St. Louis Bride Fall 2011-Winter 2012 by Nancy Slade

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RECEPTION VENUES CENTERPIECES

20 REAL WEDDINGS BEAUTY COUNTDOWN CALENDAR

LATE NIGHT RECEPTION EATS Q & A WITH ANNA POST

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from the editor

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And the award goes to... DID YOU KNOW that we have some of the best wedding

vendors here in St. Louis? No, really, we do! Many of our talented wedding industry professionals are receiving recognition right and left for their hard work and dedication. Seventeen wedding pros took home a 2011 St. Louis Wedding Award and eighteen ISES Louie Awards were also awarded to local industry peeps. And, these are just awards—numerous St. Louis weddings have been featured on national blogs and websites, several vendors have been interviewed by local and national media and countless are featured or mentioned right here on the pages of Saint Louis Bride. While wedding trends may come and go (and come again), it is clear that in St. Louis there has been one great constant—our wedding professionals. Still looking for a wedding gown? Check out “Dressed in White” beginning on page 114. In search of the perfect reception centerpieces? You’re sure to find something you’ll love in our feature, “Blossom Abundance.” Considering an after-party night cap or snack for your guests? Don’t miss “Late Night Food” on page 150. Whether it’s a wedding featured in our Real Moments section, an expert who is quoted

fashion shoots and covers, know that when you are perusing our pages you can be certain that you, too, can work with the top pros at your very own wedding. Cheers!

Nancy L. Slade, Editor

Visit us online at www.bridestl.com and www.facebook.com/stl.bride

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CONTENTS FALL/WINTER 2012

FEATURES 114

ALL DRESSED IN WHITE Eight gorgeous gowns

132

BLOSSOM ABUNDANCE A dozen centerpieces

150 LATE-NIGHT FOOD Treat your guests to some tasty fare with flair

REAL MOMENTS 20 couples tie the knot

MEGAN THIELE STUDIOS, CENTERPIECE BY ARTISTRY FLORIST

REAL WEDDINGS

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contents

106

tips & trends

72 AROUND TOWN St. Louis wedding news 78 sites to behold

Thirteen reception venues

84 WEDDING AWARDS 3rd annual event 88 BEDSIDE READING Wedding Planning Books 106 DEEP IN HER SOLE Unique footwear add pizzazz to your wedding day 174 ask anna Q&A with etiquette expert Anna Post 196 what guys think

planning 92 THE CARIBBEAN'S CALLING Getting us closer to the sun and schedule-free 108 i do-over Brides on things they'd do differently in hindsight

170 Wedding countdown planning calendar 178 184

bridal beauty countdown Timeline for the big day

are we there yet?

A honeymoon checklist

186 for richer, not poorer Planning a bright financial future 210 WEDDING DAY SCHEDULE

resources 211 making it legal Where and how to apply for

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the marriage license

212 reception sites List of venues in an easy-to-read grid 220 saint louis bride essential guide A list of top vendors, services,

locations and hours

221 trunk show calendar Find the perfect dress

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Connect with us online:

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Publisher Ethan Woods

Senior Account Manager Debbie Chervitz Account Managers Kathy Pieri Chris Taylor Circulation Manager Amy Fenster Brown

Product Managers Jasond Fernandez Cher Wheeler Graphic Designer

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Photo Retoucher Jerry Hartman

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Valerie has styled hair for countless corporate and commercial companies nationwide as well as fashion and editorial print. Her work has appeared in Luichini Shoes, Soft Surroundings, Mercedes, Belle Style, Penny Rae Vintage, Nordstrom, St. Louis Magazine, Maxim Magazine, Alive Magazine and Ladue News. “The look for bridal hair is very natural, accentuating the natural beauty of the bride.” This is Valerie’s first contribution to Saint Louis Bride.

KRISTIN WEIS Kristin Weis is the owner and wedding/event planner for Kristin Ashley Events, LLC. Kristin likes to create St. Louis weddings that specialize in a Midwestern vibe with a big city twist. She has been in the business for 5 years. “I loved working with luxe gowns, unique jewelry pieces, and most of all the people behind the photos. It was a pleasure to work with some of the most talented people in the St. Louis industry to help create such a pure and timeless look.” This is her first contribution to Saint Louis Bride.

BECKIE GUILLOT BEINKE Beckie Guillot-Beinke, owner of ie Images, has been working professionally as a photographer 24

for 13 years, and shooting weddings for 10 years. She is a graduate of the Missouri School of Journalism. “I enjoyed collaborating with my fellow contributing professionals for this fashion piece. Bringing our creative ideas together in these photos was a true joy and great fun!” A longtime contributor to Saint Louis Bride, this is Beckie's second fashion feature and first cover.

ERIN SCHULTE Erin Schulte is the owner and wedding event designer at Exclusive Events, Inc. A thirst for creative and memorable event environments drive her passion for each and every client she encounters. “Often Exclusive Events, Inc will work on shoots or events that have lots of dramatic color. This shoot was exciting because of the lack of color. A clean, crisp, timeless white environment was so refreshing to create.” This is Erin’s first fashion feature contribution.

EMILY MILLER Emily is a bridal and commercial makeup artist. Her client list includes People Magazine, Food Network, Mercedes, MTV, Womans Day Magazine and Saint Louis Bride Magazine. She services over 75 wedding parties per year and

utilizes 24-hour flawless airbrush makeup. “It’s always a privilege to work with new and old talent—I had a blast!” A regular contributor to Saint Louis Bride, this is Emily’s second cover and fashion feature.

Top photo: David Lancaster; Bottom photo: Beckie Guillot-Beinke, ie Images

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3 1 PAM BREDENKAMP Pam Bredenkamp, owner of Signature Studio Creative Photography, has been photographing special events for more than 25 years. A longtime contributor to Saint Louis Bride, Pam photographed the Late Night Food feature beginning on page 150.

2 MEGAN THIELE-LORENZ With a painting background and a Fine Arts Degree from the University of Missouri, Megan has been artfully documenting weddings in the St. Louis area for 5 years. Megan photographed the floral feature, Blossom Abundance, beginning on page 132.

3 SABRINA TORTI

Sabrina Torti founded her wedding consulting company, Proposing Dreams, in 2001. A regular contributor to Saint Louis Bride Magazine, Sabrina produced and styled the Late Night Food feature beginning on page 150.

4 CAROLYN BURKE Carolyn Burke - Wedding Liaison has been an event location specialist since 2004. Carolyn is a frequent contributor to Saint Louis Bride and writes our “Sites to Behold” column.

5 ABBIE RUDOLPH Abbie Rudolph is the owner and lead photographer of Abbie Takes Pictures which opened in 2009. Abbie photographed the 2011 Wedding Awards feature on page 84.

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Working with Melinda was wonderful. She approached each dress with a fresh attitude and brought a special feel to every location. —BECKIE GUILLOT-BEINKE, photographer

HAIR: Melinda’s soft, whimsical design was created using Sebastian Shaper Fierce, Bed Head After Party and Bed Head Hard Head. MAKEUP: Daily Moisture by Skinceuticals, an under eye highlighting pen in radiant rose by MAC and Smashbox photofinish primer was used to prep Melinda’s skin. Concealer by Laura Mercier and Pro Longwear Foundation by MAC was used to create an even canvas. An Estee Lauder brow pencil defined her eyebrows and neutral shadows by MAC were used on her eyes to keep the look ‘clean’ but with some definition. A NARS light peachy lip liner was used on the lips as well as a nude gloss by Sephora. Melinda’s look was finished with a setting spray by MAC. THE DRESS: “Sasha” gown by Elizabeth Fillmore features French floral lace over silk taffeta, $4,840 from Fleur de Lis Bridal. JEWELRY: Sapphire and diamond necklace ($5,000), ring ($23,350), Spark Creations tennis bracelet ($10,620) and Spark Creations earrings ($4,535) from Huffords Jewelry. FLOWERS: Bouquet of peonies, hydrangeas, lisianthus, dusty miller and Queen Ann’s lace designed by Becky Huffman.

Model: Melinda Howland • Photographer: Beckie Guillot-Beinke, ie Images • Stylist: Kristin Weiss, Kristin Ashley Events Hair: Valerie Brown • Makeup: Emily Miller • Specialty lighting & décor: Erin Schulte, Exclusive Events, Inc. Dress: Fleur de Lis Bridal • Jewelry: Huffords Jewelry • Bouquet: Becky Huffman

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real moments Annie Schuppan & Terry Stewart October 29, 2011 Photographed by Jon KocH photography

Working together A proposal followed by a limo to a winery, then a romantic dinner and surprise trip to New York City the next morning. NUMBER OF GUESTS: 220 WEDDING COLORS: White/ivory, natural greens, chocolate brown THE MENU: Grilled cheese and tomato soup, shrimp and vegetable skewers, crispy macaroni and cheese, spinach salad, beef tenderloin and macadamia-crusted halibut, white truffle whipped potatoes, grilled asparagus. Late night snacks were hot chocolate with donut holes and McDonald’s cheeseburgers. HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: Vintage picture frames were weaved throughout the wedding, from paper products to photos at the reception, as were birch trees, a wood grain treatment and a vintage pick-up truck. Gift bags included local treats from Columbia and St. Louis, as well as custom-designed water bottles and itinerary tags. WEDDING FAVORS: Donation to the Alzheimer’s Foundation BAND: The Well Hungarians FIRST DANCE: “Give into Me” BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: Looking out over all our family and friends at the end of the night GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: When the church doors opened and the bride walked down the aisle OCCUPATIONS: Both work at Rivet Global HONEYMOON: Bora Bora RESIDE: Town & Country, MO THE EXCITEMENT CONTINUES: Annie and Terry are expecting their first child in September! HOW THEY MET:

HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED:

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Alred Wedding Consultants • FLORIST: Artistry Florist • BRIDE’S DRESS: Vera Wang • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Joseph A Bank • BRIDE’S MAKEUP: Debbie Watson • BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Amsale, Bella Bridesmaids, Chicago • WEDDING LOCATION: Missouri United Methodist Church, Columbia, MO • RECEPTION VENUE: Old Hawthorne Country Club, Columbia, MO CAKE: Edith Hall from Hallsville, MO • SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Exclusive Events • RENTALS: Premier Rentals, Traube Tents PAPER GOODS: Cheree Berry Paper

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real moments Ashley Hornsby & Casey Roth October 29, 2011 Photographed by bobbi + mike (indianapolis, IN)

HOW THEY MET: “We knew each other in high school. We reconnected eight years later when Casey was visiting from Dallas.” HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: Casey planned a surprise engagement after Ashley did the final walk through of their new home. “Our realtor told me there was something she wanted me to see in the backyard. When I opened the gate, I saw Casey sitting there with a bottle of champagne and flowers. I thought he was just excited about our house, but he dropped to one knee and proposed. After I said yes, both our families burst out of the house in celebration!” NUMBER OF GUESTS: 242 WEDDING COLORS: Ivory, hints of peach, bronze HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: “Casey and I have a love for penguins and the fact that penguins mate for life. They became our icon and mascot and were on our napkins, the guest book and signage.” WEDDING FAVORS: We donated to BJC Hospice in loving memory of Mark Apter, and to the Humane Society of the United States to stop puppy mills. But we also sent people home with penguin cookies! BAND: Arvell and Co. FIRST DANCE: “Night and Day” WEDDING STORYBOOK TITLE: Penguin Love VIDEOGRAPHER: Cineast BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “Walking down the aisle. I could so feel the love in the church and just knowing I was walking to my husbandto-be.” GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “When the doors flung open at the church and I saw Ashley walking down the aisle.” OCCUPATIONS: Ashley is the vice-president of entertainment and Casey is a brand manager at Cepia LLC. HONEYMOON: Bora Bora, then Hawaii RESIDE: Ladue ADVICE FOR BRIDES-TO-BE: Have fun planning and really cherish every minute. This is the biggest party you’ll ever have for yourself…love it!

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Cosmopolitan Events • FLORIST: Artistry Florist • BRIDE’S DRESS: Kenneth Pool, Town and Country Bridal Boutique GROOM’S ATTIRE: Giorgio Armani, Neiman Marcus • BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Watters, Town and Country Bridal Boutique • WEDDING LOCATION: Graham Chapel, Washington University • RECEPTION VENUE and CAKE: Coronado Ballroom • SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Parties & Props • LINENS: BBJ Linens • RENTALS: Parties & Props, The Aries Company, CORT Event Furnishings, Grand Rental Station PAPER GOODS: Cheree Berry Paper • MUSIC: Arvell and Co., Elegant Ensembles (ceremony) • PHOTOBOOTH: Bobbi+Mike

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real moments Choendal Martin & Geferl Zasaretti December 3, 2011 Photographed by kelly park

HOW THEY MET: Choendal met Ricky, a friend of Geferl’s, while purchasing a car. Ricky was convinced Choendal would be a perfect match for his friend Geferl. The two met the next weekend and the rest is history. HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: On a trip to Aruba NUMBER OF GUESTS: 250 WEDDING COLORS: Sapphire, garnet, silver, emerald THE MENU: Provided by Butler’s Pantry: Grilled petite filet of beef tenderloin with wild mushroom Madeira sauce, sautéed shrimp scampi with lemon caper white wine sauce and fresh spinach, duo of roasted white and Yukon gold potatoes, sauté of fresh seasonal vegetables BAND: Intensive Soul Unit, featuring Nikko Smith and Tiffany Nichols FIRST DANCE: “The Point of It All” by Anthony Hamilton BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “As I was walking down the aisle, I was so happy to see all my friends and family share in the joy of marrying the love of my life. I felt this must be like heaven.” GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT:

“At the reception, as we toasted our love and marriage with all of our family and friends mixed together. I felt extremely blessed to have a beautiful new wife and loving family and friends.” OCCUPATIONS: Choendal is an anesthesiologist at Washington University School of Medicine and Geferl is a broker at Wellpoint. HONEYMOON: Paris, France and St. Thomas, USVI RESIDE: Soulard ADVICE FOR BRIDES-TO-BE: “Enjoy and be in the moment. It all goes by so fast.”

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Lacy Branch Events • FLORIST: Bella Fiori • BRIDE’S DRESSES: “Darby” Blue by Enzoani, Simply Elegant Bridal; Reception Dress: Mac Duggal Couture, Special Occasions by Teddy & Paulette • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Giorgio Armani • BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Bari Jay, Simply Elegant Bridal • WEDDING LOCATION: Graham Chapel Washington University • RECEPTION VENUE: Danforth Plant Science Center • CAKE: Sarah’s Cake Shop • SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: St. Louis Audio Visual • LINENS: BBJ Linens RENTALS: Premier Rental LLC • PAPER GOODS: M. Haley Design • MUSIC: The Rosewood Ensemble

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real moments Molly Rosenblum & Jeff Hohlfeldt March 31, 2012 Photographed by stephen seebeck

HOW THEY MET: While attending Bradley University HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: On the beach in Tulum, Mexico NUMBER OF GUESTS: 304 WEDDING COLORS: Charcoal & pink THE MENU: Trio of spring salads; roasted tenderloin of beef with truffle sauce; pan-seared sea scallops with lemon caper sauce; flash-fried spinach, red pepper and couscous with morel mushrooms; pastry wrapped fresh asparagus; wedding cake and minted spring berries HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: The napkins in bathrooms said “Molly floats Jeff’s boat” (with a graphic of the couples’ boat). Gift bags for out-oftown guests included Michigan Cherries (from the groom’s home state), St. Louis Cardinal Cookies and other local snacks. The bride and groom departed in a 1927 Rolls Royce, with a sparkler send-off. WEDDING FAVORS: Prosecco bottles that said “Life Sparkles” BAND: Griffin and the Gargoyles FIRST DANCE: “Everything” by Michael Buble WEDDING STORYBOOK TITLE: “Our Fairytale” VIDEOGRAPHER: Joe Seebeck, Boda Events BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “Walking down the aisle towards the man I am going to spend the rest of my life with!” GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “The first time I saw Molly, my beautiful bride, in the garden at Westwood.” OCCUPATIONS: Jeff is a senior sales engineer and Molly is an account executive at an advertising agency. HONEYMOON: Dominican Republic RESIDE: Milwaukee, WI ADVICE FOR BRIDES-TO-BE: “When it seems overwhelming, remember the reason you are getting married—to spend the rest of your life with your best friend and the person you love most.”

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Simcha’s Events • FLORIST: Festive Atmospheres • BRIDE’S DRESS: Jenny Lee, Ultimate Bride (Chicago) GROOM’S ATTIRE: Calvin Klein, Men’s Wearhouse • BRIDE’S HAIR & MAKEUP: Danielle Style • BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Bella Bridesmaids, Priscilla of Boston • WEDDING LOCATION AND RECEPTION VENUE: Westwood Country Club • CAKE: Encore Baking Company SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Exclusive Events • LINENS: Connie Duglin • PAPER GOODS: M. Haley Design • MUSIC: Rosewood Ensemble

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real moments Meredith Fey & Aaron Schump April 14, 2012 Photographed by untamed heart PHOTOGRAPHY

HOW THEY MET: Through

mutual friends a favorite restaurant of theirs in New York, after a rainstorm and while a rainbow emerged in the sky. NUMBER OF GUESTS: 185 WEDDING COLORS: Coral and Mint Green SOMETHING OLD: Beaded purse from Meredith’s grandma SOMETHING NEW: Wedding dress SOMETHING BORROWED: Mother of the bride’s diamond earrings SOMETHING BLUE: “I realized I didn’t have something blue when we got to the church. My bridesmaid Colleen had a small, blue heart earring in her bag, so we fastened it into the lining of my dress!” HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: At

HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT:

“We love music! Especially since I work in the music industry, we incorporated that into many aspects of the wedding, from the invitations to the table numbers to carefully selecting songs we wanted at the reception. We personalized the venue space with long tables instead of the typical round tables. I’m also a big dessert person, so we had pies (our favorite) in addition to the wedding cake.” WEDDING FAVORS: Photobooth pictures FIRST DANCE: “Emmylou” by First Aid Kit WEDDING STORYBOOK TITLE: Romantic, Music Inspired Wedding BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “Our first dance. After all the events of the day, it was nice to have a few minutes that were just for the two of us.” OCCUPATIONS: Aaron is an architect and Meredith is a music manager HONEYMOON: Barbados RESIDE: New York City but moving to Manhattan, KS ADVICE FOR BRIDES-TO-BE: “Hire a wedding planner, even if it’s just for the day of. It was the best decision I made, especially since I live in New York and we were having the wedding in St. Louis.

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Dishy Events • FLORIST: Les Bouquets • BRIDE’S DRESS: Ivy & Aster, Lovely Bride in NYC • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Hall’s, Kansas City • BRIDESMAID DRESSES: J. Crew • WEDDING LOCATION: Shrine of St. Joseph • RECEPTION VENUE: Windows on Washington • CAKE & PIES: Sugaree Baking Company • LINENS & RENTALS: The Aries Company • PAPER GOODS: Ello There (Etsy) MUSIC: Rockstar DJs • PHOTOBOOTH: Photobooth STL

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real moments Amanda Hill & Zachary Chasnoff November 11, 2011 Photographed by White klump PHOTOGRAPHY

HOW THEY MET: Amanda is a wedding planner with Lucky You Productions. During a meeting for the first wedding she ever planned, the bride asked her if she was single, because she knew of a great guy. She was right! HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: A sweet proposal at home after Zach asked Amanda’s father for her hand in marriage. NUMBER OF GUESTS: 200 WEDDING COLORS: Pink, navy, ivory, and charcoal SOMETHING OLD: Mother-ofthe-bride’s veil and headpiece SOMETHING NEW: Dress and pink rhinestone heels SOMETHING BORROWED: Diamond earrings from bride’s grandmother, given to her by bride’s grandfather gave her on a milestone anniversary SOMETHING BLUE: Bride’s mother made grandmother’s Czechoslovakian blue crystal rosary (that both carried on their wedding days) into a bracelet HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: Wedding photos of their parents and grandparents served as the ceremony backdrop. The couple used thrift shop finds of knick-knack glassware to hold the centerpieces. There were personalized placemats, with alphabetical tidbits about the couple, pulling from an A-Z theme from their initials. WEDDING FAVORS: Amanda’s mother made homemade jam from her garden that doubled as their escort card. FIRST DANCE: “I Love How You Love Me” by Jeff Mangum VIDEOGRAPHER: Milestone Pro BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “When Zach read me his vows. He had written the most beautiful and expressive vows. He ended the sweet sentiment by quoting Motown lyrics, making it perfectly him.” OCCUPATIONS: Amanda is co-owner of Lucky You Productions. Zach is owner of Chasnoff Painting. HONEYMOON: Paris, Amsterdam, Florence and Rome RESIDE: St. Louis

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Lucky You Productions • FLORIST: Daniel Whitehurst, AIFD • BRIDE’S DRESS: Custom gown • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Macy’s and Nordstrom • WEDDING LOCATION: Becky Thatcher Riverboat at the Arch • RECEPTION VENUE: Soulard Preservation Hall • CAKE: Torta Bella • CATERER: Gourmet Food Works • SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Aries • LINENS: Connie Duglan RENTALS: Aries • PAPER GOODS: Created by bride • MUSIC: Johnny Rock-itt and the Double Wide Symphony

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real moments Jaci Burgess & Jon Spindler March 24, 2012 Photographed by donnell probst PHOTOGRAPHY HOW THEY MET: Jaci

worked at the Coronado Ballroom, and Jon's band, “Downtime” frequently played receptions there. A friendship formed that developed into romance. HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: “Because we met at the Coronado, Jon arranged access to the ballroom one afternoon. My boss told me I had a client waiting for me there. When I opened the doors, the room was illuminated by the floor lights and there was Jon, on one knee asking me to marry him.” NUMBER OF GUESTS: 100 WEDDING COLORS: Gunmetal grey and various shades of purple SOMETHING OLD: The promise ring my dad gave to my mom when they were dating over 30 years ago, along with a piece of lace from my mom's wedding dress. SOMETHING NEW: Diamond earrings from Jon SOMETHING BORROWED: A ring from my sister-in-law, which was a gift to her from my brother on their wedding day. SOMETHING BLUE: The fleur-delis embroidered on my handkerchief, from my sister-in-law's bachelorette party in New Orleans HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: Because guests thought they were having a destination wedding and because of the venue, there was a travel theme. Invitations resembled vintage train tickets, guests blew wood train whistles as they were pronounced husband and wife, a vintage suitcase was the gift/card holder, there were small trains on menu cards, and our seating assignments (which also told guests that it was not an engagement party but actually our wedding) were small passport booklets. FIRST DANCE: “Let's Stay Together” by Al Green OCCUPATIONS: Jon owns Downtime Productions and Jaci now works there as the Client Services Coordinator. RESIDE: Kirkwood, MO

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Dishy Events • FLORIST: Tina Barrera, The Special Event Florist • BRIDE’S DRESS: Girls in White Satin (Jacksonville, IL) • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Jim's Formal Wear (Nashville, IL) • BRIDE'S MAKEUP: Makeup - Emily Miller (Delicately Bold) WEDDING LOCATION: Marriott Union Station, Gothic Corridor • RECEPTION VENUE: Marriott Union Station, Grand Hall • SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Exclusive Events • LINENS: BBJ Linen • RENTALS: Weinhardt Party Rentals • PAPER GOODS: Two Blue Doors MUSIC: Rosewood Ensemble, Push The Limit • PHOTOBOOTH: Fish Eye Fun

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real moments Christine Harvey & Nathan Davis June 11, 2011 Photographed by abbie takes pictures

At a Halloween party On the back of a Disney cruise ship during the firework show NUMBER OF GUESTS:125 WEDDING COLORS: black, white, pink SOMETHING OLD: Grandmothers brooch on bouquet SOMETHING NEW: Diamond heels SOMETHING BORROWED: Birdcage veilSOMETHING BLUE: Garter THE MENU: Mini grilled cheese with tomato soup shooters; pecan chicken; mini crab cakes; iceberg wedge salad with smoked bacon, maytag bleu cheese crumbles, scallions and oven-dried tomatoes with bleu cheese dressing; chicken breast stuffed with corn bread dressing, asiago mashed potatoes and green beans. Individual Ted Drewes frozen custard cups were served with the wedding cake. HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: Floating orchids, Manzanita branches, guest signature frame, personalized light up monogram on wall, and a light-up dance floor. WEDDING FAVORS: Candy and sweets buffet DJ: Greg Mantle of DNK DJs FIRST DANCE: “1, 2, 3, 4” by the Plain White T’s WEDDING STORYBOOK TITLE: “When You Wish Upon a Star” HOW THEY MET:

HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED:

BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT:

“Nathan dipped me on our first kiss and our guests gasped as we nearly fell over one another!” GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “Christine tugged on my suit before I turned around and saw her for the first time in her wedding dress.” OCCUPATIONS: Nathan is a firefighter paramedic and Christine is pursuing her master’s degree. HONEYMOON: Paris, Spain, London and a Mediterranean cruise RESIDE: High Ridge, MO ADVICE FOR BRIDES-TO-BE: “Create a separate e-mail account for all things wedding.”

FLORIST: The Crimson Petal • BRIDE’S DRESS: Clarice’s Bridal • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Men’s Wearhouse • BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Vintage Vixen • WEDDING LOCATION AND RECEPTION VENUE: Hyatt Regency Downtown at the Arch • CAKE: The Sweet Divine • SPECIALTY • LINENS: BBJ Linen • RENTALS: Premier Rentals • PAPER GOODS: Wedding Designs by Wendy LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: MUSIC: The Rosewood Ensemble (ceremony) • ICE SCULPTURE: Ice Visions

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real moments Jessica Wu & Kevin Yuan December 17, 2011 Photographed by megan thiele studios HOW THEY MET: “During our freshmen year of college at Washington University. Unfortunately, we both had chemistry lab on Saturday mornings. The only person I [Jessica] knew in the class was assigned as Kevin’s lab partner, so I would go over to their station all the time to get help.” HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: At their home NUMBER OF GUESTS: 86 WEDDING COLORS: Blush pink, eggplant, and silver HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: Jessica made many of the decorations herself, including the table numbers, escort cards and display, place cards with paper flowers, and initial signs for the head table. The groom’s cake of Jessica and Kevin with their dog Poppy hanging out on the couch also gave a fairly accurate representation of how the duo likes to spend their free time! WEDDING FAVORS: Photobooth pictures and the candy bar BAND: Downtime Band FIRST DANCE: “Can’t Help Falling In Love” by Ingrid Michaelson VIDEOGRAPHER: Russell Lynch WEDDING STORYBOOK TITLE: Chemistry Sparks Romance BrIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT:

“At the end of the night when Kevin and I returned to our room we looked through the guestbook CI Photobooth had put together. It was the first moment we had to just sit back and take the day in. We had so much fun reading the notes our friends and family had left us and the hilarious pictures they took.” GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: Our “first look,” when I finally got to see Jessica for the first time. OCCUPATIONS: Jessica is a research coordinator and Kevin is a medical student HONEYMOON: Bangkok and Phuket, Thailand RESIDE: Clayton, MO ADVICE FOR BRIDES-TO-BE: “Start planning early— that way, by the time your wedding rolls around there’s nothing to be nervous about.”

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Simply and Forever • FLORIST: Tina Barrera, The Special Event Florist • BRIDE’S DRESS : Amsale, Town and Country Bridal Boutique • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Savvi Formalwear • BRIDE’S AND BRIDEMAIDS’ HAIR & MAKEUP: Daniellestyle (hair), Emily Miller, Delicately Bold (makeup) • BRIDESMAID DRESSES : Priscilla of Boston • WEDDING LOCATION: Renaissance St Louis Grand Hotel • RECEPTION VENUE: Renaissance St Louis Grand Hotel, Statler Ballroom • CAKE: Whipt Cream; Groom’s cake: The Sweet Divine • SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Switch • LINENS: Sitting Pretty • RENTALS: The Aries Company • PAPER GOODS: M. Haley Design

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real moments Caitlan MackinnonPatterson & Thomas D'Angelo October 1, 2011 Photographed by JOSEPHINE HAVLAK HOW THEY MET: In Chicago, and were friends for several years before dating. HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: Tom surprised Caitlan with a proposal on their porch and three beautiful rings to choose from. NUMBER OF GUESTS: 140 WEDDING COLORS: Ivory, antique gold, pink and crimson SOMETHING OLD: Tom’s baby bonnet, pinned to the inside of Caitlan’s dress SOMETHING NEW: Bride’s polka-dot wedding dress SOMETHING BORROWED: Earrings SOMETHING BLUE: A blue handkerchief from bride’s brother’s girlfriend THE MENU: Organic, farm-fresh food stations prepared by award-winning chef, Gerard Craft HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: Caitlan’s family collects Folk Art and incorporated family heirloom farm tables and various antiques into the decor. Each vessel for the candles and the centerpieces had family history, Canadian totem poles were scattered around the backyard and hand-carved Canadian wooden geese floated in the swimming pool. FIRST DANCE: “Love me Tender” by Elvis BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “Reading the poem during the ceremony that Tom wrote for the wedding. It gave us a chance to share something personal with our friends and family. OCCUPATIONS: Caitlan is the operations manager for an outpatient program at Barnes-Jewish Hospital and Tom is an oncology nurse there HONEYMOON: Sicily, Italy RESIDE: Benton Park ADVICE FOR BRIDES-TO-BE: “A few days before the wedding, try to hand off errands and responsibilities to friends and family. This will give them an opportunity to get involved in the wedding weekend, and for you to take a well-deserved break.” MORE GREAT EXPECTATIONS: “We are expecting our first child in November!”

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Cosmopolitan Events • FLORIST: Montano Grant • BRIDE’S DRESS: Amsale, Christos • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Giorgio Armani, Saks Fifth Avenue • BRIDE’S AND BRIDESMAID’S HAIR & MAKEUP: Danielle Style • WEDDING LOCATION AND RECEPTION VENUE: Parents of the bride’s home • DESSERT: Pies from Sugaree Baking Company • SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: The Aries Company • LINENS: Sitting Pretty/Party Arts • RENTALS: Premier Rentals, The Aries Company • PAPER GOODS: Two Blue Doors • MUSIC: Elegant Ensembles, FIG Media • PHOTOBOOTH: Photobooth STL

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real moments Sara Turner & Michael Luigs April 1, 2012 Photographed by steve lata Photography HOW THEY MET: “It was a blind date/set up! We started with a date at a comedy club, and then spent the rest of the evening together talking and laughing.” They were married exactly eight years later. HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: Both home from a long day at work, Mike proposed at home over a bottle of wine. After waiting nearly eight years for him to pop the question, Sara said, "No." They laughed and kissed and he slipped the ring on her finger, and she then replied, "Yes, of course!" NUMBER OF GUESTS: 125 WEDDING COLORS: White, grey, with touches of yellow and navy HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: A personally designed monogram on the cover of the programs and on the unity candle, and a custom-designed wedding cake made by the bride's mother and grandmother. Sara’s bouquet consisted of vintage brooches she collected throughout their engagement. All the women in the bridal party, and both mothers and grandmother signed the bottom of Sara’s wedding shoes to carry their well wishes with her all day. FIRST DANCE: “This Kind of Love” by Sister Hazel BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “I was hesitant to see my handsome groom before the ceremony, in hopes of that big moment of walking down the aisle. But logistics of the day led to the decision to do a ‘first look’ prior to that big moment. It was the best decision we ever made! We had a romantic, private moment together captured perfectly that we can reflect on forever. It allowed us to spend the bulk of the day together, enjoying each other's company all day.” OCCUPATIONS: Sara is co-owner/design director of Cure Design Group. Mike is co-owner/president of Cure Design Group and Sigma Aldrich. HONEYMOON: Playa del Carmen, Mexico RESIDE: O'Fallon, MO

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Cure Design Group • FLORIST: Cure Design Group • BRIDE’S DRESS: Custom-made gown • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Calvin Klein, Men's Wearhouse • BRIDESMAID DRESSES: The Limited Bridal Collection • WEDDING LOCATION AND RECEPTION VENUE: Palladium-St Louis • CAKE: Wedding Cakes Unlimited (grandmother of the bride’s bakery) • SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Cure Design Group • PAPER GOODS: Handmade by the bride • MUSIC: Allegro Entertainment/Gina Medley

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real moments Mary O'Keefe & Kevin Chierek April 21, 2012 Photographed by PARK AVENUE PHOTOGRAPHERS

HOW THEY MET: “We became friends in high school in 2000. We managed to keep in contact throughout our college years. Finally, in 2009, we officially started dating!” HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: Mary was heading to Colorado for a ski trip with girlfriends. Kevin said he couldn’t take off work to join them. But as she got off the airplane in Denver, Kevin surprised her in the middle of the airport and popped the question! NUMBER OF GUESTS: 160 WEDDING COLORS: Aqua and Coral SOMETHING OLD: Grandmother’s handkerchief SOMETHING NEW: Earrings SOMETHING BORROWED: Pearl bracelet SOMETHING BLUE: Shoes HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: The couple added many personal touches to their day, with doit-yourself projects such as handmade chalkboards, centerpieces and paper lanterns. They also had a surprise guest— Fredbird from the St. Louis Cardinals! WEDDING FAVORS: Photobooth images DJ: MidAmerica Entertainment (Jordan Jagust) FIRST DANCE: “To Make You Feel My Love” by Garth Brooks BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “The feeling as I walking down the aisle thinking, ‘Wow, this is real!’ and then seeing Kevin’s face as he waited for me.” GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT:

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FLORIST: Renee Treu • BRIDE’S DRESS: David’s Bridal • GROOM’S ATTIRE : Savoy, Jim’s Formal Wear • BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Alfred Sung, Bella Bridesmaid • WEDDING LOCATION: St. Catherine Laboure • RECEPTION VENUE: Tapawingo National Golf Club * CAKE: Wedding Wonderland • LINENS: Simply Covered (chair covers) • RENTALS: Weinhardt Rentals • MUSIC (Ceremony): Karl Zimmerman (Guitar/Vocals), Brian Straus (Violin), Jeff Snodgrass (Piano), Kelly Roth (Vocals), Scott Ruppel (Trumpet)

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real moments Emily Bingham & Jon Berger October 29, 2011 Photographed by L photographie

HOW THEY MET: While working together at Bar Napoli HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: A romantic proposal at home with flowers, candles and champagne. NUMBER OF GUESTS: 120 WEDDING COLORS: Navy blue with aqua accent SOMETHING OLD: Bride’s grandfather’s pocket watch, attached to her bouquet SOMETHING NEW: Earrings, a gift from the mother of the bride SOMETHING BORROWED: Grandmother’s handkerchief SOMETHING BLUE: Shoes THE MENU: Themed stations such as “A Day at the Fair” “Dream Trip to Italy” and “Honeymoon in Mexico.” HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT:

With the fun, themed food stations offering everything from sliders, sweet potato fries and mini corndogs to mini gourmet pizza and tacos. There was also an ice cream station with waffle cones and sprinkles and a late night surprise of hot cocoa and gooey s’mores. WEDDING FAVORS: Cake truffles from The Cakery DJ: TKO DJs FIRST DANCE: “Crazy Love” by Van Morrison WEDDING STORYBOOK TITLE: They Said I Do… Finally BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “Walking back down the aisle as husband and wife while our guests showered us with confetti. By the time we reached the end of the aisle it was so thick we could barely see!” GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT:

“Waiting to see Emily and I turned around and we finally saw each other. That, and getting hit in the back of the head with a confetti tube walking back down the aisle!” OCCUPATIONS: Jon is the chef at Napoli2 in Town & Country. Emily is the office manager at Café Napoli and Napoli2. HONEYMOON: Riviera Maya, Mexico RESIDE: St. Louis, MO ADVICE FOR BRIDES-TO-BE: “If something isn’t how you imagined it, just go with it. You won’t remember the little things, but you will remember how incredibly happy you were.”

BRIDE’S DRESS: The Enchanted Bride • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Suit from Men’s Wearhouse, ties from Tux & Tulle on Etsy • BRIDESMAID DRESSES : J. Crew • WEDDING LOCATION: Hyatt St. Louis at the Arch, 18th Floor Terrace • RECEPTION VENUE: Hyatt St. Louis at the Arch • CAKE: The Cakery • PAPER GOODS: Minted.com (invitations), reception paper details (created by bride)

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real moments Amanda Highlander & Allen Injijian October 1, 2011 Photographed by jon koch Photography

HOW THEY MET: As first year students at Washington University School of Law. HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: Allen requested that two artists who were scheduled to be at the St. Louis Food and Wine Festival create a faux portfolio of pictures which spelled “Amanda, Will You Marry Me?” Allen lured Amanda to the artists’ booth to look through the portfolio. Amanda soon realized the question had just been “popped.” Allen then fell to one knee and proposed. The artists then presented Amanda with a picture that spelled out: “Say Yes.” NUMBER OF GUESTS: 130 WEDDING COLORS: Eggplant & graphite HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT:

The couple embraced their law school courtship and held their wedding on the campus of Washington University. The ceremony was held in the library of the law school and the reception in its courtyard. “Legal” touches were scattered throughout the event, with law books as centerpieces and case opinions as table names. WEDDING FAVORS: Couples’ and individual’s photo initials, by Letters By Landmark, makers of the couple’s engagement pictures. DJ: TKO DJs FIRST DANCE: “God Only Knows” by Joss Stone GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “Frantically fashioning cufflinks out of muselet just minutes before our ceremony. Everyone told me I’d laugh about forgetting my cufflinks on our wedding day, but I didn’t find it very funny at the time…” OCCUPATIONS: Both are attorneys HONEYMOON: Kauai, Hawaii RESIDE: Maryville, Illinois NEW BEGINNINGS, NEW NAME: Just as Amanda and Allen have blended their lives together, they have done the same with their last names. Their family name is now “Inlander.”

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Bride’s Vision Weddings and Events • FLORIST: Carol Genteman Floral Designs • BRIDE’S DRESS: Allure Couture, Amoré GROOM’S ATTIRE: Jones of New York, Men’s Wearhouse • BRIDE’S & BRIDESMAIDS’ MAKEUP: D’Shannon Llewellyn • BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Priscilla of Boston, Bella Bridesmaid • WEDDING LOCATION & RECEPTION VENUE: Washington University School of Law • CATERER: Steven Becker Fine Dining • CAKE: Sugaree Baking Company • LINENS: Sitting Pretty • RENTALS: Premier Rentals • PAPER GOODS: Two Blue Doors CEREMONY MUSIC: Ross Hendrickson, guitarist & Christie Love, vocalist (Husband and Mother of the Matron of Honor)

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real moments Mary Anne Zivnuska & Patrick Sullivan October 8, 2011 Photographed by signature Studio creative photography

HOW THEY MET: Living in Annapolis, Maryland, Patrick and a college friend of Mary Anne’s, Greg, started a book club. Patrick asked Greg to “invite a cute girl” to the meeting. Greg invited Mary Anne. Patrick and Mary Anne were the last to leave the meeting and they set up a lunch date at Chinatown Express, a favorite dive restaurant. HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: Impromptu lunch proposal at the Chinatown Express. NUMBER OF GUESTS: 100 WEDDING COLORS: turquoise and brown HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: The wedding was an old-school Tridentine Catholic Mass, celebrated by a family friend and priest, Fr. Bede Price, OSB. One of their Book Club selections was Huckleberry Finn, and they chose a Mississippi River cruise for their reception. WEDDING FAVORS: Small bags of Costa Rican coffee to share in their upcoming Costa Rican honeymoon. FIRST DANCE: “At Last,” by Eva Cassidy GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “After our wedding, our photographer took us to Tower Grove Park for some pictures. She’d become a friend, and she asked us just to think about our moment and relax. I was at peace like never before.” OCCUPATIONS: Both are attorneys HONEYMOON: Costa Rica RESIDE: Annapolis, MD ADVICE FOR BRIDES-TO-BE: Little issues have a way of working themselves out. It’s the bigger concerns, like family and the marriage, that need your attention at this time. Don’t make assumptions about costs-—our beautiful and unique reception venue was far more affordable than we thought it would be.” MORE EXCITING NEWS: “We’re expecting a baby boy in early August!”

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Flourish Events & Concierge • FLORIST: Festive Atmospheres • BRIDE’S DRESS: Judd Waddell • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Men’s Wearhouse • BRIDE’S AND BRIDESMAIDS’ HAIR & MAKEUP: Tami Scott Studio • BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Jenny Yoo, Bella Bridesmaid WEDDING LOCATION: St. Francis de Sales Oratory • RECEPTION VENUE: Tom Sawyer Riverboat • CAKE: Lubeley’s Bakery MUSIC: TKO DJ

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real moments Jamie Eckhardt & Kyle Manley October 8, 2011 Photographed by L photographie

HOW THEY MET: They went to high school together, but didn’t become friends until years later when reintroduced by mutual friends. HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: At Kyle’s family lake house, on a boat with just the two of them. All of their friends and family were waiting for them when they returned to the dock. NUMBER OF GUESTS: 200 WEDDING COLORS: Black and White SOMETHING OLD: A bible that has been in Jamie’s for decades, that her father carried with him as they walked down the aisle SOMETHING NEW: The wedding dress SOMETHING BORROWED: Pearls from the bride’s grandmother, that were given to her by her late grandfather SOMETHING BLUE: A blue garter from the bride’s mother HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: The couple is big St. Louis Cardinals fans, and had pictures taken inside Busch Stadium and gave hotel guests Cardinals buckets filled with St. Louis goodies. Black and white pictures of Jamie and Kyle were used for table numbers. BAND: Galaxy Red FIRST DANCE: “You’re Everything” by Michael Buble BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT:

“When Kyle jumped the gun on an ‘I will’ during the ceremony. It made everyone laugh and calmed my nerves.” GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “Being able to go inside Busch Stadium for pictures. We didn’t find out we were going to be able to go inside until earlier that day. It was awesome!” OCCUPATIONS: Jamie works for ALSAC/St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital and Kyle is an analyst for Exxon Mobil HONEYMOON: Greece RESIDE: Arlington, VA ADVICE FOR BRIDES-TO-BE: “Hire a wedding planner! It allows you to enjoy the experience of planning a wedding. And you can’t put a price on being able to relax and enjoy every moment of your wedding day!”

WEDDING CONSULTANT: St. Louis Wedding Consultants • FLORIST: Sisters Floral Design Studio • BRIDE’S DRESS: Pronovias, Amore GROOM’S ATTIRE: Men’s Wearhouse • BRIDE’S AND BRIDEMAIDS’ HAIR: Designs by Deyne • BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Jim Hjelm WEDDING LOCATION: World’s Fair Pavilion in Forest Park • RECEPTION VENUE: Hilton at the Ballpark • CAKE: (friend of the bride and groom) • LINENS & RENTALS: BBJ Linen & Premier Rentals • PAPER GOODS: M. Haley Design • PHOTOBOOTH: Let Loose Photo Booth LLC

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real moments Stephanie McCollister & Adam Huey October 29, 2011 Photographed by JOanna Kleine Photography

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Jolla, California NUMBER OF GUESTS: 235 WEDDING COLORS: Navy and fall colors (oranges, reds, and golds) SOMETHING OLD: Bride’s mother’s veil SOMETHING NEW: Dress and jewelry SOMETHING BORROWED: Bride’s mother’s veil SOMETHING BLUE: Garter HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT:

Instead of table numbers, photos of St. Louis landmarks and the couples’ favorite sports teams were used. Mannequins displayed the bride and groom’s mothers’ wedding dresses and wedding photos. A beanbag toss game was set up for guests to play, each board painted with their college logos. A movie made of family photos played during the reception. Everyone signed a surfboard (the couple lives in San Diego) rather than a guestbook. Fritz’s frozen custard and toasted ravioli were served for a late night snack. Since the Cardinals had won the World Series the night before, the ring bearer carried a stuffed “rally squirrel” down the aisle instead of a pillow. WEDDING FAVORS: Photo strips and personalized coasters BAND: JRobb Band FIRST DANCE: “The One” by Elton John VIDEOGRAPHER: Lifetime Media BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT:

“Adam’s reaction and the look on his face when I walked down the aisle.” GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT:

“Getting married the day after the Cardinals won the World Series.” OCCUPATIONS: Both are pharmaceutical sales representatives HONEYMOON: Jamaica RESIDE: Del Mar, California

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Bride’s Vision Weddings and Events • FLORIST: Botanicals Design Studio • BRIDE’S DRESS: Watters, Town and Country Bridal Boutique • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Men’s Wearhouse • BRIDE’S AND BRIDESMAIDS HAIR & MAKEUP: Danielle Style BRIDESMAID DRESSES: B2 by Jasmine, Town and Country Bridal Boutique • WEDDING LOCATION: Shrine of Saint Joseph • RECEPTION VENUE and cake: Missouri Athletic Club • SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Executive Events • LINENS: BBJ Linen • RENTALS: Premier Rentals • MUSIC: JRobb • PHOTOBOOTH: Kling Kamera

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real moments Brigid McNamara & Danny Kellerman September 17, 2011 Photographed by josephine havlak

Brigid was a volunteer coach at the South City YMCA and Danny was the youth sports official. HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: A proposal at home with their two beloved dogs by their side. NUMBER OF GUESTS: 200 WEDDING COLORS: Pacific blue and grass green, with touches of gold, silver and black. SOMETHING OLD: Brigid’s engagement ring, made of diamonds from her great-grandmother and her grandmother. SOMETHING NEW: Brigid’s bright green shoes SOMETHING BORROWED: Pearl necklace and pearl earrings from the mother of the bride SOMETHING BLUE: Stitch of blue ribbon sewn into the bridal gown HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: “Our wedding was held on the day of the Forest Park Balloon Race, an event we truly enjoy. We incorporated balloons throughout our wedding from the RSVP cards to the place cards to the guest book, which was a poster of a bride and groom hanging from balloons.” WEDDING FAVORS: For out-of-town guests, a reusable tote bag filled with fun and yummy St. Louis stuff, such as a picture of the Arch, notes on our favorite things to do here, Kakao chocolates and a John Pils bookmark featuring the downtown skyline and hot air balloons.” DJ: Tom Stuart FIRST DANCE: “As” by Stevie Wonder HOW THEY MET:

BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT:

“It’s truly amazing seeing all the people you love the most in the same place at the same time.” GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “Enjoying the weekend with our closest family and friends, and seeing how happy our parents were.” OCCUPATIONS: Brigid is an attorney and Danny is a compensation coordinator at Emerson Electric RESIDE: St. Louis

FLORIST: Bloomin’ Buckets • BRIDE’S DRESS: Lea Ann Belter, Town and Country Bridal Boutique • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Macy’s & Nordstrom BRIDESMAID DRESSES: J. Crew • WEDDING LOCATION: Saint Anselm’s Parish • RECEPTION VENUE: The Chase Park Plaza, Starlight and Zodiac Rooms • CAKE: The Chase Park Plaza • SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Millennium Productions, The Chase Park Plaza PAPER GOODS: Cheree Berry Paper

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real moments Jamie Tucker & Troy Hedman March 3, 2012 Photographed by zettl photography

HOW THEY MET: On-line and at church. They had just connected on a Christian on-line site days before, and then Jamie recognized him in Church on Easter Sunday. She introduced herself, and the rest was history. HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: While dating, Troy took Jamie to Colorado to meet his parents and to see U2, both Jamie and Troy’s favorite band. Troy later proposed at the U2 concert at Busch Stadium. NUMBER OF GUESTS: 100 WEDDING COLORS: Red, Black, Ivory THE MENU: Catered by Table Three of Wildwood HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: The couple asked Troy’s friend, a pastor, to do the honors of marrying them, in an intimate ceremony with close family and friends. WEDDING FAVORS: Wedding cake-shaped cookies BAND: Silk Pajamas FIRST DANCE: “At Last,” Etta James WEDDING STORYBOOK TITLE: A True Blessing VIDEOGRAPHER: Westview Media BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “Seeing Troy standing at the altar as my dad walked me down the isle. It was truly magical!” GROOM’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “Without a doubt, seeing Jamie and her dad step through the doors at the back of the Conservatory to walk down the aisle. Her dress, her hair, her big bright smile…she looked like a princess. I’ll never forget it!” OCCUPATIONS: Jamie is a personal fitness trainer and Troy is an investment advisor HONEYMOON: Ixtapa, Mexico RESIDE: Wildwood, MO ADVICE FOR BRIDES-TO-BE: “No matter what happens the day of, make a decision to fully enjoy your special day!”

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Bride’s Vision Weddings and Events • FLORIST: Artistry Florist • BRIDE’S DRESS: Robin’s Bridal • GROOM’S ATTIRE: Savvi Formalwear • BRIDE’S AND BRIDESMAIDS’ HAIR & MAKEUP: Danielle Style • BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Robin’s Bridal WEDDING LOCATION: The Conservatory • RECEPTION VENUE: The Wildwood Hotel • CAKE: Sugaree Baking Company PAPER GOODS Vellum

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real moments Lauren Andreas & Michael Dostal November 19, 2011 Photographed by SUSAN JACKSON photography

HOW THEY MET: In their first year of dental school at University of MissouriKansas City HOW THEY GOT ENGAGED: Lauren and Mike traveled with her family to Paris to celebrate her parents’ 30th anniversary. After touring and wine tasting, Mike wanted to go to the top of the Eiffel Tower. When they arrived, Mike got down on one knee and proposed. Lauren said, “Yes!” and celebrated with her family and many phone calls back home.NUMBER OF GUESTS: 175 WEDDING COLORS: Champagne and ivory HOW THEY PERSONALIZED THE EVENT: A monogram created by Cheryl Tefft of Calligraphics was used on all the paper products. They incorporated a French theme throughout the reception, such as architectural Paris names used for table markers, an ice sculpture of the Eiffel Tower and a signature cocktail called “The French Connection.” WEDDING FAVORS: French truffles from Bissinger’s BAND: Charles Glenn FIRST DANCE: “Have a Little Faith in Me” by John Hiatt WEDDING STORYBOOK TITLE: Parisian Romance VIDEOGRAPHER: Joe Seebeck, Boda Film BRIDE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT: “Mike and I exchanged gifts after our ‘first glimpse’ photos with our photographer, Susan Jackson. I gave him a cross and he gave me my very first rosary. This is one of our favorite pictures that she was able to capture. Mike was my sponsor throughout my Catholic conversion classes that past year. I felt like in that moment, it represented the true meaning behind marriage and the journey that it took for us to get there.” OCCUPATIONS: Both are dentists HONEYMOON: St. Lucia RESIDE: Overland Park, Kansas

WEDDING CONSULTANT: Soiree • FLORIST: Bloomin’ Buckets • BRIDE’S DRESS: Monique Lhuillier, Town and Country Bridal Boutique GROOM’S ATTIRE: Calvin Klein, Men’s Wearhouse • BRIDE’S AND BRIDEMAIDS’ HAIR & MAKEUP: Danielle Style • BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Watters, Town and Country Bridal Boutique • WEDDING LOCATION: Shrine of St. Joseph • RECEPTION VENUE: Renaissance Grand St. Louis CAKE: The Cakery • LINENS & RENTALS: Sitting Pretty • PAPER GOODS: Calligraphics and Vellum • Ceremony music: Soloist Scott Kennebeck and the Rosewood Ensemble • ICE SCULPTURE: Ice Visions • PHOTOBOOTH: Gateway Photo

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Congratulations The wedding pros of St. Louis were sweeping up the awards at this year's ISES Louie Awards Celebration in March at the Ameristar Casino. • Butler's Pantry won Best On Premise Catered Event Budget Under $200 for the Echeverry wedding. • Simply & Forever won Best Tabletop Design Budget Under $500 per Table. • Dee Sparks and the Rosewood Ensemble won Best Event Entertainment Concept Budget Under $15,000 for the Miller Wedding. • Cosmopolitan Events and Hollyberry Catering Company won Best Wedding Event Budget Under $75,000 for the Nelson Wedding. • Cosmopolitan Events and Steven Becker Fine Dining won Best Wedding Event Budget Over $75,000 for the Roth Wedding. • Zettl Photography won Best Event Photography for the Wade Wedding. • Cosmopolitan Events, Steven Becker Fine Dining, Artistry Florist, BBJ Linen, Companion Café & Catering, Contemporary Events, Cort Event Furnishings, Grand Rental Station, Parties & Props, Ltd. and The Aries Company took home the award for Best ISES Team Event for the Hornsby-Roth Wedding located at Graham Chapel and the Coronado Ballroom. 74

Dance the Night Away Exclusive Events, Inc. is now offering a new crystal dance floor trimmed in lights with four 2x2 light-up squares placed throughout, 314-995-7282 or exclusiveeventsinc.com.

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Take a Seat, or Two or Three Exclusive Events, Inc. now offers vintage sofas, loveseats and chairs for weddings, engagement photos and lounge areas, 314-995-7282 or exclusiveeventsinc.com. The Aries Company now offers two new Event Leather High Back Chairs in black and white, 314-664-6610 or ariesco.com.

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Thirteen fabulous places BY CAROLYN BURKE, WEDDING LIAISON

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3 Copia Restaurant & Wine Garden

The convention center in downtown St Louis has done some sprucing up with new carpeting and furniture. They feature two spaces for wedding events that include the Ballroom and the Atrium. Catering is provided by Levy Restaurants who offer a fantastic array of fabulous food and discerning taste to help you orchestrate a truly memorable experience for your wedding. For any guest size of 50 to 2,000—with such unique venues, any bride’s vision is bound to become a reality! 701 Convention Plaza Drive, St. Louis, MO 63101 • (314) 342 5254 • levyrestaurants.com

This urban winery located in the heart of Washington Avenue in downtown St. Louis exhibits warm hues, exposed brick walls and natural wood beam ceilings, creating a sophisticated and traditional wine country atmosphere. With four private rooms there is bound to be one that can fit your bridal shower, rehearsal dinner or wedding reception for up to 170 guests. The Wine Garden has a retractable roof which offers the versatility of an indoor/outdoor space for a ceremony and is climate controlled. 1122 Washington Avenue, St. Louis, MO 63101 • (314) 241 9463 • copiarestaurantandwinegarden.com

2 Chaumette Vineyards & Winery

4 Embassy Suites St. Louis Downtown

The new barn at Chaumette in Ste. Genevieve, Missouri opened in May 2012. This unique space is designed to accommodate up to 200 guests indoors and 300 with an attached tent. It has an idyllic, open feel with a simple elegance surrounded by the serenity of their vineyards and the rolling hills of the Saline Creek Valley. The menu has an emphasis on acquiring fresh, seasonal and local ingredients. Upstairs is the hayloft to accommodate 100 for an indoor ceremony. The barn also boasts a side patio, wheel chair accessibility, restrooms, and a bridal dressing suite. 24345 State Route WW, Ste. Genevieve, Missouri 63670 • (573) 747 1000 • chaumette.com

Opened in October 2011, the Embassy Suites St. Louis – Downtown is located in the heart of St. Louis in the new Mercantile Exchange District. The facilities offer warm, urban contemporary décor and 212 two-room suites for your out of town guests to stay. The Laurel Ballroom is ideal for receptions and rehearsal dinners, or any event from 10-200 and can cater to every need with creative culinary delights that are sure to please your guests. 610 N. 7th Street, St. Louis, MO 63101 • (314) 269 5900 • stlouisdowntown.embassysuites.com

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5 Horizon Event Space at Harry’s Premiered in March 2012 and located on the west edge of downtown St Louis, this innovative room offers sophisticated ambiance with a sleek, modern décor to accommodate up to 90 guests for a seated dinner and 250 for cocktails. The Horizon space has the latest in audio visual with custom lighting to match your theme and unparalleled panoramic views of the downtown skyline with twenty-foot arched windows. 2144 Market Street, St. Louis , MO 63103 (314) 421 6969 • horizonatharrys.com

6 Holiday Inn ~ South County Center This hotel is conveniently located at I-55 and South Lindbergh for easy accessibility and 149 guest rooms. Holiday Inn South County has been recently renovated, with a new entry way and a private entrance just outside the Grand Ballroom which can accommodate 350 guests. The Schobers Ballroom has a new outdoor patio and can be used for ceremony or reception up to 150 guests inside. Also a beautiful staircase; perfect for bridal photos and a new bridal salon with all-inclusive reception packages. 6921 S. Lindbergh Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63125 • (314) 892-3600 • hisoco.com

7 The J/Performing Arts Center at the J New and modern interiors with beautiful landscaped exterior spaces accommodate ceremony and reception gatherings for up to 700 guests at two locations at The J. The Marilyn Fox Building in Chesterfield, MO and the Staenberg Family Complex in Creve Coeur, 80

MO. You can choose from their preferred catering list or choose your own. The outdoor areas include a terrace and pavilion which is perfect for ceremonies and photos. 2 Millstone Campus Drive, St. Louis MO 63146 • (314) 442-3275 • jccstl.org

8 St. Louis Union Station Marriott This AAA Four Diamond awarded National Historic Landmark boasts two newly-renovated ballrooms (the Regency and the Grand) with chandeliers, plush carpet, improved airwall systems and spacious pre-function/cocktail hour areas for 100-400 guests. The distinctive Grand Hall creates an unforgettable experience. Guests will love the central downtown location and easy accessibility from all major St. Louis ceremony sites. The Marriott Certified Wedding Planners and staff are there to help you complete the vision for your celebration. 1820 Market Street, St. Louis, MO 63103 • (314) 802 3440 • unionstationmarriott.com

9 Mount Pleasant Estates This winery rests on the bluffs overlooking the Missouri River Valley in Augusta, Missouri. Mount Pleasant Estates can help you plan a large reception, an intimate rehearsal dinner or wedding shower. The newly-renovated Terrace Ballroom has dark hardwood floors, updated lighting fixtures and fresh neutral colored paint. No one will forget the beautiful arbor for the ceremony with a capacity for up to 225 guests. 634 High Street, Augusta , MO 63332 • (636) 482-9463 • mountpleasant.com

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Located just 15 minutes from downtown St. Louis in Belleville, Illinois is the National Shrine of Our Lady of the Snows—perfect location for showers, rehearsal dinners, outdoor wedding ceremonies and receptions for 20 to 400 guests. The Shrine Hotel offers very comfortable rooms and a variety of featured packages and specials. Their 200 acres of beautifully-landscaped grounds are a perfect background for the one-of-a-kind wedding photograph. 442 South De Mazenod Drive, Belleville, IL 62223 • (618) 394 6300 snows.org/banquets

11 Peabody Hall at the St. Louis Zoo The Saint Louis Zoo adds a fifth elegant banquet facility in Forest Park. Built in 1917, this historic landmark was totally renovated indoors and out with an ornate quatrefoil attic window and is transformed into a spacious gallery for elegant private events for up to 300 guests. Be the first to book this facility as it opens up for private events in 2013. They offer theme development, including décor, entertainment and special touches that make events memorable. One Government Drive, St. Louis, MO 63110 • (314) 768 5411 • stlzoo.org

12 Villa Antonio Winery Romantic lakeside and vineyard views provide the backdrop for the wedding of your dreams in Hillsboro, Missouri. Villa Antonio Winery specializes in a stress-free experience. They recently added a fountain patio to extend their wedding venue options. It may be utilized for a ceremony site, as an upscale bar service area for receptions, or simply an additional dance space overlooking the main tent that can hold up to 300 guests. Enjoy the beautiful evening with dancing under the stars all the time being in close proximity to the reception and bridal party. 3660 Linhorst Rd, Hillsboro, MO 63050 (636) 475 5008 • villaantoniowinery.com

13 World Chess Hall of Fame The World Chess Hall of Fame (WCHOF) opened to the public in September 2011. The second and third floor is available for rental for an intimate reception or rehearsal for up to 60 seated guests and 100 standing. The third floor has large windows which allow natural light, dark hardwood floors, and views of the Central West End. They allow outside catering and even a ceremony site in one of the galleries, if needed. It is handicapped accessible and within walking distance of the Metro Link. 4652 Maryland Avenue, St. Louis, MO 63108 • (314) 367 9243 ext. 106 • worldchesshof.org

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St. Louis’ top wedding pros were honored at the third St. Louis Wedding Awards photographed by Abbie Takes Pictures The third annual St. Louis Wedding Awards, sponsored by MillenniumProductions, Patty Long Catering and Saint Louis Bride Magazine, was held on Thursday, February 23, 2012 at Patty Long's Ninth Street Abbey. The St. Louis Wedding Awards acknowledges and celebrates the achievements of the wedding industry professionals in the St. Louis Metropolitan area. Awards were given in twelve categories including Wedding of the Year where five wedding professionals received a nod for their team efforts. This year, two pros were recognized as Wedding Professional Hall of Famers for their years of dedicated service in their industry—Phillip Stallone, owner of Stallone's Formal Wear and the late Gina Kelly, photographer and owner of Lace Photography. The nomination process was open to anyone working in the St. Louis wedding industry and to qualify the entry must have occurred between January 1st and December 31st of the 2011 year in the St. Louis metropolitan area. If you would like to nominate one (or more) or your wedding professionals, please visit (and like) the official St. Louis Wedding Awards Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/StLouisWeddingAwards for rules and nomination information.

2011 St. Louis Wedding Award Recipients Floral Design Wildflowers, LLC Cake Design The Cakery Photography ie Images Videography Millennium Productions Music The Rosewood Ensemble Caterer Butler’s Pantry Venue Patty Long’s 9th Street Abbey Stationery/Invitation Design M. Haley Design Wedding Planner Alred Wedding Consultants Specialty Rentals Exclusive Events, Inc. Wedding Professional Hall of Fame Phillip Stallone Owner, Stallone’s Formal Wear Wedding Professional Hall of Fame Gina Kelly Owner, Lace Photography Wedding of the Year Mesghinna/Tsehaye wedding • Proposing Dreams • Hyatt Regency St. Louis at the Arch • Switzerfilm • RW Designs • Exclusive Events, Inc.

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SPECIAL THANKS As with any event, the evening would not have been successful without the contributions from the following individuals and businesses: • Abbie Takes Pictures • Artistry Florist • Belli Fiori • David Lancaster • Exclusive Events • Focus on Design • M. Haley Design • Megan Thiele Studios • Millennium Productions • Patty Long Catering • Pearl Wedding Cake Vodka • Sisters Floral Design Studio • Sitting Pretty • Two Blue Doors

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Bedside Reading Seven new books for your wedding-planning nightstand

1. A Gentleman Walks Down The Aisle: A Complete Guide to the Perfect Wedding Day by John Bridges & Bryan Curtis, $16.99. 2. Words for the Wedding: Creative Ideas for Personalizing Your Vows, Toasts, Invitations and More by Wendy Paris and Andrew Chesler, $15. 3. NIV Couples Devotional Bible from Zondervan, $36.99. 4. Paper Made! 101 Exceptional Projects to Make Out of Everyday Paper by Kayte Terry, $16.95. 5. Emily Post's Etiquette: Manners for a New World, 18th Edition by Peggy Post, Anna Post, Lizzie Post & Daniel Post Senning, $39.99. 6. Vintage Weddings: One Hundred Years of Bridal Fashion and Style by Marnie Fogg, $29.95. 7. Southern Living Wedding Planner and Keepsake: What

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Getting us closer to the sun and schedule-free BY DIANA LOSCIALE

LISTEN: BLUE, BALMY, BREEZY. (Repeat.) That’s the subtle siren call of the Caribbean islands. Their appeal makes them a honeymoon magnet; their rewards range from gorgeous market deals, crispy fried conch and idle hours of snorkeling to post-volcanic panoramas and grand sweeps of beach that turn honeymooners into beach swooners. The Caribbean, overall, holds major honeymoon sway, culling about 22% of post-wedding B&Gs to vacay on its islands. Jamaica and St Lucia continue to cull positions on the Top 10 getaway lists. Moving north to south, creeping by degrees through the lower latitudes toward the equator, the islands offer bright white architecture, dazzling plated fruit, fish and vegetables, and the bliss of no schedule. In the following, we get closer to the sun, answering the call to chill, dishing on a few delicious islands and romantic resorts.

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The Caribbean’s Calling rooms to beach service. Breakfast and the New York Times are delivered to the room, and in the evening, while sipping wine brought from the Cap’s exclusive cellar, guests enjoy the lights of St. Martin or Saba across the water. Three restaurants, barefoot sauntering on the beach, massages for two, and yachts for rent comprise the major “sports” here, along with tennis and croquet. This seriously romantic resort is serious about downtime luxury.

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nguilla is drivable from one end to the other via a main road in a half hour at 30 mph (the max speed limit). The rest of the island’s tempo goes no faster. Even the waves against the famous white beaches are gentle. The dramatically designed Cap Juluca resort promises 179 acres of privacy, even on its long, walkable beaches. Its rooms, suites and turreted villas are lush with comfort, from palatial bedrooms and bath-

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Right in the middle of the Caribbean sits Jamaica with its leftlane driving, a burgeoning history and that je ne sais quoi that calls to travelers, making it one of the top 10 honeymoon destinations. Famous for its hike-able river falls, sugary sand, reggae music, and fresh food that can blindside a diet, the island boasts mountains and coastline, adventure and utter relaxation. Gail Ailshie at the Travel Haus St. Louis touts the island as a favorite: “It’s the people, the culture, the beaches, the markets… the beauty.” Jamaica is home to some of Sandals keenest resorts where the accent 96

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is on romance. The all-inclusive, couples-only resorts are well placed, each with its own appeal. The Sandals Negril Beach Resort & Spa has a 7-mile stretch of beach, and loft suites with plenty of palms and gardens to cloister the guests. The Sandals Royal Caribbean’s pink and white buildings combine Georgian architecture with British themes, and it’s flanked by a series of six perfect beaches. The Sandals Dunn’s River Golf Resort & Spa has sea-facing elegant rooms (think Italian Riviera) and beach, always the beach. Sandals guests can go restaurant-hopping, intraresort style, and engage in nearly non-stop water and land sports.

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With snorkel-worthy coral reefs, powdery sand, a complexly winding coastline (creating crazy tortuous car trips), a bird sanctuary, and its renown role as host to Sailing Week, Antigua has morphed over the past two hundred years from historical lynchpin (Admiral Nelson found it excellent for hiding a naval force) to premier resort venue. The Curtain Bluff resort not only sits on a peninsula marking the meeting of the Atlantic with its cresting surf and the Caribbean with its wave “laplets” but it also delivers an ocean view from every guest’s window. Pink and white

buildings (nothing sugary about them, though), grounds crazy with gorgeous flora, palms, hibiscus and oleander, and large rooms and suites in soft airy colors are part of the Bluff’s palette. No airconditioning needed. Dine al fresco on the suite’s terrace, loll in the room’s hammock-for-two are slung across the terrace, "ooh" over the freshest food in the Caribbean and "aaah" over the 25,000-bottle wine cellar. No TV in the room but Television House, on stilts near the tennis courts and fitness center, hosts guest gatherings for big media events. A boutique all-inclusive, Curtain Bluff is spit-spot elegant and spells “escape.” 98

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The little island of St. Lucia, according to travel expert Ailshie, is very much like Hawaii. And this little island is easier to access than our 50th state in terms of time and distance. Home to exotic wildlife, rainforests, the Pitons peaks, Jacquot the native parrot, and a drive-in volcano, St. Lucia is an unquestionable honeymoon favorite. Oprah, too, lists it on her top 10 faves. Far from the island’s cruising crowd, on the north coast, the Windjammer Landing Villa Resort offers classic amenities wrapped up in the romance of luxurious one- to four-bedroom villas and suites with serious views of the sea. Private plunge pools may have guests lolling to

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Home to exotic wildlife and a drive in volcano, St. Lucia is a honeymoon favorite. the point of not leaving their own digs. But here are hillside shuttles that gab up and down porting guests to the resort pools and beach. Rooms are gorgeous and spacious in rich subtle colors, and some tubs and showers are (literally) open to the sky. Water sports are complimentary and so is an intro course to scuba diving. Play tennis at night, go coconut bowling, enjoy fashion shows, scramble through a game of beach cricket, and join in a sailing regatta. There are several on-site restaurants…and even off-site pizza delivery! Luxury wears many faces. The sequestered Sandals Halcyon Resort with its spectacular pool is bound with gorgeous gardens, has several restaurants, more than a dozen bars and famous on-the-water fine dining anchored on a 150-foot pier. Purposely made to meld with the landscape, none of the resort’s buildings are higher than the highest palm tree. Something about the Halcyon whispers “don’t move from here.” ♥ FALL/WINTER 2012 • www.bridestl.com STLWB_1207FW_WestinStLouis.indd 1

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BY amy zimmerman Gina Kelly, owner of Lace Photography, lost her battle with cancer on April 2, 2012. Kelly

was known for her photography skills and her generosity. She gave her time and talents to many charitable organizations, particularly the Pujols Family Foundation. In March, Shelli Alred, owner of Alred Wedding Consultants and Melissa Haley, owner of M. Haley Design, organized a trivia night for Kelly. Haley and Kelly met at a bridal show in 2006. Haley knew Kelly was struggling with her illness and growing medical costs. “I kept seeing her Facebook status and telling my husband about her. We wanted to do something to help her, so I approached her with the idea for a trivia night. After a lot of deliberation she finally agreed to let us help. So I called Shelli and asked her to help put it together,” said Haley. “Gina was so used to giving, she was reluctant to accept our help,” said Alred, “It took a lot of convincing.” Alred put her wedding consultant skills to work coordinating the event. Haley and her husband took charge of the bookkeeping, money collection and trivia. The event was held at the Shrewsbury City Center. Alred and Haley hoped to fill one of the center’s meeting rooms, 102

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but the response was so overwhelming, they needed two rooms. About 450 people attended. “We filled one room with friends, family and people from the charities she supported. The other was filled with her friends and colleagues from the wedding industry,” said Alred. Although she wanted to be there, Kelly was too sick to attend the trivia night and had to go out of town for treatment. She called dur-

would do the same for him if he was in that situation,” said Haley. Many other people from the wedding industry donated their time, talents, goods and services to the event. They raised more than $17,000 for Kelly to support her fight against cancer. “She was very grateful and blown away by the response. I don’t think you have the ability

“Gina was so used to giving, she was reluctant to accept our help. It took a lot of convincing.”

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ing the event and the emcees held a phone up to the microphone so she could address the crowd and thank them for their support. TJ McDowell, owner of Larissa Photography, recorded the event and edited a video for Kelly so she could see her special night. The video is posted on the Gina Kelly Trivia Night page on Facebook. “TJ didn’t event know Gina. When we realized she wasn’t going to be able to attend, I posted a request for a videographer on Facebook. TJ just said he hoped that someone

to realize all the people who wish you well until you are in a bind like that,” said Haley. Although they are still mourning the devastating loss of Lace Photography founder, Gina Kelly, the staff at Lace Photography will continue to move forward and grow the business as Gina had wished. “Through wedding, family, kids, and senior photography, we want the legacy that Gina Kelly had created to live on through us for many years to come,” said Lori Mattler, Kelly's longtime friend and fellow Lace photographer. ♥

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Ever since Big proposed to Carrie Bradshaw with a pair of blue Manolo Blahniks, brides

have been getting creative with their wedding day footwear. “Some brides use color to make a statement,” says Shelli Alred, owner of Alred Wedding Consultants. “Some match the color of the bridesmaid’s dresses with their shoes.” But for Suzanne and Jason Lange, shoes did more than just add a glimpse of color under a gown. Shoes were an ongoing theme throughout their wedding. When a friend presented the couple with her designs for their wedding invitations, one had a pair of shoes as the graphic element —a red flat and a grey Chuck Taylor low top. “I’m known for wearing red shoes and Jason is known for wearing Chuck Taylors, so the invitation was perfect. We used the shoe graphic in all of the print materials (Continued on page 180)

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Every issue of Saint Louis Bride magazine highlights several recent weddings in the St. Louis area in our “Real Moments” feature. Photographs from these gorgeous gatherings have been submitted by the couples, wedding planners, photographers and other vendors who were particularly proud of their labors of love. Even with weddings as wonderful as those previously included in “Real Moments,” not everything goes perfectly. And given some time and perspective, some former “Real Moments” brides share what they might do differently.

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I hadn’t been so determined to outfit my kitchen and home, and had understood that there will be many years ahead of me to buy the necessary items.” Caroline says that even if she was a little overzealous with the store scanner, she still could have handled all those presents differently. “Sometimes registry picks are just there to make gift giving easier on your guests, and once received you can go back to the store and exchange for something else,” suggested Caroline. “For the frugal bride, you can get great deals on big-ticket kitchen items throughout the year. I feel like my gift dollars could have gone a lot farther if I

“I wish I had hired a videographer for the ceremony. It went by so quickly and the way the room was set up, there just weren't enough pictures.” had used the return method and then waited for a good deal to surface over the coming months. There are other ways to create unique registries as well, such as a honeymoon fund, which gives guests more flexibility in what kind of gifts to give.”

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When planning your wedding, the budget is in consideration of every decision made. But sometimes certain services are eliminated that brides may end up regretting. Kelly Whitney wishes they had hired a videographer. “After the fact, I realized that our wedding day just flew by. It’s amazing how much time, energy and preparation it takes and then it’s over so quickly!” Kelly said. Ali McKay feels the same way. “I wish I had hired a videographer for the ceremony,” Ali said. “It went by so quickly and the way the room was set up, there just weren't enough pictures.” Not hiring a videographer was an almost-regret for Sarah Wernsman. “We didn't think we needed one until maybe three months before the wedding and almost everyone was booked,” said Sarah. “But our amazing wedding planner, Lacy Branch, found us an excellent one from Chicago. And it really was worth every penny!” Taking pictures before the wedding was something Caroline

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then Now wishes she and her fiancé had done. “I think an engagement photography session would have helped to prepare my husband and I to be photographed together,” Caroline said. “In the beginning on our wedding day, we were a bit awkward in front of the camera and I think it shows in some of our pictures. This could have been helped if we had taken engagement pictures.”

It’s easier said than done, but Caroline wishes she could have stressed less in the days leading up to the wedding and on the big day itself. She said: “I wish I could have relaxed a bit more and trusted that things would work themselves out, instead of trying to micro-manage so much in the days before the wedding. The stress caused me a lack of sleep in the days prior to the wedding. The actual day was long and I was exhausted by the end of it more so because of my sleep deprivation!”

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Tulle sweetheart gown by Jasmine Couture features removable tiered skirt, $1,339 from Blushing Bride. “Big Trouble” ribbon headband, $140 from Katherine Jessica Collections. Jimmy Choo peek-toe pumps, $695 from Saks Fifth Avenue. Bouquet of peonies, hydrangeas, lisianthus, dusty miller and Queen Ann's lace designed by Becky Huffman.

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Tulle sweetheart gown by Jasmine Couture features removable tiered skirt, $1,339 from Blushing Bride. “Big Trouble” ribbon headband, $140 from Katherine Jessica Collections. Bouquet by Becky Huffman. Three platinum and diamond eternity bands (price available upon request), 14KT white gold iolites and sky blue topaz “confetti” bracelet ($12,500) from Curt Parker Jewelers.

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“Sasha” gown by Elizabeth Fillmore features French floral lace over silk taffeta, $4,840 from Fleur de Lis Bridal. Sapphire and diamond necklace ($5,000), ring ($23,350), Spark Creations tennis bracelet ($10,620 and Spark Creations earrings ($4,535) from Huffords Jewelry. FALL/WINTER 2012 • www.bridestl.com

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“Sasha” gown by Elizabeth Fillmore features French floral lace over silk taffeta, $4,840 from Fleur de Lis Bridal. “Maddie” pearl necklaces (two strands shown), $98 each from Stella and Dot. “Baby Blair” hair clip, $50 from Katherine Jessica Collections. Sapphire and diamond earrings by Spark Creations, $4,535 from Huffords Jewelry.

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“Harlow” gown by Lea-Ann Belter features softly-draped bodice with lace adornment and chapel train, $2,600 from Town and Country Bridal Boutique. Platinum sapphire and diamond ring features a 3.82 ct center stone ($23,350) and Spark Creations tennis bracelet ($10,620) from Huffords Jewelry.

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“Nicola” by Watters & Watters Wtoo features silk taffeta and organza with embellished floral details on skirt, $1,375 from Blushing Bride. “Deco” hair clip, $50 from Katherine Jessica Collections. Diamond and platinum ring features .90ct oval cut center stone surrounded by fifty-six brilliant cut diamonds ($8,400) and 14K white gold sapphire and diamond pendant set ($4,750) from Curt Parker Jewelers. SPRING/SUMMER 2012 • www.bridestl.com

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“Nicola” by Watters & Watters Wtoo features silk taffeta and organza with embellished floral details on skirt, $1,375 from Blushing Bride. “Deco” hair clip, $50 from Katherine Jessica Collections. 14K white gold bezel set necklace features 30 round brilliant diamonds, $6,000 from Curt Parker Jewelers. Bouquet of phalaenopsis orchids and baby's breath designed by Becky Huffman.

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Organza ribbon ballgown by Coco Anais, $1,987 from Wedding Gallery. 18K white gold cabochon aquamarine and South Sea pearl bracelet ($23,500), 18K white gold cushion cut blue topaz and diamond ring ($1,440) and earrings ($1,420) from Simons Jewelers.

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Organza ribbon ballgown by Coco Anais, $1,987 from Wedding Gallery. “Sasha” sash, $300 from Katherine Jessica Collections. Bouquet by Becky Huffman. Blue topaz and diamond ring ($1,440) and 18K white gold diamond swirl bracelet ($18,950) from Simons Jewelers.

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Mikado gown with pleated chevron applique by Carolina Herrara, $5,990 from Berrybridge. Sterling silver blue topaz and moonstone pendant set ($150), earrings ($160) and diamond eternity bands (price available upon request) from Curt Parker Jewelers. SPRING/SUMMER 2012 â&#x20AC;˘ www.bridestl.com

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Mikado gown with pleated chevron applique by Carolina Herrara, $5,990 from Berrybridge. Jewelry from Curt Parker Jewelers (details on previous page).

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“Janice” gown by Augusta Jones features ruched sweetheart bodice and pleated organza belt with floral accents, $2,190 from Town and Country Bridal Boutique. “Parfait” waltz-length veil by Toni Federici, $270 from Town and Country Bridal Boutique. “Sofia” pearl bib necklace ($118) and “Pippa” stone earrings ($49) from Stella and Dot.

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“Galante” gown by Pronovias features organza drop waist and ruffle skirt, $1,599 from Ultimate Bride. “Knot” elastic headband, $65 from Katherine Jessica Collections. Earrings and ring from Huffords Jewelry (details on previous page).

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"Harlow" gown by Lea-Ann Belter features softly-draped bodice with lace adornment and chapel train ($2,600), "Katherine" lace jacket ($550) from Town and Country Bridal Boutique. Platinum sapphire and diamond ring features a 3.82 ct center stone ($23,350) and Spark Creations tennis bracelet ($10,620) from Huffords Jewelry.

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Pretty Pinks

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Not-So-Mellow Yellows

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1. Cool contemporary vases with composite roses surrounded by silver mercury glass candle holders. 2. Yellow velvet branches, ranunculus and roses make up this grouping of white square vases. Designed by Belli Fiori.

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SAVORY CHEF SELECTIONS Top Right: Seasoned Caribbean Chips from Butler's Pantry. Right and Top Left: Petit Grilled Cheese with Spiced Tomato Shooters; Philly Cheesesteak with Onion Crisps; and Banh Mi—Vietnamese Chicken Sandwich, from Pairings. Above: Cannelechi—bite size cannelloni stuffed with chicken, artichoke and cheese; Nonna Tucci’s Meatball Sliders on mini cheesy garlic bread toast; and Veggie Quesadillas, from Pasta House Company.

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SPECIALTY SWEETS Caribbean Fruit Salsa with Cinnamon Chips, Chai Tea Cookies, and Cherry Hand Pies, from Hollyberry Baking.

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SPECIALTY SWEETS Saltine Cracker Toffee, Gooey Butter Cookies and Strawberry Cheesecake Cupcakes in a Jar, from Cute As a Button. Hand-Dipped Caramel Apples and Chocolate-Covered Strawberries, from Cold Stone Creamery.

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been handled in the past. Generally, an invitation for the congregation to witness a wedding is issued from the pulpit or in the bulletin. An invitation to a simple reception is sometimes also included, but only if the couple, their parents or the church hosts one immediately after the ceremony in the church social area. Often, this type of reception is limited to light refreshments and congratulations, and could be followed by a private reception elsewhere. But when no mention is made of a reception, it is understood that a private one is being hosted at another location, and guests will have received mailed invitations. Otherwise, publicly calling attention to your not inviting some of those at the wedding ceremony to the reception would be awkward. RESPONDING TO A RESPONSE CARD

Q. My daughter is getting married at our church, and while it would be nice to be able to invite everyone who attends our church to the wedding, it is not at all budget friendly to invite them all to the reception. Would it be O.K. to put something in our church bulletin like: “While we would love for all of you to be able to attend our wedding, space and budget do not allow us to invite the entire church family to the reception. We hope you understand”? ANNA: You are probably not the first members of your church to face this problem, so do ask for your pastor’s advice on how this has 174

ANNA: Along with your goal to clear things up “firmly,” I’ll add “pronto.” The longer you wait to address the situation, the more awkward it can become. You, or the host of the wedding, will need to speak to this couple directly, either in person or on the phone and not by e-mail or text. It’s amazing how many invitation recipients don’t understand (Continued on page 176)

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Q. My wedding is weeks away, and we have just started receiving response cards. I was astonished to open one to see that a couple included their daughter and au pair on the reply. The invitation was addressed to only the parents, and we did not want their child and nanny to attend. We did not invite any children to our wedding. We do not wish to ruin the friendship over this, but how do we clear things up as firmly as possible?

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Anna Post (Continued from page 174) that an invitation is intended only for those whose names are on the envelope. That’s it: no dates, no friends, no kids, no pets. Whoever calls the couple should make a big effort to overlook their cluelessness. Use a calm, friendly and understanding tone, and stick to the facts: “We’re delighted you can join us at our wedding. But there seems to be a mix-up, since your response card includes the names of your daughter and au pair. Sorry, but we cannot accommodate any extras, as our guest list is very tight. I hope you understand.” Be prepared for any possible reply. The invitees might graciously accept the reality. (Phew—a happy ending for all.) Or they might become huffy. Some even try to bully the wedding hosts into inviting their children. In such a case, you can go the extra mile by explaining that, even though little Susie is a peach and you’d like to meet the au pair sometime, you’re not inviting any children and you cannot make an exception. It wouldn’t be fair to other guests who also have children. If they take the ultimate umbrage by becoming angry and threatening not to come at all, so be it. The rudeness would be theirs, not yours.

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ANNA: If budget is a couple’s primary constraint, breakfast, brunch, afternoon tea, or early evening cocktails and hors d’oeuvres receptions are all excellent cost-saving options. However, if your reception time falls during a meal hour – say noon to 1 pm, or 6:30 pm on, most guests will expect more substantial fare. If you aren’t serving a meal be sure that guests understand that. The place to clue guests in is on the wedding or reception invitation. Simply saying “reception” alone, will imply a meal, so if that won’t be the case, especially during a meal hour, be more explicit. Below the ceremony information, where you would normally write “Reception to follow” or “Dinner and dancing to follow,” be clear about the alternative: “Refreshments/Breakfast/Brunch/Afternoon tea/ Cake and Champagne/Cocktail reception to follow” all let guests know not to expect a full meal and to plan accordingly. This is also true if local custom equates wedding receptions with serving just cake and refreshments, or cocktails and hors d’oeuvres. Let your invitation give a heads up to your out-of-town guests who might not be in the know.

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Ushers On Duty The day before (24 hours before the ceremony) Study up! Review your list of duties for the big day. Practice Makes Perfect! Attend the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner and take note of any kinks, or special changes. Look Sharp! Make sure your outfit for the wedding is all set. Before the ceremony: (2 hours before) Know your stuff! Definitely review the seating order before you arrive at the location. (1 hour before ) Ready for Your Close-Up! Show up at the ceremony location dressed and on time for photos. (When guests begin to arrive) Turn on the Charm! Put on your biggest smile, and greet guests as they begin to file in. (5 minutes before) Set It Up! Lay the aisle runner after all the guests have filtered in, but before the ceremony begins. Show Time! Walk in the processional as rehearsed. AFTER the ceremony: Tidy up! Remember to remove any decor—like ribbons and floral arrangements—pick up leftover programs, and to close any windows, if applicable to your ceremony location. Be a Gentleman! Be prepared to give guests directions to the reception site, and to assist elderly or infirm guests as needed. At the reception: Get Groovy! Dance with the bride, bridesmaids, and any other guests who are in the mood the hit the dance floor. From the Heart! Be prepared to give a short - but sweet - toast. Keep an Eye Out! Be attentive to guests who need assistance. next day: Take It Back! If you've rented any formalwear, coordinate the return of rental clothing with the best man. ♥

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Deep in Her Sole (Continued from page 106) for the wedding,” says Suzanne. Suzanne had toyed with the idea of wearing red shoes for her wedding and the invitation sealed the deal. The search began for the perfect pair. She found a pair of red patent leather Kate Spade flats. Jason wore a pair of grey Chuck Taylors. “It was such a simple way to insert our personality into the wedding. The shoes really do represent our personalities: Jason is laid back and I can be a little feisty,” says Suzanne. The couple was impressed that something as simple as a pair of shoes could affect the atmosphere of their wedding day. “I don’t want to say laid back, because you can’t really be laid back when you are wearing a gown and a tuxedo, but we wanted a relaxed, fun atmosphere. The shoes helped accomplish that,” Lange says. Bright and Bedazzled

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Before the ceremony, Watermire had family members and close friends sign the soles of her shoes with a blue Sharpie, so everyone she loved could walk down the aisle with her. One bride saw a pair of shoes on Pinterest that were covered with pearls. She bought beads and bedazzled her shoes.” Kelli Jaeger’s favorite color is green, so she chose a bright green pair of shoes to wear under her wedding gown. At the reception, Jaeger changed into a pair of green Chuck Taylor low tops and her bridesmaids followed suit with black Chucks. Jaeger also added a little pizzazz to the soles of her bright green sandals. She used rhinestones to spell I on her left foot and DO on the right. “I was looking on the Internet for ideas and came across a girl who had done that and I loved the idea. I bought rhinestone letters at

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When Carrie finally did marry Big at City Hall wearing a white suit, she had those "Something Blue" Manolo Blahniks on her feet. But you don’t have to wear blue shoes to have something blue in your footwear. Kendra Waltermire was looking for a creative way to incorporate something blue into her wedding day apparel. “I was talking with friends and we were remembering in high school having our friends sign our shoes. That’s when it hit me,” she says. Waltermire wore shimmery, champagne flats for her wedding day. Before the ceremony, she had family members and close friends sign the soles of her shoes with a blue Sharpie. “I did it the day of the wedding so I could capture their thoughts at that moment. At first people were confused, but once I explained that I wanted everyone I loved to walk down the aisle with me they were happy to sign,” she says.

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According to a study by the Creighton University Center for Marriage and Family, money is one of the biggest obstacles to satisfaction in the lives of newly-married couples. The study found that debt brought into marriage, the couples’ financial situation, balancing job and family and the frequency of sexual relations were the biggest concerns among newlyweds. But personal finance is one obstacle that can be avoided—or at least eased—prior to walking down the aisle. Of course, talking about the reception and planning the honeymoon are much more fun than discussing your attitudes toward debt and sav- (Continued on page 188)

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Every couple runs into the question of whether to keep separate accounts or combine accounts after marriage, but there is no right answer. It is an individual decision that must

be based on each couple’s situation. Donna Wilson, Financial Advisor with Edward Jones, says there are benefits to keeping a join account. “It may help consolidate the financial relationship easier if you have a joint account for paying the big bills, such as the mortgage.” Joseph Sheehan, a Principal of Moneta Group LLC, says keeping separate accounts

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may help resolve some financial issues. “If both spouses are working, I recommend keeping separate accounts. They should have both names on the accounts, but each is responsible for his or her own account. They can decide who pays which bills from their own account. Maybe he pays the mortgage and she pays all utilities. Each would have to help pay down debt and contribute to the savings plan. Whatever is left over is each person’s to spend or save.” Elizabeth Mannen, Vice President of Investments and Accredited Asset Management Specialist with Wells Fargo Advisors, recommends that couples keep separate accounts and have a join account for household expenses. But if couples face a disparity in income, problems can arise. “I suggest that couples give to the expenses on a percentage basis. You can’t split the costs 50/50 if one person is making twice as much as the other,” she says.

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Mannen urges couples to discuss what costs will be covered by the joint account. It can include living expenses, utilities, car payments or even vacations. The point is that you agree on the parameters as a couple. It’s important that you make these decisions before marriage and make them in a non-emotional state. Try to keep your heart out of the finances and if you run into trouble, get help from a financial advisor. “It should be a big warning sign if you can’t agree on finances before marriage. These issues don’t diminish after the wedding, they are magnified,” says Mannen.

Whether or not you are the person who incurred debt, it has a large affect on your financial future as a couple. It is important to have open and honest communication about debt and how you plan to handle it. “For starters, the couple needs to sit 188

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down and ask a few questions. Talk about what debt you have. Maybe one person has student loans, maybe one already has a mortgage, car loan or credit card debt. You need to establish a payment plan for paying down debt as a couple. What are your thoughts and what is the timeframe for paying down these loans? Maybe she was going to take them to term and he wants to pay them off in a year so they can achieve their secondary goal of buying a home. You need to set goals, compromise and find ways to reduce debt together so you can make a plan to reach your longterm financial goals together,” says Wilson. Mannen says one common misunderstanding among couples is that debt comes out of your joint pocket regardless of who accumulated the debt. “One of the biggest things couples need to realize is that personal debt will affect both of you. If he has seven years of med school debt, she has to realize that will affect when and if they can buy a home, what size of home they will be able to buy. Debt affects your ability as a couple to acquire assets,” explains Mannen.

that will prevent you from being able to do it.” Assets

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“I suggest that couples give to the expenses on a percentage basis. You can't split the costs 50/50 if one person is making twice as much as the other.” Reducing debt is the first step to establishing a savings plan as a couple. So if you and your husband want to buy a house or plan to start a family soon, eliminating debt is a priority. “You need to look at your income and decide how much you need to live on a monthly basis. Hopefully you have some discretionary income that can be put toward debt, ” says Sheehan. “Pay off your most expensive debt first. In most cases there is a minimum payment, but if you have the financial wherewithal, pay all you can to the highest interest charging debt.” Once you’ve retired a debt, Sheehan tells couples to recognize their accomplishment. “When you pay off that debt, go out and celebrate reasonably to congratulate yourself. Then take whatever you were putting toward that debt and put it toward the next one. Debt is the most devastating drag on what you want to achieve. Be it a home, children or furniture, debt is the thing

savings, retirement plans, savings bonds or CDs. Find out where your resources are and how to best put them to work for you. “Make sure you are taking full advantage of savings opportunities in the right order. For example, if your employer offers matching savings for a 401(k) are you putting all you should into that first? Too many married couples find their investments are in disarray.

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It would be a shame to be married 20 years and save well, but not in the proper vehicles or in the right order to maximize your savings potential,” says Wilson. Sheehan recommends setting your goals and tailoring your assets to achieve them. “I recommend making a list of what you want to accomplish over the next three years, ten years. Funding your retirement is important, but you

your 401(k) and you have enough money in your savings account. What will you do with additional money? One person may want to bury it in the backyard while the other wants to invest in hedge funds. You need to decide how you will handle investment decisions as a couple,” says Sheehan. Budget

One of the most difficult aspects of financial planning is establishing and sticking to a budget, particularly if you are you and your spouse have different attitudes about spending. “Often times the way we approach finances in a marriage is wired by our parents and we don’t all come wired the same way. Conversations about how you will achieve your financial goals will help avoid problems later. Money can really become a control issue in the marriage,” says Sheehan. Maybe your husband-to-be has a weakness for electronic gadgets or maybe you like to splurge on designer shoes and clothing. Planning a budget may require some give and take from both individuals. By taking a thorough look at your spending, you can typi-

Financial To Do List for Newlyweds 1. Change your beneficiaries. Look at all of your assets – investment accounts, 401(k) plans, IRAs, insurance policies, etc. – to review your beneficiary designations and ensure they will go to your spouse should something happen to you. This is especially important for life insurance policies and retirement plans. Some default to the spouse, but it’s wise to verify. Wilson says that beneficiary designations are crucial if there was a divorce prior to the marriage or if children from a previous marriage are involved. “The new couple has to state their wishes. If the wife has two children from a previous marriage and the husband has none but then they have a child together, you need to make sure the beneficiaries are changed appropriately.” 2. Review insurance coverage. Review current life insurance coverage or get life insurance if you don’t have it already. “This is a very important area that is commonly overlooked by young couples,” says Wilson. “If you need both incomes to manage expenses, you need to cover that through life insurance. It becomes even more important

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cally find expenditures to cut out in order to increase savings. “Never trade what you want the most for what you want at the moment. So if what you want the most is to retire at 55, then you can’t trade that for what you want at the moment, which might be a new set of golf clubs or a pair of Louis Vuittons,” says Mannen. As in every area of marriage, you must be willing to compromise. Maybe some months the shoes win or you and your husband agree to splurge on a vacation. But remember not to sabotage your long-term goals for short-term pleasures. Wilson suggests that couples make sure they include regular payment into a savings plan as part of a monthly budget. “Pay yourself first like a bill. No one is going to do it for you. Put money away for the future, whether it is a short-term goal of saving for a home or a long-term goal of retirement or college savings for future children,” she says. Setting a budget is one area where you and your husband may find a financial planner helpful.

“You don’t have to take it all on yourselves. Sit down with a financial advisor to discuss your collective needs, make priorities and set goals. Then meet with that person on a regular basis to make sure you are sticking to the plan and approaching your goals together. If one spouse is spending above and beyond the plan, that needs to be addressed and compromised to get back on common ground,” says Wilson.

Paying Bills

Typically one spouse takes on the responsibility of paying the bills. Or perhaps one of you keeps the files organized and the other writes the checks. However you decide to organize the duties, make sure both people are familiar with each other’s responsibilities. You never know when illness or travel may require one person to take on all the duties.

if you have children.” Additionally, review your health insurance plans to determine the best option for you as a couple. It may be best to have both spouses on one plan or it may be more efficient to retain separate plans. Look at both coverage and cost to determine what is best for you. 3. Review retirement plans. Take a look at the retirement plans offered by your employer and make sure you are taking full advantage of the saving opportunities. “The money you invest early has the chance to grow the longest,” says Mannen. Sheehan suggests comparing plans to see if one offers better savings. “If you’re both putting three percent in your plans, but one employer matches 100 percent of the first six percent you contribute and the other matches 50 percent of the first three percent, put more money in the better savings plan.” 4. Make a will or update your will. Seek the advice of an estate-planning attorney to determine your needs. Along with a will, consider establishing a health care directive and durable power of attorney.

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For Richer, Not Poorer “I think it should be the person who wants to do it, but in some cases both people want to do it. One couple I know takes turns each year, so every January 1 they have a complete turnover of the books. That’s a little extreme, but you do need to work out who is going to pay which bills,” says Sheehan. Furthermore, couples need to communicate throughout their marriage to avoid one

person feeling as if they have no control over financial issues. Keep your records very accessible so if one partner passes away the other knows how to access all financial information. Taxes

Typically, married couples will file a joint tax return. There are penalties for filing separately that usually make it an unattractive option.

However, the best way to find out is to run the scenario both ways. In some cases there may be a situation where filing separately is best. Make sure you look at your withholding to determine if it should be adjusted after marriage. “If you were filing singly with no dependents but now you are married and you have a mortgage, you may be able to withhold less,” says Sheehan. “Don’t give the government more than you have to.” Patience and Planning

Money problems are one of the leading causes of divorce. As difficult as it may be to talk about money, it’s crucial to the success of your marriage. Some couples find it easiest to designate a time each week for discussing financial issues. You’ll need to find what works best for your marriage and make a commitment to stick to it.

Reducing debt is the first step to establishing a savings plan as a couple. So if you and your husband want to buy a house or plan to start a family soon, eliminating debt is a priority. “Communication is the number one key. Sit down and review your debts and assets. Look at your entire financial situation. Seek the advice of a professional if needed. Set goals and find the best ways to reach those goals. Review your finances to make sure you are sticking to the plan. Get on a systematic savings plan. Don’t just sit back and see what happens or hope that at the end of the year you’ll have some money to put into savings. Take advantage of opportunities for savings,” says Wilson. Your debt isn’t going to disappear overnight and your assets aren’t going to balloon immediately, but having a long-term plan in place will enable you to reach your goals. “The important thing is to recognize that you aren’t going to be able to do as much as you want as far as savings at first, especially if you are paying down debt and trying to buy a house. Keep your expectations reasonable. Some people get frustrated because it takes so long, and they abandon the plan, but that isn’t the right answer. If you stick with it you’ll see that each year you are making progress,” says Sheehan. ♥ 192

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tract carefully. Not good to get smacked with $50-a-minute internet use. Decide: Where (in what and in which bag)

reasonable reasons. • Ultimately, it may allow re-scheduling a trip for a typically nominal ($99 person) fee. • Read carefully. Read fine print. Ask questions. Ask the pros (travel agents). PRE-PRIMP…

• Get mani/pedis and haircuts before leaving to hit the beach or the boulevards ready to

go. (If honeymoon directly follows wedding, this is likely not necessary. Truth: Resort spas have allure; so book even before trip departure. • Ponder the pre-tan. Best to take sunscreen and avoid the whole issue. • Practice fitness before leaving. A strong core helps when carrying luggage, and overall fitness/toning is advantageous for those jumping on jet skis, climbing cathe-

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Carrying around a birth certificate doesn't work. Apply at least 6 weeks prior to your departure date and get a passport. All countries, including Mexico and Canada, will require it. will you carry your passport, license, tickets, and important phone numbers? Currency: What’s widely acceptable where you’re going? Euros, pounds, American dollars? Have some in hand, along with your credit cards. Phone numbers: Have travel agent phone in your list/speed dial. They are direct line to making anything that might be “wrong” go “right.” PAPERWORK, PART 2… Travel insurance deserves more than a glance.

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dral steps and skiing the Alps. • Promenade in new footwear! Try on and wear any new shoes. Test out the new hiking boots before packing those 5-pounders. Things like blisters (and sunburns) are honeymoon no-no’s. PACKING, SERIOUSLY…

Even though returning honeymooners often confess they over packed, do not think about

that now. Load up. The suitcase can be edited the last few nights before departure. And what are you throwing in that suitcase? Shop now, stateside, to save big bucks. Hotel gift shops and those cool contempo hospitality vending machines with everything in little envelopes like aspirin, stain removers, hair pins and nail files are handy, but can be pricey. Zip lock bags, yes really, are great for packing. Not only are they waterproof but allow complete visibil-

ity. You (and the TSA) can see what you have at a glance. Little must-haves that take up no space:

• Sunscreen and lip balm. • Aloe vera lotion—because you didn’t pack the sunscreen! • Sunglasses – several pair. • Crushable sun hat and baseball cap, for both of you.

• Insect repellent wipes and Band-Aids. • Pain reliever, antacid and antihistamine; also motion sickness med. • Deck of cards: Great pastime when a flight’s delayed, for camping evenings or beachside huts…just because. No batteries needed. • Empty canvas tote– for shopping, carrying stuff to pool/beach and getting souvenirs home. • Stain stick to spot clean your favorite threads, immediately! • Scotch tape– as lint remover, to hold up a hem or tape love notes all over the bathroom mirror. Bigger Must-Haves

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hotel library, and the third? Who doesn’t travel without a hot-off-the-press magazine? • Chargers! All of them: for phone, iPod, camera, e-reader. Clothes

• Evening wrap: sweater, shawl, pashmina. Cool nights often follow warm days. The wrap can dress up an outfit. See “accessories.” • Lingerie, undies (get ‘em coordinated) and nightwear. • Bathing suits AND cover-up which allows walking through lobbies/ dining areas. • Accessories – jewelry, belts, bags – for changing basic style. • Little black dress and sundresses. • Jeans, shorts, tops and tees. Coordinate “outfits,” then roll and pack ‘em. • Evening purse, day tote. • Sandals, flops and old sneakers to ruin in rain forest mud or rocky mountain streams. • Packing for him, too? He needs at least polo, shoes and khakis, for dining.

that day. A little cash can goes a long way when bargaining at the market. On safety: Resorts have security. Like anywhere however, be attentive to surroundings at night. On getting around: Investigate car rental. In some countries, it’s cheaper (and avoid getting lost) to hire a driver/taxi. On drinking water: Out-of-country, drink approved water only. Ask its source and what your greens were washed in.

On language: It’s worth brushing up on the language(s) of your host country. While you may not be fluent, your polite efforts are appreciated. Note that English speakers are found in even far flung places.

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shoot camera with SD card and charger, and what about an underwater camera, available in disposable format? Cash – for off-site vendors and side trips. Guidebook – because you’re not taking your laptop to look things up. A journal – because you’re not taking your laptop to write things down. A (small) candle – for atmosphere, celebration. Small gift/token for him. POINTS FROM THE PROS TO CONSIDER… On sleeping: “The honeymoon is not the aver-

age vacation nor is it something you can do over, so we recommend getting the best room that the budget will allow…the honeymoon couple should have a room that is romantic, unique, memorable and totally stress-free,” Mike Schellhase at the Travel Haus St. Louis said. So if it comes down to spending on a fabulous room and therefore cutting your stay one night shorter, do it. On cash: Get $100 in the currency of the country you’re visiting to cover a cab, maybe a meal, a quick coffee. Debit and credit cards work for in-country cash, dependent on rate of exchange FALL/WINTER 2012 • www.bridestl.com STLWB_0907FW_PastaHouse.indd 1

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call most of the shots. Most guys let their beloved run the show, and male guests will come to any wedding for the free food and drink. But that doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t mean guys donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have opinions on what goes down before, during and after the big day. The men I talked to actually had some pretty strong views on wedding rituals, along with some highly entertaining answers. On Couplesâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Showers:

Asking guys to show up to a shower sparked quite a debate, even with assurance that beer would be offered. Ryan said: â&#x20AC;&#x153;Showers are the one thing meant for the women. I think my friends would have laughed at me if I would have invited them to a couplesâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; shower.â&#x20AC;? Newly married Geoff agrees: â&#x20AC;&#x153;The thought of going to any shower sounds comparable to having to attend the ballet recital of my wifeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s second cousinâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s six year-old. Even if there was beer, it would take away from the original point of the thing. I am for keeping meaningful functions just like they are.â&#x20AC;? Leave the showers to the ladies, thinks Matt. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Most men have to be heavily persuaded to attend a couplesâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; shower, and most likely don't really enjoy themselves,â&#x20AC;? said Matt. But some guys are coming around to the idea of couplesâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; showers. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m more open to this then I was before,â&#x20AC;? said Brian, who is engaged. â&#x20AC;&#x153;My fiancĂŠe described it as just a party with presents. But to me, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s forcing my friends to come to a formal thing. I don't like to get all dressed up to open up picture frames and cookie sheets. But if youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re going to do it, skip the games. Guys are definitely not interested in any of that. Provide beer and weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll find someone to discuss sports with.â&#x20AC;?

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Joe and his friends arrived at the end of his fiancée’s shower after a stop at a pub and were happy with that arrangement. “Guys don’t need to be there for the gift opening or for the games. If it resembles more of a party than a shower, I’m good with that,” Joe said. Reed also emphasizes the party portion of the shower. “It’s a fun way to get together with both the bride’s and the groom’s friends,” Reed said. “As long as there are not six or seven showers I’m supposed to attend, I have no problem with them.” Just-engaged Chris echoes Brian’s thoughts. “I haven’t had to go to many of these, but the ones I’ve attended usually aren’t that painful,” Chris said. “As a guy, it is fair-

On Combined Bachelor/Bachelorette Parties

This one was absolutely, vehemently unanimous, with comments such as “Separate all the all way!,” “Give me a break!,” “Are you kidding? Not even an option!” and “Bad idea!” Though some guys seemed offended by the question merely being asked, others did give further explanation. Joe said: “The rehearsal dinner and the wedding are for everybody [and

possibly the aforementioned couples’ shower]. The bachelor and bachelorette parties need to be kept separate.” Brian agrees, and not necessarily because of all the inevitable drunken debauchery. He said, “Although some bachelor parties may involve adult entertainment of some variety, most guys would not consider that an essential ingredient of a fun bachelor party. Most guys

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ly simple to make friends with other guys, especially talking about sports or how good the food is.” He’s also hoping his fiancée isn’t the only one cashing in at the shower. “When we get married, I’d like to have some cool stuff that I won’t necessarily want to buy. I’m not expecting my fiancée to register for them on her own, and I wouldn’t expect to get them in a traditional shower. I don’t care about the font on the monogrammed towels, but I do, however, want a specific grill, the right lawn equipment, and a bunch of other guys’ stuff.” Also aware of the gift-getting opportunities is Brian. “I am a big fan of maximizing the amount of gifts I get and a big fan of parties, especially when they are in my honor,” said Brian. “Couples’ showers are a good time. If it feels like an obligation to attend one, you need to find more entertaining friends.”

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What Guys Really Think just want to ‘dude-out,’ which warrants a separate bachelor party.” Jake is thinking of his friends when he thinks of a good bachelor party, bless his little heart. “Nowadays, the bachelor party isn’t just for the groom, it’s for his friends. Hanging out with your wife and her friends has the potential for serious disaster. I’m not saying go "Hangover" crazy, but there has

to be one party for the guys and one for the girls,” Jake said. Reed can speak to that. “I have a friend that told all of his guy friends he was having his bachelor party in Las Vegas. Everyone was excited until they found out it was a joint party with the bride and her friends. Now hardly any of his friends are going,” said Reed.

On Rehearsal Dinners

It is tradition for the groom and his family to foot the bill for the rehearsal dinner. Does that practice still sit well with guys? Overall, yes. “I think it’s nice for the groom and his family to give the bride and her family a night off from arranging, hosting and paying the expenses,” Joe said. Geoff said it’s a good division of duties.

“Instead of having everyone trying to help with everything, it’s good to focus and set roles to keep the butting of heads to a minimum. So, I think the groom’s parents should remain responsible as much as possible,” said Geoff. Ryan believes it’s the least the groom and his family can do: “My dad took care of the bill. He wouldn’t have had it any other way. Usually the bride's parents pay a lot of expenses for the wedding anyway, so I think it should be more of a solo effort by either the groom himself or with the help of his family.” Brian sums it up this way: “If both families can afford it, they might as well go with the conventional method.” On that point, Jake acknowledges: “You can’t tell someone they have to host if they don’t have the resources to do so. It’s impor198

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tant that you and the Mrs. talk about where contributions can come from and how much of the bill you’ll be handling yourself.” Chris feels strongly that he and he alone should pick up the tab: “My fiancée’s family, and friends, my family and friends and our shared friends have been working very hard from the time of the engagement until the end of the reception to make this day perfect. The least I can do is pay for dinner and drinks for everybody.” John’s parents are divorced, but managed to stick to the tradition: “Each parent was looking to help out in their own way, so my mom paid for the food and my dad paid for the liquor. It really didn’t matter who paid for what, but it was nice for us to point out who helped us during our thank-you speeches.”

guys and catch it.” Matt feels it’s outdated, but has seen the competitive side of guys emerge when the stakes are raised. “The only saving grace is if you put a cash prize on catching the garter, Matt said. “Seeing drunk people fight for a dainty piece of cloth is well worth $20.” Another twist on the tradition that Matt enjoys: “When the groom is blindfolded and

the bride is replaced with a grandmother. That’s pretty funny.” Speaking of Grandma, Jake thinks the whole idea is a little unseemly for mixed company: “Who ever thought that sticking a hand up a bride’s dress in front of her grandma was a good idea?” said Jake. Reed also thinks that all those watching and participating are uncomfortable. “Most of the time, the groom

On the Garter Toss

The garter toss is a practice that goes back centuries, but is not something included in every modern-day reception. And if this small sampling of guys is any indication, the tradition is one that is on its way out. “We didn’t do it, and honestly didn’t even consider it,” said Geoff. “The guys don’t exactly dive all over the floor, trying to catch it. The only good thing would be if I was in my 20’s and single. Then I may want the single girls at the wedding to know my status.” Brian concedes that the garter toss is tradition and he can go either way on the subject. “But I will say it’s incredibly awkward for most,” Brian said. “Some people drag you out there because you’re single and they’re not and they feel like it’s some sort of requirement for you to do it. Most of us stand there and try not to catch it so we don’t have to here the constant reminders that we're not married yet.” Chris said nothing makes him head for the bar faster than the bouquet throw and subsequent garter toss. “It can turn into some sort of burlesque show while ridiculous music is being played,” Chris said. “The groom will fling it and most of the time it lands on the floor because those of us that are forced out there don't want anything to do with it. That and the ‘you’re single, you better get out there’ comment from every relative is worse than a sharp stick in the eye.” Geoff, Brian and Chris must be going to different weddings than Ryan, who’s up for a little jostling to get the garter, or at least he was in his bachelor days. “I always enjoyed this tradition as a guest and didn’t mind it as the groom,” said Ryan. “It gives guys a chance to be macho and compete. A little shoving around right before its thrown is always fun. It's a prize, so to speak, if you can beat the other FALL/WINTER 2012 • www.bridestl.com STLWB_1207FW_LamoreRose.indd 1

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What Guys Really Think is thinking: ‘What is my father in law thinking right now?’” John’s opinion is a simple one: “Um, no. I prefer to keep my wife’s undergarments to myself.” On The Next-Day Brunch and Gift-Opening

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Usually the brunches are intimate affairs, with the couple, their immediate families and maybe the wedding party. Sometimes out-of-town guests are also invited. Most of the guys are for this idea—with some stipulations, of course. Opening gifts the next day appeals to Geoff’s practical side. “It’s nice to open the gifts before the honeymoon because a lot of

people give cash and gift cards, and those are lovely things to have before the honeymoon,” said Geoff. “Also with honeymoon websites like Traveler’s Joy, it’s nice to know who helped with what while you are on your trip.” Joe and his wife had a brunch at the bride’s family home the next day, just with their immediate families. “It was nice to see everyone the next day and kind of break down what happened,” Joe said. “I could do without opening the gifts then, though.” Brian also sees the benefits of an intimate gathering the next day. “I can’t say I’m too excited to be forced to open presents early the next day, but it's important,” Brian said. “We’ll be inviting family and the wedding party, if they would like to join. The wedding will probably go by so fast that maybe I won't have enough time to really chat up some family like I normally would.” Ryan, however, thinks opening the gifts is more of a private thing to do with your spouse or just a few family members. Ryan said, “Who really wants to be there for that anyway? You might be talking 200 to 300 people that got you cards and gifts. I wouldn’t want to sit through that.” Matt agrees that if you have a brunch, keep it small. “If you would like to open presents with just your family, I have no problem with that,” said Matt. “I don’t support requiring all the wedding party to attend though. Too many want to get home to catch up with their lives.” Hosting a brunch is the least the couple can do, after the big night celebrated in their honor, said Jake. “It’s not ideal to get up after a late night and be the center of your family’s attention while you open presents,” Jake said. “But it’s a small price to pay for the gifts and your family's support. When I give a nephew a $300 blender one day, he had better fake it through his hangover to thank me in person!” Chris likens the next-day brunch to the visit to the White House by a championship team. Said Chris, “It’s a nice touch, but totally unnecessary. It’s kind of overkill. We had the rehearsal, the rehearsal dinner, maybe a golf outing or a luncheon, the church, the time between the ceremony and the reception, and finally the reception. Congrats to the bride and groom and all, but it is time to move on with life.” Chris also wonders why the couple would open gifts the next day that are from anyone but immediate family members—especially from people who aren’t at the brunch. “Did somebody wrap fresh fruit in these boxes? What’s the rush?” Reed just thinks it would be nice to spread out the excitement a little. “It all goes

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by so fast,” Reed said. “It would be fun to come home from the honeymoon and look forward to opening the gifts.” On Honeymoon Planning

Back in the day, it was custom for the groom to plan the honeymoon for he and his bride. Perhaps the thinking was that the bride is planning everything else, and it’s something the

schedules, a vacation is usually a rare and coveted occasion. Both parties should agree on their best option,” said Brian. Often nowadays, the bride and the groom are both paying for the honeymoon, so even more reason for each to be involved in the planning, said Matt. “Also, this is a good opportunity to start getting used to the art of compromise with your life partner.”

Brian seconds that: “One or the other can take the lead but you have to involve the other person,” said Brian. “My fiancé wants a good beach. I’m Irish and pale so I couldn’t care less about a beach but I want top-shelf liquor. Finding a place that fits both of our wants, in our budget, is a good way to start a marriage.” Aww, you softie. ♥

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“If you would like to open presents with just your family, I have no problem with that. I don’t support requiring all the wedding party to attend though. You might be talking 200 to 300 people that got your cards and gifts. I wouldn’t want to sit through that.” groom could take charge of and help lighten her load. Or that it would be romantic to whisk his bride away to a surprise location. But today’s grooms know better. “The groom could handle the logistics, but the couple should agree on the destination,” Joe said. Brian said planning the trip as a couple is a must in today’s hectic world. “When both the bride and groom have busy work FALL/WINTER 2012 • www.bridestl.com STLWB_1207FW_STLWedConsult.indd 1

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Ah, your crowning glory. Whether you’re going for long, romantic curls, a tight updo, or a glamorous veil and headpiece, practice makes perfect. Chrissy Stojan of Hair By Chrissy at Steeplechase Salon suggests making an appointment for a practice session a couple months in advance, either with your regular

stylist or one you are hiring just for the wedding day. “You want to make sure you love what she does to your hair,” says Stojan. “I always ask to see the wedding dress to make sure the hair and dress does not compete with each other and are cohesive.” Stojan warns against changing your hairstyle after the practice session, as it could drastically change the look for the big day.

Some brides stop getting haircuts in hopes of longer locks. Stojan says brides end up with split ends and a hairstyle they ultimately don’t like. “Clip in extensions are huge this year. They add length and volume,” says Stojan. “They also can help achieve more looks. They are inexpensive and do no damage to your hair.” But it doesn’t just stop with the style. Color is also a key factor. New colors should

New hair color should ideally be done 10 weeks in advance of the weddings. This way you have plenty of time to change it again if it’s a failure, or enough time to make upkeep appointments if it’s a success. ideally be done 10 weeks in advance of the wedding. This way you have plenty of time to change it again if it’s a failure, or enough time to make upkeep appointments if it’s a success. If you already color your hair regularly, it’s best to make an appointment for 7 – 10 days ahead of the wedding to make sure your highlights are fresh. Skin

Take a good, close look at your face. Is your skin dull, crying out for a good facial to get a healthy glow? For chemical peels, micro-dermabrasion, or chronic acne, you’ll want to see a dermatologist. Dr. Madhavi Kandula says peels and micro-dermabrasion are quite common among brides wanting to look their best. “Two to six months in advance is a good time to start to get a good regimen and get good results from procedures and products,” says Kandula. “Most products take at least eight weeks to see improvement, especially things like Retin-A and fading creams.” Dr. Kandula says women with acne need as much time as possible to get clear skin. “Acne should be addressed months ahead, even a year ahead. It definitely takes time to get the skin cleared and then even longer to deal with scarring. For chronic acne, a dermatologist is your best choice. For mild acne, an esthetician can do well.”

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An esthetician at a beauty salon or day spa can hook you up with a facial that will not only give your skin a glow, you’ll also have the bonus of feeling pampered and relaxed. Emily Miller of Emily Miller makeup says if you get facials regularly, schedule yours about a week before the wedding. But if you’re a newbie, book it a month ahead instead. “Breakouts, if they occur, take 2 weeks to surface and 2 weeks to clear,” says Miller. “If the bride wants to do something closer to the wedding date try a firming con-

DO Encourage all bridesmaids to have both their hair and make-up done by a professional. You are investing in your pictures and you want them to look GREAT! DO Share your wedding day timeline with the photographer, make-up artist, hairstylist, family, wedding party members, etc.

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Esthetician Sheila Anglin Jordan at Mallia Salon & Day Spa says brides should wax theirs about a week before saying “I do!”, but only if they’re regular waxers. If you don’t do this treatment regularly, Emily Miller suggests planning in advance. “Start at least 3 months prior to wedding in order to get the shape exactly how [you] want it. Also if there's any 'breakout activ-

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DO Tell those who are notoriously late an earlier time so you don’t have to worry about running late! DO noTs Consume a lot of alcohol the night before your wedding day. Drink at least one liter of water a day leading up to the week before your wedding to allow your skin to look clear, bright, and healthy. This will prevent your eyes from being swollen and allow your skin to be refreshed for the professional in the morning.

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DO noTs Cover your tattoos if they represent something that you and your fiance both love. Do not let this be something your parents or anyone else mandates. If you do want to cover tattoos make sure to discuss it with your makeup artist at your trial session.

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Bridal Beauty Countdown ity' it will clear well before the wedding. Some people break out after their first waxing. After a few more waxings their skin adjusts and no more breakouts occur.” As far as legs, bikini line, or even upper lip go, a week to 10 days in advance is also a good range, but only if you’re a regular waxer. First time waxers should make an appointment two to three months before.

This gives their skin time to react, and in cases of sensitive skin, you don’t want to see a rash in your wedding pics. So go for a trial run that gives your skin plenty of time to heal, if need be. tanning

I’m not at all telling you to spread Crisco on your body, make your own tanning bed out of

tin foil, and lie in the sun for hours like I did in the 70’s. No, no, no! Instead I’m giving you permission to be fake! Spray tanning and other faux tan products applied by a professional can give you a healthy summer glow any time of year… and you won’t walk away looking so orange your friends refer to you as Pumpkin Spice. Makeup artist Tami Scott of Tami Scott Studio says to go for a couple sessions long before the wedding day. “Spray tanning is something that tints the first few layers of your skin and can rub off if done the day or two before.” Scott adds, “First time spray tanners will want to do three tans in advance.

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One year to 6 months ahead See a dermatologist for acne concerns, if needed

6 months to 2 months ahead Practice makeup appointment See dermatologist for skincare regimen & treatments, if needed Waxing session for first timers

2 months ahead Practice hair appointment Spray tan sessions for first timers

10 weeks ahead Experiment with hair color. This is a good time to test out new highlights.

10 days to 1 week ahead Final highlights/hair color appointment. Get a facial. Final waxing appointment

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One alone might not give the depth of color you want. That's why it's good to experiment with it months or weeks prior to the wedding to see what it looks like on you.” Scott suggests doing the final session just 2 days before the event. And she has a tip for making the fake-out look as real as possible. “It's important to exfoliate your body the day before spray tanning to ensure no spots. Then do not exfoliate the couple days after.” makeup

Finally, we can put the whole look together now that your skin is smooth, acne free, and glowing! Makeup artist Debbie Watson suggests having a trial session before the wedding. “I recommend looking through bridal magazines for make up ideas,” says Watson. “Tear out the looks you like and bring them with you to the trial. That's the perfect time to

First time spray tanners will want to do three tans in advance. Once alone might not give the depth of color you want. That's why it's good to experiment with it months or weeks prior to the wedding to see what it looks like on you. try out a few different looks, including different colors on both eyes and lips.” Tami Scott suggests scheduling that practice session up to 6 months in advance. “Most really good makeup people book plenty in advance,” says Scott. “You want someone who is reputable and you know is going to be around for your wedding, whether you meet with them two months ahead or six.” While some brides can be a bit jittery on their wedding day (certainly not YOU, my dear), Scott says making sure you have a good relationship with your makeup artist can help keep you calm. “On the day of your wedding you'll want everyone you come in contact with to feel like a trusted friend.” So ladies, whip out your day planner, download a calendar app on your smart phone, and start scheduling. You’re going to be a beautiful bride! ♥

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band that her friends liked, but she hired them anyway, and came away disappointed. â&#x20AC;&#x153;If you hire wedding planners, their expertise and the relationships and experience they have with vendors is part of what youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re paying for,â&#x20AC;? Ellen said. Megan Curley loved her wedding planner, but she wishes she had hired her from the get-go. â&#x20AC;&#x153;We just hired her for the month leading up to the wedding and the wedding day. She was a lifesaver and made the day of the wedding stress-free,â&#x20AC;? Megan said. â&#x20AC;&#x153;But given how much she helped us out, I should have contacted her earlier, as soon as we started planning.â&#x20AC;?

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Go With Your Gut (And If Not, Go with a Wedding Planner) Sometimes brides cave to pressure from family or friends in choosing their vendors. Ellen Gutierrez, wedding planner with Brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Vision Weddings and Events, has seen it happen. Nothing terrible has resulted, but often the bride wishes she had trusted her wedding plannerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s recommendation. Ellen recalled a bride who wasnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t crazy about a

Consider the Logistics Megan was married in August, and had an outdoor reception. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Looking back, I would have picked a different month for an outdoor reception,â&#x20AC;? Megan said. â&#x20AC;&#x153;August in the Midwest can be miserable for dancing under a tent all night. The weather was so extremeâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;rain and heatâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;that I couldn't stop looking at the forecast in the days leading up to the wedding.â&#x20AC;? Speaking of rain, it rained on Aliâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s wedding day, which was a factor for how her bridal gown fared. â&#x20AC;&#x153;As much as I loved my dress, I wish I had changed for the reception or that my dress had a lighter skirt or train,â&#x20AC;? Ali said.

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Wedding Videography then “During the reception, when I was dancing or even walking around, my dress was very heavy. To make matters worse, the rain made the bottom of my dress pretty muddy and wet.” Though she might not have been able to do it any differently, Megan wishes she and her husband could have taken a longer honeymoon. “Our work schedules only allowed a five day getaway,” Megan said. “We went to Turks and Caicos, which was nice, but not nearly as long as we would have wanted.”

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Timing the Trends Some brides may have included other elements in their weddings, but it’s just a matter of timing-no one had thought of it yet. Erin Darling loves the trend of a couple serving traditional St. Louis snacks at the reception. “I have been to weddings where Gus’s pretzels and Ted Drewes frozen custard were brought out much later in the evening, after everyone has

had a chance to eat dinner and dance awhile,” Erin said. Erin also thinks a particular website would have been fun and helpful in planning her wedding. “Personally, I wish Pinterest was around five years ago! I love ‘pinning’ and I know I would have had a lot of fun making my ‘wedding board,’” said Erin.

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dress, it will make all the difference because it is personal and one-of-a-kind—just like the bride!” Speaking of creating meaningful memories, Ali wishes she had written her own vows. She and her future husband had discussed writing their own vows, then decided to go with the standard vows. “But during the ceremony, when it came time to say our vows, my husband surprised me by writing his own and reading them to me,” Ali said. “It was super sweet and romantic, but I wasn’t sure what to

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Though procuring a wedding license isn’t quite as complicated as the wedding itself, it helps to know the rules. Here they are: 1 All applicants in Missouri and Illinois must receive a license before the ceremony; Saint Louis Bride recommends a minimum of 24 hours. Blood tests are not required in either state. 2 A Missouri license is valid for thirty days from its effective date; an Illinois license for sixty days. 3 Both bride and groom must apply in person. In Missouri, you may apply for a license at any office provided the wedding is to take place within the state. In Illinois, you must apply for and receive a license from the county in which the ceremony will take place.

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ID: driver's license, proof of social security number if absent from license; if 15-17, must be accompanied by custodial parent ($1.00 fee), 18 and under must present certificate of birth as well Phone: 636-949-7505 Fee: $48 (cash only) Jefferson County Jefferson County Administration Center, Room 126, Maple Street (Hillsboro) Hours: 8a.m.-5p.m. Mon.-Fri. ID: driver's license Phone: 636-797-5415 Fee: $51 (cash only) St. Clair County Illinois, County Clerk's Office 10 Public Square (Belleville) Hours: 8:30a.m.-4:30p.m. Mon.-Fri.; 8:30a.m.12:00p.m. Sat. ID: two valid forms of ID (i.e. driver's license, social security card) Phone: 618-277-6600 x2388 Fee: $32 (cash, money order or local check) Madison County Illinois, Administration Building 157 N. Main Street, Suite 109 (Edwardsville) Hours: 8:30a.m.-4:30p.m. Mon.-Fri. ID: State ID, driver's license Phone: 618-692-6290 Fee: $30 (cash only) ♥

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350

250

Dominic’s 314-771-1632, (Ad on page 248) Y 5101 Wilson Avenue, 63110 www.dominicsrestaurant.com Donald Danforth Plant Science Center 314-587-1077, (Ad on page 231) (Butler's Pantry Catering) 975 N. Warson Road, 63132 www.danforthcenter.org

350

250

DoubleTree by Hilton Collinsville/St. Louis 618-345-2800, (Ad on page 178) 1000 Eastport Plaza Drive, Collinsville, 62234 www.doubletree.com

500

350

call

DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel and Conference Center St. Louis 636-532-5000, (Ad on page 178) 16625 Swingley Ridge Road, Chesterfield, 63017 www.doubletree.com

500

350

DoubleTree Westport Hotel 314-212-2110, (Ad on page 178) 1973 Craigshire, 63146 www.doubletreewestport.com

1000

450

Drury Inn & Suites Forest Park 314-646-0770, (Ad on page 81) (Catering by Bartolino's Osteria) 2111 Sulphur Avenue www.druryhotels.com/content/weddings.aspx

300

220

Drury Plaza Chesterfield 636-532-3300, (Ad on page 81) 355 Chesterfield Center East, 63017 www.druryhotels.com/content/weddings.aspx

180

Drury Plaza Hotel St. Louis 888-324-1690, (Ad on page 81) 2 South 4th Street, 63102 www.druryhotels.com/content/weddings.aspx The Edge of Webster, 314-962-6886, (Ad on page 232) 359 Marshall Avenue, 63119 www.theedgeofwebster.com

480

300

250

200

n/a

Embassy Suites St. Louis - Airport 314-739-8929, (Ad on page 216) 11237 Lone Eagle Drive, Bridgeton, 63044 www.stlouisairport.embassysuites.com

250

225

Embassy Suites St. Louis - Downtown 314-269-5900, (Ad on page 248) 610 N. 7th Street, St. Louis 63101 www.stlouisdowntown.embassysuites.com

300

200

call

The Falls Reception & Conference Center 888-538-3354, (Ad on page 95) 300 Admiral Wienel Pkwy., Columbia, IL 62239 www.seethefalls.com

1200

600

Flamingo Bowl, 314-436-6666, (Ad on page 251) 1117 Washington Avenue, 63101 www.flamingobowl.com

300

150

Foundry Art Centre 636-255-0270, (Ad on page 170) 520 North Main Center, St. Charles, 63301 www.foundryartcentre.org

call

420

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Four Seasons Hotel St. Louis, 314-881-5613, (Ad on 105) 999 North Second Street, 63102 www.fourseasons.com/stlouis

500

380

The Franklin Room, 314-664-7706, (Ad on page 234) 816 Allen Avenue, 63104 www.thefranklinroom.net

300

The Gardens at Malmaison 636-458-0313, (Ad on inside back cover) 3519 St. Albans Road, St. Albans, 63073 www.gardensmalmaison.com

240

210

Hilton St. Louis at the Ballpark 314-421-1776, (Ad on page 215) 1 South Broadway, 63102 www.hiltonstlouis.com

900

650

Hilton St. Louis Frontenac 314-993-1100, (Ad on page 219) 1335 S. Lindbergh Blvd, 63131 www.stlouisfrontenac.hilton.com

1000

500

Hilton St. Louis Downtown, 314-554-7092, (Ad on page 135) 400 Olive Street, 63102 www.stlouisdowntown.hilton.com

100

Holiday Inn South County Center, 314-892-3600, (Ad on page 113) 6921 South Lindbergh Boulevard, 63125 www.holidayinn.com Holiday Inn Viking Route 66 314-620-2146, (Ad on page 200) 10709 Watson Road, 63127 www.holidayinn.com

500

325

600

400

Horizon at Harry’s, 314-421-6969 (Ad on page 236) 2144 Market Street, 63103 www.horizonatharrys.com

250

Hyatt Regency St. Louis at the Arch, 314-342-4655 (Ad on page 49) 4th & Chestnut, 63102 www.stlouisarch.hyatt.com

3500 2000

call

Jewel Box, 314-289-5389 Forest Park, 63110

250

160

n/a

Jim Edmonds Steakhouse 314-588-8899, (Ad on page 159) 1900 Locust Avenue, 63103 www.15stl.com

250

150

Kemoll's Restaurant 314-421-0555, (Ad on page 163) 40th Floor, Metropolitan Square, 211 N. Broadway, 63102 www.kemolls.com

350

200

Kemp Auto Museum 636-537-1718, (Ad on page 79) 16955 Chesterfield Airport Rd., 63005 www.kempservices.com

1600

800

Kuhs Farm 314-226-0709, (Ad on page 31) 13061 Spanish Pond Rd., Spanish Lake 63138 www.kuhsfarm.com

10,000 900

reception sites

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Lindell Pavillion/Visitor’s Center 314-961-7588 ext. 221, (Ad on page 22) (Catering St. Louis) 5595 Grand Drive in Forest Park, 63112 www.cateringstlouis.com

350

230

Lodge at Grant’s Trail 314-638-3340, (Ad on page 69) 4398 Hoffmeister, 63125 www.lodgeatgrantstrail.com

125

LoRusso’s Cucina 314-647-6222, (Ad on page 241) 3121 Watson Road, 63139 www.lorussos.com

Lumen Private Event Space, 314-241-5757, (Ad on page 109) Y 600 2201 Locust, 63103 www.lumenstl.com

300

The Mahler Ballroom, 314-361-4411, (Ad on page 245) 4915 Washington Avenue, 63108 www.mahlerballroom.com Millennium Hotel, 314-241-9500, (Ad on page 139) 200 South 4th Street, 63102 www.millenniumhotels.com/stlouis

450

250

3000 2800

call

Missouri Bluffs Golf Club 636-939-6494, (Ad on page inside front cover) #18 Research Park Circle, St. Charles 63304 www.mobluffs.com

200

150

Missouri Botanical Garden 314-577-0200, (Ad on page 22) (Catering St. Louis 961-7588 x221) 4344 Shaw Blvd., 63110 www.cateringstlouis.com

350

200

Missouri History Museum 314-454-3121, (Ad on page 237) (Butler's Pantry Catering) 5656 Lindell, 63112 www.butlerspantry.com

1500

300

Moonrise Hotel 314-721-1111, (Ad on page 213) 6177 Delmar Blvd., 63112 www.moonrisehotel.com

200

Mount Pleasant Winery 636-482-WINE, (Ad on page 214) 5634 High St., Augusta, MO 63332 www.mountpleasant.com

400

300

Nat’l Shrine of Our Lady of the Snows 314-241-3400, (Ad on page 198) 442 S. De Mazenod Dr., Belleville, IL, 62223 www.snows.org

600

400

Neo on Locust, 314-570-9218 (Ad on page 107) 2801 Locust Avenue, 63103 www.neostl.com

1000 600+

n/a

Ninth Street Abbey 314-621-9598, (Ad on page 141) (Patty Long Catering) 1808 S. 9th St., Soulard, 63104 www.pattylongcatering.com

300

250

Old Hickory Golf Club 636-477-8960, (Ad on page 19) #1 Dye Club Drive, St. Peters, 63304 www.oldhickorygc.com

650

550

ask

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OUTDOOR PARTY AREA

ON SITE CATERING

ALLOW CHOICE OF CATERER

ROOM CHARGE

CAKE CUTTING CHARGE

OVERNIGHT GUESTS

Old Post Office (Desco Group), 314-436-0101, (Ad on page 238) 815 Olive Street, Suite 19, 63101

1000

250

Old Rock House 314-588-0505, (Ad on page 153) 1200 S. 7th Street, 63104 www.oldrockhouse.com Oliva on the Hill 314-961-7588 x221 (Ad on page 22) 4915 Daggett, 63110 www.cateringstlouis.com

600

400

150

100

Omni Majestic Hotel 314-436-2355 1019 Pine Street, 63101 www.omnimajestic.com

150

115

Orlando Gardens Banquet & Conference Center, 314-638-6660, (Ad on page 69) 4300 Hoffmeister, 63125 www.orlandogardens.com

1000

900

Orlando Gardens Banquet & Conference Center, 314-842-3316, (Ad on page 69) 8352 Watson Rd., 63119 www.orlandogardens.com

950

850

Overlook Farm, 573-242-3838, (Ad on page 228) 901 S. Hwy. 79, Clarksville 63336 www.overlookfarmmo.com

400+ 400+

Palladium Saint Louis 314-799-8886, (Ad on page 229) 1400 Park Place, 63104 www.palladium-stl.com

700

400

Patty Long Catering at Point of View, (Ad on page 141) 720 Olive Street, 30th Floor, 63101 www.pattylongcatering.com

350

Peabody Opera House, 314-622-2500 (Ad on page 97) 1400 Market Street, 63101 www.peabodyoperahouse.com

375

Pear Tree Inn Union Station 314-241-3200 x7077, (Ad on page 81) 2211 Market Street, 63103 www.druryhotels.com/content/weddings.aspx

500

300

call

Pevely Farms Golf Club 636-938-7000, (Ad on page inside front cover) 400 Lewis Road, Eureka 63025 www.pevelyfarms.com

250

150

The Piper Palm House 314-771-4410, (Ad on page 232) Y 275 (Butlerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Pantry Catering) 4256 Magnolia, 63110 www.butlerspantry.com

150

reception sites

Regency Conference Center 618-624-4499, (Ad on page 133) 400 Regency Park Drive, O'Fallon, IL 62269 www.theregencyconferencecenter.com

1800 1000

Renaissance Grand and Suites Hotel 314-418-5820, (Ad on page 43) 800 Washinton Avenue, Downtown www.renaissancestlouisgrand.com

2000 1500

call

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The Ritz Carlton, St. Louis 314-863-6300, (Ad on page 13) 100 Carondelet Plaza, 63105 www.ritzcarlton.com

1000

800

call

River Bottom 314-621-9598, (Ad on page 141) (Patty Long Catering) 63104 www.pattylongcatering.com Russo's Spazio at Westport 314-576-0400, (Ad on page 252) 12031 Lackland Road, 63146 www.russosgourmet.com

500

350

500

250

Saint Louis Science Center 314-289-1410, (Ad on page 55) 5050 Oakland Avenue, 63110 www.slsc.org

1000

600

call

The Sheldon Concert Hall & Ballroom 314-533-9900, (Ad on page 225) 3648 Washington Blvd., 63108 www.sheldoncancerthall.org

700

500

call

Sheraton Clayton Plaza 314-719-4302, (Ad on page 210) 7730 Bonhomme Avenue, 63105 www.sheratonclaytonhotel.com

500

320

call

Sheraton Westport Lakeside Chalet 314-212-2110, (Ad on page 181) 191 Westport Plaza, 63146 www.sheratonwestport.com

1000

500

Sheraton Westport Plaza Hotel 314-212-2110, (Ad on page 181) 900 Westport Plaza, 63146 www.sheratonwestport.com

500

250

Sheraton St. Louis City Center 314-231-5007, (Ad on page 203) 400 South 14th Street, 63103 www.sheraton.com/stlouiswedding

800

550

Shrewsbury Ballroom and Banquet Center 314-647-1003 (Ad on page 247) 5200 Shrewsbury Avenue, Shrewsbury, 63119 www.cityofshrewsbury.com

300

240

Sqwires Annex 314-865-3522 (Ad on page 253) 1415 South 18th Sreet, 63104 www.sqwires.com

200

150

Sqwires Front Room, 314-865-3522 (Ad on page 251) 1415 S. 18th Street, 63104 www.sqwires.com

190

150

St. Louis Artists’ Guild 314-961-7588 x221, (Ad on page 22) (Catering St. Louis) Two Oak Knoll Park, 63105 www.cateringstlouis.com

150

110

St. Louis Symphony 314-533-2500 718 North Grand Blvd., 63103 www.stlsymphony.org/rentals

300

140

call

St. Louis Union Station Marriott 314-621-5262, (Ad on page 41) 1820 Market Street, Suite 120, 63103 www.unionstation.marriott.com

500

750

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“We can accommodate any size party and can be hired individually.” “Each artist has her own web site, so browse our galleries.”

314.440.8221 www.bonnieboze.com

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St. Louis Zoo, 314-646-4855, (Ad on page 27) One Government Drive, Forest Park www.stlzoo.org

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500

Starlight Roof at the Chase 314-367-1700, (Ad on page 17) 212 North Kingshighway, 63108 www.chaseparkplaza.com

600

340

call

Stone Hill Winery & Restaurant 1-800-909-WINE 1110 Stone Hill Hwy., Hermann, 65041

500

300

Stonewolf Golf Club 618-624-4653, (Ad on inside front cover) 1195 Stonewolf Trail, Fairview Heights, IL 62208 www.stonewolfgolf.com The Studio Inn 636-458-0131, (Ad on page inside back cover) 454 Studio Road, St. Albans, 63073 www.studioinnstalbans.com

450

350

240

210

Sugar Creek Winery and Vineyards 636-987-2400, (Ad on page 192) 125 Boone Country Lane, Defiance, MO 63341 www.sugarcreekwines.com

300

250

ask

Sunset Hills Country Club 618-656-9380, (Ad on inside front cover) 2525 Highway 157 South, Edwardsville, IL 62025 www.sunsethillscountryclub.com

500

330

Top of the Met 314-421-0555, (Ad on page 163) (Catering by Kemoll's) One Metropolitan Square, 42nd Floor, 63102 www.kemolls.com

600

400

The Westin St. Louis 314-621-2000, (Ad on page 101) 811 Spruce St., 63102 www.westin.com/stlouiswedding

500

275

Whitmoor Country Club 636-926-9622, (Ad on inside front cover) 1100 Whitmoor Drive, St. Charles 63304 www.whitmoorgolf.com

750

500

Windows Off Washington 314-241-5555, (Ad on page 184) 701 North 15th Street—10th floor, 63103 www.wowbanquets.com

1500 1000

Windows On Washington 314-241-5555, (Ad on page 184) 1601 Washington Ave., 63103 www.wowbanquets.com

500

350

Villa Antonio Winery 636-475-5008, (Ad on page 7) 3662 Linhurst Road, Hillsboro, MO 63050 www.villaantoniowinery.com

300

Xavier Grand Ballroom 314-427-6771, (Ad on page 239) (Russo's Catering) 3628 Lindell Blvd., 63108 www.russosgourmet.com

450

350

Wonderland, 314-422-6141, (Ad on page 165) Downtown St. Louis www.wonderlandstl.com

700

450

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ESSENTIALGUIDE A list of local businesses to make planning your wedding in the St. Louis metropolitan area easier

Alterations Bachelorette Parties Beauty & Health Bridal Gowns & Salons Bridal Shows Cakes & Confections Calligraphers Caterers Ceremony Sites Consultants/Event Planners Decorations Destination Weddings Favors

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Florists Formalwear Foundations & Lingerie Gifts Gown Preservation Honeymoons Ice Sculptures Invitations/Stationers Jewelry Lighting & Décor Mother of the Bride Music & Entertainment Officiants

225 227 227 227 228 228 228 228 229 230 230 230 232

Online Planning Photo Booths Photographers Reception Sites Registry Rehearsal Dinner Sites Rentals Special Services Special Touches Transportation Videographers Wedding Night Accommodations

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fall 2012 trunk show calendar It’s not a fashion show. It’s not for every bride. But it may be where you find the dress of your dreams. Meet designers (or company reps) with their new line of gowns, shoes or accessories at the following shops—be sure to schedule an appointment: ✦ Fleur De Lis Bridal Boutique 314-721-2457

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Elizabeth Fillmore, July 13-15 Alyne, August 24-26

✦ Frew's bridal salon 877-274-3321 Bonny Bridal, July 27-28 & August 3-4 Maggie Sottero, August 24-25 Mori Lee Bridal, September 1 Watters & WTOO, October 26-27

✦ Simply Elegant Bridal 314-241-8201 Alvina Valenta, July 20-21 Meg Jewelry, July 27-28 Allure Bridals, September 28-29

✦ Town and Country Bridal Boutique 314-991-5400 Monique Lhuillier, August 24-26 BLISS by Monique Lhuillier, August 24 - September 2 Lea-Ann Belter, September 21-23 Amsale, October 19-21 Augusta Jones, November 16-18

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WEDDING CONSULTATION & COORDINATION

BACHELORETTE PARTIES/Bridal Showers

TINGE - Salon and Design Atelier 9664 Clayton Road 314.395.5810 www.designsbydeyne.com

Big Daddyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s 118 Morgan Street 314-621-6700 www.bigdaddystl.com

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Charles P. Stanley Cigar Co. 1000 Washington Ave. 314-436-3500 www.stanleycigarco.com FLAMINGO BOWL 1117 Washington Avenue, Downtown 314-436-6666 www.flamingobowl.net Unleashed Entertainment 314-805-0044 www.sextoypartiesstl.com

BEAUTY & HEALTH Ballwin Dental Care 14738 Manchester Rd. 636-227-2552 www.ballwindentalcare.com Bonnie Boze 314-440-8221 www.bonnieboze.com

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TAMI SCOTT MAKEUP & HAIR STUDIO 2027 South 11th Street, Soulard 314-346-8834 www.tamiscottstudio.com

LOOKS BY LISA 314-229-1964 www.looksbylisa.com MACYâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S www.macys.com OC Tan 2 U 5350 Devonshire 314-808-1680 www.octan2ustl.com

BELLA BRIDESMAID 13428 Clayton Road 314-205-1191 www.bellabridesmaid.com BERRYBRIDGE 9904 Clayton Road 314- 997-1439 www.berrybridgebridal.com BLUSHING BRIDE 4632 Illinois Street Fairview Heights, IL 618-257-7600 www.blushingbrideshop.com Fleur De Lis Bridal Boutique, LLC 8109 Maryland Avenue, Clayton 314-721-2457Â www.fleurdelisbridal.com Frewâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Bridal Salon 305 Piasa St. Alton, IL 877-274-3321 www.bestbridalprices.com SIMPLY ELEGANT BRIDAL 1004 Olive Street, Downtown 314-241-8201 www.simplyelegantbridalstl.com TOWN AND COUNTRY BRIDAL BOUTIQUE Plaza Frontenac 314-991-5400 www.townandcountrybride.com THE ULTIMATE BRIDE 1115 S. Big Bend Blvd. 314-961-9997 www.theultimatebride.com WEDDING GALLERY COUTURE SALON 801 North 2nd Street, St. Charles 636-724-9009 www.weddinggallerycouture.com WEDDING GALLERY FLAGSHIP SALON 425 Clark Street, St. Charles 636-724-7038 www.weddinggalleryweb.com

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THE CUP 28 Maryland Plaza, Central West End 314-367-6111 1057 Century Drive, Edwardsville, IL 618-656-2287 www.cravethecup.com ENCORE BAKING COMPANY 2730 Sutton Blvd., Maplewood 314-832-4303 www.encorebaking.com Kakao Chocolate Kako on Jefferson 2301 S. Jefferson 314-771-2310 Kakao Maplewood 7272 Manchester 314-645-4446 www.kakaochocolate.com LUBELEYâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S BAKERY & DELI, INC. 7815 Watson Rd., Shrewsbury 314-961-7160 www.lubeleysbakery.com NADOZ EURO BAKERY & CAFE Coronado Ballroom Location 3701 Lindell Boulevard 314-446-6800 #12 The Boulevard St. Louis, Brentwood 314-726-3100 www.nadozcafe.com FALL/WINTER 2012 â&#x20AC;˘ www.bridestl.com STLWB_1207FW_Kakao.indd 1

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Essential Guide SARAH’S CAKE SHOP & CATERING CO. 10 Clarkson Wilson Centre, Chesterfield 636-728-1140 www.sarahscafestl.com

RUSSO’S GOURMET CATERING 9904 Page Avenue 314-427-6771 www.russosgroumet.com

SUGAREE BAKING CO. 1242 Tamm Ave 314-645-5496 www.sugareebaking.com

STEVEN BECKER FINE DINING 3701 Lindell Boulevard 314-367-4848 www.stevenbeckerfd.com

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VILLA FAROTTO 636-519-0048 www.villafarotto.com

CALLIGRAPHICS 636-441-7225 www.calligraphics.info

CATERERS Also see REHEARSAL DINNER on page 235 and the RECEPTION SITES grid on page 212. Please note that many of the restaurants listed here may also be able to help you with small, intimate wedding receptions. BUTLER’S PANTRY 314-664-7680 www.butlerspantry.com CATERING BY ORLANDOS 4300 Hoffmeister, 314-638-6660 8352 Watson Road, 314-842-3316 www.orlandogardens.com CATERING ST. LOUIS 314-961-7588 x221 www.cateringstlouis.com CES & JUDY'S CATERING 314-991-6700 www.cesandjudys.com GREGORY’S CREATIVE CUISINE 314-481-4481 www.gregoryscreativecuisine.com HOLLYBERRY CATERING 284 East Avenue 314-968-9239 www.hollyberrycatering.com LO RUSSO’S CUCINA 3121 Watson Road 314-647-6222 www.lorussos.com Pairings A Catering Company 1013 McCausland Ave. 314-644-6800 www.pairingscateringstl.com THE PASTA HOUSE COMPANY CATERING 2200 59th Street 314-644-1400 www.thepastahouse.com/catering/ PATTY LONG’S NINTH STREET ABBEY RESTAURANT & CATERING 1808 S. Ninth, Soulard 314-621-9598 www.pattylongcatering.com

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CEREMONY SITES See RECEPTION SITES listings on page 212.

CONSULTANTS & EVENT PLANNERS ABSOLUTELY IN 314-315-1775 www.absolutelyin.com ALRED WEDDING CONSULTANTS, INC. 636-922-4778 www.alredweddingconsultants.com Before I Do 314-640-2123 www.beforeidostl.com BRIDE’S VISION WEDDINGS AND EVENTS 314-580-2381 www.bridesvision.com CAROLYN BURKE – WEDDING LIAISON 314-821-4844 www.weddingliaison.com COSMOPOLITAN EVENTS 314-249-9107 www.cosmopolitanevents.com COUTURE FLORAL AND EVENTS 314-494-6610 www.cfloral.com Dishy Event Planning 314-246-9148 www.dishyeventplanning.com Divine Events, LLC 314.805.3587 www.mydivineevents.com Effortless Events by Michelle 314-810-6600 www.eebymichelle.com

LUCKY YOU 314-210-7764 www.luckyyoustl.com PLUME EVENTS 314-814-7637 www.plumeeventplanning.com PROPOSING DREAMS 888-781-9321 www.proposingdreams.com SIMCHA’S EVENTS 314-458-5463 www.simchaevents.com SIMPLY AND FOREVER 314-809-9870 www.simplyandforever.com ST. LOUIS WEDDING CONSULTANTS 636-236-9359 www.stlweddingconsultants.net

DECORATIONS HI HO HELIO 715 N. New Ballas Road, Creve Coeur 314-872-7711 www.hihohelio.com PARTIES & PROPS LTD. 2622 Rock Hill Industrial Court, Rock Hill 314-963-0880 www.partiesandprops.com PARTY CITY 10861 Old Halls Ferry Road, St. Louis 314-867-6850 10790 Sunset Hills Plaza, St. Louis 314-821-8580 9612 Olive Boulevard, Olivette 314-692-0996 13952 Manchester Road, Ballwin 636-207-8188 15425 Manchester Road, Ballwin 636-227-3558 2560 Lemay Ferry Road, St. Louis 314-892-2117 9815 Watson Road, St. Louis 314-909-0552 www.partycity.com

DESTINATION WEDDINGS HILTON WAIKOLOA VILLAGE 808-886-1234 800-hiltons www.hiltonwaikoloavillage.com TRAVEL HAUS OF ST. LOUIS 11231 Concord Village Ave., 63123 314-842-7313 www.travelhausstlouis.com

Kristin Ashley Events 618-946-0936 www.kristinashleyevents.com

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FAVORS See CAKES & CONFECTIONS, GIFTS AND STATIONERS THE CAKERY 1420 Tamm Ave., Dogtown 314-647-6000 www.thecakerybakery.net

Wedding planning, design and coordination

THE CUP 28 Maryland Plaza, Central West End 314-367-6111 1057 Century Drive, Edwardsville, IL 618-656-2287 www.cravethecup.com GIFTS 636-458-2439 www.giftsstlouis.com

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GOODIES FOR GUESTS 314-422-0974 www.goodiesforguests.com

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HOLLYBERRY BAKING 284 East Avenue 314-968-9239 www.hollyberrybaking.com

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POPtions! 1580 S. Lindbergh Blvd. - Frontenac 314-997-0441 www.poptionspopcorn.com

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FLORISTS ARTISTRY 2734 LaSalle Street, St. Louis 314-772-1301 www.artistryflorist.com

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Essential Guide BECKY HUFFMAN FLOWERS 314-368-7760 618-281-7091 www.beckyhuffmanflowers.com BELLI FIORIâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;FLORAL DESIGN STUDIO 2122 Marconi Avenue 314-776-2200 www.bellifioristl.com Buseâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Flower & Gift Shop 333 First Capitol Drive, St. Charles 636-724-0148 www.busesflowershop.com COUTURE FLORAL AND EVENTS 314-494-6610 www.cfloral.com THE CRIMSON PETAL 314-578-5363 www.thecrimsonpetal.net ELEGANT CELEBRATIONS 629 North New Ballas Road, Suite 208 314-993-1717 225 West Main St, Collinsville 618-344-1901 www.elegantcelebrationsstl.com

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SISTERS floral design studio 314-821-0076 www.sistersflowers.net SCHNUCKS Florist & gifts 9220 Shortline Drive 314-997-2444 www.schnucks.com

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WILDFLOWERS 1013 Ohio, St. Louis 314-772-9900 www.wildflowersstl.com

FORMALWEAR Also see BRIDAL GOWNS & SALONS SAVILE ROW 9727 Clayton Road, Ladue 314-567-8500 www.savilerowstl.com SAVVI FORMALWEAR See locations below. www.savviwedding.com Galleria, 314-727-0088 South County, 314-894-2991 Mid Rivers Mall, 636-970-2281 Jamestown Mall, 314-355-4440 St. Clair Square, 618-632-8415 Alton Square, 618-465-1110 6185 Delmar Blvd., 314-725-2150 West County Center, 314-821-0070 Columbia Mall, 573-445-6602 Chesterfield Mall, 636-532-1800 White Oak Mall, 217-787-8150

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STALLONE’S FORMAL WEAR See locations below. www.stallonesformalwear.com Chesterfield, 636-519-7111 Ladue, 314-997-8900 Maryland Heights, 314-576-5900 Sunset Hills, 314-729-0004 St. Peters, 636-397-1111

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FOUNDATIONS & LINGERIE ANN’S BRA AND LINGERIE SHOP 13471-75 Olive Street Rd., Chesterfield 314-878-4144 JULE 9757 Clayton Road, Ladue 314-983-9282 www.juleonline.com

GIFTS—ATTENDANT GIFTS, FAVORS, HOSPITALITY BAGS AND ACCESSORIES Also see BRIDAL REGISTRY, FLORISTS, JEWELERS and STATIONERS Brando 107 ½ East Argonne 314-984-9114 www.brandoboutique.com THE DESIGNING BLOCK 7735 Clayton Road, Clayton 314-721-4224 www.thedesigningblock.com GIFTS 636-458-2439 www.giftsstlouis.com

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Essential Guide Kakao Chocolate Kakao on Jefferson 2301 S. Jefferson Saint Louis 314-771-2310 Kakao Maplewood 7272 Manchester 314-645-4446 www.kakaochocolate.com M. HALEY DESIGN 314-308-4743 www.mhaleydesign.com MELANIE’S 10277 Clayton Road, Ladue 314-993-0664 www.welanies-stlouis.com POPtions 314-997-0441 www.poptionspopcorn.com PRESENTING MEMORIES 618-205-3210 www.presentingmemories.com The Service Bureau 9773 Clayton Road 314-991-1104 www.Stlservicebureau.com

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THE SILVER LADY 4736 McPherson Avenue 314-367-7587 6364 Delmar Blvd. 314-727-0704 www.thesilver-lady.com

GOWN PRESERVATION RAM LEATHER CARE 8720 St. Charles Rock Rd., Overland 314-429-5115 www.ramleather.com

HONEYMOONS HILTON WAIKOLOA VILLAGE 808-886-1234 800-hiltons www.hiltonwaikoloavillage.com TRAVEL HAUS OF ST. LOUIS 11231 Concord Village Ave., 63123 314-842-7313 www.travelhausstlouis.com

ICE SCULPTURES ICE VISIONS 324 Sante Avenue 314-821-1204 www.icevisions.com

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INVITATIONS/STATIONERS Art Mart 2355 S. Hanley Rd., Brentwood 314-781-9999 www.artmartstl.com/paperie

An elegant way to say “I love you…”

Flair Designery 314-324-5369 www.flairdesignery.com M. HALEY DESIGN 314-308-4743 www.mhaleydesign.com Paper Patch 12095 Manchester Road 314.821.6561 www.paperpatchinvitesyou.com The Service Bureau 9773 Clayton Road 314-991-1104 www.Stlservicebureau.com TWO BLUE DOORS 75 W. Lockwood, Ste. 203, Webster Groves 314-968-4033 www.twobluedoors.com

13476 Olive St. Rd.

VELLUM 120 W. Monroe, Kirkwood 314-909-1640 www.velluminc.com

Chesterfield, MO 63017 | 314-434-4022

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Brando 107 ½ East Argonne 314-984-9114 www.brandoboutique.com CURT PARKER JEWELERS 10192 Conway Road, Ladue 314-989-9909 www.curtparker.com D’ECOR interiors & Jewelry 13476 Olive Street Road Chesterfield, Mo 63017 314-434-4022 www.decor-jewelry.com LADY BUG BEADS 7616 Big Bend Blvd. 314-644-6140 www.ladybugbeads.net MELANIE’S 10277 Clayton Road, Ladue 314-993-0664 www.welanies-stlouis.com RACHEL’S DESIGN 9495 Olive 314-991-0994 www.rachelsdesign.com Simons Jewelers 8141 Maryland Avenue 314-725-8888 www.simonsjewelers.com

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Essential Guide Stella & Dot - Suzanne Klingemann 314-368-2924 www.stelladot.com/suzk SUTTON LASATER JEWELRY 314-308-5592 www.suttonlasater.com TIMEKEEPERS 17 N. Meramec, Clayton 314-721-4548 9495 Olive, Olivette 314-991-0994 www.timekeepersstl.com TINGE 9664 Clayton Road 314-395-5810 www.designsbydeyne.com TONI FEDERICI www.headpieces.com

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MILLENNIUM PRODUCTIONS 1334 Strassner Drive, Brentwood 314-918-9335 www.millennium-productions.com

MOTHER OF THE BRIDE/SPECIAL OCCASION Also see BRIDAL GOWNS DISTINCTIONS 12354 Olive Blvd. 314-434-5445 www.distinctionsinfashion.com MACY’S Store locations below. 1-800-835-9716 Alton, 618-463-4100 Chesterfield, 636-532-3800 Downtown St. Louis, 314-444-3111 Galleria, 314-726-1810 Jamestown, 314-741-4224 MidRivers, 636-278-6660 South County, 314-892-0110 St. Clair, 618-624-2000 West County Center, 314-966-0017 www.macys.weddingchannel.com

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NEIMAN MARCUS Plaza Frontenac 314-567-9811

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SAKS FIFTH AVENUE Plaza Frontenac 314-567-9200 WOMEN’S CLOSET EXCHANGE 11575 Gravois Road 314-842-8405 www.womensclosetexchange.net

MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT Cahokia Strings Quartet & Ensembles 618-973-2786 www.cahokiastringquartet.com COMPLETE MUSIC DISC JOCKEY SERVICE 11224 Olive Blvd. 314-991-5656 www.cmusic.com CJ’S DISC JOCKEY 314-892-0329 www.cjsdiscjockeyservice.com DOWNTIME PRODUCTIONS 314-452-2848 www.downtime-productions.com Eva Murphy - Harp Elegance 314-753-3557 www.stlouisharist.com MANHASSET STRINGS 636-537-0405 www.manhassetstrings.com MILLENNIUM PRODUCTIONS 1334 Strassner Drive, Brentwood 314-918-9335 www.millennium-productions.com MUSIC BOX 314-239-8032 www.musicboxtheband.com

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STEEL DRUM FLAVOR 314-485-9541 www.steeldrumflavor.com

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TKO DJ’s 314-647-3000 www.tko-djs.com

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THE SPECTRUM BAND 314-434-7153 www.spectrumband.net

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Unleashed Music & Event Planning 314.805.0044 www.unleashedmusicstl.com

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Essential Guide YES SIR BAND 314-913-7913 www.yessirband.com

OFFICIANTS ALL COUPLES MARRIED 314-781-0444 www.allcouplesmarried.com CAROLYN BURKE - WEDDING LIASION 314-821-4844 www.weddingliaison.com

ONLINE PLANNING SAINT LOUIS BRIDE MAGAZINE www.bridestl.com

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PHOTOBOOTHS FISH EYE FUN 314-621-8638 www.fisheyefun.com KLING KAMERA BOOTH 314-494-7560 314-458-3364 www.klingkamerabooth.com MARQUIS PHOTOBOOTH 314-365-9118 www.marquisphotobooth.com

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PARTYFACE PHOTO BOOTH 314-222-0052 www.partyfacephotobooth.com PHOTOBOOTH STL 314-776-3003 www.photoboothstl.com Shutterbooth 618-973-1894 www.shutterbooth.com

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Simpli Photography 573-747-7232 www.simpliphotography.com St. Louis Memories 314-669-6924 www.stlmemories.com

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VON DE VORE PHOTOGRAPHY 314-922-1612 www.vondevorephotography.com W. PHOTOGRAPHY 603 N. Main Street, Columbia, IL 618-281-7558 www.w-photography.net White Klump Photography 314.471.8027 www.whiteklumpphotography.com ZETTL PHOTOGRAPHY LTD. 314-454-6612 www.zettlphoto.com

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REHEARSAL DINNER SITES Also see RECEPTION SITE GRID on Page 212 and CATERERS beginning on page 224. BIXBY’S AT THE MISSOURI HISTORY MUSEUM Forest Park 314-454-3151 www.butlerspantry.com BOATHOUSE – FOREST PARK 6101 Government Drive 314-367-2224 www.boathouseforestpark.com BRADSHAW ROOM 3701 Lindell 314-367-4848 www.thecoronado.com BUSCH STADIUM SPECIAL EVENTS 700 Clark Street 314-345-9357 www.stlcardinals.com CAFÉ EAU / CHASE PARK PLAZA 212 N. Kingshighway, Central West End 314-454-9000 CHARLIE GITTO’S “ON THE HILL” 5226 Shaw Ave. 314-772-8898 www.charliegittos.com CHARLIE GITTO’S “FROM THE HILL” 777 Casino Center Drive 314-770-7663 www.charliegittos.com

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Premiered in March 2012, the new event space at Harry’s Restaurant offers sophisticated ambiance with a sleek, modern décor. We have exceeded expectations with St. Louis brides and we look forward to doing the same for you. — Latest in audio visual capabilities for movies, videos and photos — — Custom lighting can be configured to match event themes | State-of-the-art DJ booth with referrals for DJ’s — — AWARD-WINNING panoramic views of the St. Louis skyline — 2144 Market Street | 314.421.6969 | www.horizonatharrys.com

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Essential Guide RENTALS ALOBAR’S INC 716 Hanley Industrial Court 314-781-7600 www.alobars.com ALL SEASONS LINEN RENTAL, INC. 314-983-0090 www.allseasonslinen.com COUTURE FLORAL AND EVENTS 314-494-6610 www.cfloral.com EXCLUSIVE EVENTS 13633 Lakefront Drive, Earth City 314-995-7282 www.exclusiveeventsinc.com GRAND RENTAL STATION 570 Rudder Rd., Fenton 636-343-PARTY (7278) www.grandrental-stl.com MILLENNIUM PRODUCTIONS 1334 Strassner Drive, Brentwood 314-918-9335 www.millennium-productions.com PARTIES & PROPS LTD. 2622 Rock Hill Industrial Court, Rock Hill 314-963-0880 www.partiesandprops.com

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PARTY ARTS 3252 Laclede Station Road 314-781-1400 www.party-arts.com SITTING PRETTY 3252 Laclede Station Road 314-781-1400 www.imsittingpretty.com TRAUBE TENT COMPANY 800-352-TENT www.traubetent.com WEINHARDT PARTY RENTALS 11601 Manchester Rd., DesPeres 5901 Elizabeth Ave., St. Louis 314-822-9000 www.weinhardtpartyrentals.com

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SPECIAL TOUCHES ALOBAR’S INC. 716 Hanley Industrial Court 314-781-7600 www.alobars.com CHOCOLATE FALLS 636-294-1644 www.chocolatefallsfountain.com CHOCOLATE FOUNTAIN AFFAIR 636-230-6763 www.chocolatefountainaffair.com Pearl Vodka Wedding Cake www.pearlweddingcake.com Sweet Be’s 12027 Manchester Road 314-835-1400 www.SweetBe.com TRAUBE TENT COMPANY 800-352-TENT www.traubetent.com Waffle-licious Chesterfield Mall 636-536-1924 www.waffle-licious.com

TRANSPORTATION BEST TRANSPORTATION 8531 Page Avenue, Suite 160 314-989-1500 www.besttransporation.com

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BROOKDALE FARMS HORSE AND CARRIAGE RENTALS 636-938-1005 www.brookdalefarmsinc.com

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COMPLETE VIDEO 11224 Olive Blvd. 314-991-5656 www.cmusic.com CREATIVE VIDEO SERVICES, LLC 314-317-9228 www.creativevideostl.com LIFETIME MEDIA 8140 Brentwood Industrial Dr. 314-481-4754 www.weddingsbylifetime.com MILLENNIUM VIDEO 1334 Strassner Drive, Brentwood 314-918-9335 www.millennium-productions.com

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Essential Guide OUR WEDDING REMEMBERED 636-734-1009 www.ourweddingremembered.com The Perfect Image of St. Louis 314.662.4862 www.theperfectimageofstlouis.com Rue De La Vie Videography 314-799-55157 www.ruedelavie.com WESTVIEW MEDIA 149 N. Meramec, Clayton 314-726-6222 www.westviewmedia.com

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Buffet or Seated Dinner Exceeding Your Expectations Seating for up to 60 Guests Full Bar Service Private Entrance Handicap Accessible

LODGE AT GRANT’S TRAIL 4398 Hoffmeister Ave., Lemay 314-638-3340 www.lodgeatgrantstrail.com Moonrise Hotel 6177 Delmar Blvd. 314-721-1111 www.moonrisehotel.com PEAR TREE INN UNION STATION 2211 Market Street, Downtown 866-377-2024 www.druryhotels.cm

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RITZ-CARLTON 100 Carondelet Plaza, Clayton 314-863-6300 www.ritzcarlton.com Seven Gables Inn 26 N. Meramec 314-863-8400 www.sevengablesinn.com SHERATON CLAYTON PLAZA 7730 Bonhomme Avenue 314-863-0400 www.sheratonclaytonhotel.com Sheraton Westport Plaza & Lakeside Chalet 314-878-1500 www.sheratonwestport.com WESTIN ST. LOUIS 811 Spruce Street, Downtown 314-621-2000 www.westin.com

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Bella Bridesmaid

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A collection for the modern bridesmaid Bella Bridesmaid, St. Louis 13428 Clayton Road St. Louis, MO 63131 314.205.1191 p stlouis@bellabridesmaid.com www.bellabridesmaid.com

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belli fiori Floral Design Studio

From clean, contemporary lines to lush, extravagant designs. Give us your vision and let us create your dreams.

2122 Marconi Ave 314-776-2200 www.bellifioristl.com “because everyone needs beautiful flowers”

Artmart Paperie At Artmart Paperie, you’ll find the most celebrated names in wedding invitations, papers, stationery and albums. Let our design associates help you choose from our exciting and eclectic selection of custom printed pieces or create your own, unique invitations using our premium papers, enclosures and envelopes. Our international selection of artisan papers are just what you need to create a centerpiece that compliments your style. With Artmart Paperie, making your special day special is a piece of cake. 2355 South Hanley Road, 63144 | 314.781.9999 x214 www.artmartstl.com

Big Daddy’s on the Landing Fish Eye Fun is a fun and funky alternative to a traditional photo booth. The professional lighting, unique processing, open air design, and unlimited full size prints make Fish Eye Fun a great addition to any wedding. It’s WAY better than a photo booth!

Big Daddy’s is located in the heart of the Historic Lacledes Landing. We cater to all, including a very diverse menu for both lunch and dinner coupled with daily specials, open 7 days a week. At 10pm, our resident DJs start the party and keep it going until 3am. State of the art sound & lighting system make an excellent vibe for you bachelorettes out there looking for a great time. Be sure to create your memorable moments here with us at Big Daddy’s, “The Best Bar in the Whole Wide World.”

314-621-8638 | info@fisheyefun.com www.FishEyeFun.com

118 Morgan Street, St. Louis, MO 63102 Book your Bachelorette party here with us. 314.621.6700

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Cahokia String Quartet and Ensembles

We are a team of talented wedding consultants available for basic and full-service

Weddings, Banquets, Anniversaries, Birthdays

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Whatever your day, we make it beautiful, memorable and affordable

distinct personalities and celebrate the beginning of their lives together.

www.cahokiastringquartet.com | 618.973.2786

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wedding and party consultants

Savvi Formalwear Voted “Best Formalwear Specialist” in St. Louis for 3 years in a row. Our local inventory and dry cleaning facility lets us provide you with a level of service and quality unmatched by any other tuxedo company. Savvi has all the latest styles in tuxedos and suits by today’s top designers, along with our legendary service and pricing that can’t be matched. Free Groom’s Try On 12 Locations 800.Tuxedo.4 www.SavviWedding.com

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Curt Parker Jewelers The ultimate platinum source for engagement and right- hand rings with a specialty in micro-pave’ designs. Sure to dazzle for generations. 10192 Conway Road 314.989.9909 www.curtparker.com

Creative Video Services Voted the best video company by St. Louis Brides, we create works of art in a discreet and professional manner capturing every emotion so you can enjoy it forever in the highest quality video and sound. International Award Winners. Discreet, Elegant, Distinctive and Creative. 314.317.9228 | www.creativevideostl.com

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European inspired and known for exceeding our clients’ expectations, we at Les Bouquets listen to your needs as we create artistic and unique floral designs for your special day.

Emily Miller specializes in Bridal Makeup and Skin Treatments, including 24-hour Airbrush Makeup application.

Call to schedule a free hour of consultation at our location in Webster Groves.

She has worked with TOP clients such as The Food Network, MTV and People Magazine.

Visit us online at www.LesBouquets.com

Consultation by appointment.

E-mail: LesBouquets@gmail.com Phone: 314 395 8335

Megan Thiele Studios

7905 Big Bend, Suite 102 Webster Groves, MO 63119

www.emily-miller.com info@emily-miller.com (314) 780-8247

Vellum From classic to contemporary, Vellum has the perfect invitation for you! Whether your wedding is a black-tie affair or a beachfront ceremony, this charming boutique provides an enormous selection of wedding invitations, save the dates, programs, menus, thank you notes and more! Visit the special Bridal Room, where brides receive the personal attention they need.

Our desire is to provide you with a beautiful and effortless wedding and reception. Every event is different and every woman deserves to have her wedding day as unique and special as she is. Whether you are hosting a small gathering or planning for 500, we can help eliminate any worries or concerns so you are able to relax and enjoy your event. Event services offered: Full-service event coordination * Site and vendor selection management * Day-of event management * Out-of-town guest facilitation * Bridal or other gift registry management.

120 West Monroe, Kirkwood 314-909-1640 www.velluminc.com

Michelle Hoberman Eebymichelle@gmail.com 314-810-6600 www.Eebymichelle.com

Ravetta Photography, Inc

Miles of Smiles Photography Packages Starting at $950, 2 Photographers, 8 hours, 636-376-3391, www.milesofsmilesphotographystudio.com Check out our Facebook page for Coupons and Specials.

Buse’s Flower and Gift Shop, Inc. “Proudly serving the St. Charles Community since 1939” At Buse’s, we believe that every wedding is unique and should be custom designed to your specifications. We pride ourselves in making your vision a reality! We also believe in quality in our service and our designs, which is why we use only the freshest premium grade flowers in all of your floral accessories. Call us today to schedule your complimentary consultation! We are your St. Charles Wedding Floral Specialists. 333 First Capitol Drive, St. Charles, MO 63301, 636.724.0148 www.busesflowershop.com

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Chocolate Falls Serving the Greater St. Louis area for over 5 years. Offering unmatched service and style.

Kling Kamera Booth Photo Booth for All Occasions Momentous and unforgettable events such as weddings, parties, Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, family reunions, and many more are discovering that a new form of entertainment is taking off! Customizable photo booths where your guests can let loose and have fun are a perfect addition to any event. Kling Kamera Booth is a family-owned business of dedicated employees who promise to make sure your event is picture perfect with lasting, positive experiences for all your event needs! (314) 494-7560 or (314) 458-3364

Experience the best in traditional Chocolate Fountain Service; white, dark or milk chocolate, or embark on a new idea. We now serve Cheese fountains with pretzel appetizers, and caramel fountains for a delightful sweet touch at your event. Call Kathy at Chocolate Falls to customize your event. 636-294-1644 info@chocolatefallsfountain.com www.chocolatefallsfountain.com

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Lady Bug Beads Create the Perfect Match

At Lady Bug Beads your wedding jewelry is limited only by your imagination. Our staff of designers can create a one of a kind look for you or help you make your own. Bring us your vision! Don’t forget the wedding party....with an endless selection of colors we can find that perfect match. Chosen as the Best Bead Shop in St. Louis and “A” listed by St. Louis Magazine M,W,F 10-6pm T,TH 10-8pm Sat. 9-4pm Sun. 12-4pm 7616 Big Bend Blvd. 314.644.6140 www.ladybugbeads.net

Hawes Photography

Flowers to the People Floral art boutique with a focus on locally and sustainably grown flowers, designed to suit your unique style. Call to schedule a personal consultation. 2317 Cherokee, St. Louis, MO 63118 | 314.762.0422 | flowerstothepeople.biz

Women’s Closet Exchange Nationally Recognized Designer Resale. We’re the secret to dressing like a million bucks without spending it. Women’s Closet Exchange offers one of the largest selections of women’s apparel, handbags, shoes, jewelry and accessories from top-name fashion designers priced well below retail cost. Perfect for mother of the bride/groom! Conveniently located one mile east off Highway 270 on Gravois Road in the Sappington Plaza amongst the “shops of resale row.” 11575 Gravois Road St. Louis, MO 63126 314.842.8405 www.womensclosetexchange.net

The Magnificent Mahler Ballroom

Situated in St. Louis’s fashionable Central West End, the elegantly appointed Mahler Ballroom contains stunning 24’-high ceilings, 17 Austrian crystal chandeliers, ornate balcony surrounding, 4,000 sq.ft. ballroom, ballroom seating 200 guests and an incredible balcony accommodating an additional 70 standing or 50 seated. Join the hundreds who come annually from around the United States to see our landmark building. The historic Mahler Ballroom is the perfect setting for a bride’s dream wedding to be made a reality. 4915 Washington | (314) 361-4411 | www.mahlerballroom.com

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The Crimson Petal Garden Fresh Floral Design By appointment only 314-578-5363 www.thecrimsonpetal.net

O.C. Tan 2 U O.C. Tan 2 U invites you to “Imagine the Best of Everything in the World of Sunless Tanning” at our state-of-the-art facility. We hand spray and customize each & every tan. Our spray tan is the only in the U.S. that is color correcting, meaning your natural skin undertones will be pulled out in your tan. Even those with fair skin that usually burn can now experience an instant, long lasting glow. No one will ever know you just had a spray tan! View our portfolio on our website: www.octan2ustl.com 314.808.1680 | 5350 Devonshire Ave, Saint Louis 63109

PAPER PATCH All you need is love. Paper Patch has all the rest. SAVE THE DATES ENGAGEMENT • SHOWER WEDDING INVITATIONS MAPS • PROGRAMS PLACE CARDS FAVORS • STATIONERY CUSTOM DESIGNS Personalized service for over 24 years 12095 Manchester Road Des Peres, Missouri 63131 314-821-6561 www.paperpatchinvitesyou.com

PhotoboothStL Rent a photobooth for your reception. A photobooth will provide hours of entertainment, instant party favors, and lasting memories for the bride and groom, as well as all of your guests. We will supply a photo scrapbook that will make a beautiful keepsake. Customize the photo with your information and colors. We have many creative ways to integrate a booth into your celebration. (314) 776-3003 www.photoboothstl.com

POPtions! Popcorn Flavor your Special Day with Poptions!™ Popcorn! The perfect celebration snack for receptions, gifts & more. Call, email or POP in to our store to ask about our Popcorn Bars and personalized wedding gift bags! The Village at Schneithorst’s • 1580 S. Lindbergh Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63131 314-997-0448 • 1-888-649-POPS (7677) • info@poptionspopcorn.com

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Stallone’s Formal Wear

Timekeepers Specializing in the Repair, Restoration, Purchase & Sales Of Timepieces, Music Boxes & Jewelry, as well as custom Jewelry Designing & Hand Engraving. We provide unique Estate Jewelry & Timepieces for your Bridesmaids & Groomsmen, as well as that Special Something for your Special Someone. The Estate Jewelry Experts 17N. Meramec - Clayton (314) 721-4548 www.Timekeepersclayton.com

9495 Olive, Ste. C - Olivette (314) 991-0994 www.TimekeepersSTL.com

-Local Inventory and Ownership -Worldwide service for out-of-town wedding party members -Front door parking/not a mall store -Facebook specials -Selected as 2012 Best Tuxedo Shop and Wedding Professional of the Year -Personal Attention and Service Chesterfield | 173 Hilltown Village 636-519-7111 Ladue | 9644 Clayton Rd 314-997-8900 Maryland Hts | 87 Progress Parkway 314-576-5900 Sunset Hills | 3828 S. Lindbergh 314-729-0004 St. Peters | New Location 2012 636-397-1111 1-800-666-5901 www.stallonesformalwear.com

The Ultimate Bride

The Shrewsbury Ballroom & Banquet Center A perfect location for wedding receptions, fundraising events, corporate meetings or private parties. Our facility allows you to personalize your event by letting you choose your own caterers and vendors. - Accommodates 240 -300 guests Catering kitchens available - Dance floor - Stage - Ample parking Centrally located off Hwy 44

Voted “Best St. Louis Bridal Salon,” The Ultimate Bride has everything for your bridal party: exclusive gowns, custom headpieces & veils, shoes, bridesmaids and adorable flower girl dresses. We offer unique designer gowns from traditional to trendy, along with our knowledgeable consultants and experienced alteration staff, the Ultimate Bride will help make your wedding day perfect! New Location 1115 South Big Bend Boulevard 314.961.9997 www.TheUltimateBride.com

For more information contact Andrea Krechel at 314.647.1003 ext 218 or Akrechel@cityofshrewsbury.com

Festive Atmospheres Flowers define the style of any event. Classic Chic Casual Elegance Modern Sophistication Always a Festive Atmosphere By Appointment Frankie Peltiere, AIFD 8314 Olive Blvd 314-481-1501 www.FestiveAtmospheres.com Frankie@FestiveAtmospheres.com

Think beyond cakes and cupcakes. We offer something that is truly exceptional, original and unlike anything they’ve ever tasted before- A True European Delight! WOW them for your special day! Serve your guest HOT, freshly made Liege Waffles, topped with decadent toppings like chocolate, strawberries and homemade whipped cream. Perfect for a late night snack at your reception! Call Adrienne to discuss how we can personally bring our scrumptious specialty waffles to your event! Waffle-licious | 202 Chesterfield Mall (2nd Floor) | Chesterfield, MO 63017 636.536.1924 | info@waffle-licious.com | www.waffle-licious.com

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Busch Stadium Busch Stadium has hosted far more than World Series Championship celebrations. Our field and 17 distinct venues have hosted countless weddings, rehearsal dinners and other celebrations. All of these successful events had one thing in common, they were held in a truly unique space that leaves guests with a memory that will last a lifetime. No matter your event, Busch Stadium Special Events is ready to work with you to make it the best event you and your guests have ever attended. For more information, please call 314.345.9630 www.BuschStadiumSpecialEvents.com

Copia Restaurant & Wine Garden

J. Buck’s Make rehearsal dinners easy to plan! With two convenient locations throughout the St. Louis area. J. Buck’s Restaurant’s offer private rooms, offsite catering, patio areas, along with the quality Classic-Style American Cuisine and service guests have come to expect.

* Elegant Weddings, Rehearsal Dinners and Receptions * Intimate Group Dinners * Five Marvelous Private Rooms to Choose From * Wine Tastings

E-mail Mandi@jbucks.com to book your event! Private space available for groups up to 250 people. Perfect for rehearsal dinners or receptions.

For event bookings call 314-241-8463 or visit www.copiaurbanwinery.com

www.Jbucks.com 1000 Clark Avenue, Downtown St. Louis 314-436-0394

101 S. Hanley, Clayton 314-725-4700

Dominic’s In 1971 Dominic Galati and his wife Jackie started Dominic’s on the Hill. Through years of personal service, Dominic’s has become one of the top fine dining experiences in the country. Dominic’s specializes in Continental Italian cuisine with the emphasis on traditional regional dishes. With two locations to choose from, Dominic’s offers the perfect setting for your intimate reception or rehearsal dinner. Dominic’s 5101 Wilson Ave., 314.771.1632 Dinner M–Sat 5pm - 11pm Dominic’s Trattoria 200 S. Brentwood, 314.863.4567 Lunch M-F 11am - 2pm & Dinner M-Sat 5pm - 11am www.dominicsrestaurant.com

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Corporate Event Coordinator, Jenn Jones - jjones@copiaurbanwinery.com On-Site Event Coordinator, Johnathan Massie - jmassie@copiaurbanwinery.com 1122 Washington Avenue, St. Louis, MO 63101

Embassy Suites St. Louis Downtown Opened in October 2011, the new Embassy Suites St. Louis – Downtown is located in the heart of St. Louis in the new Mercantile Exchange District at the corner of Washington Avenue and 7th Street. The facilities offer warm, urban-contemporary décor and the location puts you right at Washington Ave. Offering 212 two-room suites with complimentary cooked-toorder breakfast and our signature evening Manager’s Reception, this is the ideal location for out of town guests. Ideal for receptions and rehearsal dinners, or any event from 10-200, the Embassy Suites can cater to your every need with creative culinary delights sure to please your guests. 610 N. 7th Street | St. Louis, MO 63101 314.269.5900 www.stlouisdowntown.embassysuites.com

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Rigazzi’s Rigazzi’s, family owned and operated since 1957, is the oldest restaurant on The Hill. Rigazzi’s has been recognized many times, both locally and nationally, for their delicious Italian cuisine. Now offering two banquet rooms for your rehearsal dinner, bridal shower or special event with special packages to meet your needs. 4945 Daggett | 314.772.4900 | www.rigazzis.com

St. Louis Union Station Marriott

Guido’s

St. Louis Union Station Marriott, as unique as your special day. There is no substitute for grace and charm, so start your wedding festivities off in historic style. Choose from one of our memorable locations within the hotel to host a one-of-a-kind rehearsal dinner. Group size ranging from 10 guests to 1000.

Located in the heart of The Hill Guido’s Pizzeria and Tapas offers a newly renovated banquet room for your private event. Our banquet room can accomidate up to 50 guests. We offer a beautiful setting including hardwood floors and a beautiful fire place. With such a diverse menu Guido’s is sure to have a package to please everyone. Open 7 days a week

One St. Louis Union Station Marriott St. Louis, MO 63103 • 314-802-3400 www.unionstationmarriott.com

guidosstl.com 5046 Shaw 314-771-4900

Mango

Peruvian Cuisine

Hilton St. Louis Downtown Celebrate your special event in historical elegance at the Hilton St. Louis Downtown. Our intimate atmosphere is perfect for groups of 15 - 80. Enjoy catered selections from our award-winning restaurant, 400 Olive, while our hospitable and experienced staff fulfill your every need. 400 Olive St. Louis Mo. 63102 314-436-0002 www.stlouisdowntown.hilton.com www.400olive.com

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Mango offers two separate private and semi-private event spaces to accommodate a variety of intimate gatherings such as wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners, and showers. All private events feature the personal attention of their Events Coordinator. Floor-to-ceiling windows, rustic orange walls with brick accents, low lighting, authentic Peruvian artifacts and wood floors add to the experience along with a variety of menu options that are customized to your needs. 1101 Lucas Ave 314-621-9993 www.mangoperu.com

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The Viking Conference Center Let us help create memories . . . Celebrate your special occasion at the Viking Conference Center. The perfect setting for wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners or bridal showers. Located in Sunset Hills near I-270 and I-44. 10709 Watson Road St. Louis, MO 63127 314-821-6600 or 314-620-2159

Ruth’s Chris Steak House

Lucas Park Grille

Add sizzle to your wedding REHEARSAL by booking your DINNER with us.

Lucas Park Grille is honored to host your special evening during this memorable time in your life. Chef Kyle Patterson uses seasonal ingredients to create his signature dishes for your custom dining experience. Our private Grille and Wine Room exudes an aura of elegance and romance. Whether hosting your rehearsal dinner or an intimate evening, Lucas Park Grille promises a distinguished occasion.

EVENT DINING & OFF-SITE CATERING | Now you can experience the service, expertise and flavor of Ruth’s Chris at your event, anywhere you like. Celebrate your special occasion in one of Ruth’s private dining rooms or at an off site location of your choosing. Ruth’s offers a variety of menu options to complement your event theme, taste and budget. Discuss your group event with a Ruth’s Chris Private Dining Manger. Choose from two St. Louis restaurant locations, poised to accommodate eight to 110 guests. Inquire about our off site catering capabilities. Ruth’s Chris Steak House is independently owned and locally operated.

1234 Washington Avenue • St. Louis, MO 63103 314.241.7770 | www.lucasparkgrille.com

Charlie Gitto’s St. Louis’ Premier Dining Experience An Elegant Setting for Your Rehearsal Dinner Charlie Gitto’s “On the Hill” 5226 Shaw Ave., St. Louis, MO 63110 314.772.8898 Charlie Gitto’s at Harrah’s Casino 777 Casino Center Drive, Maryland Height, MO 63043 314.770.7663 www.charliegittos.com

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Brentwood & Forsyth • 1 North Brentwood, Clayton, MO • 314.783.9900 Hyatt Regency St. Louis at The Arch • 315 Chestnut Street, St. Louis, MO • 314.259.3200 www.RuthsChrisStLouis.com

Jim Edmonds Steakhouse Jim Edmonds Steakhouse is proud to offer our private spaces with no room rental fee. Food and beverage minimums are imposed on some events. Our flexibility and commitment to guest satisfaction has proven Jim Edmonds as a leader of events and event planning in St. Louis. For more information please contact our Event Coordinator, Becky Hale at bhale@15stl.com or 314.588.8899. 1900 Locust Avenue • St. Louis Missouri 63103 www.15stl.com

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Houlihan’s Celebrate your special event in one of our elegant private dining rooms. Choose from three delicious menu packages or tailor a menu to your exact specifications. 1085 North Mason Road, Creve Coeur, MO | 314-469-1167 210 Chesterfield Mall, Chesterfield, MO | 636-532-0277 15 Ludwig Drive, Fairview Heights, IL | 618-397-9242 houlihans.com

Lorenzo’s Trattoria Featuring Northern Italian cuisine with a touch of contemporary flavor, Lorenzo’s presents a wide variety of pastas and entrees for your rehearsal dinner or reception. Experience the authentic house-made gnocchi and risotto, our signature dish, braised ossobuco and our guests’ ever favorite, Chicken Spedini. Lorenzo’s is a departure from the typical white napkin establishment. 1933 Edwards, “On the Hill” St. Louis, MO 63110 314.773.2223 www.lorenzostrattoria.com

The Front Room at Sqwires The “Front Room” features fireplace, bar, 8 foot tall windows in original brick walls - an inviting room to host 50 for a full-service or buffet dinner or cocktails for 70. Be inspired to entertain guests for your engagement party, shower, rehearsal dinner, wedding, reception. Contact us at (314) 865-3522 1415 South 18th Street Historic Lafayette Square St. Louis, Missouri 63104 info@sqwires.com www.sqwires.com

Flamingo Bowl

Mama Campisis Restaurant on the hill Let Mama Campisis host your special event and you will get the wonderful Italian American cuisine and service. From Wedding receptions to rehearsal dinners our banquet facilities hold up to 100 people. Call Mama Campisis and allow us to plan your special event. 2132 Edwards St. Louis, Mo 63110 314-776-3100 • www.mamasonthehill.com

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Located in beautiful downtown St. Louis, Flamingo Bowl offers a unique rehearsal dinner / reception experience with grand views of Washington Avenue. This one of a kind setting offers upscale art-deco décor, a fun atmosphere, and an exceptional catering menu—sure to make your event unmatched. Our private rooms include cozy lounge areas, a pool table, and state of the art bowling lanes. Many options are available to make the night uniquely yours. For more information contact: Gabe Pecher at gabe@flamingobowl.net 1117 Washington Ave. St. Louis, MO 63101 314.436.6666 flamingobowl.com

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Old Rock House

Old Rock House is one of the most unique places to hold your event. We are one of the city’s premiere smoke joints and event facilities. Experience this treasure for your next event. We can host your wedding reception, rehearsal dinner, or party of any kind and size. Allow us to create your memory.

1200 S. 7th Street, St. Louis, MO 63104 314-588-0505 • email: specialevents@oldrockhouse.com www.oldrockhouse.com

Charles P. Stanley Cigar Co. & Lounge Downtown’s Premiere Bachelor/Bachelorette Gathering Place

Fleming’s Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar

Celebrate with your groomsmen/bridesmaids in our comfortable lounge atmosphere! Choose from over 1,000 different cigars to pair with our extensive selection of single malt scotches, cognacs and cordials. Stanley’s is the oldest, largest and ONLY cigar retailer & lounge in downtown St. Louis.

Our promise at Fleming’s is to make your Rehearsal Dinner a celebration with worldclass food, wine and personalized service. Each room can be configured for your specific needs including custom linens, flowers, music and audio visual. Our rooms are perfect for groups of 10-80. For more information please contact our Private Dining Director, Jamie Windhorst at pdstlouis@flemingssteakhouse.com or 314-917-1196.

11th and Washington | 314-436-3500

1855 South Lindbergh Boulevard | St. Louis, MO 63131 www.FlemingsSteakhouse.com/StLouis

Russo’s Spazio at the Hall of Fame Grill

At the Hall of Fame Grill-Westport Plaza Our well-appointed private venues-including the elegant Garden Room and chic Wine Room-can provide seating from 10-130. We offer a variety of options to cater to your needs and budget. Our seasoned staff will handle all of the details-from start to finish-to make your Rehearsal Dinner an extraordinary experience for you and your guests before the “Big Day”. Ask about our Bridal Showers and Bachelor/Bachelorette Packages. Contact us at 314-878-6767

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With several different banquet rooms, including our newly-renovated Bistro with contemporary décor and our popular Garden Room, Russo’s Spazio at Westport is the perfect place to book your rehearsal dinner! Spazio at Westport can accommodate any party from 25-250 people, and offers traditional, themed, or cocktail party menu options, so you can customize your rehearsal dinner to your unique standards! Russo’s Spazio at Westport is also centrally located just outside of Westport Plaza in Maryland Heights. Spazio at Westport is owned and operated by Russo’s Gourmet Catering, which has proudly served St. Louis for over 40 years. Call Spazio at Westport today to book your rehearsal dinner, and receive a complimentary wine toast for your guests! 12031 Lackland Rd. St. Louis, MO 63146 • 314.576.0400 • www.russosgourmet.com

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World Chess Hall of Fame Located in the historic Central West End neighborhood, the World Chess Hall of Fame’s third floor gallery offers a beautiful sunlit space with large windows, dark hardwood floors and exposed ceiling beams. A unique space for an engagement party, wedding shower, rehearsal dinner, or reception! You choose the caterer to customize a menu just for your event. Space available for up to 100 guests. For more information, contact Special Events Manager, Lauren Stewart. lauren.stewart@worldchesshof.org or (314) 367-9243 x106 4652 Maryland Avenue | Saint Louis, MO 63108 (314) 367-9243 x106 | www.worldchesshof.org

Old Hickory Golf Club Old Hickory Golf Club is the perfect setting for your Rehearsal Dinner. Whether you are looking for an upscale environment or relaxing evening our private rooms will make it a memorable occasion for you and your guests. We offer a wide variety of menus to personalize your event and our rooms provide you with breathtaking views of our award winning golf course. Old Hickory Golf Club 636-477-8960 #1 Dye Club Dr. St. Peters, MO 63304 www.oldhickorygc.com

SqWires Annex With SqWires’ help, you can please all of the people all of the time. Whether your style is traditional or trendy, we’ll team up with bride, groom, parents and friends to fill your shower, engagement party, rehearsal dinner, wedding, reception with a spectacular mix of food, beverage, setting and service. An enticing array of menu items and service options from hors d’oeuvres to buffets or multi-course dinners. Contact us: 314-865-3522

1415 South 18th Street • Historic Lafayette Square • Saint Louis, Missouri 63104

email: info@sqwires.com, website: www.sqwires.com

Hilton St. Louis Frontenac True to the French influence of the suburb it calls home, the Hilton St. Louis Frontenac is a destination synonymous with elegance and comfort where professional staff awaits dedicated to making every event memorable. The Ambassadeur & Clayton Ballrooms will accommodate groups from 25-600 guests and our 263 beautifully appointed guest rooms offer comfort and style in one of Saint Louis’ most prestigious communities. 1335 South Lindbergh Blvd. St. Louis, MO 63131 314.993.1100 www.stlouisfrontenac.hilton.com

Zia’s Imagine a rehearsal dinner with no pre-set menu! With more than 35 choices, your guests can order what they would like. Zia’s has been family owned and operated for more than 25 years and has become a St. Louis institution. With a casual, traditional decor, Zia’s specializes in pastas, veal, seafood, chicken and steaks. “On the Hill” 5256 Wilson Ave. • 314.776.0020 • www.zias.com

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PHOTO booth rental

Unleashed Entertainment Book your “Adult Novelty” Home Party & enjoy one memorable evening with your friends! Laugh & Learn! We offer exciting bedroom toys, lotions, creams & more! We host parties for “just the girls” or couples too. Shop in the privacy of your own home! www.sextoypartiesstl.com PO Box 32906 St. Louis Mo 63132 314-805-0044

Complete Music.Video.Photo North America’s most popular DJ service. Offering a one stop shop for DJ, Video, Photo, MEGA Photo Booth and Up-Lighting to make your wedding day a Complete experience! www.CompleteStLouisDJ.com 314.991.5656

PartyFace Photo Booth PartyFace rents traditional photo booths & “openair” style booths. External slideshows, custom graphics, and instant upload to Facebook and e-mail provide more entertainment for your guests. www.partyfacephotobooth.com PO Box 31361 Des Peres, MO 63131 314-222-0052

cakes & confections Chocolate Fountain Affair Delightful…Decadent…and Entertaining. And for that something “extra” add our new Chocolate Shot machine with our gourmet drinking chocolate. Why not have a chocolate fountain and a shot machine for your dessert table. What a delicious way to treat your guests! 636-230-6763 www.chocolatefountainaffair.com

Caterers & rehearsal dinner Villa Farotto We offer full service catering at 15 venues and can also cater at other locations of your choice. We cover every detail such as rentals, flowers, entertainment, and of course menu selection and type of service. We have two restaurant locations for rehearsal dinners, engagement parties and showers. Call us to setup a tasting and we can assist you with venue selection at the same time. www.villafarotto.com 17417 Chesterfield Airport Rd, Chesterfield MO 63005 636-519-0048

designers/planners Dishy Event Planning Offering month-of, full planning and customized packages for brides in the greater St. Louis area. Find us on twitter @dishyevents. www.dishyevents.com 2042 Geyer Avenue, St. Louis, MO 63104 314.246.9148 Lucky You Productions Lucky You Productions is a unique full-service wedding production AND florist/design house. With more than 15 years’ experience, we can accommodate full wedding planning, day of coordination, wedding design and all-inclusive floral production. We believe that every wedding should be extraordinary. Therefore, you can mix and match the services that fit your needs. www.luckyyoustl.com 2901 Macklind Ave. Saint Louis, MO 63139 314-588-0073 Plume Event Planning We are a full-service wedding and event coordination company. Services range from design to coordination to planning in order to guarantee every last detail is being handled. www.plumeeventplanning.com Twitter @PlumeByYara 314-814-7637

ENTERTAINMENT/MUSIC CJ’s Disc Jockey Service Your Vision & Style. Your Dream Come True. Professional Entertainment for Your Celebration. www.cjsdiscjockeyservice.com 5013 Warren Road, Imperial, MO 63052 314-892-0329

Nix Music Agency Specializing in live music for any event. Whether it’s a string quartet, solo harp, bag piper, or band, NMA has it all. www.nixmusicagency.com 314-422-9811 Rockstar DJs Have the reception your guests rave about for years to come! Relax and enjoy your reception with the most talented, professional DJs in the St. Louis area. www.rockstardjstl.com 314-518-2407 Spectrum Band St. Louis’ Premier Variety Dance Band. Voted “Best Band in St. Louis” by local wedding experts for two years in a row! Great web site including schedule. 14140 Conway Road 314-434-7153 www.spectrumband.net TKO DJs Over 25 years in business. Every TKO wedding reception is custom-tailored to each couple’s wishes. www.tko-djs.com 314-647-3000 Unleashed Music & Event Planning St. Louis’s Premier DJ & Event Planning Company! Unleashed Music’s goal is to provide our clients with a wedding expierence that is unique, personal, memorable & most of all “stress free.” All of our weddings include an extremely knowledable DJ as well as a wedding planner/ emcee. No wedding is too small or too large... Your special day means everything to us! www.unleashedmusicstl.com PO Box 32906 St. Louis Mo 63132 314.805.0044

FLORists Elegant Celebrations. Elegant, European, Classic, Contemporary— there’s a perfect look for every bride. Let us create your Signature Style wedding. MO: 314-993-1717 IL: 618-344-1901 www.elegantcelebrationsstl.com

OFFICIATES All Couples Married. We perform your ceremony your way, anywhere. Our non-denominational clergy/officiates work with you to create the ceremony you want. 314-781-0444 www.allcouplesmarried.com

PHOTO booth rental Marquis Photo Booth Make your event even more memorable with a photo booth! Mention this ad for $100.00 off 3 or more hours. www.marquisphotobooth.com 314.365.9118

PHOTOGRAPHY Memories Are Forever Offers a mix of photojournalistic style images with traditional photography. www.MemoriesAreForever.com 1568 Ross Ave, St. Louis, MO 63146 314-878-5657 St. Louis Memories On location photography. Free engagement or bridal session with purchase of wedding package. www.stlmemories.com 2201 Sequoia Park Apt E Maryland Heights, MO 63043 314-669-6924 wphotography Interesting, illustrative images and well-designed wedding albums. wphoto@htc.net facebook.com/wphotostl www.w-photography.net 603 N. Main Columbia, IL 66236 618.281.7558

registry Bella Bridal Network We believe the strength in America is found in the strength of our families & a valuable way to serve our customers is by enhancing their lifestyles & making it easier for them to come back to the dinner table. www.bellabridalnetwork.com 866-832-7792

VIDEOGRAPHY Creative Video Services Voted the best video company by St. Louis Brides, we create works of art in a discreet and professional manner capturing every emotion so you can enjoy it forever in the highest quality video and sound. International Award Winners. Discreet, Elegant, Distinctive and Creative. www.creativevideostl.com 314.317.9228 Lifetime Media Imagine a video company that is stylish, elegant, and creative in approach yet is professional and discreet capturing the sights, sounds and emotion of your day. Let Lifetime Media show you everything a wedding video should be. www.weddingsbylifetime.com 8140 Brentwood Industrial Dr. St. Louis, MO 63144 314-481-4754 The Perfect Image of St. Louis Cherish your special day forever with a creative and professional video. Package options for all budgets! www.theperfectimageofstlouis.com 5014 Grace Ave. St. Louis, MO 63116 314.662.4862 Our Wedding Remembered Remember your special day in every detail, on a professionally mastered DVD. www.ourweddingremembered.net 636.734.1009

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