Tackling Misconceptions Most sexual assaults are perpetrated by someone the victim knows and trusts, such as a current or past intimate partner.
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What You Need to Know About Sexual Assault
Midland Office: 989-835-6771 All gender identities can be victims, or be the perpetrator, of sexual assault. Women are not always victims and men are not always the abuser.
It can be assault even if you do not physically "fight back." Common trauma responses are fight, flight, or freeze, and you can't control which reaction your mind chooses.
Gladwin Office: 989-426-9413 www.shelterhousemidland.org
Shelterhouse serves all victims of domestic and sexual violence regardless of age, gender, race, sexual orientation, income, or ability level. Services are confidential and free of charge.
SERVICES False accusations of sexual assault are extremely rare, and the FBI reports only 2% of reports are false. Start by believing survivors.
There is never an excuse, justification, or invitation for sexual assault.
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Consent
Freely-given Reversible Informed Enthusiastic Specific
What is sexual assault? The term sexual assault refers to sexual contact or behavior that occurs without explicit consent from the victim. Sexual assault can include attempted or completed penetration (also known rape), as well as unwanted touching, fondling, forced sex acts, and other non-consensual sexual behaviors.
Freely-given All sexual partners are able to consent without any threats, coercion, manipulation, or uncertainty, and are in a mindset to consent (legal age, no drugs or alcohol).
Experiencing sexual violence can be a traumatizing and confusing experience, and it's normal to feel unsure about how to work through that trauma. Shelterhouse is here to support whatever decision you make. We can talk you through options, advocate for you, help you navigate the legal system, or just provide a listening ear. We offer free & confidential Sexual Assault Nursing Examinations where we can collect and store evidence for up to a year.
Reversible All sexual partners are able to revoke consent at any time for any reason if they are uncomfortable or unenthusiastic. No explanation or justification is needed.
Informed
1 in 3 women & 1 in 6 men will experience sexual assault in their lifetime.
What are my options after experiencing sexual assault?
All sexual partners are open and honest with each other about their expectations for the sexual relationship, STD status, or any other potential risks.
Enthusiastic All sexual partners are excited and willing throughout the whole interaction with no uncertainty or hesitation. "Maybe" or "I don't know" means "NO."
Specific Each sexual interaction/action is consented to ahead of time, even if you have done it before.
We have advocates who can walk you through the legal process and/or accompany you to court if needed. Our team of therapists and social workers can offer one-on-one counseling or recommend support groups for you. If you need shelter to escape from your abuser, we offer safe refuge for both you and your children, if necessary.
The choice is yours!