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Dear St. David's Family,

It is with great pleasure that I address you for the first time as the newly appointed CEO of St. David's Children's Society, encompassing St David's Adoption Service, Fostering Service, and AFKA As we delve into this edition of our St David's Adoption Service newsletter, "Create, Build & Grow," I am filled with excitement and anticipation for the journey ahead.

Reflecting on the themes of creation, building, and growth, I am reminded of the incredible transformations within families whether through adoption or fostering. Each day presents opportunities to create lasting bonds, build nurturing environments, and foster growth in the hearts and minds of our children.

As we navigate this journey together, I am thrilled to announce that we are expanding our services to include foster placements for children aged 012. This initiative, rooted in the spirit of creation and growth, underscores our unwavering commitment to providing safe, loving environments for children in need.

If you or someone you know is interested in learning more about fostering, please do not hesitate to reach out to us at info@stdavidscs.org. Your support in spreading the word about this vital service is invaluable as we continue building and growing our caregivers community.

I am deeply grateful for the opportunity to lead an organisation that embodies the values of empathy, compassion, and unwavering commitment to children's welfare Together, we can create a brighter future, build stronger families, and foster growth in the lives of every child we serve

I extend my heartfelt thanks to each St. David's family member for your dedication and support. Let us embrace the journey ahead with optimism, determination, and a steadfast commitment to creating, building, and growing together.

Warm regards,

Jason Baker

JASON BAKER, CEO

MEETAPANELMEMBER: BRUCEMCINNES

Dadi, Art teacher, Avid reader, Cardiff Devils fan & Panel Member.

Bruce, an adoptive Dadi and an art teacher, brings a unique perspective to education. His journey has been one of advocating for diversity and inclusion in every facet of education, from the curriculum to the school library. Growing up under Section 28, where positive images of gay relationships were prohibited in schools, Bruce experienced firsthand the impact of a lack of representation. It struck him deeply how crucial it is for children to feel seen and represented. This realization has become the cornerstone of his approach to education.

In his art classes, Bruce endeavours to incorporate diverse themes and artists that reflect the richness of the school community Whether admiring the vibrant patterns in the fashion photography of Thandiwe Muriu or exploring the intricate geometric designs of Islamic architecture, he strives to ensure that every student feels their background and experiences are valued.

Representation isn't just about seeing oneself reflected; it's also about learning about others' lives and cultures. Through the art curriculum, Bruce aims to broaden students' horizons and foster empathy and understanding for diverse perspectives. As part of his role in promoting equality and diversity across the school curriculum, Bruce is excited about the changes happening in Wales' educational landscape It's an opportunity to craft a curriculum that truly reflects and celebrates the school community's diversity

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But diversity isn't confined to the curriculum; it must extend to every aspect of school life, including the library. Inspired by author Tọlá Okogwu's analogy of a mirror and a window, Bruce has strived to make the school library a space that reflects and celebrates students' identities while also offering glimpses into different cultures and experiences

Visibility is key. From curated book displays celebrating Black History Month to highlighting LGBTQ+ literature during Pride Month, Bruce wants every student to know that their story matters and is represented in the library. His experience as a member of the St. David's Adoption Panel has further shaped his approach to inclusivity in the school library. Adoption is a topic close to Bruce's heart, and he understands the importance of providing resources that resonate with diverse family structures. Through carefully curated books ike 'All Kinds of Families' and 'Forever Star,' they aim o not only reflect the diversity of family life but also spark meaningful conversations about identity and belonging

Bruce believes education is a powerful tool for shaping a more inclusive and compassionate society. By embedding themes of diversity and inclusion into the curriculum and ensuring representation in the school library, he can empower students to embrace their identities and appreciate the richness of the world around them.

FUNDRAISING ATSTDAVID’S

4 Creative ways children can help raise funds us here at the St. David's Adoption Service

Involving your children in supporting St David's Adoption Service not only teaches empathy but also empowers them to make a real difference Here are four interactive ways for kids to get involved:

Art Sale: Encourage children to create and sell artwork, showcasing their talents while raising funds for St David's Adoption Service

Toy Exchange: Organise a toy swap event where children can trade toys and donate a small fee, fostering sharing and generosity while supporting the cause.

Bake Sale: Host a bake sale where children can bake and sell delicious treats, spreading joy while fundraising for St. David's Adoption Service.

Charity Walk or Fun Run: Organise a charity walk or fun run event, encouraging kids to participate and gather sponsors to raise funds for St. David's Adoption Service.

By engaging in these creative activities, children not only support St David's Adoption Service but also learn valuable lessons about empathy, generosity, and making a positive impact in their community

We are here to support your fundraising activities If you have a great idea or need information on how to donate your funds, you can contact us at fundraisingsupport@stdavidscsorg

INCONVERSATION: ALUNSAUNDERS

As a multi-talented individual involved in various creative pursuits, Alun Saunders has seamlessly woven his experiences as a playwright, actor, and drag performer into the journey of adopting siblings through St David's Adoption Service. In this exclusive interview, Saunders opens up about his unique challenges and opportunities as a father within his diverse professional background while emphasizing the power of storytelling and performance in creating a nurturing environment for adopted children.

Q: Having worked as a freelancer for around 13 years before becoming a parent, how did you adapt your work-life balance to fit around parenting, particularly the journey of adopting siblings through St David's Adoption Service?

A: I had to really adapt my work-life balance to fit around parenting rather than the other way around It hasn't been easy, and I'm still trying to find the best balance possible, which seems to constantly shift as the kids mature and their lives change, too As an actor and playwright, I've always been in touch with my emotions and ready to explore and discuss them This has helped me as a parent, always asking, 'What's going on there?' rather than simply reacting. People are complex, and it's healthy to check in with ourselves or with each other to see how we ' re feeling.

Q: How did you incorporate your experiences as a playwright, actor, and drag performer into your journey of adopting siblings?

A: As a writer, I've always believed in writing what you know. So, I created a sitcom called 'JAM' for S4C about a drag performer on an adoption journey, flipping my own reality of becoming a dad and starting to perform in drag We need more positive and lighter depictions of our community in the media While adoption can be emotionally draining, it's been nice to revisit some of the lighter aspects of the journey and fictionalize it all

Q: What unique challenges or opportunities have you encountered as a father within your diverse professional background, particularly in the realm of drag performance?

A: As a Drag Dad, I find that sharing a little of our unconventional family life is fascinating to people There are very few Drag Dads out there, and embracing my reality as a comedian offers me the opportunity to share what that's really like I believe in sharing both the positive and challenging aspects of being an LGBTQ+ parent to prepare future adoptive parents realistically Being prepared for unexpected situations is key, whether on stage or at home

Q: How do you balance your artistic career commitments with the responsibilities of parenthood, especially considering the complexities of raising adopted siblings?

A: Balancing artistic career commitments with parenthood has been challenging, especially in an industry where flexibility is essential. Being a parent can be a very real barrier to opportunities due to time constraints. We have to work hard to overcome the challenges, which society is slowly manage to break down. Seeking additional support and being flexible with our time has been crucial, but finding the best balance is still a work in progress.

Q: Drawing from your experiences in the entertainment industry, how do you believe storytelling and performance can create a supportive environment for adopted children facing societal stigmas or identityrelated challenges?

A: Laughing at yourself and not taking yourself too seriously is key Storytelling allows characters to learn about themselves and adapt to challenges. Similarly, as we learn who we are, we become stronger and more adaptive. Embracing our flaws and challenges can help us overcome them or use them to our advantage. I believe that anything which helps empower us - from adopters to adopted children - and allows us to keep exploring who we are and who we can be is essential. Storytelling and performance are great ways to do this.

Aluns' journey as a parent, artist, and advocate exemplifies the transformative power of creativity and compassion in navigating life's complexities. Through his unique blend of storytelling, performance, and advocacy, Alun continues to inspire others to embrace authenticity, resilience, and the joy of self-discovery

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A GUIDE TO ADOPTING ON YOUR OWN

Introducing our latest guide tailored specifically for single individuals embarking on the journey of parenthood through adoption. At St. David's Adoption Service, we believe that every person, regardless of relationship status, deserves to experience the profound joys of building a family. Our comprehensive guide offers invaluable insights and practical advice on navigating single parenthood's unique challenges and rewards through adoption.

Whether you ' re just starting your adoption journey or already navigating the intricacies of parenthood, this guide is your roadmap to success With expert guidance and unwavering support from our dedicated social workers, you can embark on this transformative journey with confidence, knowing that you ' re not alone Embrace the adventure of single parenthood with our new guide, and let h l t d f f il i t lit

SPRING MEET UP

Our Spring meetup at Parc Play Cardiff was an overwhelming success, with over 25 families coming together for a memorable morning of fun-filled activities Laughter echoed throughout the venue as children explored the soft play area, their energy boundless. Creativity flourished as little hands eagerly delved into crafts, each masterpiece a testament to their imagination. Parents connected over shared experiences, forming bonds that extended beyond the event. Amidst the bustling atmosphere, there was a palpable sense of camaraderie and joy.

It was a morning filled with smiles, laughter, and cherished memories, reminding us of the beauty of our St David’s Family.

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ADVENTURE

5 Free galleries in Wales: A Cultural Journey on a Budget

Wales, known for its stunning landscapes and rich cultural heritage, is also home to a vibrant art scene. From contemporary exhibitions to traditional Welsh art, the galleries scattered across the country offer a diverse range of artistic experiences. The best part? Many of these galleries welcome visitors without charging an admission fee, making them accessible to all. Whether you ' re a seasoned art enthusiast or simply curious about Welsh creativity, here are five free galleries in Wales that are definitely worth a visit:

National Museum Cardiff (Cardiff)

As the largest museum in Wales, the National Museum Cardiff boasts an impressive collection of art and natural history. Visitors can explore Welsh landscapes depicted by renowned artists such as Richard Wilson and Thomas Jones, as well as contemporary works by local talents

MOSTYN (Llandudno)

Situated in the picturesque town of Llandudno, MOSTYN is Wales' leading contemporary art gallery With regularly changing exhibitions featuring both Welsh and international artists, it offers a thought-provoking experience for visitors interested in contemporary art

Oriel y Parc Gallery and Visitor Centre (St Davids)

Nestled within the Pembrokeshire Coast National Park, Oriel y Parc Gallery showcases the natural beauty of Wales through its art exhibitions. Visitors can admire works inspired by the stunning landscapes of Pembrokeshire, including pieces by local artists.

Glynn Vivian Art Gallery (Swansea)

Founded by the industrialist Richard Glynn Vivian, this gallery houses a diverse collection of art, including European Old Masters, Welsh landscapes, and contemporary works. Admission is free, allowing visitors to explore the gallery's extensive collection without breaking the bank.

The Welfare Ystradgynlais (Ystradgynlais)

Housed in a former miners' welfare hall, this community arts centre hosts a range of exhibitions, events, and workshops throughout the year From contemporary art to traditional crafts, there's always something new to discover at The Welfare

From the bustling streets of Cardiff to the tranquil landscapes of rural Wales, these free galleries offer a wealth of artistic experiences waiting to be discovered Whether you ' re passionate about contemporary art or eager to learn more about Welsh culture, a visit to these galleries promises to be both enriching and inspiring So why not embark on a cultural journey through Wales without spending a penny?

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