Shell Point Life November 2012

Also Inside: Let The Games Begin – Shell Point Olympics Get Under Way November 2012 Vol. 7 Issue 11

TWO CONCERT SERIES BEGIN FIRST PERFORMANCES OF THE SEASON OFFER SOMETHING FOR EVERYONE

CULTURE

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MAKING AN IMPACT IN PURSUIT OF A BETTER WORLD

Rejoice in HOPE, be patient in TRIBULATION, be constant in PRAYER.

WHAT A COINCIDENCE

By Rochelle Cherniawski, editor

Romans 12:12

Life is full of funny connec-

aboard the boat. Although I can’t

tions and little coincidences.

turn back time, I did embrace the

I met my husband while I was cel-

opportunity to get to know her a lit-

ebrating my birthday. He was also

tle bit better. I learned about her

celebrating his birthday that same

doctorate in political science, her

day. Two years later, we got mar-

Fulbright scholarship, and her ongo-

ried on our birthday. Needless to say, we will

ing volunteer efforts. And now, I’m sharing her

never forget each other’s birthdays or our

story with you – it begins on page 6.

Linda really forged her own path for her

anniversary!

Last month, when I wrote about mailing

education and the education of her students.

leaves from the Michigan State Campus to

Coincidentally, Ed Fulker of Junonia was also

my grandmother, I received a note from a

an innovator in the world of education. Ed

fellow Michigan State alum who used to do

was a pioneer in the field of continuing edu-

the same thing with her parents. Turns out,

cation programs, similar to The Academy of

we were from the same stomping grounds.

Lifelong Learning at Shell Point. Throughout

Just recently, while talking to Linda Forcey

his life, he has thrived on helping peers learn

(Parkwood) about her remarkably interesting

from and with each other. You can read more

career and related travels, we discovered some-

about Ed on page 26.

thing we had in common – Semester at Sea.

I can confidently speak on behalf of the

Linda was a professor on Semester at Sea in

whole magazine team when I say that we’ve

2000, and just three years later I boarded the

had a lot of fun with this issue of Shell Point

ship as a student. As I learned more about

Life… sort of like the last issue. What a coin-

Linda, I found myself wishing I had met her

cidence! I hope you enjoy it too.

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Shell Point Life is published monthly for the residents of Shell Point Retirement Community.

AVP of Communications Lynn Schneider Editor Rochelle Cherniawski Art Director Rich Cerrina Senior Graphic Designer Wendy Iverson Graphic Designer Kathy Grove Contributors Mary Franklin, Teri Kollath, Robyn Church, Bev Chandley, Ginny Miller-Plaza, Melody Desilets, Suzanne Zavada, Randy Woods, Tim and Glenda Stephenson, Inga Bredahl, Dawn Boren, Sarah Nadal, Jessica Clark, Dotty Morrison, Peggy Holton, and Susan Uhleman Do you have story ideas or photos to share?

Contact Rochelle Cherniawski, editor, by calling 239-454-2055 or e-mail: rochellecherniawski@shellpoint.org.

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Linda Forcey (Parkwood) grew up in a politically-minded family, earned a doctorate in political science, became an influential professor, and taught around the world. Today, she continues to impact the local community.

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Grandparents Personalize Their Relationships with Grandchildren

They go by Granddad, Gramma, Pappy, Granny, and in one case, Sammy. But whatever they’re called, they are grandparents. Their approach to the role may be lighthearted but it has a serious purpose, judging by the local grands we talked to in a nod to Grandparents.

We wondered what qualities they considered important and how they acted on them.

Many said in different ways what Marian Davey (Parkwood) said directly: “We thought, ‘What can we do to make this great?’”

For Shell Point residents Marian and Jim Davey, a little personalization has gone a long way. Literally.

Through the years and from the time their six grandchildren were babies, they’ve sent books to them in Oregon and Maryland.

And on one of the first pages of each book, they put current photos of themselves and the grandchild receiving the book, with the ages of each. “They like looking back through them and seeing what they looked like,” said Marian Davey.

They’ve also begun sending their grandchildren toys and books that their parents enjoyed. The Legos just left the building, for instance. Doing this “helps clean out our bookcase, so it’s a win-win,” said Jim Davey.

The Daveys, who are both 75, bridge the distance between them and their six grandchildren with phone calls, text messages and innovative things like “Flat Stanley.”

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Flat Stanley (or other flat character) is mailed to someone else, who photographs that character having adventures. Then the photos are sent back to their source, often from grandparents to grandkids. Under grandparents’ care, Stanley could be shown playing golf, floating on a raft, riding in a boat, eating lunch or any other activity.

And when they are together, Jim Davey said, what’s important is “the ability to play.”

He said he recently “got sucked into a twoday game of Risk” at a family reunion, and has been known to get down on the floor and drink fake tea at a little girl’s tea party.

Marian Davey handles the distance also by praying for her children and grandchildren every day.

Peter and Jerry Nanfelt (Eagles Preserve) are 75 and 74, respectively, and they have three granddaughters around the same age – two are 19 and one is 20. The Nanfelts have lived at Shell Point since relocating from their house in Colorado. Their granddaughters often visited there for a week at a time. That week the girls dubbed “Camp G and G,” for “Grandma and Granddad.”

“They even made Tshirts saying that,” said Jerry Nanfelt.

Peter & Jerry Nanfelt “We decided that we were going to run them ragged that week,” said her husband.

They went horseback riding, to visit a gold mine, spent the night in a hotel and went to a doll museum. “That was a bit of a stretch for me, the doll museum,” Peter Nanfelt said, laughing. “But the point is that it’s good to carve out time for them.”

When the granddaughters were younger, the Nanfelts bought books that allowed them to read the story and record it in their own voices.

“We also made sure one of us got there to see them two or three times a year,” said Jerry Nanfelt. “Through the years, sure, there were times when they kind of ignored us, but now that they’re older they’re so attentive to what we want to do.”

When Sam Cutter (Eagles Preserve) married Ladd, his children were 3 and 5 years old. They’ve grown up and had children of

Sam Cutter their own, which makes “Sammy” their stepgrandmother. “I decided early on that my time with them is so short that we should just have a good time. I don’t need to get into battles. Like what they were going to eat.

And we had a rule: If they weren’t having a good time, they just had to say so.”

The inevitable happened while they were on an outing to a museum, and the displeased child was 4 years old. It turned out that the child was hungry. “And I realize that french fries at 9:30 a.m. may not be the best, but once isn’t going to kill them,” she said.

“I also learned that anybody under 5 is going to get an ear infection. And they only get them after 6 p.m. and on holidays.” With step-grandkids ranging in age from 4 to 18, she has found that trips to Disney World please everyone.

Janet Smith (Lucina), 83, relocated to Shell Point from the Chicago area where she and her husband, Barrie,

Marian & Jim Davey

Jim Davey playing Risk with his grandson.

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Janet Smith

Janet and Barrie Smith enjoying the fun of their grandchildren

lived when their six grandchildren were growing up. She stressed the importance of making sure they know that there is somebody besides their parents who loves them. And it doesn’t hurt to just enjoy being around children.

Being a good grandparent also involves being supportive to the grandchild’s parents, said Dotty Morrison (Cellana). She’s the step-grandmother of Ella, 3 ½, who lives in Texas. Like their local grandparents, she has found that when finances permit it, it’s not too difficult to coerce family members to visit her in Florida. And what she tries to do on each visit is give Ella’s parents a whole day to themselves to go to the beach or whatever they want to do. She and Ella spend that day together.

Morrison, 61, uses Facebook and Face Time to stay in touch with younger relatives and provide those words of encouragement.

And it’s important not to criticize the parents in front of the grandchildren, said Morrison. If you have something to say, do it privately.

“Step aside when you’re with the grandchildren and their parents and let the parents parent,” said Jerry Nanfelt.

“Let them know every day you love to 17 years old. During that time, a little modthem,” is Yolanda Beckworth’s mantra. With eling about manners doesn’t hurt. From when 13 grandchildren and one on the way, the they are little kids, teach them to say ‘please’ Lehigh Acres grandmother believes her role and ‘thank you’ by saying it to them.” is also to “be there for them, have a soft voice, making sure they know you’re not being rough with them. It’s listening to what they have to say. Let them know that just as you want respect from them, you’re giving them respect too. And lots of hugs and kisses. Take them to church and let them know about God.” The best way to be a good grandparent is to have “good grandkids,” The grandmothers and grandfathers said Marvin DeArmon, we talked to for this story had some smiling. The 77-year- ideas that begged to be shared: old from Fort Myers vis✔ Rent car seats and other equipment its his grandkids in Wellington, Ohio, as for a visiting grandchild from a reputable rental company, rather than buying new often as possible.

Ralph Jimenez, 65, ones. Dotty Morrison said she has paid far less of North Fort Myers is than the purchase price to rent a car seat also separated by geogra- from a Sanibel company. Since a child needs phy from his grandchil- a different seat at different ages, it makes sense to rent. Make sure you know how to use dren, who live in Iowa the seat and can install it in a car properly. and Arizona. The four of them range in age Comb thrift shops for sports equipment and from 8 to 11. He stays in touch with them by other items to amuse a grandphone “and cards. They love cards,” he child during a long or short visit. said. He believes the most important quali✔ Pass on your talents. ties in a grandparent are Marian Davey makes American to be “considerate, lovGirl doll clothes and has taught ing and responsible.” her granddaughters how to use patterns, even by sending phoThat’s a page from tos from a distance.

Edner Desronvil’s playbook. The grandfather splays hand arian Davey di she made M ✔ Use recording devices. of one 19-year-old boy, hes made doll clot ddaughters. Cards are available in which Desronvil, 65, believes it’s with her gran you can record your own voice important to reading to a grandchild. live as a good example to younger generations, showing ✔ Give them photos of times you spend them how to help others. In together and mark them with ages and dates. many ways, it’s the same as Put them in a scrapbook that spans years, if being a parent. “You love a you can. child, help a child, teach them right from wrong,” he said. ✔ Learn to text, said Peter Nanfelt. Just And maybe you spoil when you thought email was enough ... Dotty them a little, too, said Nina Morrison uses Facebook and Face Time as Nguyen, 61, of Fort Myers. well. Ralph Jimenez finds that phone calls “Pamper them. and cards work well, too. Write letters to Have a day for mark significant days and events in their one-on-one time lives. Use that opportunity to tell them how with each,” she important and special they are. Do that for said. Her grandchil- the parents, too. dren range from 2 — From Jerry and Peter Nanfelt, Dotty Morrison makMarian and Jim Davey, Dotty Morrison, ing cookies with her and Ralph Jimenez step-granddaughter.

Ideas from Grandparent to Grandparent

Dotty Morrison

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Making an Impact In Pursuit of A Better

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uring the 1954 McCarthy hearings, Linda Forcey’s (Parkwood) father bought a TV and tasked her with watching the trials and providing a report to the family each night during dinner. The junior high school student enjoyed the assignment. “My family discussed politics on a regular basis. Our dinner conversations were always political.”

Though Linda actively participated in her family’s political discussions, she didn’t consider herself to be a scholarly young adult. “I loved to read, but I was also very social. It wasn’t until I got to college that I thought I might have some intelligence! In college I got really excited about learning.”

While attending Columbia University, Linda majored in history and went on to receive her master’s in the subject. During that time, she became immersed in issues of social justice. “I was extremely active in the civil rights movement in the 60s – the women’s movement and the peace movement. I’m still dedicated to promoting social justice.”

It was also at Columbia that she met Pete Forcey, the man who would become her husband. “He was my professor,” she explained. “It was actually very innocent.

My marriage had dissolved and I was raising

my three young children at the same time that his marriage ended and he was raising his two young children.”

The pair had a connection that led to a lasting relationship. At their wedding in 1967, they were surrounded by their five children, all under the age of five and a half.

Linda and Pete had one child together.

While raising their six children, Linda slowly started going back to school at Binghamton University in New York. “I wanted to become a professor, and you had to have a Ph.D. to do that.”

The influence of growing up in a politically-minded family played a role in her pursuit of higher education as Linda sought her doctorate in political science.

Globe Trotter During Pete’s sabbatical year in 1972, the family went to live in France. “We both spoke French, loved France, and thought it would be a wonderful enhancement to our children’s education.”

Throughout their year in France, Linda worked on her dissertation while caring for the children, ages two through twelve, and absorbing the culture of their village.

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Linda, her husband, and their six children lived in France for one year. During that time, they became immersed in the culture of their village in Dions, a rural community near Nimes.

In 1974, as an adjunct professor at several upstate New York colleges, Linda taught political science and interdisciplinary courses. “When I got my full-time job at Binghamton in 1978, it was in the School of Human Development teaching interdisciplinary courses. I taught a lot of courses in critical thinking.”

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In the 1980s, Linda and the dean of her college started an exchange program in Senegal, Africa. She went to Senegal three times. “We would give a course on Senegal in the spring and take 12 students to the University of Dakar for six weeks. In return, we were able to provide an opportunity for students from Dakar to come to our university. Two of them went on to get Ph.D.s and become American citizens. I keep in touch with them. It’s all so exciting!”

After Pete retired from his career, Linda received a Fulbright Scholarship. The couple lived in Northern India for a year while Linda taught classes on peace studies, women’s studies, and political science at the university and graduate levels to students in Banaras, New Deli, and the Punjab.

Not Quite Ready to Retire When Linda retired from Binghamton University in 2000, she and Pete moved to Burnt Store Marina in Punta Gorda, Florida. “My husband loved to sail, so it was a great place for us. But I really wasn’t ready for retirement,” she reflected.

Linda (center in teal polka-dot shirt) welcomed her nephew (standing at left) to visit the family in France.

The children didn’t know any French when they arrived, but were fluent in the language by the time they left.

Her passion for teaching and love of travel led Linda to the opportunity of a lifetime – a teaching position on Semester at Sea, a shipboard university offering a global study abroad program. “It was a rigorous application process with a lot of competition. All of our expenses were paid, and we got paid to teach too!”

Linda was able to take Pete along for the four-month journey around the world.

Assigned to teach peace studies and women’s studies, Linda had to prepare her courses in advance. Yet, she quickly learned that she would need to make adjustments to her curriculum. “I had to change so much because there was so much debriefing after each stop, especially after visiting the Islamic countries that had such different views of women! It must be noted, however, that my

Linda received a Fulbright Scholarship and spent a year teaching in Northern India. Linda and Pete posed for a photo in Banaras, where they lived for three months. They also spent time in New Deli and the Punjab.

“Linda is a perfect combination of someone who is both a lifelong educator, and a lifelong learner. She is also extremely generous with her abilities. Not only has she given presentations in the Academy of Lifelong Learning on various areas of her expertise, she also has served on the Academy advisory board. I continue to seek Linda’s feedback on various area of lifelong learning.”

Teri Kollath, Manager of The Academy of Lifelong Learning and Pavilion Auxiliary

students and I met many wonderful, gentle Muslims dedicated to changing social justice problems plaguing their respective societies.

I learned a lot on that trip. It was a great way to see the world.”

When she settled back into life at Burnt Store Marina, she began doing small claims and family mediation for the court system, providing services in divorce and child support cases.

In 2005, Linda and Pete became the

first residents to move into Parkwood. “My husband was starting to experience agerelated health issues, and we realized that he would need more care. Shell Point was the right place for us.”

Meanwhile, Linda continued to work for the courts once or twice per week for the next 12 years.

Today, Linda remains involved at Shell Point and in the local community. “Pete passed away close to five years ago, but I have kept myself busy by volunteering in the Shell Point library, serving as an ambassador, hosting Academy classes, leading book talks, and being active in our surrounding community.”

Politically Correct Linda’s academic background in political science, as well as her upbringing in a politically-minded family, has certainly impacted how she has viewed the current presidential election. “I’m interested in all aspects of the political process, but I get irritated when I see how much has changed over the years and how much the spending has gotten out of hand. In Europe, they are only allowed to campaign for six weeks.

That’s all you really need. It’s hard to believe we campaign for four years when the millions spent on the election could probably erase poverty in our country!”

While she has personal views of how the government could and should run, her mediator’s personality allows her to respect both sides of an issue. “I appreciate the importance of compromise. However, this past four years of no compromise has been very frustrating for me.”

Even though Linda is looking forward to the end of the election, she will spend the final days of the campaign glued to the TV, much like her days spent watching the McCarthy hearings. “I’m a news junkie. I’m always glued to MSNBC!” And as she continues to work for social justice issues such as hunger, education, racism, and poverty in Fort Myers, she enjoys living in a community that has allowed and encouraged her to share and learn every day among wonderful friends.

She added, "Shell Point is the perfect home for me. I am grateful."

One of the highlights of Linda’s most recent trip to Africa was a safari at a game reserve in Tanzania.

A few years ago, Linda spent three weeks traveling through Kenya and Tanzania with a group of friends from India. Along the way, she found it interesting to get to know the local Africans, but also learn more about the Indians in her group.

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Let the Games Begin!

Shell Point Olympics Athlete T-shirt Distribution Monday, November 5 8:30 a.m. – 3:00 p.m.

Resident Activity Center/IS All athletes will receive a Shell Point 2012 Olympics T-shirt to wear with pride throughout the week. If you are not participating in an event but would like a T-shirt, they can be purchased at either service desk for $10.

Shell Point Olympics Opening Ceremony & Presentation of Court Flags

Athletes, start stretching your muscles and cheerleaders, start practicing your cheers. There are more than 400 athletes signed up for the 2012 Shell Point Olympics and it is time for the games to get on their way!

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The Jaminators Band

Monday, November 12 at 1:00 p.m.

Church Auditorium/IS Presentation of court flags will kick off the ceremony. Each court will have representatives carrying in and presenting their court’s decorated flag. After the presentation, be prepared to be amazed by the high energy performance of The Jaminators Band. Court Rep. Chairman Dr. Bill Lanpher (Oakmont) will then start the games with the lighting of the Olympic flame.

Entertainment sponsored by FineMark National Bank & Trust.

Shell Point Olympics Game Days Tuesday – Thursday, November 13-15 Throughout the three days, games will take place in all three neighborhoods. Be sure to cheer on your friends or join in the competition. The full schedule of events is listed on the facing page. Each venue will have chairs available for prime viewing.

Shell Point Olympics Closing Ceremony & Medal Presentation Friday, November 16 at 1:00 p.m.

Church Auditorium/IS Medal presentations will wrap up the week’s competition.

All medal recipients will be honored, everyone will get to view a week’s worth of pictures to celebrate the efforts of all athletes, and court flag awards will be presented.

2012 Shell Point Olympics

Schedule of Events TUESDAY, NOV. 13 8:00 Men’s Tennis Doubles Woodlands Tennis Court Draw for partner 9:00 Short or Distance Walk Start and Finish at Island Park 9:30 Fishing Competition Lagoon Seawall/IS Must have own equipment 10:15 Billiards - 9-Ball Resident Activity Center/IS 1:15 Friendly Duplicate Bridge Social Center/IS Start at 1:30 Sign up with partner

9:30 Chipping Competition Shell Point Golf Club Bring own clubs and balls, or they will be provided 10:00 Model Yacht Sailboat Races Woodlands Commons Lake 1:00 Chess Resident Activity Center/IS

2:30 Bocce Bocce Court/WDL

8:00 Mixed Doubles Tennis Woodlands Tennis Court Draw for partner 8:30 Putting Competition Shell Point Golf Club Bring own clubs and balls, or they will be provided

10:00 – 12:00 Olympic Field Events The Springs WEDNESDAY All Day Indoor Olympic Competitions The Arbor/The Springs/King’s Crown THURSDAY

3:15 Pinochle Social Center/IS

2:00 Wii Finals The Arbor

7:15 Inspirational DVD Carly Fiorinia Tells Her Story The Village Church/IS

PAVILION EVENTS

THURSDAY, NOV. 15 8:00 Ladies Doubles Tennis Woodlands Tennis Courts Draw for partner 9:00 Bike Race Village Church Porte-cochère/IS

WEDNESDAY, NOV. 14

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1:00 Mahjongg Sabal Room/WDL

1:15 Doubles Table Tennis Manatee Room/IS Draw for partner 1:15 Shuffleboard Island Shuffle Board Court

THE ARBOR, KING’S CROWN & THE SPRINGS EVENTS

9:00 Kayak Endurance Race Kayak Storage Must have own kayak 9:15 Singles Table Tennis Manatee Room/IS 10:15 Wii Bowling Social Center/IS

9:00 “Toss It!” Shot Put Bocce Court/WDL

2:00 Canasta Sable Room/WDL

9:15 Pickleball Pickleball Court/IS

2:45 Academy Trivia Social Center/IS

TUESDAY 2:30 Ring Toss Larsen Pavilion/2nd Floor 2:30 Ramp Bowling Larsen Pavilion/3rd Floor WEDNESDAY 2:30 Ramp Bowling Larsen Pavilion/2nd Floor 2:30 Distance Throwing Larsen Pavilion/3rd Floor THURSDAY 2:30 Distance Throwing Larsen Pavilion/ 2nd Floor 10:00 Ring Toss Larsen Pavilion/ 3rd Floor

Join in the spirit of the Olympic Games!

Come out as a spectator and cheer others on!

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LifeQuest represents Shell Point’s mission of providing integrated programs and resources to promote a culture of wellness that supports personal growth, healthy living, and a positive life experience.

As the Wellness Steering Committee looked more closely at LifeQuest at Shell Point, we began to identify the dimensions of wellness that are important to residents, as well as to the continued success of Shell Point.

The committee identified six dimensions of wellness for LifeQuest: Physical, Emotional, Spiritual, Educational, Community & Social, and Natural Environment.

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The six dimensions of wellness will be interpreted differently by each person. While many people would consider a bike ride to be a physical activity, others might enjoy it for the pleasure of the natural environment or the social connection.

Physical

The physical dimension of wellness is probably the first to come to mind and the easiest to define. Yet, physical wellness may mean different things to different people.

A marathon runner might focus on beating their best time. A rehabilitation patient might focus on regaining strength one step at a time. Someone might strive to make healthier food choices. Another person might talk to their doctor about alternative medicines.

Regardless, Shell Point residents can stay physically healthy through an integrated sys-

cially, or even going through a transitional move.

Shell Point offers many opportunities to focus on emotional well being. The behavioral health department offers confidential counseling services. Support groups provide peer understanding and encouragement. The Salon & Spa offers relaxing massages. Even fitness classes are proven stress relievers.

The important goal for each It is important to make a daily commitment to take resident is to try and identify care of yourself emotionally. how to incorporaTe an And remember, at Shell Point you are never alone.

tem where a wide array of interests and needs can be met right here on campus. Doctors, physical therapists, registered dieticians, personal trainers, The Health Connection educational programs, recreational amenities, and more offer ample opportunities for promoting health education and physical wellness.

aspect of each dimension of wellness in their own way.

Emotional

One way Shell Point residents enjoy the natural environment is by tending their own garden plots.

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It is a proven fact that if ones emotional health is suffering, other areas of their life will suffer as well. Emotional wellness is often compromised due to life-changing events, such as coping with the loss of a loved one, experiencing health issues, struggling finan-

Spiritual

Shell Point has always been dedicated to the service of God and the care of His people, and because of this we are grounded in Christian values. Residents represent many religious backgrounds and beliefs.

While some residents attend The Village Church, others choose to attend religious services in the surrounding community. And all are always welcome to take advantage of

Shell Point’s offerings to worship and grow in spirituality through church services, Bible studies, vespers services, Season of Praise concerts, hymn sings, choir participation, Academy classes, and more.

Through this holistic approach to spiritual growth, residents are encouraged to grow in their quest for meaning, purpose, inner strength, and hope.

connections by attending special events, concerts, court parties, or other social functions throughout the community.

The ability for residents to share their time, talents, knowledge, and life experiences with one another makes Shell Point rich in opportunities for community and social involvement. These opportunities help res-

Educational

Residents have a growing interest in educational endeavors. Opportunities to stimulate the mind are endless at Shell Point. The Academy of Lifelong Learning provides residents with a variety of classes from geography and fine arts to emerging technology and hands-on experiences. Furthermore, residents have an opportunity to share their experiences and expertise with others by leading classes in The Academy The quest for intellectual growth is an ongoing interest that helps keep minds sharp while also contributing to overall wellness.

ment, and more. At Shell Point, the list is endless on how residents can enjoy and benefit from the natural environment.

Endless Opportunities

It is important to keep in mind that there are no hard and fast rules for defining each dimension. Take, for example, the simple act of going for a walk. Many people would consider a walk to be a physical activity. Yet, a walk could technically fit into any of the six dimensions.

LifeQuest and its six dimensions of wellness offer many health and lifestyle options which promote a well-balanced life. Your definition of wellness is unique and personal to you. Yet, for each individual, it is evident that a healthy balance in various aspects of life leads to greater contentment, personal fulfillment, genuine happiness, and good health.

The important goal for each resident is to identify how to incorporate an aspect of each dimension of wellness in their own

(Above) Volunteering is one of the best ways to become actively involved in the community. (Right) Completing a daily crossword puzzle is just one way to focus on the educational dimension of wellness.

idents feel connected and engaged with the community.

Community & Social

Residents who become active in the community quickly build lasting friendships within their court, within their neighborhood, and with other residents throughout the community. Volunteering has proven to be one of the best ways to become connected to the community and build new friendships. Residents also find

Natural Environment

An important part of wellness is the ability to appreciate and enjoy nature and the beautiful environment we are blessed with here at Shell Point. Within the community there are many opportunities to explore nature, from miles of walking paths and nature trails to immediate access to the surrounding waters.

Residents tend their own gardens, participate in the Adopt-a-Road program, attend seasonal bird counts, watch breathtaking sunsets, paint and photograph nature scenes, attend Academy classes about the environ-

way. Residents who take care of themselves both physically and emotionally, are open to learning new things, stay connected to their community, remain socially engaged, and have an appreciation for their natural environment, seem to gain the most out of living at Shell Point.

So, I ask you…What’s Your Quest? Start thinking now about the six dimensions of LifeQuest at Shell Point and begin setting your own personal “My Quest” goals for 2013!

The Shell Point Singers offer a community & social connection for both the singers and their audience members.

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They say November is the month to be thankful. Shouldn’t we be thankful all year long? I believe we should. Not only should we be thankful all year long, but we should also take care of ourselves all year long. It’s easy to set new goals and start fresh in January, or when we have a reunion or family gathering and we want to impress those we have not seen in awhile. Yet, the best “you” should be able to shine throughout the entire year!

With that in mind, The Health Connection is offered twelve months a year. And just like the other eleven months, November is complete with physical exercise and medical educational opportunities to help you achieve and maintain your best health. Call either service desk to sign up today!

Wellness Specialty Classes Melanie Brod, fitness coordinator, continues to start the morning off right with Bend, Breathe and Balance. The class takes place in The Island Health Club on Tuesdays and Thursdays at 7:15 a.m. The 45-minute class focuses on rhythmic motions, proper breathing, and relaxation poses. No registration is needed and the fee is $5 per person, per session.

Another fitness opportunity is Pilates Stretch on Mondays and Wednesdays at 3:00 p.m. in the Health Club on The Island.

Michelle Smith, fitness supervisor, instructs this afternoon class that is mat-based and emphasizes the balanced development of the body. The cost of the class is $5 per person, per session Enjoy the great outdoors while you exercise! Commit to be Fit with Nordic Pole Walking – Session 2 will be held Mondays and Wednesdays, November 12 through 21. Lindy Smith, Nordic Walking expert and AFAA certified exercise instructor, will teach this full-body exercise.

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welcome, but please remember to wear closed-toed shoes. The class starts 3:30 p.m. in the Osprey Room and then heads outside.

Sign up is required for this series and the cost is $20 for four classes.

Your Medical Community Shell Point specialty doctor Trevor Elmquist, D.O., is back by request. His discussion will focus on Diabetic Retinopathy, which is the most common diabetic eye disease and a leading cause of blindness in American adults. If you have either type one or type two diabetes, you are encouraged to attend. The Dr. Trevor discussion takes place Elmquist presents Diabetic on Friday, November 9, Retinopathy on at 1:15 p.m. in the November 9.

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Why Treat Hearing Loss? will take place on Wednesday, November 28, at 10:30 a.m. in the Oak Room. Presenter Shelly Rogerson, RN, BC-HIS, has partnered with Beltone. As a registered nurse, Shelly is patient-focused and knowledgeable in all advanced hearing solutions that are available. If you have Shelly Rogerson, been on the fence RN, BC-HIS, presabout treating hearing ents Why Treat loss, consider doing it Hearing Loss on for the sake of your November 28. spouse and loved ones.

They will become the direct beneficiary of your decision to improve your hearing.

Michele Vandendooren, OTR/L, founder and president of Low Vision Works Consulting Group, will educate residents on the definition of low vision and the anatomical changes that happen to the eye. The

session is entitled Low Vision Rehabilitation: Working Together to Achieve Visual Independence and will include discussion on the tools available to enhance the lives of those who are dealing with low vision. The class takes place in the Social Center on Friday, November 30, at 1:15 p.m.

Group Fitness Classes The average person gains 10 pounds over the holiday season! Think about all of the holidays coming up: Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukah, and the New Year — all holidays which involve parties, socializing, and FOOD! I personally encourage you to revisit the Shell Point Health Club and Fitness Center Schedule for opportunities to balance the food and festivities with fun and exercise this holiday season!

Get Out in the Community Save the Date Heart Walk • Dec. 8 American Heart Association will be hosting the Heart Walk at Centennial Park on Saturday, December 8. The Community Thrift Store has made a donation for Shell Point residents and employees to participate as a team in support of this great cause.

If you would like to sign up and be part of the fun, call either of the service desks.

All participants will receive a Shell Point Tshirt to wear at the event. Participants can choose to ride on the bus, with court pickups beginning at 7 a.m., or meet the group at Centennial Park at 8 a.m.

Can You Hear Me Now? Audiologist Now Seeing Patients at The Arbor Medical Center B

Audiology Consultants of Southwest Florida has been helping people improve their hearing for more than 30 years. And now, they are offering Shell Point residents the convenience of on-site appointments at The Arbor Medical Center.

Jack Adams, M.S., audiologist and owner of Audiology Consultants of Southwest Florida, explained, “We provide a full range of audiology services, including hearing tests to determine the level of hearing impairment and the cause of hearing loss.

Following each evaluation, we offer rehabilitation options to improve the patient’s hearing or, in some cases, refer them for medical treatment."

The most common causes of hearing loss are age and noise exposure. With age, the thousands of fragile nerves in the inner ear will weaken. In fact, 50% of people over the age of 65 have enough hearing loss to warrant hearing aids.

And when it comes to the cost of hearing aids, Jack shares good news.

“The cost of hearing aids has not Above: Upon inspecting this patient’s ear, Jack was able to immediately identify scarring that revealed a history of childhood ear infections.

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Occasionally, hearing loss can be related to a blockage or a problem with the bones in the middle ear. In those instances, the issue can usually be treated or remediated through medical care.

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Audiology Consultants of Southwest Florida sees patients in The Arbor Medical Center every Wednesday from 1 p.m. to 5 p.m. To make an appointment, please call 481-2088.

Hearing tests are simple, quick, and painless.

During an appointment, Jack uses a machine to play a variety of sounds into headphones to determine the level of hearing loss. He can also identify the cause of hearing loss.

Signs It’s Time for a Hearing Test: • Commonly asking, “What?” or “Huh?” • Repeatedly turning up the volume on the TV • Missing the punch lines of a joke • Feeling disconnected in social situations • Hearing a voice but not understanding what was said

Learn More from Jack Adams in The Health Connection

On Wednesday, January 30, Jack will join The Health Connection to offer a course called Communication Strategies for the Hearing Impaired.

Attend the program to learn about the psychology of hearing impairment, the importance of understanding your limitations, how to communicate with a person who has trouble hearing, and other topics related to audiology. See page 25 of The Health Connection brochure for more information.

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Salt Strategies Sodium chloride, better known as common table salt, is a very important part of our lives.

It is used as a food preservative, it is probably the world’s oldest food additive, and let’s not forget that it makes our food taste really good. Above all that, salt is an essential nutrient for good health. Everyone needs salt to regulate blood pressure, maintain nerve and muscle function, and maintain fluid balance.

But moderation is the key to reaping the benefits of salt.

The current recommendation for sodium consumption is 2300 milligrams (mg) per day or less. In fact the USDA has suggested that the ultimate goal be just 1500 mg daily by the

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Vinegar is also a good flavor enhancer. Saltfree blended herb seasoning products are good alternatives.

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READ PRODUCT LABELS. Labels clearly report how much sodium you will consume in every serving.

Tip #8: LEARN WHAT TO ASK FOR WHEN YOU EAT OUT. Don’t be afraid to ask the waitstaff about ingredients or preparation methods. Order sauces, gravies, and salad dressings on the side.

Tip #9: Many CONDIMENTS are high in sodium. Always check the label. If you must use them, cut down on the portion size indicated on the label.

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CHOOSE YOUR DAIRY AND PROTEIN FOODS CAREFULLY. Milk and yogurt are lower in sodium than many cheeses, but remember to select low fat or reduced fat products in order to avoid saturated and trans fats. Fresh beef, pork, poultry, and seafood are all good choices compared to processed foods.

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year 2020. However, most people consume more than 3400 mg each day!

People over the age of 51 or with hypertension, diabetes, or chronic kidney disease should already be attempting to limit their sodium intake to 1500 mg. Wondering what 1500 mg salt looks like? That’s just under a half teaspoon. One level teaspoon equals 2400 mg.

So what are you to do if your doctor tells you to cut back on your sodium? Or maybe you have just decided to make that healthy choice on your own. Here are 10 tips to help you accomplish this goal.

PROCESSED FOODS such as deli meats, ham, bacon, sausage, frozen prepared foods, canned soups, etc. unless they are prepared with less sodium. Processed foods are very high in sodium. Fresh foods are generally lower. We get 75% of our total daily sodium intake from processed foods.

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INCREASE POTASSIUM. Potassium-rich foods such as citrus, bananas, tomatoes, and leafy greens are low in sodium and help to regulate your blood pressure.

These helpful strategies can work wonders when it comes to controlling your sodium intake. While salt is an important part of your daily diet, it is imperative that you consume salt in moderation. And remember, life is all about choices, so choose your food wisely.

Heart Healthy On Wednesday, February 20, Shell Point’s registered dietitians will lead a Heart Health course in The Health Connection.

Join Linda Rakos and Mary McCormack as they share The Role of Nutrition in Your Cardiovascular Health.

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It was an early departure for the adventurous group of Shell Point residents heading off to Missouri for their fiveday trip to experience Branson, Missouri. All were greeted by an uncommonly friendly ground crew at the unique, little, lodge-style Branson airport, constructed from a mountaintop. Everywhere in town, the friendliness of the community never ceased to be felt by the Shell Point travelers.

Branson has long been known as a country music hot spot, but over the past decade it has evolved more towards offering good, clean, family fun and shows appealing to all ages and interests.

The group was housed at the fabulous Hilton Promenade Hotel, located in the center of Branson Landing, a retail center featuring a multi-million-dollar fountain structure.

Watching the fountains was a show in itself!

Each day the group was transported to the various shows and attractions via a private motor coach. The Shell Point bunch

toured the city of Branson, the amazing College of the Ozarks (where students work for their education right on site), and the dam on the White River which created Table Rock Lake. As the group viewed the Andy Williams estate, all felt a twinge of nostalgia.

Throughout the trip, the group enjoyed dinners at restaurants, on showboats, and at live theater shows.

Some of the many shows attended were the Yakov Smirnoff show and the Hughes Brothers (and other 28 family members!) show. Mama Hughes herself came onto the Shell Point coach to welcome us and one of

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the brothers with his two very young children came on board to thank us and say goodnight. The grand finale was the Shoji Tabuchi musical showcase, which most residents touted as their favorite. All agreed that the flashy and talented Shoji Tabuchi show was the perfect performance for the culmination of a most entertaining Branson vacation.

Group photo—Back row: Joyce and Bill Crawley, Kitty Powell and Guy McMillan.

Middle row: Shirley Groves, Bev Chandley, Jean Gilman, and Dorothy McMillan. Front row: Joyce and Howard Roeding, and Susan Mills.

Center bottom: No doubt, Andy Williams and “Moon River” belong to America. For two decades the singer and his musical heritage belonged especially to Branson. His estate home can be seen hiding in the trees. Below: Shirley Groves dancing with “Andy Williams.”

Q& A

FineMark National Bank & Trust Answers Your Personal Banking Questions B Y T I F FA N Y W I L L I A M S , M A N A G I N G E X E C U T I V E , F I N E M A R K N AT I O N A L B A N K & T R U S T

Q: How is a debit card different from a credit card?

A: Although credit and debit cards look alike,

their features are very different. Below is a comparison of the two plastic methods of payment : Debit Card Features: ■ A debit card it is used as an alternative to cash.

■ Charges are automatically deducted from a linked bank account so you’re less likely to overspend.

■ Some debit cards offer rewards points for gift items, travel, etc.

■ FineMark National Bank & Trust offers a debit card rewards program.

■ If you are unhappy with a purchase and you paid using a debit card, there’s no guarantee you’ll get that money back.

Federal law does not protect disputed charges on a debit card.

■ If your card is stolen and used, the stolen money will not go back into your account until the claim is investigated.

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Credit Card Features: ■ A credit card allows you to spend more than you have or postpone paying. If you pay the balance on time, you can avoid paying high interest rates on your purchases.

■ Helps build credit if bills are paid on time.

■ If you pay with a credit card and aren’t happy with the purchase, your card issuer can legally withhold payment from the retailer until they resolve the dispute. Federal law protects disputed charges on a credit card.

■ If you notice fraudulent activity on your credit card, you can call the card issuer, make a dispute claim, and the charges should be removed.

■ Most cards offer great rewards programs.

Which is Right For You? For most people, using both a debit card and credit card makes sense. The key is not to spend more than you have with either type of card. If you can do that, you’ll be able to enjoy the benefits that each card offers.

Please be sure to direct questions regarding your card to your bank or the card issuer.

If you have any questions about this article, stop by the FineMark Bank office or call us at 461-5999. We are always happy to help.

This is the perfect time to shred personal financial information, old credit cards, and confidential paperwork.

FineMark to Host FREE Shredding Event on November 28

Shred It! November November Shredding Shredding Event Event Wednesday, Wednesday, November November 28 28 The The Village Village Church Church on on The The Island Island 9:00 9:00 a.m. a.m. –– 11:00 11:00 a.m. a.m.

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FineMark National Bank & Trust will be hosting a free shredding event on Wednesday, November 28, from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. at The Village Church.

“The best way to protect your identity is by shredding and disposing of printed materials which contain your personal information,” said Tiffany Williams, managing executive of the FineMark office located at Shell Point. “Yet shredding personal information, old credit cards, paperwork, and expired credit cards can be a daunting and time consuming task. That is why we wanted

to provide this convenient shredding event as a free service to all Shell Point residents.”

FineMark has contracted with Secure Shredding Inc., a mobile document destruction service, to bring a shredding truck to Shell Point. Residents may drive up to The Village Church and drop off their personal documents, old mail, expired credit cards, and other personal materials to be shredded on-site in the mobile vehicle. FineMark staff members will be at the event to ensure your security. You can bring items to shred in any bag, box, or container of your choice.

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While we are moved by these stirring stories, consider the ability of the charity to deliver on the promises to serve a given population,

beginning to see the early holiday shopping and gift giving advertisements on television and in print. It won’t be long until the newspapers are thick with holiday advertisements, and at the same time we will begin to receive year-end charitable appeals.

As a philanthropy advisor, I meet annually with a number of Shell Point residents to assist in planning their annual year-end gift giving routine. It is a time of It is a time of great joy for great joy for many, and an opportunity to many, and an opportunity to do good for the charities we love and for the people they serve. Perhaps a few do good for the charities we love and for the people they serve. reminders will be helpful to you as you plan your year-end giving. or to accomplish their mission. Do you know 1 Take time to consider what the charity well or do they simply have a charities you are passionate about. catchy name? Don’t invest your hard-earned While we all receive many requests from a dollars unless you are certain the charity will variety of charities, it is not necessary that we follow through on your intent. give to all. It is likely more prudent to con3 Start early! Some year-end giving sider those charities that have captured our interest, our hearts, and are doing work we strategies may require the repositioning of an care deeply about. I favor more substantial asset, a conversation with your financial gifts to fewer charities so that the value of the advisor, or the establishment of an agreement gift is not consumed by the administration with the charity of your choice. Stock transfers take a few days, so try to give your advisor involved in receipting and communicating.

The Essential Elements of a Trustworthy Financial Plan Session II

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During our first session on The Essential Elements of a Trustworthy Financial Plan, we focused on building a secure and stable financial plan. During the second session, we will consider the art of financial planning.

Managing money can be fun! Just as color, furnishings, art, and well-planned décor can turn a sterile house into a warm and inviting home, so the art of financial planning can bring enthusiasm to a subject that is often dry or intimidating.

Even if you missed the first session, Session II will be full of good information.

Please join us. I think you’ll enjoy it.

This 45-minute presentation will be followed by Q&A. Light refreshments will be served. The seminar is free; however, seating is limited and reservations are required. To reserve your seat, please contact either service desk.

instructions prior to December 14, if possible.

Some charities allow credit card donations, so don’t totally give up if you procrastinate to the last minute. You may be able to give by credit card.

4 Have FUN! Perhaps above all, your year-end giving should be a joy to you as you fund the charitable organizations that do the work you want to be a part of.

The Legacy Foundation at Shell Point exists in part to assist you in accomplishing your charitable goals. If you would like to talk with someone about your year-end giving plans and the various options available to you, please give us a call at 466-8484.

Of course, Shell Point does important work and is strong financially in part because of the faithful and generous giving of many throughout our history. Whether your passion is for building Shell Point services, establishing a memorial, or providing for the needs of residents who may be less fortunate, we have opportunities that may interest you.

Please ask – we would be happy to talk about the opportunities available right here.

The Legacy Foundation — your trusted resource and philanthropy advisor.

The Essential Elements of A Trustworthy Financial Plan – Session II

Mastering the Art of Financial Planning Wednesday, November 28 10 - 11 a.m.

Grand Cypress Room/WDL Presenter: Timothy A. Stephenson,ChFC, exec. director of the Legacy Foundation LS03

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To include a listing for an upcoming event or activity, please contact Mary Franklin, resort services manager, at 454-2152 or email: maryfranklin@shellpoint.org

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Admin Courtyard/IS Bring a shopping bag and wander through the Shell Point Market Place each Friday morning.

While you are always sure to find fresh produce and baked goods, each Friday brings a new variety of jewelry, soaps, purses, and other unique items!

Holiday Craft Bazaar

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Commons/WDL With the holidays quickly approaching, the annual Shell Point Ho lid a y Craft Bazaar is just the place to pick up a handcrafted gift for someone special! Quality items created

by Shell Point residents include home décor, handbags, carved sculptures, pottery, jewelry, and much more. Once you are finished shopping at this wonderful event, be sure to enjoy lunch or a snack at the Palm Grill or Café Promenade.

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(inside or poolside lunch served by the beach) Monday, November 5 10:30 a.m. Island pickup 10:40 a.m. Woodlands pickup 10:50 a.m. Eagles Preserve pickup 1:30 p.m. approximate return Cost: $7.00 (lunch on your own) Reserved seating is for the inside restaurant at Pink Shell known as JoJo’s. But if the weather is wonderful and there are tables available, residents will have the option to lunch at Bongo’s.

Bongo’s is the casual Pink Shell Resort eatery that offers a pool and beachside experience for its customers. At both eateries, diners enjoy waterfalls splashing, island music playing, and great lunches. The beach is just a few steps away if you care to venture out for a short stroll after lunch. Both establishments offer light cuisine and signature sandwiches. Selections typically run from $10 to $16.

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month, John Sibley, owner of the Native Plant Garden Center in Fort Myers, will be discussing native plants for the small Florida garden.

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Social Center/IS Cost: $10.00 Thanksgiving, New Year's, and all holidays in between – get ready to party! Join us for entertaining ideas. Present an igloo cheese ball complete with stuffed olive penguins. Learn to make an easy seafood dip straight out of the pantry.

How about F. R . O . G . meatballs; don’t gasp, they’re made with hamburger! And what's a party without dessert? Come and see what else Dede D’Arcy (Royal Bonnet) and Ruth Deuber (Periwinkle) have in store for you. Space is limited to 20 and there is a $10 fee.

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Manatee Room/IS “My Favorite Photo” is the topic for this month’s club meeting. Bring an 8x10 or larger print and be prepared to explain why this is the favorite photo you have ever taken, followed by a critique from other members. A video on flash photography, will provide information about a difficult

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Friday, November 9 1:30 p.m.

Oak Room/WDL This month the group will discuss the new Apple MacBook Pro with Retina Display.

Apple calls it the “most beautiful computer that they have ever made.” It has been described using terms like: super fast, super thin, super light, and with super long battery life!

The Retina Display features a resolution with so many dots that you can’t discern the individual pixels! Come and hear about this new trend setter!

DVD: Age of Champions

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Friday, November 9 2:00 p.m.

Grand Cypress Room/WDL November is all about the Olympics here at Shell Point, and what better way to prepare for this year’s festivities than with an awardwinning documentary about five athletes who sprint, leap, and swim for gold at the National Senior Olympics! This film will leave you inspired as you meet a 100-yearold tennis champion, 86-year-old pole vaulter, and rough and tumble grandmothers who triumph over the limitations of age.

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Saturday, November 10 12:30 p.m. Island pickup 12:40 p.m. Woodlands pickup 12:50 p.m. Eagles Preserve pickup 5:30 p.m. approximate return Cost: $12.00 (snacks on your own) Location: Fort Myers Roy Hobbs Baseball is an amateur recreational baseball league with more than 600 teams across the USA, Canada, the Caribbean, and Europe, representing more than 7,500 players. The Roy Hobbs Baseball signature event is its annual World Series, which celebrated its 23rd anniversary in 2011. Roy Hobbs is a character in the book, The Natural, which turned into a four-time Oscar nominated movie in 1984.

Robert Redford played the role of Roy Hobbs, an average baseball player who seemingly came out of nowhere and became a legendary player with extraordinary talent. Don’t miss your chance to secure a spot on the bus to see the Senior World Series of Baseball.

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Saturday, November 10 10:00 a.m.

Grand Cypress Room Dawn Boren, director of resident life, will introduce the new integrated wellness program called LifeQuest. This program introduces the six dimensions of wellness under LifeQuest which include: Physical, Emotional, Educational, Spiritual, Community & Social, and our Natural Environment. Learn more about these six dimensions of wellness, as well and how you can set your own personal “MyQuest” goals to gain optimum health, personal growth, and fulfillment.

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Saturday DVD: The Artist (2011)

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Grand Cypress Room/WDL George Valentin is a famous movie star in Hollywood in 1927, starring in silent films.

While the invention of talking pictures is a detriment to his career, it helps Peppy Miller, young movie extra, rise to stardom. The award winning movie, The Artist, tells the story of these two and their interlinked destinies.

Sunday Matinee: The Russians are Coming (1966)

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Sunday, November 11 2:30 p.m.

Grand Cypress Room/WDL In this 1966 classic, The Russians are Coming, a Russian submarine captain runs his submarine aground off Massachusetts and just as he gets it floating again, World War III breaks out.

Despite the Russians’ harmless intentions, Brian Keith and his hysterical assistant, Jonathon Winters, do all they can to stir the people up to fight off the invaders.

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Monday, November 12 1:00 p.m.

Church Auditorium/IS Presentation of court flags will kick off the ceremony. Each court will have representatives carrying in and presenting their court’s decorated flag.

After the presentation, be prepared to be amazed by the high energy performance of The Jaminators. Court Representative Chairman Dr. Bill Lanpher (Oakmont) will then start the games with the lighting of the torch.

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The Crystal Dining Room/IS Help celebrate and salute our veteran’s with a meal at The Crystal Dining Room! The restaurant will be glowing with patriotism, from the decorations to the music by The Live Wires, and even a patriotic buffet and dessert. As a special treat, any veteran who comes wearing any part of their uniform will receive a free dessert!

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Thursday, November 15 2:15 p.m.

Manatee Room/IS Mike Peterson from Computer Medics will unveil the newest operating system from Microsoft – Windows 8. Using an actual computer with Windows 8, Mike will highlight the new operating system features.

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Church Auditorium/IS Come and admire the theatrical talents of your family, friends, and neighbors as they present the plays The Widow’s Mite, directed by Ruth Deuber (Periwinkle), and A Bench in the Sun, directed by Kate Sullivan (Eagles Preserve), at this month’s SPOT performance. These hilarious comedies are sure to bring a smile to your face!

I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Change at Off-Broadway Palm Theatre

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Thursday, November 15 6:15 p.m. Island pickup 6:30 p.m. Woodlands pickup 6:45 p.m. Eagles Preserve pickup 11:00 p.m. approximate return Cost: $31.00 no meal (show only) Head to the Broadway Palm Theatre to experience the fun as the road to coupledom and all of its trials and tribulations are explored in this laugh-out-loud musical celebration that delves into dating, romance, marriage, lovers, husbands, wives, and inlaws. The universal themes of the frustrations and pleasures of dating, marriage, and love have gained this show lasting popularity and have made it a comedic hit.

Shell Point Olympics Closing Ceremony Friday, November 16 1:00 p.m.

Church Auditorium/IS Medal presentations will wrap up the week’s competition. All medal recipients will be honored, everyone will get to view a week’s worth of pictures

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Sign-up required for this activity. Call Island (454-2282) or Woodlands (454-2054)

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Lunch will be served picnic style b y S h e l l Point staff. No one leaves beach day hungry!

to celebrate the efforts of all athletes, and court flag awards will be presented.

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Monday, November 19 4:30 p.m. Island pickup 4:40 p.m. Woodlands pickup 4:50 p.m. Eagles Preserve pickup 8:00 p.m. approximate return Cost: $7.00 (dinner on your own) Whenever fine dining is discussed in Fort Myers, The Veranda is almost always the first restaurant mentioned, and is consistently honored as one of the area’s most

award-winning restaurants. For more than 32 years, The Veranda has offered first-class dining experiences in the two historic Victorian homes which comprise the establishment. With its antebellum charm, unparalleled service, and fine cuisine, The Veranda promises to stay a favorite for many years to come. Entrées are priced from $28 to $38. Treat yourself to a unique evening out.

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Wednesday, November 21 8:30 a.m. Island pickup 8:40 a.m. Woodlands pickup 8:50 a.m. Eagles Preserve pickup 2:30 p.m. approximate return Cost: $16.00 (no ice cream stop today) It is Thanksgiving week, and you have the chance to go to the beach! Your northern friends and family may be shoveling snow, but you can head out to Delnor Wiggins State Park Beach with your beach bags, chairs, supplies, and fellow Shell Point residents to enjoy the tropical weather here in

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Friday, November 23 2:00 p.m. and 7:00 p.m.

Woodlands Commons/WDL After Thanksgiving Day is over and you are ready to unwind, make sure to join your neighbors for a night of music with Tom Hoehn as he returns for another Organ Concert. He will enchant the halls of The Woodlands Commons with sounds of Broadway and movie musicals, semi-classical and classical selections, novelty numbers, standards, and hymn tunes.

Movie Night: Mrs. Miniver (1942)

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Monday, November 26 6:45 p.m.

Social Center/IS Follow the story of the Minivers, a middle-class English family, as they experience the start of World War II. This movie shows the stresses that the war placed on the family during this difficult time as Mrs. Miniver provides stability to the family, Mr. Miniver helps to evacuate the trapped British Expeditionary Force from Dunkirk, and their son, Vin, courts Lady Beldon’s granddaughter.

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Thursday, November 29 10:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m.

Gift Shop and Social Center/IS Come enjoy a festive day of shopping at the Gift Shop Holiday Extravaganza! Purchase unique gifts created or enhanced by Shell Point residents and receive free gift wrapping service. New this year, drawings for prizes will take place every hour, along with demonstrations and book signings. Light refreshments will be served.

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Thursday, November 29 7:00 p.m.

Grand Cypress Room/WDL Visit the I Love Photography Fair, put on by the Photo Club, and have the chance to travel from booth to booth learning things like: what digital camera is best for you, how to take pictures on your smart phone, editing your photos, and much more! You will also have a chance to learn more about the Photo Club and the ways to get involved with this group. Light refreshments will be provided.

SAVE THE DATE: Annual Tree Lighting Shell Point Singers & Holiday Concert

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Tuesday, December 4 5:45 p.m. Festivities and Entertainment 6:30 p.m. Tree Lighting Amphitheater/IS The holidays are upon us! Mark your calendars for this year’s annual tree lighting ceremony with the Shell Point Singers to follow!

You won’t want to miss this highly-anticipated event!

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November Highlights LARSEN PAVILION Thu 1 ....Birthday Bash (2/3 DR) ........................................2:30 p.m.

Tue 6 ....Piano w/ Ruth Rodgers & Violin w/ Kathy Fairbanks (3 DR) ........................10:00 a.m.

Wed 7 ....Side by Side Entertainment (2 DR) ..................10:00 a.m.

Thu 8 ....Crafting with Kathy (3 DR) ................................2:00 p.m.

Fri 9 ....Albert & Gervais Entertainment (3 DR)............2:30 p.m.

Mon 12 ....Olympic Grand Opening Ceremony (VC) ........1:00 p.m.

Tue 13 ....Ramp Bowling (3 DR) ..........................................2:30 p.m.

Tue 13 ....Olympic Games-Ring Toss (2 DR)2:30pm Wed 14 ....Distance Throwing (3 DR)......................................2:30pm Wed 14 ....Olympic Indoor Events............................................All Day Thu 15 ....Ring Toss (3 DR) ................................................10:00 a.m.

Thu 15 ....Games End-Vicki Lei Entertainment (3 DR) ....2:30 p.m.

Fri 16 ....Olympic Closing Ceremony (VC) ......................1:00 p.m.

Sat 17 ....Tom Cannon Entertainment (2 DR) ..................2:30 p.m.

Wed 21 ....Ice Cream Social (3 DR) ......................................2:30 p.m.

Thu 22 ....Thanksgiving Luncheon (1 DR) ........................11:00 a.m.

Thu 29 ....Clydesdale Horse Visit (all floors) Outdoors ......2:00 p.m.

Every Mon Every Tue Every Wed Every Wed Every Sat

Sing-A-Long w/ Dot (2DR) ........................10:00 a.m.

Piano w/ Ruth Rodgers (3DR) ....................10:00 a.m.

Music Social w/ Art (3DR) ........................ 10:00 a.m.

Pet Therapy w/ Eli (3/2 DR)..................2:30/3:00 p.m.

Pet Therapy w/ Sammie (3/2 DR)..........10/10:30 a.m.

Recurring Activities: • Catholic Communion will be held each Sunday in residents’ rooms at 10:00 a.m.

• Vespers meet on 3rd floor on Sundays at 2:45 p.m., and Mondays and Wednesdays at 3:45 p.m. on 2nd floor.

• Bible Study with Eleanor will be held on Mondays at 9:30 a.m. on 3rd floor.

• Bible Stories & Songs with Bud will meet Tuesdays at 3:00 p.m. on 3rd floor.

• Hymn Sing will take place on Saturdays at 3 p.m. on 3rd floor.

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Thu 1 ....Shopping Trip to Wal-Mart (L)............................9:00 a.m.

Thu 1 ....November Birthdays w/ Vicki Lei (COM)..........2:30 p.m.

Fri 2 ....Lunch Trip to Cracker Barrel (L) ......................10:30 a.m.

Sat 3 ....Leslie Gregory, Harpist (DR)..............................12:00 p.m.

Mon 5 ....Shopping Trip to Wal-Mart (L)............................9:00 a.m.

Mon 5 ....Music Fun w/ Ali (COM) ....................................1:30 p.m.

Tue 6 ....Children’s Violin Concert (COM) ................ 7:00 p.m.

Wed 7 ....Bake Shop - Pumpkin Bread (DR) ..................7-9:00 a.m.

Fri 9 ....Dinner Music w/ Side by Side (DR) ....................4:30 p.m.

Sun 11 ....National Ice Cream Sundae Day (DR)............4-6:00 p.m.

Mon 12 ....Veterans Day Dessert Buffet (DR)..................11-1:00 p.m.

Mon 12 ....Olympic Opening Ceremony (VC) ....................1:00 p.m.

Tue 13 ....Outdoor Olympic Events ..................................10:00 a.m.

Wed 14 ....Indoor Olympic Events (King’s Crown) ................All day Thu 15 ....Olympic Wii Bowling Finals (Arbor) ..................2:00 p.m.

Fri 16 ....Olympic Closing Ceremony (VC) ......................1:00 p.m.

Sat 17 ....Tom Cannon, Entertainer (COM) ......................1:00 p.m.

Mon 19 ....Lunch Trip to Siam Hut (L) ..............................10:15 a.m.

Thu 22 ....Macy’s Parade (GS) ..............................................9:00 a.m.

Thu 22 ....Traditional Thanksgiving Dinner (DR) ........11-1:00 p.m.

Fri 23 ....Jean Packard Trio (COM) ....................................1:30 p.m.

Thu 29 ....ECS 6th graders Performance (COM) .......... 10:00 a.m.

Tue 27 ....Fall Bunko w/ Friends (Springs) ..........................6:30 p.m.

THE ARBOR Thu 1 Fri 2 Mon 5 Tue 6 Wed 7 Thu 8 Thu 8 Sun 11 Mon 12 Tue 13 Wed 14 Wed 14 Thu 15 Fri 16 Mon 19 Mon 19 Tue 20 Thu Tue Wed Thu

....Brain Teasers (1FL)................................................9:00 a.m. ....Lunch Trip to Cracker Barrel (1FL) ..................10:15 a.m. ....Cooking Demonstration (1CK) ........................11:00 a.m. ....Art & Crafts: Beaded Dinner Clips (4CR) ......10:00 a.m. ....November Birthdays w/ Side by Side (CMR) ....3:00 p.m. ....Name that Baby Face (DR) ....................................All Day ....Cards by Karen (1FL)..........................................11:30 a.m. ....Morning Worship Patriotic Service (VC) ........10:15 a.m. ....Olympic Opening Ceremony (VC) ....................1:00 p.m. ....Outdoor Olympic Events....................................10-12 p.m. ....Arbor Olympic Indoor Events ................................All Day ....Harpist Leslie Gregory (DR) ................................4:30 p.m. ....Olympic Wii Bowling Finals (2TD) ....................2:00 p.m. ....Olympic Closing Ceremony (VC) ......................1:00 p.m. ....Lunch Trip to Siam Hut (1FL) ..........................10:30 a.m. ....Campfire & S’mores w/ Guitarist (Gazebo) ......5:30 p.m. ....Leaving Spiritual Legacies w/ Bonnie Palmquist -Part 1 (1SR) ..........10:00 a.m.

22 ....Macy’s Parade (1SR) ............................................9:00 a.m.

27 ....Leaving Spiritual Legacies w/ Bonnie Palmquist -Part 2 (1SR) ..........10:00 a.m.

28 ....Animal Encounters (Gazebo) ............................ 9:30 a.m.

29 ....Jerry Blumenfeld, Accordion player (DR) ..........4:30 p.m.

SUPPORT GROUPS Alcoholics Anonymous Meeting Each Thursday in November 4:30 p.m.

Sabal Room/WDL Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and woman who share their experience, strength, and hope that they may solve their common problem and help others recover from alcoholism. This “open” meeting of AA welcomes anyone who thinks they may have a problem with alcohol. The loved ones who support them are also welcome. For more information, call 275-5111.

Cancer Support Program 1-on-1 mentoring The goal of this resident-led program is to establish group mentoring connections between newly diagnosed cancer patients and cancer survivors. Contact Barbara Maruchi (Lakewood) at 433–9488

Diabetes Group Appointment Friday, November 2 1:00 p.m.

Social Center/IS Both insulin and non-insulin diabetics are encouraged to attend this meeting. Each monthly meeting covers a different topic and includes open discussion.

Healing Journey Grief Support Wednesdays, November 7 and 28 2:45 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Village Church/Chapel Healing Journey is a series of sessions which examine the physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual effects of grief. Dotty Morrison (Cellana) and Judy Mayer (Junonia) will lead the series that runs October 17 through December 5. Please call Dotty at 337-4015 to make an appointment.

Cancer Support Group

Memory Care Groups

Wednesday, November 7 1:30 p.m.

Osprey Room/ IS Ladies and gentlemen are all encouraged to attend the resident-led Cancer Support Group. The intent is for a meaningful and uplifting session. Contact Barbara Maruchi (Lakewood) at 433-9488, or Don Wilson (Turban) at 466-3953.

Note: Individual assessment is required before joining one of the following groups.

Wednesdays, November 7 and 21 3:00 p.m.

3rd Floor Craft Room/King’s Crown

Caregiver Support Group Therapy Tuesdays, November 6 and 20 9:15 a.m. or 10:30 a.m.

2nd Floor Educational Room #2 Pavilion Rehabilitation Building/IS This therapeutic group is aimed at helping residents deal with issues of being a caregiver for someone with a memory disorder.

The resident with a memory disorder may be cared for in independent living, assisted living, or skilled nursing. Dr. Nancy Spencer facilitates the group and can be reached at 454-2043. Sign up is required.

Tuesdays, November 6 and 20 9:15 - 10:15 a.m. or 10:30 - 11:30 a.m.

2nd Floor Educational Room #2 Pavilion Rehabilitation Building/IS These are therapeutic groups designed to provide education and support to those residents who have some type of memory disorder. The objectives of the groups are to identify practical strategies that would help residents manage their memory loss better, to address long-range planning, and to offer an environment that fosters a sense of purpose and heightened self-esteem. Kathy Fratrick, L.C.S.W. facilitates the group and can be reached at 454-2073. Individual appointments are available as well.

Neuropathy Support Group Wednesday, November 21 11:00 a.m.

Oak Room/WDL The group provides support and education.

Contact Lenny Wodarczyk (Parkwood) at 443-4769 and Mel Bleiberg (Eagles Preserve) at 693-3016.

Parkinson’s Support Group Monday, November 5 10:15 a.m.

Village Church Hospitality Room/IS This group provides support to Parkinson’s patients, as well as their family and friends.

The Vision Enrichment Group Tuesday, November 13 10:15 a.m.

Social Center/IS This group is a place to network and to share stories and information. Florence Putnam (Eagles Preserve) is the chairperson. For more information, contact Angie Prichard at 454-2134 or Sandee Weber at 225-2929

Walk With Me Caregiver Support Group Thursday, November 29 Coffee and dessert 1:30 p.m.

Meeting at 1:45 p.m.

Village Church Hospitality Room/IS Share your caregiver experiences with friends. Embrace spiritual support and renew inner strength. Contact Joyce Seckinger (Lucina) at 466-1354 for more information.

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MAKING A MARK ON CONTINUING EDUCATION .

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ED FULKER ENJOYED A CAREER THAT HELPED PAVE THE WAY FOR TODAY’S CONTINUING EDUCATION PROGRAMS (LIKE SHELL POINT’S OWN ACADEMY OF LIFELONG LEARNING)

he list of amenities, activities, programs, and facilities at Shell Point is an ever expansive one. And the greatest resource at Shell Point is undeniably its people. Ed Fulker (Junonia) describes the residents and staff of Shell Point as a “gold mine of diverse career expertise, talent, travel, and worldly experiences.” Not only does Ed recognize that remarkable resource, he also embodies such experience and has a longstanding passion for facilitating the communication and sharing of such resources so peers can learn from and with each other.

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Ed spent his freshman year at Dartmouth and entered the Navy V5 pilot training program. A short time later, Ed met Jeanette. “I was at a dance at an Italian American club,” Ed quips. “After an all-male education in prep school and Dartmouth, and a Navy that was all-male at the time, I was ready for a woman. And I met a great one!”

After a summer in California at UCLA, where he “studied French and swimming,” Ed took a second year at the UMass branch campus for GI’s at Fort Devens. From there it was on to more education and more training in Pensacola, Florida.

With WWII coming to an end, Ed chose to leave the military and the training that permitted no wives at that time. Discharged and on the GI Bill, which provided education benefits, tuition, books, and a small monthly stipend, Ed was able to marry his dancing partner and systematically garner degrees at Purdue: a B.S. in psychology/political science and an M.S. in psychology/education.

Ed jokes, “The ratio of men to women at Purdue was nine to one, so I brought my

own woman. Jeanette worked in the Purdue Library and helped put me through school.

Pretty soon, we were running out of GI Bill money, and she was pregnant with our first child. Through it all, she was amazing. I always called her my fun-tastic wife!”

Government Work Remaining at Purdue, Ed studied for his doctorate by night and taught psychology and developmental reading by day. With college students, high school teachers, and supervisors in industry in his classes, Ed began his lifelong career of training adults to continue lifelong learning.

After two years on Purdue’s faculty, a major from the U.S. Air Force offered Ed a job teaching a reading improvement program at the Pentagon. Ed remembers, “It was a package I just couldn’t turn down. In Washington, I could continue my doctoral program at night and raise a family too.”

For two years as an air cadet apprentice seaman, Ed engaged learners who were generals, admirals, bird colonels, and high-level civilians from all branches of the Defense Department. He taught them how to be more efficient in getting information from Continued next page

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MAKING A MARK ON CONTINUING EDUCATION...ED FULKER the pages of print. As Head of the Air Force Reading Improvement Lab, Ed worked with senior officials and civilians of all branches.

While at the Pentagon, the Washington Federal Bar Association asked Ed to do some part-time teaching of top lawyers. Some of the people he remembers from his classes were Warren Burger, who later became Chief

Justice of the Supreme Court; Bernard Shanley, Appointment Secretary for Eisenhower; and Julius Sourwine, Head of the House of Un-American Activities Committee during the McCarthy era.

Ed also taught efficient reading to adults on NBC television in Washington, D.C. – a first in the use of TV for adult reading training.

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Education and Agriculture As word of Ed’s success in adult education continued to spread, the Department of Agriculture contacted him and asked him to set up a Reading Improvement Lab for their professional staff.

Ed soon moved into management training for all of their agencies and was offered the position of Assistant Director of the U.S. Department of Agriculture Graduate School. Started in 1921, Ed explains that the Graduate School had a very different form than a typical graduate school. “This school was really the predecessor of the community college movement and the United States pioneer in continuing education. Agriculture county agents were America’s pioneers in adult continuing education. They impacted the lives and work of both farmers and their wives in very practical and productive ways.”

During his 26 years there, he saw a lot of changes. “The first year the Graduate School offered just nine classes. When I left, it was a completely self-supporting, nonprofit, quasi-government entity with an income of 24 million. Whenever a group of government people wanted to learn to do their job better, we would find a government expert to teach them at night. The training was very practical, career and jobrelated, with no typical awarding of a degree. I was at the right place at the right time to see unbelievable expansion.”

A Time for Philanthropy Taking a leave of absence, Ed turned his training skills with adults to the philanthropic efforts of the Ford Foundation in foreign countries, especially India and Nepal, where assistance was being provided in education, agriculture, public administration, and a host of other fields. In staff col2.

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2) Ed took a fieldtrip to Mexico with a mix of African and Asian government officials during an agro-industrial training program.

3) Throughout his career, Ed spent much of his work training foreign nationals through continuing education programs.

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While at the Pentagon, Ed was asked to do some part-time teaching by the Washington Federal Bar Association. A couple notable “pupils” were Warren Burger, who later became Chief Justice of the Supreme Court and Bernard Shanley, former Appointment Secretary for President Dwight D. Eisenhower.

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leges previously set up by the English for training people in governmental positions and functions, Ed left his mark. As a coach to Indira Gandhi’s Cabinet Secretariat, Ed developed a set of standards for what a good staff college should be and helped provide the model and establishment of the Indian Society for Training and Development. He also helped introduce listening training to top staff officials.

The World Bank Ed spent the final ten years of his career working for The World Bank both in the U.S. and abroad. He was the only psychologist in a group of other specialists in fields like economics, finance, engineering, and related fields important to developing nations.

After the rebuilding of Europe following the war, The World Bank turned its attention to third-world countries and their needs by providing training of government leaders in a variety of fields, like agriculture, public

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They need to be responsible and involved in the planning, problem-solving, and evaluation of their learning.

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Shell Point residents may be retired from careers, but not from lifelong learning. We all still have a great deal to learn.

administration, and education.

Gathering evaluations from government officials about previous mission teams, Ed was able to help The World Bank teams become effective again with training in listening and team building. Using video-taping and role-playing, mission teams learned about interpersonal communications and team-building by actually being in a group that learns to be a team.

their work and to life experiences. They need to be responsible and involved in the planning, problem-solving, and evaluation of their learning. In adult learning, the learner is a more active participant with the focus less on the delivery of content and more on addressing the needs and interests of the individual or group. Shell Point residents may be retired from careers, but not from lifelong learning.

We all still have a great deal to learn.”

An Active Retirement

Never Stop Learning

Following retirement, Ed and Jeanette lived in a community in North Fort Myers.

After Jeanette passed away in 2002, Ed wanted to simplify his life. So, he took the advice of a church friend and longtime Shell Point resident, Herman Bips (King’s Crown), and looked at Shell Point for himself.

In 2009, Ed made the move and immediately got involved in The Academy of Lifelong Learning. He says, “I took Memory Improvement and four sessions on India.”

The lifelong learner has continued to enroll and participate in a number of other Academy offerings. It was easily evident that The Academy was just the place for Ed to apply his own personal background and experience, and he quickly became part of The Academy Advisory Board.

After working for so many years with adult learners, it was exciting for Ed to see the enthusiasm and participation of so many fascinating residents.

Ed explains, “Adult learners need reasons and objectives for their learning that are internally motivated and based in relevancy to

Ed encourages facilitators and participants of any group to actively listen, to use open-ended questions with waiting time, to foster and interact with a strong sense of empowerment, and to create and work in an environment and relationship of trust and transparency. “The focus is on learning versus teaching. The challenge of The Academy is to facilitate peer learning – adults learning with and from each other.”

Ed trained adults in Taiwan for the University of Michigan; in India and Nepal for the Ford Foundation; in Turkey for Ohio State; and more than 2,000 professionals of The World Bank staffed by experts recruited from more than 183 member countries.

That exposure to so many countries and cultures was a highlight of Ed’s continuing education in today’s global economy. “Shell Point is the right place for me as I continue to learn and grow.”

According to Ed, access to Shell Point’s endless array of resources, including its amazing residents, is something that should be taken advantage of. “We’re sitting on a gold mine, and I’m enjoying the experience!”

Expand Your Mind Manage Your Memory, Begin a Game of Bridge, Learn About Technology, and More!

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Coffee With A Neighbor

This month we have two Coffee With A Neighbor presentations, and each one offers a rare and personal glimpse of living purposely and well in a very different culture.

On Thursday, November 8, Bonnie Palmquist (Coquina) shares her challenges and rewards raising her daughters in a Middle Eastern country that has always been in the news with My Life in Jordan: Living in Jordan, A Woman’s Point of View.

Bonnie’s memories have Bonnie Palmquist been sharpened with a trip to Jordan a few months ago.

Charlotte Stemple (Cellana) shares her unique history in Vietnam – A Personal Perspective on Monday, November 19. She and her husband, Woody, were in Vietnam for the entire time of American troop involvement in Vietnam from early 1965 to after the Paris Peace Accords in 1972. Their two sons grew up in Vietnam as Charlotte Stemple their parents served as missionaries with the Christian and Missionary Alliance. Charlotte has returned to Vietnam more than 10 times and gaining insight into her perspective is a rare opportunity for us.

For the Love of Learning:

Paul Hoden (Oakmont) gives us an

On Tuesday, November 13, award-winning maritime author and lecturer, Robert Macomber, will share his perspective from recent travels in his class Cuba Then, Cuba Now. He will also discuss his recentlyreleased novel, Honorable Lies.

opportunity to brush up on our driving skills French War, the with an AARP Driver Safety Program on American War, Monday, November 5. Our resident instruc- and Vietnam today. tors know how to take a six-hour course and In November you have a second chance make the time fly by until you leave with to get in on the Novice Bridge classes with your skills refreshed.

Session 2 taught by Susan Dr. Chris Votolato, Director Willoughby on four Wednesdays, of the Shell Point Behavioral November 7 through 28. Susan will Health Department, gives us a also begin a second session of special lead up to National Intermediate Bridge the same four Memory Screening Day with an Wednesdays. informational program on Dotty Morrison (Cellana) will Monday, November 5, with give us an opportunity to enjoy phoNational Memory Screening Dr. Chris Votolato tos from a trip she took last April, Day Information. with Israel and Jordan, Contrasts and Vietnam: Its History and Culture will Close-ups on Wednesday, November 7. be presented on three Tuesdays, November 6 Award-winning maritime author and through 20, by lecturer, Robert Macomber, will not only Professor Adrian share his recently released novel, Honorable Kerr. As he does Lies, the latest in his Honor series, he will also so well, he will share his perspective from recent travels in begin with prehis- Cuba Then, Cuba Now on Tuesday, tory and take us November 13. through Ho Chi The November Library Book Talk will Minh and be presented on Tuesday, November 27, by Communism, the Dick Allen (Harbor Court). You will get a Two class on Vietnam will be presented in November. On Monday, November 19, Charlotte Stemple will discuss her experiences living in Vietnam as a missionary. Vietnam: Its History and Culture will be presented on three Tuesdays, November 6 through 20, by Professor Adrian Kerr.

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new perspective on our founding father with this review of the Pulitzer Prize-winning biography by Ron Chernow, Washington: A Life.

Thomas Tyrell, retired international lawyer and former economic advisor to the UK government, joins us once again. This time he fast-forwards us from his last lecture on Russia, to his international perspective on current Russia, in Russia Revisited on Tuesday, November 27.

Thomas Tyrell Rising Power: The New Global Reality will be presented on Friday, November 30, by Albert Myers (Junonia).

He will discuss how the rise of Brazil, China, and India challenges the global order, including major issues which extend across national boundaries, and how all of this will impact American lives.

Technology Today And Tomorrow (T-3)

Thomas Tyrell, retired international lawyer and former economic advisor to the UK government, returns to The Academy to share his perspective on current Russia. The course, Russia Revisited, will be held on Tuesday, November 27.

Telephone technology focuses on Alice and Gerry DeBaun (Eagles Preserve).

Smartphones: Apple iPhone 4S on Those with some computer experience Tuesday, November 6, with a presentation by can learn The Basics of Smart Shopping on Wally Mercer (Lakewood). the Internet on three Thursdays, Tablet technology is November 1 through 15, with Paul presented in three different McKean (Eagles Preserve). lectures this month. Bruce Susan Schmitt (Lakewood) and Findley (Sundial) and Lucille Peterson (Lakewood) give us Penny Modrich (Nautilus) two Mac classes this semester. present a Workshop: iPad Macintosh Course – Pages will Tablet – class #3: APPS! take place on two Mondays, APPS! APPS! on two November 5 and 12. Macintosh Learn about iPad Thursdays, November 8 and Course – Address Book will take tablet technology in 15 and a Workshop: iPad place on two Mondays, November two different T-3 Tablet – Class #4: iCloud – 19 and 26. classes in November.

What’s Up? on Wednesday, Moving up in skill level, Larry November 14.

Brock (Eagles Preserve) teaches Introduction Larry Brock (Eagles Preserve) gives us a to Picasa on four Wednesdays, November 7 Workshop: Android Tablet Alternatives through 28, and Google Maps and Google (Motorola, Samsung, etc.) on two Tuesdays, Earth on three Thursdays, November 1 November 6 and 13. through 15.

Legacy

Academy On The Go

The Legacy seminar for November is session two of a two-part series on The Essential Elements of a Trustworthy Financial Plan, on Wednesday, November 28, by Timothy Stephenson, Executive Director of The Legacy Foundation

On Thursday, November 8, our educational field trip takes us to Hickey’s Creek Mitigation Park for a private tour which will include some trail walking with stops of interest along the way. You will enjoy the park while learning about environmental mitigation at this park that was originally established by the Florida Fish and Wildlife Conservation Commission to mitigate for gopher tortoise habitat destroyed by development in southwest Florida. Lunch will be at Franklin Lock picnic area for a look at yet another natural treasure.

Computer College

The Computer College offers a chance for absolute beginners to get started with computers on six Mondays, November 5 through December 10, with Computer College Prep School – Basics taught by

Stay Connected

For more information, including any course fees, please refer to The Academy of Lifelong Learning Brochure at either service desk. The brochure is also available online at www.shellpoint.net. Confirm class selections and check for last-minute changes in the Weekly Reminder or on SPTV – channel 11.

You can also see an interview with most instructors on SPTV.

On Thursday, November 8, Academy On The Go heads to Hickey's Creek Mitigation Park for a private nature tour followed by a picnic lunch at Franklin Lock.

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Memory and Aging

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A key concern of older adults is the experience of memory loss, especially as it is one of the hallmark symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease.

However, memory loss is qualitatively different in normal aging from the kind of memory loss associated with a dementia such as Alzheimer’s disease.

With age, almost everyone will experience decreased efficiency of memory. However, when memory loss becomes so pervasive and severe that it disrupts your hobbies, social activities, and family relationships, you may be experiencing the warning signs of a disorder that causes dementia or a condition that mimics dementia.

Consider the differences between age-related forgetfulness and that which is associated with dementia in the chart at right.

The key factors to managing memory disorders are early detection and identification of and implementation of memory management strategies. To make an appointment for a free memory screening on Tuesday, November 13, contact Mardee Lader at 415-5435.

Normal age-related memory changes:

Symptoms that may indicate dementia:

■ Able to function independently and pursue normal activities (bill paying, managing meds, cooking, driving), despite occasional memory lapses.

■ Difficulty performing simple tasks (cooking, working the TV remote, daily living tasks), or forgetting how to do things you’ve done many times.

■ Able to recall and describe incidents of forgetfulness.

“You remember that you forget.”

■ Unable to recall or describe specific instances where memory loss caused problems.

“You forget that you forget.”

■ May pause to remember directions, but doesn’t get lost in familiar places.

■ Gets lost or disoriented even in familiar places; unable to follow directions.

■ Occasional difficulty finding the right word, but no trouble holding a conversation.

■ Words are frequently forgotten, misused, or garbled. Repeats phrases and stories in same conversation.

■ Judgment and decision-making ability the same as always.

■ Trouble making choices and may show poor judgment or behave in socially inappropriate ways.

Therapeutic Services

If you can’t make it to a free screening, consider seeking evaluation and guidance when there are changes in your memory. Talk to your primary care physician about a referral for a neuropsychological evaluation. Consider therapeutic services or behavioral health services which could assist with the identification of a memory condition and facilitate the development of an appropriate treatment plan.

See page 25 for information about support groups related to memory issues.

For further details, contact Shell Point’s Behavioral Health office at 489-8441.

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National Memory Screening Day Tuesday, November 13 November is National Alzheimer’s Disease Awareness Month. The Department of Behavioral Health at Shell Point will be participating in National Memory Screening Day on Tuesday, November 13, by offering free and confidential memory screenings at their office on The Island. Appointments take approximately 20 minutes. Please contact Mardee Lader at 4155435 to schedule your screening time.

Thank You So Very Much For Your Support of the Bakeless Bake Sale!

B Y J E R R Y N A N F E L T ( E A G L E S P R E S E R V E ) , L A R S E N PAV I L I O N A U X I L I A R Y P R E S I D E N T LARSEN PAVILION

The Shell Point Community has successfully joined forces again this year to accomplish the goal of raising funds for the Larsen Pavilion! The Auxiliary extends a huge “thank you” for your support of the 2012 Bakeless Bake Sale.

Are there more generous people anywhere in the world than at Shell Point? We don’t think so. It is amazing what we have accomplished by joining together in this project! Thank you for your caring hearts and generous donations. You have made a big difference for those who call the Pavilion their home.

Much Needed Item Purchased

You will be happy to know that your money is already at work. Just recently, after

consultation with the Pavilion Administration, the Auxiliary Board was thrilled to purchase a much needed mechanical lift for $6,500. It was great to have the money in our treasury, allowing us to make this strategic gift to the Pavilion.

Your support this year, and throughout the years, has enabled us as a community to further enhance the life and welfare of our friends and neighbors who are receiving the good care that our skilled nursing facility provides.

Thinking of Becoming a Volunteer?

In addition to extending our heartfelt “thanks,” the Pavilion Auxiliary Board would like to also invite you to think about becoming a volunteer in the Pavilion. This

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Sale may the perfect time to do so. We would love to have you join us, and we can always use more volunteers. To learn more about this opportunity, sign up to attend the Pavilion Orientation on Friday, October 26, from 9:15 a.m. to 11:30 a.m., in the Hospitality Room at The Village Church.

Call Rose Donnelly at 454-2272 to reserve your space.

Thank you again for your gift to the 2012 Bakeless Bake Sale!

Flowers & Fountains

There's a new feature on your Shell Point TV lineup: Flowers & Fountains. It's a visually pleasing montage of the landscaping and gardens around Shell Point, as well as a journey through all the distinctive fountains and water features on campus.

“We were looking for something interesting to display on SPTV channel 12, between live broadcasts of The Village Church,” said Jared Pike, Shell Point TV supervisor. “Then we decided to just go make it ourselves.”

The result is a relaxing, 41-minute loop of Shell Point's beautiful surroundings – all underscored by classical music. Flowers & Fountains showcases many resident-tended garden plots, as well as the Jared Jared Pike Pike and and Adam Adam Brown Brown filming filming beautiful blooms of the Orchid House. The on on location location at at Royal Royal Bonnet.

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“Fountains” portion includes sweeping vistas of all the fountains and water features at Shell Point, and also features a playful montage of dolphins, manatees, and other unique sea life around Shell Point.

The Shell Point TV crew – Jared Pike, Dan Philgreen, and Adam Brown – undertook the project this summer. Utilizing a golf cart with an attached miniature camera jib, the crew of three were able to film in tight spaces, but still achieve cinematic results. “This golf cart went everywhere,” said Jared. “With a crew of three, we could film a maximum number of locations in a minimum amount of time. We’re thrilled with the results.”

Purchase the DVD

Tune into SPTV channel 12 to view Flowers & Fountains between broadcasts of The Village Church services. You can purchase $10 DVD copies of Flowers & Fountains for you or your friends and family. Contact Jared Pike by email, jaredpike@shellpoint.org, or by phone at 489-8431.

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Get Those Packages There on Time 2012 U.S.P.S. HOLIDAY POSTAGE AND MAILING GUIDE FROM RESORT SERVICES The holiday season is fast approaching and we will soon be busy getting cards and packages out to special friends and family.

Resort Services has put together a helpful guide of information and important mailing dates to remember as this season draws near.

The service desks can post first class, priority, media rate, and certified mail. Various priority boxes and padded envelopes are available for your needs. Both service desks have holiday stamps available at the current rate of 45 cents each.

■ Wrap and cushion your items. Close and shake the package to ensure there is enough padding.

■ Use clear or brown two inch packing tape or paper tape. Do not use wrapping paper tape, masking tape, or cellophane tape.

■ When mailing photo frames, remove the glass and wrap it separately.

■ Remove batteries from toys and wrap separately.

Important Tips for Preparing Your Packages

■ Use the complete address on each item. Always use the correct Zip code.

■ Choose a sturdy mailing box with enough room for adding cushioning material around the contents. If reusing a box, cover up or black out any old labels and markings.

■ Recommendation: Place an index card inside the box with sender’s and recipient’s addresses, along with a list of the contents, in case the contents become separated during shipping.

If you have questions regarding holiday shipping and mailing, please contact The Island service desk at 454-2282 or The Woodlands service desk at 454-2054.

Postage Rates & U.S.P.S. Mailing Deadlines Current Postage Rates 1st Class mail ....................................45¢ 1st Class mail, additional ounce ......20¢ Canada ..............................................85¢ International ..................................$1.05 Flat Rate Priority small box ..........$5.15 Flat Rate Priority medium box ....$10.85 Flat Rate Priority large box..........$14.65 Large APO/FPO ..........................$12.65

Suggested Cutoff Dates for Mailing International mail ......................Dec. 3* Parcel Post ..................................Dec. 14 First Class....................................Dec. 20 Priority Mail................................Dec. 21 Express Mail................................Dec. 22 *Date represents earliest cut off.

See usps.com/shippingdates for full details and dates related to specific international mailing regions.

A Time to Give

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Yes, it is the season and a time to remember to give. What better purpose could there be but to remember to give to our wonderful staff here at Shell Point?

Their energies and support are always there, even though we don’t see them all up close!

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If you would like to make a contribution to the Employee Christmas Gift, you can do so by making a check payable to Shell Point Retirement Community, with the word “Employee Christmas” indicated on the notation line. Boxes to donate gifts are available at the front desk of The Island and

The Woodlands service desks.

Your donation will light up so many homes of these wonderful people who make our lives here so special!

Please note, the deadline to contribute to the campaign is this month – Friday, November 30!

Gifts will be distributed to employees on Friday, December 7.

For more information regarding the Employee Christmas Fund, please contact chairperson Paul Peterson (Rosemont) at 432-0234.

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The 10th anniversary season of Shell Point’s Concert Series will feature two prominent performances in November. There is still time to take advantage of significant savings on the purchase of the entire package of Fine & Performing Arts or Concerts and Conversations series tickets.

Single tickets are also available.

Fly Me to the Moon

Concerts and Conversations Series

Connie Evingson and Charles Lazarus Thursday, November 8 7:30 p.m.

Church Auditorium/IS The Fine & Performing Arts Concert Series begins with Fly Me To The Moon, featuring the cool vocal stylings of Connie Evingson and the sultry sounds of trumpeter Charles Lazarus.

These consummate performers delight audiences with jazz standards presented with an original flair from the iconic Great American Songbook; the romantic melodies of Gershwin, Rodgers and Kern; and the evocative rhythms of Brazilian bossa nova legend Antonio Carlos Jobim.

With a wealth of shared experience, including A Prairie Home Companion, Smithsonian’s Jazz Singers, NPR’s Fresh Air, Montreal International Jazz Festival, Canadian Brass, and Carnegie Hall, just to name a few highlights, Lazarus and Evingson bring a refined sensibility and adventurous spirit to the stage.

Don’t miss this exciting evening of music reminiscent of The Rat Pack era.

Single Tickets: $35 Series of 5 concerts: $125

SAVE up to $50 on Series!

Time is running out on Best Savings For additional information about these and other concerts featured in Shell Point’s 2012-2013 Concert Series, visit www.shellpoint.org/concerts. Tickets are available at both service desks.

The Merling Trio Meet the members: Violin: Renata Artman Knific, Cello: Bruce Uchimura, Piano: Susan Wiersma Uchimura Monday, November 26 7:00 p.m.

Grand Cypress Room/WDL The perfect start to the Concerts and Conversations series, The Merling Trio is widely recognized as one of today’s premier ensembles. Their fusion of violin, cello, and piano has led them to be hailed as a brilliantly distinguished group endowed with remarkable gifts of communication, magnificent precision, and an impeccable up to $ on blend of sound. A truly internaSeries! tional trio, it brings together musicians from Polish, Japanese, and Dutch backgrounds.

Following its New York debut in Weill Recital Hall at Carnegie Hall, and named finalist for the Naumburg Foundation Chamber Music Award, the group has maintained an active tour schedule throughout the United States, Canada, and the United Kingdom.

Join us for an evening of fine music and a time for mingling with the artists during a decadent dessert reception following the performance.

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Single Tickets: $25 Series of 4 concerts: $80

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The Salon & Spa Celebrates One-Year Anniversary of Renovation and Expansion

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In November 2011, the new and improved Island Salon & Spa opened its doors to show off a beautiful new expansion and renovation. The purpose of the renovation was to relocate facial and massage services from the Health Club to the main salon location on The Island and to enhance the ambiance with a tranquil spa atmosphere, creating a very pleasant experience for our customers.

On the one-year anniversary of the renovation and expansion, we remain committed to serving, with excellence, the men and women who enjoy the extensive menu of services we provide. I can speak for all the staff when I say that we feel blessed to know and serve the people here at Shell Point and the neighboring communities.

In addition to our one-year anniversary, November 2012 also marks the seven-year anniversary of the Salon’s opening at Shell Point Retirement Community!

There are three convenient locations to choose from: The Island Salon & Spa, The Arbor Salon, and the Pavilion Salon. We offer a wide array of services for men and women – from head to heel!

The friendly and professional staff of the Shell Point Salon & Spa provides a variety of services, including hair care, manicures and pedicures, facials, massage, makeup application, and more from three convenient locations: The Island, The Arbor, and The Pavilion.

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Introducing Two Great

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SKIN CARE & FACIALS

Did you know that the skin is the largest organ of the body? Your skin needs plenty of water, moisture, and oxygen for good health. Our spa services do for the skin what a tune-up does for a car. Facials cleanse clogged pores, remove dead skin cells, hydrate, and increase circulation. Massages eliminate toxins in the lymphatic system, increases circulation of blood flow, and improve muscle and joint health as well as range of motion. Massage is also very beneficial in follow-up care after rehabilitation therapy.

Buy 4 facials, get the 5th facial FREE!* *Purchase recommended skin care products for home use. *Enjoy one facial per month for 4 months – 5th facial free!

MASSAGE THERAPY Buy 8 massages, get the 9th massage FREE!*

489-8400 APPOINTMENTS The Island Salon

M – F: 8 a.m. to 4 p.m.

SAT: 8 a.m. to 12 p.m.

The Arbor Salon

M – F: 8 a.m. to 4 p.m.

The Pavilion Salon

M – F: 9 a.m. to 4 p.m.

*Enjoy 8 massages within a 10 month period and the 9th is free!

Both reward programs begin November 1. See Salon for details.

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Tea and scones, finger sandwiches and croissants, chocolates and raspberries — what better way to spend part of an afternoon!

On September 24, FineMark Bank and Chef Mike Gavala held High Tea for Shell Point ladies with FineMark accounts. It was a way of saying, “Thank you,” for three years of good relations between the bank and Shell Point residents.

The tea was hosted by the friendly ladies of FineMark, including Shell Point Branch Manager Tiffany Williams, staff members Angela Morris and Kathy Boyd, and Marketing Representatives Jessica Stilwell and Kacey Schneider.

After an hour of conversation over delicious treats and a variety of types of tea, an entertaining program included facts about tea and the multiple uses of tea.

Who knew that tea can be used to dye hair and soothe burns? Several prizes were also given to ladies who could answer questions about FineMark. The person at each table who had been a Shell Point resident the longest received extra goodies to take home and enjoy.

Everyone in attendance shared a warm “thank you” to FineMark National Bank & Trust for going over and above in fostering good relations here at Shell Point.

Dorothy Hall Dotty Morrison and Ruth Greenlee.

The 9th Annual Shell Point Open Golf Tournament is on November 9th Open spaces are still available for those who would like to play in the Shell Point Open Golf Tournament. Golfers will enjoy a light breakfast at 7:30 a.m. before teeing off for the 18-hole “step-aside” scramble. Lunch will be provided at the conclusion of the tournament while the winners are announced and prizes are awarded.

A portion of the $125 entry fee is a charitable contribution and will be receipted appropriately. All proceeds from the tournament will benefit the Waterside Medical Complex at Shell Point.

To sign up, contact the Legacy Foundation at 239-466-8484.

Following the tournament, golfers will be able to ease muscle tension with FREE MINI-MASSAGES provided by licensed massage therapist Marianne Dabinett of the Shell Point Salon & Spa.

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Puppy Power!

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On Tuesday, October 16, dogs from every Shell Point neighborhood gathered in the Friendly Dog Park in The Woodlands for Yappy Hour. The proud pet owners shared smiles and laughs while watching their furry friends run, jump, roll, and romp through the park. They even enjoyed the opportunity to visit with local vendors offering pet products and services.

As Vern Mockler (Nautilus) stepped through the gates and released his teacup poodle’s leash, he shared, “Bentley is a rescue. This is the first time he’s been off his leash.” Vern looked on with delight as Bentley bounded through the grass, mixing right in with his new friends.

Nell Ernst (Parkwood) said that her Shitzu, Precious, is a regular at the Dog Park. “We come here five times a week. A lot of these dogs are here every time. They’ve become very compatible!”

Whether entering the park for the first time or simply stopping in for a daily visit, it was clear to see that the dogs and their owners enjoyed gathering for Yappy Hour!

A variety of small dogs, including poodles, yorkies, spaniels, shitzus, and bichons, had a howling good time at the Friendly Dog Park.

Bow Wow!

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The leaves are changing up north as the fall season gently approaches Southwest Florida. Meanwhile, there have also been a few changes at the Guest House on The Island at Shell Point. In our continuing improvement of accommodations and guest services, we have replaced the old TVs in all guest rooms with new flat-panel HDTVs. Additionally, the Guest House lobby has received beautiful new flooring, making the entrance to the Guest House and the Resident Gift Shop even more inviting and easily accessible and inviting.

Our beautiful community has so much to offer at this time of year with its tropical setting and mild climate.As friends and relatives organize fall travel plans, including visits for Thanksgiving, consider setting them up at the Guest House!

The Guest House at Shell Point provides comfortable accommodations at reasonable rates, and the friendly staff is ready to assist you in making reservations.

Our flexible daily rates are competitive with other comparable motels in our local area and fluctuate up or down to attract visitors to our community. We offer a special “Resident Rate” for friends and families of residents, as well as adjusted rates for members of AARP and AAA, which can provide savings on

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overall travel expenses. Once you know your dates of travel, we encourage you to contact us to secure your reservation early, since the rate quoted at the time of the reservation will not change if holiday rates increase later this year.

The Guest House offers the convenience of being on The Island, in the “hub” of activity. Guests are just a short walk from worship services and concerts at The Village Church, meals at the Island Café or Crystal Dining Room, and a variety of entertaining activities.

And the beaches of Sanibel Island and Fort Myers are just a short drive away.

You may ask, “What else is there to do?” We are pleased to offer our new Pickleball court and the newly refinished shuffleboard courts on The Island. We also urge you to check out “Things to Do” under Quick Links on the Shell Point website at www.shellpoint.org, where a number of activities are described onsite or nearby.

The staff at the Guest House looks forward to hearing from you.

THE GUEST HOUSE STAFF INVITES YOU TO ASK ABOUT NEW RATES & SEE THE RENOVATIONS

CALL 454-2123 TO PLAN YOUR NEXT VISIT TODAY!

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Acceptable forms of photo identification include: Florida driver license, United States passport, and state-issued identification cards.

Voted absentee ballots must be mailed, or delivered in person, reaching the Supervisor of Elections’ office no later than 7 p.m. on the day of the election. Do not return your voted absentee ballot to a polling place.

If you have obtained an absentee ballot, but want to vote in your precinct on Election Day, you must take the absentee ballot with you to the polls, whether or not it has been marked, so that it can be can-

celled. However, if you are unable to return the ballot, you can still go to the polls, and be allowed to vote a provisional ballot.

If you would like to review a sample ballot prior to voting at the polls, visit www.leeelections.com. For any questions regarding the election, contact the Lee County Supervisor of Elections office at 239-LEE-VOTE (239-533-8683).

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Four Spectacular Voices, One Glorious Sound INSPIRATA is a quartet of exceptional, internationally acclaimed vocal artists that present extraordinary sacred music concerts. With a mission to bring the splendor of God’s word to all, their stirring performances deeply move hearts and souls of all ages. INSPIRATA’s concerts mix traditional, spiritual, and contemporary sacred music from both old and new composers of great hymns, anthems, oratorios, and more. Feel the glory of their How Great Thou Art, the passion of their Ave Maria, the joyfulness of their spirituals, and the glorious brilliance of their performance.

An inspirational concert series presented by The Village Church

More Than Singers

INSPIRATA

Each of the group’s artists lives and represents a Christian spiritual life while fulfilling their artistic goals and dreams – exemplifying an active professional life in the arts while remaining true to their faith.

Sunday, November 4 at 6:15 p.m.

✦ SOPRANO ELIZABETH CLAXTON

was raised at First Baptist Church in Dublin, Georgia. Through the church she discovered her voice and found God calling her to share His word through song.

Elizabeth attended Shorter College in Rome, Georgia, which led her to the Royal Academy of Music in London, England.

She has been seen on operatic stages in the United States and Europe. Elizabeth is active in the music ministry of Wieuca Road Baptist Church in Atlanta.

The Village Church Honors Veterans As Americans, the freedoms we enjoy in our country have been defended by the men and women of the armed forces. During the Morning Worship Service at The Village Church on SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 11, special recognition will be given to all attending veterans. It will be a privilege for the church and community to honor all veterans on this special day.

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Lewis grew up attending St. James Baptist Church in her hometown of Greensboro, North Carolina. From her early days singing in Christmas programs and the Sunday School choir, Cheryse recognized that God wanted singing to be a part of her life’s calling. After receiving degrees in classical voice

from Carnegie Mellon University, The University of North Carolina, and the AJ Fletcher Opera Institute, Cheryse began her life’s mission of ministering to others through song. She has appeared with numerous U.S. opera companies and symphonies. ✦ TENOR DUANE MOODY grew up singing in his Baptist church choir, where he developed a love of classical music. As his own voice developed, he made a commitment to pursue a professional career in vocal and stage arts. With both an undergraduate vocal and graduate performance degree from Peabody Institute, and a master’s in operatic studies from Boston University, he made his professional vocal recital debut at The Kennedy Center in Washington, D.C. He has toured around the world in the opera Porgy and Bess and as the principal tenor in the vocally demanding off-Broadway show 3 Mo’ Tenors. ✦ BARITONE STEVEN JEPSON was singing harmony in his home church in Iowa at an early age. He continued using his God-given talent through his formative years, earning degrees at the University of Iowa and Louisiana State University. His international career has included Messiah, the Fauré, Brahms, and Verdi Requiems, and recitals in many houses of worship, along with opera and musical theater.

CALLING ALL MEN Christ Community Church in Fort Myers is hosting a men’s only conference, Man Up, on Saturday, November 10. The Village Church is participating in this meaningful event that is designed to challenge and encourage men of all ages.

During the event, Dr. John Stumbo and Sgt. Brandon Moore will share personal accounts of how their faith helped them overcome life-threatening situations and remain active in ministry. The Village Church will provide transportation. To register or learn more about the event, contact The Village Church at 454-2147.

Dr. John Stumbo at Shell Point on November 11

Following the Man Up event, Dr. John Stumbo will come to Shell Point to share more of his powerful story during the 6:15 p.m. service on Sunday, November 11, at The Village Church. All are invited.

Dr. John Stumbo tells his powerful story of faith.

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Some describe the program as a presentation of the basics of the Christian faith. Alpha is of special appeal to people who are not church-goers, uncertain of their beliefs, or young in the faith. The course is being offered for its ninth consecutive year at Shell Point!

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19, and one Saturday morning, March 2. ery rather than dogma. There are no dumb With the exception of the introductory questions or wrong answers. As people share presentation on November 27, experiences and opinions, new each presentation will begin friendships form and we learn with a Palm Grill catered dinner from each other. served in the Grand Cypress Each session will begin at Room, followed by a video lec4:30 p.m. and end at 6:45 p.m. ture and a small group discusThe course is free to participants, sion. An Anglican vicar, Nicky with the cost being underwritten Gumbel of Holy Trinity

by The Village Church. To sign Nicky Gumbel of Brompton Church in London, up for the introductory session Holy Trinity gives the video lectures. His on November 27, call The Brompton Church in humor and clarity of expression, Village Church office at 454London, gives the video lectures. coupled with a low-key presen2147. Register for the actual tation style, make the fast-movcourse any time after the introing talks the focus of each evening and a ductory session until December 31 by calling natural lead into small group discussions. 454-2147. Please note, space is limited and These informal interchanges focus on discov- ALPHA fills up quickly.

During the introductory presentation on Tuesday, November 27 at 7 p.m., participants will watch a video lecture entitled, Christianity – Boring, Irrelevant, Untrue? The rest of the course will be offered on ten Tuesday evenings, from January 15 to March

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Thai history is being made as Buddhists respond to the gospel in greater numbers than ever before.

According to the Christian and Missionary Alliance, more Alliance churches have been started in the last 15 years than at any other time in the 180 years since protestant missionaries first arrived.

Leading the Alliance work in Thailand is field director Janice Quinlan, who will speak at Global Outreach this month. Before her move to Bangkok last May, Janice had served for more than 20 years in the Issan region, which is the leastreached and poorest economic region in Thailand. There, in a role she

loved, she taught at Northeastern Bible Seminary and served as director of practical ministries and internships.

The call to assume the position of field director came as a surprise, and Janice will explain the new challenges and responsibilities she now faces.

All Are Invited

Come and hear how God is building His church in that very spiritually dark country through the efforts of the Christian and Missionary Alliance family. Join us on Wednesday, November 14, at 10:00 a.m. for refreshments in the Hospitality Room of the Village Church, followed by the program at 10:15 a.m. All are welcome.

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Island Café • 7 a.m. – 2 p.m.

Start out the day at the Island Café with a complete cookedto-order breakfast hot off the grill. Or relax over a cup of freshly brewed coffee and pastries. If you prefer a light lunch instead of the traditional Thanksgiving meal, the Island Café staff will be there to serve you until 2 p.m. The Island Café is also offering mini or full-sized fresh baked holiday pies for take-out during the holiday season.

Stop in, or call 454-2286 to place an order.

Crystal Room • 10 a.m. – 2 p.m.

The festive Thanksgiving buffet in the Crystal Room features hand-carved roast turkey with dressing, baked ham, salmon, baked chicken, and many other holiday favorites. Accompaniments include a variety of vegetables, a salad bar, and a selection of holiday desserts – including pumpkin and mince meat pies. Seating is based on availability. The buffet price is $21.95.

Palm Grill • 11 a.m. – 4 p.m.

For full waited service in a more formal atmosphere, consider dining at the Palm Grill where you can choose from a delicious menu including the traditional turkey dinner with all the trimmings, as well as filet mignon, slow-roasted ham, or Chilean sea bass. All dinners will include soup or salad. Prices range from $22.95 to $25.95. The Palm Grill does not accept reservations, but call-ahead seating is available by calling 454-2059 on Thanksgiving Day.

Family Feast — Turkey or Ham Dinner for 6 If you would like to have a traditional Thanksgiving meal prepared for you and ready to serve in your own home, the Crystal Room is offering our annual Family Feast meals. Each meal is fully cooked and ready to serve. Select from a whole roasted turkey dinner or a baked ham dinner.

The turkey dinner includes dressing, whipped potatoes, gravy, cranberry sauce, green beans amandine, and one dozen dinner rolls. The ham dinner comes with fruit sauce, sweet potatoes, green beans amandine, and one dozen dinner rolls. Either one of these delicious dinners can be ordered for $54.95 and serves six. Holiday desserts are also available for an additional cost to complete your Feast.

Orders must be placed by noon on Sunday, November 18, and can be picked up at the Social Center on Thanksgiving Day between 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. Call 454-2199 or stop by the Crystal Room to place an order.

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As you anticipate celebrating this American holiday with family and friends, plan to attend The Village Church as residents and staff gather together on Wednesday, November 21, at 7:15 p.m. to give thanks to God for His bountiful provisions.

In addition to resident speakers, several employees will share during the service, including Joseph Julmeus, laundry supervisor; Ben DelBrocco, security manager; Mary Franklin, resort services and wellness manager; and Adam Brown, SPTV. Dan Philgreen, SPTV, will share in the ministry of music as he strums his guitar and sings a song that he has written expressing his gratitude to God. The Senior Minister of The Village Church, Rev. Ken Nesselroade, will lead the

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Thanksgiving Eve Service November 21 • 7:15 p.m. hour-long service. The Shell Point Singers and The Village Church Choir will combine their voices in a festive expression of gratitude to God for his goodness. Spirited congregational singing will also be a significant part of this community service of

praise and thanksgiving.

The 16th Century hymn writer, Martin Rinkart wrote the hymn Now Thank We All Our God during very dismal circumstances. During the horrendous period of the Thirty Years’ War, Rinkart pastored the church in his home town of Eilenburg, Germany. This walled city became a haven for political and military fugitives. In 1637, a plague swept through the area, and since he was the only surviving minister, Rinkart often conducted some 50 funerals a day. Yet he remained a man of irrepressible faith. No matter how dark or difficult our lives may be, we can be thankful to the God “who, from our mothers’ arms, has blessed us on our way with countless gifts of love, and still is ours today.”

As together we recognize God’s provision and blessing; let us pause to corporately raise our hearts, hands, and voices during this special Thanksgiving Eve service.

Employee Creativity Amazes The Employee Arts and Crafts Show and Contest was on display in the Resident Activity Center from September 18 - 21. Throughout the week, more than 200 residents voted on their favorites of the 25 entries which included jewelry, poster art, photography, painted chairs, a hand-crafted pen, drawings, and more.

“The talent displayed by employees was amazing!” said Mary Franklin, Phil Nedeau, Melody Desilets, and Sarah Nadal resort services and wellness manager.

“Residents really enjoyed getting to know employees a little bit more outside of Yet, in the end, three first-place winners their daily roles at Shell Point.” One resident were announced. Phil Nedeau (woodshop had a hard time deciding who to vote for and supervisor) won first-place in the Residents’ wrote on the ballot, “They are all winners!”

Choice category. Phil carved his intricate and

The winners are…

MOST CREATIVE 1st – Melody Desilets (Resort Services) 2nd – Phil Nedeau (Resort Services) 3rd – Sarah Nadal (Communications)

MOST UNUSUAL 1st – Sarah Nadal (Communications) 2nd – Reva Daly (Springs - Hospitality Services) 3rd – Rochelle Cherniawski (Communications)

delicate “Rose” from various woods. The petals are silver oak, the sepal is mahogany, the stem is teak, the leaves are curly maple, and the thorns are ebony.

Melody Desilets (volunteer coordinator) took home the first-place prize in the Most Creative category. She created her “Abstract Africa” one sunny afternoon after she got the idea to pair the shape of Africa with the head of a zebra.

Sarah Nadal (marketing assistant) won first-place in the Most Unusual category. Sarah compiled memories from her childhood in her “Out of Africa” suitcase and handmade journal. Each piece depicts memorable aspects of her time growing up in Cote d'Ivoire, West Africa.

RESIDENTS’ CHOICE 1st – Phil Nedeau (Resort Services) 2nd – Kathy Fairbanks (Pavilion – Activities) 3rd – Melody Desilets (Resort Services) Shell Point Life | November 2012

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Who doesn’t like a good story? When my husband and I go on long road trips, we often bring along a book-on-tape to provide a diversion since we know that no matter where we’re going, the first day will be spent driving north on I-75. There have been times when we have gotten so engrossed in a good story that we’ve missed our exit and had to continue on to the next stop.

We discovered A Prairie Home Companion many years ago on a return trip from Georgia when we happened to tune in to the annual joke show, which kept us laughing all the way home. Since then we have been regular listeners and enjoyed the latest skits with classic sound effects by Fred Newman and musical acts along with Guy’s All-Star Shoe Band. And of course, Garrison Keillor’s weekly visits to Lake Wobegon where “the women are strong, the men are good looking, and the children are above average.”

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grams available on public radio. Like many listeners, I rely on WGCU to keep me informed and help me understand this complex and sometimes perplexing world we live in. At the end of a news-filled week, A Prairie Home Companion is a soft place to fall. I consider it a respite from the challenges our country and world face. Two hours of laughPerhaps the enchanting legacy of this radio show is its ability to connect us to our family as well as to our past and our community. out-loud stories and toe-tapping music that is as comfortable to me as my favorite old sweater and cozy slippers.

A Prairie Home Companion has been a staple on public radio for more than 30 years.

Vast are the stories of listeners who grew up listening to A Prairie Home Companion and who are now enjoying the show with their children and grandchildren.

Having worked at Shell Point for 18 years, I have met many wonderful people who bring a world of experience and rich life

history to our community. Through them I have learned the importance of appreciating this collective history we all share, and to treasure the stories of the past. Perhaps the enchanting legacy of this two-hour radio show is its ability to connect us to our family as well as to our past and our community.

When WGCU made the tough budgetary decision to cancel A Prairie Home Companion, it came as no surprise that listeners in Southwest Florida were disappointed. It just made sense for Shell Point to help WGCU bring back this entertaining, wholesome program that has been enjoyed by so many.

Shell Point has been a sponsor of public radio in Southwest Florida for more than 20 years and this has been a wonderful opportunity to partner with WGCU Public Radio to provide A Prairie Home Companion as well as many other quality programs for listeners.

Thanks to the generosity of Shell Point and other faithful supporters of WGCU, I and many others can once again look forward to curling up in our favorite chair on Saturday evening and coming home to Lake Wobegon.