December 2025 by 405 Magazine

22 The Spirit of the Season

Delight in shimmering settings, evergreens and ornaments, Santa celebrations and one pro's best hosting advice.

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Keven Calonkey Carl

Cassidy Brunsteter. Florals from The Flower Truck and desserts by L’Arc Patisserie.

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Home for the Holidays

Facebook Memories have been brutal lately. In truly millennial fashion, I enjoy looking back through my older social media posts and reminiscing.

As we enter this joyous holiday season, my family looks different than it has the last few decades. Earlier this year, within a matter of months, I lost both my beloved bestie, my Grandma Shirley, and my 17-year-old rescue mutt soul mate dog, Java.

Navigating changes and grief amid an atmosphere of merriment is always complicated. Plans are different this year. No need to strategize pickups from assisted living memory care. One less stocking on our fireplace mantel. When I see them come up in pictures from previous Decembers, I am filled with longing for Christmas pasts.

But just this morning another “Memory” popped up: A decade ago, I was reaching out to my network for help finding a new rental in the competitive South Bay area of Los Angeles. The comments were harsh and realistic. People telling me there was “literally nothing available” and encouraging us to lie on the applications about having a baby and dogs. As I read that and remembered my past desperation to simply find a place to live, I became deeply grateful for my Christmas present and Christmases future.

The blessing of being able to decorate a home I love and fill it with people I also love is not lost on me—to nestle children snug in their beds, to gather around a festive dining table, to furnish a tree in sentiment,

to partake in the sweet togetherness that this time of year brings.

In this beautiful December issue, we eagerly dive into all that is holiday hosting. Home Section Editor Evie Klopp Holzer assembled a festive, bright and inspirational feature. For our cover, Keven Calonkey Carl and Cassidy Brunsteter put together a table spread fit for a king, with florals from The Flower Truck and gourmet desserts provided by L’Arc Patisserie. The lit candles and full glasses make me want to fully exist in that moment at that beautiful table (pg. 28). The home team also captured a colorful and modern design shoot (pg. 24), assembled a classic Santa moodboard (pg. 32) and got holiday baking tips from an expert (pg. 34).

Also in this issue we are delighted to introduce you to Girl Scouts Western Oklahoma’s new CEO (pg. 12) and a sculpturist whose latest shiny installation had everyone pulling out their cameras (pg. 60).This busy month, don’t forget to pencil in a stop at a new midtown Italian restaurant (pg. 52) and a wine hideaway (pg. 54), and check out our holiday happenings guide (pg. 54).

Thank you, dear readers, for being a part of our 405 Magazine family. For those of you who have faithfully supported us for decades, those of you new to our community and all of you who will continue to be a part of our lovely future. We wish you a very merry Christmas and happy New Year!

Julie Partin EDITOR IN CHIEF

No Adventure Too Big for a Girl Scout

Stacy

McNeiland,

new CEO of Girl Scouts Western Oklahoma

BY KRISTEN GRACE PHOTOS BY CHARLIE NEUENSCHWANDER

Just a few months ago on Aug. 4, Stacy McNeiland became CEO of Girl Scouts Western Oklahoma. McNeiland herself is a Girl Scouts alum who has 25 years of leadership experience in education and the nonprofit sector. Stepping into this role, she felt this moment had brought her full circle.

“I was raised in a household with a lot of love but with financial and food insecurity, so the opportunity to become a Girl Scout was a fantastic experience for me. My mom was my troop leader. I was sexually abused from the time I was 5 until I was 12 years old, and I held that secret for a very long time. Because of what was happening to me, Girl Scouts was a place of refuge. It was always a safe environment, with snacks and friends. Over time, it became a place where I developed into a leader. Girl Scouts is known for introducing girls to new opportunities. It allows girls to try new things and to fail safely. I give a lot of credit to the Girl Scouts for who I am as a leader today," she said.

“I am very proud of the fact that I am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. As an organization that supports girls, we need to be informed about issues that Oklahoma girls are facing—social media pressure, mental health, depression and abuse. We must empower and protect our girls.”

McNeiland has been passionate about working with young people throughout her career. Beginning in 2013, she served as CEO of The CARE Center, Oklahoma County’s only nationally accredited child advocacy center, where she founded ROAR, a groundbreaking child abuse prevention program that has now educated more than 125,000 children and adults. Under her leadership, the organization experienced substantial growth in staff, revenue and reach.

“Stacy has distinguished herself in the community as a tireless advocate for youth, an innovative leader and a strategic thinker known for her organizational development,” said Board Chair Gayle Semtner. “Her background, enthusiasm and compelling vision for Girl Scouts Western Oklahoma’s future make her the ideal person to lead the organization.”

McNeiland is excited about working with her stellar staff, troops and girls. Girl Scouts Western Oklahoma includes 39 of our state’s 77 counties, she said: “We serve most counties west of I-35, with some southeastern counties as well. The challenge lies in accessing rural areas of the state and making sure our troops in those communities have everything they need.”

She also speaks with deep excitement about GSWESTOK’s Camp Trivera, which she describes as an outdoor playground and curiosity lab, featuring everything from ziplines to places where girls can build robots.

The camp focuses on encouraging girls to find what they are excited about in the Entrepreneurship Program, Outdoors Programs, STEAM (science, technology, engineering, arts and math), Digital Leadership, High Adventure Team, Life Skills and community service projects.

When asked about new initiatives, McNeiland delivered a bombshell: Girl Scouts are launching a brand-new cookie this year, Exploremores. “But don’t worry! All the classic flavors will still be there.” She hopes that whenever you see a Girl Scout selling cookies, you will “imagine that this is a little tiny businessperson before you. They are making money for themselves and their troops. Then, they can use their money to go on trips and adventures, or to buy new uniforms for their troop. They are learning to be leaders in their community.”

McNeiland took a breath to say with deep conviction and gratitude, “I love youth, I love children, I love what they represent for our nation. They are our legacy. Investing in them is always a wise decision. I have always chosen to be in a profession that can uphold them.”

A Season of Festive Fashion

Let your seasonal spirit shine

BY BENNETT HILL

Among the parties, seasonal recitals and the endless desire to ensure the magic of the season is felt by everyone around you, who has the time to think about what you’ll wear while doing it all? One answer to sprucing up any look for every occasion: bling! Be it on your hands, ears or feet, adding sparkle is always the right (and bright) idea. With your hands wrapping, steering and shopping, give people, and maybe even your secret Santa, something to look at. Perhaps the ring even clings against a champagne flute, because nothing rings more festive than the pop of a bottle of bubbles. For all the listening you do, be it carols, wishes or bedtime stories, don’t let your ears go unnoticed. And who says that firelight is reserved for knits and flannels? A vibrant gown complements the glow perfectly. This holiday season, don’t let your fashion take a backseat–that’s for the bag of presents.

1. Dilamani Gemstone Fashion Ring: Brockhaus Jewelry

2. Roberto Coin, 18k Rose Gold Earrings: BC Clark

3. Vista Alegre, Winter Garden Flute: Millie Tucker

4. Caroline Constas, Palmer Gown: Edit & Co.

5. Laura Mercier, Rouge Essentiel Lipstick: Cayman’s

6. Aquazzura, Tell Me Crystal Sandal: Aquazzura

Photo by Josh Welch & Design by Jennifer Welch

Bingo For Babies

Photos by Eunice Pagan, Made in Heaven Photography

Infant Crisis Services held its 12th annual Bingo for Babies at the Oklahoma City Golf and Country Club. The Young Professionals Board hosted a night of disco-themed fun, featuring dinner, cocktails, live entertainment, a silent auction and, of course, bingo. Proceeds will support the ICS mission to provide life-sustaining resources for babies and toddlers in need.

Sober Vibes Gala

Provided

The 3rd annual Sober Vibes & Changing Lives fall gala was held at Will Rogers Theatre and raised $80,000 toward opening a second home to offer women a fresh start. The event had dinner, auctions, a live performance by Lacy Saunders and more. Sober Vibes is a mentoring home for women struggling to find long-term sobriety from drugs and alcohol.

Photos

OKCPhil’s Maestro’s Ball

Photos by Jesse Edgar Photography

The Oklahoma City Philharmonic held its annual Maestro’s Ball at the Oklahoma City Golf and Country Club. Attendees stepped into a whimsical world where classical elegance met pop baroque fantasy at “Vive la Phil!” 2025 Maestro’s Circle inductees included Patrick and Linda Alexander, and honorary chairs were Tracey and Rick Brown. The evening had performances, immersive artistry and playful grandeur, all in support of orchestral music and its influence on the next generation of music lovers.

HER Awards Celebration

PHOTOS BY JARED KINLEY

The annual event honored the 405 Magazine 2025 HER honorees and welcomed previous year’s alumnae. HER stands for Honoring, Empowering and Raising up remarkable women. The private event was held at The Jones Assembly with centerpieces provided by The Flower Truck OKC. Sponsors included Stride Bank and Legacy Title OK. Guests were treated to appetizers, dinner, dessert, drinks and inspirational speeches. Honorees included Woman of the Year Debi Martin, Industry Leader Rachael Gannon, Humanitarian Gio Green, Community Visionary Phi Nguyen, Catalyst Dr. Tabatha Carr and Rising Star Madison Melon-McLawhorn.

Weathering the Blues

Tips for combating Seasonal Affective Disorder

BY LAVINIA CRESWA

As winter approaches, the days are getting colder, windier and shorter. It is normal to feel a little glum when the weather is gloomy, but at what point is feeling sad actually something more concerning? While there is no known cause of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), this type of depression is widely attributed to a change in our body’s natural clock, or circadian rhythms, and lower hormones like serotonin and melatonin. Women are more likely to experience SAD than men, and it is more common in younger adults than older adults.

We spoke with Dr. Christina Whelan, co-founder of Resilient Psychotherapy and Psychiatric Services and Licensed Clinical Psychologist, on how to know whether those winter blues may actually be Seasonal Affective Disorder, and some strategies to combat the melancholy symptoms.

If you have never experienced depression, it may be difficult to recognize symptoms of SAD in yourself. “For many, SAD doesn’t arrive as obvious sadness, but a subtle, slow dimming of joy” Whelan said. “That loss of enjoyment has a clinical name: anhedonia, and it is one of the most telling signs. Others describe increased fatigue, irritability, changes in appetite or sleep, or simply a heavier sense of ‘I just don’t feel like myself.’”

Whelan also noted that a symptom of SAD is having ruminating thoughts; dwelling on past negative experiences, feelings and memories. She said that recognizing these unresolved experiences is “an invitation to revisit crucial parts of ourselves that deserve attention and care. When we attend to these experiences, they tend to lose their power over time. Their intensity, duration and frequency diminish. But when they are ignored, the mind often loops them beneath the surface, quietly replaying what hasn’t yet been resolved.”

Seasonal Affective Disorder typically arrives when the amount of sunshine during the day is shorter. Whelan said the most important way to combat SAD is to chase the light. “One

of the most effective treatments is light therapy, but nothing compares to real sunlight. Step outside whenever possible. Even a short walk at lunch or a few minutes on the porch can make a difference.”

Whelan had a few other strategies to improve your mental health if you feel that you are struggling with SAD: “Move daily. Physical activity helps regulate mood and energy. It doesn’t have to be a full workout; even light movement, done consistently, supports the brain’s natural chemistry.” A balanced diet is always important, but for SAD specifically, “incorporate foods rich in Vitamin D like salmon, eggs, and fortified dairy. Vitamin D supplements can also help, but remember sunlight activates Vitamin D in the body, so exposure remains

essential.” She also suggested having a regular schedule. “Maintain consistent sleep and wake times even during the holidays,” she said. “Routine helps stabilize the body’s internal clock and can lessen mood fluctuations.”

Whelan regularly works with those experiencing Seasonal Affective Disorder. “If you’ve tried small changes like getting sunlight, eating well, moving more—and still feel flat or unmotivated, that’s your cue to reach out,” she said. “Losing interest in things you normally enjoy, struggling to get out of bed or feeling disconnected are all signals that your body and mind need and deserve more support.” Whelan often tells her clients: “You don’t have to wait until it’s unbearable. Early support makes recovery quicker, smoother and more effective.”

BRIGHTEN YOUR DAYS

Whelan encouraged us to plan for winter ahead: “Schedule things that bring light—literally and emotionally—into your days. Maybe that’s a weekend drive to sunnier skies, reconnecting with loved ones or simply giving yourself permission to slow down.”

The

The Spirit

of the Season

Inspirations and ideas to share the year-end joy

In December, we ready our homes for gatherings of guests, out-of-town family visits and longstanding traditions that summon everyone to one place. As we open our doors to friends, new and familiar, we also anticipate the sights, sounds and scents of Christmas and Hanukkah that are soon to fill our rooms.

These December days feel extra special, thanks to proper preparations. Ornament-strewn evergreen trees and festive decorations are thoughtfully displayed. A spectacularly set table—layered with flowers, candles and sparkling crystal—awaits a crowd. Various sweets and handcrafted treats have been carefully curated, set to please all who enter. And are our favorite cookies baked? Check! (Santa approves.)

The following pages are filled with inspirational images and articles that we hope you refer back to as you make your own holiday plans. We’ve included decorating and hosting ideas as well as practical how-to advice. These pages also celebrate many talented people; local designers, florists, bakers and shops make entertaining a little less daunting and a little more enjoyable.

Best

wishes to you this season!

Beautiful,WonderfulBotanical, Life

Special family events—consider weddings, birthdays, funerals and other occasions—are often surrounded by flowers. The Christmas season also ushers in botanical traditions: selecting and decorating an evergreen tree (or two), hanging fresh garland and wreaths and arranging seasonal centerpieces. Flowers make family gatherings feel even more meaningful—and for all of it, Kathy Brown turns to Genea Vallion and Trochta’s Flowers and Garden Center. In fact, Brown and Vallion have been collaborating for decades to make life’s various seasons a little more beautiful.

“My mother uses her as well, so she’s kind of a generational icon in our family,” Brown said. “For most special events, Genea gets the first call. Whether it’s my mother’s 80th birthday, a holiday, a wedding, my grandkids’ birthdays, she gets the call.”

Kathy and Hal Brown enlisted Vallion to coordinate flowers for each of their three daughters’ weddings. They also depend on her design skills during the holidays. For Vallion, each year’s design theme for the Brown home is new and different— often inspired by their latest family milestones. When the Browns celebrated their first granddaughter, pink florals and decorations were applied abundantly throughout the home. After their first grandson was born, blues and tans were the chosen colors.

Last year, the design was more streamlined. The Browns had just purchased CK and Company, and Vallion wanted their home to provide a peaceful retreat after such busy days. (Vallion also provided flowers for the store’s grand opening, of course.)

BY EVIE KLOPP HOLZER

PHOTOS

SARA STEWART

The Browns’ front porch was decorated with fresh evergreen sprigs. Inside, a locally sourced amaryllis is the star of the breakfast table and hot pink miniature poinsettias decorate a living room console. Vallion pointed out that poinsettias come in different colors beyond red and white; she loves the various pinks and lime green varieties, and there are also pure white and golden white options. The azaleas on the Browns’ coffee table are “a winter staple flower,” according to Vallion.

In addition to bringing in new plants and floral arrangements, Vallion enjoys mixing up the Browns’ holiday collections in different ways.

“I drag out the same Christmas decorations year over year,” Brown said. “Some are traditional family things, and then some I’ve acquired along the way, but Genea moves them throughout the house, and each year, she makes them look so different and magical.”

Last year’s design featured plenty of playful elements as well: Colorful glass ornaments were suspended from the dining room chandelier, and a primary-color-themed office created the perfect “landing spot” for grandkids to gather, open presents and savor Santa’s generous delivery. Matching PJs on Christmas morning and a multigenerational family breakfast are just a few favorite Brown family traditions, and the home’s festive decor provides the perfect backdrop for all of the activity and gatherings. The Brown family loves to celebrate the seasons with beautiful botanicals—at Christmas time, throughout the year and throughout their lives.

DESIGN LED BY TROCHTA'S FLOWERS AND GARDEN CENTER

EVERGREENS AND WINTER FLORALS ELEVATE THE BROWN FAMILY HOME

LOCALLY GROWN AMARYLLIS ADORN THE BREAKFAST TABLE.

GLOWING FIRELIGHT AND SPARKLING DECORATIONS LURE HOLIDAY GUESTS INTO THE LIVING ROOM.

GLASS ORNAMENTS ARE SHOWCASED IN CREATIVE WAYS THROUGHOUT THE DINING ROOM

FERN, HYDRANGEAS AND STEEL GRASS ELEVATE THE DINING ROOM CENTERPIECE.

FROSTY

THE SPIRIT OF THE SEASON GATHERINGS

Set to Entertain

CLASSIC AND MODERN ELEMENTS CONVERGE WITHIN THIS SEASONAL SETTING

This wintertime table layers seasonal delights to prompt meaningful conversations and provide for a memorable evening. To create such an inviting scene, Keven Calonkey Carl and Cassidy Brunsteter of Mister Robert Fine Furniture and Design combined family heirlooms and personal collections with classic and modern design touches. Bountiful florals from The Flower Truck and gourmet desserts by L’Arc Patisserie complete the party.

Italian earthenware in the Faenza “Carnation” pattern is paired with vintage Egyptian revival plates, specifically the Fitz & Floyd “Ramses” pattern. The Italian plates are from Carl’s family (passed down from previous generations), while the “Ramses” plates were family gifts to Brunsteter. Even though they have different origins, the plates have colors and patterns that complement each other well. The mix also establishes an orange-and-blue theme for the decor.

Collectible crystal stemware and silver pieces sit beside soft blue napkins in crystal rings. Various blues repeat on the ginger jars. Orange colors appear throughout the surrounding artwork, all paintings by Kelly O’Neal from Dallas. The tables and chairs are in a classic walnut finish but with clean lines and streamlined legs. All together, it becomes an eclectic yet harmonious display.

The stunning centerpiece comprises crystal candlesticks in various heights and two golden reindeer nestled among abundant flowers and garland. Blue-and-white ginger jars overflow with arrangements by The Flower Truck. Shades of green, orange and purple are carried by free spirit roses, terra cotta roses, anemone, ranunculus, seeded eucalyptus and helleborus. Playful stems are also carefully plucked and placed throughout the evergreen garland, extending the flowers’ intriguing textures and colors down the table for all to admire.

The final touch: generous pours of Pinot Noir rose and a selection of seasonal sweets. L’Arc Patisserie handcrafted the couverture chocolate treats and— just like a present—each contains a surprise. The Christmas tree holds pistachio crémeux, raspberry confit and chocolate feuilletine. The yellow ornament has coconut ganache mousse, pineapple vanilla confit and mango coulis. The bright red-glazed treat reveals dark chocolate mousse, mango cream, raspberry coulis and a chocolate sponge cake, while the red gift contains strawberry mousse, strawberry and pink guava coulis. (The editorial team was fortunate enough to sample!)

This combination of local talent culminates in a pleasing result: a spectacular setting, perfect for hosting parties during this season of merriment.

BY EVIE KLOPP HOLZER

PHOTOS BY SARA STEWART

KEVEN CALONKEY CARL, ASID, NCIDQ AND CASSIDY BRUNSTETER, ALLIED ASID

THE SPIRIT OF THE SEASON MOODBOARD

Sweet Anticipation

IN A JOYFUL MOOD BECAUSE SANTA CLAUS IS COMING TO TOWN

Winter gives us many reasons to cherish the season. This mood board highlights a delightful one: the arrival of Santa Claus.

Keven Calonkey Carl and Cassidy Brunsteter of Mister Robert Fine Furniture and Design collaborated on this wonderfully whimsical display. It overflows with odes to St. Nicholas. Carl pointed out a few highlights from her childhood: a cherished photo of her on Santa’s lap and a familiar book, The Night Before Christmas. She remembers many readings throughout the years.

Carl also stitched the needlepoint “Santa” ornament, which beckons him to stop by the tree. The Bauble stocking depicts the generous gifts that he is sure to deliver Dec. 25. The golden trim, Christmas tree and jingle bells are also nestled in the gilded frame, along with a plated cookie—for Santa, of course. Velvet red fabrics, beaded tassels, holly

BY EVIE KLOPP HOLZER

PHOTOS BY SARA

STEWART

clusters and sparkling snowflakes enrich the scene. The framed tree ornament is one of many sold inside the Mister Robert store.

Brunsteter remarked how the cheerful Annalee Santa reminds her of excursions to Dodson’s Cafeteria. The historic building was decorated with impressively large Annalee dolls every holiday season—the cafeteria has since closed, but the Annalee dolls have become the family’s favorite collectible.

She also added an antique postcard that has been admired by her family for many years. It carries with it a happy wish: May Santa fill your stocking full. May our hearts also be full as parents, children and grandchildren exchange meaningful gifts and warm hugs. And may the joyful mood of Christmas—and that sweet anticipation of life’s goodness to come— stay with us year-round.

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THE SPIRIT OF THE SEASON ENTERTAINING

Make It Memorable

HOLIDAY ENTERTAINING TIPS FROM SUSIECAKES’ SUSIE SARICH

SusieCakes Founder and CEO Susie Sarich uses several of her grandmothers’ tried-and-true recipes for the baked goods offered within her bakery (available at Classen Curve as well as locations throughout California, Texas and Tennessee). Sarich also applies her grandmothers’ knack for hosting as she plans her own gatherings.

Sarich calls her grandmothers “the original tablescapers,” since they were both adept at arranging the perfect table setting, menu and decor. Drawing on her heritage, Sarich recently shared some holiday entertaining advice with us. Of course, beautiful and delicious desserts can enhance any party—but small, thoughtful details sprinkled throughout the scene can also help make the time together extra sweet.

1. Create a Warm Welcome

As guests arrive, set the scene for your event with lights strategically placed on your front porch. Outdoor lighting and lanterns instantly create a welcoming atmosphere.

2. Pay Attention to Details

Seasonal linens on the table and hand towels in the bathrooms provide opportunities to celebrate the occasion. You can also find cocktail napkins to match your holiday decor. To make the most of your group’s dynamics (and various personalities), consider putting place cards on your table.

3. Prepare in Advance

To alleviate stress, do as much as you can in the days leading up to the event. Set the table early. Select and place linens, dishes, silverware, candles

and centerpieces. Go ahead and purchase that extra ice. The more you can do in advance, the more time and energy you will have to enjoy your guests.

4. Enhance Sensory Experiences

While we all love a good holiday candle, sometimes the pumpkin and pine aromas overpower or—worse—compete with the kitchen’s delicious seasonal scents. Set up unscented candles instead. Also, make sure your background music fits your intended vibe, and play it at a volume such that guests can comfortably converse.

5. Delight in the Desserts

Guests have different dietary restrictions as well as flavor preferences, so offer a wide variety of desserts. Consider setting up bite-sized treats so everyone is encouraged to sample several. Visually appealing cakes (such as SusieCakes’ four-layer Chocolate Peppermint cake) can easily double as centerpieces, and seasonal fruits can also become a delicious display.

6. Embrace Seasonal Traditions

The holidays are a great excuse to bring heirloom linens, silver, china and crystal to your table along with the special memories they hold. If guests are encouraged to contribute to the meal, prompt them to share stories behind their recipes. Your event can create new memories while also honoring beloved friends, relatives and traditions of the past. With attention to details, a combination of past and present and all the sentiments of love felt throughout—may your party become a memorable occasion.

BY EVIE KLOPP HOLZER

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When do you need a criminal defense lawyer? If you are thinking about it… you need one.

Should I speak to police without a lawyer?

No. Even if a decision to speak to police is made you should do that by and through counsel. If the police are asking you to speak with them, simply say you look forward to cooperating in their investigation with your lawyer.

Do the previous questions and answers apply if I am completely innocent?

Yes, being innocent isn’t a bulletproof vest. There are far too many innocent people sitting in prisons around the country right now that believed the truth would, in fact, set them free.

Why do I need a good defense lawyer if I am guilty of everything the government has alleged?

From putting together mitigation packets to finding legal issues to leverage a better plea deal, a good lawyer can make the difference. Specifically, the length of sentence or probationary period, the fine amounts, and other included classes or terms can all be negotiated in your favor if you hire the right attorney.

What makes a good criminal defense lawyer?

From legal writing a strong motion practice to positive relationships with prosecutors to courtroom abilities, it all matters and plays a role in selecting the right attorney for you. The first priority should be to find someone who really cares about their clients, wants to get to know them and figure out a way to help them through this difficult process.

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If someone has been injured in an accident, what is the most important step they should take?

How long can someone wait to file a personal injury case?

The general rule is the sooner an attorney can start working for you the better. However, as long as the statute of limitations for your claim has not lapsed, you may bring a claim. In most civil cases in Oklahoma, the statute of limitations is set at two years from the date of the accident or injury giving rise to the claim. There are certain exceptions to this rule and it could be much shorter.

What types of injury compensation can be claimed?

There are multiple forms of compensation that can be claimed but nothing is guaranteed. Monetary damages, also known as economic damages, are to compensate the injured party for expenses incurred as a result of the injury. You may also be entitled to non-economic damages, such as physical or mental pain and suffering.

What is the process of working with your firm?

After initial consultation, our office opens a file, gives notice to the proper parties, and gathers evidence. Your focus should be on getting better. If you have questions, you can call our firm at any time, or schedule an appointment to come see us. We will make every effort to settle your claim without litigation. We will discuss all potential outcomes of accepting settlement versus litigation. Whichever route you choose, an attorney with our firm will be with you every step of the way.

After initial consultation, our office opens a file, gives notice to the proper parties, and gathers evidence. Your focus is getting better. If you have questions, you can call our firm at any time, or schedule an appointment to come see us. We will make every effort to settle your claim without litigation. We will discuss all potential outcomes of accepting settlement versus litigation. Whichever route you choose, an attorney with our firm will be with you every step of the way.

Why do clients choose Warhawk Legal for their representation?

Our mission at Warhawk Legal is to fight for justice by delivering exceptional legal representation to our clients. We take pride in our commitment to delivering personalized solutions with a focus on our clients, communication, and accessibility. In the legal profession, reputation is everything. Insurance companies and defense attorneys know we will try a lawsuit when needed. We have built a network of connections and an honorable reputation that can be beneficial to helping our clients achieve the best result possible.

Billy Coyle

When it comes to defending your rights in Oklahoma, few names carry as much respect and history as the Coyle Law Firm. This year, Billy Coyle officially took over the firm founded by his father, continuing a family legacy of exceptional criminal defense. For over 30 years, Billy has brought insight, energy, and a strong trial record to every case, especially in the areas of DUI defense, drug charges, and federal crimes. We sat down with Billy to discuss some of the most common questions Oklahomans have about criminal law today.

What should someone do immediately after being arrested for a DUI in Oklahoma?

If someone has been injured in an accident, what is the most important step they should take?

“The first thing you should do is call a lawyer right away. DUI charges can affect your license, your job, and your record for years. Many people don’t realize you only have a short window to request a hearing with the Department of Public Safety to challenge a license suspension. Acting quickly gives your attorney the best chance to preserve your driving privileges and start building your defense.”

If someone has been injured in an accident, what is the most important step they should take?

Are all drug charges treated the same way in Oklahoma?

How long can someone wait to file a personal injury case?

“Not even close. The penalties depend on the type of drug, the amount, and whether you’re charged at the state or federal level. For example, a small possession case might be eligible for diversion or expungement, while distribution or trafficking can carry mandatory prison time. My job is to challenge the legality of the search, the evidence, and protect your rights from start to finish.”

What makes federal criminal charges different from state charges?

What types of injury compensation can be claimed?

“Federal cases are a whole different world. They often involve long investigations by agencies like the FBI or DEA, and the federal sentencing guidelines can be extremely harsh. You need an attorney who’s experienced and licensed for federal court and knows how to negotiate with federal prosecutors. I’ve handled numerous federal cases and understand how to navigate that system effectively.”

What is the process of working with your firm?

How has taking over the Coyle Law Firm from your father shaped your approach to practicing law?

“My dad built this firm on hard work, integrity, and results. I grew up watching him fight for people who needed help the most. Taking over the firm this year has been both an honor and a responsibility. I’m committed to continuing that legacy while also modernizing the practice to meet today’s challenges.”

What sets you apart from other criminal defense attorneys in Oklahoma?

Why do clients choose Warhawk Legal for their representation?

“I genuinely care about the people I represent. Whether it’s a first-time DUI or a serious federal indictment, I give each case the same level of attention and strategy. Clients often come to me scared and unsure and my goal is to provide clarity, confidence, and the best possible outcome. When your freedom is on the line, experience and trust matter most.”

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Cantrell Law Firm provides strategic legal counsel to protect what you’ve built and plan for what’s ahead. As entrepreneurs ourselves, we understand the importance of developing legal strategies that support growth while protecting assets for the future. With practical insights and proven expertise, we deliver the clarity and confidence clients need to move forward.

If someone has been injured in an accident, what is the most important step they should take? Seek medical treatment. Your health and well-being are of the utmost importance. Injury symptoms may not manifest themselves until a few hours or days after the wreck. Don’t let a gap in treatment arise because you think you’ll get better. The best advice is seek medical treatment, to follow the doctor’s orders, go to all of your follow-up appointments, and identify every injury, even if it’s not bothering you as severely as your other injuries.

How long can someone wait to file a personal injury case?

Blake Cantrell is a business and corporate law attorney with over a decade of legal experience across multiple industries. Over his career, Blake has launched, scaled, and sold several ventures. Most recently, he’s had the honor of guiding future entrepreneurs as faculty at OU’s Price College of Business.

What are the most common mistakes you see business owners make with important contracts?

What types of injury compensation can be claimed?

Too many businesses rely on AI contracts, generic online templates, or handshake deals. While it may save costs, these shortcuts rarely reflect the unique needs of your business. Key terms like indemnity clauses and termination rights often go unaddressed. Every agreement should clearly outline each party’s duties and what happens if things go wrong. Investing in a well-drafted agreement up front saves far more time and money than fixing a bad one later.

What types of injury compensation can be claimed? There are multiple forms of compensation that can be claimed but nothing is guaranteed. Monetary damages, also known as economic damages, are to compensate the injured party for expenses incurred as a result of the injury. You may also be entitled to non-economic damages, such as physical or mental pain and suffering.

When do you actually need a business attorney versus handling things yourself?

What is the process of working with your firm?

Legal counsel is essential whenever key relationships or real dollars are at stake. Think of it like home repair: you can paint the walls, but hire a professional for electrical work. Handle routine tasks internally, but bring in counsel for anything that could create long-term risk: business formation, major contracts, employment issues, or large transactions. If the cost of a mistake could exceed the legal fee, hire counsel.

What is the process of working with your firm? After initial consultation, our office opens a file, gives notice to the proper parties, and gathers evidence. Your focus is getting better. If you have questions, you can call our firm at any time, or schedule an appointment to come see us. We will make every effort to settle your claim without litigation. We will discuss all potential outcomes of accepting settlement versus litigation. Whichever route you choose, an attorney with our firm will be with you every step of the way.

How does your background as a business owner change how you approach client representation?

Why do clients choose Warhawk Legal for their representation?

As an entrepreneur, I’ve been in my clients’ shoes. I’ve dealt with payroll stress, work-life balance challenges, and understand the value of intentional legal strategy. My goal is to help clients make informed decisions, avoid preventable risks, and position their companies for sustainable growth. Business ownership is a rollercoaster, and my role is to provide practical legal solutions that align with each client’s goals and budget.

Our mission at Warhawk Legal is to fight for justice by delivering exceptional legal representation to our clients. We take pride in our commitment to delivering personalized solutions with a focus on our clients, communication, and accessibility. In the legal profession, reputation is everything. Insurance companies and defense attorneys know we will try a lawsuit when needed. We have built a network of connections and an honorable reputation that can be beneficial to helping our clients achieve the best result possible.

If someone has been injured in an accident, what is the most important step they should take?

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What makes your firm’s approach to representing injured clients unique?

If someone has been injured in an accident, what is the most important step they should take?

At Nix & Diesselhorst, we “begin with the end in mind.” We prepare every case as if it will go to trial. This thorough preparation leads to stronger settlements and better trial outcomes – because good preparation consistently produces good results.

How long can someone wait to file a personal injury case?

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Birth injury means an injury to a baby which occurs during labor or delivery. Babies can suffer brain injuries if they do not get enough oxygen during labor. If providers don’t deliver a baby promptly when there are signs of low oxygen they can be held negligent.

What types of injury compensation can be claimed?

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La Dolce Vita

Malfi brings Midtown a burst of Italian sunshine

BY MATT KIROUAC PHOTOS BY RACHEL MAUCIERI

From cocktails at Later Bye to game-changing fried chicken at Lorena, Midtown has been on quite a tear lately. The latest opening, though, is unlike anything the neighborhood—or the city at large—has seen or sampled. Welcome to Malfi Enoteca, the culinary equivalent of jetting off to the Amalfi Coast for an Aperol-soaked vacation.

Malfi Enoteca is the new Oklahoma City location of the Tulsaborn brand—a partnership between Sheamus Feeley Hospitality Group and McNellie’s Group, and a splashy new addition to a booming district. Where the longtime American restaurant Packard’s once stood, guests are newly greeted by shiny Vespas, lush floral bouquets, pink-striped walls and black-and-white portraits of glamorous people on vacation. It’s a striking, sunny backdrop for a restaurant rooted in effortless escapism.

When the iconic space became available, Feeley and McNellie’s CEO Elliot Nelson saw a niche to fill. “We were talking about it, and the thing we don’t have is a casual Italian spot that isn’t old-school pasta and red

sauce, [although] there’s nothing wrong with that,” Feeley explained, calling Malfi an evolutionary step past what we’ve had historically—one that’s casual, befitting a variety of dining experiences, and highlighting different aspects of the Italian palate. “The goal is to create a place where we want to eat on our days off,” he added. “If you want to come for a casual Tuesday lunch, or date night on Friday night, or just sneak in and grab a chopped salad, we can do that as well.”

Despite the fact that the decor looks like lavish set dressing from an episode of “The White Lotus,” the restaurateurs were very mindful of the value proposition, offering a menu where all but four items are under $20, and affordable options are designed to make it a “neighborhood” enoteca. Along with the kinds of cocktails you’d drink on vacation, like Limoncello Spritz and Frozen Jungle Birds, even the wine list is intentionally accessible, featuring bottles in the $30s and affordable standards alongside esoteric novelties.

SLICED PRIME SIRLOIN WITH CRISPY POTATOES, ARUGULA, LEMON AND PARMESAN.

Eschewing red sauce standards, the menu—displayed on a retro newspaper—treads in lighter, brighter flavors, like pancetta-dotted white bean dip with toasted pistachios and sourdough; meltingly tender carpaccio with creamy tonnato sauce and peppery arugula; and a bountiful chopped salad, erupting with toothsome salumi, pepper Jack, basil, olives, garbanzos, tomato, cucumber, parmesan and herb vinaigrette. It’s a carnival of textures and flavors. Pastas include hand-cut taglioni al burro, dripping in butter and parmesan, and perfectly chewy bucatini, bathed in basil cream, pesto and burrata.

Some of the most underrated items, Feeley said, are not pastas. The Caesar salad, sprinkled with toasted levain and parmesan, is a favorite, as is the roasted salmon with tabbouleh. The latter is a nod to Oklahoma’s Lebanese immigrants who famously offer tabbouleh at restaurants like Jamil’s Steakhouse; Feeley grew up visiting the Tulsa location from his hometown of Fayetteville, Arkansas. Said Feeley, “All I wanted to do was

tip the cap to that culture, and do it in a way that makes sense through a Mediterranean prism.”

It’s the kind of food, the kind of spritzy cocktails and the kind of wine that transport diners to sunnier shores and simpler times. Post-war Italy, Feeley noted, was a big aesthetic inspiration for the enoteca, resplendent in couture, vivid colors and a general sense of relaxation. “It’s the simple art of doing nothing,” he said, describing the boom in Italian cafe culture. “I can’t think of many cultures that do it better.”

Italians, during that time, finally had time to sit back and enjoy la dolce vita, the sweet life. Now, with Malfi Enoteca, so do we.

(CLOCKWISE FROM TOP): SPREAD OF SLICED PRIME SIRLOIN, CARPACCIO DI MANZO WITH TONNATO, BUCATINI WITH BASIL CREAM AND PESTO, CHOPPED SALAD, WHITE BEAN DIP WITH COUNTRY BIRD SOURDOUGH, AND TAGLIONI AL BURRO IN THE MIDDLE

Raising the Wine Bar

A Nonesuch adjunct highlights overlooked vintages

BY MATT KIROUAC PHOTOS BY RACHEL MAUCIERI

One of Oklahoma’s preeminent fine dining destinations, Nonesuch has been at the forefront of culinary innovation for eight years. In that time, the Midtown icon catapulted Oklahoma City onto a national stage when Bon Appétit named it America’s best new restaurant, and just this year, Nonesuch was nominated for Outstanding Restaurant at the coveted James Beard Awards. From its first year to its current iteration under Colorado-based Id Est hospitality group, what’s kept the restaurant cutting-edge is its ability to reinvent itself as dexterously as Taylor Swift. Which leads us to the latest era of Nonesuch: a North American wine bar called Bar None.

Adjoining Nonesuch’s main dining room, in a minimalistic room that formerly served as a private dining area, and most recently a spin-off dining space called The Den, Bar None is at once chic yet casual; esoteric yet accessible. While Nonesuch traffics in tasting menus, Bar None pares things way down—to a handful of wines by the glass, a smattering of sandwiches and a polished, wood-paneled room that looks like a Scandinavian sauna. Eschewing a bottle list, there’s a curated bottle room down the hall, where customers can peruse varietals rarely if ever seen in Oklahoma, like small-production Albariño from a vineyard in Colorado.

“While we were dreaming of what The Den could be, and what aesthetic choices we could change, we thought a wine bar could be really cool in this space,” explained Kiki Mackey, manager of Bar None. Id Est’s chef/owner—and native Oklahoman—Kelly Whitaker agreed, steering the concept to highlight North American wines, as well as mezcals and whiskeys. “We all got inspired,” Mackey added. “We started to think

about the different things we could pull from: this idea of nostalgia, and how North America is overlooked in terms of wine—and Oklahoma in particular, being a middle point, and with Route 66—this idea of people and places coming together, and wanting to center wine in a different way.”

Bar None offers six wines by the glass, a set that, along with the bottle selection in back, rotates regularly and highlights lesser-known wine regions and varietals. There are also North American whiskeys and mezcals, as well as a concise cocktail program inspired by bars the management has relationships with across the country. When I visited, the “Cocktails From Friends” section included a Sumac Negroni inspired by Slow Drinks in Philadelphia, and a Tomato Highball inspired by Semiprecious in Denver. Food is more snacky, focused on fluffy white bread sandwiches made with flour milled by Id Est’s Dry Storage in Boulder. With varieties like egg salad and cold meatloaf, it’s an homage to road trips and nostalgia, and as Mackey put it, the ritual of coming together.

At its heart, though, Bar None is raising the bar on wine, by highlighting regions that often get overlooked. In many ways, it’s a full-circle ethos for a restaurant that helped highlight Oklahoma City, a once-overlooked city in the midst of an ongoing cultural renaissance. With a team of pioneering innovators at the helm—including Whitaker, Nonesuch executive chef Garrett Hare and Id Est’s beverage director, Caroline Clark—Bar None is an exciting new era for a brand with a penchant for reinvention. Eight years ago, it changed perceptions on food in Oklahoma City. Today, it’s time for wine.

NORTH AMERICAN WINES ARE THE FOCUS OF THE CURATED DRINK LIST AT BAR NONE, ALONG WITH SNACKS LIKE EGG SALAD AND MEATLOAF SANDWICHES, AND PHO-SPICED PECANS.

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A December Well Worth Remembering

Holiday happenings at the OKC Civic Center

BY LAVINIA CRESWA

The holidays are happening at the OKC Civic Center, with performances throughout the month for the whole family to enjoy.

December starts strong as the Oklahoma City Philharmonic presents A Very Merry Pops featuring singer-songwriter and Grammy nominated artist Cody Fry the evenings of Friday, Dec. 5, and Saturday, Dec. 6. This will be an evening of traditional musical favorites, along with some fresh new arrangements of classic holiday songs.

The Oklahoma City Philharmonic is also performing a matinee concert on Saturday, Dec. 6, called A Very Merry Pops: A Fun-Filled Family Concert. As the title suggests, this performance has the whole family in mind with “festive favorites and timeless Christmas classics.” This is the perfect opportunity for kids from 1 to 92 to be immersed in the spirit of the holidays while listening to a phenomenal live orchestra full of OKC’s best musicians.

On Sunday, Dec. 7, witness one of the most impressive sounds of the season as Canterbury Voices performs George Frideric Handel’s Messiah accompanied by the Oklahoma City Philharmonic. This timeless masterpiece is known for its triumphant works including “For Unto Us a Child is Born” and the unforgettable “Hallelujah Chorus.” Dr. Julie Yu, Artistic Director for Canterbury Voices, said: “Handel’s Messiah is one of the most profound and unifying works ever written—a masterpiece that has brought people together for nearly three centuries. Its message of hope, renewal and triumph still resonates deeply today. I can’t think of a more meaningful way for Oklahoma City to celebrate the season.”

No holiday season would be complete without seeing Oklahoma City Ballet’s production of The Nutcracker, taking the stage Friday, Dec. 12, and running through Tuesday, Dec. 23. The classic story of Clara and her toy nutcracker setting off through the Land of the Sweets to battle The

Mouse King has captivated audiences year after year. With the powerful score by Tchaikovsky performed by the Oklahoma City Philharmonic and choral vocals performed by Canterbury Voices, there is a reason The Nutcracker continues to be one of city’s best traditions. The ballet features the professional company as well as students from the Yvonne Chouteau school to bring the magic to life, with new costumes which debuted just last year.

Oklahoma City Ballet has adjusted its annual routine to present a Sensory Friendly performance of The Nutcracker, which will be Wednesday, Dec. 17. Accommodations are made for everyone to be able to experience the magic of the ballet in an environment with which they are comfortable. Whitney Cross, director of development and communication for Oklahoma City Ballet, said, “Everyone in the 405 should be so proud of our production of The Nutcracker! With amazing scenery, gorgeous costumes, acts of strength, familiar music, abundant humor and flawless dancing, this production rivals any major city in the world.”

The holiday performances at the Civic Center concludes on Saturday, Dec. 27, as one of America’s favorite festive traditions of over 40 years, Mannheim Steamroller Christmas by Chip Davis, takes the stage. Fifteen musicians performing over 20 instruments will be playing holiday favorites as dazzling special effects and lighting entrance the audience.

BRIGHTEN YOUR DAYS

No list of holiday performances would be complete without mentioning Lyric Theatre’s incredible annual production of A Christmas Carol, Dickens’ magical tale starring Ebenezer Scrooge, Jacob Marley and Tiny Tim. A Christmas Carol is on stage at Lyric’s Theatre at the Plaza through Sunday, Dec. 28.

MANNHEIM STEAMROLLER CHRISTMAS BY CHIP DAVIS

OKLAHOMA CITY BALLET'S THE NUTCRACKER

A Sense of Wonder

Sculptor and scholar Leticia Bajuyo

BY LAVINIA CRESWA PHOTOS BY CHARLIE NEUENSCHWANDER

Leticia Bajuyo has a passion for not just creating art, but also sculpting young minds with an impressive career as a college professor. We sat down with Bajuyo to discuss her career and what drives her to construct incredible sculptures like the one currently on display at Oklahoma Contemporary.

Have you always been an artist?

I have been an object maker for as long as I can recall. My siblings and I would play outside and spend hours working together building things—and thankfully survived some of our creations. My mother painted, so there were always art supplies around. It wasn’t until high school when I had an amazing art teacher, Mr.

Rhodes, who helped me realize that I enjoyed the process of making and designing.

Did you study art after high school?

Yes, I went to University of Notre Dame for undergrad and originally planned to earn a degree in painting. I found I had a hard time communicating through my paintings without a specific prompt. My favorite part of painting was constructing the canvases; building the boxes, stretching the canvas and sanding them down. I had a stack of canvases with no painting on them. My senior year, I took a sculpture class and was shown work by artists like Anne Hamilton and Félix González-Torres, and thought to myself, “That counts? Instead of drawing a still life and saying what the piece

means, through the object I can just show the audience?” I went on to get my MFA in sculpture from University of Tennessee, Knoxville, after my mentor, Dennis Peacock, saw my senior thesis sculpture exhibition and recruited me to be his student.

When did you start teaching?

I started as a teaching assistant while getting my master’s and then after graduation began teaching at a small liberal arts school in Indiana called Hanover College. From there, I have taught at Notre Dame and Texas A&M Corpus Christi, and I have been at OU since 2022. Oklahoma feels familiar to where I grew up in southern Illinois. Moving here felt like coming home.

What inspires your sculptures?

I’m drawn to materials that once held value but have since been discarded, objects that once mattered to someone. I have a soft spot for things that have been left behind, empathy for objects that were at one point important but now for one reason or another, whether sociologically or economically, society has moved passed them. It parallels ideas of immigration and migration, economic structures and value systems. The future rarely asks for our preferences, and how others respond and change is beyond our control. The CD, for me, is like that. In our lifetime, we have seen discs go from coveted technology to essentially trash. I have been giving them a new purpose and creating art with them since 2009.

What do you hope people feel when viewing your work?

I hope they feel wonder. So much of our world can dull that feeling, but art can inspire and re-inspire curiosity. You might start to wonder about where all these CDs came from. You may start to search for CDs that you did or didn’t have. Think, “Oh, funny, someone’s wedding album is here next to an AOL CD.” It’s participating in the story and feeling a sense of joy and awe. A sense of discovery inspires me, and I’m grateful to the team at Oklahoma Contemporary for the opportunity to share it.

Bajuyo’s Loop: Gravity Repeated is currently on display at Oklahoma Contemporary through Feb. 15 in the ArtNow 2025: Materials and Boundaries exhibition. To explore her other work, or to donate discs to future sculptures, visit bajuyo.com.

Let There Be Lights

Chickasha’s bright idea continues to illuminate the holidays

BY LINDA MILLER PHOTO COURTESY OF CHICKASHA TOURISM

More than 30 years ago, the town of Chickasha decided to light up Shannon Springs Park for the holiday season; each year since, the displays have gotten more impressive and the lights more dazzling.

It all started in 1992 when a few citizens hit on an idea to get their community involved with and excited about an end-of-year holiday event. The first Festival of Light delighted the townspeople and visitors who came from nearby communities. But that was just the beginning.

Year after year the showcase became more popular. Word spread not only across Oklahoma but to surrounding states, as holiday visitors from out of town talked about the exciting light event. In 1996, only four years after the first show, more than 30 tour buses from Texas had overnight reservations.

Walking or driving through the 43-acre park, now illuminated with more than 3.5 million lights, has become a holiday tradition. Familiar favorites are annual staples, including

the crystal bridge that shines and sparkles, and the iconic 172-foot-tall Christmas tree. It’s the centerpiece of the park, adorned with 20,000 lights, and can be seen from miles away.

Animated and intricate displays capture the attention of all ages. Each year brings a few surprises, sometimes a new mesmerizing light installation that dances and shimmers, or perhaps a heartwarming scene that brings smiles to young and old.

The Festival of Light, one of the first such events in the state, is free to walk or drive through. The route stretches 4 miles beginning to end. If that’s too far to walk but you want a close-up look, consider a horse-drawn carriage for an open-air experience. Whether by foot, car or carriage, cruise through Shannon Springs Park and gaze in wonder at more than 100 dazzling light scenes, animated displays and a light show synchronized to joyful holiday tunes.

The Chickasha light show has been recognized as one of the top 10 holiday events in the nation, but there’s more than lights. For

a small price, visitors can also enjoy a carousel, Ferris wheel, pictures with Santa, ice skating and carriage and camel rides at the park.

Chickasha’s Festival of Light is a volunteerrun, non-profit organization that annually brings about 200,000 people to the park. Each year’s success is due to the hundreds of tireless volunteers and small board of directors who plan all year for the event that attracts so many. Volunteers help set up the festival and then work during it, often as greeters, entertainers, guides or any other job that needs attention.

The annual light show might be the most popular event in Chickasha, at least during Christmas, but there’s another attraction downtown that’s getting a lot of attention yearround. The permanent leg lamp sculpture, inspired by the 1983 movie A Christmas Story, is 40 feet and stands on a 10-foot-tall box.

Festival of Light continues through Dec. 31. This season, as with the last 32, Chickasha shines. It’s where people go to gaze in wonder and wrap themselves in the Christmas spirit.

THE CHICKASHA FESTIVAL OF LIGHT IS ONE OF THE TOP HOLIDAY LIGHT SHOWS IN THE NATION.

The AUSL professional softball league has officially welcomed the OKC Spark. Oklahoma City is home to the greatest softball fans in the world and we want to be a part of any serious effort to continue growing the professional side of the game. As the home of the Women’s College World Series and the 2028 Olympics, it makes sense for OKC, this team and this league to come together to take professional softball to the next level.”

- MAYOR DAVID HOLT

Congratulations to Archbishop Paul S. Coakley on his election as President of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops. A wise and humble servant of our Archdiocese of Oklahoma City.”

- DENIS RISCHARD

The former Red Carpet Carwash, on the southeast corner of NW Ex & Penn, is being fully demolished. The developers of OAK have filed plans for a large restaurant on that site, although they are not ready to reveal who that will be. Stay tuned!” - OKC TALK

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