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In their memory By Tyler Wright On special occassions like Christmas, grieving the loss of a child can be particularly difficult for parents who feel others may not relate to their loss. This year, Upwey local Rineke Leigh and Cockatoo local Jacinda Erich have teamed up to help bereaved parents remember and honour their child’s spirit by using an Oak Tree to hang Balls with the image of their child, or an important symbol related to their child, in time for Christmas. Rineke’s son Chris passed away 18 months ago in a skateboarding incident, and each birthday or significant date since has marked the occasion. “I thought ‘I’m just going to event my way through this right now,’” Rineke said. After discussions with Jacinda, Rineke decided she would create the Tree of Souls in the yard of her Upwey home. “I wanted other parents to have an opportunity to have something for their child, because I think as bereaved parents, we know that we will never forget our child, but it’s very hard to watch them fade away from the world so to speak,” Rineke said. “Each year passes and people forget that we’ve had that loss in our life, and it’s about ways of keeping the memory alive and keeping them shining.” Since posting the Tree of Souls initiative on Facebook, hundreds of people have followed the page, and the first print run after the launch in early November contained 35 images, with another 30 sent in a print run just days ago. “There’s definitely such a huge need for it, because parents [say] thank-you so much
Jacinda’s ten year old son Harper, who passed away in 2019, has his very own spot on the tree. Picture: SUPPLIED
Cockatoo local Jacinda Erich (left) and Upwey local Rineke Leigh (right) have teamed up to ensure the spirit of children who has passed away is not lost. Picture: ADAM TIMMS for giving me somewhere to acknowledge my child at Christmas,” Rineke said. “It is something to keep you going and show
them that they are still alive in our world even though they’re not physically here. “They are very much alive for all of us par-
ents that are walking this journey.” A woman in California even reached out to Rineke sharing that she had inspired her to create a similar initiative overseas. “It can be a bit overwhelming... you’re not alone on this journey, but it is a very lonely journey [and] It’s, it’s quite individual how people manage their grief,” Rineke said. “I feel like all these children are now in my care... I make sure that I do the right thing by them.” Jacinda lost her ten-year-old son Harper and his father Matt in 2019 in a tragic accident after a tree fell on their car while driving through the Dandenongs. Jacinda said she shares Rineke’s sentiment that their kids still live on in spirit and they want to talk about them and say their names. Continued page 3
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