Gold Glove: Matt Dalto ’24 Paul Lepley Award: Presented by the coaches to the players who show the qualities of commitment, teamwork, and dedication to the sport of baseball at St. Sebastian’s School.

Luke Ward ’24

GOLF All-League Honorable Mention: John Grimes ’26 James D. Sullivan Award: Presented to a golfer who exemplifies sacrifice for the good of the team, team spirit, and a most positive attitude in the face of disappointment.

Ronan Massenburg ’24

LACROSSE All-League: Chris Merageas ’24, Cormac Walsh ’24, Michael Quinn ’24, Brendan Keaveney ’25, Ryan Farley ’25, Chandler McClements ’25 All-League Honorable Mention: Tedy Frisoli ’26, David Hahm ’26 USA Lacrosse All-Academic: Cormac Walsh ’24 All-NEPSAC: Chris Merageas ’24 All-NEPSAC Honorable Mention: Cormac Walsh ’24

TENNIS All-League Honorable Mention: Yoyo Tian ’24 Henry T. Lane Award: Given by the Coaches to the St. Sebastian’s tennis player whose love for tennis, commitment to sportsmanship, and dedication to team best contributes to the success of the Varsity Tennis Program.

Ben Scemama ’24 Captain Ronan Massenburg ’24 stripes a drive on the first hole at Needham Golf Club.

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Varsity Tennis

BY COACH BRIAN RICHTER

Having graduated four of the top six players from last year’s team, Varsity Tennis fielded its youngest, least experienced team in a long while.

Seniors Yoyo Tian and Gianluca Centola, junior Colby Nash, and sophomore Antonio Martinez were the only players to return from last year’s eight-man squad. After being sidelined for the past two seasons with an ankle injury and undergoing corrective surgery this past summer, Ben Scemama ’24 was able to play on a limited basis, until his ankle just wouldn’t permit.

Tian anchored the #1 position on the ladder throughout the season and served as the team’s captain. Martinez held the #2 position, Nash played #3, and Centola played at positions #4 and 5. The newcomers: Quinn Mulvey ’26 played at the #4 and 5 positions; Alvaro Martinez ’29 played #6 for about half the matches; Akul Trikha ’27 played #6 singles as well as #3 doubles; Peter Stavaridis ’25 played mostly at the #3 doubles position, but also saw competition on two occasions at #6.

Notable performances include Centola’s win against his opponent from Belmont Hill for the team’s only point that day, taking the third set super tie-break for the victory; Martinez winning the team’s only point at St. Mark’s, also logging a W with a third set super tiebreak; Tian taking the team’s solo point against a muchimproved Tabor squad, winning 6-2, 6-0; and Nash taking one of the team’s two points at St. George’s, also with a third set super tiebreak win.

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TOP LEFT: Captain Gianluca Centola ’24 prepares to deliver a serve. BOTTOM LEFT: Captain Yoyo Tian ’24 returns a shot. RIGHT: Colby Nash ’25 unleashes a serve.

matches by scores of 6-1. While this score may appear lop-sided, each of these matches had several singles matches that were decided by a third set super tie-break. Anything can happen in a tiebreaker, and as a testament to the team’s determination to win the “winnable” matches, the Arrows won a majority of those tie-breaks.

Tian was a reliable leader for the team, often helping younger players with invaluable advice and instruction.

He was an ISL All-League Honorable Mention recipient. Scemama received this year’s Henry T. Lane Award, given

to a player whose love and enthusiasm for the game contributed to the team’s success. As a sophomore Ben had to withdraw from team tryouts due to an ankle injury. Wanting to be part of the team, he served for two years as a most dependable manager and unofficial assistant coach, often giving pointers to younger players. The return of Scemama’s ankle injury limited his playing time, but not his support for and involvement with the team. The co-captains for next year’s team will be Colby Nash ’25 and Quinn Mulvey ’26.

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Varsity Ultimate

BY COACH BEN BROWN

After graduating more than half our starters, repeating the success of last year’s ultimate team was looking to be a tough task. However, a strong core of talented players were waiting in the wings to lead the team, and thanks to them, along with the new players, the 2024 ultimate campaign was another great success. Regardless of previous experience, each and every one of the 18 players on the roster made significant improvements to his individual skills.

I want to thank all the players for their dedication to the team and for being great examples of how hard work pays off.

The team started the season with 14 straight victories, finishing with a

record of 18 wins and only 4 losses.

A season highlight was a perfect 5-0 at the Northfield Mount Hermon tournament, earning us a first-place finish in a tournament for the first time in program history.

Unfortunately, we were not quite as successful at the second tournament of the year, the New England Prep School Ultimate League Championship. Our first loss of the season came in a downto-the-wire match-up against a very athletic and skilled team from Williston Northampton, which placed us in a lower consolation bracket. However, the squad was able to shake off the loss and win the final game of the tournament, which was enough to secure a 7th place finish in New England.

Overall, it was another very productive season for St. Sebastian's ultimate team. Not only were our players successful in the win column, but they also consistently displayed

the integrity and sportsmanship that is vital in a self-officiated sport like ultimate. Throughout the season, coaches received many compliments from opposing players and coaches about how competitively yet honorably the Arrows played. The team represented the Red & Black with pride each and every game.

We are graduating five seniors this year: Raif Boit, Deven Carkner, Ben Goffredo, captain Rui do Rosario, and captain Seamus McDonough. These Arrows were truly the heart and soul of the team. We will sorely miss their presence on and off the field next year not only for their playing skills, but also for their character, integrity, and leadership.

Captains-elect Cooper Bolton ’25 and Bobby Keller ’25 will lead the team next year. Go Arrows!

LEFT: Davis Cassler ’26 soars through the air to receive a pass. RIGHT: Captain Seamus McDonough ’24 slings an underhand pass.

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Reunion

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Alumni from the classes of 4’s and 9’s came back to campus to relive their days as students and reminisce with their Arrow brothers.

eunion Weekend saw over 300 alumni from the Classes of 1952 to 2019 converge on Greendale Avenue to celebrate the shared bond of the St. Sebastian’s brotherhood. On Friday evening, May 10, the Class of 1974 celebrated its 50th Reunion, and the Classes of 1969 and 1959 gathered for class dinners to mark their 55th and 64th Reunions.

The festivities on Saturday began with the Golden Arrow Luncheon, bringing together members of the Classes of 1945 through 1974 in Martin Hall. Reunion events continued with the Alumni Memorial Mass, followed by the Cocktail Reception and Clambake on Saturday night. Before dinner, alumni, friends, and family gathered on the Class of 2017

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Courtyard for a reception and class photos. The attendees enjoyed catching up over a dinner of clam chowder, lobster and steak tips in the Burke Family Center. The program included remarks from Head of School elect Brendan Sullivan and Headmaster Bill Burke, a video presentation, and a slideshow of photos from the Reunion classes coupled with music hits from the era.

In a testament to the family atmosphere that exists at St. Sebastian’s, the following family members all share the 4’s & 9’s Reunion cycle: Steve Maskell ’74 & Matt Maskell ’09, John Fiore ’79 & Joe Fiore ’19, Peter Rockett ’79 & Morgan Rockett ’14, and Jamie Curley ’09 & Brian Curley ’14. It was great to see so many alumni back on campus!

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Cocktail Reception &

CLAMBAKE Alumni, family and friends had the opportunity to reconnect at the Cocktail Reception & Clambake, held at the Burke Family Center on a beautiful Saturday evening.

TOP TO BOTTOM, LEFT TO RIGHT: 2019 Classmates Tommy Lyons, Patrick Barron, John Farley, Miguel Vega, JP Milbury, and Ellis O’Donnell enjoy a conversation before the clambake. n Dave Emello ‘84, Dan Sullivan ‘84, David Walsh ‘79, Peter Kennedy ‘79, John DiGiovanni ‘84, Devin Birmingham ‘84, Joe Dunn ‘84, Justin Kennedy ‘84, and David Renolds ‘84 gather at the reception. n Caleb Aldrich ’14, Aturo Adkins ’14, and John Bartlett ’14 say hello before digging into their meals. n 2009 Classmates Cedric White, Tyler Smith, and Jamie Curley enjoy their chowder, lobster and chicken. n 1979 classmates Phil Tocci, Mark Ruelle, Dan Tracy, Tom Finucane, John Fiore, and Peter Rockett.

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The span of years represented at the 2024 Reunion, ranging from the Class of 1954 to 2019.

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DINNERS

On Friday evening, May 10, the Classes of 1974, 1969 and 1959 enjoyed catching up and reliving their days on Nonantum Hill during class dinners.

Under the leadership of the 50th Reunion Committee (Peter Galligan, Michael Gwynn, Frank Harrington, Steve Maskell, Michael McManama and Kevin O’Malley), the Class of 1974 celebrated together in Ward Hall. In honor of their 50th Reunion, the class raised over $100,000 and named the Coaches’ Locker Room in the Henry T. Lane Rink in memory of Frederick Sebastian Steele ’74, a classmate who collapsed on the ice during practice in their senior year and passed away.

The Classes of 1959 and 1969 celebrated their 65th and 55th Reunions in the Burke Family Center. Joe Tansey ’69 invited each of his classmates to share a memory of their time on Nonantum Hill—the stories get better every year! Before dinner, members of the Class of 1959 took advantage of modern technology by catching up with additional classmates over Zoom.

Class of 1974

’69

The class with the largest Reunion gift of $103,370.

3,591 miles The distance traveled to Reunion from DoberlugKirchian, Germany by Robert Dudley ’04. Prost!

’74

300 lbs

The approximate total weight of lobsters consumed by alumni and guests at the clambake.

Class of 2019 The class with the highest percentage of participation in the Alumni Fund out of all the Reunion classes, with 72% of its members making a gift.

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’59 TOP LEFT: In recognition of all the work Michael McManama has done over the years in keeping his 1974 classmates connected, Peter Galligan presented him with a St. Sebastian’s chair at their 50th Reunion Dinner. n TOP RIGHT: Members of the Class of 1969 meet incoming Head of School Brendan Sullivan. n BOTTOM: The Class of 1959 connect via Zoom with classmates who were unable to attend their 65th Reunion Dinner in person.

REUNION 2024

Golden Arrow LUNCHEON Spanning the early decades of St. Sebastian’s graduating classes, alumni from 1953 through 1974 gathered for the Golden Arrow Luncheon on Saturday.

This annual tradition includes all Arrows who have celebrated their 50th Reunion, with the newest members in the Class of 1974 receiving their Golden Arrow pin. Six members of the Class of 2024 addressed the Golden Arrows, sharing their experiences at St. Sebastian’s as well as their plans for the future. During the luncheon, the seniors— Matt Cataldo, Jonathan Demosthene, James Joyce, Dylan Lipof, Jack McHugh, and Eddie Zhang—spent time with our alumni, highlighting the timeless brotherhood that prevails at St. Sebastian’s.

LEFT: Matt Cataldo ’24 shares his St. Sebastian’s experience with members of the Golden Arrow Society. n TOP RIGHT: 1950s alumni (from left) Jack O’Leary ’53, John McKinney ’53, Ed O’Donoghue ’57, Peter Volante ’54, Joe Ferrone ’54 and Phil Donahue ’57. n MIDDLE RIGHT: 1960s alumni (from left) Biff Harney ’69, Fred Corcoran ’62, Chris Galligan ’69, David Barlow ’64, Tom Casey ’69, Hal Cail ’61, John Galligan ’65, Steve Theall ’62, Joe Tansey ’69, Paul Cusick ’62, Paul Baratta ’69, Terry Ladd ’62 and Bill Dowling ’62. n BOTTOM RIGHT: 1970s alumni (from left) Fred Daly ’70, Peter Galligan ’74, Ken Chipman ’74, Joe Abely ’70, Marty Galligan ’73, Michael McManama ’74, Steve Maskell, 74, Gleason Gallagher ’71, Jay Harrington ’70, Mark Brennan ’70, Ted Curtin ’70, David Frawley ’72 and Michael Viano ’72.

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REUNION 2024

Reunion CLASS PHOTOS Members of each Reunion class in attendance gathered for an official class photo.

Joe Ferrone, Mark Gallagher, Peter Volante

Patty Burke, Tom O’Donnell, Karen Birmingham, Gerry Healy, Corky Cronin, Ellen Ennis Kane, Bill Burke, Brendan Sullivan, Carolyn O’Donnell

50th

REUNION

Biff Harney, Kevin Duggan, Tom Casey, Lee Myles, David Sylvester, Bob Falconi, Joe Tansey, Paul Baratta, Chris Galligan, Mark Duffey

Peter Rockett, Peter Kennedy, Dan Tracy, Tom Finucane, Phil Tocci, Mark Ruelle, David Walsh, Luke Daley, John Fiore

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Front Row: Brian Burke, Kevin White, John Mannix, Michael Gwynn, Steve Maskell, Peter Galligan and John Mulroy. Back Row: Brendan Sullivan, Frank Harrington, Michael McManama, Curtis Ferri, Ken Chipman, Rob Connors, Kevin O’Malley, Jon Mark Delli Priscoli, Bill Burke

Dave Emello, Dan Sullivan, John McCallum, Shelby Pierce, Brian Murphy, Paul Abbate, Marty Kane, Steve Grande, John Danca, Devin Birmingham, John DiGiovanni, Craig Bourassa, Joe Dunn, David Reynolds

REUNION 2024

25th

REUNION

Dan Murphy, Dennis Thornton, Rob Wallace

Front to Back: Brian Quigg, Neil Callahan, Tom Wadzinski, Dave Slattery, Bill Zrike, Danny Ryan, Tim Foley, Chris Danehy, Brendan Keefe, Chris Conley, Dennis Joyce, Joe Cugini, Casey Condron, Jamie Llewellyn, JM Spagnuolo

Front to Back: Jeff Conahan, Robert Dudley, Geoff Mueller, Mike Hepburn, Brian Egan, Brian Pinch, RB Pietsch, Anthony Laham, Rick Carolan, Mike Coskren, Matt Vicidomino, Ryan Murphy, Tom White, Sam Burke, Jared Strauss, Andrew Digan

Front to Back: Tucker McLoughlin, Jay Daukas, Luke Murphy, Conor Craven, Richard Arms, Miles Hunter, Alex Walsh, John Bartlett, Christian Kelly, Cam Kelly, Matt Ouellette, Connor Murray, Johnny McNamara, Owen Kehoe, John O’Leary, Brian Curley, Will Kenney, Matthew Barletta, Niko Fischer, Kevin Ginns, Conor Duffy, Connor Strachan, Jordan Brydie, Morgan Rockett, Caleb Aldrich, Joe Kearney

Front to Back: Peter Keefe, Adam Trossello, Gil Schipani, Michael Flaherty, Ed Doherty, Matt Hogan, Brendan Kilcoyne, Tim Kelleher, Pat Martin, Brendan Cohn, Brad Parker, Devin Spencer

Front to Back: Arturo Lichauco, Matt Maskell, Nick Fico, Richard Renwick, Tyler Smith, JP Judge, Alan Donovan, Jamie Curley, Jim Pantano, Matt Murphy, Mike Duffy, Sean O’Malley, Cedric White

Front to Back: Miguel Vega, Ryan Steinkrauss, Nolan Prince, Anthony Perez, Jack Hynes, Ryan Heffernan, JP Milbury, Sam Martin, James Donovan, Joe O’Donnell, Jac Campanelli, Andrew Michienzi, Griffin Wagner, Liam McCarthy, Ryan Mullen, Joe Fiore, Will Hentschel, James Esperne, Jared Price, Teddy Hoppe, Pat Barron, Robby Smith, Jack Moffatt, Andrew Ko, John Farley, Stepan Kapreilian, Ellis O’Donnell, Zach Salvatore, Matt Behman, Nate Kocho, Tommy Lyons, Liam Gorman, Brad Coughlin, James Davenport, Nick Price

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ALUMNI UPDATES

ALUMNI GATHERINGS First Annual Alumni Hockey Reception On February 23, the St. Sebastian’s Alumni Office hosted its first annual Alumni Hockey Reception. Before the event, returning alumni watched the varsity hockey team defeat Thayer Academy to clinch their first ISL title since 2003, as well as an Elite 8 playoff berth. The event attracted alumni ranging from the Class of 1962 to the Class of 2022 and proved to be a wonderful opportunity for attendees to socialize with fellow alumni, as well as the varsity coaches and team. Coach Sean McCann spoke about the highly successful season, in addition to fielding questions from alumni. A special shout out to our former ISL hockey champions who were in attendance: Sam Burke ’04, Joe Harney ’92, Joe Hulbig ’92, and Luke Sweeney ’92. We look forward to carrying on this tradition with our supportive alumni base.

Luke Sweeney ’92, Joe Hulbig ’92, Will Elias ’22, Jed Doherty ’86 and Corey Ronan ’14 gathered in the O’Hearn Room for the first annual Alumni Hockey Reception.

Lunches with Recent Alumni In February, the Alumni Office hosted a series of lunches for alumni studying at local universities, including Harvard, Tufts, Boston College, Boston University, Northeastern, Brown, Providence College, Holy Cross, and WPI. The engaging discussions that took place serve as a testament to the School’s commitment to lifelong learning and relationship building, exemplifying that connections made at St. Sebastian’s transcend beyond high school.

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David ’73 & Meg Gately, Rich Arms, Bill & Patty Burke, and John Hayes & Tara Gately P’23 gather during Headmaster Burke’s annual visit with the St. Sebastian’s family in Florida.

Florida & California Receptions During the first week of March Break, Bill Burke made his final annual voyage to Florida and California as Headmaster. Joined by Patty Burke, Rich Arms, Director of Advancement, and Mike Melley, Director of Alumni & Development, receptions were held in Palm Beach, Naples, and San Francisco. Headmaster Burke took the opportunity to highlight the importance of the St. Sebastian’s mission and its promise for the future.

Alumni, parents, parents of alumni, and grandparents were all in attendance throughout the week. Special thanks to Devin ’92 and Erin Condron P’29,’29 for hosting the extended St. Sebastian’s family for a lovely evening at the Beach Club in Palm Beach. Heading west across the state, we are most thankful to Randy and Janet Seidl P’17,’19 for graciously opening their home in Naples to the St. Sebastian’s community once again. In San Francisco, Headmaster Burke and Rich Arms joined a group of alumni at the Hyatt Regency Embarcadero.

ALUMNI UPDATES

Lacrosse Alumni Suit Up to Play Varsity Arrows A Focus on the Asset Management Industry St. Sebastian’s hosted its first Asset Management Profession Networking Event on May 28. Alumni, parents, and parents of alumni heard from an outstanding panel: Devin Condron ’92, P’29,’29, Managing Director, Wealth Management, Morgan Stanley; Steve DuFour P’14,’18,’21, Portfolio Manager, Fidelity Investments; and Hugh Mullin P’13,’16, Senior Portfolio Manager, Columbia Threadneedle Investments. Alex Cook ’91, Chairman of the Alumni Board’s Professional Networking Committee, led the discussion, inviting each panelist to share his career journey and provide insight on a wide range of changes and challenges facing the industry. From ETFs to the rapid advances being made on the technology front, the panel accentuated the importance of remaining curious and diving deep into major trends. Most importantly, all three emphasized the importance of integrity in their dealings with clients and their investment process.

Over twenty alumni spanning from the Classes of 1984 to 2023 battled against the varsity lacrosse team for the annual Alumni Lacrosse Game on May 20. The game resulted in a win for the varsity team, breaking a three-year winning streak for alumni.

Kicking Off Summer

Alex Cook ’91 leads an engaging discussion with investment professionals from the St. Sebastian’s community, Steve DuFour P’14,’18,’21, Devin Condron ’92, P’29,’29, and Hugh Mullin P’13,’16.

On June 27, alumni from 2004 to 2019 came together for the 3rd Annual Summer Kickoff at Castle Island Brewery in South Boston. Arrows were joined by alumni from Brooks, Governor’s, Nobles, and St. Mark’s. This event was a great opportunity for alumni to reconnect with their St. Sebastian’s classmates and relive the glory days with ISL rivals, many of whom have become college friends and professional colleagues over time.

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Arrows Alumni Hit the Links The Alumni Golf Outing brought together 144 Arrows from the classes of 1962 to 2019 at South Shore Country Club on May 10.

For those celebrating a Reunion year, it provided a great way to launch the weekend’s celebrations, and for others, it was simply a fantastic excuse to spend the day on the course with fellow Arrows. Henry Birmingham ’17, Tim DiFiore ’17, Chris Joyce ’17, and Joe O’Malley ’17 took home first place with a score of -12. After golf, Headmaster Bill Burke and incoming Head of School Brendan Sullivan joined the group.

The participants had the opportunity to wish Bill well and to welcome Brendan. A special thank you to our Platinum Sponsor, Stephen Ward ’96, P’24,’25,’27,’29 and our Hole Sponsors: Brian Campbell ’71, John Quirk ’77, and Paul Masuret ’79.

Save the date and line up your foursomes for

next year’s Alumni Golf Outing on May 9, 2025.

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Tournament Champions

CLASS NOTES

CLASS NOTES

Jack Boyle '48, GP'23,'27, Salutatorian, addresses the Class of 1948 at Commencement.

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CLASS NOTES

WHAT’S

NEW?

Keep your classmates up to date on your accomplishments, family members, travels, or anything else new in your life. Send us photos, too!

Submit class notes and photos online at:

stsebs.org/classnotes Deadline for next issue:

DECEMBER 1, 2024

Photos will be published based on quality and available space. Please be sure to send the highest quality image possible and identify everyone in the photo.

1955

Peter McLaughlin, past Trustee, was featured in the Boston Pilot for his longstanding commitment and dedication to St. Columbkille Partnership School in Brighton. St. Columbkille’s newly renovated lobby was named in honor of Peter and his wife, Honey as “The Peter and Honey McLaughlin Welcome Center.” This stands as a testament to Arrows taking out into the world with them the Order of the Day: love God, work hard, and take good care of one another.

Congratulations to Peter and Honey on this well-deserved honor!

1957

Phil Donahue, Ed O’Donoghue, and Art Gorman met for lunch at the Mill Wharf Restaurant in Scituate, MA, on February 20. Ed reports: “Many stories were told, with some actually being true. Art flew in from Santa Rosa, CA, for this occasion…he was actually here visiting family. We had not seen each other for quite a spell so the visit was a wonderful time.”

1962

Edward Colozzi reports: “I retired and am doing pro bono counseling/ mentoring supporting individuals in the U.S. and abroad dealing with career-life transitions with a focus on core values discernment and the role of spirituality and wellness across our nine career-life roles in which most individuals globally are engaged simultaneously, including education and work. I’m continuing to publish professional articles, personal projects such as a screenplay/children’s stories, some video, and composing/playing music.

I’m President of the Massachusetts Career Development Association and Founder of the NEC (New England Consortium-NCDA State CDAs) comprised of the six New England State CDAs, CT, MA, ME, RI and the joint VT/NH State Divisions of the National Career Development Association (NCDA). Active on LinkedIn and X (Twitter).”

’55

LEFT: Peter ’55 and Honey McLaughlin with their family at the dedication of St. Columbkille’s lobby named in their honor. n RIGHT: Ted Curtin '70 publishes his first book, Get Smarter—Be Amazed.

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CLASS NOTES

1966

Donald Maloney ’75 writes about his brother, Jim Maloney ’66, “Jim is semi-retired from the non-profit he founded when he left Congress in 2003. It is The Connecticut Institute for Communities and is based in Danbury, CT. CIFC provides an array of services such as affordable housing, medical care, and a head start for children to low-income persons in the greater Danbury area.

Jim recently purchased a vacation home at the tip of Candlewood Lake ten miles north of Danbury where he lives with his wife Mary.”

1970

Ted Curtin shares, “My first book was released in May and is getting rave reviews on Amazon. It’s entitled Get Smarter–Be Amazed.

The publisher describes it as ‘a compendium of tantalizing trivia and obscure facts.’ It is available on Amazon or tedcurtinstories.com.”

1971

T. Gleason Gallagher gives an update on what his classmates are up to: “Bergie, Soupy, Eric and George continue to fine tune their golf games.

Noonie is still the Captain of Cotuit Bay Tours. Greg is working the summer hockey tournaments. Ritchie is a Grampa. McCue is in Rye for the summer. Huber is in Stowe. Maloney is in Falmouth. Henna is coming for The Golf Challenge vs. The Boys of ’70 in August. ’71 golf team members include Dandrow, Quealy and Whalen among others. Bill Coogan (once an MIA) has made his presence known. Matt Gilligan has completed his recovery.

Hoping to see John Canon at Granite Links. McGuane continues to aid in the technology of signing. Harry must be getting close to finishing his boat refurbishment project. And we’re still waiting for Barry’s new boat! Needless to say, the guys are busy and looking forward to cheering on the Arrows in the fall.”

ALUMNI EVENTS September 28 Homecoming October 24 Alumni Reception 29 Faculty Zoom Seminar November 11 Washington, D.C. Reception

12 New York City Reception 19 Professional Networking Event

26 Boston Business Breakfast

27 Class of 2024

Yearbook Reception

27 Thanksgiving Eve Social 30 Alumni Sports Day For more information, visit:

stsebs.org/alumnievents

Share your IDEAS for Alumni Profiles Do you know an alumnus you would like to see profiled in an issue of St. Sebastian’s Magazine?

’57 1957 classmates Phil Donahue, Ed O’Donoghue, and Art Gorman enjoy catching up over lunch at the Mill Wharf Restaurant in Scituate, MA.

Tell us about it! Send an email with your suggestions to our Communications Office at communications@stsebs.org.

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CLASS NOTES

’69

’62

’03

’18

1962 classmates Fred Corcoran, Paul Viano, and Steve Theall at the Alumni Hockey Reception following St. Sebastian’s victory over Thayer on February 23. n 1969 classmates get together to discuss their 55th Reunion. From left: Andi and Chris Galligan, Mary and Mike Ready, Margo and Joe Tansey. n Will Hayes ’03 and his wife, Kristina, welcome their first child, Benjamin Martin Hayes, on March 1, 2024. n James Mooney ’18 at his Naval Commissioning Ceremony with Bill Burke and Brendan Sullivan. n Arrows alumni and college hockey players, Tom Lyons ’19 and Mikey Callow ’22 of Harvard, and Michael Cataldo ’22 of Brown, with former faculty member and mentor, David Cornish, after they competed against each other at a hockey game at Harvard. n Arrows alumni and Tufts University teammates Sam Frisoli ’21, Kristian Rosario ’20, and Ben Frisoli ’22, celebrate winning the Division III Lacrosse National Championship.

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CLASS NOTES

1978

Duane “Tony” Reddick writes: “After 35 years of service as a teacher, coach, and administrator, including five years of leading the Gadsden City School System as its 12th Superintendent, I officially retired on September 1, 2023. Since that time, I have enjoyed many leisurely pursuits. I continue my love of painting and writing, which has resulted in several art gallery features as well as charitable donations to art auctions, and anticipation of my fourth book being published by the end of this year. I continue to serve on four Boards of Directors, and I’ve proudly accepted the honor of being inducted into the Quality of Life Health Services Hall of Fame and being named a ‘Living Legend’ at the Notable Alumni Reception at Talladega College. My wife Belinda and I celebrated our 40th Anniversary this past February, and we have been thoroughly enjoying the fruit of our labor, which now includes three amazing grandchildren, William, Katelin, and Ian. Although I missed our 45th Class Reunion, my prayer is to be with you at the 50th and perhaps

to make a few visits in the interim since my 91-year-old mother has recently moved back to Boston.”

1990

Sean Mulvey reports, “I recently joined Stirista as Senior Vice President of Sales and recently moved to Uxbridge, MA.”

1994

Congratulations to Chris Kelleher on being named Director of Player Personnel for Team USA’s 2026 U.S. Olympic Men’s Ice Hockey Team and the NHL 4 Nations Face-Off.

2018

Upon graduating from Officer Candidate School, Ensign James Mooney marked his official entry into the military service at his Naval Commissioning Ceremony in Newport, RI, on January 26. Bill Burke and Brendan Sullivan attended the ceremony to show their support and congratulate the new officer!

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IN MEMORIAM

We extend our deepest sympathy to the families of the graduates and friends of St. Sebastian’s School whose deaths are reported with sorrow.

PAST TRUSTEES Carroll D. Swan Board of Visitors

Carroll Swan died peacefully at home in Palm Beach on April 19, 2024. A loyal and beloved member of St. Sebastian’s family, she will be greatly missed. Her husband, Tom Swan ’60, served as a charter member of St. Sebastian’s Board of Trustees, playing a vital role in its formation in 1972. He, along with his close friends and fellow Arrows, Jack Birmingham ’59 and Brad Griffith ’58, and other heroes that they conscripted, helped the school weather a sea of challenges and emerge even stronger. Carroll was by Tom’s side throughout the 39 years he served on the Board, including as its second President from 1978 to 1984.

The Swans were also involved in several capital campaigns, helping to improve the School beyond measure.

In 1999, they dedicated the Chapel to all parents of St. Sebastian’s as part of the New Century Fund Campaign.

“Carroll exemplified the spirit of St. Sebastian’s at our very best. Bright, gracious, loving, loyal, courageous, kind and giving, she was there for us when we needed her most,” shared Bill Burke. “All that Carroll and Tom did to help our school survive and ultimately thrive could never be quantified, nor will we ever be able to thank them enough.”

Carroll attended Newton Country Day School of the Sacred Heart in Newton, MA, and Trinity College in Washington, D.C. From an early age, she was a talented and avid golfer. However, her true pride, joy and purpose in life was being a mother, wife and grandmother. She was married to Tom for almost 43 years before his death 13 years ago. Carroll is survived by her son Tom; six grandchildren whom she adored; and her brother-in-law, Joseph Edward Swan Sr. ’63, and his three children.

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Mark L. O’Friel ’79 Former Trustee

Mark passed away on April 16, 2024. Born and raised in Newton, MA, Mark was a true embodiment of integrity and courage, touching the lives of many with his quiet strength and profound generosity.

While at St. Sebastian’s, Mark was Valedictorian, all-league basketball star, and editor of The Walrus. After high school, Mark studied at Harvard College.

Mark enjoyed a fulfilling career as Managing Partner of MOF Capital. Previously, he worked as Managing Director at Morgan Stanley and Steel Partners Japan.

Mark was a man of few words, and many did not know how involved he was in other people’s lives. His profound humility, enduring patience, and unwavering support for friends and family defined his character. A mentor to many, Mark’s thoughtful guidance and wise counsel will be sorely missed. In Mark’s eulogy, Bill Burke asserted, “The following appears to have been Mark’s game plan for life: exude and inspire the good, the true and the beautiful, uplift every person you meet, improve every place you grace, get to Heaven, and take as many people with you as possible.”

Mark served dutifully on St. Sebastian’s Board of Trustees from 2012-2021, was a tremendous asset as Chair of the Endowment Committee from 2017-2021, and served on the Development and Long-Range Planning Committees.

He also actively supported Harvard College, serving on the Advisory Board of the Harvard Asia Center and the Leadership Council of the Harvard School of Public Health, as well as supporting the Harvard School of Public Health China Initiative and the Harvard Humanitarian Initiative.

Mark’s personal pursuits reflected his adventurous spirit and love for the outdoors. As an avid skier, cycler, mountaineer, and golfer, he found solace and joy in nature’s grandeur. He would spend vacations traveling the world to go hiking with his family. Mark is survived by his loving wife of 33 years, Yoko, their sons, Ken and Eugene, and his brothers Paul ’77 and Michael ’78.

IN MEMORIAM

ARROWS ALUMNI Felice “Fil” A. Bonica ’58

Fil passed away peacefully on February 4, 2024. During his time at St. Sebastian’s, Fil was a member of the Radio Club and excelled in the sciences. He attended Tufts University and enjoyed a lengthy career in sales, notably with the General Electric Radio Division. In retirement, he found fulfillment in owning and managing several rental properties. His passions included restoring vintage military jeeps, a hobby he shared with his son, Andrew, and woodworking. He lovingly designed and built furniture for his own grandchildren and many children in his community. Above all, Fil’s greatest joy was his family.

Fil was preceded in death by his beloved wife Barbara and brother Joseph ’51. Fil is survived by his son, Andrew, and his two granddaughters.

William Brine Jr. ’48

Bill died peacefully on February 28, 2024. While at St. Sebastian’s, Bill enjoyed skiing and choir. After high school, he attended the College of the Holy Cross and then entered the U.S. Navy. Later, he began working for a sports equipment business that his grandfather had started in 1922. Bill was an eager traveler and visited Japan, South Africa, China, and more. In 1957, he met Ann Coughlin, his sister’s friend, and they married the following year. Bill was a born storyteller and a creative man, full of energy and ideas. He built and renovated several houses and seldom went anywhere without his camera. Bill is survived by his wife, Ann; their children, Heather, Bill, Libby, and Christina; his siblings Peter and Christina; five grandchildren and a great-granddaughter.

Kevin F. Burke ’71

Kevin passed away peacefully on January 13, 2024. Kevin attended St. Sebastian’s and then finished his high school career at Philips Academy in Andover. After graduating, Kevin attended Harvard, where he was a dedicated member of the Owl Club and excelled on a hockey team that achieved Ivy Championships, a Beanpot title, and Frozen Four appearances. After college, Kevin moved to New York and joined Bankers Trust, where he met the love

of his life, Mimi Hazen. After 25 years with Bankers Trust/ Deutsche Bank, he joined GE Capital/Antares. Despite his demanding career, Kevin was an extremely hands-on dad and made time to coach all of his kids’ Rye Rangers hockey teams. Kevin is survived by his wife, Mimi; his children Ryan, Kevin Jr., Kelley, and Courtney; his father and stepmother, Charles and Claire Burke; his siblings Charles III ’72, Brian, Greg, Ted ’78, Terry, and Tim; six grandchildren; and many beloved nieces and nephews.

Nicholas J. Cammarata ’99

Nick passed away on June 4, 2024.

While at St. Sebastian’s, Nick excelled at hockey and earned All-League and AllNew England honors. Nick went on to play hockey at Merrimack College and served as one of Merrimack’s captains during the 2002-03 season. After that, he played four seasons professionally in the ECHL, SPHL, CHL, as well as a brief stint in Italy. Nick was an assistant coach with the Vernal Oilers (CAJHL) in 2021-22 and was later hired as the head coach of the Texas Jr. Brahmas (NA3HL). Last season, he was an assistant coach with the Badlands Sabres (NA3HL). This spring, Nick joined the New Hampshire Mountain Kings Academy as the 15U coach. Nick had a passion and drive for the game that was unparalleled; it is comforting to know he passed doing what he loved. Nick is survived by his parents, Vincent and Linda, his sisters, Hayley and Cydney; and several cousins aunts and uncles.

Edward M. Carens ’61

Ed Carens died peacefully on June 16, 2024. During his days as an Arrow, Ed was a standout center fielder and captain of a winning basketball team, a member of the Drama Club, and had an exceptional academic record. He went on to attend the University of Notre Dame and served four years in the U.S. Army as a commissioned Officer at both Ft. Knox, KY and with the defensive U.S. forces in South Korea. He had a long successful career as a wealth management specialist and stockbroker. An avid, New England rated amateur golfer, he spent his vacations playing golf courses all over the U.S. and Europe. He was a volunteer at the North Castle Library where he worked as a golf pro until his retirement. Ed is survived by his children Kelley, Heidi, and Mark, and six grandchildren.

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IN MEMORIAM

James M. Daly, Jr. ’59

Jim died peacefully on May 24, 2024.

During his time at St. Sebastian’s, Jim played tennis, was involved in Drama Club, and wrote for The Walrus. He went on to attend Boston College and then served for four years in the U.S. Military, stationed for a time in Germany.

Following his military service, Jim spent 37 years in various roles at New England Telephone, where he met the love of his life and wife of 48 years, Ursula. They raised their family in Norwell, MA, where Jim served on the Advisory Board for the town and volunteered for over 25 years within Norwell Youth Athletics. In 2000, Jim received an honorary recognition plaque for his dedicated service to the youth of Norwell and his leadership to the athletes of Old Colony Youth Football. Jim is survived by his five children, Deborah, James III, Christopher, Matthew, and Adam; eight grandchildren; two great grandchildren; and former spouse and close friend, Christine Daly.

L. Sheldon Daly Jr. ’54

Sheldon passed away peacefully on January 15, 2024. During his time at St. Sebastian’s, he played football and hockey, and was a member of the Altar Society.

After graduating, Sheldon attended Boston College where he was a longtime member of the BC Varsity Club and the founder of the BC Hall of Fame Club. Sheldon worked for his entire career as a material handling and storage equipment expert. He was a communicant of St. Paul’s Parish, where he was a longtime lector and choir member and participated in many shows at the Hingham Community Theatre. Sheldon is survived by six children, Donna, Maryclare, Sheldon, Michael, John and Matthew; nine grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. He is also survived by brothers, William and David ’65. In addition to his parents, Sheldon was predeceased by siblings Robert, Timothy ’56, and Mary.

Dr. Gary A. Eichorn ’72

Gary passed away peacefully on May 30, 2024. While at St. Sebastian’s, Gary participated in track and basketball. Gary received a BS from Boston College before earning his DMD from Tufts School of Dental Medicine. He worked as a dentist in Westerly for more than 15 years. After retiring early, he enjoyed traveling extensively and regaling his nieces and nephews with tales of how he found the

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souvenirs he brought back for them. Gary loved to spend time with his family and craft beautiful and delicious desserts. He volunteered with the Sierra Club and Habitat for Humanity, leading many trips and contributing to the construction of several homes in Westerly. He previously served as president of the Rotary Club of Westerly. Gary leaves his brothers Rick, Steve, and Phil; his sister-in-law Gayla; his nieces and nephews, as well as his great-nieces.

He was preceded in death by his brother, John.

Joseph J. Iorio, Jr. ’65

Joe passed away on June 22, 2024. While at St. Sebastian’s, Joe was a member of the Honor Society and enjoyed playing hockey and intramural football. Joe went on to Northeastern University and after graduating, he went into the family business with his father at Atlantic Heating and Air Conditioning. Joe was full of life, love, generosity, and care for others. He spent his adult life working and building the legacy of Atlantic, coaching his sons’ sports teams, always taking the team out for dinner (win or lose), and spending time with family in Brewster, at Sears Point and on the golf course. Joe is survived by his partner Teri Riley; his children, Jonathan and Alexander; and four grandchildren.

Andrew M. McAuliffe Jr. ’48

Andy died peacefully on January 14, 2024. While at St. Sebastian’s, Andy excelled at athletics and still holds the school record for most varsity letters in a high school career (14). Upon graduating from Bates College, he was signed by the Boston Braves and eventually traded to the Baltimore Orioles. During the Korean War, Andy served as a First Lieutenant Pilot in the Marine Corps.

During a break in spring training for the Orioles, he met the love of his life, Claire. Andy had a long career in sales in the Boston and Newton area. He is survived by five of his children, Andrew III ’75, John ’78, Ted ’81, Joanmarie, and Paul ’86. He is the proud grandfather of sixteen grandchildren, including Arrows alumni, Andrew IV ’09, Paul ’16, and Thomas ’23 McAuliffe, and Justin ’15 and Michael ’21 Lee. Andy was predeceased by his beloved wife, Claire; his son, Lawrence ’79; his two sisters, Joan and Marie; and his brother, Lawrence ’48.

IN MEMORIAM

Thomas A. McCarthy ’80

Tom passed away on July 10, 2024.

During his time at St. Sebastian’s, Tom played football, baseball, and basketball and served as Student Council Vice President. After graduating, Tom attended Providence College where he met the love of his life, Maura. The honor of Tom’s life began when he joined the United States Secret Service in September of 1986. His dedication to his country and leadership abilities propelled his 27-year career of service. Following his retirement from the USSS, he spent the next 11 years at NBCUniversal as Senior Vice President & Global Chief Security Officer. Though Tom was blessed with an incredible career, his true joy was his family. Tom is survived by his wife, Maura; their children Tom Jr., Molly, Colin, and Elizabeth; his siblings Ed ’78, Joe, John, and Maura; two grandchildren; and countless nieces and nephews, including Arrow Eddie ’13.

Charles O. Monahan ’57

Charlie passed away peacefully on March 30, 2024. During his days as an Arrow, Charlie excelled at football, wrote for The Walrus, and was dubbed class clown. After high school, he attended the University of Notre Dame where he played football and later graduated from Suffolk Law School. Charlie coached Pop Warner in Charlestown for many years. He was an avid runner and ran marathons on all seven continents. A veteran of the U.S. Navy, he was awarded a Purple Heart for his courageous service in the Vietnam War, but he humbly declined it as he felt it was unfair to his fallen brothers. He was the loving father of Cein, Meaghan, and the late Cailin. He is survived by his granddaughter, Mary; nephew Peter and niece Kara; and his loving companion Kathy Walsh.

Kevin J. Murphy ’60

Kevin passed away peacefully on March 27, 2024. While at St. Sebastian’s, Kevin excelled in academics, was a member of the Altar Society, and wrote for The Walrus. He went on to study at Boston College and was a member of the ROTC and served in the Army after graduation.

Kevin owned and operated Patriot Envelope Company for many years. An avid golfer, he was a member of Cranberry Valley in Harwich and Cape Royal Golf Club in Cape Coral.

He is survived by several nieces and nephews, as well as grandnieces and nephews.

Michael J. O’Doherty Jr. ’68

Michael passed away peacefully on February 13, 2024. While at St. Sebastian’s, Michael played basketball, was a member of the Altar Society, and wrote for The Walrus. After high school, Michael attended Boston College. He was an enthusiastic sports fan and had a broad knowledge of history, sports, and statistics. Michael traveled extensively during his life, and especially loved visiting Ireland. He was predeceased by his beloved son, Ryan Michael Fandetti, USMC, who served in the Iraq War, and his loving parents, Michael Sr. and Mary O’Doherty. Michael is survived by his six siblings, Maura, Coleman ’66, James, John ’74, Deirdre, and Carmel. “Uncle Mike” will also be lovingly remembered by many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Robert B. Quinn ’69

Bob passed away peacefully on May 4, 2024.

While at St. Sebastian’s, Bob participated in track, hockey, drama, and debate. He went on to study at Saint Michael’s College and worked at BayBank after graduating, becoming branch manager. Bob taught photography at the Gifford School, a therapeutic school in Weston, and was a food broker for more than 25 years for the Johnson-O’Hare Company. He had a keen interest in World War I and traveled the country to interview and photograph WWI vets who shared their experiences. Bob leaves his siblings, Philip, Jr. ’67, Jeffrey ’72, George ’78, and Rosemary; step-brother Richard Cohn ’64; cousins Carl ’66, Daniel ’71, Steve ’72, Michael ’74, and Peter ’76 McManama; and several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his sister, Alexandra, and step-brother Peter Cohn ’67.

Joseph L. Supple ’51

Joe passed away on June 2, 2024. While at St. Sebastian’s, he played tennis, managed the football team, and was a member of the Ski Club. Joe went on to study at the College of the Holy Cross. He served in the U.S. Navy aboard the USS Brownson in the Mediterranean and Middle East during the Suez Crisis, and later in the U.S., U. K. and Germany with the Naval Reserve Intelligence Program. Joe’s 34-year career in the computer industry included numerous software services and consulting roles, eventually retiring in 1990 from Digital Equipment Corporation (now known as HP, Inc.).

Joe is survived by his siblings, Jacqueline and David ’57; his children, Carolyn, John, and Alison; and three grandchildren.

He was preceded in death by his brother, Peter ’56.

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IN MEMORIAM

Glenn C. Rogers ’57

Glenn passed away on January 21, 2024. While at St. Sebastian’s, Glenn participated in Debate, The Walrus, and intramural basketball. After high school, he studied at Boston College.

Glenn always dreamed of travel, and so he departed the USA for an 8-year stint as a Life Insurance Salesman and Manager in Europe.

Upon his return to the U.S., he became editor for the San Antonio Express News. Along with editing, Glenn wrote “Rubs Me Raw,” a humorous weekly sports column for the paper, before he landed his job of a lifetime covering the San Antonio Spurs and the NBA for the Express News from 1985-2003. Glenn covered the 1992 Barcelona Olympics and the USA Men’s Basketball Dream Team. He was also the author of The San Antonio Spurs Basketball Team. Glenn is survived by his three children, Glenn, Linda, and Cole; grandson Steven; brother Alan; and first wife Gale.

James R. Tyrrell ’76

Jim passed away peacefully on May 8, 2024. While at St. Sebastian’s, he enjoyed playing golf, baseball, and basketball. After graduation, Jim went on to study at Boston College. He had a distinguished career in the commercial insurance industry, serving as a vice president and executive at Alexander & Alexander, Kaler Carney Liffler & Co., Knapp Schenck and NEIS. Jim was a passionate golfer and lifelong member of Weston Golf Club. While always humble, Jim was a four-time Club Champion at Weston GC and competed in many Massachusetts Amateur events throughout his life, including his victory in the annual Boston Globe/ MGA Tournament of Club Champions in 1999. Jim was the beloved husband of Laura Duffey Tyrrell for nearly 35 years; devoted and cherished father of James Jr., Alexandra, and Kerry Anne. Jim is survived by siblings Joseph and Mary.

This listing contains deaths reported before July 10 , 2024.

To see a full listing of alumni who have passed away within the past 12 months please go to www.stsebs.org/inmemoriam.

To report a death of a St. Sebastian’s alumnus or relative to the Advancement Office, please send the details to Kelsey Kane at kelsey_kane@stsebs.org.

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George F. Wilkins Jr. ’55

George passed away on July 10, 2024. While at St. Sebastian’s, George wrote for The Walrus, and played tennis and intramural basketball. He graduated cum laude from Harvard College in 1959 with a degree in English Literature. Shortly after graduating, he served in the U.S. Army in Germany until 1963. After getting his MBA from Babson College, George’s business career culminated in his role as Senior Vice President and Chief Investment Officer at Keystone Investment Mgt. Corp. in Boston, where his leadership and vision were instrumental in guiding the firm. Beyond his professional life, George was an accomplished pianist, competitive squash player, and an enthusiastic photographer. He cherished the time spent with his beloved dogs but above all, he loved his wife, Sally, with whom he enjoyed 63 years of marriage. George is survived by his daughters, Anne, Susan, and Carolyn; and his brothers, Anthony and Peter. He was preceded in death by his wife, Sally, earlier this year.

ALUMNI RELATIVES & FRIENDS Dolores Boyle April 11, 2024 Wife of Jack ’48 and grandmother of Jack ’23 and Rocco ’27 John Brennan April 23, 2024 Grandfather of Matthew ’09 Alice Michele “Mikey” Cusack March 28, 2024 Mother of Joseph ’88, grandmother of Jake ’20 and Griffin ’22, mother-in-law of Tim Greeley ’83 Deacon Virgil Glenn May 13, 2024 Father of Gordon ’90 Charlene Kasper January 27, 2024 Mother of William ’81 and grandmother of Brian Luppy ’22 Lorraine Maguire February 8, 2024 Mother of Bob ’73 and Dennis ’76

Paul Maney February 29, 2024 Father of Bill ’81 JoAnn McGrath February 19, 2024 Mother of David J. III ’77, Scott ’78, Chris ’81, and Sean ’85 Janet Murphy April 1, 2024 Mother of Richard ’75 Lisa Ogrinc March 19, 2024 Mother of Matthias ’25 Carl Pergola January 7, 2024 Father of Michael ’93 Eileen Roche January 4, 2024 Mother of Dan Jr. ’76, Jay ’77, and grandmother of Will ’17

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