When I took the SKY pledge back in 2016, I had no idea how deeply it would shape my life. As a #SKYBigSister now, I’ve not only grown but discovered parts of myself I didn’t know existed and that’s the magic of the SKY Generation. From learning to lead with kindness, to standing my ground, this community gave me the confidence to show up fully, unapologetically, and authentically.
The “Sure Ka Yone” and “Shapo Ka Yone” values, along with the powerful authenticity movement, helped me stay grounded. SKY reminded me I didn’t have to follow the crowd or risk my health and happiness to fit in. Because of that, I stayed true to myself, and found strength in choosing me, even when it wasn’t popular. That foundation helped me bag the Miss Teen Botswana title and represent Botswana internationally.
I remember SKY posting auditions for different roles and activities. I was so eager, always putting myself forward, and I’m so glad I did! It was through SKY that I discovered my passion for TV hosting. My first paid TV gig was on The Mix by SKY Girls in 2020. I had no idea it would spark something bigger. Fast forward three years, I got a random call from a director asking me to host a new show, they found me through the SKY Team. That moment changed everything.
Since then, I’ve booked more shows, built my confidence, and found my place in the industry. I even got to feature in the SKY anthem music video, join the advisory board, and grace a magazine cover.
Sometimes I think: What if I never took that pledge? What if I never auditioned? I might have missed out on discovering my purpose so early. Whether I’m speaking at events, creating content, or representing as a pageant girl, I carry SKY’s lessons with me; being real is powerful, and individuality is my superpower.
To every SKY girlie reading this remember that You belong. You’re seen. SKY is full of real opportunities, real people, and real magic. If it happened for me, it can definitely happen for you. This is what being part of the SKY Generation is all about! Keep reading and enjoy being a part of SKY!
Our Fav Teens On Screen
Hey SKY nation, it’s your girl Arona Bonolo Masoso, and I’m so geeked to even be writing this!
Devi - Never Have I Ever
Ke sure ka acting and ke shapo ka hubbly.
Speaking of acting, ke batla go le tlotlela ka my fav teens on screen.
I honestly see a little bit of myself in each of these characters, from how they navigate friendships to how they show boldness and courage. I’d love to know what you think about them too.
Okay, let's talk Devi Vishwakumar, played by the amazing Maitreyi Ramakrishnan! Go bua nnete ke kgatlhiwa ke the way the show portrays her navigating so much; anxiety, insecurity, grief, and even failure. It's that resilience in the face of those challenges that's seriously inspiring.
Blair - Gossip Girls
Okay, let me just say, I'm still completely obsessed with Leighton Meester's portrayal of Blair! She was the ultimate boss babe, you know? If o ne a bata sengwe mo botshelong jwa gagwe, she made absolutely sure she got it, period!
And you've got to admire her loyalty. She's got those core friendships, and she invests in them, you know? Through all the ups and downs with her squad, she's there, and that's something I
PulengBlood and Water
We can’t forget Puleng from Blood and Water, who was played by Ama Qamata. Her journey in the show shows us the true meaning of resilience, she never gave up until she found what she was looking for She stayed true to herself and her gut gore! Did you know Ama Qamata started acting professionally at just 17?
Ke lemogile gore waitse keng, my age is not a barrier when it comes to fulfilling my dreams, and she embodies that spirit beautifully.
And beyond that ambition, her loyalty to Serena was incredible. Even though she kept her friend circle tight, the relationships she did have were so genuine.
She was fiercely protective of her inner circle and always went all out to spoil her loved ones, ke gore o ne a le sure ka her inner circle!
SKR - The Entire Cast
Let’s celebrate our local teen stars from Sure Ka Rafiwa (Saving the best for last hehe characters show us what true authenticity, growth and resilience is! How they navigate their lives depicts what we go through everyday. They just get it!
Funny enough, I’m part of the cast too, playing Seneo! Be sure to watch it on our YouTube channel, @SKYGirlsBW, and share your thoughts! What other shows did we miss? Hit us up on social media and tell us who your favorite teen on screen is @skygirlsbw on all platforms!
Your period isn’t always every 28 days; every girl’s cycle is different.
Cruising
through your Period
Hey SKY Nation!
Getting your period can be a bit tough, but you know we always got you! Here are some tips to help you get through that time of the month, stress-free (or at least less stress tbh).
If you are worried about staining your bed while you sleep, get an old towel or something soft and flat (like a thick T-shirt) to lay under your bottom when you sleep. That way, if you stain, it will be a lot less likely to stain your sheets!
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To relieve cramps, drink tea or lots of water, do stretches/light exercises or put a hot water bottle over your belly. Remember, there is no shame in taking a painkiller either. Golo mo go botlhoko kana!!
Track when Aunty Flo is in town so that your period never surprises you. Using apps like OKY or simply noting it on your calendar helps. Even if your cycle is irregular, you might find that there is a pattern, which might mean there is nothing to worry about.
To give you peace of mind, wear tights under your skirts or pants when you are menstruating. This adds an extra layer, reduces the possibility of staining, and helps keep the pad in place.
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Change your pad every 2 - 6 hours, depending on how heavy your flow is. You deserve to feel fresh and clean!
No matter how lazy or tired you are, take at least one bath a day and change that underwear, girlie.
Avoid substances and smoking because they can make any symptoms of your period like cramps, headaches and nausea way worse (besides the fact that re shapo ka tsone)!
BE KIND TO YOURSELF!
The world wasn’t built with your period and how it affects your hormones, energy levels or your day-to-day life in mind. So take care of yourself by taking it easy.
SKY Advice Corner
by Faith AKA @COCOAFAY
Ke sure ka success and ke shapo ka stress
“What do I do when I’m trying to figure out who I am?”
Life doesn't always come with a map, but you’re still doing the most to figure it out. This advice corner is here to remind you that your way of navigating things is valid. There’s no one-size-fits-all, just different ways of handling what life throws your way.
These are options of what you can do in the face of common struggles tsa rona. Pick the answer that feels most like you.
Bonus: At the end, check what your general decisions say about your choice style.
A) You can look for answers fast through family, mentors and even the internet. “How do I figure out who I am tlhe google?”
B) Trying out new things is an option and letting your identity grow at its own pace. No stress, no rushing yourself.
C) You also have the option to just go with nothing but your sures and shapos, while you figure yourself out quietly. It’s a part of growing, bestie.
A) Saying how you feel in the moment is something you can do, even if it comes out strongly. Especially if you have a habit of keeping things in. Rather o bue tota. You will apologise later.
B) You could listen and wait first, then speak when things feel calmer, even over text. There is no need to put yourself through unnecessary anxiety ka speaking in person.
C) You can try to give it time and see if it still upsets you in a few days. Just be careful not to bottle those bad vibes up. Journal about it and move on if it feels right. Sometimes the other people might not make you feel heard. Remember, it’s your choice.
“Someone offered me a cigarette or hubbly the other day. Ke dire jang bathong?
“What do I do when my friends and I have a big argument?”
A) Ha o na le sebete sa teng, you can always just say “Nah. I’m good!”
B) You could say “Thanks but maybe tomorrow. Can I have some soda please? Have you seen ___” You can negotiate, ask for something else then quickly change the subject to something trendy and fun to avoid having to explain yourself.
C) Make a smooth excuse like “I get sick easily, ka na le asthma so no” or even “I have to go, I think my Mum is looking for me” and step away from the group.
A) What you could do is put pressure on yourself, by making public declarations of what your goals are to people you KNOW will mock if you don’t achieve them. This way you will be so embarrassed if you don’t make it. Use the haters to your advantage!
B) You can tell your parents/friends about the goals so they keep you accountable with love and kindness while creating habits that lead to success(e.g. less TV or screen time + sleeping on time) to help you create a lifestyle sa success ngwanaka! Work smarter not harder girlie!
C) If you sometimes get distracted, make a vision board and give daily affirmations a shot. Keeping images of what you are trying to achieve in your daily line of sight might be the best way to help you keep your eye on the prize!
“When I stop feeling motivated to pursue my goals or study, I just don’t do anything. How can I keep my energy high?”
“I don’t know how to handle being bullied. SKY, Please help!”
A) Report the bullies to a higher authority every time something happens. This might be for you if you want the easiest, quickest path to stopping the whole thing. Especially if you aren’t afraid of how public this might be. Nobody can silence you hunnay!
B) Try to get yourself and your friends to stick together a lot so you aren’t alone and possibly a target. Being in a group or even in pairs makes it harder for certain things to happen to you. If it’s cyberbullying, private your accounts and block anyone that makes you uncomfortable.
C) While you gather your courage to report the bullying, you can document it. Take screenshots, and videos of anything that happens (but not voice notes because that’s illegal) so when you present your case nobody will turn you away.
Bonus Tips: Speak your mind and politely defend yourself when you are bullied. Sometimes a bully will back off after you speak up for yourself. You can also try to speak to the bully to find out what the ‘issue’ is calmly after some time and let them know you didn’t like what they did. When it comes to reporting; parents, teachers, the principal and even a letter to the regional office of education (if things escalate) can help fix things. Reporting the issue anonymously is also an option tsaluu. If you are struggling to find your voice while all of the drama is going on, prioritise your mental health. Keep your friends close and make sure you are there for yourself through self-care, blocking bullies online and staying safe when you’re out and about.
Now, Tally Your Letters
Count how many A’s, B’s, and C’s you got. They each say something about how you roll.
Mostly A’s –Real One with Big Feels
You’re honest, passionate, and care deeply. Sometimes it gets intense, but it shows how much you value your people and your goals. Just remember to apologise if you hurt others, too.
Mostly B’s –Balanced Babe
You’ve found a calm rhythm that works for you. You move through life with care, even when things are hard. Keep trusting yourself, you’ve got a steady flow. Remember to hold yourself accountable girlie.
Mostly C’s –Quiet Observer
You don’t always speak first, but you’re always thinking. You take your time, read the room, and find your own way. Just don’t forget your presence matters, even when you're still figuring things out. You deserve to be heard.
Growing up as the so-called “skinny girl with the big lips, big nose, big eyes, and pointy ears” was not easy. These features, the same ones that made me stand out, were often the reason I was teased. It’s funny how things change. The same lips people laughed at, are now a trend, something people pay for. But when you've grown up being mocked, it's hard to suddenly believe a compliment. I wish I knew then, that the things people made fun of me for wouldn’t matter later.
1)Things change
The very things I got teased for are now a trend. You never know how things will change.
2)Your worth isn ’ t tied to trends
Beauty trends come and go but your worth stays the same.
3)You can ’ t shrink or bend yourself to fit someone else s opinion ...And you don’t need to.
4)Your body will grow at its own pace
I developed later than most girls. My uniform always felt oversized, and I thought something was wrong with me.
5)Trying to force change doesn t help
I even tried altering my skirt and pants by myself — and nkebe ke togetse tota. I ended up with a crooked skirt and worse self-esteem.
6)Patience is your friend I wish someone had told me that your body will grow at its own pace. That you're not "behind" — you're blooming in your own time.
7)All our bodies come with their own strengths
Whether you’re tall and lanky, short and curvy, or somewhere in between, your body is amazing.
8)Skin stress is real but it ’ s not the end of the world
One bump and it felt like the end of the world. I remember trying to “fix” my face with anything I could find like lemon juice, toothpaste and scrubbing hard like I was punishing it.
9)Your skin needs care, not war
Harsh treatments can damage your skin. Everyone gets pimples and they do go away. You are not your acne.
10)Your body is doing a million things to keep you going
It’s growing, shifting, becoming. It might not always feel beautiful, but it is.
11)Your body is not a problem to be fixed
It’s a gift. It carries you through laughter, dance, school corridors, awkward hugs and dreams about the future. So give it the grace it deserves.
You’re already becoming the person you’re meant to be, one stage at a time.
Gape rona re shapo ka body shaming!
What happens to your skin in winter
What happens to your skin in winter with Dr Sekgoma
yaana, the environment undergoes significant changes that can affect the skin. The atmosphere becomes colder and drier, leading to a decrease in humidity. This reduction in moisture, combined with the use of indoor heating, can make your skin more prone to dryness and irritation.
Importantly, even individuals with oily skin or oil-related skin disorders may experience increased dryness during winter. The low humidity levels impair the skin’s natural barrier function, which can lead to pre-existing dry skin conditions such as eczema or dry skin, even worse! This can leave your skin feeling dehydrated and uncomfortable.
A good winter skincare routine should focus on maintaining skin hydration, protecting the skin barrier, and adjusting skincare routines to compensate for these environmental changes.
What can you do?
Avoid making the dryness worse by:
• Sitting too close to heaters or fireplaces can cause additional moisture loss.
• Frequent hot baths or showers strip away the skin’s natural oils, intensifying dehydration.
You can try: Lukewarm baths, limit bathing time to under five minutes, and use gentle, hydrating cleansers.
• Introducing a humidifier into the bedroom environment helps maintain indoor humidity levels.
• Supporting the skin’s hydration overnight After bathing, applying emollients and occlusive agents, such as petroleum-based products, can help trap moisture in the skin. However, be careful when applying vaseline to the face as it may increase the risk of acne in some girlies.
• Use thicker moisturisers. Especially creams or ointments rather than lotions. They are more effective at maintaining skin hydration during winter months.
If you suffer from a pre-existing skin condition like eczema, psoriasis or lichen planus, winter may trigger it. It is important to consult a dermatologist for tailored skincare advice and, if necessary, prescription treatments to control flare-ups.
Remember that you are still growing. Be kind to your body and your skin. In a few years, it might respond very differently to certain things.
Winter CHURROS
By Jiya Kaninde
SKY babes, are you tired of drooling over that warm, fried, crispy cinnamon dough dipped in hot melted chocolate you see on the internet or at food markets? Well then, you’ve come to the right place, sis! Learn how to make a Spanish delicacy, churros (pronounced choo-rows), this winter!
The thought of making churros at home may make you nervous but it is honestly so easy and worth it! With the ingredients you find in your kitchen, this comfort food can boost your chilly home nights or slumber parties, in just 30 minutes.
INGREDIENTS
▪ 1 cup butter
▪ 1 cup flour
▪ 1 cup water
▪ 1 tablespoon sugar (feel free to add more for sweetness)
▪ 2 large eggs
▪ 1 tablespoon vanilla essence
▪ Mixture of cinnamon and sugar: 1 tablespoon white sugar and ½ teaspoon cinnamon
▪ Oil for deep frying
How to make Churros:
1. Boil the water in a pot.
2. Once boiling, add the butter and sugar. Stir until melted.
3. Gradually mix in the flour until it forms a ball and pulls away from the sides.
4. Remove from the heat and let it cool for 5 minutes.
5. Beat in the eggs one at a time.
6. Then add the vanilla essence.
7. Heat oil in a pan and transfer the dough to a piping bag. (If you don’t have a piping bag, use a plastic bag by snipping a small hole in one corner and squeezing the dough through it.)
8. When the oil is hot, squeeze the dough into the hot oil, cutting with kitchen scissors to your desired length (You could get somebody to help you with this part, sis, don’t risk getting burned).
9. Fry until golden brown, then remove.
10. Coat in the sugar-cinnamon mixture while hot.
OPTIONAL: drizzle with melted chocolate and add sprinkles!
The 4 Pillars of Confidence
Self-Love
Being a part of the SKY Generation means we are all about being confident and the best version of ourselves. But how do you actually get there? The four pillars of confidence are what make the SKY nation, THE SKY nation! Let’s get into them.
This is how you show love towards yourself and how kindly you speak to yourself, even in your own mind. Self-love is important because if you don’t believe in yourself, who will? And believing in yourself starts with loving yourself like you would a best friend or a sister, and believing that you are worth that love as you are.
Affirmations for self-love:
• I am worthy of love.
• I am good enough for my dreams.
Write two more affirmations relating to selflove.
SelfAccountability
To glow AND grow, you need to recognise where you need to improve and actually put in the work. Self-accountability builds confidence because when you start holding yourself accountable, you become someone you can trust instead of always breaking promises to yourself. This helps you morph into the best version of yourself because you are constantly improving.
Affirmations for self-accountability:
• It’s ok to make mistakes.
• I am learning and growing everyday.
Write two more affirmations relating to selfaccountability.
Self-Belief
How much do you believe that you are capable of achieving your goals? Maybe you just don’t think you have it in you. This ties into self-accountability perfectly because if you are always breaking your own trust with yourself and not doing what you say you will, you might find it hard to believe in yourself.
Affirmations for self-belief:
• I know that I can achieve my goals if I put my mind to it.
• I believe in myself no matter what the rest of the world says.
Write two more affirmations relating to selfbelief.
SelfAssertiveness
Gore KE SHAPO KA YONE kana KE SURE KA YONE. Self-assertiveness is your ability to express your opinions confidently. You may find it hard to believe in yourself if your environment says otherwise. This may be because you struggle to stop taking peoples’ negative words towards you seriously. If someone tries to, for example, offer you a kwae how strong, permanent and powerful is your no? If they ask you ka working towards your dreams, can you say KE SURE KA YONE?
Affirmations for self-efficacy:
• I am capable of standing up for myself.
• Only how I feel about myself matters to me.
Write two more affirmations relating to selfassertiveness.
Letter To Me, Myself & I. . .
with our Rising Star, Lioness Ratang
SURES: Creativity, Dancing and Confidence
SHAPOS: Self-deprecation, Smoking and Bullying
Dear Teen Me,
I know right now, things might feel overwhelming and uncertain. You're navigating the challenges of adolescence, trying to t in, and guring out who you are. I want you to know that it's okay to feel lost and unsure. It's all part of the journey.
I know you're feeling the sting of not being able to afford the latest shoes and iPhone that seem to be on everyone's wishlist. It might feel like you're missing out or that you're somehow ‘less than’ because of it. But trust that this is just a phase. You'll get to a point where you'll be able to a ord everything you want, and you'll look back on these struggles with a sense of growth and accomplishment.
Remember how you longed to sing, but didn't get the chance? I know how much it meant to you, and it's okay to feel disappointed. But know that this is just the beginning. Your passion for music will only grow stronger, and you'll nd your voice in ways you never thought possible. Your career will ourish, and you'll get to share your talents with the world.
I know the future seems daunting right now, and anxiety might be weighing heavily on your mind. But take a deep breath, things will work out. You'll face challenges, yes, but you'll also learn and grow from them. You'll discover your strengths, your resilience, and your capabilities.
That recent breakup might be the best decision ever as you are still young, you did well by choosing yourself and realising you are really just in a certain phase. Someday, you'll find love that feels right, and it'll be worth the wait.
You might not see it now, but you're laying the foundation for an incredible life. You're growing, learning, and becoming the person you're meant to be. Don't compare your journey to others’. Focus on your own path. Celebrate your small wins, learn from your setbacks and know that you're doing the best you can.
Keep pushing forward, even when it gets tough. You're capable of more than you know. And when the doubts creep in, remind yourself that you're strong, you're worthy and you're enough.
With love and support, Your older self
MEET OUR REPSFORTHE
They entered and won the cover competition because they blew us away with their answers. Teens choosing to stay true and stay smoke-free!
Shout-out to Top Play, Game City for hosting this awesome photoshoot!
Faith, 17
Ke sure ka positive vibes and ke shapo ka bullying.
To stay true means to know myself in and out. To know my S.K.Ys and stick with them even when peer pressure arises.
Ma SKY girl: Don’t let people influence you so much that you start to lose sight of the actual person you are! (beautiful inside and out).
Donna, 19
Ke sure ka confidence and ke shapo ka gossiping.
It means choosing myself every time; my values, my peace, and my dreams even when it’s hard.
Being part of SKY reminds me I’m not alone, I’m part of something powerful.
My advice to other SKY girls is don’t shrink to fit beauty standards. Be unique, be bold, there’s power in being different.
Fizzah, 18
Ke sure ka success and ke shapo ka overthinking.
Sisterhood to me means standing together in love, support, and strength. It’s about uplifting each other and being a safe space for one another.
Being a SKY Girl feels incredibly surreal for me. I remember when I was in primary school and the SKY Girls magazines would arrive, I would flip through the pages, see the models and think to myself, ‘Wow, it would be a dream to be part of that one day.’ So now being part of the movement is not just exciting, it’s deeply meaningful.
High heels were first worn by men, way back in the 1600s.
Onkatile, 18
Ke sure ka authenticity and ke shapo ka smoking.
To me, staying true to yourself means choosing integrity over popularity and authenticity over validation.
Being a SKY girl means having a legacy of women and girls uplifting each other, pushing me to become the best version of myself.
Ella, 13
Ke sure ka education and ke shapo ka fake people.
Sisterhood means loyalty, love, respect and having other people to count on and I believe I definitely play a part as a sister to everyone.
Being part of SKY means being true to yourself and also having confidence because you always remember you're never alone with such a supportive fam in the SKY community!
Asante, 20
Ke sure ka content creation and ke shapo ka peer pressure.
For me, sisterhood means a sense of solidarity, a feeling of belonging, mechanisms of accountability, and the collective pursuit of self-improvement.
Dear SKY girls: what you want to achieve or what you dream of exists, so don’t settle for anything that’s not it. If it exists somewhere in the world, then it can exist for you too!
someone else is one of the best ways to learn something.
Batho, 21
Ke sure ka emotional intelligence and ke shapo ka smoking.
My definition of staying true is working every day to be the best version of yourself while shamelessly expressing your true self.
Sisterhood for me is warmth and gentleness. Having grown up around sisters and aunts, I learnt compassion and warmth, which is something I try to give back to my community in my everyday life.
Saying “maybe” or staying silent isn’t consent; only “yes” means yes.
#SKY GUYS2025
Enrique, 19
Sure ka music and ke shapo ka bullying.
Staying true to myself means honouring my values, beliefs, and emotions without compromising them to please others and embracing my uniqueness.
Well, being part of SKY means being part of a community that is there for all the young people like me.
What I want to remind all SKY girls, is to never be afraid to say no when you aren't for it.
Jayden, 14
Ke sure ka basketball and ke shapo ka smoking.
Community means I try to be someone people can count on when they need honesty, love or just a reminder that they’re not alone.
Being a part of SKY means I’m not alone. I’m part of a really cool group of teens that face the same problems I face as a SKY guy.
I want to remind SKY girls that you don’t have to rush to be liked. You are enough right now.
Nicotine is addictive and you can get hooked quickly, even if you only smoke a little.
A smoke-free teen nation
Since this edition of SKY magazine is all about the SKY Generation we decided to hit Railpark Mall and paint the town pink with our SKY DRIIIIIIPPPP! Y’all showed up and showed out, so choosing the final images was tough, but here are some of the favourites selected by the SKY Girls BW Advisory Board.
Quotes from
We asked some friends of SKY to share a quote that inspires them or one for youuu SKY girl! Here’s what they had to say:
The only limit to our realisation of tomorrow is our doubts of today.
Kefus Leo
There’s power in being YOU. Believe in yourself, and watch your stars align.
Lioness Ratang
There is light at the end of the tunnel.
Waone
Remember why you started.
Live simply, laugh often, love always.
Bridget Siele
Chantel Tisha Ben
from our favs
Yana The Movement
Every step forward, no matter how small, is proof of courage.
Raii
Be the most you, you can be, everyone else is already taken.
Wada the Soulstress
Know yourself so that no one can tell you otherwise!
Lez Emang
“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”
Eleanor Roosevelt
Samatha Mogwe
You didn’t come this far, just to come this far.
No one will ever believe in you, the way you believe in yourself.
Isago Molefe
RE SHAPO KA Budgeting Edition LECHONO:
Step 1: Know Your Money
How much do you really have each month?
Whether it’s pocket money, lunch allowance, or you’re hustling with a little business, write down the total.
Example: You get P300? Cool. That’s your full budget. That’s your money for the month. Don’t spend like you have more.��
Step 2: Where Does It All Go?
For one week, track everything.
Transport: P28
Data: P20
That random scrunchie from the tuck shop? P15
It all adds up, chommi!
You’ll start seeing patterns. You might even realise you’re spending more on snacks than on things you actually care about.
Step 3: Create Your Categories
Split your monthly money like this:
Needs: Transport, lunch, school stuff
Wants: Kota, lip gloss, accessories
Savings/Goals: phone fund, new jeans, birthday gift for your bestie
Pro tip: Give every P10 a job. Even if it’s just “Buy chips on Friday.” That way you don’t go crazy and over-spend.
Step 4:
Save Something, Even Something-nyana
If you can save BWP 20 per month, that’s a start.
Saving isn’t about how much, it’s about building the habit.
Keep your savings somewhere safe. Even an envelope works. Call it “My Dream Fund.”
That’s your reminder that your future self deserves nice things too.
Step 5: Control the Impulse Buying
We hear you. The cute earrings. The “limited time” sale. Temptation is real.
But pause and ask: “Do I need this? Or do I just want it right now?”
Give yourself 24 hours before spending on wants. If you still want it tomorrow, go for it (if it fits the budget).
Ee wai, it's time to talk about THAT topic… cash money.. dollar.. Pula ngwanaka!
Let’s be real, the money always feels like it’s ghosting us halfway through the month. One minute you’re buying mafresh le magwinya a le 50 and airtime, next thing? Boom. Sending out ‘Please-call-mes’ .
But here’s the truth: learning to budget doesn’t mean you’re boring. It means you’re wise. And nothing is cuter than a girl who knows how to handle her bag.
Here’s how to start budgeting, step-by-step:
Step 6:
Reward Yourself the Smart Way
If you stick to your budget, celebrate! Buy yourself that ice cream, or spend on something you’ve been planning for, guilt-free.
Budgeting doesn’t mean ‘no fun.’ It means planned fun.
Step 7:
Keep It Moving
You won’t get it perfect every time. That’s okay.
If you mess up one week, learn from it and start afresh the next.
Budgeting is a journey, and you’re already ahead just by starting.
Tsala, you’re building money confidence!
You’re not too young to budget. You’re just ahead of the game.
The girl who budgets today is the girl who buys her own first car, phone, house or business tomorrow.
Stay smart, stay true. And trust us, your bank account will thank you.
Online, But Safe
Hey Starshines,
Let’s have a real chat. The internet is fun. It connects us, makes us laugh, lets us share our stories and explore the world. But sometimes, it can also feel heavy. Like when you get a weird DM, or when someone’s words start to sting mo di comment sectioneng. That’s why it’s so important to not just be online, but to be safe and steady while you’re there.
1. Share mindfully
Not everything needs to be posted. Ask yourself:
“Will I still feel good about this post tomorrow?”
You can still be online chommi, just take care.
2. Trust your gut
If someone makes you feel uneasy in your DMs, comments, or even in a group chat you’re allowed to mute, block them, or leave the group. You don’t need permission to protect yourself.
3. Passwords are personal
Make them strong. Don’t share them across platforms or with anyone. Even with friends. That’s your key to your space and a lot can go wrong if you aren’t careful with them.
As your big sis, I’m not here to tell you what to do. I’m here to share what I’ve learned and remind you that you have choices. You get to decide what you share, who you give access to and how you protect your peace.
Start with small, strong habits:
4. Cyberbullying
And let’s talk about something we don’t discuss often enough. Sometimes it’s loud — a mean comment, a fake account.
Sometimes it’s quiet — being left out on purpose, being mocked in DMs, or seeing a joke made at your expense that no one defends in the group chat.
If you’ve ever been hurt online, I want you to know: it’s not your fault.
And if you’ve ever said something online you wouldn’t say in person, maybe now’s the time to reflect. We’re all still learning. But we can choose to be softer with each other.
If someone is bullying you, speak to someone you trust. A parent, a teacher or a SKY sister. Screenshot the messages then block them. You don’t have to carry it alone or at all.
You are more than your feed.
You are worthy of digital kindness.
You are allowed to rest, log off, and come back stronger.
Stay kind, stay smart, and always stay true to you — online and offline.
And remember; your glow doesn’t require Wi-Fi!
Love, Your big Sis Mmapsi
SKYAnswerGUYS
“My guy friend started making shady comments about girls ke reela gore he’s even ranking them or calling them names.
He used to be chill, but now he’s always saying stuff that makes me cringe. Ke ntse ke leka go mmolella gore dude this is not okay, but he just brushes it off. Is this still a friendship worth having?"
Robotic:
Friendships require shared values. If his jokes or comments degrade others and he refuses to reflect when called out, then that’s a red flag.
You deserve to be around people who uplift, not people who embarrass or disrespect others in your presence. Walking away from harmful energy is not overreacting, it’s protecting your standards and boundaries.
“I’ve had a crush on my guy friend for ages. We talk a lot and get along well, but he’s never said anything flirty.
I’ve tried dropping hints, but I
Brandy:
We asked y’all what questions y’all want SKY guys to answer and wowza! Here’s the TEA!
First things first…. don’t panic. You’re not weird for catching those feelings. The real key? Start by being real with yourself.
Don’t twist yourself to be who you think he wants, shine’a ka ha o shine’ang ka teng because showing up with your self-love, self-confidence, and showing up as your full, true self is honestly what makes you magnetic. What's yours will come to you eventually.
“My boyfriend is turning 17 next week and I was thinking of getting him a hoodie or something small. But my cousin said girls shouldn’t buy gifts for guys, especially early in the relationship.
I don’t want to seem desperate, but I also want to show him I care. Is it okay to get him something?"
Robotic:
It’s completely okay to gift someone as long as it feels genuine and not pressured. A simple, thoughtful gift shows you care.
you. Stay true to you and see through the smoke.
What matters more is whether your relationship feels balanced and respectful. If it does, then this gesture will be received with the same energy it was given.
“My friends have started smoking hubbly, and now they always offer it to me. They say I’m being uptight and that it’s not a big deal… ‘it’s just flavour.’
I don’t want to seem boring or lose my place in the group, but something about it just doesn’t sit right with me. Am I being too extra for saying no?”
Brandy:
Chomie, trust that little voice inside, it’s called a gut feeling and it rarely lies.
People can dress it up as “just flavour,” but there’s always more to the story. Those clouds? They come with chemicals that
“My bestie is a guy, and lately people have been saying ‘a boy and girl can’t just be friends’. It’s starting to make things weird, like I second-guess every joke or hug. I don’t want to ruin what we have, but I also feel pressure to explain or prove something all the time. Can boys and girls just be close without it being ‘a thing’?"
Robotic:
Friendships between boys and girls are absolutely possible and healthy, as long as both people maintain boundaries and mutual respect.
Ignore outside voices that try to label your bond. What matters is that it feels safe, balanced, and honest between you.
When a connection is real, it doesn’t need to be explained, just protected.
RUNNING
written by Genesis
Ke Sure Ka Success
Ke Shapo Ka Smoking
I’m Genesis, and I had a complicated friendship. I had never ran in a marathon but I joined one the other day and boy-oh-boy, was it a TIME!
The day started off on a high note. My mom woke me up super early and helped me get ready. I was so excited I could barely eat breakfast. When we got there, I saw a huge crowd, music playing and people dancing. There was even a warm-up session where we did jumping jacks and stretches. Some teens came from far places like Francistown and Maun!
The vibes were sooo up. Little did I know. Now, back in early primary school, I had this bestie. Let’s call her Kay. Kay and I used to do everything together. Swimming, dancing and we always passed together. Then Kay got a boyfriend.
Akere la itse gore dilo tsa primary di ntse jang? I didn’t take it seriously at
all tbh (maybe I was wrong for that). I tried to be nice but I guess she could tell that I didn’t like him. This is where it gets interesting. She asked me if I liked him and told her “No!”. I guess she meant romantically. Now all of a sudden she was accusing me of liking her boyfriend because my ‘no’ was so strong.
In hindsight we were sooo young and mo gurl took it VERY seriously. She gave me the silent treatment and this went on for weeks before she finally told me that we were no longer friends.
Akere there are two sides to each story?? I moved to a different school and we both grew up. As the marathon is about to start I am in position, stretching and preparing myself, you know? I glance to my right and guess who I see?? Kay. Yanoong ke feela awkward because we made eye contact.
For the next 5 km, I run to keep her behind me because I really just feel weird and hurt about the whole thing. I don’t want to talk to her after so long tota. The girlies who get it, get it. Every time I looked back she was looking at me and would start running faster with this determined look on her face. It was so intimidating. I wound up leaving her behind and when I was approaching the finish line I heard “Genesis, hey! Hey Genesis!”
I stopped after I crossed the finish line, panting uncontrollably and decided to face her hela. She just wanted to ask me about where I bought my tights and we started chatting after that. Turns out that her old boyfriend had a crush on me (according to rumors back then) and that’s why she kinda freaked out. We laughed about it and I could finally breathe after.
RE: How To Get Your First Job
By Wendy SEND TO: SKY Girls Everywhere
Hello Hi, SKY Generation! 're thinking about getting your first job? First of all we see you guuuurrrl! That’s a major boss babe move. Whether it’s weekend work holiday gigs or just helping out at your aunt’s salon every job counts. It’s not about being fancy, it’s about learning and levelling up.
Start with what you have
O ka se nne le CV ya six pages, and that’s okay! Just start small. Write your name, school, contact info, and any small things you’ve done. Did you help with school events? Sell snacks? Babysit your cousins? That’s real-life experience, girl — put it there. It shows you’re responsible and willing to work.
Ask around
Sometimes the plug is not on Instagram or LinkedIn — it’s your teacher, your neighbor, or your mom’s friend. Let people know you’re looking. Word of mouth works, especially if you’ve got that go-getter energy. Tswa ka confidence mosetsana.
Show up o le shap
If you’re dropping off your CV or chatting with someone about a job, be neat, greet properly and show respect. You don’t need a fancy blazer. Just keep it neat, clean, confident and real. A smile can go a long way.
Stay ready
Not every place will say “yes” the first time. And that’s okay. Sometimes you’ll have to apply more than once. That’s not failure, that’s growth. Every “no” is getting you closer to your next “yes.”
To stand out, start now: You don’t have to wait for someone to hire you before you start acting like the star you are. Volunteer at school events, church, or local projects. Join a club — drama, debate, sports, gardening, coding — whatever lights you up. It shows that you’re involved, passionate and reliable.
Also, take time to explore you. Are you creative? Try painting, designing clothes, or making TikToks that show off your personality (and your skills). Do you love helping others? Maybe tutoring or mentoring a younger student is your thing. These little actions help you grow — not just for a job, but for life.
When people see that you’re already active, confident, and growing, they won’t need convincing. They’ll see gore wena, o ready.
You got this, girl. Go get it.
The journey doesn’t start when someone hires you — it starts when you decide to show up for yourself. Shine now, grow now and trust that the right doors will open.
RE: Slaying Your First Job Interview
By Kele Chunga SEND TO: SKY Girls Everywhere
Hey SKY Girls ��
Planning for your dream job starts now and nailing the interview is a major step. Here’s a quick guide to help you walk in with confidence and walk out with a win!
Do Your Homework
The more informed you are about the company, who runs it (its management, its board, its culture and what they do – beyond just the role) the better off you are. Research who might be interviewing you. Knowing their roles or career journeys may help you feel less like you're walking into a room full of strangers and you might even find a cool icebreaker!
Dress the Part
Choose a look that’s you, professional but also fits the role. Feeling comfortable and confident in your attire can boost your self-assurance. A three-piece suit for a graphic design job? Not the vibe, sis. Look neat, feel comfortable, and let your confidence shine. Try googling what people in that position might wear if you aren’t sure where to start.
Be On Time
Arriving on time shows respect and responsibility. Aim to be at least 10 minutes early to settle in and make a positive first impression. This also helps keep those stress levels super low, making it easier to be the best you, you can be so you CRUSH IT!
Be Ready for the “Tell Us About Yourself” Question
This question always trips people up! Don’t be overly arrogant, but don’t undersell yourself either. This question is usually aimed at giving the panel a snippet of who you are beyond the CV. So don’t just repeat its content—share a little more about who you are, your passions, and what makes you unique.
Practice Common Questions
Beyond the above question think ahead about how you’ll answer:
1. “What are your strengths and weaknesses?” (Give examples!)
2. “Why do you want to work here?”
3. “What’s your ideal salary?” (Do your research, then give a range.)
Ask Smart Questions
“What does success
“How do you support
Practice
In front of a mirror or a friend. Record yourself if possible - you’ll be able to spot what to improve.
Start Now
While you're in school, volunteer, join clubs or learn new skills. You're already building your future. Be bold. Be real. Be YOU. You’ve got this, SKY girl!
SKY Quiz
Hey bo Lala, have you ever said "yes" to selo se se sa go tseyeng sentle, just to keep the peace or avoid drama? You're not alone, sis — but here are the straight facts: knowing how to say NO clearly and confidently is one of the most powerful things you can do.
Your NO helps you protect your peace, stay true to yourself and stand by your values — especially your sures (the things you love and say yes to) and your shapos (dilo tse o sa di batleng).
Refusing dilo tse di sa go thuseng — like smoking, go bua ka batho or pressure from di-chommi — isn't about being rude or difficult. It's about knowing your worth and standing in your power, Mosetsana.
Now let's find out how strong your ‘Nna ga ke batle’ game really is.
You planned a chill self-care day, but someone asks you to hang out.
A. “I can't today, mara let's plan for another time, okay?”
B. You cancel your plans to avoid disappointing them.
C. You say no, but feel super guilty after.
D. You say yes, then regret it the whole time.
Your friends are gossiping about someone (you like ��). What do you do?
A. “I'm not into go bua ka batho. A re chencheng topic.”
B. Stay quiet and hope they just stop.
C. Laugh along a bit.
D. Join in, even though it feels wrong inside.
Someone offers you a cigarette and says, “Just try it once.”
A. “No thanks, ga ke goge. That's not my vibe at all.”
B. “Umm… maybe later, I'm not sure.”
C. You pretend go goga to avoid the pressure.
D. You take it to avoid being called boring.
Your cousin teases you for loving makeup and fashion — your sures. You…
A. Say proudly, “This is me, and I love it, okaaaay?”
B. Avoid dressing up around them.
C. Argue with them.
D. Stay quiet, but know that you’ll feel insecure later on.
Results
Mostly A’s:
You’ve got a Strong NO
You know your values, you stand up for your sures, and con dently say NO to your shapos. Keep standing in your power, mosetsana!
Mostly B’s:
You’re Almost There
You're learning to set di-boundary, and that's a big deal, girl. Keep practicing and trusting your gut — you're closer than you think.
Mostly C’s and D’s: Time to Build Your NO Muscle
Saying no ga go easy, but it gets better with time and practice, I promise. Lona ba C are not too bad, but there is still a long way to go.
Your friend keeps copying your homework, and tota you are over it. What do you say?
A. “I can help you study, but I won't share my answers, you know?”
B. You give it to her again — “last time,” you promise yourself.
C. You say yes, even though o utlwa gore o a dirisiwa.
D. You avoid her completely so she won't ask.
You want to lead a school project but feel shy. What do you do?
A. Raise your hand — it's your time to shine, girl!
B. Wait and hope someone notices you.
C. Do nothing, even though you're low-key hyped.
D. Say no immediately to avoid the pressure.
Lastly, here are a few quick tips to help you build your “Ga ke batle” skills:
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Know your sures and shapos: If o itse gore o rata eng le gore ga o rate eng, it's easier go bua when something's not okay.
Stick with di-tsala tse di tlotlang your NO: The right di-chommi will never make you feel bad for standing your ground, ever.
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Practice your NO: Saying it out loud in front of a mirror or with a friend helps build that confidence.
No explanation needed: "No" is a whole sentence, girl. Ga o kolote ope reason if something just doesn't feel right.
Start small — write down your top three sures and shapos and say no to something small each week when the opportunity arises. Each step makes you stronger, mo girl!
The number 1 Sure Success and Education:
2. Make a Study Plan That Works for YOU. Sis, don’t try to study seven hours straight. You’re not a robot. Enter: The Pomodoro Method. You study for 25 minutes (fully focused), then take a 5-minute break. After four rounds, give yourself a longer break….maybe 20 to 30 minutes.
by Andrea AKA Dreezy
Hey besties! I greet you in the name of academic excellence!
You’ve got big dreams, and school is where you sharpen that brilliance. So let’s talk about how to study smart, not so hard that you feel like your brain is about to explode. This thing of CPF (Cram, Pass, Forget)? Phuaganya, babes. It might get you through one test, but it won’t help you understand the subject, and that’s what truly matters.
This method helps you avoid burnout and gives your brain time to breathe. Plus, knowing there’s a break coming makes the work feel less heavy. Write down the topics you’re covering each day and tick them off, it feels sooo satisfying. Planning isn’t boring, it’s powerful.
3. Study Buddies – but Make Them Productive.
If you’re the type who learns better through chatting and hearing things aloud, then a study group might be for you. But babes, le seka la ja dikgang and stuff. Chow book instead.
Choose one or two focused friends, not the ones who’ll turn the session into a gossip corner. Take turns explaining concepts, quiz each other, or even teach a topic as if you're the teacher. Having someone hold you accountable makes it harder to slack. And when exams are done? Then y’all can go back to being soft-life besties.
4. Catchy Song Method – Turn Your Notes Into Hits.
I know it sounds silly, but this thing works. In high school, I used to make up songs about the periodic table, biology terms, even geography. Ke reela gore, “biooo-logy is the study of…” to the tune of ‘Water’ by Tyla isn’t that bad, right?
Why does it work? Because your brain LOVES music. That’s why you can remember lyrics to songs you haven’t heard in years, but not what you read yesterday. Make it funny, weird, or dramatic. You’ll be humming yourself to better marks.
1. Research Like the Genius You Are. Don’t just stop at your class notes. There’s a whole world of learning out there. Use trusted academic sites, Google Scholar, or even YouTube tutorials (especially channels like CrashCourse, Amoeba Sisters, or Science with Hazel). Whether you’re writing IGCSE or BGCSE, content is available online — use it!
Hack: If you're stuck on a concept or need more examples, CHATgpt can help you break things down or even generate quizzes and flashcards. It’s like having a study buddy who doesn’t sleep. Just remember to double-check what it gives you. Not everything AI says is gospel.
5. Test Yourself – Don’t Just Read. Passive reading is like scrolling through TikTok and expecting to suddenly become a dancer. You need to practice. Use flashcards, past papers or online quizzes. After every topic, pause and ask yourself, “Can I explain this without peeking at my notes?”
If not, review it again. It’s not failure, it’s feedback. Testing yourself often helps your brain remember faster and longer. Plus, you’ll walk into exams already knowing what kinds of questions to expect.
6. Switch It Up – Keep It Fresh. Studying one subject for too long? Your brain will tap out. Mix up your sessions to keep things interesting. Maybe one Pomodoro for Math, one for English, then back to Science.
This method (called interleaving) helps your mind stay alert and make connections between topics. Just avoid studying two very similar subjects back to back like Physics and Chem… unless you’re comparing them on purpose.
You’ve got this, bestie. You were made for greatness. These exams are just stepping stones, not the full picture of who you are. Study smart, rest well, and walk in there knowing that you prepared — and that’s more than enough.
Ke Sure Ka acheiving my goals
Ke Shapo Ka smoking
SMOKING: The No 1 Shapo
Everytime we ask the SKY Generation gore re shapo ka eng, there is a common one; smoking! Maybe you are new to the community and want to know what that’s all about. Let’s talk about it with the SKY Generation’s entries!
Re Sure Ka Self-Care
As SKY girls and guys, we are all about We like to eat healthy, listen to our bodies and take care of them. Afterall, they will carry us through all the success we are trying to work towards. Kana cigarettes aren't just tobacco; they're packed with over 7,000 harmful chemicals that get released when they burn. Gape sharing the mouthpiece ya hubbly can spread germs and infections. Respectfully, eeewww. Bottom line: not worth the risk. Imagine ruining that future with a lame bad habit.
Re Sure Ka Smelling Good
Rona SKY Generation, re rata go nna bantle, re le comfortable and ebile re nkga monate! No way will we be smoking after all the work we put into our outfits. Next thing we smell like…. Ijoh! No. Just noooo.
Tota it smells because it’s a serious cocktail of danger, including tar (yes, like the black stuff on roads), nicotine (which is super addictive), and poisonous gases like carbon monoxide. CARBON MONOXIDE!! Nyaaaaaaaa bathong.
Re Sure Ka Our Future
Ka gore re sure ka living out our dreams for as long as possible, re shapo ka anything that can derail that. Besides the dangers that an addiction could cause, there’s dangerous chemicals too. The dangerous substances in hubbly, cigarettes and even vapes, can mess with your brain chemistry.
Our teenage years are times of important brain development – up until age 25 our brains are still developing. Inhaling nicotine during our teen years and young adulthood can cause addiction and harm the developing brain. Next thing you struggle to focus in class or even make the right choices regarding your future. Healthy body = healthy mind. Das on periodtttt!
Re Sure Ka Authenticity
On the rare occasion that a GenZ smokes (like anything), ba ira ka gore ba utlwa pressure hela. No shade, no tea, and no shame tota. Everyone is on their own journey, but for rona the SKY Generation we don’t have to do anything to be cool, we just are! This is because we are true to who we are and don’t let anyone or anything define us
There is no need to appeal to people who should love/ care/ think you are cool because you are YOU. If they don’t, you should look for new friends chommi. Find your tribe, ba e leng gore don’t make you feel like you have to smoke! There are people out there who will love you just the way you are. Re sure ka staying true to ourselves and re shapo ka smoking!!!
Spot the SMOKE FREE LOGOS Spot the SMOKE FREE LOGOS
Since smoking is the Number 1 Shapo in the SKY Generation, we have hidden our special smoke-free logo in different places throughout this magazine. Start from the beginning with a friend and see who finds the most.
IT’S ALL ABOUT THE , BABE. OPTICS
Let’s see how many of you have Eagle Eyes! What secret message does the below
Gather your friends, and try to say each sentence 10 times (very fast). The winner is the one who never trips on their own tongue!
Red lorry, yellow lorry.
If two witches were watching two watches, which witch would watch which watch?
She sells seashells by the seashore.
Toy boat, toy boat, toy boat. I scream, you scream, we all scream for ice cream.
Green glass globes glow greenly.
Six slippery snails slid slowly seaward.
That kid poured curd pulled cold.
Betty Botter bought some butter, but she said the butter’s bitter.
Brisk brave brigadiers brandished broad bright blades, blunderbusses and bludgeons balancing them badly.
The SKY Pledge: Staying true
So, we're all about the SKY Pledge, which is basically our way of saying, “let's just be ourselves!" It's like this little voice that reminds us to stay true no matter what life throws our way. Think of it as your personal "be you" mantra. It's about sticking to the stuff you're actually into (your "Sures") and ditching the stuff that feels totally fake (your "Shapos").
First line mo the pledge is: “I pledge to be true to myself and what I believe in. To be confident in who I am, and not let anyone define me." That's just saying, "I'm me and that's cool. Nobody gets to write my story."
Staying You, For Real
Staying true just means knowing what you like, what you believe and what you want, even if everyone else is doing something different. When you say, “I pledge to be true to myself," you're saying you'll listen to your own gut. It's like finding your own song in a world full of noise and dancing to that one song even if people give you weird looks.
What are you about? (Your ‘Sures’)
To be real, you gotta know yourself, right? Your “Sures" are the things you're like, "Yep, that's totally me!" Could be your music taste, your style, your besties, even getting good grades. It's the stuff that helps you grow, keeps you healthy and in your glow era. Staying true means making sure those ‘Sures’ actually fit who you are and what you care about. It's about being real when it comes to the things that make you happy. And hey, your friends might have different ‘Sures’ and that's okay!
What are you good without? (Your ‘Shapos’)
Your “Shapos" are the things you're saying "nope" to. If something feels wrong, the SKY Pledge reminds you to say “Shapo ka Yone!" Whether it's peer pressure, smoking or just bad vibes, you get to choose what you're not down with. No judging anyone else's "Shapos," but some stuff can be a dealbreaker for your friendships and relationships. Like, if you're totally "Shapo" ka bullying, you might not want to hang out with people who do that.
Your SKY, Your Rules
(The Power of Your Choices)
When you say, “I pledge to define my SKY,” you're saying you're in charge of your own life and giving yourself permission to grow and change. It's about making choices that feel right in your gut. After all, you're the one who gets to decide who you are by knowing what you care about (your values), what you believe, and those ‘Sures’ and ‘Shapos’ of yours.
Basically, the SKY Pledge is like your personal theme song. It's all about rocking who you are and being proud of it. It's about growing. Your ‘Sures’ and ‘Shapos’ can totally change as you get older. So, let the SKY Pledge be your jam, and dance to the beat of your own drum, even if it isn’t perfect!
officially a SKY girl/ guy and you can start enjoying the benefits of being a member of the community through competitions, events and most of all , support . We are not swayed by peer pressure, instead, we make choices that are true to ourselves and remember that we are good enough. Whatever our sures and shapos are, we stand by them, because those choices define us and make each one of us unique.
