THE SPIRIT COMMUNITY NEWSPAPERS • WEDNESDAY, OCT0BER 9, 2013
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BRIDESBURG FISHTOWN KENSINGTON NORTHERN LIBERTIES PORT RICHMOND
OCTOBER 9, 2013 • Vol. 10 No. 39
1428 E. SUSQUEHANNA AVENUE, PHILADELPHIA, PA 19125 • 215-423-6246 • www.spiritnewspapers.com
What Keeps Seniors
There’s No Place Like Home At My Grandmom Mary’s!
by Denise M. Krenski
Jennie Catanzariti
“My grandchildren keep me feeling young, and just being around other people and making them feel good.”
Jim Weiss
“The girls keep me young at heart.”
Marie Cyrankowski
“Exercise and activities keep me feeling young.”
This summer, I moved to Fishtown from Brooklyn, NY. With my tail between my knees, swelling with feelings of failure and shame that I hadn’t “made it in NYC,” I wasn’t so happy. Add to that, I just turned 40, was recently unemployed and not rolling in the dough. But, there was one very big shining light that I hadn’t anticipated in this move – living with my 84 year-old grandmother, her 11 year-old shih tzu and her nine year-old tailless black cat. For many reasons, I haven’t felt this happy in years – decades really – nor have I felt this proud to be anywhere or with anyone like I do now, living with my grandmom and her pets. When I moved back to Fishtown, I didn’t just move in to any old neighborhood. I moved back to my childhood nesting ground, the home of my dad’s mom, Mary, a rosey-cheeked giggler, who sits on the step daily and nightly, and keeps watch over the nabe. Her row home is a mecca of love, of family, and of history. As I write this, I am on her cozy couch and to the right of me, on her wooden, dust-free shelves, are exactly 70 pictures of my father, his seven brothers and sisters, and my 23 cousins, self-included. All framed. All gingerly placed so that you can see each relative’s smiling face. Scattered tchotchkes share the shelf space – some porcelain birds, lots of cats with hearts around them and a few wildly posed bears, all of whom wear red hats and boas, apparently members of the Red Hat club. To the left of me is a fading black and white picture of my Grandpa – Hoke they called him – in his Navy garb. A big puff of thick hair settles nicely under his sailor’s hat, reminding me of where my family got our wild, wavy locks.
Gloria Nash
“My children because they love me and I love them, and my grandchildren and great grandchildren. I even have two greatgreat grandchildren too. I’m the greatest!”
Rich Paul
Home sweet home. Denise M. Krenski with her grandmom Mary Krenski and shih tzu sit outside their Fishtown home. A piano rests next to this picture with nine more framed photos of family members placed neatly on it. A green, crossed-eyed porcelain frog wears a welcoming smile from above the piano’s keys. Just off to the side is a pair of my grandma’s open-toed sandals, waiting patiently for her to come home from the Lutheran Settlement home on Frankford Avenue, where she volunteers daily – she is the very adept coffee and tea lady. In front of me, as I look toward the dining room are 24 more framed photos of my cousins and my cousins’ kids. From birth through marriage,
this room is a living museum documenting the milestones in all of my cousins’, aunts’ and uncles’ lives. The stone front mantle/electric fireplace is the host to eight more framed photos, documenting only a portion of my aunts’ and uncles’ weddings. Plus, there is a triangularly folded American flag, respectfully placed in a glass case to honor my grandfather’s years of service in World War II. Statues of the Blessed Virgin Mary and crucifixes are appropriately hung and placed throughout grandma Mary’s see KRENSKI on page 14
QUESTION AND PHOTOS BY MAX PULCINI
“I don’t drink...A lot. I do like a cocktail every now and then.”
Rosemary Mikalaitis
“Playing bingo helps keep me young at heart.”