St. Sebastian's Magazine, Fall 2025/Winter 2026

S T. S EBASTIAN’S FALL 2025 / WINTER 2026

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2025-2026 Board of Trustees Archbishop Richard G. Henning, S.T.D. Chairman Devin C. Condron ‘92, P’29,’29,’31 President Brendan W. Sullivan P’25,’29 Executive Officer, Head of School James F. Mooney III P’18 Vice President John A. Piccione ’76 Secretary Michael J. Maguire ‘91, P’22,’25 Treasurer Members: Mark H. Carter P’28 Meyer J. Chambers P’10’,14 Tara B. Ciongoli P’25’,25’,27’,29 Denis J. Cleary, III P’27 Casey M. Condron ’94 P’23’,24’,28 Timothy J. Connelly P’17’,19 Marybeth Connolly P’27 Catherine C. Daniel P’15’,18’,20 Paul A. D’Attanasio ’96 P’31 Timothy P. Doherty ’87 P’17 Michael R. Frisoli P’17’,19’,21’,22’,26 Dr. Chris Hahm P’22’,26 Kristen D. Maxwell P’25 David C. Nahabedian P’29 Matthew R. Perry ’06 Dr. Edward T. Ryan P’23 Michael J. Stanton ’88 P’20 Gina Usechek P’27’,29 Jeffrey P. von Arx, S.J. Robert V. Wallace, Jr. ’89 P’25 Stephen P. Ward ’96 P’24’,25’,27’,29 Kyle E. White ’09 Wendy C. Thurmond P’25,’28 President, Guild of St. Irene Richard H. Sutphin Jr. P’26 President, Men’s Association Ryan R. Fitzpatrick ‘92 President, Alumni Association David F. Gately ‘73 Trustee Emeritus

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S T. S EBASTIAN’ S M AGAZINE

FEATURES

IN EVERY ISSUE

18 Mission

2 Head of School’s Letter

Head of School Brendan Sullivan delivers remarks on the one-word theme for the academic year.

34 Elcock Arts Center Dedication

The St. Sebastian’s community gathers to dedicate the Elcock Arts Center honoring Jim Elcock ’77, P’08.

40 Pushing Arrows to the Next Level

A renovated weight room and new sports performance coach enhance Arrows athletics.

56 A Debate Tradition

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Around Campus

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New Trustees

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Faculty & Staff News

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Event Highlights

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Fine Arts

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Fall Sports

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Alumni Events

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Class Notes

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In Memoriam

Head of School Brendan W. Sullivan P’25,’29 Assistant Head of School Michael P. Nerbonne Dean of Advancement Jenny Callahan

Editor & Designer Christine Y. Robertson, Director of Communications Principal Photographer Chris Dehney, Visual Media Coordinator Editorial Advisor Michael Deschenes P’28, Director of Library & Information Services

St. Sebastian’s Magazine is published twice a year by the Communications Office.

Carried Forward

Correspondence concerning the magazine should be sent to: communications@stsebs.org

Alex Roth ’23 and Will Hansen ’23 draw on their Arrow experience to organize a collegiate debate.

St. Sebastian’s School 1191 Greendale Avenue Needham, MA 02492 781.449.5200 www.stsebs.org COVER: Photo by Andrew MacDougall ’27 captures Henry’s Corner cheering on our runners at the Homecoming race.

Elcock Arts Center Dedication

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A Debate Tradition Carried Forward

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St. Sebastian’s School Mission Statement A Catholic independent school, St. Sebastian’s seeks to engage young men in the pursuit of truth through faith and reason. By embracing Gospel values in an inclusive, nurturing community and by inspiring intellectual excellence in a structured liberal arts curriculum, St. Sebastian’s strives to empower students for success in college and in life. The ideal St. Sebastian’s graduate will be a moral and just person, a gentleman of courage, honor, and wisdom, a life-long learner who continues to grow in his capacity to know, to love, and to serve God and neighbor.

INSIDE COVER: The statue of St. Irene serves as the centerpiece of the Garden of St. Irene (dedication story, pg. 36).

“Be who you were created to be, and you will set the world on fire.”

From the Desk of the Head of School

—St. Catherine of Siena

Brenda n W . S u lliv a n

There is a special energy that runs through the St. Sebastian’s campus—an unmistakable spirit that comes from young men being challenged to be their best in every pursuit, guided by care, purpose, and love for their community. It’s felt on the athletic fields, where discipline, teamwork, and quiet confidence are forged through early morning workouts and late afternoon practices. That atmosphere is both demanding and deeply supportive— words that perfectly describe legendary faculty member, coach, and Athletic Director Henry T. Lane.

Henry was one of my early mentors at St. Sebastian’s, and I know how honored he was to discover that our student fan section is known fondly as “Henry’s Corner.” That same energy is captured on the magazine’s front cover, where Henry’s Corner is on full display during the Homecoming Cross Country race, and mirrored on the back cover, where the Arrowhead Ensemble’s talent and enthusiasm filled Ward Hall during the Christmas Program, earning several raucous standing ovations.

Whether it’s the sacred start of the day in chapel, a science lab alive with curiosity and discovery, or students bringing Shakespeare to life in competition, the vibrancy of St. Sebastian’s is evident in every corner of campus. These experiences are different expressions of the same belief: that learning—whether athletic, artistic, academic, or spiritual—is something to be pursued with passion and purpose. Together, they make St. Sebastian’s a place where tradition and achievement meet, and where something greater than any single individual takes root and is celebrated.

That energy extends well beyond campus, carried by our alumni and shared across the entire Arrows family. I felt it at the fall alumni gatherings in Washington, D.C. and New York; at the Boston Business Breakfast just before Thanksgiving; and at the Christmas Auction at the Fairmont Copley Plaza in Boston, where the evening was alive with community, love for the School, and remarkable generosity.

The St. Sebastian’s energy is not confined to a place or a moment in time. Instead, it becomes a lifelong current, connecting our community across miles and years. What an incredible privilege it is to be part of such an extraordinary family. Please enjoy the stories and reflections in this edition of St. Sebastian’s Magazine, celebrating the achievements of our students and alumni, and the spirit that unites us.

May peace be with you,

Brendan W. Sullivan Head of School

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A Legacy of Service & Love St. Sebastian’s welcomed alumnus Joe Dunn ’84, P’28, to campus on September 29 for the annual Founder’s Day Assembly, marking the School’s 84th anniversary. The annual event commemorates the first day of classes, held on September 29, 1941, on Nonantum Hill in Newton.

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TOP: Founder’s Day speaker Joe Dunn ’84, P’28 reflects on his parents’ story featured in the All School Read, The Search for Canasta 404. BOTTOM: Joe with his son, Patrick ’28, wife, Beverly, and Head of School Brendan Sullivan.

heartfelt introduction by Joe’s son, Patrick ’28, set the stage for a deeply personal and inspiring address. Joe reflected on the All School Read, The Search for Canasta 404, sharing the remarkable story of his parents, Joe and Maureen Dunn. Joe Sr., a Navy pilot during the Vietnam War, went missing over China, shaping his mother’s extraordinary life. She devoted herself to advocating for American Prisoners of War and those Missing in Action, gathering tens of thousands of petition signatures and navigating complex government channels long before the internet or social media. Through her advocacy, she helped bring closure to countless families, including securing proper honors and support for returning soldiers.

Reflecting on his time at St. Sebastian’s, Joe expressed deep gratitude for his classmates and the School’s support during a period of financial uncertainty. He shared how the community—including people like former Business Manager, Jack Doherty ’62—ensured he could complete his education, fostering bonds that endure to this day.

Joe also highlighted his mother’s later work with the Achilles Project, supporting amputee veterans and creating opportunities for them to participate in sports and community events. In 2013, just five days before she passed away, Maureen received a six-minute standing ovation at TD Garden as the Boston Bruins dedicated a “Chair of Honor” to POW/MIA soldiers.

In closing, Joe emphasized that his family’s story is one of love, perseverance, and the impact a single person can have. “I’m incredibly proud to be here today,” he said. “I love St. Sebastian’s. I love my son being here, and I love that I went here. It is a true brotherhood.”

Joe’s Founder’s Day address reminded the school community that service, family, and gratitude remain at the heart of St. Sebastian’s 84-year tradition.

A Language Exchange with Students in Argentina St. Sebastian’s Spanish Department recently partnered with Instituto San Román in Argentina for a global conversation project. Eighty-three upper-level Spanish students connected one-on-one with 107 Argentine peers through virtual conversations, practicing Spanish and English while learning about another culture. After introducing themselves and our community, students planned, coordinated, and led 20-minute Zoom calls—transforming initial nerves into authentic, meaningful exchanges across continents. Students from both schools collaborated on a wrap-up video to reflect on a shared experience that brought language learning to life.

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Rohan Ghatge ’28 Receives Young Conservationist Award

Retreats Offer Time for Reflection

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his fall, Arrows in Grades 7, 8, 11, and 12 took part in their annual class retreats, led by Fr. Boyle and the Religion Department. Designed to deepen students’ relationships with God and one another, each retreat offered age-appropriate opportunities for reflection, prayer, and community building.

The retreat season began in late August when the juniors returned to campus for a day centered on small-group discussions, silent contemplation, and the celebration of Holy Mass. The day was especially meaningful as Fr. Christopher Boyle introduced himself to the class in his new role as School Chaplain.

In October, the 7th and 8th graders traveled to the Connors Center in Dover for their retreats. Eleven members of the Class of 2026 served as chaperones, generously sharing their leadership and insight as the younger Arrows participated in guided reflection, enjoyed time together, and concluded the day with the Eucharist.

In early November, seniors were invited to an optional three-day overnight retreat at the Craigville Conference Center on Cape Cod. With 41 seniors choosing to participate—the largest turnout in years— the experience was deeply meaningful for both students and faculty chaperones alike.

Rohan Ghatge ’28 has been recognized as the first student ever to receive the Young Conservationist Award from the Zoological Association of America (ZAA) for his outstanding work in rhino conservation. The award was presented at the ZAA conference in early October in San Antonio, TX, honoring Rohan’s dedication to protecting rhinos and raising awareness about poaching and habitat loss.

Rohan’s passion for rhinos began at age 10 during a rhino encounter at Southwick Zoo, where he met the zoo’s resident rhinos, Thelma and Louise. “After that experience, I realized the plight of rhinos is more than just statistics,” Rohan said. “Seeing them up close and learning about poaching made me want to take action.” Over the past five years, he has raised thousands of dollars for rhino conservation, including contributions that helped save a rhino shot in the head and supported orphaned calves in the wild.

During Corporate Chapel on November 12, Betsy Brewer, founder of the non-profit Earth Limited and Zoological Director of Southwick Zoo, visited St. Sebastian’s to personally present Rohan with the award and celebrate his achievements with the community.

Rohan Ghatge ’28 with Betsy Brewer, founder of Earth Limited and Zoological Director of Southwick Zoo.

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COMMEMORATING VETERANS DAY On November 11, David Greaney ’26 delivered a heartfelt speech at the Needham Veterans Day Ceremony, honoring the courage and selflessness of those who serve. Drawing on his family’s story, he reflected on his father’s immigrant journey, noting, “Through its ups and downs, our country is the greatest in the world because it’s the land of opportunity.”

Greaney expressed his desire to join the U.S. Army and pursue West Point.

During the ceremony, Brendan Fleming ’29 performed the national anthem.

Senior members of the Finance Academy and Real Estate Club with Dave Greaney P’26 (center) and Assistant Head of School Michael Nerbonne.

Finance Academy Speaker Series The Finance Academy welcomed two current parents this fall, offering students insight into real-world finance, accounting, and real estate.

On September 23, Dave Greaney P’26 spoke to nearly 100 students at the combined year-opening meeting of the Finance Academy and Real Estate Club. He shared his journey from Limerick, Ireland, to founding Synergy, one of Boston’s largest real estate firms. Sharing several lessons from his career, Greaney emphasized that the most valuable of them all is to “keep your word even when it’s hard.” He also highlighted the importance of taking thoughtful risks, building strong relationships and a positive work culture, gathering thorough information, and learning from every conversation.

Assistant Head of School Michael Nerbonne, Brendan Fleming ’29, David Greaney ’26, and Associate Dean of Students Dan Burke stand with a veteran at the ceremony.

On November 19, Landen Williams P’26,’28 spoke about the intersection of finance and accounting and the lessons his career has taught him. A co-founder of WilliamsMarston, and currently Executive Co-Chairman, Williams stressed the value of hard work, relationship-building, curiosity, and strong communication skills. He also discussed the evolving role of technology in business, including AI, while highlighting the enduring importance of financial analysis.

Robotics Team Wins Design Award On Saturday, December 20, St. Sebastian’s FTC Robotics Teams competed at Revere High School against 16 other teams. Team 133 earned the Design Award for its intricate multi-stage intake-outtake system and advanced to the semifinals. Team 19556 showcased determination and skill in all five matches, gaining valuable experience and building momentum for future competitions.

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Unity Day Focuses on “The Full Circle of Humility”

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n October 31, St. Sebastian’s held its annual Unity Day, a time to deepen awareness of every person’s dignity and strengthen the bonds that unite us, helping all grow in the capacity to know, love, and serve God and neighbor.

Keynote speaker Ron Burton, Jr. shared lessons on “the full circle of humility,” a phrase his late father, Ron Burton, Sr., used to describe the lifelong responsibility of remembering where you came from and using success to lift others up. He illustrated this idea with stories from Ron Sr.’s life, from earning All-American status at Northwestern University to becoming the Boston Patriots’ first-ever number one draft pick in 1960.

After retiring from professional football, Ron Sr. felt called to give back and founded the Ron Burton Training Village (RBTV) in 1985.

RBTV brings together young people from across the country to focus on leadership, physical fitness, spiritual growth, and academic excellence, all within a framework of love and service.

Representatives from RBTV spent the day on campus leading students through activities that included reflection, team-building, and interactive games. The day underscored the profound impact our words and actions have on others, reminding everyone that we are called to treat one another with dignity and respect. As Ron Jr. reminded the Arrows, the full circle of humility teaches that we need others—and others need us—to hold us accountable, encourage us, share wisdom, and point us toward Christ.

LEFT: Students enjoy executing challenges while on trampolines. n TOP RIGHT: Ron Burton, Jr., founder of the Ron Burton Training Village, delivers the keynote speech on Unity Day. n MIDDLE RIGHT: Arrows work together in a team-building exercise. n BOTTOM RIGHT: Students have some fun with bubbles.

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Arrows Shine in Debate 68 Students Inducted into the NATIONAL HONOR SOCIETY This fall, 68 St. Sebastian’s students were inducted into the Sr. Evelyn C. Barrett, O.P. Chapter of the National Honor Society. The National Honor Society aims to create an enthusiasm for scholarship, stimulate a desire to render service, promote leadership, and develop character.

CLASS OF 2026 Paolo R. Castro Griffin A. Collins David H. Greaney

Sebastian R. Martinez-Moule Wachira Njoroge Dylan C. Van Biert

CLASS OF 2027 Ethan J. Abdella Nicholas Albornoz Tristen S. Alexander Cormac E. Anderson Joseph J. Bachiochi Gus C. Baer Rocco E. Boyle Demetrios P. Catrickes Thomas D. Ciongoli Aidan C. Cleary Ryan M. Connolly Rohit Dabas Henry M. DeBevoise Nicolas P. Doglioli John M. Dorsey Karl A. Edouarzin John A. Esserian Matteo L. Fainelli Jaxon R. Fantuzzi William T. Finnegan Connor J. Fleming Jackson W. Fulginite William P. Haggerty James Q. Harney Derek N. Hassey Ryan C. Healey Lukas R. Hiles John J. Joyce Rowan G. Koppenheffer Ryan W. Krummell Tiancheng Liu

John F. Lynch Andrew P. MacDougall Abner Machuca Diaz Aiden E. Mack Anthony T. Marcucci Antonio J. Martinez Matthew J. McCarthy James J. McNulty V John B. McRoskey Charles M. Melchionda Noah H. Meyers Milo B. Mistry Constantine N. Mitrokostas Daniel J. Porter Luke G. Puglia Quincy F. Quillard Carter G. Rich William B. Rowe Declan T. Schwarz Wright J. Shinzawa Jack A. Stavaridis Benjamin E. Stuart Akul Trikha Gavin F. Wainwright Ryan P. Walsh Samuel J. Ward Alexander J. Wasynczuk Maxwell E. Weber Samuel J. Weston Nolan W. Wishart Nathan F. Yesehak

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During the fall semester, the St. Sebastian’s Debate Team competed in several tournaments, earning strong results across public speaking and parliamentary debate.

On October 5, four Arrow debaters participated in the Stoneleigh Burnham School Public Speaking Competition in Greenfield, MA, Ryan Connolly ’27, Assistant Head of School Michael where competitors were Nerbonne, Nate Bloomenthal ’28 and Patrick Dunn ’28. evaluated in interpretive reading, persuasive or after-dinner speaking, and impromptu speaking.

Rohan Ghatge ’28 earned First Place in the Impromptu Speaking category.

The following weekend, St. Sebastian’s hosted its Annual Parliamentary Extemporaneous Novice Debate Tournament, welcoming students new to debate; Nate Bloomenthal ’28 received a Speaker’s Prize for his individual performance. On December 14, eighteen Arrow debaters competed at the Groton School Invitational Debate Tournament across Advanced and Novice divisions. A four-person team of Nate Bloomenthal ’28, Ryan Connolly ’27, Patrick Dunn ’28, and Ryan Healey ’27 placed third out of 15 novice teams; in addition, Connolly and Healey compiled a perfect 3–0 record in three rounds of debate. Congratulations to the entire team on a successful fall season.

Latin Club Hosts Mass & Dinner On December 18, St. Sebastian’s students and family members gathered for the Latin Club’s annual Latin Mass and Dinner. Fr. Cadin, Director of the Office of Vocations for the Archdiocese of Boston, and Fr. Boyle, St. Sebastian’s Chaplain, concelebrated the Mass with musical support from St. Sebastian’s Schola and Mass Ensemble. Mass was followed by dinner in Ward Hall and the traditional reading of ’Twas the Night Before Christmas in Latin by Cormac Anderson ’27 and Anthony Marcucci ’27.

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A Showcase of

Musical Talent

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TOP LEFT: Dominic Scioli ’26 reads a passage from the Gospel of Luke. n TOP RIGHT: Connor Sullivan ’26 plays the saxophone during a classic Christmas rock song. n BOTTOM RIGHT: The Arrowhead Ensemble performs under the direction of music faculty member Lautaro Mantilla.

joyous Christmas Program ushered in the holiday break on December 19, bringing the school community together to celebrate the season.

The program began in St. Bartholomew Church, where Fr. Chris Boyle offered the prayer for the lighting of the Advent wreath. Students read scripture, and the St. Sebastian’s Schola and Faculty Chorale led the singing of several traditional Christmas hymns.

The celebration continued in Ward Hall, where special lighting set the stage for beautiful performances by the Chamber Ensemble, including “Silent Night” and “The Little Drummer Boy.” An energetic set by the Arrowhead Ensemble followed, picking up the tempo with excellent renditions of “Happy Xmas (War Is Over),” “Jingle Bell Rock,” “Santa Claus Is Comin’ to Town,” and “Christmas Eve/ Sarajevo 12/24.”

Our music faculty, Lauren Warner and Lautaro Mantilla, did an outstanding job leading their first Christmas Program, guiding students whose energy, dedication, and talent brought the celebration to life.

Macbeth Takes the Stage On December 18, the sophomore English classes congregated in the McCulloch Room for the 11th Annual Macbeth Competition. To end their study of Macbeth, students had to select a scene, devise an interpretation, and then perform the scene. After several lively performances, the panel of faculty judges awarded first prize to the team of Oisin Asaad, Nate Bloomenthal and Joe Ryan. Recognition for acting was awarded to Rohan Ghatge and Liam Reed.

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A GLIMPSE

Seniors welcome students on the first day of school.

along Greendale Avenue

The Stations of The Cross provide a peaceful setting for drawing class.

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John Grimes ’26 launches a rocket during Physics class.

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Lincoln Silva ’31 and Fr. Arens check out the results of the annual Pumpkin Carving Contest.

Arrows show their spirit as they run in the pouring rain during the Monster Mile.

Fr. Boyle blesses the fall sports teams.

Students work together to decorate a gingerbread house.

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ARROWS OFF CAMPUS

From orientations, to trips and retreats, here are some of the ways Arrows have spent time connecting, learning and reflecting off campus.

Stronger Together: Senior Leadership Day The Class of 2026 launched their senior year with Senior Leadership Day at the Ron Burton Training Village. Through competitive games, teambuilding challenges, and shared experiences, they strengthened their bonds as a class.

Juniors Explore Our Nation’s Capital On November 9, the Class of 2027 traveled to Washington, D.C., to explore key historic sites and build a sense of community. Highlights included visits to Mount Vernon, iconic monuments and memorials, the Holocaust Museum, and Arlington National Cemetery, where students participated in a wreath-laying ceremony at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. The trip deepened class bonds while underscoring themes of service, sacrifice, and remembrance.

Forming Bonds in the Great Outdoors Our 7th and 8th graders spent an adventurous day in nature during their class trips to Hale Reservation and TreeTop Adventures on September 5. Both outings were filled with team-building activities and challenges, helping these Arrows to form and strengthen bonds as classmates, teammates, friends, and brothers before the first day of school.

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Leadership in Action

at the ISL Changemakers Conference Four Arrows—Gus Baer ’27, Abner Machuca Diaz ’27, Ryan Mutryn ’28, and Gabe Issa ’28— represented St. Sebastian’s at the ISL Changemakers Conference at Tabor Academy on October 6. They were accompanied by MPA faculty moderator Trevor McLean and Athletic Director Jon Bartlett. Through keynote speeches, workshops, and interactive discussions, student-athletes and educators explored leadership, inclusion, and social responsibility.

The students later shared an overview of their experience at an MPA meeting, highlighting lessons learned and ways to strengthen the St. Sebastian’s community.

ACADEMIC WORKSHOPS

Writing | Ceramics | Sports Media Debate & Public Speaking | Math Innovation | Biotechnology

Summer 2026

Sessions run from 9am-12pm for either one or two weeks.

Open to all boys entering grades 5–9 These seven distinct workshops, run by our

Behind the Scenes at NBC Sports Boston In October, members of the Sports Media Club visited NBC Sports Boston to meet Patriots insider Phil Perry.

Students learned about his career path to NBC and gained an inside look at the fast-paced world of professional sports media in action.

experienced St. Sebastian’s faculty, are an enriching learning opportunity for students looking for a challenging and fun summer experience.

For dates and to register:

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Serving

Our Neighbors

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ntegral to the St. Sebastian’s mission, our Service Program lives the order of the day to love God, work hard, and take good care of one another. Here are just a few of the many ways our students have served our neighbors recently.

Arrows Spread Holiday Cheer

NHS Drives Support Neighbors In Need The St. Sebastian’s community rallied to support Catholic Charities through the NHS-led “Cram the Van” Food Drive and Christmas Warmth Drive, restocking pantry shelves and providing hundreds of gloves, hats, scarves, and socks for neighbors in need.

During the Christmas season, St. Sebastian’s families came together through grade-level efforts to support several meaningful gift drives and service initiatives, bringing holiday cheer to families and children in need.

In Providence, Arrows supported their San Miguel brothers by helping them select, wrap, and personalize gifts for loved ones, while 7th graders wrapped “wish list” gifts for San Miguel students. In Lawrence, a mini-bus was filled with toys and clothing for Spirit of Sharing, an annual Cor Unum initiative that serves hundreds of children each Christmas. Arrows also collected toys and gift cards for St. Pope John Paul II Academy, where our 10th graders tutor elementary students. Eighth graders also assembled bags of sweets and wrote heartfelt notes to brighten the season for women at Rosie’s Place, a Boston-based shelter and community center. Together, these efforts reflected the generosity, compassion, and service-centered spirit of the St. Sebastian’s community.

Seniors Give Back through Day of Service On November 10, members of the senior class took part in the annual Senior Day of Service, volunteering at Catholic Charities in Dorchester, My Brother’s Keeper in Easton, and Avita Memory Care in Needham. At Catholic Charities, students prepared and distributed more than 100 bags of groceries. Seniors at My Brother’s Keeper delivered furniture to families settling into new homes in Brockton, while those at Avita led an art therapy project and spent meaningful time with residents.

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Faith & Brotherhood Delivered at Admissions Open House, this speech by Wachira Njoroge ’26 offers a powerful reflection on the values that define St. Sebastian’s.

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ver the past six years, this school has shaped me in ways I could’ve never imagined.

When I first arrived in seventh grade, I was quiet, uncertain, and still figuring out who I was. Today, I stand here as someone who’s grown through the three values that define St. Sebastian’s: Love God, Work Hard, and Take Good Care of One Another.

When I first came to St. Sebastian’s, I didn’t have a strong sense of what faith really meant to me. I went to church with my family, but I didn’t know how to make faith my own. I’m Catholic, and Seb’s has allowed me to explore that faith deeply and develop it personally. Here, faith is something shared, not forced.

Many of my classmates are not Catholic, yet these hallways embrace them and encourage them to love out their faith as well. This environment has taught me that faith grows strongest when it’s shared in community, not kept to yourself, something I learned firsthand.

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school was powerful. It showed me that faith isn’t just something you practice privately, but something you live and share. It also showed me that being open and honest doesn’t make you weak; it makes you stronger.

Through retreats and service projects, I learned that faith isn’t only about prayer, it’s also about action. With the support of my teachers and classmates, I started Lend for Lent, a project that began as a small school supplies drive and grew into something far greater. The Seb’s community came together to collect school materials for students in Kenya, and together we raised over $10,000 to rebuild bathrooms for a rural school there. That experience taught me that when faith meets service, incredible things can happen.

If a younger student asked me what St. Sebastian’s will do for their faith, I’d tell them this: it will help you understand that loving God isn’t just about what you believe; it’s about how you act, how you serve, and how you grow.

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned here is how to work hard, not just for myself, but alongside others.

There have been moments when I’ve felt real pressure, wondering how I’d manage everything. But at Seb’s, you’re never left alone. I remember one week in physics when I was trying to figure out circular

motion. I came in at six in the morning to work on it, and Mr. Ryan, a teacher for another physics class, saw me and came over to help. That kind of support shows what this community is all about, people who care enough to meet you halfway, even before sunrise.

Balancing academics with football, debate, student council, MPA, and Arrows for Humanity has definitely kept me busy. But I’ve learned how to manage it through teamwork. I’ve had to delegate, plan, and sometimes just take a deep breath and trust that things will get done. (And when they don’t, coffee usually helps.)

There were also times when I didn’t meet my own expectations. Last year, I worked harder than ever for a physics test and still didn’t get the grade I wanted. After class, my teacher, Mr. Wilbur, shared something that’s stuck with me ever since: “Life’s going to hit you hard, but if you give your best, you can’t feel like a failure.” That completely changed the way I see things. Now, whenever I face a challenge, I remind myself that effort always counts.

Freshman year, wrestling pushed me more than anything else. It was my first one-on-one sport, and I was lucky to have coaches like Mr. Willey, who showed me how discipline is built one practice at a time. Every drill, every

“If a younger student asked me what St. Sebastian’s will do for their faith, I’d tell them this: it will help you understand that loving God isn’t just about what you believe; it’s about how you act, how you serve, and how you grow.”

match, and every rep taught me that accountability and effort matter more than anything else.

Through every class, practice, and late night, St. Sebastian’s has taught me that hard work isn’t about perfection.

It’s about showing up, staying focused, and giving your best effort every time.

From the very beginning, Seb’s taught me the importance of brotherhood. I joined MPA during my first year, right in the middle of COVID, when it was hard to feel connected to anyone. Even though we were online, I still felt part of the community. Whether we were cracking jokes on Zoom or playing video games after class, I learned early on that Seb’s wasn’t a place where you’d ever feel alone.

When we came back in person, that sense of connection grew even stronger. I remember walking through the hallways and being surprised at how approachable the older students were.

At other schools, you might be nervous to talk to the upperclassmen, but here,

they treated us like younger brothers.

And the teachers were the same. Mr. Chambers, for example, made me feel at home from the very first week, as if he’d known me my whole life.

Now that I’m a senior, I try to do the same for the younger guys. Last year, when I was having a tough time in one of my classes, a senior on the debate team named Ryan Pat stayed after one of our practices to help me out. We weren’t even close friends, but he sat with me for nearly an hour, and that’s when I realized how deep the brotherhood at Seb’s truly goes.

You see the brotherhood on the football field, too. During conditioning, even when we’re completely out of breath, guys are yelling each other’s names, cheering teammates through the finish line. One of the best examples of this is our captains, like George Kelly, who’s out for the season with an injury.

Wednesday mornings, he wakes up before five o’clock, drives nearly an hour from the South Shore, and picks up an

underclassman named Ryan Mutryn so he can make our 6:30 lifts on time.

When we aren’t doing team lifts, he’s still picking Ryan up so they can make it to school by 7:45. George could easily sleep in, and no one would blame him, but instead, he sacrifices his comfort to help someone else. That’s what it truly means to take good care of one another.

Looking ahead, I’m not sure what exact legacy I’ll leave, but I know what I hope for. I want younger students to feel comfortable talking to older ones, to know that the brotherhood here is real.

I want the upperclassmen to continue being friendly and approachable, and the younger students to see us not just as role models, but as brothers.

St. Sebastian’s has taught me more than any textbook ever could. It’s taught me to Love God through faith and service, to Work Hard with discipline and resilience, and to Take Good Care of One Another through brotherhood and compassion.

This school has made me who I am today, someone who believes that success isn’t measured by grades or trophies, but by the effort you give, the people you support, and the values you carry.

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MISSION On September 8, 2025, Head of School Brendan Sullivan delivered his Opening Remarks, reflecting on his selection of Mission as the one-word theme for this academic year.

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r. Condron, members of the Board of Trustees, Fr. Boyle, Mr. Nerbonne, students, colleagues from the faculty and staff, guests: welcome to the first full week of the school year.

Two years ago, Mr. Joe Dunn, Class of 1984 and father of Patrick ’28, put this book, The Search for Canasta 404, in my hands. He wanted to share the story of his parents, Joe Dunn Sr. and Maureen Dunn. Joe Sr. was serving as a Navy pilot during the Vietnam War when his plane went missing over China. Maureen dedicated her life as an advocate for American Prisoners of War and those Missing in Action.

I read the book for the first time while I was on my way to Washington, D.C. on the annual junior class trip. It was such a fitting time to read this book and discover the incredible journey of the Dunn family. It’s a story of love and loss, of service and sacrifice, of courage and honor—those timeless themes that have shaped our nation’s history. For the seniors who remember that D.C. trip, you know that one of the highlights every year is going to the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier and laying a wreath on behalf of the school.

Arlington National Cemetery is sacred ground, filled with monuments, but the most symbolically important is the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. What’s in there? It’s exactly what it says: the remains of soldiers who died in battle. They were so brutally burned or battered that they were unrecognizable and unidentifiable, yet their colleagues, their brothers-in-arms, still found it essential to bring them home, to honor them, to give them dignity, and to show them 18 | ST. SEBASTIAN’S MAGAZINE

the respect they deserve. It’s one of the most important memorials for anyone who served in the armed forces. It says: we recognize your sacrifice, and we honor your service.

So you can imagine that in February of 1968, when Joe went missing, his comrades—his brothers-in-arms, those he flew with—wanted to do everything they could to find him and bring him back.

Obviously, Maureen wanted the same thing. She wanted to figure out what happened. She received the message that Joe was lost on Valentine’s Day, 1968. Just imagine how she felt when for months the military provided her with no answers as to Joe’s whereabouts. At that time, the fog of war was so thick, and the bureaucracy to bring those soldiers home was almost insurmountable. Many people in Maureen’s shoes found the task too daunting, they didn’t push any further. But Maureen would not let those challenges stop her.

As I look out, I know many of you have experienced loss in your lives. You know that hole inside you. You know the pain, the hopelessness you feel when someone so close to you is gone. Add to that the uncertainty and the unknown that Maureen was facing, and with a two-year-old child as well.

She could have felt sorry for herself; she could have looked to others to serve her. Instead, she began a lifelong mission to find the truth and to serve soldiers who were missing—and their families. When she started her mission in small church halls around Boston, she could not have known where her journey would lead.

In everything you do, keep honor at the center.

She stayed steadfast and determined, and her journey led her to speak in front of huge crowds, to senators, and even to meet with presidents, all in an effort to understand what was happening with our prisoners of war and those missing in action. She became an incredible agent of change.

From those humble beginnings in Randolph, she drove a nationwide movement that remains vital to so many today.

Mr. Wishart mentioned this: he was watching the opening NFL game on Thursday night. During the national anthem, the camera moved to an image of the American flag, and right below that was the POW/MIA flag. Fifty years on, it is still such an important movement, still so important for those who serve in the military.

Maureen ended up helping thousands of soldiers reunite with their families. Some were prisoners of war that were able to return home and restart their lives. She also helped to identify and return the remains of soldiers who had given the ultimate sacrifice. Their bodies were returned home to be buried with dignity and honor—a true gift to the families of those soldiers.

Maureen’s mission started as the pursuit of truth, and she used faith and reason to get there. She broke through the bureaucracy to sit in front of generals, and she reasoned with them: “We can do more. We can do more. We can do more.

Let’s figure out how we bring these boys back home. Let’s figure out how we bring these soldiers home.” She was relentless.

She also summoned every bit of faith that she had. We see her Catholic faith reflected throughout the book. The story begins with a description of Joe and Maureen’s first date.

As they were driving through Jamaica Plain, they passed the Church of Our Lady of Perpetual Help. Joe said, “I went there every Wednesday with my mother.” Back in World War II, the church had begun a weekly novena on Wednesdays— nine masses in one day—a big deal for Bostonians at the time.

Maureen thought to herself, what a coincidence; her family’s faith was drawn to those same novenas.

There’s another coincidence related to that church. Last year, our All-School Read was Six Months to Live, and if you remember, when Mr. Artie Boyle received his cancer diagnosis, he went to a church—Our Lady of Perpetual Help.

Another coincidence is the name by which that church is more commonly known: Mission Church. I think you can understand why I chose Mission as the theme for this year.

This brings us to our Mission Statement. For those who are new, you’ll hear this a lot. For those who have been here for a while, you’ve heard this many times and you understand the pursuits that we are engaged in. But this time when you listen, think about Maureen’s mission: A Catholic independent school, St. Sebastian’s seeks to engage young men in the pursuit of truth through faith and reason.

By embracing gospel values in an inclusive nurturing community and by inspiring intellectual excellence in a structured liberal arts curriculum, St. Sebastian’s strives to empower its students for success in college and in life.

The ideal St. Sebastian’s graduate will be a moral and just person, a gentleman of courage and honor and wisdom, a lifelong learner who continues to grow in his capacity to know, to love and to serve God and neighbor.

When I looked back at the history of our Mission Statement, I found this line: “The St. Sebastian’s Mission Statement was adopted in 1994.” I really appreciated that choice of words. It didn’t say the mission statement was created or written. It said it was adopted. Because in truth, the parts were already all there—the values, the purpose, what the school was about—it just needed to be formalized into words. And in 1994, it found its home on Greendale Ave. St. Sebastian’s adopted it, nurtured it, helped it grow, and made it part of our family.

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become my family. I am so blessed to be part of, and incredibly proud of, this family. I love it so much. For those who are new here, it’s going to take some time. There’s going to be that uncertainty of coming into a new place, but believe me, I am so glad you’re here. You belong here. You will feel like part of this family in no time, and we are, as I said, just so incredibly happy that you are with us.

We know that you will make us stronger, you will make us better, and you’re going to do so by discovering your gifts, developing your gifts, and delivering your gifts in the service of others. When our seniors graduate, they take the gifts they’ve developed and the values they learned from home and from St. Sebastian’s and they make an impact on the world.

How are you going to get motivated every day to live out the mission laid before you? Once again, look to Maureen Dunn for inspiration. Her number one motivation, her driving force, was love. It was that love that she had for her husband that made her so determined to keep going in the face of adversity. As I thought about her love for Joe, I couldn’t help but think of the reading from 1 Corinthians. You’ve most likely heard this before, especially if you’ve been to a wedding. Think about Maureen as I read it: Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, it is not pompous, it is not inflated. It is not rude. It does not seek its own interests. It is not quick-tempered. It does not brood over adversity. It does not rejoice over wrongdoings, but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things. It endures all things. Love never fails.

Maureen’s mission never failed. When I first read the book, I was sad at the end. She never found Joe. But that was not a failed mission. Remember, her mission was to seek the truth, and to break through a bureaucracy and to bring soldiers home to their families. She kept her mission going right up until May of 2013 when she passed away. At that 20 | ST. SEBASTIAN’S MAGAZINE

“Go beyond these walls to discover where you will make a difference. You young men have it within you to do so. That is your charge as Arrows.” point, she was finally reunited with Joe in eternity. I have an image in my mind of Joe sitting there and saying, “Mission accomplished.”

She was an incredible person, and her model of love is a true example of God’s love for us. God’s love is patient and kind. It’s not self-interested. It’s not quick-tempered. It’s not rejoicing over wrongdoings, it’s rejoicing with truth, and it never fails.

Arrows, think about your missions for this year. You will fly many—both this year and throughout your life.

Remember Maureen’s model, remember how she lived it.

She started with faith. Have faith. You don’t know where your mission will lead you. Have courage. Take the first step of that daunting mission and see it through to the end. Make an impact. Go beyond these walls to discover where you will make a difference. You young men have it within you to do so. That is your charge as Arrows.

Do so honorably. In everything you do, keep honor at the center. Maureen honored herself, honored her family, and honored her country by fulfilling her mission. And do it with love in your heart. Make sure that love is always a driving force in your life.

May God’s love always be with you, as well as His peace and His grace. I wish all of you a wonderful year.

Tradition Meets Today How the seal and new logo honor our community, values, and enduring mission

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ith the start of the 2025–2026 school year, St. Sebastian’s unveiled a new logo along with its refreshed website. This overview offers insight into the design—and how the seal and new logo each serve distinct, lasting roles in representing the School.

The new graphic reflects who we are today: a community grounded in faith and excellence, built on a rich history. The school seal will continue to appear on official documents and signage, but its complexity posed challenges for consistency and readability across digital channels, print, and merchandise.

To address these challenges, the new logo offers a clean, solid shield design that conveys confidence, stability, and clarity. It draws on elements of the seal—colors, shield, arrows, laurel—and integrates the familiar “S” from our athletics logo, while adding a cross to highlight our Catholic identity. The laurel represents academic excellence and achievement, the cross symbolizes faith, and together they reflect our enduring tagline: Academic Rigor, Spiritual Depth.

The school seal continues to hold special meaning for alumni, students, and faculty, honoring the experiences and traditions that connect our community across generations.

The new logo complements this tradition by providing a clear and consistent presence in today’s digital and public spaces. “The seal and the logo serve different purposes, but both reflect the same values that have always defined St. Sebastian’s,” said Head of School Brendan Sullivan.

Together, the seal and new logo provide a unified and flexible representation of St. Sebastian’s across platforms and formats.

School Seal vs. Shield Logo: What’s the Difference?

FORMAL & CEREMONIAL The school seal represents St. Sebastian’s history and traditions. It’s being elevated to ceremonial uses and special cases, including diplomas, certificates, Commencement programs, dedication plaques, and select campus signage.

EVERYDAY & DIGITAL The new shield logo reflects St. Sebastian’s mission and identity as a Catholic independent school by emphasizing faith with a cross. It is versatile and consistent for everyday use across digital and print media, including the website, social media, publications, invitations, and campus gear.

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David C. Nahabedian P’29

Joining the Board St. Sebastian’s is very fortunate to have an exceptional group of parents, alumni, and friends of the School who give generously of their time and share their wisdom as members of the Board of Trustees. We are pleased to welcome our newest members of the Board.

Meyer J. Chambers P’10,’14 Meyer and his wife, Beth, recently returned to New Orleans after his retirement. They are parents of two St. Sebastian’s graduates, Severin ’10 (Spring Hill College) and Zachary ’14 (Harvard). Meyer served as Director of Music Ministry at St. Sebastian’s for 38 years and as Campus Minister for Liturgical Arts at Boston College for 21 years. He is the founder of the St. Sebastian’s club, Men with Positive Attitudes. Meyer studied Liturgical Music at Catholic University of America and earned degrees in Music Education and Secondary Education Curriculum and Instruction from Xavier University of Louisiana.

David and his wife, Melissa, live in Wellesley with their sons, Kyle and Wesley ’29. He co-founded Integration Partners, a nationally recognized systems integrator specializing in networking infrastructure and cybersecurity. After exiting the business in 2022, David began investing in small businesses and recently launched a healthcare venture. A graduate of Babson College, he majored in marketing with a focus on economics and entrepreneurship. David enjoys family time and actively supports the Armenian community.

Wendy C. Thurmond P’25,’28 Guild of St. Irene President Wendy and her husband, Mark, live in Westwood with their sons, Crosby ’25 (College of the Holy Cross) and Will ’28, and daughter, Cecelia (Hofstra University). A former broadcast journalist, Wendy worked as a TV anchor for ABC News in Providence, NBC in Cincinnati, and News 8 in New Haven. She is the owner of Cece Buttercup, an accessories company, and has served as a co-auctioneer for the School’s Christmas Auction for the past several years. Wendy earned her degree in Broadcast Journalism from Ithaca College.

Gina Usechek P’27,’29 Denis J. Cleary III P’27 Denis and his wife, Tania, live in Brookline with their son, Aidan ’27, and daughter, Camille. Denis is CEO and co-founder of 71 West Capital Partners, a registered investment advisor serving entrepreneurs, executives, families, and philanthropic organizations.

Previously, he led one of UBS’s largest private wealth practices. Denis began his career as a corporate attorney and later served as Executive Director of a major East Coast foundation before joining Goldman Sachs in 2006.

He is a graduate of the College of the Holy Cross and Boston College Law School.

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Gina and her husband, Scott, live in Boston with their sons, Jack ’27 and Ray ’29. She serves on the Board of the Beacon Hill Civic Association and previously chaired committees at Park Street School, including co-chairing its Annual Fund. Gina and her family are active members of Taxiarche Greek Orthodox Church. She earned a Political Science degree from Benedictine University and holds a JD and master’s in Tax Law from the University of IllinoisChicago Law School.

Strengthening Faculty Excellence: David Wilbur Assumes New Role as Dean of Faculty

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t. Sebastian’s recently introduced a new leadership role designed to strengthen one of the School’s greatest assets: its faculty. Partway through the 2024–25 academic year, former Science Department Chair David Wilbur assumed the newly created position of Dean of Faculty, a role shaped by Head of School Brendan Sullivan’s vision to advance faculty growth, development, and leadership in evolving areas of education.

Wilbur, a faculty member since 1994, brings more than three decades of classroom experience and institutional knowledge to the role. Respected and admired by colleagues and students alike, he has long been recognized

for his magnetic teaching style and steady leadership. Assistant Head of School Michael Nerbonne emphasized the importance of excellence in the classroom while defining the role: “The first requirement that a person should have to be in this position is to be highly regarded by his or her peers, someone who has a reputation for being an outstanding classroom teacher, and that’s David Wilbur; he is just phenomenal.”

The Dean of Faculty serves as a central resource for faculty recruitment, hiring, mentoring, supervision, and retention, ensuring that St. Sebastian’s continues to attract and support outstanding educators devoted to its mission.

The role also includes coordinating professional development for faculty throughout the academic year.

A key priority for Wilbur has been getting to know faculty members across departments as educators— how they teach, what they value, and how they hope to grow. Through ongoing dialogue, classroom visits, and regular communication, he is establishing strong lines of connection and facilitating collaboration between departments. “Faculty are welcoming the opportunity for feedback,” observed Wilbur. “They want to be the best versions of themselves as educators, and I’m looking forward to working together to make that happen.”

That emphasis on growth was central to the faculty retreat Wilbur led in October, which focused on two major topics: artificial intelligence and academic support. Tom Driscoll, CEO of EdTechTeacher, presented on the current state of AI and how educators are using it to enhance teaching. The retreat also launched a multi-year professional development initiative in academic support. Guided by Dr. Kelly Lowery, the program helps faculty develop a shared understanding of learning profiles—such as ADHD and executive functioning—while providing concrete strategies to support students more effectively.

The goal of both sessions was to build common framework and language, allowing faculty to explore practical applications through small focus groups throughout the year.

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AROUND CAMPUS

New Faces ON CAMPUS JENNY CALLAHAN Dean of Advancement As the new Dean of Advancement, Jenny brings more than a decade of experience in fundraising and community building, most recently with the Campaign for Catholic Schools and Camp Harbor View, where she worked closely with Boston civic leader Jack Connors. Her commitment to service began in her early career as a social worker. A “Double Eagle,” she earned both her bachelor’s and master’s degrees from Boston College. Jenny is grateful for the opportunity to support St. Sebastian’s mission and community.

AMBER CROSSMAN Faculty, Fine Arts Amber earned a B.A. from Brandeis University and an M.A. in Theatre Education and Applied Theatre from Emerson College. She has taught classes and led theatrical productions at several private and public institutions, including Needham High, Kennedy Middle in Natick, Newton South High, The Riverbend School, and Wellesley Theatre Project.

She is thrilled to join both the Arts and English Departments, bringing a love of literature to theater and an enthusiasm for exploring character and theme to English.

HEIDI GREK Faculty, English Heidi received her bachelor’s degree from the College of the Holy Cross and master’s and doctorate degrees from Washington University in St. Louis, where she studied German and Comparative Literature. She has enjoyed living, teaching, and studying in Germany and, as a college professor, first at Vanderbilt University and later at Holy Cross, her favorite courses to teach were on Goethe’s Faust and deals with the devil in European and World Literature. At St. Sebastian’s, she is teaching English, helping freshmen with their chapel speeches, and assisting with the Spanish-English bilingual newspaper.

CLIFFORD KURKER Director of Peak Performance A Needham native, Clifford competed in Division I lacrosse at UMass Lowell, where he earned his B.S. He played a year of football at Boston College while completing his master’s in Sports Administration.

Clifford began his professional career on Mike Boyle’s strength and conditioning staff and later served as Head Strength and Conditioning Coach at Groton School. He also competes internationally with the Jamaican National Teams in flag football and lacrosse. Clifford looks forward to helping the Arrows develop their skills and achieve their athletic goals.

CHRIS DEHNEY Visual Media Coordinator After graduating from the Haverford School, in Villanova, PA, Chris earned his B.A. from Bowdoin College. When an injury sidelined him from lacrosse, he pivoted to visual media, taking over the college’s athletic media efforts to stay connected to the team. Chris has created for Harvard, BU, and countless other athletic programs while developing his commercial client base. As Visual Media Coordinator, he uses his talents to document the school’s daily life, events, and athletics through compelling photography and videography.

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HENRY LAGASSE Faculty, Science A graduate of Trinity College, Henry taught marine science through AmeriCorps and the New England Science & Sailing Foundation before joining the St. Sebastian’s faculty. A former student at Phillips Exeter, he values the intellectual engagement and strong sense of community found in independent schools. Outside the classroom, he enjoys both wrestling and sailing. In addition to teaching science, Henry serves as an assistant coach for the wrestling and ultimate teams.

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St. Sebastian’s is pleased to welcome its newest faculty and staff members, a talented group who are already making an impact on the School community.

DR. LAUTARO MANTILLA

JEAN RYAN

Faculty, Fine Arts

School Secretary

A classically trained guitarist from Bogotá, Colombia, Lautaro holds both an M.M. and a Doctorate in Composition from the New England Conservatory of Music (NEC). Before joining the St. Sebastian’s faculty, he served as Chair of the Prep and Continuing Education Contemporary Music Department and Head of the Guitar Department at NEC. Currently, he is a faculty member of the College at NEC and UMass Boston. At St. Sebastian’s, he teaches music and leads the Arrowhead Ensemble (formerly known as Jazz Pop) and Chamber Ensemble. Lautaro brings vibrant energy and a wealth of teaching experience with students ranging from young beginners to adults.

After helping out previously in Admissions, Jean has joined the staff full-time as the School Secretary, overseeing daily operations. She also manages the school prayer intentions, Arrows to Heaven. Jean earned a B.S. from the University of Notre Dame. Her family has deep ties to the school: her husband, John Ryan, is a long-time science teacher; three of her sons graduated in 2015, 2016, and 2018; her daughter acted in several drama productions; and another son will graduate in 2028.

MIKE SILIPO Athletic Operations

ANDREW MAXWELL Faculty, History Andrew graduated from St. Sebastian’s in 2006 and went on to attend the United States Military Academy at West Point, where he earned a B.S. in Environmental Geography. He spent more than a decade serving as an Army officer before returning to the Greater Boston area with his family. Andrew is teaching History and coaching freshman hockey.

ROSSANA MOLINA Faculty, Spanish Rossana Molina Loza holds a B.A. from Universidad Femenina del Sagrado Corazón and joins St. Sebastian’s as a full-time member of the Spanish faculty after previously covering classes during a maternity leave. She brings valuable experience from her work at the Montessori School in Bedford and in the Bilingual Education Programs in Acton, Wellesley, and Cambridge.

After graduating from the Williston Northampton School, Mike earned his B.A. from Ithaca College, where he played lacrosse. He continued his career in sports after college, joining the football and lacrosse coaching staffs at Williams College. He then spent three years coaching lacrosse at his alma mater before completing a nine-year stint at Boston University as Associate Head Coach. Mike and his wife, Jess, live in Winchester with their baby boy and dog. In addition to supporting Athletic Operations, Mike serves as the head coach of the varsity lacrosse team.

LAUREN WARNER Music Minister Lauren earned a B.A. in communication studies from California State University, Long Beach. She holds two master’s degrees in education and theology from Loyola Marymount University and is currently working toward a PhD in theology and education, and STL in systematic theology at Boston College. Previously, Lauren taught theology and music and was a campus minister at high schools in California and Texas. She currently serves as the music minister for St. Sebastian’s.

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A Guiding, Steady Force For 25 years, Paula Coskren has been a dependable presence behind the scenes as Assistant to the Head of School, making a difference in many ways beyond her official duties. In recognition of her quarter century of service, her portrait was added to the Wall of Honor, celebrating a career defined by selflessness, professionalism, and deep devotion to the St. Sebastian’s community.

25 years of service

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aula joined the St. Sebastian’s staff in the fall of 2000, but her connection to the School began years earlier as a parent. She and her husband, Tim, sent all four of their sons—Tim ’00, Tony ’01, Mike ’04, and Nick ’05—to St. Sebastian’s; as the only girl, their youngest, Leanna, was an Arrow in spirit.

The two oldest boys vividly recall a moment from when they were in 5th and 6th grade, attending an Arrows hockey game with their father. “The whole place felt electric,” recalls Tony. “My dad looked down at us and asked, ‘Is this where you want to go to school?’ Of course, we said yes.” From that moment on, Paula and Tim made a decision they never wavered from. “It didn’t take us long to realize that St. Sebastian’s is very special and that we would do whatever it took for all four of our boys to be able to attend,” reflected Paula.

“All the values you want your kids to have were reinforced here.”

What followed was a commitment defined by sacrifice and perseverance.

Every extra cent went toward the boys’ education. Paula rejoined the workforce in the early 1990s after a ten-year hiatus, taking a full-time role in the Office of Career Services at Babson. Even after starting her role at St. Sebastian’s, she continued part-time work at Babson for several more years—all while raising five children and managing the daily choreography of practices, games, and school life. It was all in service of ensuring her sons could thrive as Arrows.

Over the past 25 years at St. Sebastian’s, Paula has worn countless hats—juggling them with quiet calm and expert efficiency while drawing on the skills she developed at Babson. Day to day, she keeps the Head of School organized, informed, and prepared, always anticipating what’s coming next and what needs to be done. No two days are the same. While this is her primary role, her work reaches into nearly every corner of the School. From serving as the point person for the annual Christmas Auction to coordinating Board of Trustees meetings and reports, managing book ordering and resale, and providing system support across critical databases, her expertise and deep

institutional knowledge have played an integral role in daily operations.

“I work with the most wonderful, talented, professional people who work ‘behind the scenes’ networking, fundraising, interviewing, running events, paying bills, scheduling and attending meetings, tracking data, designing publications, meeting goals and deadlines and more,” Paula said.

“People who care about doing the very best they can for the school and in doing so have created such a rewarding atmosphere to work in. It has been a privilege to be part of this community.”

Paula’s tenure spans multiple eras of leadership. “As far as being here 25 years, I can’t believe it. The time has flown by,” she reflected. “I was fortunate to work with Bill Burke, Headmaster Emeritus, for 22 years and now Brendan as Head of School for the last two. I also worked for Rich Arms in the Development Office for a year or so when I first started.”

Paula’s “get it done” approach is evident in moments both large and small. During her first summer supporting Brendan, he asked her to schedule 24 lunches to help him connect with the community in his new role— and she completed the task in just three days. It’s also evident in the annual Christmas Auction, which continues to grow each year under her leadership.

Planning begins in the summer and requires coordination with the Guild, faculty, staff, technology teams, and volunteers, as she tracks sponsorships, advertisements, and item donations across countless moving parts.

“Success is never an individual achievement—we all have our teams: families, friends, colleagues—who shape us along the way,” Brendan shared.

“You want Paula on your team. Quiet, strong, intelligent, she is a guiding force who is always present and always ready to do more.”

Now the proud grandmother of 15 grandchildren, ranging in age from one to eleven, with one more on the

“As we celebrate my mother’s 25 years here, it’s impossible for us to see this milestone as just an anniversary. To us, it represents her sacrifice, her devotion, and her unwavering selflessness—the qualities that have defined her life and shaped ours.”

—Tony Coskren ’01 way, Paula balances her work at St. Sebastian’s with helping her children whenever she can, continuing to move seamlessly between family and professional life. While recognizing her 25 years of service during the Faculty-Trustee Dinner in November, Brendan marveled, “How does she do it?” He shared a memory from last year’s Christmas Party, when all of Paula’s grandchildren wanted a piece of Grandma Paula. “It was such a beautiful moment, such a proud moment for the School,” he said. “All of her grandchildren in one place, reflecting the love and care she has given to St. Sebastian’s and her family.”

That evening, Paula’s son Tony offered heartfelt remarks that captured not only his mother’s legacy, but the

profound impact of St. Sebastian’s on their family: “My parents gave so much so that we could come to St. Sebastian’s. And in return, this school gave us more than any of us could have imagined—cherished memories, lifelong friendships, and the skills and values that shaped who we are today,” said Tony. “St. Sebastian’s is not just a school to our family—it’s our foundation. A piece of our identity.

It’s woven into our story. And today, as we celebrate my mother’s 25 years here, it’s impossible for us to see this milestone as just an anniversary. To us, it represents her sacrifice, her devotion, and her unwavering selflessness—the qualities that have defined her life and shaped ours.”

Tim and Paula Coskren (center) with their five children—Leanna, Michael ’04, Tim ’00, Tony ’01, and Nick ’05—and spouses.

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A PILGRIMAGE of

Providence Last August, guided by faith and a spirit of service, Dan Burke ’97, Associate Dean of Students, set out on a mission trip with his wife, Kathryn; their sons, Jackson ’29 and Dillon; and his parents, Headmaster Emeritus Bill Burke and Patty. Over twelve days and across two countries, the journey unfolded through unexpected moments of providence.

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oined by Fr. Michael Ssenfuma of St. Joseph’s in Needham and five others from the parish, including Michael Gillis P’24, the Burkes traveled under the shared name “It’s All a Gift,” a reflection of their belief that everything we have is a gift from God. Their journey brought them to Kigali and Kibeho, Rwanda, for a retreat led by Rwandan genocide survivor Immaculée Ilibagiza, then on to Masaka, Uganda, for service at St. Louis Primary School, concluding with a full-day safari at Murchison Falls National Park.

The mission originated with Fr. Ssenfuma, who is from Masaka and hoped to give back to his home community—particularly St. Louis Primary School, where he received his earliest education. Bill and Patty, parishioners at St. Joseph’s, spoke with him about the trip and saw an opportunity to expand the journey.

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Bill had remained connected to Immaculée Ilibagiza—the author of Left to Tell—after coordinating her visit to St. Sebastian’s for the School’s firstever all-school read. As Providence would have it, Immaculée was leading a retreat in Rwanda in August, which the group was able to join before continuing on to Uganda.

Although Bill and Patty had committed to the trip months earlier, Dan and Kathryn nearly decided not to bring their family. The timing felt wrong—logistical hurdles and competing responsibilities all pointed towards staying home. Yet they felt quietly called to go, choosing faith over reason. From the moment they arrived at Logan Airport and discovered they were traveling alongside the father of St. Sebastian’s only Rwandan graduate, Yves Kayihura ’21—who lives and works in Boston—and then improbably reunited with Yves at the airport in

Kigali, to the prayerful encounters and unmistakable spiritual signs that followed, the Burkes were repeatedly affirmed that they were exactly where they were meant to be.

Arriving in Kigali, the group stayed at the Blue Veil Villa, a retreat center owned by Immaculée, and later at its sister property in Kibeho. Over several days, they joined people on retreat from all over the world for hours of prayerful reflection, guided by Immaculée’s devotion to the Blessed Mother. Praying the Rosary multiple times each day alongside priests and laypeople, they stepped away from daily distractions while visiting memorials to nearly one million victims of the 1994 Rwandan genocide. Confronting the scale of that tragedy—knowing so many, like Immaculée, had endured it—was sobering, yet her prayerful response and Rwanda’s healing proved deeply inspiring. Dan reflected, “While we all knew her story prior to the trip, experiencing a retreat led by her brought us all closer to the Holy Trinity and Mary. Her positive energy, enthusiasm for praying the rosary, perspective on Mary’s and Jesus’ suffering, and boundless love moved us all in ways we could not have anticipated.”

Leaving Kibeho, the “It’s All a Gift” crew embarked on a 17-hour bus journey to Masaka, Uganda, where

they were warmly welcomed by the local community, including Fr. Ssenfuma’s father. Dan reflected, “It was a humbling honor to see Fr. Ssenfuma say Mass at the chapel his father built at their home and to see him get emotional as he reflected on his journey from a young boy walking two miles each way on a dirt path to St. Louis Primary School to ending up getting a Graduate Degree at Boston College and serving as a priest in Needham.”

The students at St. Louis Primary School greeted the group with song and music, expressing gratitude for the repairs to two school buildings—one of which had been collapsing—and for donations of clothing, rosaries, soccer uniforms, and balls. The group also provided deworming medicine to the children and many family members, helped paint classrooms, and celebrated Mass on campus. Through these acts of service, combined with prayer and fundraising, the Burkes helped give the students greater opportunity and hope for the future, leaving a lasting impression on everyone involved.

The experience was profoundly meaningful for the Burkes. “We were all so affected by the purity, hope, and goodness of the people we met,” shared Dan. “This soul-stirring trip was a blessing to each of us individually but was made all the more special by experiencing it with our family.” The trip’s impact was clear in Jackson’s 9th Grade Chapel Speech this fall, where he reflected between his own abundance and the scarcity he witnessed, yet marveling at the joy these families displayed: “I have so much and want for even more; they have so little and want for even less.”

Since returning home, the Burkes feel called to live—and share—the lessons of their journey. Dan reflected, “The perspective gained by meeting people of such little means but of such tremendous faith, hope, and love cannot help but change how I approach life, let alone my teaching, coaching, and mentoring at St. Sebastian’s.”

The perspective gained by meeting people of such little means but of such tremendous faith, hope, and love cannot help but change how I approach life, let alone my teaching, coaching, and mentoring at St. Sebastian’s.

—Dan Burke, Associate Dean of Students

TOP TO BOTTOM, LEFT TO RIGHT: Dan, Kathryn, Jackson, and Dillon Burke praying the Rosary on a walk to a grotto in Kibeho, Rwanda. n Dillon with Immaculée Ilibagiza at the Blue Veil Villa in Kibeho. n Dan is greeted with enthusiasm by students from the St. Louis Primary School in Masaka, Uganda; n “It’s All a Gift” crew at Bishop Serverus Jjumba’s residence in Masaka, Uganda.

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EVENT HIGHLIGHTS New Parent Dinner Fosters Connection and Community

Leadership Society Reception Celebrates St. Sebastian’s Donors

On October 2, St. Sebastian’s welcomed parents of new students to the annual New Parent Dinner in Ward Hall.

Guests mingled during a cocktail reception, connecting with faculty, administrators, and fellow families. The evening’s highlight was George Kelly ’26, who shared a heartfelt reflection on the support he received from the St. Sebastian’s community after his father’s passing in 2022, highlighting the Arrows brotherhood and the dedication of faculty. Leaders representing the Guild, Men’s Association, and Annual Fund encouraged parents to get involved. It was a warm and meaningful introduction to the Arrow family.

The annual Leadership Society Reception was held on September 25, drawing over 175 parents, alumni, and grandparents to The Burke Family Center’s competition gym to celebrate the generosity of our Leadership donors.

The evening opened with a prayer and reflections from Fr. Chris Boyle, who praised the students’ genuine care for one another. Board President Devin Condron ’92, P’29,’29,’31 thanked the community for raising over $4.6 million in annual giving and reflected on three words defining St. Sebastian’s today: mission, modernize, and momentum. “In a world that is always changing, our mission never wavers: to form young men of faith and character,” he said. Head of School Brendan Sullivan expressed gratitude to all donors and thanked Devin and the trustees for their leadership, noting that the incremental steps taken by the Board have led to the monumental progress the School is experiencing today.

The evening was a moving reminder of St. Sebastian’s enduring mission and the generosity that sustains it.

Charlie ’62 and Laura Tangerini P’07,’08 with their sons Charlie ’08 and Emilio ’07, and daughter-in-law Ali.

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TOP: George Kelly ’26 shares his St. Sebastian’s journey with new parents. BOTTOM: Hilda Terrero P’31 and Renny Valdez P’31 with David and Yulia Perlman P’31 at the New Parent Dinner.

St. Sebastian’s hosted two opportunities this fall for professionals in our school community to gather, network, and hear from industry experts.

28th Annual Boston Business Breakfast Nearly 150 members of the St. Sebastian’s community gathered at the Boston Harbor Hotel on November 25 for the 28th Annual Boston Business Breakfast. Alumni, parents, and parents of alumni reconnected over coffee before Fr. Michael Drea opened the morning with grace, followed by welcoming remarks from Head of School Brendan Sullivan.

After breakfast, Board of Trustees President Devin Condron introduced keynote speaker Denis J. Cleary III P’27, Founder and CEO of 71 West Capital Partners.

Cleary, who joined the Board this fall, reflected on his family’s long connection to St. Sebastian’s—through his father, longtime faculty member and History Department Chair Denis Cleary Sr.—and shared the career journey that led him to establish his firm. He highlighted three essential skills for success in finance: strong salesmanship, investment acumen, and effective leadership.

The gathering continued a valued tradition of connection, networking, and inspiration, reflecting the enduring strength of the St. Sebastian’s community.

The panel included Tucker Elcock ’07, Scott Neuberger ’10, Marc Puglia P’27, Matt Lepley ’04, and Brendan Quinn ’09 (via Zoom).

Financial Diligence Networking Event Financial integrity and thoughtful diligence were the focus of St. Sebastian’s inaugural Financial Diligence Networking Event, held December 3 at the Boston Marriott Newton.

The evening brought together alumni, parents, and parents of alumni for an outstanding discussion moderated by Tucker Elcock ’07, Alumni Board Networking Chair. The panel featured Marc Puglia P’27, CFO and Managing Director at PSG; Matt Lepley ’04, Partner in Accounting Advisory at Connor Group; Brendan Quinn ’09, Senior Director of FP&A and Strategy at Veracross (via Zoom); and Scott Neuberger ’10, Managing Director in Deal Advisory at KPMG. Panelists explored the evolving private equity landscape, including individual investors, evergreen funds, and the growing impact of AI, while underscoring the essential role of integrity in the investment process.

TOP: Keynote speaker Denis Cleary P’27 (center) with Board President Devin Condron and Head of School Brendan Sullivan. BOTTOM: Michael Mackintire ’16, John Piatelli ’17 and Mac Fotiades ’19 catch up during the breakfast.

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A Night to Jingle, Mingle & Give Back

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he St. Sebastian’s community truly “jingled and mingled” at the Annual Christmas Auction & Dinner. Held at the Fairmont Copley Plaza on December 6, the evening offered a festive opportunity for parents and friends of the School to gather during the Christmas season while supporting St. Sebastian’s.

We are deeply grateful to Auction Co-Chairs Keri Boyle P’28 and Danielle Shahied P’28, along with Guild of St. Irene President Wendy Thurmond P’25,’28 and the entire Auction Committee, who generously shared their time, talent, and resources to bring this memorable event to life. Special thanks to our auctioneers—Thurmond, Scott Mutryn P’25,’26,’28,

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and Marie Carroll P’25,’28,’30—as well as our energetic senior student volunteers, whose enthusiasm added to the spirit of the evening.

An exciting highlight of the night came during the “Raise the Paddle” when attendees surpassed the goal to support an investment in making St. Sebastian’s a cutting-edge place to learn and sparking our boys’ imaginations in a rapidly evolving digital world.

These comprehensive media upgrades will enhance engagement across campus, enrich the educational experience, foster creativity, and help prepare our boys for the technology-driven world they’re inheriting.

We extend our appreciation to the many sponsors, donors, advertisers, and bidders whose generosity made the 2025 Christmas Auction a resounding success!

St. Sebastian’s,

Reimagined in Lego Featured as a Live Item in the Christmas Auction, this one-of-a-kind Lego model of St. Sebastian’s was crafted

by Jack McRoskey ’27, who recreated the entire campus in remarkable detail.

5,500

Jack began the project at the start of his sophomore year with the Burke Family Center and football field, gradually expanding it until the entire campus was complete. Using specialized software to digitally design the buildings, he sourced thousands of individual Lego bricks and worked in the Innovation Lab, with guidance from Innovation Lab Director Matt Burke, to design and print 3D-print custom elements that brought his vision to life.

Highlights include removable roofs for peeking inside select buildings; a realistic, rotunda-shaped Martin Hall; Arrows athletes on the fields and rink; a miniature St. Sebastian statue; and even Lego staff members! The result is an impressive blend of creativity, craftsmanship, and innovation. The winning bidders, the Catrickes Family, generously donated the model to the School; it is currently on display in the Admissions reception area.

pieces

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3D-elements

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Dedication Elcock Arts Center

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On Saturday, October 4, beneath a beautiful fall sky, nearly 100 members of the St. Sebastian’s community gathered to honor Jim Elcock ’77, P’08 and his family at the dedication of the Elcock Arts Center. Family members, classmates, trustees, friends, and colleagues filled the recently renovated Arts Center terrace, creating the perfect backdrop for the ceremony.

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im’s formal commitment to St. Sebastian’s began as Alumni Association President from 1988–1990 before serving on the Board of Trustees for 23 years from 2001– 2024, the last 13 of which he presided as the Board President.

Head of School Brendan Sullivan welcomed all to the dedication, noting, “Our school’s rich history is told on the walls and spaces around campus: Birmingham, Condron, Connelly, Doherty, Gately, Nerbonne, Ward, McKinlay, O’Hearn and the beautiful Burke Family Center. It is appropriate and well deserved that we add the name Elcock to that storied list.” Brendan expressed his gratitude to Jim’s family, Kathleen, Jimmy ’08 and Elizabeth, for sharing their husband and father with the St. Sebastian’s community for all these years. A plaque that will hang permanently in the Elcock Arts Center was then unveiled.

Fr. John Arens offered a blessing, noting the fitting significance of the Elcock name adorning the Arts Center.

Jim’s son, Jimmy—now a professional touring musician—began his musical journey in the very building being dedicated, a meaningful link between past and future.

Board President Devin Condron ’92, P’29,’29,’31, spoke next, thanking Jim for his tireless service to St. Sebastian’s, leadership, long-standing friendship, and especially for guidance during Devin’s first year as Board President. Devin presented a unanimous Proclamation from the Board, naming Jim Trustee Emeritus. Headmaster Emeritus Bill Burke P’95,’97,’00,’04, GP’23,’29 returned to honor his longtime friend, noting, “The relationship between a Board President and Headmaster is so very important—no secrets, no surprises.

We row as one,” he said. “No matter how sensitive or potentially explosive the matter before us, I always felt good

about reporting it to Jim, for I knew I would be speaking with and working alongside an intelligent, talented, and eminently loyal partner, brother, friend, and soul mate of faith and honor, leading a board of extraordinary integrity and commitment to advancing our School’s mission.”

Jim took the microphone with characteristic warmth and humility, expressing gratitude for his family, the St. Sebastian’s community, and many Colliers International colleagues. His remarks reflected the optimism, energy, humor, and integrity that everyone associates with him.

The celebration continued with a reception in Martin Hall, where Jimmy Elcock ’08 spoke on behalf of his family, sharing stories that highlighted his father’s lifelong dedication to St. Sebastian’s. The day was a fitting tribute to a true son of the school—a man whose legacy will resonate for generations.

OPPOSITE: The Elcock Family gathers in front of the main entrance to the newly dedicated Elcock Arts Center. LEFT: Head of School Brendan Sullivan, Board President Devin Condron, Jim Elcock, and Headmaster Emeritus Bill Burke. MIDDLE: Brendan welcomes members of the St. Sebastian’s community and Jim’s family and friends to the dedication. RIGHT: Jim holds a smaller replica of the Elcock Arts Center dedication plaque, given to him as a gift.

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Garden of St. Irene Dedication:

Honoring Arrow Mothers

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n October 18, ahead of Homecoming festivities, St. Sebastian’s dedicated the Garden of St. Irene, situated on the newly renovated terrace in front of the Elcock Arts Center. The garden’s centerpiece, a statue of St. Irene, honors the Guild Presidents and all our devoted mothers — past, present, and future. Since its founding in 1949, the Guild of St. Irene has nurtured the St. Sebastian’s community, fostering faith and connection through love, sacrifice, and strength.

Head of School Brendan Sullivan welcomed the crowd, most notably the 14 Guild of St. Irene Presidents and all mothers in attendance. He reflected on how St. Irene removed the arrows from St. Sebastian and helped nurture him back to health, just as Arrow mothers are there for their sons. Current Guild President Wendy Thurmond P’25,’28, along with past presidents Dorothy Daly P’88,’92 and Mary Corcoran P’89, unveiled the statue. Senior Priest Fr. John Arens offered a blessing and opening prayer, noting the sculptor, Steve Shaheen, also created the statue of Mary in the Oratory and the bronze images in the Stations of the Cross.

Following heartfelt remarks from Thurmond about what an honor it is to serve as President of the Guild, Sullivan added that many Chapel Speeches are given in tribute to students’ mothers. He recalled one recent speech where he noticed the mother standing beneath the stained-glass image of St. Irene. The image reminded him of a boxer with a manager in his corner—encouraging him to keep going after each round, offering praise and support but also sending him back into the ring. Similarly, mothers provide unwavering support and encouragement, always in their sons’ corner. The dedication concluded with a beautiful closing prayer offered by our Chaplain, Fr. Christopher Boyle.

LEFT: Past Guild presidents are celebrated with bouquets of roses at the dedication. RIGHT: Fr. John Arens blesses the statue of St. Irene.

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FINE ARTS

Broadening Horizons through Art

Mittat in Fide During Art Club, Antonio Petruzziello ’26 created the beautiful artwork featured on the 2025 St. Sebastian’s Christmas card. Painted in watercolor, the piece is titled Mittat in Fide, which translates to “He Sends in Faith.”

Eighth graders explored the Museum of Fine Arts, Boston, on November 6, as the Fine Arts Department continued its commitment to culturally enriching field experiences.

A FUSION OF ART & SCIENCE

Artwork by Chase Coughlin ’31, Cal Carroll ’31, and Mitch Finnegan ’31.

A pencil study of a familiar Ward Hall staple— soft-serve ice cream, a favorite treat among Arrows—by Felix Cressotti ’28.

In the Innovative Design course, students apply visual art principles through hands-on work with technology in the Innovation Lab. This fusion of art and science fosters creative problem-solving as 7th and 8th graders learn to use the Lab’s machines and software. The result: striking, original work—such as these layered laser cut landscapes created through the study of atmospheric perspective.

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Art in

Full Bloom

Inspired by Georgia O’Keeffe, 7th and 8th Grade Arrows explored observational chalk pastel studies of succulents in Drawing & Painting class.

From left: Artwork by Alex Kaplan ’30 and Will Bolton ’30.

Spreading Kindness through Memory Project Portraits Arrows created Memory Project portraits for children from Armenia for the first time. Several families in our St. Sebastian’s community have strong ties to Armenia and we were excited to deepen this connection through spreading kindness to a child in need.

In pottery, I place immense pressure on myself knowing that my every movement is a risk. I am chasing perfection without being able to be perfect. That is the most beautiful part of pottery; it is okay to be imperfect. Pottery requires originality and authenticity. It is about being able to be proud of yourself with minor imperfections that make your pot yours and only yours.

—David Hahm ’26

Memory Project Portrait

by Will Madden ’29.

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(An excerpt from David’s Senior Chapel Speech, where he reflects on lessons from ceramics and pays tribute to his parents, who helped shape the person he is today.)

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The Slings & Arrows Players delivered a joyful, high-energy performance of this year’s fall play, The Brothers Grimm Spectaculathon, on November 7 and 8 in the West Campus Theater.

Written by Don Zolidis and inspired by all 209 Brothers Grimm fairy tales, The Brothers Grimm Spectaculathon is a fast-paced theatrical marathon filled with drama, intrigue, love, monsters, and mayhem—all wrapped in a sparkling, lighthearted package. Equal parts dark, deranged, and delightfully funny, the show kept audiences laughing as it raced through dozens of familiar—and not-so-familiar—fairy tales.

The cast and crew excelled under the guidance of faculty member Amber Crossman, who marked her first production as Director of St. Sebastian’s Drama Program with resounding success.

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Pushing Arrows to the NEXT LEVEL

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On any given day at St. Sebastian’s, the weight room hums with purpose in a space that feels familiar, yet entirely new. A renovated layout and individualized coaching support students at every stage—from seventh graders learning proper technique on scaled equipment to varsity athletes refining speed and conditioning at the highest level. What was once simply a place to work out has become something more—a hub of energy, development, and connection.

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his transformation reflects a thoughtful investment in how St. Sebastian’s prepares its studentathletes to compete. “The ISL is the best league, top to bottom, in New England. Every game is a battle,” said Director of Athletics Jon Bartlett.

“To assist our students in their overall strength and speed development, we felt more resources were needed to prepare them for the season.” Many studentathletes had previously sought those resources at outside gyms.

St. Sebastian’s brought this vision to life through two major initiatives: a fully renovated, state-of-the-art weight room completed over the summer and the creation of St. Sebastian’s first Director of Peak Performance role, which Clifford Kurker assumed in July.

flow, and maximizing training opportunities for athletes across all grades and experience levels.

The upgrades include new flooring, machines, bumper plates and dumbbells branded with St. Sebastian’s athletic logo, along with a mural that reinforces Arrow pride. Traditional squat racks were replaced with double-sided racks,

doubling capacity from four stations to eight, while a turf lane running the length of the gym allows for sprint work and sled pushes.

Although the footprint remains the same, the layout was redesigned to feel more open and accessible, giving as many students as possible the opportunity to train and benefit from

A WEIGHT ROOM REIMAGINED Thanks to generous donors, the weight room underwent a complete overhaul: “It now looks and feels like a college weight room,” shared Bartlett. The renovation focused not only on aesthetics, but also on accessibility,

Upgraded equipment and a refreshed layout of the weight room allow more athletes to train together.

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the space. Younger athletes now have access to equipment scaled to their needs, and multiple groups can lift simultaneously without congestion.

The room no longer feels generic—it feels inviting and vibrant. Alumni utilizing the facilities while home over Thanksgiving and Christmas breaks shared a familiar refrain: “This is nicer than my college weight room.”

A PERSONALIZED PATH TO PERFORMANCE While the weight room upgrades are immediately visible, the impact of Clifford Kurker’s addition to the staff has been just as significant. Since joining St. Sebastian’s in July, he has brought energy, expertise, and a philosophy rooted in meeting students where they are.

As Director of Peak Performance, Kurker’s role touches every corner of the athletic program. He works with all students—from the youngest Arrows learning foundational movement patterns to upperclassmen preparing for college competition—across inseason teams, off-season training, and individual development. His work includes team lifts, speed sessions, conditioning, mobility and recovery work, and individualized training plans.

A defining feature of the program is personalization. Students receive customized workouts based on their sport, goals, injury history, and training background—often within 24 hours of an initial conversation.

“My biggest goal is to help each student reach his goals,” Kurker said.

“Some have specific numbers they want to hit, a speed they want to run, or a weight they want to lift. Others have broader goals, like starting on varsity or playing in college. And beyond that, I want to create a lifelong passion and competency for fitness.”

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and how they learn best. The school schedule allows him to work closely with middle school students during designated periods, providing hands-on coaching and individualized attention in a low-pressure setting.

That early exposure builds confidence and comfort before students transition into larger group settings.

For those with aspirations to play at the collegiate level, the preparation is even more intentional—ensuring they graduate with strong baseline strength, speed, and technical proficiency so they arrive ready to compete, not catch up.

SEAMLESS COLLABORATION The Director of Peak Performance works in close partnership with Athletic Trainers Kern Fitzgerald ’79 and Michael Carpino, as well as Assistant Strength Coach Andy Carr, strengthening an Athletic Department rooted in experience and continuity.

Fitzgerald, a dedicated member of the department for more than 41 years, anchors a group that combines deep institutional knowledge with a shared commitment to continual improvement.

Together, they form an integrated support system that prioritizes health, recovery, and readiness, allowing Arrow athletes to transition seamlessly from treatment to training and return to competition feeling strong, confident, and prepared. Working alongside Carr, Kurker can reach more boys at once, divide groups effectively, and take full advantage of the indoor turf – or head outside - for targeted speed and movement development, maximizing both the space and the department’s depth of expertise.

WHERE COMMUNITY THRIVES The booming activity in the weight room reflects the new initiatives. “With the new design of the weight room, and the energy that Clifford has brought into team lifts, it will only enhance overall sport performance,” said Bartlett. “The

results will be seen on the fields, courts and rink. Student-athletes will improve their overall strength, fitness and speed; but, having the students train at Sebs, the room will help with overall team building and team bonding. Spending time with teammates and friends will only enhance relationships.”

For Kurker, the most powerful part of the experience has been the culture he’s encountered at St. Sebastian’s and how naturally it carries into the weight room. “The sense of community here— I’ve never seen anything like it,” he said.

“The brotherhood is truly special. Seeing the kids enjoy their time together, take ownership of this space, and support one another has been incredible.”

With upgraded facilities, a dedicated performance coach, and a shared commitment to athletic excellence, St. Sebastian’s has created a weight room where students thrive—both individually and together—a space where growth, grit, and camaraderie intersect, and every Arrow can push to the next level.

“The sense of community here—I’ve never seen anything like it. The brotherhood is truly special.

Seeing the kids enjoy their time together, take ownership of this space, and support one another has been incredible.”

—Clifford Kurker, Director of Peak Performance

TOP: Arrows make use of the new turf lane running down the center of the weight room. n BOTTOM LEFT: Director of Peak Performance Clifford Kurker demonstrates proper form, guiding a student through a strengthening exercise. n BOTTOM RIGHT: A mural featuring a collage of St. Sebastian’s athletes in action provides a dynamic backdrop for the space.

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NEPSAC CHAMPIONS

Varsity Cross Country

BY COACH JOSEF CRESSOTTI

The 2025 Arrows Cross Country team continued its recent success, winning the New England Division III Championship for the second time in three years. Led by captains Seb Culleton ’25, Joe Koh ’25, and John Joyce ’26, the Arrows held off reigning champion Wheeler at Highland Park in Attleboro.

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were the only seniors, the junior class included seven returning runners.

Cormac Anderson, Ryan Connolly, Abner Machuca Diaz, Anthony Marcucci, Antonio Martinez, and Alex Wasynczuk joined John Joyce in the pursuit of adding another year to the championship banner.

A large sophomore class also contributed significantly to the team’s success, as Nate Bloomenthal, Henry Bowman, Bobby Ferguson, Rohan Ghatge, Richie Joyce, and Joe Ryan made their varsity debuts. Jack Halloran and Patrick Fennell also made major contributions as freshmen.

With 11 wins and 3 losses in the regular season, the Arrows posted their best record in recent memory. Among the notable races was their 3-0 result on the hilly St. George’s course. To celebrate the victory, the team took a plunge in the ocean on an unusually

warm October afternoon. The annual Homecoming race at the Rashi School was another highlight of the season.

In front of a large Henry’s Corner, the Arrows placed the second, third, and fourth fastest runners, narrowly losing to an excellent Belmont Hill squad.

John Joyce set a team record on the Rashi course with a time of 16:54. It was the team’s strongest performance of the season and a promising sign for the championship races.

The Arrows battled injuries for much of the year and didn’t have a full team until the ISL Championship in Wrentham. On that day, 12 of the 17 runners set personal records, helping the team finish 7th out of 16 and in the top half of the league. John Joyce matched his second-place finish from two years ago, this time against a much stronger field, running a PR of 15:53.

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place higher, they remained focused on the most important race of the season: the New England Championship a week later. On a sunny, crisp autumn afternoon, the Arrows delivered. Three runners earned medals—Joyce (2nd), Culleton (12th), and Halloran (13th)— while Joe Koh and Nate Bloomenthal ran their best races of the season, helping secure a narrow victory over second-place Wheeler.

As always, the Arrows enjoyed a fun season, balancing hard training with memorable team bonding experiences.

Coach Wiggin, a middle school team coach, inspired three runners to showcase their culinary skills in a fallthemed cake-baking contest. Along with the apple pie and sourdough bread awards from other intra-squad competitions, the Sebs Cross Country team was certainly well fed. While the Arrows will be losing two outstanding seniors, Culleton and Koh, a strong core of returning runners—along with several middle schoolers moving up to varsity—has the team looking forward to a bright 2026.

OPPOSITE: Cheered on by an enthusiastic Henry’s Corner, Captain Joe Koh ’26 races past during the Homecoming meet versus Belmont Hill. TOP LEFT: The second-place medal is awarded to Captain John Joyce ’27 at the ISL Championship.

BOTTOM LEFT: Nate Bloomenthal ’28 paces an impressive race at Roxbury Latin. RIGHT: Captain Seb Culleton ’26 competes at the ISL Championships.

A Meaningful 5K Members of the St. Sebastian’s Varsity Cross Country team participated in the Tunnel to Towers 5K in New York City on September 28, honoring the firefighters and first responders who lost their lives on 9/11. Running alongside thousands of firefighters, the team retraced the steps of those who sprinted through the Brooklyn Battery Tunnel to the Twin Towers on that fateful day. The run served as a powerful tribute to courage, sacrifice, and lives given in service to others.

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Varsity Football first punt. Undaunted by the start, this offensive play, and Milton blocked our

BY COACH DAN BURKE

Resilience defined the 2025 Arrows Varsity Football team who competed valiantly in every game on the way to a 4-4 record in Class B during NEPSAC’s inaugural season of three-tiered football.

Led by captains Tedy Frisoli, David Hahm, George Kelly, and Dom Scioli and the rest of the leaders in the Class of 2026, the Arrows committed themselves to work hard in the offseason to prepare for the challenging schedule this fall.

Returning only one starter on the offense from last season and with many other spots open for competition, they knew that this extra preparation was even more essential this year.

The season opened with a game at Curry College vs. Milton Academy that could not have started worse for St. Sebastian’s – Milton returned the opening kickoff for a touchdown, captain running back George Kelly was knocked out for the season on our first

resilient team bounced back to bring the score within two points in the third quarter. Unfortunately, we could not complete the comeback vs. Milton in the end and began the season 0-1.

We knew we had to be better in the next game versus Belmont Hill.

Tough play on both sides of the ball and in special teams led to a dominant 21-3 victory over our rivals. The Arrows defense played particularly outstanding as it would for the rest of the season, and captains Tedy Frisoli and David Hahm and Sam Weston ’27 each scored touchdowns to propel us to a huge victory in Belmont.

Next up was a first ever game for the Arrows against Hotchkiss at Boston College on a perfect Saturday afternoon.

The game started with a Hotchkiss turnover deep in their territory that led to our first touchdown of the game – a fourth down dart from Duke Ciongoli ’27 to Michael Walbridge ’28. That was the first of four Hotchkiss turnovers that the Arrows defense caused, with

Tedy Frisoli converting two of them for touchdowns of 96 and 101 yards.

Hotchkiss was on the doorstep to scoring themselves on each of those plays, so these defensive scores for the Arrows were really a 28-point swing.

The Arrows only yielded one score to Hotchkiss and the offense scored three more times on the way to a 42-7 victory to put us at 2-1.

Our next two games resulted in one loss and one win as we lost a close one 14-7 at St. Paul’s in New Hampshire before responding with a 54-8 win at Homecoming versus Trinity Pawling.

In that Homecoming game, the whole team contributed to the win, with touchdowns by seven different Arrows including first career touchdowns by Jack Carter ’28, Demetri Catrickes ’27, and Rhett Shevlin ’29.

Our next stretch pitted us against two undefeated teams in Class B play up to that point. The Arrows hosted BB&N for a home night game, with a loud, toga-clad student crowd cheering on a defense that played tough all night in a hard-fought 7–6

LEFT: David Greaney ’26 buries a game-winning field goal in the final seconds of a fantastic showdown against Thayer. RIGHT: Wide receiver/defensive back and captain Tedy Frisoli ’26 looks to make his defender miss after a reception against Hotchkiss at Boston College’s Alumni Stadium.

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loss. Considering BB&N had scored at least three touchdowns in four of their previous five games, limiting them to a single score was a great team effort. After this close defeat, the team leadership quickly turned the page, preparing for a matchup against the eventual undefeated Class B champion, Tabor. Few would have expected a win, but the Arrows believed and came out firing, carrying a 21–12 lead into the third quarter before turnovers shifted momentum in Tabor’s favor. Though the game ended in a loss, the Arrows ran the ball more effectively and competed harder than against any other opponent, showcasing their physical and mental toughness.

The team had to show mental toughness once again in the final game of the season, finding themselves down 14–0 to Thayer in the fourth quarter.

Refusing to quit, they fought back in a thrilling finale for the Class of 2026.

How fitting it was on senior day that captain David Hahm ’26 scored his 11th and 12th touchdowns of the season to bring the Arrows within two points, setting the stage for another senior to give the team a chance to take the lead.

David Greaney confidently stepped up for his first-ever field goal attempt— from 37 yards out. Well beyond the range of most high school kickers, his kick sailed perfectly down the middle, with plenty of distance, securing a wild 15–14 victory to close the season.

While the 4-4 record was not the aim, what we care most about is how we play together and for one another and how we compete for the full 48 minutes of each game. By those measures, this was one of the most successful Arrows teams. Resilient, selfless, team-first, hard-working, the 2025 Arrows made their coaches, families, school, and alumni proud.

ABOVE: Captain David Hahm ’26 speedily navigates blocking battles to find running lanes during a St. Sebastian’s win over Belmont Hill.

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LEFT: Senior captain Sebastian Martinez-Moule ’26 celebrates after netting a penalty kick in a historic win over Worcester Academy. RIGHT: Michael Rohatgi ’26 lines up his second goal of the game against Thayer.

Varsity Soccer

BY COACH WOODY REDPATH

St. Sebastian’s finished the season with an 8-6-1 record in the ISL, good for eighth place in a highly competitive league.

With seven of the 16 teams advancing to the NEPSAC playoffs, the Arrows were arguably just one or two results away from earning a postseason bid.

In the season opener, Sebs delivered a statement performance, defeating perennial powerhouse Worcester Academy, 2–0. Reagan Straub ’26 put the Arrows on the board just three minutes into the game, capitalizing on a bouncing ball in the box following a long throw from fellow captain Griffin Collins ’26. Captain Sebastian Martinez-Moule ’26 added the second goal midway through the first half, converting a penalty kick. The Arrows back line, anchored by captains Finn Noonan ’26 and goalkeeper JD Munro ’26, stood firm and neutralized every Worcester attack down the stretch.

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The Arrows welcomed a tough Nobles squad to campus for a Friday Night Lights match-up to open ISL play. Nobles jumped out to a 2–0 lead early in the second half, but a highlightreel goal from Collins midway through the half reignited hopes of a late equalizer. Though time ultimately ran out, the Arrows displayed tremendous fight and heart throughout the match.

Sebs achieved a milestone with a 2–1 road victory over Milton Academy.

Finn Noonan ’26 opened the scoring in the first half, deftly heading a long throw from Collins into the back-post side netting. Milton tied the game just minutes later, but Sebs reclaimed the lead before halftime when Dylan van Biert ’26 redirected a cross over the Milton goalkeeper for his first goal as an Arrow—and ultimately the gamewinner. Despite sustained pressure from Milton as they searched for a share of the spoils, Sebs successfully turned away every threat.

Midway through the ISL season, the Arrows battled Belmont Hill in a hard-fought 0–0 draw. The defensive

stalemate was an impressive display of discipline and defensive awareness by both teams, with neither the Arrows nor the Sextons able to break through.

Munro was the man of the match for his unbelievable diving save on a pointblank penalty just five minutes into the match to keep it tied at 0.

Sebs and Middlesex delivered an entertaining game as they faced off during Homecoming in front of a lively crowd. Middlesex struck first 15 minutes into the match-up, but just 30 seconds later, Sebs equalized: Griffin Collins beat his defender on the right wing, drove toward the end line, and cut the ball back to a streaking Straub, who made no mistake. Ten minutes into the second half, Sebs took the lead when Christian Martinez-Moule ’29 out-jumped the goalie to sneak the ball into the goal just beneath the cross bar. It was an excellent way to welcome Sebs alumni and friends back to campus.

The year ended much like it began — with a win, as tradition dictates.

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against Thayer, with all seniors starting and contributing to the victory, just as they had all year. While senior Tony Petruzziello didn’t find the scoresheet, his impact over the season — and throughout his four years — was undeniable. His readiness to step up in key moments at left-hand back proved invaluable. Senior Michael Rohatgi stole the spotlight, scoring the first two goals for the Arrows in the first half, a perfect reward for his hard work throughout the year. Sebastian Martinez-Moule added the third and game-winning goal, assisted by fellow senior Griffin Collins. A truly poetic ending to the season.

In the final seven games of the season, the Arrows posted a 6-1-0 record, scoring 17 goals along the way.

The coaches and players extend their heartfelt thanks to the parents, Henry’s Corner, and all supporters for the cheers, photos, team dinners, snacks, and positive energy. We could not have achieved this success without your unwavering support.

CROSS COUNTRY All-NEPSAC Sebastian Culleton ’26, Jack Halloran ’29, John Joyce ’27

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AWARDS

FOOTBALL Ennis Award Presented to a senior who displays the qualities of commitment, teamwork, and dedication to the football program.

Joe Poulos ’26

Big Hit Award Presented to the player who makes a positive impact on our opponents.

Brendan McHugh ’26, Cam Steele ’26

Tom Stratton Award For Grit, Resilience, and Enduring Passion for St. Sebastian’s Football George Kelly ’26

Special Teams Award For Outstanding Performance in and Commitment to Special Teams Striker and captain Griffin Collins ’26 retains control over a contested ball while advancing up the field.

Michael DeMatteo ’26

NEPSAC Honorable Mention Joseph Koh ’26

All-ISL Jack Halloran ’29, John Joyce ’27

ISL Honorable Mention Sebastian Culleton ’26

Coaches Award For the Runner who in his performance, leadership, and example best contributes to the success of the St. Sebastian’s Varsity Cross Country Team.

Sebastian Culleton ’26, Joseph Koh ’26

SOCCER All State for Massachusetts Griffin Collins ’26

All-ISL Griffin Collins ’26, Finn Noonan ’26

ISL Honorable Mention Sebastian Martinez-Moule ’26, JD Munro ’26

Peter Kerr Memorial Coaches Award Presented to the soccer player who displays sportsmanship, dedication, and commitment to the soccer program.

Tony Petruzziello ’26, Dylan Van Biert ’26

Athletic Director’s Appreciation Award Trey Sutphin ’26

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Duces Society Reception & Captains’ Wall Dedication Celebrate Leadership

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TOP: Joe Kearney ’14 joins other former Arrows captains in locating their names on the Captains’ Wall. n MIDDLE: A dedication plaque in the shape of a shield honors the wooden “Captains’ Plaques” displayed in the refectory on Nonantum Hill and our proud athletic history. n BOTTOM: Duces Society members and captains join together for a group photo during the event.

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ore than 100 Arrows alumni, representing the Classes of 1961–2025 and traveling from as far as Georgia, Tennessee, Washington, D.C., and Pennsylvania, gathered on Saturday, October 18, for the annual Duces Society Reception. Held each year on Homecoming morning, the event honors alumni whose leadership giving supports the mission of St. Sebastian’s.

As part of this year’s celebration, all St. Sebastian’s captains—past and present— were invited to the dedication of the newly installed Captains’ Wall. The tradition of honoring captains began on Nonantum Hill, where dark wooden plaques shaped like St. Sebastian’s shield lined the refectory walls, and continued at the Needham campus through plaques displayed in the dining hall and Administration Building. The redesigned Captains’ Wall, located in Arrows Hall in the Burke Family Center, adds to a space already rich with athletic history, where team photographs spanning the School’s entire history line the walls.

Presiding over the dedication and blessing, Fr. Chris Boyle emphasized the School’s enduring values of integrity, leadership, courage, and faith. Head of School Brendan Sullivan welcomed Duces Society members and captains, highlighting the shared leadership at the heart of both groups: “The word duces is Latin for leaders. Through the support of our leadership donors, we are able to provide need-based financial aid to 34% of today’s Arrows. Your leadership is truly making a difference. As captains, you were leaders among your peers, setting the tone for your teammates and excelling on the field of play.”

Duces Society members and captains then gathered for a luncheon in Martin Hall before joining the broader community at the Homecoming games.

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HOMECOMING Alumni, students, parents, and faculty gathered on October 18 to celebrate St. Sebastian’s Homecoming. Head of School Brendan Sullivan welcomed the community at midfield before alumnus Derron St. Marie ’24 sang the National Anthem, accompanied by the Needham Knights of Columbus as color guard. Dan Daly ’61 and Fred Corcoran ’62 served as honorary captains for the coin flip. Fans then enjoyed a decisive 55–8 football victory over Trinity Pawling, while the Arrows soccer team secured a 2–1 win against ISL rival Middlesex. Special thanks to members of the Men’s Association and the Guild of St. Irene for keeping the grills going and the Homecoming campus store bustling. It was a memorable fall day filled with Arrow pride.

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Head of School Brendan Sullivan headed out on the road to meet with alumni in Washington, D.C. (left) and New York City (right).

Washington, D.C. & NYC Receptions

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ead of School Brendan Sullivan traveled to Washington, D.C., and New York in November to meet with St. Sebastian’s graduates. Alongside the Advancement team, he hosted receptions in both cities, strengthening connections with alumni.

Following the reception in Washington, D.C., graduates were joined by juniors from the Class of 2027, visiting for their annual trip to the nation’s capital. The event offered students a chance to hear from alumni who have built careers in the region.

Ken Mateo ’05, a U.S. Naval Academy graduate and Marine Corps Major, spoke about the value of service and encouraged students to honor veterans and to reach out

if considering military paths themselves. Sean Frazzette ’12, now an Assistant Public Defender in Baltimore after Harvard and University of Chicago Law, shared insights from his work, emphasizing the humanity of those he represents and the importance of compassion in the legal system. Eddie Ryan ’23 also shared his experiences at Georgetown, offering perspective on life after St. Sebastian’s.

The trip wrapped up in New York City, where graduates reconnected during a reception at the Harvard Club’s Gordon Reading Room. Trustee Emeritus David Gately ’73 and Alumni Association President Ryan Fitzpatrick ’92 joined the gathering, highlighting the enduring strength and camaraderie of the School’s alumni.

Class of 2025 Yearbook Reception On November 25, the Class of 2025 returned to campus, reuniting for the first time since Commencement. Before the Yearbook Reception, many of the recent grads joined faculty and students at the early-afternoon Thanksgiving Mass. The 2025 yearbook is dedicated to “devoted teacher, coach, and parent,” Jed Doherty ’86, P’25. Fr. Chris Boyle opened the reception with a blessing, and James Donovan ’19 spoke on behalf of the Alumni Office. Head of School Brendan Sullivan addressed the first graduating class under his leadership, sharing School updates and encouraging ongoing engagement. Class Agent Teddy McKeigue ’25 closed with a message promoting support for future Arrows and reminding classmates to carry St. Sebastian’s mission into their daily lives.

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ALUMNI EVENTS

Thanksgiving Eve Social Over 60 St. Sebastian’s alumni from the classes of 2007–2021 continued a cherished tradition by gathering the night before Thanksgiving at Layla’s in South Boston. Longtime faculty member and coach Jim Rest joined the celebration, adding to the festive spirit.

Alumni enjoyed reconnecting over food and drinks, demonstrating the enduring bond shared by the Arrows community.

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Arrows Connect Career Night

Recent alumni share advice and insight with the Class of 2027 as they begin the college search process.

Alumni College Panel On January 6, recent alumni returned to campus to advise the Class of 2027 as they begin the college search process.

The seven-member panel represented a wide range of institutions and experiences: Kyle Bilezerian ’23 (Syracuse), Ryan Donovan ’23 (St. Lawrence), Rui do Rosario ’24 (Johns Hopkins), Cormac Gallagher ’22 (Villanova), Andrew Hahm ’22 (Amherst), Peter Hunt ’23 (Northeastern), and Brett Porter ’23 (Clemson, via Zoom). Moderated by Director of College Counseling Ellen Hinman, the discussion emphasized staying present, embracing challenge, and fully using St. Sebastian’s resources. Executive Director of Advancement Mike Melley closed by encouraging students to engage the alumni network throughout their college journeys and beyond.

n January 5, the Alumni Board hosted the fifth annual Arrows Connect Career Night via Zoom for alumni from the Classes of 2017–2025. Moderated by Tim Smith ’07, Senior Director of Strategic Analytics at Snyk, the panel featured six alumni across diverse fields: Aidan Balboni ’12, Senior Associate at Windjammer Capital Partners (IB/PE); Dave Gusella ’06, Corporate Partner at Kirkland & Ellis (Law); Eric Jeremiah ’17, Associate Director at Newmark (Commercial Real Estate); Jake Levy ’14, Founder of PIE (Entrepreneurship); and Rich Renwick ’09 of CrowdStrike (Software Sales).

The panelists shared candid insights into their career journeys and practical advice, inspiring fellow Arrows as they chart their career paths.

The alumni panel included representatives from Commercial Real Estate, Entrepreneurship, Law, Private Equity, and Software Sales.

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Recognizing Alumni Service Alumni Reception Honors Brian Egan ’04 and John McNamara ’81, P’14,’18

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lumni from across generations gathered on November 5 for the annual Alumni Reception. The event’s centerpiece is the presentation of the Alumni Service Awards, honoring two graduates whose commitment to the School is reflected in their leadership and engagement. The 2025 honorees were Brian Egan ’04, recipient of the Recent Alumni Service Award, and John McNamara ’81, P’14, ’18, recipient of the Alumni Service Award.

Following an opening blessing by Fr. Chris Boyle, Head of School Brendan Sullivan reflected on the enduring legacy of alumni leadership at St. Sebastian’s and the vital role graduates have played throughout the School’s history, from Nonantum Hill to Needham.

Sullivan then highlighted the many contributions of Egan to both the Class of 2004 and the broader St. Sebastian’s community. A loyal and energetic Class Agent, he is known for encouraging classmates to stay engaged and attend events. Egan has served multiple

times on Reunion Committees and works closely with the Alumni Office to ensure his class remains close—to one another and to the School. He has also been a reliable sounding board for younger alumni interested in exploring careers in commercial real estate through his work at Walker Dunlop.

In his remarks, Egan reflected on the formative role St. Sebastian’s played in his adolescence and the values that continue to guide him. “Love God, work hard, take good care of one another…

Seb’s is a community that holds these values of fraternity as important as anything learned in the classroom,” he said. “They know this moral foundation, this roadmap to a fruitful life, is not easy, but it is the paramount goal it aims for its graduates, and I believe what sets it apart from other schools.” Egan was presented with a plaque in recognition of his award and was joined by his wife, Maria, their daughters Nellie, Sophia, and Helene, his parents, Tim and Kathy Egan, and numerous classmates from the Class of 2004.

LEFT: John McNamara (center) with his family, including his Arrow alumni sons, Billy ’18 and Johnny ’14. n RIGHT: Brian Egan with his parents, wife, and three daughters.

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Turning to the Alumni Service Award, Sullivan recognized McNamara for his extraordinary leadership and longstanding service to St. Sebastian’s.

The elder of two McNamara brothers to attend the School, including the late Greg ’84, has served the community in a wide range of leadership roles—Alumni Association President (2012–2015), Trustee (2016–2024), and Chair of the Development Committee (2017–2024), where his stewardship helped set Annual Fund records year after year.

McNamara has also been a dedicated leader within the Class of 1981, many of whom were in attendance for the celebration.

Reflecting on his journey, McNamara spoke about the advice he received from his parents: to improve himself and every organization he joined a little more each year. It was with that approach that he accepted his responsibilities to raise the bar at St. Sebastian’s year in and year out.

McNamara also shared his pride in learning that his role as Alumni Association President included leading graduates into Commencement ceremonies—a moment made all the more meaningful as he looked around Martin Hall, seeing how far the School had come since his own student days.

McNamara was presented with a St. Sebastian’s captain’s chair in recognition of his service. Celebrating alongside him were his classmates, his wife Lisa, and their four children, Meghan, Sarah, Johnny ’14, and Billy ’18.

Congratulations to Brian and John on their well-deserved honors and their enduring service to St. Sebastian’s.

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A Debate Tradition Carried Forward

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On November 8, Holy Cross hosted Villanova for a collegiate debate that marked a meaningful moment for both programs. For the Benedict Joseph Fenwick Debating Society at Holy Cross, it was a return to intercollegiate debate after more than two decades. For Villanova, it was a milestone for a debate program that did not exist until the previous year.

Standing behind the scenes were two St. Sebastian’s alumni—Alex Roth ’23 and Will Hansen ’23— who were not competing against one another that day, but instead organizing the entire event.

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he matchup was no coincidence. When Alex and Will arrived at college, they found debate cultures that were either recently revived or nonexistent, and each saw an opportunity to help build something new.

Their success was rooted not only in their experience as debaters, but in years at St. Sebastian’s learning to lead. Under the expert guidance of Assistant Head of School and Debate Coach Michael Nerbonne, they honed skills in judging rounds, mentoring younger students, running practices, and managing tournaments within one of the strongest independent school debate leagues in the country.

When Alex discovered that Villanova lacked a debate team, he and his freshman-year roommate set out to create one, building the Debate and Public Speaking Club from the ground up. At Holy Cross, Will joined the Bishop Fenwick Debating Society, a club that was once the oldest on campus, but had been inactive for two decades before being revived during his freshman year. He soon became deeply involved in rebuilding the program and was elected to the board the following year.

Knowing Will was active in the Fenwick Society, Alex reached out for advice as Villanova’s club began to take shape and also connected with Nerbonne, their former debate mentor, for guidance on rules and procedures. With their programs still young and eager for competition, the idea emerged that their schools should face off. “Two Catholic schools, in similar situations, getting their debate programs off the ground—it made so much sense,” Will said. “It was a great opportunity for both clubs to gain experience before formally joining a league.”

What followed was months of planning. Rather than stepping to the podium themselves, Alex and Will worked behind the scenes to organize every aspect of the event, from selecting formats and topics to coordinating logistics and judges. “It was a lot of communication back and forth,” Alex said, “but it worked out very well.”

On November 8, the teams faced off at Holy Cross in a series of structured debate rounds on religion, artificial intelligence, and the dignity of life. Nearly 80 students attended, reflecting a strong appetite on campus for thoughtful, civil exchange. Being Catholic schools gave the debate a unique context: one round asked whether Christianity should be the American state religion. A Holy Cross priest served as the sole judge for all three rounds, providing detailed feedback throughout. The debates were closely contested, with Villanova winning two rounds and Holy Cross one.

The confidence to build and organize debate at the collegiate level was cultivated long before November 8.

It began when Alex and Will joined the debate team at St. Sebastian’s. “Mr. Nerbonne guided me into it. As a shy, not very talkative seventh grader, the debate team definitely gave me a voice,” Alex said. “Being involved in debate throughout middle and high school played a foundational part in my journey as a student, but also as a person.”

Will described a similar environment, shaped by Nerbonne’s mentorship. He recalls how Nerbonne set high expectations while also taking a deep interest in students’ lives—taking the time to connect with them in the library between classes. That combination of rigor and genuine care left a lasting impression.

Both Alex and Will also recall learning a great deal from older students who regularly debated alongside younger teammates, modeling preparation and poise. “It was a really good group of motivated, well-rounded students who were positive influences,” Will said. “Being around them helped me grow more confident.”

Will Hansen ’23 and Alex Roth ’23 at the November 8 debate between Villanova and Holy Cross.

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“Being involved in debate throughout middle and high school played a foundational part in my journey as a student, but also as a person.”

—Alex Roth ’23

“Two Catholic schools, in similar situations, getting their debate programs off the ground—the debate made so much sense. It was a great opportunity for both clubs to gain experience before formally joining a league.”

—Will Hansen ’23

In the highly competitive Debating Association of New England Independent Schools (DANEIS), St. Sebastian’s hosts two tournaments annually—more than any other member— reflecting a program intentionally designed by Nerbonne to place upperclassmen at the center organizing and running the events. During their junior and senior years, Alex and Will played key roles, taking on a range of duties—from setting up schedules and inviting schools to managing scoring and preparing awards. They also helped run practices and served as judges at novice tournaments. “The responsibility provided a rare and powerful foundation, one that later enabled them to build debate programs at the collegiate level,” said Nerbonne.

The foundation laid at St. Sebastian’s reached far beyond debate. Alex credited the Chapel Speaking program as especially formative. “Being forced to give a public speech from seventh grade through senior year definitely shaped my public speaking,” he said. “Without that, I don’t know if I would’ve started the debate club at Nova; I would’ve been too scared to speak in front of a hundred-plus people.”

That preparation proved invaluable when Alex moderated a packed public debate at Villanova—two weeks after the Holy Cross debate—between a Catholic theology professor and an atheist philosophy professor. Standing on stage before hundreds of students, he thought back to his senior chapel speech and told himself, “I’ve spoken in front of 300 people before—I can do this.” He relied on advice from faculty

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member Josef Cressotti, who coached him on grounding and stage presence while preparing for a chapel speech.

Will pointed to the same steady foundation in the classroom, recalling his senior-year AP Literature course with English Department Chair Chris Lynch. The class met around a Harkness table to analyze demanding texts, including 19th-century Russian novels, and students were expected to articulate their thoughts aloud. “The whole class would just be a debate about what we were reading. You had to stay engaged, hiding wasn’t an option,” he recalled. “To this day, none of my college English classes have topped that class in terms of having to verbally articulate complex ideas.”

Hearing about the Villanova vs. Holy Cross debate, Nerbonne said he was proud of what these two Arrows alumni have accomplished at the college level. “Knowing Alex and Will, it doesn’t surprise me that they wanted to take something that really mattered to them here, something in which they devoted a lot of their time and energy, and translate it to college,” he said. “Universities are supposed to be places of free exchange of ideas—and they’re honoring that.”

What began years earlier in debate rounds, chapel speeches, and long tournament weekends at St. Sebastian’s has now taken root on college campuses. In building debate programs at Holy Cross and Villanova, Alex and Will are carrying forward not just a skill set, but a culture—one grounded in preparation, leadership, and a belief in the power of thoughtful dialogue.

CLASS NOTES

Center Bill Hardwood ’47 snaps the ball to Quarterback FALL 2025 / WINTER 2026 | 59 Jack Mulhern ’46 during a football game in the fall of 1945.

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Kevin Daley ’61 shared these memories in his eulogy for Charlie Smith ’61: “Charlie was a caring, solid, unflashy, behind the scenes type person with a dry wit and competitive spirit.” Daley extolled Charlie’s commitment to keeping the Class of 1961 together through Zoom Socials beginning during Covid and continuing to this day, “The Zoom participation quickly doubled to about 15-16 classmates. Our Zoomers were not just representing the New England contingent anymore but stretched from California to New England and from Texas to Wisconsin and several destinations in between…

And now it was weekly exchanges about family, sports, local events, and St. Sebastian’s both old and new. We even had the Heads of School and other school administrators joining in periodically to update us on school programs and keep us apprised. Safe to say without Charlie’s ingenuity many of these current relationships

would probably not have been rekindled... Friendships, relationships, thoughtfulness are the silent attributes of Charlie’s life. As we send Charlie off on his Last Watch, we wish him fair winds and following seas. Rest in peace, Charlie, and watch over us.”

1962

Ed Colozzi writes: “Are you working or perhaps offering pro bono services in the education, counseling, or mental health field as an Arrow? As President of our Massachusetts Career Development Association (MACDA), I warmly encourage you to join our historic MA State Division, one of 39 State Divisions of NCDA (National Career Development Association).

Our mission is promoting excellence in best practices and research in career development, guidance, career-life exploration and planning, and mental health. Please visit macda.wildapricot. org. Once an Arrow, Always an Arrow, In All Ways!”

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’62 LEFT: Bill Duserick ’57 and his wife, Emily, in Quechee, VT at the wedding of their granddaughter, Siobhan Carey, to William Russell of Scituate. n RIGHT: 1962 classmates got together for a sail around Scituate Harbor in early September. From left: Paul Murphy, Ed Kirk, Tom Gallagher and Fred Corcoran.

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CLASS NOTES

Jack Joyce shares: “Still enjoying retired life in the Arizona desert.”

Steve Theall writes: “Delighted (and proud) to note that my grandson Jack Lemke, Arrow Class of 2029, is a stalwart member of the St Sebastian’s soccer program. Happily, I get to visit the campus often to watch his games. I have also been playing a lot of golf during this beautiful fall season.

In recognition of the centennial anniversary of the Needham Golf Club in 2023, I wrote and published The Needham Golf Club: A Century Later.

Writing this history was an enjoyable task in that it brought to life the many members and memories of the club of which I have been a member for the past 45 years. I am pleased to say that the book has been well received by our membership.”

1978

George Quinn writes: “I have spent the last 10 years providing foster care to severely disabled adults and veterans.

Spend most of my free time traveling to Montana, hiking and horseback riding. I travel to Massachusetts to visit my sons Gregory and Harrison and my grandson Theodore.” (see photo on pg. 62)

1982

Peter Hill shares: “Relocated to the Cliffs at Walnut Cove in Arden NC just outside Asheville, NC. Looking forward to retirement in 2026.”

1991

Kevin Welch writes: “Our daughter, Alexandra, is starting her Sophomore Year at the University of Denver (you drive through a lot of farmlands in Iowa & Nebraska) and our son John is starting his Junior Year at Intrinsic HS in Chicago. Staying wicked hot during the summer and freezing in the winter! Hope to see some Class of ’91 Heroes at Homecoming in October!”

MARCH

RECEPTIONS

in Florida If you live in Florida or are looking for a great excuse to head to warmer climates, join us! All members of the St. Sebastian’s community are welcome, including alumni, parents, and grandparents.

March 16

North Palm Beach

March 18 Naples

For more details and to RSVP: > stsebs.org/palmbeach > stsebs.org/naples

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’68 LEFT: Dan Williams ’64, who taught and coached at St. Sebastian’s for 48 years (1968–2016), celebrated his 80th birthday in November, joined by alumni and former and current faculty to mark the milestone. Front row, from left: Matt Noone ’86, P’19, ’22, Dan Williams ’64, and Fr. Arens; Back row, from left: Danny’s son-in-law David West, Rick Cohn ’64, Bob Souza P’93,’96 Richard Palmaccio ’64, Brendan Sullivan P’25, ’29, Joe Hulbig ’92, P’28, Jim Rest, and Chris Mullen ’91. n RIGHT: Members of the Class of 1968 gathered in August to celebrate Gig Morris’ 75th birthday. Seated from left are George Morris, John Goodfellow, and Dave Leahy, with Ron Rich, Bob Pierce, Jim Dunn, Peter Lyons, Dr. Richard Lyons, Paul True, Dan Broderick, and Peter Carty standing behind them.

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’01 TOP TO BOTTOM, LEFT TO RIGHT: Members of the Classes of 1970 and 1971 gathered at the Stockyard Restaurant in December for their annual Christmas celebration. From left: Fred Daly ’70, Mark McCue ’71, Vin Quealy ’71, John Hueber ’71, George Morrissey ’71, Jay Harney ’71, Mark Brennan ’70, Mark Bergin ’71, and Patrick Tracy ’70 (not pictured: photographer Joe Duffey ’70). n George Quinn ’78 hiking with his dog. n 1984 alums at the Patriots-Buccaneers game in Tampa on November 9: Gene Ciolfi and wife Patty; Doug Angelone and wife Tonya with their sons Jack and Daniel; John Danca and wife Kala; and Gene’s sister, Jennifer Doonan (Newton Country Day ’84) with her husband Tim. n Devin Spencer ’99 with his family. n Fr. Peter Vale ’01 and Meyer Chambers unexpectedly crossed paths on December 8, 2025, at Saint Luke the Evangelist Catholic Church in Slidell, Louisiana. Meyer recently retired to Slidell with his wife Beth, and Peter is carrying out a pastoral year at the parish. n Matt Blue ’15 with his wife, Taylor, at their wedding in Falmouth, MA.

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1999

Devin Spencer shares: “Celebrating 10 years of ownership of Burlington IT Services. Building a new home in Burlington for my two awesome kids, Kaylee and Connor and my beautiful wife Jennifer.” (see photo)

2001

Peter Vale is a seminarian with the Archdiocese of New Orleans. The tug to priesthood began early for him, through the joyful witness of his parish priests, and it was nourished during his time at St. Sebastian’s (1997–2001). After graduating, he completed his undergraduate studies at Harvard College, taught high school theology for several years, and carried out his studies for priestly formation in Miami, Rome, and New Orleans. He completed a Ph.D. program in biblical studies at Boston College last May, returned to New Orleans in September, and is now awaiting ordination. (see photo)

2007

George Hoch writes, “I recently sold my company, ARCC Programs, an experiential education and youth travel organization I led for the past 6 years. I’m proud of the programs we built and excited to explore new opportunities and the next phase.”

very proud of!” Matt lives in Dedham and works as an Account Executive at Dell Technologies.

Tyler Wiik, MIT Sloan School of Management, was recently honored by the Siebel Scholars program which annually recognizes nearly 80 exceptional students from the world’s leading graduate schools

of business, computer science, and bioengineering. Siebel Scholars recognizes the most talented students at the world’s leading graduate schools of business, computer science, bioengineering, and energy science, forming an active, lifelong community among an ever-growing group of leaders.

ALUMNI GOLF OUTING Friday, May 8, 2026 8:00 am & 2:00 pm Double Shotgun Start South Shore Country Club, Hingham, MA Open to all St. Sebastian’s alumni Registration and sponsorship information:

www.stsebs.org/alumnigolf

2015

Matt Blue recently married his wife, Taylor, in a beautiful ceremony in her family’s backyard in Falmouth, MA. (see photo) Fellow Arrows Anthony Canavan, Danny Beam and Kevin Murray, all Class of 2015, were in attendance. Another Arrow, Matt’s younger brother Tim, Class of 2021, served as his Best Man and as Matt noted, “delivered an incredible speech Mr. Burke would have been

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CLASS NOTES

A STOP AT VILLANOVA Head of School Brendan Sullivan reconnected with alumni attending Villanova as part of his annual trip to Washington, D.C., and New York. LEFT: While on campus, he attended mass celebrated by Villanova President, Rev. Peter M. Donohue, OSA, PhD, with St. Sebastian’s alumni. n RIGHT: Following mass, Sullivan and the alumni enjoyed each other’s company over dinner, including: Hugh Turner ’25, Matthias Ogrinc ’25, Kevin Bresnahan ’25, Matt Swirbalus ’23, Matt Noone ’22, Brian Luppy ’22, Cormac Gallagher ’22, and Alex Roth ’23.

Skating for TEAM USA

Noah Hanifin ’15 will represent the United States this February as a member of the U.S. Men’s Hockey Team at the Winter Olympics in Milan-Cortina. A Norwood native, Hanifin was selected fifth overall— and the first defenseman taken—in the 2015 NHL Draft. Now a standout defenseman for the Vegas Golden Knights, he has built an impressive NHL career marked by consistent scoring, durability, and strong twoway play. Join us in cheering on Noah as he takes the international stage and skates for Team USA!

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Save the Date April 9, 2026

On Arrows Forever Day—our 10th annual giving day— we ask our alumni and other members of the St. Sebastian’s community to give in support of the Annual Fund.

We hope you will help us make Arrows Forever Day a success again this year.

Every gift counts!

CLASS NOTES

ALUMNI BACK ON CAMPUS Two St. Sebastian’s alumni returned to campus this fall to share inspiring presentations about their fields of study. It’s always great to have Arrows back on Greendale Avenue to share their experiences!

Michael Petro ’13, a Jesuit in formation and Director of the Jesuit Refugee Service in Beirut, Lebanon, shared his journey with the St. Sebastian’s community during Corporate Chapel on September 22. He spoke about his ministry and mission to accompany, serve, and advocate for displaced people, including those in the shelter he currently oversees. He also visited several classrooms for more in-depth discussions.

Jack McHugh ’24, now a cadet and sophomore at the United States Military Academy at West Point, returned to campus to speak with current Arrows about his experience. A Business Management major, Jack spoke about everything from jumping out of planes at Airborne School to staying rooted in his faith, encouraging students to find strong, supportive communities in college.

STAY CONNECTED Follow us on Instagram @StSebastiansSchool Like us on Facebook /Stsebs Follow us on X @StSebsNeedham Connect with us on LinkedIn St. Sebastian’s School Alumni, connect with us by joining our Facebook Group! facebook.com/groups/stsebastiansschoolalumni

TOP: It was an Arrows reunion at the Holy Cross Alumni Lacrosse game on Saturday, October 4. Paul Armstrong ’25, Peter Murphy ’18, Teddy McKeigue ’25, and Matt DeSisto ’18 represented the Arrows at this annual event in Worcester. n MIDDLE: Brothers Michael ’22 and Matt ’24 Cataldo after the Brown vs. Harvard hockey game at Harvard’s Bright Arena.

(Photo taken by former faculty member David Cornish, who was there to cheer them on.) n BOTTOM: Some of Brendan Gorman’s 2022 brothers came out to support him while he played hockey for Princeton at Bentley. From left: Jack Flynn, Gavin Walsh, Brendan Gorman, and Sam Ix.

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IN MEMORIAM

We extend our deepest sympathy to the families of the graduates and friends of St. Sebastian’s School whose deaths are reported with sorrow.

Peter J. McLaughlin ’55, GP’13,’19,’24,’24 Former Trustee

A. Donald McCulloch, Jr. ’63 New Century Fund Campaign Committee

Peter passed away peacefully at his home on December 25, 2025. A lifelong Arrow, Peter’s connection to St. Sebastian’s began in 1950 when he arrived as a freshman and continued for more than seven decades.

His life is one that truly links St. Sebastian’s past to its future, as four of his grandsons—Jake McLaughlin ’13, Peter Blake ’19, and Max ’24 and Nico ’24 McLaughlin—went on to attend the School.

Peter served St. Sebastian’s with distinction as a Class Agent, Alumni Board Member, and Reunion Committee Member, culminating in his service on the Board of Trustees from 2017–2022. During his time on the Board, he was a key leader on the Development Committee, contributing to both the Spirit & People Campaign and the Henry T. Lane Rink Improvement Project. He also served as Chairman of the Monsignor Charles D. McInnis Society, the School’s planned giving program, helping ensure a strong future for generations of Arrows.

As a student, Peter excelled academically and athletically, competing in football, hockey, and baseball, and captaining the baseball team his senior year. At Boston College, he played hockey and thrived as a leader on the baseball diamond. Peter went on to earn a master’s degree in accounting from Northeastern University and later an MBA from Bentley University.

Peter enjoyed a successful business career spanning more than four decades before finding his “dream job” in development at Boston College. That role led to eight years as Chairman of the Board at St. Columbkille School, where his dedication reflected his core values of hard work, community, service, and family.

Above all, Peter cherished his family. In addition to his beloved wife of 64 years, Honey, he is survived by his children Jim, Peter, Steve, Kate, and Andrew, and thirteen grandchildren.

Don passed away on January 1, 2026. A beloved brother of the late Ranald McCulloch ’65, he was among St. Sebastian’s most devoted and enthusiastic alumni —an unwavering supporter of the School’s mission and a true ambassador of the Arrow spirit.

Don’s dedication to St. Sebastian’s continued long after graduation. He served faithfully on the School’s first major capital campaign committee, The New Century Fund. At the campaign’s kickoff dinner, Don delivered an impassioned address that set a tone of optimism and resolve, helping launch what became a transformative effort for the School. In 1998, the Margaret E. McCulloch Room in the Birmingham Academic Building was dedicated in honor of his mother, Midge. Don’s generosity and steadfast commitment leave a lasting legacy at the School he loved so deeply.

While at St. Sebastian’s, Don was a standout goalie for the hockey team, excelled academically, and was deeply engaged in school life. He served as editor-in-chief of The Walrus, an editor of The Arrow yearbook, and was a member of the Altar Society and the Drama Club, embodying the School’s ideals of scholarship, service, and leadership. He went on to earn his B.A. and MBA from Harvard University Beyond St. Sebastian’s, Don enjoyed a distinguished business career, serving as Chairman of MPS Capital, Inc., and previously as Chairman and CEO of Nutri/ System, Inc., President and CEO of C.F. Hathaway Company, Pizza Hut, Pepsi-Cola Bottling Group, and Wilson Sporting Goods. He believed deeply in giving back through service on numerous nonprofit boards.

Don is survived by his wife, Carolyn; his sons, A. Donald III “Tripp” and Timothy; and his three grandchildren, to whom he was lovingly known as “Chief.”

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IN MEMORIAM

ALUMNI Sherman J.L. Brown ’55 Sherman “Laurie” passed away on September 5, 2025. At St. Sebastian’s, he excelled academically, graduating as valedictorian, was a standout pitcher on the baseball team, participated in Debate, Choir, The Walrus and The Arrow. After graduating from the College of the Holy Cross with honors, he joined his father’s construction business, building homes in Wellesley and Dover, and later enjoyed a long career in real estate, opening offices in Dover and Holliston. He loved sports, music, Broadway, and entertaining family and friends. Predeceased by his wife, Teresa, Sherman is survived by his sister, Lee Allen; his children, Mike, Deb, and Rich; his four grandchildren; and several nieces and nephews.

Richard “Dick” Shea ’54 Dick passed away on November 10, 2025.

At St. Sebastian’s, he contributed to The Walrus, The Arrow, the Debating Society, and the basketball team, serving as captain his senior year. Dick went on to earn degrees from the College of the Holy Cross and Georgetown Medical School. He served two years as a Lt. Commander in the U.S. Navy before entering private practice in Attleboro, where he built a thriving career.

He later transitioned to hospital administration, serving as Medical Director and, toward the end of his career, as a medical affairs consultant. He is survived by his wife, Paula; his children, Rick, Jen, and Pat; eight grandchildren; and many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

M. Joseph “Marty” DeMatteo ’59 Marty passed away on September 16, 2025.

While at St. Sebastian’s, he excelled in Math and Chemistry, played football, and was an active member of the Alpine Club.

After graduating from the Wentworth Institute of Technology, he served in the United States Army Reserve from 1963 to 1970. Marty began his career at M. DeMatteo Construction Company, founded by his grandfather, and later formed DeMatteo Management, Inc. and DeMatteo Properties, Inc. He was the first Chairman of the Board of the Construction Industries of Massachusetts and a longtime member of the Ancient and Honorable Artillery Company of Massachusetts, serving as Captain Commander in 1988–1989. Marty is survived by his children, Anthony, Shannon, and Erin; his grandson, Jackson; and his sister, Claire.

Charlie Smith ’61 Charlie passed away on December 23, 2025.

At St. Sebastian’s, he served as manager of the varsity football team and participated in the Drama Society, Debating Society, Altar Society, The Arrow, and The Walrus. He was one of five brothers to attend St. Sebastian’s, along with Tom ’58, Steve ’63, Richard ’64, and Jeff ’69. After graduating from the University of Notre Dame, Charlie earned an MBA from Harvard Business School.

He worked in New York City as an investment banker and CFO of Video Corporation of America before founding his own company, DataLath LLC. He was an avid sailor and active in volunteering for local organizations. He is survived by his wife, Eleanor; his daughters, Anne and Laura; seven grandchildren; two great-grandchildren; and his brothers, Tom, Steve, Richard, and Jeff, and their families.

Peter Dooley ’61 Peter passed away on October 24, 2025. On Nonantum Hill, he was a stalwart member of the varsity golf team and participated in the Altar Society, Debate, Drama, Glee Club, and The Arrow yearbook. Peter attended Yale University, leaving briefly to serve in the Marine Corps before completing his studies. He later earned an MBA from Stanford University and built a successful career in sales and equipment leasing. After retiring, he and his wife, Linda, moved to Orford, NH, restoring an 18th-century home, enjoying golf and tennis, and serving the community as a selectman and Hoover Institution board member. Peter is survived by his wife, Linda; his sister, Maureen; and many nieces and nephews.

James Todd ’50 Jim passed away on July 24, 2025. At St. Sebastian’s, he excelled in Latin and participated in Swimming Club and the Debating Society. He earned both a B.A. and M.Ed. from Boston College. Jim served as a 2nd Lt. in the U.S. Air Force at Warren AFB and in the Reserves until 1962. He pursued a 30-year career in education in Delaware, pioneering the Special Education program at Appoquinimink School District and concluding as lead psychometrist. He later worked at Acme Supermarkets, retiring after ten years. Jim is survived by his sons, John, Joe, and Jerry; eight grandchildren; two great-grandchildren; and his brother, Owen ’53. He was preceded in death by his wife, Rita; sons, Mark and Jim, Jr.; and his brother, David.

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IN MEMORIAM

Paul M. Lepley Sr. GP’04,’06

ALUMNI RELATIVES AND FRIENDS

Paul, a beloved member of the St. Sebastian’s varsity baseball coaching staff for nearly two decades, passed away peacefully on October 2, 2025. A standout high school athlete in Ohio, Paul earned all-state honors in baseball and basketball before attending the University of Michigan, where he was an All-American baseball player and a member of the 1953 NCAA National Championship team. He later played professionally in the Detroit Tigers organization.

After his playing career, Paul devoted his life to education as a teacher, coach, professor, and administrator. He earned a master’s degree from Penn State University and a doctorate from Temple University, and held leadership roles at Castleton State College, the University of Maine, Springfield College, and Northeastern University, where he concluded his career as Dean of the Boston Bouve College.

Paul returned to baseball during his retirement, serving on the St. Sebastian’s varsity baseball coaching staff from 1996–2013. During his tenure, the Arrows won ISL titles in 1996 and 2007. Fellow coaches fondly recall his tireless “rubber arm,” throwing hundreds of pitches during daily batting practice. The Paul M. Lepley Award for Baseball is presented annually to the St. Sebastian’s player who exemplifies commitment, teamwork, and outstanding athletic achievement.

Paul is survived by his wife, Virginia; his children, Paul, Joseph, Mary, and Thomas; ten grandchildren, including Arrows alumni Matt ’04 and Brian ’06 Lepley; and seven great-grandchildren.

Robert Borah October 10, 2025 Grandfather of Daniel ’18

Cindy Harrington October 6, 2025 Mother of Tom ’10

Neil Bresnahan June 24, 2025 Father of Michael ’03

Bonnie Ellen (Bassett) Healy June 18, 2025 Wife of the late Leonard Healy ’52

Toni Donoghue July 17, 2025 Grandmother of Charlie ’31, Liam ’30 and Quentin ’29

Jacquelyn Hill August 27, 2025 Mother of Stephen ’72 and Peter ’82

Former Baseball Coach

William P. Egan II September 13, 2025 Grandfather of Patrick ’17 and Tyson ’15 Reed Hon. Michael F. Flaherty, Sr. December 22, 2025 Grandfather of Brendan ’15 and Ryan ’22 Albertson; father-in-law of Classics Chair, Sean P. Albertson Richard Fletcher November 14, 2025 Father of John Fletcher ’86 Bobby Grier September 21, 2025 Father of Mike ’93 and grandfather of Jayden ’22 Jacqueline Holmes Haley August 2, 2025 Mother of Michael ’13 and Chris ’15

Charlie Lampman July 11, 2025 Father of C.J. ’95 Judith A. “Judy” Maloney September 5, 2025 Wife of Frank ’57 and sister-in-law of the late John ’53 Carol McCarthy November 25, 2025 Mother of Chris ’88 Stephen Melley November 17, 2025 Father of Michael Melley P’18,’22, Executive Director of Advancement, and grandfather of Neil ’18 and Brendan ’22 Robert O’Neill August 11, 2025 Grandfather of Dylan ’27

This listing contains deaths reported before January 1, 2026. To see a complete listing of alumni who have passed away within the past 12 months please go to www.stsebs.org/inmemoriam.

To report a death of a St. Sebastian’s alumnus or relative to the Advancement Office, please contact Kelsey Kane at kelsey_kane@stsebs.org.

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Monsignor Charles D. McInnis Society

A Lasting Legacy Named in honor of the School’s first headmaster, Monsignor Charles D. McInnis, St. Sebastian’s Planned Giving Society honors those who support the School through a bequest or other legacy gift.

We invite you to join a growing community of alumni, parents, and friends who are helping shape the future of St. Sebastian’s—extending its mission and values, and making a lasting difference in the lives of students for generations to come.

For more information about gift planning and including St. Sebastian’s in your estate plans, please contact Rich Arms, Senior Advancement Officer, at 781.247.0116 or richard_arms@stsebs.org.

St. Sebastian’s has launched a new Planned Giving website.

The site offers guidance, examples, and resources for those considering ways to support the School while also meeting personal and family goals. We invite you to explore and learn more:

stsebs.org/plannedgiving

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The Arrowhead Ensemble delivers a dynamic musical performance during the Christmas Program.