February 2025 Show Me The Ozarks Magazine by Show Me The Ozarks Magazine

FEATURING HIGHER EDUCATION SPOTLIGHT ON RELATIONSHIPS

Nature Photo Cover Contest

Wildcat Glades Nature Group

Featuring Joplin & Webb City

2024 Kid’s Contest-winning photo by Liam Franklin.

2024 3rd place photo by Anne Stocker.

2024 2nd place photo by Autumn Earls.

photo by Linda Sala.

Medical and Wellness

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Medical Educational Consultant

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La Boussole Medical Spa & Wellness Center

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Bedrock Bookkeeping

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La Bonita Café & Pupusas

Specializing in artisan Salvadoran pupusas.

Located at the Joplin Empire Market every Saturday from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

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With each graduating class of the Kansas City University School of Osteopathic Medicine and the Kansas City University College of Dental Medicine, both in Joplin, Missouri, the severe shortage of doctors and dentists in rural areas is reduced.

Pictured left to right: Second-year dental student Tabor Barta, Vice Provost for Oral Health Affairs Dr. Linda Niessen, and second-year dental student Karlie Eck

Cover photo by Haley Reardon, Kansas City University-Joplin.

features in every edition

Cover Story

46 KCU-Joplin Medical and Dental Students Making a Difference in Rural Communities

Spotlight on Relationships

32 Fixing Relationships: A 30,000-mile Checkup or a Complete Overhaul

34 What’s Love Got to Do with It?

36 The Transformative Power of Motive Matters: Understanding the Colors of Connection

Featuring Higher Education

40 50 Years of Women’s Athletics at MSSU: Half a Century of Making a Difference

43 Each Year, Entire Junior Class at Cottey College Experiences International Travel

46 KCU-Joplin Medical Students Make a Difference in Rural Communities

48 KCU’s College of Dental Medicine Focuses on Dentist Shortage in Rural Communities

50 Former Pitt State Gridiron Great Kendall Gammon Remains Closely Connected to Alma Mater

Featuring Education

52 JAG Program Turns Educational Challenges into Students’ Personal Success

54 Harmony Montessori Academy Introduces Alternative Approach to Local Early Childhood Education

Wedding Features

56 Grace and Cody Spencer: A Journey of Love and Faith

58 From Childhood Friends to Forever: Asa and Samantha Hamilton’s Wedding Day

Can you find it?

Find the GREEN smiley face on one of our pages. Email wendy@ showmetheozarks.com with the page number and spot where you found it. Submit your entry by the 15th of the month. A winner will be drawn from all the correct entries and will receive a gift certificate from an area retailer. One entry per household please. Good luck!

Congratulations to Laken Bolten of Goodman, Missouri, the winner of the January edition Find the Green Smiley Face contest! Laken wins a gift certificate to McAlister’s Deli in Joplin, Missouri. The Green Smiley was on page 77 in the picture of the green smoothie.

What’s Happening in the Ozarks

11 Business Spotlights

13 Faces & Places: Annual Joplin Business EXPO

14 Cultural Arts & Entertainment

16 Calendar of Events: Kick off February in the Four States with a fun day of shopping and sipping, or eating chili, to benefit a good cause. It’s always a good time for a hike, so spend time outdoors learning about local owls or birds. If you’re looking for indoor activities, there are many classes for DIY jewelry and craft projects, and you can even prepare for future outdoor activities with a fly-tying session. You’ll love February fun in the Four States!

Home/Lifestyle

12 Your House … Your Home: Merging Your Styles as Newlyweds

21 Recipe: Sweet & Simple Chocolate Mousse

22 Show Me Dining Guide

62 A Naturalist Voice: A Storybook in the Snow

64 The Great Outdoors: Walking in the Moonlight

health

30 Why I Run: Seneca’s Kim Friend Finds Running is Great Way to Stay Healthy and Fit

66 Healthcare Heroes

68 Fit for Life: Strawberries: A great Valentine’s Day snack

70 An Innovator in Healing Hearts: Freeman Heart & Vascular Institute Celebrates 30 Years

71 Health Events

72 Drug Overdose Deaths Down in Missouri

Merging Your Styles as Newlyweds

So, you have gotten married and need to merge your two decorating styles into one cohesive style. How do you each get to keep some of the things you love and get rid of some of the things you each hate about the other’s décor? This in itself could be a premarital class!

Most women will take the lead on decorating their new home. Many men don’t have an opinion past the fact that he must have a great recliner and the biggest television he can get away with. However, some men will want an opinion and that is great. It has been shown by multiple studies that self-expression in our homes can create safety and a sense of self control. Acknowledging each other’s needs to have a say-so in the colors in our home and the furniture pieces and even the artwork will make for a much stronger relationship as we show a respect for each other’s differences and embrace them.

Most men will want to keep all the things they collected as kids through college. They want a man cave where they can play video games and watch football with the guys and probably a garage with a space for tools. The women want a beautiful bedroom, large closet and generally, a beautiful space for friends and family.

5) Choose a color palette. A base color and two accent colors are best. I find Pinterest very helpful with coordinating color schemes.

6) Once you have picked a color scheme, you can pick textures and patterns for bedding, pillows and rugs.

7) Picking a furniture style is best done by visiting furniture stores in person and seeing how they have set up their showrooms. Make sure to sit on the furniture. I always recommend detachable cushions that can be turned over, including back cushions (which typically costs more but gives you double the wear) and well-made furniture. Spending money now will save you by not having to replace it in a year.

8) Putting it all together can take some time. Live with some of the pieces you pick and then add a side chair or artwork.

You will spend a lot of time in your living room, so you can’t go wrong with a neutral color on the couch and chairs that you accent with light-colored side tables and a nice coffee table. Built-ins or stacking bookcases give you plenty of room to display books and/or collections of items from travels and pictures of loved ones. Add throw pillows and a couple of comfortable throw blankets and you have a wonderful place to kick back and entertain.

Your primary bedroom will be your sanctuary. Make sure it has comfortable linens: at least 600-thread count sheets, lightweight blankets and a comforter to accommodate the hot and cold sleeper. Side tables with reading lamps and a nice comfortable chair is perfect for any bedroom.

1) Look at this as a great collaboration that sets the tone for many things in your marriage. Compromise will be the key.

2) You don’t have to name your style.

3) Figure out what you DON’T want. “I don’t want my family’s old furniture I have been living with.” “I don’t want bright colors.” Each of you should make a list and compare.

4) Write a list of what you DO want. “I want comfortable but not overstuffed furniture.” “I want wood floors and area rugs.” Make this list and compare. You may be surprised by what you have in common.

I love the accents in this room below, of the open shelving and added area for books, live plants and more artwork. The options are endless when you have some shelving to work with. The large window and accents of brick make this room feel light and bright, yet cozy. For those of you who want light control, add a remote-control shade for those days you want to sleep in.

Marriage is a journey, and so is finding the right balance of your décor and decorating style. And your style will evolve over time. Your ideas of what fits now may not fit in 10 years. As you grow and change, so will your styles. Just know you can find your decorating style … together.

Annual Joplin Business EXPO

The annual Joplin Business EXPO held Jan. 15 at Downstream Casino Resort was “Out of This World!” The annual expo connects local businesses with other businesses and the public. The 100 booths were decorated with aliens, spaceships and stars, and 1,100 attendees were able to find out more about these businesses.

1: Halle Bebee and Sarah Abernathy, Abernathy Roofing and Construction

2: Josh Henady and Kayla Koff, Candy House and Gourmet

3: Chase, Randy and Shelly Kraft, Kraft Insurance

4: Morgan Maddox, Continental Siding

5: Megan Cameron, MC Swim Coaching

6: Amy Ipsen, Chloe Hornback and Abby Hubbard, La Boussole

7: Alice Mangan, Alice CBD

8: Jesse Thomas and Lillian Bryant, OWN, Inc

9: Ryan Green and Rachel Wolf, tectronIQ IT Services

10: Kevin Elrod and Wendy Brunner, Show Me The Ozarks Magazine

11: Savannah Derry and Lacie Waggoner, OakStar Bank

Right: Daysi Aguilar, Downstream Casino Resort

Sales, and Brooke Schuster and Jennifer Rowland, Nee’ Spa

This content is also available at connect2culture.org/calendar. Joplin, MO

Performances:

Feb. 4 & 5: Eddie 9V (9-Volt) House Concert (ages 18+), Feb. 4 at 7 p.m. (doors 6:30 p.m.) and Feb. 5 at 6 p.m. (doors 5:30 p.m.), The Coda Concert House, 2120 E. 24th St. His youthful energy and genuine soul power have made him a fixture in Atlanta and earned him a nomination for his album “Little Black Flies.” For reservations, email info@codaconcerthouse.com. In response to reservations, a confirmation email with the address, directions, parking, etc., will be sent. All proceeds benefit the artist performing. Suggested donation: $45. Information: info@codaconcerthouse.com.

Feb. 5: Isidore Quartet, 7 p.m., First Presbyterian Church, 509 Pearl Ave. The incredible young talent in this quartet defines the modern era of string quartet, playing through their vision of revisiting, rediscovering and reinvigorating the repertory. Part of Pro Musica’s 2024-2025 series. Information: director@promusicajoplin.org, 417.625.1822.

Feb. 8: “Somebody Loves You, Mr. Hatch,” 2 p.m. (doors 1:30 p.m.), Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Beshore Performance Hall, 212 W. Seventh St. Mr. Hatch is lonely. One Valentine’s Day, he receives a heart-shaped package with an anonymous note that whispers, “Somebody loves you,” and everything changes. Heartwarming puppet play examines the effect kindness can have on a lonely existence. Tickets: connect2culture.org, 417.621.9824 or C2C box office inside Cornell Complex (Tues.-Sat., 1-5 p.m.). Tickets: Adults $16.90, kids $4.42. Information: lauren@connect2culture.org, 417.621.9824.

Feb. 15: Saint Louis Dance Theatre, 7 p.m. (doors 6:30 p.m.), Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Beshore Performance Hall, 212 W. Seventh St. This award-winning organization has commissioned over 95 works and completed over 350 performances as it continues with its 12th season in the Grand Center Arts District. Tickets: connect2culture.org, 417.621.9824 or C2C box office inside Cornell Complex (Tues.-Sat., 1-5 p.m.). Tickets: $53.30-$58.50. Information: lauren@connect2culture.org, 417.621.9824.

Feb. 22: “Strings Unleashed” with Dallas String Quartet (DSQ), 7 p.m. (doors 6:30 p.m.), Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Beshore Performance Hall, 212 W. Seventh St. A fusion of classical and contemporary music on traditional and electric strings, DSQ is an international music sensation. DSQ sold out venues like the House of Blues and symphony halls, and played alongside Ed Sheeran, Luke Combs and Ashley McBryde. Tickets: connect2culture.org, 417.621.9824 or C2C box office inside Cornell Complex (Tues.-Sat., 1-5 p.m.). Tickets: $37.70-$42.90. Information: lauren@connect2culture. org, 417.621.9824.

Events:

Feb. 3-7: Missouri Arts Advocacy Week. Assist Missouri Citizens for the Arts (MCA) in amplifying and strengthening the collective voice of Missouri’s arts industry. Help take MCA’s message to legislators and help emphasize how vital a vibrant, creative economy is to Missourians. Information: advocates@mo4arts.org, 573.222.0278.

Feb. 3, 10, 17 & 24: Missouri Southern State University Choral Society Rehearsal, 7 p.m., MSSU, 3950 E. Newman Rd, Joplin. Hone your gift and enjoy the fellowship of this mixed, community choir. Open to anyone, college age and older. Does not require auditions. Interested singers may attend the first few rehearsals at no charge. Cost: $30 per semester. Information: wbloss@gmail.com, 417.208.9654.

Feb. 4: ”The Third Man,” 7 p.m., Missouri Southern State University Cornell Auditorium, 3950 E. Newman Rd, Joplin. Set in post-World War II Allied-occupied Vienna, an American writer arrives in the city and learns the friend he has come to see has died. He stays in Vienna

to investigate the death and becomes infatuated with his friend’s girlfriend. Not rated. Information: Palmer-B@mssu.edu, 417.625.3597.

Feb. 11: Art and Anatomy in Italy Professional-in-Residence Lecture Series: Can Art Improve Medical Care? 5 p.m., Missouri Southern State University Billingsly Student Center, 3950 E. Newman Rd. Dr. Joel Katz, M.D., senior vice president for Education at Dana Farber Cancer Institute, and associate professor at Harvard Medical School, will discuss the benefits of using visual arts within medical/ health science education to patient care at large. Dr. Katz pioneered the use of visual arts as a teaching strategy within medical education at Harvard Medical School, specifically Visual Thinking Strategies. Information: bentley-c@mssu.edu, 417.625.9563.

Feb. 11: “Amélie,” 7 p.m., Missouri Southern State University Cornell Auditorium, 3950 E. Newman Rd., Joplin. Audrey Tautou delights as a spirited waitress determined to help those around her find love and happiness, although her own romantic adventure proves to be challenging. Rated R. Information: Palmer-B@mssu.edu, 417.625.3597.

Feb. 13: Joplin Writers’ Guild, 6 p.m., Joplin Public Library, 1901 E. 20th St. Includes a variety of writers from hobbyists to professional, published writers. Members have published novels, nonfiction books and articles. The group supports each other and shares information about the publishing and writing industries. Dues are $10 for the year, but anyone interested can attend their first meeting free. Information: s.v.farnsworth@gmail.com, 417.691.0480.

Feb. 17: Downtown Poetry Reading and Open Mic, 6-8 p.m., Joplin Avenue Coffee Company, 506 S. Joplin Ave. Open mic sign-up begins at 6 p.m. Featured reader, Robert Powell, begins at 6:15 p.m. Open mic readings follow at 7 p.m. Occurs the third Monday each month— same place, same time. Information: julieramon0802@gmail.com.

Feb. 18: Joplin Area Town and Country Quilters Monthly Meeting, 1-3 p.m., Peace Lutheran/Sojourners Christian Church, 3100 N. St. Louis Ave. Quilters of all ages share knowledge of quilt construction, history and preservation of quilts. Any adult can attend two meetings prior to becoming a member; annual dues are $20. Information: redriley@gmail.com.

Feb. 18: “The Castle,” 7 p.m., Missouri Southern State University Cornell Auditorium, 3950 E. Newman Rd. A working-class family from Melbourne lives next to an airport. One day, they are told they must move as the government and airport want it for expansion. The family decides to fight for their home, their way of life, their memories— their castle. Rated R. Information: Palmer-B@mssu.edu, 417.625.3597.

Feb. 25: “Shadowlands,” 7 p.m., Missouri Southern State University Cornell Auditorium, 3950 E. Newman Rd. In the 1950s, reserved, middle-aged bachelor C.S. Lewis is an Oxford University academic and author of “The Chronicles of Narnia” series of children’s books. He meets married American poet Joy Davidman Gresham and her young son Douglas on their visit to England. The movie traces the circumstances that challenge and change them and give them each a new world view. Rated PG. Information: Palmer-B@mssu.edu, 417.625.3597.

Feb. 27: Open Mic Night, 7-9:30 p.m., Joplin Avenue Coffee Company, 506 S. Joplin Ave. Performers are each allotted five to eight minutes per set. Two vocal mics, a quarter-inch plug-in for guitar/piano and an aux cable will be available. To sign up early, message them at facebook.com/joplinavecoffeeco. All ages welcome. Information: autumn@joplinavenuecoffeecompany.com, 417.483.5558.

Exhibits:

Dec. 1-Feb. 28: “Woodland Walk” by Debbie Reed, Joplin Area Chamber of Commerce, 320 E. Fourth St. A collection of paintings from watercolorist Debbie Reed. Information: lteeter00@gmail.com, 417.438.5931.

Jan. 11-March 1: “The Predictably Unpredictable Tales from the Land of Ardithian” by Ardith Goodwin Walls, Harry M. Cornell

Arts & Entertainment Complex, Spiva Center for the Arts, 212 W. Seventh St. Ardith merges her love for mixed media, storytelling and complex systems into abstract atmospheres and settings depicted in her art. The exhibition, “The Land of Ardithian,” offers an immersive experience that blends literary and visual arts. Explore a fusion of abstract energy and fantasy through large-scale contemporary paintings that echo the world-building concepts from the book. Information: sconroy@spivaarts.org, 417.623.0183.

Jan. 11-Feb. 27: “Emerging Expressions: High School Showcase,” Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Spiva Center for the Arts, 212 W. Seventh St. Presented by The Kiwanis Club of Joplin and Spiva Center for the Arts, this is an art exhibit featuring the talents of students from seven area high schools. Information: sconroy@spivaarts.org, 417.623.0183.

Jan. 1-March 1: Third Grade Collaborative Project, Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Spiva Center for the Arts, 212 W. Seventh St. Yearly, Spiva’s classrooms and galleries welcome over 1,800 area third graders for a day of art education revolving around Spiva’s main exhibit. Students from seven school districts and over 30 schools are learning about the Main Gallery exhibit, “The Predictably Unpredictable Tales from the Land of Ardithian” by Ardith Goodwin and creating a collaborative exhibit in response to what they learn. Information: sconroy@spivaarts.org, 417.623.0183.

Feb. 7-March 15: “Over the Top” by Joplin Regional Artists Coalition (JRAC), artCentral Carthage, 1110 E. 13th St. JRAC members have prepared exceptional, original artwork revolving around the theme “over the top” as a nod to New Orleans and Mardi Gras. Information: artcentral1110@gmail.com, 417.358.4404.

Classes:

Feb. 8: Watercolor Caricatures with Rachel Cabral (ages 12+), 10:15 a.m.-12:15 p.m., Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Spiva Center for the Arts, 212 W. Seventh St. Students will use watercolor and ink to create their own caricatures inspired by Tim Burton’s style. Designed for beginners and experienced artists. Registration required; register by visiting spivaarts.org/ event/watercolor-caricatures. Cost: $30. Information: dhernandez@ spivaarts.org, 417.621.9813.

Feb. 14: Pizza My Heart: A Kids Valentine’s Day Class (ages 6-12), 6-8:30 p.m., Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Spiva Center for the Arts, 212 W. Seventh St. Students will craft their own pizza and heart-shaped collages. Perfect opportunity for parents to enroll their kids in a festive workshop while they enjoy Spiva’s couples’ class downstairs in the gallery or drop the kids off and head out for a romantic dinner. All materials provided. Registration required; register by visiting spivaarts.org/event/ pizza-my-heart. Cost: $35. Information: dhernandez@spivaarts.org, 417.621.9813.

Feb. 14: Entwined: A Couples Valentine’s Class with Amber and Fred Mintert (ages 21+), 6:30-8:30 p.m., Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Spiva Center for the Arts, 212 W. Seventh St. Couples will collaborate through a playful painting swap challenge. Starting with individual paintings from the imagination or optional prompts, partners will swap canvases every 10 minutes, adding their own creative touches to each other’s work. The real magic happens when these two creations are cut and woven together, symbolizing the intertwining of your lives. Final piece will be displayed in a 14” × 14” frame. Romantic atmosphere with drinks, appetizers and desserts. Perfect for all skill levels. Registration required; register by visiting spivaarts.org/ event/entwined. Cost: $95 per couple. Information: dhernandez@ spivaarts.org, 417.621.9813.

Feb. 15: String Pulling with Debbie Southard (ages 10+), 3-5 p.m., Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Spiva Center for the Arts, 212 W. Seventh St. Create stunning floral designs with the dynamic string-pulling technique. Explore how to use strings,

chains and beads to manipulate paint and craft intricate, one-of-akind patterns. All materials provided. Registration required; register by visiting spivaarts.org/event/string-pulling. Cost: $50. Information: dhernandez@spivaarts.org, 417.621.9813.

Feb. 22: PhotoSpiva Teens with Andy Neher (ages 11-18), 10 a.m.2:30 p.m., Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Spiva Center for the Arts, 212 W. Seventh St. Students will go over fundamentals of photography: shooting in manual mode, understanding light and composition, learning the basics of Photoshop editing and taking a photo walk downtown. Students will have a week to take photos and return finished images to Spiva to be juried and displayed in the Reserve Gallery. Images will be for sale and artists retain 70% commission from work sold. Artist reception and awards ceremony March 15. Spiva will have point-and-shoot cameras and a few DSLR cameras available for loan but each student is encouraged to find a DSLR camera to use for class. Registration required; register by visiting spivaarts.org/event/photospiva-teen-class. Cost: $100. Information: dhernandez@spivaarts.org, 417.621.9813.

Recurring Classes:

artCentral Carthage, 1110 E. 13th St., Carthage:

Tuesdays: CAST Afterschool Art Program (ages 5-14), 3-5:30 p.m., YMCA Youth Activity Center, 400 S. Maple St., Carthage. Young artists can hone their cognitive abilities, critical thinking and verbal skills as they explore various art forms and a broad range of applications. Registration required; register at forms.gle/cyqb5J6qekWs1pJU7. Cost: $10 per student, per week. Information: artcentral1110@gmail.com, 417.358.4404.

Create N Sip Studios, 1505 W. 10th St., Joplin:

Wednesdays: Wine’d Down Wednesday, 5-9 p.m. A Canvas and Home Decor DIY Event. Choose the project that works for you. Cost: $28-$58. Information: coleman@creatensip.com, 417.680.5434.

Saturdays: Saturday Morning Choose Your Canvas, 10 a.m. Select the painting you want to recreate. Prices vary depending on chosen project. Cost: $28-$176. Information: coleman@creatensip.com, 417.680.5434.

Firehouse Pottery-Joplin, 112 S. Main St., Joplin: Tuesdays: Ladies’ Night Out (ages 18+), until 8 p.m. Enjoy a creative evening. Information: firehousepotteryjoplin@gmail.com, 417.553.0671.

Fridays: Date Night, until 8 p.m. Friday nights are date night 2-for-1 studio fees for all couples. Information: firehousepotteryjoplin@gmail. com, 417.553.0671.

Judy’s Ballroom Dance, 3950 E. Newman Rd., Joplin: Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Fridays: Judy’s Ballroom Dance Private Lessons. With private lessons, Judy can help transform you into a skilled, elegant dancer! Call Judy at 417.392.0215 to book your private lesson. Cost: $50 per hour. Information: schneider-j@mssu.edu, 417.392.0215.

Spiva Center for the Arts, 212 W. Seventh St., Joplin: Tuesdays: Creation Station (ages 6–11), 4-5:15 p.m. Explore the galleries, enjoy fun activities and experiment with a variety of media, including painting, drawing, clay, sculpture and more. Pre-registration is recommended. Space is limited. Register at spivaarts.org/classes. Cost: In advance, $6, and at the door, $8. Information: dhernandez@ spivaarts.org, 417.621.9813.

Tanglefooter’s Round Dance Club, 1802 W. Second St., Joplin: Mondays: Tanglefooter’s Round Dance Club, 7-8 p.m. Learn choreographed ballroom dancing with experienced teachers. Cost: Individual $7.50, couple $15. Information: mike@gfeneosho.com, 417.529.0686.

What’s Happening Calendar of Events

in the Ozarks

If you have an event you would like to see listed in the Calendar of Events, please email your request to: wendy@showmetheozarks.com. Events are printed on a space available basis and must be received by the 5th of the month prior to the month of the scheduled event.

Northwest Arkansas

Feb. 7: Real Estate – MORE TOUR, 8 p.m., The Momentary, 507 SE E Street, Bentonville. Fresh off their acclaimed 2024 album “Daniel,” indie rock powerhouse Real Estate is bringing their blend of breezy melody, mellow vibes and effortlessly masterful songwriting right to the heart of Bentonville. Opening the night’s performance is indie rock band Grumpy. Ticket options include $30 General Admission, $24 Member, $20 Student and $300 Premium Group Seating. Information: info@ crystalbridges.org, 479.657.2335.

Carl Junction Community Center: 303 N. Main St., 417.649.7237

Monday, Wednesday & Friday Pickleball, 6-9 p.m. on Tuesday, noon3 p.m. on Thursday, and 1-4 p.m. on Sunday. Yoga at 6 p.m. on Tuesday.

First Saturday of the month: Carl Junction Lions Breakfast, 8-11 a.m. The CJ Lions Club sponsors a monthly buffet breakfast with proceeds going to various community organizations and projects. Adults and children 11 and up $7; children ages 3-10 $3; children under 3 eat free.

Joplin, MO

Feb. 8: Freeman Health System Auxiliary Fourth Annual Galentine’s Day Sip and Shop, The Roxy, 102. W. First St. This year’s event will benefit the Freeman Health System Wig and Scarf program, which provides wigs and scarves to cancer patients undergoing chemotherapy treatments. Purchase tickets at www.freemanhealth. com/galentines.

Shoal Creek Conservation Education Center, 201 W. Riviera Drive. Your local connection to Missouri’s fish, forests and wildlife. Check out the native plant landscaping, exhibits or hike the trails. Purchase a fishing or hunting permit, attend a nature program or watch for wildlife along the trails and banks of Shoal Creek. Enjoy a variety of free public programs throughout the year. Education center is open Tuesday-Friday, 9 a.m.-5 p.m. and Saturday, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Closed Sunday, Monday and most state holidays. Call 417.629.3434, email Shoal.Creek@mdc.mo.gov or visit mdc.mo.gov/events for upcoming events. The parking lot, grounds and trail are open seven days a week from sunrise to sunset.

Feb. 1: Suet & Songbirds, 10:30 a.m.-noon. Registration required. Ages: 5-up. Homemade suet cakes are a fantastic way to get creative while feeding backyard birds in winter. Join us to learn about birds and make this tasty winter treat. Peanut butter will be present during the event. Limited to 10 groups. Please register each member of your group.

Feb. 8: Short-Eared Owl Hike, 4:30-6 p.m. Registration required. Ages 10-up. Winter in Missouri means short-eared owls may be seen flying low over native grasslands in search of mice, rabbits and other small mammals. Join us at Shawnee Trail Conservation Area to discover more about these uncommon winter residents during this easy-rated hike.

Feb. 11: Fly Tying – San Juan Worms, 6:30-8 p.m. Registration required. Ages: Recommended for ages 12-up. Have you ever wanted to learn how to tie flies? Join the Shoal Creek staff and MAKO fly fishers

as we start a fly-tying series designed for beginners and experts. Each session will build off the previous session, so attendance for all sessions is encouraged. In Session 2, we will go over equipment and supplies needed as we tie San Juan Worms. All materials provided, but feel free to bring your own vice and tools. Space is limited, so please register to help us know how many we should expect.

Feb. 13-14 & Feb. 26-27: Project Feeder Watch, 9:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Registration recommended. Ages 16-up. Project Feeder Watch is a winter-long survey of birds anyone can participate in. Stop by anytime to help us count birds at our feeders for our fifth year of collecting data and to find out information about Project Feeder Watch.

Feb. 26: Virtual Program – Owls of Missouri, 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Registration required. Ages 5-up. Nesting season comes early for owls and they’re already hooting in anticipation. Join us to learn about common Missouri owls, what makes them effective nighttime hunters and how to identify them by sound.

Feb. 28: Little Acorns – Skunk Scurry, 10:30-11 a.m. Registration required. Recommended for ages 3-7. Skunks are known far and wide for their smelly nature, but there’s much more to these stinky critters than meets the eye … or the nose. Join us for Little Acorns – Skunk Scurry to learn all about skunks and make a not-so-smelly craft to take home.

Local Color Art Gallery & Studio, 1027 S. Main St., Joplin, Missouri. A cooperative of local artists showcasing their art in the gallery and often working in the studio at the historical Gryphon Building in downtown Joplin. We offer art classes to children and adults. Please call Local Color Art Gallery & Studio at 417.553.0835 to inquire further.

Tuesdays: Beginner’s Watercolor Class with Barb Hicklin (ages 8+), 11 a.m.-1 p.m. Bring your own supplies. Cost $20.

Thursdays or Fridays: Impasto Oil Painting Class with Tricia Courtney, 2-5 p.m. Learn the techniques and tricks of painting thick with a painting knife. Bring your own supplies (canvas board, oil paint, brushes and palette/painting knives). Cost $20.

Feb. 1: Jewelry Making Class with April Davis Brunner, 1-3 p.m. Includes all supplies. Cost $25.

Feb. 8: Fused Glass Class with Jane McCaulley (ages 8+), 2:30-4:30 p.m. Valentine suncatchers. Includes all supplies. Cost $35.

Feb. 14: Watercolor Class with Joan Allen (ages 9+), 10 a.m.-noon and 1-3 p.m. Includes all supplies. Cost $30.

Feb. 22: Saturday Paint Class with Jesse McCormick & Margie Moss (ages 8+), 10:30 a.m.-1 p.m. Includes all supplies and an ice cream cone from Caroline’s. No experience necessary. Paint a Monet or Van Gogh or bring a picture of what you would like to paint. Cost $30.

Wildcat Glades Friends Group, 201 Riviera Dr., Joplin, Missouri. All programs are free of charge, unless otherwise noted. Registration is requested. To register, email robin@wildcatglades.org or visit our Facebook page for online registration options. Robin Standridge, executive director, robin@wildcatglades.org or 417.291.3156.

Various Dates in February: Ongoing Project: Wildcat Park Habitat Restoration & MSSU/KCU Student Trail Initiative. Wildcat Glades Nature Group, in partnership with Missouri Southern State University and Kansas City University, continues to have work days to remove invasive species at Wildcat Park. The Restoration Plan is an ongoing project that will be carried out over the next 10 years. Workdays are held nearly every Saturday or Thursday during the year. If you are interested in becoming involved with the restoration effort, you can check out our Facebook page, or reach out to colvin@wildcatglades. org.

Feb. 8 & 12: Preschool Connections – A Thing Called Snow, 1-2

p.m. Feb. 8, and 10-11 a.m. Feb. 12 at the Education Cottage. Ages 3-7, accompanied by an adult. Free. Do you remember the first time you saw snow? We’re reviving the magic of that first snow through a story, song and craft. This month’s story is “A Thing Called Snow” by Yuval Zommer, which tells the tale of two spring-born animals experiencing snow for the first time. You must pre-register by visiting https://bit.ly/ PreschoolConnections225 or by emailing colvin@wildcatglades.org.

Feb. 21: Nature Explorers – Rocks Rock, 6-7 p.m., Wildcat Glades Education Cottage. Ages 7-14. Free. From stones and boulders to pebbles and flakes, Missouri has some amazing rocks. This month’s Nature Explorers is all about the stones under our feet and the important roles rocks play in the environment. You must pre-register by visiting our Facebook page, emailing colvin@wildcatglades.org or by going to https://bit.ly/NatureExplorers225. Diamond, MO

George Washington Carver National Monument Visitor Center Free Programs. Two miles west of Diamond, Missouri, on Highway V, onequarter mile south on Carver Road. Visitor center and park grounds open daily 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Call 417.325.4151 or visit www.nps.gov/gwca. *Programs will be presented outside on park grounds.

Feb. 1 & 2: Film – More Than a Month (60 minutes), 1 p.m. This Public Broadcasting Service film explores the complexities and contradictions behind Black History Month.

Feb. 8 & 9: African American Trailblazers, 1 p.m. Talk with a ranger to explore the contributions of African American Trailblazers and discover their pioneering achievements.

Feb. 15: Hike & Seek – Birds, 10 a.m. Join a ranger on a birdwatching stroll to learn more about our feathered friends and contribute to the annual Great Backyard Bird Count.

Feb. 15 & 16: Film – Underground Railroad/The William Still Story (60 minutes), 1 p.m. This Public Broadcasting Service film explores the life of William Still, an unheralded hero of the Underground Railroad.

Feb. 20: Coffee with Carver – George Washington Carver’s Agricultural Bulletins, 10 a.m. George Washington Carver created tasty, nutritious food and drink from ingredients that were readily available to farm families. He shared information and recipes through his agricultural bulletins. Join a ranger to learn more and to make Recipe No. 104, peanut coffee.

Feb. 22 & 23: Historic 1872 Neosho Colored School, 1 p.m. Learn about the school George Washington Carver attended in 1876, and the struggle for Black education at the time.

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Feb. 9: SEK Humane Society 48th Annual Chili Dinner, 11 a.m.-3 p.m., Memorial Auditorium, 503 N. Pine. Indoor dining $8 meal includes bowl of chili, crackers, dessert and drink. An outdoor drive-thru lane will be for $15 quarts of chili. Also, at 1 p.m. is Comeau Jewelry’s Bingo Blingo, $10 for 10 rounds. All profits will go toward the animals.

ArtForms Gallery Workshops, 620 N. Broadway. 620.240.0165. ArtForms Gallery is a co-op of artists offering monthly workshops ranging from acrylic painting, watercolor, glass fusing, pottery, metalsmithing, jewelry, textiles, kids’ art and more. Call ArtForms Gallery to register for any artist’s workshop. Refunds/Cancellations: Decisions regarding refunds and cancellations are determined by the artist leading the workshop. For more information, check our Facebook page at ArtFormsGallery620/ or see our website at www.artformsgallery.com.

Every Tuesday: Art Explorations, 12:30-3:30 p.m. Free. Join Gallery Artist Pat Glick every Tuesday afternoon for a fun time working on your own project or art.

Feb. 1: Needle Felted Heart Brooch, 1-3 p.m. Workshop fee $30, due at time of registration to guarantee your seat. Class limit of 10. Ages 12-up. Artist: Rebecca Lomshek. Learn the basics of needle felting while creating a simple heart pin.

Feb. 2: Pyrography Keychains, 2-4 p.m. Workshop fee $25, due at time of registration to guarantee your seat. Class limit of 6. Ages 12up. Artist: Ashley Denham. Participants will draw and burn their own design onto a wooden keychain. Watercolor pencils can be used to add a pop of color. We will clear coat at the end before you take your art home.

Feb. 8: Valentine Dreamcatcher, 1-3 p.m. Workshop fee $25, due at time of registration to guarantee your seat. Class limit of 14. Ages 6-up. Artist: Sarah Prince. Participants will choose their own color combinations, paint, decorate and create a Valentine dreamcatcher. Sarah will demonstrate an example and all materials are provided.

Feb. 9: Valentine Heart Wreath, 1-3 p.m. Workshop fee $30, due at time of registration to guarantee your seat. Class limit of 8. Ages 14-up. Artist: Brenda Hayes. Join Brenda to make a Valentine heart wreath. We will use recycled materials to make your wreath. You choose the accent colors.

Feb. 14: Pyrography Coasters, 4-6 p.m. Workshop fee $25, due at time of registration to guarantee your seat. Class limit of 6. Ages 12up. Artist: Ashley Denham. Participants will draw and burn their own design onto a wooden coaster. Watercolor pencils can be used to add a pop of color. We will clear coat at the end before you take your art home.

Feb. 15: Thrive in 2025 – How Do I Begin? 2-3:30 p.m. Workshop fee $20, due at time of registration to guarantee your seat. Class limit of 12. Ages 18-up. Artist: Janet Lewis. Janet will guide you in a fun activity centering on your personal artistic interests, desires and intentions, such as expanding your technical skills or boosting your creativity. Or maybe you could use some guidance in exhibiting or selling your work or setting up a home studio. The “Thrive” program series will focus on establishing and maintaining your own creative practice, and future workshops will be developed based on your input, tapping into the collective knowledge and experience of ArtForms’ 19 member artists as it progresses.

Feb. 16: Tie Dye Party, 1-3 p.m. Workshop fee $45, due at time of registration to guarantee your seat. Class limit of 10. Ages 10-up. Artist: Daria Claiborne. Bring two pre-washed cotton items to tie dye, using a variety of methods. Dyes and instructions provided.

Feb. 22: Nail Polish Marbled Ring Dish, 1-3 p.m. Workshop fee $40, due at time of registration to guarantee your seat. Class limit of 14. Ages 10-up. Artist: Sarah Prince. It’s so much fun to marble with nail polish. Sarah will demonstrate an example, and you will make and take home two dishes. All materials provided.

Feb. 23: Fabulous Fringe Earrings, 2-4 p.m. Workshop fee $40, due at time of registration to guarantee your seat. Class limit of 8. Ages 16-up. Artist: Kristin Girard. Make some statement earrings to wear when you feel like getting some attention. Long earrings made with seed beads are lightweight and fun to make.

Feb. 27: Pyrography Bookmarks or Keychains, 2-4 p.m. Workshop fee $25, due at time of registration to guarantee your seat. Class limit of 6. Ages 12-up. Artist: Ashley Denham. Participants will draw and burn their own design onto a wooden bookmark or keychain. Watercolor pencils can be used to add a pop of color. We will clear coat at the end before you take your art home.

presents...

by Kristi Spencer

Puppets, Dance and ‘Bach Meets Bon Jovi’

Connect2Culture’s calendar is packed with performances you won’t want to miss. Whether you’re in the mood for the heartwarming story of “Somebody Loves You, Mr. Hatch!,” the powerful dance of Saint Louis Dance Theatre or the unique blend of classical and pop from the Dallas String Quartet, there’s something for everyone.

Somebody Loves You, Mr. Hatch!

Mr. Hatch lives a predictable, lonely life, going through the motions day after day. But one Valentine’s Day, everything changes when he unexpectedly receives a heart-shaped package with an anonymous note that reads, “Somebody loves you.” This small gesture of kindness sparks a transformation in Mr. Hatch, making him realize the power of love and connection.

“Somebody Loves You, Mr. Hatch!” is a heartwarming puppet play that explores the impact of kindness and the importance of human connection. Through the help of washerwomen Betsy, Edna and Molly, Mr. Hatch embarks on a journey to discover his secret admirer, all while learning about the profound effect kindness can have on a lonely existence.

This production is adapted from Eileen Spinelli’s beloved book and is perfect for audiences ages 3 and up.

WANT TO GO?

Saint Louis Dance Theatre

Saint Louis Dance Theatre blends incredible artistry with a strong sense of community. Known for their bold vision and commitment to inclusivity, they use dance to connect with audiences and spread optimism. Their performances offer a chance to reflect on life, while also providing a good dose of humor to keep it real and relatable.

Artistic Director Kirven Douthit-Boyd says, “Dance theatre reminds us not to take ourselves too seriously. When we bring humor to the stage, as Kylián does so brilliantly in “Sechs Tänze,” we create a powerful connection with the audience. You don’t need to be versed in Mozart or classical dance to appreciate the work—the humor keeps it human and accessible. That’s what makes great art universally resonant.”

The upcoming performance will feature a great mix of works from celebrated choreographers across different generations.

Somebody Loves You, Mr. Hatch!

WANT TO GO?

Saint Louis Dance Theatre

Saturday, Feb. 15 | 7 p.m.

Cornell Complex, Beshore Performance Hall

Tickets: $50-$55 (plus fees)

Photo courtesy of Todd Rosenberg.

Strings Unleashed with Dallas String Quartet

The Dallas String Quartet is known for its unique fusion of contemporary classical and pop music, often described as “Bach meets Bon Jovi.” The group combines traditional and electric strings with the full accompaniment of drums and guitar. From their reimagined renditions of timeless classics like Guns N’ Roses’ “Sweet Child O’ Mine” to Taylor Swift’s “Anti-Hero,” the quartet offers something for everyone.

Audiences can look forward to a concert that blends the elegance of classical pieces with the excitement of modern hits. Founder Ion Zanca says, “Our mission is to bring people together through music, blending the elegance of classical instruments with the vibrancy of today’s most beloved songs. We hope to show audiences in Joplin that music truly is a universal language, capable of connecting us all.”

WANT TO GO?

Dallas String Quartet

Saturday, Feb. 22 | 7 p.m.

Cornell Complex, Beshore Performance Hall

Tickets: $50-$55 (plus fees)

Justin Roberts

& The Not So Ready for Naptime

Players

Five-time GRAMMY-nominated children’s musician

Justin Roberts has been the soundtrack to families’ lives for over 25 years and is known for his fun and feel-good songs that focus on themes of inclusion, acceptance and selfdiscovery. With his band, the Not So Ready for Naptime Players, Justin creates an atmosphere where kids and their families can explore what it means to be yourself and embrace what makes you unique.

Justin’s music is anything but typical kids’ tunes. He first started writing songs while working as a Montessori preschool teacher in the 1990s, creating music that resonated with children in a way that was anything but simple. His songs range from catchy rock anthems to gentle lullabies, always with the goal of connecting with kids and adults.

“The most common thing I hear is, ‘I listen to your music long after I’ve dropped the kids off at school,’” says Justin.

WANT TO GO?

Justin Roberts & The Not So Ready for Naptime Players

Sunday, March 2 | 2 p.m.

Cornell Complex, Beshore Performance Hall

Ticket Prices: Adults $15 | Kids $3 (plus fees)

Where it’s ‘COOL’ to be YOU!

Visit these local establishments to experience a variety of creative events and entertainment in February.

ART EXHIBITS, THEATER AND MUSIC

Cornell Complex, 212 W. Seventh St., home of Connect2Culture and Spiva Center for the Arts. Get tickets/info by calling 417.621.9824.

• Jo Mueller Reserve Gallery: “The Third Grade Collaboration Project.” Students from seven different school districts and over 20 different schools are learning about the Main Gallery exhibit, “Ardith Goodwin: The Predictably Unpredictable Tales from the Land of Ardithian.” In addition to gallery activities and a takehome project made in the classroom, students are creating a continuous public installation in response to the Ardithian.

• Freeman Health System Main Gallery: Jan. 11-March 1: “Ardith Goodwin: The Predictably Unpredictable Tales from the Land of Ardithian.” Once between two dreams in The Land of Ardithian, an artist, Ardith Goodwin, decided to paint with words along with pigment, and a story of adventure, energy and outrageous determination was born. The Land of Ardithian is a multi-media creative project combining contemporary art, children’s literature and creativity training paired with an inspiring message of hope.

• Sharon and Lance Beshore Gallery: Jan. 11-Feb. 27: “Emerging Expressions: High School Showcase.” This vibrant showcase celebrates the unique perspectives and artistic voices of young artists in the community. Featured schools include Carl Junction High School, New Heights Christian Academy, Joplin High School, McAuley Catholic High School, Neosho High School, Thomas Jefferson Independent Day School and Webb City High School.

• Harry M. Cornell Permanent Collection Gallery: Jan. 11-May 3: “Monochrome,” an art exhibit that explores the power of black and white photography to evoke emotion, capture fleeting moments and offer a raw, unfiltered view of the world. The exhibit is composed entirely of monochrome images—no color, just varying shades of black, white and gray.

• Feb. 8, 2 p.m.: “Somebody Loves You, Mr. Hatch” is a puppet play production by Axis Theatre Company that examines the effect kindness can have on a lonely existence.

• Feb. 15, 7 p.m.: “Saint Louis Dance Theatre” brings together world-class artistry and audacious vision purpose-driven performance.

• Feb. 22, 7 p.m.: “Strings Unleashed with Dallas String Quartet,” a fusion of classical, contemporary, traditional and electric strings that perform as a quartet with full accompaniment of drums and guitar. Dream Theatre, 124 S. Main St.:

• Feb. 5-May 17: Acting Academy. Enrollment fee $25, lessons $120 monthly.

• Feb. 20-22, 7:30 p.m.: “The Vagina Monologues.” RSVP for tickets at 417.553.0835.

Local Color Art Gallery, 1027 S. Main St.: Several days a week, one of their 17 artists is teaching a class, such as working with glass, making chimes, painting in oil or with a palette knife. Also, there is a Saturday paint class taught each week by gallery artists from 10:30 a.m. to 1 p.m. Walk-in or RSVP for guidelines on classes. Call 417.553.0835 to sign up!

Urban Art Gallery, 511 S. Main St.:

• Presents its annual juried Valentine’s Group Art Exhibit, “Art from the Heart.” A public awards reception is Feb. 15, 4-6 p.m.

• Recurring class Mondays 6-8 p.m.: Painting themes on canvas. Supplies furnished. Fees $22-$25. See themes on Facebook.com/Urban Art GalleryJoplin under events information. For more information and to RSVP, call 417.438.5931.

Bar and Restaurant Offerings

Blackthorn Pizza and Pub, 510 S. Joplin Ave.:

• Feb. 14, 10 p.m.: Drag show hosted by Victoria Kennedy and Shayna Towers. $5 cover, 21 and up.

• First and Third Sunday: Comedy Open Mic night at 8:30 p.m.

• Second Sunday, Singer/Songwriter Free Open Mic, 7 p.m.

• Mondays are family game nights.

Brew Pub & Parlour, 817 S. Main St.: Karaoke every Tuesday, Thursday and Friday at 8 p.m.

Chaos Brewing Company, 112 S. Main St.: Free trivia night Wednesdays at 7 p.m.

Club 609, 609 S. Main St.: The talented Nicholas Kent Clark will show “Western American Man,” a collection of works reflecting on the power of one’s origin, explored through the lens of a Western American icon. The show’s collection includes artwork in a variety of mediums, including paintings (acrylic on canvas), illustrations (ink on paper) and multimedia (acrylic on artifacts).

Joplin Avenue Coffee Company, 506 S. Joplin Ave., presents modern portrait artist Connie Miller with her show “Women of Light, Strength and Color,” which features vibrant colors on canvas with people with no facial features (keeps the work from being personal) with charming themes that could be anyone you know.

530 Somewhere, 530 S. Main St., is now a rental party venue but will offer a wine bar Wednesday-Saturday evenings hosted by Christine’s Vineyard.

By Kristi Spencer

This dessert tastes like it’s straight from a five-star restaurant, yet it’s incredibly easy to make and healthy, too! With just four simple ingredients, this chocolate mousse is the perfect way to satisfy your sweet tooth without the guilt, making it a perfect treat for Valentine’s Day.

Sweet & Simple Chocolate Mousse

INGREDIENTS

2 cans of coconut milk

4 tablespoons honey

DIRECTIONS

2 teaspoons vanilla extract

4 tablespoons cocoa powder, unsweetened

1. Place the cans of coconut milk in the freezer for about an hour before making the mousse. This helps the coconut cream separate from the liquid.

Note: You’ll need about 2 full cups of thick coconut cream. If one can doesn’t have enough solid cream, use more from the second can.

2. Open the cans and scoop out the thickened coconut cream into a large bowl or mixer.

3. Add honey, vanilla extract and cocoa powder to the bowl.

4. Beat everything together until smooth and creamy.

5. Serve with fruit, top with whipped cream or enjoy it straight from the bowl.

ShowMe Dining Guide

Red Onion Café

Casual urban dining in historic downtown Joplin since 1995. Famous for fresh salads, smoked chicken dip, burgers, pasta, grilled fish and steaks. The menu has a wide variety of gluten-free, low-carb and keto-friendly items. Extensive craft beer menu and wines by the glass. Full-service catering for groups large and small. Consistently voted “Best Restaurant” and “Best Menu” by 417 Magazine and The Joplin Globe. $-$$

Hours: Monday-Saturday 11 a.m.-9 p.m.

Finn’s is a semi-fine dining restaurant that caters to all your dining desires. Enjoy our dog-friendly patio and warm, inviting fireplaces. From our uniquely crafted cocktails, farm-fresh ingredients and Joplin’s best in-house bakery paired with our elegant, intimate atmosphere for small gatherings or a night out. Finn’s chefs are experts in their craft, with just the right touch to make your restaurant experience special. $$-$$$

Hours: Tuesday -Saturday: 11 a.m.-9 p.m. Sunday and Monday: CLOSED

Mis Arcos

1926 S. Garrison Ave. • Carthage, MO 417.237.0547

For the delicious authentic Mexican food you crave, there’s no place like Mis Arcos. We offer great choices, from our mouthwatering quesadillas to sizzling fajitas to massive burritos. There’s a reason we were voted Best of the Four States for Mexican food! Did we mention our two for $5 margaritas? Mis Arcos is the home of great food, fun times and lots of laughs! $-$$ Hours: Mon-Wed, 11 a.m.-9 p.m.; Fri, 11 a.m.-9:30 p.m.; Sat/Sun 11 a.m.-9 p.m.

Club 609

609 Main Street • Joplin, MO 417.623.6090

Club 609 has been serving Joplin and the surrounding area since September 1990 with the widest variety menu in the area. We offer dinner entrees including steaks, chicken, salmon, tuna, pastas and so much more. Plus, we now offer weekly Butchers Choice and Fresh Catch specials and the appetizer of the week. There’s always something new and exciting on the menu! As always, we’re open for lunch with salads, burgers, sandwiches and over three dozen appetizers featuring 609’s unique pizzas, dips, nachos and countless more. Owned/operated by Linda Williams. $-$$$

Hours: Kitchen open Monday-Thursday 11 a.m.- 9 p.m.

Friday and Saturday 11 a.m.-10 p.m. • Call 417.623.6090 for reservations

Casa Montez

Casa Montez is back in business and ready to serve you! The team at Casa Montez is serving up all of your favorite recipes as before as well as their famous cheese dip. If you’re looking for the perfect Mexican cuisine including delicious tacos, enchiladas, fajitas and so much more, you must visit Casa Montez at their new location. Call ahead for your to-go order and conveniently pick up at the walk-up window. $-$$

Hours: Tuesday-Saturday 11 a.m.-8 p.m.

Voted Four States Finest BBQ in 2023 and 2024, Smokey Racks BBQ is your go-to for the best in smoked meats, including pulled pork, brisket, chicken and ribs. We also offer loaded spuds, sandwiches and nachos, along with mouth-watering daily specials. Let us cater your next event and make it unforgettable. Come taste the best at Smokey Racks BBQ! $$$

Hours: Tuesday-Saturday 11 a.m.-8 p.m. February 2025 • showmetheozarks.com • 25

By Kristi Spencer

At 12Eighty One, Drew Kimble is focused on helping brands make lasting first impressions. As the founder and artist behind the studio, he combines his creative vision with the ability to convey a business’ values to create images that tell a story. Specializing in branded portraits, commercial photography and architectural images, Drew helps CEOs, speakers and businesses present themselves in a way that stands out and sets them apart.

DREW KIMBLE

For Drew, a branded portrait is more than just a picture. It’s a first impression.

“When people see your photo, they should immediately understand who you are and what you offer,” Drew says. “It helps you to be taken seriously.”

Drew takes time to understand his clients’ values and where their photos will be seen, whether it’s on a billboard, a website or in social media ads.

Drew encourages clients to wear clothes that make them feel good and let their personality shine. “Wear an outfit you love and feel comfortable in,” Drew adds.

Drew Kimble

Architecture photo by Drew Kimble

“Accessories like glasses, jewelry or a scarf bring personality.” Drew believes authenticity is more important than being perfectly put together.

Drew takes the time to guide his clients through each pose. “We make sure every detail, from head to toe, is just right so the person feels and looks their best, without feeling awkward.”

He keeps the photo shoot moving by taking a few shots, reviewing them with the client and then snapping a few more. This relaxed approach helps clients feel comfortable, even if it has been years since they’ve had professional photos taken.

Drew also works with businesses to showcase their products and share their stories through commercial and architectural photography. When shooting products, Drew focuses on how the product can enhance someone’s life.

“A photograph needs to show the usability of a product,” Drew says. In architecture, Drew looks at light, texture and contrast. “By focusing on the details, I’m able to reveal the human

side of design.”

This year, Drew is launching My Studio by 12EightyOne, a space that will give upand-coming photographers access to high-quality sets, backdrops and equipment. It’s a place where aspiring photographers can build their portfolios and hone their skills. Drew is also planning to offer a subscription service that will help photographers learn the industry’s business side, offering insights to help them grow professionally.

Outside of the studio, Drew’s life is equally creative. His wife, Amanda, is a piano and harp teacher, and their two daughters, Adelaide and Delainey, love music, creating costumes and watercolor paintings. Creativity runs deep in the Kimble family, and Drew’s love for the arts extends into all areas of his life.

Through his work at 12Eighty One, Drew helps businesses and individuals create powerful, lasting impressions. Whether he’s capturing the essence of a person, product or space, Drew’s ability to tell a compelling visual story makes him the go-to photographer for those looking to make an impact.

Headshots photographed by Drew Kimble

Childhood Passion for Action Sports Comes to Life at

By Don Lowe

Three decades after Jeremiah Anderson first experimented with operating his own facility for adventure-style activities like stunts with BMX bikes, skateboards, scooters, in-line skates and roller skates, this entrepreneurial visionary, who is also a man of deep faith, partnered with his wife, Jennifer, to open Rooted Action Park in Joplin, Missouri.

When the decision to take action on this vision that came back into focus after 10 years away from action sports, Jeremiah says, “Toward the end of the summer (2023), we decided to build some portable ramps and do a few mobile ramp park events in parking lots around Joplin.

“In October (2023), we decided to look at building a facility next door to our house. We believed it is what God was calling us to do next, so I quit my job with Christ’s Church of Joplin, we mortgaged our house and invested everything we had in it.”

Throughout 2024, it all started taking shape with a strong connection to past experiences. Jeremiah says, “Along with help from family and a handful of friends, we spent the past year constructing a building, as well as building the business, the ministry and the community of Rooted.

“The name is significant because this has roots as far back as 1996. This is growing out of what my bike shop (in high school), Chaos on Wheels (traveling stunt bike team) and Autumn Ramp Park all represented. The other side is spiritual, because we desire to see

JEREMIAH ANDERSON

FAST FACTS

Age: 49

Spouse: Jennifer Anderson, married 24 years.

Children: Ethan, Micah, Levi, Sophia, Evie, Kaiyah and Josiah.

Born & Raised: Elmore, Minnesota

High School Alma Mater/Year Graduated: Blue Earth Area High School in Blue Earth, Minnesota, 1994.

Hometown: Joplin, Missouri (Jeremiah has lived here longer than anywhere else)

Career: Ministry is the best overall description of work. Owner/rider of Chaos on Wheels (1995-2006); director at Autumn Ramp Park/The Bridges Ministries (2006-2012); and discipleship pastor at Christ’s Church of Joplin (2013-2023).

Hobbies: Building stuff, video editing, BMX and hunting. Certified gunsmith and NRA firearms instructor and was Newton County Coordinator for 4-H shooting sports.

Website: Find details on hours, pricing and more at https://www.rootedactionpark.org/.

people rooted in Jesus, the Bible and the local church.”

Rooted Action Park showcases distinct differences that help set it apart. He says, “Our facility offers some unique features, like the only indoor pump track (doesn’t require pedaling) in the region. We also have the only airbags (provides safety for landings) in the region that are open to the public.

“The option to safely fall on an airbag is a gamechanger for riders/skaters wanting to learn new tricks. Currently, there’s not another airbag or foam pit available to the public within a 500-mile radius. We offer a safe place for riders who want to progress quickly without risking serious injury.”

There are more appealing aspects and Jeremiah says, “Another attractive quality of our ramps is they’re built with wood. Most public parks are constructed with concrete or metal. Those ramps have their place and advantages, especially when looking for options with longevity and low maintenance. Wood ramps just ride differently. In addition to superior feel, there’s more flexibility with wood.

“We’ve only been open a few months and have changed the design of our park multiple times. There will always be ‘anchor’ obstacles, but the goal is to design it in a way that allows us to move ramps around or temporarily add new features. It’s all part of creating a new experience for visitors.”

As if all that isn’t enough, Jeremiah continues, “The fact that we offer space

that’s out of the weather makes our facility unique.

Regional cities like Dallas, Kansas City, Bentonville and Tulsa don’t have indoor facilities for bikes, scooters and in-line skates. When the weather prohibits use of outdoor spaces, there isn’t anywhere else to ride/skate.”

It’s all about providing opportunities to virtually anyone, regardless of skill level or preference of bikes/ skates, and he says, “We’ve designed our offerings for a wide range of participants. We’re trying to accommodate all wheels. We’re also creating space that’s accessible to beginners and challenging to advanced riders/skaters as well.”

Most importantly, Jeremiah wants Rooted Action Park to be a place that helps families grow closer. “I believe when parents and their kids participate in an activity together, they will build stronger relationships that will extend beyond our facility.

“We’ve already seen many father and son duos coming here regularly. Sometimes it’s a dad introducing his son or daughter to something he’s been passionate about for years. Or it’s a mom taking up action sports for the first time because her kid showed an interest in it. Either way, the experience strengthens relational bonds.”

When he considers what has allowed this to come together so nicely at the outset, Jeremiah says, “If success is measured by accomplishing the mission, then we’re successful. We have people traveling as far as six hours away to ride/skate with us for just a few hours.

“I think we’re probably the only business in the Joplin area that attracts people from Dallas, Kansas City, Oklahoma City, Tulsa and Northwest Arkansas. There’s a community developing where people are making lifelong friendships. We’re seeing dads and moms making memories with their kids. We’re having meaningful conversations about life and faith.”

Jeremiah is steadfast in following this through as directed by a higher calling and says, “God told us to do it. We’re acting in obedience, and whatever success we see isn’t because of hard work or great strategy or anything else. We also have people supporting us through prayer and generosity.

“If there’s anything I’ve brought to the table, it’s a resolve to keep focused on the why, which hasn’t changed much since I first had this idea back in 1996, and that’s to create a space for people to enjoy action sports, be part of a community and feel known and cared about. If I had to distill our mission down to one word, it would be hospitality.

“I guess at the end of the day, it’s amazing to look back at an idea that started back in 1996 became a reality so many years later. Rooted is the culmination of decades of dreams, experiences, friendships, failures and successes.

“It’s obvious God has been directing this journey since the first time I picked up a BMX bike back in junior high school. I’m excited to see what’s next.”

SP TLIGHT on Carthage

The Carthage Biz Expo is Saturday, March 29, at Carthage Memorial Hall, 407 S. Garrison Ave. Hours are 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. This is a board game-themed event showcasing area businesses with giveaways, games and fun. Attendees can participate in a scavenger hunt to win a grand prize sponsored by American Media Investments. Admission is free to the general public to attend.

The February EmPOWERing Women Luncheon is Wednesday, Feb. 12, from noon to 1 p.m. at Leggett & Platt Conference Center in Carthage. The topic is women’s self-care, focusing on work-life balance and health. Sponsored by Mercy Carthage. Reservations are available at carthagechamber.com.

The Chamber Member Spotlight this month is The Woodshed Steak & Burger House inside Cherry’s Art Emporium on the square, 311 S. Main. Hours: Opens at 11 a.m., Fridays until 8 p.m. For lunch, enjoy a full menu and bar. Entry is through Cherry’s Art Emporium, which offers art, gifts and specialty items for purchase.

The Chamber appreciates The Woodshed Steak & Burger House and Cherry’s Art Emporium for their contributions to the community!

Shop local! Carthage Chamber member merchants are ready to help with your winter and Valentine’s Day shopping needs. Find unique gifts and services to make the season special.

Follow the Carthage Chamber on social media or visit their website and click on the calendar to see what is going on in the community. To become a Carthage Chamber member or for more information, contact them at info@carthagechamber.com or 417.358.2373.

By Don Lowe

During her high school years in the late 1980s and early 1990s, Seneca, Missouri, lifelong resident Kim Friend is the first to admit she wasn’t an athletically gifted girl and didn’t participate in any Lady Indians teamoriented programs.

A lack of athleticism didn’t deter Kim from making the decision to run almost two decades later as a way of focusing on better health and helping her get in shape.

“I was never athletic in school,” Kim says. “I never did any sports. As a young adult, I did start working out moderately but never ran.

“After having our second child, I found myself letting life’s demands take over and had stopped working out altogether for a few years. One day, on a whim, I decided to go for a run. I ran a very short distance and could barely make it back.”

Although Kim might have been frustrated, there was no giving up. She says, “That (barely running a short distance) fueled a fire in me. I was determined to run. At that time, I had not set a distance I wanted to conquer.

“Running was just something I could do without equipment, and it

Seneca’s Kim Friend Finds Running is Great Way to Stay Healthy and Fit

didn’t require a gym membership. I could just go run whenever it was convenient for my schedule. All I had to do was step out the door. So, I ran early mornings before my family was out of bed. That’s what worked for me.”

The decision to run 15 years ago worked out quite well for Kim and she says, “I’ve been running since 2009. I started with 5Ks (3.1 miles) and 10Ks (6.2 miles), then ran my first half marathon (13.1 miles) in 2012 and my first marathon (26.2 miles) in 2013.”

When it comes to running, Kim says, “It requires discipline, commitment and consistency. If you have those things, you can do tomorrow or next week or next month what you can’t do today. And that is what makes it so rewarding.”

Kim understands that fitting runs into an already busy schedule and doing so consistently is tough. “The biggest challenge, I think, for most people is the time commitment, especially when training for long distances. It does require a lot of time.

“But you don’t have to run marathons to be a runner. I think people get caught up in other people’s stories and think to themselves, ‘I can’t do that.’ Do what you can do, and you’ll be amazed where it gets you. Make your own story.”

Regardless of each individual story, Kim recognizes what it takes to become an accomplished runner is the same for everyone and says, “The key to success is simply putting in the work and knowing you will have bad days and bad runs, but not letting that stop you.

“I still have runs that are extremely hard. I also stay more consistent when I am signed up for a race, because I know if I don’t put in the work for the race, I won’t be ready to go on race day. Running buddies are a huge encouragement as well.

“I run about four days a week. The distance depends on what race I’m training for at the time.”

When it comes to her preference as far as lengths of various events that she has competed in over the years, Kim says, “The half marathon is my favorite distance to run. It’s a challenging distance for me, but not so much that I can’t enjoy the entire run.”

The competitive side of this sport might provide incentive to perform at a high level, but there’s more to it than that for Kim. “Running is beneficial in so many ways (physical, mental and spiritual).

“I don’t think everyone needs to run. But I do think everyone needs to find an exercise that works for them. Running is not just a physical benefit for me. I almost never run without being reminded of how grateful I am for my health.”

It’s not about winning and losing for Kim, and she says, “Many times I pray while I’m running. Sometimes I listen to a podcast. Sometimes I run with a smile on my face and thank God for His blessings. I know that sounds cliché but it’s true. I’m blessed with health, and I don’t want to waste it.”

married for 33 years. Brooklyn and Brittain, and husband, Alex. Seneca, Missouri High School Alma Seneca High School, 1991. Professional Career: Seneca for 33 years. her church. She and her husband attend James River Church and serve

“All my races have been local. My first 5K was in Seneca, it was a race to raise money for cancer. My first half marathon and marathon were the Mother Road out of Joplin. I have run several Bass Pro halfs and fulls. I ran a full marathon in Cotter (Arkansas) called the White River Marathon.” Favorite Races: “I have run several halfs in Bentonville (Arkansas), and that’s probably my favorite. It’s just a pretty place to run with great people.” Fastest Times: 24:27 (5K), 1:54 (half marathon) and 2:04 (full marathon)

Fixing Relationships: A 30,000-mile Checkup or a Complete Overhaul

By Naomi Hunter, Licensed Professional Counselor

Relationships are a beautiful part of life and yet often irritatingly messy. They are described as “beautiful and heavenly” and also as “living in hell.” My work as a licensed professional counselor addresses messy problems that sometimes seem unsolvable. My relationship counseling is primarily couples work, but family estrangement work and friendships in conflict are increasing.

Working with couples can be simple; I liken it to a 30,000-mile checkup. We’re just tweaking areas of conflict. Counseling can be more serious, or a complete overhaul, when needed.

When couples present their needs with good definitions and desired outcomes, it drives the focus of relationship counseling. Each person and their concerns must be heard.

Marriage counseling reviews parts of a healthy relationship, such as marrying your values, marrying your parenting styles and marrying your finances, with the couple’s definitions and negotiations of what those mean.

In faith-based counseling, there is an added spiritual influence for clients who hold those values. Clients view the relationship as a covenant that God designed rather than a contract that can be easily

broken.

Marriage Isn’t Source of All Happiness

Relationship counseling fails if one partner has a foot out the door. I challenge each partner to take responsibility for becoming their best mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally as preparation for couples counseling. Marriages viewed as the source of all happiness holds a false promise. Even if one has experienced huge betrayal, people don’t just wake up and say, “Today is a good day to have an affair.” While that was an obvious wrong choice, behind wrong decisions are often unresolved pain and wounds. The relationship is an investment worthy of giving your best self. In counseling, no one is viewed as guilty or innocent but a work in progress.

Family Relationships Need a Plan

Family counseling addresses the concept that the greatest institution in life is the institution of the family. Most institutions operate with a plan (teachers have a lesson plan, bankers have a business plan, etc.), yet the greatest institution on earth, the family, often operates without one. Couples admit they enter relationships with a preconceived idea of “how” or “how not to” do relationships, based on their own experiences. When they fail to create their own unique system, they cannot have harmony.

A simple decision to introduce structure and fix a broken system creates a positive outcome that alleviates the kind of stress that escalates conflict. Issues such as who works the most hours, are those hours a physical job, who has more time for household management,

who plans for the family, who cleans, who pays bills, who shops, sound small, but if not addressed can create bitterness and feelings of “I’m more invested than my partner.”

Press the “I Don’t Care Button”

There is an old adage that in relationships, each person gives 100%; the reality is humans are more selfish than that. No one can give when exhausted and their tank is empty. I teach clients to press the “I Don’t Care Button” when they are taking on more than they can. Some have a false construct that good people give all the time, even at personal expense. The button is a somewhat humorous approach that works. I do ask clients to follow up the statement “I don’t care” with “because I don’t know how to care the right amount, and I care to the point I damage myself.”

Repairing relationship fails is not one size fits all. Each partner brings to the union dynamic their history, skills and mental/emotional health.

Boundaries Aren’t What You Think

Estranged family relationships as well as failed friendships have increased in the counseling setting. Communication and healthy boundaries is a good starting place to address estrangements. Boundaries is a great buzz word mostly used incorrectly. It does not mean taking a position of keeping someone out or removing them from your life. The proper use of boundaries is for individuals to manage their health and ability to function.

There is a stark contrast from cutting someone out of your life and a relationship defined by correct interactions. Limiting contact, or

inventing a new method for contact, can be appropriate but does not have to predict the end. Author Lysa TerKeurst’s book “Good Boundaries and Goodbyes” is an excellent resource.

We have become an angry society that demands others change or they cannot be privileged with our presence. An estranged family I knew of worked hard to hear and validate each other’s views, but before completion, one member demanded others be the more wrong party. When this happens, I encourage clients, if healthy, to keep a pathway toward reconciliation open.

Clients who feel hopeless need to know most relationship work is skill building. Relationship guru John Gottman studied couples to determine the predictors of divorce, based on communication style. Those with angry, heated conflict are at risk, as well as those who simply don’t talk. The successful communicators are those who can talk about anything, even disagree, but leave the conversation feeling loved, respected and still connected.

Multiple Approaches and Solutions

There are multiple approaches and solutions to solving differences. Effective communication is one common need in all relationship resolution. There is a fear of learning how to communicate, and people shut down; however, this skill is not that difficult to learn and is often the greatest need.

Safe communication is speaking from a personal frame rather than accusing a partner of deliberately causing their distress. Male clients admit they stop communication

because of the belief they will be wrong and talking makes it worse. One couple became so creative in the ownership of saying they were having a reaction to a discussion made up the code word “ouch” when the perception was negative.

The therapeutic process involves dissecting a relationship by looking at its parts. We reveal pieces of a puzzle until we can complete a picture. No one piece is the whole story, yet those pieces sometimes take precedence over the whole.

In therapy, clients lead the process, with the therapist as fact finder, truth challenger and a presenter of hope. Humans are designed to live in community, share our lives and enjoy meaningful interaction. Relationships are meant to provide vital enrichment and shared purpose.

Our society is infected with presentations of “The Bachelor” and “The Bachelorette” as a true relationship standard; there is a true drift from the reality of genuine relationships. Two ingredients are needed for success in all relationships; one is the desire for the relationship, the other is a humility and willingness to learn.

About the Author: Naomi Hunter is a licensed professional counselor. She holds a bachelor’s degree from Missouri Southern State University and master’s degree in Counseling from Pittsburg State University. Naomi brings 30 years of counseling experience, having worked in mental health agencies and private practice. She is court-certified in mediation and EMDR trauma certified.

What’s Love Got to Do with It? What’s Love Got Do with It? What’s Love Got to Do with It?

By Mary Schulz, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Valentine’s Day serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of love and relationships in life. Celebrating not only romantic connections but also self love, friendships and family ties may assist with experiencing a deeper appreciation for self and loved ones. Since the fifth century, Feb. 14— Valentine’s Day—has been celebrated as the day of love. Seizing an opportunity, corporations and social media have become quite creative with dictating how we should feel emotionally. In this day and age, searching for emotional connections has become difficult due to the pervasiveness of social media platforms, texting and online gaming. With newer social platforms and with ever-changing technology, one may think communication is more accessible, but it still falls short and can even be a negative influence. Consistency in life

and human connection is needed now more than ever, so what or who can we rely on? How can we participate in a time for celebrating love after enduring loss? There are several faces of love and ways to express how we feel without the built-in framework and often unrealistic expectations that social media has created for us.

What are the faces of love? Most are familiar with the timeless verse “love is patient, love is kind.” Applying this concept in our lives when single, married, divorced or widowed can be difficult with so many distractions in our society. Being self aware and mindful of yourself first in an effort to be present for others is a good start. Self-love will create a foundation to love others. Romantic love, which seems to be sensationalized during February, is a popular way to intentionally spend time with the individual you have chosen to love.

Intentionally devoting time to reconnect with your love can create a vivid reminder of just why you have chosen each other to spend your most intimate moments with. Friendships, also sometimes referred to as your “chosen family,” can provide the foundation, fun and honesty one may need to get through difficult times. The more and more technology attempts to bring us together, it seems the farther and farther apart we become. However, there is still one foundation of truth that most everyone can rely on, and that is music.

Music continues to be one consistent means of helping us identify what we are feeling and why, in an authentic way. Through music, we

are able to acknowledge our emotions, which is necessary to being self-aware of why we respond the way we do and to whom we decide to share our emotions with.

Music is often recognized for its therapeutic qualities. Throughout history, society has relied on the lyrics from love songs to help us articulate how we feel about ourselves and the ones we surround ourselves with. Simple words can be so difficult to find, let alone express when we are overcome with the overwhelming emotions one feels when experiencing love.

Have you ever been driving down the road and “the song” comes on and speaks directly to your heart and allows you to finally articulate in words how you feel? Music can provide comfort, allowing individuals to process their emotions accordingly to how they feel at that single moment. For example, what happens when “At Last” you found love? Etta James will help you celebrate that feeling of love and new bliss; or have you ever felt “Crazy, crazy for feeling so lonely”? Patsy Cline can certainly give you her perspective.

These days, playlists are filled with breakup anthems or love songs that serve as the soundtracks to our life, helping us articulate feelings that might otherwise remain unspoken. Music has always played a vital role in expressing love. The evolution of genres from folk, rock, R&B to pop music reflects society’s changing attitudes toward love and relationships. Artists like Tina Turner, Patsy Cline, Debbie Gibson and Percy Sledge (my personal favorites) to newer artists such as Taylor Swift, Billie Eilish, Adele and Bruno Mars are examples of numerous artists who have created timeless melodies that resonate with the universal human experience of love, making it forever a relevant theme.

February is more than just a month of hearts and flowers. It is also a reminder to appreciate the love that surrounds us in all its forms. As we embrace that “love is patient, love is kind,” let’s not forget to carry this message into our own lives to foster a culture of compassion and connection, things often missing in our society. Love heals.

The Transformative Power of Understanding the Colors of Connection

By Amy Howe

In a world where relationships form the cornerstone of personal and professional success, understanding what drives our actions and those of others can unlock a higher quality of life. Van and Tammy Benson, the local dynamic duo behind Motive Matters, have spent nearly two decades teaching people to embrace their unique personalities and foster meaningful connections. Rooted in the principles of the Color Code personality system, Motive Matters has become a beacon for those seeking to enhance their relationships, whether romantic, platonic or familial.

What is Motive Matters?

At its core, Motive Matters is more than just a training program—it’s a system

designed to provide lasting change. “Events are easy to forget,” Van explains, “but a system, when practiced, guarantees better relationships.”

The Motive Matters methodology combines insights from the Color Code, emotional intelligence and communication strategies to create a comprehensive approach to understanding human behavior.

The Color Code, developed by Dr. Taylor Hartman, categorizes personalities into four primary motives/colors: Red (power-driven), Blue (intimacy-driven), White (peace-driven)

and Yellow (fun-driven). The Bensons emphasize that while our core color shapes our natural tendencies, it is not our destiny.

“Character,” Van notes, “is anything I learn to think, do or feel that is initially unnatural to my personality and requires effort to develop over time.”

A Personal Journey to Transformation

For Van and Tammy, the journey to creating Motive Matters began with their own marriage. At their 25year mark, the couple faced challenges many might find insurmountable.

“We studied and worked hard,” Tammy recalls, “and with God’s grace, we rebuilt our marriage on a solid foundation.” Their transformation inspired others, leading them to become certified in the Color Code in 2007. Since then, they’ve shared their knowledge with corporations, schools, churches and families across the country.

The Bensons’ personal connection to their work fuels their passion. “We love this stuff more today than we ever have,” Tammy shares. Their dedication has led them to train thousands, from corporate teams to law enforcement.

Motive Matters apply universally.

“The strategies that work in a corporate setting also work in the family room,” he says. For instance, knowing your partner’s color can help navigate marital conflicts—70% of which stem from personality differences. Similarly, recognizing the needs and wants of family members fosters a more harmonious home environment.

Applying Motive Matters to Relationships

Understanding your personality and that of others can revolutionize how you approach relationships. Van emphasizes that the principles of

Tammy adds that the system’s healing power lies in its ability to foster empathy. “Until I found the system, I thought everyone saw life the way I did,” she admits. “Understanding others’ perspectives makes you more forgiving and accepting.”

Professionally, Motive Matters equips teams with tools to enhance collaboration and productivity. Van recounts a corporate training session where an attendee said, “I’ve been here over 20 years, and this is the first training I can actually take home with me to become a better father and husband.”

Insights from the Color Code in Action

Jana Smith, a vice president at Arvest Bank, experienced firsthand the impact of Motive Matters. With a primary color of Red and a secondary of Yellow, she describes herself as someone who is “here for the party but wants to be in charge of it.” Learning about her personality helped her understand how others perceive her and adapt her communication

style accordingly.

“As a leader, I recognize that my dominant Red can make me direct at times,” Jana explains. “Understanding others’ styles allows me to flex my approach, whether I’m leading a team or connecting with family.”

Jana’s testimonial underscores the versatility of Motive Matters’ teachings. Whether fostering better workplace dynamics or improving personal relationships, the insights gained from understanding personality colors have a profound and lasting impact. Overcoming Skepticism and Resistance

Not everyone immediately embraces the idea of personality training. Van acknowledges that some participants approach sessions with skepticism, often feeling insecure about being categorized. However, Motive Matters’ focus on character development rather than rigid personality boxes helps disarm resistance.

“Our mission is to bring value to every person in the room,” Van says. “Once people see we’re not here to expose their faults, they tend to open up—and often, skeptics become our biggest fans.”

Tammy highlights the importance of stretching beyond one’s natural tendencies. “Our classes aren’t just training sessions; they’re lifechanging experiences,” she says. The system encourages participants to step outside their comfort zones and learn the “languages” of other personality types.

A Vision for the Future

As Motive Matters continues to grow, the Bensons remain committed to their mission of transforming lives. Tammy’s recently published book, “Wisdom from the Colors,” offers readers a deeper dive into the principles of Motive Matters, complete with inspiring stories and actionable insights.

The couple’s work extends beyond the Four-State Area, reaching as far as Pennsylvania and Tennessee. They’ve trained corporate teams, law enforcement and educators, recognizing the universal value of selfawareness and emotional intelligence.

Van and Tammy are excited to now offer training sessions in Spanish. This bilingual offering helps build an additional layer of trust in teams and among coworkers. Van says, “Making resources available to an even wider community by partnering with Gregory Fish will help more people benefit from the transforming power of the Motive Matters system.”

The Motive Matters Difference

What sets Motive Matters apart is its emphasis on creating better people, not perfect people. “Intelligence is the process of acquiring and applying knowledge,” Van states. Motive Matters empowers individuals to take responsibility for their growth, fostering relationships built on understanding and mutual respect.

For those ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and relational improvement, the Bensons’ message is clear: Understanding your motives and those of others isn’t just helpful—it’s life-changing.

For more information on Motive Matters, visit motivematters.com.

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Generally speaking, people in each Color group will have similar needs and wants. The following eight needs and wants for each Color are given as a guideline for understanding. It’s important to remember that no one is just one color. We are unique individuals with unique needs and wants based on our color blends.

None of them want to stand in the limelight alone, and they continue to honor, compliment and acknowledge each other. They care deeply about athletics and their former teammates.

Former MSSU athletics director Sallie Beard and Pat Lipira, the winningest coach in MSSC history, enjoy sharing how the women’s athletics program came about and how those driven and dedicated athletes made an impact on their college and their community.

“We have so many graduates who played sports, but they made an impact on their community after they graduated. That’s what I think is cool,” Sallie says.

The Beginning

Terrie Dresh, who attended Pitman (New Jersey) High School, where she competed in field hockey, basketball and tennis, had an idea to bring women’s athletics to MSSU. Terrie and a team of like-minded women met in Sallie’s office in 1974 to share their idea.

“One day in class, I mentioned to some of my classmates I played sports in high school,” Terrie says. “They were surprised because most had no girls’ athletics in high school. Several mentioned they played softball in a summer league. Linda Ummel and I played on a traveling summer softball team together and we both were physical education majors. We discussed how great it would be to play basketball for Southern. We talked with other girls in our class, Cheryl Allen and Juanita Elbrader, and they were interested, too. So, we approached Sallie (Roper) Beard to

ask if she would be interested in starting a team and being our coach. We were thrilled when she said yes, even though she had a full teaching load. Sallie had to balance teaching along with holding practices and coaching the team. We also recruited some of our friends and other

This was the inception of “The 5,” a group of determined females, some athletes, some just starting out on their athletic journey, that became the first women’s team at what was then MSSC. These women were Linda Ummel, Cheryl Allen, Betsy Taylor, Terrie Dresh and the late Juanita Elbrader.

“I think all of us were excited to try something new,” Terrie continues. “I missed playing basketball and all that went with it, even all the running, practicing drills and shooting. I wanted the others to experience these things, too, along with the camaraderie of being on a team and competing. The women on this first team taught me a lot. They were dedicated, eager to learn and determined to never give up. Everyone made sacrifices while balancing school, basketball and jobs. Looking back, I will always be thankful for the experience we all shared.”

Terrie made an impact in her community after graduation as a teacher and coach for over 38 years. She taught and coached multiple sports including volleyball, basketball, track and cross country.

Other Notable MSSU

Female Athletes Over the Years

Athletics helped these women on their road to success later in life. Their career paths led some to stay in the Four-State Area, while others found their future elsewhere.

Cheryl Allen, one of the five to approach Sallie Beard, remembers working at the MSSU bookstore during the day, attending

Sallie Beard

First volleyball team, 1975.

Linda Ummel

Price, member of the first women’s basketball team.

classes, then working at the local IGA grocery store in the evening, home by 10 p.m. to study, in bed by midnight, up at 5 a.m. the next day and back on the court by 6 a.m.

“To be a part of something that was structured taught me about scheduling and regulating the balance between school and work and practice,” Cheryl says. “It was important to me to be able to play on a team. We were all friends, and I really liked the people who played. I hung out with them, and we were devoted to the basketball team. When we had success, it drove us to keep going. We were devoted to doing it; we were really excited to be a part of the team. We owe Sallie for taking us on and letting us be part of that.”

after graduation. Through sports, I learned what it means to be a good teammate, how to fail forward, the importance of clear communication, how to set goals and achieve them, how to be coachable and what authentic leadership looks like. Great life lessons were learned, such as how to win humbly, lose gracefully and how to embrace discomfort to achieve personal growth. I’m so grateful for all the amazing, persistent women who paved the path before me so I could have the opportunity to play tennis at MSSU. Playing on that team allowed me to make lifelong friendships and memories to forever cherish.”

Tracy Horton (soccer), a teacher at Joplin Schools, shares, “Sports is still part of my DNA as a mom, but in college, it was a major part of my everyday life. It’s amazing to see some of those same relationships continue even now, which is a gift. When I played soccer, making sure I met my coach’s expectations and my academics, holding random jobs to ensure I could purchase as much Ramen as possible, was a challenge but worth all of the grit. Once I graduated, for several years, I returned to the soccer field with homemade cookies and a hug to any players who might need a boost. We even had teams over for meals since so many were far from home. MSSU was a turning point in my life, and I am grateful for the time spent as a Lady Lion.

Cheryl also played on the MSSC volleyball team. She graduated in 1976 and taught PE for 40 years. She coached multiple sports for 17 of those years.

Neely Burkhardt (volleyball), a physical therapist with Freeman Health System, says, “I think athletics taught me to chase my goals. If it is a goal worth pursuing, it is worth the planning, hard work, sacrifice and determination needed to achieve it.”

Julie Posch Wengert (tennis), associate vice president for student success at MSSU, says, “Being a student-athlete provided me with many of the transferable skills I would need to have a successful career

Dee Kassab (tennis), a longtime area Realtor, remembers her love for tennis when in college. She played singles and doubles with her friend Suzy Schoeberle. “We used wooden rackets,” Dee says. “I loved tennis and loved the girls at the school. I was really involved in a lot of things; I had a lot of energy. I had so much fun with Sallie Beard!” In addition to being a successful Realtor, Dee attended Pittsburg State University upon graduation from MSSU for music studies and also excels in golf.

Whitney Hardy Mestelle (track and field) is a diversity, equity and inclusion leader with iMentor in New York. She describes her experience as the building blocks of her personal foundation. “The opportunity to attend college changed my life, but track and field was the thread that truly made my experience exceptional. The opportunity to be a collegiate athlete is a privilege, and when I look back at that time, I can see so many of the foundational pieces of who I am now. Community, connection and leadership skills are just a few of the

First tennis team, 1975. Sallie Beard (top left) was the coach.

First track and field team, 1977.

First softball team, 1975.

things that being a student-athlete gives you, but you take away so much more: A lifetime passion for movement, forever friendships, a willingness to work hard toward your goals, and a consistent commitment to the betterment of yourself and the people around you.”

Learning how to be team-oriented, even in highly competitive environments such as law, was a vital lesson for Julianna Washka. She was a pre-law student and on the golf team at MSSU. Her time as an athlete taught her all the necessary skills. “…dedication, determination … these skills are crucial both on and off the golf course where I spent my time and have helped prepare me well for my time in law school and journey in obtaining a job in the legal profession.”

Jessica Selby Tallman, (track and field), a chiropractor and business owner, attributes her success directly to athletics. “The habits I developed through those years of collegiate competition have helped shape who I am as a family member, a community member, a professional, and, overall, as a person. You never make it very far by yourself. It takes coaches, mentors, heroes, idols, teammates and so much more to really achieve success. I’m so grateful for the people who surrounded me and supported me because I never would have been a national champion without them. Life is like that. We need community and meaningful relationships in every stage of the journey.”

Jessica gives much credit to Coach Patty Vavra. “She always prioritized the quality of humans above anything else. She put a lot of emphasis on developing good character and fostered a family environment in our team.”

Katie Gariss Marsh (basketball), a physician assistant at Mercy Clinics Orthopedics - Galena, Kansas, says, “There’s much more that could be said

regarding practical lessons in sports that shaped me, but really, the ultimate truth is sports shaped me the most relationally. From coaches to administrators, teammates and fans—my great joy in sports came from these people. I learned from them, was molded, encouraged and sharpened by them, and hopefully, they received some of those same things back. Few things in life give the relational bonds that a team offers; bonds that last a lot longer than my four years on a basketball court.”

Shally Lundien (softball) is the director of admissions at Crowder College in Neosho, Missouri, and says sports taught her to be a leader. “I learned to push myself through failures and achieve success. The greatest gift was the friendships I made throughout the years. Sports provide healthy competition while teaching us teamwork, life skills and how to handle adversity.”

Anita Rank Oplotnik (basketball), a financial services industry leader, believes college sports taught her discipline, commitment, goal setting and a desire to win. “Sports helped lay a foundation for my future in the business world. I have used the skills I learned in sports to help me in my career in business over the past 30 years. Playing college sports had a significant impact on my life in so many ways. I’m grateful to Missouri Southern State University, the coaches over the years, my family and my teammates.

Mary Carter (five-sport athlete), a former FBI agent and university coach, feels an overwhelming feeling of extreme gratitude. “When asked how sports shaped my life, my answer is ‘in every way.’ Those four years reduced, if not eliminated, for me, the limits (real or perceived) that existed at that time. I learned the power of teamwork, hard work, perseverance and respect. I can say without a doubt it made me tough. I went on to be an FBI agent in New York City, and nothing prepared me more for that job and for my life than those four years of sports participation at Missouri Southern. Thank you, Sallie Beard, and everything that came thereafter. Go, Lions!”

The Future

Those first five student-athletes, along with Sallie Beard and Pat Lipira, created a ripple effect of strong women with grit and determination banding together to ensure women’s athletics is a vital part of MSSU’s history that now includes eight teams with over 100 student-athletes who are on an NCAA Division II level with a multimillion dollar budget.

Sallie Beard says the thing that “kept me going was watching young women come in … like newborn fawns, and they’re wobbly, they’re all knees and elbows and they come in not physically and mentally ready, and to watch them in four or five years graduate as pretty near adults. I got so much mileage out of that transformation that it kept me going. It was very gratifying.”

Patty Killion at the end of a 400-meter race.

First softball national championship, 1992.

Coach Sallie Beard and the women’s basketball team.

By Kristi Spencer

Cottey College in Nevada, Missouri, has long been a cornerstone of education and empowerment for women in the Four State-Area since 1884, and its international study program is a key part of this mission. For nearly 25 years, the program has given students the chance to broaden their perspectives, experience new cultures and develop skills that go beyond the classroom. Each year, Cottey’s entire junior class goes on an international adventure during spring break. What sets this experience apart is the college covers almost all the trip costs, airfare, lodging and program fees. The cost to students is about 10% of what they would pay to go on their own, and this helps make it financially accessible to students who may have never thought they could learn overseas.

Pictures are from trips to Vienna and Dublin in 2023 and 2024

“Many of the students have never been out of the country. Many of them have never flown before, so to get that sort of opportunity really makes this a valuable program,” says Landon Adams, vice president for student life at Cottey College, who oversees the program.

The program is based on Cottey’s belief in experiential learning and teaching students through hands-on experiences. “It’s something you can’t get in the classroom,” Landon says.

One of the biggest features of the international study program is its accessibility. “A lot of schools have study abroad programs, but not many schools are making it available to their entire student body. It’s a real differentiator for the college,” says Landon. “We believe every student deserves a global education.”

A few years ago, Cottey began allowing the students to vote on the destination based on a curated list.

“It’s always a lot of fun when we announce the destination. Students find out about 18 months in advance, and the excitement builds from there,” Landon says. “They learn more about the world than they maybe thought they knew, and they experience the culture and diversity in these amazing cities. It definitely leads to an ‘aha’ moment.”

The college works with travel companies to design itineraries that meet both academic goals and the desire to learn as much about the culture as possible. While abroad, students have a variety of classes to explore and time to venture out on their own. The upcoming trips include

Athens, Prague and Munich.

Claudia Hadlock, a senior business administration major at Cottey, took her Cottey International Experience in 2024 when the group went to Dublin, Ireland.

“We got to visit St. Patrick’s Cathedral, we learned how to make soda bread and got to experience the bog. That was super interesting. All of the people in Dublin were so nice and friendly. They welcomed us with open arms. Experiencing a different culture, from their food to their architecture, was truly remarkable to see it with your own eyes.”

For some, the spring break experience program also sparks interest in further international opportunities. Cottey students have gone on to study in Hong Kong, China, Japan, South Africa, Ghana, Spain, France, the UK, Costa Rica, Argentina, Chile, and one student spent an entire semester studying at sea.

The program is funded by a group of people who support the college and not from tuition and fees. The international program is a feature of a college education that helps draw in students.

“The international experience plays a big role on the front end as we recruit students to the college, and I think it is really something that excites a lot of students to have this opportunity,” Landon says.

Joplin Medical Students Make a Difference in Rural Communities KCU

By Wendy Brunner

The effects of the May 22, 2011, tornado that hit Joplin, Missouri, can still be felt and seen in the community almost 14 years later. One of the positive outcomes is Kansas City University’s College of Osteopathic Medicine, which was built on the site of the former St. John’s Regional Medical Center mobile hospital that was constructed after St. John’s took a direct hit from the tornado.

Dr. Ken Heiles, dean of the College of Osteopathic Medicine, says, “Once the mobile hospital was no longer needed, St. John’s donated the building and 47 acres of land to KCU for the development of the medical school. A lot of areas in the school are remnants of that building, although we’ve done a lot of remodeling and adding to it for our needs.”

The KCU-Joplin campus opened in 2017 with a class of 162 students. “We’ve graduated four classes since that time,” Dr. Heiles continues. “Over those four years, we’re averaging close to a 99% placement rate into residencies of all the students, and roughly 50% of the students go into primary care.”

Dr. Heiles says about 35% of the total residency population at Freeman Health System in Joplin is KCU graduates, and that number is increasing every year. Mercy-Joplin doesn’t have a residency program at this time.

As with the neighboring KCU College of Dental Medicine, the goal is to recruit students from the Four-State Area in hopes of keeping them in the area to practice medicine or dentistry, especially in rural

or underserved areas.

“Rural areas in all parts of the country have issues with keeping doctors,” says Chair of Primary Care Dr. John Paulson. “We recruit students to attend this medical school because it’s where they grew up or in an area that’s similar to where they grew up, and studies show they’re more likely to stay once they’ve finished medical school.”

KCU-Joplin currently has a partnership with Missouri Southern State University where eligible students are pre-admitted to KCU, with the first class of those students graduating in 2024. A new partnership with Pittsburg State University starts this year with 25 students going

through a rigorous track at PSU and are guaranteed an interview with KCU. KCU is also in the developing stages of partnering with smaller community colleges in the area as a pipeline to funnel interested rural students toward KCU.

Students at KCU-Joplin do community service work to help improve the well-being of the communities they serve, which is the university’s mission. Dr. Paulson says, “One of the opportunities our clinical department has is with the Community Clinic of Southwest Missouri. We entered a partnership with them seven years ago, and it’s a way to help this volunteer-run organization and also gives our students an opportunity to practice their skills.”

Dr. Paulson says every one of the second-year students has an opportunity to go to the Community Clinic to work under one of the KCU faculty members to provide care to underserved populations.

Other partnerships similar to the one with the Community Clinic are with Access Family Care and Watered Gardens, a Joplin homeless shelter, to do screenings for medical care.

Score 1 for Health is a KCU-specific community health program that provides free, in-school health screenings for elementary-age children, especially those from low-income families. The program serves more than 30 schools across four districts in Kansas City and Joplin, screening over 11,000 students annually.

Each child receives screenings for vision, dental, blood pressure, height and weight, and physical health. Children identified with health issues are rescreened by registered nurses and connected to necessary medical resources.

Cortland Brown is from Texas and a second-year student at KCUJoplin and sees Score 1 as “a great opportunity for students to practice these skills and put the skills to work on real patients.

“We see a range of kids grades K-5, and it’s work at first to get some of the more shy kids to open up, but once they do, it’s a great opportunity for the medical students and the kids. I try to get them to laugh and joke. If I’m pushing on their belly, I might tell them I’m trying to feel what they had for lunch to relax them. And if we see something abnormal, we have oversight from faculty members who will then take over with the patient if needed.”

“We see all these partnerships as a way to give back to the community because the community invested in us and we feel a responsibility to pay it forward,” says Dr. Paulson.

Students at KCU-Joplin spend the first two years in class on campus, the third year doing rotations at a required location and the fourth year doing rotations at their preferred location.

“That’s an advantage of students doing their core rotations in their third year here,” says Dr. Heiles. “They develop a rapport with the physicians from seeing them every day, and that’s actually where the students’ recruitment starts.”

Students can do “designated rotations from Palm Springs, California, to Palm Beach, Florida, and many points in between,” continues Dr. Heiles. “However, two-thirds of the KCU-Joplin students do their rotations at the two Joplin hospitals and the hospital in Pittsburg.”

Cortland says students know what a responsibility and privilege it is to be a KCU-Joplin student. “From the moment we arrived on campus, we were told how much the new medical school means to the community. We know the community trusts the faculty and the students. It’s a joy knowing the impact we’re able to have.”

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College of Dental Medicine Focuses on Dentist Shortage in Rural Communities

By Wendy Brunner

You live in the Four-State Area and need dental care. Chances are, finding a dentist and getting a timely appointment will take longer than you expect because of the serious shortage of dentists in the area and throughout the U.S.

More than 46 million people in the U.S. live in Dental Health Professions Shortage Areas and lack basic access to dental care. The entire state of Missouri is a Dental Healthcare Shortage Area, and 375 additional dentists are needed statewide to remove that designation. Kansas, Oklahoma and Arkansas need between 100 and 200 additional dentists to eliminate their shortage designations.

In two more years, Kansas City University’s College of Dental Medicine in Joplin, Missouri, will graduate its inaugural class of 80 dental students. But first, they must get through four years of exams, simulation training and rotations. In their fourth and final year, these students will do two, eight-week rotations at community health centers or tribal programs. Affiliation agreements are in place with Access Family Health in Joplin, Community Health Center of Southeast Kansas in Pittsburg, Northeast Oklahoma tribal programs and South Dakota tribal programs, to name a few. Students can do rotations anywhere in the country where there are affiliation agreements.

Members of the class of 2027 will then become dentists in private dental practice, a community health center, the military or governmental agencies, and will help reduce the shortage of dentists.

Dr. Linda Niessen, vice provost for Oral Health Affairs, says, “We recruit students from rural communities in and similar to the Four-State Area. Our mission is to

improve the well-being of the communities we serve, with an emphasis on rural health. The Kansas City campus takes more of an urban approach, and the Joplin campus has the rural approach.”

Tabor Barta and Karlie Eck are second-year dental students at KCUJoplin and are part of the inaugural class that began their dental school journey in August 2023. Tabor is from a rural area in northeast Kansas and Karlie is from a rural area outside of Wichita.

Karlie is excited to be in the first—or pioneer class—of the dental school. “It’s a little scary at times to be the first class through the program, but the faculty is great about helping us with exams and expectations.”

Tabor said when she learned there was a new dental school opening in Joplin, it was exciting to her, and then when she learned of the “Power 5”— the five women who run the school—it was empowering to her as a woman.

With 80 students in their class, the classes are small, and it’s a close-knit group. “Since it is such a rigorous program, you start bonding, especially as the first class,” Tabor continues. “We had to struggle through it together—it’s almost like a trauma bond. It brings you so close, seeing people at their most stressful moments, at their lows, so those moments really bring our class together.”

Both students are undecided where they’ll end up, but with their roots being in rural America, they think they will likely stay in a rural area, whether that’s closer to home in Kansas, in Missouri somewhere or wherever the road takes them.

Being part of the community is important to the students and to the leaders at the school.

Dean Niessen says, “We recruit students with evidence of community service and giving back. We believe if you have a track record of community service, you’re probably going to continue doing that.”

As part of their community

commitment, dental students have done Head Start screenings with 3-, 4- and 5-year olds; they participated with the nearby KCU College of Osteopathic Medicine students in Score 1 for Health, a community health program that brings health screenings to school children; they established a teledentistry program for students in Neosho, Missouri, and McDonald County schools; and they have even ridden on Mercy’s mammography bus doing oral health education for those receiving mobile mammograms. Students have also partnered with Missouri Southern State University dental hygiene students during Third Thursday to recruit patients to the KCU Oral Health Center.

The Oral Health Center is open to anyone who has the time for the appointments and the procedures.

“We do a screening appointment first, along with an oral exam and X-rays to see what the patient needs,” says Dean Niessen. “People who come to the clinic do need to have the time available.

“The fees are lower than what patients will find at a dentist’s office because students do the work, which does take longer. The school has a patient-assistance fund for those who don’t have money for their oral care. We don’t want lack of money to affect peoples’ oral health.”

Research is now showing that good oral health is more than just a cosmetic matter. “We now know infection in your mouth leads to problems in different organ systems,” Dean Niessen says. “This is a fairly new concept. It can make your diabetes worse; if you have heart disease, infection in your mouth can contribute to your heart disease. Infection in your mouth can make rheumatoid arthritis worse. The body is a very organized and efficient system, and what causes inflammation in your mouth causes inflammation in other organ systems, too. The mouth is connected to the rest of the body, and if you have good oral health, you’ll have better overall health.

“We’re very proud of our school and its state-of-the-art technology and innovative curriculum,” continues Dean Niessen. “Our second class of dental students started in August 2024, and it’s exciting to see their curiosity.

“I like to say we’re the Ted Lasso of dental schools: We show our students the TV show clip where Ted is playing darts with Rupert and Rupert says, ‘If I win, I’m going to take the team back.’ Ted says, ‘Rupert, if you were a little more curious and not so judgmental, you would have asked, ‘Ted, have you played many darts?’ and I would have said, ‘Yes, Rupert, I played every Sunday with my father.’ The message is: Be curious and not judgmental.”

Former Pitt State Gridiron Great Kendall Gammon Remains Closely Connected to Alma Mater

By Don Lowe

PSU photos courtesy of Pittsburg State University. Kansas City Chiefs photos courtesy of Steve Sanders.

Following a long and successful career in the National Football League (NFL) as a long snapper for three teams (Pittsburgh Steelers, New Orleans Saints and Kansas City Chiefs) over 15 years, former Pittsburg State University Gorillas great Kendall Gammon remains passionate about this sport, both professionally and collegiately.

Kendall, who remains connected to his college alma mater as special assistant to Pittsburg State University President Dr. Dan Shipp and still has his pulse on pro football while hosting a three-hour pre-game radio show for the Chiefs on KCFX-FM/101 The Fox in Kansas City, believes mental make-up helped him make an NFL roster and hang around for quite a while.

“My mindset was never anything but that I was going to play in the NFL,” he says. “I was going to figure out a way to get there. And once I got there, the mindset was that I was not going to be done playing until I decided. And I was fortunate.

“I left of my own volition after 15 years. Most players go out because their skills have diminished and they’re cut, or worse yet, they go out because of an injury. So, their careers are cut short. Either way, they kind of feel like they got robbed or cheated, so it’s a big deal (retiring on your own terms).”

Regardless of whether his former team, Kansas City, manages to reach Super Bowl LIX early this month, Kendall has enjoyed a close-up view at what this organization has accomplished over the past several seasons and he knows that’s a big deal.

“Most every year, you have five or six teams that are somewhat equal in talent,” he says. “I think what it comes down to is the motivation and cohesiveness of the team, and I will take that back to Head Coach Andy Reid.

“Having been around him (Coach Reid) his first seven years of coaching with Kansas City and his first Super Bowl (Super Bowl LIV), his skills with the players and how he deals with them is second to none. I think that’s what sets him apart.”

Kendall believes everything has aligned just like Kansas City hoped, and he says, “Coach Reid continues to create a locker room that has no division and no cracks. It also comes with having stars like Patrick Mahomes and Travis Kelce, who are not only the best at their crafts but work the hardest and set examples for everybody else.

“I think those two things (coaching and star players) has created the ‘perfect storm’ with this era of Chiefs Kingdom and everything going on with it. Those are special things.”

A special thing for Kendall was playing in Super Bowl XXX in 1996 as a member of the Steelers, and despite falling to Head Coach Barry Switzer’s Dallas Cowboys 27-17, he still appreciates that opportunity and says, “Playing in the NFL, you get paid well and that’s a nice part of it. But it’s about getting that ring and having a chance to be world champions. Although we lost to the Cowboys, still having a chance to play in that game is something a lot of NFL players never get to do.”

Switching to the college game, as he thinks about these studentathletes now getting paid to play thanks to Name, Image and Likeness

(NIL), he says, “It’s not going to go away. So, whether people like it or not, in some form or fashion, it’s here to stay. I think there probably needs to be a little more resolution of it.

“I think there was a chance to do more a few years ago but a blind eye was turned. Now it’s a little bit out of control. I say this, and I’m talking about Division 1. I think Division 2 has got it figured out, because there’s a very good mix of athletics and academics and it’s a different level.”

Looking ahead, Kendall says, “I think in the next five to seven years, you’re going to see drastic changes in the makeup of college athletics at the Division 1 level and the conferences. There’s a lot going on right now that’s being figured out on the fly and there’s no doubt it’s difficult.”

Much like NIL, the Transfer Portal has become a hot topic of conversation and Kendall says of it, “I understand the argument, to a degree, that you go to one college, so you should stay there, because you committed. But the fact is that all the coaches can leave, and I think there must be a happy medium there as well.”

As for another interesting development, specific to Division 1, Kendall believes expanding the College Football Playoff (CFP) was a no brainer and says, “I think the more teams, the better, to a degree. I know it was 12 this year for the first time and it will probably be this way for a while.

“But I don’t think there’s any doubt they’ll settle on 16 teams, and you’ll have four weeks of playoffs. That’s where I see it going, and I think it’s great. As it does that, these playoff games are just going to be enormous.”

Kendall’s playing days with the Pittsburg State Gorillas came with enormous successes, and in looking back on how it all played out, he says, “We won a lot of football games. We won our league (Mid-American Intercollegiate Athletic Association) every year.

“We were in contention for a national championship (NCAA Division 2) every year and finally got that done my senior year. But I just think the relationships you build in college are some of the strongest you ever build.”

Kendall has reason to be proud of the career he built playing football and where those opportunities have led him in the years since retirement, while successfully transitioning back into the real world and making a difference through his speaking engagements and working with veterans. Indeed, he is an ‘All-Pro’ on and off the gridiron.

Kendall Gammon Fast Facts

Age: 56

Spouse: Paige, married 2 years. Children: Blaise Gammon and Drake Gammon

Current Hometown: Weatherby Lake, Missouri

Born & Raised: Born in Mulvane, Kansas and raised in Rose Hill, Kansas.

High School Alma Mater/Year Graduated: Rose Hill High School/1987.

College Alma Mater/Year Graduated: Pittsburg State University/1991.

College Degree: Bachelor of Science in Education

College Football Accolades: Three-time All Mid-America

Intercollegiate Athletics Association (MIAA) Honoree; 1st Team All-America Selection (1991); and Pitt State Team Captain his junior and senior years.

Post-NFL Career: Special assistant to Pittsburg State University President Dr. Dan Shipp, keynote motivational speaker and works with War Horse for Veterans.

Hobbies: Golf and juggling

Favorite Football Movie: “The Longest Yard”

Former Pro Football Coaching Influence: Longtime NFL Assistant/Special Teams Coach Bobby April

JAG Program Turns Educational Challenges into Students’ Personal Success

By Kristi Spencer

For many high school students, the future can feel uncertain, especially when they face significant challenges. The JAG program— Jobs for America’s Graduates—aims to turn these challenges into a foundation for success. By providing career mentoring, hands-on job training and personal development, this program is preparing the next generation for a future full of possibilities.

In Joplin, Missouri, the JAG program is integrated into the Joplin Alternative School and is led by JAG Specialist Janet Parker. The program equips students with life skills that will set them up for personal and professional success.

“The ultimate goal for me is that they become productive citizens in our community,” Janet explains. She teaches her 30 students jobspecific skills, from practical tasks like filling out job applications to more complex topics such as conflict resolution, time management and managing anxiety.

One of Janet’s students, who faced significant health challenges, struggled with anxiety and missed weeks of school. Thanks to the support and skills learned through JAG, this student learned how to manage her anxiety, and now she misses fewer than 10 days of school each year. She’s now in a leadership role in the class and playing a school sport, a testament to the program’s focus on personal growth and resilience.

Students spend three hours each day with Janet, using that time to track their academic progress and focus on building key skills for their future. The program provides individualized attention, with special attention given to students’ plans after graduation. “Our goal is to discover what they want to do after high school. It’s not always about going to college. It could be trade school or entering the workforce,” she says.

JAG students emphasize community engagement and real-world experiences. Janet takes her students on visits to local businesses, allowing them to explore available job opportunities in their area. Additionally, she invites guest speakers to share insights about their careers, giving students a realistic understanding of the working world.

The program offers volunteer opportunities for students to make a difference in their community. In previous years, students have worked

with Habitat for Humanity, participated in trash clean-up efforts at Wildcat Glades and created activities for residents of a memory care unit. This year, they are concentrating their efforts on collaborating with Watered Gardens and the Salvation Army to help the unhomed.

JAG students also get hands-on entrepreneurial experience by running their own businesses, which gives them an opportunity to apply the skills they’ve learned. This year, they have raised over $2,000 by selling custom shirts, hats and bracelets. The program teaches them about supply and demand and how to adapt when plans change unexpectedly.

The JAG program offers more than just a route to employment; it serves as a resource for students looking for mentorship, practical life skills and a sense of community. As the program continues to shape students into professionals, it is creating a stronger and more connected community.

The program is funded by a federal grant and the Joplin School District. It helps students who face multiple barriers to success, including

income, attendance issues and a family history of drug and alcohol abuse. If you’d like to support the Joplin JAG program by donating money or your expertise, you can contact Janet through its Facebook page, Joplin High School JAG.

For the 2024-2025 school year, JAG-Missouri supports the following Southwest Missouri high schools: Aurora, Cassville, McDonald County, Monett and Mt. Vernon. For more information, go to https:// jag-missouri.org/.

Southeast Kansas schools with JAG programs include Pittsburg, Parsons and Fort Scott. For more information about the Kansas program, go to https://jagkansas.org/.

The Oklahoma JAG program is in its infancy stage. Currently, the program is in Broken Bow High School and in McLain High School of Science and Technology in Tulsa. Sixteen more programs will be added statewide in 2025. Find more information at https://jag.org/ oklahoma/.

Introduces Alternative Approach to Local Early Childhood Education

By Kristi Spencer

In a world full of rigid schedules and constant digital distractions, there’s a growing shift toward educational models that put children at the center of their own learning. In October 2024, a new Montessori school in Joplin, Missouri, opened its doors at 23rd and Annie Baxter Street, offering an alternative approach to early childhood education.

The Montessori method, known for fostering independence, creativity and critical thinking, has been making waves globally, and now, it’s available to local families.

Leah Gurley, the school’s founder and director, has always believed in the power of education to help children take care of themselves and the world around them. With a background in public education and a deep appreciation for Montessori principles, Leah was inspired to bring this child-centered approach to life in her own community.

The Montessori method is built on several key principles that prioritize respect for the child and create an environment that encourages independence. One of the standout features of this educational philosophy is the concept of Freedom within Limits. Children are free to explore, choose and work independently but always within clear

boundaries that promote respect and responsibility.

Another key feature of the school is its mixed-aged classrooms, where teachers guide and encourage students to teach one another. Leah says, “Kids learn best from each other. They feel a sense of accomplishment when they teach others. The child who is learning feels important enough to have the attention of their peers.”

The school offers programs for children aged 6 weeks to 6 years, with three age groups: infants/toddlers, pre-primary (ages 2-5) and primary (ages 3-6). The emphasis is on self-directed learning. Leah explains, “Children choose what they will learn, go at their own pace and are encouraged to self-regulate.”

Another defining feature of the school is its prepared environment. The large, renovated former church is designed to encourage handson learning with natural materials like wood. Colorful educational toys and learning centers are strategically placed throughout the space, each designed to engage and entertain children. Each station supports the development of different skills, from fine motor control to problem-solving. One thing you won’t find at Harmony Montessori Academy is electronics. The school encourages hands-on, screen-free learning.

Leah says her education team is dedicated to inspiring and nurturing children. “Our teachers are passionate about making a lasting impact on their students’ emotional and academic futures,” she explains.

The school has yearly open enrollment and can accommodate up to 60 children. You can learn more about the school at https://www. harmonymontessoriacademy.com or call 417.462.6887 to schedule a tour.

Overall, the Montessori approach aims to foster independence, creativity, critical thinking and a lifelong love of learning in children, preparing them to thrive in an ever-changing world.

Maria Montessori writes, “Never help a child with a task at which he feels he can succeed.”

Harmony Montessori Key Principles:

1. Respect for the Child.

2. Prepared Environment: We start each day with prepared materials and lessons designed to target skills

3. Freedom within Limits: Children can explore, choose and work independently within clear boundaries that promote responsibility, respect and order.

4. Self-directed Learning: Education is tailored to each child’s unique needs, interests and pace of development.

5. Mixed-age Classrooms: Older and younger students learn from and support one another, building a sense of community.

6. Intrinsic Motivation: Montessori nurtures a natural love of learning rather than relying on rewards or competition.

7. Individualized Education.

SGrace and Cody Spencer: A Journey of Love and Faith

By Amy Howe

ometimes love unfolds when the timing is just right. For Grace and Cody Spencer, their paths crossed many times before their story truly began. Cody, an athletic director, and Grace, a volleyball coach, first connected in 2020 when their professional lives intertwined. But it wasn’t until New Year’s Day 2022 that Cody’s persistence finally paid off.

“He reached out again on New Years,” Grace recalls. “It still took me six months to give him a chance.” Cody, however, knew from the beginning that Grace was special. “She had this positive light that I just wanted to be around,” he says.

A Dream of Forever

Cody’s certainty about Grace wasn’t just a feeling— it was a vision. Before they started dating, he had a dream about their future together: a wedding, a family, a shared life. “I took it as a sign from God,” Cody says. Grace’s realization came during a hike with her best friend. “I told her, ‘Once we start dating, that’ll be it. We’ll get married. I just know it.’”

The Proposal

Four and a half months into their relationship, the couple picked out an engagement ring together. Cody, knowing how deeply Grace values her family, planned a proposal that included everyone she loved.

After a day in Kansas City filled with anticipation, Grace thought the proposal wasn’t happening that day. But when her mom called and invited them to stop by the house, Grace noticed a few unexpected cars in the driveway. “That’s when I knew,” she says. Surrounded by her parents, siblings, grandparents, and nieces and nephews, Cody got down on one knee and asked Grace to be his wife.

A Ceremony of Faith and Family

The couple married May 4, 2024, in the Catholic church where Grace was baptized and Cody was confirmed in 2021. It was a place steeped in meaning for both of them, making it the perfect venue for their vows.

Before the ceremony, Grace and Cody shared a private first look to calm their nerves. “I knew once I got to Cody, everything would be okay,” Grace says. Cody, on the other hand, was focused on the moment. “I just didn’t want to mess up the handoff from her dad!” he says.

Their ceremony included a heartfelt dedication to their mothers. Cody’s late mother was honored with a rose placed in an empty seat, and a rose was given to Grace’s mother.

A Celebration of Love

The reception was filled with personal touches, but perhaps none more meaningful than the car they rode away in—a vintage vehicle Grace’s parents used for

their wedding nearly 40 years earlier.

The couple danced the night away, surrounded by loved ones, and ended their celebration with an electric sparkler wand exit. “It was magical seeing everyone light up the night as we left,” Grace says.

A Honeymoon to Remember

For their honeymoon, Grace and Cody traveled to Cape Cod, a destination that felt like an extension of their love story. Having visited Boston early in their relationship, the couple had adopted New England as “their place.”

“We fell in love with Cape Cod,” Grace shares. “It’s timeless and peaceful, and we can’t wait to go back.”

The trip became even more special when they discovered they were expecting their second child. Already parents to a little boy, the news of a growing family brought even more joy to their getaway. “It was such a joyful time,” Grace says. “She’s due any day now!”

Looking Ahead

Eight months into marriage, Grace and Cody are embracing life’s beautiful chaos as they prepare to welcome their new baby. Reflecting on their journey, Grace says, “It’s amazing to think how everything fell into place. Cody was persistent, and I’m so glad he was.”

The Details

Venue:

Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church

Reception: The Barn at Timber Cove

Dress: Sara Loree’s Bridal

Photographer: Towner Studios - Makala Towner

Makeup: Rayvn Ash

Hair: Isabel Hendrickson

Catering: Chatters

Flowers:

The Little Shop of Flowers

Wedding Planner: JM Events

Content Creator:

The Bridal Bestie - Sloan Dwyer

SFrom Childhood Friends to Forever: Asa and Samantha Hamilton’s Wedding Day

By Amy Howe

ome love stories begin with a spark; others, like Asa and Samantha Hamilton’s, began as childhood friends playing together and grew into something extraordinary years later.

Asa and Samantha first crossed paths in their early years, but life took them in different directions. It wasn’t until their senior year of high school that their paths converged again, with a chance meeting at a bowling alley in Joplin, Missouri. Still, it wasn’t until college that their story truly began. “It felt fun, almost surreal, to reconnect with someone I’d known as a kid but was now getting to know in a completely new way,” Samantha shares.

Their relationship grew naturally, built on the steady rhythm of trust and shared moments. Asa describes how his love for Samantha evolved: “It wasn’t a single moment but a series of them—when I started imagining a future for ‘us,’ not just myself. Even during tough times, we’d remind each other, ‘We are building a foundation.’ That’s what carried us forward.”

The Proposal: A Thoughtful Surprise

When Asa decided to propose, he wanted to make it unforgettable. Under the guise of a family photo session, he convinced Samantha to dress up and meet him at the Mizumoto Japanese Stroll Garden in Springfield, Missouri. As they stood on a picturesque bridge, Asa dropped to one knee to pop the question. Hidden nearby, friends captured the moment in photos, sealing a memory they’ll treasure forever.

A Wedding Day to Remember

On Sept. 21, Asa and Samantha exchanged vows at a venue that perfectly reflected their vision of timeless beauty and simplicity. The modern space, bathed in natural light, felt both serene and personal—a perfect backdrop for their union.

Walking down the aisle, Samantha felt a mix of emotions: excitement for the future and peace in knowing Asa would be her lifelong partner. Asa, on the other hand, was overcome with emotion. “As soon as I saw her smile at me from the back of the aisle, I couldn’t hold back my tears. She was absolutely breathtaking, and I knew in that moment just how lucky I was.”

The ceremony was filled with meaningful touches, including a ring presentation by their mothers and a moment of prayer and communion. These elements reflected the couple’s shared values and the strong foundation they’d built together.

A Celebration Full of Joy

The reception was a lively affair, kicked off with Earth, Wind & Fire’s “September,” a nod to their wedding

date. Guests donned customized sunglasses on the dance floor, creating fun, candid moments captured by their photographer. Samantha and Asa’s joy was infectious, and the evening was filled with laughter and dancing.

As the night came to a close, the couple made their exit beneath a canopy of sparklers. Despite the wind adding a touch of chaos, the moment was magical—a fitting end to a day they’ll never forget.

A Blissful Beginning

After months of wedding planning during a busy season of life, Asa and Samantha embarked on a well-deserved honeymoon to the Bahamas. Cruising through crystalclear waters and exploring vibrant islands, they found the perfect blend of relaxation and adventure.

Now, three months into marriage, Asa and Samantha reflect on their journey with gratitude and excitement for the future. Their love story, rooted in childhood memories and strengthened by years of growth, is a beautiful reminder that sometimes, the best things in life come full circle.

The Details

Venue: Royalty Event Center, Golden City, Missouri

Dress: Sara Loree’s Bridal and Formal

Photographer: Hope’s Perspective

Photography

Makeup: Makeup by Remington (Remington Elder)

Hair: KB Styles (Keisha Brown)

Catering: Trackside Burgers & BBQ

Florals and Decor: Signature Event Rentals & Coordinating

Day of Coordinator: Abbi Rhea Weddings

DJ: Live Events Missouri

Improv Skills Improve Personal and Career Skills

By Kristi Spencer

What happens when a lawyer, a dog groomer, an electrician and a real estate agent walk into a room? They get a lot of laughs. This is exactly what Katrina Richards, founder of a Joplin improv group, discovered when she began exploring improv comedy in 2019.

“I joined because I wanted to become a better listener and find my

voice, which definitely helped me in my law career,” Katrina says. And it didn’t stop there. She began researching and developing her own improv curriculum, eventually leading others to the same transformative experience.

Today, Joplin Improv has 14-18 members who meet weekly to practice the art of improvisation, a skill that is as much about connection and collaboration as it is about comedy.

Katrina says improv thrives on listening and reacting. “Improv is an art that really only works if you are sharing the stage and you are listening to what your partner is saying carefully and paying attention. Then being able to take that and build a connection.”

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I’m in sales, so I hear ‘no’ a lot. I feel like improv has helped me move forward and not get stuck thinking about mistakes.

As members take part in games and exercises, they’re learning more than just how to make people laugh. They’re learning to change how they communicate in everyday life. “Improv teaches you to be a better listener and to be open to things that might not go as planned,” Katrina says.

For Katrina, improv isn’t just about getting giggles on stage, it’s about embracing vulnerability and growth. The “no fear of failure” principle runs deep in improv, as participants are encouraged to embrace whatever happens in a scene and in turn make it entertaining.

“It teaches you how to accept that failure or a decision you made in a scene and turn it into something that’s the funniest or most interesting part of the night,” Katrina says.

Alaina Clayton, an account executive and two-year member of the group, has found unscripted comedy to be a powerful tool for overcoming her fear of public speaking.

“Public speaking was my kryptonite. But now, I’m very comfortable getting up in front of people,” she says

Tiffany Elam, a vice president of sales with 25 years of improv experience, agrees that improv has positively affected her career. “I’m in sales, so I hear ‘no’ a lot. I feel like improv has helped me move forward and not get stuck thinking about mistakes.”

The group’s members work together to create shows that cater to various audiences, from family-friendly performances to those tailored to older crowds.

As their shows grow in popularity, the group’s monthly performances at Joplin Avenue Coffee Company have become a staple of the local comedy scene. The energy of the crowd is something Katrina thrives on.

“The audience is key. We get suggestions from them, and that’s where the fun really starts. Improv is about connection, and the audience plays a huge part in that,” Katrina says.

Behind the scenes, Katrina credits much of their success to the support of her husband, Mathew, who handles the tech side of things, and Anne Wolfe, her business partner. They also share the stage with the performers, adding their unique energy to the group.

Katrina has this advice for anyone looking to join in: “The possibilities are endless in the amount of personal and professional development you can get from doing improv.”

Whether you’re a seasoned pro, looking to unplug and have fun or just need a few laughs, Joplin Improv has something for everyone. Keep up with the group’s next performance by following their Facebook and Instagram pages.

1920’s Murder Mystery show with Foster Adopt Connect. L&R Anne Wolfe, Alaina Clayton, Anlon O’Brien, Dante Mariconi, Bethany Burcham, Hunter Melton, Kylie Poor, Zach King, Ashley King, Katrina Richards

Halloween Show at Just a Taste Tiffany Elam, Mathew Richards

A Storybook in the Snow

It’s February! I can almost hear my neighbor say, “We about got winter whipped.” I love my neighbor’s optimism, but we know from experience this month can be just as cold and pack some brutal weather as January. However, this far into the calendar, it gives many of us an easier countdown to spring.

If our wildlife embraced human thought and impatience, perhaps they, too, would begin a countdown to the warmer season. Many animals have drastically changed their habits to survive the winter temperatures and may have found it’s harder to find food. If species don’t hibernate

or migrate south, most are forced to make do with the cold weather hindrances and the available food, water and shelter resources at hand.

A snow-covered landscape gives a nature enthusiast another vantage point to investigate and ponder the workings of nature. The morning’s fresh snow on a path adds to the investigation, for we know we are the first to happen upon the signs of wildlife. The frozen precipitation is a canvas for us to interpret much like we often can “read” the story an artist has presented to us in a painting or illustration.

We may recognize some animal tracks and imagine their behaviors and actions depending on the length of their paces or obvious signs of the animal foraging along the base of a large oak tree or along the creek’s bank. Old trees and dead snags are valuable for wildlife and there’ll likely be a lot of activity in the area. Opossums will be active all winter

Field notes by J. Cantrell

Photos courtesy of the MO Dept. of Conservation

and will use trunk or canopy dens, while skunks will use a retreat at the base of the trunk. Raccoons use both; however, they build more fat stores, become a tad lazy and won’t venture out as much as skunks and opossums.

We can envision the need for deer or other animals to get out of the wind at night and bed down under the shelter of an old cedar tree. Cedars can provide important cover, and our other native evergreen, the shortleaf pine, provides an additional soft mat of pine needles under its shadow.

A naturalist might associate white-tailed deer with acorns in early fall and green browse in other months, but winter’s canvas lets us interpret the importance of elms’ buds and twigs for its survival. If it’s a deep snow, rabbits may leave signs of foraging significantly higher (almost deer height) on young trees and shrubs by distributing their weight evenly on the snow’s surface – these are fun observations for a naturalist. The same deep snow gives voles, shrews and native mice a highway system of temporary cryptic tunnels to approach new sources of food and shelter. However, our owls can still easily hear small mammals under the snow and hone right onto their prey. Red fox and coyotes have incredible hearing as well; they, too, will jump high and faceplant downward to an unseen and unexpectant prey. Their aim and technique are highly skilled for this season. All of this lays out signs in the snow for the nature lover to observe … like a picture storybook.

The countdown for warmer weather might be dawning, but we still have lots to enjoy. So, invite a neighbor, grab your waterproof boots and warmer clothes, and get outside. I hope to catch you out on the trail and investigating our public areas of woods and prairies. We have a wintry

landscape to read, enjoy and share!

Please feel free to visit the Joplin nature center’s front desk at Shoal Creek Conservation Education Center or the Springfield Conservation Nature Center for ideas on places to visit this month. Have great discoveries!

- Jeff

Jeff Cantrell is a local MO Stream Team biologist and naturalist. He works for the Missouri Department of Conservation and covers a 31-county area in the Ozarks. His email address is Jeff.cantrell@mdc.mo.gov.

Walking in the Moonlight

By Larry Whiteley

On a winter night several years ago, my wife and I were at the weekend cabin we once owned in the wooded hills of southern Missouri. It was our special place to escape the hustle and bustle of the city. It was respite from my job. A place where our kids and grandkids made lots of memories.

During spring, summer and fall of the year, there were always family and friends who came to visit us. They loved playing or fishing in the creek below the cabin. They enjoyed walking the many hiking trails we made through the wooded hills around us. They rode ATVs through the valley and hills. Deer and turkey hunting seasons were also popular times to have visitors at our cabin. Winter was our quiet time.

I had spent the day in my barn with the heater going, making hiking sticks and other things from the cedar limbs I had saved. I also rode my ATV around in the valley. Then it started snowing. I sat there enjoying watching the snow come down. The fields and the woods became covered with a blanket of snow. It was beautiful, but I got cold and went to my barn again. Every so often, I would look outside to see it still snowing.

When I went into the cabin for supper, I told my wife how beautiful it

was watching the snow come down. She had enjoyed watching the snow through the windows of the warm cabin.

After we ate, she got comfortable on the couch and started reading a book. I put another log on the fire in our wood stove. I also settled down to read a book. My mind kept thinking about what it must look like outdoors. I looked out the window several times. The full moon was so bright I could see the woods, the road and the snow covering them.

I got up from my chair and started putting clothes on. I told my wife I had to go outdoors and experience this special moment. She looked at me like I was crazy but told me to be careful and not to be gone too long.

As I opened the door, left the warmth of our cabin and stepped into the night, the winter cold greeted me. I zipped my coat up, pulled on my gloves and snugged my stocking cap around my ears.

This was a special night. It sometimes comes only once a year. The full moon reflected off the ground covered with winter snow and magically transformed the darkness into light. It was time for me to go walking in the moonlight.

I stood on the porch, transfixed by the beauty before me. Then, I started down the path to the gravel road below and began my adventure. When I reached the road, I stopped. I realized the only sounds I could hear were the water dribbling from the frozen waterfall to my left, the creek gurgling over the riffles to my right and my footsteps as I crunched through the crusted snow.

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Long ago, that road was traveled by Civil War soldiers. I wondered if they also walked down that road in the snow on a moonlit night. I imagined them cold and hungry, wishing they were home, hoping to see their family again. I wondered if they questioned themselves why they were even fighting this war that sometimes pitted brother against brother, father against son. I was thankful I lived now instead of then.

The sounds of the creek called me. I walked down to the edge of the water. The reflection of the moon made the water sparkle like thousands of tiny diamonds. I knew the fish were there somewhere. Probably back under a ledge or a root wad, resting in their watery world.

If I walked down to the creek during the day, I might see a pair of beautiful wood ducks paddling around in some quiet water, a long-legged heron fishing for his dinner, a kingfisher flying down the creek squawking as he goes or, maybe a busy beaver. I might even see a bald eagle perched in the big sycamore tree. Tonight, they rest, waiting for the morning sun.

My mind strayed. I thought about the warmth of the little wood stove back at the cabin. But the old road pulled me like a magnet down its well-lit path. I only intended to go a little further and then turn back. I kept going past ice-covered bluffs, the summer swimming hole with ice around its edge, open fields and the swinging bridge. Finally, I stopped at the old cemetery.

The moon reflected on the cold, gray headstones as they stood against a snowy background. Most were weathered. I could barely read the names and dates. Some were just flat rocks with a name and date scratched in them. People like the Keetons and Cobbs, who settled this valley. Some were Civil War veterans. They were the men who went off to fight and also the women who raised the children and took care of the farm until their men returned from war. Many did not. Families struggled to survive here. Many died way too young. It was a tough time back then. I have been to the cemetery many times. On this snowy night, it was different.

My thoughts of those who lived here long ago were interrupted by an owl asking repeatedly - who cooks for you? It was quickly answered by another owl up the valley. Then, another owl joined in. I stood there enjoying the sounds of the owls.

I looked around the cemetery again. Then I went up the road toward the cabin. As I started back, I paused to take in the beauty of the hills that surround the valley. They stood out clearly against the moonlit sky. I stood there thinking about the black bear in its den in the old tree, turkeys on their roost and squirrels in their nests. I thought about deer moving around looking for food on this bright night. They were probably up and about like I was.

I thought about going through the woods back to the cabin instead of following the road. This night was so bright even the normally dark woods were lit up. I reasoned I could easily follow trails I created along the bluffs and by the waterfall back to the cabin. It was late. I could see the cabin lights shining like a beacon on the bluff by the waterfall, bringing me back to my wife. She was probably still reading a book and wondering where I was.

We no longer have the cabin, but I look forward to another time, in another place, when the full moon is bright, the snow is on the ground and everything is right to experience the magic of walking in the moonlight.

What does it mean to be a healthcare hero? These six individuals with Compassus Hospice are the epitome of heroes. Through their work and volunteerism, they show great care and compassion to those in their care.

Teresa Severs has been the volunteer coordinator at Compassus for 25 years. “This is the most amazing group of people to work with. The amount of heart and compassion they put into their roles every day is extraordinary! Hospice is not about giving up or even about dying; it’s about giving patients and families the resources and support they need to face the challenges of a serious illness.”

Compassus Hospice’s chaplain and bereavement coordinator, Johnie Adkins, finds the most rewarding part of what he does is “seeing people experience emotional and spiritual peace during a most difficult and trying time. Hospice care is to support the whole family, not just the patient, in an immensely difficult time. Hospice comes around the family … to surround them with compassionate support, help, love and encouragement.”

Margie Myers, Compassus care consultant for 20 years, says, “Hospice is not as scary as it sounds. It is NOT the ‘death’ benefit; it is not the fast track to end of life. It is choosing a smoother, peaceful ride for the rest of the journey, however long that is.”

When Margie’s father was in hospice 39 years ago, her mother experienced feelings of hesitation, but her father encouraged them to try it. They wished they had done it sooner once they started. This is something Margie now tells the families she helps. “I believe having a personal experience makes me see families with empathetic eyes. This makes me more patient and real with hurting families. Being a source of peace and comfort to them is such a privilege.”

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“Hospice is not as scary as it sounds. It is NOT the ‘death’ benefit; it is not the fast track to end of life. It is choosing a smoother, peaceful ride for the rest of the journey, however long that is.”

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Rural Americans face challenges when it comes to accessing healthcare, with fewer healthcare providers and medical facilities in their communities.

Though this area is considered rural, none of the above applies here, thanks in no small part to Freeman Health System.

“I wanted to practice in a rural area but most of the rural areas in this country only provide basic cardiovascular care,” said Dr. Christopher Foth, who joined Freeman earlier in 2024 as an interventional cardiologist. “Freeman has the infrastructure and support to provide the majority of the same services patients would receive in a large city.”

An interventional cardiologist is a doctor specializing in diagnosing and treating heart and blood vessel conditions using minimally invasive, catheter-based procedures.

“When looking at government statistics, this area has a much higher prevalence of cardiovascular disease. The people who live in this area have limited access to healthcare, and I often see patients who have been suffering from disease for many years, even decades, before being sent for treatment. This high degree of morbidity allows me to make significant contributions to improving the healthcare in this area.

“Even though the heart’s sole function is to pump blood, it is like an engine in a vehicle; without it you can’t function. And, similar to modern engines, the heart is complicated and there are many facets cardiologists need to be experts in. This makes it an interesting field and constantly intellectually stimulating.”

Dr. Foth also has a passion for peripheral vascular disease and is boarded in endovascular medicine.

He graduated from Lake Erie College of Osteopathic Medicine in Bradenton, Florida. He served his internal medicine residency and his cardiovascular disease fellowship at Palmetto General Hospital in Hialeah, Florida, and his interventional cardiology fellowship at Aurora St. Luke’s Medical Center in Milwaukee, Wisconsin.

A great Valentine’s Day snack Strawberries

By Bradley Morris

Traditionally, the Valentine’s Day season is very much associated with chocolate. Chocolate is probably the most shared gift for Valentine’s Day, but while chocolate does have some health benefits, a lot of the chocolate people will eat will be sugary milk chocolate. But there’s another Valentine’s Daythemed snack I think we should consider – the humble strawberry.

Of course, everyone’s health is different. Always consult your doctor or nutritionist before making any major dietary changes. Even something healthy might have unseen consequences for your unique health needs.

Strawberries are packed with nutrients. Specifically, they are filled with antioxidants and vitamin C. That means they’ll help your body do a lot of things, such as regulating blood sugar and improving your immune system. Strawberries are also calorically very lean – counts vary, but a cup of strawberries has only about 45-55 calories and about 3 grams of fiber – not the highest, but a respectable amount. The fiber and amount of space strawberries will take up in your digestive system is good for the calories, making them a good choice to consider when snacking if you are looking to lose some weight. Low-carb dieters might want to lay off them, though, because a cup will have about 9 grams of net carbs.

What’s the downside of strawberries? Barring a dietary restriction, the biggest risk to strawberries is that February is very early in the year for strawberry season. It will depend a lot on where your strawberries come from, but generally areas like Missouri don’t see strawberries in season until closer to May or June. Some southern areas such as Florida do have strawberries in peak season from February through March, but up here, you’re going to be less likely to get a batch of strawberries that taste as good as they can. Your palette will be a big factor in how much of an issue this is.

If it is an issue, there’s a solution: cover them with chocolate. That’s right, chocolate does have some health benefit, and even though milk chocolate, white chocolate and almond bark tend to have too much sugar and other unhealthy ingredients to be suggested in this article, darker chocolates tend to have health benefits, especially around the 70% dark chocolate mark. What level of dark chocolate you prefer will depend on you – the darker, the better, but most people won’t appreciate you dipping out-of-season strawberries in 100% cocoa chocolate.

During some seasons, it’s hard to avoid unhealthy snacks. If you’re surrounded by unhealthy choices, you’re more likely to indulge, making it so important to also surround yourself with healthier choices. Strawberries are a great choice if you’re looking to control your calorie intake while also getting a great share of nutrients.

An Innovator in Healing Hearts

Freeman Heart & Vascular Institute Celebrates 30 Years

By Kevin McClintock, Freeman Health System

FreemanInterventional Cardiologist Dr. John Cox – founder of Freeman Heart & Vascular Institute – can still remember details about the very first heart catheterization procedure he successfully completed back in the early 1990s. Freeman celebrated the 30th anniversary of its heart program at the end of 2024.

“We have grown tremendously,” Dr. Cox said during a media event held Dec. 20, 2024. “We went from a mobile lab that got us off the ground to a lab that allowed us to do some diagnostic procedures, and then some months later, we were able to do our first cardiac surgeries.”

Today, the Freeman Heart & Vascular Institute operates four busy catheterization labs.

“The hearts program has been an innovator in this region, and we were the first to do a lot of procedures,” Dr. Cox said. “I had a vision of what heart care in Joplin, Missouri, could be and I’m very proud of what we’ve built here.”

In the program’s first year, 110 cases were successfully performed. In 2023 alone, Freeman completed 4,300 procedures. In the early 1990s, it took Dr. Cox and his team of cardiovascular technologists a full day to perform just five cases. In 2024, five cases could be completed in roughly two hours.

“We started with four people,” said Elizabeth Baum, Freeman

cardiovascular technician who was at Dr. Cox’s side in the operating room from the very beginning. “Now, we’re up to about 18 to 20, not including the cardiologists. We do multiple different procedures. Back then, it was one procedure—diagnostic. Now we do interventions. We work on a lot of different parts of the body, not just the heart.”

Advances in technology is one of the primary reasons why heart procedures at Freeman have increased exponentially over time. Initially, there was often a pause between diagnostic heart procedures, or gathering information to diagnose a heart condition, and therapeutic procedures, which means actively going about treating the diagnosed heart problem.

Dr. Cox said he would often take pictures of the patient’s heart and chest, develop the film and then study the images, sometimes rewinding them time and time again, before deciding how to properly tackle a problem. Nowadays, Dr. Cox has access to instant replay of very detailed heart images, allowing him to see exactly what is going on and what decisions to make.

“The ability to save a patient, who otherwise would have died 30 years ago, who can now walk out the door, is a tremendous change,” Dr. Cox said. “We started this program from scratch, and so there were stresses and challenges involved with trying to make that heavy lift. But luckily, we had a very supportive staff and a very supportive administration, and we were able to build on that.

“I’m at the end of my career, and to look back on this and know that we’ve built something that has saved so many people’s lives, I’m certainly grateful for that.”

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All events are free and open to the public, unless noted; support group meetings are cancelled on days Joplin R-VIII Schools close due to inclement weather.

Feb. 4: Espresso Yourself Breast Cancer Support Group, 5-6 p.m., Joplin Avenue Coffee Company, 506 S. Joplin Ave. Come and enjoy a coffee courtesy of Freeman CornellBeshore Cancer Institute. Our monthly breast cancer support group enables members to share, gain helpful information and useful tips, as well as form new friendships. Enjoy listening to a special guest from time to time. RSVP to Marcella Sowell at 417.347.2662.

Feb. 4: Family and Friends CPR Course, 6:30-8:30 p.m., Freeman Screen Team Resource Center, 1130 E. 32nd St., Ste. C. Learn to save lives by learning CPR. The Family and Friends CPR course is open to the public. This is not a certification course, but a participation card will be given. Class will cover adult, child and infant CPR, choking and Automated External Defibrillator (AED) techniques. $25 per person. To register, or for questions, please call 417.347.4448.

Feb. 5: Freeman Cancer Support Group, 2-3 p.m., Freeman Cornell-Beshore Cancer Institute, 3415 McIntosh Circle. Call Kelley Wheeler at 417.347.4000 for more information.

Feb. 6: Freeman Early Detection Screenings, Freeman Screen Team Resource Center, 1130 E. 32nd St., Ste. C. Early Detection Screenings include abdominal aortic aneurysm, peripheral arterial disease and stroke/carotid artery screenings, as well as thyroid ultrasound and osteoporosis risk assessment. Fees vary. Please call 417.347.6555 to make an appointment.

Feb. 18: Freeman Bariatric Weight-loss Support Group, 5:30-6:30 p.m., Freeman Business Center Conference Rooms, 3220 McClelland Blvd (back entrance). Designed to help those who have had bariatric surgery. For more information, call Janice Drake at 417.347.1266.

Feb. 18: Ozark Center Daytime Autism Support Group, 12:30-1:30 p.m., Bill & Virginia Leffen Center for Autism, 2808 S. Picher Ave. Open to people with autism, parents and caregivers. Call 417.347.7850 for more information.

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Feb. 21: Free Cholesterol Screening in Honor of American Heart Month, 6:30-9:30 a.m. Located in the NRMC Mezzanine Conference Room. A 12-hour fast is recommended for accurate results, including Total Cholesterol, LDL, HDL and Triglycerides. Register today by calling NRMC Community Relations at 417.448.3801.

Feb. 22: Birth and Beyond Class, 9 a.m.-noon. Meets at the NRMC Mezzanine Conference Room. This class covers childbirth, breastfeeding and infant care for women in their last trimester. Includes a tour of the NRMC Maternity Care Center (if available). $15 registration fee. Fee may be waived if cost is prohibitive. Register by calling 417.448.3801.

Feb. 25: Rich Hill Family Medical Clinic Screenings, 11 a.m.noon., Kern Senior Center. Free health screenings are offered every fourth Tuesday of the month to residents of Rich Hill.

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Every Tuesday: Free blood pressure and glucose screenings provided by INTEGRIS Regency Home Care and Hospice. First Tuesday: Commerce Nutrition Center, 10:30-11:30 a.m. Second Tuesday: Nine Tribes Tower, 10-11 a.m. Third Tuesday: Miami Senior Center, 10-11 a.m. Fourth Tuesday: INTEGRIS Baptist Village, 9-10 a.m.

Feb. 4: Alzheimer’s Support Group meets first Tuesday monthly, 11 a.m., Generations fourth floor visiting room. Call 918.542.3391.

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Drug Overdose Deaths Down in Missouri

By Bridget Bauer

ThoughNarcan is helping drug overdose deaths decrease but substance abuse is not declining.

Missouri saw a significant decrease in drug overdose deaths in 2023, the situation is a positive scenario with a negative outlook.

The 2023 reported deaths of 1,948 were a significant decline in nearly a decade from one year to another since 2015. The number of reported deaths in 2022 were 2,180, Missouri’s all-time high. The reason is the availability of Naloxone or Narcan, a medicine that rapidly reverses an opioid overdose. Because it is an opioid antagonist, it attaches to opioid receptors and reverses and blocks the effects of other opioids.

“It’s positive because Naloxone is saving lives, so the number of deaths is going down,” Teddy Steen, executive director of ASCENT Recovery Residences and The ROCC, said. “I know many people who have told me they have been Narcaned back five or six times. We are winning the war on losing lives but not the war on drugs.”

While Steen is elated Missouri overdose deaths are going down, substance use disorders are still rampant. With the availability of Narcan, addicts know they can be revived if they overdose, and the motivation to kick the addiction is not as strong.

“If they die, they don’t have a chance to change,” Steen said. “But, with Narcan the will to change may not be there. They are also using other drugs like horse tranquilizers, which aren’t affected by Narcan.”

In a media release by the Missouri Department of Health and Senior Services on Dec. 16, 2024, it said 73% of the overdose deaths were attributed to opioids. While prescription drugs and heroin used to

be the drugs of choice, now fentanyl is the primary synthetic opioid causing death.

Missouri’s efforts to alleviate the epidemic of overdose deaths have been in place for several years. One way to help combat the number of overdose deaths was to make Narcan easily available, and eliminating the requirement for a prescription helped.

From the news release: “The improvements we are seeing are evidencebased, promising and indicative of successful statewide interdisciplinary comprehensive efforts,” Dr. Heidi Miller, DHSS chief medical officer, said. “But, we can’t take our foot off the pedal toward assertively preventing and addressing substance use disorder and related overdose deaths.”

Last June, the Missouri State Standing Order for Naloxone was updated and is in effect until June 2025. The standing order was initiated in 2017 and has been updated every year. The order authorizes a Missouri licensed physician, in this case Miller, to issue a statewide standing order for an opioid antagonist. The order basically states that people who request naloxone should not be denied. Those who are specifically targeted are people susceptible to overdosing and people who have friends or family susceptible to overdosing.

“It is so much easier, and I’ve seen places where you can walk up and grab Narcan through a dispensing machine,” Steen said. “We hand it out to anyone who has people in their home using and has a chance of overdosing.”

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Seneca’s Kim Friend Finds Running is Great Way to Stay Healthy and Fit

Fixing Relationships: A 30,000-mile Checkup or a Complete Overhaul

Marriage Isn’t Source of All Happiness

Family Relationships Need a Plan

Multiple Approaches and Solutions

The Transformative Power of Understanding the Colors of Connection

A Personal Journey to Transformation

Applying Motive Matters to Relationships

A Vision for the Future

Female Athletes Over the Years

The Future

Joplin Medical Students Make a Difference in Rural Communities KCU

KCU’S

Former Pitt State Gridiron Great Kendall Gammon Remains Closely Connected to Alma Mater

JAG Program Turns Educational Challenges into Students’ Personal Success

Introduces Alternative Approach to Local Early Childhood Education

SGrace and Cody Spencer: A Journey of Love and Faith

A Dream of Forever

The Proposal

A Ceremony of Faith and Family

A Celebration of Love

A Honeymoon to Remember

Looking Ahead

The Details

SFrom Childhood Friends to Forever: Asa and Samantha Hamilton’s Wedding Day

The Proposal: A Thoughtful Surprise

A Wedding Day to Remember

The Details

Improv Skills Improve Personal and Career Skills

A Storybook in the Snow

Walking in the Moonlight

COMPASSUS

A great Valentine’s Day snack Strawberries

An Innovator in Healing Hearts

Freeman Heart & Vascular Institute Celebrates 30 Years

Crisis Text Line Text 741741

Drug Overdose Deaths Down in Missouri